WEBVTT - F Boy Insurrection

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I did by this year that I

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<v Speaker 1>loved that changed me what my AMC Stubs rewards membership.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying, Diva, That's what I'm saying. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the family. Welcome to Nicole Kidman's family. We are

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<v Speaker 1>almost at the end of Thank God, not that this

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<v Speaker 1>was a bad not that this was a bad year,

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<v Speaker 1>but like it just was a long year. I in,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, looking back at the year because spoiler alert

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<v Speaker 1>virgins today we're doing the best of two episode and

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<v Speaker 1>looking back at this year, I just realized some things

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<v Speaker 1>that I thought happened in or even were truly like

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<v Speaker 1>six months ago. I had that experience when I saw

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<v Speaker 1>my Spotify rapped this year, which did unfortunately have Catwalk

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<v Speaker 1>by RuPaul, And I remember, like I at that and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like Catwalk came out this year, Like that

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<v Speaker 1>made me feel ancient. Um, anyways, yeah, this year did

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<v Speaker 1>really like crawl by musically, whether were there any like

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we've talked about like a lot of our

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<v Speaker 1>favorite albums, our favorite artists like from the year, um

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<v Speaker 1>standing out to you, like who was the artist or

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<v Speaker 1>album that like defined your year, Like who were the

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<v Speaker 1>who was the first person that stuck out of your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Two was about her, because of course it was at her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>of course it was that. I mean there, if we're

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<v Speaker 1>if we're you know, using Spotify wrapped data and also

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<v Speaker 1>my own internal data, there are were no men present anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Um yeah, I mean for me obviously we have talked

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<v Speaker 1>about at length on the podcast. Ethel Can really ruled

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<v Speaker 1>especially the second half of my year because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>listen to Preacher's Daughter until pretty late in the summer

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<v Speaker 1>and then was immediately evangelized by it. I mean, funnily enough,

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<v Speaker 1>considering you know, like the evangelical overtones of the whole album. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I mean we we've talked a lot about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of the big albums for us this year,

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<v Speaker 1>which were you know, Preacher's Daughter, Renaissance UM, thena album

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<v Speaker 1>Willows Coping Mechanism which I was obsessed with, UM, Dance

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<v Speaker 1>Fever from Florence the Machine was a big one for

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<v Speaker 1>me this year, and also the live version of it

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<v Speaker 1>that she released from her concert at Madison Square Garden.

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<v Speaker 1>I've listened to a lot um some albums that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really talk about on the podcast this year where

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked Laurel Hell by Mitski Um. It actually

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<v Speaker 1>was the album that made me like Mitski who for

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<v Speaker 1>a very long time, I just didn't really funk with Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then more recently I I have always kind of

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<v Speaker 1>liked to Below, but never like listened to her music

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<v Speaker 1>like fanatically or anything. But after Spotify Wrapped came out,

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Ryan told me that her song No One

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<v Speaker 1>Dies from Love was his number one UM song on

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<v Speaker 1>his Spotify Wrapped. So I started listening to her album

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<v Speaker 1>Dirt Fem, which came out this summer, and I am

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<v Speaker 1>totally obsessed with it. It's so good. I'm still especially

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still in shocking that that's how you pronounce it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it does um. Yeah, this song No One Dies

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<v Speaker 1>from Love amazing, has a great music video. Grapefruit is

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<v Speaker 1>like a banger about eating disorders, which no really, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>yeah you told me about this. That's a deep cut

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<v Speaker 1>that's like really raw material to to like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>dissect and then crank through. I guess a pop music

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<v Speaker 1>machine like that's yonderful arts. It's a very fun dance album.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like some really good songwriting on it. Um. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>I did did Charlie x C x's album come out

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<v Speaker 1>this year or was that last year? That was this year? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>with Charlie xc X and Motemmmy came out around the

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<v Speaker 1>same time. That was definitely a big moment, which one

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<v Speaker 1>obviously obviously Scissa, which we talked about last week. Great

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<v Speaker 1>year for music. Anything else on your radar this year

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<v Speaker 1>that we haven't really talked about. Um No, you've named

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<v Speaker 1>four of my top five, which were Muna Preacher's Daughter, Renaissance,

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<v Speaker 1>the Willow album, and then Sissa, which wasn't on your

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<v Speaker 1>tops the newsas album I think is just immediately I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to be a standout from the year for

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<v Speaker 1>me and we'll go deep into next year, the same

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<v Speaker 1>way Adele's album, released at the end of last year

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<v Speaker 1>went deep into the next year for me. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>for me, like Willow was like the underappreciated thing of

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<v Speaker 1>the year. Like I did not see any blogs talking

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<v Speaker 1>about coping mechanism. I have not heard people talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like making people listening to this listen to this album.

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<v Speaker 1>I dropped someone off at the airport and we listened

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<v Speaker 1>to the album all the way through and they loved it,

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<v Speaker 1>And like I yeah, I'm just like always I want

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<v Speaker 1>more people to listen to what I feel like is

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<v Speaker 1>willows best work. So if you liked the Willow TikTok song,

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<v Speaker 1>go listen to Coping mechanism Um. And then I think

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<v Speaker 1>Ethel Caine, who I discovered this year through you, really

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<v Speaker 1>also just defined the year. Like I knew immediately that

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<v Speaker 1>she was going to emerge as like this like favorite

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<v Speaker 1>Internet celebrity. Like she has the makeup of so many

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<v Speaker 1>things that we want in a public figure, which is

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<v Speaker 1>that she doesn't care about being a public figure and

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<v Speaker 1>isn't interested in like the varnish of like what celebrity

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<v Speaker 1>comes with in America, and like, but she's still you know,

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<v Speaker 1>looks she's still really fucking funny, really down to earth,

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<v Speaker 1>and she looks great into things she's being styled in

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<v Speaker 1>in these photo shoots were seeing so and she's so

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<v Speaker 1>good at the Internet. I just love. Yeah. What I

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<v Speaker 1>also really appreciate about her is, like I've noticed, especially

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<v Speaker 1>recently as she has been ending up on a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these end of Your lists, is she cares really

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<v Speaker 1>deeply about the way that her art is perceived and

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<v Speaker 1>has been spending a lot of time online calling people

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<v Speaker 1>out or calling them in or whatever, like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>educate them about her music and what they might have

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<v Speaker 1>missed in it. And like the fact that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>American Teenager is like not supposed to be this like

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<v Speaker 1>glorification of Americana and if like and if you see

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<v Speaker 1>it that way, then you're really missing the point of

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<v Speaker 1>her album listening. And and even though American Teenager was

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<v Speaker 1>my top played song on Spotify this year, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to say that my actual favorite song of two is

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<v Speaker 1>definitely Thoroughfare. I think it's like my two top songs

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<v Speaker 1>of two on very different sides of the spectrum our

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<v Speaker 1>Thoroughfare and Alien Superstar. Like that is that is the pairing.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly, god, I didn't even think about best song

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<v Speaker 1>in preparation for this for this episode. Um, Thoroughfare definitely

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<v Speaker 1>is is like up there. It was something that I

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<v Speaker 1>just returned to and played over and over and over

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<v Speaker 1>again and couldn't stop. I think that, like I I

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<v Speaker 1>actually don't. I wonder if like ethel is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, year end like best of list, because wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm seeing like on a lot of like people's timelines,

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<v Speaker 1>But like I feel like she a lot of critics

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<v Speaker 1>did not like the album because like the songs were

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<v Speaker 1>too long, and ship she was on Pitchfork, she was

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<v Speaker 1>on Rolling Stone. I think American Teenager was on either

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<v Speaker 1>either Pitchwork or Rolling Stone. It was like the number

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<v Speaker 1>eleven song of two Wow. I honestly never I never

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<v Speaker 1>would have guessed, but I'm like really happy for it,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, yeah, I um I. The one that comes

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<v Speaker 1>to mind is um Jody. It was like one of

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<v Speaker 1>those controlled deluxe songs that I just played over and

