WEBVTT - | Ep 139 | Can You Read?

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shape. Dy. I am

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<v Speaker 2>Jaselle Bryant. What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for being here with us once again. Mind

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<v Speaker 2>you do we remind these people. It's the season four

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<v Speaker 2>of Reasonably Shady. Sure into it. We are doing big

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<v Speaker 2>things over here, Yes we are. Yes, we're brothers for

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<v Speaker 2>well three full years, four seasons. That's pretty impressive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing a European tour. Yeah, I think we should know.

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<v Speaker 2>I do think. No, I didn't know. Yeah, we're doing

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<v Speaker 2>a European tour to make it to La West Coast, Houston, everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep say we're going. We're doing a European tour and

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<v Speaker 2>then work our way in, work our way back, work

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<v Speaker 2>our way back home. Yeah. Yeah, we're gonna be on

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<v Speaker 2>the road for like four weeks. Okay, yet you down? Yes, sure,

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<v Speaker 2>because I have nothing to do, really nothing. You got

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<v Speaker 2>nothing to do right now. I will have nothing to

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<v Speaker 2>do very soon. Okay. I know you have a lot

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<v Speaker 2>to do. You've got these children, you got that husband

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<v Speaker 2>of yours. But I have nothing. Okay, so we're going

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<v Speaker 2>on tour. Okay, So I want you to be nothing

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<v Speaker 2>like me. Wait what I want you to have nothing

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<v Speaker 2>to do like me? Oh okay, just jump into it,

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<v Speaker 2>right y. Switch happening in the world, okay, making it happen. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it happened one day, one day soon soon if anybody

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<v Speaker 2>wants to plan our tour, have at it. See, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you really will have nothing to do. Thank you, Robin

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<v Speaker 2>form your mind. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, how am I going to get away

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<v Speaker 1>for that long? But okay, yeah, we'll make it.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll figure it out, all right. So shady moment, I

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<v Speaker 2>have a shady moment. Let me let me talk them go.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know my kids just graduate from high school, right, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and so this particular high school, I've been there for

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<v Speaker 2>five years because Grace was there first and then it's twins.

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<v Speaker 2>So five years. Oh it wasn't ok three twelve situation. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I got to the school, you know, very

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<v Speaker 2>much real Housewives, Potomac wasn't full bloom, and everybody was

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<v Speaker 2>clear who Josee is, right, and they kind of like,

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<v Speaker 2>didn't they left me alone? You know, they weren't like

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<v Speaker 2>in my face? And oh my gosh, and can I

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<v Speaker 2>take a picture? They didn't do none of that right

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<v Speaker 2>until graduation. Oh God of Angel and a door. They're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>this is a last opportunity. Oh my god. And somebody

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<v Speaker 2>one of the teachers even came to me and was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I know with you, it's all about the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>So I guess they must have had a talk or

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<v Speaker 2>something and they're like, let's leave this woman alone because

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<v Speaker 2>she really like it's into her girls and like what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on in their lives anytime she's here, she's here

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<v Speaker 2>for the kids. She's not here for a meet and greet. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh they meet and greet? My ass up. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna say, this is an opportunity to say, can

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<v Speaker 2>you take a picture? That is funny, that's cue. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I did my meet and greet and I am done.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was a little shady. That's fine. I would

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<v Speaker 2>have rather have just done it like periodic over time

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<v Speaker 2>as opposed to the bomb rush, right, because it was

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<v Speaker 2>a straight bumb rush. That's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So they never I mean, I'm sure they had some

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<v Speaker 1>type of internal discussion, like, you know, don't don't go

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<v Speaker 1>ask for.

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<v Speaker 2>Pictures, don't talk about the show.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know whatever, respect their privacy type of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, which they did. Yeah, but that's they're like, wait

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<v Speaker 2>a minute, you can't be here for five years and

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have no pictures, right. Oh yeah they got

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<v Speaker 2>all the picture that's cute. So yes, shady but not shady,

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<v Speaker 2>but shady very cute. Yeah, that's funny. Love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So my shady moment is getting old?

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<v Speaker 2>Huh is shade? I mean it depends on what you're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about. Talk about your knees.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about my hand yesterday, exactly yesterday, out of

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<v Speaker 1>the blue, huh, out of nowhere? My hand started hurting,

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<v Speaker 1>like painful? Which hand, my right hand.

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<v Speaker 2>The hand that you your phone, your big phone that

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<v Speaker 2>everyone has, Yes, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I don't hold it that much anymore, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>I like, put it down or I'll or I'll hold

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<v Speaker 2>it like because you can't because your hand hurts. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead, don't want to. I don't want to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>your shady mom Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you it can't be from the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Out of the blue, out of the blue. And then

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<v Speaker 2>what happened? Did you put ice on it? No, wrap

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<v Speaker 2>it up. No, you put your phone down. I did

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<v Speaker 2>put my phone. Take my phone. My hand hurts. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just I'm like, is this carpor tunnel?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, because of your not because you get old. Is

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<v Speaker 2>your phone no, yes, because you're your phone. Any any

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<v Speaker 2>other questions. The answer to all questions is because of

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<v Speaker 2>your phone, my phone. Yes. Out of the blue. Just yes,

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<v Speaker 2>out of the blue. Because what happened was recently you've

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<v Speaker 2>been holding in a lot. This is what happened. You've

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<v Speaker 2>been holding it a lot for whatever reason. Just think

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<v Speaker 2>about what's going on in your life. You've been traveling

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<v Speaker 2>a lot for your for your boys, go on all

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<v Speaker 2>these basketball games, you got the phone in your hand,

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<v Speaker 2>and the whole time of the basketball your hand hurts,

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<v Speaker 2>Your wrist hurts, carpal tunnel, arthritis, everything. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>if that's it. Send your bill to Apple, okay, send

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<v Speaker 2>the doctor bill destroy and I encourage that for everyone, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>because I know everyone's wrist hurts.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah maybe, Okay, So I'm gonna tell you where my

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<v Speaker 1>pain is. If anyone has you know, any advice. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the palm of.

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<v Speaker 2>My hand, buy my thumb. Where you in through my

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<v Speaker 2>phone thumb. Yeah, that's like where most of the pain is.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like hard to like like grab things, open things,

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<v Speaker 1>just wipe my butt.

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<v Speaker 2>Like can you imagine the young people when they get forty,

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<v Speaker 2>they're they're totally not gonna be able to use their fingers? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So do you are you a two finger typer on

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<v Speaker 2>your phone or one? I use my two thumb, two thumbs. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>your thumbs hurt, don't they? Well, my loved one doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Well this but you hold it with your right and

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<v Speaker 2>you use your thumb. So this, all of this is

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<v Speaker 2>being like used over and over again. I just want

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<v Speaker 2>you to listen. I'm a hold on my phone. This

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<v Speaker 2>is my phone. This is my phone. Let me see

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<v Speaker 2>your phone, Robin, And that's Robin's phone. So my I

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<v Speaker 2>have mini phones a very small phone for a reason. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>the reason why. It's Robin shady moment. My hand was

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<v Speaker 2>hurting for a long time and I said I can't

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<v Speaker 2>do this. Mob and everyone everyone jokes me about my phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone like punks me. They say I'm a child, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a toddler. All the things right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, but remember I had the big This

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<v Speaker 1>is not the big phone. Either I had the the

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<v Speaker 1>Max phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I remember, and I had to get rid of it. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>it was so heavy. Yeah, but now this one, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't believe that that's why my hand is hurting

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<v Speaker 2>right now. Okay, so do me a favorite. Don't pick

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<v Speaker 2>up your phone for like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Day, okay and see, Okay, Okay it could be I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like if I wasn't old, then I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be having this problem.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're not old. Are you getting old? You get older? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but your face card don't decline and you needs to work.

