WEBVTT - Shot out of a Cannon

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, We are scrubbing.

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<v Speaker 1>In Happy Monday, July twenty seventh for everybody listening. Shot

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<v Speaker 1>out of a Cannon today.

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<v Speaker 2>She is in a timestamp mood. Yes, she's focused on

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<v Speaker 2>time stamps today.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm focused on improving our podcast with time stamps.

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<v Speaker 1>With time stamps, I think it's gonna help, you know, one,

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<v Speaker 1>one little improvement at a time.

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<v Speaker 2>Not full video episodes, but timestamps.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, don't get me started out. Don't get me started

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<v Speaker 3>on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been fighting that good fight for years and I

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<v Speaker 1>have to pick and choose my battles. This is something

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I can take on my own and

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a small sliver of improvement.

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<v Speaker 2>That I think you love.

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<v Speaker 3>Is a consumer of podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, So you're shot out of the canon.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Shot out of a cannon means like I'm full four

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<v Speaker 1>let's go bring it on type of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I have to bleep that, John.

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<v Speaker 2>What prompted that energy?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'll tell you Becca.

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<v Speaker 1>So actually I got a lot of really sweet dms

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<v Speaker 1>from last week's podcast that I want to say thank

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<v Speaker 1>you to our listeners because it is really really sweet

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<v Speaker 1>that people care that much and it means a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to me. I don't want to cry, so I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to cry.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I want to say that so many people resonate

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<v Speaker 2>and relate, whether they're on the journey right now or

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<v Speaker 2>have you experience the journey.

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<v Speaker 1>So and a lot of people were dming me like

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<v Speaker 1>why do you not talk about your fertility journey on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast? And I there's several reasons, the main one

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<v Speaker 1>being that we decided BECA and I. You and I

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<v Speaker 1>decided years ago that we wanted the podcast to be

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<v Speaker 1>a place of joy, levity, light. We didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>bring seriousness into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember this, Yeah, but not so much about our personal lives.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that. I don't feel aligned on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, yeah, I don't really feel aligned on that

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<v Speaker 2>that part of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Because here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>If I come in here every week and I'm sitting

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<v Speaker 1>here and I cry every week because I'm actually sharing

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm going through.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so sad.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like sad, I'm crying every week. It's not a

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<v Speaker 1>like light place. It's not a happy place, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>triggering for people that it.

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<v Speaker 2>Can be triggering for people, and we can when we

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it, put you know, a trigger warning. But

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<v Speaker 2>I also think it's your life and what you're going through,

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<v Speaker 2>like it's the biggest thing in your life right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And also two tiered tiered step two huh is coming

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<v Speaker 1>to work gives me like an escape. It's like the

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<v Speaker 1>only time in my day where I'm like not constantly

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about it. Okay, So it's like that that three.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's triggering for people because it's all

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<v Speaker 1>I see. It's like my whole algorith them like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>it's just it's so consuming. So it's like again, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a podcast where we go for like levity and

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<v Speaker 1>lighthearted and like fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And the final thing is I'm just up to my

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<v Speaker 1>ears with advice, like I can't have any more in

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<v Speaker 1>my ear, you know. I'm coming home every day with

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<v Speaker 1>like a different coworker that saying, have you tried musin X.

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<v Speaker 1>It helps like your mucus and your vagina thicken or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And then I'm coming home and telling Robbie

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<v Speaker 1>I want to try musinx and he's like babe, like.

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<v Speaker 2>You do really ingest advice as opposed to thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm I'm good, I'm on my own journey with this.

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<v Speaker 1>I yes, I ingest, and I also too don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to like people are always ask me questions and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't not a doctor, So the last thing that

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do is like share what I'm doing,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm just throwing spaghetti at the wall at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>just seeing what sticks, no pun intended.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that you're I don't really think you have

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<v Speaker 2>to ex blame yourself on why you don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it, but I do think it's totally up

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<v Speaker 2>to you how much you want to talk about my

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<v Speaker 2>whole thing. Well, I do want this podcast to be

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<v Speaker 2>a safe place, but this I mean a happy place

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<v Speaker 2>and like light. But I also like we are living

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<v Speaker 2>life and going through things, and we've always shared, Like

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<v Speaker 2>even through your dating experience, you shared when you were down.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's been times where we've shared things that

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<v Speaker 2>aren't exactly happy, go lucky, and that's okay. So I

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<v Speaker 2>never want you to feel that you don't have space

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about it on here because of like me.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, and not you at all, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do we specifically. I remember vividly having these conversations with

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<v Speaker 1>you years ago about planemic, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like it was about the state of the world,

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<v Speaker 2>which can be very heavy, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>But we were very much like aligned in the sense

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<v Speaker 1>of like, we don't want heaviness, we don't want any

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<v Speaker 1>of that. We just want this to be like joy, light, lighthearted.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think it was relating to I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I took on that agreement with it being about lives.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly never experienced anything like this in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is the first time for.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, I know. But I'm just saying, share as much

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<v Speaker 2>or as little as you want. And there's gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>people who are triggered by it because it's traumatizing, or

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<v Speaker 2>they're going through it and they don't want to see anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Or there's gonna be people who are like, it's so

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<v Speaker 2>nice to hear someone talking about it and going through

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<v Speaker 2>this because it makes me feel like I'm not alone.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're always gonna have different versions of what people

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<v Speaker 2>are going through and how they resonate with things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I'm I don't even call it, I call

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<v Speaker 3>it fertility. Journey.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not people like infertility. I'm like, I don't I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not infertile, yo, Like my levels are high.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so let's get that straight.

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<v Speaker 2>What do we call this lack of control journey?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, yeah, like let go let god journey.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like I've seen so my algorithm is so

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<v Speaker 1>much like the fertility journey for a type a person

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<v Speaker 1>is such a struggle because you're so used to just like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you put in the work and you get your outcome,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. Like this is just so

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<v Speaker 1>not that, like it's.

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<v Speaker 2>A crazy not lesson, but it's a good practice of

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<v Speaker 2>letting go of control because I don't like to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying, a good practice for someone who doesn't like

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<v Speaker 2>to do that. You know, I don't like to do speak.

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<v Speaker 1>Practice is not making perfect. Let me tell you I've

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<v Speaker 1>been practicing. It's not working.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it is. It's just it's on its own timeline,

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<v Speaker 2>and you don't like something not being on your timeline.

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<v Speaker 2>Which we knew that about. Even Robbie proposing that was

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<v Speaker 2>a whole thing too. Oh, you didn't have control over

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<v Speaker 2>when he was going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Propose that man, and he made you practice well, Tortoise

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<v Speaker 1>the turtle over there. I think back on that, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>she really took his time with all due respect in

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<v Speaker 1>a timely manner.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, as someone who got engaged seven years after the fact,

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like he did a perfect time timelife.

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<v Speaker 3>If I were engaged to you, we'd have some talks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, y'all do have talks because we went and

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<v Speaker 2>had a little small day.

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<v Speaker 1>So oh wait, hold on, I meant to get to

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere about this fertility conversation. Why I'm out of cannon, No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we can go back to that. But why I'm shot

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<v Speaker 1>out of the cannon is because I got my period

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<v Speaker 1>and I decided that I'm taking a month off of

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<v Speaker 1>just all the everything everything in my head, and I've

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<v Speaker 1>like refocused into just like work.

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<v Speaker 2>And live and laughing and love and live.

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<v Speaker 1>And laughing and loving, and so I do I feel

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit lighter. And so I'm like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>rail and rejigger the podcast. I want to like make

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast better. I want to like keep working out

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<v Speaker 1>and like kind of get my physical shape back into

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<v Speaker 1>you know, lots to take on in one month. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I find this middle ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe we don't go from wanting stream to the next

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<v Speaker 2>and we just like merge the two together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll see. But anyways, I'm feeling good.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad to hear you got your period.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was feeling what I would describe as menstrel ludial energy. Yes, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we went to so many moms. I feel like every

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<v Speaker 2>year we go to the SPA for Tony's birthday. But

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<v Speaker 2>she feels like it's only happened twice before. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Three times out of the last I went to my

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<v Speaker 3>for my birthday last year.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what I was. Anyways, we love a

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<v Speaker 2>spa day tradition. Yeah, And so we were at the

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<v Speaker 2>SPA and I'm like, we're just having a great relaxing

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<v Speaker 2>time and then Tanya goes, I just miss you. Mind you.

