WEBVTT - Not Your Average Momma!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello, we are back

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<v Speaker 1>again for another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for joining us again. We are back again, and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys already know we start off with our Reasonably Shady

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<v Speaker 1>moment of the week and Robin, I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>first because I am actually a little angry still with um. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I spent about a week in New York with

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<v Speaker 1>my kids and I had to Uber some places. Uber

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<v Speaker 1>drivers in New York are in their own world. I

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<v Speaker 1>was at a restaurant. It was very late at night,

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<v Speaker 1>and I saw I watched all my Uber app, the

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<v Speaker 1>Uber driver drive around the restaurant about three times. He

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<v Speaker 1>just drove around and then drove around, and I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like texting him, like sir, stop, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>front the restaurant, but he just ignored me and kept

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<v Speaker 1>driving around, and I said, cancel. That might have been

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<v Speaker 1>his first day and he was trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how to work that app or something. I thought so,

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<v Speaker 1>And then the next day I drove out to or

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to go out to my girlfriend's house in Jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the city, so that's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a nice uber that I got the extra, the special

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<v Speaker 1>to v ip or whatever. And he drove so slow.

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<v Speaker 1>I sat behind him and I wanted to put my

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<v Speaker 1>hands around his neck and strangle him. I was so angry,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, dude, if you draw thirty one

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<v Speaker 1>more time, okay. Then I had to come home from

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriend's house and the Uber driver was like the

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<v Speaker 1>reject from k pop you know, have your oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the Korean Yes. He had like his hat to the back,

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<v Speaker 1>he had like five gold chains on adiita sweatsuit tattoos

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<v Speaker 1>all over him. He was ready. He was blasting the

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<v Speaker 1>music and he I guess it was too cool for

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<v Speaker 1>school and could not sit in traffic, So that meant

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<v Speaker 1>he was always like changing even in and out. We

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<v Speaker 1>even in and out, and he was changing the route.

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<v Speaker 1>He changed the route about seventeen times, and he literally

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<v Speaker 1>went over. I went over, like five bridges. Does not

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<v Speaker 1>take five bridges for me to get back to the

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<v Speaker 1>city from Jersey. I was angry. I was mad, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, to hell with all you Uber drives. Y'all shady.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's why I actually whenever I have

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<v Speaker 1>like a special event to go to and the organizer

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, would you like us to send you a car?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, I want to drive myself because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to drive my speed, I want to play my music.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go my route. Like I hate driving

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<v Speaker 1>in like I hate letting other people drive. Yes, hate it,

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<v Speaker 1>or they drive too slow? You want to strangle them, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it was so good if you strangle them, though, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I would know he I definitely I would have gotten

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<v Speaker 1>a zero rating. Um did you give your drivers? I

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<v Speaker 1>did not. I decided to be a nice person. But

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<v Speaker 1>I am over Uber. I'm over y'all. Over y'all. What

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<v Speaker 1>is with that? I don't know something going on with

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<v Speaker 1>New York. Uber's Okay, Well that's annoying and frustrating. Um So,

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<v Speaker 1>my reasonably shady moment once again goes to myself of

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<v Speaker 1>the word and the worst. It's more of like just

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<v Speaker 1>a ridiculous moment. So this past week we went to Florida.

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<v Speaker 1>We were in South South Miami or South Florida for

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<v Speaker 1>a basketball tournament. So the tournament, I saw you on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram live with your bikini on looking that was like

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<v Speaker 1>suck and tuck. Okay. Anyway, so we were there at

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<v Speaker 1>the tournament itself. The games were Friday to Sunday, but

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<v Speaker 1>we went from Wednesday to Wednesday. So from Wednesday to

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<v Speaker 1>Wednesday I checked in. We checked into five different hotels.

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<v Speaker 1>Why Robin for what? Who does that? Why would you

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<v Speaker 1>do that to the kids? Why would you do that? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>We played musical hotels, so like the first one, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>first when we decided to go to the Fountain Blue

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<v Speaker 1>Miami Beach, lit it up, have fun. Nice. So then

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<v Speaker 1>the second one we checked into was actual the tournament

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<v Speaker 1>where the hotel where we were going to spend the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of our time. Okay, that hotel was like the

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<v Speaker 1>Bates Motel. I was waiting and we literally it's so

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, it's bad when the kids are looking

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<v Speaker 1>around and they're like, we're not gonna stay here, are we?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we literally checked in, rolled our stuff up to

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<v Speaker 1>the room and like the kids wouldn't even walk into

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<v Speaker 1>the room, like the door of the room and we

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<v Speaker 1>turned around, went to the desk and we're like, we

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<v Speaker 1>can't stay here. Did they give you your money back?

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<v Speaker 1>They said we would charge you, and it was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>The girl at the desk like chuckled, like she knew that, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this ain't for everyone. Okay, So that's so you've named

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<v Speaker 1>two hotels too, Okay, but you said five five. So

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<v Speaker 1>then so then the third one is the one that

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<v Speaker 1>we relocated to, okay, which was we didn't have any complaints.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a Marriott. It was fine, it was clean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually renovated. It was nice and new. Nice,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't on the beach. So it's like boring,

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<v Speaker 1>boring Marriott. So we stayed there for like two nights.

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<v Speaker 1>So then and now, mind you, it's not just us,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like two other families on our team that are

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<v Speaker 1>moving to So Robin is a road there's a road

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<v Speaker 1>show in Florida. I'm telling you this basketball. This vacation

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<v Speaker 1>was for the parents, that was it was, it was

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<v Speaker 1>for us. So so we're in this boring hotel. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was nice. So then we're like, oh, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to go back to the beach. Let's go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the beach. So then we moved to another hotel

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<v Speaker 1>back closer to Miami. Um, we're on the for a

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<v Speaker 1>hotel that's a block away from the beach. Okay, nice,

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<v Speaker 1>very nice. Now that one was just like a So

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like when you go to the Fountain Blue.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really hard to live up to the Fountain Blue

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<v Speaker 1>when you're in Like I don't want to say all

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<v Speaker 1>the double trade, right, so, but why would you even

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<v Speaker 1>check into that double trade? You know that's not right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you're not gonna be happy, you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna leave. Why would you even do that? Because the

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<v Speaker 1>pictures look nice, they looked adequate. You know, we're still

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<v Speaker 1>there for a basketball tournament, right, it looked good and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have any complaints, but we were just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like the double fishing, no our expect our. We

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<v Speaker 1>just became bougie. So so then we were like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>the W has a great rate going on that right now? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>In other words, Robin can play no more trips. Do

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<v Speaker 1>not travel with robbing. You know it's bad, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know it was actually fun. So we we finished our

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<v Speaker 1>our trip at the W, which was great. It's nice, right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's great. The kids are living their life again. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've created some boogie kids with these hotels and stuff. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I do recommend though at least I kind of enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>switching the hotel at least once. So if you say

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<v Speaker 1>so you're going on a trip, you're like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going on vacation for five days. I think it's actually

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<v Speaker 1>cool to like stay for three days in one hotel

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<v Speaker 1>in two days in another hotel. I agree, especially with

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<v Speaker 1>the kids, because they do get word. Even with the

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<v Speaker 1>nicest of accommodations, they do get bored exactly. So I

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<v Speaker 1>actually like, on my next vacation or my next trip,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to at least stay in two hotels. Oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>and I left one part out. Okay, so I actually

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<v Speaker 1>walked into six hotels because during one of these trips,

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<v Speaker 1>one of these switches, hotel switches, I thought I booked

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<v Speaker 1>one hotel, one Marriott, and I really booked the Marryott

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes down the street. Okay, you are fired. You're fired.

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<v Speaker 1>You can no longer have this job. Those all the

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<v Speaker 1>two families that you're traveling with. Asked one of those

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<v Speaker 1>moms to take over your fired. We were vie, we

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<v Speaker 1>were live with life. I literally got to the well

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<v Speaker 1>they checked it was a mess. So I literally got

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<v Speaker 1>to the desk and they're like, um, are you in

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<v Speaker 1>the Rite Hotel? I was like yeah, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>looked at my email. I was like, no, bye, and

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<v Speaker 1>at all it's already out, you know, unpacked from the car.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, we actually tried to check in the six hotels.

