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Speaker 1: What's a good woman.

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Speaker 2: I think a good woman is just a good person,

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Speaker 2: like I think being a good person.

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Speaker 3: I'm not even saying.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying that you could be a hoe and

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Speaker 2: you could be a good person.

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Speaker 3: But I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: What I'm saying is a good woman, and a good

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Speaker 2: person is someone who's not using someone or misusing them,

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Speaker 2: who is not in a relationship trying to connive, who

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Speaker 2: is disloyal, who is actually somewhere because they love you

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Speaker 2: and they want to make you a better person.

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Speaker 1: Are there any yes?

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Speaker 3: Of course?

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Speaker 1: What you think got the most good women?

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Speaker 3: I think the period the most.

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Speaker 1: Loyal and the most good women. If I have to

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Speaker 1: think culturally, I think it's Chinese and Mexican. Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is the taking over the game, all right, everybody, Welcome

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Speaker 1: to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 3: Do you think that men or women are more toxic?

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Speaker 2: Hello, beautiful people, Welcome to another episode of the Truth

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Speaker 2: after Dark.

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Speaker 3: I'm your host, Zar Faraday.

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Speaker 1: The Truth Paul Pierced. What's up? It's cracking? Another day,

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Speaker 1: another dollar, another week, another Hollo, Let's get it.

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Speaker 3: I'm crying.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you doing. I been feeling well?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been sick. I'm trying to get back right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not all the way there. It's been like

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Speaker 3: people been he.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you. Yeah, sick being going around.

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Speaker 2: So I'm trying to get it right, get it tight. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: So what's happening, what's in? What's what's been popping? So yeah,

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Speaker 2: well one major thing is in. Dea and Tom Holland

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Speaker 2: got married, so that's dope.

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Speaker 3: Good for them. Today.

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Speaker 2: She's the actress and Tom Holland is a guy who

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Speaker 2: plays Spider Man.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, which one? Which one? Is that

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Speaker 1: the dude that keep getting in the fights or.

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Speaker 3: Something or getting getting he's a white man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know that, but it's not the one I

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Speaker 1: keep getting like, hey, you don't think about somebody else.

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Speaker 3: He's not getting in those fights. Tom Holland is chill.

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Speaker 3: He's living his best life. He's not on the who're

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Speaker 3: talking about? Who were you talking about? Is getting in

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Speaker 3: fights or maybe getting hit?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Yah, yeah he was. He got to

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Speaker 1: a scrap where he keep getting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, transform but he also played it even Steven In,

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Speaker 2: which is a show that I grew up. Charla buff

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Speaker 2: is crazy, but Sharla buff has a history of supposed

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Speaker 2: to like beating women and like all this other stuff too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah he does.

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Speaker 2: He has like assault cases against women and this and that.

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Speaker 2: So well, she supposed to got married to Tom Hollands.

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Speaker 3: Yes and days. Really they're both very famous.

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Speaker 2: But you're there out of your age range, Like you're

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Speaker 2: way older than them, so like that's probably not even

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Speaker 2: on your timeline, you know what I mean, that's way

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Speaker 2: past your til you looking at like that's out of

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Speaker 2: your algorithm.

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Speaker 3: You looking at like Seal Madonna.

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Speaker 1: It ain't even about my age range. They're just not

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Speaker 1: what I'm into.

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Speaker 3: Right, you're older, you're into older.

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Speaker 1: I was younger. I'm not into that. Like what they

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Speaker 1: don't They ain't in the hip hop culture. Everybody don't

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Speaker 1: know who that is.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people know who's in days of people.

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Speaker 1: Do know who they is. I heard the name, but

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Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you if she walked in here, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't know what she looked like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you would know if it was Yeah, he will. Yes,

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Speaker 2: she's a black woman. She playing in a whole show

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Speaker 2: called Euphoria with that Drake produced.

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Speaker 3: Was famous as hell. Like she's very she's in a

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Speaker 3: lot of movies. Zendeia's cracking.

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Speaker 2: She's a part of black culture, very heavily butt.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so what Tom Holland is white?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that sounded like it. What movies she played in?

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Speaker 3: She played in Spider Man.

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Speaker 2: She was she was his love interest in Spider Man

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Speaker 2: and that's how they fell in love.

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Speaker 3: She was in Dune, Euphoria.

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Speaker 1: I ain't seen that. I ain't seen that.

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Speaker 2: Like, she's in a lot of stuff. Let's season. Dan's

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Speaker 2: in a lot of stuff. She was in a lot

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Speaker 2: of stuff.

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Speaker 1: What's so interesting? Then? What's what's the answer to?

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about? What's interesting?

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Speaker 1: Relationship? She was in.

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Speaker 2: Spider Man, Dune, The Otissea Challengers, Euphoria, Shrack Like she's solid,

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Speaker 2: Like Zendia is a big actress.

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Speaker 1: It's solid. I just see the flick. She's solid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's she's she's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: First of all, she's solid. Yeah, she was in Blackish.

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Speaker 2: She was in a lot of things like and Zadeia's cracking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're tripping those are.

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Speaker 1: List party song see them?

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Speaker 2: Well, you're older, you're not going to see them anyways.

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Speaker 2: Where you're at, they are not there. You're around like

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Speaker 2: them like other ones like that's not really the vibe

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Speaker 2: that you're on, you know, like I'm not. I'm just

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Speaker 2: being honest, Like you're a older man like Zendeia's young,

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Speaker 2: she's hot, she's a list.

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Speaker 3: She's not around you, you know what I mean, because

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Speaker 3: you're like just in you.

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Speaker 1: She's not in the churches, going to the places. I

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Speaker 1: go exactly to Louisiana Fried Chicken and I've ritten down,

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Speaker 1: Yeah she try stake forty eight or some shit.

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Speaker 2: She's not even there, honey. She's in a whole different caliber.

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Speaker 1: This restaurant's hurting that.

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Speaker 2: I don't even think, like she's just on a whole

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Speaker 2: different level than that. So anyways, the swat out to her, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and she got her a white man shout out to that.

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Speaker 2: I'm this close to getting with a white man or

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, I think white men are more chill,

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Speaker 2: just like you say out the country and all the

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Speaker 2: women I feel you, I think white men are more chill.

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Speaker 2: They're not going to be doing all of this extras.

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Speaker 3: They're not. They're gonna be chilling. They're gonna be vibing.

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Speaker 3: And you do, then you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. That's why when I but

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Speaker 1: like when a girl say it, but no.

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Speaker 3: No, no, because I get it. You you get I.

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Speaker 2: Think, yeah, go out the country and get you that

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Speaker 2: because at this point, the black on black is traumatizing.

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Speaker 2: We're traumatizing each other, like at this point because it

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Speaker 2: just seems like that. And so now as I grow

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Speaker 2: and I evolve, and like, as since you have said

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Speaker 2: that last I feel like I've looked at things more

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Speaker 2: and done more research on ship, and I do realize like, maybe, yeah,

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Speaker 2: as much as I want black on black love and

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Speaker 2: I love that and I want to see healthy black

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Speaker 2: on black love, I feel like we are just as

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Speaker 2: a community traumatized so deeply that maybe you do need

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Speaker 2: to move around. And you know, like, I don't know

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Speaker 2: how it is to be with white man. I never

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Speaker 2: been with no white man. I've never been with a

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Speaker 2: white man. But I will say, these girls are saying

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Speaker 2: that they're chilled.

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Speaker 1: What you're gonna do that first time you go to

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Speaker 1: dinner the family and you know, one of the brothers

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Speaker 1: or uncle say something like, who is this nigga bitch?

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Speaker 1: You're gonna say? Then what you're gonna do? You know

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Speaker 1: what you're gonna do? Then break up with them?

