1 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: Hey, thank you so much for listening this year. This 2 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,720 Speaker 1: has been a crazy year, but in my podcast life 3 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: it's been extraordinary. This has been such an incredible outlet 4 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 1: for me. I love doing this. It's so funny that 5 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: you all, I could be talking to the Prime Minister 6 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: and you will be more interested in what I have 7 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: to say about Kale or Gwyneth Palcho's vagina, which makes 8 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: me love you even more. The nonsense, the rants have 9 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 1: been a huge hit, and I guess this is really 10 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: the only place that anyone's getting my random and ridiculous, 11 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: irreverent thoughts, so I shared them with you. This conversation 12 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: is tailored to you and our intimate important discussions on 13 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: everything from the state of the world to broccoli rob. 14 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: So I appreciate you, and I hope you have a happy, 15 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: happy holiday. I hope you have a fruitful, uh and 16 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: wonderful new Year. And I'm so grateful because you have 17 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: helped me to make something so important to me so successful. 18 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: So thank you for that gift. It's the greatest gift 19 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: anyone could give me. Why when did everyone have to 20 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: like give us there like religious beliefs in the end 21 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: of a god damn email like with patience and dignity, 22 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: with love and harmony, with Christ and hugs, like I 23 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: don't understand every time someone said, like now an email 24 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: when someone signs out warmth, with patience, kindness, with goodness 25 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: and empathy, like what is going on? Am I so 26 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: sort of touchy feely culty love seminar? It's okay, Like 27 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: I'm good with sincerely best, I'm good with just sign 28 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 1: your name. I like, I don't think it's always that 29 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: sincere either sincerely, so oh me get this straight. Other 30 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: ones that you send out that don't have sincerely on it, 31 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: because by definition, every single person has not been sincere 32 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,839 Speaker 1: and everything they've ever said, So then it should either 33 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: be like an understood sincerely that just every email just 34 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: it should be like that one at the bottom of 35 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: the apple thing you're like sent from my iPhone, so 36 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 1: might get some fucked up typos and grammatical errors. It 37 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: should just be like I'm gonna now say God bless 38 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 1: you once because you've been sneezing multiple times, so this 39 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 1: just counts, Like these emails that I send out are 40 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: sincere If you say sincerely, are we supposed to be 41 00:02:55,919 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: like hmmm, I don't I mean when people say trust me, 42 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: you know I don't, then maybe it don't trust them? 43 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: So I just sincerely is not necessary best? What is 44 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: that that's the best to me? You're sending me the 45 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: best to me? A lot of people have send me 46 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: emails that are not wishing me the best. I could 47 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: just tell you that right now. So I'd like to 48 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: get some authentic endings warmth. Okay, what does that mean? What? 49 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: What does that even mean? What does that have to 50 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:33,639 Speaker 1: do with business? Warmth? And then with I've had with patience? 51 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: Smile away? What why don't you go fund yourself? That 52 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: sounds creepy and weird. Okay, smile away, Smile away. When 53 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: I'm laughing at this signature, I'm looking away, I'm smiling. 54 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: What does that even means? Smile away? With respect? Okay? 55 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: Do you think about that? Every single time? It was respectful? 56 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,839 Speaker 1: Because I could tell you I send emails and they're 57 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: not necessarily always with respect. Sometimes they're with disrespect. Sometimes 58 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't respect every single person I send 59 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: an email too. I can tell you that. Be kind. 60 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: Oh okay, I guess this is now a public service announcement. 61 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: The more you know, be kind? Why don't we just 62 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 1: I think we should just signing out. Start signing out 63 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: like rose all day, hit him straight, raining cats and dogs, 64 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: like okay, be kind, all right, I'm pregnant. I mean, 65 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 1: just start saying whatever you want to say, you know, 66 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: with anger and frustration. Right, there are many emails you 67 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: send that you're frustrating with anger and frustration, or start 68 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:47,919 Speaker 1: combining them with respect and frustration. Onwards and upward. What 69 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: how do you fucking know we are? It's okay, Jesus Christ, 70 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: onwards and upwards. I was enjoying being in a bad mood. 71 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: I you know, have PMS, menopause. I don't know that 72 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: it's on up today, have hot flashes. I don't feel good. 73 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: I you know we're in a pandemic. I don't know. 74 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: With respect, with dignity, love, accuracy, spell check, and contempt. 75 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: Today I'm talking with DJ Pierce a k A. The 76 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 1: Fabulous Angela. For your career, what has been the rose 77 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: and the thorn, the high and the low? Um? I 78 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: would say that let me start with the thorn. The 79 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: thorn I think was the time that I broke my 80 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: leg on stage. That was a really rough one. Young girl, 81 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 1: I was on stage I was doing a move that 82 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: I taught to the children on Dance Moms called the 83 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: death drop. Okay, I was doing the move and I 84 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,720 Speaker 1: was on stage Halloween's New York City. I was at 85 00:05:55,760 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: this club near downtown and when up came down, broke 86 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: the tibia amphibula bones snapped them out the side of 87 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: the leg. They didn't come through the pane hoos because 88 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: you know, I were support host, but I saw the 89 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 1: triangle and I laid there try continue to, you know, 90 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 1: do the number. And I was like and then when 91 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: I tried to get up, I was like, oh, this 92 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,119 Speaker 1: is not good. They had to roll a guerney through 93 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: the club because you know, New York didn't hand a 94 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 1: back interance is through the dance floor. And they rolled 95 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 1: me out on Halloween and people were taking selfies and 96 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: I was like, hallelula, I'll be back. But I spent 97 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: three weeks in lenox Hill Hospital. Thank god, betthean I'm 98 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: gonna tell you because you know, I didn't grow up 99 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: with no money, so we didn't have insurance, but I did. 100 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: I just qualified that October one for SAG Blue Cross 101 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 1: Blue shiel Ppo. And I never broken anything before and 102 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 1: this and right on October thirty one, I did that leg. 103 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: So they took me to Lenox Hill. Hallelu great doctors. 