Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date up date. Susanne is on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second date update today, and after reading
Speaker 1: her email and the description of her first date, it
Speaker 1: sounds horrible. It sounds like the worst date ever, but
Speaker 1: also hilarious at the same time. So okay, I'll just
Speaker 1: let her tell. It's Susanne. How are you hi? I'm good.
Speaker 1: How are you good? Have you gotten sleep? Finally? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was able to catch up. Yeah. I read the
Speaker 1: description of your date and I'm like, man, I can't
Speaker 1: tell if that would be fun or just like the
Speaker 1: worst thing ever. So before we get into what you
Speaker 1: did on your date, why don't you tell us about
Speaker 1: guy you want to call? Was his name George? George?
Speaker 1: All right? And where did you meet George? I'm tender. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's where most people already were the worst date ever?
Speaker 1: Oh come on, I take it you had high hopes
Speaker 1: for this date though, Yeah, no, because he was very funny,
Speaker 1: Like we message back and forth a little bit, and
Speaker 1: like picture was cute. I don't know. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be fun. Okay, Oh good? And so where
Speaker 1: do you guys agree to meet out at? We decided
Speaker 1: to go rock climbing, which I'm not like a huge
Speaker 1: fan of because like you had to wear the straps thing.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like it's not flattering look, But I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, you know, I've never done that before
Speaker 1: for a date. So, so did you guys go to
Speaker 1: a climbing gym or were we actually outside? I know
Speaker 1: we wrote it like a gym, which was probably better. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it was actually really fun, Like it was a
Speaker 1: fun way to like kind of hang out, and because
Speaker 1: like we talked a lot, but also we're doing like
Speaker 1: kind of focused on something else. I wasn't nervous, right,
Speaker 1: And then after it was over, he was like, do
Speaker 1: you want to get dinner? And well, that's a good
Speaker 1: sign that you guys didn't have that planned and he
Speaker 1: wanted to continue to hang out with you. Did you
Speaker 1: keep wearing the harness at dinner? Um? No, they wouldn't
Speaker 1: let me take it with me. Okay, but dinner was
Speaker 1: good and I was great. We had a couple of
Speaker 1: drinks and like by this point we've been hanging out
Speaker 1: for like like six or seven hours. Yeah, and he's like,
Speaker 1: I just want to keep hanging out with you a
Speaker 1: period of time. I was like okay, great. So we
Speaker 1: went to his house and we ended up watching the
Speaker 1: whole first season of Person right together. The whole first season.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you were like twenty four hours into this
Speaker 1: date your double as if you were still tired. I know.
Speaker 1: So yeah, like, we watched this whole thing and it's
Speaker 1: just very It's very fun because it's like one of
Speaker 1: my favorite shows. Like it's very casual at his place,
Speaker 1: and by the time it ends, it's like two thirty
Speaker 1: in the morning. It's very great. But then he's like, hey,
Speaker 1: I have an idea. What if we do a twenty
Speaker 1: four hour date? What I was joking, I was like,
Speaker 1: what does that mean? Like do I get to sleep
Speaker 1: and then we go out again or what's happening? He
Speaker 1: was like, no, we'll just stay up for twenty four
Speaker 1: hours straight on this date. And you're sure he's not
Speaker 1: sort of some drug addict and has a meth problem
Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, this will keep you up. Oh good,
Speaker 1: that would be like a terrible turn. It was just
Speaker 1: like you know when you meet someone and you're like, wow,
Speaker 1: we're really clicking. This is working. Oh my god, that's
Speaker 1: kind of cute. Would you guys do we made froze pizza,
Speaker 1: and then we watched another season of Perks and Right,
Speaker 1: and that gives us like, I don't know, it's like
Speaker 1: the sun is coming up, and at this point I'm
Speaker 1: just like, I'm like, I'm trying to feel gross, Like
Speaker 1: I'm still like in the clothes I wore to the
Speaker 1: rock climbing gym. Right, you haven't even showered. Yeah, I know,
Speaker 1: it's all growth. And I was like, I should probably
Speaker 1: go home, and he was like, no, I'm on a quitter.