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Speaker 3: He didn't say it.

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Speaker 1: But the family there, this is the family function.

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Speaker 3: You don't think that this family function you would rather be.

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Speaker 2: You don't think that the You don't think that a

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Speaker 2: black family function have hay nass aunties that are ghetto

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Speaker 2: trying to punk you because you this or because I'm

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Speaker 2: light skinned. I look certain way like I dealt with

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Speaker 2: that too, So I.

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Speaker 1: Don't give a racist shit going on, though.

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Speaker 2: It is racist because at the same time, it's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you're mixed, what are you? Ain't even black? Like black people,

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Speaker 2: You're not black enough. I'm not black enough for the blacks.

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Speaker 2: They want to punk me because I'm light skinned and

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Speaker 2: I'm not like so either way, I get punked by

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Speaker 2: black people every day. Black people, you're not black, You're

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Speaker 2: not black. Stop supporting black. And the moment you stop

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Speaker 2: supporting black, you want to be white. You don't want

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Speaker 2: to be black? Which one is it?

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Speaker 1: Once you do three, they gonna know you black. We

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Speaker 1: can shut that all down right now, right now.

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Speaker 2: It's always something I feel like, this is the thing

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Speaker 2: about the.

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Speaker 3: Black community that I want to address. I love the black.

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Speaker 2: Community and I want to like, I always ride and

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Speaker 2: support for the black community hard. But what I notice

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Speaker 2: is even when I ride for the black community, black

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Speaker 2: people want to always be like, you're not black, Okay, cool.

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Speaker 2: So when I start writing with my other side and

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Speaker 2: I'm on some Persian shit Iran and all this.

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Speaker 3: Oh you want to be you don't want to.

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Speaker 2: Accept your black side? Which one is it? Honey, y'all

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Speaker 2: get it, French Montana. I'm not saying I'm ready to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is what I will say in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: See what it's all about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you can't help. But like you.

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Speaker 1: Individual, just focus on the individual, focus on the things

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Speaker 2: But you might meet someone that you just love and

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Speaker 2: They're suppressed and they got on the struct the most loyal.

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Speaker 1: I said, they're more loyal to their partner. You know why,

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Speaker 2: But see again, but what is the point of you

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Speaker 1: Like no, we can have a full blown relationship with

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is it doesn't have anything to

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Speaker 1: Because it has a lot to do with it. You

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Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is if you decide to be

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Speaker 2: for not knowing how to be.

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Speaker 3: A loyal person period.

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Speaker 2: So if black men, if that's their excuse because every

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Speaker 1: The reason why other races are loyal.

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Speaker 2: But it doesn't matter. We're not talking about outside your race.

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Speaker 2: They don't matter who wants you at that point, because

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Speaker 1: All I'm thinking for men, black men, and I'm speaking

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, why does that make it?

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Speaker 2: Why does it make it to where you're Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: I love that everywhere you stick with what you know

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Speaker 3: Why man, black men cheat more.

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Speaker 1: No, I'll tell you why, because that's that's not what

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Speaker 3: What you're not listening to what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Then you keep talking about something and you're not listening

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Speaker 1: Have more options than any other race.

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Speaker 2: Then, so that makes you, guys more unfaithful to your

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Speaker 1: The more the more the temptation.

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Speaker 3: The more the temptation. Right, So then as a.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be of the Chinese.

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Speaker 1: Chinese don't want you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, probably. I bet you, bet you, I can find

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Speaker 1: I bet you.

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Speaker 3: I bet you a million dollars. I can. I bet you,

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Speaker 3: I can find a Chinese man.

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Speaker 1: They can want you like sexually, but like you ain't

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Speaker 3: I bet you, I can. I bet you I can.

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Speaker 2: I bet you, I can find any race of man

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Speaker 1: We need to film this. Let's go out. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: Okay, the Chinese man has one We don't go there first.

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Speaker 2: You don't think there's Asian men that want black women.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure there is Asians want I'm saying we're gonna

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Speaker 2: You think that these women really want y'all. Chinese don't

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Speaker 2: A matter of fact, there is a Chinese girl that

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Speaker 2: offer are two different things. But since y'all want to

443
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 2: think that it's the same, y'all end up in relationships

444
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 2: where you're giving more than you're getting.

445
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 3: And that's how y'all be.

446
00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 2: That's how y'all be so fucking messed up in the

447
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,400
Speaker 2: hand about women are so messed up because y'all get

448
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 2: with women who don't want y'all. For real, y'all have

449
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 2: so many relationships with women who do not want y'all.

450
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:46,720
Speaker 2: Matter of fact, this girl was on stream Boston Ritchie

451
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,439
Speaker 2: whoever that is. He's a famous rapper. I guess his

452
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,240
Speaker 2: ex girlfriend was on stream. They were together for almost

453
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,880
Speaker 2: three years and she said I never wanted him.

454
00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 3: I want to hit for the money and she ran

455
00:20:58,640 --> 00:20:58,920
Speaker 3: the place.

456
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:00,639
Speaker 2: She was like, when you have a when you have

457
00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 2: a play that you're gonna run, you gotta execute it.

458
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 3: Like many women are playing y'all and inn y'all.

459
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:08,920
Speaker 1: I think that's all women.

460
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all women. But that's what I'm trying to

461
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 3: tell you.

462
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:14,080
Speaker 1: So what's the difference if women don't want nothing but

463
00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 1: what men in general have to offer. So I don't

464
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 1: even say that's black men, that's women do that for

465
00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:19,600
Speaker 1: all men.

466
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to say is this what is happening.

467
00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 2: And I think why women are traumatized is because the

468
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 2: good women. I don't think men want good women anymore.

469
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,160
Speaker 2: First of all, I think that that's a big thing,

470
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,119
Speaker 2: and that's been a conversation right now that's been on

471
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 2: threads like men don't really want good women anymore, because

472
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,240
Speaker 2: what it is is y'all are okay with just being

473
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,880
Speaker 2: used because when you get a good woman, you actually

474
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 2: have to treat her right, and you will feel guilty

475
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,159
Speaker 2: when you hurt her. So you'd rather be with a

476
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,320
Speaker 2: woman who don't really want you for real, because when

477
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,399
Speaker 2: you hurt her, when you cheat because you don't have

478
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 2: the discipline to stay faithful, you don't feel as bad

479
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:53,920
Speaker 2: because you know she don't even want you. She wants

480
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,160
Speaker 2: you for your money. So everyone is in these empty

481
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 2: relationships and in relationships where people don't really love them

482
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 2: for real. And that's what I think is happening, because

483
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, when you get with

484
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 2: a good woman, you actually have to feel guilt around

485
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 2: doing her dirty. When you get with a woman who

486
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 2: actually loves you, it hurts more to hurt her. But

487
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 2: when you're with a woman who you know is just

488
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,680
Speaker 2: using you for your money, then at the end of

489
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 2: the day, it don't really matter what you do to

490
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: her because.

491
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 3: You getting what you want. I'm getting what I want.

492
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 3: You're here, You're.

493
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 2: Filling a gap when I'm lonely, and at any other

494
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:25,120
Speaker 2: moment that I don't have that gap filled, I'll get

495
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 2: go fill a gap another gap with another brad. That's

496
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 2: what's happening right now. And I think it's this cycle,

497
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 2: and that's why the people who are good women, they're

498
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 2: getting so scorned and hurt because it's like, how is

499
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 2: me being a good person?

500
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,639
Speaker 3: How is that benefiting me?

501
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 2: Like I feel like a lot of good women that

502
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:47,679
Speaker 2: I know are starting to feel so discouraged because they're like, damn,

503
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,639
Speaker 2: where is me being a good woman?

