1 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 1: Novel. This show contains adult material and swearing. You have 2 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: been warned. If I was a man, I would suck 3 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: Bond Dick for sure. 4 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: Hey you can, you wouldn't be getting I'm really flexible. Well, Grace, 5 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 2: that's a lot of information. 6 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:27,639 Speaker 3: Around me. 7 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 2: I'm a savage. 8 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: Are you bored of modern dating? 9 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 3: Meeting the same people from the same apps in the 10 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 3: same bar You've only chosen because it's close to your 11 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 3: house and you can make your usual quick getaway. It's 12 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: time to change the narrative on how we find love. 13 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 3: It's time to start looking for love in all the 14 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 3: wrong places. I'm going on a wild dating adventure, only 15 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 3: picking people who are the total opposite of my type. 16 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 3: And after twenty eight of these days in two months. 17 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 1: Will I find that special someone? 18 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 3: Or Well, this experiment proved that I should just give 19 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 3: up on dating altogether. 20 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: It's time to find out. 21 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 3: I'm Grace Campbell and this is twenty eight dates later. 22 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: Grace, how are you, hiver Oz, I'm good? 23 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: How are you? 24 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 2: I'm very good. I'm excited to hear about this week's date. 25 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: So this is someone and I don't really think me 26 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 3: and this person ever actually went on a date to 27 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 3: be honest, we were just friends and then just got 28 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 3: with each other like once after a night out. 29 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: But I wanted to sort of try it see what 30 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: it was like. 31 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 3: I guess because in my life right, I have kind 32 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 3: of messed up quite a lot of relationships with my 33 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 3: male friends by having sex with them. And it's something 34 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 3: like all my gay friends are so good at like 35 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 3: sleeping with each other and it not really like causing 36 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 3: a s rip. I feel like there's something about straight 37 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 3: men that once you've had sex with them, they either 38 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 3: presume that you're in love with them and that when 39 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: you're just still trying to be friend, they're like, whoa, whoa, 40 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 3: whoa have you ever gotten with a friend? 41 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? When I was younger, when I was a teenager, 42 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 2: I started going out with my best friend and it 43 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: totally ruined our friendship. Really yeah, So I learned the 44 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: lesson quite young, like that if you have a platonic friendship, 45 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 2: just keep it that way or you're going to ruin it. 46 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 2: And now, look, I that's just my experience. I could 47 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 2: be totally wrong. I do know friends who've gotten with 48 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: friends and they've still remained friends, But I don't know 49 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: is one of them feeling something and the other one 50 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 2: isn't Is it always gonna have an underlining awkwardness? 51 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 1: Do you never really know where it's going to go. 52 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 3: Like I've slept with friends in the past and thought, 53 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 3: this is like so casual, but then something will happen 54 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 3: where then one of us will get with someone else 55 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 3: and it will trigger a jealousy. Yeah, and then it 56 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 3: becomes complicated because like you're still friends, and so I've 57 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 3: sort of always vowed like, you know, I used to 58 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 3: have so many male friends. And my mum said this 59 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:53,799 Speaker 3: the other day. She's just like, you used to have 60 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 3: so many male friends, and what happened? I was, like 61 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 3: I had sex with most of them, and then it 62 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 3: just became complicated and then we just talking. 63 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 2: I wonder what the percentage is, Like I'd love to 64 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 2: a poll, like, have you ever got with a friend 65 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,239 Speaker 2: hooked up and it's gone back to normal? 66 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: You should do that on your Instagram. 67 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 3: You should do that because if, in like the case 68 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 3: of a miracle, neither of you actually like each other 69 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 3: but you can have sex, that's great. The problem is 70 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 3: when you're friends with someone and you already have this 71 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 3: foundation of friendship, it feels more intimate because when you 72 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 3: geting with each other, you're like, we're already friends, we 73 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 3: already know each other really well. 74 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: It's not like a one like stand. 