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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationships and

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Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling. Ravalry. No, no, sibling.

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Speaker 1: You don't do that with your mouth. Revelry. That's good, okay, Oliver.

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Speaker 1: It is Pride Month, and the Supreme Court just ruled

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Speaker 1: workers from workplace discrimination. So that happened today. We are

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Speaker 1: recording this intro today. When this airs will be a

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Speaker 1: was a great It's a great day. We're at the

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Speaker 1: tipping point of history. Yeah, we we get to experience

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Speaker 1: because we're talking about discrimination. We're we're living in the

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Speaker 1: in the the middle of a time of racial injustice

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Speaker 1: of you know, lgbt Q plus communities still still dealing

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Speaker 1: with discriminatory laws that until today, you could be fired

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Speaker 1: for being LGBTQ in twenty six states. It's fucking which

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Speaker 1: is crazy, but same being a part of this change

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Speaker 1: just gives me hope. And and it was funny because

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Speaker 1: we were doing these episodes. We did Kate Shotts last week,

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Speaker 1: and then we were going to do Khalil, who we

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Speaker 1: just interviewed today, which was incredible, and we had a

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Speaker 1: really wanted to put Fortune's episode out in celebration of

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Speaker 1: the LGBTQ plus community and this moment in history. And

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Speaker 1: she's just hilarious and her brother's amazing as well. They

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Speaker 1: grew up in North Carolina outside of Charlotte. Crazy stories

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Speaker 1: about their childhood. They opened up about their parents' divorce.

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Speaker 1: And remember the story about Fortune on the swim team.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's so great, She's so genuine and just

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Speaker 1: there's no there's yeah, they're both there's just no bullshit,

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Speaker 1: you know. I mean, it's they're just they're not a

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Speaker 1: fan in any way. With her success right now or fame,

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Speaker 1: it's the Price of Fortune. That's the book we should

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Speaker 1: write together. But we recorded this one right before Quarantine,

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Speaker 1: so this was one of our last ones that we did.

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Speaker 1: I miss it so much, miss pain now. I missed

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Speaker 1: doing it in personally. Do I Do to Fortune has

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Speaker 1: a Netflix special called Sweet and Salty. If you haven't

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Speaker 1: watched it yet, check it out. I love Sweet and Salty,

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Speaker 1: I love Fortune, I love Price. Enjoy this episode. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to our podcast. Thank you. It's so nice to have

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Speaker 1: you on. We want it. We usually just start with

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Speaker 1: kind of asking where you guys came from. You know,

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Speaker 1: where were you born and where were you all conceived? Well,

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Speaker 1: my parents would share that if they were here, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Our parents are divorced, right, broken home broken broken. They're

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Speaker 1: still friends though those broken homes. Yeah. Yeah, we're from

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Speaker 1: North Carolina, from a small town called Belmont's. Like, where's Belmont.

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Speaker 1: It's like thirty minutes from Charlotte, very tiny town. I

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Speaker 1: animated around my family, but kind of quiet at school,

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00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: and then uh, I would I would watch start Out

426
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 1: Live all the time, so I would memorize those sketches

427
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: and then do them for my friends at school on Monday,

428
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: and they be like, oh, you're funny. I mean, I

429
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: was just ripping off other people's material. But I had

430
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: to grow into it. I wasn't like people now are like,

431
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: was she always funny? They're like, no, she wasn't like

432
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: the ham No. I mean, and that's the thing. She

433
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: was kind of quiet and just kind of kept to herself.

434
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: Because what's interesting, Our dad's really funny, and he makes

435
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 1: these little stupid jokes that you know, are kind of

436
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: they're so silly you just kind of laugh at them.

437
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 1: My brother's the same way. And you know, with fortune,

438
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: she just kind of, you know, it was reserved. But

439
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,479
Speaker 1: when she did perform for people, I mean, it's like

440
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: a different person, Like, oh my gosh, she was this person.

441
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: And so so when people ask family the questions like, oh,

442
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 1: your sister's funny, I mean, well, yeah, she's brilliantly funny,

443
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: you know, but when she's around family, it's just we're

444
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: just talking to family. But did you get off on

445
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 1: it meeting like that feeling of makeing people laugh, Like,

446
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 1: holy shit, this just feels good. I don't want to

447
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: keep doing that. Well, I think I was always a

448
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: chubby kid always, you know, I've always been a big girl,

449
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: and so when I was young, I don't think I

450
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: wanted people to look at me because I felt very

451
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: you know, fat, and so, uh yeah, well your brother

452
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 1: calling you right, Yeah, thanks a lot, guys. So I

453
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: think it was the only it was the way I

454
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 1: was comfortable with people looking at me laughter with me.

455
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 1: I was in on the joke, you know. Uh. So

456
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: it was a way for me to communicate with people.

457
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: And so it wasn't as much like, oh my god,

458
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 1: this feels so good, like making them laugh. I was like, oh,

459
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 1: this is how I can fit in, this is how

460
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: I can have friends, and so, uh then it became

461
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 1: I was I was never the outcast then in that way,

462
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: you know, I never got picked on because I was

463
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: the person making everyone laugh. Yeah, so it was my

464
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 1: way of just surviving, I think, you know, yeah, that's interesting.

465
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like it's way I found it.

466
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 1: You know, well, it's funny you talk about, you know,

467
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: using comedy that way or being funny and how it

468
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: sort of helped you get through and to be accepted.

469
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 1: And you know, I'm not a comedian, but I love

470
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: making people laugh. It's always been, you know, a joy, right,

471
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 1: But only recently, in the last year, I've realized that

472
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: sometimes I will use self deprecation to sort of mask

473
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: a potential inadequacy. Yeah, and I will make fun of

474
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,439
Speaker 1: myself in some way, whether it be my career or

475
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: showing your ass on Instagram. I have seen that it's

476
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: nice inadequacy, that that's covering. No, that's adequate, that's an

477
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: adequate ass. But only recently I was I discovered that

478
00:28:55,120 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: about yourself. Yeah, probably like some sort of insecurity to

479
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: make the joke before anyone else can make it or

480
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: think it. Right, But I do self deprecation. I think

481
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: self humor is it's huge. I mean I think it's

482
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: a necessity. Yeah, for sure. For me. It's like, we

483
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: had a very interesting childhood, we have a very wacky family.

484
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: It was like, why not just like dip into this

485
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: personal stuff then you're never like telling the stories that

486
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: other people have told because they're your stories. And so

487
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: for me my comedy, I want to be relatable. I

488
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: don't want to be like this kind of comic or

489
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: this kind of comic. I'm like, I'm gonna tell you

490
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: stories and no matter what your background is, you're gonna

491
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: be able to relate to something. Yeah, and so that,

492
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: especially with My special, I did that. The whole thing

493
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: was one big storytelling thing. And I when I started comedy,

494
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: you used to be a lot more self deprecating because

495
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: I wanted people to like me. This This special has

496
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: some of it in the beginning, but then I really

497
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: go away from it and then just talk about it's

498
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: a journey of someone finding themselves and that and I

499
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: made I did a lot of the wrong thing. Or

500
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: I would try things thinking this is who so and

501
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: so wants me to be, and it would of course

502
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 1: not work because I wasn't being my true self. Prices

503
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: she ever has she ever have you come up in

504
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: her in her comedy? Well? Has she told the stories? Well,

505
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: you're like, oh fuck, the brothers have said, hey leave

506
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: us out. So but of course our parents love it

507
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: because they think they're celebrities anyway. And so when my

508
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 1: mom and dad anytime they mentioned their names and all that,

509
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 1: they're just kind of like, oh my gosh, you do

510
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: know that story is not a great story. I don't care,

511
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: but you guys asked to stay out of it, like

512
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: you actually had the conversation like that, we don't want

513
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: anything to talk. Well, I don't informally. Yeah, I mean,

514
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: you know, the Hooter story stuff is great now. That

515
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: all was based on our you know, family going to

516
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: Hooters and it happened. You know. Uh, what's funny about

517
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: the Hooter stuff is great wings, great wings. For one.

518
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: But when we were my brother and I were younger,

519
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: we used to run these ten k races. We weren't runners.

520
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: I mean, we just thought it was cool to run

521
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: a long gray so we did, and our celebration was

522
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: go to Hooters. So next thing, you know, we're going

523
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: to Hooters. Now we're thirteen, fourteen year old boys going

524
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: to Hooters. And that that was like sick, Yes, exactly, absolutely.