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<v Speaker 1>over and over and over again UM on SoundCloud and

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<v Speaker 1>on Spotify, and UM, I don't know, like there's something

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<v Speaker 1>about the kind of like whimsical and like blowing through

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<v Speaker 1>the winds like quality of that song that like I

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<v Speaker 1>really felt like. UM. I wouldn't say an anthem for

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<v Speaker 1>the year because it's not anthemic at all, but a thematically,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is what the year feels like.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that like runners High was also one of

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<v Speaker 1>those songs where I was like, the year feels like

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<v Speaker 1>runners High, which to me is like a standout from

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<v Speaker 1>the whole Moon album. UM. And also I Guess He Did,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like the meme song an amazing, amazing UM

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<v Speaker 1>One of one more recent edition for me is um

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<v Speaker 1>Spitting Off the Edge of the World from Yea Yea's

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<v Speaker 1>album that they released in September, which is the song

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<v Speaker 1>they did with Perfume Genius, an album that even though

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like lifelong yeah yeah, yeahs UM fanatic, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really listen to until a while after it had come out.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's an amazing album. Um. I have to say

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<v Speaker 1>that Midnights did not make it into my top albums

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<v Speaker 1>of the year, even though obviously I have been listening

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<v Speaker 1>to it pretty NonStop since it came out, and like somehow,

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<v Speaker 1>like in the in the two weeks between it coming

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<v Speaker 1>out and when Spotify stopped collecting data for Wrapped it,

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<v Speaker 1>like it would be found its way into my you know,

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<v Speaker 1>top songs. It you know, like we've we've already had

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<v Speaker 1>the discussion about it. But it as much as I

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<v Speaker 1>like it, these other albums we've been talking about and

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<v Speaker 1>songs we've been talking about were just better. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, would have could have should have like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>would be on like my top I was gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>top twenty five, but maybe like top fifty for the here.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I just the album did not did not

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<v Speaker 1>do it for me at all, and I honestly ended

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<v Speaker 1>up muting a lot of the songs on Spotify because

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<v Speaker 1>the algorithm was feeding me too much midnights and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I actually don't I don't want to listen

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<v Speaker 1>to this again. Um, Karma, I think it's just like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels like a song of the year to me,

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<v Speaker 1>even though I didn't love it that much, just because

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<v Speaker 1>it did really fit the vibe. It's a song that

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<v Speaker 1>we all emotionally, if not comically, like attached to. And UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I think pulled a lot of like the things that

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like a very millennial song that I think

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<v Speaker 1>that we latch onto that I can at least commend

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<v Speaker 1>for being a really perfect pop song. UM. Okay, Well

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<v Speaker 1>what about what about like movies? Do you have favored

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<v Speaker 1>movies of the year. Yes, Um, A lot of which

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<v Speaker 1>we've already talked about. Um, I think Tars one of

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<v Speaker 1>the best movies of the year. Um, Downtown Abbey and

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<v Speaker 1>New Era is still reign supreme as my favorite movie

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<v Speaker 1>of two alongside Mrs Harris Goes to Paris. I'm not trolling.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying it's the best. I'm saying it's my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite and that is your favorite difference Difference Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>Orphan First Kill. I really enjoyed. It was one of

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<v Speaker 1>the one of the most fun movie experiences I had

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<v Speaker 1>this year. X and Pearl were both great. Top Gun

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<v Speaker 1>Maverick and then a more recent edition obviously Everything Everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>All at Once, Um, and then a more recent edition

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<v Speaker 1>Avatar The Way of Water fucking slapped it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was incredible, takes the cake and UM, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>can say this by the time this episode has come out,

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<v Speaker 1>because it will be out. But Matilda the Musical, which

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<v Speaker 1>is I believe out now on Netflix, is really good.

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<v Speaker 1>I cried multiple times while watching it. I'm excited to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. Um. I feel like I saw the original

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<v Speaker 1>Broadway version of Matilda, but I don't remember why or how. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>The only movie that I really, you know, thought to

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<v Speaker 1>write down for the best of the year is Everything Everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>All at Once, Like that is a movie that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we There's nothing I have to add to the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>outside of the fact that it's just like a movie

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<v Speaker 1>that is invested in like pleasure and invested in storytelling

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<v Speaker 1>and in marginalized storytelling, but like at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, it's about like pleasure and fun and adventure

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<v Speaker 1>and like action. And I thought that that was like

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of stark difference between people that love. When

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<v Speaker 1>people talk about this movie in relation to Tar and

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<v Speaker 1>how Michelle ye Out and Capelin Chedd are up against

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<v Speaker 1>each other for best Actress, it's like Tar. I also adored, adored, adored,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was not necessarily an overall pleasurable experience. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't enjoy it. And this is just me personally.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't enjoy all three hour res of it. I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, felt like it was art that I was

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<v Speaker 1>consuming and digesting and muscling through, where something like everything everywhere,

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<v Speaker 1>all at once had the art while championing entertainment um

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<v Speaker 1>and and me being entertained in the seat. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's something that just on on a personal taste level,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, me, I'm always going to be uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>want I want style and I want substance. But I like,

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, I want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure I'm having fun. Um interesting to that effect or

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want to say to that? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I guess that the further away I get from

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<v Speaker 1>the experience of seeing Everything Everywhere, All at Once in

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<v Speaker 1>a theater. I'm not as kind of gob smacked by

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<v Speaker 1>it as I was initially, Like, Yes, I think Michell

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<v Speaker 1>Yo is incredible in it. I think Stephanie Shoe is amazing. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy who plays the dad also incredible. I think, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if I revisited again, maybe I'll have better language to

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<v Speaker 1>put this in. But I like, I don't know, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just say this. I think Tar is a better movie

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<v Speaker 1>than Everything Everywhere, All at Once. And it's and it's

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<v Speaker 1>certainly like for my taste, just a movie I enjoyed more,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And they're two, and they're totally different films.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm going to exactly they're totally different films. If

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be extremely truthful, I'm going to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of agree with you a little bit and say that

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<v Speaker 1>Tar put the pieces of the plot together in a

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<v Speaker 1>way that was like had a mastery that was that

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<v Speaker 1>that everything everywhere was not that interested in, right the

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<v Speaker 1>the Daniels, I think we're really invested in like experimentation,

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<v Speaker 1>and so components of plot and character development were kind

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<v Speaker 1>of put on the side to prioritize action, right And

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<v Speaker 1>I And so I do actually agree with that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I also, if I'm going to be really hairy, I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, just on an awards level, that what Kate

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<v Speaker 1>does in Tar is something that the Oscars will adore

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<v Speaker 1>and love and prioritize more than what Michelle Yo did,

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<v Speaker 1>which was, to me, on the performance level, extremely different.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I'm evaluating it all my own, kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like metric, I feel what Michelle did was triumphant and

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<v Speaker 1>a retrospective of her work that was long deserved, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that added thematic meaning to her performance that

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<v Speaker 1>was at the end of the day, more powerful than

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<v Speaker 1>what Kate did. But again I'm just like being kind

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<v Speaker 1>of no. I I agree, and I think you're right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think when I think it is extremely likely

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<v Speaker 1>that Michelle Yo will win Best Actress at the Oscars,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's deserved. I don't think it's necessarily deserved

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<v Speaker 1>just on the merits of her performance in the film.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think, as you said, it's about her career.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about her getting this recognition that she's long deserved,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when cape Lynchett literally already has two Oscars, like

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't need it. But for my taste level, like

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed her performance more and and I think Tar

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<v Speaker 1>just does more with its premise than Everything Everywhere All

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<v Speaker 1>It Once does. Like I actually kind of the again,

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<v Speaker 1>Like the further I get away from it, the more

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that Everything Everywhere All at Once had like

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<v Speaker 1>doubled down on its own world building and Tar, like,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously it's not like a sci fi movie, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is so deeply entrenched in it in the world that

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<v Speaker 1>it builds, And I just it's just more my taste

