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Speaker 1: Welcome back, everybody.

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Speaker 2: We're back, Kathy in Susan to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for joining us. Wait do you see who we

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Speaker 2: got an update today and that was rabulous. We've been

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Speaker 2: Happy Hour. All right, now, let's bring in our guests.

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Speaker 1: Please.

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Speaker 2: Welcome from Joan Season and America's favorite Mark Anderson and

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Speaker 2: my good friend.

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Speaker 3: Hey Mark, how are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm great? Thank you? How are you? Ladies?

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Speaker 5: Hey?

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Speaker 3: We hear you've been under the weather.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got I got caught up under that bug.

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Speaker 1: That went influenza, influenza. I had it, Kathy had it.

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Speaker 1: I think everybody in the world just had it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well it was weird. I went and got tested,

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Speaker 4: but they said it wasn't the flu, it wasn't covid.

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Speaker 3: It was just no, I didn't have the flu. I

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Speaker 3: had bronchitis and some weird virus. Two prescriptions of antibiotics later.

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Speaker 2: Finally, well, they first told me I didn't have it,

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Speaker 2: and then I did the other test three days later,

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Speaker 2: sick as a dog, and I had it all from citis.

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Speaker 2: Influenza's whatever. Okay, he's from hell.

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Speaker 3: That's all. It's all. But we got to jump right in.

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Speaker 3: Tell us give us an update on you and Barbara.

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Speaker 3: That's what That's what the world wants to know.

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Speaker 1: I want to know how you met.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I know how they met.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to tell me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Mark, how do you meet? I mean, not us, Barbara.

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Speaker 3: We know that, we know how we met. We want

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Speaker 3: to know how how you met Barbara.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got invited to Uh we met at a

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Speaker 4: Halloween party. It's just kind of meat.

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Speaker 1: He's so shy. I look at you. Okay, we want

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Speaker 1: to hear what I laid eyes on her. I got

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Speaker 3: Let let the man answer his own words, will you please?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I mean, you know, it's uh, it's kind of neat.

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Speaker 4: You know, she's got she has kids the same age

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Speaker 4: as my kids, and there's just a lot of similarities there.

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Speaker 1: So it's nice comfortable.

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Speaker 3: So how do you guys spend your time? Do you

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Speaker 3: kind of go back and forth? How do you do that?

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Speaker 4: What's that? Oh? Yeah, I mean like I work, I

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Speaker 4: mean Louis and I work here, you know all that

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Speaker 4: been able to to meet up a few places, like Christmas.

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Speaker 4: We got to go do a great time together with Christmas. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and just had a lot of a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: Then, well, it's great seeing you at the finality finale

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Speaker 2: at the party and getting to meet her.

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Speaker 1: She was lovely. Yeah, it was a good time, good time.

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Speaker 3: Well, and my daughter, your daughter, Kelsey, how is she doing?

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Speaker 4: Kelsey is doing great. Her and Joey are keeping, you know,

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Speaker 1: So I got to see her. They were here in Philly, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And awesome.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I know they're they're my one of my daughters,

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Speaker 6: and I believe my son, my oldest son, are going

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Speaker 6: to try to see them in San Antonio.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, when are they coming to San Antonio.

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Speaker 3: I'll look that up. I live in Austin. That's only

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Speaker 3: like less than an hour away.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's where my oldest daughter lives is well, she's

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's like fifteen minutes from me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't get me. It was a great show.

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Speaker 1: You'll enjoy it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. All right, I'll have to look into

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Speaker 4: Have you seen the show's changed? Like every location they

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Speaker 4: It's so like you can go almost every city and

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Speaker 3: Susan, why don't you come and we'll go to San Antonio.

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Speaker 1: Well, it depends on when it is sure, sure, so sure, okay.

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Speaker 3: So I want to know, if I'm not digging too

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Speaker 3: since your wife passed away, if you've had a lot

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Speaker 3: of serious relationships, But how are your kids doing with

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Speaker 3: you and Barbara together? What's what's their thought? Because you

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Speaker 4: They've been you know, they were very supportive, you know,

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Speaker 4: having to ask them. That was before I ever went

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Speaker 4: on the show, you know, in the Golden Bassilorette. So

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Speaker 4: I asked them if it was okay for me to date,

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Speaker 3: Just a little detail, yeah, just a little a.

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Speaker 4: Little larger detail there. Yeah, but it was you know,

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Speaker 4: they were very supportive in that, you know. And it's

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Speaker 4: been a while, you know, it had been five years

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Speaker 4: or six years.

