WEBVTT - Conversations About Daddy's Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>Watch up and welcome back to another episode of No

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<v Speaker 1>Sealer's podcast with your hosts now fuck that with your

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<v Speaker 1>loap glasses Malone, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, what the fuck is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Say that again?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean? Say what again? What I just

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<v Speaker 2>talk about?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I was talking about plug talk, like with Adam

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<v Speaker 3>and his wife leaning the plug. So you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>got interested after, you know, the whole thing with her

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<v Speaker 3>having sex with the other guy Jason what was his name,

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<v Speaker 3>love or what I don't remember his saying, but having

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<v Speaker 3>sex with the other guy. So I started like really

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<v Speaker 3>looking into everything, and I noticed they had that show

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<v Speaker 3>it's called plug Talk. It's on only fans, and they

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<v Speaker 3>really be fucking on there. They like have a conversation

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<v Speaker 3>and then they just go into like fucking like I

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<v Speaker 3>watched like him fucking his wife.

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<v Speaker 2>And the other co hosts.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not, but I guess their guests. Yes, she was,

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<v Speaker 3>he was.

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<v Speaker 2>They were all three.

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<v Speaker 3>She was a situation where Lena was fucking on the

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<v Speaker 3>guys a girl and then Adam and then there was

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<v Speaker 3>another girl too, so they was doing like three ship.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, what the hell is this because the first

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<v Speaker 3>you see them talking plug talk, plug talk.

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<v Speaker 1>So how are they doing.

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<v Speaker 3>The podcast in between fucking I guess they talk first

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<v Speaker 3>and then they go into the fucking.

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<v Speaker 4>So is the mic?

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<v Speaker 5>So the mics is on so you can hear all

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<v Speaker 5>the I did I think at the table.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they was on the couch. They was on.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean they started and they just started on their

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<v Speaker 5>couch and cameras rolling.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, dick and see all that went down?

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<v Speaker 1>And how did you accidentally stumble?

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<v Speaker 2>I like shit like that. I was like, whoa, this

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<v Speaker 2>is crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>But they have been like they have been them.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not know about you, between you going to this,

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<v Speaker 1>between you going to this swinger party and this shit,

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's a side of you that I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, let me tell you. Well, honestly, the swinger party

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<v Speaker 3>was by default you just happened to be.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm starting to think you just you liked accidentally

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<v Speaker 1>showing up there.

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<v Speaker 2>I did.

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<v Speaker 4>It was very.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting educational, to say the least.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very educational. I've never seen anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, wow, like it was a whole other

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<v Speaker 3>world like that I had never seen before.

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<v Speaker 2>So me, you know, some people like stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're one of those some people I'm a watcher.

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<v Speaker 3>I've always said that I like to watch, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>am a watcher, I'm a people I like to just

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<v Speaker 3>look at people like I don't know, just just.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you be okay, like, so, would you get your

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<v Speaker 1>dude the girl and like watch him?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, mmm? Can you go get him a girl

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<v Speaker 4>and you watch him? Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Mhm, nigga, you were sick. I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a pick her though, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, you pick her? What would you look for? And

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<v Speaker 1>something like that?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, big booty, Like.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you so if you're looking at porn, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you looking at? Like? What is your type

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<v Speaker 1>of Like who is your favorite porn start?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have a favorite porn start.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so it ain't that far Okay, cool, Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>but if so you have to pick a girl, like

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<v Speaker 1>what what would be the choice of picking? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>would you pick? Would you pick somebody that doesn't look

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<v Speaker 1>as good as you so you'd be like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't worried about them.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta look like I gotta be. I have to

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<v Speaker 3>be turned on too, Like I gotta want to see

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<v Speaker 3>this happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though you don't want to participate.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would want to watch. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>see him fucking no ugly girl.

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<v Speaker 2>The fuck? What are you doing? Why are you fucking her?

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<v Speaker 1>So? What if like huh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I never I don't like look for I wouldn't look

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<v Speaker 3>for like a type. I would just say like she

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<v Speaker 3>would have to. She would have to look good to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Would you have to vibe with her?

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<v Speaker 1>What?

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<v Speaker 4>No, So you don't have to talk to her at all,

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<v Speaker 4>just they have to.