504
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:50,640
Speaker 3: How is that?

505
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 1: What's a woman?

506
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 2: I think a good woman is just a good person,

507
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 2: Like I think being a good person.

508
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 3: I'm not even just saying.

509
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that you could be a hoe and

510
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: you could be a good person, but I'm saying what

511
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:07,439
Speaker 2: I'm saying is a good woman and a good person

512
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 2: is someone who's not using someone or misusing them, who

513
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 2: is not in a relationship trying to connive, who is disloyal,

514
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 2: who is actually somewhere because they love you and they

515
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 2: want to make you a better person that someone who

516
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 2: could be vulnerable, someone who's honest, who shows up in

517
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 2: the ways that you're supposed to show up.

518
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,639
Speaker 3: You know what a good person is, A genuine person.

519
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 1: Yes, of course, what race you think got the most

520
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 1: good women?

521
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 3: I don't know. I really don't know.

522
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: If you just had to choose black good.

523
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do.

524
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 2: I don't know why you think that's funny. I think

525
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 2: that there's a lot of black good women.

526
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 3: Like literally, I.

527
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: Said, what you think got the most black I'm.

528
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: Always gonna say that. And I think that it's because

529
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: when I think white women are raised to run the

530
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 2: play a lot, and I think that other races, No,

531
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,120
Speaker 2: I don't. I think that black women. I think that

532
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 2: Black culture is the only culture that still wants love

533
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 2: and puts love on a pedestal. I think that's the problem.

534
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: Other cultures are businesses. Love is a business. Chinese, Indian,

535
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 2: white people, they get together as a business. Black people

536
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 2: are the only culture that still care about love and

537
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 2: want to be love. That's why we're the only people

538
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 2: sitting on podcasts all they talking about love period.

539
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 1: The most loyal and the most good women. If I

540
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: have to think culturally, I think it's Chinese and Mexican. Okay,

541
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 1: I mean I do. I mean, I'm just saying they know,

542
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: they hold family values, they know how to treat they men.

543
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: They hold they men up to a standard. They ain't

544
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: quit to run, and they posting them on Instagram. I

545
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: ain't never seeing them like look at this, look at this.

546
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, then when the relationship over,

547
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: they're not dragging them like I feel like our race

548
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 1: we drag are like when I'm tired of seeing that

549
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 1: on Instagram. When you break up, man, you drag them now. Damn,

550
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: y'all is just in love now? Why you don't have

551
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 1: to just leave peacefully clean break?

552
00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that's true at all.

553
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 2: I've seen so many Mexican women do shit like that

554
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 2: a lot, so I don't believe that at all. And

555
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 2: I've seen it happen like first here, so I know

556
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 2: that that's not true.

557
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 3: So I don't believe that Chinese.

558
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 2: I ain't seen the Chinese do nothing, so I could

559
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,360
Speaker 2: probably agree with you on that. I don't see Chinese

560
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: do nothing really, so I'm I'm not gonna disagree with that,

561
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 2: but I can definitely say Mexicans, I don't see them

562
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 2: get angry as hell and do all type of crazy shit.

563
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 2: I've seen that firsthand. I'm from LA I've seen all

564
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 2: of that. But I will say Chinese, I don't know

565
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 2: about Chinese, but I don't see that about Chinese.

566
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 3: I don't see that about.

567
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 2: Indian women either, But you know, maybe, like at the

568
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 2: end of the day, I think that also, Like I

569
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 2: will stand on this, and I'm gonna stand ten toes

570
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 2: down on this. Black women have been traumatized by black men,

571
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: period point blank, period point blank.

572
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 3: And that has a lot.

573
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 2: To do with the hurt and the way that black

574
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,239
Speaker 2: women are acting these days. And black men think they

575
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 2: don't have anything to do with that, and that is

576
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 2: a lie. At the end of the day, a lot

577
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 2: of black men have traumatized these women and have made

578
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 2: them scorned, bitter, And now we're in a competition with

579
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 2: who doesn't care, who doesn't give a fuck less? Oh

580
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 2: we want to pretend we all don't care. We're in

581
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: a war of who cares less, who can do more,

582
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 2: who's more cracking. This is the competition we're in, and

583
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: we're steering away from real love and real commitment every

584
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 2: single day. At the end of the day. So I

585
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 2: just feel like black men have to take accountability in

586
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 2: the role that they played.

587
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 1: What black men have to take accountability? Yeah, black men

588
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 1: or women.

589
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 2: Huh, both, but definitely black men. And I'm talking about

590
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 2: in the role that they played in creating this hurt

591
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 2: and this pain, because what we have seen historically is

592
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 2: like a black woman will be loyal and they'll be

593
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 2: holding a black man down through all of his transgressions

594
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 2: and everything that he goes through, and then as soon

595
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,440
Speaker 2: as he as soon as he gets up and gets

596
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 2: some money, he's leaving that black woman a different type

597
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 2: of chick.

598
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: So it should be a new slogan now that says

599
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: black women don't.

600
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 3: Cheat, Right, What does it have to do with anything.

601
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 1: I'm just saying though, like, since since it's we traumatizing y'all,

602
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: that means y'all loyal, y'all don't do.

603
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 3: Shit, I'm not saying that.

604
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 2: And that's the thing, Like again, that's you going into

605
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 2: a victim mentality. I'm not saying that black women don't

606
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 2: do anything. We're human, we make mistakes, and we're gonna

607
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 2: do a lot. But at the same time, you cannot

608
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: sit here and tell me that you have not seen

609
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 2: historically black men cheat, lie her, cheat on them while

610
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: they're pregnant, break them down, make them feel like she

611
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 2: you have you've seen that.

612
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 3: You've seen that with every race.

613
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 1: It's just us art is more publicized and put on

614
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: social media mode.

615
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 3: You just said that you don't see that with racist It.

616
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: Happens in all races, It happens in humanity. Ours is

617
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 1: just more publicized because we got more public figures and

618
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: when you see more fans.

619
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 2: So you think that a woman with a white man

620
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 2: is dealing with the same shit they're dealing with dealing

621
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 2: with a black man.

622
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: No, it's different type of like stuff that's going on

623
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: in the household. Like what you mean, It's like, do

624
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 1: I think a white couple and a black couple deal

625
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,959
Speaker 1: with the same things? Of course not issue is an

626
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: issue god.

627
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 2: But do you think that the white man is putting

628
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 2: their women through the same ship that.

629
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 3: A black man puts through their woman?

630
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: So what is a black man putting their woman through?

631
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 3: What heart they putting their women through?

632
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 2: Like black men, they make you struggle for love. They

633
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 2: put you through everything to love them.

634
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 3: You got to struggle for life.

635
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 1: Why you want to mess with black man there. If

636
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: you know all of this and everything that you're saying,

637
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: it's true about the black race, and you're saying, hey,

638
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: if I go over here, this is more peaceful. Make

639
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: it makes sense? Then why do you continue to be insane?

640
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 2: So the same reason you said you still do with

641
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: black women after you sat on this podcast multiple times.

642
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: I didn't complain about black women.

643
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 3: The most illusional man I have ever met.

644
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 2: This is appalling to see what the people that are

645
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 2: working on this set just have the facial trusture when

646
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 2: you said that fact you.

647
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 3: Have complained about black women.

648
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: Blocks give me one example how I complain what I

649
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: say If you know so much.

650
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 2: What I say, Other races are so much better than

651
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 2: Black women treat black men way better.

652
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 3: The black women you go to these other.

