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Speaker 1: It is time right now to ask the clo our

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Speaker 1: chief love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. This is

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Speaker 1: from Bow and Roanoke. Bow writes, my wife borrowed money

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Speaker 1: from her dad to get my birthday present. I didn't

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Speaker 1: know until her dad made a snide remark about me

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Speaker 1: having better suits than him. I feel like a failure

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Speaker 1: because he's holding it over my head. Should I pay

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Speaker 1: him the money back myself?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? If it's bothering you like that, have some dignity

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Speaker 2: pay him back?

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Speaker 1: And what should he say with that? You go your

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Speaker 1: money because he made that remark, the dad.

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Speaker 3: Or just you know, I just you know, Hey man,

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Speaker 3: hey pop, appreciate what you did.

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Speaker 2: Man, Now go get yourself a suit.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well.

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Speaker 3: What you're not gonna do is you're not finna staying

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Speaker 3: me every time you see me buy some suit.

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Speaker 1: Well, what is the pop saying to him?

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Speaker 2: What is he saying?

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Speaker 3: Ah, I see got self a new suit. Huh that's

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Speaker 3: better suit than one will where you got that money.

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Speaker 2: From every time.

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Speaker 1: On site?

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Speaker 3: Must be nice, Must be nice. Get a suit like

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Speaker 3: that for your birthday.

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Speaker 2: All of you? Okay, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Felipa.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we will invite you all over to dinner. Wear

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Speaker 2: your suit.

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Speaker 1: You know it every time?

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Speaker 2: All right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Felita Felita, and Jonesborough writes, my fifty

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Speaker 1: four year old husband won't stop smoking cigars in my house.

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Speaker 1: You can relate to this clo when I'm not home.

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Speaker 1: He is no regard for how I feel about a

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Speaker 1: smoky house, even if he does it in the basement.

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Speaker 1: He said, I'm being too sensitive. How do I compromise

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Speaker 1: with him?

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Speaker 2: Stop sleeping with him? That's what happened to me. I

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Speaker 2: knew you could relate. I knew you could.

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Speaker 3: We gotta let's just say a large house. I can't

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Speaker 3: smoke in it nowhere. I can't smoke in this house nowhere, nowhere.

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Speaker 2: I can't smoke outside of it at a dough and

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Speaker 2: some go through the dough.

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Speaker 3: I can't do that now because cigar smoke don't go

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Speaker 3: away just because you put the cigar down. Luddy bruh.

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Speaker 3: You gotta he gotta get him a little. This is

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Speaker 3: what he gotta do. He gotta turn his garage into

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Speaker 3: a cigar lounge and put a fan by the back

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Speaker 3: door of the house so the fan constantly blows the

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Speaker 3: cigar smoke to the outside.

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Speaker 2: Turn your garage into a cigar.

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Speaker 3: Lounge, or all bro go to home depot by yourself, one.

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Speaker 2: Of them sheds, okay, them aluminum sheds.

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Speaker 3: Put it outside in your backyard. Put your little portable

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Speaker 3: air conditioning in there, or a fan or something. Sit

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Speaker 3: in there and open up the doors and have you

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Speaker 3: a little smoking tent out in your backyard.

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Speaker 2: But you gossip. Quit smoking in that house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because if he makes a garage into a cigar lounge,

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Speaker 1: where they're gonna park the cars.

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Speaker 2: Loo when you can't smoke in the car. Now, put

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Speaker 2: the car on the pad in front of the house.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you want to smoke, just bag the car or

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Speaker 3: cars whatever you got. Sit out there, get you some

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Speaker 3: nice little chairs out there, and enjoy your cigaarte. Just

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Speaker 3: put a fan for that front door, on that back

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Speaker 3: door that lead into the garage so you can blow

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Speaker 2: That's what I do. I turn my garage into a

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Speaker 2: man cave.

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Speaker 3: Okay, if not your whole four to one fifty don't

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Speaker 3: smell like a cigar.

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Speaker 1: This is a serious subject.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know, but he.

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Speaker 2: Has to honor this woman and not smoking.

