WEBVTT - Thurs Part 1: Is Amy A Psychopath? 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:05.240 Good transmitting there. 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:14.480 This guy welcome the Thursday show, Warrener Studio Money. 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:16.239 Do you guys see DiCaprio, Amy, you see the capro 0:00:16.320 --> 0:00:16.840 turn fifty? 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:18.680 Oh yeah, fifty years old. 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:20.480 It's really hard to believe because I in my mind, 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:24.480 because he's always dating like twenty four year olds or younger, 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:27.400 I think that's his cap He just seems so much 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:28.280 younger than fifty. 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:31.840 To me, Yeah, I guess I feel like he is 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:33.919 older because the big deal is always dating twenty four 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:35.600 year old Oh right, but he has. 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:37.400 An age to me, Like, to me, he just still 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:41.000 seems so like he lives this young yacht, young girl life, 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:43.680 and I picture him as like the Titanic Leo. 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:45.400 But he is definitely older. 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:46.520 Yeah. 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:47.920 I don't feel like he looks that young either. No, 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:48.840 he's starting to look old. 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.879 My wife, who's almost twelve years younger than I am, 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:53.479 she was like, I don't only get the DiCaprio thing. 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:54.400 I was like, well, you didn't see him and he 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:55.560 was like real good looking. She was like gay, he's 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:58.120 always been like that. Yeah, And I'm like that's a 0:00:58.120 --> 0:00:59.600 good point because because that. 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:02.240 Just is like yeah, no, My teenage daughter and her 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:03.760 friends I'm like, he's not a heart throb. 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:06.000 To y'all, and they're like, what no, no, yeah. 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:08.319 I was like, okay, yeah, Agrian fifty, we're gonna I'll 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:12.720 play you a famous nineties movie clip. Name the movie. 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:14.399 You guys can write these down. If you miss it, 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:16.200 you're out. Okay, start a little game today. You guys 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:17.679 to like that. I like games. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:19.040 Let's start a little game today. 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:24.360 Uh number one? Right, thank, I'll go home now, Softball here, 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:28.119 go ahead, I mean thank, I'll go home now. I'm 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:32.800 in for the win. Amy Forstcumb, Latchbox Forest gom Eddie 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:35.000 Forrest Gumb. But by the way, if I were to 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:42.199 do the DiCaprio when you guys want to nailed this one, 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:43.720 I should have exampled that I didn't. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:46.360 Right, Next up, go ahead, Oh. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:48.480 Right, alright, alright. 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:50.520 Nineties movie? Can you name it? 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:52.120 These are so easy? Won't double these up, but we 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.280 will get some doubling up a little bit. I'm in 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:58.280 Amy day and confused Watchbox days and confused Eddie days and. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.560 Confused nineteen ninety three days to confuse. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:04.279 Next one, I have to remind myself that some Bury's 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:08.359 documented to be caged. Steph feathers are just too bright. Okay, 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:09.040 I'm in. 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:18.280 Man, I am in for the wind. Amy Shawshank Redemption. 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:27.880 Lunchbox, Shawshank Redemption, Eddie Shawshank Redemption. Next, pay kay goo out. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:32.359 This one. I'll play twice starting now, are you yeah? 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:39.960 Kayo out? What year ninety four? All these are nineties. 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:44.799 We'll give a one more run. Pay kayo out. 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:51.920 I'm in for the wind. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.200 Amy has her hand on her ear like a DJ 0:02:58.000 --> 0:02:59.960 nothing song, but there's nothing, literally nothing in her ear. 0:03:00.240 --> 0:03:03.560 Yeah, she's like holding her ear scratching a record. Quick Andy, 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:04.519 we're gonna need an answer. 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:07.400 No, okay, I can't think of the movie. But is 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:08.760 it the one million dollar guy? 0:03:09.320 --> 0:03:09.600 Huh? 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:15.360 One million dollars? What's that movie? It sounds like he 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:17.280 was mumbling something like that lunchbox. 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.960 Well, that is Jim Carrey. But I didn't know if 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:22.000 it was the mask or a Sventur. And I wrote 0:03:22.040 --> 0:03:26.560 down ace Ventura, pet detective Eddie, I too wrote down 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:29.280 a Spentura. It is a Spentura. 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:35.520 What does he saying? Oh, yeah, I didn't hear that 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:35.920 at all. 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:38.800 I heard glove all right. 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:46.080 Next one one million dollars, thank you, And the next 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:46.600 one up to. 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:51.440 Lunchbox, Austin Powers, Austin Power. 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:55.280 That was Buddy Cool Cool. Next one, Who is your 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:59.720 daddy and what does she do? So we're gonna play 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.200 again and again. That could be any movies from nineteen ninety. 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:06.040 Go ahead, Who is your daddy and what does he do? 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:07.520 I'm in. 0:04:07.640 --> 0:04:08.520 I'm for the wind. 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:11.600 Kindergarten cop, Eddie, kindergarten cop. 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:15.720 Next one, just go home? 0:04:16.279 --> 0:04:17.120 That's your home? 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.000 Are you too good for your home? 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:21.840 Answer me, I'm in. 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:25.560 I'm in for the wind. Lunchbox, Happy Gilmour, Eddie, happy Gilmore? 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:29.520 Good one more than we go to speed round? Go ahead, 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:31.840 how's keeping you want to her? 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:37.240 Charles need sleepy? How's kipping? You? One man for pillow? 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:41.039 Please go away? Let me sleep. For the love of God, 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:42.280 I'm in. 0:04:42.560 --> 0:04:46.039 I'm in for the wind, lunchbox, rust in peace, Tommy boy, Eddie, 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:46.800 Tommy Boy. 0:04:47.640 --> 0:04:49.720 Okay, So we'll do three of these. Speed round. Yeo 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.000 your name if you know it? Okay, ray your face, 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.479 yell the name, stop the clip. Here we go. Next, 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:56.599 is it frankly to be Eddie? Eddie? 0:04:56.720 --> 0:05:02.800 Something about marrying correct? That's very fast. That's good. 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:08.799 I couldn't think of the name movie next school Steve, watchbox, 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:09.760 big Daddy? 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:17.320 Correct it just got good, Steve. The final question buzzing 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:18.280 with your name action. 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:22.000 I desperately want to make love to a school boy. 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.960 No, I that's not what I mean. 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:28.200 What next? Please? 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:33.719 Very famous scene, feel weird one more time. I desperately 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:36.159 want to make love to a latchbox dumb and dumber. 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:46.039 Correct, man, I don't remember that point at all, Mike, 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:48.000 what is that part at the end of way you're 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:51.360 trying to kill her that he loves her? And why 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.440 does he desperately want to make love to school Trying 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.200 to say I want to make love to you like 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:58.200 a schoolboy, but he messes up telling you like he's 0:05:58.200 --> 0:05:58.800 a school boy. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.120 Yeah, got it all right. 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:03.839 Feels good to start out today with a web I. 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:10.640 Don't want to hear that yelling so early in the morning. 0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:22.520 Anonymous sin bar, there's a question to be well, Hello, 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.080 Bobby Bones, how do I get my in laws out 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:27.240 of our house? Two weeks ago they showed up for 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:29.960 a surprise quick visit, and they said they were having 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:33.040 so much fun they decided to extend their trip a 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:36.000 little bit. Now they're talking about Thanksgiving plans with us 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:37.839 My wife thinks it's sweet that they want to be 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:39.600 with us, but I think there's more to the story. 