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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey and this is the Second Date

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Speaker 1: Update podcast. Thanks so much for being here. And today

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners got caught in the car with

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Speaker 1: another woman. But it is definitely not what you think. No,

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Speaker 1: we didn't really raise jealousy in you. Yes, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you're gonna hear that in just a second. We

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Speaker 1: got a brand new one.

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Speaker 2: But first we love to highlight you.

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Speaker 1: What's on the comments. Yes, Jewels of all trades said,

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Speaker 1: thank you for continuing to give me reasons to want

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Speaker 1: to stay single. El oh yeah, what's he here?

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Speaker 2: Today's Oh yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, okay, we're just going to get into it.

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Speaker 1: Brand new episode starts right now, Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning.

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Speaker 2: Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 3: We have another listener who believes they already know the

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Speaker 3: reason why they're not getting a call back.

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Speaker 1: I love this. I feel like it's people doing the.

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Speaker 2: Work for us.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you know, make us work less. Yeah, we appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: And similar to a previous call we did recently, a

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Speaker 3: parent was involved.

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Speaker 1: What is going on? What is everyone bringing their moms

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Speaker 1: and dads to date?

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know all the details. That's all I

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Speaker 3: got from the email. I don't know which parent it was,

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Speaker 3: what happened, how much tongue was used. Let's make sure

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Speaker 3: we get all the deats from our listener, Ricky, Ricky,

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Speaker 3: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Can we just start with your parents or their parents?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: I yess.

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Speaker 4: They should start at the beginning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, before we get into all the hot parent talk.

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Speaker 3: And I definitely do want to get there, well, said Jeff,

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Speaker 3: Let's start with the girl that you met. What's her

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Speaker 3: name and how did you meet her?

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Speaker 4: Her name is Annette. I met her on a date

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Speaker 4: and say, this is a new one my friend recommended

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Speaker 4: to me. Okay, very up and coming. It's it's called

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Speaker 4: it can Do Better. It's weird, but I liked it.

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Speaker 1: It's can do better, can do better.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I don't think I belong on that side.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wait for worse is the other? After?

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Speaker 3: I go all right, what makes this app different?

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Speaker 4: Well, you up to had a picture of yourself, which

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Speaker 4: is pretty standard. But what you do is you also

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Speaker 4: draw a picture of the person you're looking for. So

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Speaker 4: you draw it, Yeah, you draw it.

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Speaker 1: Do you have to be wait, do you have to

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Speaker 1: be a good artist? Or are you just looking at

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Speaker 1: stick figures. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's lots of different types. You know, there's good ones,

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Speaker 4: there's bad ones. I'd say mine was pretty in the middle.

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Speaker 1: I want to see people's drawings.

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Speaker 3: So you drew a picture of your ideal match, and

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Speaker 3: that turned out to be in that it sounds like, and.

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Speaker 6: It finds the person like in the system. That's Is

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Speaker 6: that how it works?

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure if that's how it works. But she

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Speaker 4: reached out to me and she said that she kind

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Speaker 4: of looks like the picture, and she did a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask what was in the drawing?

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Speaker 4: You know, it was green eyes and brown hair, and

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Speaker 4: she had green eyes and brown hair.

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Speaker 1: Actually, wow, that's rare.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I never see that. So you internet, I guess

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Speaker 3: went out on a date. What did you do?

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Speaker 4: Yes, So this is embarrassing to say, but this is

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Speaker 4: where we get to the parent talk.

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Speaker 3: Okay, how did the parents come into play?

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Speaker 4: You know, we decided to meet at a westront and oh,

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Speaker 4: I was hoping that she was going to be waiting

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Speaker 4: for me inside, but she was waiting outside and she

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Speaker 4: saw me get dropped off by my mom's where the mom?

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Speaker 3: Okay, she was just your chaperone, Your mom didn't stick around,

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Speaker 4: No, but it would have been a thing that I

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Speaker 4: out after I got the cause, good luck, sweetie.

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Speaker 1: Mom. Why did your mom drive you? Yeah, because that's

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Speaker 4: Look, I've just had a bit of a situation. I

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Speaker 4: don't want to get too into it. But it's just temporary.

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Speaker 4: It's not permanent.

