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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby Here Sunday Sampler. Zach Brown was on

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Speaker 1: the Bobby Cast.

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Speaker 2: It's awesome.

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Speaker 1: It's an hour long ups and downs forming the band.

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Speaker 1: The advice Bruce Bringsteen gave him get to that movie.

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Speaker 1: Mike's Movie podcast Mike goes to the top five new

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Speaker 2: Four Things with Amy Brown.

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Speaker 1: Amy has her niece in with her sore losers. We're

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Speaker 1: all doing it, so check it out. Let's start with

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Speaker 1: a clip from this week's Bobby Cast with Zach Brown.

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Speaker 2: Do you play pickleball?

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Speaker 3: I have a pickleball court at my house.

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Speaker 2: Let's go. I'm building one right there behind the place.

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Speaker 2: Right now.

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Speaker 3: You can have a bridge for your dog already have

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Speaker 3: a bridge for my dog that goes over the pickleball

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Speaker 3: court so he can watch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, no, no, no, I'm not crazy.

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Speaker 1: I mean we did build out of plywood a skybridge

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Speaker 1: for our fat bulldog into the side yard because.

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Speaker 2: He would drown. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't swim.

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Speaker 2: They don't then they they just see.

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Speaker 3: They fart a lot.

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Speaker 2: He's not a big farter really yeah, yeah, big snore.

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Speaker 2: You like bulldogs.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you everyone, No, you ever had We've had French bulldogs.

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Speaker 3: Oh man, same thing. People like steal those in the street. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: like just see you. They wouldn't see you and steal

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Speaker 3: your dog. Though, there's things you learn about, like a

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Speaker 3: tail pocket.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what that is.

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Speaker 3: So underneath their tail they have this like that's what prison, Hey,

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Speaker 3: this is my tail pocket, Bobby. Like if you're holding

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Speaker 3: someone's immediately immediately be like all right, he first day

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Speaker 3: in prison, I'll hold your pocket and they're like, no,

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Speaker 3: you don't have to do that.

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Speaker 2: No, I will, I'll do I know my right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's a good self defense mechanism. What's what's

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Speaker 3: a tail pocket? So Frenchies have like underneath their tail,

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Speaker 3: they have this little like cavern where their little gnarly tail.

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Speaker 3: First of all, bulldogs haven't been able to procreate. They

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Speaker 3: would be extinct already. They're like the Dodo bird dogs, right.

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Speaker 3: So so it's a process to doing all that you know,

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Speaker 3: like you know, and then you find out things about

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Speaker 3: them after you have them, like oh, the tail pocket

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Speaker 3: is infected. It's like this weird moist place that's on

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Speaker 3: the back side of the dog, and it's like, you know,

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Speaker 3: that's an is that's a thing. So you learn weird

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Speaker 3: things when you have dogs that should be dead but

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Speaker 3: they're not should be extinct.

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Speaker 1: So you spend a whole lot of money on yours

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Speaker 1: because it was always sick. And it's because one hundred

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Speaker 1: years of genetic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's a way. That's our story with

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Speaker 2: his dog.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's it's wild. I mean, there are cool

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Speaker 3: they're like little gargoyles.

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Speaker 2: He's the greatest.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's actually not that much of an idiot.

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Speaker 1: He likes to sleep a lot now, but he's awesome.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, he's because they just genetically aren't supposed to exist. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and there's been so much inbreeding.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: People would say the same thing about people from Arkansas.

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Speaker 1: But I'm here, Hey, look at me.

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Speaker 3: You're doing great.

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Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta bridge for my dog to walk over,

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Speaker 1: and you're pretty good.

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Speaker 3: You should be in the Arkansas Hall of Fame. That

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Speaker 3: dog bridge.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if anybody in Arkansas has a dog bridge.

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Speaker 2: I think I got into that when I just drove

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like I'm gonna I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: somebody and they were like, you're in the Hall of fame.

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Speaker 4: What's it?

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Speaker 2: What are you a good pickleball player?

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Speaker 3: I'm learning, I'm learning, I'm working on it. Me and

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Speaker 3: the kids are out there and it's just that time

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Speaker 3: of year and now two where it's fun where we're

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Speaker 3: out there doing it. And what's weird about it is

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Speaker 3: you get a little bit better every time you play.

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Speaker 3: Just learn how to hit it and keep it in

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Speaker 3: the bounds. But I love anything that is active and

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Speaker 3: you're exercising without thinking about exercising.

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Speaker 1: That's my whole thing too. Like I will work out

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Speaker 1: three or four times with my trainer.

