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Speaker 1: Welcome to Pretty Private with Ebina, a space where no

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Speaker 1: question is off limits and storylines become lifelines. The views

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Speaker 1: shared by our guests are meant to inform, entertain and empower.

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Speaker 1: From the laughs to the lessons, Just remember tough times

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Speaker 1: don't last, but professional home girls do enjoy the show.

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? Issha Ebina here and I hope all

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Speaker 3: is cute? Welcome back to another episode a Pretty Private

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Speaker 3: with Ebina where storylines become lifelines. Now on today's episode,

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Speaker 3: we're getting into love reality TV and what really happens

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Speaker 3: when the cameras are rolling. If you're not familiar, Age

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Speaker 3: of Attraction is a reality dating series that brings together

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Speaker 3: singles looking for love, but with a twist. It explores

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Speaker 3: connections between people with age gaps. But as we all know,

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Speaker 3: what we see on screen doesn't always tell the full story.

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Speaker 3: And that's exactly why today I'm sitting down with Lea

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Speaker 3: and Nicole from Age of Attraction. She's opening up about

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Speaker 3: her experience, to what it was really like living in

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Speaker 3: the bubble, to navigating her connection while everything played out

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Speaker 3: in real time. We also get into the reunion, her

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Speaker 3: thoughts on the criticism that the show received and what

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Speaker 3: this experience taught her about love and most importantly, herself.

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Speaker 3: So get ready, y'all, because my conversation with Lea Nicole

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Speaker 3: starts now. Oh my god, y'all. So I am super

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Speaker 3: excited to have our lovely guests on the show. We

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Speaker 3: already been like slightly like key King, So I'm like,

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Speaker 3: let me first the cord before we get started. But

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Speaker 3: we have Leah Nicole from Age of Attraction everyone him

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Speaker 3: doing how you feel?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 4: We are here? What is this month is almost over?

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Speaker 3: Girl? Before you know? It's gonna be Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 4: Girl? Absolute, this year's gonna be really fast.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely mad fast, I know. But thank you so much

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Speaker 3: for coming on the show. You know, I have this

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Speaker 3: so funny because I was unemployed and I was going

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Speaker 3: through like a lot, right, Okay, So my friend was like,

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Speaker 3: you should watch this show, and I'm like, what is

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Speaker 3: and so she was like, you're gonna love it, girl.

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Speaker 3: It is a hot mess, she said. But you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm really big on love, right, Okay, Okay, and girl,

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Speaker 3: I was glued to that TV, yes, but I was

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Speaker 3: mostly glued to your storyline because I'm like, no, we're

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Speaker 3: before we get into your experience, for those who don't

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Speaker 3: know you, how would you want people to know? Like,

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Speaker 3: how would you introduce yourself to people? Because I don't

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Speaker 3: I feel like that was a part of you, but

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, Because so once again, like so I'm a flight attendant, right,

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Speaker 4: So I think that's what makes me me.

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Speaker 5: I get to like, you know, borrow a little bit

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Speaker 3: So, yeah, what's your sign? I'm just curious.

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Speaker 4: I'm a gemini.

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Speaker 5: But if the question is why it's at the end

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Speaker 4: Are with as long as they're of age, right, why

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Speaker 4: does it matter what everyone else thinks?

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Speaker 5: So for me, it's like you hear on both sides,

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Speaker 5: women dating younger men like what share and her dude,

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Speaker 4: I don't see the problem, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: And yes, you know.

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Speaker 5: Then you had your que Heffner and the little the

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Speaker 5: Like so for me, like this show is just we

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Speaker 4: But yes, the largest age gaps got that TV time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're gonna keep it the bunk because they

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Speaker 5: Yeah, like I would have like, yes, I would have

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Speaker 4: I don't want to be dating no more. Yeah, so

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Speaker 4: Because I don't get why is everyone so angry?

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Speaker 5: So I still don't know why because for me, it's

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Speaker 4: Honestly?

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Speaker 4: What's up, because like you didn't say none of that,

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, I wonder why they gave you that narrative.

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Speaker 5: Probably because I wasn't talking bad about him, you know

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Speaker 5: You hay go lucky person. I go with the flow.

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Speaker 5: We got to know each other a little more and

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Speaker 5: like I think that's when he got into his head

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Speaker 4: I'm just like, get me out this.

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Speaker 3: Apartment between me and you. Do think he was relevant?

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Speaker 3: Right or hey broke that damn? I said.

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Speaker 5: Right, No one told me it was celibate. I knew,

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Speaker 5: Makes sense to me, So that's why I didn't even

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Speaker 5: that's why we had already talked about that we weren't

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Speaker 4: And I was like, say.

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Speaker 3: Less, yeah, and also I wouldn't be one to mess

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Speaker 5: If it's meant to be, we can do this all

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Speaker 5: that's just us, right.

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Speaker 3: But I love that you bought up the angry black

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Speaker 5: Like this, right? But said I'm saying too, And it's

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Speaker 5: I was just surprised. I didn't think that was the

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Speaker 4: But I was like maybe. I was like, I was like,

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Speaker 4: maybe like a little naggy, I could be a clean freak,

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Speaker 3: You don't want to show. I could gave a show,

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Speaker 4: Didn't know like cleaning and over bearing. And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: Like that's everything I'm not because usually I love giving

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Speaker 5: So I found out that my process is gonna be

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Speaker 4: To let it go.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I don't see what I don't see.

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Speaker 4: I find my husband I did. I was like, ladies, oh.

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Speaker 3: Married right, right, right, and that's what you really desire,

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Speaker 5: Well, once it wasn't Netflix, I figured it's gonna be

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Speaker 4: I'm like, but happiness is happiness to me.

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Speaker 5: So I was like, my friend was like, you're an

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so actually, I'm so I've been working the last

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna come a key with you a little bit

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Speaker 4: I was like, I'm gonna see, like do you like

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Speaker 5: I'm just like you know about that life and because

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Speaker 4: Just a good conversation yeah, yeah, and happy people.

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Speaker 3: And you have such good energy. So I'm thinking, like, damn,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, like I really yeah.

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Speaker 5: It's it was a different environment for me in general

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Speaker 4: But it was hard.

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Speaker 5: Let's see, before we had our final dates, I had

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Speaker 3: But I was like, was there anybody else that you

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Speaker 5: Why I had circled who I circled? E? I see,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but like I don't.

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Speaker 3: Because you're beautiful, Like I don't like how they got

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I so you know what I'm saying. So

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Speaker 4: that's all.

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Speaker 5: I was like, all right, I'll be that character I

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Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. I don't care. That doesn't bother

440
00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:34,439
Speaker 4: men like, all good.

441
00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,600
Speaker 3: What's up y'all? It's schagara Ebna here and be sure

442
00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:40,080
Speaker 3: to follow me on Instagram and TikTok at pretty private podcasts,

443
00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,280
Speaker 3: and don't forget to subscribe to my YouTube channel at

444
00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,280
Speaker 3: the Professional Homegirl. Now let's get back to the show.

445
00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,520
Speaker 3: Two days until feel Me, you found out your best

446
00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,280
Speaker 3: friend Mom passed away, which is my condolences. So was

447
00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,000
Speaker 3: that What was a moment like for you emotionally and

448
00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:56,640
Speaker 3: what made you want to continue to keep going?

449
00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:00,600
Speaker 4: Cry?

450
00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,600
Speaker 3: No, I'm sad because when you said that, I.

451
00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:08,280
Speaker 5: Was like, all right, Chris, yeah, because it's like, once again,

452
00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:08,879
Speaker 5: I'm very good.

453
00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:09,320
Speaker 4: I don't know why.

454
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:12,520
Speaker 5: It's because we're like black women, we're very good at compartmentalizing.

455
00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,399
Speaker 3: Right and masking for sure. Yeah.

456
00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:16,399
Speaker 5: So for me, I was like I found out and

457
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,160
Speaker 5: then like I couldn't even call her right away because

458
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,000
Speaker 5: I was already like in tears, and so I thought,

459
00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:21,800
Speaker 5: so I had to wait to pay like to calm

460
00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,159
Speaker 5: myself because I wasn't gonna, I guess, add more to

461
00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:25,760
Speaker 5: her plate when it was her mom at the end

462
00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,399
Speaker 5: of the day, right, yeah, So I had to make

463
00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,479
Speaker 5: sure I was in a good space to even call her,

464
00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,280
Speaker 5: and so I was able, I think I when I did,

465
00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:33,400
Speaker 5: I talked to her. It was on our day off.

466
00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:35,560
Speaker 5: That was a day at the pool. When I was lying,

467
00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:37,960
Speaker 5: I said, you're out here living your best life.

468
00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,080
Speaker 3: You know, right.

469
00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:40,240
Speaker 4: I was like because in the.

