Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode of No
Speaker 1: Sealer's podcast with your hosts now fuck that with your
Speaker 1: loap glasses Malone, I.
Speaker 2: Was like, what the fuck is going on?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Say that again?
Speaker 2: What do you mean? Say what again? What I just
Speaker 2: talk about?
Speaker 3: Yes, I was talking about plug talk, like with Adam
Speaker 3: and his wife leaning the plug. So you know, I
Speaker 3: got interested after, you know, the whole thing with her
Speaker 3: having sex with the other guy Jason what was his name,
Speaker 3: love or what I don't remember his saying, but having
Speaker 3: sex with the other guy. So I started like really
Speaker 3: looking into everything, and I noticed they had that show
Speaker 3: it's called plug Talk. It's on only fans, and they
Speaker 3: really be fucking on there. They like have a conversation
Speaker 3: and then they just go into like fucking like I
Speaker 3: watched like him fucking his wife.
Speaker 2: And the other co hosts.
Speaker 3: I'm not, but I guess their guests. Yes, she was,
Speaker 3: he was.
Speaker 2: They were all three.
Speaker 3: She was a situation where Lena was fucking on the
Speaker 3: guys a girl and then Adam and then there was
Speaker 3: another girl too, so they was doing like three ship.
Speaker 3: I said, what the hell is this because the first
Speaker 3: you see them talking plug talk, plug talk.
Speaker 1: So how are they doing.
Speaker 3: The podcast in between fucking I guess they talk first
Speaker 3: and then they go into the fucking.
Speaker 4: So is the mic?
Speaker 5: So the mics is on so you can hear all
Speaker 5: the I did I think at the table.
Speaker 2: No, they was on the couch. They was on.
Speaker 5: I mean they started and they just started on their
Speaker 5: couch and cameras rolling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, dick and see all that went down?
Speaker 1: And how did you accidentally stumble?
Speaker 2: I like shit like that. I was like, whoa, this
Speaker 2: is crazy.
Speaker 4: But they have been like they have been them.
Speaker 1: I do not know about you, between you going to this,
Speaker 1: between you going to this swinger party and this shit,
Speaker 1: I think there's a side of you that I don't know.
Speaker 3: Listen, let me tell you. Well, honestly, the swinger party
Speaker 3: was by default you just happened to be.
Speaker 1: But I'm starting to think you just you liked accidentally
Speaker 1: showing up there.
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 4: It was very.
Speaker 1: Interesting educational, to say the least.
Speaker 2: It was very educational. I've never seen anything like that.
Speaker 3: I was like, wow, like it was a whole other
Speaker 3: world like that I had never seen before.
Speaker 2: So me, you know, some people like stuff like that.
Speaker 1: You're one of those some people I'm a watcher.
Speaker 3: I've always said that I like to watch, Like I
Speaker 3: am a watcher, I'm a people I like to just
Speaker 3: look at people like I don't know, just just.
Speaker 1: Would you be okay, like, so, would you get your
Speaker 1: dude the girl and like watch him?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, mmm? Can you go get him a girl
Speaker 4: and you watch him? Really?
Speaker 1: Mhm, nigga, you were sick. I didn't know that.
Speaker 2: I got a pick her though, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, you pick her? What would you look for? And
Speaker 1: something like that?
Speaker 4: I don't know, big booty, Like.
Speaker 1: What do you so if you're looking at porn, bro,
Speaker 1: what are you looking at? Like? What is your type
Speaker 1: of Like who is your favorite porn start?
Speaker 2: I don't have a favorite porn start.
Speaker 1: Okay, so it ain't that far Okay, cool, Okay, So
Speaker 1: but if so you have to pick a girl, like
Speaker 1: what what would be the choice of picking? Like what
Speaker 1: would you pick? Would you pick somebody that doesn't look
Speaker 1: as good as you so you'd be like, Okay, I
Speaker 1: ain't worried about them.
Speaker 3: You gotta look like I gotta be. I have to
Speaker 3: be turned on too, Like I gotta want to see
Speaker 3: this happening.
Speaker 1: Even though you don't want to participate.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would want to watch. I don't want to
Speaker 3: see him fucking no ugly girl.
Speaker 2: The fuck? What are you doing? Why are you fucking her?
Speaker 1: So? What if like huh, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I never I don't like look for I wouldn't look
Speaker 3: for like a type. I would just say like she
Speaker 3: would have to. She would have to look good to me.
Speaker 4: Would you have to vibe with her?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 4: No, So you don't have to talk to her at all,
Speaker 4: just they have to.
Speaker 1: You just have to prove of how.
Speaker 3: She looked, because it's still about me. It's about him too,
Speaker 3: but it's still about me because I'm watching this. So
Speaker 3: I want to be turned.
Speaker 1: On by Like, your cousin is a freak. I did
Speaker 1: not know that, Nigga.
Speaker 2: I would I don't think, I mean should.
Speaker 3: I think it's okay if you and your dude is
Speaker 3: with it, y'all with it what it should.
Speaker 1: Be ship your cousin's a freak, man? Yeah?
Speaker 4: No, so are you you know?
Speaker 5: If no, you didn't even let her get it out.
Speaker 1: You don't know. Listen, I turned down threesomes, I've turned
Speaker 1: on Seventh Street. I turned down threesome, foursome and fossoms.
Speaker 1: My homegirl was gone knock me down, like with four
Speaker 1: or five her homegirls. I was like, no, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not fucking around. Just certain doors in his life
Speaker 1: I don't want to walk through. I don't want to
Speaker 1: see who I am on the other side, I'm not
Speaker 1: that desperate to find out.
Speaker 2: It's just not you know, you know you don't want
Speaker 2: to like it.
Speaker 1: Well, I just don't. I'm sure cocaine gotta be good.
Speaker 1: People do cocaine like cocaine gotta be fire. Niggas just
Speaker 1: keep doing it, so I'll just miss out. Hennessy gotta
Speaker 1: make you feel good the way niggas keep drinking. So
Speaker 1: I'm sure crack is the shit because people change their
Speaker 1: whole life to pursue it. So I'm just not fucking
Speaker 1: with nothing that that can possibly control me. And that
Speaker 1: type of power of multiple women at one time, I
Speaker 1: don't need that. I'm already a powerful person that.
Speaker 4: So so threesomers out.
Speaker 5: So your lady brought home up a woman, and she
Speaker 5: said that she wanted to watch so she.
Speaker 4: Could be turned on.
Speaker 1: You get this bitch about here. Hell's wrong with you
Speaker 1: and it's bitch around here. I'm not with that.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't surprise him though I would ask him.
Speaker 1: I don't don't even ask. Men be looking at you
Speaker 1: like what, No, I might like humor myself like, oh
Speaker 1: what she looked like? It was? It was, It was
Speaker 1: a long time. It was a DOMINATX girl that wanted
Speaker 1: to use me for content when content first started, and
Speaker 1: she was like, yeah, you know, you just fucked me
Speaker 1: to ask and blah blah blah, and I knew the
Speaker 1: reality it was no chance I would be making no
Speaker 1: motherfucking content. She's like, yeah, we can cover your face.