104 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,919 Speaker 1: I stayed there while they reset the leg. The swelling 105 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 1: had to go down, and I remember thinking, what have 106 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: I done and what am I going to do? I'm 107 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: a dragon, you know, I perform, I'm a state, I'm 108 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 1: on tour. I got all these tourist books. This is 109 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: my bread and butter in this moment, and now you 110 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: know now here I am laid up in a hospital 111 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: with one leg. But I pushed through the physical therapy. 112 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: I pushed through. I set a date for myself. I 113 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: went back on tour in March of the next year. 114 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: The doctor said, no, you can't go to August. I 115 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: was like, baby, I'll go in flat boots and I did. 116 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: Went to Australia, performed with had wheelchairs through the airport 117 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: and then we'll get on stage and do my channgel 118 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: in numbers. And that helped me to overcome that the 119 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: fear of being back on stage and performing, but also 120 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: getting back to what I loved. So that was a thorn, 121 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: but it pushed me to thing well, I would really 122 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: say my rose and there have been hot moments. I mean, 123 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: I got to perform Beyonce for Beyonce okay at the 124 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: Glad Awards two thousand and yes, ma'am, I honestly had 125 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: to approve it, which I'm so grateful she did. She's 126 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: like I she was the first number I ever before 127 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: and I performer. That's money. Whoever's on this, y'all give 128 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: back to me a link to Channgela and when I 129 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: tell you at the end, she and jay Z both 130 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: gave me a standing ovation. She asked to meet me 131 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: back in the room, so I get to go in 132 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: there dress this Beyonce and Chela Beyonce and and I 133 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: went and she was just like, you were so good, 134 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: and that's my word. I could tell you were in 135 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: it because you know, I can see your face, you know. 136 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: And I was like, thank you because you are so 137 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: in it. I wanted to honor you with this number 138 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 1: and thank you. So I did a whole nine minute medley. 139 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: They told me I had one song, maybe I did eight. 140 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:47,559 Speaker 1: You must have been so nervous, you know what, people, 141 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: I wasn't nervous until everyone kept coming up to me. 142 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 1: Right before I was going on going Beyonce, she came 143 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: out she's sitting out there in the audience now like 144 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: she came out to watch your performance. Thank you, thank 145 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 1: you so much. Awesome. Back in the land of douche baggery, 146 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: I want to talk about where food has gone, what 147 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: it has become, and how this conversation started was because Sarah, 148 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: who works with me, she also has never seen like 149 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: a table side caesar. She thinks that caesar is like 150 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:26,199 Speaker 1: what you get like the olive garden or Applebee's, Like 151 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: that's that like creamy white dressing. And I was talking 152 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: about how back in my day when they had covered wagons, 153 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: the caesar was like a special food. It wasn't something 154 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: that they had at every restaurant. It was table side. 155 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: It came in a wooden bowl and they were like 156 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: mush anchovies in the side with dijon, mustard, Worcester sheer, lemon, parmesan, garlic, salt, pepper, 157 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 1: olive oil, and like an amazing croutons and it just 158 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,599 Speaker 1: came all zesty and more clear and coated, versus that 159 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:56,079 Speaker 1: like creamy garbage you get in like a packet at Wendy's. 160 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: So I love Wendy's. I'd like to get a spokesperson 161 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: deal from them, So sorry, Wendy's. I don't know if 162 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: he's sells caesar dressing, so sorry for fuck pissing you off. 163 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: But anyway, I digress as usual. So we started talking 164 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: about food in the iteration and how now like the 165 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: caesar is such a big deal, And then that brought 166 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: me to realize that the Kale caesar, the Kale caesar 167 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: was like Madonna in its day, and Kale itself was 168 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: like Madonna. And I always say I want to meet 169 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 1: Kale's publicists because also back in my day, Kale was 170 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 1: like this green, curly garbage that came next to like 171 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: a sweaty hot orange next to your eggs at Denny's, 172 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: like just some piece of like some cousin of fucking 173 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: old school curly parsley. Kale wasn't like a rock star 174 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 1: with a starring role. Kale wasn't something that like people 175 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: massaged in kitchens in Provence to bring out a salad 176 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: that was tender, leafy green's to the taste. And Kale 177 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: didn't come in all iterations. Tale didn't come in like 178 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 1: baby kale and wild kale and and like kale chips 179 00:10:56,040 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: and shredded kale, and you know, braised Kale saw taid kale. 180 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: Kale was not what it is, So that that brought 181 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: me to think about Kale's friends and other people that 182 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: like other celebrity vegetables that came up, because when I 183 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: was growing up, there was no rogola, no the caesar salad, 184 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: or you had iceberg like a wedge or just like 185 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: that house garden salad with red wine vinegar, like it 186 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: was like shredded carrots on that iceberg chopped up garbage 187 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: and it was like a red wine vinegar and there 188 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: is something good about it. Came in that little thin 189 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: wood bowl also, But then Messland was the fucking biggest 190 