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<v Speaker 1>You just have to prove of how.

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<v Speaker 3>She looked, because it's still about me. It's about him too,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's still about me because I'm watching this. So

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be turned.

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<v Speaker 1>On by Like, your cousin is a freak. I did

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<v Speaker 1>not know that, Nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>I would I don't think, I mean should.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's okay if you and your dude is

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<v Speaker 3>with it, y'all with it what it should.

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<v Speaker 1>Be ship your cousin's a freak, man? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>No, so are you you know?

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<v Speaker 5>If no, you didn't even let her get it out.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know. Listen, I turned down threesomes, I've turned

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<v Speaker 1>on Seventh Street. I turned down threesome, foursome and fossoms.

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<v Speaker 1>My homegirl was gone knock me down, like with four

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<v Speaker 1>or five her homegirls. I was like, no, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not fucking around. Just certain doors in his life

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to walk through. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see who I am on the other side, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>that desperate to find out.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not you know, you know you don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I just don't. I'm sure cocaine gotta be good.

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<v Speaker 1>People do cocaine like cocaine gotta be fire. Niggas just

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<v Speaker 1>keep doing it, so I'll just miss out. Hennessy gotta

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<v Speaker 1>make you feel good the way niggas keep drinking. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure crack is the shit because people change their

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<v Speaker 1>whole life to pursue it. So I'm just not fucking

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<v Speaker 1>with nothing that that can possibly control me. And that

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<v Speaker 1>type of power of multiple women at one time, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need that. I'm already a powerful person that.

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<v Speaker 4>So so threesomers out.

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<v Speaker 5>So your lady brought home up a woman, and she

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<v Speaker 5>said that she wanted to watch so she.

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<v Speaker 4>Could be turned on.

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<v Speaker 1>You get this bitch about here. Hell's wrong with you

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<v Speaker 1>and it's bitch around here. I'm not with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't surprise him though I would ask him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't don't even ask. Men be looking at you

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<v Speaker 1>like what, No, I might like humor myself like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>what she looked like? It was? It was, It was

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. It was a DOMINATX girl that wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to use me for content when content first started, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, yeah, you know, you just fucked me

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<v Speaker 1>to ask and blah blah blah, and I knew the

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<v Speaker 1>reality it was no chance I would be making no

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucking content. She's like, yeah, we can cover your face.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, in my mind, I'm like there's no chance.

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<v Speaker 1>But I let her humor me with the thought like

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<v Speaker 1>I was flattered, like, oh, you just want my dick

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<v Speaker 1>to be in your mouth? That's crazy. Tell me about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have got no better. Talk to me about

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<v Speaker 1>it for like a week. It's pretty interesting. I felt special.

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<v Speaker 1>She can't nobody'll know what she would just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just be sucking your dick all the time. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, damn, just head on command. It's pretty fucking awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>But now I can't do that. But no Sillings gl

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<v Speaker 1>in the house Red read what's the deal? So I

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<v Speaker 1>saw this post on Facebook, and he said, having a

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<v Speaker 1>baby by a nigga who tell you to abort it

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<v Speaker 1>is weird. If it's not a mutual agreement, it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care fight me. And somebody responded back and said,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say it's weird, but what I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear is you bitching about him not helping when

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<v Speaker 1>it's here. And then somebody says, hear you weird bitches

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<v Speaker 1>go never holding the man accountable for abandoning his child.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the initial lady responds and here you dumb

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<v Speaker 1>bitches go having it with the nigga that told you

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't going to be around for it, and acting

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<v Speaker 1>shocked the nigga not around, bitch, you knew what your

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<v Speaker 1>life would be when you had the fucking baby. What

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck? I don't want to hear this. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear this shit. After holding him accountable or not,

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<v Speaker 1>you still a single mom, bitch, so deal with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Why was they so mad?

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<v Speaker 1>That's always been a deep conversation, right, because it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>if a nigga tell you he don't want the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I saw people in the comments saying the

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<v Speaker 1>same shit. Oh you know what, he shouldn't used no kindom, bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you let a nigga not use cond Like

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<v Speaker 1>planting a seed in dirt spawns fruit or a tree

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<v Speaker 1>or plant. The dirt has no say. Women are the

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<v Speaker 1>dirt that have a say. Yeah, Like if a nigga

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<v Speaker 1>lays on top of you, brit you can say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it ain't no condom. Nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want a baby that's turning straight up with

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<v Speaker 2>what you're trying to do?

