WEBVTT - Sunday Sampler - The Nashville Podcast Network (6-16-24) 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:13.480 Hey guys, Bobby Here Sunday Sampler. Zach Brown was on 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:14.040 the Bobby Cast. 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:14.520 It's awesome. 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:17.160 It's an hour long ups and downs forming the band. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:21.160 The advice Bruce Bringsteen gave him get to that movie. 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.760 Mike's Movie podcast Mike goes to the top five new 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:26.239 movies to stream at home, which I'm constantly googling, like 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:27.320 what's the best movie? 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:28.920 Four Things with Amy Brown. 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:33.360 Amy has her niece in with her sore losers. We're 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.400 all doing it, so check it out. Let's start with 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.680 a clip from this week's Bobby Cast with Zach Brown. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:40.800 Do you play pickleball? 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:43.200 I have a pickleball court at my house. 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:45.080 Let's go. I'm building one right there behind the place. 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:45.480 Right now. 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:47.519 You can have a bridge for your dog already have 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:49.320 a bridge for my dog that goes over the pickleball 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:50.680 court so he can watch. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:54.160 Yeah. No, no, no, no, I'm not crazy. 0:00:56.600 --> 0:01:00.800 I mean we did build out of plywood a skybridge 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:04.960 for our fat bulldog into the side yard because. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:06.160 He would drown. Yeah. 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:07.399 Yeah, they don't swim. 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:09.240 They don't then they they just see. 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:10.160 They fart a lot. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:14.199 He's not a big farter really yeah, yeah, big snore. 0:01:14.560 --> 0:01:15.319 You like bulldogs. 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:18.640 Yeah you everyone, No, you ever had We've had French bulldogs. 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:23.440 Oh man, same thing. People like steal those in the street. Yeah, 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:25.600 like just see you. They wouldn't see you and steal 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:27.840 your dog. Though, there's things you learn about, like a 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:28.560 tail pocket. 0:01:28.840 --> 0:01:29.600 I don't know what that is. 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:33.080 So underneath their tail they have this like that's what prison, Hey, 0:01:33.080 --> 0:01:36.040 this is my tail pocket, Bobby. Like if you're holding 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:39.920 someone's immediately immediately be like all right, he first day 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.120 in prison, I'll hold your pocket and they're like, no, 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:42.800 you don't have to do that. 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:44.520 No, I will, I'll do I know my right. 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:48.120 Yeah, that's that's a good self defense mechanism. What's what's 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:52.000 a tail pocket? So Frenchies have like underneath their tail, 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:55.000 they have this little like cavern where their little gnarly tail. 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.920 First of all, bulldogs haven't been able to procreate. They 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:00.760 would be extinct already. They're like the Dodo bird dogs, right. 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:05.440 So so it's a process to doing all that you know, 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:08.720 like you know, and then you find out things about 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:10.639 them after you have them, like oh, the tail pocket 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:13.880 is infected. It's like this weird moist place that's on 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:15.880 the back side of the dog, and it's like, you know, 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:17.960 that's an is that's a thing. So you learn weird 0:02:18.000 --> 0:02:20.960 things when you have dogs that should be dead but 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:22.440 they're not should be extinct. 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:25.720 So you spend a whole lot of money on yours 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:28.680 because it was always sick. And it's because one hundred 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:30.079 years of genetic. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.320 Yeah, I mean that's a way. That's our story with 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:33.720 his dog. 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:37.399 Yeah, yeah, it's it's wild. I mean, there are cool 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:38.560 they're like little gargoyles. 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:39.280 He's the greatest. 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.880 Yeah, and he's actually not that much of an idiot. 0:02:42.160 --> 0:02:43.880 He likes to sleep a lot now, but he's awesome. 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:47.600 But yeah, he's because they just genetically aren't supposed to exist. Yeah, 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:48.799 and there's been so much inbreeding. 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:49.520 Yeah. 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:51.400 People would say the same thing about people from Arkansas. 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:54.120 But I'm here, Hey, look at me. 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:55.000 You're doing great. 0:02:55.000 --> 0:02:56.840 I gotta I gotta bridge for my dog to walk over, 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:57.720 and you're pretty good. 0:02:57.840 --> 0:03:00.200 You should be in the Arkansas Hall of Fame. That 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:00.760 dog bridge. 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:01.000 Bro. 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.160 I don't know if anybody in Arkansas has a dog bridge. 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:04.560 I think I got into that when I just drove 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:05.360 across the border. 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:08.320 Yeah, it was like I'm gonna I'm going to be 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:11.080 somebody and they were like, you're in the Hall of fame. 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:11.640 What's it? 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:12.840 What are you a good pickleball player? 