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<v Speaker 1>as a movie. But they're both fantastic films, both fantastic performances,

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<v Speaker 1>quite amazing actresses, and like, who cares about awards anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>But it was a great ear for the movies. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>who cares about a war? It's funny, Like you say,

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle Yo, It's like, is she She's it's extremely likely

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<v Speaker 1>that she'll win, but like, I feel like it's more

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<v Speaker 1>likely that Kate's gonna win because she I think in Tar,

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<v Speaker 1>she has there's more to observe on the level of

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<v Speaker 1>like her as an actor, maybe even but like, but

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<v Speaker 1>we see this happen with with awards and that it

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<v Speaker 1>really is especially the voter when you think about the

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<v Speaker 1>voting body of the Academy especially like it is Michelle's time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is she's I think she's I think she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to win, unless like they split the vote and Michelle

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<v Speaker 1>Williams wins for the Fableman's which I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>going to happen. Because I hear that I haven't seen it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to. But I hear that it's a

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<v Speaker 1>very insufferable movie. I believe it. I okay, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to say, you know it just with other movies. I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when I was trying to pull together, like

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<v Speaker 1>what my list of from the year, it's evident that,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm really a girl that's like my favorite movie

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<v Speaker 1>is just like the last movie that I saw. And

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<v Speaker 1>I can't stop thinking about Triangle of Sadness. I really can't,

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<v Speaker 1>and I I I cannot wait for you to watch it. Actually,

0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:58.959
<v Speaker 1>it's like streamable now, maybe you should rent it. I

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<v Speaker 1>totally when you have three hours to three hours to

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<v Speaker 1>sit through it. It's the kind of movie that I'll

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<v Speaker 1>probably watch over since it's dreamable. I'll watch it in

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<v Speaker 1>two sittings maybe, yeah, yeah, wildly entertaining. You could watch

0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.479
<v Speaker 1>it in three. It's it's a three part movie and

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<v Speaker 1>each part really feels like a new movie. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of how I feel about it. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think on the craft level that it was like the

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<v Speaker 1>best movie of two or whatever. But I think the

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<v Speaker 1>reason I say it's one of my favorites is because

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<v Speaker 1>it tried so many things that I had never seen

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<v Speaker 1>before that were subtle but still commentary successful while still

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<v Speaker 1>being like um rambunctious, like you know, not afraid to

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<v Speaker 1>make mistakes on like the storytelling, our character level, and

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<v Speaker 1>um just like image it like there's there's a set

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<v Speaker 1>piece in the middle of the film that I already

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<v Speaker 1>talked about you will love. Um. I can't stop thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about that movie. So definitely definitely a stand out for

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<v Speaker 1>me because I didn't actually think I was gonna like

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<v Speaker 1>it that much. Yeah, I was actually very surprised that

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<v Speaker 1>you loved it as much as you did. It just

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<v Speaker 1>felt like a movie I wanted to write, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I think when you can see how

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<v Speaker 1>much fun the writers are having, which I think describes

0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:12.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things on our like movie and show

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<v Speaker 1>list this year. Um, that's like when I'm when I like,

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<v Speaker 1>remember remember stuff. Let's let's make a little a short,

0:19:35.040 --> 0:19:39.520
<v Speaker 1>little pit stop in Rose's book Corner A little pit Stop. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I read a lot this year, not

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<v Speaker 1>as much as I as I wish I had. I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, if I'm looking at the year thematically, this

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<v Speaker 1>was the year for me that I really discovered and

0:19:50.960 --> 0:19:55.520
<v Speaker 1>became obsessed with queer historical romance. I've read a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of it this year. Um. Some of it I've already

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<v Speaker 1>talked about. A Lady for Ad was incredible. Um. Uh,

0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:07.080
<v Speaker 1>pretty much any book by K. J. Charles UM. And

0:20:07.119 --> 0:20:10.520
<v Speaker 1>then some other books I've talked about already are Her

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<v Speaker 1>Majesty's Royal Coven by Juno Dawson. I think is probably

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite book that I read this year. I've talked

0:20:15.800 --> 0:20:20.440
<v Speaker 1>about it before. Um. Also the Captive Prince trilogy, which

0:20:20.720 --> 0:20:22.480
<v Speaker 1>we did talk about on the podcast before, but I

0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:25.639
<v Speaker 1>believe it was cut in an edit. Um. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a sort of like alternate history. Um. Slavery romance. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't the one you were reading on Fire Island?

0:20:32.600 --> 0:20:35.199
<v Speaker 1>Was it? No? No? No, that was that was a

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<v Speaker 1>different another another course, another course that another cod beast Ripper,

0:20:39.920 --> 0:20:44.800
<v Speaker 1>God beast Ripper. Yes. Um. And um, something that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>reading recently that I'm really enjoying is a book of

0:20:47.880 --> 0:20:52.760
<v Speaker 1>short stories called Salt Slow by Julia Armfield. UM. I

0:20:52.760 --> 0:20:57.040
<v Speaker 1>have always been a short story girly, and I it's

0:20:57.080 --> 0:20:59.280
<v Speaker 1>it's a really good way for me to break out

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<v Speaker 1>of a reading lump which I have been in recently

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<v Speaker 1>because I just finished a book that it took me

0:21:03.960 --> 0:21:07.520
<v Speaker 1>basically a month to read because I really wasn't enjoying it.

0:21:07.680 --> 0:21:12.840
<v Speaker 1>And I've been trying to empower myself more to stop

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<v Speaker 1>reading books when I realized I don't like them. I

0:21:15.960 --> 0:21:20.280
<v Speaker 1>have a really hard time doing that because I'm a finisher. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And unfortunately, this book that I actually was really excited

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<v Speaker 1>about reading just wasn't good and it took me a

0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:30.399
<v Speaker 1>long time to read it. And so I wanted to

0:21:30.440 --> 0:21:32.720
<v Speaker 1>read something that I could like consume pretty quickly and

0:21:32.760 --> 0:21:35.080
<v Speaker 1>would get me back into a reading mode. UM. And

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<v Speaker 1>so that book of short stories, which I actually found

0:21:38.520 --> 0:21:42.920
<v Speaker 1>because it was on UM the reading list that Florence

0:21:42.920 --> 0:21:45.840
<v Speaker 1>Welch put out when she was releasing Dance Fever of

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<v Speaker 1>books that had sort of like inspired the album or

0:21:49.200 --> 0:21:51.360
<v Speaker 1>books that she read while she was writing and recording

0:21:51.400 --> 0:21:55.000
<v Speaker 1>the album. And it's a lot of like really great

0:21:55.119 --> 0:21:58.560
<v Speaker 1>like dark, little short stories, so I definitely recommend it's

0:21:58.640 --> 0:22:02.760
<v Speaker 1>it's very readable and like like just kind of fast

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<v Speaker 1>paced readable is my vibe slash that was me when

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<v Speaker 1>I read The Heart the Heart Stopper books that you left. Um,

0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:11.600
<v Speaker 1>I can't even remember why you gave them to me.

0:22:11.720 --> 0:22:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I think because I wanted you to read them, because

0:22:15.320 --> 0:22:19.200
<v Speaker 1>I think I had you had covid. Yes, I brought that. Yeah,

0:22:19.200 --> 0:22:22.680
<v Speaker 1>I had covid. Um, so I think honestly, so I don't.