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Speaker 2: It sucks. I hate exercise. I hate for the sake

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Speaker 2: of exercise. I'll do it, and I do do it,

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Speaker 2: but I hate it.

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Speaker 1: But I love being act I like competing, yeah, and

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Speaker 1: then you're exercising yeah, and you're like, man, that was fun,

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Speaker 1: and I just like, totally, I don't have to go

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Speaker 1: to bench press right now.

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Speaker 5: I will.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty good.

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Speaker 1: I did like two sixty look at me, awesome, not

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Speaker 1: That's why I shouldn't be doing max reps. I've done

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Speaker 1: this since high school. But I was like, let's see

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Speaker 2: Can do now.

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Speaker 3: I hired a trainer about four months ago, and his

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Speaker 3: approach to everything is completely different than anything I've ever

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Speaker 3: seen or done. And eat during the lesson or what,

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Speaker 3: seventy seventy five percent of the workout is rolling on

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Speaker 3: foam rollers, pasture, ball, lacrosse balls, peanuts super important. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and that's how you keep the old man out.

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Speaker 1: I never got flexible and ever my whole life until

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Speaker 1: like the last year, spent so much time stretching, and

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Speaker 1: it has helped my performance, Like I don't know what

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Speaker 2: Ye, it has helped.

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Speaker 1: I did tear my My labor's good, but my rotator

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Speaker 1: cuff tour twice right now.

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Speaker 2: It's sucks. But I'm here doing this interview. I show up.

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Speaker 3: So we we talked about labs.

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Speaker 1: On laboram two different things. Say, I got a book

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Speaker 1: for you to read. Make it sure, it's called a

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Speaker 1: medical journal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you so? What's what's fun for you

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Speaker 2: right now? What's fun?

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Speaker 1: I'm going to play pickleball my buddy when this is over.

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Speaker 1: I've been working since Yeah, it's like four this morning. Awesome,

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Speaker 1: just a normal day, right. But what I do if

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Speaker 1: pickle ball when this is over. And that's how I

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Speaker 1: don't think about things for a minute until my mind

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Speaker 1: starts running again. What is that for you?

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Speaker 3: Two things right now? So Thursday tomorrow, I'm going to

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Speaker 3: go bowfishing. So I have a bow fishing boat. You

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Speaker 3: got to go to the coast though, right, No, I

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Speaker 3: on the river here?

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Speaker 2: Oh got it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a boat fishing boat on the river. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it'll be like having a yacht on the lake.

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Speaker 3: It's just a dis an aluminum boat, that's not It

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Speaker 3: just had lights all the way around it. So you

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Speaker 1: So it's a it's a like on the bottle ot

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Speaker 1: you kind of gear it to be up.

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Speaker 3: You run around at night and it shines the lights

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Speaker 3: and you can see where the fish are laid up

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Speaker 3: along the banks, and you you miss a lot, but

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Speaker 3: when you shoot and you hit them, it's fun.

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Speaker 2: The bow attached, you pull it back or is it gone?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it has the arrows attached to a bottle of

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Speaker 3: He's a little handle and you reel the fish in,

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Speaker 3: pull in that boat there fight you Oh yeah, they

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Speaker 3: don't want Yeah, they don't want to come.

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Speaker 7: In the so they don't.

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Speaker 2: You don't kill them immediately, No.

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Speaker 3: Not necessarily. I mean if you can, if you hit

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Speaker 3: my greatest source of that recharge for me is spearfishing.

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Speaker 2: That's got to be on the coast right usually easily.

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Speaker 3: It's the ocean. Yeah, but like Nationals, last year was

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Speaker 3: there's world teams. Now I didn't compete, but it's my

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Speaker 3: absolute favorite thing. So free diving and diving, diving down

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Speaker 4: You me, you.

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Speaker 2: Free dive, Yes, then you go and you hunt fish.

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Speaker 2: Do you have to train just holding your breath, yes.

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Speaker 3: And you have to learn how to relax. You have

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Speaker 3: two hundred feet free diving and go down and shoot

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Speaker 3: fish two hundred feet down with no tank, no nothing,

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Speaker 1: But you only do that wrong once it's over. It's

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Speaker 1: not like you can do it wrong and get I mean,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you go you usually have somebody in the

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Speaker 2: But like, this is Fiji, this this last year. What

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Speaker 2: that's saltwater, right, saltwater?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, God, dang, it's a dog tooth tuna.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you could crawl in the mouth of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's it's I mean there it is out

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Speaker 2: Oh you could.

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Speaker 1: It's as big as you are. So how did you

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Speaker 1: get into freaking spearfishing?