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:41.560 I walked by our guests room and heard them talking 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:44.719 about having major financial problems which they're keeping to themselves 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:48.000 and hoping just magically go away. I mentioned this to 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:51.039 my wife, but she thinks I misheard. If they're having 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:52.680 a hard time, happy to help, But I just wish 0:06:52.720 --> 0:06:54.880 they'd be honest and open about it. In the meantime, 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:58.520 this new roommate arrangement is driving me nuts and infringing 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:01.880 on us being the happy, married couple we were before 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:04.840 this started happening. What can I do about this signed 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:08.200 rooming with the in laws now? The first thing that 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:11.080 I would say, this is two different stories. Had you 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:13.000 not heard that conversation that you think you heard, I 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.640 think it's a whole different story. If it's just the 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.800 in laws are there and they won't leave, that is 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:19.920 a conversation because of your wife's parents. You have to 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:22.040 go to your wife, and she has got to be 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:25.120 the leader and the ambassador for the couple to go 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:28.400 and say whatever she needs to say to make them 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:30.520 commit to leaving. At some point, you're not gonna make 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.600 a lead tomorrow, but to at least have the conversation 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:34.680 to find out when they're leaving, Like she's got to 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:37.800 be that ambassador. Had you not heard the financial thing 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.440 that you think you might have heard, but you did, 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:46.200 that changes everything. If they're going through a sucky time. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:52.080 What I have learned having a family now is that 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:54.440 you also are part of that sucky time because you're family. 0:07:55.520 --> 0:08:00.640 And if they're having a sucky time, you just grin 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:03.320 and you bear it with them, and you let them 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:07.440 stay and you don't raise a fuss. Is it not 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:10.000 as fun as a little crowded it's a little anoying. Yep. 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:11.120 You know what else sucks? 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.280 You don't have money and you're having to like stay 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:15.320 at someone's house because you know they don't want to 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:15.800 be there either. 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.120 So does he have the daughter or his wife go 0:08:19.160 --> 0:08:21.040 to the parents and say, hey, we hurt. 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:24.760 I wouldn't no, not if you again. 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:26.640 Sometimes we can hear things we don't really hear, or 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.680 we can hear, but if you really think you heard 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:32.480 them say that, then removed that they'll magically go away. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:35.880 That's him inserting his own opinions, thoughts and biases on 0:08:36.080 --> 0:08:39.600 whatever you heard. Maybe they were wishing they'd go away. 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:42.000 But if that's what you heard, and that's what you 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:45.680 think you heard, you just need to be a family 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.000 and let them stay and let them think that you 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:52.120 don't know, and just be nice because if it's sucky 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:55.880 for them, you help and it's probably gonna be a 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:58.080 little sucky for you. And that's okay because they are 0:08:58.080 --> 0:08:59.560 gonna be times, but it's sucky for you, they're gonna 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:02.720 help you. Right. But if that didn't happen, the wife's 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:04.240 got to go talk to the people and be like, hey, 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:06.920 I'm here. We just need to know, Hey, we love 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:08.520 you guys being here, but like, when do you think 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:09.440 you're going to leave? 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:11.920 And you know, that's why I thought the wife could clarify, 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:14.320 because what if they're like, oh, we were talking about 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:15.679 a movie, we were watching. 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:18.880 The Mars, I hear you. And that's why it really 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:20.720 has to depend on what he thinks he heard. And 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:23.720 if he did hear it, and he's pretty confident, you 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:26.800 just be a family and you live in the uncomfortable 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:28.760 when they're living the uncomfortable because they don't want to 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:30.599 be there either. But if he didn't hear it, the 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:32.480 wife's got to go and don't kick them to the curb, 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.480 not immediately, but just find out, Hey, just wondering because 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:37.440 we have some other friends that are coming or some 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:39.880 other we're leaving, going. It doesn't matter what the situation is. 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:41.520 But we just need to know we love you being here, 0:09:41.559 --> 0:09:43.520 Like when are you guys leaving? So we can plan 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:46.040 for that. But she has to do it. If that's 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:48.800 the case, she's their kid, that's the ambassador. Yeah. On 0:09:48.840 --> 0:09:50.960 a side note, I wish our in laws would come 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:51.480 and say. 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:51.800 With us more. 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:56.760 Well, that's because you have like really awesome in laws. 0:09:56.800 --> 0:09:57.640 Not everybody has that. 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:02.160 I've heard, and I really expected that because most of 0:10:02.160 --> 0:10:04.760 the people that had that, like all the TV shows. 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:07.320 Yeah, I like you. When I was married, my in 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:08.160 laws were amazing. 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:09.320 We took ours on vacation. 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:10.680 Yeah, it was awesome. 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:11.400 I get it. 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:12.960 Yeah, so good luck with that. 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:14.560 You know what else, I'd say, go listen to the 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.120 door more to go listen to the door and make 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:19.360 sure you're right, get more more information. 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:21.240 Yeah, put a little microphone in there. 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:24.600 Yes, there you go. Okay, thank you. 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.480 There's a podcast called in the Vet's Office and so 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:29.560 doctor Josie hosted. 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:31.920 She talked about she had a patient that said, yeah, 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:33.480 you can only neut my dog if you put the fake, 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:38.120 fake implants on the dog. Yeah, yes, this happened to her. 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:39.120 She's a vet here play that. 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:41.319 She said, the only way my husband will agree to 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:43.280 neuter our dog is if we put neudicles in. 0:10:43.480 --> 0:10:45.959 They are silicone dog ball implants. 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:46.880 No. 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:50.000 Yes, So I neutered the dog and at the time 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:53.080 neutering put in the implants, and the neuter is like 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:53.640 pretty quick. 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.640 But when I put the implants in, I'm like, okay. 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:57.200 I don't want the right to be lower than the left, 0:10:57.200 --> 0:10:58.079 Like I really took my. 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:01.240 Time to make sure excursions. That's what I said. 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:04.560 So, wow, she has crazy stories. It's a if you 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:08.640 love animals. And also she has on Justin Anderson this week. 0:11:08.760 --> 0:11:11.679 Who's a lot on with Kristin Cavalary, is it hare Y? 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:14.520 Yeah yeah yeah yeah. So season two of The Vets 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:16.679 Office in the Vet's Office has launched. But the new 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:20.319 the dog noodle weird. I know, I didn't know those 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:22.040 weird things and then she had to like make sure 0:11:22.080 --> 0:11:25.520 they were even. I mean, yeah, it makes sense. It 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:28.360 does make sense. You don't want to whopper jobs and 0:11:28.400 --> 0:11:30.439 a fake noodles cool. 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:32.319 Like if you had your dog neuter, you don't need 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:33.720 it to have the. 