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: deal ever. Meskland came out, Balsamic vinegrette came out together, 191 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 1: they came out as like a couple and it was 192 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: like Marilyn Monroe and Joe DiMaggio, so everybody was doing that. 193 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: I was never ultimately a big fan because that messlind 194 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: bag that then came in bags got soggy, super fased, 195 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: So I was not a big fan. Um And even 196 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: Romaine on its own wasn't a big deal. And when 197 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: we were growing up, like Romayne later came in its own, 198 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: probably around the same time as as Messlin. Later Messland's 199 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 1: agent brought in baby spinach. When I was growing up, 200 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 1: we had spinach, bags of unwieldy spinach. You could wash 201 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: it, it it would be sandy. You would, you would, you would, 202 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: you would sautee it, you would see m up. But 203 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: like spinach didn't have little lovely, delightful little leaves that 204 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: you could make in your own little salad. It didn't 205 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: have baby spinach. Didn't even have Maxi spinach. You just 206 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: had spinach. And now it's baby kale whatever. So that 207 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: was spinach. And then a rogola came in and they 208 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: call it rocket in London. That was the first time 209 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: I had it was in London, because I think it 210 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: was there before, which is weird because London used to 211 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: not even have vegetables. But anyway, a rugola became a 212 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: really big deal in the cold salad category. In the 213 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: hot sides category, it always used to be broccoli and 214 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: sought spinach and asparagus. Then in the modern day, in 215 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 1: my day, broccoli Rob was a big fucking coming up star, 216 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: and broccoli Rob still is. You know, it's a success story, 217 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: but it's not what it used to be. So then 218 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: I don't know it was it five years ago. Somebody 219 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: in a boardroom through kale up in the fucking at 220 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: the ceiling and just said, let's try to make kale popular. 221 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 1: Some some genius the Kale Society, and kale came in 222 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: with a fucking vengeance. Okay, Kale came in with shredded kale, chips, Kale, 223 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: caesar massage, Kale, saute, kale, braise, kale, kale everything kale 224 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: was even in Burger's. Kale was like chopped up with 225 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: a paired with its other friend butternut squash and some 226 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: wild rice, and then they sort of throwing cranberries and 227 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: walnut and almonds into salads. So that was kale. Then 228 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: came back in the day of broccoli. Rob was when 229 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: brown rice became popular. White rice used to be the 230 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,080 Speaker 1: way he did rice. Brown rice then became like it 231 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: has to be brown rice. It has to be brown rice. 232 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:38,199 Speaker 1: You can't eat white pasta. It has to be whole 233 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: wheat pasta. It has to be like not a white 234 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: white it can't be a white grain. And brown rice 235 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 1: now is a fucking loser. Keene Wa came in hot 236 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 1: the protein grain. Keene Wa came in was like move 237 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: over Kale, We're gonna hang out with you. We're gonna 238 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: hang in the same posse were like Taylor Swift and 239 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 1: gidd We're gonna hang out together. Kale and keen Wa 240 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: became best friend major Instagram following huge deal and as 241 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: of more recently, Brussels sprouts Brussel fucking spreads. When I 242 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 1: was growing up, Brussels sprouts was child abuse. Brussels sprouts 243 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: and cauliflower, which is another popular one, it was abuse. 244 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: It was like Lima beans, which are waiting to make 245 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,400 Speaker 1: their debut, but Brussels sprouts. Now pair them with bacon, 246 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: shred them in a salad, add them with with with 247 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: blue cheese and and and pecans and walnuts, and like 248 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: make fry them Asian restaurants. Make them fucking so cool. 249 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: Brussels spouts are rock stars. And then my final vegetable 250 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: that I'd like to talk about, which really has a 251 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: very confused identity. Cauliflower was literally, I mean raw califlower 252 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: was actually emotional and psychological and physical abuse. When I 253 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: was growing up, it was cauliflower. It's like if fart 254 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: was a vegetable, that was what califlower was. So all 255 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: of a sudden Cauliflower is pure aid as mashed potatoes. 256 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: It is food processed, and now we're pretending that it's rice. 257 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 1: It comes in tots, it comes in in yoki, it 258 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: comes in um hash browns, like they make cauliflower to 259 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: hash browns and they try to make it into steak. 260 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: I've been to a restaurant. They say, cauliflower steak. Fuck off. Okay, 261 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: it's not even steaks, long distant cousin that lives in 262 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: another universe, like steak and cauliflower have nothing in common. 263 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: If you rub steak all over cauliflower, it still has 264 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: nothing to do with steak. It is a big piece 265 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 1: of grilled cauliflower. It's fucking cauliflower. Okay. It is because 266 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: you could cut it with a fork and a knife. 267 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: I could probably cut dogshit with a fork and a 268 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: NiFe too. It's not steak, okay, And cauliflower rice is 269 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: not rice. Zucchini noodles are not Zuki is not noodle. 270 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: It's not pasta. It's long shreds of yellow or green 271 00:15:56,080 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: vegetables drowned and sauce that that doesn't even look like pasta. 