Speaker 1: I'm like, in my mind, I'm like there's no chance.
Speaker 1: But I let her humor me with the thought like
Speaker 1: I was flattered, like, oh, you just want my dick
Speaker 1: to be in your mouth? That's crazy. Tell me about it.
Speaker 1: I would have got no better. Talk to me about
Speaker 1: it for like a week. It's pretty interesting. I felt special.
Speaker 1: She can't nobody'll know what she would just you know,
Speaker 1: I'll just be sucking your dick all the time. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, just head on command. It's pretty fucking awesome.
Speaker 1: But now I can't do that. But no Sillings gl
Speaker 1: in the house Red read what's the deal? So I
Speaker 1: saw this post on Facebook, and he said, having a
Speaker 1: baby by a nigga who tell you to abort it
Speaker 1: is weird. If it's not a mutual agreement, it's weird.
Speaker 1: I don't care fight me. And somebody responded back and said,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it's weird, but what I don't want
Speaker 1: to hear is you bitching about him not helping when
Speaker 1: it's here. And then somebody says, hear you weird bitches
Speaker 1: go never holding the man accountable for abandoning his child.
Speaker 1: And then the initial lady responds and here you dumb
Speaker 1: bitches go having it with the nigga that told you
Speaker 1: he wasn't going to be around for it, and acting
Speaker 1: shocked the nigga not around, bitch, you knew what your
Speaker 1: life would be when you had the fucking baby. What
Speaker 1: the fuck? I don't want to hear this. I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear this shit. After holding him accountable or not,
Speaker 1: you still a single mom, bitch, so deal with it.
Speaker 2: Why was they so mad?
Speaker 1: That's always been a deep conversation, right, because it's like,
Speaker 1: if a nigga tell you he don't want the baby.
Speaker 1: And then I saw people in the comments saying the
Speaker 1: same shit. Oh you know what, he shouldn't used no kindom, bitch.
Speaker 1: Why would you let a nigga not use cond Like
Speaker 1: planting a seed in dirt spawns fruit or a tree
Speaker 1: or plant. The dirt has no say. Women are the
Speaker 1: dirt that have a say. Yeah, Like if a nigga
Speaker 1: lays on top of you, brit you can say, hey,
Speaker 1: you know it ain't no condom. Nigga.
Speaker 2: Do you want a baby that's turning straight up with
Speaker 2: what you're trying to do?
Speaker 1: This motherfucker put something? You put them up in this something.
Speaker 3: Because they try it all the time. And so that's
Speaker 3: my thing. I see when people say like you shouldn't
Speaker 3: complain or whatever because a person told you or whatever.
Speaker 3: But I do feel like it takes two you know
Speaker 3: what I mean in any situation. No, I mean I'm
Speaker 3: not talking about the actual bind.
Speaker 1: It takes one to get you see. See the belief
Speaker 1: is it takes two to have get. No, it takes one,
Speaker 1: only one. I mean like a nigga could do four
Speaker 1: seconds worth of work you do ten months. It's not
Speaker 1: We are not definitely not equal. We are not and
Speaker 1: I've always said this. That's why I understand the whole
Speaker 1: concept of the mom be like, nigga, you know this
Speaker 1: is her problem. She's she was a mom the whole
Speaker 1: time when you didn't want to be a dad. If
Speaker 1: you not being a husband or a great boyfriend, you
Speaker 1: not doing nothing for the kid. She's doing that shit solely.
Speaker 1: So I understand it. But I was thinking about that,
Speaker 1: like how do you feel about that? Bro? Like what
Speaker 1: do you think that? Like if a guys like get
Speaker 1: you pregnant, Like, oh, I don't want no baby. I
Speaker 1: mean obviously your life is different now, but prime prime
Speaker 1: prime red.
Speaker 5: Because I didn't want to take that chance. I wouldn't
Speaker 5: even play around with it. I mean, now it's it's
Speaker 5: like you said, it's made people. I guess everybody's lazy
Speaker 5: because now there's Plan B, and so Plan B.
Speaker 4: Is used as concceptors. Like you know, so people are
Speaker 4: very reckless.
Speaker 1: But you ever taste the Plan PEP?
Speaker 2: You said, taste one?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what did that taste?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 1: No, I didn't. I see the thing about having women,
Speaker 1: the thing about having wined. You can ask you.
Speaker 2: Questions, Hey, I've taken the Plan B before.
Speaker 1: What it tastes like?
Speaker 2: It don't taste like it's a pill.
Speaker 3: You don't. You don't, you don't chew it, you don't
Speaker 3: it Yeah, no, you just take it. It is because
Speaker 3: we was having sex and that motherfucker.
Speaker 1: Broke right when the moment of concession. Huh, And I
Speaker 1: was like, no, who paid for the pill? Plan? Got? Look?
Speaker 1: I know, I told him was sixty dollars.
Speaker 2: I told him it was like fifty yeah, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2: I told him. I was like you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, break that brand, nick cash app cashap whatever.
Speaker 2: Now he was there. We went together, bring it, drop
Speaker 2: it off like that part daddy?
Speaker 1: How was that?
Speaker 2: How was that going to get it?
Speaker 3: I mean, I will go with you to get the condoms,
Speaker 3: So why wouldn't I go with you to go get
Speaker 3: this clam b Like if we if we're deciding that
Speaker 3: we don't want children and we want to make sure
Speaker 3: that we don't.
Speaker 2: Conceive a child, and we both should be going.
Speaker 3: Like if my dude, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna
Speaker 3: even friend, I remember the first time a guy told
Speaker 3: me to bring some condoms. It was my boyfriend. He
Speaker 3: was like, bring some condoms and I had never bought.
Speaker 1: How was that? How was that shopping for condoms for you?
Speaker 3: She was weird as fun because I didn't know, so
Speaker 3: I'm like hitting them, like what what you want?
Speaker 2: Like you know.
Speaker 1: The Liu store?
Speaker 2: No, I went to a drug store.
Speaker 1: So that's even cooler because you get the shop.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Women were like, oh let me see what that is?
Speaker 2: It extra?
Speaker 3: Oh wait, this is extra thing? Oh snap? So I
Speaker 3: mean I'm gonna be honest. I was kind of like,
Speaker 3: oh ship, Like oh my god, I'm like mine. But
Speaker 3: after that, I'm like, dude, we're both adults, we both
Speaker 3: want to fuck.
Speaker 2: Ship. Let's go get it on deck. Yep.
Speaker 1: So y'all went at Was it a fun trip? Was
Speaker 1: y'all laughing?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: We got snacks and ship, you know, to get I'm
Speaker 3: just saying now I'm just playing.
Speaker 2: I'm just fucking with you. The condoms.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the plan.
Speaker 2: It was just like we just went and got it, like, okay,
Speaker 2: I need it. Was me.
Speaker 3: I was fucking freaking out because I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: not trying to get pregnant. No, the whole purpose of
Speaker 3: us wearing the condoms so I couldn't get pregnant. So
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh ship the ship, but oh no, let's go.
Speaker 3: I wasn't playing none of that, you know.
Speaker 2: But.
Speaker 1: You ever had to go get a plan B before.
Speaker 5: I didn't go get have somebody bring me plan B.