75 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 2: Another interesting topic like obviously i'd love to find out 76 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 2: like can you return to a platonic relationship after having 77 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 2: like very built into sexual relations with your friend or 78 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 2: you know. The other question is like would you tell 79 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 2: a new partner if you have casually hooked up with 80 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: your friend a lot of times even though nothing's going on. 81 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: Well, this is an issue. 82 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 3: In my last relationship, like this, this was an issue 83 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 3: because we would go out and like, you know, I 84 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 3: would sort of say, by the way, I've had sex 85 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 3: with him, And then it got to this point where 86 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 3: he was like, you've had sex with like all of 87 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 3: your friends And I was like, because I at the 88 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 3: time was sort of twenty five and still my main 89 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 3: friendship group was my like school friends, and I was like, yeah, 90 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 3: I have, but like it's not that deep, like I 91 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 3: don't really you know, I had no feelings for any 92 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 3: of them. Yeah, But then it became this sort of 93 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 3: thing where then I then made it a thing where 94 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 3: I was like I want to know, like, you know, 95 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,839 Speaker 3: if we're out and we're with someone that you've gotten with, 96 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 3: And then it became this thing where we would almost 97 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 3: sort of like do it to like show off to 98 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 3: each other of like, yeah, how many of our friends 99 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 3: we've gotten with? 100 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 2: So Gray, He's like, after all the past things that 101 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: have happened, and considering you don't have as many mare 102 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 2: friends anymore, would you consider like dating a friend? 103 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 3: Well, I did it for this episode, so tell me 104 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 3: about them. I've known him for a while, like we'd 105 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: like matched on a dating app years ago and then 106 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 3: never met. And then I think a year or so after, 107 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 3: like we followed each other on Instagram or something like that, 108 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 3: and then I remember he was like I really recognize you, 109 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 3: and I was like, yeah, it's because we matched on 110 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 3: hinge like a year ago, Like that's where you remember 111 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 3: me from. 112 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 2: So is that how you became friends? 113 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 114 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 3: And then we just like became friends like through that, 115 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 3: And I didn't really think it was ever anything more 116 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 3: than that. 117 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 2: But so you did meet on the premise of dating. 118 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 3: That we did originally and then like after that didn't 119 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 3: if that makes sense, because we'd like naturally dating out 120 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 3: like a year before. It was also kind of awkward 121 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 3: because I hadn't seen him for a while, and like 122 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 3: he doesn't live in London, and I think he was 123 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 3: really nervous about the fact that we were being recorded. 124 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, so how does this actually work? 125 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 2: Do you come preprepared if any questions? 126 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: Or No? I have really good chat? 127 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 3: Oh Jesus right, Oh. 128 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: No, I don't do. Do you think I am a good chat? 129 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: Do you know me? 130 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 4: Well? I mean for this side of Lamb Jack, I 131 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 4: don't know. 132 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: But do you not think I have a good chat? 133 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 4: I do? I do? 134 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: I do? 135 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: And you feed bad me? 136 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: Do you think I'm a good conversation? List be honest speaking? 137 00:05:58,720 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: No, I do? 138 00:05:59,240 --> 00:05:59,479 Speaker 3: I do? 139 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 2: I do. 140 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 3: That's it. 141 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not going to get myself in trouble? 142 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 3: Am I So? 143 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 2: Well? Again? 144 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 3: What is pretty terrible outside? 145 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 2: I find it hard to believe you guys ever had 146 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 2: a vibe. I'm being quite honest. 147 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 3: Really, I felt that made me sad because I think 148 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 3: we get along really. 149 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: Well, Like all we doing with together is laugh. 