470
00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,000
Speaker 5: Day is like I know if that was if that

471
00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:44,200
Speaker 5: was me, and if I was in his position, I

472
00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:46,000
Speaker 5: would have been like hey, like I would have came

473
00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:49,600
Speaker 5: over and supported and like yeah, And so I remember

474
00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:51,439
Speaker 5: because I remember other people did and like he was

475
00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:53,280
Speaker 5: just over there, and I was like, all right, this

476
00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 5: is I don't think he's in that emotional wheelhouse. Yeah,

477
00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 5: you know so, but other than that, but to keep

478
00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:02,439
Speaker 5: going only is because I did. I did talk to

479
00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:07,400
Speaker 5: her my friend and I told her, I said, if

480
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 5: you need me, I will fly because once again I

481
00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:10,280
Speaker 5: can fly easy.

482
00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 4: It's easy. And I made it back to film. I

483
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,320
Speaker 4: got the same as day, you know, right.

484
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:17,879
Speaker 5: But I was like, baby girl, I was like, I

485
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:19,440
Speaker 5: will be there for you if you need me, because

486
00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:22,359
Speaker 5: she doesn't have like too many like close friends, Like

487
00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:26,919
Speaker 5: I'm like her bad we are that's my girl. And

488
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,960
Speaker 5: so it's like hurt because I couldn't be there for

489
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 5: her with the one time she really need me.

490
00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:33,240
Speaker 4: It's like, of course, now I have to be filming.

491
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 5: I've never filmed in my life, but now like my friends,

492
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,080
Speaker 5: and I had to actually another friend in the hospital

493
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:38,720
Speaker 5: as well.

494
00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 4: So a lot was going on.

495
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,800
Speaker 5: But I think when she told me Leah, mom would

496
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,359
Speaker 5: have wanted you to stay like me like it's okay,

497
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:47,639
Speaker 5: I got I will handle this.

498
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. And I was like, it

499
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:53,200
Speaker 4: just showed me. I was like, that's what. That's why.

500
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 5: Even was more like in it because I was like, well,

501
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,440
Speaker 5: I don't know if he's my person, but he's here

502
00:20:58,440 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 5: for a reason.

503
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:00,159
Speaker 4: I need to figure out why.

504
00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:02,439
Speaker 5: It's like, you know, like God put through on your

505
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,159
Speaker 5: reason for a reason in your life, and so I

506
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 5: was like, Okay, well it's now it's my reason to

507
00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,399
Speaker 5: find why, Like what is it what he's going to

508
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:10,080
Speaker 5: teach me something?

509
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 4: What can I learn? Can I grow something?

510
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 5: And so for me it was like, I feel like

511
00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,439
Speaker 5: my duty now to like either go all in, you know,

512
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 5: because he hasn't told me anything other that he didn't

513
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,119
Speaker 5: like me. It was just the production side. Everything was

514
00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 5: very hard for him. And since we're both like in

515
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 5: the mental health, the mental health like kind of world,

516
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 5: like my mom runs a director, I'm bigger show of that.

517
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 5: So and he also does public speaking. So I was like, okay,

518
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 5: let me be here for you since no one else

519
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 5: can be here for us. And so it's like I

520
00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,119
Speaker 5: was I feel like I was more his shoulder, but

521
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:46,400
Speaker 5: he couldn't give me that shoulder because I don't think

522
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 5: di emotional immaturity was there for him to do both

523
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,200
Speaker 5: because he's too worried about himself and getting himself through.

524
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 5: And I've never I've never been a selfish person. I've

525
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 5: always taken care of me and my friend group. Like

526
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 5: you call me, we don't talk of twenty years. If

527
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 5: you call me where going to go?

528
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 3: You know I'm gonna show up.

529
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 4: I always so I.

530
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 5: Was like, I've always been that person, and so now

531
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 5: that he's in my world, I was like, well I

532
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 5: can I can do that same courtesy to you, you

533
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,479
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. So, yeah, I just felt there

534
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 5: was just so much that I think I just put

535
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 5: on myself at the end of the day, right to

536
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 5: make sure me and my people are taken care of.

537
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you mentioned earlier that you feel like like

538
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 3: he was there for a reason and maybe it was

539
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,080
Speaker 3: something that you was supposed to learn from heim. So

540
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 3: what did you think you learned from the situation with him.

541
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 4: I've learned how to properly handle reality TV.

542
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, right, how to move in shade, Like

543
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 3: if you want a character, I got you.

544
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 4: You know, I had a wheeling deal, right, But.

545
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 5: No, but he's also into trading, and like that's the

546
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 5: thing that I've been wanting to get into. Like, yeah,

547
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 5: I was like, I want to I can make money,

548
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 5: like I can learn. So I'm saying there was so

549
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 5: much things that he could teach me. Yeah, that I

550
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 5: can also teach him about, like.

551
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 4: The emotional shog you know, like.

552
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 3: Like he was not the best. The fact that he's

553
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 3: a public speaking is crazy because.

554
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 4: I've learned too.

555
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:15,640
Speaker 5: He talks at people mmm, not really with Yeah, that's

556
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 5: what I've learned too, because I I the same. I said, oh,

557
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 5: I got to communicator.

558
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 4: You just see me. I was like, I was like, well,

559
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:22,959
Speaker 4: it's like because that's the biggest thing.

560
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 5: If you if you can't like, if you can communicate,

561
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 5: you're basically golden because if you're physically attracted, you can communicate.

562
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 4: And remember he was like honest oil he said all

563
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 4: those things.

564
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 3: Yeah tall right, yeah, right, like I already know.

565
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 5: So I was like, Okay, we're good. I was like,

566
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 5: and then I was like, then then Vancouver happened.

567
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 4: I was like.

568
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, because when he was trying to explain himself at

569
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 3: the reunion, I said, bro, just just be quiet, just.

570
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 4: Be Me and John were like.

571
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 3: Or hat in the back, like deep sided. I think

572
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 3: everybody was just like, yo, what are you talking about?

573
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 5: Kids?

574
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, he be bobbing and weaving.

575
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 3: Just be honest, like, but I also think that, like,

576
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 3: I think he did care about you, and I think

577
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 3: that's why he was bobbing and weaving because he knew

578
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:13,120
Speaker 3: he fucked up.

579
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely yeah.

580
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 3: Instead of him just keeping it one hundred. It's just like, bro,

581
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 3: you ain't got to do all that.

582
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 4: Just keep just say it.

583
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 5: Like yeah, it's like even because we did, because now

584
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 5: we're cool. So we did have a conversation. He's like no, no,

585
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 5: like Leah, thank you, you know what I'm saying. I

586
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 5: was like, you're welcome, and like, so we've did, like

587
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 5: I get, I get he did like me, but it

588
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 5: still wasn't until the fact that I want where I

589
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 5: want it anyway.

590
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 4: So and then day I was like going to Steve Harvey.

591
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 4: He's just lett into you.

592
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,959
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, right right, we're looking back with your

593
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 3: best friend. What is her thoughts about the show?

594
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 4: Oh my god? Have we have it yet?

595
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 5: Kind of cause she's like, well, she's like she watched

596
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 5: the reunion because she's she's in bigger scheld. I'm still

597
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 5: in l a mm hmm. And I haven't like I've

598
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 5: been really busy. So she was like Leah, like thank you,

599
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,439
Speaker 5: Like think you were talking about mom, Like yeah, she was.

600
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 4: Like it was hard to get through you know.

601
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I just it just sucks not being able

602
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 5: to be there for her. So that's the only thing.

603
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 4: That gets me.

604
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 3: Yeah. And then also with you and Chris, there was

605
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 3: a fifteen year age gap. So watching it back, do

606
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 3: you think that age gap played a bigger role than

607
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 3: you realize at the time.

608
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 5: I think I think yes, especially maybe for like a man,

609
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 5: because I like, I thought Chris was kind of already

610
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 5: set up in his money situation because a millionaire. But

611
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 5: I realized he's still building his brand. He's still building.

612
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 5: So I thought he was already built. I mean, you know,

613
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 5: he already had that whatever he needed, and now he

614
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 5: just adds to it.

615
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 3: But that's what y'all was saying, Like he kept like,

616
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 3: I spend this much on groceries, and then when you

617
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 3: bought off the product bag, I said, nah, Lee about

618
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 3: to get in that bag that that black girl.

619
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 4: I was just laugh I was just like, let's just

620
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 4: be keep it a buck.

621
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 3: Right, girl. You didn't like you?

622
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 5: Like me?

623
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 3: Right?

624
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 4: What?

625
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 3: But I like you.

626
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 5: But because if he started was complaining, I was, don't complain,

627
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 5: Just throw out the money you wanted it. Sure, Okay,

628
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 5: I still have one of the outfits in here. I

629
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 5: should pop it out.

630
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 3: You should have Worren today.

631
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 5: Oh but the dress that I wore to the file Files,

632
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 5: my podcast, that was the one of the dress you

633
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 5: bought me?

634
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 3: Okay?

635
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 5: Q q Q.

636
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 3: I mean what was the problem. He just didn't want

637
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 3: to spend the money or he didn't have the money

638
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 3: to spend.

639
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 5: No, no, he had the money, but technically we thought

640
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 5: that company, the production was going to pay for everything

641
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:38,280
Speaker 5: because I don't carry my wallet around. So like, you

642
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, like, we're not like we're they.