0:22:22.720 --> 0:22:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't read as much as Rose. The

0:22:24.560 --> 0:22:27.239
<v Speaker 1>Virgins probably know this already. I used to be an

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<v Speaker 1>avid reader. I made a resolution to read more this year,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did not. Um, I really did not. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if like I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, it'll be next year's goal. And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I just need actually to to regiment. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>make time for the things you want to make time for,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's like where I'm at. But the book that

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<v Speaker 1>I read the most this year, crazy enough, is this

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<v Speaker 1>book called The Greeks and Greek Love by James Davidson,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a kind of like Queer not year. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like gay mail love in um Greek history and examples

0:23:06.320 --> 0:23:10.560
<v Speaker 1>of it throughout mythology and time. And I read a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot a lot of that book in preparation for

0:23:13.840 --> 0:23:17.399
<v Speaker 1>our Greek Mythology episode. But then after we recorded our

0:23:17.440 --> 0:23:20.600
<v Speaker 1>Greek Mythology episode, I kept reading it and you know,

0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:23.359
<v Speaker 1>for as research for another writing project thing, And like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just forgot how much I fucking love reading about

0:23:27.000 --> 0:23:30.879
<v Speaker 1>Greek myths and Greek history, queer Greek history. UM. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you have, if you or if the visions have

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<v Speaker 1>any like Rex in that regard, like I would love

0:23:35.160 --> 0:23:38.199
<v Speaker 1>to read more. Um. The only other book that I like,

0:23:38.600 --> 0:23:42.920
<v Speaker 1>really like defined the book that defined my year, because

0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:44.879
<v Speaker 1>it's the book that I remember the most reading and

0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:48.520
<v Speaker 1>underlining is this book called Do Nothing by Celest Headley

0:23:48.600 --> 0:23:50.760
<v Speaker 1>that I've talked about on the pod before. That's about

0:23:50.760 --> 0:23:52.720
<v Speaker 1>the invention of the workforce and why we need to

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<v Speaker 1>take more vacations and learn how to enjoy idle time

0:23:56.880 --> 0:24:01.520
<v Speaker 1>and enjoy when we're not working. Um. Yeah, and it's

0:24:01.600 --> 0:24:05.359
<v Speaker 1>definitely definitely changed my outlook on life and personality, and

0:24:05.400 --> 0:24:07.959
<v Speaker 1>I think a good book should do that. Um. Obviously

0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:10.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm more of a nonfiction reader than than Rose, but

0:24:10.840 --> 0:24:12.920
<v Speaker 1>like fiction, I want to I need to get back

0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:15.440
<v Speaker 1>into fiction. I miss good pro well. I also think

0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I think you can be a little kinder to yourself

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<v Speaker 1>about not having the time to read, because you know,

0:24:20.840 --> 0:24:23.920
<v Speaker 1>I definitely have found that I'm reading a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>than now that I live in New York again, because

0:24:25.760 --> 0:24:29.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm reading on the subway and the subway, and you know,

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:32.080
<v Speaker 1>like living in a city where you don't take public

0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:35.240
<v Speaker 1>transportation as you do in Los Angeles, you really have

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 1>to be very intentional about reading because like I love

0:24:39.320 --> 0:24:42.399
<v Speaker 1>reading on the subway because it just makes the commute

0:24:42.480 --> 0:24:44.920
<v Speaker 1>go by faster. And so I think once you're back

0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:48.879
<v Speaker 1>here eventually you will put that into practice again. Also

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:53.159
<v Speaker 1>read in the bath, and as someone who has a

0:24:53.200 --> 0:24:56.960
<v Speaker 1>lifelong battle with insomnia, reading before bed is really helpful,

0:24:57.520 --> 0:25:01.000
<v Speaker 1>but kind of only if you're doing it with an

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 1>actual physical book, not an e reader, because something that

0:25:05.400 --> 0:25:07.240
<v Speaker 1>that is really bad for me is looking at my

0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:09.240
<v Speaker 1>phone a lot before bed because it just kind of

0:25:09.880 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 1>keeps my brain going. Although I do love to read

0:25:13.000 --> 0:25:15.480
<v Speaker 1>fan fiction before bad so I don't know, I don't

0:25:15.480 --> 0:25:18.359
<v Speaker 1>know what to do about that. I love some nighttime

0:25:18.440 --> 0:25:24.320
<v Speaker 1>fan fiction. Um okay, i I'm like I had a

0:25:24.359 --> 0:25:27.159
<v Speaker 1>hard time thinking about like oldies but goodies, but like

0:25:27.280 --> 0:25:33.240
<v Speaker 1>I also realized that two of mine were Glenn Close influenced. Um.

0:25:33.359 --> 0:25:37.320
<v Speaker 1>I watched the first season of Damages, starring Glenn Close

0:25:37.320 --> 0:25:39.720
<v Speaker 1>and Rose Byrne, which is like a lot of people

0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:42.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, always talk about in the context of like

0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:45.000
<v Speaker 1>best TV shows ever, but out our most popular TV

0:25:45.040 --> 0:25:50.200
<v Speaker 1>shows are like whatever, Um, this this show like predated

0:25:50.320 --> 0:25:54.200
<v Speaker 1>like the prestige TV movement where like movie stars were

0:25:54.240 --> 0:25:57.280
<v Speaker 1>like migrating to TV or whatever, like Glenn Close did

0:25:57.320 --> 0:25:59.760
<v Speaker 1>it before, you know, Nicole Kidman and all of them

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 1>did big little lies. And I think that like I

0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:05.560
<v Speaker 1>had never I'd always heard about Damages as like something

0:26:05.560 --> 0:26:08.960
<v Speaker 1>of a punchline in conversation, but it never actually considered

0:26:09.000 --> 0:26:11.080
<v Speaker 1>it or even knew what it was about. And the

0:26:11.160 --> 0:26:14.879
<v Speaker 1>first season sucked me in. I watched it in like

0:26:15.240 --> 0:26:18.639
<v Speaker 1>maybe over the weekend. Um, and yeah, it was. It

0:26:18.720 --> 0:26:21.040
<v Speaker 1>was you would love it's her and Rose Byrne Rose,

0:26:21.400 --> 0:26:25.000
<v Speaker 1>and I actually think it love Roseberd. Yeah. And it's

0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:30.200
<v Speaker 1>literally just like a procedural well barely procedural. Actually it's

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 1>it's not procedural. Actually, it's it's a a true, a

0:26:33.320 --> 0:26:37.720
<v Speaker 1>true like linear narrative about like this law firm that's

0:26:37.720 --> 0:26:40.639
<v Speaker 1>obviously you know at corrupt and murderous, and um, I

0:26:40.680 --> 0:26:42.239
<v Speaker 1>loved it. It It reminded me of how I felt when

0:26:42.280 --> 0:26:47.640
<v Speaker 1>I watched Scandal, but it's like maybe better written than Scandal, um,

0:26:47.680 --> 0:26:50.920
<v Speaker 1>at least the first season. I also loved Fatal Attraction.

0:26:51.080 --> 0:26:54.200
<v Speaker 1>Our Fatal Attraction episode was so fun to talk about

0:26:54.320 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 1>when we when we did it with Obsessed, and like,

0:26:56.680 --> 0:26:58.879
<v Speaker 1>that was a movie that, like, I could not stop

0:26:58.920 --> 0:27:01.240
<v Speaker 1>thinking about after I finished. Tell you, I'm the same

0:27:01.280 --> 0:27:04.399
<v Speaker 1>for me with Obsessed. That is one of my oldies

0:27:04.480 --> 0:27:07.639
<v Speaker 1>but goodies. And I was reminded of it recently because

0:27:07.680 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 1>Obsessed is a Christmas movie. It is there's a Christmas party.

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:14.360
<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll watch it this week. Yeah, twice in one year.

0:27:14.960 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah tis the season. Um, did you did you buy

0:27:18.800 --> 0:27:21.679
<v Speaker 1>anything that you really liked this year? Like? Did I

0:27:21.760 --> 0:27:27.040
<v Speaker 1>buy anything? Girl? And anyone who listens to this podcast

0:27:27.119 --> 0:27:33.240
<v Speaker 1>knows this is a podcast about consumerism and capitalism. This

0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 1>is a podcast about consumption. This is this is a

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:40.680
<v Speaker 1>story about control, right, Yeah, but it's some critique. Obviously,

0:27:40.680 --> 0:27:43.560
<v Speaker 1>we're doing it knowingly, you know, we're we're we're we're

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 1>very in on the joke about how we're corrupt capitalist.

