Speaker 1: Novel. This show contains adult material and swearing. You have
Speaker 1: been warned. If I was a man, I would suck
Speaker 1: Bond Dick for sure.
Speaker 2: Hey you can, you wouldn't be getting I'm really flexible. Well, Grace,
Speaker 2: that's a lot of information.
Speaker 3: Around me.
Speaker 2: I'm a savage.
Speaker 1: Are you bored of modern dating?
Speaker 3: Meeting the same people from the same apps in the
Speaker 3: same bar You've only chosen because it's close to your
Speaker 3: house and you can make your usual quick getaway. It's
Speaker 3: time to change the narrative on how we find love.
Speaker 3: It's time to start looking for love in all the
Speaker 3: wrong places. I'm going on a wild dating adventure, only
Speaker 3: picking people who are the total opposite of my type.
Speaker 3: And after twenty eight of these days in two months.
Speaker 1: Will I find that special someone?
Speaker 3: Or Well, this experiment proved that I should just give
Speaker 3: up on dating altogether.
Speaker 1: It's time to find out.
Speaker 3: I'm Grace Campbell and this is twenty eight dates later.
Speaker 2: Grace, how are you, hiver Oz, I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm very good. I'm excited to hear about this week's date.
Speaker 3: So this is someone and I don't really think me
Speaker 3: and this person ever actually went on a date to
Speaker 3: be honest, we were just friends and then just got
Speaker 3: with each other like once after a night out.
Speaker 1: But I wanted to sort of try it see what
Speaker 1: it was like.
Speaker 3: I guess because in my life right, I have kind
Speaker 3: of messed up quite a lot of relationships with my
Speaker 3: male friends by having sex with them. And it's something
Speaker 3: like all my gay friends are so good at like
Speaker 3: sleeping with each other and it not really like causing
Speaker 3: a s rip. I feel like there's something about straight
Speaker 3: men that once you've had sex with them, they either
Speaker 3: presume that you're in love with them and that when
Speaker 3: you're just still trying to be friend, they're like, whoa, whoa,
Speaker 3: whoa have you ever gotten with a friend?
Speaker 2: Yeah? When I was younger, when I was a teenager,
Speaker 2: I started going out with my best friend and it
Speaker 2: totally ruined our friendship. Really yeah, So I learned the
Speaker 2: lesson quite young, like that if you have a platonic friendship,
Speaker 2: just keep it that way or you're going to ruin it.
Speaker 2: And now, look, I that's just my experience. I could
Speaker 2: be totally wrong. I do know friends who've gotten with
Speaker 2: friends and they've still remained friends, But I don't know
Speaker 2: is one of them feeling something and the other one
Speaker 2: isn't Is it always gonna have an underlining awkwardness?
Speaker 1: Do you never really know where it's going to go.
Speaker 3: Like I've slept with friends in the past and thought,
Speaker 3: this is like so casual, but then something will happen
Speaker 3: where then one of us will get with someone else
Speaker 3: and it will trigger a jealousy. Yeah, and then it
Speaker 3: becomes complicated because like you're still friends, and so I've
Speaker 3: sort of always vowed like, you know, I used to
Speaker 3: have so many male friends. And my mum said this
Speaker 3: the other day. She's just like, you used to have
Speaker 3: so many male friends, and what happened? I was, like
Speaker 3: I had sex with most of them, and then it
Speaker 3: just became complicated and then we just talking.
Speaker 2: I wonder what the percentage is, Like I'd love to
Speaker 2: a poll, like, have you ever got with a friend
Speaker 2: hooked up and it's gone back to normal?
Speaker 1: You should do that on your Instagram.
Speaker 3: You should do that because if, in like the case
Speaker 3: of a miracle, neither of you actually like each other
Speaker 3: but you can have sex, that's great. The problem is
Speaker 3: when you're friends with someone and you already have this
Speaker 3: foundation of friendship, it feels more intimate because when you
Speaker 3: geting with each other, you're like, we're already friends, we
Speaker 3: already know each other really well.
Speaker 1: It's not like a one like stand.
Speaker 2: Another interesting topic like obviously i'd love to find out
Speaker 2: like can you return to a platonic relationship after having
Speaker 2: like very built into sexual relations with your friend or
Speaker 2: you know. The other question is like would you tell
Speaker 2: a new partner if you have casually hooked up with
Speaker 2: your friend a lot of times even though nothing's going on.