150 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 2: I kind of felt like that was so awkward to 151 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 2: listen to. 152 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 3: Really, I just completely that I just disagree, Like all 153 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 3: I do when I'm with him is just take the 154 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 3: bit out of him. 155 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 2: But that is your what I've learned your style of communication, conversation. 156 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: I'm bad. 157 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 2: You could never go out with someone who like took 158 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: things personally. 159 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: I know, but can I tell you? 160 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, like it is very much like me and my 161 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 3: friends and my family. If you can't take a joke, 162 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 3: you should not spend time with us. Yeah, you're always 163 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 3: going to leave feeling offended. 164 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 2: So you love to rip the piss out of people, 165 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 2: but also you want to be what's that word praised? Praise, 166 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: but there's another word affirmed affirmed. Yeah, you need to 167 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 2: be friend constantly. 168 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: I do. 169 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 3: I'm I'm really I'm really needy. We really need He wasn't. 170 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 2: Really giving you any kind of feedback. He was actually, 171 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: I don't know the correctrum nagging to call it, but 172 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 2: he was kind of like almost making you feel like 173 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 2: it was bad. 174 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he was joking. This was a stressful day, 175 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 3: like in terms of the recording. I had a gig 176 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 3: in this bar, and like timing wise, we had to 177 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 3: do it in the bar of the venue that I 178 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 3: was about to do again. And it's one of the 179 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 3: only ones I felt really conscious that I was being 180 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 3: recorded because it was with someone I know that makes 181 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 3: sense like all of the other days, it's like, I 182 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 3: don't know you. 183 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: I'm not really thinking. 184 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 3: I'm more in the moment, whereas this I think we 185 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 3: both felt quite self conscious. And then we're in this 186 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 3: bar where I was getting like recognized quite a lot. 187 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 2: That's fine. 188 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: Are you coming to the you know that's where you 189 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 1: because I have that vibe. 190 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 3: That's right that you're coming, because I was just worried 191 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: that there wasn't going to be young women. Okay, great, way, 192 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,239 Speaker 3: it'll be really fun. 193 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 1: It's through the bat. 194 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 195 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: That like why is she saying? 196 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 2: Does this happen a lot? 197 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: Are you asking me that? 198 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 3: Genuinely? 199 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: Is that joke? I can't go anywhere in London? 200 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 2: So what do you think? Like obviously you're talking there 201 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 2: about like are you a good conversationist? Like is he 202 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 2: a good conversationist? Because like I didn't really get to 203 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 2: hear much of him there. I just heard him firm 204 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: me you you like me? So like from off the dates, 205 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 2: like you go in deep your questions on dates straight 206 00:08:56,480 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 2: away you were asking some juicy things that I'm like, 207 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,719 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even ask them a year into relationship. I like, 208 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 2: is that appropriate? You're like, You're like wild, You're like, so, 209 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 2: who was your last bang? Did you write anyone last night? 210 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 2: You had? 211 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 1: Reason? 212 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, so like did you did you get into 213 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 2: any of that? 214 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 3: Let's let's be cause I think at one point we 215 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 3: were talking about swallowing your own com. 216 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: Have you tried drawings? 217 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 3: No? 218 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: I think I would if I was the man, just 219 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: to see what. 220 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 3: No, I'm not that curious. 221 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 1: Do you have good reviews? I've never asked really pretty 222 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: terribly feedback. 223 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 2: I've told you this, you should last night? 224 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 4: FI. No, mainly enough, I don't think guys are very 225 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 4: open about tasting their own cum. 226 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: But maybe I should. 