Speaker 5: I was like, we need to go, we need a
Speaker 5: plan B. And it was like the day after he
Speaker 5: got it, Yeah, dropped it off.
Speaker 1: You know, you just eat it, just take it, eat it,
Speaker 1: because you know, it seemed like a serious pills. You
Speaker 1: have to scramble some eggs and get some like you
Speaker 1: have to eat it with food, and.
Speaker 2: Just you just take it. You just take it.
Speaker 3: And they tell you the quicker you take it, the better,
Speaker 3: better chances. And so it's like you need to take
Speaker 3: they say within the seventy two hours, but you were
Speaker 3: taking that hour within ship mine was the next the
Speaker 3: next it was next morning, it was next morning.
Speaker 1: So y'all just laid up at the bust and.
Speaker 5: That thing just so did did y'all just going and
Speaker 5: keep going since you was gonna buy the planning anyway.
Speaker 3: Because he'll know because I didn't. I didn't think if
Speaker 3: I didn't say it, I'm not saying y'all, I'm like,
Speaker 3: oh shit, no, we gotta get I'm saying in the morning.
Speaker 3: So I was like, no, we gotta go. You feel
Speaker 3: me like no.
Speaker 1: Wis was playing in the background, and any way.
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn.
Speaker 3: The opinion is like, oh yeah.
Speaker 5: I was like, hey, I do remember that you got
Speaker 5: to get some scissors, got.
Speaker 2: A knife, you know, and.
Speaker 4: You never purchased a plan B Nah.
Speaker 1: No, No. If I got you, Brady used to have
Speaker 1: my baby, So definite matter. I'm not doing abortions.
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, but what if you weren't You were
Speaker 3: in a condom and you're you're not trying to have
Speaker 3: any children.
Speaker 1: And if I didn't wear a condom with you, I
Speaker 1: was okay with you getting pregnant, gotcha, and that was
Speaker 1: just very many.
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. What if you were wearing a
Speaker 2: condom in it and my situation in it, and you
Speaker 2: asked to.
Speaker 1: Feel it, I don't don't think for one minute, niggas
Speaker 1: can I could feel it.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you didn't feel it. I'm saying, once
Speaker 2: it happened, you don't want to have a baby with her.
Speaker 1: I would have backed out, backed out that thing.
Speaker 2: Like a driveway you know only takes a drop, right, I.
Speaker 1: Would have backed out that thing like a driveway.
Speaker 2: Got you, so as you feel it, that shit.
Speaker 1: Go from good to extreme. I actually it don't be good.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonnas. I saw this joke and said condom
Speaker 1: section didn't count. I really thought. I was like, that's
Speaker 1: probably true. Like if you wash your hands with gloves,
Speaker 1: would you say you wash.
Speaker 2: Your hands but you still feeling it? Though you still.
Speaker 1: Actually you really feel the heat?
Speaker 4: Are you feeling it?
Speaker 2: Feel it at all?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: You feel a friction?
Speaker 2: What about what the thin ones?
Speaker 1: It don't matter which one you use. That ship is
Speaker 1: purposely meant for the ship not to be on your
Speaker 1: dick and for nothing to get out of it. So
Speaker 1: you're not feeling shit that feel like sex. Like you
Speaker 1: just feeling the friction of in and out and you
Speaker 1: don't feel the moisture all the shit that makes sex sex.
Speaker 1: You don't feel that. You just feel like a friction
Speaker 1: that heat it up enough to wear you the busting up.
Speaker 4: So you don't feel wetness or none of that.
Speaker 1: Well, No, the condom blocks it. That's the point of
Speaker 1: the condom. It ain't like it lets some things seeping
Speaker 1: and nothing see about wow? Nothing nothing, nothing goes in
Speaker 1: and nothing goes out. Put off your condum and you
Speaker 1: know she starts smelling like a tire.
Speaker 3: That rubber smell is disgusting, bro, Like that ship's fucking.
Speaker 1: Horror smelling like a tire.
Speaker 3: Hey wait, speaking of that, did you see what old
Speaker 3: boy said that he was fucking old girl and he
Speaker 3: found Oh you are us kind of in the world.
Speaker 1: For sure that happens.
Speaker 2: What what you mean for sure that happens? How do
Speaker 2: you I'm talking about as a woman, How do you
Speaker 2: not know that there's.
Speaker 1: Something because a nigga didn't tell them and where it
Speaker 1: would be, it'd be tough for people. Yes, that that
Speaker 1: can happen. I know somebody.
Speaker 5: So like when it came off, she he just she
Speaker 5: thinking that he took it out.
Speaker 1: So this is what happens, right, Like you could be
Speaker 1: drilling and it come off, and you ignoring the feeling
Speaker 1: and you keep drilling and you pushing that motherfucker damn
Speaker 1: And then so like, yeah, I had a condom that
Speaker 1: was like cheap and it happened to me before and
Speaker 1: I had to reach in there with my hand.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I had that, but got it out.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 2: Was his like so you had to get it oh okay.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was it was crazy because you just
Speaker 1: keep going and you're like this ship feel really good.
Speaker 1: You stopped, but by that time, you didn't knock that
Speaker 1: motherfucker if you got a little reach, you didn't knocked
Speaker 1: that motherfucker back there. And I was like, ah, it's on.
Speaker 1: It came off and it was cheap, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So she was like, oh my god, and
Speaker 1: she was like, oh know something. I'm like, let me
Speaker 1: get it out. And we were talking and I was like,
Speaker 1: like a real gun of collegist, got that motherfucker out
Speaker 1: and got cracked started again. It really wasn't embarrassing because
Speaker 1: it was like it was a moment. It was a moment.
Speaker 1: It wasn't that bad. Like it was really different. It
Speaker 1: was like this is strange. Oh it's strange. I'm saying,
Speaker 1: this is really strange. It was like you're just reaching
Speaker 1: around the pussy and it's just like my hands long.
Speaker 4: I was just about to say, you put like to
Speaker 4: it was like finger.
Speaker 1: Like my hands are really long, like you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Son, It was like yeah, like I didn't
Speaker 1: didn't get to risks.
Speaker 6: I know.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying you had to put And it was.
Speaker 1: So funny because she was laughing because I'm looking like
Speaker 1: trying to look away. She why are you looking at him?
Speaker 1: Like cud, this is weird. But it was. She made
Speaker 1: it real cool. It was sold, so it was.
Speaker 2: Like get it out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I give her credit.
Speaker 3: You come, hell no, it just got too good and
Speaker 3: you stopped, like wait a minute, you know it just.
Speaker 1: Happened, but but it might have been like a minute longer.
Speaker 1: I mean, so you know a minute. There's a lot
Speaker 1: of strokes, like even if you like pacing yourself, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, let's say you're doing a
Speaker 1: stroke every ten seconds to get the full length you know, uh,
Speaker 1: base to scheft, you mean head to shot like you
Speaker 1: you know this sounds crazy, but you know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like that shit could really push it. Like if you're
Speaker 1: telling a girl, hey, I don't want a child, how
Speaker 1: do you feel about it?
