WEBVTT - That Was a Really Bad Doctor Visit 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:07.720 I'm Heathery Brow, I'm doctor Terry Rowe, and we're going 0:00:07.800 --> 0:00:09.120 to keep this between us. 0:00:09.440 --> 0:00:09.879 No we're not. 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:11.719 We're not, because I'm going to tell you everything. I 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:15.480 had a very bad day. I wasted a lot of 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:19.720 time and I did not get my mission accomplished at all. 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:20.520 Why what happened? 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:24.200 So, Like a lot of women out there, I have 0:00:24.560 --> 0:00:25.759 dense breast. 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:26.920 Tissue, which I enjoy. 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.200 By the way, I know, thank you one of the. 0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:33.280 Reasons I was attracted to you. Now. Oh yeah, Actually, 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:35.040 when I met you, I thought you had small breasts. 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:38.040 I was very disappointed because the first night, wearing some 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:39.680 weird compressive. 0:00:39.520 --> 0:00:42.479 I was wearing a dress that was tight and it 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:43.760 made my boobs look flat. 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:47.080 You walked up with that face. I went all right, 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:48.960 And then all of a sudden, you cleared this piece 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:50.920 of furniture and there were no breasts there, and I 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:56.880 went bummer, Oh, what a bomber to fix. I'll give 0:00:56.880 --> 0:01:00.000 her breast. That will be our second day. 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:07.559 I actually said to him when we first started dating, 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:09.520 I'm like, I don't know if this is going to 0:01:09.600 --> 0:01:12.440 work out, because this body's real. 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:16.720 But then on the second date and I all of 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:19.679 a sudden you show up with like a pair of 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:21.160 d cups, small d's. 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:26.160 It was a natural D breasts. 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:29.200 Dream girl on steroids. 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:30.480 Had them when I needed them and I started. 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:32.960 I'm the one took the steroids to become more attractive 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:35.160 in the gym. Do you nothing. 0:01:35.440 --> 0:01:39.360 Okay, we're really digressing here anyway, incredible breasts you had 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:43.480 and let me just the children just suck the life. 0:01:43.160 --> 0:01:43.640 Out of them. 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:47.840 Totally did deflated by Sorry, you don't seem that upset 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:48.520 about them now. 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:51.080 Actually they weirdly came back in kind of a nice 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:52.600 pleasurable way. 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:53.040 But not big. 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:54.920 But they're they're not big, but they look good. 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:55.840 Okay, now we're grosso. 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:56.760 They have a nice shape. 0:01:56.920 --> 0:01:59.600 Anyway, I would just like to highlight the fat, my 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:03.240 interest and married breast. Yes, I would just like to 0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:06.200 highlight the fact that dense breast tissue has nothing to 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:12.960 do with the appearance, no at all at all. You 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:18.000 can have pancakey nothing breast and still have dense press tissue. 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:20.680 It is about the tissue beings. 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.480 No, all right, I'm sorry, I apologize. Now I want 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:26.520 to hear what so you did? 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:28.680 So you want to hear what happened because it was 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:29.639 really traumatizing. 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:30.720 Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't know. 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:32.840 Yeah you did because I called you and you didn't answer. 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:36.720 Go ahead, But what do you mean you knew? If 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:37.720 I didn't answer, how would I know? 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:39.720 Because then I told Jamie to tell you. I'm gonna 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:42.160 tell you the story. So I have dense breast tissue. 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.920 And when you have dense breast tissue, you have a 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:50.320 mammogram every year, and they also recommend an ultrasound. But 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:54.760 years ago they also used to recommend an MRI with contrast. 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:56.800 So you'd go have an MRI where they put you 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.720 in the tube and the whole thing, and they would 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:03.680 inject you with a a thing called gatallidium. What is gatalidium? 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:08.400 A contrast agent, just like you know iodine or any 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:12.240 kind of X ray that the that highlights, you know, 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:15.079 it makes that test enhanced. 