227 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,439 Speaker 2: Maybe I should start like pulling my friends. Yeah, if 228 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: you were a lad, you'd have a questionare out the 229 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 2: side of your bed, and when someone we finished, you'd 230 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 2: be like, can you just fill that out? Please? That's like, 231 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's what I know. That what you do. 232 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: Also, he was the man, I would suck my own 233 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 1: dick for sure. 234 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 2: Hey you can't, you can? 235 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: You wouldn't be I'm really flexible. 236 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 2: Well, well, Grace, that's a lot of information. I don't 237 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:14,359 Speaker 2: even know that conversation. 238 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 3: I think because I have a stand up routine about 239 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 3: how you can sort of assess the physical health of 240 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 3: a man by the taste of their car. 241 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, is that a joke? 242 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 3: No, it's for real, Like men of smoke a lot, 243 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,239 Speaker 3: their com is disgusting. 244 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: Sorry. Sorry, Okay, So the next guy, if anyone's dating you, 245 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 2: have a health check. No, I don't need to help check. 246 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: I just wanted to come and then I can tell. 247 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 2: You're like some colductor. You're like, I think you don't 248 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 2: taste right. 249 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 3: I once dated a guy and there was something so 250 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 3: weird about his calm, like disgusting, like disgusting, and then 251 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 3: he found out that he was really deficient in bittermin 252 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 3: d and then he started taking supplements and his com 253 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 3: tasted better. 254 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 2: Wow, grace, you should you should become like it should. 255 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 3: Be like a savant, like I'm a psychic. I'll take 256 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 3: your carmel, I'll tell you your future. 257 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:22,959 Speaker 1: Have you faked an orgasm? 258 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 2: No? 259 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 4: Really no, I definitely wish that things have been shorter 260 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 4: than well. 261 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 1: I mean I've stopped. 262 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, you stop take it, yeah, and be like, okay, 263 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 3: I've done it. 264 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 2: I need I need a naugh It's. 265 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 1: You know, like loads of men take orgasms. How could 266 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: you the conduct. 267 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 2: Where do you fucking meet these people? 268 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: People tell me? Crazy ship? 269 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 3: What has that happened to you? No? Well, probably like 270 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 3: now I'm paranoid has That's why I'm asking you. 271 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,559 Speaker 2: I'm going back, I've ever had taxes? Like? 272 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 3: Did you have fake? 273 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 2: Is this what this whole day in series fine about? 274 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 3: Can I just say, Rod's your face when you heard 275 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 3: that thing? When I said men fake orgasms? You did 276 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:09,719 Speaker 3: go a bit like. 277 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: Whoa, Yeah, I was like what it always shocks people? 278 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:14,120 Speaker 1: One in four men? 279 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I enough to price. Look, we've all been there, 280 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 2: We've all faked orgasms because we're like, we're just over 281 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 2: this right now. I just couldn't be arrest doing this 282 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 2: any longer. But can I just say, like, I think 283 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 2: it's funny thinking of them faking it because it's like acting. 284 00:12:28,960 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: It's like, oh no, this is what I'm saying. 285 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 3: Right, So I now know when I'm having sex with 286 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 3: a man and they come, I'm like, you cannot be faking, 287 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 3: because if you were faking, you would not sound like that, 288 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 3: Like men sound so unfavorable when they orgasm. Not to 289 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 3: give everyone a complex, but like now when I have 290 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 3: sex with a guy or like listen to the sounds America, 291 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 3: and I'm like, that was a real orgasm because they 292 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 3: sounded like they were crying and wanted to call their mom, 293 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 3: Like that was the vibe that they were giving me. 294 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 3: It's funny, like I've keep saying to my friends, like 295 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 3: this knowledge that men fake orgasms has not been good 296 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 3: for my like anxiety. Yeah, I just have to trust 297 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 3: the process and trust it when they're making these like 298 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 3: baby sounds that they are fully legitimately orgasmic. 299 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 2: Yeah. And you know what, whenever I fake an orrialism, 300 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 2: it's not because I'm like, oh, this isn't good. It's 301 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 2: more like I'm not in the zone. I think that's 302 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 2: the thing. 