WEBVTT - Episode 234 "MariahLynn" 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.920 How do you feel about Diddy and Koisha relationship? 0:00:02.960 --> 0:00:04.680 Because that's to be honest with you. 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:06.680 In the space that I am in my life right now, 0:00:06.800 --> 0:00:08.000 I need that, see what. 0:00:08.080 --> 0:00:10.319 I went down that road already with RIGI. So one point, 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:12.560 Rich may. 0:00:12.440 --> 0:00:14.760 Not be ditty, but let me tell you his name 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:19.880 ain't Rich dollars for no reason? No, he got money. Okay, 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:23.360 Rich is sitting on. Don't let fool you? Can you 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:27.440 getting like thirtys an episode? Okay that was a little 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:29.480 while ago, and New York is expensive. 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:30.400 This was my thing. 0:00:30.480 --> 0:00:32.520 I could say a lot right now because the same 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.600 people who shade people. 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:39.600 Not probably did. 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:46.400 Rich and I laughed at it together until he got 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:50.559 mad because I laughed a little too hard and he's. 0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:51.199 So mad or whatever. He's like, y'all you're in the 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.800 femi me. I'm like, what are you talking about? 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:52.960 Bro? 0:00:53.040 --> 0:01:00.680 You're not Diddy like in a sense like, no, borrow 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:01.120 with me here? 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:04.760 You know, BT's so low. Shout out oct calor what 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:07.440 we see whole game? Ready Bert something? Oh you can't 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:09.600 stand on the home, Susie. I already know he came 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.200 with me because up with the squad of me, they 0:01:12.240 --> 0:01:12.520 get in. 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:13.600 They called me. 0:01:15.920 --> 0:01:22.959 Bloy. Hello, baller Alert. Welcome to the ball Alert Show podcast. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:25.880 Make sure you like to subscribe and share our YouTube 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:26.959 page Baller Alert. 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:28.200 I go by the name of Ferrari. 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.039 Simmits and I am your bestie Sue Solo. 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:32.080 You know bt oct. 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:33.479 With that and it ship gun right there. 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:47.919 You start already, Okay. Ralph y'all all, the black sixteen 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.640 year old who was shot in Kansas City after accidentally 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:52.160 going into the wrong house. 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:53.120 I don't know if you guys saw that. 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:55.560 Yeah, he was picking up his younger siblings when he 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:59.320 accidentally rang the doorbell to the wrong house. Cops say 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:03.240 the homeowner, Andrew Lester, opened the door and shot Ralph twice, 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:06.680 once in the head. According to the y'all old family, 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:11.120 did you guys hear about that news, Yeah. 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:14.320 It's been everywhere, glad. A lot of celebrities are making 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:17.120 you know it aware. Yeah, given donations too. 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:19.560 Because they actually have a GoFundMe and it's up to 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:20.160 more than. 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:24.400 Yeah, they asked for half a million, it went to 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.440 a million very quickly. But the thing I'm scary about 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:30.440 it is this kid did not pose a threat whatsoever. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:32.440 He literally was just knocking on the door. It was 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:35.639 super regular, and I think this man, this evil man, 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:38.680 Andrew Lester, is about to spend the last of his 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:42.000 days in jail because you just wanted to shoot a 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:43.800 black kid, in my opinion, like I just I just 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:46.440 don't see how you saw him knocking on the door 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:49.240 as casually as he was as a threat, and not 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:52.080 to shoot him in the head once, but twice. You 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:54.360 wanted to kill that man. You wanted to kill him. 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:56.200 It's one thing to like kill him in the like 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.000 shoot him in the arm or the leg or like 0:02:58.040 --> 0:02:59.720 give a warning shot, but you you went. 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:00.000 For his head. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:01.600 Why would you shoot anybody that? 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:05.120 Just I mean, he is an old man. He probably 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:07.560 came up with some type of scenario in his head, 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.160 or maybe he's had experiences in the past. But nonetheless, 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:12.760 like you're wrong for shooting that kid in the head twice. 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:16.080 That's so random to me, Like I think so random, 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:19.359 and I feel like with everything the world is going through, 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:22.639 how much gun violence we have, Like I really don't 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:24.920 play like that, Like don't get me wrong, Like you know, 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:28.000 I'm from the hood. I come from that, and I'm 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:31.440 not to me personally, like I'll always be where I'm from. 0:03:31.440 --> 0:03:33.280 I'm never gonna forget where I'm from. But I'm not 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:36.080 that street girl no more. Like I had to realize 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:37.960 that growing up, Like I had to be like, wow, 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.120 you know what, do I want to be the superstar 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:43.040 or do I want to be dead in jail? Like 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.080 you know what I'm saying? So much stuff going on 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:47.440 that it's just like that was really like, that's crazy, 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:48.040 that's mind brown. 