1 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, Hey, we're back. We're super Black today. As 2 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: per usual, we're Brown Ambition. Hey, Mandra and special guests. 3 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 2: Hey, hey, hello to our special guest today, doctor Pamela Jolly. 4 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: I cannot wait to introduce you to y'all, to you guys, 5 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 2: to our ba fam. I was actually on a panel 6 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:33,279 Speaker 2: with doctor Jolly a few weeks ago and afterward just 7 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: wanted to know more. You know how on a panel 8 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:37,680 Speaker 2: everyone gets like seven and a half minutes to speak, 9 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 2: but doctor Jolly seven and a half minutes. 10 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: I was like, I need more. 11 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: Let me, let me, let me make her talk to 12 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 2: me some more. So invited her to the show today 13 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: and I cannot waits tell you about her. So let 14 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: me just give you a little bit of a rundown, 15 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: Doctor Jolly'll let you say hello, but let's put some 16 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: respect on your name and your experience. Doctor Pamela Jolly y'all, 17 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: is a wealth strategist, a renowned speaker and author committed 18 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: to guiding men, women, business owners, face leaders, and young 19 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 2: professionals toward building legacy their way. She is a I mean, 20 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 2: how many degrees I can't even keep track. She's a 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: graduate of Hampton University, The Wharton School of Business, Boston 22 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 2: University School of Theology, and Graduate Theological Foundation. After building 23 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: a successful career in finance, working for companies like Nations, 24 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 2: Bake Accenture, and a private equity firm she helped build 25 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 2: called The Boy Partners. In two thousand and four, doctor 26 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 2: Jolly launched Torch Enterprises, which is her strategic investment firm 27 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: that focuses on women and minority owned businesses, and in 28 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 2: twenty fifteen she launched The Narrow Road, which is a 29 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: methodology focused on educating anyone wanting to build wealth via 30 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 2: ownership and equity. Doctor Pamela Jolly, Welcome to Brown Ambition. 31 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: So tell us about Torch at its heart. What is 32 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: Torch Enterprises and what do you do as a wealth strategist? 33 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, so great question. So Torch stands for passing the 34 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 3: torch from one generation to the next to build legacy 35 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 3: wealth via own ship and increased equity. And so I 36 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 3: started towards Hard to Believe twenty years ago based on 37 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 3: something that really frustrated me that relative to the contributions 38 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 3: that African Americans have made to America, we just didn't 39 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 3: known enough, We just didn't have enough wealth. And because 40 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 3: I have worked my entire career in financial services. I 41 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 3: wanted more of us to understand that we're not starting 42 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 3: from nothing, that our legacy is very valuable, and so 43 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:28,839 Speaker 3: how do we really blend our belief that we will 44 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 3: do well with finance, business and strategy. So I raised 45 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 3: capital and awareness for African Americans and African American businesses 46 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 3: and their communities. I work with large philanthropic organizations, national banks, 47 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 3: large organizations as well as small businesses and communities. I 48 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 3: love what I do. It's been an amazing journey that 49 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 3: really started to shape itself post Katrina in New Orleans. 50 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 3: So I'm indebted to the city of New Orleans. Love 51 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 3: love New Orleans, but I've worked in over ninety three 52 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: cities across the So I love our community and I 53 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 3: see it as a business and I look forward to 54 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 3: elevating that standard with as many Black people as possible. 55 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: She said, I love us for real. Okay, shout out 56 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: to money for real. For real. Well, I'm excited that 57 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: you're here because I know we're really going to like 58 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: leaning heavily on talking about business and what it looks 59 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: like to be a successful black business. Kind of one 60 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 1: of the mistakes that we're making that you see across 61 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: the board, and what we can do to minimize those mistakes, 62 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: get access to capital, and do what businesses are meant 63 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: to do, which is grow and pass along. Well. So 64 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: I'm super jazz because you know, Mandy and I are 65 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: both business owners. So I'm just excited you're here. 66 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 2: Awesome. I'm grateful to be here both of you. And 67 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: I'm curious, like it's one of the things you encounter. 68 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously you work on the ground with black 69 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: and brown owned businesses quite often, and for me, as 70 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 2: a newbie business owner, I think sometimes I wonder if 71 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 2: I'm not thinking big enough with my business. You know, 72 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 2: I just want to make it through the first year, 73 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 2: make it the first year. 74 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: Yah. 75 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 2: And of course, having listened to Tiffany and had sort 76 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 2: of a back back back seat to watching her build 77 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: multiple businesses over the past, I don't know, in your 78 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: decade we've known each other, it's been a privilege. But 79 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like, am I allowed to think that big yet? 80 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 2: And what do I have to lose by not thinking 81 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 2: big early? You know what I mean? 82 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? Definitely. 83 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, it is big for you to 84 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: have sustained a business for a year, you know, the 85 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 3: reality of small businesses and the tenure of them. 86 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: I did do that. I commanded I didn't want to 87 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,240 Speaker 1: put interrupt and I was like, I need you. 88 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 3: To take ownership of that, right because the first year, 89 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 3: you know, it's what I call the idea phase. You know, 90 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 3: you got an idea, but business is a series of 91 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 3: consistently increasing levels of opportunity, right, So increasing relationships, it's 92 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 3: increased knowledge gain, it's increasing steps that have to be 93 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 3: streamlined and organized. And so that first year is really 94 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 3: you teaching you. Like am I a business owner? I 95 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 3: believe the call to entrepreneurship is a call from God 96 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 3: because it's a faith walk in many ways, and in 97 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 3: that first year it definitely is. So I think that, 98 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 3: you know, when we think about businesses one to three, 99 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 3: you're really figuring it out. And I think importance of 100 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 3: seeing things big. Think about Stephen Covey where he says, 101 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 3: you know, begin with the end in mind. You know, 102 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 3: you got to focus on your exit as soon as 103 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 3: you start, like how do you want to exit this business? 104 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 3: Do you want it to die with you? Eighty five 105 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 3: percent of businesses or lifestyle businesses, or do you want 106 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,239 Speaker 3: to pass the torch to the next generation. 107 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: What is this really? 108 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 3: You know, some lifestyle businesses are for a specific phase, 109 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 3: and in that specific phase of time, you know, then 110 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 3: you learn and I want to do something different. That's 111 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,119 Speaker 3: the other thing that I would encourage emergent business owners 112 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 3: as I call them, don't feel so locked in that 113 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 3: you don't feel like you can do anything else. There's 114 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 3: a tremendous amount of opportunities. You've got to steward and 115 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 3: manage your capacity. 116 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: Now that's really powerful because I so when I first 117 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: started my business, where I'm at year fourteen, I believe, 118 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: I know, and so it's been fourteen years. I've made 119 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,840 Speaker 1: probably just over thirty million dollars in this gross obviously 120 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: because you know, I got thirty million that's my bank account. 