WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Leave Wicky Alone 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:02.160 It's Brook and Jeffrey and this is the Second Date 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:05.280 Update podcast. Thanks so much for being here. And today 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:08.200 one of our listeners got caught in the car with 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:13.400 another woman. But it is definitely not what you think. No, 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:17.919 we didn't really raise jealousy in you. Yes, yeah, yeah, 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:19.520 so you're gonna hear that in just a second. We 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:20.880 got a brand new one. 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:21.920 But first we love to highlight you. 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:24.799 What's on the comments. Yes, Jewels of all trades said, 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:27.280 thank you for continuing to give me reasons to want 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:30.320 to stay single. El oh yeah, what's he here? 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:32.040 Today's Oh yeah? 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:35.279 Oh man, Yeah, okay, we're just going to get into it. 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:38.479 Brand new episode starts right now, Brook and Jeffrey in 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:38.960 the morning. 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:40.520 Second Date Updates. 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:45.280 We have another listener who believes they already know the 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:47.680 reason why they're not getting a call back. 0:00:47.840 --> 0:00:50.120 I love this. I feel like it's people doing the. 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:50.760 Work for us. 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:55.160 Yes, you know, make us work less. Yeah, we appreciate that. 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:58.000 And similar to a previous call we did recently, a 0:00:58.160 --> 0:00:59.800 parent was involved. 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:03.200 What is going on? What is everyone bringing their moms 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:03.960 and dads to date? 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:06.000 Well, I don't know all the details. That's all I 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:08.480 got from the email. I don't know which parent it was, 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:12.720 what happened, how much tongue was used. Let's make sure 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:15.399 we get all the deats from our listener, Ricky, Ricky, 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:16.400 welcome to the show. 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:17.640 Thanks for having me. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:21.880 Can we just start with your parents or their parents? 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:22.759 Okay? 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:23.039 I yess. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:24.560 They should start at the beginning. 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:27.680 Yeah, before we get into all the hot parent talk. 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:30.199 And I definitely do want to get there, well, said Jeff, 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:32.200 Let's start with the girl that you met. What's her 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:33.560 name and how did you meet her? 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:36.840 Her name is Annette. I met her on a date 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.400 and say, this is a new one my friend recommended 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:42.480 to me. Okay, very up and coming. It's it's called 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.000 it can Do Better. It's weird, but I liked it. 0:01:45.000 --> 0:01:47.520 It's can do better, can do better. 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:49.640 Okay, I don't think I belong on that side. 0:01:49.760 --> 0:01:56.559 Yeah, wait for worse is the other? After? 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:59.600 I go all right, what makes this app different? 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:02.600 Well, you up to had a picture of yourself, which 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:05.440 is pretty standard. But what you do is you also 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:08.680 draw a picture of the person you're looking for. So 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.720 you draw it, Yeah, you draw it. 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:13.919 Do you have to be wait, do you have to 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:16.200 be a good artist? Or are you just looking at 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:17.560 stick figures. Yeah. 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:21.000 Yeah, there's lots of different types. You know, there's good ones, 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.400 there's bad ones. I'd say mine was pretty in the middle. 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:26.400 I want to see people's drawings. 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:30.520 So you drew a picture of your ideal match, and 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:32.760 that turned out to be in that it sounds like, and. 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:36.360 It finds the person like in the system. That's Is 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:37.200 that how it works? 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:39.160 I'm not sure if that's how it works. But she 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:41.880 reached out to me and she said that she kind 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:44.960 of looks like the picture, and she did a little bit. 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:47.240 Can I ask what was in the drawing? 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.000 You know, it was green eyes and brown hair, and 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:52.359 she had green eyes and brown hair. 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:54.760 Actually, wow, that's rare. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.960 Yeah, I never see that. So you internet, I guess 0:02:58.000 --> 0:02:59.440 went out on a date. What did you do? 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:04.720 Yes, So this is embarrassing to say, but this is 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:05.880 where we get to the parent talk. 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:09.480 Okay, how did the parents come into play? 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:13.200 You know, we decided to meet at a westront and oh, 0:03:13.320 --> 0:03:15.120 I was hoping that she was going to be waiting 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:17.800 for me inside, but she was waiting outside and she 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:24.600 saw me get dropped off by my mom's where the mom? 