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Speaker 3: I went to the Bahamas in this old bohemian guy

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Speaker 3: that was there. It's like a legend. Guy took me

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Speaker 3: spearfishing one time. It's like fourteen years ago, and I

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Speaker 2: I feel like.

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Speaker 3: You're challenging your breath, you're challenging the ocean, challenging the fish,

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Speaker 3: you're challenging the weather. It's like it's this whole thing.

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Speaker 3: But for me, it's one of the activities. When I'm

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Speaker 3: doing that, when I'm diving down, there's no chatter. Chatter

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Speaker 3: doesn't exist, so you're you're only in that moment and

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Speaker 3: it's so primal, and you're so just connected to the

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Speaker 3: ocean and nothing else, and you feel small in the

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Speaker 3: greatest possible way.

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Speaker 8: Good cast up little food for yourself life.

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Speaker 9: Ain't Oh, it's pretty bad. It's pretty beautiful, beautiful for.

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Speaker 2: A little more exciting.

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Speaker 6: Hey, it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown.

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Speaker 6: And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast.

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Speaker 6: Let's take a quick detour and talk about this paper

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Speaker 6: What did it shape for you? I mean, I know

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Speaker 11: The biggest thing I learned is that if you fail,

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Speaker 6: There's a book that you would love, especially because you're

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Speaker 6: So you can add it and who knows, maybe it'll

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Speaker 6: It's something that Ben and I actually read together a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we need bigger dreams.

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Speaker 10: We're still sending snail mail.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, one, Henry seems like an awesome person. I can't

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Speaker 11: I'll be posted soon, whether she wants to or not,

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Speaker 6: But I am in a new phase of life, and

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Speaker 7: And bustle of everyday life.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I want to be an example for my

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Speaker 6: And if there is a roadblock, remember obstacle is the way.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna do it.

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Speaker 4: Live.

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Speaker 12: Oh the one, two, three, sore losers?

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Speaker 9: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most

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Speaker 5: Y'all.

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Speaker 12: It's Susan. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.

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Speaker 12: I live on the north side of Nashville with Bayser,

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Speaker 12: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops hopefully

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Speaker 9: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The

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Speaker 9: Sore Losers. I got a PSA for parents out there.

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Speaker 9: I got a PSA. Can you watch your own damn

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Speaker 9: Can you please tell your kids to quit squirting me

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Speaker 5: Sorry, I'm texting Sarah, my friend from college.

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Speaker 9: I know Molly and Amanda want to sit at the

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Speaker 5: Sandy from work just sent me this hilarious meme.

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Speaker 9: Oh I want to hear that story. Tell me, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 9: hey Jack, yeah, Jack, Okay, Yeah, you're okay, okay, good. No,

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Speaker 9: he's not okay. He just hit me with the water

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Speaker 12: They're not focusing because if they're in a conversation that's

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Speaker 5: Hey, honey, I didn't get that bonus, like I told you.

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Speaker 12: And then she's talking to the lady at thet.

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Speaker 5: You h So they have similar ways. Can you believe

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Speaker 5: they find us for having a red car? Yet Mark

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Speaker 9: Now yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh John, No, shoot he drowned.

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Speaker 5: That was a little dramatic. Let's not have kids drowning.

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Speaker 5: You guys got they've got to wear the armbands, right, uh.

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Speaker 9: They well, they wear the floaties, yes, but this is

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Speaker 9: with that. That's cool. It's my kids, guess what. And

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Speaker 9: and you shoot it. And people have all their toys

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Speaker 5: Zap suckers.

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Speaker 9: So then these other kids think they can just pick

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Speaker 12: You're talking about a port missile of water, Yeah, a

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Speaker 12: water missile. A water missile that's exactly what it is.

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Speaker 12: It's not a water gun, but it's a water missile.

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Speaker 12: So these kids start, you know, doing it and like waiting.

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Speaker 12: They're under heavy fire. I mean, you ate a bunker,

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Speaker 12: The moms are watching, laughing.

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Speaker 4: It's off.

446
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Speaker 13: No.

447
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Speaker 9: The mom's like, oh yeah, yeah, okay, he's cool. I'm

448
00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:10,639
Speaker 9: just sitting there. You're a bad mom. So it's my kids,

449
00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,639
Speaker 9: and these other two kids come over like, oh, this

450
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:14,960
Speaker 9: guy's getting shot, we can shoot them too, and they

451
00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,960
Speaker 9: start shooting me in the face and they start shooting me.

452
00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,880
Speaker 9: I'm like, all right, all right, all right, okay, all right,

453
00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,439
Speaker 9: and I'm thinking the parents are gonna the moms are

454
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Speaker 9: gonna say something, but no.