653
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 2: Cultures and these other cultures know how to the family unit,

654
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: They know how to take care of a man. They

655
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 2: know how to make a man feel good. Black women

656
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: don't listen to their man. They don't take accountability. They don't. Yeah,

657
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: you said on this podcast a million times, and I

658
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 2: would really love, darnelle if we could put in all

659
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 2: them clips right here like we always do. Black men

660
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 2: always do say nothing we're gonna put in all them clips.

661
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 2: The same reason you sat up here multiple times in

662
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: front of a black woman and said how other races

663
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 2: are so much better than a black.

664
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: I've never said they so much better post are. This

665
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:37,479
Speaker 1: is what you have to do when you look at it.

666
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: This is what I say. I said some things about

667
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: other races that are better than Black women. But if

668
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: we break down with a black women give based on

669
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 1: other races what they give. I like this. I like

670
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: this list. This is the first time I can deal

671
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 1: with this list.

672
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 3: That's the first time you said it, and.

673
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: Then deal with this. I'm just saying these are the

674
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: things that I don't get from here. But all these

675
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: other things are like more than a wag.

676
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 3: But you never said this. This is the first time

677
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 3: you've said this.

678
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 2: You've sat there and you made so many Black women

679
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: feel offended, so many because you said how other races

680
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 2: are so much better than us.

681
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: I just say better.

682
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 3: I said certain things.

683
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: I said, other races do this better than Black women.

684
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: I said certain things, but that doesn't mean as a

685
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: whole that they were better, because as a whole I

686
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: don't agree.

687
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: Darnell. When you do this edit, I need you to

688
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 3: go back.

689
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 1: You're trying to have him come for me. Nah, that

690
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: ain't happening.

691
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,200
Speaker 3: Oh, it's too late. They already know you said this,

692
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 3: Like everyone already knows.

693
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: I said certain things and other races are better than

694
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: the black woman. But when I look at.

695
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 3: The big picture, you never said this.

696
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: Of when I say, oh, maybe you got one or this.

697
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 1: Just like if you compare two players and I say

698
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: this player got this in his game, and he got

699
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 1: this in his game. That don't mean he better. He

700
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: just got certain things that he ain't got, but overall

701
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: the better player.

702
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 3: See you love back pedaling.

703
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 2: This is the first time you've ever said it like that.

704
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: You sat there and you said, French Montana is smart.

705
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 2: Go get you a foreign woman out the country woman,

706
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 2: Foreign women are better.

707
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 3: Yeah you did, Paul.

708
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 2: I cannot wait till we put it in here because

709
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 2: guess what, I know you said it because I was offended.

710
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: Us black men. I'm telling y'all we need to follow

711
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: on French Montana steps. You see he cracking. He's cracking, like, man,

712
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: I'm out here with these.

713
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 2: Don't listen. There's women in the States that are.

714
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: Cool, and the women the States women they don't have

715
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: the same values as these women overseas. They value they man,

716
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 1: they priorities, they man first. They're not shaking us on Instagram.

717
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 3: And not every woman is doing that, Paul.

718
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 1: That's American women, that's the majority.

719
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 2: No, not every woman is doing that, though I'm not

720
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 2: doing that.

721
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 1: American men, no matter what race you is based on

722
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: like our influences, what we watch on TV, what we glorify.

723
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: I think we really got to go overseas to find

724
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:08,600
Speaker 1: that the traits that you're talking about, because they exist,

725
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: they rate all that, they they look at all that.

726
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 2: Do you feel like, why do you feel like men,

727
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: especially NBA players, get with the white women.

728
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 3: Is it because they're easy? Quote unquote I'm not some theories,

729
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 3: but I really want to hear it from I want

730
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 3: to hear it too.

731
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: Honestly think that maybe is they appreciate maybe more and

732
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: they apologize more.

733
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 2: Because I'm sitting here, as a black woman, highly offended

734
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 2: that Paul is saying this.

735
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 3: And yes, you did say that a.

736
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: Certain races got better things, but not overall, but.

737
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 3: You never said that part.

738
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: That's what I meant.

739
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: So now you back like he's like everyone knows how

740
00:33:55,840 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 2: crazy you are, Like yeah, that all of us.

741
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just said, like right now, if you look

742
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: at the NBA, the rookie of your race, the guy

743
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 1: is gonna win Rookie of the Year. Kankin nipple, but

744
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: that don't mean better than Cooper Flag. But he's just.

745
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 3: Having dot com.

746
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 2: NBA legend found himself in controversy, a revisy black man

747
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:26,479
Speaker 2: that it will be better today. Internationally, Paul Pierre says

748
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 2: black women should date women from overseas. French Montana is

749
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 2: one of the pri he's out of here with the

750
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 2: American women and black women. He got himself a princess

751
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 2: from time. That's why black men need to be doing

752
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 2: these women overseas. They appreciate you, They put you first.

753
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 2: They ain't on Instagram shaking for likes, unlike black women.

754
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 3: Okay, black women now, and there's more. Would you like

755
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 3: me to contin No, let me, let me say what

756
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 3: I have to say. Though.

757
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: You said all of that, and I want you to

758
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 2: be very clear that that's not the first time you

759
00:34:59,120 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: said it.

760
00:34:59,440 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 3: You said it.

761
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: Get a black man should go see because then you

762
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 1: get to see what you like trying new food. You

763
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: don't know if you don't like new food. Pedal. You

764
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:16,439
Speaker 1: back pedal, try new food all the time, you because

765
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: you don't know if you like it, it may be.

766
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 2: Better, you back pedal, so for that time, you backpedal

767
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: so much. So I say all this to say, throughout

768
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 2: you saying this and the history of this podcast that

769
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 2: me and you have had, you said it so many times.

770
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 2: And trust me, I know because I've been very offended

771
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 2: and hurt by your comments. But I will say this,

772
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 2: throughout the history of you saying these things, I have

773
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 2: never once said f black men. Black men are not

774
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: it nothing. But today I have came to a new

775
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 2: realization that if black men are feeling this way, because

776
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: I see so many black men saying this, and it

777
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 2: hurts us as a community and as black women. So

778
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 2: I'm going to encourage Zendeya or another race if they

779
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 2: feel like they found soft and another race that makes

780
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 2: them feel confident and good as a woman, then go

781
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 2: do that, because why are we trying to convince black

782
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 2: men that we are worthy? It is not our job

783
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 2: to convince somebody of our value and our work.

784
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: Let me see this girl, Let me see her again,

785
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: give me pull her up, let me see this.

786
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 3: What does this have to do with.

787
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: Washington.

788
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 3: No, listen to what I'm saying. Though.

789
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 2: It is not our job as black women to constantly

790
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 2: prove to black men that we are worthy of their love.

791
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 2: And when we do get the love, a lot of

792
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: women have to struggle for it and have to go

793
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 2: through hell and high water to show that they are

794
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: worthy to actually have a faithful, loyal man on their side.

795
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 2: And all I am saying if is en day, if

796
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 2: another race, if they want to go.

797
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: Do that, then go do that. Who am I to

798
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 3: tell you not?

799
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 2: Maybe it's cool, maybe it's this, But there's so many

800
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,439
Speaker 2: black men I see on the internet constantly, and people

801
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: want to like when I.

802
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 3: Say stuff like that, They're like, what your side? Whatever?

803
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 3: I see it every day.

804
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 2: I can put a compilation of so many men saying

805
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 2: this about black women, about how go overseas, about how

806
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: other races are better, and how this and that, and

807
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 2: as a black woman, as much as that hurts us,

808
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: maybe we need to realize that we're not valued here.