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:16.080 I'm learning, I'm learning, I'm working on it. Me and 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:17.720 the kids are out there and it's just that time 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:19.320 of year and now two where it's fun where we're 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:21.040 out there doing it. And what's weird about it is 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:23.000 you get a little bit better every time you play. 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:24.840 Just learn how to hit it and keep it in 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:29.440 the bounds. But I love anything that is active and 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:31.880 you're exercising without thinking about exercising. 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:34.679 That's my whole thing too. Like I will work out 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:35.960 three or four times with my trainer. 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:37.800 It sucks. I hate exercise. I hate for the sake 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.360 of exercise. I'll do it, and I do do it, 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:41.480 but I hate it. 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:45.760 But I love being act I like competing, yeah, and 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:49.120 then you're exercising yeah, and you're like, man, that was fun, 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:51.280 and I just like, totally, I don't have to go 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:53.200 to bench press right now. 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:53.480 I will. 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:54.119 I'm pretty good. 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:57.640 I did like two sixty look at me, awesome, not 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:00.800 that big a dude, awesome to sixty. I'm old too, 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:04.160 That's why I shouldn't be doing max reps. I've done 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:05.480 this since high school. But I was like, let's see 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:05.640 what I. 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:06.120 Can do now. 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:10.720 I hired a trainer about four months ago, and his 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.520 approach to everything is completely different than anything I've ever 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:15.560 seen or done. And eat during the lesson or what, 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:19.880 seventy seventy five percent of the workout is rolling on 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:27.200 foam rollers, pasture, ball, lacrosse balls, peanuts super important. Yeah, 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:28.800 and that's how you keep the old man out. 0:04:29.000 --> 0:04:31.760 I never got flexible and ever my whole life until 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:36.760 like the last year, spent so much time stretching, and 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.800 it has helped my performance, Like I don't know what 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:39.279 I'm doing. 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:40.839 Ye, it has helped. 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:45.240 I did tear my My labor's good, but my rotator 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:46.839 cuff tour twice right now. 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:48.800 It's sucks. But I'm here doing this interview. I show up. 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:50.480 So we we talked about labs. 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:53.360 On laboram two different things. Say, I got a book 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:54.680 for you to read. Make it sure, it's called a 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:55.480 medical journal. 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:58.039 Okay, what do you so? What's what's fun for you 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.000 right now? What's fun? 0:04:59.040 --> 0:04:59.120 Like? 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:01.240 I'm going to play pickleball my buddy when this is over. 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:04.479 I've been working since Yeah, it's like four this morning. Awesome, 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:06.279 just a normal day, right. But what I do if 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:07.680 I get a second is I'm going to go play 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:10.279 pickle ball when this is over. And that's how I 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.359 don't think about things for a minute until my mind 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:14.520 starts running again. What is that for you? 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:19.160 Two things right now? So Thursday tomorrow, I'm going to 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.880 go bowfishing. So I have a bow fishing boat. You 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:23.560 got to go to the coast though, right, No, I 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:24.440 on the river here? 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:25.120 Oh got it? 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.560 Yeah, I have a boat fishing boat on the river. Yeah, 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.080 it'll be like having a yacht on the lake. 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:31.680 It's just a dis an aluminum boat, that's not It 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:33.680 just had lights all the way around it. So you 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.960 go up front and you have a bow and arrow 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:37.720 with a reel on the. 0:05:38.360 --> 0:05:39.800 So it's a it's a like on the bottle ot 0:05:39.880 --> 0:05:41.120 over or whatever kind of boat. But then you just 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:42.400 you kind of gear it to be up. 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:42.600 Yeah. 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:44.240 You run around at night and it shines the lights 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:45.839 and you can see where the fish are laid up 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:47.760 along the banks, and you you miss a lot, but 0:05:48.120 --> 0:05:50.679 when you shoot and you hit them, it's fun. 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.000 The bow attached, you pull it back or is it gone? 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:53.480 Yeah? 0:05:53.560 --> 0:05:55.800 Yeah, it has the arrows attached to a bottle of 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:57.880 string and then you have a reel that reels that 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:00.000 back in. So you shoot a big fish and then squid. 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:01.479 He's a little handle and you reel the fish in, 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:05.080 pull in that boat there fight you Oh yeah, they 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:06.240 don't want Yeah, they don't want to come. 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:06.760 In the so they don't. 