Speaker 1: Well, this is an issue.
Speaker 3: In my last relationship, like this, this was an issue
Speaker 3: because we would go out and like, you know, I
Speaker 3: would sort of say, by the way, I've had sex
Speaker 3: with him, And then it got to this point where
Speaker 3: he was like, you've had sex with like all of
Speaker 3: your friends And I was like, because I at the
Speaker 3: time was sort of twenty five and still my main
Speaker 3: friendship group was my like school friends, and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I have, but like it's not that deep, like I
Speaker 3: don't really you know, I had no feelings for any
Speaker 3: of them. Yeah, But then it became this sort of
Speaker 3: thing where then I then made it a thing where
Speaker 3: I was like I want to know, like, you know,
Speaker 3: if we're out and we're with someone that you've gotten with,
Speaker 3: And then it became this thing where we would almost
Speaker 3: sort of like do it to like show off to
Speaker 3: each other of like, yeah, how many of our friends
Speaker 3: we've gotten with?
Speaker 2: So Gray, He's like, after all the past things that
Speaker 2: have happened, and considering you don't have as many mare
Speaker 2: friends anymore, would you consider like dating a friend?
Speaker 3: Well, I did it for this episode, so tell me
Speaker 3: about them. I've known him for a while, like we'd
Speaker 3: like matched on a dating app years ago and then
Speaker 3: never met. And then I think a year or so after,
Speaker 3: like we followed each other on Instagram or something like that,
Speaker 3: and then I remember he was like I really recognize you,
Speaker 3: and I was like, yeah, it's because we matched on
Speaker 3: hinge like a year ago, Like that's where you remember
Speaker 3: me from.
Speaker 2: So is that how you became friends?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: And then we just like became friends like through that,
Speaker 3: And I didn't really think it was ever anything more
Speaker 3: than that.
Speaker 2: But so you did meet on the premise of dating.
Speaker 3: That we did originally and then like after that didn't
Speaker 3: if that makes sense, because we'd like naturally dating out
Speaker 3: like a year before. It was also kind of awkward
Speaker 3: because I hadn't seen him for a while, and like
Speaker 3: he doesn't live in London, and I think he was
Speaker 3: really nervous about the fact that we were being recorded.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so how does this actually work?
Speaker 2: Do you come preprepared if any questions?
Speaker 1: Or No? I have really good chat?
Speaker 3: Oh Jesus right, Oh.
Speaker 1: No, I don't do. Do you think I am a good chat?
Speaker 1: Do you know me?
Speaker 4: Well? I mean for this side of Lamb Jack, I
Speaker 4: don't know.
Speaker 1: But do you not think I have a good chat?
Speaker 4: I do? I do?
Speaker 1: I do?
Speaker 2: And you feed bad me?
Speaker 1: Do you think I'm a good conversation? List be honest speaking?
Speaker 2: No, I do?
Speaker 3: I do?
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not going to get myself in trouble?
Speaker 3: Am I So?
Speaker 2: Well? Again?
Speaker 3: What is pretty terrible outside?
Speaker 2: I find it hard to believe you guys ever had
Speaker 2: a vibe. I'm being quite honest.
Speaker 3: Really, I felt that made me sad because I think
Speaker 3: we get along really.
Speaker 1: Well, Like all we doing with together is laugh.
Speaker 2: I kind of felt like that was so awkward to
Speaker 2: listen to.
Speaker 3: Really, I just completely that I just disagree, Like all
Speaker 3: I do when I'm with him is just take the
Speaker 3: bit out of him.
Speaker 2: But that is your what I've learned your style of communication, conversation.
Speaker 1: I'm bad.
Speaker 2: You could never go out with someone who like took
Speaker 2: things personally.
Speaker 1: I know, but can I tell you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like it is very much like me and my
Speaker 3: friends and my family. If you can't take a joke,
Speaker 3: you should not spend time with us. Yeah, you're always
Speaker 3: going to leave feeling offended.
Speaker 2: So you love to rip the piss out of people,
Speaker 2: but also you want to be what's that word praised? Praise,
Speaker 2: but there's another word affirmed affirmed. Yeah, you need to
Speaker 2: be friend constantly.
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 3: I'm I'm really I'm really needy. We really need He wasn't.