0:27:48.800 --> 0:27:51.639
<v Speaker 1>I should I go now and see how many essence

0:27:51.760 --> 0:27:55.679
<v Speaker 1>orders I made this year or sick No, because a

0:27:55.680 --> 0:27:57.159
<v Speaker 1>lot of the things, the things that we buy on

0:27:57.280 --> 0:28:00.480
<v Speaker 1>essence aren't even best buys. They're not And that, honestly

0:28:01.000 --> 0:28:03.359
<v Speaker 1>is a lesson I should learn. Is because nothing I

0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:05.640
<v Speaker 1>bought on essence this year ended up in my best

0:28:05.680 --> 0:28:09.359
<v Speaker 1>buies of the year. Um, but some things that did

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:13.560
<v Speaker 1>are so recently I have been you know, radicalized as

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:17.640
<v Speaker 1>a as a second hand buyer, as like a thrifty

0:28:17.880 --> 0:28:22.560
<v Speaker 1>vintagy girl. And so I bought a bag recently because

0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:24.760
<v Speaker 1>of TikTok, because I saw someone on TikTok wearing it

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:27.560
<v Speaker 1>and it has become kind of my go to everyday bag.

0:28:27.680 --> 0:28:32.040
<v Speaker 1>It's um, the Coach ergo bag, I think. I mean,

0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:35.240
<v Speaker 1>just like any vintage Coach is really good because Coach

0:28:35.320 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 1>leather is amazing. There. The way that their bags are

0:28:38.720 --> 0:28:43.480
<v Speaker 1>made just like really you know, withstand the test of

0:28:43.560 --> 0:28:46.520
<v Speaker 1>time and it's a great shape. It's sort of like

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 1>a hobo bag. Mine is brown, and like, even though

0:28:49.800 --> 0:28:52.520
<v Speaker 1>I wear a lot of black, I also like to

0:28:52.560 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 1>throw brown into the mix. And it's just like a

0:28:55.440 --> 0:29:00.560
<v Speaker 1>great staple. Um. I will say a not another non

0:29:00.600 --> 0:29:03.720
<v Speaker 1>beauty thing that I bought this year, very recently that

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I really love is my air fryer. I was so

0:29:08.160 --> 0:29:10.480
<v Speaker 1>opposed to it. I was like, I'm not going to

0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:13.800
<v Speaker 1>be one of those bitches like cooking everything in an

0:29:13.840 --> 0:29:17.720
<v Speaker 1>air fire. Girl. It is the best fucking thing because

0:29:17.720 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 1>it means I never have to use my oven like

0:29:21.320 --> 0:29:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I can just anything I need to cook. I just

0:29:23.560 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 1>pop in that little bitch that you can see right

0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:28.360
<v Speaker 1>there on top of my fridge. It's the best I've

0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:31.160
<v Speaker 1>been making, you know. I bought a package of those

0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 1>pre made tall House cookies. Every night when I'm like

0:29:34.960 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 1>watching TV, I pop four of them in the air fire.

0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 1>They're done in like six minutes. It's amazing, so nice.

0:29:42.560 --> 0:29:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I I love. I love a life hack like that,

0:29:45.200 --> 0:29:48.040
<v Speaker 1>A little life hack on me. Got um. The thing,

0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 1>the beauty product that I love that I now wear

0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 1>like most days is UM. There's this brand called Dear

0:29:54.040 --> 0:29:58.520
<v Speaker 1>Do d d I e U x Um. They have

0:29:58.600 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 1>this moisture so called moisture eis are called instant Angel Cream.

0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:06.920
<v Speaker 1>I had found like almost every component of my skincare routine,

0:30:07.560 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, for a time except for moisturizer. Moisturizer was

0:30:12.280 --> 0:30:14.280
<v Speaker 1>the thing where I was like, I'm still figuring out

0:30:14.320 --> 0:30:16.800
<v Speaker 1>what I like, and I love this instant angel cream

0:30:16.840 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 1>and scare. Okay, so I have used it as well.

0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I bought a tube of it a couple of months ago.

0:30:22.840 --> 0:30:26.480
<v Speaker 1>I like it, but okay, what is it? What is

0:30:26.480 --> 0:30:28.719
<v Speaker 1>it that it's doing for you? Because I kind of

0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:32.560
<v Speaker 1>because I couldn't kind of find it, like right, it's fine,

0:30:32.640 --> 0:30:34.800
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of fine. It's for me. It's like not

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:37.840
<v Speaker 1>too thick, not too thin. It gives me a dewy

0:30:37.840 --> 0:30:40.360
<v Speaker 1>glow that I like, but it's not overt. It just

0:30:40.400 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>like helps it like makes me feel refreshed. And yeah,

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 1>it just kind of checks all the boxes because what

0:30:47.200 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I was finding is when I was like doing like

0:30:49.320 --> 0:30:51.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, tad to Harper moisturizer, like all these other things,

0:30:51.680 --> 0:30:55.320
<v Speaker 1>it's like it either had too much shine, or it

0:30:55.400 --> 0:30:58.120
<v Speaker 1>was too thick, or it was too thin, or it's

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like very goldilocks and very civic to like what I

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:04.160
<v Speaker 1>want autam moisturizer, And I think the same can be

0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:07.880
<v Speaker 1>said for like others. Yeah, no, I actually I actually

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 1>think you're right. I think that's like when I used it.

0:31:11.520 --> 0:31:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that when I was done with the tube,

0:31:15.760 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 1>what I was waiting for was this moment where I

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:24.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, this really improved my skin or like whatever.

0:31:24.600 --> 0:31:27.920
<v Speaker 1>And in fact, actually what I should have been thinking

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:30.920
<v Speaker 1>was like this. For a month, I did not have

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 1>to think about the kind of moisturizer I was using.

0:31:33.840 --> 0:31:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I just used a pretty good moisturizer morning and night.

0:31:38.040 --> 0:31:41.680
<v Speaker 1>And like you might you actually might have turned me

0:31:41.720 --> 0:31:44.720
<v Speaker 1>back around. I might, I might buy another tube. The

0:31:44.800 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 1>key is just to combine it with like a vitamin

0:31:47.240 --> 0:31:50.960
<v Speaker 1>C treatment, right, Like, I think that's like what That's

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 1>the thing that I think helped me like just incorporated

0:31:54.000 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 1>into my daily routine. The only other moisturizer that's even

0:31:57.160 --> 0:32:00.120
<v Speaker 1>come close is the doctor chart one that comes and

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:02.840
<v Speaker 1>like a yellow tube that like is like you know,

0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:06.120
<v Speaker 1>I think, not not as good as interesting. I'm I'm

0:32:06.120 --> 0:32:10.040
<v Speaker 1>currently off vitamin C. I've stopped using it. I love that.

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm off vitamin C these yet that's so l A.

0:32:12.560 --> 0:32:14.160
<v Speaker 1>You can take the girl out of l A. But

0:32:15.040 --> 0:32:18.000
<v Speaker 1>um on the subject of skincare, I did. I did

0:32:18.040 --> 0:32:22.160
<v Speaker 1>discover a facewash that I loved this year. Um, So

0:32:22.320 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 1>if you if you are anyone who's in the market

0:32:24.920 --> 0:32:28.800
<v Speaker 1>for one. It's the karez Um Greek yogurt facewash. It's

0:32:28.800 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 1>a really good, Yes, it's a really good foaming facial cleanser.

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:38.560
<v Speaker 1>And foaming cleansers are great, um if you have clogged pores.

0:32:39.200 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 1>And I use it. My routine is I I double cleans,

0:32:42.800 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 1>I do an oil cleanser and and like a cream cleanser.

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 1>And that is just like the kind of the same

0:32:50.320 --> 0:32:53.560
<v Speaker 1>with the do It's just like, no nonsense. It does

0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:55.440
<v Speaker 1>what it's supposed to do. Don't really have to think

0:32:55.440 --> 0:33:00.600
<v Speaker 1>about it. Yogurt is an underappreciated sentence ever as well.