525
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: So that's how our family started going to Hooters. Yeah,

526
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 1: and so it was like, why not talk about these

527
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: things because they're funny, you know. And I said one

528
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: joke about them in my special I don't ember like

529
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: name you guys, right, but I just go oh. I

530
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 1: came out to my brothers and they were like duh,

531
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: and I was like, well, thanks for telling me. Apparently

532
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: they knew a lot way for it. Well again back

533
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: to our you know, when we were talking a little

534
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 1: earlier about her hanging out with us, we were playing soccer, baseball, softball.

535
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: She was always there when we'd go to church. You know,

536
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: she'd want to dress kind of like, you know, the

537
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: butt down shirt, no dress, right. You know, we never

538
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 1: saw her with guys. We never saw there was never

539
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: a date or somebody, you know, let's go hang out on.

540
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: No talk of a guy or anything like that. But

541
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: you were never feeling even a twelve thirteen year old

542
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: lust for female, you know what I mean? I did,

543
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: but I it was masked in anngks of like that's

544
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: my best friend so much. I'm such a good friend,

545
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: you know. It was I just thought I was super

546
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: intense about friends, you know, and there go or you

547
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: My mom would be like what, oh my god. Yeah.

548
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: It was just always like she wait, she's going out

549
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: with a guy, but doesn't she know her best friends?

550
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: Like it was very angsty, but it was a different time. Yeah,

551
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: you know, they're just especially in our small town, people

552
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: don't talk about being gay. It wasn't It wasn't the

553
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 1: thing like now it's just like, oh yeah, so it's

554
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: as gay whatever you're like, It was not a thing.

555
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: I didn't. We didn't know any outgames. Is there anyone

556
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: in your school or whatever that was like you we

557
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: know that that they were back in the day. Yeah,

558
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: they weren't. You hear a reference in the Carolina as

559
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: we live in the Bible Belt. Well, that's simply because

560
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: there's so many churches on every corner where you go,

561
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: and people are gosh, I'm not gonna get in trouble.

562
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,719
Speaker 1: But a lot of people say they're very religious when

563
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: they're not really religious, but they have these beliefs because

564
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: the church believes in you know, gays and lesbians all

565
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,239
Speaker 1: you know, they're the devil, you know. But even though

566
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: they're friends and they like the person and all that,

567
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 1: there's kind of a double standard, especially where we came from.

568
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: That I think that's across the board. Yeah, yeah, very true. Yeah,

569
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: And it wasn't like I felt like like I wasn't

570
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: hearing negative thing. It wasn't like people were going on

571
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 1: gay people were the devil. They legitally weren't talking about it.

572
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: Did you really discover that you were gay through a

573
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: Lifetime movie? Well, I talked about it in my Netflix

574
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:13,000
Speaker 1: special too. I tell a story about realizing I was

575
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 1: gay via lifetime movie, which I've done one. Yeah, I

576
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:19,800
Speaker 1: did one called Carolina Moon. By the way, it was

577
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 1: Carolina Mo. Yeah. I had a line I said, Claire

578
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: was with a girl named Claire for Lanni, who was

579
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: an actress, and she's driving away. She stops and it's raining.

580
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 1: I run into the rain. You know, it's one of

581
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: those and I said, I said, I will. The line was,

582
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: I will travel to the ends of the earth if

583
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: that's where you're going, that's right. And then she gets

584
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,720
Speaker 1: out of the car and it's raining. We're literally spinning

585
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: around in the rain. I hope that's Carolina Moon. That

586
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: on your web your website, it's true. But a Lifetime

587
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: movie gave you some sort of yeah, well, I think

588
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 1: it was bubble, you know, you was. I had moved

589
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 1: to la at this point and it was bubbling up.

590
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: You know that you can only hold this law. That

591
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: was the big thing I was finally seeing gay people.

592
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: I was seeing how normal it was. Yeah, you went,

593
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 1: you had some drinks at the abbey. Yeah, this brunch

594
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: seems fun. What am I? What am I at church?

595
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: With all the strain? I want a woffle. So it

596
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: was bubbling off and and uh, you know, I think

597
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: it was like sitting right here, like he was ready

598
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 1: to just be like and the catalyst. It's so embarrassing.

599
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: And I didn't tell this story for years because I

600
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: wanted to be like, Oh, I met some girl and

601
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: I told her I would walk to the ends of

602
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 1: the earth. I wanted my real lifetime moment. But I

603
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: watched this. I was by myself watching this lifetime movie

604
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: called The Truth about Jane, and this girls in high

605
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: school realized she's gay. Her mom, played by Stark Channing,

606
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: was very against it. At first, She's like boo, and

607
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: then by the end of the movie she's like yay.

608
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 1: And it was like this beautiful, like family moment. And

609
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: I legitimately said out loud for the first time, I

610
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm gay. And then I

611
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: just sat there and shocked that this was the journey

612
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: to that realization. And I knew forever Channing was a

613
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: part of your She was this moment what about family

614
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: was fully accepted. Yeah. I didn't tell them for probably

615
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: about another eight months or so, uh because I was like,

616
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: I'm in LA, who will know? And uh so I

617
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: think I told my I told my mom first at

618
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: the Chinese restaurant. I'll talk about and uh she was

619
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: more just she was more just like, I don't want

620
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 1: your life to be harder than it's already could be.

621
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: You know. It was more of just like, I don't

622
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: want to see my kid go through anything. I don't

623
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: want people to hate you now just because of this.

624
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 1: So it took. It was more of her shifting her

625
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 1: dream for me. My dad immediately was just like you're

626
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: my daughter. I love you. You're my daughter. Because you

627
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: didn't know what to say, I love you, you're my daughter.

628
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 1: And my mom was Mike, she knows she's your daughter.

629
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:32,720
Speaker 1: She's telling you she's gay. He didn't know what else

630
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: to say. You're my daughter a lot, and you're like, oh,

631
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: that's so beautiful, You're that's him accepting me in such

632
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: a ridicuous way, you know. And then the boys were like, yeah,

633
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: we know. Yeah, Oh so I told them, Yeah, they

634
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,160
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Speaker 1: you guys all pretty tight the siblings. Yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean we have very different lives. They're married with kids,

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Speaker 1: you know, and they own a fishing company, so they're

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Speaker 1: always they're always working. Tell me all about this fishing.

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00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fish. Oh really? Well, yeah, so my

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Speaker 1: brother and I have two fishing companies we own. First

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Speaker 1: we go around about thirty events, live stream big billfish

723
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 1: events and all that. And then we own what's called

724
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Speaker 1: the Southern Kingfish Association, which is big kingfish, uh, saltwater fish.

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Speaker 1: It's about three thousand plus members that my brother and

726
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Speaker 1: I just we purchased it last year and so that's

727
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Speaker 1: what we do. They're bringing, you know, with their media company,

728
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Speaker 1: they're making fishing accessible to a lot of people, like

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730
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Speaker 1: be there tune in and listen to it. So they've

731
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: been busy building their businesses. I've been busy, you know,

732
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Speaker 1: doing up right. Ay, will they own that together? We've

733
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: been yeah, even twenty years in the coach is working together.

734
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 1: It's it's bright brothers. I don't. I'm glad I'm not

735
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 1: in the business. Yes, it's I mean there's times that

736
00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: there's you know, we have brother moments, but we get

737
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Speaker 1: over it pretty well. Would you say it would be

738
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: your biggest just overall disagreement in running in running a business,

739
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: you and your brother, Well, they're very different. Yeah. Jay's

740
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: like Jay was in the Coast Guard for years, so

741
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: he knows so much about fishing and prizes to learn

742
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: a lot about that. You're the finance, the guy, the

743
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 1: business guys, so they come from very Jay's the creative.

744
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: I handle all the business. So Jay's like, let's get

745
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 1: Bertram put four and You're like, how much is this cost?

746
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:44,920
Speaker 1: That's where I come into Yeah, where I come into play.

747
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: And so but it's it's been great. I love working

748
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: with my brother. It gives us an opportunity to work together.

749
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: And they're they're nice guys. People like working with them.

750
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Speaker 1: So I'm proud of them doing their thing and I

751
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: want them to succeed. And you know, I'm so we're

752
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 1: all close, but it's like they're on North Carolina. I'm

753
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: in California. They they're married, they have kids. I have

754
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: my fiance. Our kids are our dogs. So we just

755
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 1: have different lives in that way. How many kids do

756
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 1: you have? Ten year old boy? Only one? And so

757
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: he spoiled rotten. You know our fish. Yeah, he loves

758
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 1: to fish. And Jay's got two boys of his own

759
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Speaker 1: as well, and they're all close and they all do stuff.