Speaker 2: Really giving you any kind of feedback. He was actually,
Speaker 2: I don't know the correctrum nagging to call it, but
Speaker 2: he was kind of like almost making you feel like
Speaker 2: it was bad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he was joking. This was a stressful day,
Speaker 3: like in terms of the recording. I had a gig
Speaker 3: in this bar, and like timing wise, we had to
Speaker 3: do it in the bar of the venue that I
Speaker 3: was about to do again. And it's one of the
Speaker 3: only ones I felt really conscious that I was being
Speaker 3: recorded because it was with someone I know that makes
Speaker 3: sense like all of the other days, it's like, I
Speaker 3: don't know you.
Speaker 1: I'm not really thinking.
Speaker 3: I'm more in the moment, whereas this I think we
Speaker 3: both felt quite self conscious. And then we're in this
Speaker 3: bar where I was getting like recognized quite a lot.
Speaker 2: That's fine.
Speaker 1: Are you coming to the you know that's where you
Speaker 1: because I have that vibe.
Speaker 3: That's right that you're coming, because I was just worried
Speaker 3: that there wasn't going to be young women. Okay, great, way,
Speaker 3: it'll be really fun.
Speaker 1: It's through the bat.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: That like why is she saying?
Speaker 2: Does this happen a lot?
Speaker 1: Are you asking me that?
Speaker 3: Genuinely?
Speaker 1: Is that joke? I can't go anywhere in London?
Speaker 2: So what do you think? Like obviously you're talking there
Speaker 2: about like are you a good conversationist? Like is he
Speaker 2: a good conversationist? Because like I didn't really get to
Speaker 2: hear much of him there. I just heard him firm
Speaker 2: me you you like me? So like from off the dates,
Speaker 2: like you go in deep your questions on dates straight
Speaker 2: away you were asking some juicy things that I'm like,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even ask them a year into relationship. I like,
Speaker 2: is that appropriate? You're like, You're like wild, You're like, so,
Speaker 2: who was your last bang? Did you write anyone last night?
Speaker 2: You had?
Speaker 1: Reason?
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, so like did you did you get into
Speaker 2: any of that?
Speaker 3: Let's let's be cause I think at one point we
Speaker 3: were talking about swallowing your own com.
Speaker 1: Have you tried drawings?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I think I would if I was the man, just
Speaker 1: to see what.
Speaker 3: No, I'm not that curious.
Speaker 1: Do you have good reviews? I've never asked really pretty
Speaker 1: terribly feedback.
Speaker 2: I've told you this, you should last night?
Speaker 4: FI. No, mainly enough, I don't think guys are very
Speaker 4: open about tasting their own cum.
Speaker 1: But maybe I should.
Speaker 2: Maybe I should start like pulling my friends. Yeah, if
Speaker 2: you were a lad, you'd have a questionare out the
Speaker 2: side of your bed, and when someone we finished, you'd
Speaker 2: be like, can you just fill that out? Please? That's like,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's what I know. That what you do.
Speaker 1: Also, he was the man, I would suck my own
Speaker 1: dick for sure.
Speaker 2: Hey you can't, you can?
Speaker 1: You wouldn't be I'm really flexible.
Speaker 2: Well, well, Grace, that's a lot of information. I don't
Speaker 2: even know that conversation.
Speaker 3: I think because I have a stand up routine about
Speaker 3: how you can sort of assess the physical health of
Speaker 3: a man by the taste of their car.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that a joke?
Speaker 3: No, it's for real, Like men of smoke a lot,
Speaker 3: their com is disgusting.
Speaker 2: Sorry. Sorry, Okay, So the next guy, if anyone's dating you,
Speaker 2: have a health check. No, I don't need to help check.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to come and then I can tell.
Speaker 2: You're like some colductor. You're like, I think you don't
Speaker 2: taste right.
Speaker 3: I once dated a guy and there was something so
Speaker 3: weird about his calm, like disgusting, like disgusting, and then
Speaker 3: he found out that he was really deficient in bittermin
Speaker 3: d and then he started taking supplements and his com
Speaker 3: tasted better.
Speaker 2: Wow, grace, you should you should become like it should.
Speaker 3: Be like a savant, like I'm a psychic. I'll take
Speaker 3: your carmel, I'll tell you your future.
Speaker 1: Have you faked an orgasm?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: Really no, I definitely wish that things have been shorter
Speaker 4: than well.
Speaker 1: I mean I've stopped.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you stop take it, yeah, and be like, okay,
Speaker 3: I've done it.
