WEBVTT - Episode 320 | Above The Rim 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:07.920 No worry and six nine damn your fum. I'm hoping 0:00:07.960 --> 0:00:11.080 you can suck it to me, baby one more time. 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:19.560 Gellow can load it, log cant can load get. 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:24.239 Can come the windows. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:31.040 To the walls till sweat drops down my balls. Still, 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:36.840 all these bitches called, oh skate skiing, motherfucker, Oh skeep 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:42.960 skate goddamn, Oh skate skate, motherfucker, Oh skate ski god 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:46.240 damn shorty crumb, so fresh. 0:00:45.960 --> 0:00:48.880 So clean, lingering of the burp in your nose. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:51.520 It was not my burp. It was definitely not the breks. 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:56.960 I also hall ski skeet mother tall ski ski goddamn 0:00:56.960 --> 0:01:01.040 till the sweat drop down my ball, my bitch. 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:03.560 Literally to harmonize it. 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:06.640 They was homage. You wish you had love like that. 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:08.080 I do. 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:13.440 I mean, that's it's very sweet. 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:14.400 Where were you in ghetto? 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:17.120 Came out probably elementary school. 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:22.760 Elementary elementary. You're not the only one that that. That 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:24.360 is like a regional thing where you from. 0:01:24.560 --> 0:01:26.959 And I'm aware it's split where I grew up. People 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:28.600 say it too. I sometimes said. 0:01:28.360 --> 0:01:30.440 I heard somebody else from like up there. I was like, okay, 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:31.360 so that's not just baby. 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:31.480 No. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:32.920 Yeah, I'm not just people are like, oh my gosh, 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:34.920 she's so illiterate. I'm like, that's that's not it. 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:37.760 They think you're literally because yeah, they were going to 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.360 be all types of dumb bees. 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:41.920 Yeah, they called me dumb bees all the time. 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:43.039 Six nine. 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:47.640 I mean that's different, all. 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:50.160 Right, Look at teaching. 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:52.040 Been rolling. 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:54.600 We've been rolling. We've been We've been rolling since Ben 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:55.920 since Pimp Pimp. 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:57.200 Why are you dressed like Arthur? 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:58.120 Who's Arthur? 0:01:58.720 --> 0:01:59.560 Come on, Maul. 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:05.600 The artwork, Arthur, the artwork Arthur. Oh that's Arthur. Oh, 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:07.880 Arthur's fish. Oh said Arthur's fist. I don't know Arthur. 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:08.960 You gotta say author's fist. 0:02:09.800 --> 0:02:10.320 I forget. 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:13.000 Before my time, I was already outside. 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.239 Baby grew up on Arthur. Yea off the debut, MA 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:18.440 was singing crack when Arthur was skipping around the ball. 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:23.600 I was doing what selling him ratitude? You see him right? 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:27.359 This ain't black, bro, this is new Rory. We do things. 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:32.320 Arthur debuted in October ninety seven. October seventh, nineteen ninety six. 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:33.600 I was in high school. 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:37.799 Oh wow, I mean not, I'm not like not a wow, 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:38.280 Like I just. 0:02:38.280 --> 0:02:40.680 Started my sophomore year in high school. 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:44.160 I was too, Wow, I really group with Arthur. I 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:46.600 love that our listeners did too, though. 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:48.720 I wish our listened as No, I'm sure our. 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:51.920 Listeners grouped Arthur as well. But when I saw you 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.440 in the yellow, that's just the first thing I thought 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:57.000 was Arthur yellow. A nigga bagged me and Arthur yellow. 0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:58.519 So it's not like it's not a knock. 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:02.480 Take it as a knockomer, Okay, I told you everything 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:03.919 to the chin, nothing to the what's the. 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:06.080 Worst color you got bagged in? Or like the worst 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:07.160 outfit someone had on. 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:11.400 Me? Any of them? Women don't bag men, so I 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:15.880 have all stopped. I gets, Well, you think you ana, 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.359 So that's a whole that's a whole nother conversation. You're 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:23.639 very feminine, Well, yes, the girls is very feminine. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:27.079 This girl that was engaged her boyfriend lived in Spain. 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.120 This happened last weekend, was trying to pick me up. 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:30.600 I was out to dinner with a group of friends 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:31.640 and she was trying to pick me up. 0:03:31.720 --> 0:03:33.600 Oh she I thought, you said her boyfriend, And. 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:34.520 Where's she from? 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:39.640 She's from? I think she's from Spain too or something. 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:42.800 Their coach is different over but they've been engaged. They've 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:45.440 been together for ten years, recently engaged, engaged like a 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:47.880 year or two, it's at this point. But he they'll 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:49.880 do a very long dist relationship. And she was like 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:51.960 very much coming on to me. And I was like, 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:54.000 are you guys open? She was like no, and I 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:56.600 was like, oh, you're she could have lied. I was like, 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:58.240 you're clearly trying to you. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.120 Actually was her husband with her, No, he was in Spain. 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:04.280 He asked if like the way she was because we. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:05.600 Were sitting next to your tether was like a really 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:07.120 it was a nice restaurant. It was like we were 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:09.040 sitting we see at the bar. So it was me 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:11.040 and then my two friends to my right and she 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.200 was the person the chair on my left right. And 0:04:13.240 --> 0:04:14.960 she was like very much like, oh, how's your dinner? 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:16.560 What are you guys eating? Like very touchy feeling and 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:18.640 I was like, I see the ring. 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:19.520 Yeah. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:22.080 And then we got to talk and like relationship status, 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:23.880 all that ship, and she was like very open about 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:27.440 talking about him. She didn't give a ship, did you. 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:29.640 I didn't care. But I'm also I wasn't gonna no. 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:33.560 I wasn't no, no, I was just busy with my friends. 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:35.200 We were doing ship like I wasn't going to have 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:36.400 her tag along and all that. 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:39.680 Oh she wasn't hot enough. No exactly. See I know 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:41.719 you man, because that story would have went a whole 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:44.400 other way if she was your type, if she was 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:46.680 hot she was Yeah, yeah, I took her totally, took 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:48.479 back home, banged her brains out all night, and you know, 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:49.919 I mean I just had a coffee in the morning. 0:04:49.960 --> 0:04:50.320 That was it. 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:53.479 Thank your friend? Yeah, soon was like, think of me, 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:55.920 That's what you would have said soon as he was like, nah, 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:58.240 you know, I was just chilling. My friends would have 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.800 That means you wasn't attracted to her though. It's always 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.640 the ones that you in attracted to. That's crazy aggressive. 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:06.919 Oh, I gotta tell y'all about y'all boy Clay. Every 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:08.920 time I try to like be on clay side and 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:09.360 stick up. 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.520 For Clay man, that's the home he don't. Don't you 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:14.880 go and do some unstud What did Clay do? Now? 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:15.880 So I'm on TikTok. 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:19.880 You know, we follow each other because we're friends. He well, 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:23.840 I had to tag No, I know I'm joking, but 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:27.200 we follow each other. So on one of his tiktoks. 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.920 He says, you know, there's this black woman have created 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.960 this whole rhetoric that I'm colorist and have been kicking 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:35.520 my back and ever since the show, I'm not coloriss. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:35.960 The ish. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.720 The people who are complaining about colorism are just fours 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:41.839 and under. People don't want you because people are just 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:44.440 don't want you because you're ugly, not because you're color 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.560 not because they're colorists. Do you think Justine Scott complains 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:52.320 about colorism? Does Scotty Beam complain about colorism? Yes, actually 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:53.400 they do a lot. 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:56.200 Yeah, but they but they're color But what they're complaining 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:59.719 about I think Justine Scott and Scotty is probably like 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:04.000 related colorism, not that nobody thinks that they're attractive but 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:07.680 doesn't like them. Every everybody thinks Justine Scott and Scotty 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:08.400 being more attractively. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:09.640 That's not true though. 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:11.880 I think you guys think because you think that they're attractive, 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:12.720 a lot of people don't. 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:16.240 He doesn't put anybody that doesn't think Justine Scott and 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:19.040 Scotty are attractive. That's somebody I just don't need, like 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:20.080 you just don't have taste. 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:22.039 But some people. But what I'm telling you is something. 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:23.760 I'm never talking to niggas that don't got taste. How 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.080 about that. If you ain't got a certain taste level, 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:27.599 anything I say in my mouth is not for you. 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:29.400 Not fair. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:30.120 Do you want to play that. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:32.480 TikTok one. 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:34.960 I'm not trying to offend you, just that different taste level. 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.520 Like this he I was trying to stick up for 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.920 him opinion. 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:42.919 That nobody is a five minute video. 0:06:43.040 --> 0:06:46.359 Oh yeah, we're walking you take it off. I summed 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.919 it up basically. But yeah, I'm like, that's not true. 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:51.200 Scotty complains about colorism all the time. 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:52.520 But colorism as far as. 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:55.080 What just color people who are colors is period. 0:06:55.160 --> 0:06:58.000 I'm sure you don't like dark skinned darker skinned women, yes. 0:06:57.960 --> 0:06:59.560 Or that put I don't even want to say, just 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:03.600 because people have preferences whatever, People will put a higher value. 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:07.520 On light skinned women than rowner or skinned women. 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:09.479 That's colorism, that's historically true. 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.920 Yeah, so it doesn't matter how fine they are. Yes, 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:15.040 they're some of the most beautiful women in the world 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:19.240 to us, but to other people, they don't value what 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:21.880 they say or think that they overvalue what they they 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:25.040 have overvalue. They're overvaluing their self because they're not light skin. 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:26.280 That happens a lot. 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:28.720 It happens, but I mean we got to just understand 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:33.200 that certain people are just there's no saving them. Yeah, there, 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:36.840 but the ideologies, the way they think, that's just you 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:38.600 can't please everybody exactly. 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:40.760 But Clay also doesn't need to go on there and say, 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.840 if you're complaining about colorism, it's because you're ugly, like 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:47.160 people cute girls don't complain about colorism, because that's just 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:48.800 not I said, Clay, this is really bad. 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:49.400 Take this down. 0:07:51.840 --> 0:07:53.600 He gonna tell He gonna write back and say which 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:56.120 part you know? What? Which part? 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:57.720 Some people can't be saved. 0:07:58.280 --> 0:08:01.160 I mean I think you know some people because again 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:04.360 some people literally have When you say color is like 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:06.720 somebody like Clay in particularly talking about I think his 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:09.920 mind is so far not on that that if somebody 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:11.720 takes what he's saying as him being he's like, what 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:14.000 are you talking about? Like? I love all types of women, 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:16.040 I love all types of shades of women, like I 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:19.080 don't care about color. So he says something like that 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:22.080 he don't he don't understand or doesn't register I could 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:24.760 be offensive. That can still be offensive because his mind 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:26.760 is so far moved for I don't even I don't 0:08:26.800 --> 0:08:29.200 care about the complexion of a woman like I like who, 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:29.920 I like what I like. 0:08:30.040 --> 0:08:32.680 He also just didn't have call with Whenever you trying 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:33.840 to win women back, you don't. 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:36.880 Got call him ugly, well not well something that some. 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:38.880 People are ugly, but like you don't have to call 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:39.760 the women who do. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.199 I see Moll's point though, because sometimes like people say 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:45.040 stuff about me, I mean, shit about all of us, 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.800 and we'll be like, that's so far removed from what 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.400 I actually believe that that's like a ridiculous statement that 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:51.080 that wouldn't even you. 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:52.600 Know what I mean. It's like, I'm offended that you 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:55.679 even would. I'm offended that you think that's you think. 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:56.800 That I would even think that way. 0:08:56.880 --> 0:08:59.080 Yeah, it's just it's just, you know, that's the world 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:01.960 we live in. But hopefully Clay is you know, he's 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:04.120 doing fine. We gotta, we gotta, we should do a 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:05.800 thing when we call Clay and check up on them 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.719 from times. Yeah, just check up on and make sure 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:10.800 he ain't doing nothing crazy down there in the Carolinas. 0:09:11.040 --> 0:09:13.120 Speaking of the Carolina, hopefully for more than forty three 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:18.560 monkeys won't be writting any of Clay's boat lake What 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:20.439 does he got lake? Right? Boats? 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:21.800 What is going on with that? 0:09:22.640 --> 0:09:26.720 With his boats? The monkeys, monkeys, I don't know. Forty 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.080 three monkeys escape from a research facility in South Carolina 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:31.040 last night. Well, this was a couple of days ago, 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:32.959 and police are now searching for the residents have been 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.200 worn to lock all doors, and. 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:37.400 There's like I believe there's like eighteen or if not 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:40.760 a few more is still on the loose, which is 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:41.760 fucking saying. 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:43.920 They on the loosers a lot. You're not catching these monkeys. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:46.080 Those are the eighteen. Just forget about it. 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:47.280 Monkeys steal. 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:51.120 Could have stole the election. Kamala could use those votes 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:55.280 in South Carolina. Yeah, she got holes down there, she 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:56.520 got host. 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:02.200 I want to know who did those monkeys vote for? 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.920 Who do you think they vote? Why did they escape 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:07.920 from this facility? And I'm happy they escape. They probably 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:12.400 been killing these monkeys, fingering them all. Yeah, sometimes you 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.640 gotta just let the animals be animals, Let them out, man, 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:15.080 let them go. 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:16.960 Yeah, but they don't need to be just running around 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:17.959 residential areas. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.439 I guess they were on an island. It's called Morgan 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:24.679 Island and that's the where they escaped from. So a 0:10:24.760 --> 0:10:28.800 bio lab that is, yeah, on the island. Oh okay, 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:30.000 pretty interesting. 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:32.280 They probably were experiment on the monkeys. The monkey's probably 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:34.800 smarter and smart as hell, like smarter than regular monkeys. 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:36.439 What if this is just a rollout for the new 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:39.079 planet of the Apes. I feel like they put those 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:40.320 movies out every six months. 0:10:41.280 --> 0:10:42.560 They'd be busting every time though. 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:45.920 Yeah, and once they start having once they start mating, 0:10:46.280 --> 0:10:48.280 Oh yeah, it's gonna be a problem. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:50.400 Oh no, if I go in my backyard, it's little 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:51.040 monkey babies. 