303 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 3: And like I just feel like there should be like 304 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 3: an easier way of saying that without having to fake it. 305 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 3: Because that's why women fake orgasms so much, is because 306 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 3: we are all worried that we're going to offend someone 307 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 3: if we say really sorry, like I'm not gonna come. 308 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 3: You're worried that they're going to like take it personally, 309 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 3: and so that's why we fake it. But if we 310 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 3: could just like more easily say, like, by the way, 311 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 3: like the end of sex doesn't always have to be 312 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 3: like both of us coming like or. 313 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: You know, as Grace would say, you could just come 314 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 2: into a cup and we can I'll just drink it 315 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 2: and check your health, you know. 316 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 3: Or you could just go to the bin and then 317 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 3: I'll go and try it with my mouth and then 318 00:13:48,280 --> 00:13:50,080 Speaker 3: I'll come back in and I'll say you need to 319 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 3: go to the doctor's mate. 320 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 2: Basically, it just happens quite a lot. 321 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 3: But like I'll forget them with my period, i won't say, 322 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 3: or I'll come on with him when I'm coming to 323 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 3: and then like the man will be like, oh, you're 324 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 3: you're bleeding and I'm like okay, like so and then 325 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 3: they're like I've done. 326 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,719 Speaker 1: It despite that, when it's like it's not. 327 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 3: How an intention like you to say, are these people 328 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 3: that this guy that I was seeing and like the 329 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 3: first time he was like, it's cool, it's poor, no problem, 330 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 3: no problem, And the second time he was like, I 331 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 3: feel like you are doing your purpose. You're not telling 332 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 3: me on purpose, and then they're just planned everywhere. I 333 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 3: feel like people who react like either way, there's something 334 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 3: wrong with you if. 335 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 4: You react either way if you react or you react 336 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,479 Speaker 4: going oh, there's not real against me whatever. 337 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 3: If you react like, oh my god, amazing blood, like 338 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 3: I'm a vaire, Well that's a bad, terrible do you 339 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 3: think Do you think because my friends keep saying to me, 340 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 3: like I always talk about other people i've banged on 341 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 3: first dates? 342 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: Do you think that. 343 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 2: I know you do? Do you think that's a bad 344 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: thing to do? I look, from what I've learned from 345 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 2: basically going on data to you, there's no right or wrong, 346 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 2: like do you know what I mean? And it depends 347 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: on the vibe of the other person, like it might 348 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 2: open a conversation and create a good communication from the 349 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 2: get go, but I suppose personally would I probably not, 350 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 2: Like I would just use the first day to establish 351 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 2: like do I have any similarities with this person? Like 352 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 2: do I fancy? Then what I realized I'm a basic bitch. 353 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, do you ever been to the zoo? 354 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 2: What's your favorite daughter? And you're like, have you tasted 355 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 2: your own comm I'm like, Jesus Christ, if I get 356 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 2: back in with dating game, I'm like, such a loser, 357 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 2: what the hell? 358 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm I'm you know, it's a lot, 359 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 3: and I'm aware of that, and I've never thought about 360 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 3: it till I've done this and I've had to listen 361 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 3: back to myself. 362 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 2: But like that's your personality, Like why change your personality 363 00:15:53,640 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 2: for a first date. You may well let people know 364 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 2: kind of you know who you are and what your 365 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 2: topics of conversation are like and what your interests are, 366 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 2: and like, you know, you are extremely open person so 367 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 2: I just don't think you should hide that. 368 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:07,560 Speaker 3: Just sometimes I think about this with like people like 369 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 3: this where it's like a friend that I've gotten with 370 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 3: in the past, and then like I'll like talk so 371 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 3: openly about like other people that I'm getting with. I 372 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 3: think that's the way of me establishing like it's not 373 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 3: that deep. But I understand that maybe sometimes that can 374 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 3: be like a bit jarring because I feel like I 375 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 3: have a bit of a double standard, where like if 376 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 3: he started talking like that about the people that he'd 377 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 3: been getting with, I think I'd be like, WHOA, do you. 378 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: Know what I mean, Grace, that's bad. You're like, you're like, 379 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 2: I can do it, but if you do it, I'm 380 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 2: going to search in the bin and make sure the 381 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 2: whole clip there about being on your period having sex. 382 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 2: I don't think there's stigma around that is there. 