Speaker 2: I need I need a naugh It's.
Speaker 1: You know, like loads of men take orgasms. How could
Speaker 1: you the conduct.
Speaker 2: Where do you fucking meet these people?
Speaker 1: People tell me? Crazy ship?
Speaker 3: What has that happened to you? No? Well, probably like
Speaker 3: now I'm paranoid has That's why I'm asking you.
Speaker 2: I'm going back, I've ever had taxes? Like?
Speaker 3: Did you have fake?
Speaker 2: Is this what this whole day in series fine about?
Speaker 3: Can I just say, Rod's your face when you heard
Speaker 3: that thing? When I said men fake orgasms? You did
Speaker 3: go a bit like.
Speaker 1: Whoa, Yeah, I was like what it always shocks people?
Speaker 1: One in four men?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I enough to price. Look, we've all been there,
Speaker 2: We've all faked orgasms because we're like, we're just over
Speaker 2: this right now. I just couldn't be arrest doing this
Speaker 2: any longer. But can I just say, like, I think
Speaker 2: it's funny thinking of them faking it because it's like acting.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh no, this is what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Right, So I now know when I'm having sex with
Speaker 3: a man and they come, I'm like, you cannot be faking,
Speaker 3: because if you were faking, you would not sound like that,
Speaker 3: Like men sound so unfavorable when they orgasm. Not to
Speaker 3: give everyone a complex, but like now when I have
Speaker 3: sex with a guy or like listen to the sounds America,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, that was a real orgasm because they
Speaker 3: sounded like they were crying and wanted to call their mom,
Speaker 3: Like that was the vibe that they were giving me.
Speaker 3: It's funny, like I've keep saying to my friends, like
Speaker 3: this knowledge that men fake orgasms has not been good
Speaker 3: for my like anxiety. Yeah, I just have to trust
Speaker 3: the process and trust it when they're making these like
Speaker 3: baby sounds that they are fully legitimately orgasmic.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And you know what, whenever I fake an orrialism,
Speaker 2: it's not because I'm like, oh, this isn't good. It's
Speaker 2: more like I'm not in the zone. I think that's
Speaker 2: the thing.
Speaker 3: And like I just feel like there should be like
Speaker 3: an easier way of saying that without having to fake it.
Speaker 3: Because that's why women fake orgasms so much, is because
Speaker 3: we are all worried that we're going to offend someone
Speaker 3: if we say really sorry, like I'm not gonna come.
Speaker 3: You're worried that they're going to like take it personally,
Speaker 3: and so that's why we fake it. But if we
Speaker 3: could just like more easily say, like, by the way,
Speaker 3: like the end of sex doesn't always have to be
Speaker 3: like both of us coming like or.
Speaker 2: You know, as Grace would say, you could just come
Speaker 2: into a cup and we can I'll just drink it
Speaker 2: and check your health, you know.
Speaker 3: Or you could just go to the bin and then
Speaker 3: I'll go and try it with my mouth and then
Speaker 3: I'll come back in and I'll say you need to
Speaker 3: go to the doctor's mate.
Speaker 2: Basically, it just happens quite a lot.
Speaker 3: But like I'll forget them with my period, i won't say,
Speaker 3: or I'll come on with him when I'm coming to
Speaker 3: and then like the man will be like, oh, you're
Speaker 3: you're bleeding and I'm like okay, like so and then
Speaker 3: they're like I've done.
Speaker 1: It despite that, when it's like it's not.
Speaker 3: How an intention like you to say, are these people
Speaker 3: that this guy that I was seeing and like the
Speaker 3: first time he was like, it's cool, it's poor, no problem,
Speaker 3: no problem, And the second time he was like, I
Speaker 3: feel like you are doing your purpose. You're not telling
Speaker 3: me on purpose, and then they're just planned everywhere. I
Speaker 3: feel like people who react like either way, there's something
Speaker 3: wrong with you if.
Speaker 4: You react either way if you react or you react
Speaker 4: going oh, there's not real against me whatever.
Speaker 3: If you react like, oh my god, amazing blood, like
Speaker 3: I'm a vaire, Well that's a bad, terrible do you
Speaker 3: think Do you think because my friends keep saying to me,
Speaker 3: like I always talk about other people i've banged on
Speaker 3: first dates?
Speaker 1: Do you think that.