Speaker 5: Like they should do what they need to do to
Speaker 5: not have a child, Like, okay, condoms, women, condoms.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, let's say you didn't do that, and
Speaker 1: then this person is telling you once you say six
Speaker 1: weeks thing I practiced in the situation, he I don't
Speaker 1: want a baby.
Speaker 5: I think it's too many things that you could do
Speaker 5: to avoid that if he's telling you that he doesn't
Speaker 5: want a kid, I mean, unless he came and you
Speaker 5: don't know, but.
Speaker 4: You know, because you're going to be wet, Like I mean, I.
Speaker 1: Would imagine it's some crazy shit out you don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, But I'm saying, let's say he's you know,
Speaker 1: even if you know at that point he's like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't want a baby once you're telling you're pregnant,
Speaker 1: like you know, he gambled and hit the jackpot, like
Speaker 1: what he like, Okay, okay, this is my thought right.
Speaker 1: It's like it's one thing, right because if you want
Speaker 1: to keep the child, let's say you want to get abortion,
Speaker 1: he doesn't in theory, you don't want him to have
Speaker 1: say in theory, he doesn't have say. In reality, he
Speaker 1: doesn't have say, Like if you don't want to keep
Speaker 1: the baby, he like, well, I want you to keep
Speaker 1: the baby. This is my part. So I mean, that's
Speaker 1: part of the separate I don't call it a double standard.
Speaker 1: That's part of the separate standard of you know, the
Speaker 1: man and woman dynamic. A woman has to house a
Speaker 1: development of a child. But it is kind of the
Speaker 1: same situation like when does it know how do you
Speaker 1: really feel about that, Like should it be skewed to
Speaker 1: just your desire? And then at that point, like should
Speaker 1: a person even have to be in your kids life
Speaker 1: if he tell you at six weeks you know what,
Speaker 1: I don't want a baby and you have it anyway?
Speaker 1: Should he be forced to be a father?
Speaker 2: I don't think that you should have to force anybody
Speaker 2: to do anything. I feel.
Speaker 3: I don't know, like me being a single parent, and
Speaker 3: it took a village to raise my son with me.
Speaker 3: I look at it like and that the person I
Speaker 3: had my child with, he never said he didn't want
Speaker 3: the child.
Speaker 2: He just didn't do it.
Speaker 3: Just Yeah, I mean, now it's different. You know, it's
Speaker 3: way way different. It took a long time for us
Speaker 3: to get there, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But why do you think he didn't want Is it
Speaker 1: because he wanted to deal with you?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 3: I just think that he was young. I think we
Speaker 3: had we had a child young, and he just didn't know.
Speaker 3: You know, some people just don't have that.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I say that all the time. Yeah, because you
Speaker 1: gotta think, like we don't. We're not like women, right, women,
Speaker 1: Have you get pregnant, you're a parent immediately immediately you
Speaker 1: could feel growth. I mean I've heard even like the
Speaker 1: second and third week you could feel it and you
Speaker 1: just kind of be like, I have my stomach cuezy,
Speaker 1: but you don't trip. But when it gets about six
Speaker 1: seven weeks, you could really feel it. So we don't
Speaker 1: have that, you know, the things that force you connect
Speaker 1: you to your child, we don't have that. So that's
Speaker 1: why I think when you know the idea of the
Speaker 1: Bible and religion and general and that, like don't have
Speaker 1: sex to you married, because the really the connection for
Speaker 1: a man comes into him caring for a woman while
Speaker 1: she's with child. Yeah, and then you feel that you
Speaker 1: lay up and lay with her and put your hand
Speaker 1: on your stomach whatever all that stuff people do. That's
Speaker 1: how you form a bond. But it's it's almost silly
Speaker 1: to believe that a man could have a connection to
Speaker 1: somebody he ain't fucked with for ten months. Heat pop
Speaker 1: up like this me, Lord knows, you know, most time
Speaker 1: the kids don't come out looking like the daddy, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, and niggas just like you know.
Speaker 1: It's it's that bond probably is a lot tougher to
Speaker 1: for a guy to, you know, to just have like
Speaker 1: versus y'all where y'all just waiting to see what this
Speaker 1: motherfucker looks like. Y'all been fucking with each other, y'all
Speaker 1: been You already know what he liked to eat and
Speaker 1: she liked to eat and ship throwing shit up. Don't
Speaker 1: don't send that in here, no more, right, I mean?
Speaker 1: And meanwhile, the nigga justdu what's going on and what
Speaker 1: is it? So if that bond doesn't happen immediately between
Speaker 1: a father and his child, then it comes down to
Speaker 1: do we want to be responsible for something he don't
Speaker 1: feel you know niggas. You know niggas only pay a
Speaker 1: car notes on time.
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: So it's it's it's a it's a tough out. It's
Speaker 1: a tough out.
Speaker 5: But no, I think that you know, if you're gonna
Speaker 5: lay down with a man or a woman, that is
Speaker 5: definitely a part of the processes that you can have
Speaker 5: a kid. So to say I don't want a kid, Okay,
Speaker 5: we know I don't either. We're gonna do what we
Speaker 5: need to do to not have it. But it happens.
Speaker 4: So now you know this, this is what.
Speaker 5: We're doing, Like you need to be responsible for your child.
Speaker 1: But even if you told you six weeks out, like yeah,
Speaker 1: you need to have an aborture, I don't want a
Speaker 1: child with you.
Speaker 2: That's tough, right, that is tough.
Speaker 3: I mean, like you said, like like I said before,
Speaker 3: like you once you make that decision. When I made
Speaker 3: a decision to have my son, and I'll be honest,
Speaker 3: when I was pregnant, I went back and forth about it.
Speaker 3: And when I really sat down and was like, I'm
Speaker 3: having my child, I knew that I was gonna be
Speaker 3: like you said, I was instantly appearing. I was like
Speaker 3: I knew what I was gonna do, Like I was
Speaker 3: gonna do what I needed to dont No, we we
Speaker 3: actually crazy, Like I have a dealer. I've been dealing
Speaker 3: with him since I was like eighteen. And then right
Speaker 3: at the end of us, like finally, because we were
Speaker 3: on and off, we just kept just having issues or whatever.
Speaker 3: And finally at the end of that when I finally
Speaker 3: just got the nerve to be like no, I went
Speaker 3: to New York, came back. It was for my birthday
Speaker 3: and never forget went out there for my birthday, came
Speaker 3: back and I was feeling sick, and that's my fun
Speaker 3: I was pregnant and I had finally broke up with
Speaker 3: him everything like, and I was so serious, and when
Speaker 3: I tell y'all, I cried, like, uh, it was like.
Speaker 1: My fuck, I couldn't figure out before.
Speaker 3: I cried, cried, cried, cried because I knew, like I knew,
Speaker 3: like I knew I didn't want to be with him,
Speaker 3: but I also knew that shit, I had a life
Speaker 3: in me, and I was like, fuck, I gotta do
Speaker 3: what I gotta do.
Speaker 2: And so that's what I did.