383 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: I think there is. 384 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 2: I'm sorry saying the person. I've literally been in a 385 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 2: relationship since I was like fifteen, so i'd say, you know, 386 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 2: like I think when you're in your relationship, there probably 387 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 2: isn't Danny, Yes, it's like whatever, but like maybe there is, 388 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: like when you're having one night to dance or just 389 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 2: hooking up with people. 390 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 3: I don't know, Like I have friends who don't have 391 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 3: sex on my period of their long term partners. Mm hmm, 392 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 3: but like you know what I mean, right, No, I know, 393 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 3: but it's obviously it's crazy to me. 394 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 2: That's a busy gal. You know, there's a few days 395 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 2: a month or your first because you're you know, like busy. 396 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, it happens famously. You get really horny when you're 397 00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: in your period. 398 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: Exactly was exactly to not make the most of. 399 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 3: Like being really horning and also what's like what you 400 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 3: have to like put some sheets in a washing machine 401 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 3: like grow up. I have had that quite a few times, 402 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 3: where like I'll just presume that it's fine to have 403 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 3: sex with someone on my period, so like I won't 404 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 3: even say anything, and then they'll be like, oh, there's blood, 405 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 3: and I'm like, yeah, blood, and I'm like, oh, grow up, 406 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 3: have you ever seen blood before? 407 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 2: So I wonder that's a good question, Like, I don't 408 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 2: know if you're hooking up with the guy you don't like, 409 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 2: you're not in a relationship with, do you have to 410 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 2: let them know I'm on my period? Do you want 411 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 2: to do this or not? 412 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:57,760 Speaker 1: I guess you should. 413 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 3: I think I don't ever like consciously not do it, 414 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 3: like forget and then we're having sex and I'm like, oh, 415 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 3: I'll just tell them like once there's blood. 416 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,479 Speaker 2: Okay, great, I've another grace, And how do you forget? 417 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: Like do you have to take your tampon it? 418 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 4: Yeah? 419 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: I was just like, you know, I'll just do it. 420 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 2: Down the side of the bed, grace. 421 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, no, stop it. 422 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 3: I'm I feel like I am I'm too much. I'm disgusting. 423 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 2: I suppose you do need to let themone know if 424 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:31,159 Speaker 2: you're on your period. 425 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 3: I think it depends what day of the period you're on. 426 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 3: At the end of the period where there's no blood, like, 427 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 3: I really don't think it matters. 428 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well there's no blood, but it's more in 429 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 2: the jump scare that they're not like, oh my god, 430 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 2: my dick is falling off. Fuck just blood everywhere. 431 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that is so true. 432 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 2: That's so true. Having sex with my period before and 433 00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 2: like that. It was actually I didn't know I had it. 434 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 2: It kind of like it like came while I was 435 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,239 Speaker 2: having sex. So sex can bring on your period, is that? 436 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 437 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah, And like he pulled out whatever and 438 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 2: he went very quiet like I was, and he was like, 439 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 2: my I forgot and I was like, oh my god, 440 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 2: what's right? Very well, what's going on? Then I was like, oh, no, 441 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 2: I have my periods. I'm very sorry about that. I 442 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 2: just you know, when it first comes, it comes like 443 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:17,640 Speaker 2: a lot. 444 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, that's so funny. I've never thought 445 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,679 Speaker 1: about it that that's the main character of me. 446 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 3: I've never thought, Wow, they must be scared that they're broken. 