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.040 You don't kill them immediately, No. 0:06:08.920 --> 0:06:11.320 Not necessarily. I mean if you can, if you hit 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.119 them in the head on the right spot. So another 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:17.080 my greatest source of that recharge for me is spearfishing. 0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:20.880 That's got to be on the coast right usually easily. 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:23.479 It's the ocean. Yeah, but like Nationals, last year was 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:26.960 held in a big lake. So Nationals, yeah, there's competition, 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:29.960 there's world teams. Now I didn't compete, but it's my 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:36.280 absolute favorite thing. So free diving and diving, diving down 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:37.080 and hunting fish. 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:38.839 You me, you. 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:41.640 Free dive, Yes, then you go and you hunt fish. 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:42.000 Yes. 0:06:42.080 --> 0:06:44.680 Do you have to train just holding your breath, yes. 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:45.840 You do. 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:48.200 And you have to learn how to relax. You have 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:50.000 to learn how to lower your heart rate when you 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:51.680 get in the water, so you have more time when 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:53.680 you're holding your breath and you dive down and swim down, 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:56.200 you know. But I have friends that I go with 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:58.760 that are like my buddy Justin Lee's but one of 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:01.440 the best in the world. He won nationals last year 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:03.960 or the year before, and you know he can go 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:05.880 two hundred feet free diving and go down and shoot 0:07:05.880 --> 0:07:08.359 fish two hundred feet down with no tank, no nothing, 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:10.960 just just a spear and some weights and fins and 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:11.400 a mask. 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:13.480 But you only do that wrong once it's over. It's 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:14.840 not like you can do it wrong and get I mean, 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:15.840 you do that wrong once. 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.240 Yeah, but you go you usually have somebody in the 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:21.160 water with you. You want to have someone that's you know, spotter, 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:23.080 good enough to be there to kind of keep an 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:24.720 eye on in case you have a blackout or whatever. 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:27.560 But like, this is Fiji, this this last year. What 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:29.760 that fish looks as taller and like and I've been 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.160 that's saltwater, right, saltwater? 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:34.440 Yeah, God, dang, it's a dog tooth tuna. 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:36.240 I feel like you could crawl in the mouth of 0:07:36.280 --> 0:07:36.640 that thing. 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:40.040 Yeah, yeah, it's it's I mean there it is out 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:40.520 of the water. 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:41.320 Oh you could. 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.920 It's as big as you are. So how did you 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:45.840 get into freaking spearfishing? 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:48.880 I went to the Bahamas in this old bohemian guy 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.640 that was there. It's like a legend. Guy took me 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:53.520 spearfishing one time. It's like fourteen years ago, and I 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:54.440 just fell in love with it. 0:07:54.920 --> 0:07:55.600 I feel like. 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:00.760 You're challenging your breath, you're challenging the ocean, challenging the fish, 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:04.120 you're challenging the weather. It's like it's this whole thing. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:07.400 But for me, it's one of the activities. When I'm 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:10.440 doing that, when I'm diving down, there's no chatter. Chatter 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:13.360 doesn't exist, so you're you're only in that moment and 0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:17.240 it's so primal, and you're so just connected to the 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:19.480 ocean and nothing else, and you feel small in the 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:20.560 greatest possible way. 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:39.440 Good cast up little food for yourself life. 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:43.440 Ain't Oh, it's pretty bad. It's pretty beautiful, beautiful for. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:46.560 A little more exciting. 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:48.640 City. 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:53.600 You're kicking with full with Amy Brown. 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:56.880 Hey, it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown. 0:08:57.040 --> 0:08:59.640 And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast. 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:04.760 Let's take a quick detour and talk about this paper 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:06.000 that you wrote. 0:09:05.679 --> 0:09:06.920 At the end of this last semester. 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:08.840 I had to do like a final research paper for 0:09:08.880 --> 0:09:11.560 a class I was in and I wanted to talk 0:09:11.760 --> 0:09:13.440 about Marmie in some way because that's. 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:14.400 A huge part of my life. 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:17.400 And if I was going to write this long research paper, 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:19.559 I wanted it to be about something that had meaning 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:23.480 to me. So I started thinking about like different end 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:26.400 of life conversations that people have and end of life regrets, 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.800 and that was something that was really intriguing to me. 