Speaker 3: From from that point on, I became a mother and
Speaker 3: I do what I needed to do. And no, I
Speaker 3: never really I didn't go through the course. I don't
Speaker 3: do none that should like that. His parents, like people,
Speaker 3: you know, like my family, like everybody, pretty much pitched
Speaker 3: in with Asia, like all my my family pretty much
Speaker 3: pitched in with helping me raise my son. And you know,
Speaker 3: as he started getting older, that's when him and his
Speaker 3: dad started getting more of a bond.
Speaker 1: And so he just wasn't you, Oh you broke his heart.
Speaker 2: I shit, he broke my heart.
Speaker 1: He went to New York to break up with him.
Speaker 3: No, I broke up with him before I went to
Speaker 3: hear it for my birthday because it was I found
Speaker 3: out he was cheated. He was like a composive cheater
Speaker 3: like he was I was.
Speaker 1: Always he did not want to be with you though
Speaker 1: he was.
Speaker 2: He wanted to be with me, and he did want
Speaker 2: me to have my baby.
Speaker 3: So you broke his heart, I guess. So he never
Speaker 3: said it to me. But now that you say it
Speaker 3: like that, maybe.
Speaker 1: It's funny because that expression mama's baby daddy's Maybe I
Speaker 1: never liked that because it kind of makes women out
Speaker 1: to be worse and and theory, yeah, they can't be.
Speaker 1: But I think the reality is women have children, men
Speaker 1: have families. Mh Like, so a nigga gonna take care
Speaker 1: of you and the baby. But it's hard for a
Speaker 1: lot of niggas to have that maternal instinct because you
Speaker 1: don't you don't have it naturally. You know. The paternal
Speaker 1: instinct is more or less about family than.
Speaker 4: Just his first.
Speaker 5: His first child, he wasn't like, of course when she
Speaker 5: was born, he's like, oh my gosh, like this is
Speaker 5: my daughter. But when we got home, like it took
Speaker 5: a minute for them to bond like that, like now
Speaker 5: you know she's eighteen months Like that's like they're like
Speaker 5: you know, but it took time where he's like, I
Speaker 5: don't know her, like you know, I don't know her.
Speaker 5: I don't know what she likes, like I don't know
Speaker 5: how to do this, like you know, and I'm just like.
Speaker 1: And some people have like like like what do you mean,
Speaker 1: like just you know, because you pitched it from a
Speaker 1: woman and it's really different like you I mean even
Speaker 1: now I see little babies and they come around and
Speaker 1: I'm like, if they like two three months, I don't
Speaker 1: want to hold you.
Speaker 4: That's how he was too.
Speaker 1: Little, like you precious feel you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like it's it's not it's crazy, right. So but I
Speaker 1: got some homies who it's not for him. The first
Speaker 1: day they're like, oh my god, I'm a father, is
Speaker 1: the greatest thing is in my life? And like, my boy,
Speaker 1: you remember to right, So he was like you know,
Speaker 1: he goes to like he's like a super dad. He's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I talked to her about everything. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't think I would want to talk to my
Speaker 1: daughter about everything.
Speaker 3: My dad used to talk to me. My dad was
Speaker 3: kind of crazy. It wasn't kind of crazy.
Speaker 1: I just I don't think I would want to talk
Speaker 1: to a girl about everything, boy, but a girl that
Speaker 1: shit probably break my heart knows the first that she
Speaker 1: come home and she gonna tell you like this, boy,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this motherfucker trying to replace me, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I just thought that that
Speaker 1: was a deep conversation because again, sometimes we use a
Speaker 1: term double standard. I don't think I think men and
Speaker 1: women have two separate sets of standards, which you hate
Speaker 1: bred you you want it to be the same.
Speaker 2: It's just I think I get it. I totally get it.
Speaker 3: I just I just sometimes i'd be like, thang, that's
Speaker 3: kind of messed up, but I get it.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like like men can't be wrse, man can't
Speaker 1: be wholes right, it's because they're spreading seed. That's the
Speaker 1: point of it. Women can only be holes because they
Speaker 1: can receive it. Shan, It's just different and it's a
Speaker 1: different set of standards, right, But it's also the same way.
Speaker 1: Like I told you, if a man take care of
Speaker 1: you for the rest of your life, you're viewed as successful.
Speaker 1: But if if you take care of a man for
Speaker 1: the rest of your life, you viewed as a failure.
Speaker 4: As a return.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, you like a man return? Yeah, failure.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I just I thought about that and I was like, damn, well,
Speaker 1: if she wanted to abort the baby, there is nothing
Speaker 1: he can say or do. No, he just have to
Speaker 1: kind of talk her into it or whatever or whatever.
Speaker 1: And if she do it, you just asked out right.
Speaker 1: But if he wants to abort the baby, it's still
Speaker 1: her decision. But whatever comes out is your responsibility. And
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, you should have thought about that before. Well, no,
Speaker 1: you probably should have thought about that before.
Speaker 3: Nowadays, I'm being honest, like, shit, I'm not even I
Speaker 3: wouldn't even like if I was single or whatever, and
Speaker 3: I'm dealing with guys like when were we talking about,
Speaker 3: Like I wouldn't even want to have sex with none
Speaker 3: of these niggas right now, none of these dudes. Like honestly,
Speaker 3: it's different now, Like I'm you, I'm gonna literally really
Speaker 3: have to get to know you now, Like there's no
Speaker 3: I'll just telling my friends this, Like because we went
Speaker 3: out a couple of places and I was like, like,
Speaker 3: I literally wouldn't talk to any of these men in here.
Speaker 3: I'd literally it was some guys in there. I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: you all right, you know whatever, But I I was just.
Speaker 1: Like why, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just.
Speaker 1: I think they're gay.
Speaker 3: I think so, you know, I'm so scared of that shit.
Speaker 3: And I just feel like it's just so crazy right now.
Speaker 1: And I feel like, you know what, I respect black
Speaker 1: women because y'all try y'all best to be advocates of
Speaker 1: the LGBTQ community. Like I think, since this's do a
Speaker 1: fantastic job of trying to advocate for it.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's advocating. I think we just try
Speaker 2: to have some type of.
Speaker 1: Understand you understand. I think that's amazing. Until your nigga is.
Speaker 3: Gay, I mean, of course, cause my if he's my man,
Speaker 3: he's supposed to be my man.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying until yo nigg Like, it's one thing.
Speaker 1: If you call it yo nigga with a girl, that's
Speaker 1: a problem. Fight that nigga. You caught your nigga.
Speaker 2: With a nigga, don't even say that.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh my god, you might just kill yourself.
Speaker 1: Like if you caught him with a girl, you might
Speaker 1: kill him. If you caught him with a nigga, you
Speaker 1: might kill yourself, you might oh my god.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: And it's a lot of that. I mean.
Speaker 5: A lot of women, or at least this generation, they're
Speaker 5: okay with the whole. My men like men and women.
Speaker 2: I don't believe that nigga well they're accepting it.
Speaker 1: No, they just they lying. As soon as they break up,
Speaker 1: they start calling the nigga gay.
Speaker 4: But I'm not.
Speaker 5: But they're except they're in it. It's just like when
Speaker 5: you break up with somebody like that whoopedie whoop.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 3: So I said about the memory, I was like, I
Speaker 3: can't get right. You like, how are you gonna let
Speaker 3: a man like you can't get right?
