1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shape. Dy. I am 4 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 2: Jaselle Bryant. What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. 5 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 2: Thank you for being here with us once again. Mind 6 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 2: you do we remind these people. It's the season four 7 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 2: of Reasonably Shady. Sure into it. We are doing big 8 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: things over here, Yes we are. Yes, we're brothers for 9 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 2: well three full years, four seasons. That's pretty impressive. Yeah, 10 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: we're doing a European tour. Yeah, I think we should know. 11 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: I do think. No, I didn't know. Yeah, we're doing 12 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: a European tour to make it to La West Coast, Houston, everywhere. 13 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 2: Keep say we're going. We're doing a European tour and 14 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: then work our way in, work our way back, work 15 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 2: our way back home. Yeah. Yeah, we're gonna be on 16 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: the road for like four weeks. Okay, yet you down? Yes, sure, 17 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: because I have nothing to do, really nothing. You got 18 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: nothing to do right now. I will have nothing to 19 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 2: do very soon. Okay. I know you have a lot 20 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 2: to do. You've got these children, you got that husband 21 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 2: of yours. But I have nothing. Okay, so we're going 22 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,279 Speaker 2: on tour. Okay, So I want you to be nothing 23 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 2: like me. Wait what I want you to have nothing 24 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 2: to do like me? Oh okay, just jump into it, 25 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: right y. Switch happening in the world, okay, making it happen. Yeah, 26 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 2: it happened one day, one day soon soon if anybody 27 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: wants to plan our tour, have at it. See, yeah, 28 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 2: you really will have nothing to do. Thank you, Robin 29 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 2: form your mind. Thank you. 30 00:01:34,280 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: And I'm like, how am I going to get away 31 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: for that long? But okay, yeah, we'll make it. 32 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 2: We'll figure it out, all right. So shady moment, I 33 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: have a shady moment. Let me let me talk them go. 34 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 2: So you know my kids just graduate from high school, right, yes, 35 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 2: and so this particular high school, I've been there for 36 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: five years because Grace was there first and then it's twins. 37 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: So five years. Oh it wasn't ok three twelve situation. Okay. 38 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: So when I got to the school, you know, very 39 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: much real Housewives, Potomac wasn't full bloom, and everybody was 40 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 2: clear who Josee is, right, and they kind of like, 41 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: didn't they left me alone? You know, they weren't like 42 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 2: in my face? And oh my gosh, and can I 43 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 2: take a picture? They didn't do none of that right 44 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: until graduation. Oh God of Angel and a door. They're like, oh, 45 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: this is a last opportunity. Oh my god. And somebody 46 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 2: one of the teachers even came to me and was like, 47 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: you know, I know with you, it's all about the girls. 48 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 2: So I guess they must have had a talk or 49 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 2: something and they're like, let's leave this woman alone because 50 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 2: she really like it's into her girls and like what's 51 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 2: going on in their lives anytime she's here, she's here 52 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 2: for the kids. She's not here for a meet and greet. Right, 53 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 2: Oh they meet and greet? My ass up. Okay, I 54 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: was gonna say, this is an opportunity to say, can 55 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,959 Speaker 2: you take a picture? That is funny, that's cue. So yeah, 56 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 2: I did my meet and greet and I am done. 57 00:02:58,040 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 2: But that was a little shady. That's fine. I would 58 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: have rather have just done it like periodic over time 59 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 2: as opposed to the bomb rush, right, because it was 60 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 2: a straight bumb rush. That's funny. 61 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: So they never I mean, I'm sure they had some 62 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: type of internal discussion, like, you know, don't don't go 63 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: ask for. 64 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: Pictures, don't talk about the show. 65 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 1: I don't know whatever, respect their privacy type of stuff. 66 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: Yes, which they did. Yeah, but that's they're like, wait 67 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 2: a minute, you can't be here for five years and 68 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 2: we don't have no pictures, right. Oh yeah they got 69 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: all the picture that's cute. So yes, shady but not shady, 70 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: but shady very cute. Yeah, that's funny. Love it. 71 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: Okay, So my shady moment is getting old? 72 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 2: Huh is shade? I mean it depends on what you're 73 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: talking about. Talk about your knees. 74 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm talking about my hand yesterday, exactly yesterday, out of 75 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: the blue, huh, out of nowhere? My hand started hurting, 76 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: like painful? Which hand, my right hand. 77 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: The hand that you your phone, your big phone that 78 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 2: everyone has, Yes, but I don't. 79 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: But if I don't hold it that much anymore, what 80 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:08,119 Speaker 1: do you do? 81 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 2: I like, put it down or I'll or I'll hold 82 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 2: it like because you can't because your hand hurts. Okay, 83 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 2: go ahead, don't want to. I don't want to talk about 84 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: your shady mom Go ahead. 85 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 1: I'm telling you it can't be from the phone. 86 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: Out of the blue, out of the blue. And then 87 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 2: what happened? Did you put ice on it? No, wrap 88 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 2: it up. No, you put your phone down. I did 89 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,239 Speaker 2: put my phone. Take my phone. My hand hurts. Okay, 90 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 2: I'm just I'm like, is this carpor tunnel? 91 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: No? 92 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 2: Yes, because of your not because you get old. Is 93 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 2: your phone no, yes, because you're your phone. Any any 94 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 2: other questions. The answer to all questions is because of 95 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 2: your phone, my phone. Yes. Out of the blue. Just yes, 96 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 2: out of the blue. Because what happened was recently you've 97 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 2: been holding in a lot. This is what happened. You've 98 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 2: been holding it a lot for whatever reason. Just think 99 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 2: about what's going on in your life. You've been traveling 100 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 2: a lot for your for your boys, go on all 101 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 2: these basketball games, you got the phone in your hand, 102 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 2: and the whole time of the basketball your hand hurts, 103 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: Your wrist hurts, carpal tunnel, arthritis, everything. I don't know 104 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: if that's it. Send your bill to Apple, okay, send 105 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 2: the doctor bill destroy and I encourage that for everyone, okay, 106 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 2: because I know everyone's wrist hurts. 