272 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: Taking long wavy ribbon noodles and mushing ricotta cheese in 273 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: between them does not make that lasagna. So the fucking 274 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: vegetable crisis is real. Okay, that is a relief effort 275 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: in and of itself. If lima beans come in next, 276 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: or succotash or okra or some other bullshit vegetable that 277 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 1: is shit, then you'll know that Kale has had its day. 278 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 1: But I literally think every time I talk about these 279 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: vegetables that their publicists are gonna call me and that 280 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be finished, that my career is over because 281 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: I funked with Kale, and I just don't think you 282 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 1: can now. I think Kale's got too much power. It's 283 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: too much, but it's like the Kale Dashians. I can't. 284 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 1: You can't funk with it because it's just got an 285 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: army and it's it's here. It's just here to stay. 286 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 1: My guest today is Kristin Chenowith. It was like a 287 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: year ago, maybe during the pandemic wre. I went, oh 288 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 1: my god, I look like the lady getting out of 289 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: the tub at the Shining Right. I understand because you've Finn, 290 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: but I know that look You're like, Hi, I look 291 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: like there's something about Mary. I know. I got the 292 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: whole thing. Believe me, we we we agree. So so 293 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:23,399 Speaker 1: that's the physical part. And then but so you're not that, 294 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 1: you're not that vain. You just want to like try 295 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 1: once in a while to like hit it out of 296 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: the park. I want people to go, WHOA, Right, then 297 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 1: once in a while just like right, it still looks 298 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: pretty good, got it? But it doesn't define you. You're 299 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: not trying to be holding on and you're not. It 300 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:43,199 Speaker 1: never did because I was always little, no one to know. 301 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 1: I'm not complaining. I'm just saying, no one took me seriously. 302 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: I never I never lead with my looks. Ever I 303 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: I never did. I lead with what I could offer musically. Well, 304 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: that's a great thing to say to people, because that's 305 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: the thing. We're all going to get older, and if 306 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 1: you have if you focus on your brain and being well. 307 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: This woman said to me years ago, we were young, 308 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 1: we're in our twenties. New Year's Eve, I want to 309 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 1: look like the hottest girl there tonight on New Year's Eve, 310 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 1: I said, And why wouldn't you want to be the 311 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: most interesting woman there? So just be interesting, stand out, 312 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:22,400 Speaker 1: use your personality. You know, we have humor, we have 313 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: passion for every hot for every hot girl, there's a 314 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 1: guy stick and tired of fuckingers what they say, meaning 315 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: you cannot just rely on your looks. Do you remember 316 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: the movie I'm sorry, I'm going off things, but do 317 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: you remember the me with Michael Douglas and Archer who 318 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: was beautiful and Glenn Close who was also pretty fatal attraction. 319 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 1: It's it's like, why would you cheat on an Archer? 320 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: What do you mean? Fisher Stevens? And why would you 321 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: choot on Michelle Pfeiffer. We're all going through the same stuff, 322 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: so you know there's a lot that goes that goes 323 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: into it. Yeah. I couldn't believe that one. And I 324 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 1: saw him on Succession and I was like, wait, that's 325 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:03,119 Speaker 1: the man. Oh my god, is so good. I know, 326 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: but he's a wonderful actor. And I'm sorry Fisher Stevens, 327 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 1: and I hope you come in the podcast and don't 328 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:09,400 Speaker 1: take it wrong because you're lovely. We love you, Fisher. 329 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 1: You made a mistake a long time ago. Don't worry 330 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,360 Speaker 1: about it. We love you, Fisher. We're sorry. I don't 331 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: want to be canceled for Fisher Stevens. It just maybe 332 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,880 Speaker 1: it's not even true. But if it's true, one day 333 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,919 Speaker 1: there is a person who's probably cheated on, you know, 334 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: Michelle Fighter, and then that's that's scary. It doesn't feel 335 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 1: good exactly. It's not all about Look. So this may 336 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:32,439 Speaker 1: or may not be a relevant question, and we can 337 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: finish after this because you may have answered it. But 338 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:38,919 Speaker 1: your rose and your thorn of your career, My rose 339 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 1: is easy. It's my favorite relationship and maybe this is 340 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: why I'm in therapy is the relationship between the artist 341 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 1: and the audience. I love it because if you listen 342 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,880 Speaker 1: as an artist, you can they will tell you. They 343 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 1: will speak to you and tell you what they like 344 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: and what they're responding to. And I also like to 345 00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: be in the audience to watch. I was at sick 346 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: last night. Go see it. I also saw Tina go 347 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,640 Speaker 1: see it. Um. My thorn is I have a disease 348 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: and um it's called the nears and it is this. 349 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 1: They're all cousins, epilepsy, vertigo and migraine and um of 350 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: all things to have as a performer, like things that 351 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: trigger it, our flashing lights. So the night I won 352 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: the Emmy, I you know, and migraine. So I went 353 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: to the hospital. Um, that's oh my god, that's my thorn. 354 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 1: That's my thorn. But it's worth it. A lot of 355 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: people have crosses to bear. A lot of people have 356 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,479 Speaker 1: way worse crap than I do. Um. I deal with 357 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,120 Speaker 1: it with a low salt diet. I sleep on an incline. 358 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 1: I also have t MJ, so I have to sleep 359 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: within mouth guard. No, I have a mouth guard too, 360 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: and you need to get the gummier one because I've 361 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,719 Speaker 1: been using the thin ones and the gummier ones are 362 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: more protective. I felt like I was getting I didn't 363 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: use it for a while. You don't know about this. No, 364 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,920 Speaker 1: everybody thinks that I've had I have not a plastic surgery, 365 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: and I will one day. I have not had any 366 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 1: because okay, no, yeah, listen, I'm not. I have not 367 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: had plastic surgery. I apologize everybody that says that I 368 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: disappoint them. I would tell you if I did. I 369 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: have not had plastic surgery anywhere. People tell me, okay, 370 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:26,120 Speaker 1: but people think I had reconstructive facial pet plastic surgery 371 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: because I had jowls. Because years and years the dentist 372 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: tell me to get a night guard. I ignored them 373 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: and it's building up a muscle. It's like a bicep. Curl. 374 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 1: Botox in your jaw is what releases it. It started 375 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: in Asia. You botox and it releases the muscle. And 376 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 1: it made my You can't do it in one day. 377 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: It's like a gradual thing, but it made my face 378 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 1: completely different because my whole life I've ground and my 379 00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: whole life I had this these jowls, this this jaw 380 00:21:54,880 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 1: and I mean we have it. Get talks to it there. Yeah, 381 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: So just everybody know that that's a serious thing and 382 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: grinding is a serious thing. And wow, um, this was 383 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: an incredible, incredible, incredible conversation. I'm so glad Jill introduced us. 384 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,919 Speaker 1: We met once before at a party, but now again, 385 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: and I'm just so proud of you and I'm so 386 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: happy that you're engaged and happy and it sounds like 387 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 1: you're well you too, but being like a work in progress. 