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:52.680 What if you just see a monkey clapping the shit 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:56.920 out of your dog's cheeks? I just. 0:10:58.400 --> 0:10:59.600 I just don't think that that's possible. 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:01.760 You know, why wouldn't a monkey? 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:03.400 I don't think. I don't think a dog is going 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:04.280 to just let that happen. 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:06.319 No, not a lot. Obviously it's not consensual. 0:11:06.640 --> 0:11:07.960 What type of dog are we talking about? 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:12.800 Like I'm picturing like a baisly sized dog? Why just 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:13.520 that size? 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:15.760 Yeah? Like, yeah, see one of those dogs might be 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:18.760 monkey can literally just scoop the monkeys are strong, fold 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:19.120 it up. 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:19.560 Into the tree. 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.959 But but if it runs into like a corso or 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:26.040 a mastiff. It's over that monk called mastiff. That monkey 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.120 ain't got a chance. But like someone something like a 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:30.400 little Yorkie pool? Is that what basically is a Yorkie pool? 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:31.640 Something like that? 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:33.080 She might be a multiple. 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.920 Multiple your multipools out of here, one of the monkeys 0:11:35.920 --> 0:11:37.640 catch one of the multipools in the backyard. They could 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:38.080 forget about. 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:45.640 Oh come on, a monkey would wreck that? Why sorry, 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:46.280 I'm back. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.920 You can stay on vacation. 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:52.320 A monkey would that? 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:52.640 Cute? 0:11:52.679 --> 0:11:55.439 This whole conversation just has a certain type of racial 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:58.360 undertone to it. I just don't South Carolina monkey's on 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.920 the loose, just like, all right, man, what are we doing? 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:04.640 What we're talking about? Yeah, well, hopefully they find these 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:06.800 monkeys cause I'm sure they have diseases, all kind of 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:09.120 shit they pumped into these monkeys and now they're just 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:11.520 running around in people's backyards. 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:14.160 Mall there was a conversation. Well, I mean, I guess 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:16.160 it was kind of better fit for the clay topic. 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:18.760 But Demarison I saw this question. We wanted to ask 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:21.960 you if you could have one person removed off social media, 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:23.000 who would it be? And why? 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:25.680 If I could have one person off social media forever. 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.680 Yeah, not meek Mill. Can't say met Mill. 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:31.839 I wasn't gonna say meat mil y'all on Miko social 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:36.199 media forever, y'all fucked up? Man? One person off social. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:37.199 Media too entertaining? 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:42.040 Who could it be? Who would it be? I'm trying 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.120 to think of who do I see on social media 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:45.800 that I'm just like, yeah, I wish this person would 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:48.400 just disappear forever. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:59.360 I got one fucking elon Musk, go somewhere, go to Mars. 0:13:00.040 --> 0:13:04.920 You want so done with him? It's so over the top. 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:09.480 Now, Oh, I know whoever's running that? Paris Hilton? Uh 0:13:09.600 --> 0:13:12.439 that ad that pops up every thirteen seconds on social media? 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:12.920 Who's doing that? 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:14.040 I feel like I've seen that happen. 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.160 I want to download the record now they've I mean 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:18.400 that sh is on my time on every twenty seconds. 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:20.080 I want to download that. Well that's the point. I 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:21.959 haven't seen that the marketing is working. 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:24.040 Yeah, but they could. Who who's running that? Can they 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.800 be on social media fever? Not Paris Hilton? Whoever's running 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:30.560 her social media? Yeah? Okay, get them off social media fever. 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:34.440 Because that that song pops up as soon as you 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:35.679 open your phone. That song is right there. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:40.360 Wait, Megan the Stallion's on this song. Parry Helton has 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:41.840 a song with Megan the Stallion. 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:42.480 What the hell? 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:44.320 When did it come out a couple of months ago? 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:46.040 Is this direct? 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:49.200 I think this has to be a but mags on this. 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:52.560 Her team is doing. Who is this song unreleased under? 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:55.320 Because they're doing They're gonna make sure people see that 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:58.120 this song and here this and watch this video. Yeah, 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:01.520 this song is on every I don't care when you 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:04.160 go on social media. This video is popping up. 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:06.240 I love good marketing. 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:08.680 Megan is stalling in this video. 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:10.200 She's I think she's in the video, but she's on 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:13.120 the song. I haven't seen her in the video, but 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:15.520 there are a lot of industry. There's a lot of. 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:18.360 Like Megan, they turned that bag now. She ain't do 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:20.560 the video though, you know that would have heard her 0:14:20.560 --> 0:14:21.840 brand a little. You know what I'm saying that this 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:24.880 vocals getting upive them a good couple of bars. That's cool, 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:27.920 But how would I have hurt her print? Megan ain't 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:29.680 supposed to be doing no video with Paris Hill. And 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:32.480 come on, I know it's a side quest. Come on, man, 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:38.320 it's a side Quest's music. What's her career side genre. No, 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:39.360 ain't genre. 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:40.720 This might actually be her genre. 0:14:40.920 --> 0:14:42.040 That's the guy from Sync. 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:45.000 Yeah, Lance Beast is he the gay one? 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:45.800 They're all gay? 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:48.600 No, but there's like a specific there's one that came Yeah. 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:50.480 Lance, Lance was the first one. He was a pioneer 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:52.000 created this gay ship. 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:53.640 How you gonna say they all gay? 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:57.720 Well except justin Timberland. Were they all gay? No? 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:01.320 Like you, I think the there was only one one gay? 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:03.760 But love to them. 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:07.520 Who would you get rid of to Marius? No? 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:10.080 I mean I could understand why you would look at 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:13.200 them and assume that. But they were young. They were 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:14.200 young teenage boys. 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:17.720 I mean there are gay young teenage boys as well. 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:20.480 Not saying that this is what we're looking at, but 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:23.440 hard to fight it. 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:27.040 If I could get rid of one person off social media, can't. 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:31.480 Say Meek and Meek is not as bad on social 0:15:31.480 --> 0:15:33.880 media as y'all makeing mouth to be. You don't even 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:36.120 tweet that much. He's not on Twitter every day. 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:38.400 Is funny, he's funny. I think he's too funny to 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:39.120 want to get rid of. 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:41.480 You can't get rid of me, y'all, Just give me 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:44.920 a hard time. Who would it be? 0:15:46.960 --> 0:15:47.160 You know? 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:49.960 Anybody I say, would it could be somebody that's not 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:51.000 like a celebrity either. 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:55.240 You gotta say your homegirl, yeah, put out. 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:56.600 Then I'm just something good. 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:59.800 It's just some people that are constantly spilling their feelings 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:02.480 social media. They need to get off and just I 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:04.480 don't want to be anybody's I don't want to read 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:04.960 your diary. 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:07.600 You spilled your feelings to social media before. Don't do that. 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:10.600 I think a couple months ago you went on the whole. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:12.200 It was like part one, part two. You had one 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:14.680 of those ones. I never had a part one, part two. 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:15.560 We get the fuck out of here. 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:16.720 I had a part one part two. 0:16:16.880 --> 0:16:18.520 I might have made a thread, but it wasn't my 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:21.120 Like I don't like spill like my personal life, you 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:22.680 know what I'm saying, Like my personal life is not 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:24.520 on Twitter right, like I'm. 0:16:24.400 --> 0:16:25.040 Just going off. 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:25.920 It's on YouTube. 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:29.160 Fuck him and it and it is this, this, this, 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:30.800 this and that like that, Like, girl, are you with 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:32.200 your baby daddy on your own time? 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:32.840 I don't want to read this. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:33.200 You close. 0:16:33.280 --> 0:16:35.000 Then you're doing the thing that confused me when people 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:36.680 do that. You do all of this, get us involved 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:38.480 in this great story, and then tell us mind our business. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:40.400 Tell us to mind our business and get back with 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.600 the person. Mmmm, that's when. Now I'll get mad, Like, 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:45.320 hold on, why y'a ain't telling me y'all made up? 0:16:45.320 --> 0:16:48.240 And now y'all cool? Now I was invested in this. 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:51.080 I read all seventeen posts like I feel like I'm 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:52.240 a part of your relationship. Now. 0:16:52.720 --> 0:16:56.040 Everything's for attention, not everything, not every everything on social media. 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:58.360 You don't bring something like that to Twitter to not 0:16:58.400 --> 0:16:58.880 get attention. 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:01.600 Everything on social media is for attention because if that doesn't, 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:04.040 whatever you post and if it don't get no engagement, 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:07.800 yeah you're mad. You like you. It's for attention. You 0:17:07.840 --> 0:17:09.679 want people to see it, You want people to respond 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:10.879 to it, you want people to react to it. 0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:12.920 You want people I can't agree that you might want 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:15.600 people to like react to it, but I don't think 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:17.320 you're like, I'm going out here for attention. 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:18.440 I think some people just. 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:20.880 Tweet all day and then when they get angry, they 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:22.800 just start going off. I don't think that the Twitter 0:17:22.840 --> 0:17:24.439 is like I'm going to take this to Twitter so 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:26.480 that people can like. I think sometimes people are really 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.040 angry and they put everything else on Twitter, so they're 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:30.720 just not using their brain and they're just typing. 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:30.879 Like. 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:32.439 I don't think it's everything is for attention. 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:34.760 I don't think like the reason is for the attention. 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:38.959 But I think you're seeking a validation by putting something 0:17:39.000 --> 0:17:40.760 like that out there. Yea, if that makes. 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:41.920 Sense, I could understand that. 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:43.919 But I don't want to say like attention, like somebody's 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:45.840 just tweeting to get I think some people are really 0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:47.959 fucking angry and just don't know how to control their 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:51.280 emotions and they go off on social media. 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:53.760 It's interesting because y'all kind of y'all grew up like 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:57.680 y'all were in high school on social media, right. Facebook 0:17:57.720 --> 0:17:59.119 came out like what oa I was. 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:00.399 I was in middle school. 0:18:00.440 --> 0:18:02.320 I was like, I was in like eighth grade when 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:03.360 Facebook came out. 0:18:03.720 --> 0:18:05.160 I was on my Yeah you was in high school 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:07.800 on Twitter. I was in high school on Twitter. 0:18:07.160 --> 0:18:10.119 I never a Twitter kid, Thank god. 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:11.879 I Did you have Instagram in high school? 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:13.199 College? 0:18:13.680 --> 0:18:14.120 College? 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:14.520 Yeah? 0:18:14.560 --> 0:18:16.879 So I got on Instagram my freshman year of college. 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:18.720 I think that was I think Instagram had came on 0:18:18.840 --> 0:18:21.600 maybe the year before. But when I was in high school, 0:18:21.640 --> 0:18:24.840 I was a Twitter like. I was on Twitter like NonStop. 0:18:25.080 --> 0:18:27.680 And that was back when Twitter was the majority of 0:18:27.680 --> 0:18:29.280 the people you were talking to on Twitter you knew 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:30.400 in real life, like you know. 0:18:30.400 --> 0:18:32.920 So you wasn't following just random people on social media 0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:33.159 like that. 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:34.400 Yeah, not like that. 0:18:34.440 --> 0:18:35.960 Every once in a while, Like there were a lot 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:38.359 of New Yorkers that I've met through Twitter because New 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:39.920 York Twitter was kind of like a thing. 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:43.280 But Instagram launch. 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:44.800 The majority of the people I follow were from my 0:18:44.880 --> 0:18:45.359 high school. 0:18:45.680 --> 0:18:49.000 October Damn, October is popular. October sixth, twenty ten, so 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:51.240 I probably I think I downloaded it in like twenty 0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:52.120 twelve or thirteen. 0:18:52.440 --> 0:18:55.600 Yeah, Instagram, I was on September twenty eleven. I got 0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:57.040 on Instagram. 0:18:56.800 --> 0:19:00.320 Because I got I had a BlackBerry before you gave 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:03.440 us iPads, I was able to download Instagram. 0:19:03.480 --> 0:19:06.280 I never had a BlackBerry. Yeah, I missed that whole phase. 0:19:06.400 --> 0:19:07.920 So yeah, we did grow up on social media. 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:10.440 I was on I was making MySpace pages in middle 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:14.280 school sixth seventh grade, and then Facebook throughout the end 0:19:14.320 --> 0:19:18.199 of middle school into high school, and then Twitter towards 0:19:18.200 --> 0:19:19.280 the end of high school. 0:19:19.320 --> 0:19:20.960 I've been having fun on my scremuinator. I've been like 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:22.240 unfollowing a bunch of people. 0:19:22.520 --> 0:19:23.159 That's fun. 0:19:23.640 --> 0:19:26.120 Yeah, it is cleansing like spring cleaning a little bit, 0:19:26.160 --> 0:19:27.080 even though it's not spring. 0:19:27.119 --> 0:19:28.760 But well, how do you know who to like? 0:19:28.800 --> 0:19:33.240 What's your your criteria for the unfollow People that I. 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:36.800 Just don't wish to see all the timeline anymore, People 0:19:36.840 --> 0:19:39.920 that I just don't my bag interact with anymore, People 0:19:39.920 --> 0:19:42.439 that haven't posted in years, that I obviously are not 0:19:42.480 --> 0:19:44.880 active on it anymore. Like I went all the way 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:47.760 back to like the first person I followed, Oh, she 0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:50.200 started and then worked my way, started working my way. 0:19:50.240 --> 0:19:53.639 I was like this, she hasn't posted in six years? 0:19:53.640 --> 0:19:56.120 Like why am I still following this person? We cool 0:19:56.160 --> 0:19:57.920 in real life, Like I don't hope they don't take 0:19:57.920 --> 0:19:59.280 it personally, but it's like, you know, you're not even 0:19:59.280 --> 0:20:00.040 acting on why am I? 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:04.400 It's funny you say that because with my birthday just passing. 0:20:04.240 --> 0:20:09.040 Happy birthday, thank you, thank you Holy now thirty thirty two. Yeah, 0:20:09.160 --> 0:20:10.360 Magic Johnson. 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:15.680 That's right, my aids here. Yeah, but that is so inappropriate. 0:20:15.680 --> 0:20:19.200 But brother's on Wednesday, so I obviously I get a 0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:21.280 lot of those messages like have birthday, like let's catch 0:20:21.359 --> 0:20:23.040 up and all that. But then, like the great thing 0:20:23.080 --> 0:20:25.680 about Instagram is that you know it doesn't delete the messages, 0:20:25.760 --> 0:20:27.960 so I'll see, Like, when's the last time we exchanged 0:20:27.960 --> 0:20:30.719 the DM and it was like a year ago? Another 0:20:30.760 --> 0:20:34.880 happy birthday message. Yeah, Like we're at that phase where 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:37.280 it's like I can just clear out the we don't 0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:38.280 need to follow each other. 0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:40.399 On my birthday, I noticed that, like some people you 0:20:40.440 --> 0:20:42.639 happy birthday, and I'm like, the last time, yeah, not 0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:45.040 look not like I'm saying I'm looking to DM this person, 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:47.520 but the last time this person DM me was this 0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:49.760 time last year, the same day last year, the same 0:20:49.920 --> 0:20:54.360 same message, same response from me, Thank you. I feel back. 0:20:54.560 --> 0:20:56.080 I'm like, I don't even hit you on your birthday. 0:20:56.119 --> 0:20:57.840 I don't even know your birthday. 0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:01.600 When I go to wish somebody happy birthday and I 0:21:01.680 --> 0:21:03.760 look up and the last time we spoke was the 0:21:03.880 --> 0:21:05.680 last time I wish them happy birthday and they didn't 0:21:05.680 --> 0:21:06.440 wish me happy birthday. 0:21:06.440 --> 0:21:10.720 A media unfollowing Really, yeah, why do you? But I'm 0:21:10.760 --> 0:21:13.679 a girl, Oh yes, we noticed that. 0:21:13.840 --> 0:21:15.400 I'm not about to be I'm not no dick writer. 0:21:15.560 --> 0:21:17.320 I'm not about to be wishing you happy birthday every year. 0:21:17.520 --> 0:21:19.679 But why you got to take it? 0:21:19.760 --> 0:21:20.240 That person? 0:21:20.800 --> 0:21:23.000 Yeah, why you got to take it all the way. 0:21:23.040 --> 0:21:25.200 It in like you've been following each other for five years. 