107 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: Yeah maybe, Okay, So I'm gonna tell you where my 108 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: pain is. If anyone has you know, any advice. So 109 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 1: it's like the palm of. 110 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 2: My hand, buy my thumb. Where you in through my 111 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 2: phone thumb. Yeah, that's like where most of the pain is. 112 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: And it's like hard to like like grab things, open things, 113 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:35,679 Speaker 1: just wipe my butt. 114 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 2: Like can you imagine the young people when they get forty, 115 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: they're they're totally not gonna be able to use their fingers? Yeah, yeah, 116 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 2: So do you are you a two finger typer on 117 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 2: your phone or one? I use my two thumb, two thumbs. Yeah, 118 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 2: your thumbs hurt, don't they? Well, my loved one doesn't. 119 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 2: Well this but you hold it with your right and 120 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 2: you use your thumb. So this, all of this is 121 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 2: being like used over and over again. I just want 122 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 2: you to listen. I'm a hold on my phone. This 123 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: is my phone. This is my phone. Let me see 124 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: your phone, Robin, And that's Robin's phone. So my I 125 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 2: have mini phones a very small phone for a reason. Yes, 126 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 2: the reason why. It's Robin shady moment. My hand was 127 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: hurting for a long time and I said I can't 128 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:21,799 Speaker 2: do this. Mob and everyone everyone jokes me about my phone. 129 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: Everyone like punks me. They say I'm a child, I'm 130 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: a toddler. All the things right now. 131 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: I get it, but remember I had the big This 132 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: is not the big phone. Either I had the the 133 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:33,799 Speaker 1: Max phone. 134 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember, and I had to get rid of it. Yes, 135 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 2: it was so heavy. Yeah, but now this one, I don't. 136 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 2: I don't believe that that's why my hand is hurting 137 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 2: right now. Okay, so do me a favorite. Don't pick 138 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 2: up your phone for like a. 139 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: Day, okay and see, Okay, Okay it could be I guess. 140 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really bad. 141 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: But I feel like if I wasn't old, then I 142 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't be having this problem. 143 00:06:56,440 --> 00:07:01,359 Speaker 2: But you're not old. Are you getting old? You get older? Yeah, 144 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 2: but your face card don't decline and you needs to work. 145 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,479 Speaker 2: You're good. We just got to put the files down. 146 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 2: I just got Carbor Tunnel, all right. So I want 147 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 2: to ask you about I had someone I had to 148 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: ask you mis throbbing Dixon hold on. 149 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: But it was like throbbing in the right time. Like 150 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm like in the bed, sleep and my hand is throbbing. 151 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: So that's when I literally was like I got to 152 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 2: make a change because of that. I would sleep and 153 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 2: my hand was like throbbing. Yeah, and it was my 154 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: whole hands. It was like my thumb all the way 155 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 2: because I think I was holding my phone kind of 156 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 2: like thrusting it all my pinky. So it's like the 157 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 2: whole thing my wrist and you know I lift weights. Yeah, 158 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 2: you do too, right, And I couldn't do that. My 159 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: arms like grabbed the whole thing. Yeah, so Apple needs 160 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 2: to do better. Yeah, Okay, So this is a follow 161 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 2: up to something that we discussed a while ago. And 162 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 2: there's a doctor and she is there's a video and 163 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: she's sitting on the toilet. Okay, and do you know 164 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 2: what she says? Don't look at your phone when you're 165 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: on your tour. It says, hey, who me? Have you 166 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 2: heard that? There's a five minute rule on the toilet? 167 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 2: And the five minute rule is after five minutes, if 168 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 2: you don't get up off the toilet, you're really hurting 169 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 2: your whole internal system. Okay, you're hurting your butt, you're 170 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 2: hurting the toilet, you're hurting the toilet paper, you're hurting 171 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 2: it pot because the toilet acts as a vacuum. And 172 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 2: this technical terms for all this. Yes. In other words, 173 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 2: you ma'am, you sit on the toilet and read and 174 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,960 Speaker 2: scroll through Instagram, do all them things. It's not good 175 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 2: for you. That's just a follow up. People. You know 176 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 2: what I've heard that. Actually I saw that that same video. Yeah, 177 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 2: the same woman. Yeah, I think it, like you get 178 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 2: hemorrhoids and all types of stuff. Yes, do you have hemorrhoids? 179 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:53,439 Speaker 2: Maybe Gonna swore you was gonna say no, Robert, you 180 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 2: cannot sit on a toilet like that. Now, Robbins over 181 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 2: here with hemorrhoids? What prepar since you said that? Look, 182 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 2: we got a letter. Uh huh, let's see, she said. 183 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 2: She said, Hold this is from tokes ojo o dah. Okay, okay, Look, 184 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 2: I'm not the only one a gazelle and Robin, I'm 185 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 2: waving like I can see you in real life. I've 186 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 2: been a fan since the first season of Rhop Will 187 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 2: Make You on the show. Robin been listening to recentably. 188 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: Shady on Shopify, Shopify, Spotify since you started podcast. This 189 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: email is a little later than planned, but I'm gonna 190 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: send it anyway. I wanted to respond to episode thirty 191 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: five where Robin was talking about magazine racks in the 192 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: bathroom and how that was a big thing before cell phones. Yeah, 193 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: I'm dating myself here, but when I had my apartment 194 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: back in my twenties and thirties and Queens, I had 195 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: a magazine rack with Essence in Style Black Enterprise in 196 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: the bathroom. I haven't seen a magazine rack in forever, 197 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: and that is definitely due to cell phones. 198 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah. 199 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: I'm impressed that Giselle doesn't take her phone to the bathroom. 200 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: That means your time must be super efficient. 201 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 2: Yes, so my time on the toilet, Yes, yes, it's 202 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: I sit down boom go, yes. 203 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, no, that's impressed. I'm telling you a lot 204 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: of people can't just do that. 205 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 2: Like We've gotten so many people write in like like, no, 206 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 2: I've got to sit there and take my time and 207 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 2: y'all marinate. Okay, y'all need to eat some more fire fiber. 