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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello, we are back

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Speaker 1: again for another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant.

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for joining us again. We are back again, and you

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Speaker 1: guys already know we start off with our Reasonably Shady

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Speaker 1: moment of the week and Robin, I want to go

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Speaker 1: first because I am actually a little angry still with um. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I spent about a week in New York with

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Speaker 1: my kids and I had to Uber some places. Uber

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Speaker 1: drivers in New York are in their own world. I

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Speaker 1: was at a restaurant. It was very late at night,

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Speaker 1: and I saw I watched all my Uber app, the

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Speaker 1: Uber driver drive around the restaurant about three times. He

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Speaker 1: just drove around and then drove around, and I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: I was like texting him, like sir, stop, like I'm

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Speaker 1: front the restaurant, but he just ignored me and kept

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Speaker 1: driving around, and I said, cancel. That might have been

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Speaker 1: his first day and he was trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: how to work that app or something. I thought so,

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Speaker 1: And then the next day I drove out to or

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Speaker 1: I needed to go out to my girlfriend's house in Jersey.

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Speaker 1: I was in the city, so that's like, you know,

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Speaker 1: a nice uber that I got the extra, the special

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Speaker 1: to v ip or whatever. And he drove so slow.

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Speaker 1: I sat behind him and I wanted to put my

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Speaker 1: hands around his neck and strangle him. I was so angry,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, dude, if you draw thirty one

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Speaker 1: more time, okay. Then I had to come home from

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend's house and the Uber driver was like the

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Speaker 1: reject from k pop you know, have your oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: the Korean Yes. He had like his hat to the back,

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Speaker 1: he had like five gold chains on adiita sweatsuit tattoos

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Speaker 1: all over him. He was ready. He was blasting the

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Speaker 1: music and he I guess it was too cool for

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Speaker 1: school and could not sit in traffic, So that meant

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Speaker 1: he was always like changing even in and out. We

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Speaker 1: even in and out, and he was changing the route.

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Speaker 1: He changed the route about seventeen times, and he literally

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Speaker 1: went over. I went over, like five bridges. Does not

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Speaker 1: take five bridges for me to get back to the

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Speaker 1: city from Jersey. I was angry. I was mad, and

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Speaker 1: I said, to hell with all you Uber drives. Y'all shady.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's why I actually whenever I have

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Speaker 1: like a special event to go to and the organizer

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Speaker 1: it's like, would you like us to send you a car?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I want to drive myself because I

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Speaker 1: want to drive my speed, I want to play my music.

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Speaker 1: I want to go my route. Like I hate driving

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Speaker 1: in like I hate letting other people drive. Yes, hate it,

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Speaker 1: or they drive too slow? You want to strangle them, right,

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Speaker 1: it was so good if you strangle them, though, No,

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Speaker 1: I would know he I definitely I would have gotten

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Speaker 1: a zero rating. Um did you give your drivers? I

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Speaker 1: did not. I decided to be a nice person. But

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Speaker 1: I am over Uber. I'm over y'all. Over y'all. What

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Speaker 1: is with that? I don't know something going on with

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Speaker 1: New York. Uber's Okay, Well that's annoying and frustrating. Um So,

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Speaker 1: my reasonably shady moment once again goes to myself of

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Speaker 1: the word and the worst. It's more of like just

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Speaker 1: a ridiculous moment. So this past week we went to Florida.

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Speaker 1: We were in South South Miami or South Florida for

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Speaker 1: a basketball tournament. So the tournament, I saw you on

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Speaker 1: Instagram live with your bikini on looking that was like

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Speaker 1: suck and tuck. Okay. Anyway, so we were there at

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Speaker 1: the tournament itself. The games were Friday to Sunday, but

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Speaker 1: we went from Wednesday to Wednesday. So from Wednesday to

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Speaker 1: Wednesday I checked in. We checked into five different hotels.

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Speaker 1: Why Robin for what? Who does that? Why would you

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Speaker 1: do that to the kids? Why would you do that? Okay?

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Speaker 1: We played musical hotels, so like the first one, okay,

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Speaker 1: first when we decided to go to the Fountain Blue

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Speaker 1: Miami Beach, lit it up, have fun. Nice. So then

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Speaker 1: the second one we checked into was actual the tournament

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Speaker 1: where the hotel where we were going to spend the

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Speaker 1: rest of our time. Okay, that hotel was like the

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Speaker 1: Bates Motel. I was waiting and we literally it's so

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Speaker 1: it's you know, it's bad when the kids are looking

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Speaker 1: Like we literally checked in, rolled our stuff up to

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Speaker 1: They said we would charge you, and it was funny.

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Speaker 1: The girl at the desk like chuckled, like she knew that, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: this ain't for everyone. Okay, So that's so you've named

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Speaker 1: two hotels too, Okay, but you said five five. So

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Speaker 1: we relocated to, okay, which was we didn't have any complaints.

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Speaker 1: It was a Marriott. It was fine, it was clean,

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Speaker 1: it was actually renovated. It was nice and new. Nice,

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Speaker 1: but it wasn't on the beach. So it's like boring,

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Speaker 1: boring Marriott. So we stayed there for like two nights.