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<v Speaker 2>I deal with this with my beautiful, wonderful fiance as well.

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<v Speaker 2>When we're in the same room and have been together NonStop,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, oh, well, I'm I'm here, I'm right here,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was like, I just you know, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like we haven't had quality time and we're drifted. Our

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<v Speaker 2>friendship has drifted apart, and I'm like, I have not

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<v Speaker 2>felt this at all, So I'm so sorry I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>picked up on this. But next time, just communicate with

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<v Speaker 2>me so we can just re establish things. Because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>feeling fine. I'm feeling good. Nothing's changed in my heart.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was reassuring to hear as someone who feels

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<v Speaker 1>their friend is drifting away, I feel nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel fine.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I just have secure attachment with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Ah. Yes, it must be nice, so.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, Unfortunately, whether you try to push me away

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<v Speaker 2>or not, I'm not going anywhere. We had to re

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<v Speaker 2>establish things. So I didn't know we were drifting, but

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<v Speaker 2>we're back.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was a combination of things. Because I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on one.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm upset. I didn't tell her about the Taylor Swish wedding,

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<v Speaker 2>so okay, yes, however, that's why she felt like we

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<v Speaker 2>were drifting.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it was before. It was weak before that. But

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<v Speaker 1>what I did not take into consideration was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of your emotional mental energy was going to with your

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<v Speaker 1>going to your fiance for the movie release, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you were a little bit distant, but but rightfully so,

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<v Speaker 1>you had a lot going on, which I wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about I wasn't that wasn't in the forefront in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind. I'm like, she's just not available to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and like she hates me. And now she's not telling

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<v Speaker 1>me about Taylor and Travis's wedding, and now she did

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<v Speaker 1>not hear for my birthday and she hates me.

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<v Speaker 2>I asked about like go go, and then it's brought

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<v Speaker 2>back up in the conversation of a strip.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyways, anyways, a lot of progesterone in my system

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<v Speaker 1>combode with that, combode with Haley's movie coming out.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just feeling a lot of things and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Need I need to get away. I think I think

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<v Speaker 2>I need a break, just someone people just giving to me,

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<v Speaker 2>filling me up.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm here, I'm here to do that now, right, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be seeking that out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah yeah. But I want to miss you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel the same way about Robbie what.

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<v Speaker 2>You've shared on your story. Yeah. And then he actually

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<v Speaker 2>initiated the conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>He said I miss you, which he never does.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, you've trained him well, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like so taken aback by it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you finally understand the feeling. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm like it's.

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<v Speaker 1>We Yes, I see you every day, so it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>how can I miss you? But like the quality time's

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<v Speaker 1>not there because we've been constantly We worked during the day,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're not together during the day, and then we've

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<v Speaker 1>had a social event every single night, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>were in San Diego, so it was like we just

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<v Speaker 1>had and then the week before we had the kids, so.

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<v Speaker 3>There was just no quality time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I messaged telling you on her story and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I just am so happy I'll found each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Same, same, yeah, And I think about that a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Whenever I get like sad about the fertility stuff, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>at least I have a partner in life at is

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<v Speaker 1>as amazing as he is, right truly, Yeah, carries me through.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, tgfr Stable. Thank God for Robbie. Yeah yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We were always looking for your study.

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<v Speaker 3>Eddie, and I found him, I know, thank God.

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<v Speaker 2>So you want to say to you this weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, would you do this weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? So Haley was out of town, so Friday night

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like a lone ranger and I ordered

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<v Speaker 2>every meal to my home. I only talked to Haley

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone. That's the only person I actually spoke

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<v Speaker 2>out loud to other than Phoebe, which I realized I

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<v Speaker 2>talked to her a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>I talked to her when it's just us in the house.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And then I realized, I'm essentially talking to myself,

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<v Speaker 2>but I do it a lot. Like I was really

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about how often I'm like saying my little ritual

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<v Speaker 2>things to her, you know her in the world.

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<v Speaker 3>You always talk to me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but I didn't. Sorry, I didn't want to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like happy to be silent, you know. But anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>I was Carson and Alley came over with their son,

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<v Speaker 2>their one year old son, and I was telling them.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yeah, Friday, I only talked to Haley, like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the only time I spoke out loud. And I

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<v Speaker 2>just sat in silence. And he was like, and you

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<v Speaker 2>just ordered every meal to your door. And I was

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah. And he's like, wow, that's a dream. He's like,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't get that when you have when you have

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<v Speaker 2>a child.

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<v Speaker 3>That's honestly not my dream.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's not. It's not everyone's dream, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's yours.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm happy for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. I had a great time. I got olive

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<v Speaker 2>garden delivered and what else, Well, I had ice cream

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<v Speaker 2>and then also snacks late at night, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>had hi that's not neither here nor there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that does matter, It really doesn't, it really does.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I was high that night, oh yeah, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but anyways, I would do that on a sober night

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<v Speaker 2>as well. Yeah. So I was just vibing by myself.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Saturday I had a day with children. I

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<v Speaker 2>Alian Carson came over and swam, and then that night

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<v Speaker 2>I went to the park Huntington Gardens with Hailey's sister

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<v Speaker 2>and then.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it's the Huntington Gardens. Is it pretty?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Everybody tells me that it's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>And they talked aren't allowed, no, Yeah, but they had

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<v Speaker 2>a swing band played. They do like summer concert so

0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:21.960
<v Speaker 2>it's like people all bring their like picnics and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So I went with Haley's sister and then her two kids,

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<v Speaker 2>niece and nephew, and it was really fun, so hot,

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<v Speaker 2>just so hot, but I was doing cartwheels and round

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<v Speaker 2>offs because there was an open field and I just

0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:39.440
<v Speaker 2>felt youthful. My whole body is in pain. Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 2>every muscle.

0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:42.480
<v Speaker 3>It creeps up on you and you do stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But it felt so easy doing it, Like I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like riding a bike.

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<v Speaker 1>I just whenever I play in the pool with the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>The next day, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>Aha, my shoulders maybe into some stretch glasses or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you it's coming back. I'm doing it

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<v Speaker 1>this month. This is the month for me to get

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<v Speaker 1>it back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Is this like the exit of tender Tanya? What's happening? Wonderful?

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<v Speaker 3>That extreme? I still love, Like I'm still gonna like

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<v Speaker 3>sleep and kitten heels. Yeah, and we're not like going

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<v Speaker 3>to the clue or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But but like if we went and had dinner, would

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<v Speaker 2>you get a drink? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I had a drink on Friday too. Actually, how was

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<v Speaker 1>it amazing? Except you know what I realized, Well, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you when we come back.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, we're back.

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<v Speaker 3>We're back. Do you know what I realized? But I

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<v Speaker 3>don't like drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>The tease of a century. But you just said it

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<v Speaker 2>was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was in the moment.

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<v Speaker 3>So here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I just had this conversation with Ali.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really Yeah, So Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So my we had like a really fun dinner and

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<v Speaker 1>my inlaws. My in laws wanted to take me out

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<v Speaker 1>for my birthday. What I also realized when you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have like a activity for your birthday, like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have like a dinner or anything like that, you want

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of little activities with with a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people my birthday celebrate you, yes, which is so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, I feel like I've been celebrating my

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to lunch tomorrow for my birthday. I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>I've been celebrating my birthday for two weeks now.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun so loved. Oh what is the the my house is?

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<v Speaker 2>What is the saying where people complain about things?

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<v Speaker 3>About complaining? I love it so nice, Like you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>When people come like, yeah, some mistake's to buttery, the

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<v Speaker 2>lobsters to lobstery. No, not a lobstery anyways.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand, but it is nice.

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<v Speaker 1>So I went to my in laws took me to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and it was a really fun dinner. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>this restaurant that I love. And I had a glass

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<v Speaker 1>of wine.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, then I.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically finished pauline A's glass of wine.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Then my mother in law was like flirting with not

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<v Speaker 1>flirting with, like trying to talk to this job at

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<v Speaker 1>the table, charming to like set Pauline up, and so

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<v Speaker 1>they sent over champagne. Wow, So I had what is

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<v Speaker 1>that one and a half plus champagne? So two and

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<v Speaker 1>a half drinks by the time I got home that

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<v Speaker 1>night at a headache.