Speaker 2: I know you do? Do you think that's a bad
Speaker 2: thing to do? I look, from what I've learned from
Speaker 2: basically going on data to you, there's no right or wrong,
Speaker 2: like do you know what I mean? And it depends
Speaker 2: on the vibe of the other person, like it might
Speaker 2: open a conversation and create a good communication from the
Speaker 2: get go, but I suppose personally would I probably not,
Speaker 2: Like I would just use the first day to establish
Speaker 2: like do I have any similarities with this person? Like
Speaker 2: do I fancy? Then what I realized I'm a basic bitch.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, do you ever been to the zoo?
Speaker 2: What's your favorite daughter? And you're like, have you tasted
Speaker 2: your own comm I'm like, Jesus Christ, if I get
Speaker 2: back in with dating game, I'm like, such a loser,
Speaker 2: what the hell?
Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm I'm you know, it's a lot,
Speaker 3: and I'm aware of that, and I've never thought about
Speaker 3: it till I've done this and I've had to listen
Speaker 3: back to myself.
Speaker 2: But like that's your personality, Like why change your personality
Speaker 2: for a first date. You may well let people know
Speaker 2: kind of you know who you are and what your
Speaker 2: topics of conversation are like and what your interests are,
Speaker 2: and like, you know, you are extremely open person so
Speaker 2: I just don't think you should hide that.
Speaker 3: Just sometimes I think about this with like people like
Speaker 3: this where it's like a friend that I've gotten with
Speaker 3: in the past, and then like I'll like talk so
Speaker 3: openly about like other people that I'm getting with. I
Speaker 3: think that's the way of me establishing like it's not
Speaker 3: that deep. But I understand that maybe sometimes that can
Speaker 3: be like a bit jarring because I feel like I
Speaker 3: have a bit of a double standard, where like if
Speaker 3: he started talking like that about the people that he'd
Speaker 3: been getting with, I think I'd be like, WHOA, do you.
Speaker 2: Know what I mean, Grace, that's bad. You're like, you're like,
Speaker 2: I can do it, but if you do it, I'm
Speaker 2: going to search in the bin and make sure the
Speaker 2: whole clip there about being on your period having sex.
Speaker 2: I don't think there's stigma around that is there.
Speaker 1: I think there is.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry saying the person. I've literally been in a
Speaker 2: relationship since I was like fifteen, so i'd say, you know,
Speaker 2: like I think when you're in your relationship, there probably
Speaker 2: isn't Danny, Yes, it's like whatever, but like maybe there is,
Speaker 2: like when you're having one night to dance or just
Speaker 2: hooking up with people.
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like I have friends who don't have
Speaker 3: sex on my period of their long term partners. Mm hmm,
Speaker 3: but like you know what I mean, right, No, I know,
Speaker 3: but it's obviously it's crazy to me.
Speaker 2: That's a busy gal. You know, there's a few days
Speaker 2: a month or your first because you're you know, like busy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it happens famously. You get really horny when you're
Speaker 3: in your period.
Speaker 1: Exactly was exactly to not make the most of.
Speaker 3: Like being really horning and also what's like what you
Speaker 3: have to like put some sheets in a washing machine
Speaker 3: like grow up. I have had that quite a few times,
Speaker 3: where like I'll just presume that it's fine to have
Speaker 3: sex with someone on my period, so like I won't
Speaker 3: even say anything, and then they'll be like, oh, there's blood,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, yeah, blood, and I'm like, oh, grow up,
Speaker 3: have you ever seen blood before?
Speaker 2: So I wonder that's a good question, Like, I don't
Speaker 2: know if you're hooking up with the guy you don't like,
Speaker 2: you're not in a relationship with, do you have to
Speaker 2: let them know I'm on my period? Do you want
Speaker 2: to do this or not?
Speaker 1: I guess you should.
Speaker 3: I think I don't ever like consciously not do it,
Speaker 3: like forget and then we're having sex and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'll just tell them like once there's blood.
Speaker 2: Okay, great, I've another grace, And how do you forget?
Speaker 2: Like do you have to take your tampon it?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was just like, you know, I'll just do it.
Speaker 2: Down the side of the bed, grace.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no, stop it.
Speaker 3: I'm I feel like I am I'm too much. I'm disgusting.
Speaker 2: I suppose you do need to let themone know if
Speaker 2: you're on your period.
Speaker 3: I think it depends what day of the period you're on.