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Speaker 1: So then and now, mind you, it's not just us,

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Speaker 1: it's like two other families on our team that are

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Speaker 1: moving to So Robin is a road there's a road

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Speaker 1: show in Florida. I'm telling you this basketball. This vacation

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Speaker 1: was for the parents, that was it was, it was

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Speaker 1: for us. So so we're in this boring hotel. I

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Speaker 1: mean it was nice. So then we're like, oh, we

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Speaker 1: want to go back to the beach. Let's go back

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Speaker 1: to the beach. So then we moved to another hotel

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Speaker 1: very nice. Now that one was just like a So

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Speaker 1: I think it's like when you go to the Fountain Blue.

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Speaker 1: It's really hard to live up to the Fountain Blue

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Speaker 1: when you're in Like I don't want to say all

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Speaker 1: the double trade, right, so, but why would you even

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Speaker 1: check into that double trade? You know that's not right.

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Speaker 1: You know you're not gonna be happy, you know you're

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Speaker 1: gonna leave. Why would you even do that? Because the

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Speaker 1: pictures look nice, they looked adequate. You know, we're still

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Speaker 1: there for a basketball tournament, right, it looked good and

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Speaker 1: I don't have any complaints, but we were just kind

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Speaker 1: of like the double fishing, no our expect our. We

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Speaker 1: just became bougie. So so then we were like, hey,

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Speaker 1: the W has a great rate going on that right now? Okay,

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Speaker 1: In other words, Robin can play no more trips. Do

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Speaker 1: not travel with robbing. You know it's bad, but you

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Speaker 1: know it was actually fun. So we we finished our

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Speaker 1: our trip at the W, which was great. It's nice, right,

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Speaker 1: it's great. The kids are living their life again. Like

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Speaker 1: I've I've created some boogie kids with these hotels and stuff. Um,

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Speaker 1: I do recommend though at least I kind of enjoyed

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Speaker 1: actually like, on my next vacation or my next trip,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to at least stay in two hotels. Oh wait,

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Speaker 1: and I left one part out. Okay, so I actually

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Speaker 1: walked into six hotels because during one of these trips,

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Speaker 1: one hotel, one Marriott, and I really booked the Marryott

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Speaker 1: fifteen minutes down the street. Okay, you are fired. You're fired.

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Speaker 1: You can no longer have this job. Those all the

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Speaker 1: two families that you're traveling with. Asked one of those

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Speaker 1: moms to take over your fired. We were vie, we

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Speaker 1: to the desk and they're like, um, are you in

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Speaker 1: the Rite Hotel? I was like yeah, and then I

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Speaker 1: looked at my email. I was like, no, bye, and

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we actually tried to check in the six hotels.

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Speaker 1: Say it's no, it's not even shade. It's ridiculous. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Robin is ridiculous, all right. But anyway, Robin, we have

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Speaker 1: so much to talk about as it relates to what's

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Speaker 1: going on in the world. Oh my gosh, there's so much.

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Speaker 1: Where do we begin. I think we should begin with

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Speaker 1: Father's Day because that just fast and Nick Cannon was busy. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he was a busy lever because every time we turn around,

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Speaker 1: that guy has another baby on the way. Okay. I

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Speaker 1: keep seeing these headlines and I'm like, is it around

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Speaker 1: all day? Is it? Like? Why do I keep seeing

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Speaker 1: the same headline that NICKI Cannon is expecting a baby

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Speaker 1: multiple and he always gets people pregnant with twins, which

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Speaker 1: is very strange and I just don't understand. And I'm thinking,

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Speaker 1: do these ladies know that they're over lapping? Like you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Clearly, these relationships overlap, right. I

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Speaker 1: like it's so weird. I'm like, Okay, so is this

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Speaker 1: they're like oops, babies. They're like he's literally dating them

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Speaker 1: they think that they're gonna have Thanksgiving dinner with Maria,

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Speaker 1: But I want them to understand, Mariah Carrie is not

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Speaker 1: eating with any of you baby mamas. She not. I'm

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Speaker 1: just here to tell you. And I don't even know Mariah,

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Speaker 1: but I know that's going Dawn. But wait, didn't didn't

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Speaker 1: Nix say something like he doesn't he feels like he

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Speaker 1: doesn't have long to live because he has lupus and

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Speaker 1: he has blood clots and so he's just you know,

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Speaker 1: you being serious? Yes? Oh, I hadn't heard this. Yes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is absurd. That's upsurd. Okay, so you're going to

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Speaker 1: leave all these fatherless children. Or on the flip side,

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Speaker 1: Nick to get it together, get it all the way together.