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Speaker 1: That house Yeah, Yeah, it's pretty strong. Yeah, cigar smoke,

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Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Lola in Chicago.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Lola writes, I'm dating for fun and not for a

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Speaker 1: relationship right now. My older sister is married and miserable

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Speaker 1: and says, I look like a garden tool for casually dating.

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight years old. What's a good age to say? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's a good age to settle down? Do I have

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Speaker 1: to settle for a mediocre man?

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Speaker 3: Lot? You don't have to settle for a mediocre man.

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Speaker 3: But there's an age limit to garden tooling. Garden tooling,

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Speaker 3: there's a process in gardening where you there's weeds in

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Speaker 3: your garden and you take a particular.

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Speaker 2: A tool called a hole, and.

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Speaker 3: You weed out the weeds in your garden. And that's

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Speaker 3: called hoey. That's a real term inform. It's called hoe

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Speaker 3: And we're gonna go out here and hold these weeds. Now,

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Speaker 3: that is no that the age bracket, the age limit

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Speaker 3: for garden tooling is never okay. You should try to

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Speaker 3: get past the phage of phase of garden tooling in

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Speaker 3: your life, ever, so you don't have to have a

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Speaker 3: bunch of regrets and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Now, if you want to casually date.

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Speaker 3: And what she's saying is you're coming across as a

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Speaker 3: garden tool. It's because if you're dating encompasses, sleeping with

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Speaker 3: a lot of different men.

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Speaker 2: That's gonna lead to a problem that you may not foresee.

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Speaker 3: Because at one point in time, you're going to have

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Speaker 3: to make the decision to stop.

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Speaker 1: But she didn't say she slept with them. She just

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Speaker 1: says she's dating for fun. That could be just going out,

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Speaker 1: you know, to dinner, to the movies and stuff. She

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Speaker 1: didn't say she slept with them. This is her sister

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Speaker 1: is judging her, her sister who's married and miss.

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Speaker 2: Because her sister knows what she's doing. Should That's what

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Speaker 2: this is about.

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Speaker 3: And that's why the sister used the reference to garden tooling.

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Speaker 3: That's why she used a reference.

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Speaker 1: So she says, what's a good age to settle down?

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Speaker 1: That's what she's asking.

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Speaker 3: Goettle down. I'm gonna just tell you right now, it ain't.

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Speaker 3: It ain't a good idea for women to sample a

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Speaker 3: lot of men. It's not a good.

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Speaker 2: Idea because of the just men can do it.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, it's a double standing. I didn't create the

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Speaker 3: double standing. And you can you can try to change

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Speaker 3: it if you want to go ahead, it's not gonna change.

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Speaker 3: We gonna feel the same way about you when we

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Speaker 3: find out about you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you can't even go on the dates.

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Speaker 3: You can go on dates and kick here, but if

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Speaker 3: you're sleeping with these men after your sister is insinuating

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Speaker 3: by calling it garden.

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Speaker 2: Julie, Yeah, that's terrible, terrible.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, all right, all right, moving guns.

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Speaker 3: And the words of my daddy to my older sisters.

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Speaker 3: And he wasn't talking to me. I just have to

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Speaker 3: be sitting in the room as a young boy. You

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Speaker 3: can't do what I do and still be a lady.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, double standard.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go, Chuck.

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Speaker 1: Last week. It's fun, but it's fun, all right, last one, Chuck.

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Speaker 1: In Saint Petersburg a year ago, I had sex with

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Speaker 1: a coworker that I really liked. She came on to me,

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Speaker 1: and I went ahead and had sex with her, but

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Speaker 1: I wanted so much more. Should I take a risk

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Speaker 1: and ask her to go out? Or do I think

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Speaker 1: she's not girlfriend material? Or do you think she's not

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Speaker 1: girlfriend material? Because she came on to a mamassuming and

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Speaker 1: had sex with the mama suming.

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Speaker 2: Well, you can. You can ask out. I would and

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Speaker 2: find out what the deal is. Okay, something gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: The night before one time, so crazy we don't even

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Speaker 3: be make eye contact about it.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, I think that does in clo.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, you're here for it. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: same Harvey Morning show.