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:28.080 Okay, she was just your chaperone, Your mom didn't stick around, 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:29.919 did she No? 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.440 No, but it would have been a thing that I 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:36.000 could tried to play off. But fortunately she also yelled 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:39.680 out after I got the cause, good luck, sweetie. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:44.040 Mom. Why did your mom drive you? Yeah, because that's 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:45.120 what matters. 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:47.800 Look, I've just had a bit of a situation. I 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.280 don't want to get too into it. But it's just temporary. 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:51.120 It's not permanent. 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:53.920 And you know, why do I feel suspended driver's license 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:54.520 for some reason? 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:55.280 Yeah? 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:57.800 This is like temporary for the last ten years. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:01.120 Yeah, which we all can relate to those things. By 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:02.120 the way, don't feel ashamed. 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:04.080 If my mom could dropped off I take the ride. Yeah, 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:07.040 she's just too busy. Were you able to make a 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:09.240 joke about it, because that's a great way to recover. 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:12.920 Yeah, you know, we were laughing, and she said she 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:16.040 didn't have a problem with it. But the date only 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:18.680 last said about an hour. And this is also a 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.000 little bit weird. But I'm not really used to go 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.160 out to west onst. All that much, so maybe I 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:25.839 don't know. I was very excited and she thought that 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:26.480 was weird. 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:29.680 But can I ask, how did you express being excited 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:31.000 at the restaurant? 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.400 I don't know, I was just a little over enthusiastic. 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:37.240 I guess just then they bring out to you. I 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:40.800 just kept complimenting the service and everything. Now know I 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:42.280 wasn't playing it cool enough. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:45.880 There, like, Wow, they washed their dishes for you. 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:49.159 But you know, genuine positive energy can be charming, you know, 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:49.960 like you were. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:50.840 I get it. 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:53.039 You know, you should have seen me in sixth grade 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:56.040 the first time we ever were able to get delivery pizzas. 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:59.839 Oh boy, Oh it was like being a dizzyland Wow. 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:02.880 We all greeted the guy at the door. This is 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:05.919 not helping, I streamed. I couldn't believe that they were 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:07.240 gonna bring it to. 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:08.400 Us, No way. 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:10.040 I don't know what happens when you grew up. 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:12.080 In a little town, you know, but you're not necessarily 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:14.320 painting the best image right here for Ricky. 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:16.360 I don't think it's innocent and loving. 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:17.920 You're a quiet, awkward night. 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:21.280 It's actually as well said, did you feel like there 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:23.760 was a connection happening between you and Annette while you 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:24.440 were eating together? 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.960 I mean, I felt one, but I don't know if 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:31.440 it was super cold, so I mean, I think it 0:05:31.520 --> 0:05:33.919 might have just been maybe me being weird about the 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.839 restaurant or my mom dropped me off, But I just 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:38.719 want to know why she's not calling me back. 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:41.120 And it's interesting. Mom's like, bye, honey, have fun. 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:43.920 He's like, I am so excited to be here. 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:46.159 It doesn't seem like she got dropped for a playdate. 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:48.440 Wait was she there when your mom picked you up? 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:48.720 Oh? 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:49.600 Yeah, how did it end? 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:52.960 Yeah? My mom was just shopping at Target nearby and 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:53.560 picked me up. 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:57.360 But didn't NET witness that part too. 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:01.960 Probably here's the problem. 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:03.840 It sounds like the middle of the day actually wasn't 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:06.200 that bad. But how you start and end of date 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:08.000 is probably the most important piece. 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:10.239 Last impression. 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.240 You don't want to book nd it with mom talk. 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:14.800 I like you play it off good. 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:15.520 But I don't know. 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:18.960 Kirsty by saying good luck, she should have said break 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:19.960 a leg, sweetie. 0:06:20.279 --> 0:06:22.880 Yeah, I remember. 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:27.120 So when you said you think you know the reason? Why? 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:30.600 Is it because the whole situation with your mom? 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:33.240 Yeah, she said she was okay with it, but I 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:34.480 don't know if she really was. 