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Speaker 1: I know. My mom was like dying for someone to

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Speaker 1: have a girl. She wants it so bad. We're on

762
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: the fence. We don't know because Jackson is a she's

763
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Speaker 1: a kindergarten teacher for twelve years. Oh so you've had

764
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Speaker 1: your shriff of children. Yeah, she's like she'd be the best,

765
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Speaker 1: the best. I would be the one that would be

766
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767
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: but here's a cookie. You know, had you never thought

768
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Speaker 1: about a romantic connection until the lifetime thing or had

769
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Speaker 1: you had any experience? No experience? I came out what men?

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Speaker 1: Uh not? I didn't really. I was didn't really date

771
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Speaker 1: guys either. I would have like a date here and there,

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Speaker 1: but we immediately like went into like high fiving each other.

773
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Speaker 1: It was there was never any like chemistry in that way.

774
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Speaker 1: But I get along really well with men. Having two

775
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Speaker 1: brothers at all, we have so much to talk about,

776
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: but then it would kind of end. You know, there

777
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: was nothing there. You know, you have to have those

778
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Speaker 1: share the molds, whatever you call it, and we didn't

779
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Speaker 1: have that. So I just didn't date. I just I

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781
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 1: I was like in every sport. I played tennis in college,

782
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Speaker 1: was the student body president. That's how I like channeled that, uh,

783
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Speaker 1: you know, lack of dating and channeling into that because

784
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786
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787
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Speaker 1: but you're never like the object of someone's affection when

788
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789
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,160
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790
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,840
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Speaker 1: So yeah, I just didn't. I just didn't really have

792
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Speaker 1: mistakes in my late twenties that you get to make

795
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Speaker 1: when you're you know, seventeen. Yeah, so I was not

796
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,320
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797
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799
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Speaker 1: right right. So when you came to LA, did you

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Speaker 1: immediately start doing comedy? I started. I didn't have I

801
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803
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804
00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:08,359
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808
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: take classes at the Groundlings as like a hobby and

809
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,920
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810
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: kept going, oh, you gotta you gotta keep doing this,

811
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:34,520
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812
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: for the Groundlings. Did not go well, yeah really, oh

813
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:40,640
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814
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:44,400
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815
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,759
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00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,120
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817
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,880
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818
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819
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 1: a sleazy doc. Whatever. Yeah, and so I'm staying and

820
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: then you turn around, you just fucking go and so

821
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:06,120
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822
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 1: And I took it literal, so I turned This wasn't

823
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:14,480
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824
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: I turned around and I'm like, hey, I've got cheddar

825
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 1: and I started trying to hawk cheese. I love that

826
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,440
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827
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 1: I actually misinterpreted what they said and people were standing

828
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,080
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829
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: And I was like, that's a pro and I was like,

830
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 1: an Italian chese hawker, you need to be the king

831
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:44,000
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832
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: And I remember no one was really laughing, and I

833
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,759
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834
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: I had fucked up the interpretation of it. And I

835
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 1: sat down with my friends and they're like, what are

836
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: you doing, dude? They meant like a cheesy guy and

837
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:04,000
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838
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:07,759
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839
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: there would be someone who appreciate that, Like they were

840
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842
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 1: you know, expanded into lots of different types. And I've

843
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 1: been thinking about going and doing like uc ber Ground, Yeah,

844
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: and it's just fun's fun, so fun. I did a

845
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: show the other night because sometimes they'll have like you know,

846
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:32,879
Speaker 1: lums come to improv and and uh, you know, it's

847
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: it's one of those things where you're really just doing it,

848
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:37,800
Speaker 1: like it's like going to the playground as an adult,

849
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: because some people like why do you do him? You know,

850
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 1: im probably like it's just silly and get nervous still

851
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 1: sometimes only because improv like once you're once you have

852
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: not been doing it for a while, you get out

853
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: of practice and you're like, oh my god, I forgot

854
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 1: how to like deliver information to these scenes. But it's

855
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: helped me a lot and stand up because especially when

856
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: I was coming up in the clubs and I was

857
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: building my set, Uh, you have you have to fill time, right,

858
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: So I would be like, hey, who has a cool job,

859
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: and let's see where we get that and through my

860
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 1: improv I would go on these like twenty minute runs

861
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: of making all this stuff up just based on what

862
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,279
Speaker 1: jobs people were telling me. So it was fun. It

863
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:25,879
Speaker 1: made it, you know, like the show different every every night.

864
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: Did you have comedians who you like, really looked up

865
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,440
Speaker 1: to as a kid or growing up or coming up.

866
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: Probably a lot of the SNL people like I Adam Saylor,

867
00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:40,960
Speaker 1: I loved, I like the silly people, Chris Farley. Uh.

868
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 1: Then then the next round was like Will Ferrell, Molly Shannon,

869
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: I like anyone who didn't take themselves seriously. Well, you

870
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: you channel some Farley. Yeah, physical comedy. Yeah, there's some

871
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:59,880
Speaker 1: back and forth stuff that you're doing, facial expressions, it's

872
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 1: it's yeah. So I think I I was by watching

873
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: them sort of like was taking on what I thought

874
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 1: was funny in them. I would sort of do and

875
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,399
Speaker 1: then I was I'm also a really big Carol Burnette fan.

876
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: My grandmother used to watch her show, so she would

877
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 1: play the reruns. Yeah, so and she she and her

878
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 1: show was like her audio monologue that's essentially stand up.

879
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 1: Then she would do all those sketches and at the

880
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: end of the Q and A, it's improv and I

881
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:32,760
Speaker 1: feel like my career's done. I do all of those things.

882
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 1: And I think it really stemmed from watching her. You

883
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:41,400
Speaker 1: did this really funny thing about being on the swim team.

884
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 1: It's all true. Yeah, someone not elaborated at all. There's

885
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 1: a little I didn't climb up on a block. You

886
00:52:52,480 --> 00:53:00,399
Speaker 1: you uh you jumped off from the show. I can

887
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: sam up because someone wrote me and being like that's impossible.

888
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: You cann't dive into a pool and stand up. I'm like, okay,

889
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 1: we measure the pool, so we dove off of the

890
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: side and not the blocks. And uh but no, I

891
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 1: legit like tiptoed, you know, running tip toed, because I wasn't.

892
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: It wasn't like I was the water. I still was

893
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,399
Speaker 1: like barely above the water, but I was running through

894
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,280
Speaker 1: the pool. And I mean I was the worst swimmer.

895
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: I was the worst. I would do like back like

896
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,120
Speaker 1: literally on the backstroke. They would be done for like

897
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:40,240
Speaker 1: ten minutes, and I'm in the middle of the pool,

898
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 1: still running into the lanes, and I at one point

899
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,280
Speaker 1: would stand up and look back and be like oh boy,

900
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 1: and then keep going. I had no business swimming, but

901
00:53:51,280 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 1: my brothers swim so not this one team for a minute. Yes, baseball, tennis,

902
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 1: and soccer, and so that's yeah, very active. And my

903
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:08,280
Speaker 1: brother was a competitive swimmer and fortunately I both played tennis.

904
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 1: Oh right, Yeah, and so we never got into when

905
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 1: your parents' divorce. How old were you when that happened.

906
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 1: I was twelve, you about to go to college. Yeah,

907
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: we were talking about this last night in the car

908
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:25,440
Speaker 1: that we had a really interesting experience when my parents

909
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: started to make the decision of getting divorced. I had

910
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:32,319
Speaker 1: just started my first day of college and my dad,

911
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,319
Speaker 1: we had, the whole family went up and again, I'm

912
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: the oldest and I'm going to college for the first time.

913
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: And it was one of those situations that prices situated.