Speaker 4: And you let him get it?
Speaker 2: Remember, So it's the same shit.
Speaker 3: It's like, come on, man, like, if you're gonna talk
Speaker 3: about I just told my cousin this earlier. I said,
Speaker 3: look cause sheep talking about this dude, right, And I'm like, dude,
Speaker 3: if you could talk about this dude like this, that he.
Speaker 2: Should not be getting no pussy.
Speaker 3: There should not be no reason. I said, cause you
Speaker 3: look crazy as hell, give you and you talk, you talk,
Speaker 3: and you know, and you can talk about him like that.
Speaker 3: I said, we got to stop doing that.
Speaker 1: Like I'm not I'm crazy.
Speaker 3: I got another friend. She just saying, so she'll talk
Speaker 3: about a dude like and I'd be like, but there's
Speaker 3: no way, Like I gave can't get right the name
Speaker 3: once I was done with him. That's when he got
Speaker 3: the name can't get right cause I'm like, the reason
Speaker 3: why you're not with me? Or I can't that's what
Speaker 3: you because you can't get right. So that was a
Speaker 3: reminder of my phone every time he text her call
Speaker 3: like don't yeah, like.
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't answer.
Speaker 1: That is crazy.
Speaker 3: It's the truth though, if you got if you can
Speaker 3: sit there and talk bad about a person that's a man,
Speaker 3: you shouldn't be doing it.
Speaker 2: Why are you screwing them?
Speaker 1: But I said the same thing all the time, like right,
Speaker 1: it's like women are in this weird tobacco right where
Speaker 1: they will fuck somebody they wouldn't cook for. Like I
Speaker 1: remember this girl was telling me it was actually my sister,
Speaker 1: and I was like, yo, like, hey, why would you
Speaker 1: give this nigga some pussy? Like if you don't want
Speaker 1: to fuck with anymore? Well, I'm just saying, nigga want
Speaker 1: me to cook for him and all that watch his clothes.
Speaker 1: He want wifey duty wife he duties, is giving him
Speaker 1: some pussy.
Speaker 2: I think so too, Like I would rather she.
Speaker 1: Do everything but give him some pussy, like you would
Speaker 1: get a lot. Further, if you gave a nigga everything
Speaker 1: buzz some pussy, a nigga would look at you different
Speaker 1: in respect. I stand by it. If you think you
Speaker 1: cook for a niggas as much as y'all be fucking
Speaker 1: these nigga when y'all was in y'all prime and y'all
Speaker 1: was out there, you know, running the streets with your
Speaker 1: thugs and all that shit. If you cook for as
Speaker 1: much as the nigga you gave pussy too, that nigga
Speaker 1: would have a different appreciation for your existence. Again, it's
Speaker 1: like I said to you before on a different podcast,
Speaker 1: it's entirely too many people taking a cheap route. Pussy
Speaker 1: is easy, That's what I'm saying. Pussy you, y'all understand
Speaker 1: that ship between yall legs used to have real value.
Speaker 1: Y'all have the it's it's it's inflated like it's pussy everywhere.
Speaker 1: It's niggas getting it's new pussies, niggas getting pussies, and
Speaker 1: they line like like they lie like they've been had
Speaker 1: the pussy, and it's niggas would pussy. So pussy is
Speaker 1: nowhere near liking you. Nigga. One hundred years ago, you
Speaker 1: had to marry her to get some pussy. Now you
Speaker 1: just gotta look presentable that day. It's just you. Just
Speaker 1: the look of the draw. She's just like, I'm giving pussy.
Speaker 1: This is the pop look that you hit it on.
Speaker 1: The price is right bridge pussy on the wheel, don't
Speaker 1: it's fucking to night. I'm just saying. So it's weird
Speaker 1: because that's what it is. And and you have motherfuckers
Speaker 1: who women will give pussy to but feel like they
Speaker 1: not worship. I'm like, well, why would you give this
Speaker 1: nigga some pussy?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why would you let him get a piece of you?
Speaker 1: A piece of your soul? And for some false sense
Speaker 1: of like you did something that you wanted to do.
Speaker 1: You did not want to just give this nigga no
Speaker 1: pussy and then him to be a piece of shit.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. What do want to say
Speaker 1: about that ship?
Speaker 6: You want to know, don't want to marry, You don't
Speaker 6: want to marry, but you want him to be a
Speaker 6: solid nigga.
Speaker 1: Like look you just gave his niggas a pussy for nothing.
Speaker 3: It's nothing worse than giving niggas some pussy and see
Speaker 3: him be like, damn, I fuck, why did I do that?
Speaker 4: Was up?
Speaker 1: And that's gonna be eighty percent of the nigga.
Speaker 3: No, it's not, it's not, but I definitely have one
Speaker 3: or two that I'll definitely be like.
Speaker 1: What out of every ten? What was I think out of.
Speaker 5: Tea trying to play ten niggas?
Speaker 2: You fud in your prime?
Speaker 1: What Y don't try to?
Speaker 5: I was like I was in a relationship I was.
Speaker 5: I was like, under.
Speaker 1: Probably I ain't for to get to her count. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm just saying, most likely, pretty much more
Speaker 1: than not, you should have navigated that nigga though pussy
Speaker 1: pretty much more time than not.
Speaker 3: I look at it like if you if you didn't,
Speaker 3: especially if you didn't like only God like only.
Speaker 1: God like, I'm not, don't.
Speaker 4: Do that A couple that I'm gonna say, like, why did.
Speaker 2: I do this?
Speaker 1: It's more than a couple because you like.
Speaker 3: No, I honestly think it's I think it's a handfuls
Speaker 3: three for sure.
Speaker 2: Three gods. I can say right now.
Speaker 1: What was I thinking. And then three niggas you probably
Speaker 1: didn't even cook for.
Speaker 4: One.
Speaker 1: You gave a niggas a pussy and you wouldn't even
Speaker 1: make him food. That just show what your value is
Speaker 1: for your cooking and your body.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, no, you probably just didn't want that.
Speaker 2: You know you probably just like you said, no.
Speaker 1: Nigga, donna not want no motherfucking cooking.
Speaker 3: I'm saying you. The woman may not have wanted that.
Speaker 3: Maybe she just was using him for the pen how
Speaker 3: about that.
Speaker 1: But see, that's my point. That's not impossibly to happen,
Speaker 1: because I do think it's some sick ass I do
Speaker 1: think it's some sick ass women. But you can't tell
Speaker 1: me you don't like this.
Speaker 2: I'm not saying, yo, you have to definitely like something.
Speaker 1: Any nigga you like you want to nourish.
Speaker 2: No, not every nigga.
Speaker 1: I like every last nigga you like you want to
Speaker 1: nourish you, whether you know it or not, giving him
Speaker 1: some pussy is a nourishment of his confidence. You can
Speaker 1: get the same excitement of him liking the motherfucking food.
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying it's most likely. I don't know
Speaker 1: it's just like pussy cooked meals. Like cooked meals went
Speaker 1: up and pussy went down. The stock of cooked meals
Speaker 1: is through the roof and pussy is at like on
Speaker 1: the floor. Pussy was a stock, it'd be like one
Speaker 1: cent a year. Yeah, Pussy's easy. You don't got to
Speaker 1: go through nothing to get pussy.
