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Speaker 3: Hey, welcome to.

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Speaker 2: The Black Guy to his podcast, your host Rod, and we're.

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Speaker 2: My guess is it'll be kind of short, since we've

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Speaker 2: The show has definitely helped me grow and challenge me

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Speaker 2: in ways in my college philosophy that my college philosophy

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Speaker 2: That's a big compliment. Rod and Karen are really out

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Speaker 2: Karen's husband, Uh, they are really the hardest working ninjas

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Speaker 2: it's interesting because you know, we are not classically trained

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Speaker 4: No, Like I said, my goal this year is to

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Speaker 4: That movies old, but you know it's new to me.

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Speaker 4: They don't care about you. They don't even care about

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Speaker 3: It's certain people because of social.

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00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 4: Media and the way to that went down about the presidency,

440
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 4: about Hillary, Quinton Bernie Sanders.

441
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just don't.

442
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 4: Take certain people's opinions seriously anymore. I just don't and

443
00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:58,240
Speaker 4: I can't.

444
00:21:58,480 --> 00:21:58,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

445
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 2: The thing for me, though, is, uh, you kind of

446
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 2: touched on a little bit, but people just need something

447
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:04,159
Speaker 2: to talk about.

448
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:06,880
Speaker 3: Correct And it's a that's the whole point.

449
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: Like with a lot of stuff with social media, is

450
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 2: something to talk about So while it might be petty

451
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 2: and it might not be it might be ineffectual because

452
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 2: I really haven't really seen it be effective in uh

453
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,479
Speaker 2: in much but this whole like let's bring up some

454
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: old shit. It definitely gives people something to talk about.

455
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,200
Speaker 2: People can't help it, even if they want to talk

456
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 2: about how it's not important or how they don't care.

457
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 2: And I'm not canceling such and such and all that shit.

458
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 2: It just it does drive traffic, you know, and I

459
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 2: think it drives engagement and interaction, and that's really what

460
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,440
Speaker 2: people are mostly after I think, so, uh, you know,

461
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 2: while it while it might seem I mean, it's definitely petty,

462
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 2: and it's definitely some sort of an attack, but it's

463
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,359
Speaker 2: also like for me personally with Travis Scott, not really

464
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 2: relevant to him. Like it's just more like we shouldn't

465
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 2: like this guy. Not I don't feel like whoever performs

466
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 2: at the super Bowl. I don't know how the super

467
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: Bowl belcain this thing. I don't know how super Bowl

468
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 2: halftime became this. It is kind of ridiculous to me.

469
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 2: I think people will take it might take them a

470
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 2: few months or years to step back and realize how

471
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 2: ridiculous this was. But I don't know when this became

472
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 2: the test for like wokeness or blackness, but somehow it did.

473
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 2: And I don't know when that's supposed to end. Like,

474
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 2: and I honestly wonder if certain people would have took

475
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 2: the job, if motherfuckers would actually be on board, even

476
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 2: despite them claiming that this is the right thing to do.

477
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 3: Of course, because Rady's don't lie.

478
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 4: As much as people can't claim they don't watch it,

479
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 4: Radies don't lie.

480
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean not just that, but I'm talking about

481
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 2: like the attitude towards the person. So like if Cardi

482
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 2: would have accepted it, I wonder if people would be like, yes, like,

483
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 2: oh my, I can't wait to watch. I know she

484
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 2: gonna tear it up. You know what I'm saying. If

485
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 2: you know, like if someone we universally fucked with or

486
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 2: not universally because no, but you know what I'm saying,

487
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 2: if somebody most people fucked with took it, like Travis Scott,

488
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 2: not really for our people around us, right, He's not

489
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: the dude that most of us fuck with. You know,

490
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 2: we had that transphobic slash you know, homophobic interaction thing

491
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 2: with his cover he's married.

492
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,640
Speaker 3: To or not married.

493
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: He's gotta when the Kardashian's pregnant or something.

494
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 3: You know.

495
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: He like, I don't even think he was in the

496
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:32,160
Speaker 2: lane of people that for And he's popular as fuck though.

497
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 2: After World was also Nicki Minaja's album, and shit like

498
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 2: it isn't like he's a nobody.

499
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, he just don't run it like you said in

500
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 4: our circles, I've heard his name, but you asked me

501
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 4: a song.

502
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, who's that.

503
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 4: I'm like, you play, Oh, I've heard that song before.

504
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 2: But I don't know who he Yeah, I was during

505
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 2: the holidays. I was hanging out with my niece and

506
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 2: my dad and we were looking at YouTube, playing like

507
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 2: clips and stuff. I was showing him funny stuff we

508
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 2: see all the time, and they were showing me funny clubs.

509
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 3: And then she was like, oh, how.

510
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: You seen the syca mode memes and I was like,

511
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is, and then you know,

512
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 2: they played all the sycamode memes.

513
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, yeah, I forgot.

514
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 2: I forgot to listen to Extra World this year, just

515
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,199
Speaker 2: old just forgot, like I wanted to listen to it.

516
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 2: I understand that, you know, he's called a calle canceled

517
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 2: for people and shit, But I just wanted to listen

518
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 2: to it to hear what the fucking big deal was,

519
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 2: and I forgot.

520
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 3: Good, you know what I mean.

521
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 2: So it was funny though, because that was that meme

522
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,640
Speaker 2: had all these like millions of likes and shit because

523
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: people been playing it because it's such a popular thing.

524
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 3: So uh, it does to me.

525
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 2: It seemed like it would be in line with him

526
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 2: to get the super Bowl or to want it anyway.

527
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 3: A lot of artists wanted correct.

528
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 2: I don't know why monolithic black unity was the expectation

529
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 2: when it came to that job.

530
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 3: I just don't get it.

531
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 4: And the thing is, we have never been unified. I

532
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 4: don't know what is this false perception that all have

533
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 4: been unified, even for civil rights, all negros wouldn't unify.

534
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 4: And some of them was like, leave whity alone. I'm

535
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 4: just glad to be alive today. So we would never

536
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 4: ever ever fed right.

537
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 3: And then what's interesting though, is.

538
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 2: With what people feeling this way, like because I know

539
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 2: people that haven't really fucked with the super Bowl for

540
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 2: a long time. But when Beyonce had halftime for Formation,

541
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 2: everybody was watching that shit. Didn't nobody care about any

542
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 2: of that old shit. Everybody was like, yep, it's Beyonce.

543
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: It's basically a free fifteen minute concert. Everybody was live

544
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 2: tweeting it. And I don't even remember who played in

545
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 2: the super Bowl that year. I remember Beyonce, So I do.

546
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 2: I do think there is like a level of this

547
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 2: where people are kind of kidding themselves because it's like,

548
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 2: if the right person took it, we'd be like, yeah,

549
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: I'm watching, But yeah, it's just funny because I still

550
00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: don't understand what the uh, what the relevance Travis Scott

551
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 2: saying that shit had to do with this Super Bowl,

552
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: but you know, it is what it is, and plus

553
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 2: a nigga like that. The real truth is he.

554
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 3: Only got there because so many people did turn it down.

555
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he y'all. He wouldn't number one on the list,

556
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 3: believe you me.

557
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 2: Like, no offense to him, but he'd be a fool

558
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: to give that up because it's not coming back.

559
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 4: You probably number two hundredth and the first and only time.

560
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 4: He'll probably never get an invite again.

561
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:26,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what the number is.

562
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 2: I don't want to, like, there's no disrespect to like

563
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 2: I said, because he did have a big ass album

564
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 2: this year last year, so it's not beyond there the

565
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: scope that they might want him, right, but they want

566
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 2: him after X amount of acts.

567
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 3: You picked the number, but I had to say no.

568
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, So he actually be a fool to get his

569
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 2: back because it's not coming back around like the second

570
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,679
Speaker 2: because because next year black people could decide I'm not

571
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 2: that mad anymore and black people could start performing at

572
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 2: the super Bowl. It only, like I said, it only

573
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 2: takes the right person saying yes, and his ass will

574
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 2: never get an invite back because he ain't the NFL's tight.

575
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: I know he was shocked on that phone, rang like

576
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 2: what they want need to do and he was like, yes,

577
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 2: they heard my music.

578
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 3: And they won't. Okay, all right, all right.

579
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 2: Regarding the wrestler who had his locks cut off, this

580
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 2: story had my blood boiling.

581
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 3: I actually cried while watching the video.

582
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,199
Speaker 2: I have been growing locks since two thousand and eight,

583
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 2: and I get tense with my location. I mean, my

584
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: locktician gives me a much needed trim. I'm upset that

585
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 2: the coach and the rest of the team didn't take

586
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 2: the al and support their teammate. I'm also upset that

587
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 2: the referee was allowed to continue to referee after he

588
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: had a racist isn't it had he been removed that

589
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 2: wrestler will still have his locks. I think the thing

590
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 2: that angers me the most is that no one in

591
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 2: the gym felt the need to protect that child. This

592
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 2: goes to be to the bigger issue of how black

593
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: children are not protected in society. I was one hundred

594
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: percent fuck with and I'm still mad. Thanks for all

595
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 2: that you do, A quilla.

596
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 3: Yeah.

597
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 2: The other thing, a qualiya is them white people don't

598
00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: even know the language sometimes or the they don't know

599
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 2: the value of what we value.

600
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 3: So yeah, because it's not the same.

601
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can absolutely see those coaches and teammates being

602
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: white and being well intentioned and feeling like I can't

603
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: believe he would step up for the team like that

604
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: and cut his hair off and not having any ill will,

605
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: no racist shit about it, right, just legitimately being like, fuck, man,

606
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,479
Speaker 2: I we really respect you as a teammate, because they

607
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 2: don't understand the work that goes into that black hair,

608
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,560
Speaker 2: the meaning of our bodies being fucking you know, having

609
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: to be conformed like that, Like they don't understand any

610
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: of it, you know, And that's why, you know, it's

611
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 2: I don't like, this is not a knock against white

612
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: schools and shit, Please don't take it that way.

613
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 3: But I think that's why.

614
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: People will still cling to and want to see succeed

615
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 2: like these black spaces where we have like HBCUs A

616
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 2: certain black schools and stuff, because because at least the

617
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 2: black people in those roles will know the value and

618
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 2: be like, what the fuck, No, you're not cutting his

619
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 2: hair off? What are you doing? Put the scissors down,

620
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: get away from him, you know what I mean? Yeah,

621
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: like that, nobody's trying to trying to do that for you.

622
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 2: And we're gonna take a stand now if you want

623
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 2: to be the ref that fucking blew the whole playoff

624
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: bracket and tournament for to make a grand stand against

625
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 2: some hair, we're actually willing to make us think about it.

626
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 2: So we'll be seeing, you know, we'll be getting you

627
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 2: fired now, Like if you want to give up your

628
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 2: job today because.

629
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 3: You can't you can't stand to let this kid have

630
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 3: three inch locks? Fuck you, you know.

631
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, they don't even have the language when they

632
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 2: sit in that living room and tell you, I'm gonna

633
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 2: take care of your son like he's my son. That

634
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 2: is what they do with they son, right cause it's

635
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 2: not as it's not as symbolic, it doesn't mean the

636
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 2: same thing. Brooklyn Shoe Babe says, I'm saying in all

637
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 2: serious that I'm in all seriousness that I'm triggered by

638
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: that twenty year old girl that fucked offset and apologized

639
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 2: a CARDI for sleeping with her husband. I was a

640
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 2: victim DELI about ten years until my marriage, and I

641
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 2: was fucking livid that at both my husband at the

642
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: time and the woman he cheated with. If that bitch

643
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 2: was in the same city where we lived, I would

644
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 2: have driven to the house with my squad and fucked up.

645
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 3: Damn, I'm gonna catch that charge.

646
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 2: And seriously, seriously, when I was thirty and the mistress

647
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: called me a couple of days after nine to eleven,

648
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 2: happened to apologize because she didn't want to die with

649
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 2: this type of regret on her chest. I accepted it

650
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 2: on the phone out of kindness, but not in my heart.

651
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 2: There's nothing that says that a person has to accept

652
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 2: your apology. The apology is never for the person wrong

653
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 2: it's for the person who did the wrong thing. That's true,

654
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 2: and this person, I mean, that's gracious that you two

655
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: accept on the phone like that. I probably would do

656
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 2: some shit like that too, But you gotta work through

657
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 2: it on your own, you know, uh, Like because everybody

658
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: always says, you know, the apology is for yourself.

659
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 3: You know what else for yourself.

660
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 2: The forgiveness or the lack of forgiveness, that's for you. You know,

661
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 2: it's not really for the other person. Like to a

662
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 2: certain extent, I feel like the apology is where you

663
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 2: have to learn to forgive yourself, because that's the end

664
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 2: of it. You know, as far as uh, it's out

665
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: of your hands. It was what I mean, as far

666
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 2: as how someone perceives it or takes it or what

667
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 2: they do with it. That you have to give up

668
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 2: relinquished control of the narrative. When you apologize, you go,

669
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, this is what I did wrong. And then

670
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 2: it's about what you want to do for yourself to

671
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: heal and get better or become a better person or

672
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 2: what however you want to make amends.