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<v Speaker 1>This motherfucker put something? You put them up in this something.

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<v Speaker 3>Because they try it all the time. And so that's

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<v Speaker 3>my thing. I see when people say like you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>complain or whatever because a person told you or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>But I do feel like it takes two you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean in any situation. No, I mean I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not talking about the actual bind.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes one to get you see. See the belief

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<v Speaker 1>is it takes two to have get. No, it takes one,

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<v Speaker 1>only one. I mean like a nigga could do four

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<v Speaker 1>seconds worth of work you do ten months. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>We are not definitely not equal. We are not and

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<v Speaker 1>I've always said this. That's why I understand the whole

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<v Speaker 1>concept of the mom be like, nigga, you know this

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<v Speaker 1>is her problem. She's she was a mom the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time when you didn't want to be a dad. If

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<v Speaker 1>you not being a husband or a great boyfriend, you

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<v Speaker 1>not doing nothing for the kid. She's doing that shit solely.

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<v Speaker 1>So I understand it. But I was thinking about that,

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<v Speaker 1>like how do you feel about that? Bro? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that? Like if a guys like get

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<v Speaker 1>you pregnant, Like, oh, I don't want no baby. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean obviously your life is different now, but prime prime

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<v Speaker 1>prime red.

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<v Speaker 5>Because I didn't want to take that chance. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 5>even play around with it. I mean, now it's it's

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<v Speaker 5>like you said, it's made people. I guess everybody's lazy

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<v Speaker 5>because now there's Plan B, and so Plan B.

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<v Speaker 4>Is used as concceptors. Like you know, so people are

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<v Speaker 4>very reckless.

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<v Speaker 1>But you ever taste the Plan PEP?

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<v Speaker 2>You said, taste one?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what did that taste?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I didn't. I see the thing about having women,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing about having wined. You can ask you.

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<v Speaker 2>Questions, Hey, I've taken the Plan B before.

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<v Speaker 1>What it tastes like?

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<v Speaker 2>It don't taste like it's a pill.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't. You don't, you don't chew it, you don't

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<v Speaker 3>it Yeah, no, you just take it. It is because

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<v Speaker 3>we was having sex and that motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 1>Broke right when the moment of concession. Huh, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, who paid for the pill? Plan? Got? Look?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I told him was sixty dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>I told him it was like fifty yeah, yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 2>I told him. I was like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, break that brand, nick cash app cashap whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Now he was there. We went together, bring it, drop

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<v Speaker 2>it off like that part daddy?

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<v Speaker 1>How was that?

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<v Speaker 2>How was that going to get it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I will go with you to get the condoms,

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<v Speaker 3>So why wouldn't I go with you to go get

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<v Speaker 3>this clam b Like if we if we're deciding that

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<v Speaker 3>we don't want children and we want to make sure

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<v Speaker 3>that we don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Conceive a child, and we both should be going.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if my dude, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 3>even friend, I remember the first time a guy told

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<v Speaker 3>me to bring some condoms. It was my boyfriend. He

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<v Speaker 3>was like, bring some condoms and I had never bought.

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<v Speaker 1>How was that? How was that shopping for condoms for you?

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<v Speaker 3>She was weird as fun because I didn't know, so

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like hitting them, like what what you want?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know.

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<v Speaker 1>The Liu store?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I went to a drug store.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's even cooler because you get the shop.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Women were like, oh let me see what that is?

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<v Speaker 2>It extra?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, this is extra thing? Oh snap? So I

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<v Speaker 3>mean I'm gonna be honest. I was kind of like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh ship, Like oh my god, I'm like mine. But

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<v Speaker 3>after that, I'm like, dude, we're both adults, we both

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<v Speaker 3>want to fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Ship. Let's go get it on deck. Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all went at Was it a fun trip? Was

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<v Speaker 1>y'all laughing?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>We got snacks and ship, you know, to get I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just saying now I'm just playing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just fucking with you. The condoms.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about the plan.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just like we just went and got it, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I need it. Was me.