388 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 1: You're very honest about that. I think that helps women. 389 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: And we kept coming back to connection. I keep thinking 390 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: of like connection spelled with a K for you as 391 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 1: a book or as something. But you keep talking about 392 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 1: your favorite thing in your life and your career and 393 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 1: everything being about the connection. So I just think there's 394 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: something there. So do you remember the Gwyneth Paltrow vagina 395 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,479 Speaker 1: scented candle? Can you believe I'm saying that out loud? Well, 396 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: it's sold out really quickly. So Gwyneth Paltrow, I remember 397 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: her vagina. It had a vagina sentence, So who's vagina? 398 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: By the way, who's I want to know who's the 399 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 1: Korean Gwyneth Paltrow on here? So I can ask her 400 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:15,879 Speaker 1: who's vagina was the candle modeled after? And who were 401 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,679 Speaker 1: the vagina testers? Like who are the vagina? Who are 402 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 1: the people the women or men just doing all the 403 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: vagina testing and mixing, because it's like mixing a fragmance, 404 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,399 Speaker 1: Like I like this. It has a little bit of guardinia, 405 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:28,919 Speaker 1: It has a little bit of musk, It has a 406 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: little bit of patuli, it has a little So I 407 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 1: want to know, like the ten vaginas that got mixed 408 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 1: into the Gwyneth Paltrow vagina candle. But I digress. And 409 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:43,399 Speaker 1: this candle blew up in someone's house, So I said, 410 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 1: it's better than someone's vagina blowing up. What did the 411 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 1: smell like all over the house? And it's so that 412 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 1: person has to move. Now, does she get this? GWYNETHA 413 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: have to buy that person a new home because that 414 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:56,159 Speaker 1: person's home smells like vagina everywhere. I just vagina. From 415 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: what I understand, there are people that won't be with 416 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 1: certain people because they don't have a pleasant smelling vagina. 417 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,240 Speaker 1: So I just want to know who's vagina? Is it? Anyway? Um? 418 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 1: But all Gwyneth Paltrow, it's just amazing. Let's do the 419 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 1: dicks dick smelling candle, next penis, the penis candle, the 420 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: ass candle, the tame candle, the crack candle, the balls candle, 421 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: that after sex candle. I mean, I want to be 422 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: Gwyneth Paltrow when I grew up right, just fucking do 423 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: anything you want. I bet you that would all work, 424 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 1: Like all those candles just would just work. Oh, it's 425 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 1: Gwynne's vagina. Well, did she smell her own vagina? She 426 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: does do yoga, she does work with Tracy Anderson, So 427 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: maybe she's that's that that that's flexible, that she smells 428 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,400 Speaker 1: her own vagina. But I will say something, and all 429 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,360 Speaker 1: you women know your vagina doesn't smell the same every 430 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,959 Speaker 1: single day. Okay, it doesn't smell the same every single day. 431 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 1: It smells different after certain activities. It smells different, uh, 432 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: during that time of the month, and not your vagina 433 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: doesn't smell the same all the time. And I don't 434 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 1: bet a bet a fifth year old vagina. How old 435 00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: is Gwenna? She's forty eight years old, the middle aged woman. 436 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,440 Speaker 1: And I'd like to know what a middle aged, beautiful 437 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:11,239 Speaker 1: blonde actress slash empire owner vagina smells like. So I'm 438 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 1: gonna have to get the candle and then I'm gonna 439 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,399 Speaker 1: have to smell one of poltres vagina and do and 440 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: see if they smell the same, because has anyone tested that. 441 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 1: Suzanne Summers was a spectacular interview. You have to play 442 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 1: your own game and just be a good person, but 443 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 1: you can't control what other people are thinking and doing, 444 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:39,439 Speaker 1: especially when you're thriving. You are extremely astute. The secret sauce, 445 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: I've never thought of it that way, but that is 446 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: it messed up the recipe. I watched it, and I 447 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 1: watched the other pretty cute, dumb blonde come in and 448 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,399 Speaker 1: it just wasn't the same. She was lovely and she 449 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: was fine, and that's happened, you know, in the Housewives 450 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,159 Speaker 1: too with different people, And I'm not the Housewives is 451 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 1: not the company. I'm just making parallels that I can 452 00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 1: actually relate to on a sa granular level. It just 453 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: was what it was, But that was your moment in time, 454 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 1: and had you focused more on everybody else being jealous 455 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: and making them feel better, you probably wouldn't have succeeded. 