0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 1>One one time it doesn't taste or smell like yogurt.

0:33:04.200 --> 0:33:06.880
<v Speaker 1>It just kind of like is the consistency of yogurt.

0:33:07.440 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 1>It's yogurt consistent. And I think maybe they use yogurt

0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:14.959
<v Speaker 1>yogurt in no formula. I don't know. I can't really

0:33:15.040 --> 0:33:18.320
<v Speaker 1>that sounds crazy, isn't it, Like wouldn't it clogg My course,

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't no, girl, but I don't know.

0:33:36.960 --> 0:33:38.360
<v Speaker 1>So Rose and I were trying to think of like

0:33:38.440 --> 0:33:40.800
<v Speaker 1>fun categors for like our best of and I wrote

0:33:40.800 --> 0:33:45.280
<v Speaker 1>down best substance, primarily because I tried you know, microdicing

0:33:45.280 --> 0:33:48.600
<v Speaker 1>psilocybin this year, which is like you know, mushrooms essentially,

0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:52.720
<v Speaker 1>and it really worked as a holdover before I got

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:58.440
<v Speaker 1>onto Lexi pro, which obviously works better. But but like I,

0:33:58.440 --> 0:34:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I do recommend it, said at work, Sila psilocybin, Alexa

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:07.880
<v Speaker 1>pro No no, no, psilocybin, psilocybin. Yeah, I I saw

0:34:08.040 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 1>an actual noticeable difference. It's just like extremely subtle, extremely subtle,

0:34:13.160 --> 0:34:16.480
<v Speaker 1>and it's something that you only notice over the course

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 1>of taking it for like about a week or so,

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:21.360
<v Speaker 1>where you're like, oh, like my brain is like a

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>little different. And and I don't know, I think i'd

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:26.360
<v Speaker 1>be curious at anybody that has like tried it or

0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:29.640
<v Speaker 1>read about or watch a documentary about like mushrooms and stuff.

0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:32.360
<v Speaker 1>I think that, like, I don't know, I'm it's a

0:34:32.520 --> 0:34:35.200
<v Speaker 1>very new science and so I'm always interested in it.

0:34:35.280 --> 0:34:40.200
<v Speaker 1>But I also rose I had never done sialist before

0:34:40.239 --> 0:34:44.720
<v Speaker 1>this year. Sialists, Yell, how do you pronounce it? Viagra

0:34:45.960 --> 0:34:49.279
<v Speaker 1>generic via Va, generic Viagra. I had never needed it,

0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 1>but now I'm on like so many kind of bonus

0:34:51.160 --> 0:34:57.120
<v Speaker 1>stomping pills. But do you have a hard time maintaining interaction.

0:34:57.640 --> 0:35:01.200
<v Speaker 1>I've never in my life how a hard time getting

0:35:01.239 --> 0:35:05.760
<v Speaker 1>an erection ever, And now as of this year, because

0:35:05.840 --> 0:35:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm on I'm like they all deter my libido. And

0:35:14.440 --> 0:35:17.239
<v Speaker 1>I had multiple sexual encounters this summer where I was like,

0:35:17.320 --> 0:35:19.839
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I can't get it up and I've

0:35:19.920 --> 0:35:23.479
<v Speaker 1>never had this problem before, and um, this last week,

0:35:23.520 --> 0:35:28.360
<v Speaker 1>I I didn't have a problem because because of this

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:33.200
<v Speaker 1>magic drug that everybody talks about you that is kind

0:35:33.200 --> 0:35:36.040
<v Speaker 1>of garbage. Um, did you have a substance of the year, Rose,

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I guess I would say melotonin because I am like,

0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:45.120
<v Speaker 1>as I said already this episode didn't have talked about before.

0:35:45.200 --> 0:35:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I have a lifelong struggle with insomnia, and I definitely

0:35:50.200 --> 0:35:52.200
<v Speaker 1>over the past couple of years have had like a

0:35:52.239 --> 0:35:58.839
<v Speaker 1>bit of um a dependence on um ambien and other

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:03.960
<v Speaker 1>like prescripture sleep aids and have really been trying over

0:36:04.000 --> 0:36:08.279
<v Speaker 1>the past like six months maybe to wean myself off

0:36:08.320 --> 0:36:12.600
<v Speaker 1>of them. In Melitonin has been helpful in that it's

0:36:12.680 --> 0:36:15.839
<v Speaker 1>not fool proof, and like, of course I would love

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>to get to a point where I don't need anything

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 1>to get to sleep, but I just don't unfortunately, think

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 1>that's in the cards for me. I think this is

0:36:24.400 --> 0:36:26.960
<v Speaker 1>something that I will be dealing with for the rest

0:36:27.040 --> 0:36:29.520
<v Speaker 1>of my life, and so I would at least prefer

0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:33.120
<v Speaker 1>to do something to use something that my body naturally

0:36:33.320 --> 0:36:36.920
<v Speaker 1>produces um rather than you know, like a chemical that

0:36:37.040 --> 0:36:43.479
<v Speaker 1>is like tranquilizing me. Right, Yeah, always not ideal. Um.

0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:46.400
<v Speaker 1>I wait, while we're on the top of the topic

0:36:46.400 --> 0:36:50.000
<v Speaker 1>of substance, actually, um Phoebe. Phoebe gave us some some

0:36:50.239 --> 0:36:52.560
<v Speaker 1>category ideas, and one of the ones she came up

0:36:52.560 --> 0:36:55.600
<v Speaker 1>with was best moment when you made a deal with God.

0:36:56.000 --> 0:37:00.359
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like I saw God when I was

0:37:00.440 --> 0:37:02.520
<v Speaker 1>in that cahole on Fire Island. But did you make

0:37:02.560 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 1>a deal with God when you were in that because

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't sound because if you did, I don't know

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:11.080
<v Speaker 1>if you made a good deal, because you you you

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:16.359
<v Speaker 1>were in that moment, I was your God. You you

0:37:16.400 --> 0:37:19.560
<v Speaker 1>mistake me. I made the deal in the like I

0:37:19.600 --> 0:37:22.920
<v Speaker 1>was holding on for dear life. I had a moment

0:37:22.920 --> 0:37:25.799
<v Speaker 1>of clarity where I was like, I am going to die.

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:28.600
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was going to die, and I actually

0:37:29.000 --> 0:37:33.879
<v Speaker 1>have never had a near death experience quite like that,

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:37.600
<v Speaker 1>and I did. I was just like God, please find

0:37:37.640 --> 0:37:42.640
<v Speaker 1>me and I and there she was. I also had

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:44.800
<v Speaker 1>a moment where I made a deal with God similarly,

0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:46.440
<v Speaker 1>when I thought I was going to die, and it

0:37:46.480 --> 0:37:51.239
<v Speaker 1>was when I finally got COVID in October. I woke

0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 1>up one morning and couldn't breathe because my nose was

0:37:56.200 --> 0:37:58.759
<v Speaker 1>so congested that I couldn't breathe through it, and my

0:37:58.960 --> 0:38:01.399
<v Speaker 1>throat was so swollen, and that I couldn't breathe through

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:04.920
<v Speaker 1>my mouth. And I really I woke up choking and

0:38:05.000 --> 0:38:06.920
<v Speaker 1>thought I was going to die. And in that moment

0:38:07.480 --> 0:38:12.000
<v Speaker 1>I made a deal with God. Um and and actually

0:38:12.080 --> 0:38:18.560
<v Speaker 1>the deal was um getting on Pakslovid. And the deal

0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:21.560
<v Speaker 1>that was my favorite substance of the year was pak

0:38:21.600 --> 0:38:25.080
<v Speaker 1>slovin Banks Alvin. The deal was, Dear God, please let

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:27.360
<v Speaker 1>me live, and I promise I will not change anything

0:38:27.440 --> 0:38:29.560
<v Speaker 1>about my life, our behavior, as I will stay the