121 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: But you know, but I feel like with each iteration 122 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: I have gotten clear on the end. In mind. In 123 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: the beginning, the Budgetesa was like can we pay these billsys? 124 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: That was the point. And so I made a business 125 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: where I was the sun, moon and stars like many 126 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: of us do, which is nothing wrong with that, but 127 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: I realized that, like, what if I don't want to 128 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: do Budgetista forever? And ever, how do. I cuse what 129 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: I've created here to build an additional business where I'm 130 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: not the sun, Moon and stars. And so I created 131 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: my online school literature academy where I'm one of many 132 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: financial educators there, which is great. So it's not heavily 133 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: tied to the Budgetista and the Budgetiessa is a die 134 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: with me business, you know, like I just did my 135 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: will and in it it says something happens to me. 136 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 1: My sisters are instructured to just sell it and take 137 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: the proceeds and split it four ways. Because what you're 138 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: going to do, you're gonna be Budgetesta says, you know. 139 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 3: And so. 140 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: But then my second business, I have a business partner, 141 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: but I'm a majority owner. And what that looks like 142 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: is that it can continue without me for the most part, 143 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: where I have almost pulled myself almost out of it. 144 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: I'm probably like eighty percent gone, like whereas if they 145 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: have a CEO there, that's not me anymore. My face 146 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 1: is largely missing, although we still use Budgetesa to do 147 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: some promo stuff, but even that we are slowly suing 148 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: chipping away, and I would say, by the end of 149 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: next year, you won't see me at all. And that's 150 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: a business where something happens to me. You know, my 151 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: shares go to my sisters as well. They're not voting shares. 152 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: You know. My business partner also has the ability to 153 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: buy them out should he decide to do so, or 154 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: if he doesn't buy them out, they just continue to 155 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: you know, get their peace, you know. But now this 156 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: third bis now I've started other smaller businesses in between then, 157 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: but this third business that I'm doing now, I'm very clear, 158 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: Like for the first time, I'm really clear at the 159 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: end in mind is I'm building it to sell within 160 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: five years, like, and I'm really clear on that. And 161 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: so can you share with us kind of like, how 162 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: can especially when you're first starting out, how can you 163 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: get clear with the end in mind when you're like, 164 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to pay bills. 165 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, get clear about how you're going to pay 166 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 3: the bills, right, So, marry yourself to your market, marry 167 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 3: yourself to your target market. Make sure you're building something 168 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 3: that you love. Make sure you recognize what you do 169 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 3: best and what you don't do best. Start to elevate 170 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 3: your trust levels so that you can hire appropriately, you know, 171 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: really getting very focused. Seventy one percent of hiring decisions 172 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 3: in small businesses are mistakes. Those are very cost not 173 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 3: just then zero. 174 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 2: Yes, so it's not that because we usually go to 175 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: our family and friends first, because. 176 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,959 Speaker 1: First of all, we're about ninety percent over here. 177 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 2: Just so. 178 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 3: Here's what I believe based from my experience. I think 179 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 3: it has largely about the blind spots that we have 180 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 3: about what we really need. Yeah, you know, so I 181 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 3: really think that people should take some time to write out, 182 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 3: you know, what is that job description and how does 183 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 3: it really impact the business. The other thing is you know, 184 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 3: looking at you know, employment of other people. Both, yes, 185 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: it is an expense, but it's also an investment. It's 186 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 3: leadership and so it's building relationships. So is this just 187 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 3: a transactional job where they if they show up, praise God. 188 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 3: If they do what they tell you, praise God? Or 189 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 3: is it really you want someone to think with you, 190 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 3: you know, build with you, grow with you. So it's 191 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 3: really getting very clear about that. But I think in 192 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 3: the beginning, you know, when you don't have enough money, 193 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 3: then we said we hire our friends and family because 194 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 3: it's cheap. I think getting very clear about what you 195 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 3: can do by yourself and the capacity in which you 196 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 3: can do it. Some folks get so married to such 197 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 3: a large vision at the end that they kind of 198 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 3: discount what they're able to do in the beginning. You know, 199 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 3: what can you actually do with the time that you have? 200 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 3: So I think it's really important to be very focused 201 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 3: and very clear. In my work with the Narrow Road, 202 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 3: I created a predictive modeling component. One of my last 203 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 3: jobs in corporate America was a market research strategist, so 204 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 3: learned how to create different algorithms and typing tools and 205 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 3: the importance of segmenting the market. And what I created 206 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 3: was a predictive modeling component. So I type people and 207 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 3: once you understand your wealth identity, we're able to get 208 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 3: really clear about how do you articulate what you do 209 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 3: and what you need in order to successfully build the 210 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 3: relationships required for your business to be successful. 211 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: Where does somebody get a hold of that ask it 212 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 1: for a friend. 213 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:47,960 Speaker 3: So my first book was written eight years ago, right 214 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 3: after my dad passed away, and a larger publisher, so 215 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 3: I published it with my own publishing company and then 216 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:57,079 Speaker 3: a larger publisher, Worthy Publishing that's run by Marva Allen 217 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 3: who owns Human Bookstore. She approched pandemic. I love her too. 218 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 3: She's amazing and she actually was one of my first 219 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 3: clients when I launched Torch in New York, and so 220 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 3: was so excited. Well, she took the book and we 221 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 3: reorganized it and it's coming out September twelfth. 222 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 2: Oh oh, concrelation. Thank you. 223 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 3: And so this is the second edition of The Narrow 224 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 3: Road and inside of it is the Wealth Identity Typing Tool. 225 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 3: And then I have a wealth Finishing school that's launching 226 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 3: in November where I really help people own their identity 227 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 3: and really build wealth their way so they can build 228 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 3: the right relationships with the financial professionals. Because that's what 229 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 3: I wanted to say, tiffany One. I'm so proud of 230 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 3: your trajectory and what you're doing. But even hearing you, 231 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 3: you can tell you've spoken to professionals that you trust 232 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 3: and you understand they've given you advice, You've applied that advice, 233 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,560 Speaker 3: you've gotten their results, and you're moving forward. 234 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:51,839 Speaker 1: So that's how you do it. 235 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 3: You basically start with the solid foundation and you build, 236 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 3: grow and expand from there. 