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:51.640 But is that shocking anymore? 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:54.680 The times that we're living in, Like, it's not shocking, 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:56.200 That's what I'm kind of just like, oh my god. 0:03:56.080 --> 0:04:01.320 Wow he's stable. He's in stable. 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:02.160 Yeah, thank god? 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:06.760 Okay, Yeah, he didn't die die God, And we don't 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:08.360 know if the eighty five year old is going to 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:09.560 spend his life and we. 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:14.000 Because but this is in Kansas City. Yeah, I don't 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:15.760 know if y'all ever been to Kansas City one time? 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.039 I think I've been one time as well, I've never been. 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:23.799 I've also never heard anything good about Kansas City, Okay. 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:28.599 Jonathan Majors dropped by a Manager Entertainment three sixty following 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.360 domestic violence charges. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:31.200 Well, he's also. 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:34.440 Being dropped by his PR firm. 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:36.279 He can't go to the met Galla anymore. 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:36.560 If you. 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:39.279 If you're too black and you go up too far, 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:42.000 they're gonna find a way to humble your ass. And 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:45.400 this man, they have no business allegedly choking his girlfriend. 0:04:46.080 --> 0:04:47.520 He ain't got no business in his hand on a. 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.680 One went through that man. It doesn't matter what she did. 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:53.120 My best friend was killed by her baby father two 0:04:53.200 --> 0:04:57.039 years ago, shoting the head over perks like wuld be 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.760 the littlest ship that like you're here today going tomorrow. 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.520 That's why I don't understand, like it's no excuse. That's 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.799 why I started my nonprofit called on Swanna Sign Foundations 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:09.520 so I can help domestic violence victims, young kids suffering 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:12.599 with their parents who are incarcerated. Because I went through 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:15.080 certain stuff and I also lost my best friend to 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:16.960 gun violence by her own kid's father. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:17.960 Like that's crazy. 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:18.919 I'm so sorry to hear that. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.560 I love this blind song was like real, like real. 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:25.360 Real, Yeah, and you know so it's it's goodness. Yeah, 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:28.200 that's a touching subject for me. I don't believe if listen, 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:29.920 young man, you can overpower us. 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:30.400 I get it. 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:32.960 Women can be provoking. There are some women who are 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.279 toxic who will provoke y'all, who will put their hands 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:37.600 on y'all. But the best thing to do is to 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:41.200 just remove yourself because that toxicity will consume you and 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:42.840 turn you into somebody that you're not. 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:47.080 That is so real. My thing is, do we agree 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:49.760 with endorsements and things being taken away from you before 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:53.560 you're proven guilty. I don't agree with that because what 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:54.599 happens if it's not true? 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:55.640 Right now? What now? 0:05:55.720 --> 0:05:59.960 Now they're going to be on apologize. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:03.600 Yeah, be placed on whole, but taking away I would say, 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:06.080 placed on hold untilations. 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:06.760 I agree. 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:09.559 Yeah, I think it's terrible that, you know, these things 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:12.159 come out and it puts a permanent stain on you. 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.240 You have to live the next decade or two trying 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.599 to clean it up. But now you've lost everything that 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:19.520 you work for right now because somebody may have cridwolf 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.920 and then nothing happened to to the to the person 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.280 that you know made the false accusations. Like that's a 0:06:25.320 --> 0:06:26.000 whole other topic. 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:28.640 But it still live together, if they still live together, 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:31.279 they probably live together now. They probably living together right 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:32.800 and through and it's over it. 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:35.440 Lord Jesus, we don't know about that, but you can 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:35.880 just tell. 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:38.400 In her message to him, you know, she was kind 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:41.400 of fearful for you know, what could happen to him, 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:45.360 you know, and then those domestic violence situations, it's real sticky. 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:47.760 And the victim always feels bad as well. 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.200 Yeah, I was in a situation my leg was broken 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:54.039 and yeah in three places. And I feel like, you 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:56.960 know what I learned from that is like at first 0:06:57.040 --> 0:06:59.080 I felt like, oh my god, I didn't want to 0:06:59.080 --> 0:06:59.679 go to police. 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:01.680 I'm from the hood, Like how does that look? Am 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:02.279 I snitching? 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:02.520 Like? 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:02.800 You know? 