208 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: Yeah yes, yes, yeah, yeah. Well I'm surprised at you 209 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 2: because you know blueberries, you eat all the blueberries and 210 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 2: that's high fiber. I know, I know. But yes, okay, 211 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 2: I'm going to make a change. I'll figure it out. Okay. 212 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 2: So two things you need to do? Put your phone 213 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: down and go number two in three minutes, yes or less? Okay. 214 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 2: So lastly, not lastly, what I talk about. I know. 215 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 2: So in this news report it says, and you know, 216 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 2: I think we've discussed this before, but it's it's good 217 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 2: that we rediscuss or discuss again, discuss again. Yeah, making 218 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 2: your bed makes you two hundred and six percent more 219 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 2: likely to become a millionaire. I make my bed up 220 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: every day. Okay, it's all I'm say about that. I'm 221 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 2: gonna tell you how much money I have, but it's 222 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 2: a lot. Do you make your bed up, Robin, I do. 223 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: It's okay, it's not made up right now, Okay, but 224 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:12,680 Speaker 1: I do make it up every day. 225 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, well you too will be a millionaires. Okay, 226 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 2: so I'm just trying to tell y'all, y'all better make 227 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 2: up your bed every day. I'll be telling my kid, 228 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 2: y'all better make up your bed, I know, unless you 229 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 2: want to be broke. 230 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 1: I do feel like it sets the day in a 231 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: good tone, right, you know, like, And I do feel 232 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:33,079 Speaker 1: when it's not made up, I feel unorganized or undone, 233 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: like I just I don't know. It's like when I 234 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 1: walk in my room my bed is not made up, 235 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, like right to make my 236 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: bed up. 237 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 2: It's a sign of organization and you're ready for the 238 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 2: day and you're ready to be successful. I would think 239 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: that it's automatic, like I get out the bed, I 240 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 2: automatically turn around and make it up. Yeah, and that's 241 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 2: why I have all the money, right, all of it's good. 242 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: I don't automatically do it like I do it because 243 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: I get up. We'll see you get up a lot earlier, right, 244 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: and you have a lot more time in the morning, and. 245 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 2: You don't have to take kids to school. 246 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 1: That's okay even if I did so for me, I'm 247 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: getting up, I'm waking kids up, I'm you know, making lunch, 248 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: I'm getting them off the school. So I don't make 249 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: my bed up until I come back. 250 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 2: But or if, as I say, Wan's still in the bed, right, 251 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 2: then do you make up your side? I always pull 252 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: the cover. I always. 253 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: I never let the covers be like all over the place. 254 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: Can you like get out the bed and you leave 255 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 1: the covers there, not like I pull them? 256 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 2: Just want so if one gets out last, will he 257 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:36,439 Speaker 2: make up the bed? Lately he has not been making 258 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 2: it up. 259 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: Let him know, and he used It's it's funny because 260 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: he used to be like a huge neat freak, a 261 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: huge neat freak, and he's kind of like, you know, 262 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: slipping on that. 263 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, tell him he's, you know, a millionaire status making 264 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 2: up that bed? All right? I will. By the way, guys, 265 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 2: right now we're doing ask us anything, questions at you 266 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: all have sent in. We just Robina all over the place. 267 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 2: And this is from rod FS twenty twenty and he said, 268 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 2: by the way, do we ever hear back from Ron 269 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 2: who was very angry with us because we know that 270 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 2: I know of Listen, if you're gonna write a shady shit, 271 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 2: your name will be used. Okay. How rod FS twenty 272 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: twenty said, how has it affected your children, positively or 273 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 2: negatively that you two are public figures? Listen, we could 274 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: do a whole podcast on that, which we're not. But 275 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:37,599 Speaker 2: for the positive, I think my kids look at me 276 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 2: and they're very proud of me. They could see like 277 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 2: I work very hard. Y'all think we don't. Y'all think 278 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 2: we just go to lunch and there's a camera there. 279 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 2: It's not true. So they're very proud of the success 280 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 2: of it all. I agree with that. Negatively, you know, 281 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: there are moments that they don't want anyone to know 282 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 2: who they are. They just want to be treated like 283 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 2: everyone else in the room. That for them is over yeah, yeah, 284 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:04,319 Speaker 2: so that you know that that kind of bothers them sometimes, 285 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 2: especially the twins. 286 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, my kids, same thing pretty much. They're 287 00:14:10,120 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: very they're very proud of me. But I can say 288 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:17,080 Speaker 1: when when I told them, did I ever talk about 289 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: their reactions? Did I have talk about their reactions to 290 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: when they when I told them I wasn't on the 291 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: show anymore. You told me, but you can tell the people, Okay, yeah, 292 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if I said it on the podcast. 293 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 2: So their reactions were kind of different. It was funny. 294 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: So I told Corey, and Corey's reaction was yes, like 295 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: he was happy because that means he gets me back, 296 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: like my time and my energy and my you know, 297 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna miss a lot of his things because 298 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: I have to go film or I'm not traveling all 299 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: the time or whatever because I have the film. So 300 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: he was very excited. Carter, and this is the Virgo 301 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: in him. Probably yes, my virgo brother. He was like, 302 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: So that means like you're gonna be without, You're gonna 303 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: be missing a paycheck, You're going to be. 304 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 2: Let's about virgos. We do not want to miss a 305 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 2: pay check. Okay, that's so funny. 306 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so he thought about like the money and it's 307 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: a job, and you know, like what about the money? 308 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 2: And I'm like, it's okay, I got other things going on. 309 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 2: Yes you do, but but we count our coins, yes 310 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 2: see argos do. Yeah, so that was funny. But they 311 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 2: are it's I think they they they're proud and I 312 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 2: don't think their life has been negatively affected. I think 313 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 2: they kind of and they've in they're not on social media, 314 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: they're not even they don't watch the show. The only 315 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 2: time they're affected really is when we're out and someone 316 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 2: is trying to, like, you know, say hi to me 317 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 2: or you know. The people in school don't bother them, 318 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 2: so they have a very normal life. They don't bother 319 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 2: them until they graduate and it's on. So there was 320 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: a was a football player, a basketball player that didn't 321 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 2: go to the playoffs because oh yeah, yeah, so I 322 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 2: want to see what you thought about that. Yeah. 323 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: So Rudy Gobert who plays for the Minnesota Timberwolves in 324 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: the Conference semifinals, Game two of the NBA Playoffs Conference 325 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 1: Semifinals against who were they playing? 