237 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 2: Okba fan, we will be right back with more of 238 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 2: our conversation on legacy building as black business owners. With 239 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: doctor Pamela Jolly. 240 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 1: And we're a bag more with doctor Jolly. 241 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,599 Speaker 2: I'm curious at what point because I know Tiffany and 242 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 2: I talked about you know, the budget needs to for example, 243 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 2: and you haven't taken any funding Tiffany throughout your ever 244 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 2: your business is right, of course, I haven't taken any funding. 245 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,079 Speaker 2: You have the occasional friend who's like, I want to 246 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: invest I'm like in what I want to buy me 247 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 2: a better webcam? I don't know, But taking on investments, 248 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 2: and when do you do you work at all with that? 249 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 2: You know that piece of it? When do I identifying 250 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 2: when you need outside capital and when it can be 251 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 2: you know, beneficial versus actually becoming something that can be 252 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 2: cumbersome or like be an issue down the road. 253 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. So in my book, what I talk about is 254 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:49,679 Speaker 3: there's four capital relationships. The least intimate relationship with capital 255 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 3: is transaction, right, So literally it's all a lot of 256 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 3: hard work. It does have equity in it, but it's 257 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 3: sweat equity and you work extremely hard. That next one 258 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 3: is a joint venture, and that's when you bring on 259 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 3: that friends and family who can support you where you're 260 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 3: a week now, whether they do it financially. My two 261 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 3: investors and first two investors in my company were my grandmothers. 262 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: And when black women that you don't expect to be 263 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 3: able to write checks write you checks, you get cash 264 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 3: flow positive and profitable a lot faster than others might try. 265 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 3: So I'm so grateful that it was my grandmothers who 266 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 3: believed in me that invested that next level of capital 267 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 3: is where growth capital. Now, growth capital can be either 268 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 3: debt or equity, and I want people to understand the difference. 269 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 3: You know, debt has rules and regulations. The financial services 270 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 3: industry is the highest regulated industry in the country. So 271 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 3: they can't give you money because they like you. They 272 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 3: have to give you money because you fit a certain 273 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,719 Speaker 3: criteria that's a good risk for them to take to 274 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 3: deploy capital for you. Now, there's different types of debt 275 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 3: capital that you can get. And during the pandemic, and 276 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 3: so many things happened in the pandemic as it relates 277 00:13:56,760 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 3: to minority owned businesses, people started to realize that many 278 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,719 Speaker 3: minority own businesses did not have a relationship with a 279 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 3: financial institution that they trusted or understood. A tremendous amount 280 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 3: of capital was deployed to CDFIs who across the country 281 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 3: are cash flow lenders. But that means that you've got 282 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 3: to have positive cashlow. 283 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: That means that you have to. 284 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 3: Understand what your operating budget is, and what is the 285 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 3: deficit in your operating budget, and what would it take 286 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 3: for you to build up the working capital level. And 287 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 3: so then the next level is equity. From my perspective, now, 288 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 3: equity is the most intimate relationship you can have in 289 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 3: terms of capital. Equity means that you no longer can 290 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 3: do everything. 291 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: You want to do. 292 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 3: You've got to align your vision with those who are 293 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 3: investing in you. The outcome that they see might be 294 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 3: different than the outcome that you see. It also might 295 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 3: be further down the road that you can afford to 296 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 3: look and may or may not include you. Right, Equity 297 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 3: requires an exit, a defined exit in a specific period 298 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 3: of time, with a specific return on investment. And so 299 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 3: oftentimes some of us like to jump in skip steps 300 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 3: straight to equity. You know, one of the things that 301 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 3: I want people to think about is if you have 302 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 3: pre revenue, right, you are a pre revenue company and 303 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 3: you're looking for equity. There are some industries where you 304 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 3: do need to raise. 305 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 1: That type of money. 306 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 3: But Tiffany and Mandy, you are the earn your way, right. 307 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 3: There's there's earners and there's owners. But these earners who 308 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 3: they earn their way. Some people call it bootstrap. 309 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: I call it reality. 310 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 3: You know, I've never raised capital outside of my grand 311 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 3: My grandparents and my best friend's parents invested in me 312 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 3: in the beginning. After that, I was able to continue 313 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 3: to self invest in my enterprise to be able to build, 314 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:40,640 Speaker 3: grow and expand it amazing. But ownership was important to me, 315 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 3: and passing the torch was important to me. And so 316 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 3: once again you've got to get clear about your end. 317 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 3: What's really important to you. Is equity capital bad not 318 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 3: at all. Equity capital is amazing, but it's a different 319 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 3: type of relationship that you have with others around the 320 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 3: vision for your enterprise. 321 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 2: So you see them as sorts of stepping stones, you know, 322 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 2: starting smaller and then maybe like you want to maybe 323 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 2: start with like self funding a little bit and then 324 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 2: seek out like a friends and family around of fundraising. 325 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 2: I remember when we. 326 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, So here's what I'll tell you because it dilutes you. Right, 327 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 3: So if you in the beginning memory talked about the 328 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 3: idea stage of business. When you're in the beginning stages 329 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 3: of trying to figure it out and you raise equity, 330 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 3: they're not investing in the idea. They're investing in that 331 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 3: idea maturing to exit. And so you might say, well, 332 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 3: I want to pivot. Well, if the business is doing well, 333 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 3: they're gonna say why unless you can prove the business 334 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: case all over again. And so it's important for you 335 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 3: to have the cadence of your capital with the cadence 336 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 3: of your business. 337 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: It's one of the reasons why not that I was 338 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: ever offered because you know, a black woman, but it's 339 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: one of the reasons why I was like, I don't 340 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: want to take any outside financial I mean aside from 341 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 1: like if family and friends wanted to invest. But a 342 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: friend of mine just sold his blog for you know, 343 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:05,160 Speaker 1: eight figures, and I suspect close to maybe like forty 344 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: or fifty million dollars. And he was like, I know 345 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 1: they're beating down your door, Tiffany. I'm like, now, despite 346 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: all the success, despite that, we you know, we've only 347 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: had profitable years, some years more certain than others. I mean, 348 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: now the budgetista is like rocking and rolling. Like I 349 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 1: was talking to my CFO the other day. She was like, Tiffany, 350 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: because I have not focused on budget. Oh, most of 351 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: my focus has been the Literature Academy for the last 352 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: six or seven years when I opened it, because it 353 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: needed just a lot. So the BUDGETNISTA was like kind 354 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: of on the back barner, and it just made because 355 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 1: it was a solid business that made money connect what 356 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 1: I call kind of like accidentally. But now that I'm 357 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 1: no longer the CFO of CEO of that business, I 358 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 1: focused on the BUDGETNISA, and we have been slaying our 359 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: our profit margin to the point where she's like, we 360 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 1: need to spend more. I'm like, oh what seventy nine percent? 