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Speaker 1: And you know, why do I feel suspended driver's license

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: This is like temporary for the last ten years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which we all can relate to those things. By

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Speaker 3: the way, don't feel ashamed.

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Speaker 1: If my mom could dropped off I take the ride. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's just too busy. Were you able to make a

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Speaker 1: joke about it, because that's a great way to recover.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, we were laughing, and she said she

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Speaker 4: didn't have a problem with it. But the date only

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Speaker 4: last said about an hour. And this is also a

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Speaker 4: little bit weird. But I'm not really used to go

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Speaker 4: don't know. I was very excited and she thought that

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Speaker 1: But can I ask, how did you express being excited

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I was just a little over enthusiastic.

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Speaker 4: I guess just then they bring out to you. I

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Speaker 4: just kept complimenting the service and everything. Now know I

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Speaker 4: wasn't playing it cool enough.

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Speaker 7: There, like, Wow, they washed their dishes for you.

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Speaker 6: But you know, genuine positive energy can be charming, you know,

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Speaker 6: like you were.

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Speaker 2: I get it.

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Speaker 1: You know, you should have seen me in sixth grade

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Speaker 1: the first time we ever were able to get delivery pizzas.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, Oh it was like being a dizzyland Wow.

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Speaker 2: We all greeted the guy at the door. This is

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Speaker 2: not helping, I streamed. I couldn't believe that they were

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Speaker 6: Us, No way.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what happens when you grew up.

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Speaker 3: In a little town, you know, but you're not necessarily

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Speaker 3: painting the best image right here for Ricky.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's innocent and loving.

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Speaker 2: You're a quiet, awkward night.

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Speaker 3: It's actually as well said, did you feel like there

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Speaker 3: was a connection happening between you and Annette while you

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Speaker 4: I mean, I felt one, but I don't know if

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Speaker 6: And it's interesting. Mom's like, bye, honey, have fun.

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Speaker 3: He's like, I am so excited to be here.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't seem like she got dropped for a playdate.

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Speaker 1: Wait was she there when your mom picked you up?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how did it end?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? My mom was just shopping at Target nearby and

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Speaker 1: But didn't NET witness that part too.

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Speaker 2: Probably here's the problem.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like the middle of the day actually wasn't

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Speaker 1: that bad. But how you start and end of date

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Speaker 1: is probably the most important piece.

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Speaker 6: Last impression.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to book nd it with mom talk.

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Speaker 2: I like you play it off good.

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Speaker 6: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Kirsty by saying good luck, she should have said break

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Speaker 1: a leg, sweetie.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I remember.

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Speaker 3: So when you said you think you know the reason? Why?

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Speaker 3: Is it because the whole situation with your mom?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she said she was okay with it, but I

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Speaker 1: Have you heard from her at all?

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Speaker 4: Uh? No? If you can get a hold of her,

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Speaker 4: that would be the first.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, Well let's find out when we call Annette

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Speaker 3: for you and see if your mom is the person

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Speaker 3: who actually blocked you from finding true love when we

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Speaker 3: do happening way too often. Right now, we'll do it

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Speaker 3: with your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 3: There is nothing like a mother's love.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's true.

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Speaker 3: When she helps you take your first steps, reads you

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Speaker 3: doctor Seuss books at night, yeah, and drops you off

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Speaker 3: for your date in her Honda Odyssey while shouting good luck, honey,

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Speaker 3: mommy loves you.

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Speaker 1: I think it was actually sweetie, Oh yeah.

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Speaker 6: You said that. I almost asked where her car was,

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Speaker 6: but I was like, I don't want to.

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Speaker 3: That was what I pictured in my mind, because that's

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Speaker 3: what actually happened to our listener, Ricky. His mom dropped

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Speaker 3: him off and picked him up from his dinner date

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Speaker 3: with Annett.

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Speaker 1: Dude, if she hadn't have yelled, he could have pretended

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Speaker 1: it was his Uber driver.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, for sure next time, if mom's if you're

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Speaker 2: Be the Uber driver or just stay two blocks away.

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Speaker 6: And walk there.

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Speaker 3: You can go to your Uber drivers. Don't shout good luck,

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Speaker 3: sweetie when you walk into the places you're going.

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Speaker 6: That's a five star review.

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Speaker 1: I really should stop selecting the silent mode.