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<v Speaker 2>Champagne destroys me.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally had I was like, how am I hungover

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<v Speaker 1>before the next day? Like this, this is some.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy I even drink in like a year, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have like a little bit like when I get

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<v Speaker 1>my period, I'll have, you know, a little something to

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<v Speaker 1>take the edge off. But it's not more than like

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<v Speaker 1>a half a glass of wine. I'm not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>throwing anything back really right, So yeah, it's been a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>But like the fact that I had a headache at

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<v Speaker 1>ten pm on a Friday or whatever, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>nine pm.

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<v Speaker 2>I will rarely drink champagne because I immediately feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I will nap and have a headache.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's horrible. So it's like the drinking was fun

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<v Speaker 3>in the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I had so much fun, but then I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a headache now, and I'm trying to go to

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<v Speaker 1>bed and this is gonna mess up my sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>This happened when we were in Cabo, and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if it's just everything's better quality and stronger if

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<v Speaker 2>they just do heavier pores. But we would get a

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<v Speaker 2>drink at the pool and we were like, we need

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<v Speaker 2>to go nap.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, also because of the heat.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very hot in here. Yeah, but normally you're

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<v Speaker 2>sweating it out, so you almost sometimes you feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you're actually not like, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, are you kid?

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<v Speaker 2>Say it's your wedding, but yeah, yes, And when.

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<v Speaker 1>We were Palm Springs and you were like throwing up

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<v Speaker 1>during our Sabrina Carpenter.

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<v Speaker 2>However, that was different because I was in the pool drinking,

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<v Speaker 2>so I wasn't even feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>How No, So the heat dehydrates you and then alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>dehydrates you.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like a double whammy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, anyways, the whole time we were like, gosh,

0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:52.520
<v Speaker 2>we are such lightweights. We immediately need a nap after

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<v Speaker 2>we go to like drink. And then Ali texted me

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<v Speaker 2>and said she hasn't basically drink in a year, and

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<v Speaker 2>she said she had a margarita and she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel drunk from one margerity, yeah, even why do

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<v Speaker 2>we do this?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, well, it's so it's when you're

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<v Speaker 1>at a social it's so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing better than just like that first fiel or

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<v Speaker 2>first drink, feeling nothing better.

0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:17.320
<v Speaker 3>Nothing better. I was flying high at dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you wake up and you're like, was it

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<v Speaker 2>that fun?

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<v Speaker 3>That's fine. I took some motrin and I was able

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<v Speaker 3>to sleep, So it was fun. It was that fun.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I don't know, maybe I'll have like a drink.

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<v Speaker 2>With you, but well, how lucky would I be? How

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<v Speaker 2>lucky could I be?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what else?

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<v Speaker 1>I realize that that I'm so awkward. I always talk

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<v Speaker 1>about Zoom.

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<v Speaker 3>And stuff like that. How much I hate Zoom.

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<v Speaker 1>I really hate Zoom because I just don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>my best self on Zoom. I had this like meeting

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<v Speaker 1>with this person from the Food Network. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>like a get to know them type thing, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>You probably weren't awkward I am, but what I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even I can't even picture you being awkward. I know

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have that vibe at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so either, But I left it like

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<v Speaker 1>not feeling confident and I don't like that. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the zoom. It's these screens.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's the damn phone because I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 4>can't be one hundred percent myself through the zoom.

0:20:23.080 --> 0:20:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Well, now you should just request in person meetings.

0:20:25.600 --> 0:20:26.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'll come to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'll come wherever you are.

0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:30.840
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, whatever city you live in, I'm there.

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<v Speaker 2>You should just say before we if you have to

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<v Speaker 2>do a zoom, you should say, can we start with

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<v Speaker 2>an icebreaker and just play the Guess Who game?

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<v Speaker 3>Really quick? An excellent idea. It might take a while.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell them to allow fifteen minutes you know start time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, could work. Also, I might take an AI camp

0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:52.840
<v Speaker 1>this summer.

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<v Speaker 2>An AI camp?

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<v Speaker 3>What is that where I learned about AI?

0:20:58.400 --> 0:21:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Where like the Apple Store or they do like free

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<v Speaker 2>things for older people?

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<v Speaker 3>No, at a college campus, Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm like, it's weird because AI is so

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<v Speaker 2>complicated my feelings towards it, because it's happening, whether I

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<v Speaker 2>want to support it or not, you know, like it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's inevitable.

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<v Speaker 3>In twenty years, AI is probably gonna be doing your surgeries.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean you won't even say twenty years then,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know. It's going fast.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going fast.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyways. It's kind of like get on the boat or

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<v Speaker 2>get left behind exactly, And it's hard to know where

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<v Speaker 2>like the moral part of me stand, like my morality

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<v Speaker 2>around it, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, yeah, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's also like it is one of those things

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<v Speaker 2>where you go, Okay, our parents didn't want to learn

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<v Speaker 2>things about technology, and if you didn't choose to learn

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<v Speaker 2>and move forward, you know, I don't know, complicated, But anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>where are you taking it? Are you going to code?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you going to do?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not one hundred percent sure this is the place

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I'm just like doing some initial investigating.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh what are you trying to do with AI?

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<v Speaker 3>Just like learn about it?

0:22:10.760 --> 0:22:13.800
<v Speaker 2>But like what are you wanting to learn? Which you want?

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<v Speaker 1>What I can?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, Like CHATCHYBT is like my Google, my like

0:22:17.160 --> 0:22:19.879
<v Speaker 1>Google search, but beyond that, like what can it do

0:22:20.000 --> 0:22:20.240
<v Speaker 1>for me?

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<v Speaker 3>How can I help me with?

0:22:21.200 --> 0:22:23.920
<v Speaker 2>You say, to figure that out? You're going to pay

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<v Speaker 2>for a class?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I just help you? Know?

0:22:26.400 --> 0:22:29.480
<v Speaker 1>I need like I need initial base and care. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hands on definitely get not through a screen, not with

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<v Speaker 1>an AI.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't need AI.

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<v Speaker 1>Teaching me about AI. That could be a disaster. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like Robbie could.

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<v Speaker 2>He seems quite knowledgeable in his he's very knowledgeable. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe he can give you some tips and then if

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<v Speaker 2>you need further you could take a class.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 2>What else are you learning about?

0:22:51.760 --> 0:22:54.440
<v Speaker 3>I need something? Is over?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Tanya sent me up. She was like, oh Hannah

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<v Speaker 2>Berner got bowtok and her drawings. You can't smile. And

0:23:01.720 --> 0:23:04.919
<v Speaker 2>then Sam said, the article is from June Thirtieth's like

0:23:05.400 --> 0:23:11.760
<v Speaker 2>a month since Donya has missed about this happening breaking

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<v Speaker 2>news here in grubbing in Hannah Burner.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, Okay, so it's not about the breaking news,

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:20.600
<v Speaker 1>because nobody comes here to get breaking news. This is

0:23:20.600 --> 0:23:23.080
<v Speaker 1>not the podcast for breaking news. However, it is our

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<v Speaker 1>interpretation or our perspective on that news that I think

0:23:26.880 --> 0:23:27.720
<v Speaker 1>is of interest.

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<v Speaker 2>What's what's your perspective?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so I don't follow Hannah Burner.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, you're missing out.

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:34.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't follow Hannah Burner, nor do I follow the

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Giggly squad fill and no I never watched Summer House.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know who these people are.

0:23:39.240 --> 0:23:41.639
<v Speaker 2>There are two women in podcasts.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, they came late in the game.

0:23:45.760 --> 0:23:51.520
<v Speaker 2>They took off though, that's why surpassed us quickly.

0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:54.680
<v Speaker 1>That's neither here nor there. Okay, they're not in my orbit.

0:23:55.160 --> 0:23:57.800
<v Speaker 1>So this popped up in my like discover page and

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<v Speaker 1>I now follow the Giggly Squad because I really enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>this clip that I saw. But it was of Hannah.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like laughing and her face wasn't moving, and

0:24:07.880 --> 0:24:09.920
<v Speaker 1>so I was very intrigued of like what she got done.