643
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 3: Should have got that on TV. Could you imagine you look.

644
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 5: Like they wanted some more step I'm not saying, Okay, yeah,

645
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 5: that should be kind of messy, but.

646
00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,679
Speaker 3: Wait, what were some other moments that they could have included?

647
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 3: Because I felt like we didn't really get a chance

648
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 3: to like really see the full experience with between you

649
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 3: and Chris as much as we did with others.

650
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I think, like, so we both I think

651
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 5: we both agree. Our first I guess I think it

652
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 5: was our first date was our ziplining date. It was

653
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 5: probably the one of the best ones. Wow, And it

654
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 5: was fun because we got to be cute and be

655
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 5: ourselves because well he okay, initially he won. He had

656
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 5: the little cameras on the helmet, so he wanted one.

657
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 5: I was like, so I was like, let me try

658
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 5: to get you one, but we couldn't. They didn't let

659
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 5: us have one because remember we're not we're not a

660
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 5: maning character.

661
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 4: It's fine.

662
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went off.

663
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 5: That's what you guys say is waving off. And then

664
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 5: we get we're the first couple to go, so then

665
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 5: it was cute. So we went first, and then there

666
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 5: was no cameras down there, so then we just got

667
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 5: to Kiki.

668
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 4: And like make out and it was just fun.

669
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then just talk because we didn't have I yeah,

670
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,439
Speaker 5: we're Mike, but there's still no can't like.

671
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 3: Right right right, that's true.

672
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: We didn't.

673
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 3: That is crazy.

674
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then we ended up, so we go to

675
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 5: ziplines to zipline, and then we get back to the

676
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 5: very end. Then we have another conversation and even the

677
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 5: production a lady from Velvet Hammer. She's like, wow, that

678
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 5: was a really beautiful moment. Thank you guys for sharing

679
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 5: that with us. And granted I don't know what we

680
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 5: talked about because clearly it didn't get shown, but I

681
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 5: remember her coming up to us. I think, oh, I

682
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 5: don know if you saw he actually picked me up

683
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 5: and like carried me like it's it's a very limited clip.

684
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 5: Once again, right, And it was probably like in like

685
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 5: an intro and outro, but that moment and he was like, Oh,

686
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 5: I got you or something like that. He makes a

687
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 5: comment and then but that was the end of our

688
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 5: ZID lightning date. But I forgot what we talked about.

689
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 5: Chris probably really good at that, he remembers, but it wasn't.

690
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 5: It was a dope moment. I was like, Oh, this

691
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 5: is gonna be great if this continues.

692
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, how does he feel about not being on? Like,

693
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 3: because I know he felt like he's supposed to be

694
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 3: cast as the gym guy? But how does he feel

695
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 3: about not getting a lot of the screen time he

696
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 3: didn't need?

697
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 5: You didn't?

698
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 4: Did you watch the end of the end of the

699
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 4: end of the three?

700
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 3: I did?

701
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 4: I did.

702
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 3: I mean, I know he's about to go on another

703
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 3: reality TV so he got what he wanted.

704
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,239
Speaker 4: He don't need a lot of screen time. He got

705
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 4: a whole other show.

706
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, which I thought was crazy.

707
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 4: I guess what I'm saying. He knows how to bomb

708
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 4: and wait, that's what I'm gonna learning from him.

709
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm doing I'm gonna do better right because making

710
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 5: out with everybody? Yea.

711
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 4: But over here I'm just I'm an elder, but get one.

712
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 3: He definitely said he wanted to be on reality TV,

713
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 3: but damn, I'm just like, wow, he really about to

714
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 3: be on a Perfect Match.

715
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 5: But if they don't cast no grown folks with a

716
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 5: perfect match, I would have done it right, and.

717
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 3: You were to give them some show, baby, seriously, face

718
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 3: would right? You know your facial expressions at the reunion,

719
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 3: I was like, please take the camera off of Leah

720
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: because you was just like.

721
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 4: Like, it's like okay, and granted, is probably the only

722
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 4: reason why I'm making.

723
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 5: Phace is typically is because things either don't make sense,

724
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 5: like there's something going on, like someone's not saying something.

725
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 4: They're keeping their hiding something, or I gotta go to

726
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 4: the bathroom. I'm just kidding. We got one bathroom break, y'all.

727
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 3: But did you have an audience there?

728
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 4: No?

729
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 3: Because I saw you winking at somebody. I'm like, who's

730
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 3: she winking at? Yeah, you winked at somebody.

731
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 4: Was it across from me?

732
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 5: Yeah? Oh, because remember my my my couch looking directly

733
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 5: across the other sex.

734
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 3: No, no, no, it wasn't. No, I'm lying, it wasn't

735
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 3: across from you. Like you look to the sire and

736
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 3: then you.

737
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 5: Wink, oh, well, okay, so I'm like the care people

738
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 5: are really cool at file files.

739
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 4: By the way.

740
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, okay.

741
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 4: So I was probably like, you know, I probably said

742
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 4: something sly and I was like, I was like, you

743
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 4: get that.

744
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 3: No, I'm not gonna lie. One facious person you made

745
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: and you just flat out said something. When Vanail and

746
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 3: Jege was going back and forth about how close the

747
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 3: guy was, I.

748
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 4: Was so confused. Were you confused?

749
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 3: I was like, where was this nigga at?

750
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 5: Because I was because I didn't like, I didn't really

751
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 5: get I heard some of the stories, but I didn't

752
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 5: it's and it still.

753
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,719
Speaker 4: Didn't make sense. After they even said no he was close, No,

754
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 4: he was far, and I was like, I was believe

755
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 4: but the nail But I was like, girl, right, yeah, but.

756
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 5: Then I think I heard someone said he was he

757
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 5: started from across the street and then.

758
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 3: He came closer.

759
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I don't think I missed that part because

760
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 5: I was like, you know, but then once again like

761
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 5: koorhe is from New York, so no, when they close,

762
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 5: they close, right, And he said, if it's close enough

763
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 5: to hit you with a skateboard.

764
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 4: That's really you too close, right, That's what I'm saying.

765
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 5: So I was like, and that feels like a threat.

766
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 5: And he's a man's in the day. He's got to

767
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 5: protect his you know, period, man Roman. So I was like,

768
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 5: when if he said he's close, no, he's close?

769
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh man, when you asked, well, how close was he?

770
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 3: Like was he closer? She was like, we need to clarification.

771
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm the only one.

772
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 5: I'm the only one asked questions because I'm like, because

773
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 5: you guys all thought of it too, right, I was like, well, how.

774
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,960
Speaker 4: Close was this guy? Because everyone says didn't make and

775
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 4: it still is like this make sense.

776
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 5: That's what we need to talk to this other guy

777
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 5: who was there right where you at, Josh.

778
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 3: Now, the one thing I didn't like is the fact

779
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 3: that they did not show your family, and I thought

780
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 3: that was kind of mess. So did you find out

781
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 3: the same time that we found out that your sister

782
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 3: in law was not going to be on the show.

783
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 5: I we got to see it a little bit ahead

784
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 5: of you guys, like the week before, and yeah, I yeah,

785
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 5: it sucks.

786
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 4: It was because it's like why not, right? But then

787
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 4: it's like, okay, So now now you know, I'm trying

788
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,480
Speaker 4: to be a produce server here because that's what we

789
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 4: be trying to do. So now I'm like, okay, is

790
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 4: it because it's really cut for time? Because I did.

791
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 5: I ask somebody at the at the production, I was like, what, like,

792
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 5: why didn't my film to get shown out of everybody's

793
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 5: and she said it was cut for time, and I said.

794
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 3: They could shoot me the lamps that yes.

795
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 5: Even just because she was shocked at Chris's age because

796
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 5: she thought he was like in his thirties, because he

797
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 5: does like have that presence about him. Yeah, just two

798
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 5: seconds would have been nice, right.

799
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, just so we can know that you wasn't alone,

800
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 3: Like I wanted to see who was going to support you.

801
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 3: And I also wanted to hear the dialogue like what

802
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 3: did what did your sister in law think? You know

803
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.

804
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 5: I know that's what I'm saying, but because it doesn't

805
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 5: fit with the narrative, because once again, we did have

806
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 5: good time. Yeah, and he and like Chris said, He's like,

807
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 5: this is probably like one of because he met he

808
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 5: met my sister in law before we met his mom.

809
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 5: And so we're in a great with him. We're in

810
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 5: a great space. And I had to asked her. I

811
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 5: was like, what did we talk about? Because I feel

812
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 5: like when we film, I'm blacking out. I was like,

813
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 5: all right, you know, and so then she was like no,

814
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 5: Like he talked about like how he was enjoying getting

815
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 5: to know you. Yes, it's been a little hard, but

816
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 5: once again he enjoys he enjoys getting no you. I

817
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 5: was like, okay, great, So I'm not like I'm not

818
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 5: what is it like Delulu over here? Right? So I

819
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 5: swear we had a good time and that's I think,

820
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 5: what maybe not when we visited his mom and all

821
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 5: of a sudden, he's trip stressing out again. I was like, whoa,

822
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 5: the day before we had a great tongs law and

823
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 5: you can even ask him. I'm trying to think of

824
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 5: it's in his little in one of his interviews. But

825
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 5: we had a great conversation and it was fun and

826
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 5: it's like he was relaxed and I feel like he

827
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 5: was himself.