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:36.839 I really struggle with neutering, but I did not want 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:37.480 fake ones. 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.760 Because because it also just looks that's. 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:42.240 That's like owner, that's an owner issue more than a 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:45.480 dog issue. Wants a dog's noodle. I know that I 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:47.079 don't know that, we don't know what the dog really 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.679 feels about that. You're right, so I can tell you 0:11:49.679 --> 0:11:51.440 what they don't feel. Give me some fake noodles because 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:54.160 they don't even know noodles are or fake ones. Anyway, 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:55.880 Check it out. It's a It's a podcast. Season two 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:57.280 has started in the Vets office. 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:02.080 Go search it out Amy's pile of stories. 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:05.319 According to data put out this week, the average American 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:09.360 checks their phone around five at times per episode while 0:12:09.360 --> 0:12:13.040 watching TV. And we really can't make it fifteen minutes 0:12:13.200 --> 0:12:16.360 into something before we start multitasking, Like we don't just 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.360 like sit there and actually consume what we're watching. 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:21.600 Yeah. I can't hate on that data because I think 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:23.800 if left to my own devices and I by myself, 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:26.680 I probably do that a lot. I have to really 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:30.040 prioritize not doing that if it's my wife and I'm 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:32.920 watching a show that we both enjoy. We I will 0:12:33.360 --> 0:12:35.280 my phone lips face down, like I just don't want 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:37.520 to see atlarts even during the show. So I take 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:39.240 my phone and put it out of reach and it 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:43.000 stays face down, and unless just to go to the 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:45.160 bathroom or something or I do, I don't even look 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:45.520 at it. 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:47.559 And I'm really proud of that because it's major growth 0:12:47.559 --> 0:12:47.800 for me. 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.040 Like the minute she gets up to it immediately, I'm 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:50.880 talking Twitter. 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:54.080 For sure. 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:57.800 I saw something like we spend six hours a day 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:01.040 consuming content. But that's not just on TV, like it 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:05.360 could be podcast consuming reading a book, listening to an audiobook, podcast, 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:06.280 listening to the radio. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:08.040 But at total six hours a day. 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:08.320 I'm into it. 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:12.360 I think people should consume more, sure, especially radio podcast. 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:17.360 Okay, So Eddie recently shaved his head. He just embraced 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.320 the baldness and it looks really good. And I feel 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:21.560 like a lot of times we focus on stories like 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:23.000 sexiest man alive with hair? 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:24.239 Did he win? 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:26.480 So? 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:30.439 The New York Post had this whole thing about the 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:31.839 top sexiest. 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:33.080 Baldman in the world, Jason State. 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:34.640 I'm sorry, I just came out bad. 0:13:36.520 --> 0:13:39.360 He's not in the top. Pretty hot. 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:41.080 Yeah, that just came out. 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.280 I don't know why, but he's not on here. 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:47.760 But I don't think he's I don't think the rock 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:51.440 is sexy because I think he's too big sexy, he's 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:52.040 too long. 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:53.480 Yea, but he's awesome, he's nice. 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:59.320 He did as part of interesting. Okay, I can accept that. 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.240 I just mean like he's like too big. Maybe he's 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:04.000 just not my type of guy. Maybe that's it's not 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:04.360 my style. 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:07.280 It is too strong. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.120 No, you like too thick. I guess I like my 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:09.640 guy's dinner. 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:16.800 Yeah, I've been Diesels on there, go ahead, Uh, Shack's 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:17.439 not sexy. 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:18.800 Come on, man, I can play. 0:14:18.640 --> 0:14:21.480 That personality fun. 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:24.680 Did you know Shackers twenty two shoe? 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:25.160 Yeah? 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:27.160 I mean I probably didn't know exactly that. I think 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:27.640 we're talking. 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:29.080 About somehow I came across exactly that. 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:30.080 Why you're looking that up? 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:33.120 Didn't I just read it? Danny DeVito? 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.800 Come on, I think he was sexiest. I saw like 0:14:35.840 --> 0:14:36.440 sexiest ball. 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:37.720 No, he was at number six. 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:43.040 I did, But that's that's a joke. No, we're personality. 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:44.960 Do you want to know the criteria that they bounced on? 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:50.160 Smile analysis, shine factor on the head, vocal attractiveness, and 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:51.320 media perception. 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:54.840 Danny Vito was so nice to me once, one of 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.920 the nicest, kindest, like five minute interactions I've ever had. 0:14:57.960 --> 0:14:59.920 I can tell the story at a different point, but 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:04.200 he was so freaking cool that I'll I'll speak at 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:06.800 his funeral if he ever does. Shorty, you're really small. 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:09.680 That's crazy, Mike cow short is he? I would guess 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.400 like five foot two, wow, five foot two, five foot three. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:17.320 Here we go, David four foot ten Wow, that's crazy 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:18.280 the wow guy. 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:18.640 Yeah. 0:15:18.640 --> 0:15:21.160 Well, also, I'm I guess the number one sexy as 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:24.160 bald man, and that is Prince William. 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:25.440 Does he count? 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:26.720 And he's baldy? What do you mean? 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:27.320 Does he count? 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:30.960 He's like his hairline is right, yeah, he still has 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:34.360 hair ring sides like it. To be sexy as bald man, 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:36.920 you've got to have committed to being bald. I like, 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:39.160 go for the shave. Yeah, yeah, that's not bold. 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:43.640 Kelly Clarkson talked about the room she has in her house. 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:47.320 It's dedicated to Christmas and it stays up all year long, 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:49.640 like she loves Christmas so much, and she was just 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:50.520 talking about how one. 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:53.120 Year she decorated this room with her kids and she's like, you. 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:54.960 Know what, I'm just going to leave this up because 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:56.280 I don't want to keep having to take it down 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:57.760 and put it back up every single year. 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.400 So she has a Christmas room in her I. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:01.560 Guess we have a lot of rooms in your house. 0:16:01.560 --> 0:16:02.400 It is probably pretty easy. 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:03.560 Yeah, I guess that's sure. 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:05.760 You know some people they'll decorate their tree and then 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:07.800 they just wheel it out to their garage and put 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:10.240 like a big bag over it, and then when they're. 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:12.800 We oh, I did that forever forever. My wife and 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:14.120 I first got right, we did that. We just moved 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:15.760 the training. Now now we have a different We have 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:18.080 a friend who has a Christmas decorating company, and so 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:20.000 we hire her because she's our friend and she's awesome 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:22.160 at it and it's Keaton clause, so she'll do it. 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:24.040 But we used to do that. We just wheeled the 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:28.880 tree into the Keating class. She's related, she's yeah, she's saying, 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:30.080 his niece, Wow, that's what. 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.280 Yeah. Yeah, we've known game for a long time. And 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:33.600 my son literally was. 