1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Why don't you point zem at least why we still 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: have it? I saw this on TikTok. I don't know 3 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: what's going to happen. Everbody keeps asking, I know, people 4 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: asking you like, hey, what do you think is gone 5 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: with TikTok? I don't know. I know, I know, like 6 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: I have the end inside scoop. What are you gonna 7 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: my friends? What do you think is go on with TikTok? 8 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: Tensions are high, you know between our country in China, 9 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: tensions are high, and we're in a fragile international environment 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: right now. So I saw on TikTok and I found 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: this interesting about the negative things we say all the 12 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: time without even thinking about it. We always talk about 13 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: cutting down the negative self talk, but they're so common 14 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 1: they just come out. So there's a science plans. The 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: brain is wired to filter out whatever you're not directly 16 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: focused on. So if you're not focused on it directly, 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: then you know your brain is wired to not retain it. 18 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 1: So if you're obsessing at your pimples or you don't 19 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: like your nose, you're not going to see how amazing 20 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: your eyes are or great your smile is. So we 21 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: focus on the positive instead we filter out the name. So, 22 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: for example, phrases to stop saying. They say, when something 23 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: is funny, don't say I'm dead I'm dying. Instead say 24 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: I'm living. For that. I say that all the time. 25 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: Everyone says that. Everyone says, which everyone says, Oh, I'm dead. 26 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 1: That's like the phrase to say when something is hilarious, 27 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: or send like the skull and crossbones emoji, dying, laughing, dying. 28 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: When you love it, you say I'm dead, right, they're saying, 29 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: say I'm living. I like that and I like it too. 30 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:44,040 Speaker 1: Or when you're dreading something, when you're dreading it, dreading, dreading, 31 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: dreading anything in life people say kill me and staid, 32 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: they say, don't say that. They say, I'll be so 33 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: happy when I get over through this, basically and stronger 34 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: for it. No one's wordy. It seems like a lot 35 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: to me makes me that much stronger. When you forget something, 36 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: I mean, you beat yourself up. Maybe say I'm so dumb, 37 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: so stupid, Just say I will do better. These are 38 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: what TikTok so positive. That's good kind of though I 39 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,800 Speaker 1: know what you mean. Though it's crazy. It's crazy that 40 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: you feel that. It's corny like that we need to 41 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: change our mindset. I know, I know, well, I guess when. 42 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: So if you get the flu and you say how 43 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: are you doing? You say I'm sick. They say, don't 44 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: say I'm sick, say I'm healing. Yeah, I'll be better soon. 45 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: I'll be better soon. No, I feel like crap. You 46 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: have a healing day? Do you take a healing day? 47 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: Last year? Any any healing days? Only two more healing 48 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: days left? Do you think we give each other positive 49 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: reinforcement here and use positive words? I feel like in general, 50 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,360 Speaker 1: I mean, sure we can be like trying to be 51 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 1: funny cynical, but I think in general we're pretty positive. 52 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: I don't know what do you think? Yeah? Curious to 53 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 1: note if you always text me to four, one to two, seven, 54 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: where is the positivity level of this show? Where are we? 55 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: One to ten? Where's the positivity level of this show? 56 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: I forget the entertainment value of our sarcasm and sentences sometimes, 57 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: but or used to talk back feature on ai at 58 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 1: radio appon Lenna play some of that back one to ten? Sisne, 59 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 1: where's the positivity factor on this show? I would say? 60 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: If you were to say to me, what do you 61 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: want this show to be I would say I wanted 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: to be positive. What would you say? Yes, right, happy, happy, escapism, levity, 63 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: sometimes like full of nothing. It depends on the day 64 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: of the week because I think sometimes on Tuesdays we 65 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: can be a little like draggy. Yeah, but we're supposed 66 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: to be so that Wednesday's upbeat. But if you didn't 67 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: drag on Tuesday, Wednesday, what's Wednesday? But then you started 68 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: this morning if talking about his long nail, Yeah, well 69 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: you dragged me down. But I came out of it 70 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: because I'm positive. Fifteen minutes of NonStop kiss music is next.