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<v Speaker 2>You're good. We just got to put the files down.

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<v Speaker 2>I just got Carbor Tunnel, all right. So I want

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<v Speaker 2>to ask you about I had someone I had to

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<v Speaker 2>ask you mis throbbing Dixon hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was like throbbing in the right time. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like in the bed, sleep and my hand is throbbing.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's when I literally was like I got to

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<v Speaker 2>make a change because of that. I would sleep and

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<v Speaker 2>my hand was like throbbing. Yeah, and it was my

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<v Speaker 2>whole hands. It was like my thumb all the way

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<v Speaker 2>because I think I was holding my phone kind of

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<v Speaker 2>like thrusting it all my pinky. So it's like the

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing my wrist and you know I lift weights. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you do too, right, And I couldn't do that. My

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<v Speaker 2>arms like grabbed the whole thing. Yeah, so Apple needs

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<v Speaker 2>to do better. Yeah, Okay, So this is a follow

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<v Speaker 2>up to something that we discussed a while ago. And

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<v Speaker 2>there's a doctor and she is there's a video and

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<v Speaker 2>she's sitting on the toilet. Okay, and do you know

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<v Speaker 2>what she says? Don't look at your phone when you're

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<v Speaker 2>on your tour. It says, hey, who me? Have you

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<v Speaker 2>heard that? There's a five minute rule on the toilet?

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<v Speaker 2>And the five minute rule is after five minutes, if

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<v Speaker 2>you don't get up off the toilet, you're really hurting

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<v Speaker 2>your whole internal system. Okay, you're hurting your butt, you're

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<v Speaker 2>hurting the toilet, you're hurting the toilet paper, you're hurting

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<v Speaker 2>it pot because the toilet acts as a vacuum. And

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<v Speaker 2>this technical terms for all this. Yes. In other words,

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<v Speaker 2>you ma'am, you sit on the toilet and read and

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<v Speaker 2>scroll through Instagram, do all them things. It's not good

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<v Speaker 2>for you. That's just a follow up. People. You know

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<v Speaker 2>what I've heard that. Actually I saw that that same video. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the same woman. Yeah, I think it, like you get

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<v Speaker 2>hemorrhoids and all types of stuff. Yes, do you have hemorrhoids?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe Gonna swore you was gonna say no, Robert, you

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<v Speaker 2>cannot sit on a toilet like that. Now, Robbins over

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<v Speaker 2>here with hemorrhoids? What prepar since you said that? Look,

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<v Speaker 2>we got a letter. Uh huh, let's see, she said.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, Hold this is from tokes ojo o dah. Okay, okay, Look,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not the only one a gazelle and Robin, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>waving like I can see you in real life. I've

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<v Speaker 2>been a fan since the first season of Rhop Will

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<v Speaker 2>Make You on the show. Robin been listening to recentably.

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<v Speaker 1>Shady on Shopify, Shopify, Spotify since you started podcast. This

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<v Speaker 1>email is a little later than planned, but I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>send it anyway. I wanted to respond to episode thirty

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<v Speaker 1>five where Robin was talking about magazine racks in the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom and how that was a big thing before cell phones. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dating myself here, but when I had my apartment

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<v Speaker 1>back in my twenties and thirties and Queens, I had

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<v Speaker 1>a magazine rack with Essence in Style Black Enterprise in

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<v Speaker 1>the bathroom. I haven't seen a magazine rack in forever,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is definitely due to cell phones.

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<v Speaker 2>Blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm impressed that Giselle doesn't take her phone to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>That means your time must be super efficient.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so my time on the toilet, Yes, yes, it's

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<v Speaker 2>I sit down boom go, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, no, that's impressed. I'm telling you a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people can't just do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like We've gotten so many people write in like like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I've got to sit there and take my time and

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<v Speaker 2>y'all marinate. Okay, y'all need to eat some more fire fiber.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yes, yes, yeah, yeah. Well I'm surprised at you

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<v Speaker 2>because you know blueberries, you eat all the blueberries and

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<v Speaker 2>that's high fiber. I know, I know. But yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to make a change. I'll figure it out. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So two things you need to do? Put your phone

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<v Speaker 2>down and go number two in three minutes, yes or less? Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So lastly, not lastly, what I talk about. I know.

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<v Speaker 2>So in this news report it says, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think we've discussed this before, but it's it's good

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<v Speaker 2>that we rediscuss or discuss again, discuss again. Yeah, making

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<v Speaker 2>your bed makes you two hundred and six percent more

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<v Speaker 2>likely to become a millionaire. I make my bed up

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<v Speaker 2>every day. Okay, it's all I'm say about that. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna tell you how much money I have, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. Do you make your bed up, Robin, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, it's not made up right now, Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do make it up every day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, well you too will be a millionaires. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm just trying to tell y'all, y'all better make

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<v Speaker 2>up your bed every day. I'll be telling my kid,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all better make up your bed, I know, unless you

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<v Speaker 2>want to be broke.

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<v Speaker 1>I do feel like it sets the day in a

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<v Speaker 1>good tone, right, you know, like, And I do feel

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<v Speaker 1>when it's not made up, I feel unorganized or undone,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just I don't know. It's like when I

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<v Speaker 1>walk in my room my bed is not made up,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my gosh, like right to make my

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<v Speaker 1>bed up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a sign of organization and you're ready for the

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<v Speaker 2>day and you're ready to be successful. I would think

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<v Speaker 2>that it's automatic, like I get out the bed, I

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<v Speaker 2>automatically turn around and make it up. Yeah, and that's

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<v Speaker 2>why I have all the money, right, all of it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't automatically do it like I do it because

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<v Speaker 1>I get up. We'll see you get up a lot earlier, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have a lot more time in the morning, and.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have to take kids to school.

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay even if I did so for me, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting up, I'm waking kids up, I'm you know, making lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting them off the school. So I don't make

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<v Speaker 1>my bed up until I come back.

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<v Speaker 2>But or if, as I say, Wan's still in the bed, right,

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<v Speaker 2>then do you make up your side? I always pull

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<v Speaker 2>the cover. I always.

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<v Speaker 1>I never let the covers be like all over the place.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you like get out the bed and you leave

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<v Speaker 1>the covers there, not like I pull them?