0:21:25.240 --> 0:21:27.000 You're telling me you never wish me happy birthday once, 0:21:27.000 --> 0:21:29.080 but I wish it to you every year, Dick writing 0:21:29.440 --> 0:21:29.840 not for me? 0:21:31.480 --> 0:21:33.560 Yeah, but I just okay, it depends on who. It 0:21:33.600 --> 0:21:35.000 depends on who the person is. Do you know the 0:21:35.040 --> 0:21:35.919 person in real life or is. 0:21:35.920 --> 0:21:37.280 Just like, yeah, I'm a person in real life. It 0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:38.640 don't matter if I know you in real life. But yes, 0:21:38.680 --> 0:21:40.440 the people I know, I know them in real life. 0:21:40.800 --> 0:21:42.440 I just don't understand how people get so upset with 0:21:42.520 --> 0:21:45.080 something like people don't wish them happy birthday. I'm the 0:21:45.160 --> 0:21:45.840 total opposite. 0:21:45.840 --> 0:21:47.520 No, I'm not upset, but it's just like I'm not 0:21:47.520 --> 0:21:49.200 about to be wishing you heavy birthday and you didn't 0:21:49.240 --> 0:21:50.920 do the same to me, because like, my birthday is 0:21:50.960 --> 0:21:52.520 a whole thing, so you know, it's my birthday for 0:21:52.560 --> 0:21:54.720 a month. I post about that ship for a month straight. 0:21:55.440 --> 0:21:57.600 If you going through all my videos and you just 0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:01.960 couldn't just hit the happy birthday. But again, I don't 0:22:01.960 --> 0:22:03.480 watch people if I don't if we're not close, I 0:22:03.520 --> 0:22:06.040 don't watch people's stories like on their birthday, Monk, because 0:22:06.040 --> 0:22:08.040 I don't want to accidentally hit their birthday because once 0:22:08.040 --> 0:22:09.720 I watched your story, I feel like I got to wish. 0:22:09.520 --> 0:22:10.199 You every birthday. 0:22:10.400 --> 0:22:13.200 I agree, you would be crazy to watch somebody's happy 0:22:13.200 --> 0:22:14.480 birthday rollout. 0:22:14.280 --> 0:22:17.840 And now exactly, I just feel like, really, I just 0:22:17.920 --> 0:22:20.040 don't Maybe I just don't look into it that. 0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:23.000 If a person, if a person has like twelve posts 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:26.480 on their stories, that's all happy birthday, and you watch 0:22:26.560 --> 0:22:28.800 all twelve don't say that and you don't say happy 0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:31.200 birth there's something wrong, Like, bro, what you like? Come on, man, 0:22:31.440 --> 0:22:34.760 you just watched twelve posts and didn't say happy birthday. 0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:36.080 I don't take it. 0:22:36.359 --> 0:22:38.080 I also just don't expect a lot. 0:22:38.119 --> 0:22:40.080 Maybe it's just because I expect nothing from the like 0:22:40.080 --> 0:22:41.880 if you just follow someone on social media, like that's 0:22:41.920 --> 0:22:43.919 the extent of the relationship. I don't need you to 0:22:43.960 --> 0:22:46.040 be interactive in my life at all. 0:22:46.520 --> 0:22:47.600 Yeah. 0:22:47.600 --> 0:22:49.880 But that being said, thank you to everybody that did 0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:52.360 my I've been trying to respond as best I can. 0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:54.360 Thank you everybody that wish me happy birthday. It was very, 0:22:54.600 --> 0:22:55.920 very welcoming, very. 0:22:55.720 --> 0:22:58.199 Loving, flooded flood No, I mean I'm doing more. 0:22:58.560 --> 0:23:00.159 I'm not, it's not like that, but I'm doing in 0:23:00.200 --> 0:23:02.040 like some version of like a copy paint and. 0:23:02.080 --> 0:23:03.639 Response is gonna take about a week for me to 0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:05.880 get back to everybody, but it is nice. 0:23:06.160 --> 0:23:08.920 Oh my god, that gay ass message that you wrote 0:23:08.920 --> 0:23:09.840 on Twitter yesterday? 0:23:10.560 --> 0:23:12.679 How is that gay? Let's break it down, pull it up. 0:23:12.760 --> 0:23:15.400 No, see, no, this is not see this is not 0:23:15.880 --> 0:23:16.960 the monkeys right. 0:23:17.720 --> 0:23:24.119 The monkeys do about all I'm doing zooming. Let me 0:23:24.160 --> 0:23:29.080 read this. It's your birthday, so. 0:23:29.119 --> 0:23:31.320 Let's just do the let's do the highlights. Small. 0:23:31.440 --> 0:23:34.160 No, I'm going to is gonna kill. I'm not gonna 0:23:34.160 --> 0:23:36.920 make it. I'm gonna listen, We're gonna stop, We're gonna 0:23:36.960 --> 0:23:39.560 go in this beautiful audio journey together. I'm gonna read 0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:41.200 these words. Let's just close our eyes. 0:23:40.960 --> 0:23:43.280 And can I set the stage. I was jacked up 0:23:43.280 --> 0:23:46.119 on a bunch of coffee at UH, I was at 0:23:46.200 --> 0:23:50.639 Dumbo House, staring at the water, fucking zooed it off coffee, 0:23:50.720 --> 0:23:55.160 and I just wrote this on a Google doc and then, 0:23:55.240 --> 0:23:57.320 like the conversation we were having earlier, like wonder what 0:23:57.320 --> 0:23:58.960 people think about this? So then I put on Twitter. 0:23:59.040 --> 0:24:01.480 It was just for me, So this is like a 0:24:01.560 --> 0:24:02.840 glimpse into how you were feeling. 0:24:03.040 --> 0:24:05.600 And literally, yeah, just said this is you'll see. Did 0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:08.080 I recap like the most recent days leading up to 0:24:08.080 --> 0:24:08.760 my Birtha's all. 0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:10.159 Right, so let me let me try to do some 0:24:10.359 --> 0:24:13.240 justice as we wish Julian a happy thirty second birthday. 0:24:14.480 --> 0:24:15.640 Just do the first paragraph. 0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:19.479 I'm thirty two today and I feel it. I've been 0:24:19.520 --> 0:24:21.919 listening to my body, not in no way where I 0:24:21.920 --> 0:24:24.920 see the hues of my shocks running from the top 0:24:24.960 --> 0:24:27.480 of my head down my spine like that tart of 0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:30.560 a man sitting Indian style, a term I'm sure we're 0:24:30.600 --> 0:24:31.720 no longer supposed to use. 0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:34.600 I don't know the sound. 0:24:36.000 --> 0:24:38.000 Hold on, man, you can't do it in that tone, 0:24:38.040 --> 0:24:39.800 and then the fuck it up? My come on man, 0:24:40.240 --> 0:24:44.399 this is my me. Hold on ah another sign of aging. 0:24:44.840 --> 0:24:47.960 Remember when we used to say filling the blank? What 0:24:48.040 --> 0:24:50.520 did you used to say, Julian? I thought you wrote, 0:24:51.480 --> 0:24:54.639 why are you thinking of me? Shit that you write me? 0:24:56.160 --> 0:24:56.399 Hold on? 0:24:56.400 --> 0:24:58.520 Hold on my bad page. Let me get back into 0:24:58.560 --> 0:24:58.800 my shit. 0:24:59.000 --> 0:24:59.560 Kill me good. 0:25:00.440 --> 0:25:03.159 I've been getting acupuncture and cupping treatments every week for 0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:06.359 the greater half. Alright, I told you hold on, hold 0:25:06.400 --> 0:25:08.560 on right, let me do that. I wasn't expecting to 0:25:08.600 --> 0:25:13.520 read Greater Half I've been getting acupuncture and cupping treatments 0:25:13.600 --> 0:25:16.640 every week for the greater half of the year. My healer, 0:25:16.680 --> 0:25:19.639 as they would like to be addressed as deservedly so, 0:25:20.160 --> 0:25:23.120 has taught me a lot about how the body is interconnected, 0:25:24.040 --> 0:25:26.000 how a pain in my hip can be relieved from 0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:26.960 a pressure point. 0:25:26.720 --> 0:25:28.320 In my ear, which is true by the way. 0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:32.240 I had hamstring tendonitis from the NYC Marathon this past weekend. 0:25:32.560 --> 0:25:35.080 I know what you're thinking. No, I did not run 0:25:35.080 --> 0:25:39.160 the marathon. Come on, this wasn't supposed to do a hei. 0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:43.200 Hold on. I was supporting a friend and after fourteen 0:25:43.200 --> 0:25:47.280 miles of walking, cutting through crowds and light jogging, woke 0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:49.960 up and couldn't bend my leg or put pressure on it. 0:25:50.280 --> 0:25:53.639 That lasted four days. My doctor basically told me aging 0:25:53.760 --> 0:25:57.960 was the cause and recommended popping, advil, icing, applying heat, 0:25:58.320 --> 0:26:01.640 and my thorogon, which I used while watching the Penguin 0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:04.480 Grade show Amazed rad show. 0:26:04.680 --> 0:26:06.359 It No, wrap it up. We're not gonna read this all. 0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:07.199 We're not. 0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:08.560 No, it gets worse. 0:26:09.240 --> 0:26:12.720 That's thirty two, But I'm happy about it. I love 0:26:12.840 --> 0:26:15.840 new experiences, good or bad. I used to romanticize the 0:26:15.880 --> 0:26:18.720 twenty seven club. But dying of an overdose would have 0:26:18.800 --> 0:26:20.760 robbed me of the daily natural decay. 0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:21.480 That's a bar. 0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:22.320 That is a bar. 0:26:22.920 --> 0:26:23.359 Thank you. 0:26:23.600 --> 0:26:27.919 I played basketball last night. Going from NAT to I 0:26:28.040 --> 0:26:29.320 played basketball last night. 0:26:29.400 --> 0:26:30.880 I was just going through recent shit. 0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:34.439 I'm fundamentally better because I have to be l it 0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:36.960 makes sense. This is all right. See, this is this 0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:38.600 is where I think I'm gonna stop after this, because 0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:41.159 now you're about to piss me off. Playing above the 0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:44.040 rim is no longer an it's not. I can't fucking 0:26:44.200 --> 0:26:47.600 jump anymore. Julie, you never played above the rim. 0:26:47.760 --> 0:26:48.639 Nay, fuck up. 0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:53.280 Vince Carter played above the rim. Julian Nichols never played 0:26:54.160 --> 0:26:57.199 not Vince Carter. But so you shut the fuck up. 0:26:59.520 --> 0:27:02.600 Aging is physical. It's a clock that once ticked silently 0:27:03.000 --> 0:27:04.800 but now ticks like a swatchwatch. 0:27:05.200 --> 0:27:07.880 And for those that are watch had, swatchwatches have very 0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:10.800 loud tickers. That's a bar to putting that out there. God. 0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:12.600 See, you know the thing about when you say this thing, 0:27:12.600 --> 0:27:13.680 you're not supposed to explain. 0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:17.880 No, I'm just you know, just supposed to like people said, swatchwatching. 0:27:18.000 --> 0:27:19.679 But then you end it this beautifully and I hurry up. 0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:22.040 Because the marriage doesn't want to hear some more. This morning, 0:27:22.080 --> 0:27:24.560 I limped down my apartments and even pre war stairs 0:27:24.640 --> 0:27:26.439 due to a load of laundry. I chopped off my 0:27:26.440 --> 0:27:29.960 beard in between switching cycles while listening to Ethiopian jazz 0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:33.120 and facetimeing my parents. They're happy about my birthday than 0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:36.399 I am their baby. Their baby getting older is a 0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:39.080 total of their longevity. I mute myself in full laundry 0:27:39.080 --> 0:27:42.159 as my mom recites memories. These stories are families legacy. 0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:44.879 I've been told the same ones for years. Younger me 0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:47.639 would cut my parents off or finish them in a 0:27:47.720 --> 0:27:50.720 sarcastic tone. Now I let them walk, I let them 0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:52.919 talk through it, listening for a new detail they may 0:27:52.920 --> 0:27:55.240 have added this time around. How my dad played pick 0:27:55.280 --> 0:27:58.640 up basketball with with fat back. It's always a old 0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:02.240 ass sixties thing fat back. Nobody rebounds like fat back. 0:28:02.440 --> 0:28:04.520 He could never play organized ball because of his temper. 0:28:04.600 --> 0:28:06.679 My dad says, with a sigh, what could have been. 0:28:06.760 --> 0:28:08.199 It's my role as a son to make sure these 0:28:08.200 --> 0:28:10.480 stories live on, to carry the family saga from my 0:28:10.560 --> 0:28:14.399 Jitu's family in the northern mountains of Baskinta Lebanon and 0:28:14.440 --> 0:28:17.440 my great grandmother, sharecropper roots. Here's to the next three 0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:19.080 sixty five, well three sixty four. 0:28:18.920 --> 0:28:22.360 Now, yeah, thank you, Demeres. 0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:26.040 That was pretty. That was come on, that was well ritten. 0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:27.240 I was gonna write something today. 0:28:27.680 --> 0:28:29.679 No, no, don't, we don't. We don't deserve it. We 0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:32.760 don't deserve it. Not today, we don't deserve But happy birthday. 0:28:32.800 --> 0:28:35.159 I'm glad you shared that with her shared those Are 0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:36.840 you glad that he shared that. I'm glad. You know, 0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:38.600 we get that, we get a glimpse in him because 0:28:38.600 --> 0:28:40.240 you know, Julian used to play above the rim, so 0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:42.400 he's getting older now and his knees don't you know, 0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:45.640 the tender nights, you know, the fast twitch muscles don't 0:28:45.640 --> 0:28:46.960 react like they used to. You know, I. 0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:50.320 Actually love you so much. That's why I'm honest with you. 0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:52.600 That long drawn out ass. 0:28:53.040 --> 0:28:56.320 Get to the point she got to the point was 0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:58.280 the story. That was the whole point. The point was 0:28:58.360 --> 0:29:00.640 he can no longer jump like he u because he's thirty. 0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:03.680 Also, Demeris retweeted it and then deleted her tweet because 0:29:03.680 --> 0:29:05.280 people were making fun of your retweet. 0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:07.440 So nobody was making fun of my resweet. Everybody was left. 0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:09.120 He called me and agree with it. 0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:12.600 And then everyone was like, that's so disrespectful. This is 0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:14.880 poetic and beautiful. Then she deleted it. 0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:16.600 Why you deleted it, BABYD? 0:29:17.240 --> 0:29:19.480 Because I because I'm off social media and I'm off Twitter, 0:29:19.520 --> 0:29:21.520 and I just kind of was like, and I didn't 0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:22.480 want to get canceled. 0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:22.760 For calling you again. 0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:24.560 Reposted it and then deleted it. 0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:26.120 Yeah, I deleted it. 0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:28.440 I didn't want I didn't and I felt bad because 0:29:28.440 --> 0:29:29.800 I'm like, I don't want to get canceled for calling 0:29:29.880 --> 0:29:30.600 him the G word. 0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:33.040 Oh okay, so we'll do it on the podcast. Yes, 0:29:33.360 --> 0:29:34.880 I'm gonna do it on this platform with a much 0:29:35.000 --> 0:29:36.000 lesser audience. 0:29:36.200 --> 0:29:37.680 Like what I mean? But Twitter is like, you know, 0:29:37.720 --> 0:29:39.760 a Twitter with all the fucking thing pieces. That's another 0:29:39.800 --> 0:29:41.720 thing that's I didn't get the funk off Twitter. There's 0:29:41.760 --> 0:29:45.520 so many thing pieces. Everybody's a goddamn political political science major. 0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:46.000 I'm over. 0:29:46.080 --> 0:29:48.320 Yeah the politics now is I mean I said that 0:29:48.400 --> 0:29:52.640 election election? Yeah, election time. But it's definitely it's like, 0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:56.080 can we just get back to just having fun? Like 0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:59.360 everybody's taking things so serious and we should take things 0:29:59.400 --> 0:30:03.040 like election in politics seriously to some degree, it's gonna 0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:05.920 be what it's gonna be regardless, but it is definitely 0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:08.440 feeling like, you know, you can't express your opinions without 0:30:08.760 --> 0:30:11.160 you know, people will say how they stopped talking people 0:30:11.160 --> 0:30:12.680 based on who they were voting for. 0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:15.360 Well, that type of stuff has been happening. I don't 0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:17.240 care about that, but that's stupid than me. I mean, 0:30:17.520 --> 0:30:19.600 you can feel that way. I think people think that 0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:21.280 they're who they voted for. And I really don't want 0:30:21.280 --> 0:30:22.880 to talk about politics ever get on this podcast. But 0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:24.600 I think people think that who they voted for is 0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:26.200 connected to their morals, and if we don't have a 0:30:26.240 --> 0:30:28.840 line in morals, then I don't want to be friends 0:30:28.880 --> 0:30:31.000 with you or talk to you that I can understand. 0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:32.280 I'm talking about just the thing. 0:30:32.560 --> 0:30:35.360 Every single thing that anybody says is a think piece. 0:30:35.440 --> 0:30:38.800 Every joke somebody makes, political or not, is a think piece. 0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:42.240 Like Twitter used to be a fun, chaotic place. We 0:30:42.280 --> 0:30:44.800 should just go on there and tweet stupid shit. I 0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:46.520 remember life skin versus dark Skinned. 0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:48.520 Remember that, and then they silenced us and they said 0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:51.320 that things were offensive and everybody started having his victim 0:30:51.320 --> 0:30:53.080 mentality based on what people were tweeting. 0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:57.800 I want Twitter after darkback. I want hashtags. Back, Like 0:30:57.840 --> 0:31:00.120 I just want, like I don't want to be a. 0:31:00.280 --> 0:31:02.000 Like just the good you just want to laugh and 0:31:02.040 --> 0:31:03.160 have fun, laugh and have fun. 0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:06.000 All these everything is a fucking think piece. Everybody's writing 0:31:06.000 --> 0:31:06.400 these laws. 0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:07.920 Everybody wants to be a victim. 0:31:08.000 --> 0:31:10.520 Yeah, that's the thing I don't understand most about it 0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:11.880 a lot. Like I look at the things a lot 0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:14.400 of people sit and say on podcasts and on social media, 0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:16.720 and I'm just amazed at the amount of people that 0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:20.280 just walk around daily with victim mentality. It's crazy to me, Like, 0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:22.480 and I don't want to feel insensitive, because I know people, 0:31:22.520 --> 0:31:25.200 we all go through things. But I just feel like 0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:28.840 people are looking to wake up and see what can 0:31:28.920 --> 0:31:33.240 I what can I feel like is hurting me today 0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:35.840 or bothering me? Or what can I take offensive today? 0:31:36.120 --> 0:31:37.800 Like people go out and just look for that, And 0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:40.680 I'm just like, bro, it's really not that deep. Like 0:31:40.720 --> 0:31:42.520 it's not that serious. Like I prom I know there's 0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:44.000 issues in the world, and I know there's issues in 0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:46.480 our country and day to day lives. We have our shit. 0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:51.000 I get that part, but it's also not that deep. 0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:53.239 It's not that heavy, like and I see people just 0:31:53.920 --> 0:31:56.480 that's the mentality. Now everybody is like, oh, I'm offended. 0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:58.560 I'm like about what somebody tweeted that you don't even 0:31:58.560 --> 0:32:01.240 follow that somebody just read too and filling your timeline 0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:03.720 and now you're doing a whole post and a whole 0:32:03.720 --> 0:32:04.680 TikTok based on this. 0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:07.520 Like, but I think people do that because when you 0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:10.840 have the it's crazy to say, like, when you have 0:32:11.040 --> 0:32:13.320 it sounds counterintuitive. When you have the advantage of being 0:32:13.360 --> 0:32:17.040 a victim, then it can become an excuse for your shortcomings. 0:32:17.360 --> 0:32:19.200 So it's like, all right, well this didn't work out 0:32:19.200 --> 0:32:22.720 for me because they won't let me, you know, move 0:32:22.800 --> 0:32:25.160 up in my career whatever the general you know, if 0:32:25.160 --> 0:32:28.000 it's a relationship problem or a career problem, I'm not 0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:30.600 making this much money because of filling the blank. So 0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:32.640 it just like kind of deflects the on this off 0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:37.520 of you and your you know, your shortcomings. It's like, oh, well, 0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:39.280 this doesn't happen because it's not supposed to happen for 0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:43.440 people like me. That's what annoys me. But I don't know. 0:32:43.600 --> 0:32:46.880 I mean, if you want to complain about systemic racism, 0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:50.400 and I get that, but you complain about racists that 0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:54.080 like work at cvs' That's one thing I've nevernered you 0:32:54.160 --> 0:32:56.800 complain about racists that work at CVS, Babe in their tweeting. 0:32:57.080 --> 0:32:59.240 They're not bothering you, They're not affecting you in anyway. 0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:03.120 I just don't get. I just don't want to be Yeah, 0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:05.480 Like I just don't get you know, people's want and 0:33:05.920 --> 0:33:09.160 need to just feel like a victim. I just you know, 0:33:09.160 --> 0:33:12.640 if something bad happens at nine in the morning, ten 0:33:12.680 --> 0:33:14.680 in the morning, wherever you're ready to go to work, 0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:17.920 I get it. But it's like that doesn't mean that 0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:21.560 the entire city is against you because something bad happened 0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:23.880 on your way to work, or that people don't like 0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:28.160 you because you're filling the blank. Yeah, Like that's just 0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:29.760 to me, It's just it's like, what the fuck are 0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:32.840 we talking about, Like, let's just it's okay. Life is, 0:33:32.920 --> 0:33:35.200 you know, tough at times, but the whole world is 0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:36.680 not against you. I can promise you that. 0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:38.760 And even if it was, like you still got to 0:33:38.800 --> 0:33:40.680 live anyway, Like stop sitting. 0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:41.320 Rent is still due. 0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:44.120 Yeah, like you sitting in your doom and gloom like 0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:46.600 you're having a bad day, You're not having a bad life. 0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:48.640 I feel like some people grinted. 