Speaker 4: It's hard to get a woman to cook for you, man, she.
Speaker 1: Really gotta fuck with you. And then if you go
Speaker 1: like to think about it, like pussy is ain't no joke,
Speaker 1: Like like, pussy is like nothing right now. Damn pussy,
Speaker 1: I'm not lying to you. Pussy is nothing right now. Boy,
Speaker 1: Pussy is like beanie baby. That shit ain't worth nothing.
Speaker 1: That sh it is like five cents. Pussy is like
Speaker 1: bubble gum. You know what I mean. Remember bubble gum
Speaker 1: when we was little. Bubble gum is to get thing.
Speaker 1: You know, they used to have a little pack of bubble.
Speaker 1: That ship was like a bubble gum nigga. That ship
Speaker 1: in a little pussy is in a little champion ship.
Speaker 1: You put the quarter in the hern a little nab
Speaker 1: and pussy come out the little dispenser. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. You to chew that ship and throw that
Speaker 1: ship out, oh God, into a new one.
Speaker 4: It's just you ain't never lie though.
Speaker 1: It's just it's just where we're at. And I think
Speaker 1: it's all part of that. Yeah, it's all part of
Speaker 1: that streamline of sex, like we've been talking about sexy,
Speaker 1: that streamline of simple thought where it's like, oh, it's nothing,
Speaker 1: I'm like him, I just give You're not like me, Bro, No,
Speaker 1: you're not. You're just not. That's not to say you
Speaker 1: can't fuck him and not call him no more. That's
Speaker 1: not the point. It's just when he owned you. It's different.
Speaker 1: Like if if, like if a nigga you fuck with
Speaker 1: future and he said you fuck that nigga, he might
Speaker 1: be looking at you crazy, like you gave that nigga's
Speaker 1: some pussy. Like that's the thing. Yeah, and it's a
Speaker 1: weird space. Bro. I got homies who byter fuck behind me,
Speaker 1: and they thought that made them like me because she
Speaker 1: gave you some boy. I don't. My praise don't come
Speaker 1: from the pussy I get. These bitches will fuck anybody.
Speaker 1: This bitch, you fuck the nigga that couldn't even get right.
Speaker 3: I fucked him before I knew he can't get right.
Speaker 3: He was good, you know, reference just be good.
Speaker 1: No, you was fucking him after you knew he couldn't
Speaker 1: get right, and then you can't gave some more pussy
Speaker 1: after that, and he was.
Speaker 2: Like one more time.
Speaker 1: So if you gave me one more time, that means
Speaker 1: you gave a nigga that you did like some pussy.
Speaker 3: I had already gave it to him, so I'm like,
Speaker 3: I gotta godot.
Speaker 2: I don't playing my face like that. No, it's definitely
Speaker 2: not like him.
Speaker 3: But you know, I just felt like, well, ship, I mean,
Speaker 3: instead of me going and trying to get some new pain, already.
Speaker 4: Don't do it.
Speaker 5: I just I told me, don't do it.
Speaker 3: That's when I stopped, when I realized time. This is
Speaker 3: what I'm telling you guys. I'm telling myself he can't
Speaker 3: get right. I'm like, you can't get right. I got
Speaker 3: this in my phone and you're going to see him.
Speaker 3: I'm telling myself this, look, I have absolutely no problem.
Speaker 3: And that sounds crazy. It's saying I talked to myself,
Speaker 3: but I do, like girl, you know.
Speaker 4: In the mirror answer answering yourself.
Speaker 3: So I'm not saying I'll be in a mirror saying
Speaker 3: that ship but I will literally sit there and be like, bitch,
Speaker 3: you're you crazy, Like you literally just went to.
Speaker 2: You're going, you're on your way to go get this.
Speaker 2: You know you're not.
Speaker 3: You're not about to know you're not dealing with So
Speaker 3: don't think that we don't go through those things. We
Speaker 3: still literally just still I mean to me, like I said,
Speaker 3: I was like, let me go get my rocks off,
Speaker 3: because it may be a while to like get some,
Speaker 3: but it's not it's not worth it after them.
Speaker 2: Because you're still gonna be signing them after you do it.
Speaker 2: After you do it, you be looking at him like what.
Speaker 1: The you a't to convince me?
Speaker 5: I mean you might, you know, you might be giving
Speaker 5: them some pussy, you know, wanting to be in a
Speaker 5: relationship with them, But then you realize that that's not
Speaker 5: what they want.
Speaker 4: They're not trying to go there.
Speaker 1: And then you have to say, which is my point
Speaker 1: of why you should be which is my point of
Speaker 1: why it should have never been getting it should have
Speaker 1: been cooking for the nigga, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: let me wash your clothes, nigga, I'm gonna drop off.
Speaker 1: Like f goes back to care, attention and connection women see.
Speaker 1: Pussy used to be a value, Like if a woman
Speaker 1: gave you pussy, she wanted to marry you, She's gonna
Speaker 1: cook for you, she'd have did anything because she already
Speaker 1: did it before she gave you some pussy. But y'all,
Speaker 1: generation of the generation right before, y'all drop the value
Speaker 1: of pussy. So now it's like, oh, I'll get you pussy.
Speaker 1: I don't even gotta like you. And then it's just
Speaker 1: been dropping ever since. It's on the floor, the bottoms
Speaker 1: out of pussy. The bottoms out, the bottom is out
Speaker 1: on pussy right now, pussy, right now, boy, pussy. The
Speaker 1: stock is solo. Weal to what you can buy it
Speaker 1: to that pussy for about a cent one cent of stock,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And it ain't never coming
Speaker 1: up again, not in this cut. It's gonna be nothing,
Speaker 1: you feel me. So I was just thinking about that
Speaker 1: when I was reading that, I'm like, why would you
Speaker 1: give some pussy to.
Speaker 4: A nigga don't want.
Speaker 1: To Yeah, like you given some bear pussy to.
Speaker 4: Him, man, he don't want to have a baby.
Speaker 1: And you didn't find out he didn't want to have
Speaker 1: a baby because somewhere along the line, you not with
Speaker 1: this nigga, yep. Okay, Okay, you're not married to him. Okay,
Speaker 1: you really shouldn't be giving no pussy if you're not married.
Speaker 1: But I get it. We two hundred years were moved
Speaker 1: from that smart idea. Now we living in this dumb
Speaker 1: ass idea. Right, So you give n pussy to a
Speaker 1: nigga that ain't your nigga, all right? We passed that
Speaker 1: up seventy years ago. Back probably seventy years ago, you
Speaker 1: couldn't get pussy from a woman unless she was your girl. Now,
Speaker 1: like the generation right before, y'all generation became like I
Speaker 1: just gotta want to give him some pussy and he
Speaker 1: can get some pussy to where Now it's like girls
Speaker 1: don't even like nigga. They're like, well, I'm just give
Speaker 1: him some pussy anyway because it's Thursday.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not giving away Thursday.