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:37.680 Like, he like blue his n Yeah, I didn't know that, dude. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:40.120 The'ee each other family reunions on. It's not super close anymore. 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:41.840 But yeah, well it's a long travel it is a 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:42.520 long travel day. 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:43.960 Yeah, I maybe that's my pile. 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:50.320 That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:51.800 good news ready. 0:16:56.040 --> 0:16:59.000 Aaron from Alabama had been waiting on a kidney transplant 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:01.320 for lots of years. He even made business cards with 0:17:01.400 --> 0:17:03.360 people saying, hey, look this is how you can help me. 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:04.040 I need a kidney. 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:04.719 I need a kidney. 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:09.640 Finally, the business card landed in retired marine Jeff Sosnowski. 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:11.520 He looks at the business card said hey, I've always 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:14.359 thought about donated a kidney. So he goes checks to 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.439 see if he's a match. He's not a match, but 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:19.080 here's a deal. From my research. 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:22.600 It's one of those things, one of those things you know, like, no, 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:24.760 he gives to somebody that needs it, like that he 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:25.760 can match with him. 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:28.440 I me to cut you off. I'm just so excited 0:17:28.440 --> 0:17:28.720 about it. 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:32.720 So he follows through with another donation to someone else. Automatically, 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:35.160 Aaron will be moved up on the list. So Jeff 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:36.800 finds that out and he says, you know what, let's 0:17:36.800 --> 0:17:39.959 do that. So he starts donating to someone else and 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:41.760 then in the meantime, another stranger. 0:17:41.800 --> 0:17:43.639 Since Aaron was so high on the list that I 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:44.280 got a kidney. 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:44.919 It's yours. 0:17:45.400 --> 0:17:47.440 Sometimes I think about it, donating both my kidneys. Yeah, 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.360 that's what I think about though, I have doing an impression. 0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:57.359 He yeah, just though he thought about donating. 0:17:57.440 --> 0:17:59.159 He's awesome. He thought about it and he did it. 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.680 I've been thinking about it in my heart though. Wow, 0:18:02.400 --> 0:18:06.640 my brain and my brain. Wow after I die. Yeah, 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:08.960 I got all that signed up on the Yeah. Yeah, 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:11.080 that is what's his name again, the marine? His name 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:15.320 is retired Marine Jeff Sosnowski. That's awesome, so selfless, that 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:16.280 is what it's all about. 0:18:17.200 --> 0:18:21.280 That was tell me something good, Raymond. Know what's your question? 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:24.200 Yeah, so my wife's birthday is coming up, and now 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:25.439 that I have a house and I'm not in an 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:27.879 apartment and stuff, we get all our mail at the 0:18:27.920 --> 0:18:31.120 exact same spot and location, and so I'm wondering, how 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.160 do I do a birthday because we also have same 0:18:33.200 --> 0:18:34.240 credit card and stuff. 0:18:34.480 --> 0:18:36.120 Oh, how do you get a gift here? Knowing the gift? 0:18:36.280 --> 0:18:39.520 Great question. So I can tell you how I do it. 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:41.800 I go and take cash out from the bank, and 0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:44.000 then I go and buy anything with cash if it's 0:18:44.000 --> 0:18:46.960 an in person, and then I take and hide it. 0:18:47.400 --> 0:18:49.679 I usually keep it. I don't want to say, well, 0:18:49.680 --> 0:18:50.280 actually don't. 0:18:50.119 --> 0:18:51.680 Listen to the show. Like I keep in the trunk 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:54.800 of my car unless it's alive, but there's never been 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:56.240 anything alive, so always keep a trunk of my car. 0:18:57.520 --> 0:19:02.480 I've also like had friends hold stuff before because if 0:19:02.520 --> 0:19:04.480 I buy something on a credit card or if I 0:19:04.560 --> 0:19:08.720 use Amazon, who knows. She mostly doesn't go look at 0:19:08.720 --> 0:19:11.240 that stuff, but she might just for some other reason, 0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:12.960 because like yesterday she was like, we have a charge 0:19:12.960 --> 0:19:15.240 for something on the credit card that because it pops 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:17.520 up on our phones when our credit cards used, and 0:19:17.600 --> 0:19:19.879 so she's like, I don't recognize this charge. Something like 0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:21.199 that could happen all of a sudden, she sees I 0:19:21.200 --> 0:19:24.879 bought something else, I go and take cash out and 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:27.320 then buy it with cash so I can't be tracked. 0:19:27.440 --> 0:19:30.400 Like basically the car, I'm the cartel, so that would 0:19:30.400 --> 0:19:30.680 be mine. 0:19:30.720 --> 0:19:32.360 And then I hide in the trunk of my car 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:34.439 because there's no reason she would ever get in the 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:35.200 trunk of my car. 0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:37.040 Or you can leave it up here in the studio. 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:38.679 I was gonna say, I used to get all my 0:19:38.720 --> 0:19:41.200 packages to the studio, but I don't know this new address. 0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:43.920 Yeah, I wouldn't order it by mail if it's possible, 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:46.280 or have somebody else order it for you and it 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:49.639 go to their house. That would be my suggestion. Or 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:52.879 like if it's let's say it's my little pony, they 0:19:52.920 --> 0:19:54.199 just went to the Toy Hall of Famus while I'm 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:56.720 thinking about it. Nice for the record, So you would say, hey, 0:19:56.720 --> 0:19:58.520 I'm gonna buy this my little pony, Bobby, would you 0:19:58.600 --> 0:19:59.600 get it for me and I'll just. 0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:02.119 Give you the cash for it. I'll benmow you and 0:20:02.160 --> 0:20:02.520 I'm like. 0:20:02.480 --> 0:20:04.720 No problem, Yeah, we could do that. Those would be 0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:07.000 my quick solutions on how I have to do stuff 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:08.399 to hide things from my wife. Amy. 0:20:08.560 --> 0:20:11.320 Well, I think too, depending on cash or withdrawing, like 0:20:11.359 --> 0:20:13.360 depending on how you and your partner have it set 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:15.680 it up with like how much you can spend without talking, 0:20:16.200 --> 0:20:19.480 you may have to like withdraw a twenty here, twenty there, 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:21.920 and then it adds up over time just so you're 0:20:21.920 --> 0:20:24.119 not like taken out. Because depending on the gift, it 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:25.240 might like the birthday is coming. 0:20:25.160 --> 0:20:26.960 Up, you can also Okay, if that's the case, that's 0:20:26.960 --> 0:20:29.520 a great point. Well I'll give you the cash and 0:20:29.520 --> 0:20:34.440 then you can just pay me back on loan. Okay, 0:20:35.119 --> 0:20:36.000 that's a great. 0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:39.360 Point because she might be like, why did you withdraw? 0:20:39.720 --> 0:20:41.240 Like I mean, I know, I'm just throwing out number 0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:43.240 because they've been married a while to her birthday. Even 0:20:43.240 --> 0:20:45.000 if it's one hundred and two hundred dollars, you might 0:20:45.040 --> 0:20:46.919 be like, wait a second, why did you withdraw that cash? 0:20:46.920 --> 0:20:48.560 She said, I was gambling on euro soccer too in 0:20:48.600 --> 0:20:48.960 the morning. 0:20:48.960 --> 0:20:51.440 Oh yeah, yet what he does a couple of years ago, 0:20:51.480 --> 0:20:53.080 that would have made sense, but she knows that's not 0:20:53.119 --> 0:20:53.320 the thing. 0:20:53.359 --> 0:20:55.199 Any What do you think the move is for you? Like, 0:20:55.240 --> 0:20:57.480 what if you had to do something today, what would 0:20:57.480 --> 0:20:57.719 you do? 0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:00.639 I was thinking, why not move toward It's maybe a 0:21:00.720 --> 0:21:02.639 trip or a dinner so that you don't have to 0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:05.639 hide stuff otherwise it's what it's been is, don't go 0:21:05.680 --> 0:21:07.000 to the front door, don't go to the back door. 0:21:07.280 --> 0:21:09.160 Don't even look at the packages. So they're sitting out 0:21:09.160 --> 0:21:11.040 there in the rain until I get home because it 0:21:11.080 --> 0:21:13.159 says my name on it. It's just ridiculous. And then 0:21:13.160 --> 0:21:15.199 the credit card bill, just like you said, that's the 0:21:15.240 --> 0:21:18.480 part that's tricky. And I think, man, trip sounds awesome, 0:21:18.640 --> 0:21:20.520 but like a dinner is great. I think you still 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:23.159 need to get some kind of gift. I mean a 0:21:23.200 --> 0:21:26.720 trip's a gift, it's an experience. Yeah, that's a big one. 0:21:26.800 --> 0:21:28.800 You just need a flop address where you can get 0:21:28.800 --> 0:21:29.600 some stuff sent to. 0:21:29.760 --> 0:21:30.560 Really is what it is. 0:21:30.640 --> 0:21:31.480 You need a safe house. 0:21:31.560 --> 0:21:33.320 Yeah, Ray needs a safe house for his gifts. 0:21:33.440 --> 0:21:36.040 Sounds shady. It does sounds shady, Like if your wife's 0:21:36.080 --> 0:21:37.800 ever like, what is this place? Oh, it's a secret 0:21:37.840 --> 0:21:39.760 place I have, I'm telling you she won't think it's 0:21:39.800 --> 0:21:40.280 for gifts. 0:21:40.520 --> 0:21:42.359 Yeah, but what it is you could use any of 0:21:42.440 --> 0:21:43.720 us here We to let you do that. 0:21:44.480 --> 0:21:46.240 Some of us a probably keeping sell it or something. 0:21:46.320 --> 0:21:48.920 Oh yeah, same time they never got it. And if 0:21:48.960 --> 0:21:52.639 you need any help in that department, I'm happy to 0:21:52.640 --> 0:21:54.840 help you. Cash is always the best if you're buying 0:21:54.840 --> 0:21:56.520 a gift, if you can get it out without her noticing, 0:21:56.720 --> 0:22:00.800 there's gotta be some element of surprise otherwise, like most 0:22:00.960 --> 0:22:02.720 folks like I look and see what's been bought on 0:22:02.720 --> 0:22:06.840 the Amazon account, just to make sure nobody's like hacked 0:22:06.880 --> 0:22:09.480 our account or they have our numbers and are buying stuff. 