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:36.400 Have you heard from her at all? 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.400 Uh? No? If you can get a hold of her, 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:40.560 that would be the first. 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:43.679 Okay, Okay, Well let's find out when we call Annette 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:46.320 for you and see if your mom is the person 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:49.200 who actually blocked you from finding true love when we 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:53.599 do happening way too often. Right now, we'll do it 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:55.600 with your second date update right after this. 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:58.920 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:02.640 There is nothing like a mother's love. 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:04.920 Well, that's true. 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:08.159 When she helps you take your first steps, reads you 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:11.680 doctor Seuss books at night, yeah, and drops you off 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:15.440 for your date in her Honda Odyssey while shouting good luck, honey, 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:16.720 mommy loves you. 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.840 I think it was actually sweetie, Oh yeah. 0:07:21.120 --> 0:07:22.840 You said that. I almost asked where her car was, 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:23.760 but I was like, I don't want to. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:26.480 That was what I pictured in my mind, because that's 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:30.080 what actually happened to our listener, Ricky. His mom dropped 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:32.840 him off and picked him up from his dinner date 0:07:32.920 --> 0:07:33.400 with Annett. 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.120 Dude, if she hadn't have yelled, he could have pretended 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:37.160 it was his Uber driver. 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:41.280 Yeah, yeah, for sure next time, if mom's if you're 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:42.520 dropping your kids off. 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.600 Be the Uber driver or just stay two blocks away. 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:45.120 And walk there. 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:49.040 You can go to your Uber drivers. Don't shout good luck, 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:52.240 sweetie when you walk into the places you're going. 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:53.440 That's a five star review. 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:55.800 I really should stop selecting the silent mode. 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:59.320 You really should. But yes, that is the reason Ricky 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.080 is worried that a Nette saw it, and it could 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:04.720 be the reason she's ghosting, right Ricky. 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:09.880 Yeah, okay, okay, I mean, okay, if we get you 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:12.680 another shot, how are you getting to the next date? 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.800 I just need to understand what I did and then I. 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:18.720 Can know the correct answer is ride share. 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:23.960 That's the correct and Brooke might even be willing to 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:26.960 pay for Yeah, we could cover that. We just have 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:29.240 to get a yes from a net first, So let's 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.280 dial her number. Hopefully she picks up and we can 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:41.160 get some answers. Here we go, Hello, Hi, is this 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:46.680 a net? Yeah, hey Annette, thanks for answering. We're a 0:08:46.800 --> 0:08:49.080 radio show on the other line here we're called Brook 0:08:49.080 --> 0:08:49.880 and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:54.000 Nobody say anything. Okay, sound crazy? 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:54.760 There really are people. 0:08:57.240 --> 0:08:59.600 I like that idea, though, one of these. 0:08:59.440 --> 0:08:59.960 Times we should. 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.240 Yeah, what's happening is you're part of a segment that 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:05.320 we're doing now. It's called the second Date Update. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:06.240 Welcome to it. 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:12.760 Yeah, okay, I know it's probably weird to getting this call, 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:14.640 but it's not supposed to be a scary thing. We're 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.880 just trying to help one of our listeners who went 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:19.760 out on a date with you recently, a guy named Ricky. 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:23.440 Oh seriously, Yeah. 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:30.520 It was Ricky told us about your hangout and said 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:32.240 he had a great time with you. Oh. 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:34.120 He even told us about the app that you guys 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:35.640 met on. That was kind of cool, where you like 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:39.240 draw pictures of who you're looking for. That's interesting. 0:09:40.360 --> 0:09:43.160 This is very strange that he's like calling you about 0:09:43.160 --> 0:09:45.640 this and talking about my life. 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:46.960 His life too. 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:48.960 Yeah, yeah, it's a shared life. 0:09:49.080 --> 0:09:53.760 Because well it's not true, but you should have said 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:55.760 that he went on a date with you, and so 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:57.839 we wanted to know some of the details about how 0:09:57.840 --> 0:09:59.520 you met and what you did when you went to 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:03.400 the restaurant together, because he really liked you and felt 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:05.400 a connection and wants to see you again. 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:08.199 Why would I tell you any of this. 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:13.199 Because you connection so decency for Ricky, Because Ricky. 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:15.959 Sorry, but did you say that you didn't feel a connection? 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:17.440 Correct? 0:10:17.920 --> 0:10:20.800 Is there a reason? Yeah, because we do know a 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:23.360 little bit about what happened, but we'd like to hear 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:24.120 your side of it. 0:10:24.880 --> 0:10:26.720 Well, I'm curious about what he told you. 0:10:27.760 --> 0:10:29.120 We know that. 