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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than about it. These are the

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Speaker 1: radio blogs on The Fresh Show, like we're running in

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Speaker 1: our diaries, except we say them aloud. We call them blogs. Kiky,

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Speaker 1: take it away, dear blog.

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Speaker 2: All right, this is a two partner. You already does it.

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Speaker 2: The first part is I, you know, I've been inspired

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Speaker 2: by Fred's new journey of being positive. So I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to change change how I look at things in life.

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Speaker 2: And it's really been working wonders for me for the

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Speaker 2: last week or so. So my new thing is to

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Speaker 2: look at things and say I get to versus I

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Speaker 2: have to. Okay, so instead of saying I have to

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Speaker 2: wake up at three am and come to work, No,

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Speaker 2: I get to wake up at three am and come

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Speaker 2: to work.

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Speaker 1: I like that changes the way. Wait does that work?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: It works.

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Speaker 2: It's like I get to do in versus I have

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Speaker 2: to you know what I'm saying. I love it, Like,

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Speaker 2: you know, I get to give a speech coming up,

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Speaker 2: you know, not versus I have to where I'm panicking

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Speaker 2: to have anxiety about it. No, I get to because

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Speaker 2: some people are not blessed with the same opportunities. Right,

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Speaker 2: we get to go to work, we get to wake

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Speaker 2: up we get to spend time with our family and.

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Speaker 1: Children and dogs.

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Speaker 2: And if you just look at things that way, I

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Speaker 2: feel like it helps you have a positive outlook versus

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Speaker 2: being tired and sad and worried and anxious.

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Speaker 1: All those things are true. You're just tricking your mind.

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Speaker 1: But what is the speech you have to give? Oh?

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Speaker 2: So I'm giving a speech at my high school's district

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Speaker 2: program that they do for all the honor students.

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Speaker 1: Cool.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, coming up, I'm going to be talking to

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Speaker 2: them about the futures, their futures, the brightness of their futures.

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Speaker 1: Look at you. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I'll tell them about all the things that they'll

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Speaker 2: get to do. They'll get to pay taxes and toes

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Speaker 2: and bills, and but you don't do any of that stuff.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know what advice you're giving. I'm giving

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Speaker 1: them the advice that they get to. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: have to. Well, then you should get to pay the

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Speaker 1: tolls too, but you don't pay the tolls, and you should.

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Speaker 1: You should get to pay taxes, but you that's not

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Speaker 1: an invitation, that's a request, And.

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Speaker 2: Do as I say, not as I do.

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Speaker 1: Period, Thank you or flip it. Mike gets to pay

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Speaker 1: my bill.

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Speaker 2: That's something to you. You look at him and say,

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Speaker 2: but you get to do any.

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Speaker 1: People want to do this, but you get to a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of me this, but you get to So that

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Speaker 2: is my first part of this thing.

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Speaker 1: Many men are viting to pay Jason Brown's bills, funding

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Speaker 1: them off with a stick.

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Speaker 2: Every day.

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Speaker 1: The stick that I got from the tree, that you

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Speaker 1: got to get for me in the house, that you

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Speaker 1: got to provide for me. Exactly. I heard this kind

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Speaker 1: of logic before, like the power of positive thinking and

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Speaker 1: all of that, you know, and you switching, switching things

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Speaker 1: in your head. It really works. So or are you

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Speaker 1: just being funny? Are you trying? I'm did serious.

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Speaker 2: I heard this from Pastor Hannah in Chicago, and it

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Speaker 2: has really changed how I feel about things like my

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Speaker 2: schedule sometimes because I'm a people pleaser and I over

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Speaker 2: commit to everything.

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Speaker 1: Jason knows this.

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Speaker 2: I will say yes to everything right and then when

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Speaker 2: the time comes like I'm like, oh, I gotta go

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Speaker 2: do this, and I gotta go do that, and I

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Speaker 2: gotta go do that, and I changed my mind, like no,

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Speaker 2: I get to I get to Filly in for Shelley

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Speaker 2: after this show. You know what I like I get

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Speaker 2: to do cool things and when it's just all about

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Speaker 2: how you look at things, and it really has helped me.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can flip it the other way too, like

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Speaker 1: I do, which is I say no to everything, and

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Speaker 1: then I get to decide which of the things I

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Speaker 1: said no to that I actually want to do luxury.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's one way too, That's a great way.

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Speaker 1: Actually, that's the other way. I get to tell everybody no,

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Speaker 1: and then I get to say, uh, all right, well

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Speaker 1: I'll do that and that, but not the rest of it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got a few more years to put in

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Speaker 2: so I get to that level. But for now I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna have to and I'm gonna get to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably I probably have a few more you

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Speaker 1: is kicking before before I should be doing this too.

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Speaker 1: But you know whatever, it's fine. I'm developing the attitude

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Speaker 1: that my mom has now in her in her age.

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Speaker 1: Then I won't say, but I'm developing she has kind

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Speaker 1: of a no craps given attitude, and I'm already developing

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Speaker 1: at a much younger age. So I probably need to

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Speaker 1: get to your way of thinking pretty quickly. A stay

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Speaker 1: or go group therapy next after the weekend in two minutes.

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