Speaker 1: Are you a quitter? Like? I guess that we obviously
Speaker 1: liked you if you wanted to spend twenty four hours
Speaker 1: straight with you, or he was just illusional at that
Speaker 1: point when he asked, I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think we both were like I had gotten to
Speaker 1: like that sleep deprived kind of crazy place. Okay, at
Speaker 1: this point six in the morning, you plushed two seasons
Speaker 1: and Parks and wreck you wait and pizza. Have you
Speaker 1: made out at all? Not really? I mean like were
Speaker 1: like kissed a couple of times and that was good,
Speaker 1: but it's not really good that kind of it's just
Speaker 1: one on one hanging out time. Yeah, So what happened?
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, fine, He like makes us a
Speaker 1: big thing of coffee and we drink a bunch of
Speaker 1: coffee and then he's like, let's go to the the park.
Speaker 1: But what am I doing? Yeah? It sounds just terrible
Speaker 1: at this point, Are you guys both still happier? You
Speaker 1: just forcing this to happen at this point, Like every
Speaker 1: now and then, I'd be like, oh, this is still fun.
Speaker 1: This is still the person I liked fourteen hours ago,
Speaker 1: I think, but then it just felt sometimes we were
Speaker 1: just like, let's just blow through this kind of forced
Speaker 1: fun thing. And so we went and he was like,
Speaker 1: let's play frisbee, and we tried to play frisbee and like,
Speaker 1: I was just my motor skills are just stupid at
Speaker 1: that point. Yeah, so he was like, wake you go
Speaker 1: for a walk? We like, I I really think I
Speaker 1: need to go home. Like I tried to be very
Speaker 1: nice about it. I was like, I'm just gonna get
Speaker 1: it over and then he gets mad and I get mad,
Speaker 1: and honestly, like at this point, I was so tired
Speaker 1: and there was yelling and I was at one point
Speaker 1: I was like, you're a liar and I didn't even
Speaker 1: know why, Like you were you guys are both just exhausted,
Speaker 1: sleep deprived, and end of the day by arguing, why
Speaker 1: do you want to call this guy for a second date?
Speaker 1: It sounds like it ended horribly well in but I
Speaker 1: really do like him. If we had just cut it
Speaker 1: off at like ten thirty or even a like after
Speaker 1: the personal backtime, I would have been like, that was great.
Speaker 1: That was such a good date. You know, I would
Speaker 1: love to see him again and just have a normal,
Speaker 1: you know, like three and a half hour date. So
Speaker 1: at the end of your date where you argue you're
Speaker 1: kind of chocking that up to you guys being tired
Speaker 1: and not him being in a hole. Yeah, because I
Speaker 1: was also any hole. Okay, you're a liar? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean when you've been up for that long, who knows, right? Yeah? Okay?
Speaker 1: And have you talked to him since? No? I gave
Speaker 1: it a couple of days, so I texted him and
Speaker 1: the response at all, well, we'll play a song and
Speaker 1: then come back and call him and get your second
Speaker 1: day up date. Okay, okay, all right, hanging brooking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning, if you're just joining us for today
Speaker 1: a second day update. Suzanne is on the phone and
Speaker 1: she wants to call a dude named George. She wants
Speaker 1: everybody to know they did not sleep together on their
Speaker 1: first date, not at all. Actually didn't even sleep on
Speaker 1: their first date. If you missed the first part she
Speaker 1: told us about her date with George, it actually started
Speaker 1: off pretty normal. They just went rock climbing together, and
Speaker 1: then they had dinner and drinks. That turned into watching
Speaker 1: TV at his house, which turned into, hey, let's stay
Speaker 1: up for twenty four hours, like a couple of kids
Speaker 1: having a slumber party that don't want to go to bed,
Speaker 1: And she tried to make it to twenty four hours,
Speaker 1: and at a certain point Suzanne was tired and wanted
Speaker 1: to go home, and then they got in an argument
Speaker 1: because he was upset that she couldn't complete the full
Speaker 1: twenty four hour date. But she wants to call him
Speaker 1: anyway and see if they can have just a normal, regular,
Speaker 1: you know, a few hour date, and we'll see if
Speaker 1: that can happen. All right, Susanne? You ready? Yeah? I'm ready? Sorry? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're still tired. I'm like reliving it all on my head.