326 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 2: They just beat them? And is he really good? He's good? Yeah, 327 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 2: he's like he was a starter. He's a starter. 328 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: He won the Defensive Player of the Year, so he's 329 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: like a strong defensive presence for the team. So it's 330 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 1: game two against oh, the Denver Nuggets, who are the 331 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: defending National Championships champions, a very good team. So he 332 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 1: missed game two for the birth of his first. 333 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 2: Child, okay, And there was suspect. 334 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: Yes, there was some conflicted feelings about that, right, So 335 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: some people were like, no, this is the NBA Playoffs, like, 336 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: you know, this is a big game, Like it's it's 337 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: hard to Yeah, yeah, it's hard to get here, trying 338 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: to make it to the finals. 339 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 2: And you know, you don't you know, Okay, it's it's 340 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: just a baby. 341 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: I think Gilbert Arenas was like, you know, it's just 342 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 1: you know, you're going to see that kid for the 343 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: rest of your life. 344 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 2: Shut up, right, you have twenty seven kids with twenty 345 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 2: seven women. Shut up. Okay, not it really is like 346 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:11,640 Speaker 2: four kids with one woman, but whatever, shut up. Yes, 347 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,479 Speaker 2: game for that baby. I see it's gonna be there 348 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 2: when you get back. 349 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 1: I mean. 350 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying whatever you're about to think you're 351 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:25,639 Speaker 2: about to do with the he gonna be sweep. 352 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,360 Speaker 1: But and then other people are like, no, that's his 353 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: first child, that's a big deal. It's okay, and you 354 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 1: know life is more important blah blah blah blah. So 355 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 1: that just got me to thinking, like, what what is 356 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: okay to missing your children's life for work? 357 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:43,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's not? 358 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: So for example, Carter's graduating from the eighth grade. His 359 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: eighth grade graduation is coming up, and I have an 360 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: opportunity to appear at a conference for a lot for 361 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: you know, a good amount of money, you know, a 362 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: short period of time, good amount of money, and I'll 363 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 1: miss his but I will miss his graduation, so I 364 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 1: have to make the decision like am I going to 365 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 1: go to this or not? 366 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 2: What you're gonna do? It's I'm intrigued. So it's just 367 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 2: eighth grade. 368 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 369 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 2: Okay, did you talk to him about it? How do 370 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 2: you think he will feel? He's he's aware, and I 371 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 2: think he's okay. He's like, okay, well, is Gig going 372 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 2: to be there? That's my mom, So he's like, is 373 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 2: Gig going to be there? He didn't even ask about 374 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 2: his Dad's like my substitute and she will be there. 375 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, So she'll be there, and Mom will be there 376 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: of course, but he's he's okay with it and he Understandsky. 377 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,479 Speaker 2: Because I don't know. It's just eighth grade, Okay, if 378 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 2: it was twelfth grade, Robin, eighth grade is important too. 379 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 2: I think you do have to. I mean, listen, any body, 380 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 2: any parent working, You make sacrifices when it comes to 381 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 2: your kids. So yeah, you do have to weigh, right, 382 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 2: because there's plenty of times where I can and have 383 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 2: dinner because we were filming scenes or doing whatever. I 384 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,959 Speaker 2: think that you have to weigh what it is. And 385 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 2: so my example is recently I was out of town 386 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 2: for work. Adore and Angel had their cap and gown 387 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 2: ceremony from high school, which is the ceremony they kind 388 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 2: of split up graduation. So okay, cap and gown ceremonies 389 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 2: when you get your awards and the whole school is there, 390 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 2: whereas graduation it's just like the seniors, their family, all that. 391 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 2: Typically the whole school's not there. Cap and gown ceremony, 392 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 2: as tradition, the senior class president speaks, so Adore is 393 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,880 Speaker 2: the senior class president, so she was going to speak, 394 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 2: and she's worked up to this, meaning she always wanted 395 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 2: to do that so she was like the freshman class 396 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 2: vice president. She was I think the sophomore class vice president. 397 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 2: She's worked up to like make sure she was the 398 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 2: senior class president so she can give the soul speech. Okay, 399 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: So I'm supposed to be out of town for work, 400 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 2: and I'm like, ain't no way in hell I can 401 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 2: even look a door in the eye and say I'm 402 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 2: not going to be there. And I told the people 403 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,880 Speaker 2: that I worked for about the situation, and they kind 404 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 2: of like didn't say nothing. I know what that means. 405 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 2: They're like that you don't think of this shit, because yeah, 406 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 2: you leaving is like we don't want you to do that. 407 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 2: But I had to make the decision of this for 408 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 2: me is a no brainer, Like if I have to 409 00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: lose money, I will lose money. I cannot not be 410 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:37,280 Speaker 2: there for because Angel got a bunch of angels, like 411 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 2: got the top English award of her class, Like they 412 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,719 Speaker 2: got all these awards. So anyway, long story short, I 413 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 2: had to drive six hours in the middle of the night. 414 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was car service. I got driven 415 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 2: in the middle of the night six hours. I left 416 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 2: at ten pm. I got home at four o'clock in 417 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 2: the morning. I slept for like an hour and a 418 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 2: half and then it got up because the ceremony was 419 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 2: at eight o'clock in the Ome. My gosh, I did 420 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 2: the ceremony and then I flew back to where I 421 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 2: had come from. Wow. That sacrifices you gotta make as 422 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,160 Speaker 2: a mod sacrifice. But sure, but as far as having 423 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 2: a baby, you're gonna be there. I remember when I 424 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 2: had I was pregnant with Grace and I was getting 425 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 2: ready to have a baby, and Jamal says to me, 426 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 2: because I was like forty weeks pregnant, Jama says to me, 427 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 2: he said, all right, I got this preaching gig and 428 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:28,479 Speaker 2: mohammas and you have what right in the what I 429 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:31,479 Speaker 2: told him, you go to the Bahamas if you want to, right, Bro, 430 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 2: if I had this baby and you're going, do not 431 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 2: come back, right, do not? He said, I don't have 432 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 2: a preaching engagement in the Bahamas. That's how that conversation 433 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:43,160 Speaker 2: with that fast. Right. So, I mean, you make sacrifices, 434 00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: but no, no one should get you shouldn't really have 435 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 2: an opinion about that. Kids come first, family comes first. Period. 