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Speaker 1: I just found out my boyfriend is married and now

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Speaker 1: I'm pregnant.

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to ruin.

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Speaker 1: His life a little tit for tat Hey, that's what

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Speaker 1: we need more in this world. Tits. So I know

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Speaker 1: how the title sounds, but hear me out. I twenty

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Speaker 1: six female, started dating mine now boyfriend, thirty five male.

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Speaker 1: We have been dating four seven months. A month ago,

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Speaker 1: he told me that he had to talk to me

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Speaker 1: about something important. I honestly thought maybe he wanted to

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Speaker 1: much worse.

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Speaker 2: It always is.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend sat me down and said that there was

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Speaker 1: a problem, the problem being he's falling in love with me.

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Speaker 1: When he said that, I was so confused. I didn't

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Speaker 1: understand what the problem was. We don't understand either. I

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Speaker 1: asked him why that was a problem, and that's when

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Speaker 1: he told me that he's actually married and has been divorced.

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Speaker 1: I wonder why, and that he lied about his age.

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Speaker 1: He's actually forty two seven years older. That's oldest.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you want a date a forty two h right now?

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Speaker 1: I mean, uh h. I sat there shot. I didn't

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Speaker 1: know what to say. When I finally came out of

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Speaker 1: the shock. I grabbed my stuff and told them never

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Speaker 1: call or text me ever again. Get out, take your

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Speaker 1: walker with you. He tried, saying what most cheaters do,

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Speaker 1: that I was different. His wife and him hadn't been

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Speaker 1: happy in a really long time, and it was considering.

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Speaker 2: Divorce, considering divorce. Ain't divorce, is it? Though?

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Speaker 3: Why don't you consider it before you engage in the relationship.

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Speaker 1: I still grabbed my stuff and left, and I didn't

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Speaker 2: There we go, and for you all, you got some standards.

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Speaker 2: Go off, queen.

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Speaker 1: The problem came about two weeks ago. My period was

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Speaker 1: two months late. Two months also, like ladies, I would

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Speaker 1: love to know when do you get worried about when

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Speaker 1: your lateness is? I wasn't worried because I am extremely irregular, okay,

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Speaker 1: But after being late for a second month, I decided

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Speaker 1: to take a EPT, which is an emergency pregnancy test,

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Speaker 1: and it was positive.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I thought maybe it was a false positive, and took

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Speaker 1: six more tests. Damn, that's bro. Pregnancy tests are like

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks. Run it back and they were all positive.

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Speaker 1: Don't ask me why I know the pregnancy test are

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks. I was so upset. I cried out of

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Speaker 1: I called my now ex boyfriend and he didn't respond.

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Speaker 1: I texted him, telling him we need to talk, and

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Speaker 2: What happened all the stop it?

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Speaker 1: I was livid? How dare he? I wasn't the one

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Speaker 1: Mother's Day. Happy Mother's Day. My family and I went

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Speaker 1: As I was walking to the bathroom, I saw my lying,

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Speaker 1: Something good in the kitchen. I was so hurt and

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Speaker 1: I went to their table. Oh no, I've introduced myself.

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Speaker 1: I told everyone at the table what happened from start

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Speaker 2: I love it, yo.

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Speaker 1: I hope he's rich, and I hope the child support

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Speaker 1: I then looked over at his wife all and she

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Speaker 1: And there is an update? John, there is an update,

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Speaker 1: But please tell me in the comments would you have

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Speaker 1: Would you even have thought to do that? Because that

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I would have done that, but

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Speaker 1: But honestly, like if you could also think about it,

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Speaker 2: The husband?

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Speaker 1: The husband, this happened, Yeah, exactly, exactly, Okay, So his

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Speaker 1: let me know she filed for divorce. She had enough

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Speaker 1: When I saw him, she apologized to me for everything

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Speaker 1: he did. This woman is a freaking sayan deserves better.

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Speaker 1: We cried about everything we've been through and comforted each

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Speaker 1: especially after his wife filed for divorce. When it comes

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Speaker 1: a lot of thinking, I have decided to keep my baby. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: it's been a very difficult time. I know everything happens

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Speaker 1: so I partially blame myself. Don't do that, Opie, Yeah no,

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Speaker 1: the advice and comments. Holy that was a doozy. Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Let us know what you would have done in this situation.

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Speaker 2: Please?

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Speaker 1: Would you have taken back this cheating X that is

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Speaker 1: answers in the comments John One final verdict.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do not think op is the a hole

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Speaker 3: you know, and and even more so after hearing in

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Speaker 3: which was actually great to see. So obviously obviously the

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Speaker 3: boyfriend X whatever like just clearly the ahole, so bad. Oh,

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Speaker 3: pretty much the only a hole in this whole story,

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Speaker 3: which is rare, which rare, which is rare? Only one

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Speaker 3: that's right. But you know what's not so rare, Sam

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Speaker 3: is people who publicly subscribe to us in comment on

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Speaker 3: our wonderful videos, he love you guys. This story was

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Speaker 3: he's cheating on me with his coworker. Gotta love it

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Speaker 3: at Twin Sisters seven ninety three. If he is cheating,

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Speaker 3: he is the worst cheater ever. Man does not know

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Speaker 3: how to keep a secret. He does not and from

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Speaker 3: misdirect shout out to you don't know if he's cheating

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Speaker 3: or not. But I don't like him. All his answers

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Speaker 3: are wrong. When would you have time to cheat? Rather

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Speaker 3: than of course I'm not cheating. I love you and

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Speaker 3: we have a kid together and a relationship is important

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Speaker 1: He was focusing on the logistics, like how could I

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Speaker 1: cheat on you? I know I have dinner from six

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Speaker 1: to ten? Yeah, babe, my meetings run late.

