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Speaker 1: getting a call back, right Lindsay, Oh no, No, I

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Speaker 1: the baby talk, tell us how you met this guy? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so I met John through my friends at work. He

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Speaker 1: morning Lindsay is on the phone with us and today

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Speaker 1: can I speak to John please? This is Joan. Hey John,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who Jewil from Brook and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. Why are you calling?

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Speaker 1: I'm calling because we recently got an email about you

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Speaker 1: and Lindsay emailed us and said that she really liked you,

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Speaker 1: calling her back. Wow. I'm sorry, I'm just this is weird. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And out loud, I was like oh cool. But inside

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Speaker 1: that's I'm not the only person that thinks that's that's

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Speaker 1: I've had a kid. They are the craziest group of

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Speaker 1: blog like that, he's getting fifteen years. Is she a

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