436 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 2: Jobs are not more important. And as a parent, you 437 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,160 Speaker 2: got to wait the option of the of the coin, 438 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 2: like you know what I'm saying. I get that. So 439 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. 440 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 1: Okay, So what if the bag is like I mean, 441 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: you gotta got away in dollars? 442 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you wait, an option of like what are we doing? 443 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 2: Like can we stream it? 444 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 1: Like I can? 445 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 2: Can I stream it? I mean, you weigh the option, 446 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,920 Speaker 2: but there shouldn't be any judgment either way, right Yeah. 447 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 2: So and by the way, car service is expensive. Yeah. 448 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 2: Now now on the flip side, yes, car service, And 449 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 2: I didn't know that to drive six hours, yes, no 450 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 2: idea car service was expensive. If car service just to 451 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 2: pick you up from the airport and take you home 452 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: is over one hundred dollars, I didn't know none of that, 453 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,639 Speaker 2: literally until I had to come out of my pocket 454 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 2: for but like that six hours was fifteen hundred dollars. Wow, Yeah, 455 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 2: I had no idea. 456 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: I was. 457 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 2: I thought he was gonna say five hundred hit it. 458 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 1: Okay, But so in my opinion, if they were if 459 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 1: Rudy Gobert was playing in the in game seven of 460 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: the Championship, the Championship, the finals, you going to play 461 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: in that game, I'm sorry you're playing in that game? 462 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:02,640 Speaker 2: That's a tough call. That is tough super Bowl tough call. Yes, right, yeah, 463 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 2: things like that. It's like, okay, yes, we just have 464 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 2: to time the pregnancies. 465 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: I mean, because if you think about it, the kid 466 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 1: won't know that he wasn't there. 467 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:18,880 Speaker 2: But anyway, we're moving on, all right, So sage soul 468 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 2: flower eleven ass how do you deal with haters? Y'all know, 469 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 2: we love haters, haters. Who has haters? We love haters. 470 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 2: I don't know anything about Listen. Haters is actually what 471 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:33,400 Speaker 2: makes Twitter. 472 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 1: Work, very true, very true haters is haters are comical, 473 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 1: and I realized it's always comedy. 474 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,440 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna tell you how you do with haters. 475 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 1: We don't take haters personal because I don't like the 476 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: toxicity of them, Like I just don't like to read 477 00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:49,479 Speaker 1: that negative energy. And of course I realized that like 478 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: everybody has haters. 479 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 2: It could be a video. 480 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: On Instagram about blueberries, someone telling you to eat blueberries 481 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: because blueberries are healthy, and I promise you there'll be 482 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:07,479 Speaker 1: someone in the comments saying, but blueberries have pesticides And 483 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: how dare you tell me to eat blueberries because they 484 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like, and you're not an expert. 485 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 2: Look at you. It's what makes you think you are experts. 486 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 1: Yes, it's so crazy to see yes people trolling and 487 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: saying negative things to like regular everyday people. 488 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,120 Speaker 2: Every yes, every and that is how you should look 489 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 2: at it. Everyone has haters, Yes, it ain't just Giselle 490 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: and Robin. It's like every body has a hatur right, 491 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,439 Speaker 2: So I just I think they're funny. 492 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I laugh at it. But I am happy 493 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 1: to be kind of relieved of the super toxic haters 494 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 1: right now. 495 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 2: Oh, you're gonna you're gonna get pulled in and I 496 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: mark my word, and y'all let me know when y'all 497 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 2: see it. Are you ready? Yeah? So, at some point 498 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 2: the Royal Housewives of Potomac will come out, I mean, the 499 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 2: episodes will air and something crazy will happen and somebody 500 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 2: will say this because Robin's not on the show, this's 501 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 2: just Robin's fault. It's Robin's fault. I promise you they're 502 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 2: gonna blame it on Robin, right, Okay, just saying because 503 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 2: it's already happened, right, okay, moving on, moving on, Okay, 504 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 2: So I love when people are like when we say 505 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,880 Speaker 2: ask us anything, and they like straight up do so 506 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 2: G Money three two four seven seven said, how's it going? 507 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 2: They're on in to just say what you want to know? 508 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 2: How's it going? G Money? Yes, so Robin, how's it going? 509 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 2: It's going out. Yes, it's going well. And he says 510 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 2: he's gonna miss Robin of course, but how's it going? 511 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 2: How about I even answer, how's it going? How's right? 512 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 2: What is it right? Yeah? What's the it parting? It's 513 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: just going, yes, And I say, I'm I'm you know, 514 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 2: despite not being on season, I'm quite busy. Yeah, and 515 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 2: we are actually about to begin the build out construction 516 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 2: process of oh boom. Yeah. People can ask me about that, 517 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I'm not really sure. I think she's 518 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 2: still building out. So you're about to start that, Yeah, okay, 519 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 2: start that. 520 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 1: I mean, it's definitely a process just to get just 521 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: to get here. I mean I signed my lease in December, yeah, 522 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:27,199 Speaker 1: and now we're in June. So that was like, you know, 523 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: December it's like a wash because of the holidays and stuff, 524 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 1: so almost like don't even count December. So January to June, 525 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: it took that long for us to just get the 526 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 1: architectural plans drawn and approved and the permit issued, and 527 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 1: now my contractor is ready to hit the ground running. 528 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:49,360 Speaker 1: So and his timeline if we stay on course, shows 529 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,400 Speaker 1: with a completion in the middle of August. 530 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 2: Love that that's soon. Yeah okay, so okay, yeah. 531 00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, So now I got to hit the ground running. 532 00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: Like with my hiring my staff. 