673
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 3: That becomes about you, you know, I think, and to

674
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 3: forgive you.

675
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 4: Because I think people go, I'm sorry, but then forgive me, right.

676
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: And then the other part of this is, uh, in

677
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 2: the Internet age especially, I think it's gotten a little

678
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: out of control with the like no apologies, good enough,

679
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: no never forgive anybody. It's gotten a little bit like

680
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 2: it's leaning a little bit too hard to that side too,

681
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 2: because I don't know, man, at least for me, that's

682
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 2: just not my mind, that's not my my chi, you

683
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like a lot of people like that,

684
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,719
Speaker 2: you're angry all the time, right, Well, the thing I

685
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: was gonna say is we've kind of delved into like, well,

686
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 2: what does this person want to be whole or whatever?

687
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 2: And that's cool. I think that's that should definitely be

688
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 2: part of that process. But that also there's limits to

689
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 2: that shit too, you know that like it like it

690
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 2: really does depend because some people will take that and

691
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 2: then be like switched flip the power dynamics and now

692
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 2: I'm abusing you, you know, so at any rate, I

693
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 2: feel you, I understand how you could, Like, I think

694
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 2: it was actually nice of you to be like, all right, apology,

695
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: accept it, because you ain't never gonna have to hear

696
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 2: that woman again. But at the same time, I also

697
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: understand how you could be like, yeah, but deep down inside,

698
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 2: I'm not healed from this.

699
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's a process. Right. What uh that means

700
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 3: she never offered it sincerely? Oh wait, all right?

701
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 2: Is it for the person who did the wrong thing,

702
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 2: because she took that the woman that puts her apology back,

703
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: she said, and this woman who slept well off set

704
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 2: took the apology back. That means she never offer it sincerely.

705
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 2: Such a child.

706
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

707
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: It's been fifteen years and I've forgiven the woman who

708
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 2: slept with my husband at the time. But it took

709
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 2: me a long time and I had nothing to do

710
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 2: with her or him, but all about me? Yep, I

711
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 2: do I feel you? I get to accept the Podia

712
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 2: forgets on in my time. If that happened in the

713
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 2: time of the Instagram, Facebook and Twitter, I can't say

714
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 2: that I wouldn't act as ugly towards the mistress as

715
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 2: Cardi is alleged to be. Yeah, what's funny is I

716
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 2: don't really think Cardi's acting ugly. She shut down the

717
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 2: interview and shit, which okay, like she got the power

718
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: in the control to do that. The radio station could

719
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 2: say no, but she allegedly shut down the Internet. It

720
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,760
Speaker 2: doesn't sound sound like she told anybody to hack the woman.

721
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 2: I think Cardi's fans are crazy because they on the

722
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 2: Internet being crazy and they hacked that woman's Instagram and

723
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 2: are fucking with all her posts and stuff like that.

724
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 2: But that's what happens when you are basically trolling a

725
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 2: superstar who's famous on the Instagram and on the internet,

726
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 2: you try about fucking her husband, Like what did you

727
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 2: think would happen?

728
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 3: You know?

729
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 2: I like, uh, like I said, I can understand both

730
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 2: sides of that, like her fucking that, Like I don't

731
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 2: know that her fucking offset is such a ridiculous thing

732
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 2: in the world that they live in, and the way

733
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 2: that Cardi gets down, the way the offset gets down,

734
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 2: Like I felt like everybody when they first got engaged,

735
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 2: it was like this nigga is going to still be

736
00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 2: a piece of shit, you know, And that's us not

737
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 2: knowing either one of them from a distance, being like

738
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 2: all of this sounds crazy, right, So I don't know.

739
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 2: I think that woman is trying to make her come

740
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 2: up in the way that Cardi kind of made her

741
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 2: come up through Instagram and shit, and you know, Carti

742
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 2: knows the game better than her, and she's and she's

743
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 2: lump further along, so she's shutting her down. It's funny

744
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:03,240
Speaker 2: because what she Nikki allegedly shut Cardi shit down, tried

745
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 2: to and it didn't work anyway. So if this woman

746
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 2: is talented or truly is something more than just a

747
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 2: check that fucked this dude, this, she'll be back. If not,

748
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: then who gives a fuck. Everybody's gonna move on. You

749
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: still just the woman that fucked this girl's.

750
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 3: Husband until you until you do something else, you know, Cardi.

751
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 3: That's the thing.

752
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: Cardi might have been a side chick and breaking home

753
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 2: record and all that shit on love and hip hop,

754
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: but she also had like talent. She also had a

755
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 2: really magnetic personality. She also had like a lot of work,

756
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 2: hustled and all that shit.

757
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 3: I mean, it's a lot to be somebody like Cardi.

758
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 2: You know, the poe has had someone your dating ever

759
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 2: giving you a horrible Christmas gift?

760
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 3: Yes?

761
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 4: No?

762
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 3: Or no one has ever given me anything?

763
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 4: Cries.

764
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:54,760
Speaker 3: Thirty five percent.

765
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: Of y'all say yes, you have gotten a horrible Christmas gift, Karen,

766
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 2: I don't think all right. Forty six percent say no,

767
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 2: never got a horrible Christmas gift. He's talking about rumber

768
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 2: like a loved one or just a gift from anybody. Oh, yes, yes,

769
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 2: I have got a horrible Christmas kip before.

770
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 3: What was it? You don't want to say? Oh no, no, no.

771
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 3: It was.

772
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 4: A book, a book about some shit I didn't care about.

773
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 4: And I was like, what the fuck is this? And

774
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 4: why you give me this goddamn book?

775
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, nothing's worst. I was a child too, I was like,

776
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 3: nothing's worse than getting a present. That's work, right. I

777
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 3: was like, I want a toil.

778
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 2: I want something I don't read, Like, if you want

779
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:34,919
Speaker 2: to give me an exercise bike, give me that ship

780
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 2: two weeks after Christmas and just pretend like that it.

781
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 3: Wasn't for Christmas when it was on sale. I don't

782
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 3: blame you. I mean, I'm not saying when it was

783
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 3: on sale.

784
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying you could buy and have every attention that

785
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 2: that's my Christmas present, But just give me some something

786
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 2: else on Christmas.

787
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 3: And then two weeks later.

788
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 2: Just oh you know, I happened to have this exercise bike, Like,

789
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 2: don't you know, don't slap me in the face with

790
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 2: it on Christmas?

791
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

792
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 4: No, no, and I've got the presence of the child

793
00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 4: with socks and drawls.

794
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 3: But I don't want this bullshit either.

795
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 4: Right and now, as an adult, I'm like, good, I

796
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 4: ain't gonna spend the money as a child. I'm like, kids,

797
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:07,280
Speaker 4: what the fuck I'm.

798
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 3: Gonna socks for?

799
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: Not me as an adult or as a kid trash

800
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 2: gift like I'll I will actually.

801
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 3: Go and buy my own.

802
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 2: And when you're a kid, nigga, that's cheating. You know

803
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 2: you're supposed to get me those the fuck is this?

804
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 2: You're gonna give me oxygen next month, like for your birthday,

805
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 2: breathing food, like that's what you're supposed to do. You

806
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 2: want extra credit. I know how I felt when I

807
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,279
Speaker 2: was a kid. You set up here live if you

808
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 2: walk to When I was a kid, I was like,

809
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: this is trash. You didn't do shit, But you go

810
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 2: to fucking what's next? You're gonna go to a CVS

811
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,360
Speaker 2: or Eckers and get a damn toy from there, the

812
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 2: bare minimum.

813
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 3: Here's here's a box of M and MS.

814
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 2: No, nigga, we could have got that at any time.

815
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 2: Give me an actual gift or don't give me shit.

816
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 2: Forty six percent said no, they did not get a

817
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 2: bad gift, and nineteen percent said, no one's ever given

818
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: me anything for Christ and then cries. See T says,

819
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 2: my husband is terrible at gift giving. So for holidays

820
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 2: and anniversaries, we go gift shopping together. We point out

821
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 2: a few things that we like, and then we buy

822
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,360
Speaker 2: each other gifts based off of what we like. And

823
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 2: if I really and if I really don't have the time,

824
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 2: I just send him links to what I want. No

825
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 2: one has time for get finking like I like something

826
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 2: or returning gifts.

827
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 3: This works for us.

828
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 4: That's why I do gift cards. People get in their feelings,

829
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 4: but I make that y'all, here's a gift card.

830
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 3: Go buy what you want.

831
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 2: Every kiss begins with practicality, Okay, like don't you ain't

832
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 2: got to go out.

833
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 3: Here and try to go on a limb for me?

834
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 3: And then the last thing, Like I said, I interviewed

835
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 3: Lewis L.

836
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 2: Reid, national organizer for Cut fifty, and we discussed the

837
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 2: First Step Act and a bunch of other stuff.

838
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 3: I thought it was a good interview.

839
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 2: I did see a few comments on social media that

840
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:58,439
Speaker 2: people really enjoyed the interview. Once again, you know, felt

841
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 2: a little bit out of my depth or just out

842
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 2: of my lane. Wasn't sure if I should even be

843
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 2: doing this interview or whatever. But whenever I do an

844
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 2: interview like that, I try to do like the definitive

845
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 2: one so that if people ever need a resource, they

846
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 2: can go back and be like, oh, yeah, this is

847
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 2: what this dude thinks about this, this, and this. You know,

848
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 2: a similar thing with with Kwanmeles, where I'm like, I

849
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 2: don't know that I agree with everything you're saying, but

850
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna try to get you. I'm not gonna

851
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 2: do an antagonistic interview, but I'm just gonna ask the

852
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 2: questions and you give the answers and the people will

853
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,879
Speaker 2: judge how they feel about you.

854
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 3: Correct.

855
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:36,919
Speaker 2: And in this case, it you know, it's the same

856
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,359
Speaker 2: kind of thing where I don't really agree with Van

857
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,280
Speaker 2: Jones and his glad handing with Trump and I think

858
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 2: the optics of it are horrible, just to be kind

859
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 2: about it. And you know, when I got the email

860
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: like would you interview me or whatever, I was kind

861
00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 2: of like, is this just gonna be you selling every

862
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: everybody on this crime bill that I think is gonna

863
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 2: end up being some ship possibly because it's just so

864
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 2: who's implementing it, Like, I just can't trust this administration

865
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: in a way that you know, that that that that

866
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: that Van Jones seems to be doing. And uh, you

867
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 2: know the interview, he said, you give me thirty minutes,

868
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 2: but it went for like an hour, which I think

869
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 2: is always a good sign when you know, they open

870
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 2: up and they really want to talk, and uh, we

871
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 2: end up talking about his history with his own like incarceration,

872
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 2: We end up talking about his own history working on

873
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 2: criminal criminal justice reform on a local level before joining

874
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 2: this organization, and uh we and we did get into

875
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 2: Trump and the pictures of Dan Jones with him and

876
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 2: all that type of ship too, you know. So it

877
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 2: was it was a very interesting interview. I thought he

878
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 2: was a very uh I thought he was pretty forthright.

879
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 2: But of course he is here to sell the community

880
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 2: on his product essentially, or this bill that they got passed.

881
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 2: So I mean, I don't expect him to be too

882
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 2: critical of his own bill, you know, obviously, But I

883
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 2: still feel like it was a pretty good conversation and

884
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 2: I appreciate everybody took the time out to say that

885
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 2: they enjoyed it. Matthew says, I appreciated this interview, especially

886
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,839
Speaker 2: because of the honesty behind the fact that you wasn't

887
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 2: really sure you wanted to do it. But I started

888
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,760
Speaker 2: cracking up when I heard Rides turn up Seed Jr.

889
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 2: Song at the end, and I thought, why would he

890
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 2: in this interview like that. I didn't only to realize

891
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 2: I had just had three guys on next thing in

892
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 2: my queue that was supposed to be and then he

893
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 2: put shaking my head emoji at the end of the comment.

894
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 2: I was like, what, I didn't do any of this, sir,

895
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 2: But yeah, thank you for listening.

896
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 3: I'm glad you enjoyed the interview.

897
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 2: And I saw the other comments on Facebook and Twitter.

898
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 2: Thank you for those people who left comments too, Because

899
00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 2: when I do these interviews, I'm not sure. I'm saying, like,

900
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 2: I don't know how people are gonna feel about the

901
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 2: interview after it's done either. And that's what feedback is for,

902
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 2: you know, and for people that that that write in

903
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: and give feedback and stuff. I appreciate it, you know,

904
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,760
Speaker 2: whether it's good to be like yo, I love this interview,

905
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 2: Da da da da. I appreciate that there's there's guests

906
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 2: I've interviewed where I am like, I don't know about

907
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 2: this nigga, but I interview them because I do want to.

908
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 2: I find them interesting and I do want to have

909
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: it out there. I've interviewed like shah be Uh. I

910
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,879
Speaker 2: don't know if you guys remember shah Bey but that's

911
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 2: oh right now, yeah right, that's the old one.