0:24:10.760 --> 0:24:13.120
<v Speaker 3>But I thought it was also really cool that.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't like go to get it like fixed or whatever,

0:24:16.920 --> 0:24:19.040
<v Speaker 1>or like cancel the podcast and yeah you can get

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<v Speaker 1>it like dissolved.

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<v Speaker 2>No not you can't get filler dissolved, not like.

0:24:22.440 --> 0:24:24.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can go into a sauna and like heat

0:24:24.600 --> 0:24:26.960
<v Speaker 1>it out, because like the sauna.

0:24:27.440 --> 0:24:29.679
<v Speaker 2>You can get stuff done, but it's not in it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's probably doing all the time, assuming she's

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<v Speaker 2>probably doing everything she can.

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<v Speaker 1>They could have paused their podcast for a beat, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? If she I just like

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<v Speaker 1>that she's owning it.

0:24:39.359 --> 0:24:43.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, a podcast isn't typically audio.

0:24:43.440 --> 0:24:46.760
<v Speaker 3>So I saw THEIRS, I was like a clip.

0:24:46.840 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 2>You know they have they have the video option, But

0:24:49.080 --> 0:24:51.399
<v Speaker 2>she could have just said The impressive part is that

0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:55.480
<v Speaker 2>she didn't say, we're only releasing audio. Yeah, for however

0:24:55.560 --> 0:24:58.720
<v Speaker 2>long this takes. She's giving the people the gift of

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:03.200
<v Speaker 2>going through this with her because one of the funniest things,

0:25:03.240 --> 0:25:05.159
<v Speaker 2>like when someone goes to the dentist and gets a

0:25:05.160 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 2>shot and they can't smile, but hers is permanent until

0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:08.960
<v Speaker 2>it goes.

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<v Speaker 3>Away for like a three months.

0:25:11.440 --> 0:25:13.800
<v Speaker 2>So basically she had I think she got it for

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<v Speaker 2>her TMJ.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I've also had TMJ botalks and my face

0:25:17.359 --> 0:25:18.080
<v Speaker 1>did not do that.

0:25:18.320 --> 0:25:21.040
<v Speaker 2>The girl that does my bowtox Brianna. She was saying

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:24.479
<v Speaker 2>that sometimes if you go to someone who specializes in

0:25:24.520 --> 0:25:28.119
<v Speaker 2>the TMJ aspect and not the cosmetic part, they just

0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:30.399
<v Speaker 2>put as much as they need it. They just are

0:25:30.440 --> 0:25:33.320
<v Speaker 2>focused on making your TMJ pain go away, as opposed

0:25:33.320 --> 0:25:37.639
<v Speaker 2>to thinking about the cosmetic repercussions. And I don't know, I.

0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>Always have to think about the cosmetic repercussions.

0:25:40.560 --> 0:25:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Spoiler alert botox. I'm just like throwing caution to the wind. Really,

0:25:45.000 --> 0:25:46.760
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I trust her, she knows where to put it.

0:25:46.760 --> 0:25:48.560
<v Speaker 2>But like I've had times where I've gone to someone

0:25:48.600 --> 0:25:50.920
<v Speaker 2>in my eyebrow was like up higher than the other.

0:25:51.640 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 2>But that you can fix because you can do different muscles,

0:25:55.400 --> 0:25:58.639
<v Speaker 2>you know. But I think with the jaw you can't.

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<v Speaker 3>Really.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it just has to run its course. But

0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:07.200
<v Speaker 2>it is hilarious and Page, oh my god, the video

0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:11.560
<v Speaker 2>is hilarious. If you had that, I would not be

0:26:11.680 --> 0:26:13.760
<v Speaker 2>able to control my laughter.

0:26:13.640 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 3>Would be able.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what I would do if I

0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:20.240
<v Speaker 1>had that. It would stress me out. It would stress

0:26:20.280 --> 0:26:23.960
<v Speaker 1>me out. Yeah, it would send me into a spiral.

0:26:24.160 --> 0:26:27.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, No, I love her. I love She's so funny.

0:26:27.359 --> 0:26:30.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, new fans. Shout out to Hannah and Page. You

0:26:31.040 --> 0:26:32.919
<v Speaker 3>got a new fan and me and they've.

0:26:32.760 --> 0:26:37.800
<v Speaker 2>Really got something going on. Girls. Welcome to the.

0:26:37.720 --> 0:26:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Podcast Onto something over there at Giggly Squad.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so speaking of last wait, No, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about. Did you go to Arizona State? Is that

0:26:47.680 --> 0:26:51.439
<v Speaker 2>where you went? No? The other one? You went to

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<v Speaker 2>the other one, the party School?

0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I did you went to the party School? Yes? What

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:56.920
<v Speaker 3>was that one called University of Arizona.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's tough. Why there's so many there's two Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well I had a fifty fifty I missed a so

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<v Speaker 2>Arizona state. I'm assuming your rival, yes, rival has launched

0:27:10.920 --> 0:27:13.560
<v Speaker 2>is launching a degree on becoming an influencer.

0:27:13.960 --> 0:27:15.040
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I saw this.

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<v Speaker 2>What are your thoughts on this?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a terrible idea. Really, Yes, why Because

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:22.400
<v Speaker 1>here's the thing.

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:23.679
<v Speaker 3>I think that.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of a lot of kids these days, the

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:35.119
<v Speaker 1>kids these days, that's like their go to. If you

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>ask all these kids what they want to be, they

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:41.600
<v Speaker 1>say they want to be TikTok stars and influencers. Giving

0:27:41.640 --> 0:27:43.720
<v Speaker 1>them a course where they think that that's something that

0:27:43.840 --> 0:27:46.439
<v Speaker 1>like they all. I don't know, I just find it

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:49.360
<v Speaker 1>to be problematic for our future.

0:27:50.160 --> 0:27:52.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that's fair. But I also think it's

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:55.359
<v Speaker 2>a specific personality of someone who, once they get into

0:27:55.480 --> 0:27:59.680
<v Speaker 2>the world of making videos and editing videos and doing it,

0:27:59.720 --> 0:28:03.040
<v Speaker 2>decid I, oh, do I have the is this what

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<v Speaker 2>I want?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Do I have the personality for this? Do I have

0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:10.880
<v Speaker 2>the like desire the consistency? Because the thing about it's

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 2>such a luck It's such a lucky thing. And I

0:28:13.080 --> 0:28:17.480
<v Speaker 2>think there is a way that you can use tools

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 2>and metrics to grow a platform like I do think

0:28:20.480 --> 0:28:22.240
<v Speaker 2>you could just start from the bottom and use like

0:28:22.520 --> 0:28:27.480
<v Speaker 2>information you have to build. But I think it's I

0:28:27.520 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 2>would say luck that your a video goes viral, And

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:33.359
<v Speaker 2>then I think it's being someone that's interesting. Like I

0:28:33.359 --> 0:28:35.480
<v Speaker 2>think about Alex Earl and she was just consistent in

0:28:35.560 --> 0:28:37.840
<v Speaker 2>like making videos of her getting ready for her parties

0:28:37.840 --> 0:28:41.080
<v Speaker 2>in college and people loved that. She was so like

0:28:41.120 --> 0:28:43.200
<v Speaker 2>she was such a party girl and owned it, like

0:28:43.240 --> 0:28:45.120
<v Speaker 2>she was just who she was and she was taking

0:28:45.200 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 2>us along with her. And instead of staying stagnant and

0:28:49.320 --> 0:28:51.400
<v Speaker 2>that being even though she still like shows her getting

0:28:51.440 --> 0:28:53.960
<v Speaker 2>ready to go out and party and stuff, she's elevated

0:28:54.000 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 2>herself into this business woman and has done so much

0:28:57.560 --> 0:29:00.560
<v Speaker 2>more and that it's not a lack of hard work.

0:29:00.680 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 2>Is it a fun job? Is it like a dream job? Sure?

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:10.040
<v Speaker 2>But like is she working her ass off? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that this is Like I think there's

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 1>space for everybody and anybody that wants to be an influencer.

0:29:14.640 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I think can be I think where my where I

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:21.920
<v Speaker 1>feel like, And I think people do this in real

0:29:21.960 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 1>life where they like go to build their social media

0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:28.320
<v Speaker 1>whilst they also are doing something else that's like paying

0:29:28.320 --> 0:29:31.280
<v Speaker 1>the bills, right, and then if they catch them, if

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:33.440
<v Speaker 1>they are able to get brand deals, if they're able

0:29:33.480 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 1>to make a living out of it, then they.