809
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: Maybe we need to realize that, hey, we're not worthy

810
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 2: to be here. And I get where I am kind

811
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,720
Speaker 2: of I'm mixed, so I understand that I don't fully

812
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:23,400
Speaker 2: fall into that category because people view me as a

813
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 2: mixed girl and maybe that's different, but whatever the case is,

814
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 2: I feel like it's so important that we understand and

815
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 2: go where we're appreciated and loved and valued. And that's

816
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: not me saying I'm gonna go date a white man because,

817
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 2: to be honest, I am way too much for a

818
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 2: white man. I know what I am as a woman like,

819
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 2: I'm rough around the edges, I'm not perfect. I have

820
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 2: a lot, and you know, I feel like I am

821
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 2: going to stay.

822
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 3: You know, I love black man. I'm gonna rock with

823
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 3: y'all to the very end.

824
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna deal with the people. I've been doing this

825
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 2: for this long, so I'm a cue I would keep.

826
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 2: Hopefully I get my black love story. I pray that

827
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 2: I really do, because that's what I want and that's

828
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 2: what I've always wanted.

829
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 3: But you know, we gonna see.

830
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, but you know, I'm rocking with y'all

831
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 2: because I don't believe that all black men are shady.

832
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 2: I don't believe that all black men are are messed up,

833
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 2: but I do believe that we are hurting as a

834
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 2: community and that we need to see the value in

835
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: each other more and understand that you know there is

836
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 2: love here, like I'm tired of the bashing of each other.

837
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 2: Like I'm just tired of that, and I want us

838
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 2: to all feel love with each other. And again, if

839
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 2: you are someone who is like Paul and feels like

840
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 2: overseas women can be.

841
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 3: Better for you, go do that. But let's.

842
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: First, how long he'd been made cool?

843
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 3: That's good for him, Yeah.

844
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: My dad for him.

845
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 2: I have no comment on that one because trust me

846
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 2: when I tell you back in the day, yeah, but

847
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 2: trust me when I tell you there's a cost to

848
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 2: pay with.

849
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:06,760
Speaker 3: All of that. Trust me with your mama Holan, trust

850
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 3: me when I tell you, I'm not going to get

851
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 3: into that right now.

852
00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: That's solid at.

853
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:12,959
Speaker 3: The end of the day.

854
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: So that's that's valid point.

855
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 3: He was not a valid point.

856
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,240
Speaker 2: But I'm not going to sit up on this camera

857
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 2: and tell my family business.

858
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,479
Speaker 3: But it's not a valid point.

859
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: And that is the reason that I actually feel so

860
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 2: strongly about what I'm saying.

861
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 3: So at the end of the day.

862
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 2: All I'm going to tell you is you go where

863
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 2: you're loved and appreciated. If that's what a white man,

864
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 2: if that's what a oversees woman. If that's what a Mexican,

865
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 2: go do that.

866
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,919
Speaker 1: At the end of the day that when you came

867
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,359
Speaker 1: home started the show saying that's what you wanted to do.

868
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 3: I didn't say I wanted to do that.

869
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,479
Speaker 2: I talked about Zendaia and Tom Holland I said, good

870
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:46,879
Speaker 2: for her.

871
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: If people want to call feeling lately, this is what

872
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: you was saying.

873
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 2: I said, yeah, the way that I'm feeling lately is

874
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 2: where I used to be so pro black love. And

875
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 2: I hate that you're saying you go overseas. What I

876
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 2: realize is go where you're loved and appreciate. If you

877
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: you are loved, to appreciate it over here and you

878
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 2: feel like this is what you like.

879
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 3: You want to go overseas, you want to be with Mexican,

880
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,359
Speaker 3: you want to be with this, go do that.

881
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 2: Like I'm done trying to advocate for black people to

882
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 2: stay together.

883
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: That's all I'm Black women market ain't the same as

884
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: the black man market. It's just not what do you mean, Like, like,

885
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: black women ain't accepted in all the cultures.

886
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can understand that, but you'll be surprised.

887
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: Because how we are perceived, like how black women are

888
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: perceived to other races.

889
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 2: They like, Yeah, they think that about y'all too. You

890
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 2: just don't realize that. Trust me, they think that about

891
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 2: y'all too. They mess with y'all because you have certain stuff.

892
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: But when you get into that family for real, they

893
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: don't like you either. I promise you that I've seen

894
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 2: it first, and trust me, they want I've seen so

895
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 2: many situations they do not like what.

896
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 1: We need to do this show. We need to be

897
00:40:56,040 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: on multi We need to bring on like different couples, multiracial,

898
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 1: interracial couples on the show and just talk to them

899
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: about the dynamic.

900
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's fine, we can do that.

901
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: I think that is pros and cons and what y'all

902
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:13,919
Speaker 1: hurdles that y'all face.

903
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 3: We can start with my mom and dad.

904
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 1: You know that, y'all. You know face? You know what

905
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

906
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:21,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, So a lot that.

907
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 1: Go into it, like you know, like culturally, what you

908
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 1: like to do and what you like to do, what

909
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 1: you like to watch, what you like to watch. What

910
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 1: religion are you? What religion are you?

911
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 3: Again?

912
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 2: Like I said, I think that you are saying black

913
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 2: women aren't as accepted, and I get what you're saying,

914
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 2: but neither are black men.

915
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 3: You just think you are. It's not the same.

916
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: But it is not we are.

917
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 3: You're not accepted.

918
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 2: That's a delusion if you think that other races, exact

919
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 2: black women can.

920
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 3: Go everywhere too.

921
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: You can't go to China.

922
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 3: I've been like, yeah you can. What are you talking about?

923
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: Black?

924
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 2: You know that my homegirl, you know my homegirl, Alex

925
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 2: shout out to Alex just moved to China as a

926
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 2: black woman with her own clothing brand called Local European.

927
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: Because her manufacturers are.

928
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 3: But she's accepted and the Chinese man is on her.

929
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 2: She told me so, stop like you sound crazy.

930
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: There doing business.

931
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 3: No, she's over there.

932
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: She didn't have to move there, she's been.

933
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: She's saving terrorist money. Let's get she.

934
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 3: Wanted to move to China. She don't know she did it.

935
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 3: She did not have to move to China, didn't have to.

936
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 3: The point is black women.

937
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 2: You want to tell yourself this story, Black women can

938
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 2: get it to trust me, Like, it's not what you

939
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: think it is. Like men swear black women are cracking

940
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: places to like, don't ever get it twisted. Okay, just

941
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:54,760
Speaker 2: like you think that black men are fetishized and everyone

942
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 2: likes black women. What do you think the most beautiful races?

943
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 2: Who do you think is copying us?

944
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: The most beautiful race?

945
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, black people. That's why they hated us back in

946
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 3: the day.

947
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 2: We had the lips, we have, the features, we have

948
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,280
Speaker 2: the body, we have all of that, period point blank.

949
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 3: The only thing they can.

950
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: Ever fight over when white people, Oh, will y'all straighten

951
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: your hair to look like us?

952
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 3: That's the only thing y'all got, So y'all could have that.

953
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, it's beautiful. Yes, yeah,

954
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 3: So at the end of the day, what are you

955
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 3: talking about? Races?

956
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 2: All the culture, Kim karda Ashian. Everyone they model themselves

957
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 2: to look like Black women, period point blank. So stop

958
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 2: trying to say that black women can go everywhere like

959
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 2: we're cracking. We are the most beautiful race, have all cultures.

960
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 2: You want to know what else I always say. I

961
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 2: always say this, black is what makes it look good.

962
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 3: Okay.

963
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, when you look exotic, listen, listen,

964
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 2: when you look exotic, listen.

965
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:55,800
Speaker 3: To what I'm saying.

966
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: I always say this, you look exotic, Right, They're like, oh,

967
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 2: you're exotic because mixed?

968
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 3: Okay, cool?