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Speaker 1: But I guess the good thing is, like you know,

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Speaker 1: Nick is rich, yes, so he can afford them, right,

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Speaker 1: he can afford them. The kids will be fine once

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Speaker 1: he you know, passes along financially. But they're going to

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Speaker 1: like that fatherly figure that you know. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: guess with all these kids, like, how can he be

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Speaker 1: a fatherly figure to them? No, he's he can't even

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Speaker 1: get Father's Day straight. No, it's forging. What what gift

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Speaker 1: do you wear? Because you know how the kids can

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Speaker 1: give you a gift? Remember that meme And he had

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Speaker 1: all these ties he was holding up and he was

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Speaker 1: the meme was which one should he wear? Like? Because

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Speaker 1: you know, but he's got like enough jobs he can

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Speaker 1: um that was that dancer show called Mass Mass Singer Job,

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Speaker 1: his you know he's got one on America's Got Talent

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Speaker 1: like he's got a whole bunch of jobs. He's a

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Speaker 1: busy beaver. And I need, I'm gonna need for everybody

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Speaker 1: to be clear, Mariah is not entertaining this. Okay, Mariah

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Speaker 1: Gezelle is not written on any man that I know, Okay,

422
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 1: and I don't. Maybe maybe I need to redo something different,

423
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 1: because maybe I need to make a man. You don't

424
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 1: want that. I don't want that that. So yeah, I'm

425
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: not I'm not that, you know, not My cup of tea,

426
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,679
Speaker 1: but you know, to each their own. I guess I

427
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,719
Speaker 1: don't know. Okay, well, let's let's move on, because I

428
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 1: was watching Wendy Williams and we all know Wendy is shady,

429
00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 1: which I'm not even mad at because you know I'm shady.

430
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: I love another shady person. Wendy Williams is as shady

431
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,120
Speaker 1: as it comes. She's a queen. She's queen, she gets

432
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 1: the crown. Okay, So Cynthia was on her show, and

433
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 1: you know we all have heard like there's gonna be

434
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 1: in Atlanta shake up and I'm not mad at a

435
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 1: shake up because you know it keeps the shows spicy,

436
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: yeah fresh and knew. So she's straight up toll Cynthia,

437
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: you should not return to the Real Housewives of Atlanta.

438
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: She told her, you should not return or you should

439
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 1: not be asked to return. She said you should not

440
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 1: be asked to return. You in other words, she said

441
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 1: you should be fired. Yes, that's rude, and Cynthia kind

442
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: of laughed it off or whatever, but she but Wendy

443
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: explained it. Wendy said, you have nothing more to give.

444
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:38,120
Speaker 1: You have already got married, you have um got your businesses,

445
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: since you better get divorced now, and that's what Wendy said.

446
00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:42,679
Speaker 1: Wendy was like, I don't want to see you get divorced.

447
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,439
Speaker 1: I don't want to see you cuss people out. I

448
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: just want you to go off and just be a model.

449
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: Cynthia stop messing on her check? Oh my god? Like well,

450
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: and I'm like, if I'm Cynthia, I'd be like, damn, Wendy, Wendy,

451
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,120
Speaker 1: stop messing with people's checks. Yes, How will Wendy feel

452
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: if people came on her show and told her you

453
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,959
Speaker 1: don't need to show no more? Thank you, thank you,

454
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:04,159
Speaker 1: Wendy Williams, is anybody would you? Would you even accept

455
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: somebody coming around saying oh? Actually, Jocelyne Hernandez did say

456
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,359
Speaker 1: Wendy should be canceled because Wendy's always throwing shade to

457
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 1: black women. Wendy, you didn't like that that? Now? Did you?

458
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 1: So leave these housewives alone? Well? Maybe Cynthia set herself

459
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: up for that. Maybe I don't know. I mean, but no,

460
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: that's shady as hell. That's ouch. That hurts ouch. Yes, Wendy,

461
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: your words have hurt. Robin Okay, she's over here saying ouch, okay, insane,

462
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 1: all right, But speaking of shady, there's some men out

463
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 1: here being extremely shady with their penises. Um person number one,

464
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: Tristan Person number two, Carmelo Anthony both, We're gonna put

465
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: both of your basketball players in the same category and

466
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: over and over again. What is wrong with y'all? Okay,

467
00:24:55,440 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: So my theory is, um, Chloe La la way until

468
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,200
Speaker 1: they're retired, if you even like if if you all

469
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,120
Speaker 1: want to be together, if you want to be with them,

470
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: but you're just like, I have to move on, like

471
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: just just leave and wait for them to retire. These men,

472
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to, you know, stereotype. But

473
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: it's really, really, really really hard for NBA players to

474
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 1: live a monogamous life when they are playing in the league.

475
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 1: It's just too much temptation. They travel so much there

476
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 1: in the spotlight. But I'm telling you, when their career

477
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: is over, nobody cares about them anymore. Okay, but but

478
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: Mellow's career is almost over, but it's not so until

479
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: that contract is done, until he's sitting at home board. Okay.

480
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 1: But bore is when you would think that they would

481
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: cheat because they're bored. But then they're like up under

482
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 1: you they're like, what are you doing? Where you go?

483
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: But if they're still like living that life, you know, hey,

484
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: some of them never even get past like some of them. Okay,

485
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: it's not going to be like the day the first

486
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 1: day after they're retired in their careers over, because they're

487
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: gonna have a hard time, um, transitioning to the fact

488
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 1: that their career is over. So they're still gonna be

489
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: trying to like live that life and get that rush

490
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: and do all that stuff. So you know, you might

491
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: want to give him a good year or two after

492
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: their NBA career is over. But like, Tristan is young,

493
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: Like he's first of all, he's younger than Chloe Um

494
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 1: and he's ready. Okay, he's ready for a Let's just

495
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 1: hope he's not spraying it like Nick Cannon. Yes, but

496
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,159
Speaker 1: really I think Tristan is young. He's still in the NBA,

497
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 1: like he really Like as much as they want to

498
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 1: be with their family, they want to settle down, they

499
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: want to do what's right. The temptation is so hard.