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<v Speaker 1>Say it's no, it's not even shade. It's ridiculous. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin is ridiculous, all right. But anyway, Robin, we have

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<v Speaker 1>so much to talk about as it relates to what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on in the world. Oh my gosh, there's so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do we begin. I think we should begin with

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<v Speaker 1>Father's Day because that just fast and Nick Cannon was busy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he was a busy lever because every time we turn around,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy has another baby on the way. Okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>keep seeing these headlines and I'm like, is it around

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<v Speaker 1>all day? Is it? Like? Why do I keep seeing

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<v Speaker 1>the same headline that NICKI Cannon is expecting a baby

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<v Speaker 1>multiple and he always gets people pregnant with twins, which

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<v Speaker 1>is very strange and I just don't understand. And I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>do these ladies know that they're over lapping? Like you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Clearly, these relationships overlap, right. I

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<v Speaker 1>have a feeling that he's probably being honest with them

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<v Speaker 1>and they must not care, clearly not care. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>like it's so weird. I'm like, Okay, so is this

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<v Speaker 1>more of like a Sister Wives type thing, because it

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<v Speaker 1>does appear that like he's like dating these women, like

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<v Speaker 1>they're like oops, babies. They're like he's literally dating them

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<v Speaker 1>and taking family photos and pregnant and you know, maternity

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<v Speaker 1>photo shoots and stuff random women. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>they think that they're gonna have Thanksgiving dinner with Maria,

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<v Speaker 1>But I want them to understand, Mariah Carrie is not

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<v Speaker 1>eating with any of you baby mamas. She not. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just here to tell you. And I don't even know Mariah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know that's going Dawn. But wait, didn't didn't

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<v Speaker 1>Nix say something like he doesn't he feels like he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have long to live because he has lupus and

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<v Speaker 1>he has blood clots and so he's just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>living life and not wearing condoms and that is why

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<v Speaker 1>he keeps having these babies. Okay, is this real? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you being serious? Yes? Oh, I hadn't heard this. Yes, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is absurd. That's upsurd. Okay, so you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>leave all these fatherless children. Or on the flip side,

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<v Speaker 1>what if you live, live until you're a hundred, you

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<v Speaker 1>might have forty two kids. Yeah, I'm gonna need for

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<v Speaker 1>Nick to get it together, get it all the way together.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess the good thing is, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Nick is rich, yes, so he can afford them, right,

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<v Speaker 1>he can afford them. The kids will be fine once

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<v Speaker 1>he you know, passes along financially. But they're going to

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<v Speaker 1>like that fatherly figure that you know. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess with all these kids, like, how can he be

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<v Speaker 1>a fatherly figure to them? No, he's he can't even

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<v Speaker 1>get Father's Day straight. No, it's forging. What what gift

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<v Speaker 1>do you wear? Because you know how the kids can

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<v Speaker 1>give you a gift? Remember that meme And he had

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<v Speaker 1>all these ties he was holding up and he was

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<v Speaker 1>the meme was which one should he wear? Like? Because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but he's got like enough jobs he can

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<v Speaker 1>wear he can like, you know, wear one on his

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<v Speaker 1>um that was that dancer show called Mass Mass Singer Job,

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<v Speaker 1>and one on his new talk show and then on

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<v Speaker 1>his you know he's got one on America's Got Talent

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<v Speaker 1>like he's got a whole bunch of jobs. He's a

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<v Speaker 1>busy beaver. And I need, I'm gonna need for everybody

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<v Speaker 1>to be clear, Mariah is not entertaining this. Okay, Mariah

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<v Speaker 1>is getting her life. Yes, she's not entertained. We are

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<v Speaker 1>not getting together taking a family photo with all the

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<v Speaker 1>Knicks kids. Let me tell you something. Morocco and the

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<v Speaker 1>other one Moroccan, Moroccan and Monroe. They will not be

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<v Speaker 1>in the Nick Cannon children family photo. I'm just thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that Mariah is not having that. But that's just my opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, we're gonna move on. So for me, the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest story, because I've been following this for like a

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<v Speaker 1>while here lately, it's this whole Britney Spear situation. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So the other day she gave her testimony and she

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<v Speaker 1>was very clear, and it's very clear she hates her father.

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<v Speaker 1>She feels like an indangered servant, a slave. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's the worst slave. She was not purchased, but so

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<v Speaker 1>she shouldn't really use the worst slave. But we'll give

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<v Speaker 1>it to her. First of all, how she is slave

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<v Speaker 1>and they work for her. We'll give her that whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But she can't live her life. She can't even be

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<v Speaker 1>in control of her birth control. She they won't let

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<v Speaker 1>her take the I U d out um. She wants

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<v Speaker 1>to get married, she wants to just spend her money

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<v Speaker 1>the way she wants to spend it and live her

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<v Speaker 1>life like I do feel she didn't know that she

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<v Speaker 1>could speak up for herself to get out of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are these like, why is this going on for

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<v Speaker 1>soul years? Could you imagine thirteen years somebody's telling you

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<v Speaker 1>how to spend your money? Who was allowed? Right? Who

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<v Speaker 1>is allowing a grown woman to live like this? Her father?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's clearly agreed, But how do the courts even

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<v Speaker 1>allow that? I think I feel like it should have

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<v Speaker 1>been okay. So when they established it, I understand it

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<v Speaker 1>was around the time when she had the breakdown, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe I guess the argument is it was

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<v Speaker 1>for her better, you know, the whatever better judgment on

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<v Speaker 1>her part, right health or whatever? Can you safe blah

0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:50.920
<v Speaker 1>blah blah, But like there should have been a time

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<v Speaker 1>limit on that where you reevaluate it. Yes, And and

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<v Speaker 1>the judge kept allowing this to happen. So I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the judges getting paid I noticed probably wrong for

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<v Speaker 1>me to say, I do Judge is getting paid. Daddy

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<v Speaker 1>is getting paid. He gets like six dollars a month,

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<v Speaker 1>I think for doing nothing, for being her conservatory yes, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and he gets to say what job she takes on,

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<v Speaker 1>what job she doesn't take, which is a um conflict

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<v Speaker 1>of interest. It's it's just I feel bad. And then

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<v Speaker 1>she said okay, she said they put her on lithium?

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<v Speaker 1>Was this okay, clarify this was this while she was performing,

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<v Speaker 1>she was on lithium. I don't like when she was

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<v Speaker 1>in that during that Vegas residency because I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? How can someone who is under a

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<v Speaker 1>conservatorship perform a Vegas residency? Right? Like that? That really

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like abuse. It's so it's like does she

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<v Speaker 1>even have an option to not want to perform? And

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<v Speaker 1>then they give her this lithium to like force her. Well, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she her last um residency or something. She was getting

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<v Speaker 1>ready to do, the last thing she was getting ready

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<v Speaker 1>to do. Remember, she walked off like they announced, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Britney Spears, she's gonna have another tour, and she like

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<v Speaker 1>left and she didn't even say anything, She just rolled out.

0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:14.200
<v Speaker 1>And it was because she's refusing to work because all

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<v Speaker 1>of this is going down and she just wants to

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<v Speaker 1>chill out and live her life. And I really feel bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I really really really feel bad for it's really sad.

0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:25.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's like bas heartbreaking, and she seems like

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<v Speaker 1>such a sweet person. She's thirty nine years old, she's

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<v Speaker 1>down here forty. She can clearly figure out, um where

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<v Speaker 1>to bouy Tampa into place. I couldn't imagine, but imagine

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<v Speaker 1>like the long term damage that has done to her,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. So it's like I pray that, um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the outcome of this is in her favor, but I

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<v Speaker 1>also pray that she has the right people around her

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<v Speaker 1>moving forward that will really support her and help her

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<v Speaker 1>become independent. And like I cannot imagine long term damage.

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<v Speaker 1>So and what's her dad's name, Joe Jamie Jamie spears,

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<v Speaker 1>you're wrong, sir, you're wrong, and karmas a bit, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get yours. And what's up with the mom right now? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>She's been strangely quiet. She doesn't while she doesn't, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she was okay, So she was on linthium lithium while

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<v Speaker 1>she was performing, and okay, which is horrible because lithium

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<v Speaker 1>from what I understand you're not even here. No, and

0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:22.920
<v Speaker 1>and that has lasting damaging effects, I believe on your brain. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know where Britney's mommy mom is. She has

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<v Speaker 1>been strangely like not around. That is so crap. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sad. Like the greed, so they literally like put

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<v Speaker 1>her on lynthium, forced her to perform, and she can't

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<v Speaker 1>even control her own life and her own money. Like

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<v Speaker 1>the greed, the greed of it all, the greed of

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<v Speaker 1>it all. And she wants to have a have a family,

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<v Speaker 1>get married, have a family, right right, yeah, And they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, you're gonna keep that. I u D stuck

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<v Speaker 1>up in you so you don't have any kids so

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<v Speaker 1>that you can perform. That's just I mean, it's feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like borderline like Michael Jackson. How Michael Jackson's life was

0:15:56.640 --> 0:16:00.360
<v Speaker 1>where he kind of wasn't really like it to live

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<v Speaker 1>a normal life. And I wonder if that was controlled

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<v Speaker 1>by I mean, you know, I don't know it was

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<v Speaker 1>that by choice or was that controlled by other people? Gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's bad. I just want Brittany to be free. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hashtag free Brittany. Oh hell, yes, free Brittany and

0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:17.480
<v Speaker 1>pray for Brittany. Let's not just free. Let's pray for her,

0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.720
<v Speaker 1>and I pray that she has support, the support that

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<v Speaker 1>she needs that that will help her just move forward

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<v Speaker 1>with Ye. On another note, black girl magic at the Olympics,

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<v Speaker 1>let's give it up for the Olympic Trials. The Olympic trials. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean if they're going to kill it in

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<v Speaker 1>the trials, which they have been, Yes, the Olympics is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be hands down black girl magic. Absolutely. Yes. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, of course some own bios, like we already

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<v Speaker 1>know that she's doing a quadruple somersault talk, she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna flip go high five Jesus up and yes

0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:59.960
<v Speaker 1>and come on down and laying really softly. Yes, now,

0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:03.400
<v Speaker 1>samon is everything. She's making up routines that they ain't

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<v Speaker 1>never seen before. And then the create within the crazy

0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:10.360
<v Speaker 1>part is like don't they like deduct um? Then they

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<v Speaker 1>make the points lower something for like certain moves that

0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:16.320
<v Speaker 1>she like created like something crazy. It's just the hate

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<v Speaker 1>ration of the Olympics. But whatever, someone's gonna kill that

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<v Speaker 1>thing dead. Then we have some o manual small manual swimming.