447 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 1: Their foreskin jump scared, you know what I mean? 448 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 2: You just need to give them their heads up. They 449 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 2: don't think their dick is falling off? 450 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 3: Right? Should we have bought this and then get another 451 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 3: drink and then you can watched me to stand up? Sure? Yeah? Sure, 452 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 3: you enjoy it? 453 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 1: Did I enjoy with this? 454 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 2: Check? I always enjoyed. It's always it's always a pleasure. 455 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 2: Never children, So, Grace, would you ever date a friend 456 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 2: again after that date? Yes? 457 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. 458 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 3: I think like I've got to be just careful in 459 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 3: the future with making situations unnecessarily complicated for myself, So 460 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 3: if it's going to be too complicated, it's probably not 461 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 3: worth it. 462 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: Because I also feel like there's. 463 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:11,600 Speaker 3: A nice thing about meeting someone not on a dating app. 464 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 3: I know, in this instance, we originally made on a 465 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:14,639 Speaker 3: dating app, but do you know what I mean, like 466 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 3: it not being like we've natural a dating app. Let's 467 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 3: go over a date, like after two interactions, it's quite 468 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 3: nice there being some kind of relationship prior to that. 469 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 3: But I'm not sure if it's ever going to go 470 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 3: well for your odds. 471 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:26,880 Speaker 2: But like, do you ever think it to go back 472 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 2: to normal that you can be friends again after this 473 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 2: or is it too awkward? No? 474 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 1: I do, I do think so. 475 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm eager to know in life if 476 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 3: this stuff is possible. Like I tried to be friends 477 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 3: with my ex boyfriend for a while, and it just 478 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,439 Speaker 3: eventually like we were friends for like a year and 479 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 3: spoke all the time about like our new people we 480 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:46,439 Speaker 3: were seeing and blah blah blah, and then eventually it 481 00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 3: just became too much. So you can never really know 482 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 3: if this stuff is going to work until like it 483 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,159 Speaker 3: just does naturally happen or it just feels out. 484 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: You never talked to. 485 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 2: Them, and I know, obviously the chat was like very mixed, 486 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: like you know, you were going in deep with the chair, 487 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 2: and sometimes I did feel that we're awkward. But at 488 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 2: the same time, I think they were awkward because I'm 489 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:07,199 Speaker 2: a feeling you kind of do like this guy, and 490 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 491 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because we do get on, but I 492 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,239 Speaker 3: feel like, no, I feel like in a more like 493 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 3: long term way, we probably wouldn't be compatible. Like I 494 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 3: think maybe I am just a bit too much of 495 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 3: a fucking insane person for him. He's quite like Chill, 496 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 3: who knows we should get him on the podcast. 497 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,159 Speaker 2: She get him on to interrogate him and have a 498 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 2: life testing. You can check us health, we'll see what 499 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:37,679 Speaker 2: it's ask Grace, Oh my god. And no matter how 500 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 2: many dating one and how many times I sit and 501 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 2: talk to you, and I'm just never surprised anymore, honestly, 502 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 2: Like I live my life by churiously through your wild 503 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 2: man brain. 504 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: Next time. On twenty eight dates Later. 505 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 4: Honestly, the way he talks the person, it sounds like 506 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 4: he's trying to make you buy shares in his startup. 507 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 4: He's the kind of guy that gets a guitar out 508 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,920 Speaker 4: at of the after party, like that's what it's given. 509 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:04,160 Speaker 2: I don't want to hear wonder Wall. Oh, my girls 510 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,679 Speaker 2: will see around for me. I'm a servy jo. 511 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 3: You can hear it? 512 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 2: Are you giving to? 513 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 3: Twenty eight Days Later is produced by Novel for iHeartRadio. 514 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 3: For more from Novel, visit novel dot Audio. The series 515 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 3: is presented by me Grace Campbell, with help from Roz 516 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 3: Pursu and Dan Why. The producer is Diggrey Way. The 517 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:31,200 Speaker 3: executive producer is Claire Broughton. Our editors are Mithillly Raw 518 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 3: and Max O'Brien. Production management from Charie Houston and Charlotte Wall. 519 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 3: Willard Foxton is our creative director of Development. Novel