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:31.880 And I remember calling mom and I was asking her 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:35.600 different questions about Marmie. And it's so interesting being older 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:38.439 now and getting just the full story behind her whole life, 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:41.480 like towards the end of her cancer journey. And I 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:44.440 was only eleven when she passed away, and so now 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:47.040 just understanding more and more as I get older everything 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:49.760 that really was going on in her mind. And one 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:51.800 of the biggest things that my mom had said was 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:55.680 that in her last few months, she realized that she 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:58.760 had this regret that she didn't follow her dreams so 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:00.640 much so to the point she did know she ever 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:04.080 really let herself have dreams to follow, and she just 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:06.840 closed herself off so much to those dreams because she 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:08.600 didn't think she would let herself follow them. 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:11.319 Anyways, it's a scary thing to do for some people 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:15.160 depending on what's happened in life. I would think now 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:18.560 looking back, even on my own life, there are moments 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:20.600 you probably you just don't even know that you're shutting 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:23.880 yourself off from everything. You're just in the moment trying 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:26.800 to get through day to day and not allowing yourself 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:27.760 to even dream. 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:30.040 And I think that's maybe she was. 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:34.400 And it wasn't until she was in hospice on a 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:36.960 bed all day that she realized, like, gosh, like I 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:38.720 can only follow these dreams when I'm healthy, and now 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.200 that I'm sick, I'm realizing that while I was healthy, 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:43.120 I never let myself go after all these things that 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.600 I'm thinking about, I don't know. It was really cool 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.240 to talk to my mom about it because I did 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.440 not know that about her. And then that became the 0:10:49.480 --> 0:10:52.640 basis for this paper that I spent weeks researching and 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:55.720 learning about and understanding why this is actually a really 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:58.600 common thing that happens to people, and it's a common 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:03.080 conversation for people nearing the end of their life, the 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:04.480 conversation of regrets. 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:06.960 What did it shape for you? I mean, I know 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:09.520 it's a recent thing that you did. You say it 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:10.559 was the end of last semester. 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:14.160 It was my final paper. So in May, so okay, 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:14.960 like a month ago. 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:17.480 All right, So like in the last month, have you 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:21.160 found yourself living any differently based on the research that 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:23.600 you did and being that you're twenty one years old 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.640 and you could have so many dreams ahead of you, 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:28.520 and maybe you don't want to end up on your 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.439 hospice bed or your deathbed I guess, as we'll call it, 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:34.560 and living with regret that you didn't chase a dream. 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:37.240 The biggest thing I learned is that if you fail, 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:39.880 it's not a failure. It's just a closed door that's 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:42.720 leading you into another door. Like all it's doing is 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.760 putting up a little roadblock in directing you to where 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:48.080 you really are supposed to be going. I think that's 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:51.560 a hard way to see life sometimes, as seeing things 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.800 as all the things that get shut off as no, 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:57.839 it's not a negative thing. It's just closing you off 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.120 and opening you up to the next path. And that 0:12:00.200 --> 0:12:02.480 is how I want to see different things in my life. 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:04.720 And when things get shut down, I want to see 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:07.360 them as Okay, this isn't a terrible thing, Like I'm 0:12:07.400 --> 0:12:09.440 going after my dreams and if this one dream doesn't 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:12.960 work out, it's leading me into the next. I think that, yeah, yeah, 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:15.480 a detour, and I think that is a better way 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:18.880 to live life than to sit there and fear the 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:21.440 whole time, which I do. I do for some things. 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:24.080 So I'm not saying that I'm actively living this out, 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:25.839 but that is my goal. 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:28.360 There's a book that you would love, especially because you're 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:31.640 a business major, and it's called Obstacle is the Way. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:34.560 So you can add it and who knows, maybe it'll 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:37.520 be the inspiration for you've read it a paper next year. 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:38.440 Yeah. Oh yeah. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:41.840 It's something that Ben and I actually read together a 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:45.520 few years ago, and it was very encouraging to me, 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:49.800 not just in business, but in my personal life too, 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:53.880 and having similar thinking of Okay, this is a real 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:56.280 bummer right now, but instead of just being stuck here 0:12:56.840 --> 0:12:59.880 and not learning from this or taking it with me 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:05.000 another direction and seeing rejection as redirection, you know that 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:09.120 saying yeah, you know it's from Pinterest or something I 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:13.000 saw quote oh we'ich. Speaking of socials, Adeline's got a 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:16.400 viral video speaking of Jason Dreams, her and her boyfriend 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:17.760 Henry Uh. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:20.520 They're going viral on. 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:22.760 TikTok with a cute video with them in. 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:25.760 A water house or something like that. Well, I'm enjoying it. 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:28.000 It's just a simple video, and I'm sure you didn't 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:31.000 anticipate in doing anything like you just threw it up 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:33.520 of you and your boyfriend and you it's us. 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:36.120 Spraying each other with a water hose after four wheeling, but. 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:38.440 In a really cute, playful way that I read one 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:42.000 of the comments and it said it's giving Miley Cyrus 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:45.880 Liam Himsworth vibes from what movie did they do together? 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:48.240 You know that movie that was kind of like The Notebook, 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:50.680 Last Call Chance. 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:54.080 The last from the last song, the last song. Yeah, 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:54.920 but that's what it is. 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:57.960 So yeah, y'all are definitely giving Miley Liam vibes. But 0:13:57.960 --> 0:14:00.560 they're not together anymore. But that's okay. You and Henry 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:03.880 are going strong. But Henry did text you that he 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:06.240 thinks that this might be the. 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:06.160 Peak of you. 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.079 He was like, well, ad On, I guess this is 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:12.840 our peak. It's all downhill from here, so I know 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:14.600 we're kidding. We're kidding. 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:16.360 Yeah, we need bigger dreams. 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:17.680 We're still sending snail mail. 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:21.120 Yeah, one, Henry seems like an awesome person. I can't 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:22.520 wait to get to know him. He's going to need 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:25.160 to come intern with me next so that I can 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:29.920 get him. That would be really special. Back to the 0:14:30.000 --> 0:14:32.880 dreams and the research that you did. I mean, I'm 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:36.040 forty three and starting a new chapter of my life. 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:40.760 I feel like you know, single now and dating again. Which, 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:44.640 speaking of that viral video, Adamin and I needed some 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:48.080 comedic relief today. It's been a very busy day and 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:50.520 we did take a moment to what's it called when 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:51.400 you marry him together? 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:53.720 A stitch? Yeah, on TikTok. 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:56.360 On TikTok, it's a stitch, but on Instagram it's a 0:14:56.400 --> 0:15:00.120 remix and you take a part of someone else's video 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:03.320 and then you insert yourself. And so Adeline and I 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:07.360 went outside and stitched together her and Henry with a 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.520 water hose, and then all of a sudden it cut 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:12.320 to me and I'm just with the water hose, by myself, but. 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:13.680 Out of myself. 0:15:13.920 --> 0:15:16.080 Great all time with it, and we just thought it 0:15:16.120 --> 0:15:19.040 was hilarious. I have no idea if that will resonate 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:19.680 with anybody else. 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:22.160 I'll be posted soon, whether she wants to or not, 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:24.360 So don't worry. It'll be out there. Adalan's going to 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:24.800 put it up. 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:28.720 But I am in a new phase of life, and 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:31.840 I feel like this is a good reminder for me 0:15:32.440 --> 0:15:36.120 to assess my dreams and go after what I want 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:39.360 in this new season, because I think it's easy for 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:41.240 me to get stuck in the hustle. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:42.920 And bustle of everyday life. 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.840 Yeah, and I want to be an example for my 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:50.040 kids to dream and chase their dreams. So you're at 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:52.880 twenty one and I'm at forty three, and so what 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:56.720 the encouragement would be to anybody listening to chase your dreams? 0:15:56.720 --> 0:16:01.640 And if there is a roadblock, remember obstacle is the way. 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:13.360 We're gonna do it. 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:13.680 Live. 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:20.040 Oh the one, two, three, sore losers? 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.480 What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.480 about sports. I'll give you the sports facts, my sports 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.800 opinions because I'm pretty much a sports genius. 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:29.320 Y'all. 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.640 It's Susan. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:33.920 I live on the north side of Nashville with Bayser, 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:35.960 my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:39.800 lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops hopefully 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:44.800 soon corn, pumpkins, Rye. I believe maybe a little fescue 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:48.960 to be determined. Over to you, coach. 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:52.280 And here's a clip from this week's episode of The 0:16:52.320 --> 0:16:56.320 Sore Losers. I got a PSA for parents out there. 0:16:57.440 --> 0:17:01.240 I got a PSA. Can you watch your own damn 0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:06.440 kids preach? Can you please give your kids some attention? 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:12.280 Can you please tell your kids to quit squirting me 0:17:12.400 --> 0:17:15.280 and splashing me and throwing water balloons at me? Why 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:17.119