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<v Speaker 1>She qualified go girl, you don't really see a whole

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<v Speaker 1>lot of black people swimming. And she might be like

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<v Speaker 1>the first black woman on the Olympic female for sure.

0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.400
<v Speaker 1>And she just debunked that myths that black people don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to swim. Yes she did, Yes, she did.

0:17:36.800 --> 0:17:39.840
<v Speaker 1>Real fat black people know how to swim. Thank you

0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:43.199
<v Speaker 1>Simone for letting the people now, okay, and then what

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<v Speaker 1>what what was my girl to runner Shikari Shikari Richardson,

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<v Speaker 1>who I actually like her orange hair. Anybody talking about

0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:56.240
<v Speaker 1>her hair, y'all stop hating. And I like her fingernails

0:17:56.240 --> 0:17:59.000
<v Speaker 1>being long. And I cried when she ran into the

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<v Speaker 1>stands and hugg took her a mother like she first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, First of all, she was she started, she like, okay,

0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:09.440
<v Speaker 1>you know how they do on your mark gets set

0:18:09.440 --> 0:18:12.919
<v Speaker 1>go and then they start running real fast. Okay, she

0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:15.399
<v Speaker 1>wasn't looking good, right, she right, it wasn't looking good.

0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:19.239
<v Speaker 1>But she zoomed past everybody, and she was pointing at

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<v Speaker 1>the clock man like yeah, I beat that ship. She

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<v Speaker 1>was pointing And that's when you know you, babe, when

0:18:25.119 --> 0:18:27.280
<v Speaker 1>you're pointing at the clock man, like clock me, bitch.

0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:31.119
<v Speaker 1>And she had her mother, her mother passed away, but

0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:34.439
<v Speaker 1>her mother clearly was there with her. Yes, and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, I mean, I feel like I want her

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<v Speaker 1>to demolish, demolish the Olympics. I can't wait to see that.

0:18:42.320 --> 0:18:45.920
<v Speaker 1>And then one more we got Alison Felix thirty five, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>with a two year old child, qualifying for the Olympics

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<v Speaker 1>for the fifth time. So mom's out here doing it. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck to all our girls. I'm sure there's gonna

0:18:55.160 --> 0:18:57.159
<v Speaker 1>be more y'all that we're gonna be rooting, rooting, y'all on.

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<v Speaker 1>But I love the Olympics and I'm so glad that

0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:03.199
<v Speaker 1>they're back a year later. Well, um, last year, but

0:19:03.240 --> 0:19:06.280
<v Speaker 1>the pandemic just shut everything down, And it should be

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<v Speaker 1>great because it gave all of these olympiads a whole

0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:11.520
<v Speaker 1>another year to Yeah, so y'all should be amazing or

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<v Speaker 1>get fat I wanted to do, I think, yeah, but y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all should be amazing. All right, So we got to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about our girl, Porsche and Sigmon because you know

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<v Speaker 1>we love Porsche. Um, she got his name tattooed on

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<v Speaker 1>behind her ear, like his middle name, right, Yes, And Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you and Wan have a tattoo situation going

0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:36.359
<v Speaker 1>on on y'all fingers? Okay, so is this a trend?

0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:38.840
<v Speaker 1>Is this a thing? No, this should never be a thing.

0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:45.600
<v Speaker 1>So getting okay, getting a person's name or face that's

0:19:45.600 --> 0:19:49.200
<v Speaker 1>not your child should not like that should never happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So like my tattoo, why don't I have matching tattoos

0:19:52.640 --> 0:19:56.520
<v Speaker 1>on our ring? Fingers? Um, this tattoo is actually more

0:19:56.520 --> 0:20:00.720
<v Speaker 1>significant to me than our actual rings? Why? Um? I

0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:03.199
<v Speaker 1>mean we've had rings before, and what happened to that

0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:05.439
<v Speaker 1>first marriage? Like y'all took them rings off with him

0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:09.520
<v Speaker 1>in the trash, right, So that's so so our rings

0:20:09.720 --> 0:20:12.840
<v Speaker 1>it definitely has I mean, our tattoo has significance. But

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<v Speaker 1>if one and I were ever two part ways, guess

0:20:16.040 --> 0:20:20.479
<v Speaker 1>what this tattoo represents my children? That's what you're gonna say.

0:20:21.080 --> 0:20:27.200
<v Speaker 1>It represents what happened the world, Okay, the whole world. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just for y'all know who didn't see it. Robbin's tattoo

0:20:30.960 --> 0:20:36.200
<v Speaker 1>is two hearts, two kids, okay, okay, And it's Robin's

0:20:36.240 --> 0:20:39.159
<v Speaker 1>heart and one's hard. So if one all of a

0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:42.080
<v Speaker 1>sudden loses his mind acts of food, you're gonna say

0:20:42.119 --> 0:20:45.280
<v Speaker 1>that the hearts belong to your children, you don't. It

0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:48.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have his name on it, not his name, none

0:20:48.000 --> 0:20:50.480
<v Speaker 1>of that. The world saw you all because that was

0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:53.280
<v Speaker 1>a season something of Potomac. I can't remember what season

0:20:53.320 --> 0:20:56.199
<v Speaker 1>that was maybefore the world saw y'all, and it was

0:20:56.240 --> 0:20:59.040
<v Speaker 1>it was a robin one thing. I don't know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I know, but I can still change the

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<v Speaker 1>significance of it if I need to, Okay, but if

0:21:05.920 --> 0:21:10.600
<v Speaker 1>it says one, I can't change the significance, yes of it.

0:21:10.680 --> 0:21:13.280
<v Speaker 1>If it says one, that is true, Okay. I always

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<v Speaker 1>feel like getting someone's tattooed name tattooed on you is

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<v Speaker 1>like the kiss of death, right it? Like I think

0:21:19.200 --> 0:21:21.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's some survey out there that says,

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<v Speaker 1>if you do it, you're gonna break up. It's like

0:21:23.800 --> 0:21:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to prove your love. Like and I'm not, okay, Like,

0:21:27.040 --> 0:21:29.080
<v Speaker 1>why don't I've been together. We were together over twenty

0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:31.520
<v Speaker 1>plus years when I got when we got our tattoos,

0:21:31.520 --> 0:21:32.879
<v Speaker 1>so there was nothing for us to prove. But I

0:21:32.920 --> 0:21:36.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like sometimes, especially you know, in in young relationships,

0:21:37.080 --> 0:21:41.040
<v Speaker 1>people do things hastily because they're trying to prove how

0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:45.160
<v Speaker 1>much they love someone, or or they're in this honeymoon phase.

0:21:45.600 --> 0:21:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Everything's good. Yes, they're google gotta over each other. I

0:21:49.600 --> 0:21:53.120
<v Speaker 1>just good. I just love you so much. We'll put

0:21:53.160 --> 0:21:55.040
<v Speaker 1>your name on my body. You want to kiss them

0:21:55.040 --> 0:21:57.120
<v Speaker 1>all the time, and I want you with me all

0:21:57.160 --> 0:21:59.679
<v Speaker 1>the time, and then so so you do it, Like

0:21:59.720 --> 0:22:01.919
<v Speaker 1>that's stupid, right, So it's either it either happens when

0:22:01.960 --> 0:22:04.399
<v Speaker 1>you're like in this honeymoon phase, which is you know,

0:22:04.520 --> 0:22:07.600
<v Speaker 1>lights and lovely and stuff, but like, um, you think

0:22:07.600 --> 0:22:09.560
<v Speaker 1>you're so in love and you do it, or it

0:22:09.640 --> 0:22:11.960
<v Speaker 1>happens like when a man's up, when a man he

0:22:12.040 --> 0:22:14.159
<v Speaker 1>sucks up and he's like the girl's gonna leave him,

0:22:14.160 --> 0:22:15.680
<v Speaker 1>and he's like, I love you so much, I'm gonna

0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:18.000
<v Speaker 1>tell you your name on me right. Like that's when

0:22:18.000 --> 0:22:21.679
<v Speaker 1>I happen, just like stupid and you turn around. Listen,

0:22:21.800 --> 0:22:23.800
<v Speaker 1>no man has ever loved me that much because the

0:22:23.920 --> 0:22:26.760
<v Speaker 1>Gezelle is not written on any man that I know, Okay,

0:22:26.800 --> 0:22:29.480
<v Speaker 1>and I don't. Maybe maybe I need to redo something different,

0:22:29.520 --> 0:22:31.600
<v Speaker 1>because maybe I need to make a man. You don't

0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:34.520
<v Speaker 1>want that. I don't want that that. So yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm not that, you know, not My cup of tea,

0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:40.679
<v Speaker 1>but you know, to each their own. I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. Okay, well, let's let's move on, because I

0:22:43.760 --> 0:22:47.680
<v Speaker 1>was watching Wendy Williams and we all know Wendy is shady,

0:22:47.720 --> 0:22:49.640
<v Speaker 1>which I'm not even mad at because you know I'm shady.