Speaker 6: That's a generation'll generation doing that, y'all generation is I
Speaker 6: still like you, I'm gonna gee some pussy, but I'm
Speaker 6: not sure you still want to be with me even
Speaker 6: though I like you.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna get some pussy because if I I
Speaker 1: can enjoy what I'm about to feel I can enjoy
Speaker 1: what I'm about to feel, and maybe we might end
Speaker 1: up talking for real if he liked this pussy and
Speaker 1: I can get my rock so that generations they She
Speaker 1: might give him some pussy and don't even want to
Speaker 1: be with him. She might just be like, here go
Speaker 1: some pussy, like you know, like a magic going to
Speaker 1: a place where they give free samples, and it's like
Speaker 1: not in front of the restaurant, it's just like on
Speaker 1: the corner. That's how women is today, you know, like
Speaker 1: how you go to like Costco. They'll have the product
Speaker 1: right there, you know what I'm saying. They'll have a
Speaker 1: product right there. I mean, and you can buy a product,
Speaker 1: but imagine being somewhere where the product wasn't.
Speaker 4: At and you're still getting the same.
Speaker 1: And it's like they just giving samples. Wow, that's where
Speaker 1: women at today. Women just giving samples away that nobody
Speaker 1: know where the restaurant at, just picking up the tooth
Speaker 1: pick and taking the sample, throwing that shit down, and
Speaker 1: then the same motherfucking company be like the company will
Speaker 1: be bragging like yeah, you know, eventually I'm gonna get
Speaker 1: somebody who want to just eat what I got forever,
Speaker 1: Like I'll be watching porn stars straight up be talking
Speaker 1: about like, yeah, you know when I find my man,
Speaker 1: your man, Well.
Speaker 2: Look at them, I mean, carry to a porn star.
Speaker 2: She's married and he fucking them all.
Speaker 1: Say, but let's be for real. We know that's going.
Speaker 1: That's going married, but you know what that's going.
Speaker 4: They've been together for a while.
Speaker 1: But mister Marcus, he retired.
Speaker 2: Didn't He retired.
Speaker 1: He had to retire out the pussy, He had to
Speaker 1: get out of the business. Yeah, I just I just
Speaker 1: think there's this weird culture of people feeling like and
Speaker 1: I get it to have it all culture. Oh I
Speaker 1: could have it all, and it's like, no, you you're
Speaker 1: really not supposed to and you're not. You're not gonna
Speaker 1: have it all. You You can't go out here and
Speaker 1: be a whore and think that one day nigga gonna
Speaker 1: realize and he loves you so much that he ain't
Speaker 1: gonna care you was a whore. He gonna be looking
Speaker 1: at your motherfucking ass like you fucking dirty horror like
Speaker 1: you gotta think. We think highly of women like me
Speaker 1: and naturally like Tupac. You listened to Tupac when he
Speaker 1: was like eighteen nineteen twenty interviews, he'd be like, you know,
Speaker 1: she such a delicate flower and he was so and
Speaker 1: then like fast forward to like twenty four, man, fuck
Speaker 1: a bitch. Bitches ain't shit. Remember he was writing all
Speaker 1: the nice songs like his heart, like keep you Yeah,
Speaker 1: the girl I put him in fucking prison. He found
Speaker 1: out she was a little horror.
Speaker 4: Oh shit, you know.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying. And he tried to they flipped her
Speaker 1: and shit, and she was mad and he was in trouble.
Speaker 1: Then next you know, he's wonder why they call you bitch.
Speaker 1: You went from keep your head up to wonder why
Speaker 1: they call you bitch? He ain't have no motherfucker uplifting
Speaker 1: songs for the holes on all eyes on them. He
Speaker 1: wasn't uplifting y'all nowhere.
Speaker 2: He was not.
Speaker 1: He was explaining why y'all wasn't ship the ones that
Speaker 1: it was all about you you had everybody.
Speaker 2: Was because nobody even realized that he was mad man.
Speaker 1: Because y'all rucuse life. He went from like keep your
Speaker 1: head off and talking about the baby that the niggas
Speaker 1: didn't y'all so you than what they call you mentioned
Speaker 1: every little city I go get your little fun at
Speaker 1: everybody video, all the saults, ready streets with your thought I.
Speaker 2: Finished with but see that.
Speaker 3: Lets you know, y'all, y'all man be real sensitive about
Speaker 3: ship like that. Man, y'all you get your heart broke, man,
Speaker 3: y'all be on it.
Speaker 1: Man. My dad told me he was the way he
Speaker 1: was because he got his heart broke when he was
Speaker 1: I thought my dad was just a stone cold player.
Speaker 1: That nigga was a hurt man. He was damaged. He
Speaker 1: went through some of a girl, broke his hart on
Speaker 1: these like twenty two. He's like, I'm for here on now,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep a pair and the spear nigga that
Speaker 1: I thought that.
Speaker 4: Was like the.
Speaker 1: Nigga this is a traumatic response.
Speaker 2: The fuck.
Speaker 1: I had to take my pop player, give me that back.
Speaker 1: You hurt you? Oh yeah. But I believe in pain.
Speaker 1: I believe in in the drops in the high. I
Speaker 1: ride my lows and my highs together, so I don't
Speaker 1: I don't rest my laurels on one or the other.
Speaker 1: So I've been hurt, like my feelings that got hurt
Speaker 1: and broke, heart broke, you know what I mean. But
Speaker 1: I've also rolled on the greatness of love and feeling
Speaker 1: like the possibilities with somebody like man, this person could
Speaker 1: be like the greatest thing. So I ride my highs
Speaker 1: and lows together.
Speaker 5: M hm.
Speaker 1: I ride my highs and lows together. So it everybody
Speaker 1: else don't do that. They focus on the extremely hot
Speaker 1: days or the extremely cold days. I accept the weather,
Speaker 1: and I enjoy the weather, so I take the hot days.
Speaker 1: So when I'm at my most painful moments, I might
Speaker 1: play Bill Withers, you know, maybe she'll be happier with him.
Speaker 1: And then in my greatest days, I might be playing
Speaker 1: Marvin Gay. I want you like I ride all of
Speaker 1: the shits through life. I don't attach to them all
Speaker 1: like more than one or the other. I'm not dying
Speaker 1: for a life of happiness, like I'm not scared of
Speaker 1: a life of sadness. So I work for me. It's
Speaker 1: kind of like living. It's like you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You feel everything when you do it like that. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been hurt, of course, but I've been happy.
Speaker 5: I've been It'll take you some time to bounce back
Speaker 5: from that hurt.
Speaker 1: Sure, I mean, yeah, your feelings be hurt, You're like damn,
Speaker 1: But okay, I mean it's like lifting weights. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean when you tell your.
Speaker 4: Muscle, some people don't get back out there.
Speaker 1: So well, it's like when you're lifting weights, right, you
Speaker 1: rip your muscles in half so they can they stretching
Speaker 1: half and they separate and then they grow back stronger
Speaker 1: and then they get bigger. That's how my heart is, right,
Speaker 1: Like it was ripped and hard, but then it's I
Speaker 1: let it here and I never stopped going to the gym,
Speaker 1: and it grew back stronger, and then you can love
Speaker 1: harder and stronger. That's my belief. Yeah.
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