456 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: So then nobody's going to do well. So if you're 457 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 1: at work and you're thriving, be a team player. Be 458 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: kind to other people, but run your own race. And 459 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: Allen and I were such a strong team, and he 460 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,399 Speaker 1: had He's such a visionary and he always sees everything 461 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: many years down the road. I remember when I opened 462 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 1: in Vegas and I had all the you know, the 463 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 1: twenties five piece orchestra and the the twelve dancers and 464 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: the ten costume change and it was such a success, 465 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 1: and I remember whatnot. It came off stage and he said, 466 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,360 Speaker 1: I see a time when it'll just be you out 467 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: there by yourself. I thought, not when and why? And 468 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 1: now I mainly go out solo by myself. If I'm 469 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: your whole career seems like a solo act for sure. 470 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: If I'm doing my nightclub act like. I had a 471 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 1: residency in Vegas two years ago, and I loved it. 472 00:26:53,480 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 1: At the West Gate. I had my piano, drums, bass um, 473 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 1: two horns and um, incredible sounded lights and a seven 474 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 1: D fifty seed room, nice intimate room. I loved, loved it. 475 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,239 Speaker 1: But I remember when I being out there thinking, here 476 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 1: I am all by myself, just as Alan always said. 477 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: But in the Three's Company days, I slash. We saw 478 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 1: Three's Company as a business bonanza. And I went to 479 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 1: the producers and I said, you know, Chrissie Snow should 480 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: be a Saturday Morning animated cartoon. Wow. And then I 481 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: went another time. I said, you know, Chrissie Snow wears 482 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 1: these distinct clothes. We should do a line of clothing. 483 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:42,400 Speaker 1: And oh, wow is right. I'm an entrepreneur like you. 484 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 1: And I remember this guy, Nicky Ross got screamed at me. 485 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 1: He said, this is not about business, It's about the show. 486 00:27:50,720 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 1: And I saw it was called show business. The met 487 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 1: gala has evolved because if you look at pictures when 488 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:08,920 Speaker 1: they flash back and you see Donna, Karen or Um, 489 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: Elizabeth Hurley or someone, they wore gowns, beautiful gowns. It 490 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: wasn't so crazy until I remember, I think Rihanna broke 491 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: through with all her like real costume institute moments. Um. 492 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking about this year's mcgala, and I'm thinking 493 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: about um, the Kardashians and j Lo and the way 494 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: they present and the evolution of it, and in some 495 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: ways it's really become this competition like these The fashion 496 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: shows are always about the designers who design and what 497 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 1: are they? Who designs the best design for these models 498 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: and muses, But there really isn't a show that is 499 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: about who's wearing the best. We do that we're sort 500 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: of the court of public opinion, judging who wore the best, 501 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 1: asked who wore it best, but there's no show really 502 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 1: saying it out loudly. There are people with their opinions 503 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: this person won the night, this person looked terrible, but 504 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 1: no one sort of really saying no, that person actually won. 505 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 1: So this year I thought that Kendall Jenner one. I 506 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,239 Speaker 1: thought she was spectacular, extraordinary. I thought that dress was 507 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: elegant but still a moment like not safe, daring and sheer, 508 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 1: but so because it's pays homage to what the event 509 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 1: really is. And then other people do these sort of 510 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 1: clown suits, crazy things that everyone has to talk about 511 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: and thinks are amazing because you sort of don't even 512 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: know how to understand it. So the guy from Ship's Creek, 513 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: who I love, Daniel Levy, did this outfit that was outrageous, 514 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: but I don't know that I liked it. It just 515 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 1: was so crazy that you have to talk about it. 516 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 1: Same thing with them lesap Rocky. He was wearing a 517 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 1: blanket like it was a blanket of pomp pomp poms 518 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 1: that looked like someone's grandmother made it. Like how much 519 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 1: did he pay for that? Because I get that it 520 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,040 Speaker 1: was a moment, but it was a giant blank and 521 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 1: I want to snuggle in that in my house? Was 522 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: that not a It was a big blanket. So like, 523 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 1: you know, we have to be reduced to them that 524 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: we don't understand because remember that conversation that and a 525 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:13,200 Speaker 1: wind Tour had in Devilware's product about how cerulean blue 526 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: is derivative of all these different moments. So we're you know, 527 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: if I could literally wear uh, you know, a vintage 528 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: telephone booth as a dress, and oh well yes, I 529 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 1: mean obviously I get it. Anybody who knows would get 530 00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: why you're wearing a vintage telephone booth, but I could 531 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: just it's sort of like our you're just like fucking 532 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:37,400 Speaker 1: with people. But then someone like Rihanna, it's it seems 533 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 1: like you do get it because she was wearing that 534 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: that beanie, that cap with diamonds, Like you know that 535 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 1: there was a whole narrative there, and I'm sure there 536 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 1: was two b asap rocky they went together. There's a story. 537 00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: But sometimes it just seems like, let me wear something 538 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 1: absurd and ridiculous that's expensive and get away with it. 539 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,880 Speaker 1: But I you know about fashionate about who gets invited 540 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,480 Speaker 1: to the met Ball, like why does Chloe Kardashian and 541 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 1: Courtney aren't a list enough and they have a hundred 542 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 1: and thirty two eighty million followers. But Madison Beer, who 543 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 1: wore adult Chickaman, addressed that I literally have very similar 544 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: one I wore twenty years ago to a Victoria's Secret 545 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 1: fashion show that I bought a sample sale, and she 546 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,960 Speaker 1: wore a pink version of that. So that wasn't very daring. 547 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,360 Speaker 1: And I don't think that she's really anyone in fashion, 548 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: but she has a ton of TikTok followers, and so 549 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,959 Speaker 1: does Addison Ray, who someone said she borrowed ad justus 550 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 1: from Courtney Kardashian. So she was invited because she's an 551 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: influencer and younger. So I guess, like Chloe and Courtney 552 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: in Purgatory, they're right in the middle. They're definitely influencers, 553 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 1: but they're older. So this year they wanted either icons 554 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: or young influencers because I can't see how Addison Ray 555 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 1: would be there not Courtney. Um, and then Megan Fox 556 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:54,800 Speaker 1: is there, and isn't she more relevant now because she's 557 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 1: in a relationship with someone that's very relevant, but didn't 558 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,239 Speaker 1: She's gonna go away for a minute, so we all 559 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: don't understand exactly what is why? And guess what the HBI, 560 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 1: c Anna Wintour gets to decide what whether funk she wants, 561 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,960 Speaker 1: She could invite whoever she wants, She could invite herkell. 