WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: 24hr Date

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date up date. Susanne is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update today, and after reading

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<v Speaker 1>her email and the description of her first date, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds horrible. It sounds like the worst date ever, but

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<v Speaker 1>also hilarious at the same time. So okay, I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>let her tell. It's Susanne. How are you hi? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you good? Have you gotten sleep? Finally? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to catch up. Yeah. I read the

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<v Speaker 1>description of your date and I'm like, man, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell if that would be fun or just like the

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<v Speaker 1>worst thing ever. So before we get into what you

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<v Speaker 1>did on your date, why don't you tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>guy you want to call? Was his name George? George?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? And where did you meet George? I'm tender. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where most people already were the worst date ever?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh come on, I take it you had high hopes

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<v Speaker 1>for this date though, Yeah, no, because he was very funny,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we message back and forth a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>like picture was cute. I don't know. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be fun. Okay, Oh good? And so where

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<v Speaker 1>do you guys agree to meet out at? We decided

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<v Speaker 1>to go rock climbing, which I'm not like a huge

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<v Speaker 1>fan of because like you had to wear the straps thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like it's not flattering look, But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, you know, I've never done that before

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<v Speaker 1>for a date. So, so did you guys go to

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<v Speaker 1>a climbing gym or were we actually outside? I know

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<v Speaker 1>we wrote it like a gym, which was probably better. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was actually really fun, Like it was a

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<v Speaker 1>fun way to like kind of hang out, and because

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<v Speaker 1>like we talked a lot, but also we're doing like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of focused on something else. I wasn't nervous, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And then after it was over, he was like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to get dinner? And well, that's a good

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<v Speaker 1>sign that you guys didn't have that planned and he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to continue to hang out with you. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>keep wearing the harness at dinner? Um? No, they wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>let me take it with me. Okay, but dinner was

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<v Speaker 1>good and I was great. We had a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and like by this point we've been hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>for like like six or seven hours. Yeah, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to keep hanging out with you a

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<v Speaker 1>period of time. I was like okay, great. So we

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<v Speaker 1>went to his house and we ended up watching the

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<v Speaker 1>whole first season of Person right together. The whole first season.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, you were like twenty four hours into this

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<v Speaker 1>date your double as if you were still tired. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, like, we watched this whole thing and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just very It's very fun because it's like one of

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite shows. Like it's very casual at his place,

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<v Speaker 1>and by the time it ends, it's like two thirty

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. It's very great. But then he's like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I have an idea. What if we do a twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four hour date? What I was joking, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what does that mean? Like do I get to sleep

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<v Speaker 1>and then we go out again or what's happening? He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, we'll just stay up for twenty four

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<v Speaker 1>hours straight on this date. And you're sure he's not

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<v Speaker 1>sort of some drug addict and has a meth problem

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Yeah, this will keep you up. Oh good,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be like a terrible turn. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>like you know when you meet someone and you're like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>we're really clicking. This is working. Oh my god, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cute. Would you guys do we made froze pizza,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we watched another season of Perks and Right,

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<v Speaker 1>and that gives us like, I don't know, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>the sun is coming up, and at this point I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I'm like, I'm trying to feel gross, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still like in the clothes I wore to the

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<v Speaker 1>rock climbing gym. Right, you haven't even showered. Yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all growth. And I was like, I should probably

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<v Speaker 1>go home, and he was like, no, I'm on a quitter.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you a quitter? Like? I guess that we obviously

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<v Speaker 1>liked you if you wanted to spend twenty four hours

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<v Speaker 1>straight with you, or he was just illusional at that

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<v Speaker 1>point when he asked, I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we both were like I had gotten to

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<v Speaker 1>like that sleep deprived kind of crazy place. Okay, at

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<v Speaker 1>this point six in the morning, you plushed two seasons

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<v Speaker 1>and Parks and wreck you wait and pizza. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>made out at all? Not really? I mean like were

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<v Speaker 1>like kissed a couple of times and that was good,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not really good that kind of it's just

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<v Speaker 1>one on one hanging out time. Yeah, So what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, okay, fine, He like makes us a

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<v Speaker 1>big thing of coffee and we drink a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>coffee and then he's like, let's go to the the park.

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<v Speaker 1>But what am I doing? Yeah? It sounds just terrible

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, Are you guys both still happier? You

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<v Speaker 1>just forcing this to happen at this point, Like every

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<v Speaker 1>now and then, I'd be like, oh, this is still fun.

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<v Speaker 1>This is still the person I liked fourteen hours ago,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, but then it just felt sometimes we were

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<v Speaker 1>just like, let's just blow through this kind of forced

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<v Speaker 1>fun thing. And so we went and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's play frisbee, and we tried to play frisbee and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just my motor skills are just stupid at

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<v Speaker 1>that point. Yeah, so he was like, wake you go

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<v Speaker 1>for a walk? We like, I I really think I

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<v Speaker 1>need to go home. Like I tried to be very

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<v Speaker 1>nice about it. I was like, I'm just gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>it over and then he gets mad and I get mad,

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly, like at this point, I was so tired

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<v Speaker 1>and there was yelling and I was at one point

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you're a liar and I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know why, Like you were you guys are both just exhausted,

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<v Speaker 1>sleep deprived, and end of the day by arguing, why

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to call this guy for a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like it ended horribly well in but I

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<v Speaker 1>really do like him. If we had just cut it

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<v Speaker 1>off at like ten thirty or even a like after

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<v Speaker 1>the personal backtime, I would have been like, that was great.