0:22:49.840 --> 0:22:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I love another shady person. Wendy Williams is as shady

0:22:52.880 --> 0:22:55.120
<v Speaker 1>as it comes. She's a queen. She's queen, she gets

0:22:55.160 --> 0:22:58.280
<v Speaker 1>the crown. Okay, So Cynthia was on her show, and

0:22:58.320 --> 0:23:00.240
<v Speaker 1>you know we all have heard like there's gonna be

0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:02.680
<v Speaker 1>in Atlanta shake up and I'm not mad at a

0:23:02.720 --> 0:23:05.560
<v Speaker 1>shake up because you know it keeps the shows spicy,

0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:09.760
<v Speaker 1>yeah fresh and knew. So she's straight up toll Cynthia,

0:23:10.119 --> 0:23:13.760
<v Speaker 1>you should not return to the Real Housewives of Atlanta.

0:23:14.080 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 1>She told her, you should not return or you should

0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:19.840
<v Speaker 1>not be asked to return. She said you should not

0:23:19.880 --> 0:23:24.440
<v Speaker 1>be asked to return. You in other words, she said

0:23:24.440 --> 0:23:28.040
<v Speaker 1>you should be fired. Yes, that's rude, and Cynthia kind

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<v Speaker 1>of laughed it off or whatever, but she but Wendy

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<v Speaker 1>explained it. Wendy said, you have nothing more to give.

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<v Speaker 1>You have already got married, you have um got your businesses,

0:23:38.119 --> 0:23:40.960
<v Speaker 1>since you better get divorced now, and that's what Wendy said.

0:23:41.000 --> 0:23:42.679
<v Speaker 1>Wendy was like, I don't want to see you get divorced.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to see you cuss people out. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want you to go off and just be a model.

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<v Speaker 1>Cynthia stop messing on her check? Oh my god? Like well,

0:23:50.119 --> 0:23:54.560
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, if I'm Cynthia, I'd be like, damn, Wendy, Wendy,

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<v Speaker 1>stop messing with people's checks. Yes, How will Wendy feel

0:23:57.160 --> 0:23:58.720
<v Speaker 1>if people came on her show and told her you

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to show no more? Thank you, thank you,

0:24:01.080 --> 0:24:04.159
<v Speaker 1>Wendy Williams, is anybody would you? Would you even accept

0:24:04.240 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>somebody coming around saying oh? Actually, Jocelyne Hernandez did say

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:12.359
<v Speaker 1>Wendy should be canceled because Wendy's always throwing shade to

0:24:12.400 --> 0:24:15.640
<v Speaker 1>black women. Wendy, you didn't like that that? Now? Did you?

0:24:15.920 --> 0:24:20.879
<v Speaker 1>So leave these housewives alone? Well? Maybe Cynthia set herself

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:23.560
<v Speaker 1>up for that. Maybe I don't know. I mean, but no,

0:24:23.680 --> 0:24:29.359
<v Speaker 1>that's shady as hell. That's ouch. That hurts ouch. Yes, Wendy,

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:33.800
<v Speaker 1>your words have hurt. Robin Okay, she's over here saying ouch, okay, insane,

0:24:34.080 --> 0:24:37.200
<v Speaker 1>all right, But speaking of shady, there's some men out

0:24:37.280 --> 0:24:44.800
<v Speaker 1>here being extremely shady with their penises. Um person number one,

0:24:44.880 --> 0:24:49.800
<v Speaker 1>Tristan Person number two, Carmelo Anthony both, We're gonna put

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:52.359
<v Speaker 1>both of your basketball players in the same category and

0:24:52.440 --> 0:24:55.399
<v Speaker 1>over and over again. What is wrong with y'all? Okay,

0:24:55.440 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 1>So my theory is, um, Chloe La la way until

0:25:00.320 --> 0:25:03.200
<v Speaker 1>they're retired, if you even like if if you all

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:05.120
<v Speaker 1>want to be together, if you want to be with them,

0:25:05.200 --> 0:25:07.560
<v Speaker 1>but you're just like, I have to move on, like

0:25:07.840 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>just just leave and wait for them to retire. These men,

0:25:11.480 --> 0:25:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want to, you know, stereotype. But

0:25:14.520 --> 0:25:18.840
<v Speaker 1>it's really, really, really really hard for NBA players to

0:25:19.040 --> 0:25:23.600
<v Speaker 1>live a monogamous life when they are playing in the league.

0:25:23.800 --> 0:25:28.680
<v Speaker 1>It's just too much temptation. They travel so much there

0:25:28.720 --> 0:25:31.399
<v Speaker 1>in the spotlight. But I'm telling you, when their career

0:25:31.440 --> 0:25:34.520
<v Speaker 1>is over, nobody cares about them anymore. Okay, but but

0:25:34.640 --> 0:25:39.320
<v Speaker 1>Mellow's career is almost over, but it's not so until

0:25:39.400 --> 0:25:45.000
<v Speaker 1>that contract is done, until he's sitting at home board. Okay.

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:47.040
<v Speaker 1>But bore is when you would think that they would

0:25:47.080 --> 0:25:50.440
<v Speaker 1>cheat because they're bored. But then they're like up under

0:25:50.480 --> 0:25:51.680
<v Speaker 1>you they're like, what are you doing? Where you go?

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:55.720
<v Speaker 1>But if they're still like living that life, you know, hey,

0:25:55.720 --> 0:25:59.640
<v Speaker 1>some of them never even get past like some of them. Okay,

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:02.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not going to be like the day the first

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<v Speaker 1>day after they're retired in their careers over, because they're

0:26:05.840 --> 0:26:11.359
<v Speaker 1>gonna have a hard time, um, transitioning to the fact

0:26:11.359 --> 0:26:14.359
<v Speaker 1>that their career is over. So they're still gonna be

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:17.800
<v Speaker 1>trying to like live that life and get that rush

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:20.520
<v Speaker 1>and do all that stuff. So you know, you might

0:26:20.560 --> 0:26:25.159
<v Speaker 1>want to give him a good year or two after

0:26:25.840 --> 0:26:28.280
<v Speaker 1>their NBA career is over. But like, Tristan is young,

0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:31.520
<v Speaker 1>Like he's first of all, he's younger than Chloe Um

0:26:31.640 --> 0:26:35.919
<v Speaker 1>and he's ready. Okay, he's ready for a Let's just

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:39.639
<v Speaker 1>hope he's not spraying it like Nick Cannon. Yes, but

0:26:39.720 --> 0:26:42.159
<v Speaker 1>really I think Tristan is young. He's still in the NBA,

0:26:42.400 --> 0:26:44.679
<v Speaker 1>like he really Like as much as they want to

0:26:44.720 --> 0:26:46.479
<v Speaker 1>be with their family, they want to settle down, they

0:26:46.520 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>want to do what's right. The temptation is so hard.

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:50.920
<v Speaker 1>It's so hard. And I can say this because I

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:54.159
<v Speaker 1>do have a girlfriend who will will remain nameless, and

0:26:54.240 --> 0:26:56.439
<v Speaker 1>she said she slept with Tristan and she said it

0:26:56.480 --> 0:27:00.399
<v Speaker 1>was amazing. Yes, now you're gonna have more of people.

0:27:00.600 --> 0:27:03.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, it could be why Chloe was trying to

0:27:03.520 --> 0:27:07.520
<v Speaker 1>hold on to him because he was amazing. She said.

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:10.840
<v Speaker 1>She was like, yeah, she was like trying to call

0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:13.280
<v Speaker 1>him off, hitting him up all the time, like dude,

0:27:13.320 --> 0:27:15.840
<v Speaker 1>you're coming through, and he was too busy hitting everybody

0:27:15.840 --> 0:27:18.160
<v Speaker 1>else up. So you know, she had to wait her turn.