Speaker 1: I didn't ask. I mean, you said you did send
Speaker 1: him a text message that he didn't respond to did
Speaker 1: you apologize for screaming at him? You're a liar? Yeah? Absolutely,
Speaker 1: okay and no no response at all. That's not good.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, no no response. Okay, Well I'm gonna ca
Speaker 1: him right now. Here we go, Hello him, I speak
Speaker 1: to George please, this is him. Hey George, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: do you have any idea what that is? I think
Speaker 1: I've seen a billboard maybe probably not. Okay, Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: Any idea why I'm calling you today? I can't say
Speaker 1: I do. No. Do you want to know or should
Speaker 1: we just hang up? I would love to know. Going on, Well,
Speaker 1: we got an email about you from one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm calling okay. Her name is Suzanne. Suzanne, yes, okay,
Speaker 1: and you guys went out on a very long date recently.
Speaker 1: That what she said. That is what she said. She
Speaker 1: emailed us. So we do a segment on our show
Speaker 1: called the Second Date Updates, where if you go out
Speaker 1: on a date with somebody and then end up not
Speaker 1: calling them back, they can email us to get you
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what happened. So Suzanne
Speaker 1: told us about how your regular date turned into like
Speaker 1: a twenty four hour thing, and she told us that
Speaker 1: she couldn't really make it the full twenty four hours.
Speaker 1: And then you guys got in an argument after, and
Speaker 1: she tried to text you and apologize and would actually
Speaker 1: like to go out with you again, but you haven't responded.
Speaker 1: So she's wondering if she did something wrong. Well, she
Speaker 1: didn't make it the full twenty four hours? What she
Speaker 1: did wrong? Wait, are you joking right? I'm not joking too,
Speaker 1: because she wanted to leave after. I mean, no, I
Speaker 1: don't even know what hour you guys were in. I
Speaker 1: think it was like eleven o'clock in the morning. She said, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was around eleven thirty. And that's why you're upset. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean we made a pack, we did the whole
Speaker 1: pinky promise then and she broke the pack. So no,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would like to see her again,
Speaker 1: but you can understand it that. I mean, twenty four
Speaker 1: hours is a long time to stay up. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: twenty four hours, it's a long time. But I've done
Speaker 1: it before. Okay, I did it with a girl once
Speaker 1: and we made it twenty nine hours. But it's not impossible.
Speaker 1: It's my way of weaving people out that aren't going
Speaker 1: to follow through on things. Why would I want to
Speaker 1: waste my time with someone who isn't going to commit
Speaker 1: you know, wait, hold on, hold on. It's yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like a test that you do with with all dates
Speaker 1: or some dates. What's the story here? Not at all dates.
Speaker 1: But if I feel that there is a lot of
Speaker 1: potential in somebody, then I say, okay, well maybe we
Speaker 1: should try the twenty four hour dates. And it's worked before.
Speaker 1: Unfortunately that relationship did not end up going so well.
Speaker 1: But I figured, you know, Susanne is really good. I
Speaker 1: like our connection. You know, we watched Parks and Wreck.
Speaker 1: We could totally make it twenty four hours. Clearly she
Speaker 1: could not. Okay, so that's that's that's legit. The reason
Speaker 1: why is that she didn't make it an entire twenty
Speaker 1: four hours. It sounds like she got close. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: more than her not making it twenty four hours. She
Speaker 1: a quitter? What Yeah, that's I mean, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: She really likes you, and you obviously liked her enough
Speaker 1: to put her through whatever weird tests you have. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why. That's why it was really hard for me.
Speaker 1: That's why we got into such a big argument, because
Speaker 1: I really did have a wonderful time with her. And
Speaker 1: I mean, if you like someone enough to hang out
Speaker 1: with them for twenty four hours, your body can do it.
Speaker 1: Your mind is stronger than your body. I was able
Speaker 1: to do it, I was going to do it. She
Speaker 1: clearly did not like me enough to be able to
Speaker 1: do it. That is really I'm married and I couldn't
Speaker 1: do that with my husband. Do you two have commitment issues? Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: for sure. I mean, anybody who can stay for twenty
Speaker 1: four straight hours committed, so you just it's a character
Speaker 1: flaw for you that she wasn't able to make it
Speaker 1: to twenty four hours. Exactly How am I supposed to
Speaker 1: trust in her and commit to her if she can't
Speaker 1: even commit to twenty four hours of being together? I mean,
Speaker 1: I know anyone else that has this test, and they
Speaker 1: all seem to be able to stay in a committed relationship. Listen.