533 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:02,879 Speaker 2: That's going to say, you got to hire your staff 534 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 2: because I can't. I can't do injections and stuff for you. 535 00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 2: I can't work for your rabbit. I know you want 536 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 2: me to work for you, but it cannot be. But 537 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 2: I'll get some good people to do it. So yeah, 538 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 2: so it's busy, and then you know, kids, life, family, 539 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 2: it's good. Another thing I think that you should put 540 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 2: in there is like a makeup bar, like somebody in 541 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 2: there just like putting on makeup. 542 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, I might have space for that because I have, 543 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: especially in the beginning, because I have five treatment rooms, 544 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: and I just think, you know, a new business you 545 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: have to grow and build and so I probably won't 546 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: have five rooms utilized like every hour of the day, 547 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: so I probably can use one of those rooms. 548 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 2: For like a gland bar. Yeah. I love that, Like 549 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 2: some of that you can just run in there and 550 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 2: get your makeup done. People need that, right. I got 551 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 2: a good question. Yeah, this is from all things jzell 552 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 2: me me, me me, this is a good question. Okay, 553 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,080 Speaker 2: how did y'all manage to keep a solid friendship despite 554 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,639 Speaker 2: the reality TV curse? And I think we've kind of 555 00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 2: said this in a lot of ways and maybe knows 556 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 2: the answer to this, maybe, but okay. 557 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: But I think, I mean, we legitimately were friends before 558 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: we started. 559 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 2: We weren't. 560 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 1: You know, we're clearly a lot closer today, but we 561 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,879 Speaker 1: legitimately were friends, and we have a lot in common 562 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: and we just enjoy being around one another. And for us, 563 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: it's not a competition. I think what happens to a 564 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 1: lot of people on these shows is they get on 565 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: the shows and they they're in competition with one another, like, 566 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,479 Speaker 1: you know, they want to be everyone wants to be 567 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: the queen of the show where you know, the most. 568 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 2: Liked, and they want to pander to the fans and 569 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 2: get them on their side and all that type of stuff, 570 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 2: and so they end up doing stuff that's just really 571 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 2: not something that a real friend would do. For sure, 572 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 2: everyone has their own individual journey and their own individual lane. 573 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 2: So even if you're on a show, you have your lane, 574 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 2: which is you, right, so wrap that out and support everybody. 575 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 2: And yeah, I've you've totally supported me. I support you. 576 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 2: I think we're closer today more so than ever before. 577 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 2: Yeah for sure. Yeah, yeah, well, I mean, yeah, we've 578 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 2: been through a lot. 579 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 1: You know, we might have said stuff on the show 580 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 1: or that we didn't approve of or you know, always 581 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: support it, but we always still had each other's back. 582 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:33,719 Speaker 2: So hey, ni h e y n I why Haney 583 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 2: asked us about two pages worth questions? Okay, so we're 584 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 2: going to answer some of them, girl, but you didn't 585 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 2: ask a whole lot of questions. You're kind of being nosy, 586 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 2: but whatever, When is it time to leave a relationship? 587 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 2: If you're asking a question, it's now, okay, if you 588 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 2: ask that question, it's today, today's to day. Leave that thing? Okay, 589 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 2: that thing is over? That is yes, And you're even 590 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: thinking should I leave this relationship? The answers yes, yes, 591 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 2: out of there quick fast and in a hurry. Hit 592 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 2: yourself in another one, right yeah the end? Okay. How 593 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 2: do you make new friends as an adult? That's a 594 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 2: good question. Yeah, you don't but you do. We made 595 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 2: friends as adult, I think a lot of times, like 596 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 2: in our situation, we became we made friends through a 597 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 2: mutual friend. I think. 598 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: I think like the best way I almost think that's 599 00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 1: the best way for people to find new like partners 600 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: or people to date. A mutual friend, someone who knows someone. 601 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 2: Yes, introduces yeah, yeah, there needs to be like a connect. 602 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 2: So I think that as an adult, it's a good 603 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 2: way to make friends. Why buy if you have similar 604 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 2: interest like if you're in a bike club with the bikers, if. 605 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: Like football moms of the football moms and basketball moms, 606 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 1: like you know, you can become friends because you're like, hey, 607 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 1: let's go out, let's let's get the kids together, and 608 00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 1: you're sitting at the bar having a drink or whatever. 609 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 2: For sure. And so I was in St. Bart's for 610 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 2: the holidays and there was a girl there that me 611 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,320 Speaker 2: and Erica met and she has become our friend. She's 612 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 2: more so with Erica because she lives in Erica. But 613 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 2: like we have we have for the first of all, 614 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 2: if we're both in St. Barts around the holidays, we 615 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 2: have that in common, right, and that's something that we 616 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 2: both like to do. We can start there. So that's 617 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 2: a great way to make friends. So it's I think 618 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 2: it's easier a bit to make friends as adults because it's, 619 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 2: you know, you past the whole caddy bullshit of like 620 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 2: your twenties or your or the high school years. But 621 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 2: people still act like that, right, really yeah, real housewives, potomac, 622 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 2: but they still act like that. You just have to 623 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 2: get past it. But I think it's it's nice to 624 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 2: have adult friends. Yeah, it definitely is, and it makes sense. 625 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 1: Like if you have a common interest, I think it 626 00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: makes it easier because that's automatically something to talk about. Yeah, 627 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 1: and then you just go from there. 