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Speaker 1: Amen, brother, Amen. Now I am a forty five year

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Speaker 2: Wow, single father. Hear about single mothers, but you never

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Speaker 1: Shout out to you, op, single father.

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Speaker 2: I feel like usually when I hear single father, it's

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Speaker 1: I feel like I always hear that too, or widowed

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Speaker 1: That is true. I feel like I've heard that too.

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Speaker 2: Because I feel like it's hard to be a single

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Speaker 1: Divorce and you get the kids?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think probably, But usually, like in most states,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe. I believe. Most like court cases, it

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Speaker 1: We make very astute assumption. Guys, get twisted.

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Speaker 3: Let's get that on a myth or death. The saddest

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Speaker 3: game shoe, please pick up this game, literally the worst.

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Speaker 1: Game you know. Networks. Maybe Fox News.

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Speaker 2: Gets one, the one the prize winner gets like a

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Speaker 1: God, that's a lot. It's a lot of myth. So

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Speaker 2: Ah, death choked in my gum, I'm about to experience death.

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Speaker 1: Or we're dying on the first episode. Guys.

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Speaker 2: Wow, well look, look we've already played the game show.

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Speaker 2: I already played the maths done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, where's myth? Where's my demand? I have three sons,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, back to back many they were getting busy before

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Speaker 2: My sister was indifferent about it. Indifferent what does it

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Speaker 1: It's the stupidest thing in the world. It's the stupidest

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Speaker 2: Wear a tie.

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Speaker 1: Even even if there was a woman who identified as

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Speaker 1: why not.

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Speaker 2: Who cares clothes, dude, It's just clothes.

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Speaker 1: That's why you need to have a nudist wedding, sam

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Speaker 1: over here. No clothes, no color coordination to match, you know,

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Speaker 1: just just cakes and sausages.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the you know, that's the great equalizer that it.

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Speaker 1: Really is though it really is. You can't. You can't

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Speaker 1: like try to be flashy, show off your good tea

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, you got all equal underneath, exactly,

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Speaker 1: After she made that comment, she didn't say too much

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Speaker 1: our table. There was a card there that read Naya

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Speaker 1: old name, come on, dead name I get.

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Speaker 2: I went to my sister.

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Speaker 1: About it and she said that they used quote their

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Speaker 1: real name. It's just drude bro just be like why

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Speaker 1: I don't understand why, Like like what's the big deal?

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Speaker 1: You know, that is the question, Like what if you

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Speaker 1: wanted to start calling yourself mister octopus man, yes, right,

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Speaker 1: which is ridiculous, but you're like, hey, this means a

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Speaker 1: lot to me. I want to be known as mister

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Speaker 1: octopus man.

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Speaker 2: I would call you.

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Speaker 1: That's what I want. I want eight penises and that's me.

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Speaker 2: Give John all your penises.

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Speaker 1: Literally, who cares, it's not your penis or anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why would you care? It doesn't That doesn't make

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Speaker 1: Why would anyone care?

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Speaker 2: It's like the dumbest thing. And also, like I feel

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Speaker 2: like conservative ideology generally is like, don't infringe on other

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Speaker 1: Let let people do what they want, don't don't control.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, this is America freedom baby expression.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Get that penis? Hell yeah. Now at this point,

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Speaker 1: I went back to my sister and I told her

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Speaker 1: don't you dare cause a scene at my wedding. This

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Speaker 1: is this is the worst part. Naya can be a

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Speaker 2: Wow, just why the question? I feel like like the

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Speaker 2: So like, you are the problem.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell yourself to stop creating your own drama.

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Speaker 1: Why don't we try that? Why don't you just not

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Speaker 1: create drama for one day? Yes, there we go, Come on,

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Speaker 1: there we go. We needed say him at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, teach some sense into that old right withered noggin

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Speaker 2: of hers.

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Speaker 1: That's right. At this point, I called her a bigot.

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Speaker 1: We all got up and left. My family says, My

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Speaker 2: I mean I mean, like, hmmm, I mean it sounds

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Speaker 1: You could argue that he was maybe like a little

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Speaker 1: he had every right to leave. Yeah, he had every

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Speaker 2: And it's also it's like he is setting example of

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Speaker 1: I think that's what's most important, right right, Like, as

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm sure, I'm sure his son will go

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Speaker 1: through potentially some some challenging situations in his adult life

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Speaker 1: when he's on his own, and he's setting the example.

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Speaker 1: Like basically, you deserve respect. Actually I do.

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Speaker 2: I do really like that, and so like you, even

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Speaker 2: if this is family, even if this is like a

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Speaker 2: respect in every instance, especially this instance. Yeah, and so

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Speaker 2: I could see like this is almost like setting the

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Speaker 2: precedent for his whole life. A thousand percent agree, So

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Speaker 2: I guess like definitely not the ale for sure. I

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Speaker 2: think we've decided gabble, gabble, gabble, not the ale. That's

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Speaker 2: really cool, that's really cool. Shout shout out to op