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:19.400 Right, So basically, when you have this dense tissue, you 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:25.480 can't see as well beginnings of cancer, calcifications, changes in 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:28.320 the tissue. So they want you to do this MR. 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:31.800 But the problem is this gatolidium. It's questionable what this 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:32.640 does to your brain. 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:35.560 Right, it has no obviously metal in it, so that's 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:38.480 why you can use it, right For MRIs. 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:42.000 But there's many people out there that feel like it 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:43.880 is bad for your brain and your body to have 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.560 high levels of gatoidium, which, as it turns out. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.720 I have dementia and const dementia. 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:54.920 What anyway, so I stopped having them done, but I 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:57.640 always get the mammogram and I get the ultrasound, and 0:03:57.680 --> 0:04:00.480 my doctor told me to go get this what is 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:00.839 it called? 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:10.000 Oh oh, iodine enhanced mammography, right, my RAM with idine. 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:11.840 Yeah, but you know, it's funny. I thought I was 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:14.480 going for an MRI because that's what everyone kept calling it. 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:16.920 Everyone kept saying an MRI with iodine. 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:18.880 Yeah, No, I don't think you can do an MRI 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:19.200 with that. 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.440 Well apparently you can't. So anyway, so I show up 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:24.359 to this place. Usually I go to Hogue Hospital in 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:27.800 Newport Beach, the Breast Center, who it is fabulous and 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:31.120 I love them. Yeah, they're amazing, amazing, but they don't 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:32.279 do this particular. 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:33.840 They don't iodine thing. 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:39.640 So although I wont no, I don't think they do so, 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:42.760 but certainly the only there's only one place in Beverly 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:45.200 Hills or LA that did it. So my doctor sent 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:46.960 me to this place. I went there today I get 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.520 there fifteen minutes early, and it's kind of like in 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:54.440 this building, it's not it's certainly not fancy, it's not lovely. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:58.560 It feels like a factory sort of spot. There's a 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:01.800 lot of people there. I get there, I check in, 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:05.440 I fill out the papers whatever. I'm there early, and 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:09.400 then after about twenty minutes they called me up and 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:14.280 they said, we're running an hour behind. Oh an hour behind, And. 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:15.800 By the way, I ran two and a half hours 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:19.480 behind in my office today. Do they apologize? 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:27.159 Who cares? But this is an MRI place and imaging center. 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:30.200 How do you run an hour behind? So they told 0:05:30.240 --> 0:05:33.760 me that it was because people showed up late. But 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:35.839 I don't understand. If people show up late, why do 0:05:35.920 --> 0:05:40.920 they honor the appointment because that just ruins everyone else's appointments. 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:44.560 It's so rude anyway, so rude. I'm on time. They 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:46.279 tell me it's going to be an hour, and I go, okay, 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:49.279 is it a real hour or is it possible the 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:51.040 hour could turn into an hour and a half because 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:53.680 then I'll just reschedule. She goes, no, no, it'll be an hour, 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:57.120 and I said, okay. So I'm sitting there. Eventually they 0:05:57.200 --> 0:06:00.200 take me back. I change my top. I put on 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:03.240 the open in the front only gown. I don't even 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:05.560 tie it. I'm just kind of holding it. I find 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:08.640 a seat. It's packed, there's no I got the last locker. 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:14.919 This place is like very very busy. And after sitting 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:18.720 there for an hour, I asked one of the gals, 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:21.000 you know, can you check where I am? It's like 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:22.960 being at a restaurant, right, like, where am I on 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:23.680 the waiting list? 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:24.160 Now? 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:29.360 Sooner resitting? So she said, oh, there's one person before 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.360 you and whatever. And now it's an hour fifteen, it's 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:34.920 an hour twenty. And then finally one of them introduces 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:38.240 me to this woman who claims to be the grandmother 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:43.320 of this iodine technology. And I go, that's cool. Great. 