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<v Speaker 2>Just want so if one gets out last, will he

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<v Speaker 2>make up the bed? Lately he has not been making

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<v Speaker 2>it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Let him know, and he used It's it's funny because

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<v Speaker 1>he used to be like a huge neat freak, a

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<v Speaker 1>huge neat freak, and he's kind of like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>slipping on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, tell him he's, you know, a millionaire status making

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<v Speaker 2>up that bed? All right? I will. By the way, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>right now we're doing ask us anything, questions at you

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<v Speaker 2>all have sent in. We just Robina all over the place.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is from rod FS twenty twenty and he said,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, do we ever hear back from Ron

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<v Speaker 2>who was very angry with us because we know that

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<v Speaker 2>I know of Listen, if you're gonna write a shady shit,

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<v Speaker 2>your name will be used. Okay. How rod FS twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty said, how has it affected your children, positively or

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<v Speaker 2>negatively that you two are public figures? Listen, we could

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<v Speaker 2>do a whole podcast on that, which we're not. But

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<v Speaker 2>for the positive, I think my kids look at me

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<v Speaker 2>and they're very proud of me. They could see like

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<v Speaker 2>I work very hard. Y'all think we don't. Y'all think

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<v Speaker 2>we just go to lunch and there's a camera there.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not true. So they're very proud of the success

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<v Speaker 2>of it all. I agree with that. Negatively, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>there are moments that they don't want anyone to know

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<v Speaker 2>who they are. They just want to be treated like

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<v Speaker 2>everyone else in the room. That for them is over yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so that you know that that kind of bothers them sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>especially the twins.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh yeah, my kids, same thing pretty much. They're

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<v Speaker 1>very they're very proud of me. But I can say

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<v Speaker 1>when when I told them, did I ever talk about

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<v Speaker 1>their reactions? Did I have talk about their reactions to

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<v Speaker 1>when they when I told them I wasn't on the

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<v Speaker 1>show anymore. You told me, but you can tell the people, Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't sure if I said it on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>So their reactions were kind of different. It was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So I told Corey, and Corey's reaction was yes, like

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<v Speaker 1>he was happy because that means he gets me back,

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<v Speaker 1>like my time and my energy and my you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna miss a lot of his things because

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go film or I'm not traveling all

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<v Speaker 1>the time or whatever because I have the film. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was very excited. Carter, and this is the Virgo

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<v Speaker 1>in him. Probably yes, my virgo brother. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>So that means like you're gonna be without, You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be missing a paycheck, You're going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's about virgos. We do not want to miss a

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<v Speaker 2>pay check. Okay, that's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so he thought about like the money and it's

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<v Speaker 1>a job, and you know, like what about the money?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, it's okay, I got other things going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes you do, but but we count our coins, yes

0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:20.960
<v Speaker 2>see argos do. Yeah, so that was funny. But they

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<v Speaker 2>are it's I think they they they're proud and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think their life has been negatively affected. I think

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<v Speaker 2>they kind of and they've in they're not on social media,

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<v Speaker 2>they're not even they don't watch the show. The only

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<v Speaker 2>time they're affected really is when we're out and someone

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<v Speaker 2>is trying to, like, you know, say hi to me

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<v Speaker 2>or you know. The people in school don't bother them,

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<v Speaker 2>so they have a very normal life. They don't bother

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<v Speaker 2>them until they graduate and it's on. So there was

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<v Speaker 2>a was a football player, a basketball player that didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go to the playoffs because oh yeah, yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 2>want to see what you thought about that. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So Rudy Gobert who plays for the Minnesota Timberwolves in

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<v Speaker 1>the Conference semifinals, Game two of the NBA Playoffs Conference

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<v Speaker 1>Semifinals against who were they playing?

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<v Speaker 2>They just beat them? And is he really good? He's good? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's like he was a starter. He's a starter.

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<v Speaker 1>He won the Defensive Player of the Year, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>like a strong defensive presence for the team. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>game two against oh, the Denver Nuggets, who are the

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<v Speaker 1>defending National Championships champions, a very good team. So he

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<v Speaker 1>missed game two for the birth of his first.

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<v Speaker 2>Child, okay, And there was suspect.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, there was some conflicted feelings about that, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>some people were like, no, this is the NBA Playoffs, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this is a big game, Like it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to Yeah, yeah, it's hard to get here, trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make it to the finals.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, you don't you know, Okay, it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Gilbert Arenas was like, you know, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you're going to see that kid for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut up, right, you have twenty seven kids with twenty

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<v Speaker 2>seven women. Shut up. Okay, not it really is like

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<v Speaker 2>four kids with one woman, but whatever, shut up. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>game for that baby. I see it's gonna be there

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<v Speaker 2>when you get back.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm just saying whatever you're about to think you're

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<v Speaker 2>about to do with the he gonna be sweep.

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<v Speaker 1>But and then other people are like, no, that's his

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<v Speaker 1>first child, that's a big deal. It's okay, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know life is more important blah blah blah blah. So

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<v Speaker 1>that just got me to thinking, like, what what is

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<v Speaker 1>okay to missing your children's life for work?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's not?

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<v Speaker 1>So for example, Carter's graduating from the eighth grade. His

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<v Speaker 1>eighth grade graduation is coming up, and I have an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to appear at a conference for a lot for

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a good amount of money, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>short period of time, good amount of money, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>miss his but I will miss his graduation, so I

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<v Speaker 1>have to make the decision like am I going to

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<v Speaker 1>go to this or not?

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<v Speaker 2>What you're gonna do? It's I'm intrigued. So it's just

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<v Speaker 2>eighth grade.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you talk to him about it? How do

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<v Speaker 2>you think he will feel? He's he's aware, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think he's okay. He's like, okay, well, is Gig going

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<v Speaker 2>to be there? That's my mom, So he's like, is

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<v Speaker 2>Gig going to be there? He didn't even ask about

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<v Speaker 2>his Dad's like my substitute and she will be there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So she'll be there, and Mom will be there

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<v Speaker 1>of course, but he's he's okay with it and he Understandsky.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I don't know. It's just eighth grade, Okay, if

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<v Speaker 2>it was twelfth grade, Robin, eighth grade is important too.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you do have to. I mean, listen, any body,

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<v Speaker 2>any parent working, You make sacrifices when it comes to

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<v Speaker 2>your kids. So yeah, you do have to weigh, right,

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<v Speaker 2>because there's plenty of times where I can and have

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<v Speaker 2>dinner because we were filming scenes or doing whatever. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that you have to weigh what it is. And

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<v Speaker 2>so my example is recently I was out of town

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<v Speaker 2>for work. Adore and Angel had their cap and gown

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<v Speaker 2>ceremony from high school, which is the ceremony they kind

0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:22.720
<v Speaker 2>of split up graduation. So okay, cap and gown ceremonies

0:19:22.720 --> 0:19:27.200
<v Speaker 2>when you get your awards and the whole school is there,

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<v Speaker 2>whereas graduation it's just like the seniors, their family, all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Typically the whole school's not there. Cap and gown ceremony,

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<v Speaker 2>as tradition, the senior class president speaks, so Adore is

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<v Speaker 2>the senior class president, so she was going to speak,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's worked up to this, meaning she always wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to do that so she was like the freshman class

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<v Speaker 2>vice president. She was I think the sophomore class vice president.

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<v Speaker 2>She's worked up to like make sure she was the

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<v Speaker 2>senior class president so she can give the soul speech. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm supposed to be out of town for work,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, ain't no way in hell I can

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<v Speaker 2>even look a door in the eye and say I'm

0:20:04.600 --> 0:20:07.080
<v Speaker 2>not going to be there. And I told the people

0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:09.880
<v Speaker 2>that I worked for about the situation, and they kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like didn't say nothing. I know what that means.

0:20:13.119 --> 0:20:18.399
<v Speaker 2>They're like that you don't think of this shit, because yeah,

0:20:18.560 --> 0:20:21.040
<v Speaker 2>you leaving is like we don't want you to do that.