969
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 2: If I was Persian and white, I would not look

970
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 2: as beautiful as I look if I was. If they

971
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 2: were Asian and white, they would not look as beautiful.

972
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 2: What makes it cracking is when you mix that black.

973
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 2: That's why they want to get with y'all black men

974
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: so their kids can look a certain way. The black

975
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 2: is what makes it pop, period, the point blank. The

976
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 2: black is what makes it exotic. The black is what

977
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: makes it pop. The black is what makes it look

978
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: foreign and exotic and cracking. I know this for a

979
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 2: fact because.

980
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,439
Speaker 3: I've seen Persian and whites and persons in the other mixed.

981
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 3: They do not look like me, same gene pool, don't

982
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 3: look like how I look like. I'm just telling you

983
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 3: the truth.

984
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 2: So black is what makes things look exotic, and they

985
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 2: have to train our minds to make it seem like

986
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 2: it's the Asian that's making us look exotics.

987
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: Those other races, not the That's not true.

988
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 2: The black women go for other races too, and now

989
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 2: more and more they are doing it. And that's why

990
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 2: I said, if y'all want to go do that and

991
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 2: get that cracking, I'm not.

992
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,439
Speaker 3: Mad at that, because now you know what.

993
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 2: Else is happening. These Persian, Arabic, like Indian. These men

994
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 2: are getting flavor about themselves and they coming for these

995
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:10,240
Speaker 2: black women.

996
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 3: Honey.

997
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 2: They starting to get like I see it, and they're like, yeah,

998
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 2: they getting that flavor. These white men they like yeah, yeah, yeah,

999
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 2: they like the culture, they like the flavor.

1000
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:18,760
Speaker 3: They're getting the confidence.

1001
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 2: See, it was the fact that those other races they

1002
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,880
Speaker 2: lack the confidence to approach a black.

1003
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 3: Woman because they seem intimidating.

1004
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 2: But now with social media and all this stuff, when

1005
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 2: they could slide in their dms.

1006
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you should see.

1007
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 2: Oh oh they slide, honey, all them racist is they

1008
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 2: slide it? It was that they lacked the confidence because

1009
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 2: they are intimidated black black women. Now they're getting that

1010
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,520
Speaker 2: confidence and they're getting that flavor about them, and they're

1011
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,359
Speaker 2: sliding them dms and they're approaching these black women.

1012
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, so.

1013
00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: All you other races, that's sliding these black women. M

1014
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,280
Speaker 1: that's getting y'all flavor up and doing all yeah, yeah,

1015
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:53,959
Speaker 1: yeah favor. Let me tell you something. These black women

1016
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 1: coming after y'all because they like, we can finesse y'all.

1017
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: We can finesse y'all more than we can do because

1018
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: because black men they own to us. Now, y'all can

1019
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: it's a new finesse game. Then?

1020
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 2: Now, I don't think that's what it is. I think

1021
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 2: that black women are tired of struggling for love. And

1022
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 2: when you look at the other races and see how

1023
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 2: historically they seem like they're just more peaceful, You're like, Okay,

1024
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 2: let me try this out, because, like you said, it's insanity.

1025
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 2: I'm trying the same thing over and over again and

1026
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,680
Speaker 2: expecting different results. But I'm not getting different results. So

1027
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 2: maybe I need to broaden my horizon and get with

1028
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 2: these flavored up Indians and get with these flavored up white.

1029
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 1: They got money, they got some money I got I'm

1030
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: talking about. I'm talking about their aura. They're like their.

1031
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 3: Aura, their energy, they're swagged, they're this they get.

1032
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 1: They got some bread.

1033
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 2: If not, they just Unfortunately for me, I have been

1034
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 2: like not attracted to any other race but black man.

1035
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 2: And you know that's just it's what I wasn't with

1036
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 2: a Mexican dude. I'm saying, like, I have tried other races.

1037
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,720
Speaker 2: Even when I was young, I used to like Mexican

1038
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 2: got my first crush. I lived in Wadalajara, My first

1039
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 2: boyfriend named Carlos, was Mexican and he learned how to

1040
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 2: speak English to ask me to be his girlfriend.

1041
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 3: He took me to see men in Black and Spanish.

1042
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 3: So at the end of the day, I swear to

1043
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 3: God his name was Carlos.

1044
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, I like Mexicans, and I've always thought Mexicans

1045
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 2: were cool. But for me now I feel like I

1046
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 2: am only really right now in my life, Like I

1047
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 2: like black men.

1048
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 1: And you contradict yourself so much on this episode.

1049
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 2: Well, you contradict yourself all the time. So I guess

1050
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 2: we're two peas in a pod, baby, because you say

1051
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,720
Speaker 2: all type of shit every day that don't make no sense.

1052
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 3: You say what whole thing? I say what on thing?

1053
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 2: So yeah, people, am I to contradicted myself? But I'm

1054
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 2: telling you that at the end of the day, I

1055
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 2: still believe in black love. But if you want to

1056
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 2: go explore out, I'm not going to fight it anymore.

1057
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,760
Speaker 3: I'm not going to fight one.

1058
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 1: Came over here talking about you. You want to explore it.

1059
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:03,359
Speaker 3: I never said I wanted to do that.

1060
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: And everything everything you wanted to do, you're putting it

1061
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: on me. Now what you mean because you came in

1062
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,280
Speaker 1: like maybe I should start looking in that direction.

1063
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 3: I need not say that.

1064
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, we're gonna rewind this.

1065
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 2: Rewind this and see if I said that, I said

1066
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 2: that I'm not mad at women for doing that. We're

1067
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 2: talking about Tom Holland, and today I'm saying I'm not.

1068
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 3: Mad at that.

1069
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,280
Speaker 1: Let me see someday again.

1070
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 3: Okay, let me show you what's.

1071
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 1: Her made z z Okay, let me see. I mean,

1072
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 1: let me see what this looked like, like straight up,

1073
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: I need to see. I'm gonna tell you straight up

1074
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:45,520
Speaker 1: what I think. Give me so let me see. Let

1075
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 1: me see the whole. She looks like she's Spanish.

1076
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 3: She's not.

1077
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 1: She's black.

1078
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 3: Her parents are her whole.

1079
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:56,160
Speaker 1: You know. Look, look, you know what I'm saying. Let

1080
00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: me see her and her man. Let me see. Let

1081
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: me see what this is doing. Let me see. Mm

1082
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 1: hmm okay, all right, he's.

1083
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 3: Short, she's tall.

1084
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 2: She's tall, so okay, so she don't sleep on the

1085
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:25,800
Speaker 2: short kings because the short kings, they say, they treat

1086
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: you right.

1087
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, all right, we'll see why she was in

1088
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:32,760
Speaker 1: that direction.

1089
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 3: H oh, what is her? She's white?

1090
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see, I can see.

1091
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 3: What does that mean, Baul, I'm.

1092
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: Just saying, I see, you know, I'm just saying, you know,

1093
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 1: she ain't really built like the you know, you know,

1094
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 1: like the ones look like tall, real skinny.

1095
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 3: I mean, you know you can get a black man.

1096
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 1: She's just I mean you can, but you know, the

1097
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 1: black race, Like, I'm.

1098
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 3: Just I'm out of here because this is getting crazy.

1099
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 2: This is like she's beautiful, and she's beautiful and at

1100
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 2: the end of the day.

1101
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: Like you know, that's you know, the black community when

1102
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: we like like a little more curve.

1103
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 3: See, this is why.

1104
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 2: It's the truth.

1105
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Speaker 1: It's the true.

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Speaker 2: Whole segment to do today. And we started talking about this.

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00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: I mean, this is a good conversation. I mean, I

1108
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: see why you know they accepted her because they you know,

1109
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: so they.