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:45.760 So I'm chatting with her for a minute and she goes, 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:49.520 this person's done. You will be in next. And I said, 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:52.159 so this is cool, it's safe. And that's when she said, 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:55.680 I basically the grandmother of this iodine technology. It's great, 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:58.440 And I said, okay, cool. So I'm waiting there. They 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:01.760 finally take me into the room and it's not her. 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:06.240 It's a different radiologist, a guy who is very funny 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:08.480 and sweet, but jokey and. 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:11.080 Was telling me, isn't that me? Isn't that me as 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:11.480 a doctor? 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:13.600 So but this is the breast center where people are 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:16.640 a screen for cancer, so let's just start there. So 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:22.520 joky Sweet's good. So he's telling me about all the 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:25.760 risks of iodine and it started to get it scary 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:30.000 to me, and I said, well, you know what, what's 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:33.160 the reaction? Can you go to anaphylaxis? And he goes yes, 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:35.280 And I go, well, how do you know if someone's 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:36.960 allergy to iodine? He goes, you know when you know? 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:39.280 And I said, oh my gosh, I go have you 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:41.000 ever had one? And he goes no, and he knocks 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:45.080 on wood. I mean, I just was all like a 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.840 little off putting to me. I was like, okay, and 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.480 then I said, you know, I'm married to a doctor. 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.920 Doctor's wives get funky things whatever. And I go, why 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:55.840 do you look so amused right now? And he goes, oh, 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:57.320 you just remind me of a friend of mine who 0:07:57.360 --> 0:07:59.440 would be reacting the same way. I'm now a little 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:03.000 nervous about the iodine situation. I'm feeling like, I don't know, 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:05.040 it's now here an hour and a half do I 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:07.680 really want to be here this iodine thing. What if 0:08:07.680 --> 0:08:11.320 I'm allergic? I'm texting you. You're not answering, Jamie. I 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:13.800 text Terry's assistant and I said, can you ask him 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:17.360 if he thinks I'm okay with iodine? And his answer was, 0:08:18.080 --> 0:08:20.000 he thinks you'll probably be okay. 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:25.520 Well, how would I know? I know, but it wasn't before. 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:27.600 But isn't it different internally? 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:31.960 I mean I would think, I. 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:35.440 Don't know anyway. That freaked me out a little bit, 0:08:35.440 --> 0:08:38.839 but fine. And then this tech takes me into another room. 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:41.040 They weigh you because that has to do with the 0:08:41.040 --> 0:08:43.080 iodine thing. And then she was going to do my 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.959 IV and I said, oh, this is the vein. Everyone 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:48.680 knows this one vein right here. And she goes, okay, great, 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:49.560 she's got like a light. 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:52.120 She's looking at you know who you are, I don't think. 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.320 So she's looking for the light. She's got a light. 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:56.959 She looking for the vein. She does this whole setup thing, 0:08:57.040 --> 0:08:57.920 and no ultra sound. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:02.640 You know they use now ultrasound to find the vein. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:07.479 They do actually robots now do it with an ultras. 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:10.320 I would prefer that. So she does her whole setup 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:11.240 and She goes, do you want me to give you 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.520 the play by play or do you want me to 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.040 just go for it? I go no, no, no, just go 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:19.560 for it. So I'm sort of like not looking at her. 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:21.640 I don't want to make her nervous. I don't whatever. 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:25.960 And she sticks me twice like sticks it, moves it around, 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:29.440 can't find it, pulls out the needle, puts it back in, 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:34.480 very painful, and I'm tough, moves it around whatever, can't 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:39.800 find it. And then she goes, well, that vein's not 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:43.480 going to work because when you have contrast and the 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:47.200 vein moves, you know, sometimes people will tell you that 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:49.240 you have like rolling veins. 