628 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,959 Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, hey ni, this is your last one that 629 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 2: we're doing for you. Okay. Thoughts on having a grand 630 00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 2: proposal but not having a wedding so I've never seen 631 00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 2: this before. Well, these are two different bank accounts, So 632 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 2: the proposal typically is the guy, right, So if he's 633 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 2: doing a grand proposal, that's his money. Okay, he's doing 634 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 2: the most right, caviar, balloons, whatever, helicopter, all the things 635 00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,880 Speaker 2: for the wedding. It depends on how old you are. 636 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 2: It's typically both of y'all's bank account, right, or just 637 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:37,800 Speaker 2: the bride's parents. Yes, so I mean you can literally 638 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,800 Speaker 2: have both because these are two different accounts here. Yeah. 639 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,239 Speaker 2: So I guess what she's saying that. 640 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: So when you see these proposals that are filmed and 641 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,640 Speaker 1: they're doing all these like theatrics and stuff, so do 642 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 1: all that, and then they don't have. 643 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 2: A wedding, or they have like a courthouse wedding. 644 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,240 Speaker 1: So let's say in this instance, they just have a 645 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 1: courthouse wedding, small wedding. Y. I guess that's what she's saying. 646 00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, or never get married. I don't know. I don't 647 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 2: believe in I don't believe in courthouse weddings, by the way, really, 648 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 2: I don't. I think that. And we've been to one. Yeah, 649 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 2: I just think it's just because we've been to one. 650 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, no, you could do better, just do better. 651 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 2: You could do it somewhere else, even you don't want 652 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 2: to spend any money. You can do better than the 653 00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 2: courthouse in the. 654 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 1: Court out, that's true. Yeah, yeah, you could have a 655 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 1: wedding in your backyard. 656 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 2: Or this is what I didn't like. It's a timed thing. 657 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 658 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 2: So you like. 659 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: Bring the next person and that's not special. Yeah, and 660 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 1: you and you feel like you're in court for Yes, 661 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 1: you just like the fourth slot of the day. 662 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that's not special. Yeah, yeah, I don't like that. 663 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's just say it's a wedding in the 664 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: backyard with you know, your mama and your cousins. 665 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 2: Right, But the proposal was over the top. I don't 666 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: think I personally don't think anything's wrong with that. I just, 667 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 2: you know, I think whatever float your boat. Some people 668 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 2: might not want to have a grand wedding and have 669 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 2: to deal with all the guests. 670 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know they they might want to keep 671 00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:57,600 Speaker 1: it intimate. 672 00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 673 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 1: I think it's nothing wrong with that. And the proposal. 674 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 1: It's the proposals about the two people, yeah, and the wedding, 675 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: and it'd be about the two people. 676 00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 2: And the prosal doesn't have to be grand. It doesn't 677 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:09,839 Speaker 2: have to be. But I got that questions like if 678 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,760 Speaker 2: it is grand, how you gonna have a grand proposal? 679 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,440 Speaker 2: You're gonna do all that and a whack wedding and 680 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 2: then you're gonna like have a wedding in your backyard 681 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 2: with five people. Listen, whatever flows your boat. Yeah, yeah, 682 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,359 Speaker 2: it's about you too. I don't think I don't have 683 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 2: no problems with that. Yeah. And the words of Robin Dixon, 684 00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 2: she gonna do it her way, yeah, and not like 685 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 2: traditional ways are out the window at this point. Yeah 686 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 2: for sure. Yeah. So do whatever makes you happy. Yeah. 687 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 2: And if you don't know what makes you happy, you 688 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:39,759 Speaker 2: shouldn't be getting married. Boom, I said it. Okay, So 689 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 2: how do you organize? It's good for you. We'll end 690 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 2: me too. How do you organize chores in your household? 691 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,279 Speaker 2: Or do you have a daily house cleaner? Or and 692 00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 2: I'm asking do you have you given the boys chores? Okay? 693 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,840 Speaker 1: So the boys the only thing they are supposed to 694 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 1: do is to take the trash and recycling out. 695 00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 2: That's the only chore. Okay, that's good. 696 00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, And they're supposed to be proactive about it, so 697 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 1: they don't. They should not have to wait for it 698 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: to be overflowing and for us to stay take the 699 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 1: trash of the trash out. 700 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 2: Okay. Corey is much better at that than Carter. 701 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: So Corey is trash, Carter is recycling, okay. And Corey 702 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 1: will see that the bag is filling up and he'll, 703 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,160 Speaker 1: you know, tie it up and put it in the 704 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: garbage can outside Carter will walk past the full recycle 705 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,600 Speaker 1: bin seventeen times, over and over and over and over 706 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 1: again until his father threatens him. 707 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 2: Right, this is why we've never had this conversation before. 708 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 2: I don't think so. And it's wild because my kids, 709 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 2: that's the that's the only chore too. Trash. So it 710 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 2: was Grace's responsibility until she went to college. Grace was 711 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,439 Speaker 2: trash girl. And then on Tuesdays the trash people come, 712 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 2: so we have like two bends. So the Angel had 713 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 2: to help her bring the trash cans up the up 714 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 2: the driveway. Yeah, okay. Grace went to college and she 715 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 2: informed everyone of the house her trash girl duties are over, 716 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:08,239 Speaker 2: and I passed them on to a door. Adoor is 717 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:12,320 Speaker 2: the worst trash girl under the sun. She sucks. Okay, 718 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:16,320 Speaker 2: why just Adore though, because Angel had already been helping 719 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 2: with on trash Day on Tuesday trash Day, so I 720 00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 2: was like a door, I ain't doing nothing a door 721 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 2: typically in the house, she does nothing. If I say, hey, guys, 722 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,840 Speaker 2: y'all need to clean up something, she oh, this is 723 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 2: funny too. She will all of a sudden get sick 724 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:35,680 Speaker 2: or she's like, oh my god, my stomach hurts so 725 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,879 Speaker 2: with the door, Like she likes to go out hang 726 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 2: out with her girlfriends. I'm like, you can't leave until 727 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 2: your room is clean. Send me a video. She sends 728 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 2: me videos, and she purposely doesn't doesn't show like the 729 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 2: big pile of clothes that are on the floor, Like 730 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 2: she has a big room. So the video like will 731 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 2: swing from left to right and then and then it'll 732 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:01,319 Speaker 2: stop and it'll pick up again, like, girl, who do 733 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 2: you think you're falling? So anyway, it's funny that is 734 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,359 Speaker 2: the door. And then but now she Graces back home 735 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 2: for the summer, so the door is like, I'm not 736 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 2: trash girl anymore, Grace, it's trash girl, And so they're 737 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 2: fighting about it. There's a trash by every day. 738 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 1: Because listen, your driveway is long, all right, but. 739 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:23,920 Speaker 2: You don't have to do that every day. Just take 740 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,359 Speaker 2: it outside to the trash can. Tuesday is the long 741 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 2: driveway day because you take it up top. But like 742 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 2: trash girl just takes the trash from the kitchen and 743 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:33,800 Speaker 2: puts it outside. 