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<v Speaker 3>I was fucking freaking out because I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not trying to get pregnant. No, the whole purpose of

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<v Speaker 3>us wearing the condoms so I couldn't get pregnant. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh ship the ship, but oh no, let's go.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't playing none of that, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>But.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever had to go get a plan B before.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't go get have somebody bring me plan B.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, we need to go, we need a

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<v Speaker 5>plan B. And it was like the day after he

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<v Speaker 5>got it, Yeah, dropped it off.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you just eat it, just take it, eat it,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, it seemed like a serious pills. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to scramble some eggs and get some like you

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<v Speaker 1>have to eat it with food, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Just you just take it. You just take it.

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<v Speaker 3>And they tell you the quicker you take it, the better,

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<v Speaker 3>better chances. And so it's like you need to take

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<v Speaker 3>they say within the seventy two hours, but you were

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<v Speaker 3>taking that hour within ship mine was the next the

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<v Speaker 3>next it was next morning, it was next morning.

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<v Speaker 1>So y'all just laid up at the bust and.

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<v Speaker 5>That thing just so did did y'all just going and

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<v Speaker 5>keep going since you was gonna buy the planning anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>Because he'll know because I didn't. I didn't think if

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't say it, I'm not saying y'all, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh shit, no, we gotta get I'm saying in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was like, no, we gotta go. You feel

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<v Speaker 3>me like no.

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<v Speaker 1>Wis was playing in the background, and any way.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, damn.

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<v Speaker 3>The opinion is like, oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, hey, I do remember that you got

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<v Speaker 5>to get some scissors, got.

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<v Speaker 2>A knife, you know, and.

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<v Speaker 4>You never purchased a plan B Nah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No. If I got you, Brady used to have

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<v Speaker 1>my baby, So definite matter. I'm not doing abortions.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm saying, but what if you weren't You were

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<v Speaker 3>in a condom and you're you're not trying to have

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<v Speaker 3>any children.

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<v Speaker 1>And if I didn't wear a condom with you, I

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<v Speaker 1>was okay with you getting pregnant, gotcha, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>just very many.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what I'm saying. What if you were wearing a

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<v Speaker 2>condom in it and my situation in it, and you

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<v Speaker 2>asked to.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel it, I don't don't think for one minute, niggas

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<v Speaker 1>can I could feel it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying you didn't feel it. I'm saying, once

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<v Speaker 2>it happened, you don't want to have a baby with her.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have backed out, backed out that thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Like a driveway you know only takes a drop, right, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would have backed out that thing like a driveway.

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<v Speaker 2>Got you, so as you feel it, that shit.

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<v Speaker 1>Go from good to extreme. I actually it don't be good.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonnas. I saw this joke and said condom

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<v Speaker 1>section didn't count. I really thought. I was like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>probably true. Like if you wash your hands with gloves,

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<v Speaker 1>would you say you wash.

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<v Speaker 2>Your hands but you still feeling it? Though you still.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually you really feel the heat?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you feeling it?

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<v Speaker 2>Feel it at all?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 1>You feel a friction?

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<v Speaker 2>What about what the thin ones?

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<v Speaker 1>It don't matter which one you use. That ship is

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<v Speaker 1>purposely meant for the ship not to be on your

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<v Speaker 1>dick and for nothing to get out of it. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're not feeling shit that feel like sex. Like you

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<v Speaker 1>just feeling the friction of in and out and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel the moisture all the shit that makes sex sex.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't feel that. You just feel like a friction

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<v Speaker 1>that heat it up enough to wear you the busting up.

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<v Speaker 4>So you don't feel wetness or none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, No, the condom blocks it. That's the point of

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<v Speaker 1>the condom. It ain't like it lets some things seeping

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<v Speaker 1>and nothing see about wow? Nothing nothing, nothing goes in

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<v Speaker 1>and nothing goes out. Put off your condum and you

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<v Speaker 1>know she starts smelling like a tire.

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<v Speaker 3>That rubber smell is disgusting, bro, Like that ship's fucking.