Speaker 3: At the end of the period where there's no blood, like,
Speaker 3: I really don't think it matters.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well there's no blood, but it's more in
Speaker 2: the jump scare that they're not like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: my dick is falling off. Fuck just blood everywhere.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that is so true.
Speaker 2: That's so true. Having sex with my period before and
Speaker 2: like that. It was actually I didn't know I had it.
Speaker 2: It kind of like it like came while I was
Speaker 2: having sex. So sex can bring on your period, is that?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, And like he pulled out whatever and
Speaker 2: he went very quiet like I was, and he was like,
Speaker 2: my I forgot and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: what's right? Very well, what's going on? Then I was like, oh, no,
Speaker 2: I have my periods. I'm very sorry about that. I
Speaker 2: just you know, when it first comes, it comes like
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, that's so funny. I've never thought
Speaker 1: about it that that's the main character of me.
Speaker 3: I've never thought, Wow, they must be scared that they're broken.
Speaker 1: Their foreskin jump scared, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: You just need to give them their heads up. They
Speaker 2: don't think their dick is falling off?
Speaker 3: Right? Should we have bought this and then get another
Speaker 3: drink and then you can watched me to stand up? Sure? Yeah? Sure,
Speaker 3: you enjoy it?
Speaker 1: Did I enjoy with this?
Speaker 2: Check? I always enjoyed. It's always it's always a pleasure.
Speaker 2: Never children, So, Grace, would you ever date a friend
Speaker 2: again after that date? Yes?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 3: I think like I've got to be just careful in
Speaker 3: the future with making situations unnecessarily complicated for myself, So
Speaker 3: if it's going to be too complicated, it's probably not
Speaker 3: worth it.
Speaker 1: Because I also feel like there's.
Speaker 3: A nice thing about meeting someone not on a dating app.
Speaker 3: I know, in this instance, we originally made on a
Speaker 3: dating app, but do you know what I mean, like
Speaker 3: it not being like we've natural a dating app. Let's
Speaker 3: go over a date, like after two interactions, it's quite
Speaker 3: nice there being some kind of relationship prior to that.
Speaker 3: But I'm not sure if it's ever going to go
Speaker 3: well for your odds.
Speaker 2: But like, do you ever think it to go back
Speaker 2: to normal that you can be friends again after this
Speaker 2: or is it too awkward? No?
Speaker 1: I do, I do think so.
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm eager to know in life if
Speaker 3: this stuff is possible. Like I tried to be friends
Speaker 3: with my ex boyfriend for a while, and it just
Speaker 3: eventually like we were friends for like a year and
Speaker 3: spoke all the time about like our new people we
Speaker 3: were seeing and blah blah blah, and then eventually it
Speaker 3: just became too much. So you can never really know
Speaker 3: if this stuff is going to work until like it
Speaker 3: just does naturally happen or it just feels out.
Speaker 1: You never talked to.
Speaker 2: Them, and I know, obviously the chat was like very mixed,
Speaker 2: like you know, you were going in deep with the chair,
Speaker 2: and sometimes I did feel that we're awkward. But at
Speaker 2: the same time, I think they were awkward because I'm
Speaker 2: a feeling you kind of do like this guy, and
Speaker 2: I don't know why.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because we do get on, but I
Speaker 3: feel like, no, I feel like in a more like
Speaker 3: long term way, we probably wouldn't be compatible. Like I
Speaker 3: think maybe I am just a bit too much of
Speaker 3: a fucking insane person for him. He's quite like Chill,
Speaker 3: who knows we should get him on the podcast.
Speaker 2: She get him on to interrogate him and have a
Speaker 2: life testing. You can check us health, we'll see what
Speaker 2: it's ask Grace, Oh my god. And no matter how
Speaker 2: many dating one and how many times I sit and
Speaker 2: talk to you, and I'm just never surprised anymore, honestly,
Speaker 2: Like I live my life by churiously through your wild
Speaker 2: man brain.
Speaker 1: Next time. On twenty eight dates Later.
Speaker 4: Honestly, the way he talks the person, it sounds like
Speaker 4: he's trying to make you buy shares in his startup.
Speaker 4: He's the kind of guy that gets a guitar out
Speaker 4: at of the after party, like that's what it's given.
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear wonder Wall. Oh, my girls
Speaker 2: will see around for me. I'm a servy jo.
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Speaker 2: Are you giving to?
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