0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:25.720
<v Speaker 2>But I had to make the decision of this for

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<v Speaker 2>me is a no brainer, Like if I have to

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<v Speaker 2>lose money, I will lose money. I cannot not be

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<v Speaker 2>there for because Angel got a bunch of angels, like

0:20:37.440 --> 0:20:40.600
<v Speaker 2>got the top English award of her class, Like they

0:20:40.600 --> 0:20:43.719
<v Speaker 2>got all these awards. So anyway, long story short, I

0:20:43.840 --> 0:20:49.160
<v Speaker 2>had to drive six hours in the middle of the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it was car service. I got driven

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle of the night six hours. I left

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<v Speaker 2>at ten pm. I got home at four o'clock in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning. I slept for like an hour and a

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<v Speaker 2>half and then it got up because the ceremony was

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<v Speaker 2>at eight o'clock in the Ome. My gosh, I did

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<v Speaker 2>the ceremony and then I flew back to where I

0:21:06.280 --> 0:21:09.639
<v Speaker 2>had come from. Wow. That sacrifices you gotta make as

0:21:09.640 --> 0:21:12.160
<v Speaker 2>a mod sacrifice. But sure, but as far as having

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<v Speaker 2>a baby, you're gonna be there. I remember when I

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<v Speaker 2>had I was pregnant with Grace and I was getting

0:21:17.240 --> 0:21:19.680
<v Speaker 2>ready to have a baby, and Jamal says to me,

0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:22.480
<v Speaker 2>because I was like forty weeks pregnant, Jama says to me,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, all right, I got this preaching gig and

0:21:24.400 --> 0:21:28.479
<v Speaker 2>mohammas and you have what right in the what I

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<v Speaker 2>told him, you go to the Bahamas if you want to, right, Bro,

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<v Speaker 2>if I had this baby and you're going, do not

0:21:33.200 --> 0:21:36.320
<v Speaker 2>come back, right, do not? He said, I don't have

0:21:36.359 --> 0:21:39.240
<v Speaker 2>a preaching engagement in the Bahamas. That's how that conversation

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<v Speaker 2>with that fast. Right. So, I mean, you make sacrifices,

0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:46.080
<v Speaker 2>but no, no one should get you shouldn't really have

0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:49.520
<v Speaker 2>an opinion about that. Kids come first, family comes first. Period.

0:21:50.000 --> 0:21:52.480
<v Speaker 2>Jobs are not more important. And as a parent, you

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<v Speaker 2>got to wait the option of the of the coin,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know what I'm saying. I get that. So

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So what if the bag is like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta got away in dollars?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you wait, an option of like what are we doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Like can we stream it?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I can?

0:22:06.280 --> 0:22:09.560
<v Speaker 2>Can I stream it? I mean, you weigh the option,

0:22:09.640 --> 0:22:12.920
<v Speaker 2>but there shouldn't be any judgment either way, right Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So and by the way, car service is expensive. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Now now on the flip side, yes, car service, And

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that to drive six hours, yes, no

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<v Speaker 2>idea car service was expensive. If car service just to

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<v Speaker 2>pick you up from the airport and take you home

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<v Speaker 2>is over one hundred dollars, I didn't know none of that,

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<v Speaker 2>literally until I had to come out of my pocket

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<v Speaker 2>for but like that six hours was fifteen hundred dollars. Wow, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought he was gonna say five hundred hit it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But so in my opinion, if they were if

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<v Speaker 1>Rudy Gobert was playing in the in game seven of

0:22:51.400 --> 0:22:55.240
<v Speaker 1>the Championship, the Championship, the finals, you going to play

0:22:55.240 --> 0:22:58.200
<v Speaker 1>in that game, I'm sorry you're playing in that game?

0:22:58.359 --> 0:23:02.640
<v Speaker 2>That's a tough call. That is tough super Bowl tough call. Yes, right, yeah,

0:23:02.880 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 2>things like that. It's like, okay, yes, we just have

0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:06.320
<v Speaker 2>to time the pregnancies.

0:23:06.640 --> 0:23:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, because if you think about it, the kid

0:23:09.160 --> 0:23:10.680
<v Speaker 1>won't know that he wasn't there.

0:23:11.680 --> 0:23:18.880
<v Speaker 2>But anyway, we're moving on, all right, So sage soul

0:23:18.960 --> 0:23:21.760
<v Speaker 2>flower eleven ass how do you deal with haters? Y'all know,

0:23:21.800 --> 0:23:26.960
<v Speaker 2>we love haters, haters. Who has haters? We love haters.

0:23:27.480 --> 0:23:32.399
<v Speaker 2>I don't know anything about Listen. Haters is actually what

0:23:32.520 --> 0:23:33.400
<v Speaker 2>makes Twitter.

0:23:33.240 --> 0:23:38.160
<v Speaker 1>Work, very true, very true haters is haters are comical,

0:23:38.200 --> 0:23:39.800
<v Speaker 1>and I realized it's always comedy.

0:23:39.920 --> 0:23:41.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna tell you how you do with haters.

0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:44.480
<v Speaker 1>We don't take haters personal because I don't like the

0:23:44.520 --> 0:23:47.040
<v Speaker 1>toxicity of them, Like I just don't like to read

0:23:47.119 --> 0:23:49.479
<v Speaker 1>that negative energy. And of course I realized that like

0:23:50.000 --> 0:23:51.120
<v Speaker 1>everybody has haters.

0:23:51.720 --> 0:23:53.760
<v Speaker 2>It could be a video.

0:23:54.119 --> 0:23:59.720
<v Speaker 1>On Instagram about blueberries, someone telling you to eat blueberries

0:23:59.760 --> 0:24:02.399
<v Speaker 1>because blueberries are healthy, and I promise you there'll be

0:24:02.400 --> 0:24:07.479
<v Speaker 1>someone in the comments saying, but blueberries have pesticides And

0:24:07.520 --> 0:24:12.040
<v Speaker 1>how dare you tell me to eat blueberries because they

0:24:12.760 --> 0:24:15.440
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, like, and you're not an expert.

0:24:15.800 --> 0:24:18.720
<v Speaker 2>Look at you. It's what makes you think you are experts.

0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:22.240
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's so crazy to see yes people trolling and

0:24:22.280 --> 0:24:25.560
<v Speaker 1>saying negative things to like regular everyday people.

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:29.120
<v Speaker 2>Every yes, every and that is how you should look

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:32.200
<v Speaker 2>at it. Everyone has haters, Yes, it ain't just Giselle

0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:36.320
<v Speaker 2>and Robin. It's like every body has a hatur right,

0:24:36.480 --> 0:24:38.439
<v Speaker 2>So I just I think they're funny.

0:24:38.480 --> 0:24:41.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I laugh at it. But I am happy

0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:45.640
<v Speaker 1>to be kind of relieved of the super toxic haters

0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:46.160
<v Speaker 1>right now.

0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:48.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you're gonna you're gonna get pulled in and I

0:24:48.400 --> 0:24:51.480
<v Speaker 2>mark my word, and y'all let me know when y'all

0:24:51.480 --> 0:24:55.480
<v Speaker 2>see it. Are you ready? Yeah? So, at some point

0:24:55.560 --> 0:24:58.240
<v Speaker 2>the Royal Housewives of Potomac will come out, I mean, the

0:24:58.280 --> 0:25:03.680
<v Speaker 2>episodes will air and something crazy will happen and somebody

0:25:03.720 --> 0:25:06.960
<v Speaker 2>will say this because Robin's not on the show, this's

0:25:07.000 --> 0:25:10.920
<v Speaker 2>just Robin's fault. It's Robin's fault. I promise you they're

0:25:10.920 --> 0:25:14.560
<v Speaker 2>gonna blame it on Robin, right, Okay, just saying because

0:25:14.560 --> 0:25:18.800
<v Speaker 2>it's already happened, right, okay, moving on, moving on, Okay,

0:25:18.880 --> 0:25:21.840
<v Speaker 2>So I love when people are like when we say

0:25:21.920 --> 0:25:24.880
<v Speaker 2>ask us anything, and they like straight up do so

0:25:25.320 --> 0:25:30.200
<v Speaker 2>G Money three two four seven seven said, how's it going?