1110
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:41,359
Speaker 3: Like white men like a little ass too.

1111
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:47,359
Speaker 1: I see a little ass so I see right, you're right,

1112
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 1: they do like the little ones.

1113
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 2: No, I'm saying white men they be all ship like

1114
00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:01,440
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Speaker 2: you some questions and you have to tell me which one?

1122
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:23,239
Speaker 3: Okay, okay?

1123
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 2: Would you rather your partner cheat physically one time and

1124
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 2: never again, or have an emotional affair for months but

1125
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:31,439
Speaker 2: then cut it off.

1126
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 1: Probably an emotional affair.

1127
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 3: For months and not physically cheat.

1128
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, not physically, because the physical can turn and you

1129
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: leaving emotional.

1130
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 3: I don't know emotional emotional turns.

1131
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: Once physical it changes the dynamic. You know. If it's

1132
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: just words and feelings.

1133
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 2: And all that, that's a lot that is That means

1134
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 2: your heart is somewhere else. Like I'd rather someone just cheat,

1135
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,760
Speaker 2: fuck up one time and have sex.

1136
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,800
Speaker 1: With another dude they already emotionally.

1137
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:04,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I could see that.

1138
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: Liking the dude or loving the guy anyway.

1139
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 3: But what if you just like, if you're.

1140
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,280
Speaker 1: Just doing it and this it could be long distance

1141
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 1: and y'all never meet.

1142
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, that emotional affair though, that at just like what.

1143
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: He's saying on the words, words is so much can

1144
00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: go so much, but physical attraction is different. Than you know,

1145
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,399
Speaker 1: words and emotional attraction you get. I think it's hard

1146
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 1: to get emotional attraction without physical attraction.

1147
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 3: No, that's not true.

1148
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 1: I think it's hard.

1149
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 3: I think you have to be physically attracted. But that's

1150
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 3: the thing.

1151
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 2: If you're having an emotional affair for months, you're physically

1152
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,720
Speaker 2: attracted this person and now this is the person.

1153
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 3: So for me, it's like.

1154
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 1: Physically attracted until you get physical.

1155
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 2: But you could be physically distracted not it's physical, and

1156
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: you could be emotional and you could be like, this

1157
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 2: is now the person that I want to call when

1158
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 2: something exciting happens. This is the person that now when

1159
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 2: I'm driving home from work, I want to be on

1160
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 2: the phone with this person. This is the person now

1161
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 2: that when I'm crying and I'm sad, I'm not going

1162
00:52:58,680 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 2: to my.

1163
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:00,760
Speaker 3: Man no more. I'm going to this person.

1164
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 2: And that to me, uh uh, Like if I find

1165
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 2: out a man cheated, I'm I'm gonna be.

1166
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:11,240
Speaker 1: So much you emotional attraction or physical.

1167
00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:16,439
Speaker 2: I rather you fuck somebody one time and then you're

1168
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 2: like it was a mistake, I'm never going to do

1169
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 2: it again. I'm gonna be It depends on who it

1170
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 2: is first of all. But if it's like a random

1171
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:25,479
Speaker 2: situation and it's a one off and you could block

1172
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 2: this person, we never talk to them again and we

1173
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 2: get past it.

1174
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 3: Cool.

1175
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,919
Speaker 2: I could deal with that and I could possibly get

1176
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 2: past that. But if you're telling a woman you love them,

1177
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 2: and you're talking to somebody every day but never.

1178
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,160
Speaker 1: Met them, like say it's long distance.

1179
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 3: No, that's blowing me, like you you you what?

1180
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 1: I can never get over that they never met.

1181
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 3: I don't know if I can get over it or not.

1182
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 3: But why are you why? Like was I not enough?

1183
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 3: Like could you not call me?

1184
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 2: It's the same thing, but you may have the physical

1185
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 2: interaction the one time could be like I got Like

1186
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 2: I said, it depends on who it is. But if

1187
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 2: it's someone that you have to deal with, I'm not

1188
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 2: I'm done period. But if it's someone that's a one

1189
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 2: time thing and it's like you're never we could just

1190
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 2: never see this person again and we could possibly get

1191
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 2: past that, then yeah, But emotional means that your heart

1192
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 2: is in it 'escially for a man.

1193
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 1: For example, say like you have work, you in an

1194
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:26,560
Speaker 1: office building and it's a lady that he got physical

1195
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 1: with one time, but you see her every day.

1196
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 3: No, it's over for that.

1197
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: But you said one time, no.

1198
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 3: I said, it depends on who it is.

1199
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 2: If you see her every day, if it's your baby mom,

1200
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 2: if it's your office person, if it's someone that you

1201
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 2: work with, it's over for me. I'm not fucking with

1202
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 2: you no more because now there's nothing I can do.

1203
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 3: You're not gonna quit your job. You're not gonna.

1204
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying the girl works with the other girl that

1205
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 1: he had was physical with. He don't see her.

1206
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 3: But you see it again.

1207
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 2: If it's someone that has to be in our lives

1208
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 2: every day or gonna not, you.

1209
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:01,239
Speaker 3: Can't just disappear. I'm not doing all that.

1210
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 2: First of all, you're disrespectful. Why are you having sex

1211
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 2: with someone at my job? Not only are you cheating,

1212
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 2: but you a disrespectful person to let me sit in

1213
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 2: a woman's face.

1214
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:13,200
Speaker 1: Already disrespect by being physical with him, so it's.

1215
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 3: Even more disrespect Okay.

1216
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 2: Imagine if you have a podcast with KG and your

1217
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 2: girl has sex with KG.

1218
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 3: It's over. It's over.

1219
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 2: It's not matter if it was one time. You're never

1220
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 2: talking to this broad again. Stop playing.

1221
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:34,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a rap regardless. Okay.

1222
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 2: Imagine if she's talking to KG every day on the

1223
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 2: phone and texting and their boot up for months.

1224
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 3: And but they don't see each other. But why has

1225
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 3: it got to be somebody because you're saying that.

1226
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 2: Your friend, it's just somebody you Okay, let's just say

1227
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 2: you work with him whatever, someone you work with. She's

1228
00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 2: now bowed up, like it's just first of all, it's

1229
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 2: so disrespectful.

1230
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 3: Don't mess with no one. I have to, like, the

1231
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 3: respect level is crazy.

1232
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 2: Like you you you just went and messed with somebody

1233
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 2: I work with every day. That's weird. That's so disrespectful

1234
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 2: on a whole new level. If you mess with anyone,

1235
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 2: and I've said this on this show, and I mean this,

1236
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 2: if you are physical or even emotional with anybody that

1237
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 2: has to stay in our lives, I am done.

1238
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,720
Speaker 3: Yea dead ass, Like there's no if I found nobody.

1239
00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, if it's like a baby mom, you

1240
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,560
Speaker 2: gotta stay in the life. That's someone that you're gonna

1241
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:30,840
Speaker 2: deal with for the rest of your life.

1242
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:34,880
Speaker 1: People, that's not true, stupid.

1243
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, but imagine if the kid is two, imagine if

1244
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 2: the kid.

1245
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 3: Is seven, you got eight more years, ten more years.

1246
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:45,320
Speaker 3: So I have to deal with this person, see them.

1247
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,359
Speaker 2: This is someone that your man is going to have

1248
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 2: to deal with. You share a child, you, if you're

1249
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 2: in that man's life, hopefully have a relationship with the child.

1250
00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 2: If y'all live together, they are going to have to

1251
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: interact either on a daily basis, a weekly basis, or

1252
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 2: in some capacity on birthdays.

1253
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is you.