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Speaker 3: Actually, it'll be six years for me on Monday.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, So you know, at the time, it was

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Speaker 4: you know, and they were supportive. We talked about it.

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Speaker 4: I had not really approached that subject with them.

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Speaker 1: Well maybe you weren't ready, you know.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, it's like I wasn't really ready to

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Speaker 4: talk to them about it, you know, because how do

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Speaker 4: you approach that, you know, I mean, I'm not trying

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Speaker 4: to replace their mother, you know, she could never be replaced.

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Speaker 4: But you know, it's it's a it's a it's a

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Speaker 2: When you got on the show, like you met all

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Speaker 2: those wonderful men that you bonded with and Joan and

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Speaker 2: it was openly dating because everybody was dating her, But

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Speaker 2: it was a whole new thing for you.

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Speaker 5: Correct, Yeah, it was, you know, and you know, it

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Speaker 5: was the the opportunity to have that that support group

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Speaker 5: I grew up in the military.

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Speaker 4: My entire adult life has been military related, and sharing

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Speaker 4: emotion and feelings and stuff like that just didn't That's

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Speaker 4: not the time or the place to do stuff. So

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Speaker 4: to have that opportunity there at the mansion, and and

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Speaker 4: you know, it's just a fantastic group of men. I

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Speaker 4: don't know that. You know, I could probably try to

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Speaker 4: find a similar situation to go into, but I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he.

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Speaker 4: Would be the same. You know. Well, I mean it.

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Speaker 2: Was past Scale shared with us that he would definitely

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Speaker 2: choose you to be on.

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Speaker 3: That des.

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Speaker 2: Why you gave him calmness, like if he would be excited,

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Speaker 2: he said, Mark is so smooth and nice and easy.

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Speaker 2: He loves you, but you would calm him there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean, you know, the Scal's got

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Speaker 4: the he gets he gets kind of excited sometimes, you know,

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Speaker 4: but he can sit and talk. It's just a lot

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Speaker 3: He said that y'all were telling bedtime stories at the mansion.

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Speaker 4: Said yeah, it was yeah, they they you know, different

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Speaker 4: rooms had different different dynamis going on. You know, I

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Speaker 4: wasn't in the same room as Pascal. I was over

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Speaker 4: in the big you know, in the Yeah, the nine

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Speaker 1: So why we had only for a week.

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, it thinned out. It seemed like it seemed

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Speaker 4: like our room emptied out faster.

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Speaker 3: Than the emptied out three the first the most. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So you think when you first got her, like, what

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Speaker 2: was your feeling when you moved into the mansion, Like

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Speaker 2: what were you thinking?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was it was, uh wow, what am I doing?

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Speaker 2: Kathy and I met that first night, were standing by

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Speaker 2: the fireplace after everybody got in, right before the rose

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Speaker 4: Yeah it was it was, you know, it was like Pascal,

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Speaker 4: I think the first person I talked to. I don't

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Speaker 4: because I didn't know, you know, what ranking I was, like,

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Speaker 4: what number I was getting getting Yeah, so I just

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Speaker 4: if that was comforting or not. I think I was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because she was a star.

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Speaker 3: So that actually brings me to a question that you

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Speaker 3: must have just read my mind. You know, a few

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Speaker 3: years ago, you were a private person. Kelsey was a

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Speaker 3: private person. Now both you and Kelsey are in the

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Speaker 3: stars beyond that. What is that shift like for you

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Speaker 3: and and your family?

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's very different for me because I've always

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Speaker 4: been like, you know, I was always private, Like I

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Speaker 4: had a Facebook account, but I had a Facebook because

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Speaker 4: my kids had Facebook, right, and it was just to

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Speaker 4: but my kids used to tease me that, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'd have like twelve friends on Facebook or something. I

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Speaker 4: don't know who that is. I'd delete them and they'd

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Speaker 4: make fun of me for you know, Dad, No, you're

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Speaker 4: supposed to have friends and just them, you know. Now

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Speaker 4: it's completely different.

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Speaker 3: What about your other kids? How do they, you know,

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Speaker 3: the kids that aren't in the limelight, if you will,

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Speaker 3: How do they feel about all of this?

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Speaker 4: Well, they're good. I mean they're very supportive, you know,

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Speaker 4: of me enough Kelsey, you know they they I think

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Speaker 4: they're they're a little bit more reserved. You know, they're

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Speaker 4: all so different in personality, and you know, just the

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Speaker 4: way they are.