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<v Speaker 1>That was such a good date. You know, I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to see him again and just have a normal,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like three and a half hour date. So

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of your date where you argue you're

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<v Speaker 1>kind of chocking that up to you guys being tired

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<v Speaker 1>and not him being in a hole. Yeah, because I

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<v Speaker 1>was also any hole. Okay, you're a liar? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean when you've been up for that long, who knows, right? Yeah? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And have you talked to him since? No? I gave

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<v Speaker 1>it a couple of days, so I texted him and

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<v Speaker 1>the response at all, well, we'll play a song and

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<v Speaker 1>then come back and call him and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>day up date. Okay, okay, all right, hanging brooking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, if you're just joining us for today

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update. Suzanne is on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to call a dude named George. She wants

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<v Speaker 1>everybody to know they did not sleep together on their

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<v Speaker 1>first date, not at all. Actually didn't even sleep on

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<v Speaker 1>their first date. If you missed the first part she

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<v Speaker 1>told us about her date with George, it actually started

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<v Speaker 1>off pretty normal. They just went rock climbing together, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they had dinner and drinks. That turned into watching

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<v Speaker 1>TV at his house, which turned into, hey, let's stay

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<v Speaker 1>up for twenty four hours, like a couple of kids

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<v Speaker 1>having a slumber party that don't want to go to bed,

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<v Speaker 1>And she tried to make it to twenty four hours,

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<v Speaker 1>and at a certain point Suzanne was tired and wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go home, and then they got in an argument

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<v Speaker 1>because he was upset that she couldn't complete the full

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hour date. But she wants to call him

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<v Speaker 1>anyway and see if they can have just a normal, regular,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a few hour date, and we'll see if

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<v Speaker 1>that can happen. All right, Susanne? You ready? Yeah? I'm ready? Sorry? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still tired. I'm like reliving it all on my head.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't ask. I mean, you said you did send

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<v Speaker 1>him a text message that he didn't respond to did

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<v Speaker 1>you apologize for screaming at him? You're a liar? Yeah? Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>okay and no no response at all. That's not good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, no no response. Okay, Well I'm gonna ca

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<v Speaker 1>him right now. Here we go, Hello him, I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to George please, this is him. Hey George, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have any idea what that is? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen a billboard maybe probably not. Okay, Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Any idea why I'm calling you today? I can't say

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<v Speaker 1>I do. No. Do you want to know or should

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<v Speaker 1>we just hang up? I would love to know. Going on, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we got an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm calling okay. Her name is Suzanne. Suzanne, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys went out on a very long date recently.

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<v Speaker 1>That what she said. That is what she said. She

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us. So we do a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called the Second Date Updates, where if you go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with somebody and then end up not

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<v Speaker 1>calling them back, they can email us to get you

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out what happened. So Suzanne

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<v Speaker 1>told us about how your regular date turned into like

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<v Speaker 1>a twenty four hour thing, and she told us that

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<v Speaker 1>she couldn't really make it the full twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you guys got in an argument after, and

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<v Speaker 1>she tried to text you and apologize and would actually

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with you again, but you haven't responded.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's wondering if she did something wrong. Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't make it the full twenty four hours? What she

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<v Speaker 1>did wrong? Wait, are you joking right? I'm not joking too,

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<v Speaker 1>because she wanted to leave after. I mean, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what hour you guys were in. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was like eleven o'clock in the morning. She said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was around eleven thirty. And that's why you're upset. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we made a pack, we did the whole

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<v Speaker 1>pinky promise then and she broke the pack. So no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I would like to see her again,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can understand it that. I mean, twenty four

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<v Speaker 1>hours is a long time to stay up. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours, it's a long time. But I've done

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<v Speaker 1>it before. Okay, I did it with a girl once

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<v Speaker 1>and we made it twenty nine hours. But it's not impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my way of weaving people out that aren't going

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<v Speaker 1>to follow through on things. Why would I want to

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<v Speaker 1>waste my time with someone who isn't going to commit

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wait, hold on, hold on. It's yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a test that you do with with all dates

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<v Speaker 1>or some dates. What's the story here? Not at all dates.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I feel that there is a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>potential in somebody, then I say, okay, well maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>should try the twenty four hour dates. And it's worked before.

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<v Speaker 1>Unfortunately that relationship did not end up going so well.

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<v Speaker 1>But I figured, you know, Susanne is really good. I

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<v Speaker 1>like our connection. You know, we watched Parks and Wreck.