1254
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: People talk to their baby moms every day, sending videos

1255
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:10,439
Speaker 2: and doing this, and that they have to interact with them.

1256
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 2: If someone cheats on me in that capacity and fucks

1257
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 2: with them, it's over.

1258
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 3: It's over one hundred percent. If I have proof of that,

1259
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 3: I'm good.

1260
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 2: Because these are people that you have to deal with

1261
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 2: for the rest until the kid is eighteen. You're gonna

1262
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 2: have to be in places and spaces with them. You're

1263
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 2: gonna have to go places with that person. For you

1264
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 2: to say that's a lie, it's just diabolence.

1265
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: That's not because I know people who don't deal with

1266
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: the baby mom. They deal with the like the grandma,

1267
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 1: like the changing of the kid. Might go meet take

1268
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: them to the grandma.

1269
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but what I'm saying, the don't.

1270
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: Pick them up. They'll never see each other. Okay, they

1271
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: don't have to talk to grandma or the grandfather will

1272
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 1: call her get the transaction. He'll go over there and

1273
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 1: get the kid.

1274
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but most people people do that, but a lot

1275
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 2: of people don't. So I'm all I'm saying is if

1276
00:57:53,800 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 2: I'm in a situation where it's someone who's dealing directly

1277
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 2: with that and that happens, that's cool.

1278
00:57:59,400 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 3: I'm good.

1279
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 2: Like at the end of the day, that's just what

1280
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 2: it is. Most people still have to interact with this person.

1281
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 2: And if someone you work with, like, because people cheat

1282
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 2: with the people they work with. That's why there's work

1283
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 2: wives and work husbands and people who work together fall

1284
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 2: in love. If it's that, it's over because you have

1285
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:17,240
Speaker 2: to work with this person.

1286
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 3: Now it's over.

1287
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 2: Like there's no reason someone should be cheating in that capacity,

1288
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying, Like, if you are

1289
00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 2: cheating with someone who you know is gonna have to

1290
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 2: be in your life, that is fucked up to me,

1291
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 2: And I can't look past that at all.

1292
00:58:34,120 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 3: Like I'm not looking past that, you know what I'm saying.

1293
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 2: So next thing, would you rather date someone extremely loyal

1294
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 2: but super boring?

1295
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 3: Doesn't hit it? Does it vibe?

1296
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 2: Just like always wants to be home chilling or exciting,

1297
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 2: but like super unpredictable, like just all over the place.

1298
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: Probably unpredictable. I know how to deal with them. That's

1299
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: like the black women.

1300
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 3: See what I'm saying.

1301
00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 1: No, but that's us. That's what we are. You know,

1302
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 1: we were you know, we got swag. You know we

1303
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 1: ain't boring. That's a culture. So that's what it is.

1304
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 3: I think I'm a boring person. I think I'm like

1305
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 3: a chill.

1306
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: I know you, I know you're fucking liing. What the hell?

1307
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 1: What the helly? Oh my god, you liing? Okay?

1308
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 2: Would you rather be with someone who has amazing sex

1309
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 2: but emotional support is like really poor, like it's not supportive,

1310
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 2: not helping you through ship, not they're not consistent. Or

1311
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 2: would you rather have amazing emotional support but the sex

1312
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 2: is cool, I'll pass.

1313
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 3: No, you gotta you gotta say, it's not an option

1314
00:59:59,320 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 3: to pass.

1315
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: You have to uh, probably emotional support, Yeah, I'm gonna say.

1316
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 3: But then you're gonna probably cheat.

1317
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 1: I mean you can cheat if the sex is good.

1318
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 2: People like, yeah, people cheat if the sex is good,

1319
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 2: but you're more likely to cheat if it's not. You're

1320
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 2: gonna be more filled by temptation. I'm not saying your

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01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:24,440
Speaker 2: answer is wrong.

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Speaker 1: I was just I just I think emotionally, you just

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01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: you just you know, as me and we help bear

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01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: the weight of the world, and you need more emotional support.

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01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 3: I gets my time.

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01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: Sex can last however many hours or whatever, but then everywhere, well,

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01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I'm just saying, well, the sex and

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01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 1: intimacy can last you know, some you know, some hours,

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01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 1: but then once that's over, it's just like, yeah, no

1330
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 1: fucking support, you know. So I'm gonna go emotional support

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01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 1: and cool.

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01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm gonna say emotional support for sure. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: play your first five dollars. All right, at the end

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Speaker 2: of the day, me, unfortunately, you know, Paul did say

1338
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 2: all those things about black women, and you know we're going.

1339
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Speaker 3: To put all of that in here.

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01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:28,360
Speaker 2: You heard what I said, We know what you said, Paul.

1341
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 2: You we know what you said. Paul and me I still.

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01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 1: Rock with the black queens. Don't even go there. I

1343
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 1: just said, it's certain races I got overall. When you

1344
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: look at the overall, you.

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Speaker 3: Never said that until today. This is your first time.

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01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 1: So we'll let me get out of context.

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01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I'm going to say this. I still love

1348
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 2: black men. I think black men are incredible. I love y'all,

1349
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 2: and don't ever get that twisted. But I'm also going

1350
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 2: to say that if you if Paul wants to go

1351
01:01:56,160 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 2: day Overseas and Chinese, and if you know, if the

1352
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 2: Sindale wants to be with Tom Holland or whatever beautiful thing,

1353
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 2: I think it's it don't matter where. But what we're

1354
01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 2: not going to continue to do is put down black

1355
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 2: women while we're trying to other races.

1356
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 3: I didn't, I'm not I'm not talking to you.

1357
01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 2: I'm just saying in general, I noticed that black man

1358
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,439
Speaker 2: they'll always be like, oh I like this race because

1359
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 2: they do this, and black women don't like. Stop if

1360
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 2: you like that race, just go be with that race.

1361
01:02:30,480 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, like, stop trying to put

1362
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 2: other people down. And I may have contradicting myself a

1363
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:38,959
Speaker 2: million times because I want to be more like Paul

1364
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 2: and I'm trying to like be you know, let him

1365
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,439
Speaker 2: lead by example on how to be so like Now,

1366
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,919
Speaker 2: I might have contradicted myself, but I still love y'all

1367
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 2: black man, I do, I do, I do.

1368
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 3: I love y'all to life.

1369
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 2: Anyways, any last thoughts, Damn, that was one whole show segment.

1370
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:04,640
Speaker 1: At the whole show, I got my point across. Yeah, okay,

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01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 1: I want today.

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01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 3: Okay, you may have one, but by the one today,

1373
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:13,280
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1374
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 1: It's close.

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01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, at the end of the day, I love Can.

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01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 1: We just call this segment at the end of the day.

1377
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 1: We need to just segment the end of the day?

1378
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: Sponsored boy, end of the day. That's your favorite word.

1379
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 3: That's not a word saying okay.

1380
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: That's your thing or I'm like, what's the all right,

1381
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: we're doing what at the end of the day. It's

1382
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: another thing say. But anyway, what we got next?

1383
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 3: We got nothing? The show was over.

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01:03:50,960 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much for joining an episode of

1385
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 2: The Truth after Dark.

1386
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 3: I still love you guys. I love black people. I

1387
01:03:58,400 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 3: love black lives.

1388
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 1: Make sure you come like a subscribe, tell us your

1389
01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:04,440
Speaker 1: thoughts on that. This is a good conversation. Man, you

1390
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 1: don't make sure you subscribe to us like it and

1391
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 1: tell us your thoughts, you know, ask us some questions.

1392
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: We'll put it on the next show.

1393
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 3: Peace.

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01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: Peace. This is the taking over the game, all right, everybody,

1395
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 1: welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 3: Do you think that men or women are more toxic