562 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 1: That brings me to the Kardashians. Uhnkendall Jenner is a 563 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 1: super Kendall Jenner is a supermodel. Kylie pushes the fashion 564 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: envelope all the time. Um, but Kim in wearing that 565 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 1: all black ensemble, which I said yesterday they said that 566 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 1: Kanye and followed her, and I believe that that's sort 567 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:33,120 Speaker 1: of some connected message to this this costume. I just 568 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 1: think that it's not unrelated. There's something that they're in on. 569 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: But she said herself, she always wanted to be on 570 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 1: the cover of Vogue. She's had this is goals for her. 571 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 1: She wanted to be invited to the met Ball one. 572 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 1: I think the first year she got invited because of Kanye. 573 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: Then she got invited in her own right. The next year, 574 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 1: Kylie was invited, Chris is invited. Courtney and Chloe are not. 575 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: That's got a bug them. They do everything the same 576 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 1: and everything together. But that maybe probably makes the two 577 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,960 Speaker 1: sisters feel more l vated. And and but I have 578 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 1: to say for Kim, she has committed to this life. 579 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 1: Like she she she told a story. If this is 580 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 1: supposed to be impact and theatrics and escapism, she accomplished that. 581 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 1: Like I saw that black outfit on the stairs, Like 582 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: I'm giving her full props for being disruptive, for saying 583 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: I'm here and I can take chances and do my 584 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 1: own way, and you know, own the room. And you 585 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: know a lot of people don't give them props. It 586 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 1: always has given props but well she's a billion dollars 587 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 1: bought the sex tape or well whatever, Like I'm just 588 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 1: giving straight up props. It takes so much work. I 589 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,959 Speaker 1: for me to go to that event, I would be 590 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: planning for eleven months. I would figure out a way 591 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: to rock it. I would make it my business. But 592 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 1: like these girls, j Lo had been at the Venice 593 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 1: Film Festival with Ben Affleck in full regalia with diamonds everywhere. 594 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: Right before that, she was an adults a show looking 595 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: like a app like literal like brocade queen with the 596 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: craziest costume like that. That was the costume the met Gala. 597 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 1: That was crazy. Her outfit there was crazy than her 598 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,279 Speaker 1: costume with the mec Gala. Then she goes with Ben 599 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 1: Affleck too Venice again, I think for his film festival. 600 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,120 Speaker 1: Unless I'm mixing stories, No, I think she went back. 601 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. She was there for Delta Gabana. Then 602 00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:25,960 Speaker 1: Ben had a thing and she went with him. Then 603 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,320 Speaker 1: she went to the v m As. Then she went 604 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 1: to the Beck Gala and like that, like Indiana Jones outfit, 605 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 1: Like do you know how exhausting that is? That whole 606 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,719 Speaker 1: thing dad alone, I mean, she's got kids, she's got 607 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,479 Speaker 1: a job, she's got a relationship, she's got a mother, 608 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 1: she's got a house. She must I mean not that 609 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,400 Speaker 1: we're coming. Nobody likes to hear like the rich complaining 610 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: about being exhausted, and she's not complaining. I'm just saying, 611 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:56,399 Speaker 1: these people are committing to really just win, to make 612 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 1: a statement. And what do we all think of that? 613 00:34:58,400 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: A lot of people don't like it. A lot of 614 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,239 Speaker 1: people think there are real things going on in the world, 615 00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,279 Speaker 1: But that's escapism. You know, I'm the first one. I 616 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 1: deal with a lot of real things going on in 617 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: the world, a lot of natural disasters, a lot of 618 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: crazy stuff and people dying. But you know, it's what. 619 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: It's escapism, and people want to see something, and so 620 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 1: they're putting on a show to entertain others. Us on 621 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:21,839 Speaker 1: the other side in times of stress. I mean, that's 622 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,400 Speaker 1: not their purpose. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm 623 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,319 Speaker 1: not overstating they're all they all want attention, they want it, 624 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 1: they love it, they want to win the night. I 625 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 1: just think it's just an interesting conversation. Today. My guest 626 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,920 Speaker 1: is Jeffrey Katzenberg. I think that day Barry hired me, 627 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 1: he saw someone who could go the whole distance. And 628 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 1: we're going to make sure that I learned and had 629 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: the experience that if I could succeed, I actually have 630 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:08,359 Speaker 1: been equipped, trained, learned how to actually do the job. 631 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: I didn't get there because I got lucky and won 632 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:16,919 Speaker 1: something took off fantastic. And so I've been as I said, 633 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,240 Speaker 1: I've been blessed to have you know, three of those 634 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 1: in my career, people who were real, you know, real 635 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: mentors for me. And they weren't just around work. I 636 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:31,280 Speaker 1: had an amazing mentor around philanthropy, which was Kirk Douglas. 637 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:33,879 Speaker 1: You know, that's a whole another story we can get 638 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 1: into at some point. But going back on the work 639 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:41,760 Speaker 1: side of it. Uh, I think the thing that I 640 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 1: realized and I was never articulate about it in my 641 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: early years, but I did come to understand it later, um, 642 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 1: which is it really became sort of my um. Uh. 643 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, what would you like my mission statement? 