914
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: He's ready to go, and you know, our dad had

915
00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 1: made a decision that, you know what, I think this

916
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: is the time for me to split. Well, they had

917
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: separated and started sort of dating again, you know, weird like,

918
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: did you know this? Yeah, yeah, we knew there was

919
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: some issue was going on. Yeah, we just as kids,

920
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: we just didn't know the extent and they didn't have

921
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,439
Speaker 1: to talk like, hey, guys, we want to tell you something. Well,

922
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 1: we knew that there was trouble. But then like my

923
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,000
Speaker 1: dad started like coming to pick my mom up for dates,

924
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: and we're like, well, this is this is weird. But

925
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 1: then apparently I didn't know those price for me last

926
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:22,360
Speaker 1: night that my dad put the nail on the coffin

927
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:26,400
Speaker 1: the day they moved him in one for college. And

928
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: so you can only imagine how my first semester of

929
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 1: freshman year went in college. It was a disaster, uh,

930
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 1: you know, and I felt Fortune was like what twelve

931
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:41,959
Speaker 1: and my brother was fifteen and my mon time, Yeah,

932
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: and my mom had just kind of that just you know,

933
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 1: ruined her pretty much. And so as the oldest I

934
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 1: was getting calls from my mom on a daily basid,

935
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: oh can you believe your dad? And this and that

936
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:57,240
Speaker 1: and so. But I think that's what kind of built

937
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: especially you know, Fortune with their comedy up as well.

938
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: I mean, we had to our families lighthearted, we laugh

939
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: a lot and all that. So it was a serious situation.

940
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 1: And to this day now, I know this sounds very

941
00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 1: dark how we're talking right now, but I mean my

942
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 1: parents are good friends now and everything's great now. We

943
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 1: make light of everything. Any tragedy our family had. We

944
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 1: would always be laughing about it. We were making jokes

945
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,200
Speaker 1: about it. So we always felt the light in whatever

946
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: hard time there was, there's humor and everything. Yeah, and

947
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,760
Speaker 1: Price was, you know, always just like a good guy

948
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: that like really was trying to like take care of everybody.

949
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 1: And like he would have I don't know if you

950
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: remember this, you would have you ask girls that you

951
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:46,439
Speaker 1: were friends with to write me letters. It would write

952
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 1: me letters be like I know you're like it's hard

953
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: at home that your parents are divorced, that you know,

954
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 1: we just want to reach out to like reach out

955
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,879
Speaker 1: to you and like make sure you're okay. And I'm like, what,

956
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: like eighteen year old guy on the planet, So it's

957
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 1: always looking out for me, good for you. How did

958
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: it affect your freshman year? I mean obviously did but

959
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: in what in what wade were you just you had

960
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 1: to take on a responsibility that I sort of weren't

961
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: ready for. Oh. Absolutely, I mean I had in my

962
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:24,480
Speaker 1: mind prepared for college freshman partying girl. Yeah, I mean

963
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 1: I was excited and I went to a I started

964
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: off at a small school in North Carolina in the mountains,

965
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 1: and so, uh so everybody was close and everybody knew

966
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 1: each other and stuff. But it was one of those

967
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 1: situations I felt so bad. I'd go home on the

968
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 1: weekends to make sure that they were okay. So sometimes

969
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: if I was going out with the girl, I would

970
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:52,440
Speaker 1: take the girl to We're back in the situation. He's right, absolutely,

971
00:57:52,600 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: like I'm sad to visit you. It just sounds like

972
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 1: you didn't have much resentment, meaning like this is just

973
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 1: what it is, this is just what I have to do.

974
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 1: It was there a part of you like, motherfucker, Like

975
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: I just want to be a missing out on my experience. Oh.

976
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 1: I kind of joke with my wife that, I mean,

977
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: she went to University of Michigan, you know, tailgating football parties.

978
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 1: She had the ultimate college experience, And I'm thinking to myself, well,

979
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: actually I didn't make it. I got through my freshman

980
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: year at this school, and I didn't make it past

981
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 1: my freshman year because I felt like so responsible that

982
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: I needed to go home. So I actually transferred back

983
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:40,280
Speaker 1: to a community college where we live in the area,

984
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: just so I could be with my family. And then

985
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,760
Speaker 1: I ended up going to a school about thirty minutes

986
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: from our house, so I essentially I could keep a

987
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 1: close eye on what was going on, because my mom

988
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:53,439
Speaker 1: was going through a lot, my dad was doing his thing,

989
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: my grandmother had started getting sick. So I felt like,

990
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: you know what, this is kind of my responsibility. So

991
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: I kind of joke with people. I love my college,

992
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 1: but it wasn't much of a college experience and stuff.

993
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: When we went to when my wife and I were

994
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: going on twenty years this year of marriage and so, yeah,

995
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: and so she took me up to a Michigan football game,

996
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 1: and I swear, it's just like I had chill mops.

997
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 1: I went to that stadium, you tiered a thousand people,

998
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 1: and I did you tear it up? I get it, Yeah,

999
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: I get it, like yeah, and I was just like

1000
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: it was like all this emotion just kind of just

1001
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,480
Speaker 1: came over me, and I'm like, oh my gosh, like

1002
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 1: this is incredible. This is what I missed and stuff.

1003
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: But it was okay. I mean, I met my wife

1004
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 1: and you know, now we have our son and everything's great.

1005
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 1: And it's same thing with you know, I talked, you

1006
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 1: know about the parents situation. You know, my parents have

1007
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: a great relationship and all that now and so and

1008
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 1: they had to get there. But yeah, it took a

1009
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: minute to get there And where were you at Fortune

1010
00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: when you were twelve years old and all of a sudden,

1011
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: brothers away at college. Yeah, and now, you know, I

1012
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: think that's probably one. I'm a comedian, you know, the

1013
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: band abandoned the issues of just like everybody kind of

1014
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: went off, you know, and like did Jay got his

1015
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: license that year, so he was out of there. And

1016
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: both my parents, you know, they had to really kind

1017
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: of grow up themselves. They I think this split, like

1018
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 1: my it took my dad one way and it took

1019
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:25,000
Speaker 1: my mom another way, and and everybody was trying to

1020
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: fix themselves or like look out for themselves. And I

1021
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: was like, you guys, I'm still here. I've got a

1022
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 1: top hat on. Hello, wants to see a show. But uh,

1023
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: that's why I think my grandmother and I were so close.

1024
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: She she lived just down the street and really stepped

1025
01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: in and while my parents were kind of finding themselves,

1026
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 1: and they did, but you know, they did get to

1027
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: the point where they came back around and really you know,

1028
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 1: made family their priority because I think it just was

1029
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: something that I don't think my mom thought she'd get divorced.

1030
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 1: I don't think, you know, and my my dad you know,

1031
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 1: just his emotional capacity was still growing having had the Yeah,

1032
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 1: and so by the time I hit college, they both

1033
01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 1: were you know, had come back. I mean they didn't

1034
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 1: go away, but you know what I mean, like just

1035
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 1: being Yes, that's saddled. Are they super close now or

1036
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 1: are they just they're good friends? Yeah, they're good. They're

1037
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 1: I mean they he my dad was remarried, and so

1038
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:36,400
Speaker 1: they don't it's not like they talk every week or

1039
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: anything like that, but uh, they know that at the

1040
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: end of the day, they're family. They've known each other

1041
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 1: since they were seventeen. He doesn't have any family. I mean, well, yes, brothers,

1042
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:50,440
Speaker 1: but it's like he came up in a very difficult

1043
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 1: family situation and her all of her family, brothers, parents,

1044
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,520
Speaker 1: they're all dead. So they kind of like know each

1045
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: other in a way that no one else knows. And

1046
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: I think they finally come to a place where they're like, oh, like,

1047
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 1: I like, you're my last lifeline to that story. And

1048
01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: your mom never remarried, let's talk about that. She did,

1049
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: It was very brief. She had a companion for a

1050
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:28,400
Speaker 1: while and they just were never meant to be married.

1051
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 1: They got married, and I think once she moved in.

1052
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 1: He was like, whoa, no, thank you. So they it

1053
01:02:39,920 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: lasted three months. Rights they just are very different people. Yeah,

1054
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 1: but my mom, but my mom made sure to have

1055
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 1: a big, huge second this wedding. We begged her like,

1056
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 1: please don't do this, like because we were kind of

1057
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: like new from day one. This was not a good parent. Yeah.

1058
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: What did she see in this guy? I mean, why

1059
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 1: are you okay? Just someone to speak to he had

1060
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 1: a hearing aid, like some old guy. She likes the

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01:03:10,040 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 1: older gentleman. Hello, that's a pretrequisite. Hello, ginger. I love

1062
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: how you'll scoff matches your shoes. He told my wife

1063
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 1: that he liked her pocket book and this is the

1064
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 1: first time that we met. And I was like, what

1065
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: did he just say? Like my wife's pocket book? And

1066
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 1: then he said your shoes on divine And I'm like,

1067
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: who ses the word divine? You know that's all that's

1068
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: all we'll say about I can make a gain. Yeah,

1069
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: but yeah, they had a huge second wedding. A wedding

1070
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: and like my mom got like a circus tint and

1071
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 1: put it inside the fellowship holl of our church. I'm like, oh,

1072
01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:59,440
Speaker 1: tent tents go inside, okay, And She's like almost almost

1073
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 1: serve hot dogs and I will have not chos with Holopenos.