0:22:09.520 --> 0:22:10.959 Well, that's the thing I've had to avoid. 0:22:11.000 --> 0:22:13.560 Amazon. We have the same account and you should unless 0:22:13.560 --> 0:22:15.160 you're gonna open a new account. But then it' still 0:22:15.200 --> 0:22:16.600 gonna pop up your credit card. It's a trick. 0:22:16.760 --> 0:22:18.920 I'm going on all these mom and pop shops because 0:22:18.920 --> 0:22:20.640 it's all the ones that aren't Amazon. 0:22:20.920 --> 0:22:23.000 Yeah, but it'll be in your credit card. 0:22:23.760 --> 0:22:24.119 Correct. 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:25.719 But I just told her don't check the credit card, 0:22:25.760 --> 0:22:27.040 which is a fraud. 0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:31.960 That's true. If you need something bought, you can come 0:22:32.000 --> 0:22:33.960 to us. If you can't get cash out, we're happy 0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:35.679 to loan you the cash. Cool, You're good for it. 0:22:35.680 --> 0:22:37.760 If you need a place to keep it, trunk of 0:22:37.760 --> 0:22:39.879 the car is always good, keep it at work up here, 0:22:41.480 --> 0:22:44.119 or you can do that. The dinner itself is not 0:22:44.320 --> 0:22:47.800 enough for your wife. She needs to give a trip 0:22:47.880 --> 0:22:50.520 is But a dinner is like part of the experience. Okay, 0:22:51.640 --> 0:22:54.080 would you loan the money, Eddie or would your wife? 0:22:54.119 --> 0:22:58.600 You wonder why you were loaning him? For sure? This 0:22:58.760 --> 0:23:01.800 mom was arrested taken to jail because she let her 0:23:01.800 --> 0:23:04.320 eleven year old son walk less than a mile into town. 0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:08.480 And so that's the just of the story. And I 0:23:08.520 --> 0:23:10.600 give you the details. You tell how you feel about it. 0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:13.560 Has Brittany Patterson, and she went to drive her eldest 0:23:13.600 --> 0:23:16.800 son to a medical appointment on October thirtieth, so a 0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:20.360 couple weeks ago. She has another son who's eleven, who 0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:23.280 was supposed to tag along but was not around when 0:23:23.280 --> 0:23:26.280 it was time to leave, and so she had figured 0:23:26.280 --> 0:23:29.359 he was simply playing or visited his grandma or whatever 0:23:29.400 --> 0:23:31.600 it is. But it turned out he had decided to 0:23:31.640 --> 0:23:34.720 walk to downtown Mineral Bluff, a town of three hundred 0:23:34.720 --> 0:23:37.280 seventy people. It's less than a mile from their home. 0:23:37.600 --> 0:23:40.040 He was spotted alongside the road by a woman who 0:23:40.040 --> 0:23:42.440 asked if he was okay, and even though he said yes, 0:23:42.480 --> 0:23:46.000 I am, the woman called the police. The deputy drove 0:23:46.080 --> 0:23:49.760 the kid home and left him with his grandfather. Whenever 0:23:49.960 --> 0:23:53.359 she ended up coming back home, of course, she's like, hey, 0:23:53.480 --> 0:23:56.800 you can't go walk into town. And that was probably 0:23:56.840 --> 0:23:58.919 the end of it, except around six point thirty that night, 0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:01.320 the deputy showed up with another officer and said, hey, 0:24:01.320 --> 0:24:03.000 we have to take you in the handcuffed, took her 0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:06.160 to jail, fingerprinted mugshot taken, was put in prison. Garb. 0:24:06.200 --> 0:24:09.960 That sounds like a lot, And this whole story is 0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:14.200 from a source called reason. I was thinking about this one. 0:24:14.200 --> 0:24:16.920 I guess I need to know how busy that road 0:24:17.040 --> 0:24:18.879 was he was walking on. Yeah, it also feels I 0:24:18.920 --> 0:24:21.000 will say, without having any of the information, it also 0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:23.680 feels like because nothing happened to the kid, like coming 0:24:23.720 --> 0:24:27.199 to the house at six point thirty, handcuffing, fingerprinting and 0:24:27.200 --> 0:24:29.760 putting her in prison garb seems a bit much. Even 0:24:29.800 --> 0:24:31.080 if you have to go like we have to take 0:24:31.119 --> 0:24:32.920 you in, just ask a few questions and like, yeah, 0:24:33.119 --> 0:24:36.960 officially filed it. There's no need to handcuff her and 0:24:37.000 --> 0:24:39.720 put her in prison gear. Even if you do have 0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:42.000 to take her in for a minute because of some 0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:44.960 rule that you are now you have to follow because 0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:47.320 somebody called it in. Like the handcuffing, it's just too much. 0:24:48.000 --> 0:24:51.159 So I would need to know though. Was he walking 0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:53.960 on an interstate like that would be bad? 0:24:54.160 --> 0:24:56.280 I mean it since the town was like three hundred people, 0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:58.280 like sounds like a small busy. 0:24:58.640 --> 0:25:01.280 But there are major roads that go into small towns. 0:25:01.320 --> 0:25:03.760 I drive through them all time. There are speed traps basically, Yeah, 0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:06.240 so I don't have enough information there. But if I 0:25:06.280 --> 0:25:07.840 see an eleven year old walking on road cars are 0:25:07.840 --> 0:25:10.080 doing eighty miles an hour like that ain't good. Yeah, 0:25:10.080 --> 0:25:12.240 it's not good any good. Where I grew up town 0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:14.840 seven hundred, we walked everywhere. I was nine years old, 0:25:15.200 --> 0:25:17.239 I was out hustling yards to mow and ray. But 0:25:17.280 --> 0:25:19.280 that was nobody's gonna do anything because the whole town 0:25:19.320 --> 0:25:20.600 was small there. It was no highway. 0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:22.639 Yeah, there's so many variables to consider here. 0:25:22.680 --> 0:25:25.040 And I wonder if, like when he went there, because 0:25:25.040 --> 0:25:26.800 he went back later with another officer. 0:25:26.920 --> 0:25:28.160 He said back to the house. 0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:31.000 Yeah, yeah, So like my thing is, did he see 0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:32.640 something that he felt was unfit? 0:25:32.880 --> 0:25:35.000 Oh, that's a good question, Like at the house. 0:25:34.920 --> 0:25:38.520 Yeah, back because I'm like, this isn't to me, that 0:25:38.640 --> 0:25:41.560 isn't equal showing back up later to take her to jail. 0:25:42.440 --> 0:25:44.320 I think now I read that it's a Child Protected 0:25:44.400 --> 0:25:47.440 Services thing now, so I think for like the next 0:25:47.440 --> 0:25:50.919 two or three weeks, the child is under a supervision 0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:53.200 of another officer always twenty four seven. 0:25:53.280 --> 0:25:56.480 The CPS thing literally could be because of the call though, right, 0:25:56.560 --> 0:25:58.440 and not the house. Not anything they saw at the house. 0:25:59.040 --> 0:26:01.560 It listen, from what we know, it feels a bit 0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:04.600 dramatic to handcoffort and put her in prison close like that. 0:26:04.640 --> 0:26:06.359 To me, I'm like, wow, the rest of the stuff 0:26:06.440 --> 0:26:08.479 if somebody sees I'm glad the person called and saw 0:26:08.520 --> 0:26:10.000 the kid on the side room called because always if 0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:11.400 you're wondering, you might as well call it when there's 0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:14.600 a kid involved to make it, especially if it's a kid. Yes, 0:26:15.040 --> 0:26:16.399 if it's an adult, I'm gonna say that and then 0:26:16.440 --> 0:26:18.639 go really, but then I might, But if it's a 0:26:18.720 --> 0:26:20.400 kid always, So I'm not even mad at the person 0:26:20.440 --> 0:26:22.720 who calls, not at all. But being arrested. I mean 0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:24.800 my parents would have got life in prison. I mean 0:26:24.840 --> 0:26:27.399 they'd have been had the key locked away. Also different 0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:30.080 time then, it was for sure for us as kids, 0:26:30.080 --> 0:26:31.000 a completely different times. 0:26:31.760 --> 0:26:32.920 No one's even saying something. 0:26:32.920 --> 0:26:34.800 Heck, no, I was saying something to say something back 0:26:34.880 --> 0:26:35.320 in the day. 0:26:35.480 --> 0:26:37.880 Well, gosh, and eleven year olds they can there. It's 0:26:37.960 --> 0:26:39.800 all over the book on how they look like. Some 0:26:39.920 --> 0:26:42.959 eleven year olds I see at sporting events, I'm like, Okay, 0:26:42.960 --> 0:26:46.480 that looks like he uh could be in college. And 0:26:46.520 --> 0:26:48.840 then my son when he was eleven, looked like he 0:26:49.000 --> 0:26:51.160 was seven. So it just depends. 0:26:51.400 --> 0:26:53.240 Also, eleven, I was pretty mature. I don't know if 0:26:53.400 --> 0:26:55.240 an eleven year old. I was pretty mature at eleven. 0:26:55.960 --> 0:26:58.359 Every situation is different. There's a lot of nuance to 0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:01.160 this that we don't know. I see people upset both ways. 0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:02.960 The only thing that really irritates me is the fact 0:27:02.960 --> 0:27:05.080 that unless she was like resisting, why they had to 0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:07.119 handcuff her and put her in prison. That's what they 0:27:07.119 --> 0:27:10.359 call it prison garb Orange, And I do understand if 0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:11.720 they have to go back and actually take her in 0:27:11.760 --> 0:27:15.040 if if there's a call and CPS is now involved, 0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:18.520 there are protocols they have to fall follow, and I'm. 0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:20.320 Sure probably the cop was even like, I don't want 0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:20.600 to have. 0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:22.760 To do this. It's just the handcuffs to get me. 0:27:23.520 --> 0:27:26.800 So I'm gonna leave this undecided until I find out more. 0:27:26.880 --> 0:27:28.880 I don't like the I don't like to leave things undecided. 0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:31.080 I'm gonna leave this undecided. But I am going to 0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:33.560 commend the person who called because I think she's getting 0:27:33.560 --> 0:27:37.840 a lot of crap online. Yes, I'm totally on your side, 0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:40.160 small road, big road. If you're concerned, then there could 0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:43.239 be something with a kid. Always call. So I am 0:27:43.280 --> 0:27:44.920 going to side with them, and I hope they get 0:27:44.920 --> 0:27:48.040 this figured out and be crazy watch mom get handcuffed. 0:27:48.080 --> 0:27:50.880 That'd be crazy. More trauma from that than anything. 