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.080 Or that's when you're trying to put it in, yeah. 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:54.400 Yeah, or veins that are too small or whatever it is. 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:57.640 It's like okay, And I went, uh huh, and I go, well, 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.880 to do here because I would like to avoid getting 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.000 stuck four times because. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:07.199 She got it in, but what she thought, No, No, she. 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:10.600 Stuck me two once, moved it around, didn't get the vein, 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.040 did it again, didn't get the vein, and then was 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.840 standing there talking to herself about what to do. And 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:21.000 I said, go in, Oh yeah, totally completely hydrated. And 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:22.240 then she goes, I'm going to take you to the 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.760 RN and I go, okay, great, let's do that. And 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.880 so she brings me another jacket to put on, and 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:30.640 I go, why you're getting me a jacket? She goes, 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:33.200 it's downstairs and this is like in a huge building. 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:35.680 And I went downstairs and she goes, yeah. I go, well, 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:37.360 how long is that? And theyre already an hour and 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:38.920 thirty five minutes. I go, how long is that going 0:10:38.960 --> 0:10:41.280 to take? She goes, I don't know. I to go now, 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:43.640 you know what you're going to be. I don't think 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:46.600 I feel comfortable about this. Yeah, And so I so 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:49.680 I said, I'm just gonna go, and goes okay, yep, 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:53.400 and I left, and I started crying all the way up. Yeah, 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:55.280 because I'm not telling the story that well, to be 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:56.840 honest with you, but I just want to tell you 0:10:56.880 --> 0:11:00.920 I am very comfortable in medical environments. Being married to 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.959 Terry and being with him for almost thirty years, I 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:07.440 am a comfortable I'm very comfortable in hospital. I'm comfortable 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:12.520 with needles. I don't get squeamish, I don't nothing. And 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:16.840 I didn't even mind waiting. I got emails done. I 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:18.960 had things like. I wasn't hassled by any of that, 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:21.160 but I got to tell you, there was something about 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:24.400 there was like something about the way I was handled 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.920 and spoken to and treated was just it felt so 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:29.960 not taken care. 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:30.960 Of, by the way. 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:32.839 Except the girl that walked me out, who his name 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:38.360 is Lizabeth, was lovely, okay, she was so sweet. She 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:40.280 saw me walking out, she went, are you okay? And 0:11:40.320 --> 0:11:42.679 I almost started crying and I said, not really, I 0:11:43.080 --> 0:11:46.000 that one. I am going to go back to Hogue 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:49.080 and I'm not doing Ayadine, Okay, that's what I'm doing. 0:11:57.280 --> 0:12:02.480 Did you know this Friday are twenty sixth year wedding anniversary. 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.800 It's not twenty six exactly, it's. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:06.920 Twenty five, No, twenty seven. 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:07.360 Twenty eight. 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:12.600 What we were married in two thousand, we weren't, well, we 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:18.040 married ninety nine. You're kidding me, Wow, So maybe we 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:22.040 should party like is nineteen, so that would be twenty seven. 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:23.480 Wow, twenty seven. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:27.600 It's amazing, isn't it. It's been so good. Care for 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:28.960 what you say right now, Terry. 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:31.040 I didn't even say that. I was waiting for the joke. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.079 No, no joke, no joke. Yeah, no, it's. 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:34.880 Had a lot of fun lately. 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:40.800 Yes, except you know what's interesting about life? Life? You know, 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:43.320 this whole thing that I try to lean into, you know, 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:46.840 when things are really bad and this this two shall pass, 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:49.600 and when things are really good, I naturally think this 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:51.839 is great. Don't enjoy it too much because this two 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:53.920 shell passed, Oh you should joy it fully. Well, I 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:55.720 do enjoy it, but don't expect it to be this 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:58.559 way forever. This is a this these two shell past 0:12:58.559 --> 0:12:59.679 time in my life right now. 