500
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: It's so hard. And I can say this because I

501
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 1: do have a girlfriend who will will remain nameless, and

502
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,439
Speaker 1: she said she slept with Tristan and she said it

503
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: was amazing. Yes, now you're gonna have more of people.

504
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: You know, it could be why Chloe was trying to

505
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: hold on to him because he was amazing. She said.

506
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, she was like trying to call

507
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: him off, hitting him up all the time, like dude,

508
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: you're coming through, and he was too busy hitting everybody

509
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: else up. So you know, she had to wait her turn.

510
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: But she didn't want nothing from him, just that. And

511
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: you know, anyway, even with the amazing penis, you gotta

512
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: walk away if he's not treating you properly. It's my

513
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: point of the story. But I feel I do feel

514
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: bad for a lot because she's put in some years. Yeah,

515
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 1: she's put in some years. But it's like, I mean,

516
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: this story, it don't matter. This story happens over and

517
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 1: over and over again, like and it is really not

518
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: a new story when it comes to athletes. And because

519
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: they want, like I said, they want to be with

520
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 1: their family, they want to do the right thing, they

521
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: want to be a family man. But it's just it's

522
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: too much. I'm a little disappointed in Mellow. I thought

523
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: you had stopped with the Shenane against No, he's still

524
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 1: playing basketball. Okay, we're gonna move on anyway. So ladies, gentlemen,

525
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 1: who's ever listening? Robert and I started this podcast after

526
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: Mother's Day, so we really didn't get to talk about

527
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 1: like being a mom Mother's Day. That would have been

528
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: like our Mother's Day tribute if we were on at

529
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: that time. So guess what to day is. Yes, we're

530
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 1: gonna be talking about parenting moms, being a mom, and

531
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: we're gonna label this not your average mama. No, no,

532
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: far from it. Yes, so we are not your average mama. Alright.

533
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: So first of all, Robin, I want to ask you

534
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: when it comes to parenting, when your boys were babies

535
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: and how were you as a mom to like now

536
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 1: because now they are what preteens? So Coorean Carter are

537
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: thirteen and eleven. Um, so I'll just say I okay,

538
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: so even before I had babies, I was never that

539
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: person that like wanted a baby or wanted to be

540
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: a mother. Like I wasn't yearning for motherhood. I didn't

541
00:28:56,520 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: have it planned out. Um, whenever I would if my

542
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: friends would have kids, um, and you know they have

543
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: a baby, and I'd be like, oh, hi baby, and

544
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 1: that's it. Like I don't want to pick the baby up. Baby,

545
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, look at the baby, because most

546
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 1: times the babies aren't cute, because you know, when babies

547
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 1: are like you know, you borns, they look like real funny,

548
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: and so instead of being like, oh, how cute, I'd

549
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: be like, oh, baby, you know what I mean? All right,

550
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: you gotta do better with your fake cute voice a

551
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: gay because if it's not cute, I'm not gonna be like, oh,

552
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: my gay, she's so cute. Did she really look like

553
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: an alien? Like I'm just like, oh baby, oh okay.

554
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 1: So then you had children, and what did you have aliens?

555
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: I did? Carter was an alien? So Corey was like

556
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: really cute, Like he came out with this cute dark

557
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: curly hair and just like just really cute. Carter was alien,

558
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: which is like, so I can say that with like

559
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: my chest because Carter is like the cutest thing right

560
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: like next you know day, and he quickly grew to

561
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: be cute like a month later. But like you can

562
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: ask anyone, I wasn't sending pictures of Carter out when

563
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: he was first born. I waited, that is wrong, Carter, Carter,

564
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: let me say something. Your mom is wrong. He knows,

565
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: he knows. So so as a mom um, I mean,

566
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: of course, like you know, when you have new babies,

567
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: you're like worried about everything. I did have a lot

568
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 1: of like worry about like you know, just protecting them

569
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: and keeping them healthy and safe and alive. Um. But

570
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: outside of that, like I always had the philosophy like, Okay,

571
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm not the first mother in the world, and my

572
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: kids aren't the first babies in the world. So like

573
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: it didn't like everything didn't have to be perfect, right,

574
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I used to be

575
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: a perfect mom. I didn't have to like you know,

576
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: run in and you know my kids cry, like jump

577
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: up and and know exactly why they were crying and

578
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: stuff like that. And so I and I think that's

579
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: just part of my personality and very a back, I

580
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: tried not to like stress out, and so I was

581
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: not a stressed out mom um when they were newborns.

582
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: It was you know what I mean, It was like

583
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: I was very I was um, and I made it

584
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: a point to not hold them all the time because

585
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: you didn't want them to feel loved, No, because I

586
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: didn't want them to always have to be held all

587
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: the time, you know, so I would actually like, you know, people,

588
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: it's like, what did you read? Did you read a

589
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: book when you were going to what? I don't know.