912
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 3: But you know, like the interview is not an endorsement.

913
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 3: It's not it's not.

914
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 2: Me going and everything this person does it's great, and

915
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 2: I agree with them and all that shit, But the

916
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 2: interview is like, this person is interesting.

917
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 3: What what will people think? What the people have to

918
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 3: say about it?

919
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:56,799
Speaker 2: You know. And and there's also a ton of people

920
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 2: that I've interviewed that I actually enjoyed and liked and

921
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 2: so port they're working stuff too. But I mean, obviously

922
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 2: you can tell through the interview and the I don't know,

923
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 2: two thousand episodes of.

924
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 3: The podcast what kind of should I'm on?

925
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 4: So uh?

926
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 2: And And also I've interviewed people that fucking hate us.

927
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 6: M hm.

928
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 2: You know, I'm DJ Eric Monroe when he talked shit

929
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 2: about Karen on Twitter and I put down to the

930
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 2: medium talk, you know, when we had that that troll

931
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 2: that kept calling our show and leaving messages and shit,

932
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 2: and I fucking interviewed that nigga. So I mean, it's

933
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 2: it's my show, and I want to, you know, dot

934
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 2: do interesting things with it. But you know, I just

935
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 2: want to be clear because I feel like people get

936
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 2: it confused. And also I don't want to be confusing,

937
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 2: like I'm interviewing people because they're interesting to me. All right,

938
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 2: let's get into Uh, let me check to see if

939
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 2: does any voicemails.

940
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 3: I just realized I opened it up but did not check.

941
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 3: And how do you do that? All right, Okay, let's

942
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 3: see Thursday, we got a call. Okay, let's see if

943
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 3: there was a voicemail or just a phone call. You

944
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 3: can't tell you get your hit together. Okay, it doesn't

945
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 3: look like they left.

946
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 2: Okay, wait, there's Okay, so there's voicemails Friday, December twenty eighth,

947
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 2: So that is since the last time we did the show, right, yeah,

948
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 2: So let me see if I could play that real quick.

949
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 3: All right, give it a second.

950
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:38,920
Speaker 7: Hey, Rod and Karen, my name is saying, all right,

951
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 7: sure what I gave you my name? Okay, it's out there.

952
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm saying.

953
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,879
Speaker 7: I was calling because I know I'm kind of laid

954
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 7: on this.

955
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 8: I was listening to your episode about pledging and frattorneys

956
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:56,399
Speaker 8: and all of that, and I'm there.

957
00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm right there with you, guys. I never felt understood

958
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:07,600
Speaker 1: why people who would sledge pledge and had.

959
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 6: To go through hazing.

960
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 8: Went through it willingly.

961
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 6: I would love to speak.

962
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 7: To someone who you know, can get me.

963
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:23,279
Speaker 1: Because I've dated I've dated a guy who was acute

964
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:29,320
Speaker 1: and he doesn't even like talking about it. And I've

965
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: noticed that a.

966
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 8: Lot of people who go through you know, hazing.

967
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 1: Type of situations don't like talking about it.

968
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 6: So I do feel like it is triggering.

969
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: And it is, you know, some sort of abuse, you know,

970
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: because they don't they don't like, they don't like to

971
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: be living in So I feel like, you know, I

972
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: lost a friend, one of my best friends. She's not

973
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: dead or nothing, she's just not.

974
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 8: My friend no more.

975
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: Because I was asking her while she was in college,

976
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,240
Speaker 1: and you know, I was I didn't go to college

977
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: with everybody else.

978
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 8: I went straight to work and then now I'm in

979
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 8: college now after thirty. But while she was in college

980
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 8: and we were nineteen and you know, twenty but.

981
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 6: She was telling me, you know, to her southrity. You know,

982
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 6: her sisters or big sisters had her wearing heels for

983
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 6: days at a time, like like days on end kills

984
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,360
Speaker 6: and they weren't allowed to take them off and they.

985
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 3: Had to win seat.

986
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:33,640
Speaker 2: I cut off so off and got to the next message.

987
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's interesting, I'll see.

988
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 1: Oh man, I got cut off that all happened, but

989
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, she had to wear heels three day straight

990
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: or shed day. You know, she had to go in

991
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: and clean their apartments.

992
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,760
Speaker 7: And you know, they couldn't date.

993
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: While they were played like this, all these type of things,

994
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: and I.

995
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 6: Couldn't understand a lie.

996
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 7: But you know, she couldn't explain to me why either.

997
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 8: While she was going through it.

998
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,879
Speaker 7: She's like, why, I can't tell you, and you know.

999
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 8: But but this is what has to happen.

1000
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 1: And she's been talking to me after that. You know,

1001
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,959
Speaker 1: somebody who will say it's a very really good friend

1002
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: to me. And I loved her dearly and I still do.

1003
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 6: But she stopped talking to me.

1004
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 8: Hasn't been the same since, and uh so.

1005
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really don't get it, but I would like to,

1006
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,240
Speaker 1: you know, I would like to talk to somebody who.

1007
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 8: Can really tell me.

1008
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 6: And I hope somebody calls in and right there or something.

1009
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 7: I don't know.

1010
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:30,839
Speaker 1: Maybe they're not allowed to. Maybe that's why we never

1011
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:31,680
Speaker 1: get that insight.

1012
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 7: But I don't know.

1013
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 8: I'm just I'm curious as well.

1014
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 7: I love, love, love your show.

1015
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: I've been listening for maybe five.

1016
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 7: Maybe five or six years now.

1017
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: But keep doing what she's doing.

1018
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 7: Uh, talk to you later.

1019
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 2: Bye, thank you, Sam, thank you. I like I said,

1020
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 2: I was like, I my name is Saul, giving my name.

1021
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 3: I don't know it's the government listening. Uh.

1022
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't understand it either. It's not really

1023
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 2: for me to be honest. I have friends that are

1024
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 2: pledged and.

1025
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 3: Crossed.

1026
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 2: I had a friend that pledged and was like online

1027
00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 2: for over a year, and it's funny because he was

1028
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 2: one of my best friends and he wanted me to

1029
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 2: pledge with him, and I was like nah, and I'm

1030
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 2: glad I didn't because I wasn't making it no fucking

1031
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 2: year of these niggas hitting me and shit, are you

1032
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 2: crazy anyway?

1033
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:28,680
Speaker 3: But I don't understand it either.

1034
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 2: I would love to interview somebody about it, but I

1035
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 2: would need them to be open and honest. And Frank,

1036
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 2: they probably will have to do it anonymously or some shit,

1037
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: because I don't. Man, I hate to say this shit

1038
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 2: because I know it's gonna sound mean or wrong, but

1039
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 2: it feels like a to people on the outside. Like

1040
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 2: I mean, when you're talking about a culture of there

1041
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,919
Speaker 2: could be abuse, not that there is, but there could be,

1042
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 2: and where sometimes people are getting kicked off of campuses

1043
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 2: when stuff is found out, people are placing complaints. Even

1044
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 2: some of the things that might not cross over into

1045
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 2: physical abuse, you know, to me kind of are in

1046
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 2: this area where I'm like, I'm not sure that's not

1047
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 2: you know, driving around someone's car, taking someone's money. I

1048
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 2: think you have to even pay the pledge anyway, but

1049
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:17,799
Speaker 2: taking somebody's money, you know, some of the stuff you

1050
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 2: hear like and because it's so shrouded in secrecy, I

1051
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,080
Speaker 2: don't know what to make is true or not. I

1052
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: don't know if you know, it's like you might find

1053
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 2: out like, oh it's not that bad, that's just this

1054
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 2: is the other. But then it's not uniform because it

1055
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 2: is behind the shrouded.

1056
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:33,919
Speaker 3: Secrecy, and like anything like that.

1057
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 2: I feel like it's right for abuse because you have

1058
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 2: put you it's not transparent. The process isn't uniform and

1059
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 2: the same everywhere, and so you have these rogue chapters

1060
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 2: and you have shit. And so when it makes the

1061
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 2: news that some old ass nigga got beat up in

1062
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 2: New York, you know, I'm like, damn, that's either that's

1063
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 2: the most ridiculous one I've heard in a while. But

1064
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 2: there's also stories every year some and it's not just

1065
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 2: black Frits, by the way, but there's stories every year,

1066
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 2: just like someone died from alcohol POI wasn't, or somebody

1067
00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 2: getting put in the hospital or something, because you know,

1068
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 2: these are essentially kids beating all other kids and shit. Sometimes,

1069
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 2: Like so, I try not to go in on people

1070
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 2: about the shit because it's just not for me. But yeah,

1071
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,240
Speaker 2: I don't understand it either, and I would interview somebody

1072
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 2: with about it if they were willing to talk about it.

1073
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 2: But at the same time, as long as people understand

1074
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 2: that's not an endorsement of hazing and fraternities and sororities

1075
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 2: and shit, I would just be interviewing them because I'm

1076
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 2: curious and have never really heard anyone talk about it.

1077
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it depends because I've talked to some people

1078
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 4: as they've gotten older. Some people had wonderful experiences, some

1079
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 4: people have had terrible experiences.

1080
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:52,839
Speaker 3: So it just varies, right, I think, Okay, I think

1081
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 3: we played this last voicemail. I think because what was

1082
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 3: the last time you did a show?

1083
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 2: Oh man, I'm sorry, let me let me go look

1084
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 2: to make sure that today's all right, because I want

1085
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 2: to say it was a twenty second. It is the

1086
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,760
Speaker 2: last time we did a show, a feedback show or something.

1087
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:08,880
Speaker 2: So if that's the case, then I think I've already

1088
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 2: played this voicemail. But if not, okay, So the twenty

1089
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 2: third was the last episode of the twenty second was

1090
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 2: the last feedback, So yeah, we played the other Voicemailsky,

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Speaker 2: all right, cool, so we can get into we can

1092
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 2: get into some other stuff. Let's do the emails.

1093
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 3: How about that?

1094
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 2: So you can email us the black guy who tips

1095
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com, leave us your emails and we'll

1096
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 2: read them. All right, It's that simple. And yeah, that's

1097
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 2: that's it.

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00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:42,880
Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 3: I just gotta wait for Gmail to take it. Sweet

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00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 3: time to do it. Got to do? Oh man, what

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00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 3: a day? What a day? Speak? Let me close this

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00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 3: and okay, there we go. We got.

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00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: Oh who got like six seven emails Miss ct rode

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00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 2: in for pre Game seventy two the Nigga Museum.

1105
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 3: That was the name of the episode.

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00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 2: It's an old episode, the pre Game seventy two into

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00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 2: the archive. I go, I need an update on the

1108
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 2: Nigga Museum. Is Kanye is still allowed to have his

1109
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 2: own exhibit in light of recent events? I guess it's no.

1110
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 2: Will there be a white woman wing? I don't think so.

1111
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 2: It would be just Rachel dollars out of there. I

1112
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:33,280
Speaker 2: guess maybe Ellen Pompeo.

1113
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 3: I don't know. I think that.

1114
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 2: Should be a cookout wing added though, to be honest, yes,

1115
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 2: I think I only have two suggestions for the Nigga Museum.

1116
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 3: One cookout wing. Two coon wing.

1117
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, because I understand that Thurman time. Wait,

1118
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 2: Justice Thomas Clarence Thomas was a big, you know, milestone,

1119
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 2: even though we don't with his politics, it should be

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00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:06,960
Speaker 2: recognized that's a huge milestone. And it's hard to be

1121
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,839
Speaker 2: a Supreme Court justice and be black. So yeah, let's

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00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 2: let's get him in that wing.

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00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 3: The cook wing.

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00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 2: You know, would have had loved, would have loved to

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00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 2: keep then Carson in the regular wing. But clearly he

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00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,880
Speaker 2: is in the cool wing now and it gives us

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00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:24,800
Speaker 2: someplace to put these people. So, hey, Kanye West, musical contribution,

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00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 2: we might want to give him props somehow. We will

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00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 2: put him in the cooon wing. Go visit there and

1130
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 2: take picture out of Combs. Does Black Panther deserve its

1131
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 2: own wing? I know there's a movie section, but hashtag,

1132
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,799
Speaker 2: but on hashtag will kind of forever. That's all I got.

1133
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 2: Y'all always been funny, thank you, and uh.

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00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 3: I don't.

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00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say no on Wakanda forever getting his own

1136
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 2: oht know that his own Black Panther wing. But at

1137
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 2: the same time, would not be mad if they did it.

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00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying right Like, just all the costumes,

1139
00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 2: I feel like they should be a Black.

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00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 3: Panther museum as far as I'm concerned, just dedicated to

1141
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 3: it now.

1142
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 2: We did get one review from outside of the United

1143
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 2: States from Australia. Okay, Sarah G four seven a bunch

1144
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 2: of numbers from Australia says five stars. This podcast helps

1145
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 2: me survive in a country full of white people. I

1146
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 2: love this podcast so much. I live in Sydney, Australia

1147
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 2: and Australian people's favorite question to ask me is what

1148
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 2: do you miss the most about the USA? And they

1149
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:25,879
Speaker 2: always look dumbfounded as fuck when I flatly say, other

1150
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 2: African Americans, thank you, thank you rid of care for

1151
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:35,280
Speaker 2: helping me, keeping me saying connected to vack home other

1152
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:38,760
Speaker 2: black people, I am happy to be your other African Americans,

1153
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,439
Speaker 2: me too, And yes, stay sane over there.