0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:54.919 Mom is your jail jumpsuit. You have to right to 0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:59.280 remain silent. What Basically, she didn't get a big enough 0:27:59.280 --> 0:28:01.240 tip so she could front to people. Right, that's what 0:28:01.240 --> 0:28:04.440 the story is here. So she was tipped nine percent 0:28:04.520 --> 0:28:08.600 on a customer's bill. She called out the customer, and 0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:11.399 then everybody's like debating on if you're supposed to do 0:28:11.440 --> 0:28:14.080 that or I I'll give you a little more context here. 0:28:14.240 --> 0:28:16.000 She posted us on TikTok. She goes, last night, I 0:28:16.000 --> 0:28:18.480 got a nine percent tip, So I confronted the person 0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:19.720 in the bathroom like she waited for them to go 0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:22.639 to the bathroom. The service that she saw the woman 0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:25.120 waiting to go to the bathroom, so she went over 0:28:25.240 --> 0:28:27.239 and asked her. She said, I went up and said, hey, 0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:30.240 how's everything tonight? The customer said it was great. She goes, 0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:32.520 you left me a nine percent tip, so I wanted 0:28:32.520 --> 0:28:34.920 to see if there's anything I can improve. The customer 0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:41.320 then reportedly responded no. So again, I'm gonna say, as 0:28:41.320 --> 0:28:44.080 a server, we waiter for a long time, you can't 0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:46.600 do this bull crap. As a server front, you can't. 0:28:46.840 --> 0:28:50.960 This is the biggest bathroom. Some people just aren't going 0:28:51.000 --> 0:28:55.960 to tip you as much. That is showbiz, baby. Some 0:28:55.960 --> 0:28:59.680 people are going to tip you more than the standard tip, 0:29:00.520 --> 0:29:03.800 and that sucks in this situation. But you cannot go 0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:07.120 and confront a customer about what they tipped you. 0:29:07.280 --> 0:29:10.240 Especially under the guys of like is there anything I 0:29:10.280 --> 0:29:11.480 did wrong or that I could do better? 0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:13.600 I wouldn't want to go back to that restaurant. That 0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:15.520 would make me feel so uncomfortable that that happened. It 0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:17.400 would keep me from going to that restaurant again. 0:29:17.520 --> 0:29:19.960 Yeah, I mean I understand genuinely wanting to know, like 0:29:20.040 --> 0:29:22.000 why you didn't, But I mean you could probably look 0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:25.160 at how you served and figure out. 0:29:25.080 --> 0:29:27.320 Probably wasn't even a server problem exactly. 0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:28.479 Like if you knew you did a good job, then 0:29:28.480 --> 0:29:30.560 it's just that person. So just keep doing a good 0:29:30.640 --> 0:29:32.840 job and healthfully it'll even itself out. 0:29:32.880 --> 0:29:37.320 But as a customer, you can tip whatever guarantee thing 0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:42.080 this girl should be fired, correct, like fire her fire? Yeah, 0:29:42.080 --> 0:29:42.480 of course. 0:29:43.960 --> 0:29:45.240 Maybe, just like talk. 0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:49.040 Here's the thing, yellow car, It depends how good of 0:29:49.040 --> 0:29:49.800 a server she is. 0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:52.680 This does life. You mess up and you're a great employee. 0:29:53.200 --> 0:29:55.280 How much money are you bringing in versus going out? 0:29:55.320 --> 0:29:56.960 And we make our decisions based on that. It's not 0:29:57.040 --> 0:29:59.080 completely black and white. If she's been a great server 0:29:59.160 --> 0:30:01.040 with nothing against her and she was having a bad 0:30:01.120 --> 0:30:03.239 day and she did this, then okay, if there's been 0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:06.480 a other she's out of there. This is the cardinal rule. 0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:08.760 Well, and they're probably like, that's why you got nine tips? 0:30:08.880 --> 0:30:12.160 Yeah, see. But also that's a great point, like someone 0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:15.680 that will do that is also someone whose sensibilities are. 0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:18.360 Like that, or sometimes you just have a having a 0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:18.760 bad day. 0:30:18.880 --> 0:30:21.959 Absolutely, which is why she would get grace if she 0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:24.400 had been a great employee and this wasn't common. 0:30:24.760 --> 0:30:25.680 There's another one here. 0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:30.840 Imagine you get a four thousand dollars tip that's pretty amazing, 0:30:30.880 --> 0:30:33.360 and then you end up getting fired for it. Oh, 0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:37.240 I'll give you some context here. Amy Ryan Brandt a 0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:40.040 waitress in Arkansas. She was serving a table of over 0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:43.920 forty business executives at the Oven and Tap in Bentonville, Arkansas. 0:30:44.240 --> 0:30:47.000 They decided to leave her a massive tip, and so 0:30:47.440 --> 0:30:49.200 was capture on video. Because the left of the tip 0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:53.000 they wanted to like surprise her, let's record it. The 0:30:53.120 --> 0:30:57.120 manager at the restaurant allegedly wanted her to hand over 0:30:57.120 --> 0:30:59.440 the tip and only keep twenty percent of it, which 0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:03.200 did not go overwhelm with Ryan, who's a girl by 0:31:03.200 --> 0:31:06.440 the way, Ryan the girl. In the end, Ryan claimed 0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:08.720 she was fired for violating policy, but not before the 0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:11.120 generous diners made sure that she got to keep the 0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:15.640 full amount. So she got the money, but then was fired. 0:31:15.840 --> 0:31:17.800 She didn't confront them. She said thank you as oppositely 0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:19.400 the other one. She got a big one and said 0:31:19.440 --> 0:31:23.440 thank you. This is from unilad. Okay thoughts here, Well, 0:31:23.480 --> 0:31:26.200 it's her tip number one. She did not serve these 0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:28.960 forty people by herself. There's zero percent chance in any 0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:32.360 world that any waiter waitress is serving at forty top. 0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:34.840 There's just thing to forty top, multiple tables by herself. 0:31:34.920 --> 0:31:37.880 Good top, A good point. I didn't think of that, so. 0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:42.479 I'm not saying she shouldn't get more than twenty percent, 0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:45.080 But we first got to look at she had a 0:31:45.080 --> 0:31:48.840 lot of help, and because they tipped her doesn't mean 0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:51.720 she should get to keep all four thousand dollars of 0:31:51.760 --> 0:31:54.880 that tip. Who helped her? But how many other waiters 0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:56.720 helped her? They had to because one person's not bringing 0:31:56.760 --> 0:32:01.240 all that food. So I'm gonna go if I'm the 0:32:01.680 --> 0:32:05.360 manager here, Okay, you get two thousand of it and 0:32:05.400 --> 0:32:08.240 split the other two thousand up amongst the help, because 0:32:08.280 --> 0:32:09.760 a lot of help had to be had here as 0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:11.320 the manager. Do you split it for her? Do you 0:32:11.360 --> 0:32:12.200 let her split it? 0:32:12.960 --> 0:32:15.240 I'd probably give a recommended split. If I don't like it, 0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:15.880 then I step in. 0:32:15.960 --> 0:32:19.560 Okay. I don't understand why they would only let her 0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:23.440 keep twenty percent unless it's some policy. So twenty percent 0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:26.960 of four thousand dollars is eddy, Oh, no way, dude, okay, 0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:28.800 do ten percent of four thousand dollars is exactly how 0:32:28.800 --> 0:32:31.480 you do it? Four hundred okay, And now what's twenty percent? 0:32:31.600 --> 0:32:32.560 It would be ten times. 0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:36.840 Two twenty I know, four hundred, four hundred times two 0:32:37.200 --> 0:32:39.000 one hundred times two eight hundred and eight hundred. 0:32:39.080 --> 0:32:41.720 That's so that would be twenty percent. Okay, So that 0:32:41.760 --> 0:32:45.840 would be eight hundred dollars. So probably lo Low. 0:32:46.280 --> 0:32:48.680 That's low. That's not That's not how I would do it. 0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:50.040 Probably lo Low. 0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:53.440 I say, you look at the total of the bill 0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:55.959 whatever they ate, like, say, you know forty people, who 0:32:56.040 --> 0:32:57.760 knows whatever it is. But just for the sake of this, 0:32:57.840 --> 0:33:00.479 let's say it was a four hundred at all our 0:33:00.520 --> 0:33:01.600 bill right. 0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:03.600 Well, then the other people get tipped out. 0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:05.520 Of like that with a twenty percent tip on a 0:33:05.520 --> 0:33:07.680 four hundred dollars bill would be they get tipped off 0:33:07.680 --> 0:33:08.960 of that, and then she could keep the rest. 0:33:09.600 --> 0:33:11.640 It's such a massive tip. I would go with my 0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:14.160 solution because down the miss on me she was the main. 0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:15.920 But there's no way she was the main in doing 0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:18.600 them all all, even most of it. She should split 0:33:18.640 --> 0:33:20.920 it with them, but they each get they get two thousand. 0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:22.360 The other five people are split in the two thousand. 0:33:22.480 --> 0:33:24.400 When a table comes in, are like, well, customers come 0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:26.760 in and they sit at a table, do they say, 0:33:26.800 --> 0:33:28.160 all right, Bobby, that's your table. 0:33:28.240 --> 0:33:30.640 You're you're the surf, Yeah, for sure. And then you're like, hey, guys, 0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:31.400 it's forty people. 0:33:31.440 --> 0:33:33.400 I need help. Know that you have the help that 0:33:33.520 --> 0:33:35.920 comes with you. Otherwise the food's not getting out near time. 0:33:35.920 --> 0:33:39.160 Image there's forty andres. You can't one person can't get 0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:42.720 all them out when they're warm, and then everybody's got 0:33:42.760 --> 0:33:45.680 them at different times. There's probably eight people helping this table. 0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:48.440 My point is I think it sucks that she got fired. 0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:50.280 I'm glad you got her money, and I probably would 0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:51.600 have gone to two thousand. 0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:52.720 And then the other two thousand gets split. 0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:55.400 Two thousands still really good? 0:33:55.560 --> 0:33:57.640 Yeah, no, heck yeas really was. 0:33:57.960 --> 0:34:00.760 Yeah. So anyway, we're just solving problems for waiters all 0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:05.240 over the day. We love that there, right, wonder what 0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:07.360 is your if you do the dishes that you live longer? 