0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 2>They're on in to just say what you want to know?

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:41.000
<v Speaker 2>How's it going? G Money? Yes, so Robin, how's it going?

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:44.840
<v Speaker 2>It's going out. Yes, it's going well. And he says

0:25:44.880 --> 0:25:48.639
<v Speaker 2>he's gonna miss Robin of course, but how's it going?

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:51.000
<v Speaker 2>How about I even answer, how's it going? How's right?

0:25:51.040 --> 0:25:54.880
<v Speaker 2>What is it right? Yeah? What's the it parting? It's

0:25:54.920 --> 0:25:58.080
<v Speaker 2>just going, yes, And I say, I'm I'm you know,

0:25:58.440 --> 0:26:02.600
<v Speaker 2>despite not being on season, I'm quite busy. Yeah, and

0:26:03.240 --> 0:26:06.960
<v Speaker 2>we are actually about to begin the build out construction

0:26:07.040 --> 0:26:11.240
<v Speaker 2>process of oh boom. Yeah. People can ask me about that,

0:26:11.359 --> 0:26:13.320
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, I'm not really sure. I think she's

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:15.720
<v Speaker 2>still building out. So you're about to start that, Yeah, okay,

0:26:15.760 --> 0:26:16.119
<v Speaker 2>start that.

0:26:16.280 --> 0:26:19.159
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's definitely a process just to get just

0:26:19.240 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 1>to get here. I mean I signed my lease in December, yeah,

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:27.199
<v Speaker 1>and now we're in June. So that was like, you know,

0:26:27.440 --> 0:26:29.840
<v Speaker 1>December it's like a wash because of the holidays and stuff,

0:26:29.840 --> 0:26:34.720
<v Speaker 1>so almost like don't even count December. So January to June,

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:37.240
<v Speaker 1>it took that long for us to just get the

0:26:37.359 --> 0:26:41.480
<v Speaker 1>architectural plans drawn and approved and the permit issued, and

0:26:41.760 --> 0:26:43.960
<v Speaker 1>now my contractor is ready to hit the ground running.

0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:49.360
<v Speaker 1>So and his timeline if we stay on course, shows

0:26:49.400 --> 0:26:52.400
<v Speaker 1>with a completion in the middle of August.

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:56.560
<v Speaker 2>Love that that's soon. Yeah okay, so okay, yeah.

0:26:57.880 --> 0:26:59.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So now I got to hit the ground running.

0:26:59.440 --> 0:27:01.119
<v Speaker 1>Like with my hiring my staff.

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:02.879
<v Speaker 2>That's going to say, you got to hire your staff

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:05.840
<v Speaker 2>because I can't. I can't do injections and stuff for you.

0:27:05.880 --> 0:27:08.680
<v Speaker 2>I can't work for your rabbit. I know you want

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:11.080
<v Speaker 2>me to work for you, but it cannot be. But

0:27:11.119 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 2>I'll get some good people to do it. So yeah,

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:16.680
<v Speaker 2>so it's busy, and then you know, kids, life, family,

0:27:17.240 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 2>it's good. Another thing I think that you should put

0:27:19.040 --> 0:27:21.159
<v Speaker 2>in there is like a makeup bar, like somebody in

0:27:21.200 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 2>there just like putting on makeup.

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:24.919
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I might have space for that because I have,

0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:28.280
<v Speaker 1>especially in the beginning, because I have five treatment rooms,

0:27:28.320 --> 0:27:30.520
<v Speaker 1>and I just think, you know, a new business you

0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:33.920
<v Speaker 1>have to grow and build and so I probably won't

0:27:33.960 --> 0:27:38.520
<v Speaker 1>have five rooms utilized like every hour of the day,

0:27:38.680 --> 0:27:41.080
<v Speaker 1>so I probably can use one of those rooms.

0:27:40.720 --> 0:27:43.040
<v Speaker 2>For like a gland bar. Yeah. I love that, Like

0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:44.480
<v Speaker 2>some of that you can just run in there and

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 2>get your makeup done. People need that, right. I got

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 2>a good question. Yeah, this is from all things jzell

0:27:56.720 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 2>me me, me me, this is a good question. Okay,

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:03.080
<v Speaker 2>how did y'all manage to keep a solid friendship despite

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:05.639
<v Speaker 2>the reality TV curse? And I think we've kind of

0:28:05.680 --> 0:28:08.560
<v Speaker 2>said this in a lot of ways and maybe knows

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:11.680
<v Speaker 2>the answer to this, maybe, but okay.

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:16.080
<v Speaker 1>But I think, I mean, we legitimately were friends before

0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>we started.

0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:17.040
<v Speaker 2>We weren't.

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:19.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, we're clearly a lot closer today, but we

0:28:19.880 --> 0:28:23.879
<v Speaker 1>legitimately were friends, and we have a lot in common

0:28:23.920 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 1>and we just enjoy being around one another. And for us,

0:28:26.440 --> 0:28:29.240
<v Speaker 1>it's not a competition. I think what happens to a

0:28:29.240 --> 0:28:30.760
<v Speaker 1>lot of people on these shows is they get on

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:35.000
<v Speaker 1>the shows and they they're in competition with one another, like,

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:37.479
<v Speaker 1>you know, they want to be everyone wants to be

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:40.640
<v Speaker 1>the queen of the show where you know, the most.

0:28:40.600 --> 0:28:43.840
<v Speaker 2>Liked, and they want to pander to the fans and

0:28:43.840 --> 0:28:45.640
<v Speaker 2>get them on their side and all that type of stuff,

0:28:45.680 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 2>and so they end up doing stuff that's just really

0:28:50.080 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 2>not something that a real friend would do. For sure,

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:59.000
<v Speaker 2>everyone has their own individual journey and their own individual lane.

0:28:59.120 --> 0:29:01.360
<v Speaker 2>So even if you're on a show, you have your lane,

0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 2>which is you, right, so wrap that out and support everybody.

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:08.960
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, I've you've totally supported me. I support you.

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:12.640
<v Speaker 2>I think we're closer today more so than ever before.

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure. Yeah, yeah, well, I mean, yeah, we've

0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:17.120
<v Speaker 2>been through a lot.

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:20.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, we might have said stuff on the show

0:29:20.280 --> 0:29:23.320
<v Speaker 1>or that we didn't approve of or you know, always

0:29:24.200 --> 0:29:26.880
<v Speaker 1>support it, but we always still had each other's back.

0:29:28.320 --> 0:29:33.719
<v Speaker 2>So hey, ni h e y n I why Haney

0:29:34.160 --> 0:29:36.880
<v Speaker 2>asked us about two pages worth questions? Okay, so we're

0:29:36.880 --> 0:29:38.880
<v Speaker 2>going to answer some of them, girl, but you didn't

0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:41.400
<v Speaker 2>ask a whole lot of questions. You're kind of being nosy,

0:29:41.440 --> 0:29:44.040
<v Speaker 2>but whatever, When is it time to leave a relationship?