1154
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 3: I understand the struggle is real.

1155
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Cardi B was just in Australia dealing with racism,

1156
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 2: so I guess it's you know, it's a lot.

1157
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 3: It's still over there.

1158
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:53,880
Speaker 4: Racism is worldwide.

1159
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:55,439
Speaker 3: It ain't just an American thing.

1160
00:55:55,920 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 2: This is no subject. But the body of the email says, hey,

1161
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 2: handsome and beautiful. Oh thank you, that's very nice, and

1162
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 2: you thank you. No one calls me handsome. I was

1163
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 2: enjoying because I'm not. I was enjoying some of the

1164
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 2: episodes I have downloaded of my favorite podcast, Yours being one.

1165
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 2: I do this because I'm sometimes a ratic when it

1166
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 2: comes to catching them all, even if I like them.

1167
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:19,839
Speaker 2: I tend to download shows so I could listen while

1168
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 2: I'm driving or at work. In one case, episode seventeen

1169
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 2: ninety two, Colored Wildfi. I had downloaded this one a

1170
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 2: while back and forgot about it, so I decided to

1171
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,400
Speaker 2: start it while I was closing one night at work.

1172
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 2: I had to stop and YouTube the black girl who

1173
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,919
Speaker 2: thought she was white that y'all were talking about.

1174
00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:39,839
Speaker 3: It's about the thirty minute mark. Oh, this girl made

1175
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:41,239
Speaker 3: me so mad. I wanted to spit.

1176
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 2: I hate the fact that there are so many people

1177
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 2: who think the same shit about us.

1178
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 3: They think of us as ugly as some form of monkey.

1179
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 2: Or to have to have her think the same shit,

1180
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 2: I wanted to jump through my phone to shake her.

1181
00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 2: This is coming from a person that didn't feel comfortable

1182
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:58,240
Speaker 2: with myself till I was in my mid twenties. At

1183
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 2: that point, I got to think of that, if you

1184
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 2: don't think I'm cute, then you can go fuck yourself,

1185
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 2: because I think I'm cute, and that's all that was

1186
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 2: all that mattered. Come on, own, I really did need

1187
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 2: to get to that level of self confidence because I

1188
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:12,399
Speaker 2: think people assume I have it because I'm a man

1189
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 2: and all men.

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00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,600
Speaker 3: I think they uh the shit. But I need to

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00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 3: get to that.

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00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 2: Okay, that's my new goal for twenty nineteen is to

1193
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 2: be like fuck y'all niggas, I'm fine, and then just

1194
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: walk away.

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00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 4: I can help you with that, because, honey, I done

1196
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 4: came up like I say, it came along really like

1197
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 4: them slim a cigarette. Because I used to not love

1198
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 4: myself and not think I was gorgeous and not think

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00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 4: I was beautiful. And now, honey, I actually loved myself,

1200
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:38,080
Speaker 4: and every day I'm learning to love myself even the more.

1201
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 4: But you is fine, though, I know that now. I

1202
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 4: didn't always know that. Other people used to tell me,

1203
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:44,800
Speaker 4: but I didn't believe it. And if you don't believe it,

1204
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:46,120
Speaker 4: don't matter what nobody to tell you.

1205
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 2: Anyway, I run away with myself. So to end all this,

1206
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 2: all all of the stars at keep up the great work.

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00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1208
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 2: They didn't put their name, and I'm not sure how

1209
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 2: to pronounce their email name, so Law says, stitch your drama, Yo,

1210
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 2: ride your Karen is Law. I'm a long time listener,

1211
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:08,120
Speaker 2: once in a wild psyche commenter, but I.

1212
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 3: Never left the remute review. The shame is heavy.

1213
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 2: My last Apple product was a second gen iPod Nano,

1214
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 2: and I still have it. We Android users have Stitcher

1215
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 2: for podcasts, and I have no idea how to leave

1216
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 2: a review. I don't even know how to do one

1217
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 2: on the PC. If you got tips, my mind is

1218
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 2: a jar. I'm a pretty new donator, and that probably

1219
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 2: and that's probably the only way I know how to

1220
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 2: give back to the podcast has given me so much.

1221
00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 2: But I know those reviews are just as important, even

1222
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 2: more in some ways. Holler at us Stitcher folk with

1223
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,920
Speaker 2: some aid if you can keep filling them jars with

1224
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 2: them socially conscious tips. Well, yeah, you go on the

1225
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 2: internet browser on your computer, your PC, whatever, search the

1226
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 2: black guy who tips Stitcher.

1227
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 3: It'll bring you to our show page.

1228
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 2: Right click on our show page at the bottom of

1229
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 2: the show pay let it load for about two minutes.

1230
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 2: You gotta let it load because if you go to

1231
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 2: the bottom at first, it won't pop up. But there's

1232
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:05,920
Speaker 2: a section that says would you like to leave a review?

1233
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 2: And it also lists all the reviews that have been

1234
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 2: left for us already. Right, so you just need to

1235
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 2: wait that extra like it's probably more like thirty seconds,

1236
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 2: but you need to wait till it's fully loaded. When

1237
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:17,919
Speaker 2: you see the review thing, that's when you say click

1238
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 2: the stars and lead the review.

1239
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 3: And with Stitcher you have to approve.

1240
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 2: Your review, So make sure you use a real email

1241
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 2: address that you have access to. You go to that

1242
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 2: email address, it'll say did you leave this review, and

1243
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 2: you click yes, approve.

1244
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 3: And then we will get to see it.

1245
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 2: And Stitch your reviews posts a lot faster our un

1246
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 2: reviews can they take. They could take days to post,

1247
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 2: and if they're if they don't make it past the censors,

1248
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 2: then they can never post.

1249
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, they just fall into the black hole and you

1250
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 4: just won't know. And also with the Stitch review, be

1251
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 4: sure it doesn't go to junk mail because a lot

1252
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 4: of times people have left us to this review and

1253
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 4: hadn't posted, but it went so went to your junk

1254
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 4: and if you don't take it junk, it'd just sit there.

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00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 2: Brandon says, Holiday Car, just want to say I appreciate

1256
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 2: the holiday car.

1257
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 3: I hope your holiday was pleasant. Pleasant, It was great.

1258
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 3: I enjoyed my holiday a lot.

1259
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 2: Look forward to listening to you guys another year. Love

1260
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 2: the podcast, keep it going, Thanks Brandon, Thank you, Brandon,

1261
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 2: thank you.

1262
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. I meiled out all the holiday cars this last week,

1263
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 3: so see if you've been getting them.

1264
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:22,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully people got got got them and some people

1265
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 2: took pictures of theirs and stuff like that, and that's cool.

1266
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 3: I'm glad y'all got your holiday cars.

1267
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 2: Gods, Sugar Base says Hi careing and Roder's dropping a

1268
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 2: quick line to say hello, thank you for keeping us entertained,

1269
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:35,919
Speaker 2: and to wish you both a happy new year.

1270
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you.

1271
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 2: May two thousand and nine be even better than twenty eighteen.

1272
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 2: I'm so proud of both of you, and I look

1273
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 2: forward even more the great insights and funny and terrible

1274
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 2: puns ps.

1275
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 3: Nowadays, viol ps nowadays.

1276
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 2: Why I win a argument with my husband, I just

1277
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 2: say my point in it, cackle like a crazy woman,

1278
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 2: love and like and prayers from the cold, cold Montreal.

1279
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 3: Sugar bab, Thank you, sugar Babe. I know you've been

1280
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 3: You've been with us for a long time.

1281
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 4: Man.

1282
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 2: I still remember when we disagreed about the Kim Kardashian

1283
01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 2: and her baby was crying.

1284
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 3: I think that was you.

1285
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 2: And you know, I appreciate people being able to make

1286
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 2: it through shit because I feel like so much of

1287
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 2: life now feels like one and done right.

1288
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 3: Like I disagree with this nigga one out of two

1289
01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 3: thousand shows. Fuck these motherfuckers.

1290
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:27,000
Speaker 2: You know, like it feels like it feel like that's

1291
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 2: the way of the world. Now wow, And I know

1292
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 2: that that's not.

1293
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 3: The way of the world.

1294
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 2: It's just that those are the most vocal people. But

1295
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 2: I actually really appreciate, uh, you know, stuff like that

1296
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 2: where it's like, yeah, people allow us to be ourselves,

1297
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 2: have our opinions, they get to have theirs, and it's not.

1298
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's fine. The other thing I.

1299
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 2: Would say, too, is, you know, twenty eighteen was a

1300
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 2: great year for me personally and for the show and

1301
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 2: all that stuff, and there were definitely lessons I learned

1302
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 2: from twenty eighteen, like, uh, and I think the and

1303
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 2: I you know, maybe other people will hear it too

1304
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 2: as well or whatever, but I really think and maybe

1305
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,200
Speaker 2: it's just oh it being my fortieth year or whatever,

1306
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 2: but kind of embracing more or just being myself and

1307
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:23,920
Speaker 2: being more sure in myself and being more happy with

1308
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 2: myself as far as like accepting me where I'm at already,

1309
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 2: you know, and that doesn't mean you can't grow or

1310
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:34,479
Speaker 2: do better, but just kind of being like, yo, I'm

1311
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 2: not doing bad, you know, because I feel like, at

1312
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 2: least for me, I kind of grew up or have

1313
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 2: this vibe around me where I'm always kind of harder

1314
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 2: on myself than people know.

1315
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 3: Well, I'm always like, ah, did I say the right thing?

1316
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 3: And I do this? Did I say? Is this person

1317
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 3: of saying with me? Is this person okay?

1318
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 2: And I'm always forgetting that I'm doing my fucking best,

1319
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 2: you know, and it's and it's easy to forget in

1320
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 2: a world full of like this is isn't perfect, and

1321
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 2: that isn't perfect, and you know this person's fucked up

1322
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 2: and that person's fucked up. In a world full of that,

1323
01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 2: it's easy to forget that, like most people are trying

1324
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 2: to do their.

1325
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 3: Best, and you in particularly are.

1326
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 2: A person that deserves the same grace that you would

1327
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 2: grant the other folks, you know. So I think this

1328
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 2: year was so good for me because I really embraced

1329
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 2: that and I believed it in a way that I

1330
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 2: really couldn't.

1331
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 3: It was palpable for me, and in this very odd way,

1332
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 3: it really.

1333
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 2: Cleansed my life. Like I really I think twenty seventeen,

1334
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 2: I was so like open and I was pushing myself

1335
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:46,600
Speaker 2: to be uncomfortable right, like I'm gonna go places I've

1336
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 2: never been before, talk to people I would never talk

1337
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 2: to you.

1338
01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna.

1339
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 2: Have people around me that I wouldn't normally have around me.

1340
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:58,919
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do things in a way that when there's

1341
01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 2: a question of when you do this, can you do this?

1342
01:04:02,440 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 2: I would just say yes. In twenty seventeen, I'm like,

1343
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 2: fuck it, right, Like, why not, let's go to Seattle.

1344
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 2: I've never been. You know, what's the worst thing happening?

1345
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:14,439
Speaker 2: Been around some weird white people in costumes and shit. Right,

1346
01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 2: fuck it right. That was how I treated it. And

1347
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 2: in twenty eighteen, you know, we were working more of

1348
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 2: our own stuff. The live show was such an accomplishment

1349
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 2: for us. But you know, I was kind of like

1350
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 2: dealing with some of the fallout for twenty seventeen, the

1351
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 2: like people around y'all really didn't need around me, people

1352
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:37,919
Speaker 2: that had their own issues and shit bringing them making

1353
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:41,440
Speaker 2: them our problems and stuff and so. And for the

1354
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 2: most part, you know, I feel like we handled it

1355
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 2: pretty maturely, Like we wasn't out here yelling our names.

1356
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 2: We wasn't out here, you know, dragging motherfuckers through the mud.

1357
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 3: And shit like.

1358
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:55,760
Speaker 2: And I wanted to, cause I'm still a petty bitch

1359
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 2: inside but I wanted to, but I didn't, And I

1360
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: got cl phos, but I didn't. And my point being

1361
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 2: like a lot of shit took care of itself, you know.

1362
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 2: And I think part of that is that security, because

1363
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 2: I think when I was a little more insecure about

1364
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 2: our place, about our product, about myself, about our opinions

1365
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 2: and stuff, I think I would have lashed out. And

1366
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 2: I think I used to lash out more while I'm like,

1367
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 2: you know, how dare you? You know whatever, But I

1368
01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 2: don't really need everybody to get down and laid out

1369
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 2: with me or with.

1370
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,200
Speaker 3: Us, or with the show or any of that stuff.