828
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, what did you have fan me think about this?

829
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 3: Like your mom, your dad, Like I'm.

830
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 4: My dad. At the beginning, was like, are you sure

831
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,359
Speaker 4: you want to do this right? And I was like Dad,

832
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 4: I'm already doing it now.

833
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 3: Right right, especially with especially them looking back and you

834
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 3: talking to them and you telling them everything, and then

835
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 3: also at the reunion, like you got emotional.

836
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 5: So I'm just warner and like, no, I didn't even

837
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 5: talk to my I didn't even follow up with my

838
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 5: dad about it. I need to follow with my mom

839
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 5: because I know she's like I knew she was very proud.

840
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 5: She saw a couple of podcasts that I've done. She's like, Leah,

841
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 5: like you did really good. I was like thank you,

842
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 5: you know, but it's like I'm kind of mad. I

843
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 5: guess I should have had both of them come up

844
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 5: on the on the TV. You know, you shouldn't would

845
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 5: have shown but because but once again, they're not going

846
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,440
Speaker 5: to make a big deal about stuff how they want

847
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 5: us to be, you know, like my parents, My people

848
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 5: are very chill.

849
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, because Brandy didn't give.

850
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 5: Him a show like once again, like there was no

851
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 5: recent I'm sure like the way Chris presented himself once

852
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 5: again was that he enjoyed my company. Yes he's twenty six,

853
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 5: but once again, like we're not getting married, right, but

854
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 5: the way we were moving and it's like, oh okay,

855
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 5: I think we were talking about also like moving, like

856
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 5: moving away or whatever, or commuting community.

857
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 4: I was like, I can commute to work, it's not

858
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 4: a big deal. I'm a flight of tithing. Everyone doesn't.

859
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 4: People live across the country all the time. It's not

860
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 4: a big deal.

861
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 5: So for me, like, none of these these issues that

862
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 5: were being made an issue were an issue to me.

863
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 5: That's the other reason why things happened the way they did.

864
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 5: So like if she would have, I guess been a

865
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 5: little more are but you should have dated him.

866
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 4: He's too young. It would have been like, oh, let's

867
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 4: put this on.

868
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, it's so crazy. I was just

869
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 3: thinking about one of the red flags when when I

870
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 3: was watching it, and I feel like you kind of

871
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 3: called it too. But I feel like he was like,

872
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: you know what, let me just keep it moving because

873
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 3: people make mistakes. Is when he didn't tell you that

874
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 3: he kissed old girl and everybody else knew, and I'm

875
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 3: just like, come on.

876
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 5: Chris, like this not oh I found out technically only

877
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 5: Vanessa and Logan because Vanessa was the one and she

878
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 5: told her partner, so like, luckily no, apparently none of

879
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 5: the other ladies do.

880
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 4: Because I was like, get out of here.

881
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 5: And that's what I didn't know, because we are all

882
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 5: we weren't so in Whistle, we weren't really allowed to

883
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 5: talk to the ladies and then obviously only in environments

884
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 5: that were being filmed. And so that's why I thought

885
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 5: everyone kind of knew because some people were keyking, you know,

886
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 5: and like all of the girls that I knew and

887
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 5: got close with they all left. Yeah, so I kind

888
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 5: of was more like a little island. I felt like

889
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:24,800
Speaker 5: an island in Vancouver until like I find I started

890
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 5: for my bond with like Vanessa and like Libby, and

891
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 5: then Vanessa, Yeah, dude, she's my girl, Like that is

892
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 5: my girl, okay, and she says exactly what's on her mind.

893
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 3: And yeah, I like Vanessa. I like and I like

894
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 3: how she she supports you because I was watching your

895
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 3: interview on the vow Fowls and she really like, like, no,

896
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 3: Teresa was wrong, and we was all thinking the same thing.

897
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, I.

898
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 5: Know, because I'm like, I know everyone's thinking it, like

899
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 5: but I but everyone harps on the fact that she

900
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 5: didn't tell the children. I understand, I said, I say,

901
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 5: I understand that, But then I think everyone forgets that

902
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:02,280
Speaker 5: he she didn't tell his mom and sister.

903
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, So like I just don't, like, I don't Yeah,

904
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 3: why do you think? Like, because I also found it

905
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 3: kind of interesting that like you and her had like

906
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 3: a little back and forth, and I don't know, it

907
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:16,360
Speaker 3: just feels like like because you mentioned on a different

908
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 3: podcast interview that you felt like you just receive a

909
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 3: lot of unfair treatment, and now that we're done with

910
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 3: the show and we're seeing everything in totality, it's like, yeah,

911
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 3: I do feel like you got a lot of unfair

912
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,879
Speaker 3: treatment because I feel like the host of stuff then

913
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 3: and it was like, no, you should have told your

914
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 3: kids that was the whole point of this show, and

915
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 3: your kids would have been cool with it. It's like

916
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 3: they was liking John, you know what.

917
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 5: I agreed, But like, once again, I guess, like how

918
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 5: do people say it like she's like the darling of

919
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 5: the show, you know, Yeah.

920
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 4: And for me, it's like you pick your battles and

921
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 4: that's not really one for me. Yeah.

922
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, But like I said.

923
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 4: My piece, and then I was like, all right, I'm good.

924
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, but TMZ did say that you and John are

925
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 3: like you're really.

926
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 4: Cozy, But I'm out here this mine business.

927
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 3: Because John is acuting now for Tea. I said, Leah,

928
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 3: I'm mad at you. That's how you get your lick back. Yeah,

929
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 3: I'm right to.

930
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 5: Wait.

931
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 3: Were you surprised that Fifer wasn't there?

932
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 4: Yeah?

933
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 5: I like yeah, and then like I think I had

934
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 5: found out and I was like not coming, But then

935
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 5: I got the country and they was not going to

936
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:29,720
Speaker 5: pay that ticket.

937
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, like girl, and she was like and she in

938
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 3: a new relationship.

939
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know. I have you guys. I've been like been,

940
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 4: I suck at my social media. I had to hire

941
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 4: somebody so like his face.

942
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 3: Yet, girl, I saw that, I said, wow, fire for

943
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 3: playing no games.

944
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: She's not.

945
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 4: Was I ever moved on so quick? I'm like, dang,

946
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 4: am I switched out here? Struggling?

947
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean how did you decide to or how

948
00:38:58,160 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 3: did it moving on look like for you?

949
00:38:59,440 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 4: Like?

950
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 3: What did and this looked like? Because I feel like

951
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 3: a lot of times, like I don't know how I

952
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 3: were to react in that situation because you're a human

953
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 3: and you could tell your feelings were truly hurt, because

954
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 3: it's like, why would you treat me like that?

955
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 4: So like it took us so like so basically we

956
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 4: we after we filmed, he like dipped.

957
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 5: Out the next day, doubt so, like everyone else, kind

958
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 5: of stayed a couple of days because we had a

959
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 5: going like an actual flight, like on let's say a Saturday.

960
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 5: We probably I probably ended like on Thursday, and I

961
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 5: didn't realize we had a choice Steve Lee.

962
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 4: Once again, I don't be knowing things right, yeah, and

963
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 4: He's like no, I left, and I was like, no,

964
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 4: wonder because he wasn't there.

965
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 5: So me and the cast we all met up at

966
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 5: at a rooftop bar after everyone's finished filming, like their

967
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 5: final exit interview.

968
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 4: And so it was like while the we're done, you know,

969
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 4: and then.

970
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 3: What was an exit interview about? Like what whatcha want

971
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 3: to know?

972
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: Girl?

973
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 4: My interview was everything that got me not saying earlier right.

974
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 5: Right, because I was like in some of the femos

975
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 5: that was Mag's interview, I'll speak of my mind then

976
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 5: because now now I'm single and I'm not protecting my partner, right,

977
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 5: so now I can speak a little differently. But no,

978
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 5: but after the show, Chris, because I was waiting because

979
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 5: I was like, oh, yeah, you're not gonna be the

980
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 5: one to text him or hit him up first. So

981
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 5: I waited and I think he hit me up around

982
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 5: a week and a half and then we had a

983
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 5: good conversation. We talked for about maybe a couple hours,

984
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 5: just about everything and how everything played out, how he felt,

985
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 5: how I felt, and I thought everything was good.

986
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 4: It was great.

987
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,919
Speaker 5: And then he had reached back out like and said

988
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 5: like hi, and I said Hi back and he didn't

989
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 5: get back to like a month a month later.

990
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 4: Then I was like, you know what, I'm done with

991
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 4: the bread. It was like a lot of bread crumbing.

992
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 5: I was like, so that I didn't talk to him

993
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 5: for a long time and then I told him like before,

994
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 5: So then the show was coming up, and I was like, well,

995
00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 5: we're gonna have to like either figure something out because

996
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 5: we're kind of like need to be like a team.