0:29:34.960 --> 0:29:36.120
<v Speaker 3>Let go of that job.

0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:39.440
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like just like going straight into it

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 1>taking a course and like graduating with an honor or

0:29:43.880 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>an honor and influencing or whatever.

0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 3>I just I was just a class.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I agree, it is a degree.

0:29:51.720 --> 0:29:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's concerning to me for just for that purposes,

0:29:55.000 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like it's something that you should do

0:29:56.760 --> 0:30:01.000
<v Speaker 1>in tandem with alongside something else. And I just feel

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:04.080
<v Speaker 1>like when your frontal lobe is not developed, you're not

0:30:04.120 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna see that.

0:30:05.200 --> 0:30:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing. They're already online. Every the kids are

0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:11.280
<v Speaker 2>already online. They're already being to do it. So if

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:13.360
<v Speaker 2>they have a chance to use their brain and have

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:16.400
<v Speaker 2>a marketing mindset to where even if it wasn't them

0:30:16.480 --> 0:30:19.400
<v Speaker 2>being an influencer working with brands and knowing how marketing

0:30:19.440 --> 0:30:23.479
<v Speaker 2>strategy works, I don't think it's a negative thing. If

0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 2>they're already going to be online, why not make money.

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:31.479
<v Speaker 3>Because they can learn all this on AI? Why are

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 3>you taking a class?

0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 2>I hate when it goes back around like that.

0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:41.800
<v Speaker 3>Damn, damn, I hate that for me.

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:44.680
<v Speaker 2>Anyways, it's it's interesting and it might be one of

0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:46.560
<v Speaker 2>those things where it was like that was a bust,

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:49.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, we don't need to do that again, or

0:30:49.360 --> 0:30:53.960
<v Speaker 2>it might create more people good at marketing and strategy.

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:54.920
<v Speaker 3>Good job as U.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of social media, you know, it's so freaking funny

0:31:00.040 --> 0:31:00.520
<v Speaker 1>and that, like.

0:31:01.560 --> 0:31:03.640
<v Speaker 3>I I.

0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:09.120
<v Speaker 1>Get what's the word tricked so much on social media?

0:31:09.240 --> 0:31:12.320
<v Speaker 1>So there's this girl that I follow. I don't follow her. Sorry,

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't follow her. She came up in my you

0:31:14.080 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 1>know whatever, my discovery phage.

0:31:16.480 --> 0:31:17.080
<v Speaker 3>And it was like.

0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I lived this amazing life and like click or like

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:28.560
<v Speaker 1>comment below comment class for me to send you what.

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:30.320
<v Speaker 2>Was her name? The lazy Millionaire?

0:31:30.480 --> 0:31:35.280
<v Speaker 1>No to send me, I'll send you my five day

0:31:35.760 --> 0:31:37.920
<v Speaker 1>crash course on like whatever.

0:31:38.000 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 3>This is right, So what do I do? Comment below class? Okay?

0:31:43.200 --> 0:31:47.440
<v Speaker 1>So she DMS me and she goes and it's all automated.

0:31:47.440 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I can tell it's not her, right, it's like all

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:51.160
<v Speaker 1>it's just like it's a message and it goes. In

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:52.800
<v Speaker 1>order for me to send you the class, you have

0:31:52.840 --> 0:31:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to follow me, okay, So I go over to her

0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:58.400
<v Speaker 1>page click follow. Meanwhile, Robbie's right next to me during

0:31:58.400 --> 0:32:00.440
<v Speaker 1>this whole thing. I'm like, babe, this girl's gonna get

0:32:00.440 --> 0:32:03.320
<v Speaker 1>this class and like learn all this stuff. And then

0:32:03.360 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 1>she goes click the link and like answer these questions.

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:09.640
<v Speaker 1>And Robbie was like, babe, this is some sort.

0:32:09.400 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 2>Of pyramid scheme. Yes, em mel, yes, and everybody's doing it.

0:32:15.880 --> 0:32:18.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but why Okay, So I was gonna fall for it.

0:32:18.440 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 1>But then so she kept sending me the link and

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't clicking the link, and then she like sent

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:23.880
<v Speaker 1>me another automated thing like make sure you click the

0:32:23.920 --> 0:32:25.120
<v Speaker 1>link you to get my course, And I was like,

0:32:25.160 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't want your course anymore. You said that, no,

0:32:29.040 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>but I just ignored it because then Robbie told me,

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:34.160
<v Speaker 1>this's like some scheme. But then I'm like, obviously a

0:32:34.200 --> 0:32:36.040
<v Speaker 1>lot of people are falling for it. What's the scheme?

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:37.360
<v Speaker 1>How am I getting schemed?

0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:40.960
<v Speaker 2>Not schem? I don't think it's that. I think it's

0:32:41.000 --> 0:32:44.360
<v Speaker 2>just like your it's probably like you buy my course.

0:32:44.400 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 2>So that's how she makes money.

0:32:45.920 --> 0:32:47.840
<v Speaker 3>Oh so I would have to buy it. You probably

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 3>she was gonna send it to me for free.

0:32:49.720 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't think nothing's for free. But girl, shoot, yeah,

0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 2>it's a it's a thing. It's like a business plan. Basically,

0:32:58.080 --> 0:33:01.479
<v Speaker 2>it's almost like how to build it's basically becoming an

0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:02.400
<v Speaker 2>influencer degree.

0:33:02.480 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 3>So this is what they would teach you at ASU.

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:05.480
<v Speaker 3>Literally it's a step.

0:33:05.240 --> 0:33:09.160
<v Speaker 2>By step probably generated from AI, of like how should

0:33:09.160 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 2>I teach people to grow their platform?

0:33:12.440 --> 0:33:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Wow, she got me this girl.

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:17.840
<v Speaker 2>It's very I mean, listen, it's business minded, it's marketing.

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:20.840
<v Speaker 2>I followed this girl and she sent me a what

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 2>I think is of generated voice memo and it was like,

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:28.080
<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, I can't believe you followed me. That's

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 2>how it started to us, like oh, like she knows

0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:34.880
<v Speaker 2>me from watching The Bachelor or something. No, just like

0:33:35.000 --> 0:33:38.760
<v Speaker 2>anonymate basically that same thing, which is genius because the

0:33:38.840 --> 0:33:41.520
<v Speaker 2>text is the text is deceiving, but a.

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Voice note, Yeah, that's what do you want from a girl?

0:33:49.040 --> 0:33:50.960
<v Speaker 1>By the way, my dad okay, so you know my

0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:55.320
<v Speaker 1>dad's a retired psychiatrist. Yes, So everything is like this

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 1>like analysis of whatever.

0:33:57.640 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 3>And when I was.

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:01.200
<v Speaker 1>There this weekend, Robin were having a conversation with him

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:04.360
<v Speaker 1>about somebody, somebody in our life that wants to become

0:34:04.400 --> 0:34:08.200
<v Speaker 1>an influencer. And my dad's just like trying so hard

0:34:08.239 --> 0:34:11.239
<v Speaker 1>to like understand the life of it and like, so

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:15.040
<v Speaker 1>he was like, I can't remember we brought your name

0:34:15.120 --> 0:34:18.360
<v Speaker 1>up and my dad was like trying to understand that.

0:34:18.719 --> 0:34:22.719
<v Speaker 3>So why why do people follow beca? Like what is

0:34:22.760 --> 0:34:24.760
<v Speaker 3>it about Becca that people say?

0:34:25.440 --> 0:34:26.200
<v Speaker 2>Hard to say?

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:28.880
<v Speaker 1>But like we're trying to like differentiate, and like he

0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:29.960
<v Speaker 1>just wasn't getting it.

0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:32.640
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, that's exactly why.

0:34:32.360 --> 0:34:34.480
<v Speaker 2>Because I think when you have someone who has a

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:37.040
<v Speaker 2>niche platform and you're like, oh, they follow me for this,

0:34:37.200 --> 0:34:39.400
<v Speaker 2>it's easier to explain to somebody.