1371
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 2: At the same time, I don't, you know, It's a

1372
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,800
Speaker 2: it's an adjustment dealing with the idea that to other

1373
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,960
Speaker 2: people they look they might view us as like famous

1374
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 2: or somebody. Even the way I'm saying right now, I'm

1375
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 2: sure to people is like nigga, you know what. But

1376
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:50,360
Speaker 2: it's really I cannot relate enough. This ship is kind

1377
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 2: of weird.

1378
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:55,720
Speaker 4: It's very different for us because we consider ourselves normally

1379
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:57,240
Speaker 4: as people, and Meme rather talk about this.

1380
01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 3: It's not how we view ourselves as other.

1381
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 2: People's perception of us were not famous. I don't know

1382
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 2: We're not famous to us, We're not special to us

1383
01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck other than just how most people

1384
01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 2: should feel they they're valuable. I feel that way about myself,

1385
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 2: but I don't carry myself in some like you niggas

1386
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 2: need to. You don't know you are among royalty or whatever.

1387
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 2: I don't think of that, and I don't think most

1388
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:27,360
Speaker 2: people should think of us that way. But there is

1389
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 2: in a small circle the Internet, there are people that

1390
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 2: really love us, look up to us, latch on to us,

1391
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 2: or whatever. And it has been kind of weird because

1392
01:06:37,360 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 2: we've talked about fame for years, we talked about celebrity.

1393
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 2: You know how I view celebrity a little bit different

1394
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:44,520
Speaker 2: than most people. And I never really thought I would

1395
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:47,480
Speaker 2: be that way to people, but that was what I

1396
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 2: learned from twenty seventeen twenty eighteen was like, Yo, some

1397
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 2: people straight up vi us like celebrities. You know, the

1398
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 2: way that people would they would be friends with, say

1399
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:01,880
Speaker 2: Drake on Instagram and on their own Instagram page, like

1400
01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 2: Drake ain't shit, but then want to see like Drake

1401
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 2: hugging his niece on fucking his Instagram page, and want

1402
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 2: to see what Drake had for lunch, to me, that's weird.

1403
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 2: And I always thought like, man, I don't never want

1404
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 2: to be famous because I don't want that kind of

1405
01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 2: energy around me. I would like everybody that's fucking with

1406
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 2: me on a personal level to be like rooting for me,

1407
01:07:22,640 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 2: and vice versa.

1408
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:24,240
Speaker 3: I'm rooting for them.

1409
01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 2: Like if I see something good happen to them, Hey,

1410
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 2: good for you. They going through something.

1411
01:07:28,800 --> 01:07:30,600
Speaker 3: Bad, Hey, man, I hope that gets better.

1412
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:34,560
Speaker 2: Like you know, people still trips me out when people

1413
01:07:34,600 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 2: get excited that I like because Facebook goes sends you

1414
01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:40,920
Speaker 2: a little update like hey it's so on So's birthday,

1415
01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,560
Speaker 2: and you know, if I have the time, I'll be like,

1416
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,440
Speaker 2: hey have birthday or whatever. Especially if I like know

1417
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:47,400
Speaker 2: you or something, I get that a little alert like

1418
01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 2: hey happy birthday, and people will be oh my god,

1419
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 2: I can't believe.

1420
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no, baby, it's

1421
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 3: not that but no, no, no, no, no no.

1422
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:57,720
Speaker 4: Because for a lot of them that day, you know,

1423
01:07:57,800 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 4: they know we're busy, they know we're doing so much,

1424
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 4: and to them, there was like you took the time

1425
01:08:01,680 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 4: out of your which I can understand from their perspective,

1426
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 4: you took the time out of your busy day to

1427
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 4: acknowledge me.

1428
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 3: I totally understand. I'm sure.

1429
01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:10,000
Speaker 2: I mean, the first time they can go, man say

1430
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 2: she list starts, y'all's freaking the fuck out. But at

1431
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 2: the same time, it's kind of like, you know, let's

1432
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:17,720
Speaker 2: just all be cool about it, right, you know.

1433
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:19,880
Speaker 3: So everybody ain't gonna be cool.

1434
01:08:19,920 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 2: I'm not telling them what to do. I'm just saying

1435
01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 2: that's my mind. That's how my mind was tacking. But uh,

1436
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:27,679
Speaker 2: twenty eighteen was like the kind of me realizing like, damn,

1437
01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 2: like we really are like somebody to people and.

1438
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 3: That works for the good and it works for the bad.

1439
01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 3: Yes it does.

1440
01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 2: But a lot of the people that really were not

1441
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,640
Speaker 2: there for us, a lot of people that just kind

1442
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:45,880
Speaker 2: of see us as entertainment but still want access to

1443
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:50,040
Speaker 2: our lives and shit, you know, a lot of them

1444
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 2: fell away, just fell away without lifted.

1445
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,800
Speaker 3: We didn't have to lift the finger, we have to

1446
01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:58,880
Speaker 3: shoot a shot. We didn't have to you know, go

1447
01:08:59,080 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 3: to war.

1448
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 2: Any of the shit that people do, all that dramatic

1449
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 2: shit that that consumes lives, we didn't have to do it.

1450
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:08,080
Speaker 2: It was really just like, I'm gonna focus on the

1451
01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 2: positive people, positive things, I'm gonna focus on the people

1452
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 2: that's close to me. I took a lot of my

1453
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:16,559
Speaker 2: life offline as far as like talking to my friends

1454
01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 2: and shit, and I had to do it purposefully because

1455
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 2: I mean, these things on social media and stuff, it's.

1456
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:25,800
Speaker 3: Designed to keep you in a rabbit hole. Like they

1457
01:09:25,920 --> 01:09:26,599
Speaker 3: know what they're doing.

1458
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 2: They have scientists and shit that study our brains, so

1459
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:32,800
Speaker 2: they know that it is a time consuming thing, that

1460
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 2: it can become your reality for a lot of people.

1461
01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:35,680
Speaker 3: Correct.

1462
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 2: So I don't know, it felt like twenty eighteen was

1463
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 2: like a year to really embrace just myself and my

1464
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 2: value and it really did work out well. You know,

1465
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 2: I've never felt more comfortable with the live show. I

1466
01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:56,080
Speaker 2: never felt more comfortable than that doing something in front

1467
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 2: of a lot of people. Like I just felt like

1468
01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 2: that's what we were born to do, that we're meant

1469
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 2: to do. And I was never nervous for a second,

1470
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 2: not even meeting people any of the shit. Like you,

1471
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:10,719
Speaker 2: I didn't feel it like for you that that's an accomplishment. Yeah,

1472
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:14,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, like hey everybody, Yeah, I don't know

1473
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:17,280
Speaker 2: what's happening or whatever, but it's definitely like a change,

1474
01:10:17,360 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 2: you know, even when uh, we took our trip out

1475
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 2: to Cali and we meet all those people, you know,

1476
01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 2: not nervous for a second, not you know, it wasn't

1477
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:28,760
Speaker 2: worried about anything. It was just like, can't wait to

1478
01:10:28,840 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 2: meet everybody, can't wait to like we have been surrounded

1479
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:35,439
Speaker 2: and insulated by so much love. They're really like, you know,

1480
01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:37,880
Speaker 2: I think the best thing we did, or at least

1481
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 2: for me, was leaving the Facebook group correct, because that

1482
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 2: should be a place where people can right, they can

1483
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:47,880
Speaker 2: have their opinions that where they agree or disagree with us.

1484
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 2: They gotta have their opinions where they don't like us.

1485
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 2: There needs to be room for them to be able

1486
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:52,559
Speaker 2: to do that ship.

1487
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 3: I don't want to see it, correct, but they need.

1488
01:10:54,920 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 2: There needs to be room for them to be able

1489
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 2: to do that ship away from us, and I don't

1490
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 2: want to absorb it and I don't want, you know, like,

1491
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to pick a side in a fucking

1492
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 2: listener's argument with another listener.

1493
01:11:04,560 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 3: That's crazy to me.

1494
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:07,600
Speaker 2: You know, I just want to live my life the

1495
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 2: way you get to live your life, right, So it's

1496
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:12,600
Speaker 2: you know, I don't go on your Facebook page and

1497
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:15,560
Speaker 2: start arguing with your friends, right, So it's kind of

1498
01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:18,760
Speaker 2: that thing where I really felt.

1499
01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 3: Like after that because just the.

1500
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 2: Way I consume, like with empathy and shit, I can't

1501
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:29,639
Speaker 2: turn it off and I consume shit to a point

1502
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:33,799
Speaker 2: that's unhealthy for me. And I really think twenty eighteen,

1503
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:36,919
Speaker 2: I found so much balance and so much positive creators

1504
01:11:36,960 --> 01:11:41,920
Speaker 2: face and in so many enriching relationships, and I was

1505
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:46,759
Speaker 2: just I am just so thankful, like I'm so thankful

1506
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 2: to these people that are around us, that have surrounded us, Like, yeah,

1507
01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 2: I'm so because they don't have.

1508
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 3: To do any of this. They like, we fuck with

1509
01:11:56,479 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 3: y'all the long way, and that shit matters to me.

1510
01:12:00,720 --> 01:12:05,760
Speaker 2: Eight eight years ago this week, eight years ago, but

1511
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 2: Mini Jones came to our old apartment. I saw the picture.

1512
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 2: It came up with my memories on Facebook. He came

1513
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 2: to our old apartment and recorded an episode with us.

1514
01:12:14,840 --> 01:12:17,200
Speaker 2: This is back when he was I think he had

1515
01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:19,400
Speaker 2: just gotten laid off of Fire from the three hour

1516
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 2: lunch break that was looking for a new gig, you know,

1517
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:25,719
Speaker 2: and you know me and both talked behind the scenes somewhat.

1518
01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 2: But at that time, you know, when he lost that gig,

1519
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 2: I remember telling him like dog listen.

1520
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:32,760
Speaker 3: You are going to be a fucking star.

1521
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:35,720
Speaker 2: I don't like, like, I know this shit feels like

1522
01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 2: a set back to you, and you probably think I'm

1523
01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:41,000
Speaker 2: blowing smoke up your ass right now, But I know

1524
01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:43,200
Speaker 2: what the fuck I know, just like I knew Jimmy

1525
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 2: Butler was gonna destroy the Six's chemistry. Ah, I know

1526
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 2: that you are going to be a special like person.

1527
01:12:51,200 --> 01:12:53,680
Speaker 2: You're a special talent. You're already a special person. You

1528
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 2: might not even know it yet, but you you represent

1529
01:12:56,800 --> 01:13:00,759
Speaker 2: so authentically for yourself and for us and for everybody

1530
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 2: that listens to you, and you make a family out

1531
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 2: of wherever you go. Now that might not be able

1532
01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 2: to be a family everywhere you go at it because

1533
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:09,560
Speaker 2: once you're on TV, it's more one side there. You

1534
01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 2: can't have people calling and shit.

1535
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:13,640
Speaker 3: But my point being is like.

1536
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:18,439
Speaker 2: You're gonna you're gonna be okay. And I didn't do

1537
01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:21,639
Speaker 2: that on some like and make sure you reciprocate or whatever.

1538
01:13:21,880 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 2: And we just kind of became tight, and uh, him

1539
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:26,800
Speaker 2: coming by the crib to record with us was like

1540
01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:30,000
Speaker 2: surreal at the time, and it was so fun and

1541
01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 2: Justin was there and uh, like we just and we

1542
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 2: just kicked it.

1543
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:34,160
Speaker 4: You know.

1544
01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 3: It's like he could have been. He could have been

1545
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:37,560
Speaker 3: on every episode, you know.

1546
01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 2: And I remember, you know, thinking about, like, man, what

1547
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:44,840
Speaker 2: a cool guy, you know, to be able to do

1548
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 2: something like that. And eight years later, coming into this year,

1549
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, look at look how far everybody in

1550
01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 2: that room came.

1551
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 5: You know.

1552
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:57,599
Speaker 4: Huh, I said, I look the same, but you don't

1553
01:13:57,640 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 4: look the same.

1554
01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 3: Oh here we go. Uh yeah, I look younger. Uh yeah,

1555
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:09,800
Speaker 3: well you know that's what happens to old Okay, that's true,

1556
01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:11,960
Speaker 3: I do. That's how I say you look different.

1557
01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 2: But anyway, my point being man like that was like

1558
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:20,160
Speaker 2: a little mouse down, a little time to reflect, and

1559
01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:22,560
Speaker 2: I was like, cool, man like, we I feel like

1560
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 2: we're on the right path, We on the we're doing

1561
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 2: good things.

1562
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:29,080
Speaker 3: And I keep thinking about, it's the show art, k

1563
01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 3: can you said, show you the pick? It's the show art.