997
00:40:58,400 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

998
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 5: At one point, like we got to squash if there's

999
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:03,919
Speaker 5: b for animosity, We're gonna have to figure it out. Yeah,

1000
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 5: because what you guys don't see too is like me

1001
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 5: and Chris really really do have a cool vibe when

1002
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 5: we are good. You know what I'm saying, Like when

1003
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:12,399
Speaker 5: chill it, I'm chill, We're great.

1004
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I can tell if y'all both fall each other,

1005
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 3: y'all both repost each other, y'all hang out with each other.

1006
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh, so they in a good space.

1007
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 5: So yeah, but it took us don't here. It took

1008
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 5: that whole here because I was like, oh, I hate him,

1009
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 5: not hate him, but you know what I mean. I

1010
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 5: was like, Isaac, I just wish he would just be

1011
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 5: a man and just like I grow up, but just

1012
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 5: like own up to everything.

1013
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 4: And yeah, that's it, that's all I expect and so

1014
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 4: but yeah, so now we.

1015
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 5: Talked about a little probably about a maybe a month.

1016
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 5: We started talking again before the show and then I

1017
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 5: was like, all right, he's back to being like no

1018
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:42,399
Speaker 5: I call.

1019
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 4: It normal or himself.

1020
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:47,760
Speaker 5: And then when we met up wow, before the show aired,

1021
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 5: him and a couple other friends went out. We had

1022
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 5: a I was like, we're good, right, But I told him,

1023
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 5: I said, this is before the union too. I told him,

1024
00:41:57,960 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 5: I'm gonna I'm gonna have.

1025
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 4: To go hard at you, but you have Yeah.

1026
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 5: I was like, but you know what I don't want,

1027
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,839
Speaker 5: like now that we're here, like maybe preak, I made

1028
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 5: a peaky promise, don't hate me after it, but I'm.

1029
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 4: Gonna come for you.

1030
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. But it was respectful though, and it was well deserved.

1031
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 3: And also it showed that everybody else felt the same way,

1032
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 3: because everybody had something to.

1033
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 5: Say, and I felt so nice to have my friends

1034
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 5: all have way back, you know what I'm saying. And

1035
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 5: it's like and not in mean way, because I want

1036
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 5: to like, Chris is a very nice person, like I don't.

1037
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 4: It's not even that. It was just everything that would

1038
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 4: happen and how and how it happened.

1039
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was.

1040
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 4: It was not cool. It was unacceptable period, right, Yeah, no,

1041
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 4: it really was. Yeah. And so but we're we're good now.

1042
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 3: So not everything has air. What has this experience taught

1043
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 3: you about yourself? Because I know you're a love a

1044
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 3: girl and because I'm a love a girl. So when

1045
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 3: you when I was looking at you, I was like, damn,

1046
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 3: I really want my girl to get her a boom.

1047
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:51,399
Speaker 2: Man.

1048
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 5: If you know somebody, you know, we're gonna say one

1049
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,720
Speaker 5: in a second. We're like, oh lord, no, I definitely

1050
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 5: and I do. I believe in love and I believe

1051
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 5: the right person will find you.

1052
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:07,360
Speaker 4: That's what it's like for me.

1053
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 5: It's like I've never settled, like I'm not going to

1054
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 5: stay because I'm comfortable. That's something that's something I've never

1055
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 5: done and I never will do. Yeah, so that's why

1056
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 5: I people were like, welly are you look so young

1057
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,280
Speaker 5: because I'm happy. Yeah, I do what makes me happy

1058
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,600
Speaker 5: and like, so I'm looking for that person who can,

1059
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 5: you know, come in and just eat, don't stress me out. Yeah,

1060
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 5: you know, I just but ultimately I've learned I'm a

1061
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 5: very patient person and I'm a very confident and secure

1062
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 5: person and who I am and that's not going to change.

1063
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 3: And I'm happy that this experience did you.

1064
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 4: No, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So that's why I'm glad.

1065
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 5: I did it when I'm grown, you know I did,

1066
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 5: but the children are doing it and they started to

1067
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 5: get into this world. I'm like, I'm still gonna be

1068
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,759
Speaker 5: the same people, the same person that I that I

1069
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 5: met when I was with y'all in the in the struggles.

1070
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:59,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just yeah, what did this experience teach you

1071
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:01,800
Speaker 3: about what you want in a person or in your partner?

1072
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 4: I need them, Like, I know, how do you say this?

1073
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 3: I want someone I definitely somebody who knows how to

1074
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 3: communicate for sure.

1075
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1076
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 5: Absolutely, But that's like, well that's what I thought I had, right,

1077
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 5: So it's like, yeah, it's putting actions into words, putting

1078
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 5: their words into actions. So it's like people talk a lot,

1079
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:24,240
Speaker 5: but like, yes, I want emotion stable, financially stable, communicative, loyal, honest.

1080
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 5: But I feel like these are all basic characteristics that

1081
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 5: a person should have. So everyone's like, what are you

1082
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 5: looking for? Like a decent human being at this rate?

1083
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 5: And like it, you know, and it's like, why is

1084
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 5: it so hard?

1085
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 3: It's har That's what I'm saying.

1086
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,800
Speaker 4: It's like, I don't ask for a lot. Just be

1087
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 4: a good person and like look cute doing it or something,

1088
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 4: you know what.

1089
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 3: I'm just curious, And of all of the relationships from

1090
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 3: the show, is there a particular relationship that taught you anything?

1091
00:44:56,320 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 5: Ooh look, but that's a logan Okay, yeah, as many's

1092
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 5: ring as you need to get the right one.

1093
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,720
Speaker 3: Yes, girl, she's like got a new ring every decade.

1094
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 3: I said, I know, that's right, Vanessa.

1095
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 4: I was like, dang, I should I should have done that.

1096
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 4: I'd been like yeah, I was like that's amazing. I'm like, look,

1097
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 4: it's been very bare okay.

1098
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 3: M M, because listen, Vanessa ain't playing no games.

1099
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then two it's like, but they fight, like

1100
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:23,759
Speaker 5: how she says like they might fight, but they they fought.

1101
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 5: They fight for each other, you know, and like that's

1102
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:27,919
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Like even when they said they're fighting

1103
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 5: on the show, and I was like, but you hear

1104
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 5: the love and compassionate. It's not like anger like I

1105
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 5: hate you. No, it's like they are working it out

1106
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 5: and I just think it's amazing.

1107
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 4: And I'm like, I was like, I better be like.

1108
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 3: In the wedding, Yeah, is there a relationship that you're

1109
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 3: not surprised by it didn't work out?

1110
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 5: Not surprised, well, I first timeson I thought Derek and

1111
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 5: five were really cute.

1112
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 4: I thought they would have lasted longer.

1113
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 3: No, I didn't do that was gonna work.

1114
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:57,919
Speaker 4: But then I wasn't.

1115
00:45:57,920 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 5: I didn't know the struggle she was having moving away

1116
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 5: from the fan, you know what I'm saying. But like

1117
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 5: in person, I watched them or around because we i'mas

1118
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 5: in my balcony because I didn't leave the apartment.

1119
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,240
Speaker 4: Basically, yeah, which was crazy. Look at all the couples

1120
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 4: and I would watch them and they're like, yeah, we

1121
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:14,240
Speaker 4: just went to dinner.

1122
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 5: I was like, that's so cute. But like the way

1123
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 5: he looked at her, and it was just really cute.

1124
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 5: So I was hoping they lasted a little longer.

1125
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely feel like Derek. I mean, I believe

1126
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 3: a man should, like slash love you more than you

1127
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 3: like them. But I also feel like I feel like

1128
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 3: she respected him, and I think she did like him,

1129
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 3: but I don't think she was she was that much

1130
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 3: into him, like the way he went into her and.

1131
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, and like that once again she was not his

1132
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 5: Perston and vice versa. Yeah, so yeah, her age definitely

1133
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:41,839
Speaker 5: is a big role.

1134
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 4: I think.

1135
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, would you do another dating reality show find

1136
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 3: in Love?

1137
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 4: Like I want to be the main character?

1138
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 3: Okay, that's right, I don't.

1139
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 4: I don't know unless it's like I.

1140
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 5: Was something less controlled, Yeah, because it would be amazing

1141
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 5: if we were all like all twenty woe twenty men,

1142
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 5: if each time we got to be and just like

1143
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,439
Speaker 5: in a big room film all of us or whatever.

1144
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,919
Speaker 5: But like this was very controlled environments where it's like, Okay,

1145
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 5: you're gonna go here with these two, You're gonna do this.

1146
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 5: Like I want to be like in a free for

1147
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 5: all where it's like he's cute. I'm going over there,

1148
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, not like getting permission or

1149
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 5: I don't know, so, but yeah, I want to.

1150
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 4: Be making like the Bachelorette.

1151
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 3: You know, I hear there's an opening, Yeah, listen, might

1152
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 3: as well if his grit's going on perfect matchat I'm like,

1153
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,879
Speaker 3: he's just trying to be famous baby looking for love.