590
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: I just like it was like, and I want to

591
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 1: let people hold them all the time. It's a tough love.

592
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: As it wasn't tough love. It was like, no, y'all

593
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: not gonna come here and hold my baby for two

594
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: hours and then put it down and you leave. And

595
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: then my baby's like, what I got to be held

596
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: because you're held me for two hours. I'm like, no,

597
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: you can hold it for like five seconds and then

598
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: put it back down. The hugs is rashing ng newborn

599
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: baby hugs. Now, this is the first I heard of this.

600
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: This is this is a new parenting tip. My baby's

601
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: didn't cry a lot. Okay, you know when it was

602
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: time to sleep, that's when they cried. Um. But I'll

603
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: just I'll say, like you know, mother had the first

604
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: time around was pretty easy, breezy. When I added that

605
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: second child eighteen months later, I was a situation. That's

606
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: when it got real. Yeah, yes, it's a situation for sure. Yeah.

607
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: So and I was a walking zombie for like two years.

608
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: But you know, I passed that I had grace, and

609
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: I literally was like, I don't know what the hell

610
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 1: I'm doing. Like I felt it, like immediately as soon

611
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: as I brought her home, I was like, I don't

612
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 1: know how to change the diaper, I don't know how

613
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: to feed her. The breast thing ain't working. I don't

614
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 1: know what the hell I'm doing. I'm exhausted. I might

615
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: even have depression. I was. It was just bad. It

616
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: was bad. It was very bad. Um. And then all

617
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 1: of a sudden, it just like kicked in. Like but

618
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: I did hug her all the time, and I just

619
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: want you to know that, just be clear. I look

620
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,560
Speaker 1: like it's all the time now. Um. And then eighteen

621
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: months later, I bring home twins. So I was like

622
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: dying a million deaths. So I decided the only way

623
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it is to be a military sergeant. Right,

624
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: So I like fed them all at the same time,

625
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 1: I changed diapers all at the same time. I fed them.

626
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: I changed diapers. It was like it was like military clockwork,

627
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: clockwork to have alarms to remind you or you just

628
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: like no, I just realized, like like I had it.

629
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: I had it on on a routine every day. Every day.

630
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: I was just trying to survive. Oh my gosh, No,

631
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: did you have a nanny. Yes, I had a nanny,

632
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: but I had three kids and was me and the nanny.

633
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 1: You need more hands than that. I felt like I

634
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 1: was always out numbered. To this day, I'm out numbered

635
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: by these children. Yeah, absolutely, absolutely, But you know what

636
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: you know, once I got divorced and I moved away

637
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 1: from like Baltimore and I moved back to the d

638
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: C area, That's when I got into my stride, like

639
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: my mommy stride. So when they were maybe like first grade,

640
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,479
Speaker 1: first grade in kindergarten, so they were young, but I

641
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 1: was like the room mom, and I was always helping

642
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: out at school and I would always like have apples

643
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: for them when I picked them up from school. I

644
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 1: was like the mom of the year. We just still are. No. No,

645
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 1: that went left, okay. So then when I started like

646
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: working a lot and like getting into my groop and

647
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,240
Speaker 1: they started getting older, I just forgot about them kids.

648
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 1: If they had Dorito's padana, okay, whatever was going on,

649
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: Like I didn't. I didn't allow them to run my

650
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: life anymore. Yes, and then you have to like actually

651
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: make that declaration like out loud, like you know what,

652
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:35,520
Speaker 1: Like I love my kids. I'm gonna be the best

653
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: mom I can be to them, but I'm not going

654
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 1: to let them control my life. It's like you have

655
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: to have an epiphany. It's like a ha moment where

656
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: you know, at first you're like, Okay, this is my life,

657
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,799
Speaker 1: clearly is when they're babies and stuff. But at some

658
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 1: point you're like, you gotta get over it. I gotta

659
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: you gotta allow yourself to live and to be a

660
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: person again. I felt like I was only a mother

661
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: and that's not healthy. It's not good for them, it's

662
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,439
Speaker 1: not good for me. Right, Like I remember times when

663
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 1: like okay, I would want to go out and the

664
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: babysitter comes and the minute you know, you try to

665
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: walk out the door, they're like mommy, no, mommy, And

666
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: you know then sometimes you you you like, okay, well

667
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: I'll stay home, and you just have to like that, right,

668
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: you gotta be steadfast. You gotta walk out that door

669
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,879
Speaker 1: and don't call, don't say are they okay? Like, just

670
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 1: go and keep it moving. I remember I had a

671
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 1: nanny that would come like three days a week, and

672
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: she would talk my head off so much. That I

673
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: would literally have to like, like my when I had

674
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,479
Speaker 1: a nanny, I was like, Okay, I want a nanny,

675
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: like so so she can give me a break, so

676
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: I can like chill and and just you know, relax

677
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:43,399
Speaker 1: and lay around. And she would talk my head off

678
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: to the point where I was like, okay, where should

679
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: I Where am I going today? Like you know, I

680
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: would like literally like you're running away from the nanny.

681
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I would literally have to like force

682
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 1: myself to leave the house because she would literally follow

683
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: me all around the house. Fired she was. I'm she

684
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: was awesome. She was great with the kids, but I

685
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: had like so at that point, I was like, you

686
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 1: know what, I'm just going to put these kids in school.