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.760 You met up at a restaurant and his ride was 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:33.280 his mother. 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:37.960 Yeah, apparently you saw because you were outside the restaurant. 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:38.920 And he knows that's not normal. 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:41.440 Yeah, that was a little weird. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:44.319 Okay, but that, oh that is not weird. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:47.160 Yeah, we thought that would be the main reason. In fact, 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:47.679 he thought that. 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:50.760 Oh there's something else that was emphatic. 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:52.839 Would you mind sharing what else? 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:56.920 Okay, there was a lot of clapping. 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:01.040 Clapping, He doesn't go out that much, she said. 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:04.120 Oh yeah, he did mention he who was maybe too 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.440 excited about the restaurant because he doesn't go to him 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:06.959 very often. 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:08.400 When was he clapping? 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:12.920 Oh for everything, like every course that came. 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:18.400 That's kind of cute though, Like he's excited, and I 0:11:18.440 --> 0:11:20.360 mean it's got to make the wait staff feel good, 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:25.240 like my water be result. 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.400 This is a grown man on a date, y'all. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:30.560 Like it wasn't the thing. 0:11:30.760 --> 0:11:32.280 He wasn't a grown man on a date? 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:33.439 Did he tell you this part? 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:37.440 He chooses to live his life as a kid. 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:41.560 Wait, what what do you mean by that? Exactly what 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:41.920 I said. 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.360 That's what he told me in the restaurant. Like he 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:46.760 has a full time, regular job, but he lives with 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.920 his parents, and he's kind of like in denial about 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:53.560 actually growing up what because he just wants to like 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.680 shut things out and live as a kid because it's 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:56.440 more simple. 0:11:56.840 --> 0:12:00.319 So he was clapping because he was acting like a child. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:02.720 On purpose, I believe. 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:06.400 So. Did he order from the children's menu? 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:09.000 No, but he got like a burger and fries so 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:10.240 he could have you know what I mean. 0:12:10.400 --> 0:12:14.440 Like, so that's one thing to be like immature and 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:16.040 enjoy those things, but. 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.640 To actively maybe he acts like a kid, is different. 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:20.079 I don't know where the line is he is. 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:22.800 I mean maybe he was talking about like childlike wonder 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.839 like he wants to keep that, but. 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:29.559 Like his mom dropped him off, like she does his laundry, 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:32.280 Like I don't That's not what I'm looking for in 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:34.439 a partner like yo. 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:35.920 He got out of the car. 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:40.840 I sincerely believe he was wearing a pajama top. 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:44.160 He definitely didn't act like a child when we talked 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:45.760 to him, and he didn't mention any of this. 0:12:45.960 --> 0:12:47.280 Or didn't mention any of this. 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:50.960 Well, he did tell us that he was excited. We 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:53.400 just didn't know there was you know, happy clapping every 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:54.680 time food came to the table. 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:56.960 It sounded like we were talking to an adult man 0:12:57.320 --> 0:12:58.880 on the phone when we talked to him. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:00.920 Well, that's what I thought going into it. 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:03.760 I mean, if you don't believe us, you can definitely 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:05.800 hear it straight from Ricky because he's on the other 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:09.480 line right now listening to this call like doggies clapping 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:11.280 and waiting to speak to you. 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:12.520 Are you serious? 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:14.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:15.520 Ricky there. 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:23.280 Hi. I didn't think this was such a problem for you. 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:27.000 I thought that you like the fact that I'm happy 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:30.160 and I try to keep a childlike but you said 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.960 sense of wonder and excitement about things. 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:37.480 But I just there's a difference between like a boyish 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:40.440 energy and a being in denial about being a grown up. 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.800 Yeah, I know, I'm a glown up. I have a job. 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:45.359 You said that, I'm an accountant. 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:47.160 You're an accountant. You're a child accountant. 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:50.280 But wait, you told her Ricky, like I choose to 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:52.600 live my life like a child. She said, those were 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:53.240 your words. 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:56.520 Maybe she misunderstood what you were saying, Like, maybe re 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.040 explain it so she gets it. 