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:06.800 And then I had to sit and think back, like wow, 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.600 like this man really broke I never broke a bone 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.720 playing sports, Like I've been fighting all my life, which 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:13.560 I never break. 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:16.520 Nothing on me. I was like, you know what. 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:18.320 And then when I lost my best friend, I was like, 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.280 all right, you know what, I think that this is 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:23.040 something that I need to Like, I was scared. I 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:25.320 didn't wanted to go public, like you know what I'm saying, 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:27.000 a lot of my fans look at me like, oh, 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:28.240 she's strong, she aggresses. 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:29.440 She just didn't really. 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:32.080 Get to see like that soft side of me, or 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:34.160 you know, that vulnerable side of me. So I was 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:36.800 very vulnerable when that happened, and it kind of like 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:40.320 really made me like question myself, like, am I snitched? 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:42.040 Like you know what I'm saying, But he actually went 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:44.000 to police and then I had to like and it 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:44.960 was a long thing, but. 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:46.560 He went to the police. 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:47.960 Police saw on me. 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:52.080 Yeah, it's little five to one me either broke my 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:55.800 little leg in three places. But again, you live and 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:59.560 you learn. I wasn't a provoking female. But there are 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:01.920 some soff I agree with what y'all saying. I think 0:08:01.920 --> 0:08:04.680 it should be put on hold because you're innocent and 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:07.720 still proven guilty. But there are some situations. Wasn't there 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:11.480 another football player son who the baby mother put the 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:12.360 camera in the house and. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:18.000 Yeah, yeah, like we can you know, it's. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:21.240 Clear as day she went to jail, right yeah, but. 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.720 Right now, I mean with Jonathan Major's it's really he says, she. 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:25.960 Said, and she just made a statement like, oh he's 0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:29.320 getting help and this and that, and it's like I 0:08:29.360 --> 0:08:32.640 get it. Like the victim, you feel bad and you're traumatized, 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:35.840 you start dealing with PTSD, you start you know, there's 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:37.960 so many different scenarios, like you were saying, it could 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:40.520 go so many different Yes, It's like when Rihanna was 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:42.800 saying that about Chris Brown, like she did the interview 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:45.160 with Oprah, and she was like, I just feel bad 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:47.080 for him, Like who's going to help him? Like for 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:49.000 him to be for him to do what he did, 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:52.000 something is wrong with him. Like it is a victim 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:54.800 mentality to for some reason feel a little bit of 0:08:54.800 --> 0:08:57.800 guilt and not want your abuser to go. Especially and 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:01.320 I feel like especially for black women because in the 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:05.280 times we live in, we're trying to protect our black kings, 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.800 right and they feel like I don't want to take 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:09.839 his freedom. I don't want to, you know what I'm saying, 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.480 Like especially kids involved and stuff like that. 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.040 It's like it's too mixy. 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:16.679 Once again, what is where? Where can they find your 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:18.520 my knowledge? 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:20.640 It's the once upon a Sign Foundation. 0:09:21.040 --> 0:09:24.960 I will be doing a lot lot more for DV victims, 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.960 Like I said, kids whose parents aren'tcarcerated or enforced their care. 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:31.160 I would love, love, love. 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:33.600 We are speaking to my financial advisor to get some 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:37.000 funding so we could maybe build some safe homes or 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:39.720 maybe even some places where you know, the kids could 0:09:39.760 --> 0:09:41.840 have a safe place to go in the areas that 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:44.800 they don't have safe places to go. You know, they're 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:48.040 being raised by their grandmothers, their aunts, force the parents, 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:51.320 you know what I'm saying. Like, so it's like these 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:53.640 people I know because I was in the system. You know, 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:57.040 sometimes you're a burden, you know, to these people. And 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:59.560 it's like, so these little safe places mean the most 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:01.800 of these kids, where they can explore their creators. 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.800 Like my thing was writing. I love to write poetry. 0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:06.880 So when I was sad, or I missed my mom 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:08.960 or you know, whatever it was I was going through, 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:10.520 I would just sit and write about it and I 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:13.640 would feel so much better. So we can provide, you know, 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:17.080 these ways for these kids to express themselves. Not in 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:20.479 the streets, not shooting guns, not selling drugs, not abusing 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.920 women or you know what I'm saying, it's just repetitive 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:25.880 cycles that we gotta break, Like, we gotta break these cycles. 