0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:51.000 There is like clinical depression, and there are people who 0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:53.240 have chemical imbalances. But I think some people are so 0:33:53.320 --> 0:33:56.440 depressed because like they're comfortable in that feeling. They don't 0:33:56.480 --> 0:33:59.600 know how to handle happiness or how to accept joy 0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:02.280 into their lives. Like they're not chasing joy. They like 0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:06.440 like chaos and instability and feelings that are like that 0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:08.680 make them feel uncomfortable. They like that They're used to it. 0:34:08.680 --> 0:34:13.160 That's probably what they were raised around. But yeah, like 0:34:13.239 --> 0:34:17.440 it's like be happy like I so and io campeach 0:34:18.360 --> 0:34:21.000 and you know, I love my friends. That wasn't that 0:34:21.120 --> 0:34:24.080 wasn't shade, But it's how do you feel, sir, Like 0:34:24.239 --> 0:34:26.479 find the good in life and like enjoy the good 0:34:26.520 --> 0:34:28.719 like damn, Like I woke up today, like I have 0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:31.920 food in my fridge. Yes, the fucking eggs are eighteen dollars, 0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:33.480 but you know what, I was able. 0:34:33.280 --> 0:34:34.880 To buy them anyway. 0:34:35.080 --> 0:34:37.839 Yeah, I can plan on. I'm like what this cause 0:34:37.920 --> 0:34:42.600 what this is fucking crazy. I'm I'm still gonna get it, Like, 0:34:42.680 --> 0:34:45.279 so what's the problem When do y'all realize? And this 0:34:45.360 --> 0:34:48.160 is something I thought about like the last week looking 0:34:48.200 --> 0:34:49.920 back at a lot of my friendships that you know 0:34:49.960 --> 0:34:52.080 people that you no longer speak to and talk to. 0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:56.640 When do y'all realize that a friendship that you have 0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:01.279 is it's kind of of like over with. It no longer 0:35:01.320 --> 0:35:03.920 aligns with who you are and and the person that 0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:06.120 you're becoming, Like how how do you navigate through that? 0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.360 How do you how do you talk through that? Like 0:35:08.400 --> 0:35:10.400 do you have a conversation with the person or do 0:35:10.440 --> 0:35:13.000 you kind of just let the friendship kind of fade, 0:35:13.120 --> 0:35:15.520 fade out, phase away? Like how do you do that? 0:35:15.920 --> 0:35:17.560 I'm gonna let the fait, I'm gonna let a fade. 0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:20.000 I'm gonna let the fade happen kind of guy. You'll 0:35:20.080 --> 0:35:21.800 let the fate happen more often than not. I just 0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:24.440 let it go out. That's happened to me. But then 0:35:24.440 --> 0:35:26.600 there's always that other's always a side to where it's 0:35:26.600 --> 0:35:28.960 like you always want to be the one that's like, 0:35:29.000 --> 0:35:31.400 well this isn't working out, but it's not my fault. 0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:34.400 But I've been in the position probably like two times 0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:37.120 or that I can at least think of where maybe 0:35:37.160 --> 0:35:40.480 I'm the one that this person's outgrown, you know what 0:35:40.520 --> 0:35:40.799 I mean. 0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:43.400 That's interesting to have that like point of view on 0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:45.279 it where you feel like you're the person. 0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:46.960 That Yeah, then I don't want to say like the 0:35:46.960 --> 0:35:48.799 word problem because it was there was never a problem. 0:35:48.840 --> 0:35:50.239 We never had like it doesn't have to be a problem. 0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:51.680 It's just like life happens. 0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:54.239 It was just like one in particular, he got we 0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:58.440 were inseparable best friends, he got in a relationship became 0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:00.600 wiped up immediately they were like this and then they 0:36:00.719 --> 0:36:02.680 up and like moved across country and I live like 0:36:02.719 --> 0:36:05.440 in LA and I was like, huh that all that 0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:09.160 happened so fast. Then we just like stopped talking and 0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:12.640 got married. Wasn't invited to the wedding. I'm hear anything. 0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:14.040 It was just like but I wasn't like I didn't 0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:15.520 take any offense with it. I was just like, yeah, 0:36:15.600 --> 0:36:20.440 like I guess that's just how shit can happen. But 0:36:20.480 --> 0:36:22.600 that was like my first time where that felt like damn, 0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:25.960 like that really all that time knows my parents, I 0:36:26.000 --> 0:36:28.080 know his parents, like our parents have met each other. 0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:32.040 It was like it was odd, but I don't know. Yeah, 0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:34.080 that was That was the one that I always think 0:36:34.120 --> 0:36:36.520 of and that still occasionally passes through my mind where 0:36:36.520 --> 0:36:39.200 I'm like, it's weird because even we have mutuals, but 0:36:39.280 --> 0:36:41.520 even those mutuals, he kind of fell out with all 0:36:41.520 --> 0:36:43.799 of them as well. And we've all had that like 0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:46.880 group talk where it's like what happened, Yeah, well we 0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:48.600 know what happened, but it's not like a bad thing 0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:52.120 that that happened. It's just like odd that it just fizzled. 0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:55.239 I got a close well, we weren't close friends. We 0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:57.760 haven't spoken in almost two years, but like he stopped 0:36:57.800 --> 0:36:59.720 talking to me. Funny because we was talking about earlier. 0:37:00.040 --> 0:37:01.880 He stopped talking to me because I didn't wish him 0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:05.960 a happy birthday on his birthday. Oh that's a little okay. 0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:07.480 So now y'all okay, I'm glad we're on the same 0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:10.359 pit because now everybody's been like, yo, you should reach out. 0:37:10.560 --> 0:37:12.560 I'm like, but how do as a man and y'all 0:37:12.640 --> 0:37:14.920 know me, I'm like, I'm from that I'm from that 0:37:14.960 --> 0:37:18.680 cloth that ran out a long time ago. How I 0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:20.360 can't have that conversation because. 0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:22.080 It just it feels nasty. 0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:25.680 It's like a lover's quarrel type of feel. Yeah, like, yo, bro, 0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:28.440 I know it's been a minute we haven't talked. No, 0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:29.640 you were mad at me because I don't wish you 0:37:29.680 --> 0:37:32.040 havey birth I just I don't. I don't know how to. 0:37:32.200 --> 0:37:34.000 I don't know how to call him and not start 0:37:34.120 --> 0:37:36.600 like laughing at him. You really stopped talking to me 0:37:36.600 --> 0:37:38.800 because I didn't wish you happy birthday? What type of clown? 0:37:39.400 --> 0:37:41.080 It's more than that? When when was it that you 0:37:41.080 --> 0:37:42.200 didn't wish him happy birthday? 0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:43.680 Almost two years ago? 0:37:43.920 --> 0:37:46.279 Did he wish you ever? I can't mean asking that. 0:37:46.440 --> 0:37:48.840 No, his birthday is before mine, but that's what I'm saying. 0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:50.960 I wouldn't give a fuck if he didn't wish me 0:37:51.000 --> 0:37:54.879 happy birthday, like I've been with people. I've literally been 0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:57.040 with people on my birthday and they didn't tell me 0:37:57.040 --> 0:37:58.520 how birth night. 0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:00.600 I was gonna say, did you wait? Were you that 0:38:00.640 --> 0:38:02.400 I thought you yesterday and didn't wish you every. 0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:03.200 Birthday at all? 0:38:03.360 --> 0:38:03.680 Didn't? 0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:06.680 I called him because I remember somebody took his birthday 0:38:06.680 --> 0:38:08.520 out of the calendar, so I called him yesterday for 0:38:08.520 --> 0:38:12.719 some production he did, and I don't know, I don't 0:38:12.719 --> 0:38:14.719 know who took it out, but I called him and 0:38:14.760 --> 0:38:16.160 I was on the phone him and then later Peach 0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:17.720 was like, yeah, isn't it Julian's birthday? 0:38:17.719 --> 0:38:19.920 And I'm like, I had a whole phone conversation with him. 0:38:19.920 --> 0:38:20.759 He didn't even mention it. 0:38:20.920 --> 0:38:24.200 Yeah, like for himself. I don't know, Like I just 0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:28.319 feel like the reason why I don't I'm gonna call 0:38:28.440 --> 0:38:30.120 him because I feel like we have to, like. 0:38:30.080 --> 0:38:33.200 It, calm down now. I wouldn't give it on air, but. 0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:34.880 I just feel like, I just feel like one we 0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:37.160 have to have a conversation. But it's like you should 0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:39.240 call him. It's gonna it's gonna lead into a deeper 0:38:39.280 --> 0:38:41.880 conversation because he can't tell me that he just stopped 0:38:41.880 --> 0:38:44.080 talking to me because I didn't wish Don't tell me that, bro, 0:38:44.280 --> 0:38:46.799 Like I've been way too solid of a friend. I've 0:38:46.800 --> 0:38:48.879 been there for you like I as friends. I don't 0:38:48.880 --> 0:38:51.319 count favors. I'm never doing that, but you know I've 0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:52.879 been there. The things I've done and how I held 0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:55.400 you down in different situations, Like for you to stop 0:38:55.440 --> 0:38:57.840 talking to me because I didn't wish you a happy birthday, 0:38:58.640 --> 0:39:00.680 it's something you gotta give me. Don't just tell me 0:39:00.719 --> 0:39:02.200 it was that, Like, tell me it was something else. 0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:04.239 Tell me why you feel like I didn't wish you 0:39:04.280 --> 0:39:06.240 happy birthday, because I feel like that's why you stop 0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:06.840 talking to me. 0:39:07.160 --> 0:39:08.560 Why do you think that I didn't. 0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:11.319 Yeah, I be feeling like you because this was another thing. 0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:14.319 This was another thing I felt like, which is why 0:39:14.320 --> 0:39:16.760 I said we have to have a deeper conversation because 0:39:18.320 --> 0:39:20.919 I heard, you know how like I got a bunch 0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:23.719 of like real close female friends that I'm just cool with, 0:39:24.760 --> 0:39:26.919 and one of my female friends in particular, she does 0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:31.600 this thing where she don't like to cause issues, but 0:39:31.640 --> 0:39:32.839 like if I be like, yeah, I'm about to meet 0:39:32.920 --> 0:39:34.160 up with my homie, She's like who, And then I 0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:36.160 say I say like, I say example, I say his name. 0:39:36.200 --> 0:39:40.200 She was like homie, right, and I'm like, but what 0:39:40.239 --> 0:39:43.360 that means? She's like nothing, but she'll give me little 0:39:43.840 --> 0:39:46.560 little So I'm thinking it may be something to where 0:39:46.640 --> 0:39:51.440 he feels like whatever he says when I'm not around 0:39:51.440 --> 0:39:53.400 behind my back, it may have gotten back to me. 0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:57.239 You see what I'm saying. And then now he feels like, 0:39:58.400 --> 0:40:01.440 I don't know how to have that conversation him because 0:40:02.280 --> 0:40:03.759 you can't tell me you stopped talking to me as 0:40:03.760 --> 0:40:05.360 close as we were for almost two years because I 0:40:05.360 --> 0:40:07.200 didn't wish you happy birthday. I'm not taking that like 0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:11.120 you know, it's life is life is busy life gets crazy. 0:40:11.800 --> 0:40:14.000 I don't even know the days anymore. I know, like 0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:15.480 I don't know the date. I know the days, like 0:40:15.520 --> 0:40:17.680 the money today, I don't know the date. You know 0:40:17.680 --> 0:40:20.080 what I'm saying. So it's like, you know that that's 0:40:20.080 --> 0:40:22.280 not I didn't do that on purpose. So I feel 0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:24.880 like he may he may have said something or to 0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:27.040 somebody and they got back to me, and I'm just like. 0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:29.400 Trash takes itself out. And I'm not calling him trash. 0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:32.040 That's just a metaphor. But yeah, the trash takes itself out. 0:40:32.239 --> 0:40:36.200 People's own guilt will eat them up. That's why I said, like, 0:40:36.280 --> 0:40:38.280 tell me why you think I didn't wish you every birthday? 0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:40.560 Because if it was just you think I forgot your birthday, 0:40:40.719 --> 0:40:42.520 that don't make you stop talking to me. You think 0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:44.319 that there's a reason you think that I feel some 0:40:44.360 --> 0:40:46.359 type of way about you, and why would you feel 0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:48.360 that way. That's something that you need to have a 0:40:48.360 --> 0:40:50.879 conversation with yourself and then come to me and tell 0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:52.920 me why that is. I always peep shit like that, 0:40:53.000 --> 0:40:56.920 Like people get so mad. I got into I'm currently 0:40:56.960 --> 0:40:59.720 into it with some friends, multiple friends. 0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:02.719 Oh tell us the t just no, no, just. 0:41:02.680 --> 0:41:05.919 About not wishing them happy birthday. Wait this is a thing, yeah, 0:41:06.520 --> 0:41:09.560 wish No not giving them happy birthday shout. 0:41:09.200 --> 0:41:10.600 Outs on my Instagram. 0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:11.799 Oh that's some girl. 0:41:12.760 --> 0:41:14.960 But that's all right, fair. 0:41:17.440 --> 0:41:17.720 Friend. 0:41:17.719 --> 0:41:20.799 But I didn't post them. Oh no, it's real, beef. 0:41:20.800 --> 0:41:23.360 It's post a popping friend, not the low one. You 0:41:24.040 --> 0:41:24.839 post a pretty friend. 0:41:24.920 --> 0:41:27.440 I stopped posting every goddamn body. Now, ain't nobody get 0:41:27.480 --> 0:41:27.799 no post? 0:41:27.880 --> 0:41:27.960 Now? 0:41:28.360 --> 0:41:31.160 Can't nobody complain because that's not true. I post a 0:41:31.160 --> 0:41:33.000 pretty friend. Like, first of all, I'm a girl. I 0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:36.239 think all my friends are pretty, like I don't you know, delusional. 0:41:36.600 --> 0:41:38.319 I think when you're a girl, you're like, no friend, 0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:41.000 Like you're gorgeous, Like you just aren't like that. I'm 0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:43.640 not posting a friend because she got more followers than 0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:46.160 another friend. Like we'll kind of corn ass, lame ass bitch, 0:41:46.200 --> 0:41:48.200 you think that I am, like you see what I'm saying. 0:41:48.239 --> 0:41:51.240 So it's just like if you think that I'm capable 0:41:51.239 --> 0:41:53.120 of playing favoritism and that sort of way. 0:41:53.000 --> 0:41:55.080 We don't need to be friends anyway, because. 0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:56.759 You obviously have spent too many years around me and 0:41:56.760 --> 0:41:58.279 still have not taken the time to get to know 0:41:58.360 --> 0:41:59.400 me and know my character. 0:41:59.760 --> 0:42:03.040 So, but see, I think it's easy for women to 0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:05.160 navigate through that conversation that it is men though, Like 0:42:05.200 --> 0:42:07.919 I don't. To me, it's just like having to talk 0:42:07.960 --> 0:42:11.200 with my homeboy about shit like that. It's just it 0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:13.839 feels crazy. It's like, are we really talking about this? 0:42:13.920 --> 0:42:17.640 Like women, I understand women are more you know, y'all 0:42:17.680 --> 0:42:20.640 have more more communicative period though yea, I'm more communicative 0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:22.920 and y'all have more space to have those type of 0:42:22.920 --> 0:42:26.600 conversations with men. I know we're supposed to express our 0:42:26.640 --> 0:42:30.200 feelings and say how we feel and have these conversations. 0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:32.440 I get it. But if my home will be like, Yo, 0:42:32.440 --> 0:42:36.719 you ain't wish me happy birthday? Fam? What's up? Man? 0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:40.439 You like me? Like you like just tell me? Yeah, 0:42:40.440 --> 0:42:41.080 Like what's up with you? 0:42:41.120 --> 0:42:41.319 Dog? 0:42:41.360 --> 0:42:43.239 Like you're going through what? Just just be who you are, 0:42:43.239 --> 0:42:45.440 you my boy, no matter what. But I can't have 0:42:45.560 --> 0:42:47.839 that type of conversation, Like it's just crazy to me. 0:42:47.880 --> 0:42:50.239 I didn't get my happy be earth Day from you, mam, 0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:51.320 and I'm offended. 0:42:51.680 --> 0:42:53.480 I'm offended that you blocked me from your story. 0:42:54.560 --> 0:42:59.880 Huh exactly, yeah, exactly exactly. 0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:01.600 Yeah, I'm now I'm offended. 0:43:01.680 --> 0:43:04.200 Well, look I did it for one post. I did 0:43:04.200 --> 0:43:05.880 it for one post because knew you we're gonna kill me. 0:43:06.360 --> 0:43:07.320 I really did it yesterday. 0:43:07.440 --> 0:43:08.880 That's what he said to me when he blocked me. 0:43:09.920 --> 0:43:12.320 I forget to unblock everybody, and then they do you guys. 0:43:12.239 --> 0:43:14.839 Why would you want me to see it? I'm gonna 0:43:14.880 --> 0:43:17.160 laugh at it. I'm still I'm gonna still wish you 0:43:17.200 --> 0:43:19.880 a happy birthday. I'm not that guy say happy birthday. 0:43:20.200 --> 0:43:22.080 But it's like, damn, don't block me, let me lak 0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:23.280 let me get my ship. 0:43:23.040 --> 0:43:25.360 On the want you, Julian, I ain't want you to 0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:27.160 know he was at dumble House on his birthday. 0:43:27.520 --> 0:43:29.920 I know anyway, I know you on that work. I 0:43:29.920 --> 0:43:31.960 got all over the city, like you crazy. I know 0:43:32.120 --> 0:43:33.120 anybody's at all time. 0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:35.040 You do, got somebody in double house. You're supposed to 0:43:35.040 --> 0:43:35.239 take me. 0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:38.000 To the point everywhere, man, don't worry everywhere. 0:43:38.160 --> 0:43:40.200 It is funny. I only blocked. I had the thought 0:43:40.200 --> 0:43:42.440 I was like doing blocked the whole crew. I only 0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:45.560 blocked them all like why was like this is gonna 0:43:45.600 --> 0:43:47.239 come back around like. 0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:49.919 You blocking me for Like, I'm gonna laugh and still 0:43:49.920 --> 0:43:53.560 wish you a happy birthday. Only fucking Pansy happy birthday, 0:43:53.600 --> 0:43:54.360 Like that's all what. 0:43:55.640 --> 0:43:56.440 There was a double house. 0:43:57.840 --> 0:44:00.680 Yeah, that's exactly what blocking the ball, not the big 0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:02.480 mouth coworkers. I didn't tell me it was that dumble house. 0:44:02.480 --> 0:44:05.160 So that was peach, fuck your p say that. 0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:10.600 Oh no, I was I was blocked. 0:44:10.600 --> 0:44:12.520 You should have just got rid all of us. But yeah, 0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:12.880 I don't know. 0:44:12.920 --> 0:44:14.480 I just feel like at this day and ag and 0:44:14.520 --> 0:44:16.279 like in this we we are old. I mean, I 0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:18.200 know you're old, but we're old too, Like he just 0:44:18.200 --> 0:44:22.480 turned thirty seven. Like we have to stop with the 0:44:22.520 --> 0:44:26.040 people expecting us to be in touch with their emotions 0:44:26.080 --> 0:44:28.800 all the time, Like we're not out here paying bills, 0:44:28.880 --> 0:44:32.439 fighting crime, raising kids, like water and plants. Like we're 0:44:32.480 --> 0:44:34.360 all just trying to keep saying. I'm not gonna remember 0:44:34.360 --> 0:44:36.000 your birthday. I'm not going to remember that it's your 0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:38.879 grandmother's funeral. I'm not going to remember everything. If you 0:44:39.000 --> 0:44:41.600 need me, be humble enough to reach out to me 0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:44.439 and tell me that you need me. Yeah, I'm still 0:44:44.440 --> 0:44:46.560 gonna check on you whenever I think about you. But 0:44:47.160 --> 0:44:48.560 if I'm checking on you at a time when you 0:44:48.560 --> 0:44:49.880 don't need me, and then the time that you do 0:44:50.000 --> 0:44:51.839 need me, I'm not there or I don't know. 0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:53.520 To be there, you have to let me know that 0:44:53.920 --> 0:44:54.480 you need me. 0:44:54.560 --> 0:44:57.200 And I have no problem like coming to your aid 0:44:57.280 --> 0:44:59.359 or being there for you, being present as a friend. 0:44:59.400 --> 0:45:03.279 But I ca can't. I can't, like I can't just 0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:04.680 know that I have a bunch of shit going on. 0:45:04.719 --> 0:45:06.239 And that's another thing. People think, Well, you don't have kids, 0:45:06.280 --> 0:45:08.440 that you don't have anything going on, especially people with kids, 0:45:08.800 --> 0:45:09.239 like you don't have. 0:45:09.280 --> 0:45:10.439 Kids, you have all this free time. 0:45:11.040 --> 0:45:11.560 No I don't. 0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:15.480 And it's like, actually, no, I don't. I still have 0:45:15.520 --> 0:45:17.040 a bunch of shit going on. My life has a 0:45:17.120 --> 0:45:18.919 lot of value and a lot of business. Just because 0:45:18.920 --> 0:45:20.439 I don't have kids, It doesn't mean that I don't 0:45:20.440 --> 0:45:22.480 have shit going on. But that's what people with kids think. 0:45:22.800 --> 0:45:24.160 Like one of my best friends, he had a kid 0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:27.240 a couple of years ago, and our relationship definitely changed, 0:45:27.280 --> 0:45:31.080 but not in a negative way. It's roy no, not ry, 0:45:31.560 --> 0:45:33.440 but but they had a kid around the same time. 0:45:33.440 --> 0:45:35.560 Though actually it's like not too far apart. But yeah, 0:45:35.640 --> 0:45:38.120 like our relationship changed without a doubt, Like we don't 0:45:38.120 --> 0:45:40.759 see each other as much, we don't hang out as much, like, 0:45:41.280 --> 0:45:43.839 but like we still like I cannot speak to him 0:45:43.840 --> 0:45:48.040 for three weeks. The next moment we get on the phone, 0:45:48.200 --> 0:45:50.239 we pick up right where we left off. It's like 0:45:50.320 --> 0:45:51.960 every time, Like and that's the type of friendships I 0:45:52.000 --> 0:45:54.480 appreciate as we get old. It's like though, like we 0:45:54.480 --> 0:45:56.439 don't have to speak every day, Like we don't speak 0:45:56.440 --> 0:45:58.440 every day for me, for you to prove you my homie, 0:45:59.239 --> 0:46:00.719 be my homi when I'm I'm not in that room, 0:46:00.880 --> 0:46:04.279 ooh hello, you know what I'm saying, Like, be my 0:46:04.320 --> 0:46:06.239 homie when I'm not around, don't be my homie when 0:46:06.239 --> 0:46:08.200 we on the phone and we hanging out together, Be 0:46:08.280 --> 0:46:10.480 my homie when I'm not there. And niggas get to 0:46:10.480 --> 0:46:13.120 talk and slick and you're like, yo, who you talking about? Facts? 