455
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Speaker 5: We got the Ukraine Gaza battle over here.

456
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,600
Speaker 9: A man done sally over there, just still talking away,

457
00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,919
Speaker 9: just talking about life, catching up. They haven't seen each

458
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Speaker 9: other in a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 5: Oh Facebook, Oh I now call it X.

460
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Speaker 9: So funny Twitter, did you see Max?

461
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Speaker 5: That'd make you hotter?

462
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Speaker 9: Oh my god, did you see that billboard over there

463
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Speaker 9: on I forty? That was so funny.

464
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Speaker 5: It's Beyonce half an agga, Oh.

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Speaker 9: My god, we have got to get tickets to the

466
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Speaker 9: Beyonce show at Nissan.

467
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Speaker 12: Jeremy was driving and he almost hit a light pole. Yeah,

468
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Speaker 12: Beyonce's hangars were out, girl.

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Speaker 9: I mean, I was like, are you looking at Beyonce?

470
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Speaker 9: And he was like no, and I was like, well,

471
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Speaker 9: then why did you almost hit the pole? I caught

472
00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,600
Speaker 9: him a red handed lion to me, I caught him

473
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Speaker 9: ejaculating the other day. What the.

474
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Speaker 12: I tough moms always they'd get into and said, yeah,

475
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Speaker 12: I don't know if they went to there.

476
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Speaker 9: I don't know if they went there.

477
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Speaker 5: So John is cheating on me. Okay, the pool conversation

478
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Speaker 5: has turned not really.

479
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Speaker 9: Oh, I'm so sorry. Do you need a class? Do

480
00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 9: you need one of my beers that or my white

481
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Speaker 9: claws that I have in my bag.

482
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Speaker 5: All the while you're under fire from the kids.

483
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Speaker 9: I'm just taking a shot after shot after shot.

484
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Speaker 5: I'm a wounded soldier.

485
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Speaker 9: And I'm just like, man, I can't even I'm like, okay,

486
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Speaker 9: I can't even see. Then there's like a ball and

487
00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,080
Speaker 9: one of my kids wants to play catch, my four

488
00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:43,160
Speaker 9: year old, so I'm playing catch with him, and then

489
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Speaker 9: one of those kids like, hey, oh, here's a shark

490
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,320
Speaker 9: bite bite bite, bite, bite bite. I'm like, okay, okay,

491
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Speaker 9: Like I'm all right, I'm playing catch bite bite. But

492
00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:54,320
Speaker 9: he has a little stuffed shark. And I'm like, ladies,

493
00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,399
Speaker 9: get your damn kids, Like, I'm not here.

494
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Speaker 5: Know the ladies. No, introduce yourself.

495
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Speaker 9: I don't know these kids. I don't know them. I'm

496
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 9: just trying to interact with my kids.

497
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Speaker 5: They take a foot to the face.

498
00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 9: There, I'm on you. Hello, Hello, I am not a babysit.

499
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Speaker 5: Hey are you in normal clothes or you in your

500
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Speaker 5: bathing suit?

501
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:14,959
Speaker 9: So I'm in my suit? Yeah? What about the moms?

502
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 9: What are they in? They're in their suits?

503
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Speaker 5: Everybody suited up.

504
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Speaker 9: Yes, people are suited up at the pool with your

505
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 9: wife there, she's in her.

506
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Speaker 5: Suit, cause why is she not tell the mom?

507
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Speaker 4: I don't know.

508
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Speaker 9: I don't know how to tell these like, hey, get

509
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 9: your damn kids and get them away from me.

510
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Speaker 12: They probably just view you as the fun guy. But

511
00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 12: that's why I'm saying, you gotta then cut. They're trying

512
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,840
Speaker 12: to just push their kids off on you so they

513
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Speaker 12: have a weekend like they used to have in college.

514
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Speaker 9: They think I'm the damn babysitter and I'm not even

515
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 9: getting paid. They're like, oh look we got this chuck.

516
00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:51,439
Speaker 9: He's gonna babysit our kids while we sit over here

517
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 9: and gab and gab of gab.

518
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Speaker 5: But you haven't said were their husbands.

519
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Speaker 9: They ain't there.

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Speaker 12: No, see times, I mean that divorce rate is say

521
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Speaker 12: as it's always been.

522
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Speaker 9: No, they're just probably busy at work. I don't know.

523
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Speaker 12: Yeah, they're slammed on a Saturday. No, they're at the

524
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Speaker 12: golf course.

525
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 5: And then in the nineteenth hole they're banging their secretary.