0:27:18.520 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 1>But she didn't want nothing from him, just that. And

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:24.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, anyway, even with the amazing penis, you gotta

0:27:24.720 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 1>walk away if he's not treating you properly. It's my

0:27:26.920 --> 0:27:29.560
<v Speaker 1>point of the story. But I feel I do feel

0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 1>bad for a lot because she's put in some years. Yeah,

0:27:31.920 --> 0:27:34.400
<v Speaker 1>she's put in some years. But it's like, I mean,

0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:37.040
<v Speaker 1>this story, it don't matter. This story happens over and

0:27:37.080 --> 0:27:39.399
<v Speaker 1>over and over again, like and it is really not

0:27:39.480 --> 0:27:43.879
<v Speaker 1>a new story when it comes to athletes. And because

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:45.359
<v Speaker 1>they want, like I said, they want to be with

0:27:45.400 --> 0:27:47.520
<v Speaker 1>their family, they want to do the right thing, they

0:27:47.520 --> 0:27:50.480
<v Speaker 1>want to be a family man. But it's just it's

0:27:50.560 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 1>too much. I'm a little disappointed in Mellow. I thought

0:27:54.080 --> 0:27:57.040
<v Speaker 1>you had stopped with the Shenane against No, he's still

0:27:57.080 --> 0:28:01.920
<v Speaker 1>playing basketball. Okay, we're gonna move on anyway. So ladies, gentlemen,

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:05.919
<v Speaker 1>who's ever listening? Robert and I started this podcast after

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:09.600
<v Speaker 1>Mother's Day, so we really didn't get to talk about

0:28:09.760 --> 0:28:12.159
<v Speaker 1>like being a mom Mother's Day. That would have been

0:28:12.200 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 1>like our Mother's Day tribute if we were on at

0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:21.320
<v Speaker 1>that time. So guess what to day is. Yes, we're

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:23.919
<v Speaker 1>gonna be talking about parenting moms, being a mom, and

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:27.760
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna label this not your average mama. No, no,

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:31.000
<v Speaker 1>far from it. Yes, so we are not your average mama. Alright.

0:28:31.040 --> 0:28:33.040
<v Speaker 1>So first of all, Robin, I want to ask you

0:28:33.359 --> 0:28:36.680
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to parenting, when your boys were babies

0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:39.960
<v Speaker 1>and how were you as a mom to like now

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:43.959
<v Speaker 1>because now they are what preteens? So Coorean Carter are

0:28:44.040 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 1>thirteen and eleven. Um, so I'll just say I okay,

0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 1>so even before I had babies, I was never that

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 1>person that like wanted a baby or wanted to be

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:56.480
<v Speaker 1>a mother. Like I wasn't yearning for motherhood. I didn't

0:28:56.520 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 1>have it planned out. Um, whenever I would if my

0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:03.600
<v Speaker 1>friends would have kids, um, and you know they have

0:29:03.640 --> 0:29:06.520
<v Speaker 1>a baby, and I'd be like, oh, hi baby, and

0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:10.480
<v Speaker 1>that's it. Like I don't want to pick the baby up. Baby,

0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, look at the baby, because most

0:29:13.360 --> 0:29:16.120
<v Speaker 1>times the babies aren't cute, because you know, when babies

0:29:16.120 --> 0:29:19.600
<v Speaker 1>are like you know, you borns, they look like real funny,

0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 1>and so instead of being like, oh, how cute, I'd

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, baby, you know what I mean? All right,

0:29:25.920 --> 0:29:28.560
<v Speaker 1>you gotta do better with your fake cute voice a

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:30.920
<v Speaker 1>gay because if it's not cute, I'm not gonna be like, oh,

0:29:31.000 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 1>my gay, she's so cute. Did she really look like

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>an alien? Like I'm just like, oh baby, oh okay.

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>So then you had children, and what did you have aliens?

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:45.320
<v Speaker 1>I did? Carter was an alien? So Corey was like

0:29:45.600 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 1>really cute, Like he came out with this cute dark

0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 1>curly hair and just like just really cute. Carter was alien,

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.920
<v Speaker 1>which is like, so I can say that with like

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:59.080
<v Speaker 1>my chest because Carter is like the cutest thing right

0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like next you know day, and he quickly grew to

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 1>be cute like a month later. But like you can

0:30:05.440 --> 0:30:07.840
<v Speaker 1>ask anyone, I wasn't sending pictures of Carter out when

0:30:07.880 --> 0:30:13.520
<v Speaker 1>he was first born. I waited, that is wrong, Carter, Carter,

0:30:14.000 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>let me say something. Your mom is wrong. He knows,

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:20.800
<v Speaker 1>he knows. So so as a mom um, I mean,

0:30:20.800 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 1>of course, like you know, when you have new babies,

0:30:22.720 --> 0:30:25.040
<v Speaker 1>you're like worried about everything. I did have a lot

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:28.600
<v Speaker 1>of like worry about like you know, just protecting them

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.880
<v Speaker 1>and keeping them healthy and safe and alive. Um. But

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:36.560
<v Speaker 1>outside of that, like I always had the philosophy like, Okay,

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:39.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not the first mother in the world, and my

0:30:39.120 --> 0:30:41.920
<v Speaker 1>kids aren't the first babies in the world. So like

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 1>it didn't like everything didn't have to be perfect, right,

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:46.680
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like I used to be

0:30:46.680 --> 0:30:49.280
<v Speaker 1>a perfect mom. I didn't have to like you know,

0:30:50.320 --> 0:30:53.040
<v Speaker 1>run in and you know my kids cry, like jump

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:55.520
<v Speaker 1>up and and know exactly why they were crying and

0:30:55.560 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. And so I and I think that's

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 1>just part of my personality and very a back, I

0:31:00.640 --> 0:31:03.400
<v Speaker 1>tried not to like stress out, and so I was

0:31:03.480 --> 0:31:08.000
<v Speaker 1>not a stressed out mom um when they were newborns.

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>It was you know what I mean, It was like

0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I was very I was um, and I made it

0:31:12.960 --> 0:31:18.040
<v Speaker 1>a point to not hold them all the time because

0:31:18.080 --> 0:31:20.600
<v Speaker 1>you didn't want them to feel loved, No, because I

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't want them to always have to be held all

0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:26.320
<v Speaker 1>the time, you know, so I would actually like, you know, people,

0:31:26.360 --> 0:31:28.400
<v Speaker 1>it's like, what did you read? Did you read a

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:30.600
<v Speaker 1>book when you were going to what? I don't know.

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I just like it was like, and I want to

0:31:32.760 --> 0:31:35.880
<v Speaker 1>let people hold them all the time. It's a tough love.

0:31:35.960 --> 0:31:39.000
<v Speaker 1>As it wasn't tough love. It was like, no, y'all

0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 1>not gonna come here and hold my baby for two

0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:44.080
<v Speaker 1>hours and then put it down and you leave. And

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:47.280
<v Speaker 1>then my baby's like, what I got to be held

0:31:47.320 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 1>because you're held me for two hours. I'm like, no,

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:51.760
<v Speaker 1>you can hold it for like five seconds and then

0:31:51.760 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 1>put it back down. The hugs is rashing ng newborn

0:31:56.760 --> 0:31:59.200
<v Speaker 1>baby hugs. Now, this is the first I heard of this.

0:31:59.200 --> 0:32:02.360
<v Speaker 1>This is this is a new parenting tip. My baby's

0:32:02.360 --> 0:32:04.760
<v Speaker 1>didn't cry a lot. Okay, you know when it was

0:32:04.760 --> 0:32:08.080
<v Speaker 1>time to sleep, that's when they cried. Um. But I'll

0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:10.520
<v Speaker 1>just I'll say, like you know, mother had the first

0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 1>time around was pretty easy, breezy. When I added that

0:32:13.880 --> 0:32:17.360
<v Speaker 1>second child eighteen months later, I was a situation. That's

0:32:17.360 --> 0:32:22.040
<v Speaker 1>when it got real. Yeah, yes, it's a situation for sure. Yeah.

0:32:22.040 --> 0:32:24.360
<v Speaker 1>So and I was a walking zombie for like two years.

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 1>But you know, I passed that I had grace, and

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 1>I literally was like, I don't know what the hell

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:33.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing. Like I felt it, like immediately as soon

0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:34.240
<v Speaker 1>as I brought her home, I was like, I don't

0:32:34.280 --> 0:32:36.160
<v Speaker 1>know how to change the diaper, I don't know how

0:32:36.200 --> 0:32:39.360
<v Speaker 1>to feed her. The breast thing ain't working. I don't

0:32:39.360 --> 0:32:41.840
<v Speaker 1>know what the hell I'm doing. I'm exhausted. I might

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 1>even have depression. I was. It was just bad. It

0:32:44.200 --> 0:32:48.040
<v Speaker 1>was bad. It was very bad. Um. And then all

0:32:48.080 --> 0:32:51.120
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, it just like kicked in. Like but

0:32:51.240 --> 0:32:53.160
<v Speaker 1>I did hug her all the time, and I just

0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:55.640
<v Speaker 1>want you to know that, just be clear. I look

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:58.560
<v Speaker 1>like it's all the time now. Um. And then eighteen

0:32:58.560 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 1>months later, I bring home twins. So I was like

0:33:01.320 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>dying a million deaths. So I decided the only way

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make it is to be a military sergeant. Right,

0:33:07.080 --> 0:33:09.440
<v Speaker 1>So I like fed them all at the same time,

0:33:09.680 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 1>I changed diapers all at the same time. I fed them.

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I changed diapers. It was like it was like military clockwork,

0:33:16.080 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 1>clockwork to have alarms to remind you or you just

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:21.800
<v Speaker 1>like no, I just realized, like like I had it.