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:28.520 Good for you using those negative experiences and you know, 0:10:28.840 --> 0:10:31.000 looking forward to the future and helping other people, because 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:33.320 sometimes you really need to be the person that you 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:35.440 needed when you were going through those things. So shout 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:36.040 out to you for that. 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:36.400 Thank you. 0:10:36.760 --> 0:10:39.800 All Right, did you guys see Russell Westbrook the basketball 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.640 player is beefing with fans. Did you guys see that video? 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.320 I just recently saw it a little while ago. You know, 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:48.800 I didn't see it. 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:52.920 I was just about to say, y'all forget Westbrook is 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:53.520 from Compton. 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.480 Yeah, No, I just don't. I have athletes are not 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:58.080 my type, so I don't really pay. 0:10:57.960 --> 0:10:59.200 Attention to them like that. 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:03.560 Hey, the rappers are not my type. No, it's just 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:04.559 I just they. 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.240 Know they just he was dated athletes in the past. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:09.600 No, I just my friends have and I've seen like 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:11.880 the treatment and like what it was like I was. 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:14.480 I was somewhere one time. I just I won't say 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.280 no names, but we were in somebody's house. I don't know 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:18.840 who the hell he was, but we was playing a game, 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:21.400 you know, the game on your head where you flip it, 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:23.040 and the category was music. 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:24.719 And I came up and he didn't know who I was. 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:29.200 I was like, ohtull fuck it, like you know, like 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:33.880 you know, like the girls, was like, she's right here. 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:35.880 She's right here. He still couldn't get the question. 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:37.840 I was like, all right, wait, so you so you 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:39.400 so you pretty much was like, y'all don't know who 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:40.600 I don't even think you a starter. 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:42.560 You don't know me, I don't know you. 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:47.400 But the fact that it heads up at all though, 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:49.840 that's pretty dumb. Go ahead, says Okay, Okay. 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:52.360 Philadelphia Eagles quarterback Jalen. 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:56.040 Hurts just five year, two hundred and fifty five million 0:11:56.120 --> 0:12:01.080 dollar extension, one hundred and seventy nine million guarantees, Lord. 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:03.559 Jez, Jayla Hurst not your type. You're gonna tell me 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:09.120 that Jayla Hurs not your means what? That's a fine. 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:12.680 For the Super Bowl? All the girls was like, who 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:14.400 was that he was chewing gum on the sound? 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.800 It was the way he was chewing that gun gum on. 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:17.959 The side line on the screen. 0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:22.199 I think what makes him super fun is his attitude 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:24.920 towards women. You know, he was just an essence on 0:12:24.960 --> 0:12:27.760 the cover and one of the things that he said 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:31.439 and there is empowering black women because that's who empowered him. 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:35.360 Okay, it's real. That would take a man from a 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.480 six to it. I'm telling you. 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:39.600 Everything. 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:41.360 Personality can make or break you. 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:43.960 Let's take a quick commercial break. 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:44.440 We'll come back. 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:45.040 We won't get him. 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:48.400 Mariah Lynn b Is, you're doing a good job. You 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:49.080 gotta come back. 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:51.320 We will be right back with more of the Bowler 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:59.439 Alert Show. You're listening to a special edition of the 0:12:59.480 --> 0:12:59.959 Bailer Alert. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.640 What's good to Sugar mary Land and you are now 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:04.800 tuned into the Baller Alert shop. 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.160 Welcome back to the Fallow Alert Show. We are still 0:13:07.240 --> 0:13:09.160 kicking it with the Mariah Lynn. 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:16.800 Yes, got the energy girl. 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:19.680 Hey you know Mariah So we know you from TV 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:23.160 Love and Hip Hop, Marriage boot Camp, your music? 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:25.280 What about that time I got. 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:26.560 Hours and. 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:30.199 You back because I did this shame. 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:33.840 But for those that don't know, you know, can you 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:36.760 give us a brief, you know, history of Maria Lane, 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:38.280 Just letting us know who you are, because you have 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:40.200 a story and I don't think everybody know that. 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:44.040 So before Love and Hip Hop, I was based by 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:46.720 single mother. My dad did like ten years in jail. 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:48.480 You know. 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:52.240 My mom went through some trials and tribulations, and at 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:54.120 a young age, I had to step up and take 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:58.120 care of my sisters. I have two sisters, Ice and Victoria. 0:13:58.480 --> 0:14:01.400 Victoria got my nephew who's the same age as Iceland. 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:02.760 So my mom and my. 