1074
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 1: I think she ut like three hundred people to this

1075
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 1: wedding and they were divorced three months. It's so amazing. Yeah,

1076
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 1: we have a very character she is when I talk,

1077
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 1: I talk about her a lot and stand up and people, Uh, really,

1078
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,840
Speaker 1: no way, she's like that. And I'll put her on

1079
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 1: our podcast. I go just listen to this really and

1080
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 1: they but now now they love her. They're just like,

1081
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 1: what Ginger have to say about this? I feel like

1082
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: your impression is pretty good. Pretty I mean I I

1083
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 1: can hear. Yeah. So within a couple of weeks, we

1084
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:54,200
Speaker 1: are going to be in the Rocky Mountains. I don't

1085
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: remember where I go, but yes, the Rocky Mountains or

1086
01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: it's a big mountain range. But we will be there.

1087
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: And you know what I'm gonna do. The minute I

1088
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,959
Speaker 1: pull up to the ranch in Colorado, I'm gonna crack

1089
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: open a Corse light, an ice cold Cores light. I'm

1090
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: gonna wait for the mountains to turn blue. Crack that

1091
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 1: cors light open, sit on some outdoor patio furniture, look

1092
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: at the mountains, and just get my drink. On sounds great.

1093
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 1: Here's my favorite thing about cors Light as a beer drinker,

1094
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 1: as someone who likes beer, even though I stick to

1095
01:05:27,280 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: my spirits a lot because of this reason. And cors

1096
01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 1: Light is a great beer for this one hundred and

1097
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: two calories per beer. It's a three point beer on WW.

1098
01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 1: There's a psychological aspect to a cores Light, Okay, And

1099
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna explain this for a second. When you go

1100
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 1: on a long route mountain bike ride, which I'm heavily

1101
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 1: into mountain biking, okay, and you're sweating your ass off,

1102
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 1: and you pull up to your truck and you're with

1103
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 1: your boys, and you load your bikes up, and now

1104
01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 1: you're sitting in the parking lot, right what kind of

1105
01:05:58,480 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 1: a beer do you want to crack open? And right

1106
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: then and there, you want a corse Light. You don't

1107
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:05,680
Speaker 1: want some sort of a heavy, you know, sort of

1108
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: stouty beer. It's part of the moment. Cores Light is

1109
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:15,280
Speaker 1: speaking to my psychology when I'm out and about and

1110
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: I'm active and i want that freezing cold beer to

1111
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:23,240
Speaker 1: just quench my dying thirst. It's brewed. It's a three

1112
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: step process, cold loggert, cold filtered cold package, so it's

1113
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 1: actually made to chill, and so the mountains on the

1114
01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 1: course light cold activated bottle, so they turn blue when

1115
01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:36,920
Speaker 1: you know that it's chilled exactly the way they're supposed

1116
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: to be chilled. You can have course Light delivered actually

1117
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 1: by going to get dot coreslight dot com and finding

1118
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: local delivery options near you. Celebrate responsibly. Corsemroun Company, Golden Colorado.

1119
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 1: You moved to Spain? I did, yeah, life experience. Yeah,

1120
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 1: I graduate college and I don't know, I just like

1121
01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 1: made this decision I was gonna move to Spain. I

1122
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 1: had studied in Mexico a couple of summers in college

1123
01:07:10,320 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 1: and was really fascinated with the language, and it just

1124
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 1: sort of made this. I have this desire to like

1125
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:19,640
Speaker 1: see the world, but we never had money. I'd never

1126
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:23,920
Speaker 1: had the means to really explore the world. And I

1127
01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: was just like, I'm in a living Spain for a year.

1128
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 1: And I graduated like fifty dollars in my bank account

1129
01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 1: and basically worked like eight jobs for the next like

1130
01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: four months, bought a one way ticket to Spain and

1131
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 1: lived there for almost a year. Where did you go

1132
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: in Sibia? It was I loved it. It was one

1133
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 1: of the hardest things I've ever done, because I mean,

1134
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 1: you're talking about someone who grew up in a town

1135
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:53,240
Speaker 1: of five thousand people. My college was eight hundred people,

1136
01:07:53,560 --> 01:07:57,480
Speaker 1: not women in Spain, and this was before Wi Fi.

1137
01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 1: You had to go to the internet cafe, and you know,

1138
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: I was so disconnected from everyone. There's no cell phones. Yeah,

1139
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 1: you were just like, sounds great, you know. Yeah? For me,

1140
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 1: I was this country bumpkin and just be like, oh la,

1141
01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:16,120
Speaker 1: come on the stars. Like it was a real uh.

1142
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:19,800
Speaker 1: I was a real fish out of water. I took

1143
01:08:19,840 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 1: my guitar. I'm like, I'm gonna I'm become an amazing

1144
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: guitar player. I don't think I played once, and it

1145
01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:34,599
Speaker 1: was just me like struggling with all my luck. Why

1146
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 1: did I ring the guitar? Oh my god, everyone's trying

1147
01:08:38,040 --> 01:08:40,000
Speaker 1: to rob Did you hit your stride though? I mean,

1148
01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:42,760
Speaker 1: was there a point where you're like, okay, I'm I

1149
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: got to a point where I could really communicate with

1150
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 1: people and understand. But I was ever great. Did you

1151
01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 1: make friends? I mean, yeah, I made friends. I went

1152
01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 1: to a language school where I learned Spanish, and there

1153
01:08:53,080 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 1: was a lot of European people that went there, and

1154
01:08:55,479 --> 01:08:57,800
Speaker 1: I would make friends with them, and I traveled all

1155
01:08:57,840 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 1: over Western Europe train, so they'd be like, you'd meet

1156
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 1: so it's so different there. You'd meet somebody who was

1157
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 1: like you saw them, met it for like four days.

1158
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 1: They'd be like, oh, when you come through Switzerland, can

1159
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,559
Speaker 1: stay with me. You're like, okay, sure. I would stay

1160
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:16,479
Speaker 1: with strangers all the time, people I never knew, but

1161
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 1: they would just open their houses and so it was

1162
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:21,360
Speaker 1: a way to like, I don't I guess I just

1163
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:24,400
Speaker 1: wanted to prove to myself that you didn't need money

1164
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:28,760
Speaker 1: to see the world and to experience these things, like

1165
01:09:28,800 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 1: you can make that happy. How do you feel about

1166
01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:34,800
Speaker 1: that now? I'm so glad I did it, because I'm

1167
01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: too big of a puss now to do something like that.

1168
01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, I have I have responsibilities. And

1169
01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:43,920
Speaker 1: I got to like work, and it was a time

1170
01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 1: in your life where you just give caution to the

1171
01:09:45,560 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: wind and did you visit. I did not have that.

1172
01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 1: I was working. Unfortunately, I had an opportunity to go

1173
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 1: out to visit one time and it's just schedule and

1174
01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:57,120
Speaker 1: just see you spent a year not seeing each other.

1175
01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: My mom and our brother Jay came for like three

1176
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:04,680
Speaker 1: weeks over Christmas because I never went back home. I

1177
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 1: didn't have the money to fly back and forth. And uh,

1178
01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:10,679
Speaker 1: they should I beg I said, I beg of you, guys.

1179
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 1: This is a tiny everything's tiny. We're not tiny, We're

1180
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 1: big people. Please just pack like small bag. The cars

1181
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:23,400
Speaker 1: are small, the seats are small. Closets. I beg of you.

1182
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:27,719
Speaker 1: I picked those. I picked them up in Madrid, three

1183
01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 1: giant suitcases a piece. I'm like, I mean, I've not

1184
01:10:31,560 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 1: seen them in like six months. I'm like, I hate you.

1185
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:38,720
Speaker 1: I hate you. So we like barely fit in this

1186
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 1: taxi to go to the hotel. I had to, Like,

1187
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 1: I knew someone in Madrid who let us keep like

1188
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 1: three of their bags in their house until we finished

1189
01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:52,439
Speaker 1: our three week journey. And my brother brought a sleeping bag.