687
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: So that's when I started them in like a dare

688
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: to get away from the nancy. I talked too much,

689
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: isn't that? Yes? She talked? Okay, So have you ever

690
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: lost a child out in the streets? Have you ever

691
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: lost a childe? Yes, I have. Um Carter went missing

692
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 1: in Ocean City, New Jersey, Oyland, New Jersey. All right, yeah, yeah,

693
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: So we were staying it was so scary. We were

694
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: staying in a house like a shore house. With my

695
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: friend and her family, so with her, you know, her husband,

696
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 1: her two kids at the time, and then me and

697
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 1: this was um Want and I were maybe separated or

698
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: not together, I don't know. And so I'm in the

699
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: house with Korean Carter, and this is the day we're leaving.

700
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 1: We're packing the house up to leave, okay. So it's

701
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: just like a lot of you know, you're like getting

702
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: your backs together and you put in the car and

703
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: you're in and out. And so at some point I'm like,

704
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: where's Carter. I'm like packing up the kids' carter. So

705
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: we looked all over the house. He's not there. We

706
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: looked all in the backyard. He's not there. We look

707
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: all in the front yard and he's not there. And

708
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: he was literally probably like I mean, he was walking clearly.

709
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: Um but he was younger than two. But I can't

710
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: maybe two or less, right, And this is so crazy.

711
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: My first thought is, oh my gosh, if I can't

712
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,439
Speaker 1: find Carter, one is gonna kill me. It's not like

713
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: I need to find my child because I love him,

714
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: because I hug him all the time. I don't um

715
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: gonna kill like, oh my god, my child. It's like

716
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 1: wan is going to kill me. So my friend's husband

717
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: literally oh so then we so we go ostside and

718
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: there's a girl and stupid ass girl. So there's a

719
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,919
Speaker 1: girl who literally I was getting out, like had gotten

720
00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: out her car and maybe had some bags, and she

721
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 1: was like, oh, um, are you looking for kid? I

722
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: just saw a kid walk down the street and he

723
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: turned the corner and he's literally like a year and

724
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,919
Speaker 1: a half. And so my husband, my friend's husband, took

725
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:12,360
Speaker 1: off running down the street, literally turned the corner like

726
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: I couldn't even see him anymore, and got and he

727
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 1: said it was he was almost at an intersection and

728
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 1: like Carter was gone. He had his blankie, he was pacifier.

729
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 1: He was out of here because he didn't get hugs.

730
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 1: That's why he was leaving, because Robin refused to hug

731
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: the boy. Yes, it was. It was so scary, Oh

732
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: my god, like we literally if it's like you know

733
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 1: what I mean? So how much time I passed for

734
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: him to get down the street, turned the corner to

735
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: the point where I couldn't even see him anymore. I

736
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: mean that probably was a good like six minutes, right,

737
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: because anything, because someone could have driven past and seen

738
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 1: this kid walking and scooped him up, or he could

739
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,879
Speaker 1: have gotten hit by a car or whatever a dog

740
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 1: could have been. I don't. I mean like it was

741
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 1: like I was traumatized by that. I was like that

742
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: it was really really, really a close call. And Carter

743
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 1: was always the one, especially after that, he was always

744
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 1: the one. I'm like when I'm out, I'm like, where's Carter.

745
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: Where's Carter? I have to have eyes on Carter. Did

746
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: you tell one? What do you say? He probably, you know,

747
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,120
Speaker 1: gave me a whole you know, this is the reason

748
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: why I don't when you know, just like this past weekend,

749
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: they my freaking kids had to spill the beans and

750
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: tell them that they saw shark in the ocean. And

751
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: he's like, you ain't telling me it was because one

752
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: was he wasn't there for the whole trip. Did they

753
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: tell him? Yeah, it was a shark in the ocean.

754
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: And one is like terrified of the ocean. So the

755
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: kids can't have fun anymore. Oh my god, They're scared

756
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 1: of everything. They're so scared of everything because one is

757
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: like scared of nature. He's scared of everything. It's so crazy.

758
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: I asked my kids, you know, before we started this podcast,

759
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 1: how they felt about me as a mother, because they're

760
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 1: teenagers now and so they really have formed an opinion

761
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 1: of Giselle as mother. And they're like, oh, mom, we

762
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: think that you. Um, we really liked you when you

763
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,760
Speaker 1: were like the room mom and when you had apples

764
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 1: for us when you picked us up from school, Like,

765
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: we really liked you during that phase. However, we like you,

766
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: you know in this in this mode as well. They

767
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 1: were like, because you Okay, so I've done some things. Okay,

768
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 1: I have a story so my kid that the twins

769
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 1: were in ballet. They were about third grade, fourth grade,

770
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: and I didn't like whatever whatever was going on in

771
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: the ballet class. You know, the parents can't be in there.

772
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: Wh when they would come out, they would tell me

773
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 1: these crazy stories like they didn't like to teach you

774
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 1: to teach, it was playing favorites all of this stuff. Right.

775
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: So I was just like very angry, and I had

776
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: had it. Okay, so um the next class, I was like,

777
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: I'm getting that teacher. I'm gonnallow her know how I feel.