1154
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, but also like competition shows, i'd be down.

1155
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 3: Yeah I could see sure, Yeah, but you were.

1156
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,839
Speaker 4: Talking about like traders. I was like, okay, mm hmm.

1157
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 4: I was like, I can. I don't want to be

1158
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 4: a villain though.

1159
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 3: No, I don't see you. You know what, you might

1160
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 3: be a good villain though, Like what.

1161
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 5: Was that right?

1162
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 4: Because all my faces are facing anyways? Right regardless, I'll be.

1163
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:51,720
Speaker 3: Like, right, would you do this whole experience all over again?

1164
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 4: Depends I'm gonna have to have her.

1165
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 5: I'm gonna I'll be making my own rules because now

1166
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 5: that I know we can do what you go to do,

1167
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 5: you could do anything now right how to move and shape.

1168
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 4: But I also I don't want to be hated by

1169
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 4: all the production either.

1170
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 5: So yeah, you know, but I'm like yeah, So I

1171
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 5: was like, I'm like, yes, y'l sure, whatever, But now

1172
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 5: I'm like, well, right, I don't like I might I have? No,

1173
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:23,439
Speaker 5: I had. It was fun, you know what I'm saying.

1174
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,959
Speaker 5: And like the production team, the cast, they were really cruise,

1175
00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 5: the crews were great. We got treated amazing. Yeah, I

1176
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 5: can't even knock it. And even like my talent coordinator,

1177
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 5: Clive Dight, they're amazing. You know.

1178
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 4: Yeah I would, I would just now I know how

1179
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 4: to move them.

1180
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:41,959
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1181
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're almost finished by one more question I thought

1182
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,840
Speaker 3: about was what made you say? What made you change

1183
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 3: your answer? Yeah, because at first you said you was

1184
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 3: going to say no, but then you changed it, so yes,

1185
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 3: So what what made you change? Like did something like

1186
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 3: were you thinking about something or like because I felt

1187
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:01,800
Speaker 3: you also said you kind of knew that he was

1188
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 3: going to say no too, so like.

1189
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 4: So after dinner, after the dinner, it was I think

1190
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 4: we had. Yeah, after the dinner, me and Chris.

1191
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 5: Had a very very really good real talk in regards

1192
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 5: to like everything's from like race, just how I was

1193
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:22,959
Speaker 5: feeling about everything about us, and he finally was like, Leah,

1194
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 5: I get what you've been wanting me to see, Like

1195
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 5: this entire this entire week We're kind of in Vancouver

1196
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,400
Speaker 5: for about a week, and I was like, thank you,

1197
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 5: because all I just wanted to see, like just understand

1198
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 5: a little bit of me as a person and like

1199
00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 5: what I've ever been through, what I've gone through, because

1200
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 5: I went through I had a whole final fusion and

1201
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 5: stuff like this. So I and then with how I

1202
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 5: felt like I was being treated at the dinner by

1203
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,840
Speaker 5: everything going on, and then him, because I don't know,

1204
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 5: if you know, I called him out, so he had

1205
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 5: he actually apologized to Teresa for yeah, oh girl, oh yeah.

1206
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 4: So after we had this whole did I know you

1207
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 4: didn't see that?

1208
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 5: So so basically I'm at the dinner like what you

1209
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 5: guys don't see is we actually talked about our ages

1210
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,319
Speaker 5: at the dinner, right, and we all went through all

1211
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 5: our couples, through our friends and family, we all went

1212
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 5: through everybody. Then we get to Teresa and then she

1213
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 5: tells she proceeds to tell her one that they don't

1214
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 5: she doesn't tell the kids the thing. And so for me,

1215
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 5: I asked, because I didn't weren't allowed to talk to

1216
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 5: each other. So I asked, hey, like how old are

1217
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 5: your children? And she said twenty nine. I was like, oh,

1218
00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 5: I can make sense now, it makes sense, so that

1219
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 5: they don't show.

1220
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 4: That like to me getting there.

1221
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 5: The only reason why I ended up seeing what I

1222
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 5: had a cent he is because she did some more

1223
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 5: extra weird stuff and I was like, well, now it's

1224
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 5: about the happen because now now you disrespected me. Right,

1225
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 5: So after this, I go to the bathroom eventually, and

1226
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,919
Speaker 5: then I come back. I hear Vanessa's like, hey, Leah,

1227
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,200
Speaker 5: just aheads up. Chris is apologizing for you. And I said,

1228
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 5: what do you mean, Vanessa, Yes, I'm saying I tell

1229
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,439
Speaker 5: you yeah. I was like, because she's sitting on my side.

1230
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 5: And when I crossly all said wait and I said,

1231
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 5: I was like, what's going on here? I was like, Chris,

1232
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 5: you don't need to apologize for me.

1233
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 4: I did. I've done nothing wrong.

1234
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 5: I can definitely apologize of how she might have taken

1235
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 5: it absolutely, And I was like, I can do that,

1236
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 5: but never apologize for me.

1237
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 4: I'm a grown woman at this right. And then I

1238
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 4: looked and then I looked across the trees.

1239
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 5: I said, hey, like just and IVERY think I was

1240
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 5: about to say, like kay, Teresa, It's like I don't

1241
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 5: want to hear it. I said, Okay, cool, I said,

1242
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 5: and that's now we're done. You see that we're done.

1243
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 5: I took Chris because I was like, and so then

1244
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 5: and I'll tell you I can actually tell you how

1245
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 5: later on. But and so then after after the dinner,

1246
00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 5: me and Chris had this one on one that of

1247
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,439
Speaker 5: course you guys don't see because we talked. We talked

1248
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 5: about a lot of things. But then like the next

1249
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 5: day when we when he hugs me goodbye or whatever,

1250
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 5: I was like, oh no, he can't waits get it

1251
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:45,360
Speaker 5: out of here. Remember he's been waiting to like sleep

1252
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 5: because we have a bunch of wires going through our windows,

1253
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 5: so he can, right, so he is, I know, he

1254
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 5: was ready for some sleep, so and light and like

1255
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 5: because yeah, So basically I was like, oh yeah, that's

1256
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 5: why I joke.

1257
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 4: I was like, you're gonna miss wing. No, he's not

1258
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 4: gonna bess way clearly, guys, it's a joke, you know,

1259
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 4: like like it's a job. But like you know, I'm

1260
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 4: very sarcastic. I'm very funny to myself. I think my

1261
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:08,399
Speaker 4: friends laugh.

1262
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 5: I don't know, but so for me, like and then

1263
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 5: I was like all right, and so like production comes

1264
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:14,879
Speaker 5: the night, Like that night, They're like, okay, like, well,

1265
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 5: what are you thinking? And I was like, well, you know,

1266
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 5: I had so many thoughts and they're all like no, no, no,

1267
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 5: no right then and then then I say with it

1268
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 5: for a little I was like, what if I did

1269
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 5: say yes, you know, because I wanted My whole thing

1270
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 5: was I wanted him.

1271
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 4: To prove me wrong.

1272
00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 5: I want him to prove that he wasn't here for

1273
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 5: TV because we just had this one on one our

1274
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 5: family visits were great, so I was like, okay, like

1275
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 5: what do I have to lose, Like at the end

1276
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 5: of the day, Yes, you could say I'm a hope

1277
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 5: it's romantic, right, but I don't want people to think

1278
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 5: I'm jaded because of the like the the because member

1279
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:54,919
Speaker 5: was again, like what he was presented to me face

1280
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 5: to face was different than what it was off.

1281
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 3: Camera, right, and then we don't see those moments when

1282
00:52:59,320 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 3: it was face to.

1283
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's where we like thrive the best. That's

1284
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 4: why I was like that. I was like, oh wow.

1285
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,320
Speaker 5: And that's why anytime, that's why we always into it

1286
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 5: back because after every even after all of our little

1287
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 5: arguments or disputes, we you can see a little banter

1288
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 5: after you know what, I'm like, we were cool now,

1289
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 5: like you know what I mean. And so we come

1290
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 5: back a little bit more and a bit better. And

1291
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 5: so for me, I was like, I have nothing to

1292
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 5: lose by saying I can commit to you. It's it's

1293
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 5: it's okay, Like it's fine, like and one thing like

1294
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 5: I've been heartbroken, I say heartbroken. We do this heartbroken,

1295
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 5: heartbroken before, right, But at the end of the day,

1296
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 5: it's it's all a game, like your heart. You know

1297
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 5: it sucks, but in the day, you're gonna win, yourn,

1298
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 5: you're gonna lose some. Yeah, And it doesn't hurt me

1299
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 5: by saying I like you, it's not it's fine.

1300
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 3: In the day, we're gonna keep it moving.

1301
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 4: Trust me, absolutely, That's what I'm saying.

1302
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:54,800
Speaker 5: Like I'll never hold on like at least I express

1303
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 5: myself and I said my piece versus holding it in

1304
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 5: and like right and not giving something chance because once again,

1305
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 5: you just never know.