0:29:44.760 --> 0:29:48.640
<v Speaker 2>If you're asking a question, it's now, okay, if you

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:53.200
<v Speaker 2>ask that question, it's today, today's to day. Leave that thing? Okay,

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:56.280
<v Speaker 2>that thing is over? That is yes, And you're even

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.560
<v Speaker 2>thinking should I leave this relationship? The answers yes, yes,

0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:02.320
<v Speaker 2>out of there quick fast and in a hurry. Hit

0:30:02.360 --> 0:30:06.440
<v Speaker 2>yourself in another one, right yeah the end? Okay. How

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:09.120
<v Speaker 2>do you make new friends as an adult? That's a

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 2>good question. Yeah, you don't but you do. We made

0:30:14.080 --> 0:30:16.920
<v Speaker 2>friends as adult, I think a lot of times, like

0:30:16.960 --> 0:30:19.920
<v Speaker 2>in our situation, we became we made friends through a

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:21.160
<v Speaker 2>mutual friend. I think.

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 1>I think like the best way I almost think that's

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:28.680
<v Speaker 1>the best way for people to find new like partners

0:30:28.720 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 1>or people to date. A mutual friend, someone who knows someone.

0:30:32.520 --> 0:30:35.440
<v Speaker 2>Yes, introduces yeah, yeah, there needs to be like a connect.

0:30:35.520 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 2>So I think that as an adult, it's a good

0:30:39.400 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 2>way to make friends. Why buy if you have similar

0:30:43.120 --> 0:30:46.800
<v Speaker 2>interest like if you're in a bike club with the bikers, if.

0:30:47.920 --> 0:30:51.240
<v Speaker 1>Like football moms of the football moms and basketball moms,

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:54.640
<v Speaker 1>like you know, you can become friends because you're like, hey,

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>let's go out, let's let's get the kids together, and

0:30:57.360 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 1>you're sitting at the bar having a drink or whatever.

0:30:59.240 --> 0:31:03.600
<v Speaker 2>For sure. And so I was in St. Bart's for

0:31:03.640 --> 0:31:06.520
<v Speaker 2>the holidays and there was a girl there that me

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 2>and Erica met and she has become our friend. She's

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:11.000
<v Speaker 2>more so with Erica because she lives in Erica. But

0:31:11.640 --> 0:31:16.520
<v Speaker 2>like we have we have for the first of all,

0:31:16.760 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 2>if we're both in St. Barts around the holidays, we

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.120
<v Speaker 2>have that in common, right, and that's something that we

0:31:21.200 --> 0:31:23.920
<v Speaker 2>both like to do. We can start there. So that's

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:25.840
<v Speaker 2>a great way to make friends. So it's I think

0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:30.440
<v Speaker 2>it's easier a bit to make friends as adults because it's,

0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:33.320
<v Speaker 2>you know, you past the whole caddy bullshit of like

0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:37.040
<v Speaker 2>your twenties or your or the high school years. But

0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:41.880
<v Speaker 2>people still act like that, right, really yeah, real housewives, potomac,

0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:43.560
<v Speaker 2>but they still act like that. You just have to

0:31:43.560 --> 0:31:45.880
<v Speaker 2>get past it. But I think it's it's nice to

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 2>have adult friends. Yeah, it definitely is, and it makes sense.

0:31:48.640 --> 0:31:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Like if you have a common interest, I think it

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:54.480
<v Speaker 1>makes it easier because that's automatically something to talk about. Yeah,

0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:55.960
<v Speaker 1>and then you just go from there.

0:31:56.320 --> 0:31:58.959
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Okay, hey ni, this is your last one that

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:01.960
<v Speaker 2>we're doing for you. Okay. Thoughts on having a grand

0:32:01.960 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 2>proposal but not having a wedding so I've never seen

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 2>this before. Well, these are two different bank accounts, So

0:32:10.400 --> 0:32:13.800
<v Speaker 2>the proposal typically is the guy, right, So if he's

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:18.040
<v Speaker 2>doing a grand proposal, that's his money. Okay, he's doing

0:32:18.120 --> 0:32:22.760
<v Speaker 2>the most right, caviar, balloons, whatever, helicopter, all the things

0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 2>for the wedding. It depends on how old you are.

0:32:27.360 --> 0:32:31.120
<v Speaker 2>It's typically both of y'all's bank account, right, or just

0:32:31.720 --> 0:32:37.800
<v Speaker 2>the bride's parents. Yes, so I mean you can literally

0:32:37.840 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 2>have both because these are two different accounts here. Yeah.

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:42.239
<v Speaker 2>So I guess what she's saying that.

0:32:42.640 --> 0:32:46.400
<v Speaker 1>So when you see these proposals that are filmed and

0:32:46.440 --> 0:32:48.640
<v Speaker 1>they're doing all these like theatrics and stuff, so do

0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:50.760
<v Speaker 1>all that, and then they don't have.

0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:54.560
<v Speaker 2>A wedding, or they have like a courthouse wedding.

0:32:54.640 --> 0:32:56.240
<v Speaker 1>So let's say in this instance, they just have a

0:32:56.280 --> 0:32:59.200
<v Speaker 1>courthouse wedding, small wedding. Y. I guess that's what she's saying.

0:32:59.280 --> 0:33:01.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or never get married. I don't know. I don't

0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:03.960
<v Speaker 2>believe in I don't believe in courthouse weddings, by the way, really,

0:33:04.000 --> 0:33:06.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I think that. And we've been to one. Yeah,

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:09.680
<v Speaker 2>I just think it's just because we've been to one.

0:33:09.760 --> 0:33:12.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, no, you could do better, just do better.

0:33:12.200 --> 0:33:13.640
<v Speaker 2>You could do it somewhere else, even you don't want

0:33:13.640 --> 0:33:15.800
<v Speaker 2>to spend any money. You can do better than the

0:33:15.800 --> 0:33:16.440
<v Speaker 2>courthouse in the.

0:33:16.440 --> 0:33:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Court out, that's true. Yeah, yeah, you could have a

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:19.680
<v Speaker 1>wedding in your backyard.

0:33:20.040 --> 0:33:22.360
<v Speaker 2>Or this is what I didn't like. It's a timed thing.

0:33:22.720 --> 0:33:23.080
<v Speaker 1>Uh huh.

0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:24.320
<v Speaker 2>So you like.

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 1>Bring the next person and that's not special. Yeah, and

0:33:28.040 --> 0:33:31.000
<v Speaker 1>you and you feel like you're in court for Yes,

0:33:31.680 --> 0:33:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you just like the fourth slot of the day.

0:33:33.720 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, that's not special. Yeah, yeah, I don't like that.

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so let's just say it's a wedding in the

0:33:37.600 --> 0:33:41.880
<v Speaker 1>backyard with you know, your mama and your cousins.

0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Right, But the proposal was over the top. I don't

0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:47.600
<v Speaker 2>think I personally don't think anything's wrong with that. I just,

0:33:47.720 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, I think whatever float your boat. Some people

0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:52.600
<v Speaker 2>might not want to have a grand wedding and have

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:54.200
<v Speaker 2>to deal with all the guests.

0:33:54.400 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you know they they might want to keep

0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:57.600
<v Speaker 1>it intimate.

0:33:57.640 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I think it's nothing wrong with that. And the proposal.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the proposals about the two people, yeah, and the wedding,

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 1>and it'd be about the two people.