526
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Speaker 9: Maybe so, I'm sorry, maybe so. Anyway, So then I'm

527
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,359
Speaker 9: playing ketch with my kid. The damn kids are with

528
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Speaker 9: their shark Shark Shark Shark. I'm like, okay, you guys

529
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:26,439
Speaker 9: are annoying af And so then the kid's like, oh,

530
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Speaker 9: you want to play ketch with my shark and I'm

531
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 9: like I can do that. No, No, I'm playing ketch

532
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 9: with my kid right now and not right now, And

533
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,719
Speaker 9: he goes okay and he throws it to me, and

534
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Speaker 9: I'm like.

535
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Speaker 5: Dude, you're the dad they never had. This actually turns sad.

536
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:41,000
Speaker 9: I'm like, okay, here, here's your shark back I throw

537
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,640
Speaker 9: the bottom of my kid here. You want to play

538
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 9: ketch down.

539
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Speaker 12: I'm like, they don't have a father figure, dude, that's

540
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 12: freaking lebron. Nobody played it with him. His mom bought

541
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Speaker 12: him a hoop and they said that was the best

542
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 12: return on investment ever. You need to play with little Johnny.

543
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 12: He doesn't have a dad at home. Mom got the

544
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Speaker 12: house in the divorce. And he goes home to an

545
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Speaker 12: empty mansion.

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Speaker 9: That might be it. And he's like, guess what I am.

547
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,400
Speaker 9: I'm the shark trainer. And I'm like, okay, cool kid,

548
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 9: give me the shark trainer. I don't give a damn

549
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 9: Leave me alone.

550
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 5: Moms probably all love you.

551
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 9: Well, no, they don't know. Moms don't talk to me.

552
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 9: They're just over there gabbing away. They don't say, hey,

553
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 9: thanks for watching my kid. Thanks for you know, being

554
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 9: you know, the punching bag, the target for everything in

555
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 9: the freaking pool.

556
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Speaker 12: Dude, there's you being super dad and then playing with

557
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Speaker 12: these side kids, and then Nick and Karen. The other day,

558
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 12: I go, hey, man, what do you guys got You

559
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 12: got the one kid, right, and they go, no, we

560
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Speaker 12: have three.

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Speaker 14: Hey, it's Mike d And this week on Movie Mike's

562
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Speaker 14: Movie podcast, I share with you in my top five

563
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Speaker 14: movies you can stream at home right now. These are

564
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Speaker 14: all movies that came out in the last year. Most

565
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Speaker 14: of them I went to go see in theaters. Kelsey

566
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Speaker 14: and I also reviewed the new Daisy Ridley movie Young

567
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Speaker 14: Woman in the Sea, which is based on the true story.

568
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Speaker 14: We fact checked it. We let you know why it's

569
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Speaker 14: so inspirational, So be sure to check out this full

570
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Speaker 14: episode to hear all of our spoiler free reviews. But

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Speaker 14: right now, here's just a little bit of my top

572
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Speaker 14: list of new streaming movies at home. At number three

573
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Speaker 14: on Max. This is the non movie on the list,

574
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Speaker 14: but I just watched it and found it really fascinating.

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Speaker 15: It is called Movie Pass Movie Crash.

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Speaker 14: It is a documentary on movie Pass, which, if you remember,

577
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Speaker 14: back in twenty sixteen, movie Pass took the world by

578
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Speaker 14: storm because you could go watch any movie, anytime, any

579
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Speaker 14: theater for the low price of nine to ninety nine

580
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Speaker 14: and for about maybe a year, people just went wild,

581
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Speaker 14: and myself, I did not get a movie Pass card,

582
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Speaker 14: and I will tell you why. I knew back in

583
00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,959
Speaker 14: twenty sixteen that this card was going to fail It

584
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 14: did not seem sustainable to me, because at that time,

585
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Speaker 14: I already knew how the box office worked, how movies

586
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Speaker 14: make money, and for a company to be covering the

587
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 14: charge of a movie ticket losing money every single time.

588
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 14: Somebody used that because they're only paying ten bucks a month,

589
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 14: but that's even less than what a ticket costs. So

590
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 14: if you go watch just one movie a week, you're

591
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:19,679
Speaker 14: losing like forty dollars thirty dollars on one person. And

592
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 14: that is not even what people were doing. People were

593
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Speaker 14: going to multiple movies in a day. In this documentary,

594
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 14: they talk all about how this company was created by

595
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 14: two entirely different people who ended up running it into

596
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Speaker 14: the ground, which is the part I had no idea

597
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 14: about Movie Past. It was created by these two people

598
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 14: who were just trying to keep it small. When it

599
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 14: first came out, it was forty bucks. But then you