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<v Speaker 1>Horror smelling like a tire.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey wait, speaking of that, did you see what old

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<v Speaker 3>boy said that he was fucking old girl and he

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<v Speaker 3>found Oh you are us kind of in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure that happens.

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<v Speaker 2>What what you mean for sure that happens? How do

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<v Speaker 2>you I'm talking about as a woman, How do you

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<v Speaker 2>not know that there's.

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<v Speaker 1>Something because a nigga didn't tell them and where it

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<v Speaker 1>would be, it'd be tough for people. Yes, that that

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<v Speaker 1>can happen. I know somebody.

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<v Speaker 5>So like when it came off, she he just she

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<v Speaker 5>thinking that he took it out.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is what happens, right, Like you could be

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<v Speaker 1>drilling and it come off, and you ignoring the feeling

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<v Speaker 1>and you keep drilling and you pushing that motherfucker damn

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<v Speaker 1>And then so like, yeah, I had a condom that

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<v Speaker 1>was like cheap and it happened to me before and

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<v Speaker 1>I had to reach in there with my hand.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I had that, but got it out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was.

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<v Speaker 2>Was his like so you had to get it oh okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it was it was crazy because you just

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<v Speaker 1>keep going and you're like this ship feel really good.

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<v Speaker 1>You stopped, but by that time, you didn't knock that

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker if you got a little reach, you didn't knocked

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<v Speaker 1>that motherfucker back there. And I was like, ah, it's on.

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<v Speaker 1>It came off and it was cheap, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. So she was like, oh my god, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, oh know something. I'm like, let me

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<v Speaker 1>get it out. And we were talking and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>like a real gun of collegist, got that motherfucker out

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<v Speaker 1>and got cracked started again. It really wasn't embarrassing because

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it was a moment. It was a moment.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't that bad. Like it was really different. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like this is strange. Oh it's strange. I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>this is really strange. It was like you're just reaching

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<v Speaker 1>around the pussy and it's just like my hands long.

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<v Speaker 4>I was just about to say, you put like to

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<v Speaker 4>it was like finger.

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<v Speaker 1>Like my hands are really long, like you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Son, It was like yeah, like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get to risks.

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<v Speaker 6>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying you had to put And it was.

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<v Speaker 1>So funny because she was laughing because I'm looking like

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<v Speaker 1>trying to look away. She why are you looking at him?

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<v Speaker 1>Like cud, this is weird. But it was. She made

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<v Speaker 1>it real cool. It was sold, so it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like get it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I give her credit.

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<v Speaker 3>You come, hell no, it just got too good and

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<v Speaker 3>you stopped, like wait a minute, you know it just.

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<v Speaker 1>Happened, but but it might have been like a minute longer.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so you know a minute. There's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of strokes, like even if you like pacing yourself, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like, let's say you're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>stroke every ten seconds to get the full length you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>base to scheft, you mean head to shot like you

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<v Speaker 1>you know this sounds crazy, but you know what I'm saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like that shit could really push it. Like if you're

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<v Speaker 1>telling a girl, hey, I don't want a child, how

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel about it?

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<v Speaker 5>Like they should do what they need to do to

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<v Speaker 5>not have a child, Like, okay, condoms, women, condoms.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying, let's say you didn't do that, and

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<v Speaker 1>then this person is telling you once you say six

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<v Speaker 1>weeks thing I practiced in the situation, he I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want a baby.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's too many things that you could do

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<v Speaker 5>to avoid that if he's telling you that he doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>want a kid, I mean, unless he came and you

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<v Speaker 5>don't know, but.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, because you're going to be wet, Like I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would imagine it's some crazy shit out you don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, But I'm saying, let's say he's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you know at that point he's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want a baby once you're telling you're pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, he gambled and hit the jackpot, like

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<v Speaker 1>what he like, Okay, okay, this is my thought right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's one thing, right because if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to keep the child, let's say you want to get abortion,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't in theory, you don't want him to have

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<v Speaker 1>say in theory, he doesn't have say. In reality, he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have say, Like if you don't want to keep

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<v Speaker 1>the baby, he like, well, I want you to keep

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<v Speaker 1>the baby. This is my part. So I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>part of the separate I don't call it a double standard.