1306
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:02,479
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1307
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 3: And even with the Edits at the dinner when they

1308
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 3: showed the clip when she was like and I think

1309
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 3: she did, and I'm like.

1310
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 5: Thought yes, and I was like, yo, I was like

1311
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 5: this one at the table but this thing was off

1312
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 5: on like a one on one.

1313
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 4: So that was I saw. I was like, you know

1314
00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 4: for a fact, that's it flipped over the table.

1315
00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 3: And that's why I foxed with John because I even

1316
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 3: in that moment, I felt like John was like, girl,

1317
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 3: you need to calm right.

1318
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying, like the whole thing, even the reunion,

1319
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 5: Like that's why I wanted him to bring up those receipts.

1320
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

1321
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,920
Speaker 3: He was holding back. I wish he would just like.

1322
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 4: Oh, I know, saying me too. Even Harry was like, dude,

1323
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 4: just do it.

1324
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was like to do it because I don't, like,

1325
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 3: you know, red it was building up. I'm like, come on, John,

1326
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 3: because I know it was.

1327
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 4: It was shape, the chair was shaken. I was like, yeah,

1328
00:54:54,480 --> 00:55:00,919
Speaker 4: that's where like, yeah, I was. It was. I wish

1329
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 4: because I just, yeah, that's cheesy.

1330
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 5: But everyone's again everyone seeing I guess like her true

1331
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:10,359
Speaker 5: colors now you know what I'm saying. So and now

1332
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 5: once again and I'm just sitting back just being me.

1333
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:19,160
Speaker 3: Yeah until come in. But anyway, let's do some rapid

1334
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 3: fire questions to wrap everything up. So name the first

1335
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 3: person that comes to mind from your cast Okay, okay,

1336
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 3: you ready?

1337
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 5: Okay, so we're doing Vancouver couples then yeah, Vancouver okay,

1338
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 5: because I was like, okay, guy, because we had a

1339
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 5: lot of casts.

1340
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, you ready. One cast member you're going vacation with.

1341
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:37,760
Speaker 4: Vanessa.

1342
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 3: One cast member you'll never date.

1343
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:47,919
Speaker 4: Date? Who's or I just say John?

1344
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 3: But right way? Who was the most genuine?

1345
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 4: Oh can I say me?

1346
00:55:58,440 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 3: Because I you.

1347
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 4: Then I'm gonna go with Vanessa?

1348
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 3: Okay, I would say Libby.

1349
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, let me see. I know she's so young though,

1350
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 4: so I'm like, you know.

1351
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 3: But I love how she cares, how she handled her

1352
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 3: stuff at.

1353
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 4: The girl she Yeah, it's amazing, facts like she's amazing. Sorry.

1354
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 3: Who was the most misunderstood seeing I.

1355
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:28,240
Speaker 4: Would say Libby? See I would say, yeah, well because

1356
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 4: he has like a c soft spot, but then he

1357
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:33,520
Speaker 4: could be hard. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, yeah,

1358
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 4: dang you okay see.

1359
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 5: And then because Libby is like so like bubbly and

1360
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 5: like people think she's like people trying to say she's

1361
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 5: a goodsie, She's absolutely not.

1362
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 4: No.

1363
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I really yeah, I really do her party Andrew,

1364
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 3: they all they.

1365
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 4: Last me too, they're amazing. Andrew's my boy. I love him.

1366
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like you gotta love reservations, I know.

1367
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 4: I mean he has two children and he has to Yeah.

1368
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 3: Who was there for the wrong reasons? Right right? Who

1369
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:05,240
Speaker 3: was the biggest s blirt.

1370
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:07,840
Speaker 4: Slurred mm hmm.

1371
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 5: Okay, well wow, that would I would say Andrew or

1372
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 5: here Andrew.

1373
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 3: I could see the accident with Drew Yeah.

1374
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I mean they both they was both pulling

1375
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 4: in the mixes?

1376
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1377
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 4: Or was it a triangle too? Don't let him for

1378
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 4: you know?

1379
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 3: You know what's so funny little inside joke with me

1380
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 3: and my friends, We was like I knew Jorge was

1381
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 3: an older man because when him and and now was

1382
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 3: sitting down and the way he got up, did you

1383
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 3: cash that?

1384
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 4: No? I didn't pay Wait wait I didn't. I didn't

1385
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 4: pay chet him. What what you do?

1386
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 3: And what he got?

1387
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 5: It was like, oh, like.

1388
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 4: Like just crooking.

1389
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, I mean, Jorge looks amazing for his age,

1390
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 3: but I'm like, yeah, Ra is definitely an older man.

1391
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 4: And we got him. We got him to ride for

1392
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 4: the TMC tour. We got to ride the ball.

1393
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 3: Oh my god, how was it was amazing?

1394
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 4: Because I didn't think he would.

1395
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was great, but he though he is.

1396
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 5: And it's like, because we didn't get to really hang

1397
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 5: out with everybody in my career, so now it's nice

1398
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 5: to see people like just Chill and just k.

1399
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 4: Key, So like, yeah, is my dude Now I'm like,

1400
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 4: I'm excited.

1401
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, who's.

1402
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:27,520
Speaker 5: Probably like Derek probably for me, just because like he

1403
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 5: has this really calm presence, but he's and I knew

1404
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 5: he was really nice, but he's a really cool person.

1405
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you know, and like I just didn't know.

1406
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 4: I just thought he's more than just pretty face guys.

1407
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 3: I know that's gonna care is impeccable?

1408
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 4: Girl? I know? Yes?

1409
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 3: Who do you feel who do you think got the

1410
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:49,440
Speaker 3: best edit?

1411
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 4: The best edit?

1412
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 5: I feel like either Fifer Fifer came out like like

1413
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 5: on top if I've heard Derek yeah, look yeah yeah,

1414
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 5: because you know, Teresa cries.

1415
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 4: Every day, so girl. And then I'm like, and we

1416
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,479
Speaker 4: also John John got a really good one too.

1417
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 3: John, Yes, but I also like Teresa, what's the whole

1418
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 3: point bringing up this pack?

1419
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 4: Well?

1420
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 5: I kind of liked it because it does play a

1421
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 5: role into why you know it did? It helped me

1422
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 5: out too? Because we all heard I heard it too,

1423
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 5: because the pact was the fact that he still wasn't

1424
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 5: there for the right reasons.

1425
00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 4: I know.

1426
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 3: I feel like the way she did it, like I

1427
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 3: don't know, but it helped me emerge.

1428
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:37,280
Speaker 4: I mean, she had my back for once.

1429
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 5: I was like, so, I was like, true, true, I

1430
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 5: took any little any any little bit I can get.

1431
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, true, true, Okay, I'm only only be.

1432
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 5: Two because we like, they didn't really give us a

1433
00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 5: lot of time to be like anything else you might

1434
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 5: want to add, you know what I mean, like yeah,

1435
00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 5: or because yeah.

1436
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 4: Because I had a couple more things I could have said.

1437
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1438
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 4: No.

1439
00:59:58,080 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 3: I feel like some of y'all will hold him back

1440
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 3: back y'all y'all cool now, So everybody trying to be respectful.

1441
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 3: But I was John, will let go that clip man.

1442
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 5: But if the reunion, because we had like kind of

1443
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 5: hung out a little before we but if the reunion aired.

1444
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 4: Like day one of us all arriving, oh please, it

1445
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 4: would because because I had me.

1446
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 5: And Teresa had actually met earlier that week and she

1447
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 5: had asked me what the disconnect was because I hadn't

1448
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 5: talked to her for a year pretty much, and she

1449
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:26,720
Speaker 5: asked me what the disconnect was because one of her

1450
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 5: best friends from the show is one of my good

1451
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 5: friends as well, and she tried, like, why does.

1452
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 4: She like Leah And I was like, that's I'm amazing.

1453
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, and so we had actually talked about like what happened,

1454
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 5: and I was like, well, this is why she's like,

1455
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 5: oh my god, I'm so sorry.

1456
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, I'm just letting you know, like, if.

1457
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 5: You keep doing some more things, I can't keep being

1458
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 5: all cute and nuice anymore.

1459
01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 4: Because yeah, well you go that.

1460
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 3: Y'all had a conversation because I actually liked Theresa and John.

1461
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 3: I didn't like some of the things, but I think

1462
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 3: that when she did that comment at the dinner table,

1463
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 3: I was like, oh no, we're not doing.

1464
01:00:56,080 --> 01:01:00,080
Speaker 4: That, baby, it's very disrespectful. Yeah, she didn't apologize to

1465
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 4: that even.

1466
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 3: So, Yeah, who's the same on and off camera? Definitely

1467
01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 3: you for me.

1468
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I feel like Andrew Man, everyone talks

1469
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 4: about his voice.

1470
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 5: He is this that's his voice, dude. He is the

1471
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 5: same person, and he is a genuine nice person. Yeah,

1472
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 5: like he is chilling, he will like he's had my

1473
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:21,959
Speaker 5: back as well throughout the journey, you know what I'm saying,

1474
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:24,280
Speaker 5: and so, but he is an honestly good person.