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Speaker 2: You know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah? If I could cheat on you, trust me, babe,

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Speaker 1: I one totally could.

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Speaker 3: Also the comments he made about OPI's body after she

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Speaker 3: just had a baby ick emoji. I get the feeling

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Speaker 3: ready just after the baby. Maybe she doesn't feel secure, supported,

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Speaker 3: that might be. It could be that op is feeling

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Speaker 3: paranoid over everything. This is a big change for her too,

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Speaker 3: and that there really is nothing going on. But I

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Speaker 3: really don't think how the husband is helpful and it's

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Speaker 3: definitely sus On another note, I do think that there

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Speaker 3: being a problem over him being Facebook friends with a

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Speaker 3: more issues at play than the ones just in the story.

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Speaker 1: Damn straight. Well, if you want your comment read, make

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Speaker 1: I banned my homophobic grandma from my wedding. Now she's

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Speaker 1: furious and still homophobic. Am I the asshole?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: That's always what sucks? Is like, would ban someone from

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Speaker 3: being homophobic? And gosh darn it, it's not fixed.

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Speaker 1: It's not fixed yet, bell and being a dirty homophobe.

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Speaker 3: That's right. What are you gonna do? How can I

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Speaker 3: be homophobic? My grandma's homophobic?

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Speaker 1: My grandmother. It runs in the family, right. So I'm

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Speaker 1: getting married And when I was on call with my

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Speaker 1: I was excited to have her there. I'm her oldest grandchild,

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Speaker 1: so we have a special relationship. But a few days

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Speaker 2: You gave me the option. Granny, you can't be mad

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Speaker 1: Now look at this. Look at this up yours, granny. Bam. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So now my whole family is telling me to just

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Speaker 1: granny actually, and I really want her there. My family's

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Speaker 1: what do you think is op the a hole or not.

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Speaker 2: Bro not at all. And even even if, even if.

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Speaker 3: You want to side with the homophobic grandma, which you shouldn't,

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Speaker 3: this is oh peace wedding Hello.

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Speaker 1: At the end of the day, she gets to choose

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Speaker 1: who she invites and who she doesn't. It's her declaration

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Speaker 2: That's right, That's what I say, op ahole.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so there are a couple of hooks. So I'm

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Speaker 1: Eastern European and homophobia is still very present here. That's

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Speaker 1: why the family's okay with Granny's behavior, even though they

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Speaker 1: the updates, So, as many of you suggested, I told

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Speaker 1: Thank you to everyone who believes my granny can change,

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Speaker 1: and I will keep trying with her after the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Beer beer beer beer that beer is. You know, every

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Speaker 2: once in a while we get hit with a really

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Speaker 2: stand up, a really good.

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Speaker 3: Uh, a really good mindset from op and I feel

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Speaker 3: like this is one of the better, like a really

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Speaker 3: great mindset we've come across. Don't have to deal with

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Speaker 2: Like to see reason and stop being homophobic.

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Speaker 1: Stop being homophobic. This is a PSA from Sama John. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: stop it, Hey, you you homophone. I see you, I

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Speaker 1: see you, I see your dirty little thoughts. You know,

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Speaker 1: all right? Ready, ready, Dix.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. Are you afraid.

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Speaker 1: Depending who you are? That's right, Yeah, you shouldn't be.

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Speaker 1: All right, look down, look down your genitals. Bam, those

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Speaker 2: What a heck?

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Speaker 1: Don't be afraid of your own genitals. Come on, man,

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Speaker 1: that's what I always said, the way to live. That's

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Speaker 1: not the way to do it. That's not the way.

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Speaker 1: Embrace the genitals. That's right with your mouth. You know

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Speaker 1: what else, give a little mouth to mouth.

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Speaker 2: You know what else?

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Speaker 3: We embrace sam with all parts of you know whose

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Speaker 3: genitals we always embrace almost but our public subscribers we

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Speaker 3: won't quite embrace that. Well, we'll embrace everything else about you.

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Speaker 3: We're going to read some comrad.

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Speaker 1: And sounded like you said that we embrace the.

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Speaker 2: You you are, really you are.

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Speaker 3: Really you're putting comments in my mouth and that's not

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Speaker 2: That's all. That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is trying to have ganitals in this.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, these comments not in my mouth come from

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Speaker 3: the video My wife baby trapped me, but I'm still leaving.

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Speaker 3: First comment is from public subscriber Qurte Gibson love your videos, Okop,

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Speaker 3: please don't stop making them laughing in one hundred emoji.

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Speaker 3: Do you all have a podcast format? Qurt I'm glad

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Speaker 1: Yes we do. Okay, yeah, thank you for asking. So

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Speaker 1: we are like an episode like two episodes before was

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Speaker 1: that are like twice as long as the YouTube sometimes, yes,

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Speaker 1: because we cut down the YouTube a lot more. So

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Speaker 1: if you want unfiltered raw dog by Sam and John,

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Speaker 1: then go over to the podcast because we will raw

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Speaker 1: dog your ear holes until you just can't take it anymore.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 3: We love doing that, and we also love when you

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Speaker 3: publicly subscribe and leave a comment. So share your thoughts

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Speaker 3: on this video. What would you do if you were

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Speaker 3: in op shoes and we just might read it in

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Speaker 3: the next story that we might see you, please