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<v Speaker 1>That's part of the separate standard of you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>man and woman dynamic. A woman has to house a

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<v Speaker 1>development of a child. But it is kind of the

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<v Speaker 1>same situation like when does it know how do you

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<v Speaker 1>really feel about that, Like should it be skewed to

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<v Speaker 1>just your desire? And then at that point, like should

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<v Speaker 1>a person even have to be in your kids life

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<v Speaker 1>if he tell you at six weeks you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want a baby and you have it anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>Should he be forced to be a father?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that you should have to force anybody

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<v Speaker 2>to do anything. I feel.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, like me being a single parent, and

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<v Speaker 3>it took a village to raise my son with me.

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<v Speaker 3>I look at it like and that the person I

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<v Speaker 3>had my child with, he never said he didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>the child.

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<v Speaker 2>He just didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Just Yeah, I mean, now it's different. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 3>way way different. It took a long time for us

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<v Speaker 3>to get there, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>But why do you think he didn't want Is it

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<v Speaker 1>because he wanted to deal with you?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I just think that he was young. I think we

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<v Speaker 3>had we had a child young, and he just didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, some people just don't have that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I say that all the time. Yeah, because you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta think, like we don't. We're not like women, right, women,

0:23:16.000 --> 0:23:21.080
<v Speaker 1>Have you get pregnant, you're a parent immediately immediately you

0:23:21.119 --> 0:23:24.560
<v Speaker 1>could feel growth. I mean I've heard even like the

0:23:24.600 --> 0:23:26.480
<v Speaker 1>second and third week you could feel it and you

0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:28.240
<v Speaker 1>just kind of be like, I have my stomach cuezy,

0:23:28.280 --> 0:23:30.680
<v Speaker 1>but you don't trip. But when it gets about six

0:23:30.760 --> 0:23:33.919
<v Speaker 1>seven weeks, you could really feel it. So we don't

0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:37.800
<v Speaker 1>have that, you know, the things that force you connect

0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:40.920
<v Speaker 1>you to your child, we don't have that. So that's

0:23:40.960 --> 0:23:44.080
<v Speaker 1>why I think when you know the idea of the

0:23:44.119 --> 0:23:47.040
<v Speaker 1>Bible and religion and general and that, like don't have

0:23:47.080 --> 0:23:50.240
<v Speaker 1>sex to you married, because the really the connection for

0:23:50.280 --> 0:23:52.840
<v Speaker 1>a man comes into him caring for a woman while

0:23:52.880 --> 0:23:55.359
<v Speaker 1>she's with child. Yeah, and then you feel that you

0:23:55.440 --> 0:23:56.960
<v Speaker 1>lay up and lay with her and put your hand

0:23:56.960 --> 0:23:59.840
<v Speaker 1>on your stomach whatever all that stuff people do. That's

0:23:59.880 --> 0:24:04.200
<v Speaker 1>how you form a bond. But it's it's almost silly

0:24:04.240 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>to believe that a man could have a connection to

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:11.360
<v Speaker 1>somebody he ain't fucked with for ten months. Heat pop

0:24:11.440 --> 0:24:15.120
<v Speaker 1>up like this me, Lord knows, you know, most time

0:24:15.200 --> 0:24:18.520
<v Speaker 1>the kids don't come out looking like the daddy, you

0:24:18.560 --> 0:24:20.239
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, and niggas just like you know.

0:24:20.320 --> 0:24:23.520
<v Speaker 1>It's it's that bond probably is a lot tougher to

0:24:24.560 --> 0:24:26.760
<v Speaker 1>for a guy to, you know, to just have like

0:24:26.880 --> 0:24:30.280
<v Speaker 1>versus y'all where y'all just waiting to see what this

0:24:30.280 --> 0:24:33.960
<v Speaker 1>motherfucker looks like. Y'all been fucking with each other, y'all

0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:35.880
<v Speaker 1>been You already know what he liked to eat and

0:24:35.920 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>she liked to eat and ship throwing shit up. Don't

0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:41.200
<v Speaker 1>don't send that in here, no more, right, I mean?