1190
01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 1: I mean, you think Europeans don't have beds, You really

1191
01:10:55,920 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 1: need a sleeping bay. Where were you planning sleep? Yeah?

1192
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:07,040
Speaker 1: How fun did you? Did? You? Guys? Was there a

1193
01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: time when when you were not speaking, meaning not in

1194
01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: any bad way, but just not connected, just circumstantially, and

1195
01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:18,160
Speaker 1: then found your way back to each other where your

1196
01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 1: relationship maybe grew well, when when Fortune moved out to La.

1197
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 1: I mean she said, we lived completely different lives. I

1198
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:28,640
Speaker 1: mean I went, you know, I met my wife and

1199
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 1: we got married, and so there's you know, now I'm

1200
01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:35,040
Speaker 1: a married man, and so you know, she came out

1201
01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 1: here East coast, west coast, and we talk, we text,

1202
01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 1: We just don't it's two different lifestyles and stuff. But

1203
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: I always know what she's up to. I always knows

1204
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:47,719
Speaker 1: what she's doing. And obviously we're so so proud of her. Yes,

1205
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 1: what was the last time you saw each other before

1206
01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:54,040
Speaker 1: you came out here? Christmas? Really? Yeh yeah, oh really? Yeah.

1207
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 1: I try to go. I tried to go him like

1208
01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:59,200
Speaker 1: three times a year. Yeah, but you hadn't been out

1209
01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 1: here in a while. It's been a long time. You know.

1210
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:03,679
Speaker 1: It's hard, I think once you have kids to really

1211
01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,680
Speaker 1: just like, you know, you can't really make the We're like, oh,

1212
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:09,640
Speaker 1: let's go to Paris this weekend. You know, it's just

1213
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 1: a different lifestyle. Do you miss home or do you

1214
01:12:12,400 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: like La? I really love La. It's my gym. I'm

1215
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 1: very chill. I'm a chill person. I like sunshine, and

1216
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 1: La is a very chill vibe. I can wear jeans

1217
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:25,880
Speaker 1: everywhere and it's it's great. We go visit home, you know,

1218
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,800
Speaker 1: North Chrolina several times a year, so I get that, like, uh,

1219
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 1: I get to see family and just sort of you know,

1220
01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:36,719
Speaker 1: not go a thousand miles a minute and just slow

1221
01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 1: down for a second. But then I'm always like ready

1222
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:42,519
Speaker 1: to get back. It's interesting though, because we're talking about Sibler.

1223
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 1: You guys are siblings who see each other here and again,

1224
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:48,600
Speaker 1: right right, because I mean, for the most part, the

1225
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:51,600
Speaker 1: siblings that we've had on are in each other's lives

1226
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 1: all the time, right, But there's something but it's okay,

1227
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like when you guys are

1228
01:12:57,320 --> 01:13:01,200
Speaker 1: to get together again, I mean, it's pick right back up.

1229
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:04,960
Speaker 1: I think maybe that's if I think maybe sisters, the

1230
01:13:05,000 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 1: sisters that I know seem to talk a lot more.

1231
01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 1: They're like a little bit more like day to day

1232
01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 1: or it's almost like with dudes, you can just kind

1233
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,840
Speaker 1: of be like, oh, talching a month and it'll be

1234
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 1: like who cares? You know, It's true, although we talk

1235
01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:19,960
Speaker 1: like almost every day, but we have but we do.

1236
01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 1: But I live, I live. Yeah, You're part of each other. Yeah, yeah,

1237
01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:26,479
Speaker 1: but it is weird when I stop and think about it,

1238
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I've lived in LA for

1239
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 1: seventeen years. I probably see my family ten days out

1240
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:36,320
Speaker 1: of every year. You know, like when you really put

1241
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 1: them all together, it's kind of crazy. It's crazy. Yeah,

1242
01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:42,439
Speaker 1: it is kind of crazy to see. I mean, so

1243
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:46,719
Speaker 1: we're you know, small town, southern town. Then you see

1244
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 1: La Hollywood, you see movies, TV show and so it's

1245
01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 1: just bizarre. Like when she did her Netflix special, it

1246
01:13:54,000 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 1: was in Charlotte and to see the cameras and the

1247
01:13:57,760 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: people and for us, it's like wow, Wow, like, man,

1248
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:02,920
Speaker 1: she has arrived. I mean, she has a rib. So

1249
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:05,040
Speaker 1: that was kind of a cool experience. And you know,

1250
01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 1: everybody back home was rooting for I mean, they're just

1251
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:11,080
Speaker 1: everybody follows her and it's just a big fan in general.

1252
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 1: But even as a family member, you just love hearing

1253
01:14:13,880 --> 01:14:16,960
Speaker 1: about the success that she's happen, which is great. And

1254
01:14:17,000 --> 01:14:18,839
Speaker 1: that's partly why I wanted to do it in Charlotte's

1255
01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 1: because I don't really get to share They've seen my

1256
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,720
Speaker 1: stand up shows when I come to town, but I've

1257
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 1: never really got to share my life with them in

1258
01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:29,879
Speaker 1: that way. And you know, I'm like when I'm filming

1259
01:14:29,920 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 1: stuff here, I can be like, oh, I was film

1260
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 1: this thing and they're like, oh, that's great, But like

1261
01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:36,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to show them, like, you know, this is

1262
01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 1: this is a big part of my life. This what

1263
01:14:39,120 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 1: I've traveled to forty five cities just last year. This

1264
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:44,600
Speaker 1: is what you're working. Yeah, I want you to see it.

1265
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:46,599
Speaker 1: I want you to see how it's done and made.

1266
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 1: And so it was a big thing for me to

1267
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 1: do it at home really to share with my family.

1268
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:54,760
Speaker 1: Was it emotional for everybody? Yeah, it kind of was

1269
01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:58,559
Speaker 1: because I remember when she was doing it for free

1270
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:02,640
Speaker 1: at the local restaurant in Belmont, and it's like she

1271
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:05,720
Speaker 1: was just happy to get an audience and to hear

1272
01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:08,160
Speaker 1: the jokes that she started with to where she is

1273
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:10,800
Speaker 1: now and the friends are like, oh my gosh, like

1274
01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:14,640
Speaker 1: she is like like she's for real, and it's like

1275
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:17,679
Speaker 1: we saw her when she started in Belmont and now

1276
01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 1: she's on Netflix and so it's just kind of like, Wow,

1277
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:23,920
Speaker 1: she's come full circle and stuff, and it's like, man,

1278
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 1: that's my sister doing that and so, you know, and

1279
01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:27,519
Speaker 1: I think back to you, people are like, oh, that

1280
01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:29,680
Speaker 1: looks you know, it must be so nice. Us up

1281
01:15:29,680 --> 01:15:32,479
Speaker 1: there telling jokes and all that. You realize, man, you

1282
01:15:32,600 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 1: try getting up there with the microphone with you know,

1283
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 1: thousands of people watching you and tell jokes and make

1284
01:15:38,200 --> 01:15:41,559
Speaker 1: people laugh, you know. And so I mean, we're very

1285
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 1: you know, it's awesome to see that you know what

1286
01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 1: she does, and we're very proud of. Do you have

1287
01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:48,599
Speaker 1: what was your first time on stage? Do you remember

1288
01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:52,320
Speaker 1: like your first set where you're like, holy shit, I'm

1289
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:54,640
Speaker 1: on stage actually doing this. Yeah, fun of people. I

1290
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: did a six weeks stand up class. I had already

1291
01:15:58,400 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 1: been doing improv sketch, but this was what I did,

1292
01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 1: a six week stand up class, and at the end

1293
01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:05,639
Speaker 1: of it, you do a set in the comedy store.

1294
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:08,160
Speaker 1: I think I'm talked about like I hate strawberries. It

1295
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:13,680
Speaker 1: was very I wasn't digging deep. It was fine and

1296
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:16,080
Speaker 1: that it was like the people that came knew they

1297
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,880
Speaker 1: were seeing a class, so they were more forgiving. Do

1298
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 1: you have any bombs? We were like, oh yeah, like

1299
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:24,960
Speaker 1: my mom went this one of them. In Virginia, I

1300
01:16:24,960 --> 01:16:27,400
Speaker 1: had done last comic Standing. I got hired to do

1301
01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 1: this charity event and uh, the the guy that was

1302
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:33,960
Speaker 1: in charge of got fired like three weeks before, and

1303
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:36,680
Speaker 1: whoever picked it up was like, wait, what is going on?