744 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 1: Take it out, and you have to take it up 745 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:36,800 Speaker 1: top and bring it back. 746 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 2: Then every day. Now that's just tuesdays. Trash on a 747 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,480 Speaker 2: normal day let's say it's a Monday or normal day. 748 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 2: You take the trash from the kitchen, yes, and you 749 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 2: take it outside. The trash cans are like not that 750 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 2: far from the door. Only on Tuesday, so that has 751 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,560 Speaker 2: to happen every day, right, that was Grace's job. And 752 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 2: then on Tuesday you have to walk it all the 753 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 2: way up and Angel would help her, okay, and then 754 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 2: who walks it back? The two of them, Angel and Grace. Okay, 755 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 2: A door had nothing to do. That's crazy. 756 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,360 Speaker 1: So now why wouldn't they They could have split that up. 757 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:09,839 Speaker 1: A door could have been bringing it. 758 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 2: Back all the thing. A door was like no, Mom 759 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,200 Speaker 2: said I'll have to do it. So now she is 760 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 2: a total trash girl and she's and because Grace is home, 761 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,640 Speaker 2: it's a big fight every day. Yeah, I'm gonna have 762 00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,759 Speaker 2: to put my foot down at some point. Yeah, that's 763 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 2: that's I understand why it's a fight though. Yeah, the 764 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,879 Speaker 2: driveway is long, and I mean, my little we gotta 765 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 2: take hours down the street. And they don't like my 766 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 2: kids don't like that, but yours is like it's ridiculous, 767 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 2: and it's like are they scared of are their animals 768 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:37,040 Speaker 2: out there? No? No, foxes, and there's there's Oh, I 769 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,840 Speaker 2: found a fox family. So I looked out. The back 770 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 2: of my house is like a lot of trees and grass. 771 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 2: The fox family was chilling in the grass. I saw 772 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,800 Speaker 2: like like babies. I saw two like they were playing 773 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,839 Speaker 2: with each other. And then I saw like a mom 774 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 2: pop her head out. O cute. So it's actually three 775 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 2: little ones and the mom. Okay, whole fox family. Very cute. Yeah, 776 00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:02,160 Speaker 2: all right. So, last but not least, it's souls. It's souls, 777 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,759 Speaker 2: I guess. Is her name? Not a question, but just 778 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,440 Speaker 2: sending lots of love from Trinidad? Is that the accent? 779 00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 1: Trina Trinidad, someone that we know that actually the person 780 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 1: that has been doing my lastly, she's from Trinidad. 781 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 2: So no, no, it's Trinidad. Yeah, that's it, Trinidad. Send 782 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 2: not a question, but just sending lots of love from Trinidad. 783 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 2: And then she said love y'all. Pod. That's it. No, 784 00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:44,879 Speaker 2: it's not that is the accent. Okay, So I want 785 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:49,320 Speaker 2: to let you know the old Man. It's on FX 786 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:53,200 Speaker 2: or Hulu. Very good. Okay, I've been watching. I've only 787 00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:57,359 Speaker 2: seen one episode. I'm probably gonna get into another one. 788 00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 2: Tonight maybe tomorrow night. But it's really good. Okay. Still 789 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 2: stuck on The Resident Okay on Netflix. Yeah, I'm liking 790 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 2: it's really in juicy. How are you watching multiple shows 791 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:11,960 Speaker 2: at once? Because The Resident is like six seasons. I 792 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,879 Speaker 2: can't just do that, really, I gotta switch it up. 793 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,240 Speaker 2: You see, I would be all confused. 794 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: I would be watching one show thinking that something from 795 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: the other show happened on the show. 796 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,520 Speaker 2: I'd be like, wait a minute, what happened? Okay. So, 797 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 2: and there's a new series, I mean a new season 798 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 2: of Bridgerton on Netflix. I don't know whether you watched 799 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 2: the first show. I've never watched. I'm a Bridgerton girl, 800 00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,480 Speaker 2: so I'm very excited about that. Okay, and so an 801 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 2: old man definitely checking that out. Guys, the first twenty 802 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 2: minutes you're confused, but then it's like boom, oh really 803 00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 2: already actually tell one he would like it? How many? 804 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 2: How many seasons? Season? I think it's two? Okay, maybe one, 805 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,560 Speaker 2: but so far, so good. And yeah, and then I 806 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,120 Speaker 2: check into The Resident. Wow, I'm like all around to 807 00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 2: all over the place show gun. Okay, did we talk 808 00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:58,400 Speaker 2: about that? 809 00:40:58,520 --> 00:40:58,600 Speaker 1: No? 810 00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 2: It was on FX. There's a lot of subtitles, darn exactly, 811 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:11,680 Speaker 2: so if you and you know what's so crazy. I 812 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 2: was having a conversation with Jason. My brother had told 813 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:16,359 Speaker 2: me about Shogun, So I said, did you have ever 814 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,600 Speaker 2: watch Shogun? He said, oh my god, I love Showgun. 815 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,440 Speaker 2: I said, why didn't you tell me about it? He said, 816 00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 2: because I didn't know whether you like to read. I said, 817 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 2: you're shady, Jason, and I'm educated and I know how 818 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,000 Speaker 2: to read. He's like, I didn't know if you were 819 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 2: that kind of girl. And I said that likes to read. 820 00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 2: Actually I am, so I told him he's shady. And 821 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 2: I watched it and it was really good, except the 822 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 2: ending was a little weird. 823 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:48,320 Speaker 1: So it's subtitles because it's in another language, or because 824 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 1: like it's just hard to understand it. 825 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 2: Is in another lie's it's comes it goes back and 826 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:55,640 Speaker 2: forth from English to they speak English, and I guess Mandarin. Okay, 827 00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 2: in the whole season, and yeah, I enjoyed it. Not 828 00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,320 Speaker 2: for you, but I alljoined it because I don't know 829 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 2: if you read either. Now you're a reader, Robin. I 830 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,799 Speaker 2: am not a reader, but I am capable. I'm quite 831 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:12,799 Speaker 2: capable of reading. Oh you are, yes, Okay, all right, 832 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 2: that is our episode. Guys, We love y'all so much. 833 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,439 Speaker 2: Don't ever forget to read and live your life. You're 834 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 2: reasonable or shady or both. By Reasonably Shady is a 835 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,720 Speaker 2: production of the Black Effect podcast Network. 836 00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 837 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows 838 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,319 Speaker 2: And you can connect with us on social media at 839 00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:52,799 Speaker 2: Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady.