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Speaker 1: hundreds of requests for second date updates every single day,
Speaker 1: So when we're sorting through them trying to decide who
Speaker 1: we should call, Yeah, it takes something kind of special
Speaker 1: for one to stand out to us. Yea, And this
Speaker 1: email definitely jumped out because it came from a guy
Speaker 1: who goes by the name Cheese. That is a way
Speaker 1: to get your email answered, for sure. Everybody loves cheese,
Speaker 1: love that cheese. So I was like, we're definitely calling
Speaker 1: this guy. What's up, Cheese? Hey, guys, how's it going?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, of course not. Oh no, what's your
Speaker 1: legal name, Everett? It's just an old nickname. Do you
Speaker 1: want us to call you ever it or Cheese? No, man,
Speaker 1: everybody calls me Cheese. Oh my god. I feel like
Speaker 1: I would have bought something off of you in college
Speaker 1: for some reason. So the good stuff. Yeah, tell us
Speaker 1: about the girl that you want us to call today.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name's Leia, And um, well it's
Speaker 1: kind of funny because I'm into like converting old vans
Speaker 1: and like I belong to a couple of Facebook pages
Speaker 1: about it. Oh my god, that's so big right now.
Speaker 1: It's like fan life forever. No, no, you have to
Speaker 1: put the hashtag and well I did in my head,
Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, I mean we're just on this Facebook page,
Speaker 1: one of those van life pages. I actually forget which
Speaker 1: one because I'm out a few of them. But like
Speaker 1: we started damming a little bit, and you know, we
Speaker 1: had a lot of comment like she doesn't have a
Speaker 1: van and like she doesn't do conversions, but like she
Speaker 1: didn't do it, and she wants to do more stuff
Speaker 1: like that, and she's like getting like more like living
Speaker 1: off the gray kind of life and stuff. But so
Speaker 1: she's probably a big fan of our show, really big
Speaker 1: and off the grade communes. Yeah, I mean, like, to
Speaker 1: be honest, like I don't really even listen to you
Speaker 1: guys that much. I was telling my buddy about the
Speaker 1: situation and he's like, oh you should still we call
Speaker 1: these guys, Okay, so tell us a little bit more
Speaker 1: about Leia and what you guys did for your date. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, just because we met through the whole van thing,
Speaker 1: I decided I was like, Hey, if you want, I'll
Speaker 1: bring my van over and you could check it out,
Speaker 1: and you know, maybe we could just go driving around.
Speaker 1: And I'm normally that's like a scary sentence, rightly check out,
Speaker 1: We'll just drive around or whatever, don't tell anybody where
Speaker 1: we're going, but she was like, yeah, listening a ride,
Speaker 1: and so I kind of like it was like nearing sunset,
Speaker 1: and I was like, it would be cool to like
Speaker 1: go over to this like pretty scenic overlook and like
Speaker 1: we stopped and got like some just some like snacks,
Speaker 1: some crackers and cheese and stuff, and yeah, big geez.
Speaker 1: I mean I think those are kind of the best
Speaker 1: dates though, where they're they're understated, they're not over the
Speaker 1: top expensive. It's just you in a romantic setting, stuff
Speaker 1: in your face with and it's something she was really
Speaker 1: interested in. I mean, like she joined this van life
Speaker 1: Facebook group because she wants to know more about vans.
Speaker 1: Now she's got up close to her. Yeah, what was
Speaker 1: the vibe that you were getting from Leia On the date,
Speaker 1: it was pretty chill. I mean, she's super down to
Speaker 1: earth and she's not Gnola, but she's like definitely doesn't
Speaker 1: wear a lot of makeup, but you know, she's still
Speaker 1: very pretty, you know. And I mean, were you saying
Speaker 1: some of the stuff because no, no, no, no, okay,
Speaker 1: but well that's good. I mean it was just really cool.
Speaker 1: And then we just hung out and talked and just
Speaker 1: like showed her, you know, kind of what I'd done
Speaker 1: with the vand because I like, is there any chemistry though,
Speaker 1: I mean, because maybe she wasn't looking at it as
Speaker 1: a date. I mean, it could be, but we did
Speaker 1: end up like kissing. Oh she was pleased with the cheese.
Speaker 1: That's his tagline. No, but there was gonna be one
Speaker 1: like kind of weird thing happened like the whole time.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't a big deal or anything. But like
Speaker 1: I had forgotten to put on the parking break. Oh no,
Speaker 1: so things got a little exciting as you know, we're
Speaker 1: kind of like rolling towards the cliff. Oh my god. Wrong,
Speaker 1: But I mean but it was not like a big deal,
Speaker 1: Like we barely even went. That was the only thing
Speaker 1: is she was that kind of like re doubt understandably,
Speaker 1: so like, yeah, was that was that before? After the kiss?
Speaker 1: Was before? It was before? Okay, so she still kissed
Speaker 1: you afterwards? Was that planned? Planned? They try to push
Speaker 1: them off the cliff can be like a hero, the
Speaker 1: hero and like when you put a little bit of
Speaker 1: like fear into a woman's heart, it gets the endorphins going,
Speaker 1: the adrenaline and all of a sudden, it's like, who
Speaker 1: you saved my life, Like, oh, thank you. On every date,
Speaker 1: every guy should put their dates in dangers. But you know,
Speaker 1: I mean, that's not really how it went and because
Speaker 1: like trust me, I was a little freaked out myself.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm The only reason I'm asking is because
Speaker 1: we've had a lot of instances on the show in
Speaker 1: the past where guys will purposely do something to make
Speaker 1: themselves look good. But it's good to know that was
Speaker 1: just an accident. Yeah no, that's not how it went on.
Speaker 1: This is like I'm good by myself. You know, I
Speaker 1: don't need to that's to do any thunderhanded thing. Yeah no,
Speaker 1: sleeves from cheese, So just no, it's going to keep happening. Okay,
Speaker 1: So cheese, how did the date end, I just kind
Speaker 1: of like drove her back to her house and we're
Speaker 1: sitting there for a while, we're talking a little bit more,
Speaker 1: and then you know, we just shared a kiss and
Speaker 1: it wasn't like it wasn't it wasn't a makeout session,
Speaker 1: but it was like a nice kiss. And then you know,
Speaker 1: she took off, and like I'm figuring, like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get see her and because it went so well, and
Speaker 1: then like nothing since then, I mean, I mean, and
Speaker 1: the only thing I can think about is like I'm
Speaker 1: like pretty geeky about my van and like, you know,
Speaker 1: it could be the kind of situation that she's just
Speaker 1: like that was all too much for me because a
Speaker 1: lot of people have felt that way for but like
Speaker 1: a lot of people thought, she's at least you're honest
Speaker 1: man at van NERD. So here's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call
Speaker 1: Leia for you, and we'll try and get you a
Speaker 1: second date. Update. All right, chess awesome, thank you? All right,
Speaker 1: hold on, all right, if you're just tuning in for
Speaker 1: the second day update, We're on the phone with a
Speaker 1: guy named Cheese, Well his real name's Eyett. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: all of his friends call him Cheese and Cheese lives
Speaker 1: that hashtag van life, driving an old refurbished Volkswagen which
Speaker 1: he uses to live off the grid, and he recently
Speaker 1: met a girl named Leia online. They drove to a
Speaker 1: scenic look out together, had some cheddar snacks, almost rolled
Speaker 1: off the cliff, yeah because Cheese forgot to put the
Speaker 1: parking break on. But it's okay, nothing bad happened. He
Speaker 1: even got a kiss out of the whole thing. But
Speaker 1: afterwards Leia has put the cheese on freeze. It had
Speaker 1: to do just one just please, okay, please stop, all right,
Speaker 1: I'll ease up on the cheese, all right, So Cheese,
Speaker 1: I never asked you this though. We're about to call Leia.
Speaker 1: Does she know you as Cheese or does she know
Speaker 1: you as Everett? Yeah? No, she knows me as Cheese.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't recall if I even told her
Speaker 1: my real name. But like, the only thing that you know,
Speaker 1: I can really even think about is that I think
Speaker 1: that she just thinks it might be fond to go
Speaker 1: on a date with like a band life guy, but
Speaker 1: not necessarily like sees a band life guy as somebody
Speaker 1: who she would go out with in the long term,
Speaker 1: you know. And that's you know, that's what I'm thinking too,
Speaker 1: because I'm just imagining her like coming back to her
Speaker 1: apartment talking to her roommate and pain like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I met this guy on Facebook page and his name's
Speaker 1: Cheese and he took me out in the van that
Speaker 1: he lives in. Like that's not going to probably go
Speaker 1: over well. They're like, oh my god, he sounds like
Speaker 1: a cat. Yeah, I don't know that, like any of
Speaker 1: her girlfriends would be like that's the one nail him down,
Speaker 1: you know. But you sound like a great guy, you do.
Speaker 1: You sound like a really great guy. I mean, I
Speaker 1: do have an apartment, okay, but I don't like necessarily
Speaker 1: live in it all the time. I like to go
Speaker 1: off and just kind of run around. Yea, And Cheese
Speaker 1: doesn't live in the apartment. That's Everett's apartment, the one
Speaker 1: that lives in the van every time the lease Okay, right,
Speaker 1: but okay, let's just get right to this. We're gonna
Speaker 1: call Leia for you and try and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. All right, awesome, All right, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: is La there? Yeah? Is it Hila. My name is
Speaker 1: Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: How you doing. I'm good. How are you? I'm awesome.
Speaker 1: Do you have a second to talk with us for
Speaker 1: a little bit? I'm sorry. What is this about? So
Speaker 1: this is about a segment that we do called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update. That's where if you go out with
Speaker 1: someone and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you
Speaker 1: can email the show and we'll reach out to them
Speaker 1: for you to try and figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know it's a little bit weird, but somebody emailed
Speaker 1: us about you and he goes by the name Cheese. Okay,
Speaker 1: you remember Cheese, right, I've been out with seven Cheese.
Speaker 1: It was a Swiss or Brie. We're joking. Yeah, yah, sorry,
Speaker 1: we're still joking about the cheese name. Okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So anyway, yeah, okay, you do remember Cheese. So the
Speaker 1: whole reason that we're doing this is because Cheese had
Speaker 1: a great time hanging out with you and he's a
Speaker 1: little bit confused about why you've been ignoring him after
Speaker 1: you went out together. Okay, I mean, did you feel
Speaker 1: like it was a cool date that you Guys went on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean the date was good. I feel like you're
Speaker 1: being very short with us. Yeah, I mean I feel
Speaker 1: really weird answering these questions. This is very weird to me.
Speaker 1: I understand unexpected interview, but we're just we're trying to
Speaker 1: help out a guy who's really confused after having what
Speaker 1: he thought was a really romantic experience with you, and
Speaker 1: so we're just hoping to get him a little bit
Speaker 1: of answers, a little bit of clarity on why you'd
Speaker 1: be blowing him off. I mean, I think you can understand,
Speaker 1: like the dating world's hard right now. So when you
Speaker 1: meet somebody that you finally feel like you clicked with
Speaker 1: and then it doesn't work out, I don't know, you
Speaker 1: can go to desperate measures like contacting us to try
Speaker 1: to figure it out. I understand that. But it was
Speaker 1: one date, you know, so right, so is it not
Speaker 1: going to be another? You didn't have any intention of
Speaker 1: calling him back? Nopey? Not well? I mean, is there
Speaker 1: a reason why you were turned off by Cheese? Yes?
Speaker 1: You know, the date was fine, Like, we had a
Speaker 1: nice time together. He was funny and was very cool.
Speaker 1: But the next day after our date, I had some
Speaker 1: police officers get in touch with me to ask me
Speaker 1: questions about the van that was parked at this convenience
Speaker 1: store that we went through. You said police called you,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yeah, because they saw you inside the van. No,
Speaker 1: I used my credit card at the store, so and
Speaker 1: then they saw me get in the van. But they
Speaker 1: knew I knew the person. Wait, is he like linked
Speaker 1: to some crime or something? I have no idea, but
Speaker 1: the whole thing was very weird. I don't know what's
Speaker 1: going on. WHOA, So I just don't want to be involved.
Speaker 1: I don't blame you. That's really sketchy. Yeah, it's really sketchy.
Speaker 1: You were much more rational than I am. If the
Speaker 1: police called tected me about some dude I went on
Speaker 1: that drove a van around, I would be immediately calling
Speaker 1: that guy. I mean, like, what the hell, man, what's
Speaker 1: going on? Are you a criminal? Telling me? The honest criminal?
Speaker 1: I want nothing to do with it. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to call him. I mean I told the police, like
Speaker 1: all the information that I had. You know, they can
Speaker 1: investigate it, and you know, but you don't even know
Speaker 1: what they're investigating. What are they investigating? I think that
Speaker 1: the van was stolen I'm not sure, so I well,
Speaker 1: not only is he hashtag van life, but he's hashtag
Speaker 1: stolen van life. I mean, we definitely want to get
Speaker 1: to the bottom of this because we spoke to Cheese
Speaker 1: and he doesn't sound like that type of persons always
Speaker 1: those though, Jeffrey, I know, but I guess, like, I mean,
Speaker 1: what does that even mean? I don't know. You tell
Speaker 1: me if he sounds like a criminal, because he's actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening and he heard everything that
Speaker 1: you said. Yeah, Lea, Leya, hey, hey, Cheese, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I need to tell you what happened. Like you do
Speaker 1: not have the whole story here. That is crazy. Okay,
Speaker 1: hold on, Cheese, give her a second. Like she didn't
Speaker 1: even know you were there. Man, Okay, okay, this is wait.
Speaker 1: So you set this whole thing up on the phone too,
Speaker 1: Like is this like a scale? No, No, not at all.
Speaker 1: It's actually just a giant misunderstanding. Like I just was
Speaker 1: wondering why you didn't call it back, So that's why
Speaker 1: I called the radio, and like I wanted you to,
Speaker 1: you know, just to see. But like, the whole thing
Speaker 1: about the van is not what you think at all. Okay, Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: So get to the point, cheese, what are you going on?
Speaker 1: Are you a criminal or not? Well, here's what happened.
Speaker 1: So I actually converted this van. This is a van
Speaker 1: that I converted. I sold it to my body who's
Speaker 1: also like does some of this stuff. He actually helped
Speaker 1: me out on this van, right, So he was on vacation,
Speaker 1: so I was like, Okay, I'm just gonna go take
Speaker 1: the van right now because I don't have one right
Speaker 1: now that's working. So anyway, what did you steal the van? No?
Speaker 1: I totally just borrowed this van. Is it was like
Speaker 1: my van to start with. And here's the thing. He
Speaker 1: came back early and he totally thought that the van
Speaker 1: had been stolen, so he like called the police and
Speaker 1: like he had no idea that I had taken it. Leia,
Speaker 1: are you buying any of this? Does this feel right
Speaker 1: to you? I mean, I guess that sort of makes sense.
Speaker 1: But he lied to me about telling me you own
Speaker 1: this van, saying it's yours and it wasn't. But it
Speaker 1: was mine before, and I mean, it just wasn't mine
Speaker 1: at the time of the day. And I'm sorry I
Speaker 1: didn't say that, but it was like, you know, just
Speaker 1: a lot to kind of say, because like, you know,
Speaker 1: my friend helped pay for some of the repairs and
Speaker 1: then so he had it. So it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: we're still but you know, we work on some of
Speaker 1: this stuff together. But I'm working on a new project
Speaker 1: right now. And you're explaining a lot here, Leia, what
Speaker 1: are you thinking? Yeah, no, cheez, I got you, I
Speaker 1: got you. It's a very complicated process that where you
Speaker 1: borrowed your friend's Vanya. The whole thing is too much,
Speaker 1: like just I don't believe of anything that you're saying.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is so much drama. We went on
Speaker 1: one date and look at this conversation. It's ridiculous. Well
Speaker 1: hold on, I mean, like Cheese, you would understand, like
Speaker 1: if the police called you about some person you went
Speaker 1: out with, like after only hanging out once, that's a
Speaker 1: big red flag. It's all the drama side, Like did
Speaker 1: you have a good time with Cheese? Did you connect
Speaker 1: with him? It doesn't matter. I barely remember the date.
Speaker 1: As the result of all of this, I will say,
Speaker 1: in his defense, he's not in jail, so obviously, like
Speaker 1: he didn't do anything or they couldn't track him down
Speaker 1: because she didn't know his real name. Well, to be fair,
Speaker 1: we don't know that he's not in jail. This call
Speaker 1: could be collect so I mean he'd steal a van
Speaker 1: for you. That's really nice to him, Like that's romantic.
Speaker 1: Well look, Leah, I mean I don't want to send
Speaker 1: you out with a felon obviously, but maybe you could
Speaker 1: do some background checks and see if his record comes
Speaker 1: up clean. And if it does, we'd love to send
Speaker 1: you out on another date with Cheese and we'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Thank you, but no, thank you. I was
Speaker 1: very polite. I mean, Cheese, did you learn anything out
Speaker 1: of this whole process? Yeah? I mean I would have
Speaker 1: told her about like the whole miss understanding with the
Speaker 1: police and everything that happened. It just like I didn't
Speaker 1: even really get a chance, you know, like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: was thinking, maybe you'll learn not to take your buddy's
Speaker 1: van without asking something like that it was my van
Speaker 1: to begin with, and then you know, I told him
Speaker 1: that one and Cheese learned nothing. Yeah. Yeah, but just
Speaker 1: in case, I mean, if this happens again to me,
Speaker 1: like it's cool about like right, you guys back again
Speaker 1: and maybe you can let me out again. Yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: We're going off the grid now by Cheese Moving ninety
Speaker 1: two point five