0:24:41.240 --> 0:24:46.040
<v Speaker 1>And meanwhile, the nigga justdu what's going on and what

0:24:46.240 --> 0:24:50.640
<v Speaker 1>is it? So if that bond doesn't happen immediately between

0:24:50.720 --> 0:24:52.879
<v Speaker 1>a father and his child, then it comes down to

0:24:53.480 --> 0:24:55.560
<v Speaker 1>do we want to be responsible for something he don't

0:24:55.560 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 1>feel you know niggas. You know niggas only pay a

0:25:00.400 --> 0:25:01.240
<v Speaker 1>car notes on time.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's it's it's a it's a tough out. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a tough out.

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<v Speaker 5>But no, I think that you know, if you're gonna

0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:15.359
<v Speaker 5>lay down with a man or a woman, that is

0:25:15.760 --> 0:25:20.399
<v Speaker 5>definitely a part of the processes that you can have

0:25:20.440 --> 0:25:24.280
<v Speaker 5>a kid. So to say I don't want a kid, Okay,

0:25:24.800 --> 0:25:27.879
<v Speaker 5>we know I don't either. We're gonna do what we

0:25:27.920 --> 0:25:30.560
<v Speaker 5>need to do to not have it. But it happens.

0:25:30.640 --> 0:25:34.879
<v Speaker 4>So now you know this, this is what.

0:25:36.640 --> 0:25:40.160
<v Speaker 5>We're doing, Like you need to be responsible for your child.

0:25:40.680 --> 0:25:43.160
<v Speaker 1>But even if you told you six weeks out, like yeah,

0:25:43.200 --> 0:25:44.639
<v Speaker 1>you need to have an aborture, I don't want a

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:45.240
<v Speaker 1>child with you.

0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:51.119
<v Speaker 2>That's tough, right, that is tough.

0:25:52.000 --> 0:25:54.439
<v Speaker 3>I mean, like you said, like like I said before,

0:25:54.520 --> 0:25:57.720
<v Speaker 3>like you once you make that decision. When I made

0:25:57.720 --> 0:26:00.920
<v Speaker 3>a decision to have my son, and I'll be honest,

0:26:00.920 --> 0:26:03.159
<v Speaker 3>when I was pregnant, I went back and forth about it.

0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:06.920
<v Speaker 3>And when I really sat down and was like, I'm

0:26:06.960 --> 0:26:09.320
<v Speaker 3>having my child, I knew that I was gonna be

0:26:09.440 --> 0:26:11.199
<v Speaker 3>like you said, I was instantly appearing. I was like

0:26:11.359 --> 0:26:14.159
<v Speaker 3>I knew what I was gonna do, Like I was

0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:18.600
<v Speaker 3>gonna do what I needed to dont No, we we

0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:21.240
<v Speaker 3>actually crazy, Like I have a dealer. I've been dealing

0:26:21.240 --> 0:26:23.920
<v Speaker 3>with him since I was like eighteen. And then right

0:26:23.960 --> 0:26:26.760
<v Speaker 3>at the end of us, like finally, because we were

0:26:26.760 --> 0:26:29.160
<v Speaker 3>on and off, we just kept just having issues or whatever.

0:26:29.480 --> 0:26:32.280
<v Speaker 3>And finally at the end of that when I finally

0:26:32.320 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 3>just got the nerve to be like no, I went

0:26:34.920 --> 0:26:38.959
<v Speaker 3>to New York, came back. It was for my birthday

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:41.600
<v Speaker 3>and never forget went out there for my birthday, came

0:26:41.640 --> 0:26:43.400
<v Speaker 3>back and I was feeling sick, and that's my fun

0:26:43.480 --> 0:26:47.080
<v Speaker 3>I was pregnant and I had finally broke up with

0:26:47.160 --> 0:26:49.720
<v Speaker 3>him everything like, and I was so serious, and when

0:26:49.760 --> 0:26:52.200
<v Speaker 3>I tell y'all, I cried, like, uh, it was like.

0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:56.760
<v Speaker 1>My fuck, I couldn't figure out before.

0:26:56.440 --> 0:26:59.960
<v Speaker 3>I cried, cried, cried, cried because I knew, like I knew,

0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:03.880
<v Speaker 3>like I knew I didn't want to be with him,

0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 3>but I also knew that shit, I had a life

0:27:08.320 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 3>in me, and I was like, fuck, I gotta do

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:10.600
<v Speaker 3>what I gotta do.