0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I had it on on a routine every day. Every day.

0:33:24.360 --> 0:33:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to survive. Oh my gosh, No,

0:33:26.080 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 1>did you have a nanny. Yes, I had a nanny,

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:30.120
<v Speaker 1>but I had three kids and was me and the nanny.

0:33:30.160 --> 0:33:32.080
<v Speaker 1>You need more hands than that. I felt like I

0:33:32.120 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 1>was always out numbered. To this day, I'm out numbered

0:33:35.640 --> 0:33:39.680
<v Speaker 1>by these children. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely, But you know what

0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:42.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, once I got divorced and I moved away

0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:44.960
<v Speaker 1>from like Baltimore and I moved back to the d

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 1>C area, That's when I got into my stride, like

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 1>my mommy stride. So when they were maybe like first grade,

0:33:54.760 --> 0:33:57.479
<v Speaker 1>first grade in kindergarten, so they were young, but I

0:33:57.560 --> 0:34:00.680
<v Speaker 1>was like the room mom, and I was always helping

0:34:00.680 --> 0:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>out at school and I would always like have apples

0:34:03.720 --> 0:34:06.600
<v Speaker 1>for them when I picked them up from school. I

0:34:06.720 --> 0:34:10.920
<v Speaker 1>was like the mom of the year. We just still are. No. No,

0:34:11.239 --> 0:34:14.360
<v Speaker 1>that went left, okay. So then when I started like

0:34:14.400 --> 0:34:16.160
<v Speaker 1>working a lot and like getting into my groop and

0:34:16.200 --> 0:34:19.240
<v Speaker 1>they started getting older, I just forgot about them kids.

0:34:19.280 --> 0:34:24.440
<v Speaker 1>If they had Dorito's padana, okay, whatever was going on,

0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't. I didn't allow them to run my

0:34:27.480 --> 0:34:30.480
<v Speaker 1>life anymore. Yes, and then you have to like actually

0:34:31.120 --> 0:34:33.880
<v Speaker 1>make that declaration like out loud, like you know what,

0:34:34.120 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Like I love my kids. I'm gonna be the best

0:34:35.560 --> 0:34:36.960
<v Speaker 1>mom I can be to them, but I'm not going

0:34:37.000 --> 0:34:39.200
<v Speaker 1>to let them control my life. It's like you have

0:34:39.200 --> 0:34:41.960
<v Speaker 1>to have an epiphany. It's like a ha moment where

0:34:42.160 --> 0:34:44.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, at first you're like, Okay, this is my life,

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:46.799
<v Speaker 1>clearly is when they're babies and stuff. But at some

0:34:46.840 --> 0:34:49.399
<v Speaker 1>point you're like, you gotta get over it. I gotta

0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:51.759
<v Speaker 1>you gotta allow yourself to live and to be a

0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:53.839
<v Speaker 1>person again. I felt like I was only a mother

0:34:54.280 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 1>and that's not healthy. It's not good for them, it's

0:34:56.040 --> 0:34:58.439
<v Speaker 1>not good for me. Right, Like I remember times when

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:00.160
<v Speaker 1>like okay, I would want to go out and the

0:35:00.200 --> 0:35:02.880
<v Speaker 1>babysitter comes and the minute you know, you try to

0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:07.239
<v Speaker 1>walk out the door, they're like mommy, no, mommy, And

0:35:07.280 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 1>you know then sometimes you you you like, okay, well

0:35:10.080 --> 0:35:13.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll stay home, and you just have to like that, right,

0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 1>you gotta be steadfast. You gotta walk out that door

0:35:16.000 --> 0:35:18.879
<v Speaker 1>and don't call, don't say are they okay? Like, just

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:21.840
<v Speaker 1>go and keep it moving. I remember I had a

0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:25.319
<v Speaker 1>nanny that would come like three days a week, and

0:35:26.400 --> 0:35:30.880
<v Speaker 1>she would talk my head off so much. That I

0:35:30.880 --> 0:35:33.120
<v Speaker 1>would literally have to like, like my when I had

0:35:33.120 --> 0:35:34.479
<v Speaker 1>a nanny, I was like, Okay, I want a nanny,

0:35:34.560 --> 0:35:36.200
<v Speaker 1>like so so she can give me a break, so

0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I can like chill and and just you know, relax

0:35:39.280 --> 0:35:43.399
<v Speaker 1>and lay around. And she would talk my head off

0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:45.719
<v Speaker 1>to the point where I was like, okay, where should

0:35:45.760 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I Where am I going today? Like you know, I

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:50.680
<v Speaker 1>would like literally like you're running away from the nanny.

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. I would literally have to like force

0:35:53.239 --> 0:35:56.240
<v Speaker 1>myself to leave the house because she would literally follow

0:35:56.320 --> 0:36:00.200
<v Speaker 1>me all around the house. Fired she was. I'm she

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:01.880
<v Speaker 1>was awesome. She was great with the kids, but I

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:03.520
<v Speaker 1>had like so at that point, I was like, you

0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:05.680
<v Speaker 1>know what, I'm just going to put these kids in school.

0:36:05.719 --> 0:36:08.560
<v Speaker 1>So that's when I started them in like a dare

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:10.600
<v Speaker 1>to get away from the nancy. I talked too much,

0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:15.600
<v Speaker 1>isn't that? Yes? She talked? Okay, So have you ever

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 1>lost a child out in the streets? Have you ever

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:23.120
<v Speaker 1>lost a childe? Yes, I have. Um Carter went missing

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:29.839
<v Speaker 1>in Ocean City, New Jersey, Oyland, New Jersey. All right, yeah, yeah,

0:36:30.040 --> 0:36:32.560
<v Speaker 1>So we were staying it was so scary. We were

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:35.120
<v Speaker 1>staying in a house like a shore house. With my

0:36:35.200 --> 0:36:38.600
<v Speaker 1>friend and her family, so with her, you know, her husband,

0:36:39.160 --> 0:36:42.319
<v Speaker 1>her two kids at the time, and then me and

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:45.279
<v Speaker 1>this was um Want and I were maybe separated or

0:36:45.320 --> 0:36:47.640
<v Speaker 1>not together, I don't know. And so I'm in the

0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 1>house with Korean Carter, and this is the day we're leaving.

0:36:51.600 --> 0:36:54.719
<v Speaker 1>We're packing the house up to leave, okay. So it's

0:36:54.760 --> 0:36:56.160
<v Speaker 1>just like a lot of you know, you're like getting

0:36:56.160 --> 0:36:57.840
<v Speaker 1>your backs together and you put in the car and

0:36:57.880 --> 0:37:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you're in and out. And so at some point I'm like,

0:37:01.000 --> 0:37:06.319
<v Speaker 1>where's Carter. I'm like packing up the kids' carter. So

0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:08.799
<v Speaker 1>we looked all over the house. He's not there. We

0:37:08.840 --> 0:37:11.799
<v Speaker 1>looked all in the backyard. He's not there. We look

0:37:11.840 --> 0:37:13.440
<v Speaker 1>all in the front yard and he's not there. And

0:37:13.480 --> 0:37:16.480
<v Speaker 1>he was literally probably like I mean, he was walking clearly.

0:37:17.040 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Um but he was younger than two. But I can't

0:37:21.120 --> 0:37:26.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe two or less, right, And this is so crazy.

0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:30.080
<v Speaker 1>My first thought is, oh my gosh, if I can't

0:37:30.080 --> 0:37:33.439
<v Speaker 1>find Carter, one is gonna kill me. It's not like

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:36.520
<v Speaker 1>I need to find my child because I love him,

0:37:36.520 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 1>because I hug him all the time. I don't um

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:43.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna kill like, oh my god, my child. It's like

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:47.360
<v Speaker 1>wan is going to kill me. So my friend's husband

0:37:47.520 --> 0:37:49.680
<v Speaker 1>literally oh so then we so we go ostside and

0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:52.840
<v Speaker 1>there's a girl and stupid ass girl. So there's a

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:55.919
<v Speaker 1>girl who literally I was getting out, like had gotten

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:57.680
<v Speaker 1>out her car and maybe had some bags, and she

0:37:57.760 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, um, are you looking for kid? I

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:03.080
<v Speaker 1>just saw a kid walk down the street and he

0:38:03.120 --> 0:38:05.360
<v Speaker 1>turned the corner and he's literally like a year and

0:38:05.440 --> 0:38:08.919
<v Speaker 1>a half. And so my husband, my friend's husband, took

0:38:08.920 --> 0:38:12.360
<v Speaker 1>off running down the street, literally turned the corner like

0:38:12.360 --> 0:38:14.880
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't even see him anymore, and got and he

0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:17.600
<v Speaker 1>said it was he was almost at an intersection and

0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:20.880
<v Speaker 1>like Carter was gone. He had his blankie, he was pacifier.

0:38:21.760 --> 0:38:24.520
<v Speaker 1>He was out of here because he didn't get hugs.