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:41.840
<v Speaker 1>But my dad knows you. So it's really the example

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:44.000
<v Speaker 1>that I can give because if I gave him somebody else,

0:34:44.040 --> 0:34:45.480
<v Speaker 1>he would not know who they are, do you know

0:34:45.520 --> 0:34:45.919
<v Speaker 1>what I mean?

0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:47.960
<v Speaker 3>I had to give him like well, you.

0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:49.560
<v Speaker 2>Could just be like, oh, this is so and so

0:34:49.600 --> 0:34:52.319
<v Speaker 2>she's known for her cooking videos and her recipes like

0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:55.000
<v Speaker 2>brock your body, and so everyone follows her to get

0:34:55.040 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 2>recipes that are like dupes from their favorite restaurants. I'm

0:34:58.600 --> 0:35:01.920
<v Speaker 2>a tough It's a tough soun for someone who doesn't

0:35:02.000 --> 0:35:04.719
<v Speaker 2>understand what was really tough prob.

0:35:04.480 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 3>Me and I were really trying and then I'm just like, you.

0:35:07.000 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 2>Know what, that's the thing about me? I got so

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:12.440
<v Speaker 2>mine literally was luck like I was on the Bachelor

0:35:12.440 --> 0:35:16.000
<v Speaker 2>at the right time, influencing, merged with that at the

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 2>right time, and it just.

0:35:19.160 --> 0:35:23.000
<v Speaker 3>I but you're likable, you're funny.

0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:25.080
<v Speaker 2>I've been able to maintain it. I've been able to

0:35:25.120 --> 0:35:30.120
<v Speaker 2>maintain like having that career and lifestyle. But I'm saying

0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:33.680
<v Speaker 2>how it happened. I didn't grow it from nothing, right,

0:35:33.840 --> 0:35:36.640
<v Speaker 2>And that's so hard. I think people don't realize if

0:35:36.640 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 2>everyone could do it, everyone would do it.

0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's so true. If everybody could do it, everybody

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 1>would do it.

0:35:41.080 --> 0:35:43.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm speaking of social media. I want to what, what

0:35:43.800 --> 0:35:44.600
<v Speaker 2>are you going to talk about?

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:45.960
<v Speaker 3>Well, you look sad, so what are you going to

0:35:46.120 --> 0:35:47.440
<v Speaker 3>I want to talk about this breakup?

0:35:47.880 --> 0:35:49.759
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, let's do it when we come back.

0:35:49.840 --> 0:36:11.759
<v Speaker 3>Okay, we're back, We're back.

0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 1>So it's not breaking news because it's happened not that

0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:23.760
<v Speaker 1>long ago, a few days ago. But Landria and Nick

0:36:23.960 --> 0:36:30.160
<v Speaker 1>from Love Island USA Season seven announced they're split.

0:36:30.760 --> 0:36:34.840
<v Speaker 3>And I told you this. Oh wait, they were the

0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 3>runners up on season seven? Who won Season seven?

0:36:39.000 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 2>Amaya Papaya.

0:36:40.160 --> 0:36:42.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's right, that's right, that's right, that's right. Yeah,

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:46.360
<v Speaker 1>so they were runners up. I didn't believe this relationship

0:36:46.440 --> 0:36:50.560
<v Speaker 1>from the beginning. I thought it was not real from

0:36:50.560 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 1>the beginning. This breakup did not shock me.

0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:54.719
<v Speaker 3>I was waiting for it.

0:36:55.640 --> 0:37:01.600
<v Speaker 1>However, I would like to say props to Landria and

0:37:01.719 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Nick for keeping the charade going for a year, because

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:10.040
<v Speaker 1>nothing irks me more as a Love Island fan than

0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:12.360
<v Speaker 1>these couples that break up like two weeks after they

0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:12.919
<v Speaker 1>leave the villa.

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:15.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so even if it was a charade.

0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:18.480
<v Speaker 1>And they were just playing us, I applaud it.

0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:22.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, claps for Nick and Orlandria.

0:37:22.360 --> 0:37:25.560
<v Speaker 1>Yes, honestly because remember last well you don't watch the UK,

0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:29.160
<v Speaker 1>but Sammy and uh what does nuts the guy who

0:37:29.200 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 1>won with her last season, they broke up literally like

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:34.879
<v Speaker 1>weeks after leaving the villa and they won. They won

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:37.440
<v Speaker 1>the season, so did Amya Pathaya and Brian.

0:37:37.719 --> 0:37:40.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but they were like not even real.

0:37:40.960 --> 0:37:44.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh but Samy and they were like legit.

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:47.520
<v Speaker 1>They were dating like half of the season. They were together.

0:37:47.520 --> 0:37:52.279
<v Speaker 1>They were like such a strong couple. So anyways, I

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:54.720
<v Speaker 1>never believe that they were a couple, but I'm happy

0:37:54.960 --> 0:37:57.640
<v Speaker 1>that they gave they they put in the work.

0:37:58.040 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 2>They said, we can do one year of this.

0:38:00.120 --> 0:38:02.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like we're friends. That's the thing. They were friends.

0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:03.719
<v Speaker 3>I think it was just like a friendship.

0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:07.160
<v Speaker 2>I didn't follow their relationships so closely, so I only

0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:09.120
<v Speaker 2>saw photos of them if it got picked up where

0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 2>people were posting clips of them somewhere, but it was

0:38:11.320 --> 0:38:13.759
<v Speaker 2>always at events. I never just saw like shots of

0:38:13.800 --> 0:38:19.839
<v Speaker 2>them like at home, like menapasta, not domesticated. Never images. Yeah,

0:38:19.920 --> 0:38:22.759
<v Speaker 2>but again I didn't follow it super closely. But I

0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:26.640
<v Speaker 2>liked that they were like we're ending and Bryce and

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:30.080
<v Speaker 2>Trinity are beginning. That's why I thought that model the

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:34.080
<v Speaker 2>model guy, the model boyfriend with the stunning DJ.

0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:35.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:38:35.360 --> 0:38:41.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, So I did see that Melanie and Sincere

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:46.040
<v Speaker 2>were spotted out together recently in LA, which I thought

0:38:46.080 --> 0:38:48.600
<v Speaker 2>they had I just assume maybe they broke up to

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:53.120
<v Speaker 2>but they were hanging out. Yeah, Haley is watching, like

0:38:53.239 --> 0:38:55.880
<v Speaker 2>and when I say watching, she's skimming through Love Island

0:38:55.960 --> 0:38:56.800
<v Speaker 2>UK this season.

0:38:57.000 --> 0:39:00.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you can't skim through. It's so good a.

0:39:00.280 --> 0:39:04.800
<v Speaker 2>Boring, Like, I mean, it's so many conversations, and.

0:39:04.840 --> 0:39:06.960
<v Speaker 1>I know, I actually think about all the time the

0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:10.360
<v Speaker 1>editors of that show and like how many boring conversations

0:39:10.400 --> 0:39:12.520
<v Speaker 1>they have to watch to get like these little clips

0:39:12.520 --> 0:39:16.040
<v Speaker 1>to put into an hour episode every single day.

0:39:16.160 --> 0:39:17.799
<v Speaker 2>No, they're really the MVPs.

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah that do that.

0:39:19.040 --> 0:39:22.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and Ian him having the voiceovers.

0:39:22.040 --> 0:39:24.160
<v Speaker 3>I watched one of his, Like, I changed.

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:25.480
<v Speaker 2>My tune on Ian because I used to be like

0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:27.800
<v Speaker 2>so I found him. It was the reason why I

0:39:27.800 --> 0:39:30.920
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't watch the show. I found him so irritating, and

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:32.640
<v Speaker 2>I've changed. I laugh out loud.

0:39:32.680 --> 0:39:34.640
<v Speaker 3>I think he's so funny. Sometimes his jokes don't hit,

0:39:34.680 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 3>but like you can't get a hundred, you know, oh,

0:39:37.360 --> 0:39:40.360
<v Speaker 3>night after night, Yeah, you can't bat a hundred. But

0:39:40.360 --> 0:39:41.719
<v Speaker 3>the ones that hit are very good.

0:39:41.800 --> 0:39:44.359
<v Speaker 2>But Haley's like, where's the host of this show? Why

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:46.920
<v Speaker 2>is there no host? Because Ariana comes in for every

0:39:47.360 --> 0:39:48.360
<v Speaker 2>coupling and everything.