1564
01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:34,320
Speaker 2: And I feel like one of the things that's interesting

1565
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 2: is Another thing in twenty eighteen that really gave me

1566
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 2: peace was and this this sounds like a negative thing,

1567
01:14:41,479 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 2: but it's obnestly a positive thing. I looked at all

1568
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 2: these horrible motherfuckers that people keep claiming gonna get canceled

1569
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 2: and that keep doing nothing but just fuck shit in

1570
01:14:50,080 --> 01:14:52,280
Speaker 2: the world. They just you know, every two to three

1571
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 2: months they have a major fuck up that is just

1572
01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 2: so mean spirited and fuck and just wrong. Don't give

1573
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 2: and nothing happens to them. They're nothing. They're not even

1574
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:06,720
Speaker 2: trying to be good people. They're not even like they

1575
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:09,360
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about that shit. You know, they're

1576
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 2: out here like, look, killing trans people. That's funny, right,

1577
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:17,599
Speaker 2: They're out here like uh, getting caught sexually assaulting people.

1578
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 2: You know, they're out here, you know, being anti black.

1579
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:25,320
Speaker 2: They're out here like hating women. They're out here like

1580
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 2: like they legit, don't give a fuck about They're not

1581
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 2: trying to make anything better. They're not trying to be better.

1582
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,280
Speaker 2: Then they give a fuck about your growth, their growth,

1583
01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 2: any of that shit. And they will flip from hustle

1584
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:38,760
Speaker 2: to hustle with whatever the fuck lines up with their

1585
01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 2: money for that day is what the fuck they own.

1586
01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 3: And they are just out here flourishing like shit.

1587
01:15:44,880 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 2: They're out here getting every man or a co signed out,

1588
01:15:47,439 --> 01:15:50,639
Speaker 2: you know, every every bag to be grabbed.

1589
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 3: They are fucking getting it. And I was sitting up

1590
01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 3: here like I'm feeling.

1591
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:57,720
Speaker 2: Bad about myself that I'm not being perfect all the time.

1592
01:15:59,000 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 2: But at what point I'm not going to lay off

1593
01:16:00,960 --> 01:16:03,640
Speaker 2: myself because I'm more understanding for other people than I

1594
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,400
Speaker 2: am for myself, and that shit is not cool, it's

1595
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:09,559
Speaker 2: not healthy, you know, because I understand when the fuck

1596
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 2: I fuck up, or when I make a mistake, or

1597
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:14,920
Speaker 2: when I could have done better. I understand those things,

1598
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:16,320
Speaker 2: and I take it to heart and I try to

1599
01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 2: make that thing, make that happen. Anyone's listening to show

1600
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 2: long enough knows that, and we both do, you know,

1601
01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 2: and the people around us still. And so I really

1602
01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 2: let that kind of stuff get to me in a

1603
01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 2: way that I wouldn't have, you know. No, I really

1604
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 2: stop letting that stuff get to me in a way

1605
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:36,080
Speaker 2: that I used to back in the day. And I

1606
01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:38,200
Speaker 2: think everything around my life became better for it.

1607
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:40,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, And a lot of times it's just the difference

1608
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:44,240
Speaker 4: in the differences in our personality, because one thing about

1609
01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:46,960
Speaker 4: you that I admire is that you have a lot

1610
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:48,920
Speaker 4: more patience in certain areas than I do.

1611
01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 3: And you're more quick to be like, hey, let's work,

1612
01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:55,559
Speaker 3: you know, let's talk through it. And I'm like that too.

1613
01:16:56,040 --> 01:16:59,599
Speaker 4: I really am, but hey, I have a few go arounds.

1614
01:16:59,600 --> 01:17:01,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, fuck you bitching, I'm out, like like

1615
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 4: my patients just won't do it. I'm like, no, no, no, no,

1616
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 4: no no no no no no no no, like no, no, no,

1617
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 4: you're being irrational, you're being in logical with why the

1618
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:09,720
Speaker 4: fuck am I talking to you?

1619
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:10,160
Speaker 3: Got to go?

1620
01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:14,479
Speaker 2: Nah, You're absolutely right. So yeah, I just wanted to

1621
01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:17,759
Speaker 2: say that about twenty eighteen. Man, everybody made twenty eighteen special.

1622
01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:21,440
Speaker 3: Thank you. I can't name everybody, honestly, it's ridiculous.

1623
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 2: All the people that spent money to show up and

1624
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:27,639
Speaker 2: go to our live show, all the people that got

1625
01:17:27,760 --> 01:17:32,000
Speaker 2: hotels and stuff, and like, still it's I mean, who

1626
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:33,560
Speaker 2: knows what the fuck y'all got up to when we

1627
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:35,639
Speaker 2: weren't around, which is one of the reasons we didn't

1628
01:17:35,640 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 2: want to be around everything. But who knows what y'all

1629
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 2: got up to. But also, like it's been months and

1630
01:17:41,080 --> 01:17:43,640
Speaker 2: still you don't really see a lot of fallout from it,

1631
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:46,719
Speaker 2: at least I haven't. Like it seemed like everybody genuinely

1632
01:17:46,920 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 2: was mature enough to go have a good time do

1633
01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 2: the things that they wanted to deal with the people

1634
01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:52,080
Speaker 2: they wanted to do it with.

1635
01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 3: And we had a cool audience of people come together

1636
01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:58,200
Speaker 3: and just have fun and that's all we wanted.

1637
01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:00,240
Speaker 4: And like you was saying, thank you man for the

1638
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 4: people to sacrifice, saved their money to PTR time. Got

1639
01:18:04,840 --> 01:18:07,320
Speaker 4: shout out to the gas house, got off his job early.

1640
01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 4: It was like, look, I'm not missing this e bench.

1641
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 4: Shout out to the people who was in over into

1642
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:13,960
Speaker 4: California that had drive, you know, cause.

1643
01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:15,559
Speaker 3: Good time off of work to come and see us.

1644
01:18:15,640 --> 01:18:17,680
Speaker 2: It was on a Friday, like it wasn't It was

1645
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 2: in the middle of the day on a university like

1646
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 2: people went and found us to just even just to

1647
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:25,560
Speaker 2: give us shit, like people just people have done so

1648
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 2: fucking much for us.

1649
01:18:28,320 --> 01:18:30,599
Speaker 3: That I really can't be anything but thankful.

1650
01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 2: Like I thought about that because I wrote a poster

1651
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 2: in my twenty eighteen and that was the main thing

1652
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 2: I could take.

1653
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:39,320
Speaker 3: I can't be anything but thankful.

1654
01:18:39,840 --> 01:18:42,679
Speaker 2: Even if you fucking hate my guts, just gonna adapt

1655
01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:45,320
Speaker 2: me because I'm gonnadapt you anyway, and then go home.

1656
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:47,720
Speaker 3: And pray for your ass later. That's how that's how

1657
01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:48,000
Speaker 3: I was.

1658
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:50,639
Speaker 2: Looking at twenty eighteen, Cause it's like even the people

1659
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 2: that didn't fuck with me. I don't even have the

1660
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 2: animosity towards you. Nope, Like I don't need you around me.

1661
01:18:56,240 --> 01:18:57,200
Speaker 3: Keep it. Let's be real.

1662
01:18:57,520 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 2: I'm not one of these like masocres and shit. If

1663
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:02,559
Speaker 2: you don't fuck with me, please stay away. But at

1664
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:05,120
Speaker 2: the same time, like, I don't even I'm not even mad.

1665
01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:05,720
Speaker 2: I'm not even like.

1666
01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:07,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get this nigga any of that shit.

1667
01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:10,719
Speaker 2: Like I saw Chris say he was starting twenty eighth nineteen,

1668
01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 2: He's gonna be pettier than ever. But I was like, yeah,

1669
01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 2: my whole energy is trying to be away from that man,

1670
01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:18,519
Speaker 2: to be real, like, and I've been able to read

1671
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:20,400
Speaker 2: some things and kind of see how people be on

1672
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 2: certain shit and stuff like, because that's the other thing.

1673
01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:24,920
Speaker 2: Getting out of my comfort zone. I start dealing with

1674
01:19:25,000 --> 01:19:27,920
Speaker 2: people that I would never deal with and seeing types

1675
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:30,960
Speaker 2: of behavior I've never seen before. And so then I'm

1676
01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 2: reading stuff about stuff and I'm like, oh, this fit

1677
01:19:33,560 --> 01:19:36,519
Speaker 2: into this pattern, this fits into that pattern. Oh so okay,

1678
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:38,320
Speaker 2: so now this is how you deal with a narcissist.

1679
01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:40,560
Speaker 2: I've never fucking dealt with a narcissist. I don't know

1680
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:42,280
Speaker 2: that did they grow on tree, He's like, what the fuck,

1681
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:45,559
Speaker 2: I don't. I would never in my life hang out

1682
01:19:45,600 --> 01:19:48,200
Speaker 2: with somebody that I felt was that having these type

1683
01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 2: of personality disorders, you know, and so we're dealing with

1684
01:19:52,360 --> 01:19:54,560
Speaker 2: that kind of stuff and on the other side of it,

1685
01:19:54,760 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 2: and now it helped make sense of things for me

1686
01:19:57,720 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 2: and shout out to the people that kind of like

1687
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:01,519
Speaker 2: signal boost of that stuff. So I could read it

1688
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:04,240
Speaker 2: and be like, yo, okay, so now see how to

1689
01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:06,640
Speaker 2: deal with this. And the only thing it deal was

1690
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:07,400
Speaker 2: make my life better.

1691
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:08,439
Speaker 3: All right?

1692
01:20:08,479 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 2: Before we go, speaking of making my life better and

1693
01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 2: people that love us, people gave us gifts.

1694
01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:14,880
Speaker 3: And cards.

1695
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 2: I'll try to get to all of them before the

1696
01:20:17,560 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 2: session ends. How much time I got? Okay, cool, that

1697
01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:25,120
Speaker 2: should be enough. Andre Joseph sent us all the wine,

1698
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:31,719
Speaker 2: yes from yeah, like there's so much wine in our house,

1699
01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 2: but thank.

1700
01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:34,559
Speaker 3: You for the wine.

1701
01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 4: I mean drinking it in. Some of my family had

1702
01:20:37,080 --> 01:20:38,320
Speaker 4: a Merry Christmas baby.

1703
01:20:38,280 --> 01:20:41,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I believe you left a message thanks. Thank

1704
01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 2: you guys for another year of great entertainment. I hope

1705
01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:46,320
Speaker 2: this gift can bring you at least a fraction of joy.

1706
01:20:46,320 --> 01:20:47,280
Speaker 2: You're giving Merry Christmas.

1707
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 3: Niggas thank you.

1708
01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:52,960
Speaker 2: And I also have been giving this wine away. I'm

1709
01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 2: a very popular person in my city. Right now, Okay,

1710
01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:58,439
Speaker 2: I come to your house. You get into wine, all right,

1711
01:20:58,960 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 2: don't ask to go ahead, that's no questions. You're getting

1712
01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:04,040
Speaker 2: some wine, all right. One for me, one for y'all

1713
01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:04,800
Speaker 2: is what I say.

1714
01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 3: And it can't. And it came with like I don't

1715
01:21:07,040 --> 01:21:08,200
Speaker 3: know if you know what comes in the box, you

1716
01:21:08,240 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 3: bot already know. But it came with like gift bag,

1717
01:21:11,640 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 3: like the wine holders and wine cork openers. Merry Christmas, niggas,

1718
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:17,479
Speaker 3: here you go.

1719
01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:20,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, we seen like really like thoughtful gift givers. And

1720
01:21:20,400 --> 01:21:23,479
Speaker 2: it's all because you, because you're a thoughtful gift gives you, nigga.

1721
01:21:23,520 --> 01:21:26,360
Speaker 2: You made us look professional. Yep, trying a wine coat,

1722
01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:29,560
Speaker 2: send us some wine. I feel like I read this

1723
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:33,160
Speaker 2: one before, but I'll read again to ride. Happy holidays

1724
01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:37,960
Speaker 2: from Chris uh uh man. I'm gonna fuck up your

1725
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:40,800
Speaker 2: last name, so let me not say it. Trying a

1726
01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 2: wine more so, Well, North Carolina can't drink all this wine.

1727
01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 2: It's so much wine. Okay, we are winos.

1728
01:21:47,960 --> 01:21:49,559
Speaker 3: Come on, we got some cards.

1729
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 2: This one's from Cutter Dear Royan and Karen, thank you

1730
01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 2: for all the funny conversations, thoughtful discussions and uh and

1731
01:21:57,560 --> 01:22:01,120
Speaker 2: the intros to the cookout. I've been listening for almost

1732
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:03,439
Speaker 2: two years and it's been great. I've learned so much

1733
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:06,840
Speaker 2: from you too, and been introduced to several great to

1734
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:10,920
Speaker 2: some great content along the way. I know I don't

1735
01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:13,759
Speaker 2: know you personally, but your personal touch to your craft

1736
01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:17,840
Speaker 2: has left a positive impact on all your listeners, most of.

1737
01:22:17,880 --> 01:22:20,479
Speaker 3: Them, and I am no exception. You've been amazing.

1738
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 2: Keep being the best sit down comedians the world the

1739
01:22:23,520 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 2: podcast and has to offer all Right, love you guys,

1740
01:22:26,520 --> 01:22:28,599
Speaker 2: Happy holidays and more prosperous new year.

1741
01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:31,680
Speaker 3: Thank you. I like being to sit down comedian. That's

1742
01:22:31,720 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 3: from miss CT. Let's see who else we got here?