0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:15.440 He could pull up right now, you can say the 0:46:15.440 --> 0:46:18.160 same shit like and we can see how the conversation goes. 0:46:18.200 --> 0:46:20.560 Like that's the type of friends I like. I don't 0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:23.879 I don't need to speak to my friends every single day. 0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:26.719 That's just crazy to me. Like life and you got kids, 0:46:26.760 --> 0:46:29.439 you got a family, Like if you need me, I'm here. 0:46:29.719 --> 0:46:31.600 The phone still work, But like I ain't about to 0:46:31.640 --> 0:46:33.080 call you and pull up to your crib or you 0:46:33.080 --> 0:46:34.640 come to my crib every day. We're not doing not 0:46:34.680 --> 0:46:35.680 as adults. We're not doing that. 0:46:36.600 --> 0:46:39.480 That's that you mentioned that. Be my homie when I'm 0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:39.759 not in. 0:46:39.680 --> 0:46:41.439 A room, Be my homie when I'm not in that room. 0:46:41.480 --> 0:46:44.239 I think different people value different things in friendship. The 0:46:44.280 --> 0:46:47.400 thing that I value the most is you protecting me, 0:46:47.480 --> 0:46:50.360 because I am so protect protecting of my friends. 0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:52.160 So I like feeling protected. 0:46:52.400 --> 0:46:54.480 So don't anybody who has ever come to me and 0:46:54.520 --> 0:46:57.239 told me what somebody said to me. I instantly get 0:46:57.239 --> 0:46:58.839 pissed at them me because it's like, why do they 0:46:58.840 --> 0:47:01.800 feel so comfortable saying that you Because a person would 0:47:02.040 --> 0:47:04.920 never come to me and say anything harmful about one 0:47:04.920 --> 0:47:06.680 of my friends. They would never even feel comfortable because 0:47:06.680 --> 0:47:08.359 they know they were liable to get cussed the fuck out. 0:47:08.600 --> 0:47:12.000 So somebody feeling comfortable enough to you for that information 0:47:12.040 --> 0:47:13.640 to get to you, and you bring it back to me. 0:47:13.840 --> 0:47:16.719 And you ain't checked them. I don't fuck with shit 0:47:16.800 --> 0:47:18.000 like that. And a lot of people were like, oh, well, 0:47:18.000 --> 0:47:20.319 everybody's not confrontational this, this, and that. Well, I don't 0:47:20.360 --> 0:47:23.480 like having pussy friends. Somebody say something me, you best, I've. 0:47:23.320 --> 0:47:25.560 Done that before. I've called my friend that I was 0:47:25.600 --> 0:47:27.600 hanging out and some dudes that was there was talking 0:47:27.640 --> 0:47:29.400 about one of my homies and I text him and 0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:32.400 told him to come damn. And he walked in and 0:47:32.400 --> 0:47:33.840 we said, O, I say, yeah, so tell them what 0:47:33.920 --> 0:47:35.879 y'all was just talking about. I make it. I get 0:47:35.920 --> 0:47:38.680 right to it. Oh, I make it super awkward, yo, 0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:41.719 team right here. Don't tell me that you don't like 0:47:41.760 --> 0:47:43.640 what he said and what he did. And I tell 0:47:43.719 --> 0:47:46.040 him and it was cool. It wasn't no fight, but 0:47:46.080 --> 0:47:48.040 it was just kind of like the initial like when 0:47:48.040 --> 0:47:53.480 he walked in, like god, damn. I was like yeah, 0:47:53.880 --> 0:47:55.480 and he sat down because you already knew what I 0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:57.719 gave him the play already. I'm like, Yo, it's a 0:47:57.719 --> 0:47:59.160 little you know what I mean, a little slick talk. 0:47:59.800 --> 0:48:02.000 So sweet game man, Yo, what up? He's saying? So 0:48:02.000 --> 0:48:03.719 what's up? What were we talking about? Got right to it? 0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:03.960 Oh? 0:48:04.080 --> 0:48:06.759 I like that like that. I got my shit on me, 0:48:06.840 --> 0:48:09.720 so I did to go down here Are you okay? 0:48:09.800 --> 0:48:12.160 I'm sorry, baby, I'm working on myself. I'm coming to 0:48:12.160 --> 0:48:14.480 a better man. You taking drinking like more mushroom water 0:48:14.520 --> 0:48:15.040 and shit like that. 0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:17.000 Have you guys heard about this? Kaylan? Anything? 0:48:17.800 --> 0:48:20.880 I don't know but she looked good. Yeah, I agree 0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:22.920 with what mam said. I don't know what happened to 0:48:22.920 --> 0:48:24.040 all right, I'm sorry? What is is? 0:48:24.040 --> 0:48:24.120 She? 0:48:24.160 --> 0:48:24.440 Okay? 0:48:24.920 --> 0:48:27.279 So kay Lonnie was getting killed all day yesterday while 0:48:27.320 --> 0:48:29.439 me and you were recording. She was getting killed become 0:48:29.760 --> 0:48:31.960 because some files came out from her custody hearing that 0:48:32.000 --> 0:48:35.040 she's in with her baby father. It's a really nasty custody. 0:48:35.360 --> 0:48:36.480 Isn't her baby father gay? 0:48:37.360 --> 0:48:39.520 That was so the baby father is coming out saying 0:48:39.520 --> 0:48:41.280 that he not gay, and that Kaylinie was telling everybody 0:48:41.320 --> 0:48:41.719 he was gay. 0:48:41.719 --> 0:48:44.160 It's all types of stuff. Kay Lannie ain't saying you 0:48:44.200 --> 0:48:46.440 gay if you ain't gay, man, she knows something in 0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:47.480 the world, don't we go ahead? 0:48:47.760 --> 0:48:52.080 So he was basically trying to say he had some 0:48:52.200 --> 0:48:57.040 text messages from Kaylannie and basically was like, we're Kaylannie 0:48:57.080 --> 0:48:59.680 and the text missus. Kaylennie has said that heard that 0:48:59.719 --> 0:49:04.120 they're daughter was her wife in a past life. 0:49:04.320 --> 0:49:06.160 So the internet was killing her. 0:49:06.719 --> 0:49:10.080 Now when Kaylanie came out and clarified, Kaylanie's like, I 0:49:10.080 --> 0:49:11.920 can't believe I have to speak on this, like these 0:49:12.080 --> 0:49:14.440 documents were lead a ah. But if you're gonna you know, 0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:17.760 post text messages, don't doctor the text messages. So Kaylanie 0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:19.759 came out and posted the full text messages and come 0:49:19.840 --> 0:49:21.960 to find out, it was really just Kaylanie went and 0:49:22.000 --> 0:49:24.839 got like a spiritual reading, and the spiritual reader told 0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:26.719 her that that her daughter was her wife in a 0:49:26.760 --> 0:49:27.480 past life. 0:49:27.640 --> 0:49:28.720 In the In the text. 0:49:28.560 --> 0:49:32.240 Messages, Kaylanie continues to go like this lady probably lying, 0:49:32.360 --> 0:49:34.040 like she said, I was here before earth? 0:49:34.080 --> 0:49:35.200 Like what am I a fossil? 0:49:35.280 --> 0:49:37.600 Like mad laughing emoji's like it was kind of making 0:49:37.640 --> 0:49:39.160 fun of the reading that she got. 0:49:39.280 --> 0:49:41.120 But the husband, well, the baby. 0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:43.640 Father manipulated that he took it to the kid, tried 0:49:43.680 --> 0:49:45.480 to weaponize it and basically he's trying to make it 0:49:45.520 --> 0:49:46.800 seem like Kaylanie's a pedophile. 0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:51.160 So they said that she's like yeah, like the headlines 0:49:51.239 --> 0:49:54.080 or you know, is she involved with a cult? Is 0:49:54.120 --> 0:49:56.600 her daughter being raised in a cult like environment? And 0:49:56.719 --> 0:49:58.600 it's all those accusations. 0:49:58.080 --> 0:50:00.000 And honestly, I think that's very I don't know exact 0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:02.040 what's going on, so I won't speak to anybody's guilt 0:50:02.120 --> 0:50:05.080 or innocence, but what is giving to me is giving 0:50:05.200 --> 0:50:11.400 very much anti spirituality. You know, Kaylanie is very sorry. 0:50:12.760 --> 0:50:14.359 No, that's a funny thing to. 0:50:14.280 --> 0:50:16.000 Say anti spirituality people are. 0:50:16.360 --> 0:50:18.719 No, yeah, yes they are, but I'm saying that's just 0:50:18.800 --> 0:50:19.920 a funny term to me. 0:50:20.440 --> 0:50:24.080 I think people are just like people don't understand spirituality 0:50:24.120 --> 0:50:27.440 unless it's wrapped up in a particular religion. So I 0:50:27.480 --> 0:50:29.480 think that that is where a lot of this is 0:50:29.480 --> 0:50:32.520 coming from, because Kilnie has always been very openly spiritual. 0:50:32.800 --> 0:50:33.760 Now I don't know anything. 0:50:33.760 --> 0:50:37.200 There were some allegations about her letting an adult sleep 0:50:37.200 --> 0:50:38.000 in her daughter's bed. 0:50:38.160 --> 0:50:42.080 I don't know what the part of these are. The 0:50:42.120 --> 0:50:45.719 things that I wish weren't we weren't privy to, Like 0:50:45.760 --> 0:50:48.360 these are the you know, situations and conversations that I 0:50:48.440 --> 0:50:52.640 just don't think we need to know about. Like, you know, 0:50:52.680 --> 0:50:56.160 if this is hopefully the daughter is safe, which I'm 0:50:56.160 --> 0:50:58.400 gonna go out and say, I'm sure she is. I 0:50:58.440 --> 0:51:02.719 don't think Kaylanie is an evil spirited woman. I think 0:51:02.760 --> 0:51:06.480 she's taking care of her child, you know, as much 0:51:06.520 --> 0:51:08.720 as any loving parent would take care of that child. 0:51:08.880 --> 0:51:13.440 You know, sometimes things get twisted in words, especially litigation court. 0:51:14.040 --> 0:51:16.239 You got one parent that's trying to get whatever they're 0:51:16.239 --> 0:51:18.440 trying to get so it's a tug of war back 0:51:18.480 --> 0:51:22.040 and forth. But again, I just things like this. I 0:51:22.080 --> 0:51:25.279 don't think that we we need to know about such 0:51:25.360 --> 0:51:29.120 personal details about you know, person's family. But you know, 0:51:30.080 --> 0:51:31.399 we support Kaylani over here. 0:51:31.480 --> 0:51:33.840 So yeah, and if it does come out that Kaylanie's 0:51:33.840 --> 0:51:35.480 a weirdo, then we will stand on it like we 0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:38.240 stand out with all weirds. I just haven't seen any 0:51:38.520 --> 0:51:42.480 proof of anything, or any even a skepticism of a 0:51:42.520 --> 0:51:45.520 proof that she's doing something weird. She's clarified the text 0:51:45.600 --> 0:51:48.560 messages for herself like so I don't know, but we'll 0:51:48.600 --> 0:51:49.800 see what happens. 0:51:49.840 --> 0:51:51.960 I just wish we didn't have to see what happens. 0:51:52.239 --> 0:51:54.640 I've been getting a lot of those co parent conversations lately, 0:51:55.120 --> 0:51:57.520 who you would smoke that? Like the past year, like 0:51:57.600 --> 0:52:00.960 a lot of women that I know, like not saying 0:52:01.000 --> 0:52:03.319 with them, but like that conversation has been coming around 0:52:03.320 --> 0:52:06.239 a lot, like you would be a great co parent. 0:52:06.280 --> 0:52:08.879 I'm like, what does that mean? Like, Nah, woman would 0:52:09.000 --> 0:52:10.600 like that you would be what she knows that no 0:52:10.640 --> 0:52:12.160 matter what, if y'all don't work out as far as 0:52:12.200 --> 0:52:15.040 a relationship like a couple, if y'all have a kid, together, 0:52:15.080 --> 0:52:16.560 like the baby's gonna be great. 0:52:16.680 --> 0:52:17.640 You too strict for me? 0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:21.600 What you mean? I'm not with you? All right now? 0:52:21.640 --> 0:52:23.440 I like that we landed here. How am I strict? 0:52:23.480 --> 0:52:29.080 You strict? Every five seconds? Margos? You can't do that 0:52:29.200 --> 0:52:29.879 every five second? 0:52:29.880 --> 0:52:32.440 Can't nobody do nothing? You gonna tell me that this 0:52:32.520 --> 0:52:35.600 people is doing this? This is mental illness. You too strict? 0:52:35.840 --> 0:52:37.960 But some of it is mental illness. No, I think 0:52:37.960 --> 0:52:39.120 we've agreed on certain. 0:52:38.920 --> 0:52:41.560 Things, certain things one out of seven. 0:52:41.760 --> 0:52:43.920 Don't make it seem like I just be saying everything 0:52:44.040 --> 0:52:45.640 is like, I'm not that guy. Don't make me have 0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:47.120 to be that guy. I'm just saying a lot of 0:52:47.160 --> 0:52:49.200 the things that I do speak on is like, bro, 0:52:49.320 --> 0:52:51.359 this is not Is this okay? Now? 0:52:51.400 --> 0:52:51.480 Like? 0:52:51.600 --> 0:52:54.200 Is this accepted? Now? This is kind of crazy? And 0:52:54.280 --> 0:52:55.120 you agree with some. 0:52:55.080 --> 0:52:57.080 Of it, yes, but you're also a very my baby 0:52:57.120 --> 0:52:58.839 mother not about to be doing this. My baby mother 0:52:58.920 --> 0:52:59.680 not about to be doing that. 0:53:00.760 --> 0:53:02.840 But tell me, don't just say that no you can't. 0:53:03.440 --> 0:53:05.200 What is what is this? What is that? Like? Don't 0:53:05.239 --> 0:53:06.960 don't do that? Like tell me what I said that 0:53:07.040 --> 0:53:08.759 you was, like, why your baby mother can't do that? 0:53:09.239 --> 0:53:11.640 Because I think that I'm brother can't date certain people 0:53:11.680 --> 0:53:13.440 like you would be strict about who she dating, even 0:53:13.440 --> 0:53:15.640 if y'all not a relationship, you won't be strict about 0:53:15.640 --> 0:53:16.239 who she's dating. 0:53:16.280 --> 0:53:19.320 I'm strict about who my friends that I've never slept 0:53:19.320 --> 0:53:21.400 with are day in my homegirls exactly, I'm yo, why 0:53:21.400 --> 0:53:23.720 are you with this dude? But that's not because I'm strict. 0:53:23.760 --> 0:53:26.000 I'm just like, yo, like no that you should be 0:53:26.000 --> 0:53:27.799 honest with your friends about what I'm talking about. I 0:53:27.800 --> 0:53:30.719 can't be honest with my baby, which your baby mother. 0:53:30.800 --> 0:53:32.279 You would be more restrictive than I. 0:53:32.440 --> 0:53:34.200 But sure, my bait because my because now I have 0:53:34.239 --> 0:53:36.359 a baby with you, my baby, which makes sense. Now 0:53:36.400 --> 0:53:39.400 you're dating some clown because we're not together, cool, you 0:53:39.480 --> 0:53:41.040 free to day whoever you want. But now you're dating 0:53:41.080 --> 0:53:42.799 this clown and then my daughter or my son is 0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:44.919 over there and now he mad you're not answering your phone, 0:53:44.920 --> 0:53:47.080 and he popping up at your cribinaf you see where? 0:53:47.200 --> 0:53:49.839 But see that's that's yes, that's anything that will put 0:53:49.840 --> 0:53:50.960 your child in danger is. 0:53:51.000 --> 0:53:53.399 So that's why I'm speaking from like, if you're gonna date, 0:53:53.520 --> 0:53:55.160 like if we don't work out, me and my baby 0:53:55.160 --> 0:53:57.759 mother split, don't work out cool. Of course you can date, 0:53:57.800 --> 0:54:03.600 but like be very demure that the word to use, 0:54:03.640 --> 0:54:06.560 I don't know, be very mindful of, be very mindful 0:54:06.600 --> 0:54:08.880 of the people that you're dating, because now you have 0:54:09.000 --> 0:54:11.640 my child, Like my child is with you. He mad, 0:54:11.680 --> 0:54:14.440 you ain't call him back. He's stalking you. Now you're 0:54:14.440 --> 0:54:16.239 going to drop my kid off in school. He pop 0:54:16.280 --> 0:54:17.200 out the call behind you. 0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:21.160 Trying to break stuff like that, of course, but I'm 0:54:21.200 --> 0:54:21.920 just trying to I'm. 0:54:21.760 --> 0:54:23.840 Like, why are you dating that goofy ass nigga? Like 0:54:23.880 --> 0:54:25.960 he got protas, Like I feel like that's the type 0:54:25.960 --> 0:54:26.239 of ship. 0:54:26.280 --> 0:54:30.719 You gonna see why she stretches. So I've never said 0:54:31.480 --> 0:54:33.680 I've never said nothing like that. So y'all try to 0:54:33.680 --> 0:54:35.520 pay me to be this guy. And I'm not that 0:54:35.680 --> 0:54:37.319 you have not some goofies out here, but you know 0:54:37.360 --> 0:54:42.720 the goofies too. You pointed out why exactly, Janna goofy 0:54:43.400 --> 0:54:46.640 so because so because I do it. It's like, yo, 0:54:46.680 --> 0:54:49.839 you straight you do the same ship you pointed out, 0:54:49.880 --> 0:54:50.560 I'm pointed out. 0:54:50.680 --> 0:54:52.960 I think you said far more similar than you are, 0:54:55.480 --> 0:54:56.520 very similar. 0:54:56.440 --> 0:54:58.399 Very similar. Like that's why I be laughing at ship. 0:54:58.440 --> 0:55:00.919 I don't even say you sometimes I just start laughing 0:55:00.920 --> 0:55:03.359 because I'm like, but if I said that, dimarras will 0:55:03.360 --> 0:55:04.520 be like this nigga. 0:55:04.560 --> 0:55:07.520 But it's like you would say it, say shit worse. 0:55:07.560 --> 0:55:09.000 I put a little brown sugar on it. 0:55:09.120 --> 0:55:09.360 That's what. 0:55:09.440 --> 0:55:11.560 See when you get forty. When you pass forty, baby 0:55:11.600 --> 0:55:14.680 d you don't put cut on nothing. You like list. 0:55:14.719 --> 0:55:17.040 This is what it is either you. If you offend it, 0:55:17.080 --> 0:55:19.800 oh well, it's the truth. Be offended at the truth. 0:55:19.880 --> 0:55:22.399 I can't. I can't argue with that. You can't argue 0:55:22.440 --> 0:55:24.680 the truth like that's the truth. If I say something 0:55:24.680 --> 0:55:27.120 that's like, yeah, that's real, you look crazy doing that. 0:55:28.520 --> 0:55:33.440 I'm a vigor make God, I'm hurt. What No, I 0:55:33.480 --> 0:55:36.319 gave you the truth, deal with it, change or not 0:55:36.480 --> 0:55:38.680 do live your life. But I'm gonna be honest with you. 0:55:38.719 --> 0:55:41.400 How would you break it to your friend who is 0:55:41.520 --> 0:55:45.160 very sensitive, your friend that is very close. She wants 0:55:45.200 --> 0:55:47.040 to have a baby with the person she's with, But 0:55:47.080 --> 0:55:50.759 the person she's with is a bum and this is 0:55:50.760 --> 0:55:52.880 my homegirl. But she don't see him as a bum. 0:55:53.239 --> 0:55:54.839 But the world know he's a bum, but she don't 0:55:54.840 --> 0:55:57.799 see him as a bum. How do you politely tell, like, 0:55:57.960 --> 0:56:00.000 in what way would you at forty, you give me 0:56:00.120 --> 0:56:03.520 this wisdom. Tell her, Hey, this nigga is a bum? 0:56:04.760 --> 0:56:06.960 How would you and this is this is my friend. 0:56:07.520 --> 0:56:08.279 Your very close friend. 0:56:08.320 --> 0:56:12.680 Let's say a cousin, Oh my cousin, my blood. Oh 0:56:12.719 --> 0:56:15.520 it's no cut. You don't put no cut on it 0:56:15.600 --> 0:56:18.160 with your family. I'm gonna say, Yo, who is this? Yo? 0:56:18.200 --> 0:56:20.560 He's a clown, He he's a bum? 0:56:20.840 --> 0:56:22.279 Does she stay with him? She loves them? 0:56:22.400 --> 0:56:24.640 So you're about to have you about to have a bum, kid, 0:56:25.400 --> 0:56:29.680 But to have a bum baby? Mmm, if that's my 0:56:29.800 --> 0:56:32.719 if you's my cousin, see, I'm more If it's just 0:56:32.760 --> 0:56:35.279 a friend, I'm kind of more like, let me tone 0:56:35.320 --> 0:56:38.560 it down. But if it's my cousin blood, we grew 0:56:38.600 --> 0:56:41.000 up together. What that's like? My sister, Yo, what is 0:56:41.040 --> 0:56:43.840 you doing with him? He's a bum? 0:56:43.920 --> 0:56:45.799 So what if you have that whole entire conversation with 0:56:45.880 --> 0:56:47.719 him with her and she stayed with him. 0:56:47.680 --> 0:56:49.400 Then she get everything she got coming to her. She 0:56:49.400 --> 0:56:54.839 gonna have a bum. Reality, she about to have a 0:56:55.160 --> 0:56:58.560 bum experience. I don't know, Like now you're about to 0:56:58.600 --> 0:57:00.799 be everything is just gonna be your problem is gonna 0:57:00.800 --> 0:57:03.360 be issues on issues on it because you with somebody 0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:05.600 that don't want more, that don't want better, that don't 0:57:05.600 --> 0:57:08.640 want to elevate, like he gonna end up pulling you down. 0:57:08.760 --> 0:57:10.800 Now you back in the hood, living in a fucking 0:57:10.960 --> 0:57:14.680 studio apartment, you would a bum. You gotta cut that 0:57:14.719 --> 0:57:17.800 bum energy man, like that's just But again, you gotta 0:57:17.840 --> 0:57:20.720 be kind of sensitive when it's just a friend. You 0:57:20.720 --> 0:57:22.840 don't want to be too harsh. But you said, cousin, 0:57:23.200 --> 0:57:25.000 I'm not putting cut on it with my cousin. No, 0:57:25.520 --> 0:57:28.560 my cousin, get it raw pause raw, uncut, Like, Yo, 0:57:28.600 --> 0:57:30.520 he's a bumm, he's a lane. Buy you with him? 0:57:31.000 --> 0:57:34.640 What's the upside of being with him? Tell me what 0:57:34.680 --> 0:57:37.160 you love, Jackson, Tell me what you love about this dude. 0:57:37.160 --> 0:57:38.840 Tell me what he does for you, Like when you 0:57:38.880 --> 0:57:40.720 wake up and you look at him and you're about 0:57:40.720 --> 0:57:42.600 to get dressed and go to work and he's still sleeping, 0:57:43.320 --> 0:57:46.600 and you come home and he's still sleeping, Like, what 0:57:47.000 --> 0:57:47.840 does that do for you? 0:57:47.920 --> 0:57:49.240 And then when you come home he asked to borrow 0:57:49.240 --> 0:57:49.600 your car. 0:57:49.880 --> 0:57:52.280 Yeah, you come home, you borrow your car, you get 0:57:52.280 --> 0:57:55.240 it back on e he in the car with you. 0:57:55.240 --> 0:57:57.240 When you'll go to the gas station, you don't get 0:57:57.280 --> 0:57:58.240 out and pump the gas. 0:57:58.360 --> 0:57:59.880 He don't pay for the gas. Don't pump it. 0:58:00.200 --> 0:58:01.640 What are you doing with this nigga? 0:58:01.960 --> 0:58:02.600 Live in New Jersey? 0:58:02.680 --> 0:58:04.040 You gotta ca youre about to give him a baby? 0:58:04.040 --> 0:58:07.640 You already got a baby with this nigga. You taking 0:58:07.680 --> 0:58:09.800 care of him. So it's like, you know, that's the conversation. 0:58:09.920 --> 0:58:12.440 That's just me, though I don't if it's somebody that 0:58:12.520 --> 0:58:15.480 I love and I care about, I'm just all the way. 0:58:15.760 --> 0:58:17.640 You know, are you gonna babysit the bum baby? Wash it? 0:58:18.000 --> 0:58:22.400 I don't watch bums man. I don't watch bum kids. 0:58:22.440 --> 0:58:22.640 Man. 0:58:22.800 --> 0:58:24.400 The kids are bummy. Ain't right if you're the god, 0:58:24.640 --> 0:58:28.080 no respect, no fucking This nigga just loud, breaking ship 0:58:28.240 --> 0:58:33.600 and dirty. He's about like an infant. Oh, if it's 0:58:33.640 --> 0:58:35.080 an infant, then yeah, But I'm talking about when they 0:58:35.120 --> 0:58:37.200 get to that age where they don't listen and talk back. 0:58:37.280 --> 0:58:39.280 I get this little get him out of here. I 0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:40.000 know where he had it. 0:58:40.040 --> 0:58:41.200 Get this her little waian. 0:58:41.320 --> 0:58:44.560 Yeah, he two years from getting this first shisty. I'm 0:58:44.560 --> 0:58:49.360 out of here. He grady to get his first Nike 0:58:49.480 --> 0:58:51.400 shisty in about two summers. Get him out of my 0:58:51.440 --> 0:58:51.960 house man. 0:58:52.440 --> 0:58:54.640 Yeah, so you would be you wouldn't become a guy 0:58:54.720 --> 0:58:56.160 father to the bum baby. 0:58:56.000 --> 0:58:58.160 Not to no bum baby, like if you got a 0:58:58.160 --> 0:59:00.160 baby with a bum. I don't want to be that guy. 0:59:00.040 --> 0:59:02.400 Our father, but he needs you more than ever though. 0:59:02.520 --> 0:59:04.080 I mean, I'll be around, but we ain't about to 0:59:04.120 --> 0:59:05.960 go to the I'm not about to take pictures at 0:59:05.960 --> 0:59:07.840 the church with holding this little nigga. I ain't about 0:59:07.840 --> 0:59:11.760 to do that. What if he develops a good left Oh, 0:59:11.760 --> 0:59:14.640 then we could talk. Then we got once. I hear yo, 0:59:14.680 --> 0:59:16.520 he and the park going crazy right now? My word? 0:59:16.520 --> 0:59:21.280 All right, let me go get a nephew. You know 0:59:21.480 --> 0:59:24.040 you hear about your homegirl sonny Like, Yo, you know 0:59:24.080 --> 0:59:25.760 he out there. He gave him thirty, like he gave 0:59:25.840 --> 0:59:28.080 him thirty. I'm gonna go pick him up this week 0:59:28.080 --> 0:59:30.440 and to take him out. Hell yeah, he gonna be somebody. 0:59:30.720 --> 0:59:32.760 But until then, get him out of here. Man, I'm 0:59:32.800 --> 0:59:34.000 not watching bump kids. 0:59:34.200 --> 0:59:35.800 I just feel like maul It takes a village, and 0:59:35.800 --> 0:59:37.280 I feel like the kids that don't really have the 0:59:37.320 --> 0:59:39.240 most guidance are the ones that you should give guidance. 0:59:39.400 --> 0:59:41.480 Yeah, but baby d you're gonna learn that some of 0:59:41.560 --> 0:59:45.080 these we can't save them all. Some of them were 0:59:45.120 --> 0:59:47.080 just gonna have to let go. That's just a reality 0:59:47.120 --> 0:59:49.880 in the community I grew up. I lived in the 0:59:49.880 --> 0:59:51.920 same building with some niggas that's doing life in prison 0:59:51.920 --> 0:59:54.800 for murder right now, and I still ca'm like him. 0:59:55.240 --> 0:59:57.960 That was my man, that niggas a Stone Cooke killing 0:59:58.040 --> 1:00:01.000 now like both parents, it's had a great went to 1:00:01.040 --> 1:00:03.240 good schools, Like how where did he make that left at? 1:00:04.160 --> 1:00:05.600 But then when you think back, you're like, oh, no, 1:00:05.680 --> 1:00:07.240 I could see it. I get it now. 1:00:07.320 --> 1:00:08.880 He was always a little off in math class. 1:00:08.920 --> 1:00:11.400 He always had that little where it's like, yo, it 1:00:11.400 --> 1:00:13.800 ain't that serious, Yo, calm down, like you know that 1:00:13.880 --> 1:00:16.000 type of energy. It's like yo, he going crazy like 1:00:16.600 --> 1:00:18.760 and then as they get older, it just becomes more severe. 1:00:18.840 --> 1:00:20.600 But you can see it though. But it's just it's 1:00:20.600 --> 1:00:23.360 always funny when you when you look back at at 1:00:23.600 --> 1:00:25.920 kids you grew up with, like, yo, what's up with him? 1:00:25.920 --> 1:00:29.120 What's up with People start telling you, it's like what, 1:00:29.480 --> 1:00:32.240 Like how does that like? I'm talking about people that 1:00:32.440 --> 1:00:35.160 in the same building. We all grew up together, and 1:00:35.240 --> 1:00:38.200 it's like the way that our lives just go different ways. 1:00:38.240 --> 1:00:40.520 It's just to me, it's very interesting because just like 1:00:41.320 --> 1:00:44.000 our start was the same. Granted, every household is different 1:00:44.120 --> 1:00:46.720 and every you know, parents of different things like that, 1:00:46.800 --> 1:00:50.160 but to know that I was like shoulder the shoulder 1:00:50.160 --> 1:00:54.240 as a kid every day slumber parties and all of 1:00:54.280 --> 1:00:57.240 that with people that are doing like life in prison 1:00:57.280 --> 1:01:01.520 for like triple homicide, it's like, damn, I used to 1:01:01.560 --> 1:01:03.560 be me and this nigga used to ship like sega 1:01:03.600 --> 1:01:06.200 games and ship like that. Like he was the coolest 1:01:06.280 --> 1:01:07.160 kid in the building, was he? 1:01:07.240 --> 1:01:09.240 But but when he got mad, was he the nigga 1:01:09.280 --> 1:01:10.040 that start going. 1:01:11.800 --> 1:01:11.880 That? 1:01:12.160 --> 1:01:14.200 Like when he was it wasn't that, but it was 1:01:14.320 --> 1:01:17.640 it was like you could see certain things where it's like, Yo, 1:01:17.680 --> 1:01:19.240 you're still mad about that? You know what I'm saying? 1:01:19.240 --> 1:01:21.600 What niggas still holding all the ship? You Like, Oh 1:01:21.840 --> 1:01:23.160 I taught a student like that? 1:01:23.480 --> 1:01:26.600 Oh man, that poor kid. I hope he's doing all right. Yeah, 1:01:26.760 --> 1:01:31.560 like those it was though, like, yeah, Chicago, like through 1:01:32.000 --> 1:01:35.000 the most insane tantrums I've ever seen. 1:01:34.800 --> 1:01:36.120 And it's like, Yo, you can't be down. 1:01:36.120 --> 1:01:37.920 There's no way this hot over that. 1:01:38.040 --> 1:01:39.280 Yeah, Like it's like what is going on? 1:01:39.440 --> 1:01:41.320 Ship would tomorrow come back tomorrow? 1:01:41.440 --> 1:01:43.000 Still hot. The next you go to. 1:01:43.040 --> 1:01:46.000 Sleep, wake up, eat breakfast, and you still pissed. 1:01:45.720 --> 1:01:46.880 Off some shit mad. 1:01:46.960 --> 1:01:48.800 I'm like, y'all, damn, I'm gonna do that. I hope 1:01:48.840 --> 1:01:49.640 that kid the best. 1:01:49.720 --> 1:01:51.880 Don't act like you don't, because we'll have how much 1:01:51.920 --> 1:01:53.720 time we got left peace, We'll have a whole conversation 1:01:53.840 --> 1:01:55.280 here about how you do the same ship you don'et 1:01:55.280 --> 1:01:57.040 went to bed hot of the nigga woke up and 1:01:57.160 --> 1:01:59.959 was hot, still feet burning, but. 1:01:59.880 --> 1:02:02.240 The rage the top of your might have still been 1:02:02.320 --> 1:02:05.120 pissed off, but the rage part is not still Like 1:02:05.400 --> 1:02:07.320 when I'm in the rage part, I can't go to 1:02:07.320 --> 1:02:09.840 sleep until I release the rage. Do you don't see 1:02:09.840 --> 1:02:10.280 what I'm saying? 1:02:10.280 --> 1:02:11.160 Like, what did you released? 1:02:11.200 --> 1:02:11.240 Like? 1:02:11.240 --> 1:02:11.880 How do you release? 1:02:11.960 --> 1:02:13.120 Take a ship? I go? 1:02:13.200 --> 1:02:14.920 Sometimes I go to the park and scream. 1:02:15.320 --> 1:02:15.840 You do that? 1:02:16.040 --> 1:02:17.200 Yeah, I'm a big screamer. 1:02:18.440 --> 1:02:19.480 You know how. 1:02:19.280 --> 1:02:22.400 Nice a woman you're supposed to scream? You know how 1:02:22.440 --> 1:02:26.200 crazy it is to actually leave your house and be like, 1:02:26.240 --> 1:02:28.880 I'm going to walk to the park and scream. 1:02:28.960 --> 1:02:30.280 You do, like where there's kids around. 1:02:30.360 --> 1:02:32.080 I had to learn to do that when I was 1:02:32.160 --> 1:02:33.840 living with Obviously, I was living with my parents, and 1:02:33.880 --> 1:02:35.560 I didn't want them to know anything was wrong with me, 1:02:35.680 --> 1:02:37.560 And then in school I didn't want to look crazy. 1:02:37.840 --> 1:02:40.320 And then now I live below my best friend. If 1:02:40.320 --> 1:02:42.400 I start screaming, she gonna come downstairs, like, bitch, is 1:02:42.440 --> 1:02:43.240 you okay? 1:02:43.520 --> 1:02:45.440 So yeah, I just lead a house. Something that you 1:02:45.560 --> 1:02:51.160 scream at though, Like, yeah, what makes you scream? Now? 1:02:51.280 --> 1:02:54.200 Niggas don't makee me scream before me real me? 1:02:54.760 --> 1:02:56.040 Yeah me? 1:02:58.040 --> 1:03:00.680 When I say you niggers, I mean that and like agreeance, 1:03:01.280 --> 1:03:04.400 Like I like, it ain't just one another y'all have. 1:03:04.440 --> 1:03:05.640 But I want to know. I want to know, like, 1:03:05.640 --> 1:03:07.560 what's something that got you to that? Like I'm about 1:03:07.600 --> 1:03:09.880 to scream? When is it? Because you feel like you're 1:03:09.920 --> 1:03:12.280 not being heard? Yeah, don't listen sometimes, okay, So I 1:03:12.280 --> 1:03:13.920 feel like you're not being heard yea, yeah, don't y'alln't 1:03:14.040 --> 1:03:14.680 y'all don't listen. 1:03:14.920 --> 1:03:16.520 Like I'll go to talk and like I'll be like, yeah, 1:03:16.720 --> 1:03:18.480 Bigga would just be like on the phone, I'm like, okay, 1:03:18.480 --> 1:03:20.920 I'll go fuck myself nowhere about it. 1:03:21.360 --> 1:03:22.080 So that makes you want to. 1:03:24.000 --> 1:03:27.360 If it happens repeatedly in the over the course of 1:03:27.400 --> 1:03:29.520 three years, Yes, that's something that will make you baby 1:03:29.520 --> 1:03:29.800 do you. 1:03:29.760 --> 1:03:31.600 Got that in you? You got that, you can be 1:03:31.600 --> 1:03:33.080 on Snap. You can me on season. 1:03:33.360 --> 1:03:34.640 I know I could be on Snap. That's why I'm 1:03:34.680 --> 1:03:35.800 very good with my anger management. 1:03:36.120 --> 1:03:38.880 Like I drink tea, I know how to breathe properly, 1:03:38.920 --> 1:03:41.560 like I breathe myself through a lot of things. I 1:03:41.640 --> 1:03:44.440 write in my journal, I call my friends. I'm very communicative. 1:03:44.480 --> 1:03:44.800 I talk. 1:03:44.880 --> 1:03:46.760 I talk about my feelings because I know when I 1:03:46.760 --> 1:03:49.560 bottle them up, I'm liable to explode. And it's never 1:03:49.640 --> 1:03:51.480 on the person I'm supposed to explode on. Like my 1:03:51.560 --> 1:03:54.800 explosions happen at the most inopportune times. So I feel 1:03:54.800 --> 1:03:55.840 like that's anger management. 1:03:56.080 --> 1:03:57.920 All right, Well good, I'm glad you can. You should 1:03:57.920 --> 1:04:00.240 try to scream them all me. Yeah, no, I don't 1:04:00.240 --> 1:04:00.800 need to scover. 1:04:00.720 --> 1:04:02.680 About a rage room. I've always wanted to do that, 1:04:02.760 --> 1:04:05.439 not to get out anger, just to like do it 1:04:05.960 --> 1:04:07.880 just just be destructive. I want to, like, yeah, hit 1:04:07.960 --> 1:04:08.320 up live in. 1:04:08.320 --> 1:04:10.000 New York City. New York City is the rage room, 1:04:11.080 --> 1:04:11.320 just going. 1:04:11.400 --> 1:04:13.360 You could go out on the street during trash night 1:04:13.400 --> 1:04:14.480 and just take a ban and. 1:04:14.440 --> 1:04:15.640 Just make sure there's no people around. 1:04:16.040 --> 1:04:18.240 I'll get shot doing something like that. I'm not doing that, 1:04:18.360 --> 1:04:18.640 you know. 1:04:18.720 --> 1:04:29.080 Yeah, Sis coming up a new album, Sissa, Sissa is 1:04:29.400 --> 1:04:33.480 She's she's dropping a new album, Lana, allegedly allegedly, It 1:04:33.480 --> 1:04:37.360 says it comes from a more beautiful place coming off 1:04:37.400 --> 1:04:37.640 of her. 1:04:38.280 --> 1:04:39.960 Well, I think that she had a classic album her 1:04:40.000 --> 1:04:42.400 last album. We loved that album. We had a great 1:04:42.400 --> 1:04:44.040 time she had to when that album drop and was 1:04:44.120 --> 1:04:46.760 so good. So yeah, Sis is putting out a note 1:04:46.760 --> 1:04:47.720 that she didn't give us a date. 1:04:47.600 --> 1:04:51.360 Though she said it's supposedly this half of the year, 1:04:52.080 --> 1:04:54.760 like twenty four. She did an interview with the British Vogue. Yeah, 1:04:54.840 --> 1:04:56.920 she said, I think I'm making music from a more 1:04:56.960 --> 1:05:00.640 beautiful place, from a possible place, from a pop from 1:05:00.680 --> 1:05:04.400 a more positive positive that's a TYPEO positive place versus 1:05:04.440 --> 1:05:06.840 a more ansy place with the type that wasn't my fault. 1:05:07.600 --> 1:05:10.320 But she said it's gonna be Allegedly she's putting out 1:05:10.360 --> 1:05:13.920 a deluxe to s O S and a new album Lana. 1:05:14.560 --> 1:05:17.400 Mm hmm, okay, Well, anytime she has all put out 1:05:17.600 --> 1:05:19.800 new music or so she's put out new music. I mean, 1:05:19.880 --> 1:05:22.280 we support her, we love her, so we're looking forward 1:05:22.320 --> 1:05:25.040 to that, especially coming off of that. Yeah, we need 1:05:25.480 --> 1:05:29.440 SOS album hate that come out. She's a d M 1:05:29.480 --> 1:05:30.200 me a few weeks ago. 1:05:30.400 --> 1:05:32.600 Okay, oh saying what pull it up? 1:05:33.200 --> 1:05:36.080 You know, talking about pull it up the battle. 1:05:35.840 --> 1:05:38.640 And oh yeah, she said it's a big TD bitch. 1:05:39.480 --> 1:05:44.040 Not in those words, not not in those words. But 1:05:44.640 --> 1:05:46.720 we had a cool conversation. She's she's, she's cool, she 1:05:47.320 --> 1:05:51.320 she helped. She The conversation felt like, first of all, 1:05:51.360 --> 1:05:54.680 she led with she respects me, and she's she supports 1:05:54.880 --> 1:05:56.960 me and has followed me throughout the year. So that 1:05:57.120 --> 1:05:59.800 was very like, whoa, okay, dope, I appreciate that. So 1:05:59.880 --> 1:06:01.720 she started with that. Oh and then you know, she 1:06:01.880 --> 1:06:04.920 dropped the but but it was it was a fun conversation. 1:06:05.040 --> 1:06:06.400 We had a good conversation. 1:06:06.880 --> 1:06:08.360 Did she say tell Rory high or no? 1:06:09.720 --> 1:06:12.120 No, she didn't say tell Rory high. She didn't say 1:06:12.160 --> 1:06:13.600 she don't fuck with him, But she didn't say tell 1:06:13.680 --> 1:06:15.960 him high. But she you know, she she gave me 1:06:16.000 --> 1:06:18.640 her opinion in her stance on certain things throughout that 1:06:18.760 --> 1:06:20.600 whole battle. 1:06:20.360 --> 1:06:22.440 And then did they aligned with yours? 1:06:24.120 --> 1:06:27.360 Obviously certain things. She understood why I was coming from 1:06:27.440 --> 1:06:29.280 certain things. She understoo why I was coming from. Uh, 1:06:30.200 --> 1:06:31.760 But it was one thing in particular, I think I 1:06:31.800 --> 1:06:34.520 had said when she DM me that she was more so, 1:06:35.000 --> 1:06:37.800 oh it was. She was telling me that she was 1:06:37.920 --> 1:06:42.000 hurt because she was like, Yo, you know, I didn't 1:06:42.000 --> 1:06:43.600 even want to send this message to you because I 1:06:43.680 --> 1:06:45.520 really I like you. I fuck with you. She was like, 1:06:45.600 --> 1:06:48.400 but it would hurt me to hear you say that 1:06:48.560 --> 1:06:50.360 you weren't you weren't going to watch the super Bowl 1:06:50.440 --> 1:06:53.560 because Kendrick was before me, and I laughed. I was like, yo, 1:06:53.640 --> 1:06:55.480 you think that I'm serious when I said that, like, 1:06:55.760 --> 1:06:57.360 of course I'm going to watch the super Bowl, Like 1:06:57.800 --> 1:06:59.400 who's I have to watch it? I have to talk 1:06:59.440 --> 1:07:01.720 about it, you know. So that was her reason, and 1:07:01.800 --> 1:07:03.680 like she really thought that I was serious about that, 1:07:03.920 --> 1:07:06.280 And she said that that kind of like amn, you 1:07:06.400 --> 1:07:08.240 really like like you're not going to even watch the 1:07:08.320 --> 1:07:10.400 super Bowl? But like you that And I was like, no, 1:07:10.520 --> 1:07:12.640 it's it's it's not that serious. I was definitely just 1:07:12.720 --> 1:07:15.160 talking ship. So that's what the conversation was about. And 1:07:15.240 --> 1:07:16.960 then we just started talking about a bunch of them. 1:07:16.960 --> 1:07:19.000 I think I think a lot of us, especially you, 1:07:19.080 --> 1:07:21.320 though I think sometimes you say things sarcastically, but you're 1:07:21.400 --> 1:07:23.600 just very good at doing it, and people really believe 1:07:23.640 --> 1:07:25.080 that you believe what you're saying. 1:07:25.160 --> 1:07:27.320 If anybody believes that I'm not watching the super Bowl, like, 1:07:27.360 --> 1:07:29.080 come on, you know what I do for a living. 1:07:29.120 --> 1:07:30.120 I have to watch that ship. 1:07:30.200 --> 1:07:32.640 Well, Sissa wants to make sure you're watching it. You're 1:07:32.680 --> 1:07:35.640 more than welcome to join our watch party. We'll have 1:07:35.720 --> 1:07:38.280 them all with us, so says it. Come to our 1:07:38.320 --> 1:07:38.880 watch party. 1:07:39.520 --> 1:07:41.080 Yeah, I can promise you, says is not coming to 1:07:42.440 --> 1:07:47.360 if she's more than welcome, like she's more than promise 1:07:47.400 --> 1:07:52.120 you or whoever else, Megan Meg, make sure MAM's watching. 1:07:52.240 --> 1:07:53.520 I got just make sure and watching. 1:07:53.560 --> 1:07:55.120 Make sure that the address. 1:07:56.440 --> 1:08:00.240 You get him lying, we'll be there. But yeah, out 1:08:00.280 --> 1:08:03.200 the saism man looking forward to her new album, definitely 1:08:03.240 --> 1:08:05.280 want to hear the ship she talking about. Because sins 1:08:05.360 --> 1:08:07.000 got some ship on her mind. She gonna sing about it, 1:08:07.040 --> 1:08:07.520 that's for sure. 1:08:08.080 --> 1:08:09.600 Since I got a song I'm gonna submit to you, 1:08:09.680 --> 1:08:10.560 just let me know where to send it. 1:08:11.200 --> 1:08:14.160 Please don't because I'm a really good songwriter. What songs 1:08:14.160 --> 1:08:14.840 have you written? Man? 1:08:14.840 --> 1:08:17.040 I read them, go ahead sing them. You don't even 1:08:17.040 --> 1:08:18.280 have to sing it, just read the lyrics. 1:08:18.479 --> 1:08:20.920 I'm not I'm not doing that. So y'all can last. 1:08:24.000 --> 1:08:25.360 Let me tell you one thing that friends do. It 1:08:25.439 --> 1:08:28.439 could be the most amazing song ever. I'm still gonna exactly, 1:08:28.520 --> 1:08:30.240 and that's why I'm not gonna read. That doesn't mean 1:08:30.280 --> 1:08:31.320 that don't put it out our. 1:08:31.280 --> 1:08:33.560 Discord, in our Patreon. And you've heard some of my 1:08:33.720 --> 1:08:37.040 songs and where I had lives when we've done our lives. 1:08:37.080 --> 1:08:39.120 I've read some of my songs and poetry. 1:08:40.080 --> 1:08:43.000 Oh, I know it's Derek. You're not gonna like Eric. 1:08:43.040 --> 1:08:44.759 You can't fucking rhyme. I'm gonna do it for darnel 1:08:44.800 --> 1:08:45.800 because my best thing at the time. 1:08:46.320 --> 1:08:50.400 Yeah, I know the whole ship. When I'm done, A 1:08:50.560 --> 1:08:51.800 Lee asked, silent like a mine. 1:08:53.520 --> 1:08:55.960 Uh okay, follow my rule. 1:08:56.040 --> 1:08:58.080 So I call your little ass son, I ain't going hard, nigga, 1:08:58.080 --> 1:08:59.439 you ain't worth this. I'm gonna send you back to 1:08:59.520 --> 1:09:03.760 the store like a purchase. I have bars and I 1:09:03.840 --> 1:09:09.000 was like fourteen, bro. I'm just saying, if I'd have 1:09:09.040 --> 1:09:10.040 kept going, I'd have been Meg. 1:09:11.600 --> 1:09:15.200 Oh Man, all right, Yo, you know how funny that 1:09:15.439 --> 1:09:17.720 I kept I would have kept going. I would have 1:09:17.800 --> 1:09:20.840 been Meg. That's what I go into the parking one jumps. 1:09:20.880 --> 1:09:22.519 I like, yo, if i'd have kept going. Out of 1:09:22.560 --> 1:09:25.560 been Mike, she can say that I can hit a 1:09:25.600 --> 1:09:29.639 home run, yeah, same ship. No, but I can actually 1:09:29.720 --> 1:09:30.360 hit the home run. 1:09:31.600 --> 1:09:33.760 Meg started out wrapping on YouTube. I feel like if 1:09:33.760 --> 1:09:35.559 I would have kept going, I could have read. 1:09:35.439 --> 1:09:37.400 YO, the funny thing about Julian thinking he hit a 1:09:37.439 --> 1:09:40.320 home run out of you can hit that ship as 1:09:40.360 --> 1:09:41.679 hard as you want that shit to be a pop 1:09:41.720 --> 1:09:46.120 fly going over the wall man. 1:09:47.720 --> 1:09:52.280 With illuming them bad. You're not a illuming him bad, 1:09:52.960 --> 1:09:53.880 pinging off the bat. 1:09:53.920 --> 1:09:55.280 You're not hitting that ship over the fence. 1:09:55.400 --> 1:09:57.280 I'm not you. You. 1:09:57.520 --> 1:09:59.720 You didn't even run into New York City Marathon. You 1:09:59.880 --> 1:10:02.240 just it's like jogged along with beer for your friends 1:10:02.400 --> 1:10:04.599 and you had to take advil and pop icy. 1:10:04.600 --> 1:10:06.439 Hot swaying a bad as different though. 1:10:06.680 --> 1:10:09.000 Yeah, it's a lot more scruciating on the body. 1:10:10.439 --> 1:10:10.680 Give me. 1:10:11.000 --> 1:10:13.120 We're talking about a home run, not just a base hit. 1:10:13.920 --> 1:10:14.720 A home run. 1:10:15.120 --> 1:10:17.400 The fucking professionals don't be hitting home runs. 1:10:17.840 --> 1:10:18.760 We're doing it in a game. 1:10:18.840 --> 1:10:20.639 I'm talking about like soft pitch. 1:10:22.120 --> 1:10:25.200 Lob it to you. Yeah, I'm not saying put. 1:10:25.160 --> 1:10:27.240 Fucking show hair up there and I'm gonna hit a 1:10:27.280 --> 1:10:27.720 home run. 1:10:27.880 --> 1:10:28.200 You know who? 1:10:28.360 --> 1:10:29.439 You know what, I think hit a home run and 1:10:29.479 --> 1:10:31.960 I was very impressed when it was like a celebrity game. 1:10:32.560 --> 1:10:35.280 Jerry Lorenzo from Fear God like he had hit a 1:10:35.920 --> 1:10:37.519 but I think he used to play. His dad was 1:10:37.680 --> 1:10:39.479 would play baseball. I think his dad, it was a 1:10:39.760 --> 1:10:42.680 was a managing baseball as well. But I think he 1:10:42.760 --> 1:10:45.080 hit a home run at the celebrity game, and I 1:10:45.200 --> 1:10:47.280 was like, that was impressive to me. I was like, 1:10:47.400 --> 1:10:50.640 what the That's not an easy thing to do, like 1:10:50.720 --> 1:10:52.439 hitting it over the wall, That's not an easy thing 1:10:52.520 --> 1:10:55.240 to do. That's not easy at all. But yeah, Jerry, 1:10:55.240 --> 1:10:56.720 I think Jerry did that in a celebrity game, and 1:10:56.760 --> 1:10:59.640 I was like, that was very impressive because that's not 1:10:59.760 --> 1:11:02.200 something you see, like Nigga, you made clothes, you ain't 1:11:02.280 --> 1:11:05.639 no baseball bat the fuck you're hitting ship over the wall. 1:11:06.320 --> 1:11:08.559 But yeah, I don't think you could do it, though, Julie, 1:11:08.640 --> 1:11:10.679 I'm going I'm down that hill saying. 1:11:10.479 --> 1:11:13.599 All right, well done. Mag thee stallion over here. I mean, 1:11:13.720 --> 1:11:15.320 she can gonna get a Grammy next year. 1:11:15.560 --> 1:11:17.200 I mean, listen, I'm just I'm saying, if I would 1:11:17.200 --> 1:11:18.040 have started ten. 1:11:18.000 --> 1:11:20.439 Years ago, you did start ten years mayby do you 1:11:20.479 --> 1:11:20.840 know you could. 1:11:20.880 --> 1:11:22.400 You could rap right now, put an album out and 1:11:22.479 --> 1:11:24.439 be nominated at the Grammys next year. 1:11:24.479 --> 1:11:26.360 I'm not gonna go get a BBL on Torku though. 1:11:26.280 --> 1:11:27.360 So you don't have to. 1:11:27.800 --> 1:11:28.640 Yeah you do? 1:11:29.040 --> 1:11:30.880 Why Dot? You don't got no BBO? 1:11:31.800 --> 1:11:35.400 Yes she does, has worked, Yes she does, Yes she does, 1:11:35.720 --> 1:11:37.000 Yes don't she's but it's fake. 1:11:37.040 --> 1:11:38.800 She's come out on interviews and said that it's fake. 1:11:38.960 --> 1:11:39.040 Ye. 1:11:39.600 --> 1:11:44.080 I never knew that. Thank you, shout out to it. 1:11:44.080 --> 1:11:45.559 I didn't want to talk too much about the Grammy 1:11:45.600 --> 1:11:47.920 nominations away from my boy to get back so he could. 1:11:47.960 --> 1:11:49.599 I know he has this thing or two to say 1:11:49.640 --> 1:11:52.439 about some of the nominees. But it was dope to 1:11:52.479 --> 1:11:57.000 see Doci nominated for Grammy for her shout out to Doci. 1:11:57.080 --> 1:12:00.920 Congrats on that. Uh, what'll head? Because I got some 1:12:01.640 --> 1:12:03.000 it's some people nominated for some things. 1:12:03.040 --> 1:12:04.720 I'm just like, all right, man, Oh damn, we never 1:12:04.760 --> 1:12:05.160 even had that. 1:12:06.200 --> 1:12:08.400 Is on TMZ talking about j Koby nominated. 1:12:09.000 --> 1:12:10.960 Yeah, I just don't, not even not to Jay because 1:12:10.960 --> 1:12:12.600 they people swear I hate j Call. I don't, but 1:12:12.880 --> 1:12:13.600 we'll talk about it. 1:12:14.040 --> 1:12:15.040 You ready for voicemails? 1:12:15.960 --> 1:12:18.640 We have some born Ready, let's do it. You've got 1:12:18.840 --> 1:12:22.120 male Yeah, this should. 1:12:21.880 --> 1:12:22.479 You be born to do? 1:12:22.640 --> 1:12:24.120 Is just crazy. I was born. 1:12:24.720 --> 1:12:25.439 I was born right. 1:12:27.200 --> 1:12:31.200 Land. Stevens' nicknames a great nickname, definitely Yo. 1:12:32.000 --> 1:12:34.759 What's the word? Gang is CJ from Texas? 1:12:35.600 --> 1:12:38.639 I've called before, but I got a whole new scenario 1:12:38.760 --> 1:12:40.400 that just happened this weekend that I kind of need 1:12:40.439 --> 1:12:44.280 tell opinion on. So Boom, Me and gang outside. We 1:12:44.360 --> 1:12:46.120 about five d you know what I'm saying. We at 1:12:46.160 --> 1:12:49.120 the clubs and it's it's let out, so that means 1:12:49.120 --> 1:12:51.000 it's pop time. It's parking a lot of pivots. So 1:12:51.479 --> 1:12:53.519 we're going around, you know what I'm saying, approaching ship walking, 1:12:53.560 --> 1:12:56.000 shit down, getting all little one b ones or two 1:12:56.080 --> 1:12:58.920 V twos off, getting our numbers up. We happen to 1:12:58.960 --> 1:13:00.519 see a group of women that we dealt with in 1:13:00.600 --> 1:13:02.519 the past and they see us, so they come over 1:13:03.160 --> 1:13:04.600 and we chopping it up and shit, you know what 1:13:04.600 --> 1:13:06.160 I mean. They ask us what we're doing after this. 1:13:06.400 --> 1:13:10.840 We say, we with y'all on, So they're like, all right, yeah, cool, 1:13:10.880 --> 1:13:12.720 come back to the crib. We got bottles and shit 1:13:12.760 --> 1:13:15.640 there we're gonna turn up all right back. But one 1:13:15.680 --> 1:13:17.880 of the girls say just don't bring your homeboy Mac. 1:13:18.880 --> 1:13:19.040 Now. 1:13:19.320 --> 1:13:20.920 I know my nigga Mac can be on some scared 1:13:20.960 --> 1:13:23.680 the whole shit sometimes, but I'm like, damn, like my 1:13:23.760 --> 1:13:26.519 nigga Mac can't pull up. She did so, all right. 1:13:27.720 --> 1:13:29.519 I told my nigga Mac, you know what I'm saying, Hey, 1:13:29.600 --> 1:13:32.080 the whole say you can't come. We're gonna go ahead 1:13:32.080 --> 1:13:35.040 and make this little move. Long story short, we go 1:13:35.120 --> 1:13:37.719 over there, you know what I'm saying, and complete the mission. 1:13:37.760 --> 1:13:40.760 Had a good night, but my nigga Mac was mad 1:13:40.840 --> 1:13:44.000 at the whole squad the next day. Now, in my opinion, 1:13:44.880 --> 1:13:46.560 there's plenty of fish out in the sea, so you 1:13:46.600 --> 1:13:48.040 can go ahead and try to find you something, you 1:13:48.080 --> 1:13:49.240 know what I'm saying for the night, get you a 1:13:49.280 --> 1:13:50.600 little cuddle session or whatever it is. 1:13:50.760 --> 1:13:53.080 Right, But nigga he was mad at us. 1:13:53.200 --> 1:13:55.880 Now, question number one is are we wrong? 1:13:56.040 --> 1:13:58.320 And number two, have y'all ever been in a position 1:13:58.320 --> 1:14:00.160 where you had to tell your homeboy like hey, I 1:14:00.240 --> 1:14:01.200 would say you can't come. 1:14:03.439 --> 1:14:06.519 Well, let me start by saying this from my experience again, 1:14:06.520 --> 1:14:08.800 I'm a little older. If the person is mad that 1:14:08.920 --> 1:14:11.880 the women said they don't want him there, and y'all 1:14:11.920 --> 1:14:14.000 went ahead and still went and linked with the ladies 1:14:14.040 --> 1:14:16.200 and had a good night, and they mad that niggas 1:14:16.200 --> 1:14:20.679 a hater because any of your homies they gonna laugh 1:14:20.760 --> 1:14:22.559 at it. They go like, damn, why they want want 1:14:22.560 --> 1:14:25.320 me to come? Like yo? Now, they said, you be 1:14:25.400 --> 1:14:28.080 wild and you be scaring the ladies. They be getting scared. 1:14:28.080 --> 1:14:31.080 You be doing too much a real friend and be 1:14:31.200 --> 1:14:33.599 like all right, cool, y'all, go ahead, have a great night. 1:14:33.880 --> 1:14:36.519 Hit me like whatever, whatever, And then you go home 1:14:36.600 --> 1:14:39.160 and you figure out like, damn, I'm scared like the 1:14:39.240 --> 1:14:42.280 women like, I can't be acting like that. I gotta change. 1:14:42.280 --> 1:14:44.240 I gotta switch up, Like I don't want to be 1:14:44.280 --> 1:14:46.320 the one that's left out of the you know the 1:14:46.400 --> 1:14:47.960 night where the girls like we're going back and hanging 1:14:47.960 --> 1:14:49.519 out with them and they're like, nah, he be tripping. 1:14:49.600 --> 1:14:53.439 Like so if he's mad about that, you gotta look 1:14:53.439 --> 1:14:55.479 deep into that friendship with homie because he's the one 1:14:55.760 --> 1:14:59.120 that's he'll he want the whole. If he can't get nothing, 1:14:59.200 --> 1:15:01.640 none of the homies can't have fun. You don't want 1:15:01.680 --> 1:15:03.760 to be around friends like that. That's that's that's just 1:15:03.840 --> 1:15:07.800 the early sign of somebody that's the hater. From my experience. Yeah, 1:15:08.640 --> 1:15:11.439 only speaking from my point of view. A person like that, 1:15:12.479 --> 1:15:15.160 that's just the tip of the iceberg. That nigga is 1:15:15.200 --> 1:15:18.560 a hater. I'm surprised mac cain't show up shut the 1:15:18.600 --> 1:15:19.240 whole ship down. 1:15:20.240 --> 1:15:22.920 But that's the thing while a man like that, like 1:15:22.960 --> 1:15:25.120 if you're taking context clols, why would he go back? 1:15:25.200 --> 1:15:27.240 A man that's scaring the holes that's so much, you 1:15:27.360 --> 1:15:28.960 scaring the hole so much, the holes that you can't 1:15:29.000 --> 1:15:30.720 be around. You think a nigga like that gonna go 1:15:30.760 --> 1:15:32.760 back and reflect on what he possibly could have did. 1:15:32.840 --> 1:15:34.080 But oh, he ain't that type of nigga. He's a 1:15:34.160 --> 1:15:35.720 scare the whole kind of nigga. He's gonna scare his 1:15:35.760 --> 1:15:36.200 friends too. 1:15:37.160 --> 1:15:39.040 Yeah, but Craig and you might be right, he might 1:15:39.120 --> 1:15:41.519 be that type of first. But it's like you got 1:15:41.640 --> 1:15:44.120 to understand that that that energy of him being upset 1:15:44.920 --> 1:15:47.320 because women said he couldn't come over, like couldn't come 1:15:47.320 --> 1:15:50.200 to the crib. Like if he's mad at y'all for 1:15:50.320 --> 1:15:53.200 going he's a hater, he's supposed to be happy, laugh 1:15:53.240 --> 1:15:55.000 at it, like Dad, my baby, I was tripping last 1:15:55.000 --> 1:15:56.920 time we hung out with them. I can understand why 1:15:56.920 --> 1:15:58.760 they want they don't want me to, But you can't 1:15:58.760 --> 1:16:00.720 be mad at the homies for going to complete the 1:16:00.760 --> 1:16:03.240 mission and have a great night with some some some women, 1:16:03.400 --> 1:16:05.960 Like that's the whole point of going outside. Were going 1:16:06.000 --> 1:16:07.880 to the club to meet women and have a good time. 1:16:08.000 --> 1:16:09.200 Like, well, he probably don't. 1:16:09.240 --> 1:16:12.519 He probably don't come into contact with women unless his 1:16:12.640 --> 1:16:14.240 homeboys is bringing him around anyway. 1:16:14.560 --> 1:16:16.360 Yeah, but that's do you need to lead that pit 1:16:16.479 --> 1:16:19.559 bull in the fucking leave him in the house if 1:16:19.600 --> 1:16:21.320 you don't, If you don't not act around women, you 1:16:21.360 --> 1:16:23.160 can't hang out with me, Well then boy or not. 1:16:23.360 --> 1:16:26.080 The second part is you obviously was offended and made 1:16:26.080 --> 1:16:27.640 a big stink about the next day, how do you 1:16:27.800 --> 1:16:28.360 talk to him? 1:16:28.400 --> 1:16:32.160 You had that conversation, like, bro, a big stink. Don't 1:16:32.200 --> 1:16:36.000 never tell me a nigga got a big stink. Now 1:16:36.120 --> 1:16:38.320 have that talk with your friend. They let him know, 1:16:38.400 --> 1:16:39.920 like yo, bro, like you got a chill, Like we 1:16:40.040 --> 1:16:42.360 be going out and you know the women you too aggressive? 1:16:42.439 --> 1:16:46.439 You too, you keep pulling your gun out like nigga. Yeah, 1:16:46.479 --> 1:16:48.400 the women don't want to see that. You're scaring them. 1:16:48.439 --> 1:16:50.920 Like you're supposed to have fun, crack some jokes, you know, 1:16:51.479 --> 1:16:53.400 be respectful, but we're gonna have a good time. Like 1:16:54.160 --> 1:16:55.600 if he don't, if he can't, if your friend is 1:16:55.640 --> 1:16:58.640 not receptive to that type of conversation, cut your losses now, 1:16:58.680 --> 1:17:01.120 because he's gonna enjol A in a bad position. 1:17:01.360 --> 1:17:05.320 When people say this is she directed? When girls say 1:17:05.520 --> 1:17:07.639 this is scared of the hose type energy? 1:17:08.080 --> 1:17:08.920 I know, like the. 1:17:10.600 --> 1:17:12.439 The thing that comes to mind is like the like 1:17:12.840 --> 1:17:15.160 gangster with the gun all that shit, But like what's 1:17:15.320 --> 1:17:18.120 like a normal guy version of that, you know what 1:17:18.200 --> 1:17:21.360 I mean? Like, what's the energy that they give off 1:17:21.439 --> 1:17:24.639 that makes the women be like no, not someone that's 1:17:24.680 --> 1:17:26.200 like yo, I got a gun, or like yo, I'm 1:17:26.200 --> 1:17:27.679 not like someone. 1:17:27.520 --> 1:17:29.360 You standing by the bathroom door when she's going there. 1:17:30.200 --> 1:17:31.400 So it's just like the lingerer. 1:17:31.720 --> 1:17:35.040 You know that multiple things, like you're scaring the holes 1:17:35.120 --> 1:17:36.160 is easier than y'all think. 1:17:37.040 --> 1:17:39.120 Like it's easier than y'all think. And it's multiple things, 1:17:39.200 --> 1:17:41.240 different things, different is scary to different woman. 1:17:41.280 --> 1:17:44.400 If I'm thinking about, yeah, it's easy, scanned the hole 1:17:44.560 --> 1:17:46.840 so easy? Oh so easy? 1:17:51.200 --> 1:17:54.720 Maybe you was scared just now. No, Niga breath was 1:17:54.720 --> 1:18:00.160 hot as fuck. No ill taking it back, taking a back. No. 1:18:00.240 --> 1:18:01.840 But if I say, like me. 1:18:02.000 --> 1:18:05.800 Let's say me Kellen Naya rocks, Like Okay, we're out right, 1:18:05.880 --> 1:18:10.280 we're all beautiful, like we're out dudes that are scared 1:18:10.280 --> 1:18:12.400 of holes, like dudes that's too aggressive, Like they're too 1:18:12.560 --> 1:18:15.160 like like just you're too in your face and too 1:18:15.200 --> 1:18:17.559 aggressive and like or like if we're someplace with loud 1:18:17.640 --> 1:18:19.360 music and you keep trying to talk to me, like 1:18:19.439 --> 1:18:21.280 and you're making it a thing and I'm like obviously 1:18:21.400 --> 1:18:24.040 kind of like not you know, like not giving you play, 1:18:24.120 --> 1:18:24.879 not paying attention. 1:18:26.560 --> 1:18:27.320 Yeah, shit like that. 1:18:27.439 --> 1:18:28.479 You know why you ain't smiling? 1:18:29.160 --> 1:18:30.880 Oh god, that's discussed. 1:18:31.640 --> 1:18:34.240 Or a nigga that's like keep like too like why 1:18:34.400 --> 1:18:35.400 sitting so far away from me? 1:18:35.520 --> 1:18:38.280 Yes, that's too masculine, Like you're too masculine, but not 1:18:38.360 --> 1:18:39.840 in the way that we like you to be masculine. Right, 1:18:39.880 --> 1:18:41.280 So the way we like you to be masculine is 1:18:41.360 --> 1:18:43.120 you're when you're out with a group of girls and 1:18:43.160 --> 1:18:44.720 it's only like one or two guys, and it's like 1:18:44.760 --> 1:18:46.240 you got a whole bunch of beautiful women with you. 1:18:46.240 --> 1:18:48.600 You go in, you make sure that we're comfortable, You 1:18:48.720 --> 1:18:50.479 make sure that we're good and like we're gonna have 1:18:50.520 --> 1:18:52.160 a good night. We're gonna talk to you, we're gonna 1:18:52.200 --> 1:18:54.360 dance with you, whatever. But if you come out like 1:18:54.439 --> 1:18:57.000 some like you too aggressive with the flashing and the money, 1:18:57.120 --> 1:18:59.400 or like you're aggressive with the server or the bottle girl, 1:18:59.479 --> 1:19:01.680 or you just trying to assert yourself to prove that 1:19:01.760 --> 1:19:04.280 you're masculine and you're manly, but it just shows that 1:19:04.320 --> 1:19:06.120 you're really not your really insecure. Why are you yelling 1:19:06.160 --> 1:19:08.320 at the at the server while you arguing with the 1:19:08.360 --> 1:19:09.840 bar back, like why are you trying to you know, 1:19:09.920 --> 1:19:11.880 you're trying to fight with the dudes next to us, 1:19:11.920 --> 1:19:13.400 and you just it's a pissing contest. 1:19:13.640 --> 1:19:14.720 That's scaring the host too. 1:19:14.920 --> 1:19:16.519 Yeah, this is what I always think of when I 1:19:16.600 --> 1:19:17.719 hear scaring the hose. 1:19:17.560 --> 1:19:19.920 This meme, Oh my god, terrifying the host. 1:19:20.680 --> 1:19:23.920 I love this photo so much. It's so funny. 1:19:24.760 --> 1:19:26.720 It's so crazy how photos could be taken out of 1:19:27.040 --> 1:19:30.800 potast that could be created around just a simple photo. 1:19:31.040 --> 1:19:32.720 That shit is because I ain't nothing she ever sent 1:19:32.760 --> 1:19:33.599 in her life. That funny. 1:19:34.800 --> 1:19:37.200 I miss you, That's what I'm saying. I look at this, 1:19:37.320 --> 1:19:39.280 I don't feel like she said anything. I feel like 1:19:39.560 --> 1:19:43.960 he said something, and that's her reacting to Oh my God. 1:19:44.320 --> 1:19:47.960 The lighting is just everything about this is perfect. It's 1:19:48.040 --> 1:19:51.000 the Drake yelling and Rihanna's face photo. If you guys 1:19:51.040 --> 1:19:53.160 are if you're just an audio listener, it is one 1:19:53.200 --> 1:19:55.559 of my favorite memes of all time. 1:19:55.600 --> 1:19:56.759 It's so funny photos. 1:19:57.120 --> 1:19:58.599 I think I think a lot of men, to your point, 1:19:58.640 --> 1:20:00.439 that just want to be like over aggressive and dominate. 1:20:00.520 --> 1:20:02.519 Like I think there's a lot of at least from 1:20:02.520 --> 1:20:05.880 my experience, like women like the mysticism of like filling 1:20:05.960 --> 1:20:08.880 in gaps themselves. So if you don't say shit that 1:20:09.120 --> 1:20:12.040 goes a long way, you save yourself. Just shut up 1:20:12.120 --> 1:20:14.160 and just hang out and don't be a nuisance. I 1:20:14.240 --> 1:20:16.120 think a lot of guys feel like they need to 1:20:16.160 --> 1:20:19.360 be like the man of the group, like the guy 1:20:19.439 --> 1:20:21.200 that talks the most, the guy that like does this. 1:20:21.240 --> 1:20:22.760 They try it so hard to be a group leader. 1:20:22.840 --> 1:20:24.439 But that's not you being the group leader. 1:20:24.600 --> 1:20:24.800 Yeah. 1:20:24.920 --> 1:20:27.559 It's like when they had that group leader conversation on Twitter, 1:20:27.600 --> 1:20:29.800 It's like I can spot the group leader and it's 1:20:29.880 --> 1:20:31.600 never the nigga that's the loudest, Like why are you 1:20:31.680 --> 1:20:32.080 so loud? 1:20:32.200 --> 1:20:34.880 Like you're not you know, if you had the ability 1:20:34.920 --> 1:20:36.920 to hear somebody's thoughts while y'all were having sex. Would 1:20:36.960 --> 1:20:40.880 you want to know New? Why New? 1:20:41.240 --> 1:20:46.240 I'm good because I've I've loved some people like with 1:20:46.400 --> 1:20:49.320 my entire heart, my entire being, I would give everything 1:20:49.400 --> 1:20:51.360 for them and still thought some shit while we were 1:20:51.400 --> 1:20:53.080 having sex that would hurt their feelings. 1:20:53.200 --> 1:20:54.680 Yeah, I think I'd be thinking about the knicks when 1:20:54.680 --> 1:20:55.160 I'm fucking. 1:20:56.160 --> 1:20:58.160 That's because you're detached from sex and you need therapy. 1:20:58.360 --> 1:20:59.960 Well that was Others about to say that's because he 1:21:00.080 --> 1:21:00.559 something else? 1:21:01.160 --> 1:21:02.080 How is that gay? 1:21:03.000 --> 1:21:04.439 You got pussy in front of you and you think 1:21:04.439 --> 1:21:09.240 about men's running up and down them, think about the post, thinking. 1:21:10.920 --> 1:21:14.479 It's not, But then you think about the knicks while 1:21:14.520 --> 1:21:16.479 he's having sex with me, like I'm gonna feel like 1:21:16.560 --> 1:21:18.479 my vagina is literally like the world. 1:21:18.400 --> 1:21:21.280 Will you'd be surprised when guys think about all right, 1:21:21.320 --> 1:21:21.719 but what's. 1:21:21.600 --> 1:21:23.080 Something you thought about while he was having sex. 1:21:24.280 --> 1:21:26.120 There's this woman that I love very very much, and 1:21:26.200 --> 1:21:29.280 it was someone else years ago and whatever. He just 1:21:29.360 --> 1:21:31.720 doesn't give good head, so he'd be down here like 1:21:31.840 --> 1:21:33.840 really trying and it's just like. 1:21:34.760 --> 1:21:36.960 Just slamming his nose in it, not even doing that. 1:21:37.120 --> 1:21:39.960 It's just like he just he don't got it, and 1:21:40.080 --> 1:21:41.880 it's just I just be like, hurry up and just 1:21:42.000 --> 1:21:44.080 get because I don't want to make him stop. But 1:21:44.200 --> 1:21:45.599 it's like I just want you to hurt and get 1:21:45.600 --> 1:21:46.960 it over with because if he was the guy that 1:21:47.000 --> 1:21:47.599 I didn't care. 1:21:47.520 --> 1:21:50.120 About, I would just like literally just like but then, 1:21:50.160 --> 1:21:51.840 what would you think about while he's doing that, like 1:21:51.880 --> 1:21:53.800 an Amazon wishless, Like what are you thinking about? 1:21:54.240 --> 1:21:56.439 I'm just thinking about just you need. I'm like rolling 1:21:56.520 --> 1:21:56.840 my eyes. 1:21:57.600 --> 1:22:01.040 Oh my god, luckily was in the dark, but I'm 1:22:01.080 --> 1:22:04.120 just like, oh, girl rolling. But then see a nigga 1:22:04.240 --> 1:22:06.280 is full of like nig eyes rolling in the back 1:22:06.320 --> 1:22:13.080 of her head, nigga like she ain't never leaving me. 1:22:13.160 --> 1:22:14.519 I made that bitch eyes roll in the back of 1:22:14.560 --> 1:22:16.679 her head like nah, that's not what she was doing. 1:22:17.320 --> 1:22:19.200 Like it's just like and then I got a fake moan, 1:22:19.360 --> 1:22:21.519 and I'll be thinking about how the fake moan sounds, 1:22:21.560 --> 1:22:23.439 like if it sounds realistic, Like I'll be trying out 1:22:23.439 --> 1:22:24.840 different tones in the fake moone. 1:22:25.160 --> 1:22:26.920 I think I don't know. I only did that because 1:22:26.920 --> 1:22:28.519 I loved him. I don't know if I would want 1:22:28.520 --> 1:22:30.560 to know. But sometimes I think with certain women, I 1:22:30.600 --> 1:22:31.760 would want to know what they was thinking. 1:22:32.360 --> 1:22:34.360 I think with certain women, why would you want to 1:22:34.400 --> 1:22:35.920 know it because you were You're worried about what they 1:22:35.960 --> 1:22:36.720 possibly were thinking. 1:22:36.920 --> 1:22:38.960 No, I think it's just I just I would just 1:22:39.080 --> 1:22:41.720 like to know their thoughts, that's all. Like certain women, 1:22:41.720 --> 1:22:43.160 I just want to know what they was thinking about. 1:22:43.200 --> 1:22:44.320 You want to know if they think it was as 1:22:44.360 --> 1:22:45.160 good as you thought it was. 1:22:45.479 --> 1:22:47.240 It's not even about it being as good. I'm not 1:22:47.280 --> 1:22:49.040 even thinking. I just want to know what they're thinking about. 1:22:49.680 --> 1:22:50.920 You know what I'm saying. It's not like, yo, my 1:22:51.000 --> 1:22:53.080 doing a good job, that's not mine. That's not what 1:22:53.160 --> 1:22:55.240 I'm thinking about. I just want to know what they're thinking. Like, 1:22:55.360 --> 1:22:56.920 that's just to me. I just want to know what 1:22:56.960 --> 1:22:59.240 their thoughts are on that moment, but not like a set, 1:22:59.320 --> 1:23:00.840 not as like on my doing a good job. Is 1:23:00.920 --> 1:23:02.600 she about to come and she enjoying it and she 1:23:03.200 --> 1:23:05.040 is not? I don't That's not what I'm thinking about. 1:23:05.040 --> 1:23:07.000 I just want to know, like, what exactly are you 1:23:07.080 --> 1:23:07.840 thinking about right now? 1:23:08.280 --> 1:23:09.800 And if you're not vocal, then I feel like I 1:23:09.800 --> 1:23:11.560 don't know what you're thinking and that worries me. 1:23:11.640 --> 1:23:14.280 I need you to be vocal. Hm, you like to 1:23:14.360 --> 1:23:16.599 talk through you. I gotta hear, I gotta hear, let 1:23:16.640 --> 1:23:19.240 me hear you otherwise, Because this is interesting because you 1:23:19.240 --> 1:23:21.720 because you date women and men. Would you want to 1:23:21.760 --> 1:23:25.200 hear the women's thoughts or the man's thoughts? 1:23:25.280 --> 1:23:27.000 Oh, I don't know which one would be worse. 1:23:27.720 --> 1:23:29.840 I don't know which one will be worse. Get into 1:23:29.880 --> 1:23:30.200 some ship. 1:23:30.360 --> 1:23:32.160 Oh, I don't know which one worse. 1:23:32.760 --> 1:23:34.320 Woman's would have to be worse. 1:23:34.920 --> 1:23:37.280 Yeah, I'd rather know the men's than the woman's really, 1:23:38.400 --> 1:23:40.320 mm hmm. That's because you know what you'll be thinking. 1:23:41.320 --> 1:23:46.080 Women are mean, I know, and very like crass in 1:23:46.200 --> 1:23:48.640 our heads, but we're trained to not be like that 1:23:49.360 --> 1:23:50.799 unless we're on an all male podcast. 1:23:51.400 --> 1:23:52.160 So we're training. 1:23:52.040 --> 1:23:56.719 Your doings thoughts the Knicks, right, Yeah, I'm thinking about 1:23:56.720 --> 1:23:58.000 the Knicks, the Knicks, right. 1:23:58.960 --> 1:24:01.559 I'll probably be looking at it like her eyeliner creasing, 1:24:01.640 --> 1:24:04.920 her fucking mascare is so cheap, Like, oh my gosh, 1:24:04.960 --> 1:24:05.960 she missed that edge. 1:24:06.240 --> 1:24:10.360 We just lost the bulls Brouck. I'm pissed for a 1:24:10.439 --> 1:24:11.200 five hundred team. 1:24:11.240 --> 1:24:11.720 I'd rather that. 1:24:12.120 --> 1:24:14.240 It's so embarrassing, you'd rather be thinking. 1:24:14.120 --> 1:24:15.800 About the bull Yes, a girl that looking at you 1:24:16.000 --> 1:24:18.320 like oh I didn't know her, I like was lazy 1:24:18.880 --> 1:24:21.879 or some ship like that. The track is shown yeah like, oh. 1:24:21.880 --> 1:24:22.519 No, I'm good. 1:24:22.760 --> 1:24:24.640 I am baby. Do you definitely ate a girl out 1:24:24.640 --> 1:24:25.959 in your track? Was showing before. 1:24:27.280 --> 1:24:29.400 Probably a girl definitely ate me out in her track 1:24:29.479 --> 1:24:32.000 was showing I didn't give a rat souse track for track. 1:24:32.080 --> 1:24:34.599 I didn't give one fifth of a true. 1:24:35.520 --> 1:24:40.200 Was running track for track, Conductor, cond. 1:24:42.160 --> 1:24:43.120 I can't give a damn. 1:24:43.160 --> 1:24:47.479 I know one time my least showing real bad the 1:24:47.560 --> 1:24:51.000 marriage was like, conductor, I don't care that your track 1:24:51.040 --> 1:24:54.719 is showing that he that is hilarious. We got another voicemail. 1:24:54.920 --> 1:24:57.479 Oh ship, Yeah, so this guy, what do we the 1:24:57.800 --> 1:24:59.120 friend and keep him away from all the women? 1:24:59.200 --> 1:24:59.360 You know? 1:24:59.680 --> 1:24:59.800 Right? 1:25:00.120 --> 1:25:00.280 Yeah? 1:25:00.360 --> 1:25:01.799 Please do Yeah, I see advice. 1:25:01.880 --> 1:25:04.599 Okay, yeah, very simple, y'all. 1:25:05.080 --> 1:25:07.800 I'm calling from Chicago when I just got this brief 1:25:07.840 --> 1:25:10.160 scenario before I get to my question. So yesterday I 1:25:10.280 --> 1:25:12.000 was in my car having my music on shelf of 1:25:12.080 --> 1:25:16.600 playing and Somewhere in America by jay Z came on and. 1:25:16.800 --> 1:25:18.840 I was made it in America, not somewhere. 1:25:19.160 --> 1:25:24.040 It's like man Magne Carter, Holy Grail was ass and 1:25:24.360 --> 1:25:27.320 you know, growing up, I'm twenty seven years old. What 1:25:27.479 --> 1:25:29.280 my parents are R and B Head, So I didn't 1:25:29.280 --> 1:25:30.880 really get a chance to listen to a lot of rap, 1:25:30.960 --> 1:25:33.120 hip hop and all that shit until I got into 1:25:33.120 --> 1:25:34.800 about like eleven twelve when I started to find my 1:25:34.840 --> 1:25:37.240 own music. And then a couple years later that's when 1:25:37.280 --> 1:25:39.160 Magna Carta Holy Grail dropped, and so that was my 1:25:39.240 --> 1:25:43.519 first introduction to jay Z. And back then I was like, 1:25:43.800 --> 1:25:47.439 this ship is ass, and now this ship is ass. 1:25:48.160 --> 1:25:50.839 So that kind of like fucked up with my perception 1:25:50.920 --> 1:25:52.360 on jay Z. And I can't really like fuck with 1:25:52.439 --> 1:25:54.600 his music outside of the hits like Big Pimping and 1:25:54.800 --> 1:25:58.760 other shit like that. So I was calling to see 1:25:59.680 --> 1:26:02.280 or hear your thoughts or opinions, like is there an 1:26:02.360 --> 1:26:06.880 album or an artist that dropped the project that's critically 1:26:06.880 --> 1:26:09.400 acclaimed by a lot of people or this artists it's 1:26:09.479 --> 1:26:12.360 like real notorious for being like one of the best 1:26:13.040 --> 1:26:17.479 album or whatever it may be, And you know, your 1:26:17.520 --> 1:26:19.800 first introduction to them was just like ass music and 1:26:19.880 --> 1:26:21.400 you just really can't fuck with them. You haven't been 1:26:21.400 --> 1:26:25.479 able to fuck with them since who's that person? Like 1:26:25.560 --> 1:26:27.400 I can only imagine just to get y'all this more 1:26:27.560 --> 1:26:30.439 dream real trouble, like imagining kod being the first time 1:26:30.960 --> 1:26:33.240 introduction to j Cole like that should be wild to hell. 1:26:34.760 --> 1:26:36.160 That's interesting to answer the question. 1:26:36.840 --> 1:26:39.040 So you think jay Z's trash because he heard Magna 1:26:39.120 --> 1:26:40.160 Carta Holy Grail. 1:26:39.960 --> 1:26:42.200 Which is still better than every album his favorite rapper 1:26:42.240 --> 1:26:43.120 ever released. 1:26:43.240 --> 1:26:46.000 But that is But it's interesting because the way he 1:26:46.040 --> 1:26:48.320 phrased it, like if you do meet this artist at 1:26:48.360 --> 1:26:51.920 this particular album, that to people that have been following 1:26:52.000 --> 1:26:54.400 that artist for years all agree like that might be 1:26:54.560 --> 1:26:58.560 his worst album. And if that's your introduction album to 1:26:58.720 --> 1:27:03.559 that artist, I could see how but just go back 1:27:03.600 --> 1:27:07.479 and listen to other music, like other songs. Yeah, Like 1:27:07.560 --> 1:27:09.639 that's my thing, Like I'm not gonna act like nothing 1:27:09.720 --> 1:27:12.439 before this album. Like if I listen to artists and 1:27:12.520 --> 1:27:13.960 this is my first time hearing this artist and I've 1:27:14.000 --> 1:27:16.719 done that, like people put me on the artist, I'm like, okay, 1:27:16.840 --> 1:27:19.240 Like you know you're going whatever platform you can see 1:27:19.320 --> 1:27:22.760 other albums of the EPs, other songs I just started listening. 1:27:22.840 --> 1:27:24.320 I'm like, oh, this person is dope. I may not 1:27:24.360 --> 1:27:26.640 even like the original song that I was introduced to 1:27:26.680 --> 1:27:28.920 the artists by, but you get the sifting and going 1:27:28.960 --> 1:27:31.639 through their catalog though, No, this person is is dope. 1:27:33.600 --> 1:27:35.720 I don't know what artists that I could say I've 1:27:35.800 --> 1:27:38.760 experienced that with though, where like I was introduced to 1:27:38.840 --> 1:27:41.120 them and heard their music and was like, this shit 1:27:41.200 --> 1:27:44.479 is terrible. I'm never gonna listen again, Like I would 1:27:44.479 --> 1:27:46.760 always go through other songs, through other albums, through other 1:27:46.880 --> 1:27:48.960 like I'm not gonna just listen to that and act 1:27:49.080 --> 1:27:51.720 like other songs don't exist from that person. Like that's 1:27:51.800 --> 1:27:52.320 just weird to me. 1:27:53.120 --> 1:27:54.439 What it sounds like to me, and this is no 1:27:54.560 --> 1:27:57.680 shade to you, young man from Chicago. It sounds like 1:27:58.720 --> 1:28:01.960 some people go into something thinking that people are overrated, 1:28:02.040 --> 1:28:04.479 and then when they get that confirmation bias. Aha, I 1:28:04.560 --> 1:28:06.320 knew he was overrated. They're not really trying to do 1:28:06.400 --> 1:28:09.040 the research to prove themselves wrong. And I think that's 1:28:09.080 --> 1:28:10.360 what it sounds like to me. Like you heard all 1:28:10.400 --> 1:28:12.280 the hype around jay Z. You went to this album, 1:28:12.360 --> 1:28:14.080 was like, oh, this shit trash. I knew y'all was 1:28:14.160 --> 1:28:15.240 hyping this nigga up and it. 1:28:15.360 --> 1:28:16.719 Never went back all the hype. 1:28:16.720 --> 1:28:18.400 He was like ten when he first heard jay Z. 1:28:18.520 --> 1:28:20.760 He was like ten to eleven when Magnet Carter came out, 1:28:20.960 --> 1:28:23.680 So I doubt that was Like, I doubt he was, 1:28:23.760 --> 1:28:25.280 Like jay Z's the goat at like ten. 1:28:25.479 --> 1:28:28.720 But everybody jay Z, if you the first if you 1:28:28.840 --> 1:28:30.439 go to hip hop, who people are going to tell 1:28:30.479 --> 1:28:31.920 you who the goat is? Especially at the time that 1:28:32.000 --> 1:28:34.920 Magnet Carter came out, was jay Z. That's who people 1:28:34.960 --> 1:28:36.439 were going to say that they go. Who were people 1:28:36.680 --> 1:28:38.720 who were people saying we're to go in Magnet Carter 1:28:38.800 --> 1:28:39.240 came out. 1:28:39.120 --> 1:28:42.320 And win like twenty twelve, thirteen something. 1:28:42.200 --> 1:28:45.160 That, Yeah, So who were people saying was the greatest 1:28:45.200 --> 1:28:46.320 rapper of all time at that time? 1:28:47.320 --> 1:28:49.840 Well, he's from Chicago. Kanye's name was probably in there. 1:28:49.920 --> 1:28:51.639 That's the around the time Yeeses came out. 1:28:53.479 --> 1:28:55.920 Has ever said that Kanye was the greatest rapper of 1:28:56.000 --> 1:28:56.320 all time? 1:28:56.400 --> 1:28:59.040 You're not greatest rapper? Wanted to greatreatest artists. 1:28:59.080 --> 1:29:00.880 They've never said he was the greatest rapper. 1:29:00.960 --> 1:29:02.760 Nobody ever said Kanye was the greatest rapper. 1:29:02.920 --> 1:29:06.000 When people were having the top five list and all 1:29:06.040 --> 1:29:08.600 that shit. When it came to rappers, Kanye was not 1:29:08.800 --> 1:29:09.760 cracking the top three. 1:29:10.080 --> 1:29:10.240 Ever. 1:29:10.400 --> 1:29:11.720 That was not happened. That was not a thing that 1:29:11.840 --> 1:29:12.160 was happening. 1:29:12.280 --> 1:29:13.800 Kanye's not one of the greatest rapper's, one of the 1:29:13.800 --> 1:29:14.439 greatest artists. 1:29:14.560 --> 1:29:16.479 He's a lot of people's favorite, which is different. 1:29:16.640 --> 1:29:18.759 But when you're your favorite and the greatest is different. 1:29:19.080 --> 1:29:21.679 When people are bringing up the nases, the jay Z's. 1:29:22.560 --> 1:29:24.240 If he was to say that little Wayne got tossed 1:29:24.280 --> 1:29:26.679 in that conversation, he did, whether you believe that he deserves, 1:29:26.720 --> 1:29:28.400 whether you believe he deserves to be there or not, 1:29:28.760 --> 1:29:30.200 Wayne was tossed in that arena. 1:29:30.360 --> 1:29:32.120 Kanye was never that guy do. But that's how I 1:29:32.160 --> 1:29:35.280 feel about I believe it's a difference between favorite and 1:29:35.400 --> 1:29:38.200 your personal favorite and greatest. I think greatest is more 1:29:38.880 --> 1:29:43.519 in stone. Yeah, like the Michael Jordan Lebron debate, you 1:29:43.600 --> 1:29:46.519 can Lebron could be your favorite basketball player of all time, 1:29:47.200 --> 1:29:48.960 but we star talking about the greatest. We can go 1:29:49.200 --> 1:29:52.560 to what's already. We can look at the numbers, the accolades, 1:29:52.640 --> 1:29:55.360 the performance, the things that Mike did that still no 1:29:55.479 --> 1:29:59.880 other player in this era where it is more offensively friendly, 1:30:00.000 --> 1:30:02.920 he still has not averaged with Mike averaged in a 1:30:03.000 --> 1:30:05.960 more defensive era. So when you look at things like that, 1:30:06.160 --> 1:30:09.320 like that's what makes Mike through every era as time 1:30:09.360 --> 1:30:11.200 goes on, it and I love the fact that Jordan 1:30:11.280 --> 1:30:14.280 hates when people do that because he's like erarors are different, 1:30:14.680 --> 1:30:16.760 the game, style play, everything is different. Like I don't 1:30:16.760 --> 1:30:19.080 think that I'm better than guys before me, and I 1:30:19.120 --> 1:30:20.880 don't think that I'm better than guys after me. I 1:30:20.920 --> 1:30:22.320 think that in my time. If you want to say 1:30:22.360 --> 1:30:26.320 I'm the greatest, I'll accept that. But I do think 1:30:26.360 --> 1:30:29.719 that with artists, you can say, Yo, that's my favorite, 1:30:29.720 --> 1:30:32.320 that's my fair cool, great, that's it's subjective. But when 1:30:32.320 --> 1:30:36.360 you start talking about greatest, that speaks to longevity, that 1:30:36.400 --> 1:30:39.519 speaks to consistency, that speaks to body of work, that 1:30:39.640 --> 1:30:41.680 speaks to a lot of different things that you have 1:30:41.800 --> 1:30:45.479 to start looking at to make that definitive statement of greatest. 1:30:46.320 --> 1:30:49.800 Kanye not the greatest rapper. Now we want to say 1:30:49.800 --> 1:30:51.880 greatest artist, because artist means a lot of different things. 1:30:51.920 --> 1:30:55.600 He creates clothes, he creates music, he creates you know, 1:30:56.200 --> 1:30:58.280 He's done a lot of things in the community, things 1:30:58.360 --> 1:31:00.360 like that. Like, it's the different things that speak to 1:31:00.840 --> 1:31:03.320 the greatest. Favorite is just something that you like, Oh, 1:31:03.400 --> 1:31:06.160 I like that album, my favorite album ever, that's my 1:31:06.240 --> 1:31:07.559 favorite artist, my favorite rapper. 1:31:07.720 --> 1:31:10.439 Yeah, I think he brings up an interesting point though 1:31:10.479 --> 1:31:15.000 this this caller, because he was saying, like, it's weird 1:31:15.000 --> 1:31:17.560 because I feel like definitely mall because you've seen like 1:31:17.720 --> 1:31:20.639 most of hip hop happen, like the releases, like your 1:31:21.840 --> 1:31:25.160 entry is just like the careers of these guys. Ours 1:31:25.280 --> 1:31:28.000 is a little delayed, but still mostly like the majority 1:31:28.040 --> 1:31:31.400 of these guys' careers. I'm trying to think, like who 1:31:31.560 --> 1:31:33.880 is And he gave the example like kod for Cole, 1:31:34.360 --> 1:31:37.400 Like what would be a dud album for an artist 1:31:37.479 --> 1:31:39.680 that you love? Where if that was your first time 1:31:39.760 --> 1:31:42.360 hearing them, you'd be like, eh, I don't get it, 1:31:42.560 --> 1:31:44.200 or like I'm not don't get the hype. I'm trying 1:31:44.240 --> 1:31:45.840 to think, like who do I love that put out 1:31:45.880 --> 1:31:46.880 a dud? M? 1:31:48.720 --> 1:31:49.719 Yeah you love Lula Wayne? 1:31:50.360 --> 1:31:52.799 Okay, well yeah, find sure for the sake of the conversation, 1:31:52.920 --> 1:31:55.439 if I heard Rebirth as my first Wayne album, I 1:31:55.479 --> 1:31:57.120 would be like, ew, you. 1:31:57.240 --> 1:32:01.400 Love this guy Wisconsin album or why album God, which 1:32:01.400 --> 1:32:02.840 I actually like that album, But if you heard his 1:32:02.880 --> 1:32:05.280 Wyoming album, you would not become have become a Kanye. 1:32:05.080 --> 1:32:06.160 Fan that yeah album? 1:32:06.280 --> 1:32:09.120 Yeah that was mis as fuck. It happens like but 1:32:09.240 --> 1:32:12.679 that speaks to we can go through every great artist 1:32:12.760 --> 1:32:14.240 ever and name the album that. We was like, I 1:32:14.280 --> 1:32:15.920 can name of Michael Jackson albe. I was like, I 1:32:15.960 --> 1:32:17.720 don't know what Michael was doing with this one. I 1:32:17.720 --> 1:32:19.200 don't even know if Michael's in the studio when they 1:32:19.240 --> 1:32:21.200 did this ship. Like, you know, you can go to that, 1:32:21.360 --> 1:32:24.519 but that still doesn't take away thriller. That still doesn't 1:32:24.560 --> 1:32:26.439 take away off the wall. That still doesn't take away 1:32:26.880 --> 1:32:27.640 you know what I'm saying, Like. 1:32:27.680 --> 1:32:30.880 It's like every Michael Jackson album ever dangerous. 1:32:30.439 --> 1:32:32.360 You know what I'm saying, Like you don't like that's 1:32:32.439 --> 1:32:34.439 just like come on, like this is this is Mike. 1:32:34.520 --> 1:32:38.000 We talked like fifty has no undoubtedly some of the 1:32:38.080 --> 1:32:40.400 best albums ever. But like I'm trying to like, if 1:32:40.400 --> 1:32:41.439 your entry point. 1:32:41.479 --> 1:32:45.320 Was if your entry point is animal Ambition you like, yeah. 1:32:46.200 --> 1:32:48.720 Which to our caller, that would have been his first 1:32:48.760 --> 1:32:51.880 fifty album, right, Which if he's hearing that as a 1:32:52.000 --> 1:32:53.320 kid in Chicago, he'd be like, and he. 1:32:53.400 --> 1:32:56.639 Never heard, Yeah, he never heard get Rid of Dodd 1:32:56.680 --> 1:32:59.560 Triant or the Massacres. Yeah, you gotta go back and 1:33:00.240 --> 1:33:04.280 like listen to that and then understand what I'm talking about. Yeah, 1:33:04.280 --> 1:33:07.519 it happens is you know, time, time passes, and our 1:33:07.560 --> 1:33:09.479 favorite artists are the greatest artists. You know, they're not 1:33:09.520 --> 1:33:12.280 gonna be great forever, but it's like go to when 1:33:12.360 --> 1:33:14.160 they like hit that moment where it was like, Yo, 1:33:14.280 --> 1:33:15.519 this is a great project. 1:33:15.600 --> 1:33:17.639 If you wanted to introduce somebody to jay Z, which 1:33:17.680 --> 1:33:20.120 album what you tell them to go to? Like, if 1:33:20.160 --> 1:33:23.280 you wanted something that age dwell today, that you think 1:33:23.360 --> 1:33:26.320 that let's say a twenty two year old could relate 1:33:26.400 --> 1:33:29.400 to at this point, what album would you send them 1:33:29.400 --> 1:33:32.599 to a twenty two year old never heard jay Z before. 1:33:34.240 --> 1:33:38.559 Uh, I'm sending everybody the Reasonable Doubum. 1:33:38.560 --> 1:33:40.320 I'm sending everybody to the Black album always. 1:33:41.280 --> 1:33:43.000 I would send the twenty two year old to the Blueprint. 1:33:44.800 --> 1:33:47.439 They all have different answers, Yeah, because I think that sound, 1:33:47.600 --> 1:33:49.160 the sample and all of that. I think it's more 1:33:49.200 --> 1:33:52.240 it's easier, more digestible, Yeah, for people to kind of 1:33:52.280 --> 1:33:55.080 like be attracted to with all the samples and things 1:33:55.160 --> 1:33:59.240 like that. Reasonable doubt obviously is you know the album 1:33:59.360 --> 1:34:02.479 that's like, this is what a rapper like? If this, 1:34:02.640 --> 1:34:04.720 if people know j Z now, then they go back 1:34:04.760 --> 1:34:06.880 and listen to this album. You can kind of say, 1:34:06.920 --> 1:34:09.560 oh he was going he was destined to be. He 1:34:09.720 --> 1:34:12.960 was talking big, big shit out the gate. Yeah, you 1:34:13.040 --> 1:34:14.880 know what I mean. So, but I think that just 1:34:15.040 --> 1:34:17.840 like sonically, musically, I think for a twenty two year old, 1:34:18.040 --> 1:34:22.080 the blueprint might be what I say, I would say, 1:34:22.080 --> 1:34:25.000 go listen to first Yeah, I got. I mean, I 1:34:25.040 --> 1:34:28.639 can see why. It has more like, you know, more anthems. 1:34:28.720 --> 1:34:29.920 It's more like, you know, a. 1:34:29.920 --> 1:34:31.519 Little more friendly for today. 1:34:31.800 --> 1:34:37.320 Yeah, that was like Holve's like, you know, the album 1:34:37.439 --> 1:34:40.719 it was leaned a little more commercial. I think because 1:34:40.720 --> 1:34:42.479 of just the production and the music. 1:34:42.960 --> 1:34:46.320 TI is one of those guys who I could see, 1:34:46.920 --> 1:34:49.479 uh if your first entry point for a TI album 1:34:49.680 --> 1:34:52.360 album is like yeah, I'm trying to even look at 1:34:52.439 --> 1:34:55.679 so for our caller, for our caller here, it would 1:34:55.760 --> 1:34:59.880 probably have been Paperwork m which which is still good, 1:35:00.160 --> 1:35:03.200 it's okay, but like coming off of paper Trail, Urban 1:35:03.320 --> 1:35:06.360 Legend and King like yeah, you know back. 1:35:06.800 --> 1:35:10.280 Like you gotta go back VII versus Tip Yeah like you. 1:35:10.760 --> 1:35:12.439 I feel like this guy might have been born at 1:35:12.520 --> 1:35:15.760 like the era of like duds from all of our grades. 1:35:15.720 --> 1:35:18.640 Twenty thirteen that time, right, it was a little tricky. 1:35:18.760 --> 1:35:20.519 Tricky you can't get goodgain til two thousand. 1:35:20.800 --> 1:35:23.960 Jesus came out in thirteen. Uh, it's a good album, though, 1:35:24.040 --> 1:35:26.320 Mac Miller Watching Movies came out. I'm trying to think 1:35:26.320 --> 1:35:28.040 of like good movies that came out that year, because 1:35:28.360 --> 1:35:30.200 from what we're looking at, doesn't seem like much. 1:35:30.680 --> 1:35:32.200 Jesus is my favorite Kanye album. 1:35:33.040 --> 1:35:34.960 Really, Jesus Jesus. 1:35:35.920 --> 1:35:36.519 That's interesting. 1:35:36.640 --> 1:35:37.240 Nothing was the same. 1:35:37.680 --> 1:35:39.880 Watched the Throne, Wash the Thrones. Watch the Thrones actually 1:35:39.880 --> 1:35:40.760 my favorite Kanye album. 1:35:40.800 --> 1:35:44.920 But yeah, whatever album you introduced to an artist as 1:35:45.040 --> 1:35:48.479 if it's not, you know, their first introduction, if it's 1:35:48.520 --> 1:35:50.680 not their debut album, I would say go back and 1:35:50.760 --> 1:35:54.280 listen to previous work, listen to some you know, mixtapes 1:35:54.280 --> 1:35:56.800 and things like that. Because thirteen wasn't bad though, Ma, 1:35:58.040 --> 1:35:58.720 what you mean born? 1:35:58.800 --> 1:36:01.400 We got Born Center. I like Magan Heart a Holy Girl, 1:36:01.479 --> 1:36:03.599 But whatever, Acid Wraps, stay trippy. 1:36:03.760 --> 1:36:05.639 I'm not saying it wasn't no good albums that came out, 1:36:05.640 --> 1:36:07.400 but we got some ship that came out that was 1:36:07.720 --> 1:36:12.000 was forgettable for sure. Yeah, long Live Obviously, nothing was 1:36:12.040 --> 1:36:12.800 the same came out. 1:36:13.840 --> 1:36:15.200 Nothing was the same as my favorite album. 1:36:15.280 --> 1:36:17.760 God, that album is sood. 1:36:17.040 --> 1:36:19.960 It's Aging as the classic of Drake's. We all thought 1:36:19.960 --> 1:36:21.519 it was going to be Take Care. Take Care was 1:36:21.560 --> 1:36:24.479 an instant classic book. Nothing was the same in Views Views. 1:36:24.520 --> 1:36:26.880 I think nothing was the same, probably as it might 1:36:26.960 --> 1:36:29.920 be aging that that that bottle of wine is a 1:36:29.960 --> 1:36:31.040 little better, not. 1:36:31.120 --> 1:36:33.600 That one was the same reviews, you dude, nothing was 1:36:33.640 --> 1:36:37.280 the same. I do views used as aged, like, oh 1:36:37.400 --> 1:36:37.960 my god. 1:36:38.760 --> 1:36:40.760 You sounds better now than it did. It was a 1:36:40.920 --> 1:36:44.000 knock that I had on Views though, I think it was. 1:36:44.400 --> 1:36:46.920 Was it Grammy's the future record, the one that was. 1:36:47.200 --> 1:36:49.080 I think my knock on, my only knock on that 1:36:49.240 --> 1:36:52.600 app Views might be Drake's best album. I agree, I 1:36:52.640 --> 1:36:56.760 think that my only knock on it was. I think 1:36:56.840 --> 1:36:58.840 that I felt like it was a little it was 1:36:59.240 --> 1:37:02.920 too much music. I don't think I could have did 1:37:03.000 --> 1:37:06.639 with about maybe you take. I think it was because 1:37:06.640 --> 1:37:08.479 I think you had like two dance records on there, 1:37:08.760 --> 1:37:10.040 and I was like, we could have just did with one. 1:37:11.439 --> 1:37:15.120 Yeah, but the dance records are like Controller and too Good, 1:37:15.280 --> 1:37:16.719 too good, Yeah, too good. 1:37:17.160 --> 1:37:19.479 That the fact that the fact that too you know, 1:37:19.600 --> 1:37:22.280 too good is some artists there would be some most 1:37:22.960 --> 1:37:27.000 most rappers single best song in a single, It was 1:37:27.080 --> 1:37:31.200 just an album cut. That's crazy that that Too Good 1:37:31.280 --> 1:37:33.160 is just sitting on that album and that song would 1:37:33.160 --> 1:37:37.200 be most artists best song ever. And that's just like 1:37:37.240 --> 1:37:39.160 an album cut on the album. You see what I'm saying. 1:37:39.160 --> 1:37:43.080 It's like Fire and Desire. Oh you know, views was 1:37:43.080 --> 1:37:45.720 a great thing at the time. I remember I was like, damn, 1:37:45.720 --> 1:37:47.320 I would have cut like maybe three or four. 1:37:47.240 --> 1:37:49.840 Songs with this run to Feel No Ways into Western 1:37:49.920 --> 1:37:52.960 Road Flows to with You what the fuck? 1:37:53.880 --> 1:37:56.639 You know, just the intro, that's my favorite Drake intro. 1:37:56.800 --> 1:37:58.240 Keep the family closest, damn it. 1:37:58.280 --> 1:37:59.559 We're talking about Drake, all right. Stop. 1:38:00.000 --> 1:38:02.160 But it's not like but not in that kind of way, 1:38:02.240 --> 1:38:03.680 like at the end of the day, but I get it. 1:38:03.720 --> 1:38:06.760 It's it's definitely you go back and listen to this 1:38:06.920 --> 1:38:08.600 album and you're like, you appreciate it. 1:38:08.680 --> 1:38:09.439 This is one of them. 1:38:09.640 --> 1:38:13.519 Yeah, yeah, I agree, but yeah go back. Anytime you 1:38:13.600 --> 1:38:16.080 introduce to an artist, listen to their previous work. You 1:38:16.160 --> 1:38:17.880 may have caught them and been introduced to them and 1:38:18.000 --> 1:38:20.080 not their best effort, you know what I mean. Like 1:38:20.120 --> 1:38:22.759 if I was introduced to some players on their worst 1:38:22.800 --> 1:38:26.120 game or worst playoff series, like he's trash he ever 1:38:26.200 --> 1:38:27.880 sturty for the season. He's not trash. You know what 1:38:27.920 --> 1:38:29.519 I'm saying. It's like you gotta go back. 1:38:31.240 --> 1:38:33.040 No, no, No, he's been proving it. 1:38:33.360 --> 1:38:34.240 Oh he's not. 1:38:34.320 --> 1:38:36.200 I'm not gonna say he's trash. He's an NBA player, 1:38:36.280 --> 1:38:37.599 But he's the other night. 1:38:38.880 --> 1:38:41.240 He has a a man's making a hundred million plots 1:38:41.280 --> 1:38:42.320 to be good the other night. 1:38:42.680 --> 1:38:44.760 Yeah, that's just the other night. That's that's the season. 1:38:44.800 --> 1:38:47.599 That's it. That's just one. I think it's a mental 1:38:47.640 --> 1:38:49.240 thing with Ben at this point, it has to be. 1:38:49.360 --> 1:38:51.240 It's a mental it's a mental thing. I think that 1:38:51.360 --> 1:38:54.960 have been. He may need to go get a ayahuasca 1:38:55.200 --> 1:38:58.680 ceremonies this off season. He might need to do the ayahuasca. 1:38:58.800 --> 1:39:01.800 Something's got to happen because it's really ego. It's really 1:39:01.920 --> 1:39:04.200 him fighting against who people said he was gonna be. 1:39:04.560 --> 1:39:07.400 Yeah at this point, and I think if he lets 1:39:07.479 --> 1:39:10.800 go of that and just plays, I think he would 1:39:10.840 --> 1:39:13.280 be a much in a much better conversation as far 1:39:13.360 --> 1:39:16.320 as uh where he is in the league right now. 1:39:16.360 --> 1:39:19.240 I think he needs to go strip some of that ego, 1:39:19.400 --> 1:39:21.360 like let that shit go and just go out there 1:39:21.360 --> 1:39:22.400 and have fun and play ball doup. 1:39:22.520 --> 1:39:23.799 Has the regular season started? 1:39:24.240 --> 1:39:24.439 Yeah? 1:39:24.800 --> 1:39:29.080 Wow, I don't watch basketball, so I'm asking, Yeah, how 1:39:29.120 --> 1:39:30.479 are the Knicks doing well? 1:39:30.640 --> 1:39:34.840 Lean, Like we said, he's fucking thinking about even thinking 1:39:34.880 --> 1:39:38.280 about him. We're a five hundred team. It's really fucking to. 1:39:38.320 --> 1:39:42.840 Julius Randall been hooping out there in Minnesota. I told y'all. 1:39:43.439 --> 1:39:46.120 I told y'all that was a bad trade. Anybody that's 1:39:46.160 --> 1:39:48.760 in Minnesota, they agree with me. They watched Cat for years. 1:39:49.160 --> 1:39:50.559 They know we took the bad end of that deal. 1:39:50.720 --> 1:39:51.720 You're five hundred team too. 1:39:52.080 --> 1:39:52.800 It's all right though. 1:39:54.400 --> 1:39:56.760 You keep saying Cat, but you don't mean Karl Anthony Town. 1:39:56.840 --> 1:39:58.160 Yeah, that's who he is. That's what he's talking about. 1:40:00.400 --> 1:40:03.479 Oh No, that's Jordan's boyfriend. I'm thinking about the other light. 1:40:03.560 --> 1:40:04.479 They're all light skin. 1:40:05.600 --> 1:40:09.160 Lama's baby father to Jason Tatum. Jason Tatum. He plays 1:40:09.200 --> 1:40:11.760 for the Celtics, the green team, Okay, and then Cat. 1:40:11.880 --> 1:40:15.080 So Cat now plays for the Knicks. Yes, so Cat's ass. 1:40:15.479 --> 1:40:17.720 No, he's playing great. We're just having figured out the 1:40:18.760 --> 1:40:20.639 It's just just the locker. 1:40:20.520 --> 1:40:23.320 Room is different, style of players, different. You got a 1:40:23.360 --> 1:40:27.000 whole different play out there. That's the chemistry. Yeah, That's 1:40:27.040 --> 1:40:29.280 what people don't count. And when they talk about teams 1:40:29.320 --> 1:40:31.200 that being good. You got to keep these players together 1:40:31.560 --> 1:40:33.240 for some years, let them, you know, get to know 1:40:33.360 --> 1:40:35.760 each other, hang out with each other on a personal level. 1:40:36.880 --> 1:40:39.360 That shit translate into gameplay, and people don't understand that. 1:40:39.400 --> 1:40:41.400 They just thinking name on the back of the jersey. 1:40:41.840 --> 1:40:43.880 Cat's been balling. Actually he just put out I'm not 1:40:43.920 --> 1:40:45.920 saying like forty six and ten the other night or 1:40:45.960 --> 1:40:46.240 something like that. 1:40:46.640 --> 1:40:50.120 He's a great player, but I'm for chemistry. See, I 1:40:50.160 --> 1:40:53.560 don't think I don't think Julius had as much of 1:40:53.600 --> 1:40:56.840 an ego as call Anthony. I think cal Anthony came 1:40:56.920 --> 1:41:00.400 in feeling like he that guy, like y'all need me, 1:41:00.560 --> 1:41:02.640 I'm the king of the city now. So if he 1:41:02.920 --> 1:41:04.760 if he was, then why diould he get traded? Why 1:41:04.760 --> 1:41:07.280 would they trade him? If he was that guy who Julius, 1:41:07.720 --> 1:41:12.720 no Carl, why would Minnesota trade him? Yeah, just hope 1:41:12.800 --> 1:41:14.640 trying to tell you they feel like they got a 1:41:14.720 --> 1:41:16.640 more of a dog when it's time to be in 1:41:16.680 --> 1:41:19.160 the playoffs and go at these other Western Conference teams. 1:41:19.160 --> 1:41:22.479 They got more of a dog with Julius Randall okay, 1:41:23.920 --> 1:41:25.599 and Carl is expensive they don't feel like he's worth 1:41:25.640 --> 1:41:25.960 his dollar. 1:41:26.040 --> 1:41:28.240 The Knicks just took on. Yeah, they absorbed his old 1:41:28.280 --> 1:41:30.439 contract and are paying him more. He's making like two 1:41:30.560 --> 1:41:32.960 hundred and five million something like. That's ridiculous. 1:41:33.439 --> 1:41:35.800 Okay, great player though I only want to sound like 1:41:35.840 --> 1:41:37.920 he's not. He's a great player, but I just think chemistry. 1:41:37.960 --> 1:41:41.240 I think having that again, that dog in the playoffs, 1:41:41.320 --> 1:41:42.960 I think that's gonna come back to hurt the Knicks. 1:41:43.000 --> 1:41:45.200 I think they should have kept Julius around when he 1:41:45.320 --> 1:41:47.599 was healthy. Let that team get one more crack at 1:41:47.600 --> 1:41:50.280 the playoffs, everybody's healthy, and then if it don't work out, 1:41:50.320 --> 1:41:52.519 then next year you look at Connor's shuffling the deck 1:41:52.520 --> 1:41:54.599 a little bit. But I think that they should have definitely, 1:41:56.400 --> 1:41:58.800 because Julius is the guy that turned the franchise around. 1:41:59.360 --> 1:42:02.639 He got them back to respectable level playoff contention, things 1:42:02.720 --> 1:42:05.400 like that. Got a shoulder injury last year and Nick's 1:42:05.400 --> 1:42:07.120 playing well. They did well in the playoffs without them, 1:42:07.360 --> 1:42:10.000 and I think that's what I feel like, that's why 1:42:10.000 --> 1:42:11.840 they play. Oh, we could get rid of him because 1:42:11.840 --> 1:42:13.920 we played well without them anyway, And that's not always 1:42:13.960 --> 1:42:16.519 the case, so okay, but it is what it is 1:42:17.160 --> 1:42:21.320 either way. If you're hearing this, when are they hearing 1:42:21.360 --> 1:42:25.800 this tomorrow? Oh, we will be in Atlanta. We will 1:42:25.840 --> 1:42:29.599 be in Atlanta next next Friday, the twenty second, November 1:42:29.600 --> 1:42:32.320 twenty second, we will be in Atlanta. Tickets available now 1:42:32.320 --> 1:42:34.200 at New Roymaal dot com. 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Uh Mike 1:43:03.160 --> 1:43:04.040 Tyson Jake. 1:43:03.920 --> 1:43:06.439 Paul fight this weekend and if you're listening tonight tonight, 1:43:06.439 --> 1:43:07.800 if you're listening tonight is the fight. 1:43:07.960 --> 1:43:09.000 I'll be at a watch party. 1:43:10.200 --> 1:43:12.320 And if you listen to this, rest in peace, Jake Paul. 1:43:14.760 --> 1:43:16.519 I w want to put that in fuck with Jake Paul, 1:43:17.080 --> 1:43:19.880 but I do have Jake Paul losing getting knocked out 1:43:20.520 --> 1:43:23.240 in the second round. 1:43:23.280 --> 1:43:25.000 He just shaking his head in disagreement. 1:43:25.960 --> 1:43:26.600 Yeah, I got it. 1:43:26.840 --> 1:43:28.200 Not my wife, King, Can we go somewhere? 1:43:28.240 --> 1:43:30.240 Watch this, Watch the fight I got Jake Paul Gett 1:43:30.280 --> 1:43:31.120 knocked out in the second round. 1:43:31.240 --> 1:43:32.439 I'm watching Friends. 1:43:33.080 --> 1:43:36.479 Yeah all right, Well, we'll talk to y' all soon. 1:43:36.880 --> 1:43:39.920 Be safe, be blessed. I'm not Nigga, he's just Ginger. 1:43:40.080 --> 1:43:40.680 But he's not here. 1:43:41.320 --> 1:43:42.640 No, no,