0:38:24.960 --> 0:38:28.600
<v Speaker 1>That's why he was leaving, because Robin refused to hug

0:38:28.640 --> 0:38:33.040
<v Speaker 1>the boy. Yes, it was. It was so scary, Oh

0:38:33.120 --> 0:38:35.360
<v Speaker 1>my god, like we literally if it's like you know

0:38:35.400 --> 0:38:38.839
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? So how much time I passed for

0:38:38.920 --> 0:38:42.040
<v Speaker 1>him to get down the street, turned the corner to

0:38:42.080 --> 0:38:45.040
<v Speaker 1>the point where I couldn't even see him anymore. I

0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:49.160
<v Speaker 1>mean that probably was a good like six minutes, right,

0:38:49.239 --> 0:38:51.719
<v Speaker 1>because anything, because someone could have driven past and seen

0:38:51.800 --> 0:38:54.799
<v Speaker 1>this kid walking and scooped him up, or he could

0:38:54.840 --> 0:38:56.879
<v Speaker 1>have gotten hit by a car or whatever a dog

0:38:56.920 --> 0:38:59.160
<v Speaker 1>could have been. I don't. I mean like it was

0:38:59.520 --> 0:39:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like I was traumatized by that. I was like that

0:39:01.800 --> 0:39:04.200
<v Speaker 1>it was really really, really a close call. And Carter

0:39:04.320 --> 0:39:06.480
<v Speaker 1>was always the one, especially after that, he was always

0:39:06.480 --> 0:39:08.319
<v Speaker 1>the one. I'm like when I'm out, I'm like, where's Carter.

0:39:08.360 --> 0:39:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Where's Carter? I have to have eyes on Carter. Did

0:39:10.719 --> 0:39:16.080
<v Speaker 1>you tell one? What do you say? He probably, you know,

0:39:16.239 --> 0:39:18.120
<v Speaker 1>gave me a whole you know, this is the reason

0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:22.680
<v Speaker 1>why I don't when you know, just like this past weekend,

0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:26.360
<v Speaker 1>they my freaking kids had to spill the beans and

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 1>tell them that they saw shark in the ocean. And

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:30.239
<v Speaker 1>he's like, you ain't telling me it was because one

0:39:30.320 --> 0:39:33.200
<v Speaker 1>was he wasn't there for the whole trip. Did they

0:39:33.239 --> 0:39:35.000
<v Speaker 1>tell him? Yeah, it was a shark in the ocean.

0:39:35.000 --> 0:39:38.279
<v Speaker 1>And one is like terrified of the ocean. So the

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:41.840
<v Speaker 1>kids can't have fun anymore. Oh my god, They're scared

0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:44.680
<v Speaker 1>of everything. They're so scared of everything because one is

0:39:44.719 --> 0:39:48.400
<v Speaker 1>like scared of nature. He's scared of everything. It's so crazy.

0:39:50.080 --> 0:39:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I asked my kids, you know, before we started this podcast,

0:39:53.120 --> 0:39:55.359
<v Speaker 1>how they felt about me as a mother, because they're

0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:58.719
<v Speaker 1>teenagers now and so they really have formed an opinion

0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:02.360
<v Speaker 1>of Giselle as mother. And they're like, oh, mom, we

0:40:02.440 --> 0:40:05.319
<v Speaker 1>think that you. Um, we really liked you when you

0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:08.760
<v Speaker 1>were like the room mom and when you had apples

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:10.200
<v Speaker 1>for us when you picked us up from school, Like,

0:40:10.280 --> 0:40:15.080
<v Speaker 1>we really liked you during that phase. However, we like you,

0:40:15.080 --> 0:40:17.719
<v Speaker 1>you know in this in this mode as well. They

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 1>were like, because you Okay, so I've done some things. Okay,

0:40:22.680 --> 0:40:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I have a story so my kid that the twins

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:28.840
<v Speaker 1>were in ballet. They were about third grade, fourth grade,

0:40:29.719 --> 0:40:32.520
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't like whatever whatever was going on in

0:40:32.520 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>the ballet class. You know, the parents can't be in there.

0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 1>Wh when they would come out, they would tell me

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:38.400
<v Speaker 1>these crazy stories like they didn't like to teach you

0:40:38.480 --> 0:40:41.359
<v Speaker 1>to teach, it was playing favorites all of this stuff. Right.

0:40:41.400 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 1>So I was just like very angry, and I had

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:46.759
<v Speaker 1>had it. Okay, so um the next class, I was like,

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:49.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting that teacher. I'm gonnallow her know how I feel.

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:53.000
<v Speaker 1>So I walk my kids in. I allowed them to

0:40:53.040 --> 0:40:55.200
<v Speaker 1>go inside, and then I poked my head in and

0:40:55.200 --> 0:40:57.320
<v Speaker 1>I was excuse me, I need to talk to you, teacher,

0:40:57.360 --> 0:40:59.200
<v Speaker 1>can you come out? So she came out and I

0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 1>let her have it. I'll it's like my kids told

0:41:01.160 --> 0:41:02.960
<v Speaker 1>me blah blah blah, and I don't appreciate you treat

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:05.160
<v Speaker 1>my kids. It's two with them, it's tour with them.

0:41:05.360 --> 0:41:07.880
<v Speaker 1>You are not going to be unfair to them. So

0:41:07.920 --> 0:41:09.799
<v Speaker 1>I let her have it. It was like a very

0:41:09.800 --> 0:41:12.440
<v Speaker 1>long speech. She goes back and said she was like,

0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. She goes back inside.

0:41:16.160 --> 0:41:20.080
<v Speaker 1>So the class is over and my kids come out

0:41:20.200 --> 0:41:21.640
<v Speaker 1>and then getting a card, he run to the car.

0:41:21.719 --> 0:41:26.560
<v Speaker 1>They're like, Mommy, that was a substitute. That wasn't the teacher.

0:41:28.200 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>I cussed out the wrong teacher. Okay, but they were

0:41:32.360 --> 0:41:35.160
<v Speaker 1>like so happy that I was just writing for them. Right,

0:41:35.280 --> 0:41:37.480
<v Speaker 1>even though I cussed out the wrong lady, it didn't

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:41.839
<v Speaker 1>even matter. She didn't stop me, no, no, she just

0:41:42.000 --> 0:41:44.200
<v Speaker 1>she just took it. She took the cussing and she

0:41:44.320 --> 0:41:46.160
<v Speaker 1>was like, it's my day to get cussed by a

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:49.200
<v Speaker 1>crazy black woman. And she went on about her business.

0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:51.239
<v Speaker 1>She apologized. She didn't know what she was apologizing for.

0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:54.240
<v Speaker 1>She just apologized and kept it moving. But I cussed

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:56.120
<v Speaker 1>out the wrong person, and they were like, you know what,

0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:58.000
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't even matter. Our just gonna stand up for

0:41:58.080 --> 0:42:01.120
<v Speaker 1>us no matter what. Which they appreciate it. Um, they said,

0:42:01.160 --> 0:42:03.359
<v Speaker 1>they you know, I never let them have sleepovers. They're

0:42:03.360 --> 0:42:07.319
<v Speaker 1>a little traumatized by it. I don't care, but they

0:42:07.360 --> 0:42:09.520
<v Speaker 1>do like the fact that every year I try to

0:42:09.560 --> 0:42:12.839
<v Speaker 1>do something different. Like five years ago, our new thing

0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:15.200
<v Speaker 1>was like we're gonna have sushi, and so now they

0:42:15.200 --> 0:42:17.000
<v Speaker 1>love sushi, so like we would try all these different

0:42:17.040 --> 0:42:19.200
<v Speaker 1>sushi restaurants. Like every year, I try to like start

0:42:19.239 --> 0:42:22.279
<v Speaker 1>a new tradition. Um. One time it was like, let's

0:42:22.280 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 1>do tea parties. So we would go to all these

0:42:24.080 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 1>places that you know do little tea services. And I

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:30.200
<v Speaker 1>know you guys would go bike writing. Yes, we do writing.

0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:31.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean I try to do like fun things with

0:42:31.719 --> 0:42:33.359
<v Speaker 1>my kids so they know that I'm president and I'm

0:42:33.400 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>in their lives. I just don't really cook dinner for them,

0:42:37.320 --> 0:42:40.399
<v Speaker 1>and you know there they can eat whatever they can eat,

0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:43.319
<v Speaker 1>like air sandwiches. I don't care. I don't care because

0:42:43.360 --> 0:42:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I do other and I and they know that I

0:42:48.080 --> 0:42:51.040
<v Speaker 1>love them, right, yes, and that is the most important part.

0:42:51.200 --> 0:42:54.200
<v Speaker 1>It is it is and I can say as a parent,

0:42:54.560 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 1>I am like I would you know, I should go

0:42:57.560 --> 0:43:00.040
<v Speaker 1>back and ask my kids what they think of me

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 1>as a mom, But I think they would say that

0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:06.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm a cool mom, that I'm a fun mom. Uh.