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:03.800 Look, I understand I'm fully glown I'm not in denial 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:08.559 about that. It's just that being an adult sucks. Everybody 0:14:08.640 --> 0:14:13.240 hates it. And yeah, I have the opportunity to just 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.040 not pay when not pay mortgage And. 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.680 That makes it sound more like you're free loaded your parents. No, 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:21.120 what are you. 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:21.920 Working for then? 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:25.240 Like I save money for things that I like, you know, 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:26.880 like big lego sets or. 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:34.440 Legos speak to adults too. Yes, that's probably not the best. 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:36.280 Example of what you spend your money on right now, 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:37.760 but it's not impressive. 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:39.360 To be like, this is a thousand dollars set. 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:42.000 Still now if you don't have a real house to 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:42.440 put it in. 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:47.320 But financial planning is financial planning, and that's an adult 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:47.880 skill set. 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:48.240 True. 0:14:48.560 --> 0:14:51.960 I told you that this is just temporary and that 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:55.080 one day I will get my own place and I'll 0:14:55.080 --> 0:14:57.360 be able to afford it, because this whole time, I've 0:14:57.360 --> 0:15:00.880 been choosing to live like a child. And it's because 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:04.560 people are so stressed out, people are so upset, and 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:08.200 I'm a happy person and I choose to be that's good. 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:14.520 I have a hard time arguing with the log Yeah. 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:16.920 You're right, buddy, Ricky, you could be happy and still 0:15:16.920 --> 0:15:17.440 be a man. 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:19.400 You need to prove to her that you're a man 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:20.400 to get another chance. 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:24.800 Brookie's happy. Why are you trying to take away happy children? 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:29.240 Come on, it's not your kids, Brooks. 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:31.640 Look, just because society tells you you need to live 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:33.440 a certain way doesn't mean you have to. Since I 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:36.520 has been wrong about a lot of things, Hey. 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:37.920 Society has been wrong about a lot of things. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:40.000 He's wrong. Did you just drop your ar because you're 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:40.760 talking like a child. 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:43.360 I've kind of been hearing that the whole call, have you. 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:45.960 Yes, he's been doing it the whole time. You haven't noticed? 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:49.240 No, I mean I've been wondering, not too like, are 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:50.280 you doing that on purpose? 0:15:51.400 --> 0:15:53.560 I mean, I can talk normally if you prefer this. 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:58.280 Oh my god, my god, Ricky, are you kidding me? 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:00.720 You're talking like a child? 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:02.360 That was? 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:04.800 Do you tell people your name is Wicky? 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:06.840 God? 0:16:07.400 --> 0:16:09.920 I mean, I'm not cartoonish about it. It's just I 0:16:10.040 --> 0:16:12.760 like speaking that way. It just makes people expect less 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:12.960 of me. 0:16:13.200 --> 0:16:15.480 And I hate it when women do baby talk too. 0:16:15.640 --> 0:16:16.760 I just that's my line. 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.480 I was with you, Ricky until that baby talk. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:23.800 It's child talk. It's one step above. And you're just 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:26.600 jealous because Ricky is the happiest boy in this whole universe. 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:29.720 And we would like to set you up a net 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:33.120 with the happiest boy. If you're willing to go out 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:35.040 with him one more time, we would pay for that date. 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:40.280 Absolutely not the uber ride, No mom, anywhere in sight. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:44.280 Yeah they have Ubertine, No, they do love that. 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:46.160 Maybe a coloring book in the back seat. 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:48.440 Yeah, at this point that would feel predatory. 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:48.880 I'm not. 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:52.120 Ricky. 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:54.240 I don't know what's wrong with you. I'm a man. 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:58.920 Okay, Ricky, it's going to be a no from a 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:00.280 net today. I'm so sorry. 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.360 Bud back to the data apps. 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:08.280 Yeah, he's gonna have a good dance Brook and Jeffrey 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:12.879 in the morning. God, I just hope Ricky's mom was 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:15.439 not listening to that call, because he is definitely going 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:17.800 to be put on time out for raising his voice 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:19.280 and speaking like a grown man. 0:17:20.840 --> 0:17:21.680 He was so hard. 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:24.240 Yeah, you struggled the most out of anybody in the room, 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:24.640 for sure. 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:28.240 I didn't want to say they mean, but also like, 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:30.720 let's not do this. Yeah, you know. 0:17:31.320 --> 0:17:33.800 Listen, the good news about Ricky is he makes the 0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:37.520 rest of the male population look way more datable in comparison. 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:40.800 Well, that's true, and it makes even you look manly, 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:41.919