0:39:48.600 --> 0:39:52.440
<v Speaker 1>So I had the same thoughts. Apparently she was shooting

0:39:53.440 --> 0:39:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Trader's UK or.

0:39:55.040 --> 0:39:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Something like she's all contestant.

0:39:56.600 --> 0:39:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like they're doing like a celebrity version and she's

0:39:59.200 --> 0:40:02.239
<v Speaker 1>she was like shooting, So that's why she was like gone, booked, yeah,

0:40:02.440 --> 0:40:06.279
<v Speaker 1>booked and busy Maya Jama. But she's back, she comes back.

0:40:06.320 --> 0:40:09.759
<v Speaker 1>She's been back the past couple of weeks, but it's

0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:13.120
<v Speaker 1>almost over. I have like not very many episodes. Well yeah,

0:40:13.160 --> 0:40:14.400
<v Speaker 1>and I'm so sad.

0:40:14.440 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 2>So she got through about six episodes last night just

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:17.719
<v Speaker 2>skimming through.

0:40:18.040 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 3>She can't scam.

0:40:19.160 --> 0:40:21.680
<v Speaker 2>She's pretty easy to skim. Me figure things out pretty

0:40:21.719 --> 0:40:24.600
<v Speaker 2>quick when you're not watching it, like one episode at

0:40:24.640 --> 0:40:24.919
<v Speaker 2>a time.

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:27.600
<v Speaker 1>It's I know, I know, but I will say that,

0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:30.520
<v Speaker 1>like this season of Love Island UK has been top

0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:32.880
<v Speaker 1>tier entertainment for me personally.

0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:35.840
<v Speaker 2>I told her you said that, so her expectations are high.

0:40:35.920 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 3>It should be okay.

0:40:38.280 --> 0:40:41.279
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to talk since we're talking about dating. Do

0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:44.240
<v Speaker 2>you consider liking an Instagram post is cheating?

0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:44.800
<v Speaker 3>Yes?

0:40:45.440 --> 0:40:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Really, I mean no, but kinda, but like, I don't

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:50.720
<v Speaker 1>think it's innocent.

0:40:50.960 --> 0:40:52.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's nice.

0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:54.040
<v Speaker 1>If there's like a thirst trap the squirrel has like

0:40:54.080 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 1>her boobs out and her butt out, and Robbie was

0:40:56.000 --> 0:40:57.560
<v Speaker 1>to like it, I'd be like, what are you doing?

0:40:57.800 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Right? So it's totally on the basis of how much

0:41:01.280 --> 0:41:05.560
<v Speaker 2>skin is exposed, yes, yeah, but otherwise it's fine.

0:41:05.880 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 3>Mm depends on the girl.

0:41:09.560 --> 0:41:12.879
<v Speaker 2>Wow, all those gut do you have a mic? Can

0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:16.879
<v Speaker 2>we turn you on super disrespectful no matter no matter

0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:20.000
<v Speaker 2>what it is. Well, back to your point, if it's

0:41:20.040 --> 0:41:23.960
<v Speaker 2>like boobs but out, totally that's out of the question

0:41:24.080 --> 0:41:26.879
<v Speaker 2>like that is just you have an intention and it's

0:41:26.880 --> 0:41:27.319
<v Speaker 2>not good.

0:41:27.880 --> 0:41:29.399
<v Speaker 3>Why you don't think it's cheating.

0:41:29.400 --> 0:41:32.080
<v Speaker 2>That that I I don't know that. I would say

0:41:32.080 --> 0:41:33.680
<v Speaker 2>it's cheating, but I think.

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:38.279
<v Speaker 1>She's super extreme extreme word, but I would conversation.

0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:42.960
<v Speaker 2>But what so you? But you said it's not always

0:41:43.280 --> 0:41:44.879
<v Speaker 2>if it's the skin skin.

0:41:45.640 --> 0:41:48.480
<v Speaker 5>I have a boyfriend of year, okay, and I see

0:41:48.560 --> 0:41:51.759
<v Speaker 5>him like girls that I don't know. If it's girlfriends

0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:55.120
<v Speaker 5>that I know, yeah, I'll be like, Okay, I get it,

0:41:55.640 --> 0:41:58.240
<v Speaker 5>like we both know her. But if it's a girl

0:41:58.280 --> 0:42:01.040
<v Speaker 5>that I don't know, I'm not crazy about it.

0:42:02.160 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 2>That's so true though, because why is he liking a

0:42:05.040 --> 0:42:05.960
<v Speaker 2>girl that you don't know?

0:42:06.000 --> 0:42:11.320
<v Speaker 3>What do you ever see?

0:42:11.840 --> 0:42:15.880
<v Speaker 2>No things you don't know, No like other chefs and stuff.

0:42:16.320 --> 0:42:20.239
<v Speaker 1>Robie would never he's near of a silent. He's very

0:42:20.239 --> 0:42:23.520
<v Speaker 1>engaged our watcher. Yeah, he's very engaged with our friends,

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:25.480
<v Speaker 1>and he'll engage with like all of our friend's content.

0:42:25.600 --> 0:42:27.279
<v Speaker 1>But outside of that, he's not like.

0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:30.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think if I saw like a really like

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 2>a hot girl and I didn't know her, and I

0:42:33.920 --> 0:42:37.279
<v Speaker 2>saw Haley like she liked it, I'd be like, who

0:42:37.360 --> 0:42:37.640
<v Speaker 2>is she?

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:39.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's weird.

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:42.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not that chill. I used

0:42:42.320 --> 0:42:44.640
<v Speaker 2>to be chill, and I'm not that chill.

0:42:46.360 --> 0:42:49.160
<v Speaker 3>So weird to me, but that you're not chill like

0:42:49.200 --> 0:42:50.680
<v Speaker 3>that what.

0:42:50.719 --> 0:42:53.439
<v Speaker 2>It used to be chill? Is it? I really wasn't

0:42:53.440 --> 0:42:56.000
<v Speaker 2>that chill with Robert either, Like really, Yeah, he'd go

0:42:56.040 --> 0:42:58.640
<v Speaker 2>on trips with all these like bikini models and stuff

0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:01.200
<v Speaker 2>and if I didn't want to, but he was an agent,

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:04.960
<v Speaker 2>so like he was. And honestly, I never once doubted

0:43:05.000 --> 0:43:07.799
<v Speaker 2>that anything or I never thought anything was happening. But

0:43:07.840 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 2>it was just like this guy that I'm dating is

0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:14.080
<v Speaker 2>around all these hot models, right staying in the same

0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 2>like house or wherever they are, you know. Yeah, So

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:20.279
<v Speaker 2>I grew some thick skin through that, and then it

0:43:20.320 --> 0:43:23.120
<v Speaker 2>got weaker and we got weakened again when I met Haley.

0:43:23.280 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 3>Is Hailey like Rando's on Instagram? No, no, no.

0:43:27.200 --> 0:43:30.040
<v Speaker 2>She loves she Last night was watching this family who

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:32.600
<v Speaker 2>lives in like the forest and eats fruit off the tree.

0:43:32.680 --> 0:43:36.080
<v Speaker 2>So that's kind of her. Her algorithm makes me feel

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:40.799
<v Speaker 2>very safe with very safe. Yeah, and I'm mostly just

0:43:40.840 --> 0:43:44.400
<v Speaker 2>like watching like pranks or people. Okay, we had this

0:43:44.440 --> 0:43:49.319
<v Speaker 2>conversation the other day, but I if someone is okay, like,

0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:51.919
<v Speaker 2>I know they're okay, went after the fact. I think

0:43:51.960 --> 0:43:54.640
<v Speaker 2>it's so funny when people post videos of someone falling,

0:43:54.800 --> 0:43:57.320
<v Speaker 2>like if they're walking on ice or something like with

0:43:57.520 --> 0:43:59.440
<v Speaker 2>that Love Island challenge where they were having to run

0:43:59.480 --> 0:44:04.080
<v Speaker 2>on that slip bring Matt, I was almost crying laughing.

0:44:04.280 --> 0:44:06.879
<v Speaker 2>I think it's so funny when it's again when they're

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<v Speaker 2>not injured. Haley, I'll show her a video that I

0:44:09.680 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 2>think is so funny and she's like, oh, like, I

0:44:12.239 --> 0:44:14.240
<v Speaker 2>don't like that. I know you're the same way.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really like that either.