600
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Speaker 14: have these two other dudes who are essentially scam artists

601
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Speaker 14: take over the company and run everything they built in

602
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Speaker 14: ten years and to the ground. And that's really all

603
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Speaker 14: I'll say, because I learned a lot by watching this documentary,

604
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Speaker 14: but it's all the shady things that these two guys

605
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,959
Speaker 14: who took over the company did, And I'll just speak

606
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Speaker 14: on the effects of movie Pass and how many movies

607
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 14: were affected by more people being able to see them,

608
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 14: because when you give people that price of ten dollars

609
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 14: to watch as many movies as you want, I think

610
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 14: it was so great for movies then because you had

611
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 14: people going to see things that they never would have

612
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Speaker 14: watched otherwise. You had people saying in this documentary that

613
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,479
Speaker 14: they would go watch The Avengers, watch half of it,

614
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 14: leave and try to just come back the next day

615
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 14: or later in the day and pick it up halfway through.

616
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Speaker 14: I have never thought about doing that for the theater

617
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Speaker 14: experience to be that cheap where you could just make

618
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Speaker 14: your own schedule on how you want to start and

619
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Speaker 14: finish your movie.

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Speaker 15: That would be great for me.

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Speaker 14: If I could just go in the week to watch

622
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Speaker 14: forty five minutes of a movie and then later go

623
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Speaker 14: watch another forty five minutes and then go wrap it

624
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Speaker 14: up later. It is essentially your own personal theater at

625
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Speaker 14: that point. But I knew so back when everybody was

626
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Speaker 14: talking about Movie Pass that there's no way it was

627
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Speaker 14: going to last. And if I had a ten dollars

628
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 14: a month movie subscription, then had it taken away from

629
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Speaker 14: me to go back and paying full price. I feel

630
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 14: like that would have hurt my feelings on movies because

631
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Speaker 14: I hate going from getting a great deal to going

632
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 14: back and having to pay full price. So that's why

633
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 14: I never did it. And since then you've maybe seen

634
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 14: some stories here and there a Movie Past returning. I

635
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 14: don't think that model for ten dollars a month will

636
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 14: ever happen. It's just not sustainable for anybody. I think

637
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 14: we're better off the theaters themselves having their own subscription

638
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,239
Speaker 14: planes like I have Regal Unlimited. I love that, and

639
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,479
Speaker 14: it is a much more fair price, and it's also

640
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 14: not as crazy as you basically being able to run

641
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 14: wild in the theater like Movie Pass allowed you to be.

642
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 14: But I do think it's kind of interesting to go

643
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 14: back and look at all the movies that benefited from

644
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 14: that time. But if you want to have your mind

645
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 14: blown and you love movies, which obviously because you listen

646
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 14: to this podcast, you do, check out Movie Past Movie

647
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Speaker 14: Crash on Max. I have that one at number three,

648
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 14: also on Max at number two. I know I've talked

649
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 14: about it a fair amount on the podcast, but for

650
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 14: anybody new here or anybody who hasn't heard me go

651
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 14: on and on about The Iron Claw. This is the

652
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 14: movie that I recommend to anybody. The number one question

653
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 14: I get when I either see people I haven't seen

654
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 14: in a while, or I just meet somebody who doesn't

655
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 14: know what I do, and I tell them I have

656
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 14: a movie podcast.

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Speaker 15: They always ask me what do I watch? What do

658
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 15: you recommend?

659
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Speaker 14: My go to answer right now is The Iron Claw,

660
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Speaker 14: because I think even though it is a sports based movie,

661
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 14: it's the story of the Van Eric brothers, their tragic story,

662
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 14: all about their rise and fall in wrestling.

663
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Speaker 15: I don't think you have to enjoy sports movies.

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Speaker 14: I really think the only prerequisite to an enjoy The

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Speaker 14: Iron Claw is.

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Speaker 15: Do you like to feel feelings?

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Speaker 14: And for me, when I go into a movie, more

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Speaker 14: so than the special effects, more so than the actor

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Speaker 14: in it, any other bells and whistle cinematography, that all

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Speaker 14: goes out the window. The thing I look for and

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Speaker 14: really movies, music, or anything reading something is the emotion

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Speaker 14: I want to feel something while watching a movie, happiness, sadness,

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Speaker 14: and sometimes for me, I searched that sadness my music taste,

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Speaker 14: my movie taste. I love sad movies just because I

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Speaker 14: think in my real life it is hard for me

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Speaker 14: to feel sad. Sometimes it's like my body can't process

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Speaker 14: that emotion. Sometimes I feel like a robot, like my

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Speaker 14: heart is made of stone. But whenever I watch a

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Speaker 14: really good movie that hits me right in the fields,

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Speaker 14: that makes me like this movie did.