778
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: So I walk my kids in. I allowed them to

779
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: go inside, and then I poked my head in and

780
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,320
Speaker 1: I was excuse me, I need to talk to you, teacher,

781
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: can you come out? So she came out and I

782
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: let her have it. I'll it's like my kids told

783
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: me blah blah blah, and I don't appreciate you treat

784
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: my kids. It's two with them, it's tour with them.

785
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 1: You are not going to be unfair to them. So

786
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 1: I let her have it. It was like a very

787
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 1: long speech. She goes back and said she was like,

788
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,160
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. She goes back inside.

789
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 1: So the class is over and my kids come out

790
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: and then getting a card, he run to the car.

791
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: They're like, Mommy, that was a substitute. That wasn't the teacher.

792
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: I cussed out the wrong teacher. Okay, but they were

793
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: like so happy that I was just writing for them. Right,

794
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 1: even though I cussed out the wrong lady, it didn't

795
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 1: even matter. She didn't stop me, no, no, she just

796
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: she just took it. She took the cussing and she

797
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 1: was like, it's my day to get cussed by a

798
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: crazy black woman. And she went on about her business.

799
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: She apologized. She didn't know what she was apologizing for.

800
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 1: She just apologized and kept it moving. But I cussed

801
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: out the wrong person, and they were like, you know what,

802
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: it doesn't even matter. Our just gonna stand up for

803
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 1: us no matter what. Which they appreciate it. Um, they said,

804
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,359
Speaker 1: they you know, I never let them have sleepovers. They're

805
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 1: a little traumatized by it. I don't care, but they

806
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: do like the fact that every year I try to

807
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 1: do something different. Like five years ago, our new thing

808
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: was like we're gonna have sushi, and so now they

809
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: love sushi, so like we would try all these different

810
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: sushi restaurants. Like every year, I try to like start

811
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: a new tradition. Um. One time it was like, let's

812
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: do tea parties. So we would go to all these

813
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: places that you know do little tea services. And I

814
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: know you guys would go bike writing. Yes, we do writing.

815
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: I mean I try to do like fun things with

816
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 1: my kids so they know that I'm president and I'm

817
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: in their lives. I just don't really cook dinner for them,

818
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 1: and you know there they can eat whatever they can eat,

819
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 1: like air sandwiches. I don't care. I don't care because

820
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: I do other and I and they know that I

821
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 1: love them, right, yes, and that is the most important part.

822
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: It is it is and I can say as a parent,

823
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 1: I am like I would you know, I should go

824
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: back and ask my kids what they think of me

825
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: as a mom, But I think they would say that

826
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm a cool mom, that I'm a fun mom. Uh.

827
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: We laugh and joke and giggle and have fun and

828
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: you know, play around and wrestle and like I'm the

829
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: one when they wrestle me. They don't wrestle wand well

830
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: because they know I'm will like maybe hurt them, like

831
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, yes, but now you're fighting

832
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 1: with boys all the time. Yes, yes, So I mean

833
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: it's just I and and I hug them a lot.

834
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: When did the transition happens? I mean not saying okay,

835
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:38,439
Speaker 1: you misinterpreted that, right, But I do to this day

836
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:40,919
Speaker 1: hug and kiss on my kids. And I really think

837
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: as a as a parent, that's so important to give

838
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: your kids that type of love that like physical affection. Um,

839
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Speaker 1: I mean, my parents are awesome, but I didn't really

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Speaker 1: get a lot of physical affection for my parents. And

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's like a generational thing, but

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Speaker 1: I just think, you know, I what the most important

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Speaker 1: thing for me as a parent is to make sure

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Speaker 1: that my kids know that they're loved. Um, because when

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Speaker 1: kids don't feel like they're loved, it can affect them

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Speaker 1: negatively so much. You know, they act out for attention,

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Speaker 1: or they seek attention in other places and whatever. So

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Speaker 1: for me, as I'm like, as long as my kids

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Speaker 1: know they're loved, they're good to go. And I I

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Speaker 1: so right now. My challenge with them is showing them

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Speaker 1: that I trust them. So um, you know, minor teenagers.

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Speaker 1: So just last week, we were in New York and

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, God and I had

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Speaker 1: to work, so they're with me. I'm working, and so

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Speaker 1: I didn't want them to sit in a hotel all day.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, you guys can do New York, right.

857
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: They had their little girlfriends that are from New York.

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Speaker 1: So I gave them my credit card. I had just

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Speaker 1: sign it across and pray to Jesus, but I gave

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Speaker 1: them my credit card. I downloaded Uber on one of

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Speaker 1: my daughter's phones and I was like, how fun do

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00:44:55,040 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: your thing? So they appreciated that. I know, they appreciated

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Speaker 1: that so much. They would do stuff like oh no,

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Speaker 1: we're not gonna call it Uber, We're gonna walk you

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Speaker 1: know what. They're like, We're gonna save mommy some coins.