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:07.600 Sister got pregnant at the same time, and basically I 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:11.520 just yeah, I was like all right, Like I took 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.120 custody of my baby sister, Iceland. She's gonna be eight 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:17.240 in December. So I've had her since she was six months. 0:14:18.240 --> 0:14:19.120 Yeah she saw that. 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:23.120 Yeah, she's oh my god, she's just like everything. Like literally, 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.040 the reason that y'all are receiving this energy and getting 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:28.600 this mar Island is mostly because. 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:33.320 Of her Italian and. 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:33.400 And then my little sister. She's actually she got a 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:37.880 different da She's Puerto Rican Italian Black. Yes, so it's 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:39.800 kind of not a lot of pressure, but it is 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:43.240 pressure because you know, I always want her to like, 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:45.200 you know, when she comes home some time, she's in 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.960 first grade and she's already coming home like can you put. 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:49.960 My hair straight? Like the girls with skin like you? 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:51.800 And I'm like no, because we live in a we 0:14:51.840 --> 0:14:55.320 live in a predominantly suburban town. You know, I want 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:56.960 them to have a different life than what I did. 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:58.920 So I kind of, you know, I'm trying to like 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:02.880 change break the change the narrative for them. And you know, 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:05.480 sometimes like no, like the girls with the skin like 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:06.960 me want here. 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:10.400 With the girls like you, like you don't want this straight. 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:12.760 She's just like so she's just tell you what she's 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:13.520 saying when she goes. 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:16.360 This is a seven year old coming home telling me this. 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.920 So this is why I'm like you know, I wasn't 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:21.960 really prepared for all of this, but it's day by 0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:24.880 day and I've been doing, I mean. 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.360 A great job. She's straight, a's her teachers love her. 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:32.240 My nephew's amazing. My middle sister, who's my nephew's mom, 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:32.920 she works. 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:33.240 Now. 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:38.600 You know, my mom's been three years clean. Yeah. My 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:41.080 birthdays on Sunday, so happy birthday. 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:41.360 Ye. 0:15:43.320 --> 0:15:45.280 But yeah, So you know that I went through a lot, 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:47.720 not having a dad, going through the Forster care system, 0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:50.240 being bounced around from family member to family member, then 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:52.960 being a teenager running away like to my friend's house. 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:55.920 I'll be wearing my friend's clothes, like, you know, my 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:58.640 friend's parents telling police she not here. You know, Dafer's 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:00.640 work is looking for me. Like I talk about all 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:04.080 of that. Like, so I had a really really it 0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:06.840 wasn't all bad, but I did have a rough childhood, 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:08.440 Like it could have been better, you know what I'm saying. 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:11.880 But I'm actually thankful for everything I went through because 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:15.200 if not, when I sat in that Love and Hip 0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:18.200 Hop interview and they, you know, were trying to figure 0:16:18.200 --> 0:16:20.720 out who I was, and you know, if I was 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:23.320 good enough for TV or whatever, they saw something in me, 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:26.400 you know, and a lot of times people ask me like. 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:27.720 Do you regret going on TV? 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.320 Like do you regret opening your life up so much 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.400 and giving so much of yourself to the public? And 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:35.040 I said no, And I still stand on no, because 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:37.480 you don't know how many people have reached out to 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:40.000 me and been like, y'all I relate to this, or 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:42.360 y'all you beat the odd set against you. How can 0:16:42.400 --> 0:16:45.480 I you know, I'm looking for a better way out 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:47.800 of this or you know what I'm saying. So I 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:50.920 don't regret it and everything I've been through, Like even 0:16:50.920 --> 0:16:52.800 with the music side, like I was signed to an 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:55.600 indie label and my manager sitting right here. You know, 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:58.000 I talk about this all the time now, but I 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:01.000 was actually took from like like I was robbed like 0:17:01.080 --> 0:17:03.800 half a million dollars. We're talking about once upon a time. 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:06.160 I didn't I wasn't educated, I didn't know about. 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:10.440 Pace all of that, Like. 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:15.520 How'd you get robbed? 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.360 So basically, when I got on Love and Hip Hop, 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:20.600 I was signed to an indie label. He worked with 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:23.800 artists and also robbed artists like Drincky Graham, Cozi Pop. 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:26.840 They have records like snapbacks, and Tattoo and Yalok feature 0:17:26.880 --> 0:17:30.320 and Rick Roles. You know, I had just met DJ 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:32.400 self and he heard Once upon Time. He loved it 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:34.800 and I got on love and hip Hop. So at 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:37.680 the time, I was signed to this label and he 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:40.879