0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:36.960
<v Speaker 1>same exactly. UM. Did you have uh favorite favorite TV

0:38:37.080 --> 0:38:41.000
<v Speaker 1>from this year? Obviously, as anyone who listens to this

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:44.719
<v Speaker 1>podcast knows, we talked about Interview, Interview the Vampire. We

0:38:44.800 --> 0:38:49.000
<v Speaker 1>talked about Yes, I I think Interview with the Vampire

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 1>was my my favorite show of the year. Um, We've

0:38:53.880 --> 0:38:56.840
<v Speaker 1>we've talked about. We loved House of the Dragon, we

0:38:56.920 --> 0:39:01.759
<v Speaker 1>loved Severance, I loved the guilded Aid, we loved the dropout,

0:39:01.800 --> 0:39:04.960
<v Speaker 1>and we also loved and we didn't talk about it

0:39:05.080 --> 0:39:07.799
<v Speaker 1>last week after the news came. Yeah, we didn't. F

0:39:07.920 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Boy Island Rest in peace. I will never forgive you

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:15.160
<v Speaker 1>HBO Max for taking it away from us. I truly

0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:19.560
<v Speaker 1>want to go to the like Warner Building and protest

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:23.240
<v Speaker 1>it is not right, it's not okay, it's not fair.

0:39:23.560 --> 0:39:29.719
<v Speaker 1>I truly like would start an insurrection over it. To that.

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:32.560
<v Speaker 1>I I completely agree. It's like one of the greatest

0:39:32.600 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 1>reality TV shows that you and I have ever watched,

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<v Speaker 1>A competition reality series that is like should be a standard. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, I have no I mean, obviously we know

0:39:42.520 --> 0:39:44.000
<v Speaker 1>that there's like a lot of fund up things going

0:39:44.040 --> 0:39:46.279
<v Speaker 1>on at Order Media right now, and that's why this

0:39:46.360 --> 0:39:49.880
<v Speaker 1>is getting canceled. Legendary was definitely It's, as I've already

0:39:49.880 --> 0:39:51.600
<v Speaker 1>said in the show, one of my favorite TV shows

0:39:51.600 --> 0:39:53.680
<v Speaker 1>of all time, was one of my favorite shows that

0:39:53.719 --> 0:39:56.800
<v Speaker 1>I watched this year. It was canceled at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck that, Um, fuck HBO Max. Sorry, I mean you

0:40:01.719 --> 0:40:03.799
<v Speaker 1>are micro. I love you HBO Max, but like why

0:40:03.880 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 1>did you need to bring these You need to bring

0:40:05.480 --> 0:40:08.879
<v Speaker 1>these girls backs, like come on, like legendary, like they're

0:40:08.920 --> 0:40:15.040
<v Speaker 1>just needs to be more shows like that. Um and whatever. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>I will, okay, I want to give out a special

0:40:17.560 --> 0:40:22.439
<v Speaker 1>a special honor um this. I've created an award, um

0:40:23.600 --> 0:40:27.360
<v Speaker 1>and it's it's the Azalea Banks Icon Award for the

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<v Speaker 1>for longest Voice Notes, the inaugural Azalia Banks Icon just

0:40:34.600 --> 0:40:36.799
<v Speaker 1>because you know, Azalie Banks is a is a big

0:40:36.840 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 1>fan of talking for a vailent time over multiple Instagram

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:44.000
<v Speaker 1>stories and so I feel like she would um no,

0:40:44.160 --> 0:40:46.160
<v Speaker 1>she would hate us. Well she I mean she actually

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:50.279
<v Speaker 1>has like come for me on Twitter before. Um. But um,

0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:53.680
<v Speaker 1>in her honor, I'm awarding this award, this icon award

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:57.480
<v Speaker 1>to you, frand because you frequently sent me voice notes

0:40:57.560 --> 0:41:02.040
<v Speaker 1>that are um like a minute forty seconds or like

0:41:02.120 --> 0:41:04.839
<v Speaker 1>two minutes and seven seconds, or you'll send You'll send

0:41:04.920 --> 0:41:08.719
<v Speaker 1>like like three two minute long voice notes in a row.

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:11.960
<v Speaker 1>I will. I will do that, So maybe not three,

0:41:12.080 --> 0:41:17.000
<v Speaker 1>but probably at least three three to see I would

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<v Speaker 1>I see. The thing is if I asked you to

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<v Speaker 1>to to describe anything that happened in any of the

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:23.799
<v Speaker 1>voice memos. I'm not sure we would be able to

0:41:23.840 --> 0:41:26.640
<v Speaker 1>decipher which one, but I but I know I have

0:41:26.760 --> 0:41:30.360
<v Speaker 1>received them. One thing is for sure is I have

0:41:30.480 --> 0:41:32.920
<v Speaker 1>received them. Um. The only one I can think of

0:41:33.320 --> 0:41:35.680
<v Speaker 1>right now is the one where that I send you

0:41:35.719 --> 0:41:39.160
<v Speaker 1>after listening to the Thiebe Bridges song that's on the news.

0:41:39.239 --> 0:41:41.920
<v Speaker 1>Is the album where I was like a little stone

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:45.600
<v Speaker 1>and like describing a spiritual experience I had for Rose

0:41:45.680 --> 0:41:49.359
<v Speaker 1>at like what was her time three o'clock in the morning. Um.

0:41:49.400 --> 0:41:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I love sending voice memos and honestly, the virgins at

0:41:51.960 --> 0:41:53.560
<v Speaker 1>home are going to be hearing this and they're gonna

0:41:53.600 --> 0:41:56.320
<v Speaker 1>be like three minutes. That's nothing, because when you're queer,

0:41:56.440 --> 0:41:59.920
<v Speaker 1>the girls send eight minute voice memos. I'm glad I

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:02.400
<v Speaker 1>not that girl, but like queers be doing that. I

0:42:02.440 --> 0:42:05.520
<v Speaker 1>think what the cadence should be is like lots of

0:42:05.920 --> 0:42:09.680
<v Speaker 1>short little voice notes back and forth. I like lots

0:42:09.680 --> 0:42:12.319
<v Speaker 1>of short little ones as well. But I but I

0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:14.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's hard to get in. It's hard to

0:42:14.400 --> 0:42:17.799
<v Speaker 1>establish a back and forth with someone because you never

0:42:17.840 --> 0:42:20.360
<v Speaker 1>know if they're available or like you know, you just

0:42:20.400 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 1>like send it in. See because when it's two minutes,

0:42:22.680 --> 0:42:26.040
<v Speaker 1>you're basically leaving a voicemail. Yeah, I mean that's that

0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:28.200
<v Speaker 1>is what it is. Like, we don't do voicemails anymore.

0:42:28.239 --> 0:42:31.520
<v Speaker 1>We do voice memos, which yes, okay. So Phoebe also

0:42:31.920 --> 0:42:35.359
<v Speaker 1>asked our guiltiest pleasure of the year. I mean we've

0:42:35.400 --> 0:42:38.080
<v Speaker 1>already established we're not. We don't feel guilty about the

0:42:38.080 --> 0:42:41.040
<v Speaker 1>things that we find pleasurable, right, which I love. I

0:42:41.080 --> 0:42:44.240
<v Speaker 1>think it's like it's a kind of it's a pillar

0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:46.280
<v Speaker 1>of this show, is that we do not feel guilt

0:42:46.320 --> 0:42:49.560
<v Speaker 1>about our pleasures. But like if I were to, I

0:42:49.600 --> 0:42:54.360
<v Speaker 1>mean like aside essence sales, aside I do. My car

0:42:54.600 --> 0:43:00.160
<v Speaker 1>is like, uh a large expense that I cannot afford um,

0:43:00.200 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 1>And yet it's the first car and only car I've

0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:05.759
<v Speaker 1>ever owned, slash might be the only car I own

0:43:05.880 --> 0:43:08.200
<v Speaker 1>for a very long time, and I'm not going to

0:43:08.320 --> 0:43:09.959
<v Speaker 1>have it in a few more months when I moved

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:13.080
<v Speaker 1>back to New York. And so I've been like really

0:43:13.120 --> 0:43:17.959
<v Speaker 1>really enjoying what is a kind of costly, monthly um thing.