1475
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 4: Like the voice is the same, y'all. Like I don't

1476
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 4: understand the.

1477
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 5: Vocal whatever y'all talk about vocal core. People are talking

1478
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 5: about vocal something.

1479
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't know because I google what. I

1480
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 4: like his voice. It sounds great, but that's his voice.

1481
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 4: I have no idea. I don't google it. I have

1482
01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 4: no idea. I forgot what they call it, vocal something.

1483
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 3: I'm looking up. Yeah, who do you think is still

1484
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 3: got a chance to rekindle.

1485
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 4: To rekindle? Oh no, you know what, And well, I

1486
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:00,520
Speaker 4: tell you in Chris is thirty five. I don't know

1487
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 4: how it'll be, but he can circle that back.

1488
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 5: Oh he can come back for you when he's when

1489
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 5: he's thirty five and forty. He really it's an amazing man,

1490
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 5: and they'll be extra loaded.

1491
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know that's right. Girl about these coins,

1492
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 3: And I.

1493
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 4: Said, thirty five forty, so that's like, you know that's

1494
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 4: a long.

1495
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:20,760
Speaker 3: Time, right, No, man, though by then I don't But yeah,

1496
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 3: absolutely right, I know.

1497
01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 4: I saw I used to laugh. But no, definitely not

1498
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 4: Jean Dresa for sure.

1499
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 5: Not No, No, no, no, and then definitely not gerified

1500
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 5: for she's no, and then that's oh oh Initially I

1501
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 5: would have said yes, but then I feel like some

1502
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 5: stuff happened when everyone was out here that I don't

1503
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 5: think is gonna because I initially I was like, oh yeah,

1504
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 5: because she still has a lot of love for him.

1505
01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 4: I was like, and then the more stuff happened, so

1506
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 4: I doubt it now.

1507
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 3: Dade, what did Warre hate do he was backing somebody else?

1508
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:54,600
Speaker 4: What? No? No, I know, yeah, I just know.

1509
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think as yeah, and I don't think it

1510
01:02:57,520 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 5: had to even do with them, but it's situations.

1511
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 4: It's so yeah. And then is that it? Oh yeah?

1512
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:05,600
Speaker 4: And then the two are together so perfect.

1513
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's when I least, who do you think

1514
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 3: watched the show back and was shocked at themselves?

1515
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 4: Was shocked?

1516
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, Oh I think the logan you think, yeah, yeah,

1517
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 5: I can see that. He's like, these were more like

1518
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 5: that hit they caught that moment they did. That's where

1519
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 5: he was like, I can't believe it.

1520
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:28,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I see that.

1521
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 5: But then two and then Libya and or Libby said

1522
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 5: she's like, oh my god, She's like, it doesn't make

1523
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 5: me even look serious, like and Derek too. He's like,

1524
01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 5: I We've had so many serious stories with him.

1525
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 4: A fighter. He's like, they got nothing.

1526
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:42,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I knew him and fight for what was

1527
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 3: going to like Derek gott to be with somebody's a

1528
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 3: little bit more older.

1529
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he has grown man vibes period, and he

1530
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 5: has a fifteen year old son and a five year

1531
01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 5: old so and then.

1532
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 3: My girl still live in the story's house, Like, yeah,

1533
01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 3: she's not trying to.

1534
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,800
Speaker 4: Be worth it. I didn't even know. I was like, oh,

1535
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 4: I said, that can't be a shame. I know, he said.

1536
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 4: I zoomed in.

1537
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,920
Speaker 5: I was like, now you're doing Google Google search math.

1538
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:09,320
Speaker 5: But I was like, my story, how I love How lived?

1539
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 5: Was like, well, technically you can't be in the house

1540
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:16,440
Speaker 5: without being a student. And I was like, and then

1541
01:04:16,480 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 5: I thought, then I think I found out. We found

1542
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 5: out that I think she's on a break. She was

1543
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 5: on a break from school to do the show or something.

1544
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 3: I was like, no, we're not doing that, not for Derek.

1545
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know. I was like, go out to school

1546
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:28,480
Speaker 4: and get your education.

1547
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Derek, I mean, he's cute, so he'll find somebody girl.

1548
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 5: His DMS are popping apparently, Oh yeah, because he look

1549
01:04:38,080 --> 01:04:41,479
Speaker 5: and he's good looking, and he's nice and he makes money,

1550
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 5: so what else?

1551
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 4: What more you need? Right? But is there the perfect

1552
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 4: page package? Or are we just talking about this right?

1553
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:48,480
Speaker 5: Right?

1554
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 1: Right?

1555
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 3: And he patient because it was some scenes, I'm like,

1556
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 3: girl shressing me out?

1557
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 4: I know, I was like, but now I'm like, now

1558
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 4: I'm curious. I'm like, well, what about these editings?

1559
01:04:58,840 --> 01:04:58,960
Speaker 5: You know?

1560
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:00,439
Speaker 4: Now I'm like, I don't know any I can't.

1561
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's true. You can't stress what you see these days.

1562
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:04,480
Speaker 4: Everythings like a grain of salt. That's why I like

1563
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 4: looked at it. I was like, I was like, what

1564
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:07,000
Speaker 4: really happened?

1565
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 5: Right right?

1566
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 2: Right?

1567
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 3: Well, Leah, I'm so happy that we were able to

1568
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:12,320
Speaker 3: do this. You have been just a breath of fresh air.

1569
01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 3: So tell us where do you have next? Where's the

1570
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 3: next vacation that we know you outside traveling? Well, how

1571
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 3: can we support you and give us your socials and everything?

1572
01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 4: Okay?

1573
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:23,440
Speaker 5: So at slightly, Nicole, it's my social because I'm still

1574
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:25,959
Speaker 5: apply to and I'm still working and paying these bills

1575
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 5: with me right, Honestly, I literally text my mom.

1576
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 4: Last night and see if she wants to go to Korea.

1577
01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I get a few days because I

1578
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 4: love Yeah, so I like go and get some stuff done.

1579
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 4: But I was like, mom, what you got?

1580
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 5: Because she's retired, I was like, what what you got?

1581
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 5: She's like, well, I'm only I plans on Tuesday Wednesdays. Like, well,

1582
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 5: maybe we can work somewhere around then.

1583
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, but are you telling people Aline you you work

1584
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 3: well or no?

1585
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 5: It's it's it's literally on my socials too, it's a

1586
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 5: it's a Laska now. I was virtually and then alask

1587
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 5: about my company.

1588
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 3: Damn, I thought you was like Delta.

1589
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 4: That's like they're a good company though, but I need

1590
01:05:59,560 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 4: a contry.

1591
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 3: Yeah that's so cool.

1592
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 5: But yeah, so I honestly, what's next? I if I

1593
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 5: can do another reality show with this threat, might as well,

1594
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 5: but I need to pay one.

1595
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, even Chriss like you know what? Whoever the

1596
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:15,760
Speaker 3: cost was? Everyone's like, ain't nobody getting paid?

1597
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 4: Like I was like, I had to take off from work. Okay,

1598
01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:20,480
Speaker 4: what money are we making? Right?

1599
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 3: I'm like what is he talking about?

1600
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 4: Yeah? But like no, like I love this.

1601
01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 5: I love how You's like, thank you for having me.

1602
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 5: This whole podcasting is fun yes girl.

1603
01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 3: Where you looking by the way, Well, I'm in New York.

1604
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:34,720
Speaker 4: Oh everyone's out there. Yeah.

1605
01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 3: So when you come out, we gonna go out for

1606
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:37,360
Speaker 3: drinks and go find on some ends.

1607
01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 4: Girl please, and just time went to wear because you

1608
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 4: know I could pack. I could pack, yes, yes, yeah.

1609
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 3: And then you are in La, right yeah La. So

1610
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:46,720
Speaker 3: when I come to La, I'm gonna hit you up

1611
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 3: for sure?

1612
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:49,640
Speaker 4: Please, no, for sure, absolutely, because we'll be out.

1613
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:54,080
Speaker 3: Yes girl, yes, and make sure y'all support Leah. It

1614
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 3: has been such a treat to have her on the show.

1615
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 3: We are going to support you and hopefully you get

1616
01:06:57,800 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 3: on another reality show. Just get on and get on

1617
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 3: TV because I feel like you are made for TV.

1618
01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1619
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 5: I appreciate what you're saying. And I was like, okay,

1620
01:07:04,960 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 5: I like, I just want to get out to try

1621
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 5: to myself, yes.

1622
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 3: And to listeners. If you have any questions coming with

1623
01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:11,400
Speaker 3: concerns or you want to say hey, gir hey, please

1624
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 3: make sure to email me a hello at the phgepodcast

1625
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 3: dot com. And until next time, everyone, Leah nacos. Later

1626
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 3: you're gonna say bye bye, guys. Pretty Private is a

1627
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 3: production of the Black Effect podcast Network. For more podcasts

1628
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 3: from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast, or wherever

1629
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 3: you listen to your favorite shows. Don't forget to subscribe

1630
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 3: and rate the show, and you can connect with me

1631
01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 3: on social media at pretty private podcasts