0:43:06.120 --> 0:43:09.440
<v Speaker 1>We laugh and joke and giggle and have fun and

0:43:10.120 --> 0:43:12.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, play around and wrestle and like I'm the

0:43:12.560 --> 0:43:15.680
<v Speaker 1>one when they wrestle me. They don't wrestle wand well

0:43:15.760 --> 0:43:18.319
<v Speaker 1>because they know I'm will like maybe hurt them, like

0:43:18.400 --> 0:43:22.160
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, yes, but now you're fighting

0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:25.719
<v Speaker 1>with boys all the time. Yes, yes, So I mean

0:43:25.760 --> 0:43:29.759
<v Speaker 1>it's just I and and I hug them a lot.

0:43:31.040 --> 0:43:34.600
<v Speaker 1>When did the transition happens? I mean not saying okay,

0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:38.439
<v Speaker 1>you misinterpreted that, right, But I do to this day

0:43:38.719 --> 0:43:40.919
<v Speaker 1>hug and kiss on my kids. And I really think

0:43:40.920 --> 0:43:44.040
<v Speaker 1>as a as a parent, that's so important to give

0:43:44.080 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 1>your kids that type of love that like physical affection. Um,

0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, my parents are awesome, but I didn't really

0:43:51.680 --> 0:43:54.719
<v Speaker 1>get a lot of physical affection for my parents. And

0:43:54.760 --> 0:43:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's like a generational thing, but

0:43:57.960 --> 0:44:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I just think, you know, I what the most important

0:44:01.000 --> 0:44:03.080
<v Speaker 1>thing for me as a parent is to make sure

0:44:03.120 --> 0:44:07.120
<v Speaker 1>that my kids know that they're loved. Um, because when

0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:09.960
<v Speaker 1>kids don't feel like they're loved, it can affect them

0:44:10.000 --> 0:44:13.160
<v Speaker 1>negatively so much. You know, they act out for attention,

0:44:13.360 --> 0:44:16.839
<v Speaker 1>or they seek attention in other places and whatever. So

0:44:17.040 --> 0:44:18.520
<v Speaker 1>for me, as I'm like, as long as my kids

0:44:18.520 --> 0:44:21.360
<v Speaker 1>know they're loved, they're good to go. And I I

0:44:21.800 --> 0:44:23.759
<v Speaker 1>so right now. My challenge with them is showing them

0:44:23.800 --> 0:44:28.520
<v Speaker 1>that I trust them. So um, you know, minor teenagers.

0:44:28.880 --> 0:44:30.960
<v Speaker 1>So just last week, we were in New York and

0:44:31.000 --> 0:44:32.239
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what, God and I had

0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:34.799
<v Speaker 1>to work, so they're with me. I'm working, and so

0:44:34.880 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want them to sit in a hotel all day.

0:44:36.960 --> 0:44:40.400
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, you guys can do New York, right.

0:44:40.480 --> 0:44:42.880
<v Speaker 1>They had their little girlfriends that are from New York.

0:44:43.200 --> 0:44:45.960
<v Speaker 1>So I gave them my credit card. I had just

0:44:46.200 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 1>sign it across and pray to Jesus, but I gave

0:44:48.640 --> 0:44:51.799
<v Speaker 1>them my credit card. I downloaded Uber on one of

0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:54.960
<v Speaker 1>my daughter's phones and I was like, how fun do

0:44:55.040 --> 0:45:00.799
<v Speaker 1>your thing? So they appreciated that. I know, they appreciated

0:45:00.880 --> 0:45:04.239
<v Speaker 1>that so much. They would do stuff like oh no,

0:45:04.280 --> 0:45:07.160
<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna call it Uber, We're gonna walk you

0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 1>know what. They're like, We're gonna save mommy some coins.

0:45:09.680 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 1>Like that's their favorite thing to say, We're gonna save

0:45:11.640 --> 0:45:15.000
<v Speaker 1>mommy her coins. So and any time, like they say

0:45:15.040 --> 0:45:16.680
<v Speaker 1>they would go to a restaurant because I told him,

0:45:16.680 --> 0:45:18.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, food is on me, so like like I'm

0:45:18.840 --> 0:45:20.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna pay for food. But if you guys want to

0:45:20.440 --> 0:45:22.440
<v Speaker 1>go shopping and buy you know, stupid little t shirts

0:45:22.480 --> 0:45:24.719
<v Speaker 1>or ear rings, that's the money that you got from

0:45:24.760 --> 0:45:30.600
<v Speaker 1>your parents. Yeah, so you're allowing if the food bill

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:32.759
<v Speaker 1>went over like eighty dollars, they would text me and

0:45:32.760 --> 0:45:35.879
<v Speaker 1>they'd be like, okay, we at the restaurant the bill

0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:38.240
<v Speaker 1>is like eighty two dollars, and I'd be like, okay,

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:40.520
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. It's fine. But for them to feel a

0:45:40.520 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 1>sense of responsibility and like, let you know, they were

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:46.279
<v Speaker 1>spreading their wings a little bit in the big n

0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:49.520
<v Speaker 1>y c. And I feel like that for me right now,

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:52.879
<v Speaker 1>is there our biggest um is the biggest learning lesson.

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:54.480
<v Speaker 1>I can tell parents, like, at some point in time,

0:45:54.480 --> 0:45:57.200
<v Speaker 1>you gotta let go and you gotta just trust your kids.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard. Were you nervous? I wasn't nervous because I

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<v Speaker 1>knew the two girls are like New York girls like

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<v Speaker 1>you know they're the same age as my kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>they next know the city, they know where to go.

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<v Speaker 1>They're about it, about it, but they oh, my funny story,

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<v Speaker 1>my kids did go on the New York subway and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a crazy man they said crazy put that

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<v Speaker 1>in quotes, that was after them. They're like, this man

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<v Speaker 1>was after us. We would keep changing cars, he would

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<v Speaker 1>keep coming after us, and he wouldn't leave us. We

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<v Speaker 1>think he was trying to check Grace out. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what was happening. He was crazy. And they ended

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<v Speaker 1>up getting off the train and then they told me

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<v Speaker 1>that they were going to call it uber and they

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<v Speaker 1>asked a man who had a kid with him so

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<v Speaker 1>he was a father, to kind of like wait with

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<v Speaker 1>them while they got the uber. So that was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of smart. Now, let me know, they really felt like

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<v Speaker 1>they were in danger, but guess what is the big city,

0:46:53.760 --> 0:46:57.080
<v Speaker 1>honeys and y'all went through a little right welcome And

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<v Speaker 1>it's real world in real life. So I was I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't afraid or scared for them, but I felt like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, it's good, it's good that you see

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<v Speaker 1>that in because in our little world it's a bubble.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've protected you all. But there's all kinds of

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<v Speaker 1>crazy people out right, and that's good that they were.

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<v Speaker 1>You should you should be happy and feel good that

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<v Speaker 1>they were aware of their surroundings. Yes, yes, we so

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<v Speaker 1>my kids are actually kind of vigilant too, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna wrap up. So we were walking in South Beach,

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<v Speaker 1>so nice South Beach we went. It's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why we did this. I haven't been a South

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<v Speaker 1>Beach and so long. So we we ate, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at a restaurant, and then with all the kids. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a big group of us and we decided to

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<v Speaker 1>walk on Ocean driven Beach like you know, eleven pm

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<v Speaker 1>at night. Kind of crazy. Yeah, bad decisions because I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know like how crazy it was there on there.

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<v Speaker 1>So my kids are like all of it, were like

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<v Speaker 1>walking and then all of a sudden they start like

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<v Speaker 1>like ducking and they're like, what are y'all doing? And

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, these guys just out of the car and

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<v Speaker 1>they said, the chopper is in the back seat, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what are you talking about? Don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell of Choppa is. Apparently it's a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a gun. Apparently it's a gun. All right whatever,

0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:12.279
<v Speaker 1>and they're like he just said the choppers in the

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<v Speaker 1>back seat and they're like literally like trying to run away.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, y'all, like okay, but what why do your

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<v Speaker 1>kids know what Choppa is? I don't know you tube

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<v Speaker 1>games to these kids know what I know? I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is it? Chopper? So then I had to realize

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<v Speaker 1>like what they were talking about. But they their antenna's

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<v Speaker 1>were like on alert, high alert down there, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like Carter, my youngest, he was like, can we leave? Good?

0:48:38.239 --> 0:48:41.080
<v Speaker 1>Can we? He was just looking around. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this don't feel safe? Can we leave? So our kids are,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're definitely more sheltered than than we were

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<v Speaker 1>as young kids, but they're very aware of their surroundings.

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<v Speaker 1>Well okay, so no to South, no South Beach, and

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<v Speaker 1>no New York Subway. Y'all are crazy up in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay to so I we took. I thought it would

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<v Speaker 1>be a good experience for them. Okay, alright, well people,

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<v Speaker 1>back the Bentley he sold it or whatever. But guess what.

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<v Speaker 1>She bought her own one with her own money. She said, quevo,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need just stinky Bentley. I bought my own.

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<v Speaker 1>What is she's a boss, bitch? What is she good? Bentley?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure? Rolls Royce? She had an expensive car. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she got a rose one thing? Oh she did? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So she said, I'm one upping the Bentley. I'm getting

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