0:34:05.840 --> 0:34:08.000
<v Speaker 2>And the prosal doesn't have to be grand. It doesn't

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:09.839
<v Speaker 2>have to be. But I got that questions like if

0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:11.760
<v Speaker 2>it is grand, how you gonna have a grand proposal?

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna do all that and a whack wedding and

0:34:13.440 --> 0:34:16.040
<v Speaker 2>then you're gonna like have a wedding in your backyard

0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:19.799
<v Speaker 2>with five people. Listen, whatever flows your boat. Yeah, yeah,

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:22.359
<v Speaker 2>it's about you too. I don't think I don't have

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:24.680
<v Speaker 2>no problems with that. Yeah. And the words of Robin Dixon,

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:28.759
<v Speaker 2>she gonna do it her way, yeah, and not like

0:34:28.920 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 2>traditional ways are out the window at this point. Yeah

0:34:31.239 --> 0:34:34.400
<v Speaker 2>for sure. Yeah. So do whatever makes you happy. Yeah.

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:35.759
<v Speaker 2>And if you don't know what makes you happy, you

0:34:35.760 --> 0:34:39.759
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't be getting married. Boom, I said it. Okay, So

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:42.120
<v Speaker 2>how do you organize? It's good for you. We'll end

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 2>me too. How do you organize chores in your household?

0:34:46.680 --> 0:34:49.279
<v Speaker 2>Or do you have a daily house cleaner? Or and

0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm asking do you have you given the boys chores? Okay?

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:54.840
<v Speaker 1>So the boys the only thing they are supposed to

0:34:54.880 --> 0:34:56.759
<v Speaker 1>do is to take the trash and recycling out.

0:34:56.920 --> 0:34:58.719
<v Speaker 2>That's the only chore. Okay, that's good.

0:34:58.880 --> 0:35:02.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And they're supposed to be proactive about it, so

0:35:02.680 --> 0:35:04.960
<v Speaker 1>they don't. They should not have to wait for it

0:35:05.000 --> 0:35:07.560
<v Speaker 1>to be overflowing and for us to stay take the

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:08.520
<v Speaker 1>trash of the trash out.

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:10.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay. Corey is much better at that than Carter.

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:16.200
<v Speaker 1>So Corey is trash, Carter is recycling, okay. And Corey

0:35:16.239 --> 0:35:21.160
<v Speaker 1>will see that the bag is filling up and he'll,

0:35:21.520 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, tie it up and put it in the

0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:28.120
<v Speaker 1>garbage can outside Carter will walk past the full recycle

0:35:28.280 --> 0:35:31.600
<v Speaker 1>bin seventeen times, over and over and over and over

0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 1>again until his father threatens him.

0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Right, this is why we've never had this conversation before.

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't think so. And it's wild because my kids,

0:35:40.160 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 2>that's the that's the only chore too. Trash. So it

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.719
<v Speaker 2>was Grace's responsibility until she went to college. Grace was

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:50.439
<v Speaker 2>trash girl. And then on Tuesdays the trash people come,

0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:53.239
<v Speaker 2>so we have like two bends. So the Angel had

0:35:53.239 --> 0:35:55.680
<v Speaker 2>to help her bring the trash cans up the up

0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:59.000
<v Speaker 2>the driveway. Yeah, okay. Grace went to college and she

0:35:59.160 --> 0:36:04.279
<v Speaker 2>informed everyone of the house her trash girl duties are over,

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:08.239
<v Speaker 2>and I passed them on to a door. Adoor is

0:36:08.320 --> 0:36:12.320
<v Speaker 2>the worst trash girl under the sun. She sucks. Okay,

0:36:12.520 --> 0:36:16.320
<v Speaker 2>why just Adore though, because Angel had already been helping

0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:21.319
<v Speaker 2>with on trash Day on Tuesday trash Day, so I

0:36:21.360 --> 0:36:23.200
<v Speaker 2>was like a door, I ain't doing nothing a door

0:36:23.360 --> 0:36:25.719
<v Speaker 2>typically in the house, she does nothing. If I say, hey, guys,

0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:27.840
<v Speaker 2>y'all need to clean up something, she oh, this is

0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:30.399
<v Speaker 2>funny too. She will all of a sudden get sick

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:35.680
<v Speaker 2>or she's like, oh my god, my stomach hurts so

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:38.879
<v Speaker 2>with the door, Like she likes to go out hang

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:42.239
<v Speaker 2>out with her girlfriends. I'm like, you can't leave until

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:45.000
<v Speaker 2>your room is clean. Send me a video. She sends

0:36:45.040 --> 0:36:50.400
<v Speaker 2>me videos, and she purposely doesn't doesn't show like the

0:36:50.440 --> 0:36:52.160
<v Speaker 2>big pile of clothes that are on the floor, Like

0:36:52.200 --> 0:36:54.600
<v Speaker 2>she has a big room. So the video like will

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:57.359
<v Speaker 2>swing from left to right and then and then it'll

0:36:57.400 --> 0:37:01.319
<v Speaker 2>stop and it'll pick up again, like, girl, who do

0:37:01.320 --> 0:37:04.759
<v Speaker 2>you think you're falling? So anyway, it's funny that is

0:37:04.760 --> 0:37:07.359
<v Speaker 2>the door. And then but now she Graces back home

0:37:07.400 --> 0:37:09.239
<v Speaker 2>for the summer, so the door is like, I'm not

0:37:09.280 --> 0:37:12.239
<v Speaker 2>trash girl anymore, Grace, it's trash girl, And so they're

0:37:12.239 --> 0:37:15.480
<v Speaker 2>fighting about it. There's a trash by every day.

0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 1>Because listen, your driveway is long, all right, but.

0:37:22.560 --> 0:37:23.920
<v Speaker 2>You don't have to do that every day. Just take

0:37:23.960 --> 0:37:26.359
<v Speaker 2>it outside to the trash can. Tuesday is the long

0:37:26.440 --> 0:37:29.840
<v Speaker 2>driveway day because you take it up top. But like

0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 2>trash girl just takes the trash from the kitchen and

0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:33.800
<v Speaker 2>puts it outside.

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>Take it out, and you have to take it up

0:37:35.520 --> 0:37:36.800
<v Speaker 1>top and bring it back.

0:37:36.680 --> 0:37:40.080
<v Speaker 2>Then every day. Now that's just tuesdays. Trash on a

0:37:40.160 --> 0:37:42.480
<v Speaker 2>normal day let's say it's a Monday or normal day.

0:37:42.719 --> 0:37:44.560
<v Speaker 2>You take the trash from the kitchen, yes, and you

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:47.480
<v Speaker 2>take it outside. The trash cans are like not that

0:37:47.560 --> 0:37:50.920
<v Speaker 2>far from the door. Only on Tuesday, so that has

0:37:50.960 --> 0:37:53.560
<v Speaker 2>to happen every day, right, that was Grace's job. And

0:37:53.560 --> 0:37:55.560
<v Speaker 2>then on Tuesday you have to walk it all the

0:37:55.600 --> 0:37:59.040
<v Speaker 2>way up and Angel would help her, okay, and then

0:37:59.080 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 2>who walks it back? The two of them, Angel and Grace. Okay,

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 2>A door had nothing to do. That's crazy.

0:38:05.360 --> 0:38:08.360
<v Speaker 1>So now why wouldn't they They could have split that up.

0:38:08.400 --> 0:38:09.839
<v Speaker 1>A door could have been bringing it.