361 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: Like we knew that, we just we have doubled. I 362 00:17:58,160 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 1: mean I told her in the beginning of the year, 363 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: I said, Okay, this is what I want to make 364 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: by the end of the year, and we're already there 365 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: plus some and I was like, all right, some new goals. 366 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: And so I guess my question is it's like, because 367 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: now I'm in this place and space where I want 368 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: to do less, so I really want and I'm not 369 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: gonna lie. When I heard that he had sold his business, 370 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,120 Speaker 1: I got a little salty because I was just like, well, 371 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: why not me? Why not me? With all that I've 372 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 1: built and grown? Why not me? And I said, well, Tiffany, 373 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 1: have you intended it to your point doctor Jolly, and 374 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: I had not. I don't want to sell Budget the 375 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 1: to because I'm not going to lie, he asked me. 376 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: He's like, if you want, I can get BUDGETI to 377 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: ready to sell in sixteen months, and I was like, no, 378 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: because it's still something that I really enjoy doing. So 379 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: instead I'm building something else that probably take about five years, 380 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 1: I'm estimating, But because I just it feels very disheartening 381 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: that I hear people who are not doing nearly as 382 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: much as what you know black and brown women are 383 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 1: doing that don't get those same opportunities. It's just really frustrating. 384 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 3: Well, I hear you, Tiffany, and if you would allow 385 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 3: me to kind of go deeper into that for a second. 386 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 3: I mean again, I said that equity is the most 387 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 3: intimate relationship that you can have. But also as black 388 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 3: and brown individuals, particularly African Americans. You know, my research, 389 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 3: what I found is that we're the only people in 390 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 3: America who were first capital before we ever made capital, 391 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 3: and so we can't help but look at business as 392 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 3: personal and so I hear you, and I've read your books, 393 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 3: and I've also listened to you from the beginning. Bud 394 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,640 Speaker 3: Jeanista is a heart brand. From my perspective, you care 395 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 3: about your people, you care about what you offered. It's 396 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 3: hard to sell that. And the other thing is that 397 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 3: when people don't understand our hearts. You know, Black women 398 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 3: are so powerful in their own right, but oftentimes we 399 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 3: don't toot our own homewns because we're too busy doing 400 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 3: what needs to be done to be able to move 401 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 3: things that we care about forward. And so as a result, 402 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 3: it's about relationship. I'm not saying that there isn't any 403 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 3: bias in the marketplace, but I am saying that as 404 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 3: it relates to investing in black women own brands, if 405 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 3: you will, it's still uncharted territory. We're still very much 406 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 3: at the emergent stages of building business relationships to be 407 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 3: able to do so. And you said it yourself, if 408 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:16,679 Speaker 3: you really wanted to. 409 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 1: Do it, you could, right. 410 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 3: But the beautiful thing about it is you have a choice. 411 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 3: Wealth is a choice. You're able to choose how you 412 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 3: build wealth with the assets that you have been able 413 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 3: to build and grow and expand. So the other thing 414 00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 3: about with a Budganista brand, I mean, if someone bought it, 415 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 3: they might have a different vision, and all of a sudden, 416 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 3: you see yourself all over the place, not portraying the 417 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 3: true authentic selling cult for you. 418 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 2: Yes, I was thinking like a prepaid debit card. 419 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 3: Oh girl. 420 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 1: I told him no to Budgetista. Although he was like, 421 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: I think you can get this amount of money. I 422 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, no, but so I do have like 423 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: this other I bought a company a couple of years 424 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 1: ago and I've been on it and I've just been 425 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 1: trying to figure out what to do with it, and 426 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,920 Speaker 1: I thought, you know what, this would actually be really great. 427 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 1: So I'm working on now and to your point, building relationship. 428 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 1: I just had a really great chat with a vice 429 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 1: president of a huge financial organization that I've known for 430 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 1: a number of years, just to ask what would you 431 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: need this to be in order for this type of 432 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 1: company to be interested. And so I'm starting to have 433 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 1: those conversations and realizing, oh, I need those type of 434 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 1: relationships to ask because I'm not going to build willy nilly. 435 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: If I'm going to build this new company like and 436 00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 1: sell it then I need to know who would buy 437 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 1: and why and what does that look like. So I'm 438 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 1: very clear about what I'm building because I was just like, Okay, 439 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 1: I do want that. I want to have an exit, 440 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: not even for the money, but for the Can you 441 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 1: do it, Tiffany, because everything I've set my mind to 442 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 1: has happened, and this would be the biggest external expression 443 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: of doing something, and so I'm just really curious as 444 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,679 Speaker 1: to can I do it? And if I can, then 445 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 1: I can bring that information back to women who look 446 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: like me who don't typically have access to that type 447 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 1: of information. 448 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 3: I love it, and you can do it, and you 449 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 3: will do it. And I think what's really powerful about 450 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,199 Speaker 3: what you're saying is that you have the end already 451 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 3: in mind. So you're building the vision not solely to yourself, right, 452 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 3: You're allowing people to weigh in and influence that vision 453 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 3: so that it is palatable to the marketplace. 454 00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 2: I don't I feel like I'm still in that. I'm 455 00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 2: glad you gave me three years said one to three years, 456 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 2: or in that id phase, I'm like, I don't know 457 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 2: what the end looks like. I'm feeling good, but I'm 458 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 2: I'm of course I'm so much earlier in the process 459 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 2: that for me, it's harder to come to that end. 460 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 2: And maybe I'll come to a place where it's like, well, 461 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 2: this is the life. And I hadn't heard that term before. 462 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 2: Lifestyle business, you know, Mandy money is madey money. It's 463 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 2: like budgets and no one else can just be that. 464 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 2: But I think that's the thing I had to I 465 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 2: just haven't given myself the time to think beyond this 466 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 2: at this point. It's just I'm so all in with this, 467 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 2: and I feel feel like I just want to focus 468 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 2: on this for now, but always still be open to like, 469 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 2: this can't last forever, right like I can. It's not 470 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 2: sustainable forever, so what will come next? And I think 471 00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 2: to your point about relationship building is surrounding my I 472 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 2: feel like it's important to surround myself with other people 473 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 2: doing similar like that entrepreneurial spirit and having businesses of 474 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 2: their own, so I can learn and just always be 475 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 2: in the mix with that to see what they're doing 476 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 2: and to learn from their insights. Which has been a 477 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 2: big part of what I focus on this year is 478 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 2: building those relationships. 