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Speaker 3: You really should. But yes, that is the reason Ricky

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Speaker 3: is worried that a Nette saw it, and it could

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Speaker 3: be the reason she's ghosting, right Ricky.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, I mean, okay, if we get you

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Speaker 1: another shot, how are you getting to the next date?

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Speaker 4: I just need to understand what I did and then I.

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Speaker 1: Can know the correct answer is ride share.

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Speaker 3: That's the correct and Brooke might even be willing to

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Speaker 3: pay for Yeah, we could cover that. We just have

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Speaker 3: to get a yes from a net first, So let's

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Speaker 3: dial her number. Hopefully she picks up and we can

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Speaker 3: get some answers. Here we go, Hello, Hi, is this

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Speaker 3: a net? Yeah, hey Annette, thanks for answering. We're a

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Speaker 3: radio show on the other line here we're called Brook

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Speaker 3: and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 6: Nobody say anything. Okay, sound crazy?

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Speaker 3: There really are people.

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Speaker 1: I like that idea, though, one of these.

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Speaker 6: Times we should.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what's happening is you're part of a segment that

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Speaker 3: we're doing now. It's called the second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I know it's probably weird to getting this call,

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Speaker 3: but it's not supposed to be a scary thing. We're

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Speaker 3: just trying to help one of our listeners who went

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Speaker 3: out on a date with you recently, a guy named Ricky.

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Speaker 4: Oh seriously, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: It was Ricky told us about your hangout and said

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Speaker 3: he had a great time with you. Oh.

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Speaker 1: He even told us about the app that you guys

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Speaker 1: met on. That was kind of cool, where you like

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Speaker 1: draw pictures of who you're looking for. That's interesting.

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Speaker 5: This is very strange that he's like calling you about

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Speaker 5: this and talking about my life.

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Speaker 1: His life too.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's a shared life.

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Speaker 7: Because well it's not true, but you should have said

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Speaker 4: Why would I tell you any of this.

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Speaker 1: Because you connection so decency for Ricky, Because Ricky.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, but did you say that you didn't feel a connection?

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Speaker 5: Correct?

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Speaker 3: Is there a reason? Yeah, because we do know a

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm curious about what he told you.

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Speaker 7: We know that.

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Speaker 3: You met up at a restaurant and his ride was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, apparently you saw because you were outside the restaurant.

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Speaker 6: And he knows that's not normal.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that was a little weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but that, oh that is not weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we thought that would be the main reason. In fact,

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Speaker 1: Oh there's something else that was emphatic.

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Speaker 3: Would you mind sharing what else?

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Speaker 4: Okay, there was a lot of clapping.

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Speaker 5: Clapping, He doesn't go out that much, she said.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he did mention he who was maybe too

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Speaker 3: When was he clapping?

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Speaker 4: Oh for everything, like every course that came.

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Speaker 5: This is a grown man on a date, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Like it wasn't the thing.

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Speaker 5: He wasn't a grown man on a date?

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Speaker 4: Did he tell you this part?

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Speaker 5: He chooses to live his life as a kid.

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Speaker 1: Wait, what what do you mean by that? Exactly what

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Speaker 5: That's what he told me in the restaurant. Like he

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Speaker 1: So he was clapping because he was acting like a child.

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Speaker 3: On purpose, I believe.

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Speaker 1: So. Did he order from the children's menu?

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Speaker 5: No, but he got like a burger and fries so

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Speaker 3: Like, so that's one thing to be like immature and

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Speaker 6: To actively maybe he acts like a kid, is different.

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe he was talking about like childlike wonder

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Speaker 5: Like his mom dropped him off, like she does his laundry,

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Speaker 5: Like I don't That's not what I'm looking for in

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Speaker 4: He got out of the car.

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Speaker 5: I sincerely believe he was wearing a pajama top.

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Speaker 1: He definitely didn't act like a child when we talked

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Speaker 5: Or didn't mention any of this.

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Speaker 3: Well, he did tell us that he was excited. We

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Speaker 1: It sounded like we were talking to an adult man

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Speaker 5: Well, that's what I thought going into it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you don't believe us, you can definitely

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Speaker 3: line right now listening to this call like doggies clapping

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Speaker 3: and waiting to speak to you.

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Speaker 4: Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Ricky there.