1304
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 1: And it was at this like biker bar in Virginia

1305
01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:42,880
Speaker 1: Beach and they told me it would be like a

1306
01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:45,719
Speaker 1: nice sit down dinner and it was like a Chinese

1307
01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 1: buffet with like six options. All the people they were like,

1308
01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:52,760
Speaker 1: who is this person? The stage was a crate and

1309
01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:55,880
Speaker 1: the light was you know in those clamp lights constructions

1310
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 1: like oh my god, my opener was supposed to do

1311
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:03,679
Speaker 1: twenty minutes. He lasted two minutes and was it went

1312
01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 1: good night. And I was like, dude, so I just

1313
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 1: ate it for the next forty minutes really and at

1314
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,320
Speaker 1: the end, I go, come on, almost, let's go, let's go.

1315
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:17,280
Speaker 1: So it's just not like no, it's quiet. Yeah, people

1316
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:20,000
Speaker 1: just kind of going, why why aren't we here? You know,

1317
01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:22,840
Speaker 1: I don't know what we're here? I got my check

1318
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 1: and ran out of there. It takes such a tough

1319
01:17:25,680 --> 01:17:28,120
Speaker 1: skin to be a stand up. Well, stand up. It's

1320
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:31,880
Speaker 1: a great so much so much like admiration for you guys.

1321
01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:36,640
Speaker 1: We're doing the Lord's work. Yea, yeah, I agree, Yeah,

1322
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 1: it is a great. Stand up is the one place

1323
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:42,280
Speaker 1: where you can't really fake it, you know, if you're not. Like,

1324
01:17:42,320 --> 01:17:44,400
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people who can go on YouTube

1325
01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:47,680
Speaker 1: and be like I got a YouTube series, but you

1326
01:17:47,720 --> 01:17:51,800
Speaker 1: can't to get on stage and to like really make

1327
01:17:51,880 --> 01:17:56,320
Speaker 1: people listen for an hour. It weeds people out pretty quick,

1328
01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: you know. So let's do our speed ramp. Okay, so

1329
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 1: one where to describe each other? Kind funny? Hey, one

1330
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:14,280
Speaker 1: word to describe the other at twelve feisty, funny? Still?

1331
01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:18,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, something your parents don't know that your

1332
01:18:18,360 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 1: siblings did. Oh he found something. I was gonna say,

1333
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:28,240
Speaker 1: your party, Yeah, well, we hired a stripper, a mail stripper. Yes,

1334
01:18:28,439 --> 01:18:30,599
Speaker 1: I don't know if my mom ever knew we hired

1335
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:34,519
Speaker 1: a mail stripper. Those are my friend's eighteenth birthday party.

1336
01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: And I said I was just gonna have some girls over,

1337
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 1: and it was like fifty girls, y'all take your parants off.

1338
01:18:43,240 --> 01:18:45,519
Speaker 1: Leaving the driveway, when the stripper arrived, I'm like, who

1339
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:50,080
Speaker 1: are you? Oh, I'm the performer, he was, I'm a cop. Yeah,

1340
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 1: he was in a suit. Yeah, We're like, what's happened?

1341
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 1: And the neighbor, a neighbor came over because he saw

1342
01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,200
Speaker 1: the cars, and they go, are you the stripper? And

1343
01:18:59,240 --> 01:19:02,799
Speaker 1: he's like what it was a very wild night. Yes,

1344
01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 1: you might have. You had a girl in your room

1345
01:19:07,880 --> 01:19:14,879
Speaker 1: that was big. That was a big number of back swept.

1346
01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:22,639
Speaker 1: Now who calls the other more? We're both pretty bad,

1347
01:19:22,720 --> 01:19:26,840
Speaker 1: but I probably text you more. We're more Texters than

1348
01:19:28,680 --> 01:19:32,040
Speaker 1: we're not as chatty as our other brother and our mom.

1349
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 1: They talk like all all the time, like what's up? Okay? Cool? Bye?

1350
01:19:39,240 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 1: Do you spend Christmas together? We do like every other holiday,

1351
01:19:43,320 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 1: so that the family, the wives would spend with. Yeah.

1352
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:57,599
Speaker 1: Who's wittier? Sure? For who could survive longer on an

1353
01:19:57,600 --> 01:20:04,519
Speaker 1: island deserted islands? Eagle scout? Yeah? And I'm a terrible

1354
01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:08,320
Speaker 1: I'm a terrible Yeah. People come up to me a

1355
01:20:08,360 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 1: home depot asking where things are. I'm like, I don't know,

1356
01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 1: what's one thing that your sibling is bad at me? Calling? Yes,

1357
01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 1: you're not a big hugger. You're bad at hugs. I'm

1358
01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 1: gonna hug you, said, My mom said he like that

1359
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: since we were kids. He was like, your wife you Yeah,

1360
01:20:41,360 --> 01:20:45,240
Speaker 1: but like we always do, like bro sod hug. Are

1361
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:50,280
Speaker 1: you an affectionate girl? Yeah? Over the place for sure.

1362
01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:57,320
Speaker 1: Who's the better cook? Neither of us cook? I would not.

1363
01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:00,519
Speaker 1: We didn't. Neither one of us got that. Only cook

1364
01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:08,000
Speaker 1: our grandmother, but our parents Southern cooking like from scratch stuff, cakes,

1365
01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 1: from scratch, chicken and dumbling. Oh yeah, mom, Grandma made chicken. Yeah,

1366
01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 1: she made a great chicken. You know what, I'm going

1367
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:18,679
Speaker 1: to make a chicken and dumplings. Chicken and dump dumplings

1368
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:22,240
Speaker 1: are not easy, They're not I will be judging you

1369
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:40,599
Speaker 1: my dumps. You taste my fluffy dump dumps. Okay, who's

1370
01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:46,560
Speaker 1: more athletic? That's pretty even. We're both very athletic. Yeah,

1371
01:21:46,600 --> 01:21:49,640
Speaker 1: who's more competitive? And I were the one Jay was

1372
01:21:49,680 --> 01:21:53,400
Speaker 1: like really great at swimming, like like unbelievable, but we

1373
01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:58,639
Speaker 1: could do like any sport, well except swimming. Like, yeah,

1374
01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:02,280
Speaker 1: who's more competitive? Probably I'd probably say me. Yeah. I

1375
01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 1: mean because you know, I grew up playing a lot

1376
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 1: of sports, and it was we had good teams and

1377
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 1: so a lot of you know, winning championship type of deals.

1378
01:22:10,439 --> 01:22:12,040
Speaker 1: So it was I had that kind of embedded in

1379
01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:15,600
Speaker 1: when we play makes doubles together and tournaments back in

1380
01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:17,920
Speaker 1: the day, which was a big mistake against each other,

1381
01:22:18,280 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 1: you know, with each other keep jumping in front of

1382
01:22:20,320 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 1: me all the time. I was like, oh, you little mother.

1383
01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:27,880
Speaker 1: I got to say something too. I don't. I guess

1384
01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:30,719
Speaker 1: I don't have the killer instinct because we were playing

1385
01:22:30,760 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 1: this family. So we just came from Yugoslavia where they

1386
01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:36,840
Speaker 1: were bombing our you know, our village, and I'm like,

1387
01:22:36,880 --> 01:22:39,760
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, and they were sitting there and don't

1388
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:42,240
Speaker 1: listen to them. Don't listen to them. They're trying to

1389
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: get in your head. You know, We've got to smash them. Price,

1390
01:22:46,360 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 1: We've got to smash them. And they're like, oh yes,

1391
01:22:49,720 --> 01:22:54,679
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, I feel so bad for Yeah, yeah,

1392
01:22:55,000 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 1: those are those things. It's like, come on, like jumping

1393
01:22:57,960 --> 01:22:59,679
Speaker 1: in front of me. Because I was a lot younger,

1394
01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 1: so he wasn't. He didn't have the confidence that I

1395
01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:06,200
Speaker 1: would carry my part of the you guys rule followers

1396
01:23:06,240 --> 01:23:09,800
Speaker 1: in general. I'm very much ruled too. Yeah. Yeah, I'm

1397
01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:16,080
Speaker 1: pretty guilty of that. Keeps the best secret not him

1398
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:21,800
Speaker 1: really bad. Huh. This guy's a town crier. He tells everybody. Everybody.