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:00.319 Yes it is. 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:03.719 It's a little bit of a rough patch. Yes, interesting 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:06.160 and terrible all at the same time. Nothing you know, 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:11.640 life ending or anything like that. But why do things 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:16.400 that happen stress? That giant stress? Things come in threes? 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:18.640 I really believe they do you do? I had three? 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:19.440 I have three? 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:21.440 All right, Well we'll have to go over those later. 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:24.480 And we can't really talk about what we're talking about. Sorry, 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:28.000 it's so cryptic. Nothing life ending or life changing, but 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:31.600 just something that, like, you go, why did that have 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:32.040 to happen? 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:34.400 Yeah? Yeah, just one of those. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:37.120 Things that happens in life. 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:41.720 Yeah, today was like the perfect like storm Monday. Today 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:44.280 was a real Monday. Yeah. 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:46.920 See, and maybe That's why I needed to leave that appointment. 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:47.720 I knew something. 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:50.959 Maybe maybe that was going to be three today, Like. 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:54.280 Maybe I would have been allergic to iodine yeah and 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:55.679 got into anaphylaxis. 0:13:55.880 --> 0:13:58.280 Yep, maybe that would have been the fourth thing. Yeah, 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:03.120 so the wait. We've been on a lot of trips 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.600 recently which have been really nice, and very good friend 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:06.400 of ours got married. 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.679 That was you know who got married, our buddy Robert 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:12.760 Saint John who built two of our homes. 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:15.680 Yeah, and was responsible with you. 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:18.360 He was on Real Housewives Borge County many. 0:14:18.160 --> 0:14:21.760 Times, anytimes, Yeah, and was responsible a lot obviously along 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.720 with you for that big sale we had, Yes, Sir 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:25.960 of life altering. 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:27.560 Robert and I had a lot of fun together. He 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:31.000 married a fantastic girl, a beautiful. 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:32.240 Wedding, beautiful wedding cabo. 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:35.360 At the wait, there was a blue moon, yeah, and 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:38.960 there was rainbows everywhere. Actually, the picture I posted today 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:40.960 for Pride, yeah, is a picture of you and I 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:44.360 from the wedding with this gorgeous rainbow. I've never seen 0:14:44.720 --> 0:14:48.160 such a full, vibrant, incredible, beautiful rainbow to have that 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:49.760 on their wedding day. Yeah. 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:52.240 And it's funny because you know, if I were to 0:14:52.240 --> 0:14:55.360 make a list of currently my favorite things, what do 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:57.160 you think would be the top of this right now? 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:59.479 My favorite things traveling starlink? 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:07.520 Oh oh yeah, by starling starlink. Yeah yeah. 0:15:07.560 --> 0:15:11.960 If you have not enjoyed Wi Fi on a plane, 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:15.920 like I haven't in the past because it's terrible, wait 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:19.280 until you experience starlink. And I think some American flights 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.360 have it all. JSX has it now. It's the only 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:26.480 full fleet starlink flight now. It is the most amazing 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:32.760 thing starlink on a plane is you can FaceTime someone 0:15:33.800 --> 0:15:37.920 and you can see pock marks in their face, you 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:42.120 can see their complex it's the most clear video. It's 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:47.080 like ultra high def and you can stream Apple and 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:50.000 Netflix and it's like. 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:53.080 So the problem that airlines are having with starlink because 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:55.640 I think, is it American that just put in starlink 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:59.080 some so they're working on it. It's expensive, so they're 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:02.280 getting they're getting this starlink in all the commercial airplanes. 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:06.400 But the big debate is people would be able to 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:10.880 talk on the phone on the plane. So can you 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:17.720 imagine sitting on a plane across the country and someone 0:16:17.840 --> 0:16:21.160 is talking the entire time I'm going to tell you 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:24.800 we were insane kill. We were in Sane Bart and 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:28.760 I was sitting on the beach Terry. I was waiting 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:32.240 for Terry. He was still at the gym, and I 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:33.920 was sitting on the beach. And there was a woman. 