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<v Speaker 1>We could totally make it twenty four hours. Clearly she

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<v Speaker 1>could not. Okay, so that's that's that's legit. The reason

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<v Speaker 1>why is that she didn't make it an entire twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four hours. It sounds like she got close. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>more than her not making it twenty four hours. She

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<v Speaker 1>a quitter? What Yeah, that's I mean, here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>She really likes you, and you obviously liked her enough

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<v Speaker 1>to put her through whatever weird tests you have. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why. That's why it was really hard for me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why we got into such a big argument, because

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<v Speaker 1>I really did have a wonderful time with her. And

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you like someone enough to hang out

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<v Speaker 1>with them for twenty four hours, your body can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Your mind is stronger than your body. I was able

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<v Speaker 1>to do it, I was going to do it. She

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<v Speaker 1>clearly did not like me enough to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. That is really I'm married and I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that with my husband. Do you two have commitment issues? Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. I mean, anybody who can stay for twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four straight hours committed, so you just it's a character

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<v Speaker 1>flaw for you that she wasn't able to make it

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<v Speaker 1>to twenty four hours. Exactly How am I supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>trust in her and commit to her if she can't

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<v Speaker 1>even commit to twenty four hours of being together? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I know anyone else that has this test, and they

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<v Speaker 1>all seem to be able to stay in a committed relationship. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I am obviously a little different, and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys don't agree with how I do things, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>had lots of issues in the past. This is how

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<v Speaker 1>I do it. It sucks, but that's just how things go.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Mankay, Well you know what else sucks with us

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<v Speaker 1>kind of how things go is I'm a liar and

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<v Speaker 1>I lied to you at the beginning of this because

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<v Speaker 1>Susanne is actually on the other line and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Oh God, what do you want, Susanne?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa Wow? Okay, I thought I was calling to get

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<v Speaker 1>you to go out with me on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, I mean we never even completed the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not sure how we could get through a

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<v Speaker 1>second date without, you know, going chronologically. I apologize about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I also apologize for high left. I told you

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<v Speaker 1>I was sorry, so sorry that you're having to go

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<v Speaker 1>through a radio show. Come on, Suzanne, You're more committed

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<v Speaker 1>to getting attention through a radio show than just like

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<v Speaker 1>admitting to twenty four hours. Wow, okay, that is not no.

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<v Speaker 1>I was very committed. It's not like I trained for

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<v Speaker 1>this advance and it failed. It was a very promin

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<v Speaker 1>clearly clearly it's not too much work to go through

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewby or whatever. That's fine. I really tried. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it just wasn't fun. Anymore. I just was tired and

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go home and take shower and and

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<v Speaker 1>rest you and maybe there was an end in sight.

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<v Speaker 1>What's it going to be like if we ever got

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<v Speaker 1>into a relationship, it did okay? If I just like

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<v Speaker 1>try not to cheat but end up looking up. Sorry, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't make it. That's not a comparison. We were

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<v Speaker 1>literally together for like eighteen hours straight. Like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that's so you couldn't make six hours more, George,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you need to slow down, Like you could

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<v Speaker 1>be missing out on something really great. Yeah, commitment's important

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, but so is flexibility and compromise and

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<v Speaker 1>the ability to listen to someone else's needs. And her

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<v Speaker 1>need was to go to sleep. I am a very

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<v Speaker 1>busy person. I don't have much time to be with

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<v Speaker 1>people who aren't going to be what I need. You understand, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you need someone who doesn't sleep exactly. I mean, Suzanne,

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<v Speaker 1>I was having a wonderful time. That's why it hurt

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<v Speaker 1>me so much. We were having a great time, and

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, you just

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<v Speaker 1>start yelling at me, calling me a liar for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>and and it broke me. It was you was stabbing

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<v Speaker 1>me in my heart. I saw a real future with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you just completely shattered that dream. Not exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't really operate in the middle on much, do you, George.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of extremely on everything. You might call it extreme,

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<v Speaker 1>might call it definite. I don't want to day to quitter.

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<v Speaker 1>What Okay? You know what, then maybe we should just

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<v Speaker 1>not do this, or or we could ask George, George,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to about with Susanne on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it, you know what. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like she's quitting on the call too, so I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm fine. Oh my gosh, Susanne dodged a bullet,

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<v Speaker 1>I think so wow. Oh look, she can't follow through

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<v Speaker 1>on anything. She can't follow through on the phone call,

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<v Speaker 1>can't follow through. I'm playing frisbee? What's next through? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>playing Frisbee? Yeah, Susanne, you know, I'm sorry that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get a second date, and well, hopefully you can

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<v Speaker 1>dig deep and find some kind of work ethic and

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<v Speaker 1>not give up on things you know so easily. George,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry I didn't like live up to your expectations,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe you can find like someone who's I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like addicted to adderall early. There you go, George, You

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<v Speaker 1>know what if that's what it thinks, that's what all right,

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<v Speaker 1>If there are any adderall addicts out there who want

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<v Speaker 1>to day George texting seven eighty five nine too broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the morning