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Speaker 1: The beautiful tale I met every one of them. They're

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Speaker 1: just a great family.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but they're you know, they they they maneuvered through

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Speaker 4: how they have always maneuvered through. You know, I don't

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Speaker 4: think I've changed any.

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Speaker 3: But your life certainly has.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I guess you know, you go out,

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Speaker 4: like you travel somewhere in somebody season in the airport

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Speaker 4: and they want to get a picture or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's yeah, that's a change.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a change. It is.

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Speaker 3: Do your kids get along with barberous kids, are they?

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Speaker 3: You know? Is there a have you all sort of

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Speaker 3: formed the one large community if you will, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, we were interviewing. I believe it was Jordan that

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Speaker 1: Now you're off the market.

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Speaker 3: You're off the market. Market. It's not you.

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Speaker 4: As Golden Bachelor like.

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Speaker 3: Any of them? Maybe an the like? How of them?

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Speaker 1: Can you choose?

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Speaker 4: Greg is the probably.

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Speaker 3: But I hear Greg's off the market. I hear Greg's

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, Jonathan would be great, Greg would

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Speaker 4: Askall Jordan's you like them?

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Speaker 1: You're naming them all.

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Speaker 2: We're not a good answer on this one.

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Speaker 4: Like you say, who would be a good one? And

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Speaker 3: So they should all the Bachelor? Pard, I should they

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, yeah, okay, who would you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, really, be careful, Mark, we're friends.

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Speaker 3: Be careful, Mark, we want to be good friends.

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Speaker 4: I would say the person with the strongest personality would

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, say that again? The strongest personality for me?

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Speaker 3: And who is that?

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Speaker 4: I don't know whichever one was, whichever one has has

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Speaker 3: I am Stundy here. Why do you say that? We're

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Speaker 4: I just think I just think that would be a

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Speaker 3: A strong personality. Man, give me a name, Mark, let's

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Speaker 4: So I think for Kathy, I think I think Keith.

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Speaker 4: That's why I think Keith would be it would be

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Speaker 2: As loud as Yeah, Greg's, but the and I agree

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Speaker 3: I know she needs to do what's best for her,

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Speaker 4: No, No, I don't. I don't think resentment would be.

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Speaker 2: why she chose that state or that Idaho then why

444
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Speaker 2: she was leaving. She said she wanted something cheaper. You know,

445
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Speaker 2: maybe what was his name, lowis.

446
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Speaker 3: Why didn't you go to Fargo, North Dakota.

447
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Speaker 2: Maybe logos is a little spoiled having mom watch that

448
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Speaker 2: baby all the time.

449
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Speaker 1: There's where the resentment comes.

450
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Speaker 2: You're losing your babysitter and your mother that could do that.

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Speaker 3: That's fair. Yeah, but do you think.

452
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Speaker 4: You know, maybe she was thinking that they needed time

453
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Speaker 4: to be parents, you know, if she was spending that

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Speaker 4: much time.

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Speaker 3: But Idaho from New York to I mean, it's not

456
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Speaker 3: like hitting the belt, you know, Like how about Alabama.

457
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Speaker 3: I mean, you know you're you're still on these.

458
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Speaker 1: Codsbout Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Jersey.

459
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Speaker 4: I mean you could get Pennsylvania is cheaper than New York, isn't.

460
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Speaker 3: I mean Louisiana. I mean, there's your home, your home.

461
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Speaker 3: I mean, there's just Idaho. That's my question to you,

462
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Speaker 3: sweet girl, on this question. Yeah, say why you know,

463
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Speaker 3: but at the end of the day, at the end

464
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Speaker 3: of the day, if that's what she wants to do,

465
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Speaker 3: we all have to remember it's it's your mom's life,

466
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Speaker 3: and she has one go round. We all have one

467
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Speaker 3: go round, and sometimes we make decisions and we make mistakes,

468
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Speaker 3: but it's our life and our mistakes to make.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't resent support.

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Speaker 2: One that was tough that was a tough one.

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Speaker 3: All right, Mark, before we let you go, which we

472
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Speaker 3: don't want to, because you know, we want you to

473
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Speaker 3: plan our dates with Keith and with Dan.

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Speaker 1: I'm not calling Dan, by the way, you have his number.