644 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 1: It's real simple. It's to words exceed expectations. And what 645 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:13,719 Speaker 1: I saw just as almost like Pavlau, right, which is, 646 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,399 Speaker 1: give me an assignment, and if I did it really well, 647 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:21,959 Speaker 1: the person I did it for rewarded me by either 648 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:27,360 Speaker 1: giving me more, bigger, better, whatever those things were. And 649 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,799 Speaker 1: so that of get a challenge, and it didn't matter 650 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: whether it was literally go downstairs and get coffee and Danish, 651 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 1: or you get a script into some person's hand or 652 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:47,799 Speaker 1: go sign somebody to do it. That by exceeding expectations 653 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 1: of my bosses, it actually produced a great outcome time 654 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,640 Speaker 1: and time and time again. And so I just kept 655 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 1: trying to always do that. And then as I sort 656 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: of got on a bit in my career, I started 657 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:09,959 Speaker 1: to realize that, um, being in a consumer business, which 658 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 1: I well I have been for my mostly, Um, there's 659 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 1: the reward there is exceed the expectation of your customer. 660 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,800 Speaker 1: So if you made a movie and people came to 661 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 1: see the movie it was better than they thought, you 662 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: had a smash. And the same thing was through of 663 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 1: a TV show, And the same thing was through of 664 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:38,840 Speaker 1: you know, soundtrack for a movie or you know a 665 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,280 Speaker 1: stuff animal or I don't care pick any of those things. 666 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 1: If the quality of what you somebody received and returned 667 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 1: for you know, uh, you know, paying for subscribing or 668 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 1: whatever it is, if the quality was more than they 669 00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,680 Speaker 1: actually expected, they became loyal to you and loyal to 670 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 1: your brand, and um, you know, it's just it constantly 671 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: became rewarding for me. And I then started to realize, well, okay, 672 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: you know what take that the next step? And um, 673 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 1: I should. I'd like to try and exceed the expectations 674 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,400 Speaker 1: of the people that I work with. Right, so, not 675 00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:22,839 Speaker 1: just the people I worked for, but actually people that 676 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 1: I work with every day. Are there things that I 677 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,359 Speaker 1: can do so that things don't become wrote? You know, 678 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,480 Speaker 1: staff meetings don't become the same all the time that 679 00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,719 Speaker 1: you know, the repetition of those things, they lose their edge. 680 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 1: And so I always think about, you know, how do 681 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 1: I exceed the expectations of the people that I work with. 682 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,239 Speaker 1: I know Anestasia and we've spoken about my relationship her relationship. 683 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,279 Speaker 1: But you know, when you normally speak to them of 684 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,759 Speaker 1: getting your eyebrows done, you're not asking them like how 685 00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: you grew up, what was like in your household? It's 686 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 1: just weird. So we're just getting such inside information that 687 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 1: will give you this whole puzzle to figure out how 688 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,400 Speaker 1: to create your own success and forge your own path. 689 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:14,360 Speaker 1: We know you therefore a thousand years, but but literally 690 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:19,240 Speaker 1: when we were both broke. Oh completely, Were you broke? 691 00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,919 Speaker 1: Like I was really broke? Were you broke broke? I'm 692 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 1: not that broke, but I was building the whole. I 693 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:29,440 Speaker 1: remember when I opened the salon in on the Bedford 694 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:36,600 Speaker 1: Drive in seven and Um, you came to me and 695 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,319 Speaker 1: I wanted to have a little party. You came to 696 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,600 Speaker 1: me like, you have to let me do your party 697 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:46,319 Speaker 1: because I'm so broke. I need money and I need 698 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:51,440 Speaker 1: to well have some cookies and some appetizers and drinks, 699 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,759 Speaker 1: but you need to to give me this party. You 700 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:58,319 Speaker 1: were not party planner, and there were so many other 701 00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,360 Speaker 1: of my clients they were in the big sins. I 702 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,800 Speaker 1: was like, no, we we need to give me, bethany 703 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 1: Um the right of first refusal because you you needed 704 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:15,759 Speaker 1: to build your business. I mean you were such a hustler. Stop. 705 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god. But I knew you from the salon 706 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,839 Speaker 1: that was above Juan Juan Salon. When was that, Yes, 707 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 1: that was in two That's when I moved to l A. 708 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,240 Speaker 1: I literally was there from the beginning of your career 709 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:33,799 Speaker 1: and vice versa. It was crazy. Yes, you were the 710 00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 1: first one and among other people that helped me and 711 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,360 Speaker 1: supported me, and um, that's why I love you forever. 712 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 1: I love you forever. Used to Okay, so we're gonna 713 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:48,760 Speaker 1: get to everything. But uh, Anastasia, I heard from somebody 714 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 1: that she did great eyebrows, but there was not a thing. 715 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,200 Speaker 1: Is doing great eyebrows? Like that wasn't a thing. Now 716 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 1: it's a thing, the pencils, the people, This was not 717 00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,040 Speaker 1: a thing. So I was like, wait, I didn't even 718 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,200 Speaker 1: know there was a thing. Don't forget I was. But 719 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,279 Speaker 1: my friend Drew used to go there and Michelle and 720 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,439 Speaker 1: I said, okay, I'm gonna go and used to give 721 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,759 Speaker 1: me a deal I don't remember, probably was like six 722 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,640 Speaker 1: dollars when we started out, and used to give it 723 00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: to me for less God only knows. But you would 724 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 1: come at in your eyebrows would look different, like you 725 00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't even have known that you needed to deal with 726 00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 1: your eyebrows. And she was an eyebrow doctor, like fill 727 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 1: it in, thin it out, let him grow, then we'll 728 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: do this. I mean, it was a whole thing. So 729 00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:29,319 Speaker 1: but you guys, this was literally a small nothing off 730 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:32,600 Speaker 1: like four walls and a table and her and her. 731 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: You don't understand what this is. This I have a 732 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 1: success story, but not even close to what we're about 733 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:41,279 Speaker 1: to talk about, Like this is another level. This is 734 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,560 Speaker 1: another level. Even from where I came from to where 735 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 1: I am, from where you came from to where you are, 736 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 1: We're talking about four walls and a woman and that's it. 737 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: Did I forget any of your favorite clips. I'm gonna 738 00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:57,319 Speaker 1: take a little bit of me holiday time, so we 739 00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 1: will be back recording episodes no time. Have a wonderful holiday, Hm,