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Speaker 4: Hi. I didn't think this was such a problem for you.

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Speaker 4: I thought that you like the fact that I'm happy

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Speaker 5: But I just there's a difference between like a boyish

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, I'm a glown up. I have a job.

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Speaker 4: You said that, I'm an accountant.

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Speaker 1: You're an accountant. You're a child accountant.

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Speaker 3: But wait, you told her Ricky, like I choose to

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Speaker 3: live my life like a child. She said, those were

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Speaker 1: Maybe she misunderstood what you were saying, Like, maybe re

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Speaker 4: Look, I understand I'm fully glown I'm not in denial

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Speaker 4: about that. It's just that being an adult sucks. Everybody

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Speaker 1: That makes it sound more like you're free loaded your parents. No,

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Speaker 1: what are you.

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Speaker 5: Working for then?

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Speaker 4: Like I save money for things that I like, you know,

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Speaker 4: like big lego sets or.

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Speaker 2: Legos speak to adults too. Yes, that's probably not the best.

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Speaker 1: Example of what you spend your money on right now,

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Speaker 6: To be like, this is a thousand dollars set.

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Speaker 5: Still now if you don't have a real house to

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Speaker 3: But financial planning is financial planning, and that's an adult

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Speaker 1: True.

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Speaker 4: I told you that this is just temporary and that

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Speaker 4: one day I will get my own place and I'll

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Speaker 4: I'm a happy person and I choose to be that's good.

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Speaker 3: I have a hard time arguing with the log Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You're right, buddy, Ricky, you could be happy and still

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Speaker 1: You need to prove to her that you're a man

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Speaker 1: to get another chance.

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Speaker 3: Brookie's happy. Why are you trying to take away happy children?

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Speaker 3: Come on, it's not your kids, Brooks.

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Speaker 4: Look, just because society tells you you need to live

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Speaker 4: has been wrong about a lot of things, Hey.

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Speaker 6: Society has been wrong about a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: He's wrong. Did you just drop your ar because you're

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Speaker 3: I've kind of been hearing that the whole call, have you.

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Speaker 6: Yes, he's been doing it the whole time. You haven't noticed?

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Speaker 5: No, I mean I've been wondering, not too like, are

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Speaker 4: I mean, I can talk normally if you prefer this.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, my god, Ricky, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: You're talking like a child?

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Speaker 6: That was?

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Speaker 2: Do you tell people your name is Wicky?

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Speaker 3: God?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not cartoonish about it. It's just I

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Speaker 1: And I hate it when women do baby talk too.

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Speaker 6: I just that's my line.

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Speaker 1: I was with you, Ricky until that baby talk.

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Speaker 3: It's child talk. It's one step above. And you're just

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Speaker 3: jealous because Ricky is the happiest boy in this whole universe.

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Speaker 3: And we would like to set you up a net

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Speaker 3: with the happiest boy. If you're willing to go out

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Speaker 5: Absolutely not the uber ride, No mom, anywhere in sight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they have Ubertine, No, they do love that.

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Speaker 3: Maybe a coloring book in the back seat.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, at this point that would feel predatory.

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Speaker 5: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Ricky.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's wrong with you. I'm a man.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Ricky, it's going to be a no from a

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Speaker 3: net today. I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: Bud back to the data apps.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's gonna have a good dance Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: in the morning. God, I just hope Ricky's mom was

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Speaker 3: not listening to that call, because he is definitely going

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Speaker 3: to be put on time out for raising his voice

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Speaker 3: and speaking like a grown man.

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Speaker 6: He was so hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you struggled the most out of anybody in the room,

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Speaker 3: for sure.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to say they mean, but also like,

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Speaker 1: let's not do this. Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: Listen, the good news about Ricky is he makes the

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Speaker 3: rest of the male population look way more datable in comparison.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's true, and it makes even you look manly,

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Speaker 1: jeff all of us.

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Speaker 3: All the men listening totally appreciate Ricky. So ladies, if

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Speaker 3: you're ever getting frustrated with the options available on the apps,

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Speaker 3: just remember you could end up with a man who

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Speaker 3: colors his menu with crayons at Apple.

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Speaker 6: Because follow me on my video game stream at Hilarious.

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Speaker 3: Yes a true man. Yeah, there we go, And you

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