0:38:09.760 --> 0:38:11.719
<v Speaker 2>Back all the thing. A door was like no, Mom

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 2>said I'll have to do it. So now she is

0:38:14.200 --> 0:38:16.799
<v Speaker 2>a total trash girl and she's and because Grace is home,

0:38:16.840 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 2>it's a big fight every day. Yeah, I'm gonna have

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 2>to put my foot down at some point. Yeah, that's

0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:22.680
<v Speaker 2>that's I understand why it's a fight though. Yeah, the

0:38:22.760 --> 0:38:25.879
<v Speaker 2>driveway is long, and I mean, my little we gotta

0:38:25.920 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 2>take hours down the street. And they don't like my

0:38:28.520 --> 0:38:31.640
<v Speaker 2>kids don't like that, but yours is like it's ridiculous,

0:38:31.680 --> 0:38:33.719
<v Speaker 2>and it's like are they scared of are their animals

0:38:33.719 --> 0:38:37.040
<v Speaker 2>out there? No? No, foxes, and there's there's Oh, I

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:39.840
<v Speaker 2>found a fox family. So I looked out. The back

0:38:39.920 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 2>of my house is like a lot of trees and grass.

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:45.160
<v Speaker 2>The fox family was chilling in the grass. I saw

0:38:45.239 --> 0:38:47.800
<v Speaker 2>like like babies. I saw two like they were playing

0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:49.839
<v Speaker 2>with each other. And then I saw like a mom

0:38:49.920 --> 0:38:52.520
<v Speaker 2>pop her head out. O cute. So it's actually three

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:56.319
<v Speaker 2>little ones and the mom. Okay, whole fox family. Very cute. Yeah,

0:38:56.320 --> 0:39:02.160
<v Speaker 2>all right. So, last but not least, it's souls. It's souls,

0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:05.759
<v Speaker 2>I guess. Is her name? Not a question, but just

0:39:05.840 --> 0:39:09.440
<v Speaker 2>sending lots of love from Trinidad? Is that the accent?

0:39:09.480 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 1>Trina Trinidad, someone that we know that actually the person

0:39:16.640 --> 0:39:19.239
<v Speaker 1>that has been doing my lastly, she's from Trinidad.

0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:25.600
<v Speaker 2>So no, no, it's Trinidad. Yeah, that's it, Trinidad. Send

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:29.520
<v Speaker 2>not a question, but just sending lots of love from Trinidad.

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:36.000
<v Speaker 2>And then she said love y'all. Pod. That's it. No,

0:39:36.120 --> 0:39:44.879
<v Speaker 2>it's not that is the accent. Okay, So I want

0:39:44.960 --> 0:39:49.320
<v Speaker 2>to let you know the old Man. It's on FX

0:39:49.400 --> 0:39:53.200
<v Speaker 2>or Hulu. Very good. Okay, I've been watching. I've only

0:39:53.280 --> 0:39:57.359
<v Speaker 2>seen one episode. I'm probably gonna get into another one.

0:39:57.440 --> 0:40:01.120
<v Speaker 2>Tonight maybe tomorrow night. But it's really good. Okay. Still

0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:04.560
<v Speaker 2>stuck on The Resident Okay on Netflix. Yeah, I'm liking

0:40:04.640 --> 0:40:07.360
<v Speaker 2>it's really in juicy. How are you watching multiple shows

0:40:07.400 --> 0:40:11.960
<v Speaker 2>at once? Because The Resident is like six seasons. I

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:14.879
<v Speaker 2>can't just do that, really, I gotta switch it up.

0:40:15.320 --> 0:40:17.240
<v Speaker 2>You see, I would be all confused.

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:20.480
<v Speaker 1>I would be watching one show thinking that something from

0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:21.799
<v Speaker 1>the other show happened on the show.

0:40:21.800 --> 0:40:24.520
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, wait a minute, what happened? Okay. So,

0:40:24.680 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 2>and there's a new series, I mean a new season

0:40:27.719 --> 0:40:30.800
<v Speaker 2>of Bridgerton on Netflix. I don't know whether you watched

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:33.120
<v Speaker 2>the first show. I've never watched. I'm a Bridgerton girl,

0:40:33.200 --> 0:40:36.480
<v Speaker 2>so I'm very excited about that. Okay, and so an

0:40:36.480 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 2>old man definitely checking that out. Guys, the first twenty

0:40:39.640 --> 0:40:42.080
<v Speaker 2>minutes you're confused, but then it's like boom, oh really

0:40:42.080 --> 0:40:44.520
<v Speaker 2>already actually tell one he would like it? How many?

0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:48.960
<v Speaker 2>How many seasons? Season? I think it's two? Okay, maybe one,

0:40:49.360 --> 0:40:52.560
<v Speaker 2>but so far, so good. And yeah, and then I

0:40:52.640 --> 0:40:55.120
<v Speaker 2>check into The Resident. Wow, I'm like all around to

0:40:55.280 --> 0:40:58.080
<v Speaker 2>all over the place show gun. Okay, did we talk

0:40:58.080 --> 0:40:58.400
<v Speaker 2>about that?

0:40:58.520 --> 0:40:58.600
<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>It was on FX. There's a lot of subtitles, darn exactly,

0:41:05.760 --> 0:41:11.680
<v Speaker 2>so if you and you know what's so crazy. I

0:41:11.719 --> 0:41:14.480
<v Speaker 2>was having a conversation with Jason. My brother had told

0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:16.359
<v Speaker 2>me about Shogun, So I said, did you have ever

0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:18.600
<v Speaker 2>watch Shogun? He said, oh my god, I love Showgun.

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:20.440
<v Speaker 2>I said, why didn't you tell me about it? He said,

0:41:20.480 --> 0:41:23.520
<v Speaker 2>because I didn't know whether you like to read. I said,

0:41:23.800 --> 0:41:28.000
<v Speaker 2>you're shady, Jason, and I'm educated and I know how

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:30.000
<v Speaker 2>to read. He's like, I didn't know if you were

0:41:30.040 --> 0:41:34.440
<v Speaker 2>that kind of girl. And I said that likes to read.

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:41.799
<v Speaker 2>Actually I am, so I told him he's shady. And

0:41:41.840 --> 0:41:44.000
<v Speaker 2>I watched it and it was really good, except the

0:41:44.080 --> 0:41:45.040
<v Speaker 2>ending was a little weird.

0:41:45.040 --> 0:41:48.320
<v Speaker 1>So it's subtitles because it's in another language, or because

0:41:48.440 --> 0:41:50.080
<v Speaker 1>like it's just hard to understand it.

0:41:50.080 --> 0:41:51.920
<v Speaker 2>Is in another lie's it's comes it goes back and

0:41:51.960 --> 0:41:55.640
<v Speaker 2>forth from English to they speak English, and I guess Mandarin. Okay,

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:59.719
<v Speaker 2>in the whole season, and yeah, I enjoyed it. Not

0:41:59.840 --> 0:42:02.320
<v Speaker 2>for you, but I alljoined it because I don't know

0:42:02.320 --> 0:42:07.040
<v Speaker 2>if you read either. Now you're a reader, Robin. I

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:09.799
<v Speaker 2>am not a reader, but I am capable. I'm quite

0:42:09.920 --> 0:42:12.799
<v Speaker 2>capable of reading. Oh you are, yes, Okay, all right,

0:42:12.800 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 2>that is our episode. Guys, We love y'all so much.

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:18.439
<v Speaker 2>Don't ever forget to read and live your life. You're

0:42:18.440 --> 0:42:28.640
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