1743
01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:39,559
Speaker 4: I think it's the opening behind you if you need one, oh.

1744
01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:43,720
Speaker 3: Letter opening, Yes, that is a good idea. Oh we

1745
01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 3: got this from our girl Caritha Dan you see that.

1746
01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:49,800
Speaker 3: Dear Ryan and Karen.

1747
01:22:49,800 --> 01:22:53,000
Speaker 2: I hope this holiday season finds you and yours extraordinarily well.

1748
01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 2: I'm so glad I got to share the live show

1749
01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:57,720
Speaker 2: experience with you in the Blackout Tips Nation. It was

1750
01:22:57,760 --> 01:23:01,240
Speaker 2: a twenty eighteen highlight A I look forward to celebrating

1751
01:23:01,400 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 2: other victories with you in twenty nineteen and beyond much love,

1752
01:23:04,280 --> 01:23:08,879
Speaker 2: Caretha prov Cory ps. I still have you to myself

1753
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:10,759
Speaker 2: because my partner hasn't gotten hooked.

1754
01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 3: He's lost.

1755
01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:17,320
Speaker 2: Look at him over here. These are some beautiful pictures

1756
01:23:17,479 --> 01:23:21,719
Speaker 2: that y'all have together. But he is missing out, okay,

1757
01:23:21,920 --> 01:23:23,760
Speaker 2: And you know what, that's fine as long as you're

1758
01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:26,160
Speaker 2: not missing out. That way, you get to tell him

1759
01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 2: all this stuff like you came up with yourself. Oh

1760
01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:33,080
Speaker 2: that letter open is not over there? It's all right,

1761
01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:38,799
Speaker 2: is oh okay? I said, my bad, I missed its blind.

1762
01:23:39,320 --> 01:23:39,560
Speaker 5: You know what.

1763
01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:45,120
Speaker 3: I'm blind. That's the problem. Needs new glasses, all right.

1764
01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:47,160
Speaker 2: We got this one with some penguins on the front

1765
01:23:47,840 --> 01:23:52,600
Speaker 2: yayh and a kiddy cat stick on it and it

1766
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:55,599
Speaker 2: says Happy New Year, Rodan Karen, I hope you've been

1767
01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:58,439
Speaker 2: enjoying your wonderful holiday season and that your twenty nineteen

1768
01:23:58,439 --> 01:23:59,360
Speaker 2: will be spectacular.

1769
01:23:59,400 --> 01:23:59,960
Speaker 3: Smiley face.

1770
01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:02,519
Speaker 2: You are such a blessing in my life. Your podcast

1771
01:24:02,560 --> 01:24:05,160
Speaker 2: is so insightful, funny, fun to listen to. And you

1772
01:24:05,320 --> 01:24:07,400
Speaker 2: keep me company at the gym while I drive, and

1773
01:24:07,520 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 2: at the grocery store, etc.

1774
01:24:08,800 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 3: And I so appreciate you.

1775
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 2: I have learned so much from you too, and I

1776
01:24:12,160 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 2: know that I will continue to do so, especially and

1777
01:24:14,360 --> 01:24:15,879
Speaker 2: most importantly about.

1778
01:24:15,680 --> 01:24:17,679
Speaker 3: Bullet ball and bullet ball extreme.

1779
01:24:18,280 --> 01:24:20,519
Speaker 2: I really wish for you both, Roder Carron all the

1780
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:23,040
Speaker 2: very best of everything. May your lives be felled and

1781
01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:27,880
Speaker 2: overflowing with goodness of all kinds, including lots of magical surprises,

1782
01:24:28,120 --> 01:24:31,240
Speaker 2: with much love and appreciation. Aaron, see what I'm saying.

1783
01:24:32,280 --> 01:24:35,600
Speaker 2: How can I possibly not be thankful for our twenty eighteen.

1784
01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 4: I know, and I'm trying to tell you, y'all send

1785
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:41,800
Speaker 4: all the cards and I love the cards. Don't know

1786
01:24:41,920 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 4: podcasts to get more physical cards than us.

1787
01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:49,080
Speaker 2: Like, imagine me succumbing to hate. Imagine with all this

1788
01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 2: love is in the room.

1789
01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:51,920
Speaker 3: Yes, and I keep. I told you I keep all

1790
01:24:51,960 --> 01:24:53,840
Speaker 3: your cards. Now I'm like, oh, graand am I? They

1791
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 3: let are Kelly cook and tried to cancel me? Ain't

1792
01:24:56,640 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 3: that some shit?

1793
01:24:57,520 --> 01:25:02,200
Speaker 2: Come on Holliday, wishing you a holiday free of twelve

1794
01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 2: days of shark attacks. All right, take a bite out

1795
01:25:06,479 --> 01:25:09,479
Speaker 2: of all your bread, make fart song sounds as you

1796
01:25:09,600 --> 01:25:12,599
Speaker 2: walk by, Rip.

1797
01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:15,599
Speaker 3: Lead cheeto stains on your clothes.

1798
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:19,400
Speaker 2: Happy holidays, All work, and no play makes Jack doll

1799
01:25:19,479 --> 01:25:23,240
Speaker 2: boy proverb from Jack from the Shining And this is

1800
01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:25,160
Speaker 2: from Breon, I believe and.

1801
01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:33,719
Speaker 3: Sent me a like a It's like a ripped baseball

1802
01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:37,680
Speaker 3: slash basketball card. I have no idea what this is.

1803
01:25:39,120 --> 01:25:42,080
Speaker 2: Thank you for the gift, it says. See more shark

1804
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:44,040
Speaker 2: attacks on Instagram at polite manliness.

1805
01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:46,960
Speaker 3: All right, thank you very much. It's a very unique

1806
01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:49,960
Speaker 3: gift of Mary. Did not know what to do with that.

1807
01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:55,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's like positive or negative. Let's see,

1808
01:25:55,439 --> 01:25:59,599
Speaker 2: we got this one. Christmas is in the air.

1809
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:05,719
Speaker 3: Oh and it came with ooh some starbus cars. Yes,

1810
01:26:07,360 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 3: come here punkin spice lit. A thank you job, Erry

1811
01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:13,920
Speaker 3: frappuccino for me, Ryan and Karen, thank you for all.

1812
01:26:13,920 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 2: That you do by sharing a part of your lives

1813
01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:17,760
Speaker 2: with us on the blackout tills. You both keep me

1814
01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:20,160
Speaker 2: smiling and laughing throughout my work day and work out.

1815
01:26:20,720 --> 01:26:23,439
Speaker 2: Look forward to seeing the show, seeing the show and

1816
01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:25,800
Speaker 2: your business grow in the future. Karen, keep up to

1817
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:29,080
Speaker 2: good work with your puns. The gift cards are little

1818
01:26:29,840 --> 01:26:33,400
Speaker 2: little saying a little something for both of you too.

1819
01:26:33,640 --> 01:26:35,720
Speaker 2: Can live so you can leave your best white woman

1820
01:26:35,760 --> 01:26:39,360
Speaker 2: to color lives as you partake in the season of beverage.

1821
01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:44,000
Speaker 2: Thank you, Wat, and the card says, wishing you good friends,

1822
01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:46,880
Speaker 2: good times, good health, good cheer, happy days throughout the year.

1823
01:26:46,960 --> 01:26:50,360
Speaker 3: Marry, Marry Christmas with lots of love, SABRINAUP, Thank you, Sabrina.

1824
01:26:50,479 --> 01:26:54,320
Speaker 3: Thank you, Sabrina. And I will hold on to both

1825
01:26:54,360 --> 01:26:55,680
Speaker 3: of these cars for both of us.

1826
01:26:56,400 --> 01:26:59,120
Speaker 4: We're probably gonna be together anyway, that's what you think,

1827
01:26:59,360 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 4: all right, See what use you're gonna be spending your

1828
01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:03,519
Speaker 4: own money. Somebody's gonna be spending some money.

1829
01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:09,160
Speaker 3: And him if you want to now, I'll make sure

1830
01:27:09,160 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 3: you get your card after the.

1831
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:15,240
Speaker 2: We got this one, wishing you a fabulous Christmas like

1832
01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:18,000
Speaker 2: that right, this is like care for Washington on this thing.

1833
01:27:19,960 --> 01:27:20,080
Speaker 3: Uh.

1834
01:27:20,840 --> 01:27:22,960
Speaker 2: The car says, wishing you a fabulous Christmas full of

1835
01:27:23,000 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 2: pleasant surprises and the New Year full of wonderful blast

1836
01:27:25,479 --> 01:27:28,479
Speaker 2: Sings Mary Christmas and Happy New Year. The note says,

1837
01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:31,560
Speaker 2: Dear karenon Rod, I feel like y'all would enjoy the

1838
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:34,120
Speaker 2: artwork on this card. I hope you'll have a good

1839
01:27:34,439 --> 01:27:40,800
Speaker 2: rest for holiday. Sincerely, Cash PS. Cursive writing lives on

1840
01:27:41,360 --> 01:27:41,960
Speaker 2: Thank you, Cas.

1841
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:43,280
Speaker 3: It does too, baby.

1842
01:27:43,560 --> 01:27:45,880
Speaker 4: Cursive writing is ingrained in me every nw and did

1843
01:27:45,920 --> 01:27:47,839
Speaker 4: I mess around? And I started writing in cursive.

1844
01:27:48,320 --> 01:27:50,600
Speaker 3: Uh that's our girl, coco qt. I believe that said that?

1845
01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:57,400
Speaker 3: All right? First of all, this card came with.

1846
01:27:57,840 --> 01:28:02,320
Speaker 2: This pen all and it says Sleigh, and it looks

1847
01:28:02,360 --> 01:28:05,760
Speaker 2: like Beyonce's formation dancers on the car.

1848
01:28:08,200 --> 01:28:14,400
Speaker 3: Let's see like openness. Uh so already off to a

1849
01:28:14,439 --> 01:28:15,280
Speaker 3: great start. Okay.

1850
01:28:17,120 --> 01:28:19,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a pen attached to the card so you

1851
01:28:19,840 --> 01:28:22,920
Speaker 2: can wear it as a pen on clothes and stuff.

1852
01:28:23,600 --> 01:28:24,519
Speaker 2: So it said Sleigh.

1853
01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:26,519
Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys can see that. Hopefully

1854
01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:27,240
Speaker 3: don't hold that right.

1855
01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:30,880
Speaker 4: Yes, honey, I'm gonna hold onto that because my goal is,

1856
01:28:31,320 --> 01:28:34,160
Speaker 4: uh hopefully next time Bonce go on tour, and my

1857
01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:35,920
Speaker 4: goal is to go to a concert.

1858
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:40,760
Speaker 2: And we got this car, all right, black women on

1859
01:28:40,840 --> 01:28:43,519
Speaker 2: the front with a Christmas and wrap papers and bags,

1860
01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:47,080
Speaker 2: it says, oh, and then we.

1861
01:28:47,120 --> 01:28:51,040
Speaker 3: Got all these stickers. Okay, so this is like some

1862
01:28:51,200 --> 01:28:52,880
Speaker 3: straight up black ass etxy stuff.

1863
01:28:54,320 --> 01:28:57,040
Speaker 2: I appreciate them biting out of this chocolate bar and

1864
01:28:57,120 --> 01:29:01,040
Speaker 2: not breaking into pieces, because that's my style. Dear Royan

1865
01:29:01,080 --> 01:29:03,599
Speaker 2: and Karen, thank you for getting us through another year

1866
01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:07,799
Speaker 2: of racist, homophobic, sexist, capitalist nonsense with your amazing podcast,

1867
01:29:07,920 --> 01:29:10,000
Speaker 2: with all the love and hilarity you bring and the wisdom.

1868
01:29:10,080 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 2: I am so grateful to you. Every day I run

1869
01:29:12,439 --> 01:29:14,000
Speaker 2: my own business from home and I listen to your

1870
01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:15,800
Speaker 2: show often. I learned so much from you, and if

1871
01:29:15,840 --> 01:29:18,040
Speaker 2: I could have afforded the flight, I totally would a

1872
01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:20,759
Speaker 2: cane to your live show. It sounded magic and excellent,

1873
01:29:21,360 --> 01:29:24,879
Speaker 2: like everything you do. Hugs and kisses and say PTO.

1874
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:27,280
Speaker 2: I think that means please turn over. The package here

1875
01:29:27,400 --> 01:29:31,120
Speaker 2: is for Karen. Mostly it's from Dorcas Creates, who is

1876
01:29:31,120 --> 01:29:34,640
Speaker 2: an amazing artist who in here in the UK celebrating

1877
01:29:34,720 --> 01:29:35,479
Speaker 2: black women.

1878
01:29:35,600 --> 01:29:36,240
Speaker 3: In her work.

1879
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 2: And it's a asterisk everyone needs to live better true

1880
01:29:42,120 --> 01:29:45,759
Speaker 2: her Pumpkin Spice life. That's true, That's correct, it also says,

1881
01:29:48,680 --> 01:29:50,720
Speaker 2: but I couldn't resist these stickers for Rod.