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<v Speaker 2>So we were with her friends yesterday and we were

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<v Speaker 2>celebrating her friend Monica's birthday, and I was I brought

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<v Speaker 2>this up, and all her friends are like, oh my god,

0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 2>I die laughing at videos of people following, and I

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:29.399
<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, this makes me feel so much better.

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<v Speaker 2>Because both Tanya and Haley don't like pranks and they

0:44:33.040 --> 0:44:35.960
<v Speaker 2>don't like when people fall or get hurt. I don't

0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:38.760
<v Speaker 2>like when people get hurt, but I love like a

0:44:38.920 --> 0:44:41.360
<v Speaker 2>compilation of people slipping on ice or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of this is so right, just because you said

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday and I remember what I did yesterday pottery?

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<v Speaker 3>No, have you seen the movie The Invite?

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<v Speaker 2>No? But I'm curious about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so freaking funny, so freaking funny funny. It

0:44:59.080 --> 0:45:03.480
<v Speaker 1>is so freak funny. Okay, you need to see it,

0:45:03.560 --> 0:45:05.400
<v Speaker 1>and we need to discuss it. It's like really just

0:45:05.440 --> 0:45:07.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna fall flat if I just like sit here talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't want spoilers, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm not gonna you spoilers. But there's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>also very like real, you know what I mean. Like

0:45:17.520 --> 0:45:20.560
<v Speaker 1>there's like so much realness about like relationships and marriage

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<v Speaker 1>and like just being with somebody for a long time,

0:45:23.120 --> 0:45:25.279
<v Speaker 1>and there's something about that that's so sad to me.

0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:27.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like, I don't want to see people in

0:45:27.520 --> 0:45:31.279
<v Speaker 1>like a sad, horrible marriage, do you know what I mean? Yeah,

0:45:31.520 --> 0:45:33.800
<v Speaker 1>Like there's something so I'm like, I have mixed feelings

0:45:33.800 --> 0:45:35.719
<v Speaker 1>on it because like I haven't laughed that hard in

0:45:35.760 --> 0:45:38.799
<v Speaker 1>a movie theater in a long time. Like it is

0:45:39.360 --> 0:45:42.640
<v Speaker 1>so funny and they're comedic timing. Like to me, to

0:45:42.719 --> 0:45:45.400
<v Speaker 1>have that type of banter with Seth Rogan and Olivia Wilde,

0:45:45.440 --> 0:45:49.319
<v Speaker 1>to have that dynamic is very hard, and I feel

0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:52.520
<v Speaker 1>like they did it so perfectly, like literally laughing out loud,

0:45:52.960 --> 0:45:56.960
<v Speaker 1>but also with this like undertone of just yes.

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<v Speaker 3>And I don't think I like that.

0:46:00.080 --> 0:46:00.839
<v Speaker 2>Seem like you do?

0:46:01.000 --> 0:46:01.919
<v Speaker 3>I love yah.

0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:05.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know. It's really it's like it's a tough

0:46:05.040 --> 0:46:09.000
<v Speaker 1>pickle that I'm in because I did find it so hilarious,

0:46:09.040 --> 0:46:12.879
<v Speaker 1>but also just like so sad and like I get

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:15.840
<v Speaker 1>in the car and I internalize everything, and Robi's like, Babe,

0:46:16.360 --> 0:46:17.920
<v Speaker 1>this has nothing to do with us.

0:46:17.880 --> 0:46:18.120
<v Speaker 3>And I know.

0:46:18.160 --> 0:46:20.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm like God, and I go, I know, but we're

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:22.319
<v Speaker 1>married and I don't ever want to become that, and

0:46:22.320 --> 0:46:24.600
<v Speaker 1>He's like, we're not going to and I'm like, but

0:46:24.719 --> 0:46:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't think they thought that they would become that,

0:46:26.880 --> 0:46:28.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, Like I internalize.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you like to make an effort in our marriage,

0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:31.319
<v Speaker 2>you know.

0:46:31.600 --> 0:46:32.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's I.

0:46:32.520 --> 0:46:35.319
<v Speaker 2>Think the key is if you get comfortable and let

0:46:35.360 --> 0:46:37.320
<v Speaker 2>it that happen, it happens.

0:46:36.960 --> 0:46:37.279
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:39.080
<v Speaker 1>But like with this couple in the movie, it just

0:46:39.160 --> 0:46:43.160
<v Speaker 1>like happened so slowly and then over time it just

0:46:43.520 --> 0:46:44.560
<v Speaker 1>you're strangers.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for ending the podcast on such a high note. Sorry, guys, No,

0:46:54.960 --> 0:46:57.160
<v Speaker 2>it's okay. I mean I'm gonna I want to go

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<v Speaker 2>see it. Oh, I was gonna say I did pottery

0:46:59.160 --> 0:47:02.160
<v Speaker 2>yesterday like a seram. Yeah, I'm so bad at it,

0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:05.719
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm just not watching the girl, the girl that

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<v Speaker 2>was like our teacher do it and everything she did

0:47:07.880 --> 0:47:11.120
<v Speaker 2>it was perfect, and then I'd be like, Okay, I've

0:47:11.320 --> 0:47:15.839
<v Speaker 2>tried to do it and just tough. But I kind

0:47:15.840 --> 0:47:18.239
<v Speaker 2>of I've been thinking about it this morning because at

0:47:18.239 --> 0:47:19.400
<v Speaker 2>first I was like, I don't think I need to

0:47:19.440 --> 0:47:21.880
<v Speaker 2>do it again, because I would, And that's my mentality

0:47:21.920 --> 0:47:23.960
<v Speaker 2>on everything. If I'm not immediately good at something, I'm

0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:25.040
<v Speaker 2>just like, oh, I don't think I want to do

0:47:25.080 --> 0:47:25.359
<v Speaker 2>it again.

0:47:25.440 --> 0:47:26.440
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, what are you going to do? Make

0:47:26.480 --> 0:47:27.840
<v Speaker 3>pottery for like your house?

0:47:28.040 --> 0:47:30.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Like what if I made plates for us? Like

0:47:30.680 --> 0:47:33.880
<v Speaker 2>how gorgeous if I got good at it and gifts,

0:47:33.880 --> 0:47:35.000
<v Speaker 2>the gifts I could make.

0:47:34.880 --> 0:47:37.200
<v Speaker 3>For Ooh the gifts I'd love to get that gift.

0:47:37.880 --> 0:47:41.160
<v Speaker 2>Well, I won't give you one. How on that, I'll

0:47:41.160 --> 0:47:43.520
<v Speaker 2>get you your toat socks and your dish gloves and

0:47:44.040 --> 0:47:49.000
<v Speaker 2>be on my merry way making beautiful pottery for others. Robbie,

0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:51.520
<v Speaker 2>I'll make him beautiful plates that he can plate his

0:47:51.640 --> 0:47:56.160
<v Speaker 2>beautiful food on. Yeah, anyways, So I was like, I

0:47:56.200 --> 0:47:59.160
<v Speaker 2>need to change my mentality on if I had a

0:47:59.200 --> 0:48:01.160
<v Speaker 2>good time doing so something even though I wasn't good

0:48:01.200 --> 0:48:03.120
<v Speaker 2>at it, If I can practice and get good at it,

0:48:03.440 --> 0:48:04.480
<v Speaker 2>what's the worst that can happen?

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, I think practice makes perfect.

0:48:06.680 --> 0:48:11.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna on a positive note, yes, practice everything, Practice

0:48:11.280 --> 0:48:16.520
<v Speaker 2>letting go of control, practice working on your marriage and relationship.

0:48:17.120 --> 0:48:20.959
<v Speaker 2>Practice things you're not immediately good at. And I'm gonna

0:48:21.000 --> 0:48:23.439
<v Speaker 2>leave you all with that. But we will be back

0:48:23.480 --> 0:48:27.319
<v Speaker 2>on Thursday for a Dear Bonia episode where we might

0:48:27.360 --> 0:48:29.960
<v Speaker 2>play another game where I beat Tanya. I don't know

0:48:30.480 --> 0:48:31.560
<v Speaker 2>hard hard to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been reading the Facebook. We'll get into it on Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, We'll be back on Thursday. And we love

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<v Speaker 2>you so much, love you, Bye bye.