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Speaker 3: Wait, let me just say, Mark, you understand somebody's going

476
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Speaker 3: to pick up on this, and I'm going to get

477
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Speaker 3: a Google alert tomorrow or whenever. This is not tomorrow,

478
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Speaker 3: but whenever this comes out. Kathy is day, Keith and

479
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 3: Susan can't choose between Dan and Greg. That's what's happening here,

480
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Speaker 3: just putting it out there.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I just need somebody to please Golf.

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Speaker 3: That's all. We're gonna play a little game with you.

483
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Speaker 3: We're gonna ask some fun questions so our listeners can

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Speaker 3: get to know more about you. All right, here's the

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Speaker 3: first one. What would be the name of your autobiography?

486
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Speaker 1: I'm thinking everything? How about thinking? That's a good word.

487
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 4: I'm thinking.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking I love.

489
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Speaker 4: It, you know, the turning the turning wheel.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: I'm oh, I thought it was going to be turning wheel.

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Speaker 3: I love it. I actually like that title. I'm thinking

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Speaker 3: I love it. Okay, Susan, you got to go.

494
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Speaker 2: Did Pascal say his what about Kathy? Guests for Pascal?

495
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Speaker 2: And she said something about fast fashion.

496
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Speaker 3: I thought it was good. I mean, I said, my

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Speaker 3: name is or I am fashion. I thought that was good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, next question, who is someone that inspires you?

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Speaker 4: Someone who inspires me? My mom?

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Speaker 3: How old is your mom?

501
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 4: Eighty seven?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Bless her still blesser?

503
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Speaker 4: Really North Dakota?

504
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, are you serious?

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Speaker 4: I know that in North Dakota?

506
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Speaker 6: I said, I thought, I I did.

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Speaker 3: Not know that. Well, how's the cost of living in

508
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Speaker 3: Fargo there, Mark, I did not?

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Speaker 4: No way, Yeah, I graduated high school in Fargo, North Dakota,

510
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Speaker 4: Fargo Sooth High School.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe that just popped into my head. I really,

512
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Speaker 3: I had no idea you were you grew wentigh school

513
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 3: and oh that's so funny. All right, what is a

514
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Speaker 3: piece of advice you wish you could give your younger self?

515
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 4: Just keep doing what you're doing. I went through life doing,

516
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 4: you know, thought about things and did them. And you know,

517
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Speaker 4: I think the the choices I made, I'm good with them.

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Speaker 3: I like, you know, you don't have any regrets.

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00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 4: No, no, because like things that I didn't things that

520
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 4: I didn't do right. I learned from them.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm, that's true.

522
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Speaker 4: You know if you don't, if you if you have

523
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Speaker 4: a perfect life with zero regrets, how do you ever learn?

524
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Speaker 1: Damn He's the one people don't learn from their mistakes.

525
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, that's all Susan. That's a whole nother podcast.

526
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Speaker 1: So my answer to that would be, don't sweat the

527
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Speaker 1: small stuff.

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Speaker 3: My answer would be, don't be nervous to try new

529
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 3: things because you never want to feel like you could have,

530
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 3: should have, would have and fear kept you, and that

531
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Speaker 3: fear kept you. Don't let fear stand in your way.

532
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Speaker 2: Okay, your favorite band or musician when you were a teenager.

533
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 3: When I was a teenager, or now it could be

534
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: now Helen okay, Van Halen. Interesting, it was yours always

535
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 3: the Beatles, always when I was a kid. Actually, and

536
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 3: I love Chicago, the band Chicago. Yeah, well that's yeah,

537
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 3: we all do.

538
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 1: I like led Zeppelin to who.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I just love I still love music. I have

540
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Speaker 3: music going all the time at my house. Okay, what's

541
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Speaker 3: your dream?

542
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Speaker 4: I think that's I think it's not very fair to

543
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 4: say who's your favorite?

544
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 1: I know there isn't a favorite.

545
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 3: Who's your favorite woman that you're dating right now. That's fair,

546
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 3: I guess.

547
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 4: I guess that would be a fair question.

548
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 3: There you go. What is your dream vacation destination?

549
00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 4: Dream vacation destination is a I think Fiji, the hut

550
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 4: above the water.

551
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Speaker 3: I want to go there, That's what I said. I

552
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 3: want to get.

553
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 2: These very still and quiet. There's not a lie can

554
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Speaker 2: be still quiet, Sason, not.

555
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 4: The big I don't know about that. Key.

556
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 3: You just told me you want to hook me up

557
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 3: with Greg, not Greg.