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Speaker 15: Cry, that is powerful.

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Speaker 14: So that is why I'm recommending this movie to everybody,

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Speaker 14: and so far everybody that is reported back without knowing

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Speaker 14: a whole lot going into a said man that was

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Speaker 14: really sad.

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Speaker 15: So I don't do that.

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Speaker 14: To inherently recommend something that is so sad and a bummer,

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Speaker 14: but because it's based on a true story, because you

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Speaker 14: do learn but also feel something by the end of

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Speaker 14: this movie. That is why it's been That is why,

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Speaker 14: as of late, since it was added to MAX, has

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Speaker 14: been my go to recommendation for people. It is also

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Speaker 14: a movie I feel was really ripped off not being

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Speaker 14: nominated for Best Picture. I think it should have won.

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Speaker 14: Zach Effron not even a single nod or anything for

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Speaker 14: this movie, I feel like more people need to see

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Speaker 14: it because the reason I like movies to win awards

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Speaker 14: is because when people go back like I do and

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Speaker 14: look at the history of what was nominated and what

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Speaker 14: won over different years. This movie isn't going to be

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Speaker 14: on those lists for twenty twenty three, and I think

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Speaker 14: it should be. So I think you have to overcome

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Speaker 14: the fact that it didn't win all the awards, didn't.

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Speaker 15: Get all the glory.

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Speaker 14: But hopefully by people watching it now that it's available

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Speaker 14: to stream at home, more people will see it. The

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Speaker 14: legacy of the Vaughan Eric Brothers will live on and

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Speaker 14: we'll all get to see a really ripped up Zach effront.

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Speaker 15: So I have the iron claw at number two.

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Speaker 4: Carol Line, she's a queen and talking and it was

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Speaker 4: a song.

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Speaker 3: She's getting really not afraid to face the episode or soul.

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Speaker 8: Just let it flow.

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Speaker 4: No one can do it quiet, car Line. It's time

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Speaker 4: for Caroline.

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Speaker 13: Hey, y'all, it's Caroline Hobby from Get Real with Carolyn Hobby.

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Speaker 13: And here is a tlip from this week's episode. Okay,

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Speaker 13: so tell me about your first heart break that really

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Speaker 13: sent you into it all.

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Speaker 4: So I was dating this girl through high school.

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Speaker 7: Oh like long time, because you're not that old.

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Speaker 13: You're only six, lived a lot of life to be

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Speaker 13: on only twenty a half.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I'm ninety two.

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Speaker 7: Yes, I was going to say that, but I didn't

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Speaker 7: want to say that.

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Speaker 4: You know, so I was dating this girl through high school.

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Speaker 7: And see all, this is your first love.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, first love like went uh like we went

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Speaker 4: up together pretty much. Yeah, like I had known her

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Speaker 4: or had known her since I was probably ten twelve

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Speaker 4: years old.

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Speaker 13: Oh my gosh of love is her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: So this is a big, big, no wonder. This shook

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Speaker 7: you to your core. I mean, this is earth shattering enough.

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Speaker 4: To write a song about it and start a hold

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Speaker 4: music creak, which is a.

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Speaker 13: Wild you got it out of you, though, you got

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Speaker 13: to process somehow.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm such like a well sorry, I'll tell you

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Speaker 4: the rest story. I'll explain it to you. But basically

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Speaker 4: broke up like right and left college. Yeah. I was

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Speaker 4: two weeks away from proposing. Oh no, I had to ring,

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Speaker 4: had to go take it back.

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Speaker 13: Did you talk to your parents and stuff? Yeah, and

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Speaker 13: they gave you the blessing. They didn't have it, no

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Speaker 13: warning that we're going to get a break up.

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Speaker 4: Here, not really. I mean I feel like I might

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Speaker 4: have been trying to save it with a ring with

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Speaker 4: a ring, which is not a good thing. I didn't

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Speaker 4: know what I was doing.

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Speaker 13: You know what I realized not forty is you can't

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Speaker 13: really save anything that doesn't want to be saved.

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Speaker 4: No, that's a that's a great freaking quote right there.

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Speaker 7: So there you go. That's my contribution for the day.

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Speaker 4: Exactly.

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Speaker 13: So you think you can when you're young, especially because

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Speaker 13: you're so in love, because it's all you've ever known,

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Speaker 13: without a doubt, So you got to save it because

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Speaker 13: you can't lose it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, and you you want to save it, but

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Speaker 4: at the same time, like it s Yeah, it was

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Speaker 4: the best thing that ever happened to me because now

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Speaker 4: I have an amazing fiance. Now we're getting married, and.