Speaker 1: I know I am obviously a little different, and you
Speaker 1: guys don't agree with how I do things, but I've
Speaker 1: had lots of issues in the past. This is how
Speaker 1: I do it. It sucks, but that's just how things go.
Speaker 1: Oh Mankay, Well you know what else sucks with us
Speaker 1: kind of how things go is I'm a liar and
Speaker 1: I lied to you at the beginning of this because
Speaker 1: Susanne is actually on the other line and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Oh God, what do you want, Susanne?
Speaker 1: Whoa Wow? Okay, I thought I was calling to get
Speaker 1: you to go out with me on a second date.
Speaker 1: Oh well, I mean we never even completed the first date,
Speaker 1: so I'm not sure how we could get through a
Speaker 1: second date without, you know, going chronologically. I apologize about that,
Speaker 1: and I also apologize for high left. I told you
Speaker 1: I was sorry, so sorry that you're having to go
Speaker 1: through a radio show. Come on, Suzanne, You're more committed
Speaker 1: to getting attention through a radio show than just like
Speaker 1: admitting to twenty four hours. Wow, okay, that is not no.
Speaker 1: I was very committed. It's not like I trained for
Speaker 1: this advance and it failed. It was a very promin
Speaker 1: clearly clearly it's not too much work to go through
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewby or whatever. That's fine. I really tried. Okay,
Speaker 1: it just wasn't fun. Anymore. I just was tired and
Speaker 1: I wanted to go home and take shower and and
Speaker 1: rest you and maybe there was an end in sight.
Speaker 1: What's it going to be like if we ever got
Speaker 1: into a relationship, it did okay? If I just like
Speaker 1: try not to cheat but end up looking up. Sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: I couldn't make it. That's not a comparison. We were
Speaker 1: literally together for like eighteen hours straight. Like I feel
Speaker 1: like that's so you couldn't make six hours more, George,
Speaker 1: I think you need to slow down, Like you could
Speaker 1: be missing out on something really great. Yeah, commitment's important
Speaker 1: in a relationship, but so is flexibility and compromise and
Speaker 1: the ability to listen to someone else's needs. And her
Speaker 1: need was to go to sleep. I am a very
Speaker 1: busy person. I don't have much time to be with
Speaker 1: people who aren't going to be what I need. You understand, okay,
Speaker 1: And you need someone who doesn't sleep exactly. I mean, Suzanne,
Speaker 1: I was having a wonderful time. That's why it hurt
Speaker 1: me so much. We were having a great time, and
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, you just
Speaker 1: start yelling at me, calling me a liar for some reason,
Speaker 1: and and it broke me. It was you was stabbing
Speaker 1: me in my heart. I saw a real future with you,
Speaker 1: and then you just completely shattered that dream. Not exactly.
Speaker 1: You don't really operate in the middle on much, do you, George.
Speaker 1: It's kind of extremely on everything. You might call it extreme,
Speaker 1: might call it definite. I don't want to day to quitter.
Speaker 1: What Okay? You know what, then maybe we should just
Speaker 1: not do this, or or we could ask George, George,
Speaker 1: would you like to about with Susanne on a second date?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it, you know what. No, it
Speaker 1: sounds like she's quitting on the call too, so I
Speaker 1: think I'm fine. Oh my gosh, Susanne dodged a bullet,
Speaker 1: I think so wow. Oh look, she can't follow through
Speaker 1: on anything. She can't follow through on the phone call,
Speaker 1: can't follow through. I'm playing frisbee? What's next through? I'm
Speaker 1: playing Frisbee? Yeah, Susanne, you know, I'm sorry that you
Speaker 1: didn't get a second date, and well, hopefully you can
Speaker 1: dig deep and find some kind of work ethic and
Speaker 1: not give up on things you know so easily. George,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I didn't like live up to your expectations,
Speaker 1: but maybe you can find like someone who's I don't know,
Speaker 1: like addicted to adderall early. There you go, George, You
Speaker 1: know what if that's what it thinks, that's what all right,
Speaker 1: If there are any adderall addicts out there who want
Speaker 1: to day George texting seven eighty five nine too broken
Speaker 1: Jewil in the morning