479 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 3: I think that's awesome. So the first principle in the 480 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 3: narrow road. Is that seeing is believing, right, so really 481 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 3: imagining but also seeing other models of businesses that started 482 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 3: and you have got this wonderful one right in front 483 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 3: of you, of Tiffany, but like saying you know what's 484 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 3: possible and then being able to really measure what you want. 485 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 3: But also one of the things I love about business ownership, 486 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 3: you really got to get clear about what you want, yeah, 487 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 3: because if not, you'll have a lot of people encouraging 488 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 3: you to do things that you may not want. And 489 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 3: you might own a successful business, but it's not bringing 490 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 3: you Because we're talking about wealth. We talk about money 491 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 3: a lot. Anybody can get rich, but to build wealth, 492 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,080 Speaker 3: that's a fulfilled life. So Mandy, start thinking about what 493 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 3: you want the work that you're doing to be able 494 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 3: to allow you to do to fulfill your life. And 495 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 3: if we can put a definitive timeline around it, you 496 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 3: know the window for wealth building. You know, we have 497 00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 3: forty years of increasing levels of income to finance eighty 498 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 3: plus years of living. So think about what does that 499 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 3: look like and then run some projections that make some 500 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 3: sense for you. And there may be some areas of 501 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 3: your business that it can partner with other people. It 502 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 3: can do other things and open up avenues for you 503 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,639 Speaker 3: to be able to move forward. But cast that vision 504 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 3: in that forty year window so that at the end 505 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 3: of that you can afford retirement and beyond, because it's 506 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 3: really really important that you were able to sustain a 507 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 3: lifestyle beyond the workface. I want more Black women now 508 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:12,159 Speaker 3: than anything before to get excited about retirement because there 509 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 3: are so many opportunities for black and brown women in 510 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 3: particular to really make an impact. But I want you 511 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,640 Speaker 3: to be able to afford to show up and show out. 512 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 3: And we've got a plan today in our window of 513 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 3: opportunity to be able to do that. 514 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm trying to do that because honestly, one of the 515 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,880 Speaker 1: biggest mistakes that I made as a Budgeanista was going 516 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,919 Speaker 1: for going sake. So with the Budgeanessa had, it had 517 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 1: just grown beyond. I just was following the lead of 518 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 1: like the business in the business was telling me what 519 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: to do versus me telling the business what to do. 520 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: And I struggle with that for a really long time, 521 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: and especially as it became more successful, because I was 522 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 1: just like, well, isn't this one I worked towards so 523 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I really had a hard 524 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: time with it because I'm like, you know, the external 525 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: feedback was go keep going, go keep going, but then 526 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 1: internally I was like, I kind of am don't want 527 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 1: to go keep going, or maybe I want to go 528 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 1: in a different direction. And so honestly, it took for like, 529 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 1: you know, quite honestly, my husband passing away last year. 530 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 3: For me to be like, so sorry, Tiffany, thank you sorry, for. 531 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 1: Me to get super clear or I'm not doing this anymore. 532 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm not, you know, And it made me really clear 533 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 1: that I had too many people on the team. You know, 534 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 1: most of them are really wonderful, but I was just like, 535 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,400 Speaker 1: you know, you actually don't need to make as much, Tiffany, 536 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 1: like you know, like I said, now, I mean, at 537 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 1: one point, you know, was spending like I don't even know, 538 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: it was three times our our operating expenses for budget, 539 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 1: who were three times what they are now we actually 540 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: make more and then keep more. So I'm like, and 541 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 1: I do way less work. And it took like this 542 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: like abrupt shift to say, Tiffany, what do you actually 543 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 1: want to do because it's not this You're always working 544 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: and it's great that everybody wants you to be on 545 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,639 Speaker 1: every podcast and and every this and every opportunity and 546 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: every speaking engagement, but at what cost to you personally? 547 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: And are you even really growing? Well, that's the part, 548 00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,760 Speaker 1: that's the part that's crazy, is that as much as 549 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,400 Speaker 1: I was making as a business, I wasn't personally growing 550 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 1: as much wealth as you would think because I was 551 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 1: giving it all away, Like exactly, I don't even know 552 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 1: how I meant to become a millionaire, quite honestly. Like 553 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 1: my financial advice was like God looking after you, Tiffany, 554 00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,919 Speaker 1: because you really shouldn't be as much as you were 555 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: paying people. Everybody was getting six figure so I wasn't 556 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 1: even making six figures, like, you know, I was paying 557 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: everybody's six figures salaries. For the most part, everybody was 558 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 1: getting paid well. Everybody had insurance. Everybody had And so 559 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: now that's not so, you know, I'm down to like 560 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 1: three people, ill two people, my three myself included. I 561 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 1: do weigh less. I work, you know, I work only 562 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 1: really the things I really enjoy or that pays super 563 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:55,879 Speaker 1: duper well. And so I'm just conscious of not letting 564 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 1: kind of like that creep in. And so for those 565 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,200 Speaker 1: who are listening. You know, it's not I tell this 566 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:03,920 Speaker 1: to all my mentees all the time, that it's not 567 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 1: just success for success sake, but how will it meet you? 568 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 1: Will you be healthy, happy and whole? You know, because 569 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 1: you can have all of the things and yet none 570 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 1: of the things. And I was there, I wasn't unhappy, 571 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: but certainly I was overwhelmed. You know that you can 572 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 1: What is it that there's a quote that says that 573 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 1: anything in its excess becomes its opposite, you know, like 574 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,280 Speaker 1: you can actually drink so much water you're drawing yourself. 575 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: A friend of mine almost poisoned herself because she ate 576 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,879 Speaker 1: so many carrots. Yes, so like you know it's healthy 577 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,360 Speaker 1: because she was in middle school, so you know, we're 578 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 1: so extra in those school. I was like, your orange 579 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 1: is that normal? She's like, I don't know, but I 580 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: love carrots. And sure enough she fell out in class 581 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 1: and it turns out that she had like damaged her 582 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:47,680 Speaker 1: liver because she ate so many carrots. So I just 583 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,640 Speaker 1: share that to say that, like, you know, especially like 584 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 1: you know, Mandy, folks are in your position that are 585 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: kind of starting out that you know a lot, not 586 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 1: letting it get ahead of you and beyond you. So 587 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: that way you're actually one growing wealth, which is the purpose, 588 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 1: and two that it's meeting you healthy, happy, and whole. 589 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 3: All. So you know the pathway that you were on. 590 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 3: You know, the wealth is generational, right, and I talk 591 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 3: about legacy wealth, which is cross generational. It takes three 592 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 3: generations to build legacy wealth, only one generation to lose it. 593 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 3: But when four generations connect, the wealth will begins to turn. 594 00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 3: So every generation is an opportunity to advance the collective forward. 595 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 3: But the first generation creates a standard and it works 596 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 3: extremely hard. And Tiffany, what you just described were the 597 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 3: components of a first generation business, right. That second generation 598 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 3: builds on that with structures and systems and relationships, and 599 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 3: that's what you describe that you have. Now you know 600 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 3: that third generation acquires you've done that too, acquires additional 601 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 3: opportunity through work that they have not done themselves, so 602 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 3: they partner with others. And then the fourth generation basically 603 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 3: expands it as a model, a whole model where yes, 604 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 3: you work hard, yes you have systems, Yes you partner 605 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 3: with other experts. 606 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: In areas that you don't have. 607 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 3: But here's the model, and it's culturally relevant and so 608 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 3: that's what I encourage many of our businesses spend some 609 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 3: time to build the internal culture. The internal culture is 610 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,360 Speaker 3: why your people will work and you don't have to 611 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 3: pay them six figures at the door. They can work 612 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,360 Speaker 3: their way up because they understand what the blueprint requires, 613 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 3: because you've written the blueprint. And so my prayer is 614 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 3: that more of our companies will really work to establish 615 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 3: a working culture where people want to live out their 616 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 3: career there or bring their best and then move on 617 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 3: to another level, but leave it better than they found it, 618 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 3: because that's where we are right now in elevating our 619 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 3: standard of business. So many of our businesses don't employ 620 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 3: anyone or employ so many people that they impinge upon 621 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:56,960 Speaker 3: their profitability. The last thing I'll say is that parody 622 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 3: is a reality that should we get to that in 623 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 3: our community would change the game for everyone. You know, 624 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 3: data shows that African American and Brown owned businesses they. 625 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: Hire their own. 626 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 3: So our growth really provides opportunities to build wealth for 627 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 3: more than just ourselves. And so really thinking about the 628 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 3: bigger picture and moving forward in a way that fulfills 629 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 3: your life with a wealth outcome that you believe it 630 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 3: is critical and those two things are as important as 631 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 3: the other pieces. In terms of the money and the financials. 632 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 3: I'm a warton grad. I love the financials. But here's 633 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 3: the thing. I want you to live and enjoy your life, 634 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 3: but I also want you to understand why you're doing 635 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 3: it so that the next generation is following you wants 636 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 3: to pick up where you left off because you've finished 637 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 3: off a platform that makes sense. 638 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 2: So basically, Tiffany's done like four generations of work. 639 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,880 Speaker 1: So I feel like I've been working on the trust. 640 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: Now that's like the last little piece, like I call 641 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: my thing financial wholeness, which is like these ten components 642 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: of your financial life. And the tenth component is estate planning. 643 00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: And of course it just has to look different when 644 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 1: you have a business. And so one of the things I, 645 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: you know, I had to really get clear on is 646 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: what happens to my businesses when I'm no longer here? 647 00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: And what if, like you know, like my sisters are 648 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: no longer here, what about their children? So really creating 649 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 1: to your point, doctor Jolly, like a model that the 650 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 1: wealth can be extended, even if it's not specifically through businesses. 651 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 1: Maybe it's like okay, then here here's how the funds 652 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,400 Speaker 1: are continue to be invested, so that way beyond you, 653 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: you know that you know that the wealth continues there. 654 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 1: I saw this little old lady on I was watching 655 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 1: some of YouTube documentary about this woman from the Appalachia, 656 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 1: and I just remember being so impressed with her because 657 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:45,480 Speaker 1: her family had two hundred acres in Appalachia, and you know, 658 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: on the surface, you would think like, okay, you know 659 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: she like stopped going to school on fourth grade. You know, 660 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 1: she herself had said that she wasn't very educated, but 661 00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: she had sent all her kids for good schooling, as 662 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: she said, and she's like, you know, one of my 663 00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: sons is a lawyer, one of my daughters is a tea. 664 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 1: You know, they don't want to live here in the 665 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,160 Speaker 1: backworlds applation, but I sent them off. And one thing 666 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: I did was she said, is I put my two 667 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,840 Speaker 1: hundred acres into a trust because won't be no weak 668 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 1: links here. And I thought that was genius. She said, 669 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: because this land does not belong to any individual person. 670 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 1: It belongs to our family line. And so she put 671 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 1: it in a trust. That like, so they all get 672 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: to benefit financially, but not just you, your kids, kids, kids, kids, 673 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: and if Walmart comes knocking and says, we'd love to buy, 674 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,040 Speaker 1: you know, one hundred acres. The trust says, and now 675 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: because it's not up to that person because she's no 676 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 1: longer here. And I just thought, wow, that how smart 677 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 1: and genius this was. That she was looking after great 678 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,680 Speaker 1: great great grandbabies that she would never meet, but she 679 00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 1: would have a positive effect on. 680 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 3: And that's what's so beautiful. She's incorporated the family business. Yes, 681 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 3: so it's no longer a lifestyle business. It's a legacy business. 682 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 3: And so that's really where the opportunity is. And she 683 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 3: sounds like of the generation, the wealthiest generation in our 684 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 3: community is our grandparents generation. You know, they have the 685 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 3: ability to be able to afford to look beyond themselves 686 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 3: and want better. And so my prayer is that when 687 00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,640 Speaker 3: we get to that age, we can do the same. 688 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,399 Speaker 3: But we've set it up a lot earlier, and it's 689 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,319 Speaker 3: compounding and growing at a faster rate because what they're 690 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 3: doing is setting that strong foundation so that your nephew 691 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 3: who's a genius has a balance sheet with some equity 692 00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,200 Speaker 3: on it when he shows up at the equity table. 693 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,280 Speaker 3: And so oftentimes, you know, we show up with an idea. 694 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 3: But I want us to show up with an idea 695 00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 3: and some equity and ask somebody to match that. And 696 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 3: so that's really where the generational transfer of wealth, not 697 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 3: just financial wealth, but intellectual, social capital and spiritual really matters. 698 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 2: Well, doctor Pamela Jolly, thank you, thank you, thank you 699 00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,439 Speaker 2: so much for joining Ground Ambition. Please tell ba fam 700 00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 2: where they can find out more about you, and get 701 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:57,920 Speaker 2: a copy of that book that's coming out September twelfth, 702 00:34:58,160 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 2: Is that right. 703 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 3: Yes, twelfth, in a book in a black bookstore near you, 704 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 3: as well as Amazonandwordy dot com. And also I'm at 705 00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:12,920 Speaker 3: doctor Pamela Jolly on Instagram and then Torch Enterprises dot 706 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 3: com is the website where you can pre order. I 707 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 3: really really appreciate this opportunity to be on this amazing podcast, 708 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 3: Tiffany and Mandy. I've listened to other episodes. I love 709 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 3: what you're doing in terms of raising awareness and encouraging 710 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 3: people to think about the things that we need to 711 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 3: think about so that wealth can become a standard in 712 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 3: our community. So thanks so much for having me. 713 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 1: Thank you. 714 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 2: Awesome, thank you, doctor Jolly, excellent. 715 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:42,879 Speaker 1: Thank you. And now it's time for boost breaks break. 716 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:45,719 Speaker 1: I don't know why I can't do boost to break 717 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 1: without doing this like little soda bot. Okay, I mean spirit, 718 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: are we going to boost? I feel so bad because 719 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,120 Speaker 1: I had this like mini boost and I cannot remember 720 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 1: the ladies names, but I met you in Chicago this 721 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,000 Speaker 1: past week. I think it was like Lynn, oh girl, 722 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 1: I don't know you gave me a hug for Mandy. 723 00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:05,319 Speaker 2: Yeah. 724 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: I was there to speek speaking at at an event 725 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:10,400 Speaker 1: for a financial brand, and my sister loves in Chicago, 726 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,879 Speaker 1: so we all flew out there, except for Tracy because 727 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,520 Speaker 1: she had code. But she's fine. 728 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 2: Now. 729 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:17,880 Speaker 1: Oh, I know coming for all of us right now 730 00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 1: for real, But I just want to say how to 731 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 1: those ladies and the gentleman that stopped me in the streets. 732 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,279 Speaker 1: I was like, he was like, wait a minute, not 733 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 1: the budgetese, not brid ambition. I was like, indeed, I 734 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 1: am so shttown recognizes the the B of the A. 735 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 1: Are you gonna boost to break this this? Because I 736 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 1: do have one little other boost, but you're gonna boost 737 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 1: to break this. 738 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 2: I think we should do a cl okay, we should 739 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,360 Speaker 2: do a collective boost and I'll do my own, but 740 00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 2: collectively we got a boost and promote that we are 741 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:51,000 Speaker 2: going to be on YouTube Live on July twenty eighth. 742 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:52,879 Speaker 2: What are we calling this like, It's like D Day 743 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:57,360 Speaker 2: but not, It's like recession Recession day. Will we or 744 00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 2: won't we be in a recession? The report is coming 745 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 2: out July twenty eighth, and Tiffany and I, for the 746 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 2: first time ever, we're going to be hopping on YouTube 747 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 2: Live that afternoon to help you guys unpack whatever our 748 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 2: fates are together. Yeah, bring your tissues, I guess, or 749 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 2: bring your champagne. Either way, we'll either for any reactions. 750 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, notebook for sure, because certainly, no matter what happens, 751 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,800 Speaker 1: you know, we're going to have some some suggestions for 752 00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 1: you about what to do next. So we're excited about it. 753 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,920 Speaker 1: Recession Day again. It is July twenty eighth. You know, 754 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: make sure that you are subscribed to our newsletter and 755 00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 1: that you're following us on social and if you go 756 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,160 Speaker 1: to brownabispodcast dot com you can do all of that. 757 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 1: So that's how you're going to find out exactly what 758 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,600 Speaker 1: time and how to join us. Whoop whoop, whoop, whoop woo. 759 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm excited about that. 760 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,800 Speaker 2: I'm excited. Thanks forgiving I feel like excited to have 761 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 2: something to look forward to besides just like getting the 762 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 2: dark news in the week hours in the morning and 763 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,320 Speaker 2: having no one to cry with but myself. 764 00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:52,120 Speaker 1: Were in it together. 765 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:53,280 Speaker 2: We're going, say weeks going. 766 00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,719 Speaker 1: Oh, family, and shout out to the people who are 767 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,200 Speaker 1: still tagging me in the gym and the holograms post. 768 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,000 Speaker 1: I just love y'all. I'm not out here on right, 769 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm not out here alone. So I the boost I 770 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 1: wanted to do is I had such a good chat 771 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 1: with my bonus daughter, Alyssa. She is at like this, Uh. 772 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 1: I signed her for this like kind of like medical 773 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,320 Speaker 1: pre med like summer camp thing because she's like interested 774 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 1: in maybe doing physical therapy. You know, she's a sophomore, 775 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: she's going to be a junior next year, and so 776 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 1: she signed up for it. She's there now. She's semi 777 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 1: excited about it because she was like, so Tiffy, I 778 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,399 Speaker 1: have to like share a dorm room with someone. I'm like, yeah, 779 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 1: that's what college is like, because it's like pre college. 780 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 1: And she said they told us we have to bring 781 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: flip flops to the shower. It makes me believe they're 782 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:42,240 Speaker 1: not clean. I was like, are gross? 783 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,439 Speaker 2: Yes, I was really fun. 784 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,400 Speaker 1: And she was like, but I was under the understanding 785 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,239 Speaker 1: this girls too, that daddy had said that I was 786 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:52,240 Speaker 1: going to get a condo when I went to school. 787 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,759 Speaker 1: I was like, well, if you get a full scholarship 788 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,800 Speaker 1: because we funded her college fund, if you get a 789 00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,640 Speaker 1: full scholarship to school, which you say, we can because 790 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 1: you know you've always been on the honor roll straight 791 00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 1: a's and b's. You know, she she runs, she does 792 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,480 Speaker 1: track and it has you know, it's active at school. 793 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,839 Speaker 1: I told her, you get a full scholarship, then yes, 794 00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 1: the money that we've set aside for school can be 795 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 1: used to purchase a condo off campus, and the condo 796 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,759 Speaker 1: will be yours after graduation. But in the meantime, you 797 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,760 Speaker 1: can have friends, you know, up to three girls whatever 798 00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,439 Speaker 1: hey rent to you so you don't have to work 799 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 1: during your school your college career. Like I actually got 800 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 1: that tea from from Lynette kaughp Fonnie Cox. She has 801 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: done this for her. 802 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:37,440 Speaker 2: It's just for the sailingette. Yeah, she's amazing several children 803 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 2: through college and yeah. 804 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,279 Speaker 1: Right, so that's great. So you know, you buy the 805 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: condo cash. You know, she go finishes school after you graduate. 806 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 1: That's your big graduation gift. Now you can decide to 807 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 1: sell it, you can continue renting it out, you can 808 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 1: live there by yourself, whatever, and so she was like, oh, 809 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: I said, so you have to do your job, which 810 00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: is to get a full scholarship, and I will do 811 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: my job, which is to pay for this kindom. Now, 812 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 1: if you don't get a full scholarship, then that money 813 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 1: goes to school, which is you know, not a bad thing. 814 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,479 Speaker 1: So I could tell she was like okay. And something 815 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 1: she said to me because she gets a stipend to 816 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:12,920 Speaker 1: the summer program and she's like, I want to be 817 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: able to save at the end of the day three 818 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 1: hundred dollars by the end of the summer. And I 819 00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 1: said that's great, and then she said something offhanded like yeah, 820 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:20,880 Speaker 1: because if I want to buy something, I want to 821 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: be able to have it. And I said, well, how 822 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 1: much of the three hundred are you just saving to 823 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 1: later invest and she was like huh. So then I 824 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 1: told her the story of the goose that laid the 825 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: Golden egg, how like there are there's money that you see, 826 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,839 Speaker 1: that money that you spend, and money that you save 827 00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 1: for like purchasing something later, and then there's money that 828 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 1: you're literally just saving to grow. And she was like, okay, 829 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,800 Speaker 1: So I told her the story how there was this gooose. 830 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 1: Every morning it laid this little golden egg, and the 831 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,399 Speaker 1: family was able to use that golden egg to buy 832 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:53,160 Speaker 1: the things they needed. 833 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 2: They got a little green a story that went along 834 00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:56,120 Speaker 2: with that, analogy. 835 00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 1: Yes, and well you never heard the story the goose 836 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,840 Speaker 1: that laid to go to the egg. Yeah, it's like, 837 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like one of these estops fable 838 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,000 Speaker 1: type of stories. And so so the goose laid this 839 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,359 Speaker 1: golden egg every single morning. The faman was like, woo woo, 840 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,480 Speaker 1: it's enough to support us. But one day they got 841 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:12,480 Speaker 1: greedy and said, I wonder how much gold is actually 842 00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:15,880 Speaker 1: inside this goose. I'd rather have my money upfront. They 843 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 1: cut the goose open, only to find that it was 844 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,760 Speaker 1: just a regular goose on the inside. So now no goose, 845 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,880 Speaker 1: no golden neck every month, and I told her, you 846 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,720 Speaker 1: have to also have goose money, money that you're setting 847 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: aside that it can generate golden eggs for you moving forward. 848 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 1: And that's what investing does. That if you spend the 849 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 1: full three hundred, you're back back to zero. But of 850 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: the three hundred, if you say you set aside one 851 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars and we put it into an 852 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:45,160 Speaker 1: account for you, and we save safe, save until maybe 853 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 1: you get to five hundred or one thousand, and then 854 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 1: we put it into your I have at a custodial 855 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 1: investment account for her. Then that is your goose money, 856 00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,360 Speaker 1: and that one day, once you graduated college, you'll be 857 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,240 Speaker 1: able to withdraw golden eggs and never touch the goose. 858 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 3: And she was like, this is so enlightening. 859 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 1: So it was such a good financial conversation with this 860 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 1: almost sixteen year old that she wouldn't have had before. 861 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:09,680 Speaker 1: So I told her, the next time we chat, and 862 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 1: want you to decide. Of the three hundred, how much 863 00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,239 Speaker 1: is going to be your goose money? I told her 864 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,399 Speaker 1: between fifty and one hundred and fifty dollars. She can 865 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,280 Speaker 1: decide because you want to give you know, like children, 866 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 1: it's also not like a child child, but you want 867 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 1: to give them choices. I said, you get to decide, 868 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,720 Speaker 1: and then once you have that, once you make that decision, 869 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 1: we'll sit down with Angelie and we'll talk about, like, 870 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 1: how how much money do you have to does she 871 00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,720 Speaker 1: suggest you safe up to before we actually set aside 872 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 1: to invest on your behalf. So I just thought it 873 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 1: was such a good conversation and I was like, look 874 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 1: at me teaching the next setowing about it Goose and 875 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 1: Golden Egg stories. 876 00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 2: That was not me if I mean, I had invested 877 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 2: all those earnings from the cap outlet and not thought 878 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,280 Speaker 2: so many Fit and Flair jeans. 879 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 1: But girl, we was walking in the Fitflairs, the Express jeans. 880 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 1: Girl I lived in Express. It was like, if you 881 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,239 Speaker 1: had a booty, gap was hard, but if you had 882 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 1: a booty, Express was like, Okay, we got you. 883 00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 2: Oh that's great. And shout out to Supergirl because I 884 00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 2: feel like, yeah, I love that y'all have You've like 885 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:11,759 Speaker 2: shared your relationship with her, and I don't think that's 886 00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 2: the kind of conversation y'all could have had if you 887 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 2: hadn't like slowly been building this trust in this relationship 888 00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 2: for a long time. Now. Yeah, right, Okay, Well, I'm 889 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,319 Speaker 2: gonna do a little baby boost of my own really quick, 890 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:26,279 Speaker 2: so y'all know I love Jennifer Lewis. Jennifer with one 891 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,759 Speaker 2: end Lewis. She's the grandmom on Blackish. She's the mother 892 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:33,800 Speaker 2: of Black Hollywood is her by her her memoir, So 893 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:35,320 Speaker 2: if you guys haven't read it, go read it. But 894 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,359 Speaker 2: she just got her she just got her flowers, her 895 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 2: Walk of Fame star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, 896 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,600 Speaker 2: and I was, I like, I'd never tune in to 897 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 2: watch those things, but I just feel like, I love 898 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,120 Speaker 2: Jennifer Lewis so much, so I tuned in to watch 899 00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,680 Speaker 2: her little ceremony, and of course she was like telling 900 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:53,319 Speaker 2: the crowd, y'all better go out there and vote because 901 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 2: they're trying to take your rights right now. You know, 902 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 2: she's always teaching, always preaching, and I just love her 903 00:43:58,960 --> 00:43:59,319 Speaker 2: and her. 904 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:02,440 Speaker 1: Very and I don't f it up. Go vote. I 905 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:06,920 Speaker 1: was rolling, Yes, I. 906 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 2: Love it so Jennifer Lewis, And if y'all haven't, first 907 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 2: of all, I get the audiobook, Like the audiobook from 908 00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 2: Jennifer Lewis of her memoir is just if she'll have 909 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 2: you laughing, rolling, She's singing and performing in the whole thing. 910 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 2: She's iconic. So congrats to her, and congratulations on a 911 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 2: well deserved Hollywood Walk of Fame. 912 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 1: So I listened to it because you made it. You 913 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: told me about that book. It was such a good 914 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 1: Manby always gets really good book. 915 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 2: Suggestions, and so I like, girl, you're the one with 916 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 2: all the books. I think I've read like a fraction 917 00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 2: of the books that you have read. 918 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 1: But but you give me the suggestions. I add everything. 919 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 1: Whenever someone gives you a suggestion. I added to a 920 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,600 Speaker 1: watch list on my Audible and then like, you know, 921 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:45,040 Speaker 1: I'll do some more research to see if I think 922 00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to enjoy it, and then you know, I'll 923 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:48,920 Speaker 1: listen to it later. But that was a really good 924 00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 1: suggestion because I enjoyed that book tremendously. 925 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:56,759 Speaker 2: It's so good, all right, ba fam, Well, okay, don't 926 00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:01,120 Speaker 2: forget tune in next Thursday, the twenty eighth. This is 927 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 2: the day after we usually air the show, so come 928 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:07,439 Speaker 2: to YouTube Live. We'll be on Thursday afternoon. Like Tiffany said, 929 00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,759 Speaker 2: check Brownambission dot com for details. Go don't walk run. 930 00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 2: We'll see y'all then, Hey, ba fan, we could not 931 00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:17,160 Speaker 2: do this show without your support or the support of 932 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,400 Speaker 2: our team behind the scenes. The Brown Ambission podcast is 933 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:24,240 Speaker 2: produced by Cumulus Podcast Network. It's edited by the wonderful 934 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 2: Imani Crosby and produced by Tanya Bustos, Dennis Stimplinsky, is 935 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,080 Speaker 2: our in house tech guru, and I am Bandy Woodard Santos, 936 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,879 Speaker 2: your co host, and I will see y'all next week.