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Speaker 13: I've seen your love life. It looks really good. It

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Speaker 13: looks like you're thriving on social media. Your love looks

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Speaker 13: life looks thriving.

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Speaker 4: Oh we really are, Gilla. She is the best person

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Speaker 4: I've ever met.

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Speaker 7: That's amazing.

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Speaker 13: I know it all works out, okay, but so how

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Speaker 13: did the first girl break up with you like you're

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Speaker 13: about to propose in two weeks?

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Speaker 7: How did the breakup happen?

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Speaker 4: So she was in or she was in college and Charlotte.

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Speaker 4: I went to drive over there to kind of talk

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Speaker 4: to her, and I thought we were going to hang out,

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Speaker 4: and she got in the truck and she was like,

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Speaker 4: we don't think this is over. And at the time,

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Speaker 4: it'd like wrecked my world because I didn't know anything else.

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Speaker 4: I thought I was doing everything right because I was

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Speaker 4: at this point where like my family had, like they

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Speaker 4: were married at nineteen, so I was like I was

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Speaker 4: following in footsteps. I didn't know what I was doing.

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Speaker 4: So I basically just kind of went home and picked

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Speaker 4: up my guitar and just had to get some things

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Speaker 4: off my chest. And that's when I wrote Giving You Up.

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Speaker 7: And that happened like right after she broke up with you. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: you're as you're vibrating.

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Speaker 4: It is.

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Speaker 5: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to ignore this best that I ca.

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Speaker 7: Karen, listen, his is paging of everyone. It's probably his

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Speaker 7: beautiful It probably.

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Speaker 13: She wanted to remind you that she just wanted to

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Speaker 13: give you a little high. Okay, So immediately after you

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Speaker 13: got dumped, you went home and wrote a song about it, and.

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Speaker 7: It poured out.

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Speaker 4: It was probably a week later after I had kind

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Speaker 4: of processed everything and had you been.

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Speaker 13: Performing and writing songs before then. Or is this your

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Speaker 13: big moment.

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Speaker 4: I hadn't been writing really. I had wrote like a

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Speaker 4: couple of songs that were terrible and didn't Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: didn't know how to craft a song about it at

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Speaker 4: that point. I didn't even know that I had crafted

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Speaker 4: a song with giving you Up. It was more just

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Speaker 4: like words on a page for me.

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Speaker 7: You were like flowing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that whole second verse is like a train of fault.

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Speaker 7: It's like you're just like getting your feelings out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty much the best stuff though.

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Speaker 7: I know that's why people connect with you.

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Speaker 4: I agree, and I think I think it's hard for

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Speaker 4: some people to be like vulnerable wh they're writing songs.

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Speaker 7: But I just you don't even know any different.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know any different. But I love like

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Speaker 4: getting that deep in songwriting and like really going down

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Speaker 4: the rabbit hole that.

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Speaker 7: Why do you love that? What does that do for you?

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Speaker 4: I think it's kind of therapy for me.

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Speaker 7: That's your therapy.

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Speaker 4: I think so. Yeah, that and fishing. But I would

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Speaker 4: say writing songs is something that nobody can take away

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Speaker 4: from me. I can write it and nobody ever has

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Speaker 4: to see it, but I can get it out without

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Speaker 4: having to go talk to a therapist.

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Speaker 7: You know, yeah, yes, it does it. So how does

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Speaker 7: that feel?

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Speaker 13: So you have your therapy moment, you write this big

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Speaker 13: song about your ex and now everyone's singing it back

833
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Speaker 13: to you. What does that do to the process of

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Speaker 13: this broken heart? So tell me the transition of the

835
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Speaker 13: broken heart. Like your she breaks up with you in

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Speaker 13: your Boss Propose. That's really as bad as it can

837
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Speaker 13: get when you're nineteen, when you're in love, and then

838
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Speaker 13: you write this song to free yourself of this pain,

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Speaker 13: and somehow it goes viral, right, so you have gone viral?

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I guess, but it was almost like the

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Speaker 4: early days of viral.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, did you go viral on TikTok?

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Speaker 4: TikTok wasn't even around yet.

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Speaker 2: Oh your preteict I was Instagram.

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Speaker 7: Your Instagram viral. Oh my gosh, your instagraviral. You've never

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Speaker 7: met one of the Instagram viral ones before.

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Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for listening. If you like any of those clips,

848
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Speaker 1: go check out the full podcast. We'd really appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Happy Father, Ted, all the dads out there, have a

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Speaker 1: great Sunday.

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Speaker 2: Goodbye, everybody,