0:16:34.200 --> 0:16:36.800 I kid you not in I took a video of her. 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:39.360 I won't post it because I don't want to do 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:42.400 that to her. But she was in the water, literally 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:45.240 in the water up to her chest, on her phone, 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.320 speaking at the top of her lungs. Oh my god, 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:53.440 the water is so amazing. Whoever she was talking to 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:59.840 for thirty minutes, okay, screaming in the water, like, why 0:16:59.840 --> 0:17:03.960 aren't you here enjoying where we are? Get off the phone. 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:06.280 Okay, it was particularly your take because there's no ambient 0:17:06.359 --> 0:17:07.480 sound dragging her out. 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:09.480 Well, there's the ocean. 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:12.440 But when you're on the ocean, Saint Barts is like 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:15.880 a swimming pool. But when you're on a plane, oh 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:19.240 here we go, it's very loud. Put your headphones on 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:22.919 and you go on starlink. You can actually have an 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:28.480 amazing conversation with someone on FaceTime. 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:30.919 Uh huh, Terry is that guy? I don't know if 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:37.840 you saw my Instagram story. But we went on jetsweet X. Yes, 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:40.320 we went on jetsweet X to go to Coppo for 0:17:40.359 --> 0:17:41.720 this wedding, and. 0:17:41.960 --> 0:17:42.679 Max calls me. 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:46.600 You called Max, We know you were talking to Rob. 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:50.760 Oh Max first, then Rob multi. 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:55.359 So we are sitting on this plane and there's the 0:17:55.440 --> 0:18:00.320 ambient aircraft noise. I have my AirPods in with the 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:04.520 noise cancelation, and this one next to me across the aisle, 0:18:04.680 --> 0:18:10.440 but there is speaking like he's in a private location 0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:17.639 holding his phone, having full on FaceTime conversations, laughing, carrying on. 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:20.720 And I was like, oh my god, you're that guy. 0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:22.560 Uh I was that guy? 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:24.359 You know you are that guy. 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:25.640 I'm not that guy. 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:26.840 Pal, you are that guy. 0:18:26.840 --> 0:18:27.440 I'm not that guy. 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:31.240 You are. Terry used to do that at restaurants, he 0:18:31.240 --> 0:18:34.359 would anytime. Oh yes, anytime we're at a restaurant. One 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:36.960 of the kids called. He put him on FaceTime to 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:41.200 talk to that show. You used to show them the restaurant. 0:18:41.240 --> 0:18:43.240 Oh yes, it was a point of contingent with me. 0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:46.240 You stopped doing that. I appreciate that. Now you're that 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:46.920 plane guy. 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:50.639 Anyway, if you get the chance to try starlink on 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:54.399 the plane, I will take a terrible plane with starlink 0:18:55.119 --> 0:18:57.320 over a first class without starlink. 0:18:57.440 --> 0:19:01.720 So you're willing to sit and coach. No, you're willing 0:19:01.760 --> 0:19:07.000 to sit in coach with starlink versus first class without. No, no, no, 0:19:07.400 --> 0:19:10.920 you're you were getting bougie. You're you're saying, but. 0:19:10.880 --> 0:19:15.280 We know I'm just saying. I'm talking about the plane, Okay. 0:19:16.040 --> 0:19:20.520 Like I'll go to a restaurant with less tasty food 0:19:20.600 --> 0:19:24.080 if it's a beautiful restaurant, I have a good table, yeah, 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:27.840 versus a restaurant with better food and a crummy table 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:28.880 or an ugly restaurant. 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:31.439 Although I have to say I do sort of like 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:36.280 the notion of I'm on a plane, meaning service might 0:19:36.320 --> 0:19:38.920 be spotty. So if I don't feel like answering someone, 0:19:39.440 --> 0:19:40.240 I don't have to. 0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:43.280 No, I just I love starlink. 0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:45.440 Well, you're very connected to your phone. 0:19:45.600 --> 0:19:48.719 I am more of a screen ager than any screen 0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:49.680 ager on the planet. 0:19:49.720 --> 0:19:51.600 I you're the worst out of our family. 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:53.640 For I am the worst. But if you're a guy 0:19:53.640 --> 0:19:56.800 out there and you have an I'm prostatic prosthetic hyperge fee, 0:19:56.840 --> 0:20:00.399 you get um in peelot in the night, get go 0:20:00.480 --> 0:20:03.879 pee and say to yourself three nine, just say random, 0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:07.440 no number patterns. Yeah, because you never will think about 0:20:07.440 --> 0:20:09.520 anything stressful before you go back to bed. It is 0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:10.520 so effective. 0:20:10.560 --> 0:20:13.200 Say this again slower and honestly this is for women 0:20:13.320 --> 0:20:17.040 also because especially if you're perimenopausal or menopausal, we get 0:20:17.119 --> 0:20:19.359