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Speaker 1: Like that's their favorite thing to say, We're gonna save

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Speaker 1: mommy her coins. So and any time, like they say

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Speaker 1: they would go to a restaurant because I told him,

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Speaker 1: you know, food is on me, so like like I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna pay for food. But if you guys want to

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Speaker 1: go shopping and buy you know, stupid little t shirts

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Speaker 1: or ear rings, that's the money that you got from

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Speaker 1: your parents. Yeah, so you're allowing if the food bill

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Speaker 1: went over like eighty dollars, they would text me and

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Speaker 1: they'd be like, okay, we at the restaurant the bill

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Speaker 1: is like eighty two dollars, and I'd be like, okay,

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00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 1: that's fine. It's fine. But for them to feel a

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Speaker 1: sense of responsibility and like, let you know, they were

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00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: spreading their wings a little bit in the big n

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Speaker 1: y c. And I feel like that for me right now,

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00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:52,879
Speaker 1: is there our biggest um is the biggest learning lesson.

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00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: I can tell parents, like, at some point in time,

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Speaker 1: you gotta let go and you gotta just trust your kids.

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00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 1: It's hard. Were you nervous? I wasn't nervous because I

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00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: knew the two girls are like New York girls like

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00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: you know they're the same age as my kids, but

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Speaker 1: they next know the city, they know where to go.

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00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: They're about it, about it, but they oh, my funny story,

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Speaker 1: my kids did go on the New York subway and

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Speaker 1: there was a crazy man they said crazy put that

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00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 1: in quotes, that was after them. They're like, this man

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Speaker 1: was after us. We would keep changing cars, he would

893
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: keep coming after us, and he wouldn't leave us. We

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00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: think he was trying to check Grace out. We didn't

895
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: know what was happening. He was crazy. And they ended

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00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: up getting off the train and then they told me

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Speaker 1: that they were going to call it uber and they

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Speaker 1: asked a man who had a kid with him so

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Speaker 1: he was a father, to kind of like wait with

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Speaker 1: them while they got the uber. So that was kind

901
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: of smart. Now, let me know, they really felt like

902
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,720
Speaker 1: they were in danger, but guess what is the big city,

903
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: honeys and y'all went through a little right welcome And

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00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 1: it's real world in real life. So I was I

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00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: wasn't afraid or scared for them, but I felt like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, it's good, it's good that you see

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00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 1: that in because in our little world it's a bubble.

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00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: And I've protected you all. But there's all kinds of

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00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 1: crazy people out right, and that's good that they were.

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Speaker 1: You should you should be happy and feel good that

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Speaker 1: they were aware of their surroundings. Yes, yes, we so

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Speaker 1: my kids are actually kind of vigilant too, and we're

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00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: gonna wrap up. So we were walking in South Beach,

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Speaker 1: so nice South Beach we went. It's like, I don't

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Speaker 1: know why we did this. I haven't been a South

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Speaker 1: Beach and so long. So we we ate, you know,

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Speaker 1: at a restaurant, and then with all the kids. It

918
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Speaker 1: was a big group of us and we decided to

919
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: walk on Ocean driven Beach like you know, eleven pm

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Speaker 1: at night. Kind of crazy. Yeah, bad decisions because I

921
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 1: didn't know like how crazy it was there on there.

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00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 1: So my kids are like all of it, were like

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Speaker 1: walking and then all of a sudden they start like

924
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: like ducking and they're like, what are y'all doing? And

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Speaker 1: they're like, these guys just out of the car and

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Speaker 1: they said, the chopper is in the back seat, and

927
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Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you talking about? Don't even know

928
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Speaker 1: what the hell of Choppa is. Apparently it's a gun.

929
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Speaker 1: It's a gun. Apparently it's a gun. All right whatever,

930
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: and they're like he just said the choppers in the

931
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Speaker 1: back seat and they're like literally like trying to run away.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all, like okay, but what why do your

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Speaker 1: kids know what Choppa is? I don't know you tube

934
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 1: games to these kids know what I know? I was like,

935
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: what is it? Chopper? So then I had to realize

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Speaker 1: like what they were talking about. But they their antenna's

937
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: were like on alert, high alert down there, and they

938
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Speaker 1: were like Carter, my youngest, he was like, can we leave? Good?

939
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: Can we? He was just looking around. He was like,

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00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 1: this don't feel safe? Can we leave? So our kids are,

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Speaker 1: I mean, they're definitely more sheltered than than we were

942
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Speaker 1: as young kids, but they're very aware of their surroundings.

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00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: Well okay, so no to South, no South Beach, and

944
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: no New York Subway. Y'all are crazy up in there.

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Speaker 1: Okay to so I we took. I thought it would

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00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: be a good experience for them. Okay, alright, well people,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna wrap up because you know, we have talked

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Speaker 1: heads off, but Robin wants to tell you about our

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Speaker 1: back the Bentley he sold it or whatever. But guess what.

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Speaker 1: She bought her own one with her own money. She said, quevo,

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Speaker 1: I don't need just stinky Bentley. I bought my own.

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Speaker 1: What is she's a boss, bitch? What is she good? Bentley?

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Speaker 1: Are you sure? Rolls Royce? She had an expensive car. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she got a rose one thing? Oh she did? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So she said, I'm one upping the Bentley. I'm getting

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Speaker 1: a roll. Take that, quevo, take it, take it up.

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Speaker 1: It was not yours in the first place. A man,

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