558
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: She already forgot you forgot.

559
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 3: Kay.

560
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Speaker 2: With that being said, Mark, if you were going to

561
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Speaker 2: be stuck on a deserted island and could only bring

562
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Speaker 2: three guys from your season of the Golden Bachelorette, who

563
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 2: would they be?

564
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Speaker 3: M Y, it better be Pascal Hill kill.

565
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Speaker 4: You next week, Keith, because there's there's always a conversation.

566
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Speaker 3: With He'll be with me to try again.

567
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Speaker 4: Okay, then Jordans.

568
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Speaker 3: That's three, No, seriously, Jordan, Keith and Pascal.

569
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Speaker 1: Could you tell me why?

570
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 4: Why? Yeah? Pascal? I think Pascal and Jordan's were the

571
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Speaker 4: first ones that were the first men there that I

572
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,719
Speaker 4: that I connect like. I have a son named Pascal

573
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 4: and I have a daughter named Jordan.

574
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 3: You have a son named Pascal. I do.

575
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 4: My oldest son is Pascal.

576
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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I don't think I knew that.

577
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Speaker 1: That's cool.

578
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:37,959
Speaker 4: So but we just we just we just clicked. Uh,

579
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Speaker 4: the three of us. I think.

580
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Speaker 3: That was like us, Kathy Nancy, Yeah, that was like us.

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Speaker 3: There is actually a picture I've said this before in

582
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Speaker 3: our podcast there. I don't remember how, but there is

583
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Speaker 3: a picture of Susan and me standing in front of

584
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Speaker 3: the fireplace in the mansion, in the room where they

585
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Speaker 3: delivered the roses, that big room, And I don't I

586
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Speaker 3: remember taking the picture, but I don't actually remember meeting you.

587
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 3: But we clicked immediately when we were in the mansion. Yeah.

588
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's you know, it's like you meet

589
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 4: people and you know, just like right away that but

590
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 4: it was like I think that was I mean, probably

591
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Speaker 4: not everyone. Like there were a couple of people. There

592
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Speaker 4: were a couple of guys that like they just weren't there,

593
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 4: you know, the ones that left real early didn't. I

594
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 4: didn't really get a chance to talk with him too much,

595
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Speaker 4: you know what.

596
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Speaker 3: Everybody talks a lot about Michael, and did you get

597
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 3: to know him? Because everyone talks about how nice he is,

598
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 3: and I've talked with him a few times. He seems

599
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 3: like a lovely guy.

600
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Speaker 4: And fantastic human being.

601
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Speaker 3: Michael, Yeah, that's what everyone says.

602
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 4: You know. And then he and then he just kind

603
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 4: of kept to himself about the whole you know, the process,

604
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 4: you know, the stuff that he was going through. Well

605
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 4: while he can't you know, Yeah, it was Michael is

606
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 4: a Michael is a fantastic human being. Like his heart

607
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:07,719
Speaker 4: is just pure gold.

608
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, coming from your heart is pure gold. So I

609
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 3: mean with all that, I mean, we're gonna leave it

610
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 3: on that note because we have thoroughly enjoyed having you

611
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 3: and you are a super great guy. And but unfortunately

612
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Speaker 3: that is going to do it for this episode. I'm

613
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 3: gonna cry. A Bachelor. I know they go so fast,

614
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 3: but this, this episode of Bachelor Happy Hours, Gold and

615
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Speaker 3: Nora has been a fabulous one. Thank you to our

616
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Speaker 3: I could use all kinds of adjectives to describe you,

617
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Speaker 3: but I'm just going to say, our fabulous guest, Mark,

618
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Speaker 3: we love you. We are so happy that you seem

619
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Speaker 3: to have found love, and we just are so happy

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Speaker 3: that you joined us today.

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Speaker 2: I just want to following your footsteps and just find

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Speaker 2: my love.

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Speaker 1: That'll be perfect.

624
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Speaker 2: Thanks so much for being here with us. We love

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Speaker 2: you and we will definitely be in touch. And thank

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Speaker 2: you all for listening, and make sure to follow Bachelor

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Speaker 2: all of these people like we do.

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Speaker 3: Right, and how fabulous are they? Okay, I'm beginning to

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Speaker 3: sound like a broken record, but at the risk of

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Speaker 3: cracking the forty five, I'm going to say, you know what,

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Speaker 3: nobody knows what a forty five is. Accept us old people,

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