1399
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 1: You tell him something, everybody's gonna okay. So why why

1400
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:27,800
Speaker 1: what is that? You think? No? I just you know,

1401
01:23:27,840 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 1: if it's with my family and having a discussion about something,

1402
01:23:31,320 --> 01:23:32,639
Speaker 1: it's kind of like, well, I need to have all

1403
01:23:32,640 --> 01:23:35,200
Speaker 1: the facts out there so everybody knows. So he tells

1404
01:23:35,240 --> 01:23:38,680
Speaker 1: everybody what you just take this? Yes, And I'm like,

1405
01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:43,679
Speaker 1: he's trold me under the bus so many times. Yeah,

1406
01:23:44,080 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: why did you tell them? I said that? But what

1407
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:51,240
Speaker 1: if someone says, don't say anything? You try my best?

1408
01:23:51,280 --> 01:23:56,679
Speaker 1: Not I try my best. He's a little chatty, Cathy.

1409
01:23:56,720 --> 01:23:58,519
Speaker 1: But do you stir the pot? Do you like to

1410
01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:04,680
Speaker 1: stir the pot? Yes? If we're having an issue, like

1411
01:24:04,680 --> 01:24:07,880
Speaker 1: with siblings sometimes like where there's a disagreement about something,

1412
01:24:08,520 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 1: then maybe I'll try to, you know, get people together.

1413
01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:13,720
Speaker 1: He has sent texts that I've sent to our other

1414
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:17,639
Speaker 1: about our other brother, to our other brother, and then

1415
01:24:17,920 --> 01:24:20,439
Speaker 1: I'll be texting him and get a text from other brother.

1416
01:24:20,640 --> 01:24:24,160
Speaker 1: What did you say? I'm like pride, Yeah, and like

1417
01:24:24,280 --> 01:24:26,960
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to. I copied it and I didn't

1418
01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:29,200
Speaker 1: know all of it was sending. And have you guys

1419
01:24:29,240 --> 01:24:31,600
Speaker 1: ever had like a sit in sittings like a blowout,

1420
01:24:31,920 --> 01:24:39,200
Speaker 1: crazy fight, like ship? We've had those works as adults. Oh,

1421
01:24:39,240 --> 01:24:41,840
Speaker 1: there are few and four between, but they happened. Yeah,

1422
01:24:42,280 --> 01:24:44,120
Speaker 1: we get it all out and then the hope is

1423
01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:47,559
Speaker 1: you move on. Yeah, it never gets personal the way.

1424
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:49,759
Speaker 1: We're pretty good back from it. Yeah, and we're pretty

1425
01:24:49,760 --> 01:24:52,680
Speaker 1: good about forgiving. And we always have to know what

1426
01:24:52,680 --> 01:24:58,080
Speaker 1: your first celebrity crush was. Mine probably was Sandra Bullock

1427
01:24:58,680 --> 01:25:01,960
Speaker 1: in the movie While you were Sleeping. I was like, Oh,

1428
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:05,200
Speaker 1: I want to be in a coma and have Santra

1429
01:25:05,280 --> 01:25:12,440
Speaker 1: bal coming to check on me. I'm gonna be embarrassed

1430
01:25:12,439 --> 01:25:15,200
Speaker 1: because she's in here. I watched a lot of Kate

1431
01:25:15,240 --> 01:25:27,439
Speaker 1: had some movie oy. Yeah. Yeah, I was told about this.

1432
01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:29,920
Speaker 1: I'm like really, I was like, you know, I was like,

1433
01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of k Yeah, this is got me,

1434
01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 1: sister cool points. So thank you, allie. Do you want

1435
01:25:45,479 --> 01:25:48,280
Speaker 1: to do our last question? Yeah? We we we. We

1436
01:25:48,439 --> 01:25:52,639
Speaker 1: asked this to everybody. If you could take one thing

1437
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:56,960
Speaker 1: from your sibling to adopt as your own, to take

1438
01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:59,719
Speaker 1: from them that you wish that you could have yourself,

1439
01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 1: well would it be? And then if you could extract

1440
01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:06,000
Speaker 1: something from your siblings to take away something that might

1441
01:26:06,120 --> 01:26:09,560
Speaker 1: be a stressor in their life, or or something that

1442
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 1: might be you know, hindering them in any sort of way,

1443
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:14,200
Speaker 1: what would it be? But I would say with price,

1444
01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:17,840
Speaker 1: I would probably he did. He has no ego. He's

1445
01:26:17,960 --> 01:26:20,880
Speaker 1: just like there's nothing about Like he doesn't hold on

1446
01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:24,760
Speaker 1: to grudges, he doesn't think that he's better than anybody.

1447
01:26:25,040 --> 01:26:28,000
Speaker 1: He he just has this light. He's just kind and

1448
01:26:28,080 --> 01:26:30,720
Speaker 1: a good guy. And he's never like trying to be

1449
01:26:30,800 --> 01:26:33,839
Speaker 1: the center of attention, and he's just kind of content

1450
01:26:34,000 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 1: with life. And I like that he's not that person

1451
01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 1: that thinks it's never enough, you know, And I like

1452
01:26:41,200 --> 01:26:46,720
Speaker 1: that about him. Uh, what I would remember, like we've

1453
01:26:46,760 --> 01:26:50,280
Speaker 1: never had like a real conversation. Yeah, we don't really

1454
01:26:50,439 --> 01:26:54,559
Speaker 1: dig too deep with each other. Yeah. Yeah. And then

1455
01:26:55,800 --> 01:27:00,280
Speaker 1: I what I alleviate for you? I would I would

1456
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:05,400
Speaker 1: want to instill even like more confidence in you, because

1457
01:27:05,400 --> 01:27:08,200
Speaker 1: I think that you're really talented and good at what

1458
01:27:08,360 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 1: you do and you don't get much credit for it

1459
01:27:11,280 --> 01:27:15,240
Speaker 1: because you're not seeking that. So I would in a

1460
01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 1: weird way, I'm talking about how you have no ego,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I want to instill but in you

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Speaker 1: so that you kind of claim how great you are

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Speaker 1: at these things like joining hands, going on, wow and

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Speaker 1: just wait, now you got pred Now you have some pressure.

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Speaker 1: I tell you what, Well, you know, one thing that

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Speaker 1: I admire with Fortune is her work ethic in her focus.

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Speaker 1: And that is something man that I think is amazing

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Speaker 1: that a lot of people don't have. And you know,

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Speaker 1: you see, you know, her story is she moved to

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Speaker 1: la with twenty five dollars in her bank account. And

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Speaker 1: I mean, how many people do you know that would

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Speaker 1: have that kind of courage to do something like that?

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Speaker 1: And I've always admired that do you have do you

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Speaker 1: have that kind of work ethic? Oh no, No, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't take the chance, Like well, I don't have the

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Speaker 1: balls that she has. Put it that way, and I

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Speaker 1: don't mind saying that, and so I'm the same way.

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Speaker 1: I don't have her balls. Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 1: And I've always admired you know, her work ethic and

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Speaker 1: what she's doing. I mean, it just gets bigger and

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Speaker 1: bigger and bigger, and it's great to see, you know,

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Speaker 1: And what would you alleviate from her? You know, I

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Speaker 1: do realize, as you know, someone who is gay and lesbian, Uh,

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Speaker 1: it is a hurtful when you see other people that

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Speaker 1: you know don't want to give them equal opportunity and

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Speaker 1: don't want to you know, look at them as you know,

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Speaker 1: human beings like you know, well, you're gay, you're the devil,

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Speaker 1: or you're a sinner and all that. That's something that

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Speaker 1: you know, you don't want them to have that pain

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Speaker 1: to think, Well why am I not? You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: just you know, I'm a human being as well, and uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, and I'm sure that hurts, you know sometimes

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Speaker 1: especially for a game lets me a person in general.

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Speaker 1: But you know I've seen her experience that as well,

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Speaker 1: so you know, take that hurt away in a sense.

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Speaker 1: And so yeah, wow, it's so awesome. It's the only

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Speaker 1: time you know, will ever show this is your this

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Speaker 1: is your guys homework for your next Thanksgiving. You have

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Speaker 1: to go around the table and you can do this. Wow. Rely, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and your family doesn't open up like the scary and

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Speaker 1: sometimes weird things and then there's always one person that

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Speaker 1: does something where you're like that weird weird all right, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank thank you God. This is so wonderful, Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. Sibling Revelry is executive Bruce by Kate Hudson,

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Speaker 1: Olira Hudson and sim Sarn. Supervising producer is Alison Presnik.

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Speaker 1: Editor is Josh Wendish. Music by Mark Hudson aka Uncle Mark.