0:34:07.400 --> 0:34:07.720 Story? 0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:08.160 Yeah? 0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:11.759 So I was reading the research journal Mindfulness put this out, 0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:14.480 and they said they had a test group and they 0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:17.120 had them focus on the dish, soap, the shape of 0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:19.439 the dishes, washing them, cleaning them, and they. 0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:20.439 Were called the test study group. 0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:22.560 And the people that did that, and then there were 0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:25.319 the people that hated it and dreaded every second of it. 0:34:25.400 --> 0:34:26.479 I hate the dishes so much. 0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:28.600 So those that were part of the mindful group, they 0:34:28.600 --> 0:34:32.080 showed a decrease in nervousness. They also reported an increase 0:34:32.120 --> 0:34:34.840 in mental inspiration and it was like a moving experience 0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:35.120 for them. 0:34:35.200 --> 0:34:37.800 So then help me understand this again. There's two groups. 0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:40.719 There's one group called the mindful group. 0:34:40.760 --> 0:34:43.040 Well, yeah, as long as you're thinking about the dish washing, 0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:46.000 you're appreciating the soap and the bubbles and moving your 0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:47.000 hands across the dish, how do. 0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:48.640 They find it? That's like finding a jury. 0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:51.359 I would do it. Guys, I'm that group. I'm that group. 0:34:51.440 --> 0:34:53.759 You hate the dishes, like, I like like taking the 0:34:53.800 --> 0:34:58.160 spune and going round around the plate and then getting it. 0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:01.640 That's great. The shine when you walk up and there's 0:35:01.640 --> 0:35:02.560 a sink full of dish. 0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:03.920 No, no, no, I can't handle it. 0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:06.160 It's disgusting. There's like a little bit of food here 0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:06.440 and there. 0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:08.160 But I make it beautiful. 0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:11.280 But you see that and you go, oh, I cannot 0:35:11.280 --> 0:35:12.000 wait to get started. 0:35:12.160 --> 0:35:16.360 Correct, No way, way, Like I almost like drop everything. 0:35:16.400 --> 0:35:18.440 I'm going to do the dishes, not because it's bothering 0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:20.560 you because it's dirty, but because it looks fun. 0:35:20.680 --> 0:35:22.040 No, I would lie. 0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:24.319 I want to because I know also how I'm gonna 0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:25.640 feel when it's done. 0:35:25.680 --> 0:35:28.640 And I'm gonna feel so good that I can understand. 0:35:28.680 --> 0:35:30.480 That's why I exercise. I hate working out. 0:35:30.480 --> 0:35:32.920 But also the process doesn't annoy me. I like the 0:35:32.960 --> 0:35:37.480 process of like seeing something. Why have the little sprayer. 0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:40.600 Oh my goodness, I would dispose it. She might be 0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:42.840 a psycho killer for the first time ever. Like some 0:35:42.880 --> 0:35:45.920 people just have these really odd the fact that you like. 0:35:46.160 --> 0:35:48.400 I also like doing laundry. 0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:48.479 That's weird. 0:35:48.520 --> 0:35:52.640 I hate matches, And I love vacuuming. Am I in 0:35:52.680 --> 0:35:53.520 the wrong profession? 0:35:53.719 --> 0:35:54.080 I think? 0:35:54.200 --> 0:35:58.719 So okay, as in you look forward to it, I. 0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:00.920 Uh, well, you don't. It's reliever for me. 0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:04.719 Like my kids know, if I'm vacuuming a floor that 0:36:04.880 --> 0:36:07.280 doesn't really look like it needs to even be vacuum 0:36:07.320 --> 0:36:10.240 They're like, oh, she give mom some space. 0:36:10.480 --> 0:36:13.080 She is a cycle killer. She just hid three bodies. 0:36:13.080 --> 0:36:13.920 Give moms some space. 0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:15.000 She's processing. 0:36:15.080 --> 0:36:18.160 But I just love a good you know, even my 0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:20.560 Like I don't have carpet, but I wish I did, 0:36:20.600 --> 0:36:21.360 because if I could. 0:36:21.200 --> 0:36:23.320 See those lines, you can get some pretty easily. 0:36:23.680 --> 0:36:25.960 I know, no, but I know well I have. I 0:36:26.000 --> 0:36:28.320 have hardwoods and rugs. My rugs, I can't see the lines. 0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:29.719 What if you just got a room and only put 0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:31.319 carpet in it so you could keep the carpet clean 0:36:31.400 --> 0:36:35.839 and do the lines. Yeah, that's wild. That is satisfying 0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:38.319 because I hate it so much. I mean, I think 0:36:38.400 --> 0:36:40.239 maybe not to everybody else, I hate it so much. 0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:43.120 I hate dishes so much. I don't really do much laundry. 0:36:43.560 --> 0:36:45.480 If I do, it's like two things. You know what 0:36:45.480 --> 0:36:46.719 I do with the laundry, I put stuff in the 0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:49.080 dryer to unwrinkle it. Yeah, I do that, toot as 0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:50.640 far as I go. Lon, I'm not a. 0:36:50.560 --> 0:36:51.560 Perfect laundry person. 0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:54.680 Like I my ADHG brain will also create piles and 0:36:54.719 --> 0:36:56.600 like then I do the laundry and then I kind 0:36:56.600 --> 0:36:58.759 of leave it over here. But I but I still 0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:01.040 enjoy the process and all of get back to it. 0:37:01.120 --> 0:37:03.880 So Ray, you're telling me again there are two groups. 0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:07.120 One group that doesn't hate it or what like? Again, 0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:08.680 explain how these people get in these groups? 0:37:09.120 --> 0:37:12.480 Well, the one test group was told to actually enjoy 0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:14.560 the experience and think about the bubbles and all that 0:37:14.960 --> 0:37:16.799 told me to enjoy the experience, and she's like, hey, 0:37:17.040 --> 0:37:18.759 you guys, those dishes and really enjoy it. 0:37:18.920 --> 0:37:20.920 I think this is the dumbest thing ever heard. Okay, 0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:21.239 got it. 0:37:21.280 --> 0:37:23.360 And so for that group, time actually slowed down and 0:37:23.360 --> 0:37:25.799 they were able to appreciate the simple things in life. 0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:27.960 The other group that hated it, nothing improved and it's 0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:29.320 just the same old album. 0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:31.440 I think it's a good example of how you go 0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:34.080 through life doing life. 0:37:33.800 --> 0:37:35.200 Like are you going to have an attitude? 0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:38.000 Are you gonna have an attitude of like, oh I 0:37:38.040 --> 0:37:38.360 hate this? 0:37:38.760 --> 0:37:39.920 Are you just going to be like you know, what 0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:42.600 I'm going to stop and appreciate the process. 0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:44.760 Here more Aristotle of dishes. 0:37:44.800 --> 0:37:45.719 I like where we're going. 0:37:45.880 --> 0:37:47.520 I mean, I feel like it's pretty simple. 0:37:47.560 --> 0:37:49.680 I just gave it to you. Yeah. I think you're 0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:52.160 probably right in a lot of ways. I think for me, 0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:55.520 I hate it so much. Somebody record that, do you 0:37:55.520 --> 0:37:58.719 think a woman? I don't think it's the same thing 0:37:58.760 --> 0:38:01.160 at all. I think it's I washed dishes as a 0:38:01.239 --> 0:38:04.280 job for a long time too. When I was working 0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:08.400 at a restaurant. It was the worst. It was disgusting, 0:38:08.719 --> 0:38:11.680 and we had power cleaners the top. Oh that's cool, 0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:13.759 but it was so much food just and so. But 0:38:13.800 --> 0:38:17.319 they would get that and I don't know if if 0:38:17.480 --> 0:38:20.360 and that's little tea trauma. This trauma is little T trauma, 0:38:20.400 --> 0:38:23.600 not big T trauma. I hate And it was so 0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:25.680 gross to me all the time because I was just 0:38:25.719 --> 0:38:29.480 dealing with humans. They just would like, eat food and 0:38:29.680 --> 0:38:32.040 leave it. I guess that's what you do a restaurant 0:38:32.040 --> 0:38:34.440 because I do that too. Now we all do that. 0:38:34.600 --> 0:38:36.400 I feel so bad about it. Now you're like, do 0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:37.440 you want me to go back through and washing this? 0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:41.840 It was just the worst laundry. I don't hate I 0:38:41.840 --> 0:38:46.160 don't do really much laundry at the house. Kayla likes 0:38:46.160 --> 0:38:48.880 to do laundry though, and I think wise because if 0:38:48.920 --> 0:38:50.520 I have anything to do with it, I will shrink 0:38:50.560 --> 0:38:54.000 stuff or or it'll be stuff if it's. 0:38:54.920 --> 0:38:56.799 You know, you can learn to just check the tax 0:38:57.320 --> 0:38:57.640 and in. 0:38:57.600 --> 0:38:59.680 The hot water cold water, No, it's all stain closed. 0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:04.560 It's all cold water because because cold water you can't 0:39:04.680 --> 0:39:07.759 mess up right, right, but some should be hot. But 0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:08.960 but I don't. 0:39:09.120 --> 0:39:09.600 Again, I don't. 0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:12.040 I almost never do laundry anymore because I've done the 0:39:12.040 --> 0:39:13.440 thing where I have faked being bad at it. 0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:14.600 We've all done that. 0:39:14.880 --> 0:39:16.640 Sure, that's what you always to tell me that. 0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:18.919 Then my ex husband would do because like the way 0:39:18.960 --> 0:39:21.319 he folded stuff, just driving me crap, and I was 0:39:21.400 --> 0:39:23.440 you were in the Air Force, I know you know 0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:25.959 how to fold a shirt, and y'all were like, he's 0:39:26.000 --> 0:39:29.160 totally doing that, because yeah, he wants you to just 0:39:29.160 --> 0:39:29.560 take over. 0:39:29.760 --> 0:39:31.560 We only have a couple of those we can use. 0:39:31.600 --> 0:39:33.279 We only have a couple of fake being bad at 0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:35.200 it passes because if we have that in like seven 0:39:35.239 --> 0:39:39.400 or eight places where we were just stupid. So we 0:39:39.440 --> 0:39:40.120 have a couple of those. 