1882
01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:53,599
Speaker 3: Thank you. The first time I listened to your show,

1883
01:29:53,680 --> 01:29:56,360
Speaker 3: Pumpkin Spices, I tell you was a big theme. I

1884
01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:59,360
Speaker 3: love your show, Love you both. Thanks you are the best.

1885
01:29:59,400 --> 01:30:03,280
Speaker 2: Happy Chris, This love Felicity. Thank you Felicity, and I

1886
01:30:03,400 --> 01:30:05,080
Speaker 2: will be putting these stickers.

1887
01:30:04,720 --> 01:30:08,160
Speaker 3: Everywhere and I will be keeping my pin well. Also,

1888
01:30:08,640 --> 01:30:12,000
Speaker 3: this is the gift like that was uh yeah you

1889
01:30:12,160 --> 01:30:14,160
Speaker 3: got you got some extra stuff in here? Let me

1890
01:30:14,200 --> 01:30:16,200
Speaker 3: see if I got did you want to open it?

1891
01:30:16,320 --> 01:30:19,240
Speaker 3: Or say that wrapping paper? Do you want to open

1892
01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:19,639
Speaker 3: it yourself?

1893
01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:19,840
Speaker 4: Here?

1894
01:30:22,600 --> 01:30:22,800
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1895
01:30:22,800 --> 01:30:24,880
Speaker 4: I like the special wrapping paper. I think I still

1896
01:30:24,960 --> 01:30:26,759
Speaker 4: got that salons wrapping paper.

1897
01:30:31,920 --> 01:30:35,080
Speaker 3: Tell the people what it is going on? Pretty stickers,

1898
01:30:35,200 --> 01:30:39,120
Speaker 3: stickers with black women on them? Come through? Ope, I

1899
01:30:39,160 --> 01:30:48,519
Speaker 3: forgot my cameras up here. There you ago? Ooh ooh,

1900
01:30:48,720 --> 01:30:49,679
Speaker 3: some more pins.

1901
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:51,960
Speaker 4: I got a bunch of pins with black women, y'all?

1902
01:30:52,240 --> 01:30:54,880
Speaker 3: Oh ooh? Ben two knots?

1903
01:30:55,080 --> 01:31:01,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, been two knots? Yeah, yes, because I'm really I'm

1904
01:31:01,880 --> 01:31:05,360
Speaker 4: learning how to wrap my hair with like the hair wraps.

1905
01:31:05,400 --> 01:31:08,000
Speaker 4: So I've been going to the to the cloth store

1906
01:31:08,040 --> 01:31:09,160
Speaker 4: and buying material.

1907
01:31:09,360 --> 01:31:11,160
Speaker 3: I think your lights making kind of Oh there it is,

1908
01:31:11,200 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 3: I can see it now. Yeah.

1909
01:31:12,439 --> 01:31:16,240
Speaker 2: These are great, aren't they pretty? It's just different hairstyles

1910
01:31:16,240 --> 01:31:19,439
Speaker 2: and stuff. Yes, they look like what was it Hallie

1911
01:31:19,479 --> 01:31:21,960
Speaker 2: and Chloe? I probably fuck that girl? Them girls names up?

1912
01:31:22,640 --> 01:31:24,120
Speaker 3: Uh that's dope though.

1913
01:31:24,640 --> 01:31:26,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, I am I am having a ball.

1914
01:31:26,479 --> 01:31:29,080
Speaker 3: I like this when this is pretty. Yeah, let me

1915
01:31:29,200 --> 01:31:33,160
Speaker 3: see ye there you go? There you go? So it

1916
01:31:33,240 --> 01:31:34,639
Speaker 3: looks like when I do it in the corner.

1917
01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:37,519
Speaker 2: Now, just bring it back down a little bit so

1918
01:31:37,680 --> 01:31:40,559
Speaker 2: we can see they a little bit more. Because they

1919
01:31:40,600 --> 01:31:41,880
Speaker 2: got both of us on screen, you can't see it.

1920
01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:45,519
Speaker 3: Okay, there you go. That's okay, build a hold friend,

1921
01:31:45,520 --> 01:31:46,280
Speaker 3: but yeah, that's dope.

1922
01:31:47,000 --> 01:31:51,719
Speaker 4: Yes, and honey, I am here for the Ooh look y'all.

1923
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:54,559
Speaker 3: That's the rapping paper.

1924
01:31:54,720 --> 01:31:54,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1925
01:31:55,000 --> 01:31:57,479
Speaker 3: And uh and the thing. Oh yes, you got a

1926
01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:01,439
Speaker 3: fro on the sticker. Yes, that's man. These motherfuckers be

1927
01:32:02,760 --> 01:32:06,320
Speaker 3: don't sleep on them. Yeah, and let me see what

1928
01:32:06,479 --> 01:32:09,000
Speaker 3: the let me see if it's on Uh.

1929
01:32:09,160 --> 01:32:12,719
Speaker 2: So there's artwork on the card that's by at Eclectic

1930
01:32:12,840 --> 01:32:19,160
Speaker 2: Gift twenty eighteen. And then she said your stuff was

1931
01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 2: from Dorcus Creates d O r c As Creates.

1932
01:32:25,560 --> 01:32:30,240
Speaker 3: Oh that's dope's the other one? Wow? Yo, that is

1933
01:32:30,320 --> 01:32:35,640
Speaker 3: some dope art. Is there anything else far? Okay? Go

1934
01:32:36,120 --> 01:32:41,160
Speaker 3: all right? Do you think more stickers? M let's see it.

1935
01:32:41,680 --> 01:32:43,800
Speaker 2: Like you're gonna have a house looking like a black

1936
01:32:44,240 --> 01:32:47,439
Speaker 2: like a black woman. Uh, sticky paradise up in here.

1937
01:32:47,520 --> 01:32:53,200
Speaker 3: Clown everything what on everything? He's all over the desk.

1938
01:32:54,040 --> 01:32:55,760
Speaker 3: Oh and like card cards.

1939
01:32:58,160 --> 01:33:03,320
Speaker 2: Oh and they haven't even been open, so like you

1940
01:33:03,400 --> 01:33:05,720
Speaker 2: can just give it to other people and stuff. So

1941
01:33:05,840 --> 01:33:08,639
Speaker 2: now you get to be the coolest person giving away cards. Honey,

1942
01:33:08,680 --> 01:33:10,920
Speaker 2: you gonna make a gift that keep on giving. Honey, y'all,

1943
01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:12,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now, I love our fans.

1944
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:14,679
Speaker 2: Y'all be making me look good.

1945
01:33:15,400 --> 01:33:18,160
Speaker 4: All the ear rings I've gotten, particularly last year, year

1946
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:20,800
Speaker 4: before last, all the ear rings and ship I have

1947
01:33:21,000 --> 01:33:23,479
Speaker 4: all that stuff and everybody, but like, where y'all got

1948
01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:23,880
Speaker 4: that from?

1949
01:33:23,960 --> 01:33:25,160
Speaker 3: And y'all know what y'all made me?

1950
01:33:25,240 --> 01:33:27,000
Speaker 4: So probably like my fans gave it to me that

1951
01:33:27,120 --> 01:33:27,840
Speaker 4: but you got fans.

1952
01:33:27,880 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 3: I showed you. I got fans, y'all. And lastly, oh

1953
01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:36,400
Speaker 3: and then you got a tote. Look at this ship.

1954
01:33:36,720 --> 01:33:37,400
Speaker 4: I got one more thing?

1955
01:33:37,479 --> 01:33:40,760
Speaker 3: Hold on, this thing was full of stuff. Thank you, baby.

1956
01:33:47,240 --> 01:33:53,400
Speaker 2: I'm saving I know, I don't know what for, but

1957
01:33:53,920 --> 01:33:56,080
Speaker 2: because I like it. No, I mean, I don't know

1958
01:33:56,160 --> 01:33:58,200
Speaker 2: what you're gonna use it for. You just gonna have it.

1959
01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:02,240
Speaker 3: And one more Oh that's pretty too.

1960
01:34:02,960 --> 01:34:03,360
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1961
01:34:03,560 --> 01:34:05,559
Speaker 4: It's gonna be some black girl magic in this bitch

1962
01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:09,160
Speaker 4: for real? Why does the smell like butter?

1963
01:34:11,320 --> 01:34:11,439
Speaker 7: Who?

1964
01:34:11,600 --> 01:34:11,960
Speaker 4: The oil?

1965
01:34:12,520 --> 01:34:15,639
Speaker 3: And h coconut oil? All right? Last thing?

1966
01:34:16,040 --> 01:34:16,400
Speaker 5: That was that?

1967
01:34:16,479 --> 01:34:16,839
Speaker 3: Everything?

1968
01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:23,320
Speaker 2: Okay, last thing. We also got doctor Bambie Haggins book

1969
01:34:24,400 --> 01:34:28,680
Speaker 2: laughing mad Okay. When we were out in Cali, I

1970
01:34:28,800 --> 01:34:30,320
Speaker 2: was like, you need to send me this, you know

1971
01:34:30,360 --> 01:34:32,519
Speaker 2: what I mean. It's called the Black Comic Persona in

1972
01:34:32,600 --> 01:34:38,000
Speaker 2: the Post so America and uh, she wrote a note

1973
01:34:38,080 --> 01:34:40,519
Speaker 2: in it. Let me see if I can read it

1974
01:34:41,560 --> 01:34:43,720
Speaker 2: to ride and Karen, thank you for driving or for

1975
01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:45,920
Speaker 2: doing the work that you do and inspiring book the

1976
01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:51,800
Speaker 2: books book number two, you are a national treasure. And

1977
01:34:52,320 --> 01:34:55,040
Speaker 2: I think Bambi yeah, and it said, as she signed

1978
01:34:55,080 --> 01:34:56,439
Speaker 2: her name, thank you so.

1979
01:34:56,600 --> 01:34:57,280
Speaker 3: Much, thank you.

1980
01:34:57,360 --> 01:34:58,840
Speaker 4: I think we got one more thing. Didn't we get

1981
01:34:58,840 --> 01:35:01,080
Speaker 4: the thing on the wish list. I did not keep

1982
01:35:01,120 --> 01:35:01,920
Speaker 4: the little paper there.

1983
01:35:02,800 --> 01:35:06,680
Speaker 2: It was like a little it wasn't paper because they

1984
01:35:06,760 --> 01:35:08,760
Speaker 2: did it was. It didn't get a paper that told

1985
01:35:08,840 --> 01:35:12,200
Speaker 2: us who sent it. But we did get this toilet

1986
01:35:12,240 --> 01:35:15,320
Speaker 2: paper holder from our wish list that also lets you

1987
01:35:15,400 --> 01:35:16,360
Speaker 2: set your cell phone on it.

1988
01:35:16,680 --> 01:35:18,840
Speaker 3: So whoever said that, thank you, you did it. Did

1989
01:35:18,920 --> 01:35:19,800
Speaker 3: not put a paper in that.

1990
01:35:19,960 --> 01:35:22,320
Speaker 2: Maybe you wanted it to be anonymous, but thank you

1991
01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:26,280
Speaker 2: because we've been using it. It actually brought myself one

1992
01:35:26,479 --> 01:35:28,880
Speaker 2: after seeing how dope it was for Karen's bathroom.

1993
01:35:28,960 --> 01:35:30,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, can I send it online?

1994
01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:31,519
Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, I can set my

1995
01:35:31,640 --> 01:35:33,599
Speaker 4: phone there and not have it in my hand.

1996
01:35:33,760 --> 01:35:36,240
Speaker 3: And I'm actually, could you know while you're showering and ship?

1997
01:35:36,400 --> 01:35:37,280
Speaker 3: You know it's near by?

1998
01:35:37,800 --> 01:35:41,879
Speaker 2: So thank you everybody. We'll be back with more tomorrow,

1999
01:35:43,080 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 2: back to our regular schedule program. There's a lot of

2000
01:35:45,080 --> 01:35:47,000
Speaker 2: stuff that need we want to talk about. You know,

2001
01:35:47,600 --> 01:35:51,599
Speaker 2: Lucy k still out here fucking up surviving R Kelly started,

2002
01:35:51,640 --> 01:35:56,280
Speaker 2: we started watching that. I'm sure other ship has happened

2003
01:35:56,439 --> 01:35:58,760
Speaker 2: that y'all probably either care about our opinions or don't

2004
01:35:58,800 --> 01:36:00,880
Speaker 2: care about opinions, right, but we gonna give them.

2005
01:36:01,120 --> 01:36:04,720
Speaker 3: I know that much. My New Year's resolution is to

2006
01:36:04,840 --> 01:36:08,360
Speaker 3: be on y'all next for all of twenty nineteen. Okay,

2007
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:11,559
Speaker 3: you're gonna have to hate me every day, all right,

2008
01:36:11,640 --> 01:36:13,640
Speaker 3: we'll talk to y'all. Lady, I'll tell you that I

2009
01:36:13,720 --> 01:36:15,040
Speaker 3: love you. I love you too. Wh