0:43:18.200 --> 0:43:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I have a similarly vehicular, somewhat guilty pleasure. Or I

0:43:22.640 --> 0:43:26.160
<v Speaker 1>guess if we're calling for saying an indulgence. Now that

0:43:26.200 --> 0:43:28.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm back in New York City, I'm taking a lot

0:43:28.920 --> 0:43:34.800
<v Speaker 1>of cabs. I am I the girl. After I puked

0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:37.560
<v Speaker 1>my brains up yesterday morning before my hair appointment, you

0:43:37.640 --> 0:43:40.759
<v Speaker 1>better believe I was not taking the train to get

0:43:40.800 --> 0:43:46.800
<v Speaker 1>to the salon. Oh yeah, or um. I did take

0:43:46.880 --> 0:43:49.400
<v Speaker 1>a taxi one night. I was at my brother's on

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:52.400
<v Speaker 1>the Upper west Side and I took a cab to

0:43:52.520 --> 0:43:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Brooklyn from the Upper west Side. I did take it

0:43:55.000 --> 0:43:57.399
<v Speaker 1>with his friend who was also there, who also lived

0:43:57.400 --> 0:44:00.160
<v Speaker 1>in Clinton Hill, so like we put together and split it. Oh.

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:03.680
<v Speaker 1>But I also on Thanksgiving I got to ride home

0:44:03.719 --> 0:44:09.280
<v Speaker 1>from Connecticut with some extended family members who also live uptown,

0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:12.400
<v Speaker 1>and I took a taxi from the Upper west Side

0:44:12.680 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 1>to Brooklyn. But it also meant that on Thanksgiving night,

0:44:17.120 --> 0:44:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I was home by ten thirty watching Gilmore Girls. So

0:44:20.920 --> 0:44:24.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't regret it at all. I honestly the money

0:44:24.160 --> 0:44:26.960
<v Speaker 1>is worth it, Like it's worth it to me to

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:28.520
<v Speaker 1>not have to sit on the subway for an hour.

0:44:29.480 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 1>Look time as money, time is money. I would say

0:44:32.760 --> 0:44:36.239
<v Speaker 1>that is the thing that I most frequently spend money on,

0:44:36.480 --> 0:44:41.479
<v Speaker 1>is like comfort and time. Yeah, those are the things too.

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:43.399
<v Speaker 1>And I, you know, I set time as money kind

0:44:43.400 --> 0:44:46.279
<v Speaker 1>of like facetiously like I I it's actually like less

0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:49.640
<v Speaker 1>time as money and more that like time is more

0:44:49.760 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 1>valuable than money. Time is the most precious resource we have.

0:44:54.520 --> 0:44:57.360
<v Speaker 1>And I will do anything to have more of my

0:44:57.440 --> 0:44:59.759
<v Speaker 1>life back. And if I have to pay for that

0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:04.080
<v Speaker 1>time time, then I will. Um and there we go? Uh?

0:45:04.480 --> 0:45:07.080
<v Speaker 1>Did there is there? Uh? Did you have like the

0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:09.799
<v Speaker 1>best porn? I don't know if I have the best porn. Um.

0:45:09.960 --> 0:45:12.439
<v Speaker 1>I guess my best porn would be that the one

0:45:12.880 --> 0:45:18.120
<v Speaker 1>that I watched with Tarzan and Milo from Wait wait, wait,

0:45:18.160 --> 0:45:20.720
<v Speaker 1>wait did you see that there's been a new drop

0:45:21.080 --> 0:45:24.160
<v Speaker 1>of Aladdin having sex with Wait? Who was it? Let

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:25.600
<v Speaker 1>me call it my I need to know because it's

0:45:25.640 --> 0:45:28.759
<v Speaker 1>actually it really hit our spots and also like all

0:45:28.840 --> 0:45:31.520
<v Speaker 1>the trans lesbian cent our porn that we sent each other,

0:45:31.560 --> 0:45:34.239
<v Speaker 1>but like not not you know, as as something I

0:45:34.280 --> 0:45:38.320
<v Speaker 1>actually pleasured myself too. Oh wait is this the print?

0:45:38.400 --> 0:45:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's some that's the guy from Tangled. Tangled? Okay,

0:45:41.760 --> 0:45:44.759
<v Speaker 1>it's the guy from Tangled having sex with Aladdin. Okay,

0:45:44.760 --> 0:45:47.040
<v Speaker 1>will you text that to me please? I will not.

0:45:47.160 --> 0:45:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I will not on a professional level. I can't sorry,

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:54.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm girl. Um that actually is a is a great

0:45:54.280 --> 0:45:56.440
<v Speaker 1>addition to the best porn of the year, what's your

0:45:56.440 --> 0:46:00.600
<v Speaker 1>favorite porn of the year. Honestly, it's it's less favorite

0:46:00.600 --> 0:46:03.520
<v Speaker 1>porn of the year and more like favorite porn actor

0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:07.280
<v Speaker 1>is Sharrock. So it feels kind of basic because Sharrock

0:46:07.440 --> 0:46:10.959
<v Speaker 1>is like everybody's favorite porn actor. But like Sharrock has

0:46:11.080 --> 0:46:15.480
<v Speaker 1>really like he checks all of my boxes and I

0:46:15.520 --> 0:46:18.239
<v Speaker 1>do return to like a lot of his like videos,

0:46:18.640 --> 0:46:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and he has the like dominant rough top thing while

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:27.400
<v Speaker 1>also being really kissy and really tender and really soft

0:46:27.440 --> 0:46:29.640
<v Speaker 1>that I just don't really see with a lot of

0:46:29.640 --> 0:46:32.640
<v Speaker 1>other porn um. And on top of that, he in

0:46:32.680 --> 0:46:35.560
<v Speaker 1>the middle of the crisis that's happening in Iran right now,

0:46:35.600 --> 0:46:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Like Sharrock's Instagram is almost exclusively like sharing and re

0:46:42.080 --> 0:46:45.040
<v Speaker 1>sharing and amplifying information about what's happening in Iran, and

0:46:45.120 --> 0:46:48.200
<v Speaker 1>like you just don't see people in the industry doing that.

0:46:48.280 --> 0:46:52.440
<v Speaker 1>Like he's literally killing his own algorithm and and shadow

0:46:52.520 --> 0:46:56.760
<v Speaker 1>banning himself because he wants to like protect and amplify

0:46:56.880 --> 0:46:58.719
<v Speaker 1>the things that are going on in his country, and

0:46:58.760 --> 0:47:01.640
<v Speaker 1>like that is like sick as fuck. And the porn

0:47:01.640 --> 0:47:05.000
<v Speaker 1>actors that I do love are the ones whose personalities

0:47:05.080 --> 0:47:07.359
<v Speaker 1>I I fall in love with online and the things

0:47:07.360 --> 0:47:12.719
<v Speaker 1>that they stand for are always amazing. So well, it

0:47:13.320 --> 0:47:16.600
<v Speaker 1>truly has been a year, and you know, big thank

0:47:16.680 --> 0:47:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you to all of you who listened to us talk

0:47:20.320 --> 0:47:23.440
<v Speaker 1>every week this year, who followed us on Instagram Like

0:47:23.480 --> 0:47:28.440
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0:47:28.560 --> 0:47:33.439
<v Speaker 1>love you. We hope to UM just keep making this

0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:36.160
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0:47:36.200 --> 0:47:40.359
<v Speaker 1>listen to it, UM, and we hope that maybe Like

0:47:40.440 --> 0:47:43.480
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0:47:43.960 --> 0:47:55.200
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0:47:55.280 --> 0:47:59.080
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0:48:08.000 --> 0:48:13.160
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