0:39:40.160 --> 0:39:41.680 Yeah, because y'all are very capable. 0:39:42.080 --> 0:39:45.000 Why won't you say smart? She didn't even go smart. 0:39:45.000 --> 0:39:47.719 You know you're smart because smart. Do you have to 0:39:47.760 --> 0:39:48.959 be smart to fold a T shirt? 0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:49.839 No? 0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:52.520 Apparently apparently so because your husband was your excess, was 0:39:52.600 --> 0:39:54.000 very bright and he can very do it. 0:39:54.760 --> 0:39:56.760 Yeah, I thought that's stupid. That's sudd he was stupid. 0:39:56.800 --> 0:40:00.880 But I don't as much anymore because Amy's one who enjoys. 0:40:00.880 --> 0:40:01.959 It's more about life. 0:40:02.160 --> 0:40:04.200 It's more about life, guys, and then that's all about 0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:07.800 I was watching a college football game this weekend. A 0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:10.520 guy gets knocked out, like and you're always scared because like, 0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:13.480 what did he hurt? And he just got his bell rung? 0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:14.960 And so they take him on the side. Do you 0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:16.760 ever see him like smell the stuff? 0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:17.520 No? 0:40:17.760 --> 0:40:18.919 Like smelling get them? 0:40:19.160 --> 0:40:19.960 No, I don't know. 0:40:19.960 --> 0:40:21.440 Okay, I have to wake them up. I have some 0:40:21.560 --> 0:40:24.839 here I bought. It's not like cocaine, dude, dude, give 0:40:24.880 --> 0:40:25.080 me some. 0:40:25.480 --> 0:40:28.200 But it's like what but all sports keep it on the. 0:40:28.560 --> 0:40:31.759 Yes, yeah they keep it. I was gonna let you 0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:33.960 smell it. Come over here, all right? But should we 0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:36.160 knock her out first? We should not knock her out? 0:40:36.400 --> 0:40:38.600 Like what what does it do when you don't need it. 0:40:38.680 --> 0:40:42.680 But some people do it just pre game like gets you. 0:40:41.200 --> 0:40:45.319 Yeah, you ready to get high bones. This is like cocaine. No, 0:40:45.440 --> 0:40:48.719 you don't eat it. Okay. So here's how it has 0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:52.239 to work though, So it's not gonna hurt you what 0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:54.400 on earth? But you have to put it under your 0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:58.160 nose and go. No, it's not gonna that's the thing. 0:40:58.200 --> 0:40:59.640 It's not going in your nose and you just smell 0:40:59.640 --> 0:41:01.960 it out of the bottle. Okay. But if you only 0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:05.080 go it's time, it's not going to do. Yeah, you 0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:07.640 have to. You have to give it a big like big, big, 0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:10.760 big whiff. Are you ready? Here we go? Three two, 0:41:11.000 --> 0:41:11.319 one go? 0:41:13.880 --> 0:41:14.399 I did it. 0:41:15.080 --> 0:41:15.840 What do you feel? 0:41:16.440 --> 0:41:16.600 Well? 0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:19.680 Nothing yet, but let me do it again. 0:41:20.239 --> 0:41:20.560 I did. 0:41:20.560 --> 0:41:23.919 It's not very it doesn't smell great, but just give 0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:24.680 me a little. 0:41:24.480 --> 0:41:28.359 More, like like take a robust smell. Maybe maybe to 0:41:28.480 --> 0:41:30.320 her it's nothing. Go ahead. 0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:32.000 I don't know if I have my full taste and 0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:35.040 smell back. Since COVID, that would hurt her. 0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:37.720 Really, Yeah, because it does smell. 0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:42.640 That smells like when I'm getting my hair colored. 0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:46.080 It sounds like she's doing the stuff. I think I 0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:48.640 think she has I think she has covid. 0:41:48.320 --> 0:41:51.760 Nos no, no, no, But when you're getting your hair colored, 0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:52.959 that smells like hair done. 0:41:53.480 --> 0:41:56.759 Take a smell. Do not smell it beforehand, and take 0:41:56.760 --> 0:41:58.840 a big stay right there. Don't you have a deviated 0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:02.160 septem though, don't don't look at it. I know should 0:42:02.160 --> 0:42:02.480 be good. 0:42:02.640 --> 0:42:04.040 I do feel happy, though, what. 0:42:03.960 --> 0:42:05.759 Do you mean don't look at it like like just 0:42:05.760 --> 0:42:07.319 just take like it's not there. No, don't just put 0:42:07.400 --> 0:42:09.040 under your nose and give it a big smell. You're good. 0:42:10.360 --> 0:42:16.840 That was a week nothing really should harder? Ye smell? Yeah? Nothing, dude? 0:42:17.360 --> 0:42:18.200 Do you have covid nose? 0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:18.480 No? 0:42:19.040 --> 0:42:22.399 Because I win a minute. It's a powder. You don't 0:42:22.440 --> 0:42:25.600 eat it, though, should I line it up and do 0:42:25.640 --> 0:42:27.960 it now? Smell and I smell it in that. I 0:42:28.000 --> 0:42:29.880 think I need to get powder like. You don't think 0:42:29.880 --> 0:42:31.359 you smell it. I don't think you put in your nose. 0:42:31.560 --> 0:42:34.080 I think you do because they ripped open a little. 0:42:34.640 --> 0:42:36.160 But I've done that before. You smell the top of you. 0:42:36.200 --> 0:42:38.200 They don't dump it. I'm almost positively I'm umping your 0:42:38.239 --> 0:42:42.520 nose like I've never snorted. I'm not sure you snort it. 0:42:42.800 --> 0:42:48.840 Give the bottom here, like just smelling because for the 0:42:48.920 --> 0:42:50.239 sake of the bit, I'll do it. 0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:53.120 I've never snored, do anything. You might die up for 0:42:53.160 --> 0:42:54.879 the sake of the bit. We did that what Amy 0:42:54.960 --> 0:42:55.959 wance and she almost died. 0:42:56.040 --> 0:42:57.799 Yeah, but guys, the tip of my nose is. 0:42:57.760 --> 0:43:00.640 Tingling because they have a scoop, or for a reason, 0:43:01.040 --> 0:43:03.920 they don't have a You wouldn't just smell smelling. It's 0:43:03.920 --> 0:43:07.319 not called snorting salt. Scooper is to add water to it. Yeah, 0:43:07.360 --> 0:43:10.799 it's not right. It's you shake it up and then 0:43:10.840 --> 0:43:15.279 you sniff it. Okay, let's smell it, Mike, you take 0:43:15.280 --> 0:43:17.680 a whiff. I'm telling you it just when I opened it. No, 0:43:17.760 --> 0:43:18.759 don't even do it from that. Do it for a 0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:22.680 bottle and we'll make it stronger. I ain't nothing. Oh 0:43:22.719 --> 0:43:25.240 my god, and my nose just so sensitive. What happened 0:43:25.239 --> 0:43:27.680 to you? I was like this, Okay, if you get 0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:32.080 closer to it, yeah, that was in it. We kind 0:43:32.080 --> 0:43:34.120 of like what Amy said, It smells like some kind 0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:35.959 of hair product. Okay, give it back to me. Okay, 0:43:35.960 --> 0:43:36.640 we're gonna do water. 0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:38.680 Then there's no way that that would wake me up 0:43:38.680 --> 0:43:40.240 if I got knocked out. 0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:43.960 Oh, that wouldn't help you. Wait minute, it's weaker now 0:43:44.000 --> 0:43:46.640 than it was when I first opened it. It sounds 0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:49.279 like nothing now. I got nothing. When I first opened it, 0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:51.880 it was like what bam? Okay, because the air was 0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:54.799 trapped in there possibly and then you just let it out. Now, 0:43:55.000 --> 0:43:56.960 let's do the water. If you guys would have snorted that, 0:43:57.000 --> 0:44:00.640 you might have snorted, don't no, don't heny. I was 0:44:00.719 --> 0:44:02.239 just trying to have your back. You want to snort it. 0:44:02.280 --> 0:44:04.920 I was gonna support you and your decisions. Man. Okay, 0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:08.719 uh you what are you a told? Let's let's get 0:44:08.760 --> 0:44:10.080 it ready and then we'll come back. 0:44:10.520 --> 0:44:18.080 It's time for the good news, Bobby. 0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:18.960 All right. There was a Facebook post about a dog 0:44:19.000 --> 0:44:20.279 that was a band on the side of the road. 0:44:20.320 --> 0:44:22.319 So this a guy named Dylan McKay who lives in 0:44:22.360 --> 0:44:25.000 Central Arkansas season and goes over to where it was. 0:44:24.880 --> 0:44:26.840 It was close to him, and he rescues this injured 0:44:26.840 --> 0:44:29.680 golden doodle Talloween night. The dog was probably hit by 0:44:29.719 --> 0:44:35.480 a car, severely injured, obviously scared. It's not good, physically 0:44:35.480 --> 0:44:37.279 not good. I won't go thro all the details, but 0:44:37.400 --> 0:44:40.920 McKay and his fiance Emily Roberts, they jump in. The 0:44:41.040 --> 0:44:45.120 dog has no microchip, and so they take the dog 0:44:45.360 --> 0:44:48.440 into the hospital surgery. They're about to get married. They 0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:50.799 take twelve thousand dollars out of their wedding fund. Oh wow, 0:44:50.960 --> 0:44:54.279 to pay for what yeah, to pay for the dog. 0:44:54.719 --> 0:44:59.719 So the dog had a successful reconstruction surgery. The dog 0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:02.920 is now recovering. Someone started to go fund me for 0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:05.920 the couple and because of this story, which I was 0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:07.560 already thinking of, man like, I gotta give them something, 0:45:07.800 --> 0:45:10.160 but they're good. So far over thirty four thousand dollars 0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:13.640 has been raised. That's amazing to not only help with 0:45:13.680 --> 0:45:15.640 the dog's medical expenses, because there's still a lot. 0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:17.280 No, it's not profit for the dog as well. 0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:19.840 Oh I'm thinking they just went from chicken to steak. 0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:21.960 No. No, So the dog still costs a lot of 0:45:21.960 --> 0:45:25.400 money because they only had the surgery. So and hopefully 0:45:26.239 --> 0:45:28.080 hopefully they'll get money back for their wedding too. But 0:45:28.120 --> 0:45:29.080 that's that's been the plan. 0:45:29.320 --> 0:45:31.439 Yeah, So you guys went right. 0:45:31.360 --> 0:45:33.400 To the like probate wedding. I mean, now they got 0:45:33.520 --> 0:45:34.200 y Yeah. 0:45:35.040 --> 0:45:36.720 I'm like, this dog is gonna be good forever. 0:45:37.760 --> 0:45:39.960 So a big shout out to Dylan McKay and his 0:45:40.080 --> 0:45:42.399 fiancee Emily Roberts. Who I mean, if you just think 0:45:42.400 --> 0:45:45.080 about that actual moment when they pull up beside the 0:45:45.080 --> 0:45:46.640 dogs and hit by a car and they got to 0:45:46.640 --> 0:45:49.160 grab it and get it to the hospital, that is intense. 0:45:49.200 --> 0:45:51.520 That's amazing. Good job, guys, that is what it's all about. 0:45:52.160 --> 0:45:56.040 That was telling me something good. 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