0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 2>And so that's what I did.

0:27:11.560 --> 0:27:14.280
<v Speaker 3>From from that point on, I became a mother and

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:16.159
<v Speaker 3>I do what I needed to do. And no, I

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 3>never really I didn't go through the course. I don't

0:27:18.440 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 3>do none that should like that. His parents, like people,

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:23.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, like my family, like everybody, pretty much pitched

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:26.720
<v Speaker 3>in with Asia, like all my my family pretty much

0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:29.919
<v Speaker 3>pitched in with helping me raise my son. And you know,

0:27:30.119 --> 0:27:33.359
<v Speaker 3>as he started getting older, that's when him and his

0:27:33.440 --> 0:27:34.760
<v Speaker 3>dad started getting more of a bond.

0:27:34.880 --> 0:27:37.960
<v Speaker 1>And so he just wasn't you, Oh you broke his heart.

0:27:39.000 --> 0:27:41.760
<v Speaker 2>I shit, he broke my heart.

0:27:42.600 --> 0:27:44.359
<v Speaker 1>He went to New York to break up with him.

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:45.960
<v Speaker 3>No, I broke up with him before I went to

0:27:46.000 --> 0:27:49.320
<v Speaker 3>hear it for my birthday because it was I found

0:27:49.359 --> 0:27:51.280
<v Speaker 3>out he was cheated. He was like a composive cheater

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:52.120
<v Speaker 3>like he was I was.

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Always he did not want to be with you though

0:27:56.080 --> 0:27:56.320
<v Speaker 1>he was.

0:27:56.920 --> 0:27:58.960
<v Speaker 2>He wanted to be with me, and he did want

0:27:58.960 --> 0:27:59.840
<v Speaker 2>me to have my baby.

0:28:00.040 --> 0:28:02.800
<v Speaker 3>So you broke his heart, I guess. So he never

0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:04.480
<v Speaker 3>said it to me. But now that you say it

0:28:04.520 --> 0:28:05.440
<v Speaker 3>like that, maybe.

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:09.959
<v Speaker 1>It's funny because that expression mama's baby daddy's Maybe I

0:28:10.000 --> 0:28:12.080
<v Speaker 1>never liked that because it kind of makes women out

0:28:12.080 --> 0:28:14.720
<v Speaker 1>to be worse and and theory, yeah, they can't be.

0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 1>But I think the reality is women have children, men

0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>have families. Mh Like, so a nigga gonna take care

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:26.199
<v Speaker 1>of you and the baby. But it's hard for a

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:29.639
<v Speaker 1>lot of niggas to have that maternal instinct because you

0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 1>don't you don't have it naturally. You know. The paternal

0:28:32.640 --> 0:28:34.840
<v Speaker 1>instinct is more or less about family than.

0:28:35.280 --> 0:28:36.800
<v Speaker 4>Just his first.

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:43.680
<v Speaker 5>His first child, he wasn't like, of course when she

0:28:43.840 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 5>was born, he's like, oh my gosh, like this is

0:28:45.800 --> 0:28:48.640
<v Speaker 5>my daughter. But when we got home, like it took

0:28:49.480 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 5>a minute for them to bond like that, like now

0:28:52.320 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 5>you know she's eighteen months Like that's like they're like

0:28:56.880 --> 0:28:59.240
<v Speaker 5>you know, but it took time where he's like, I

0:28:59.240 --> 0:29:01.600
<v Speaker 5>don't know her, like you know, I don't know her.

0:29:01.640 --> 0:29:03.080
<v Speaker 5>I don't know what she likes, like I don't know

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:04.880
<v Speaker 5>how to do this, like you know, and I'm just like.

0:29:04.960 --> 0:29:07.600
<v Speaker 1>And some people have like like like what do you mean,

0:29:07.840 --> 0:29:11.440
<v Speaker 1>like just you know, because you pitched it from a

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:14.360
<v Speaker 1>woman and it's really different like you I mean even

0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.600
<v Speaker 1>now I see little babies and they come around and

0:29:16.640 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, if they like two three months, I don't

0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 1>want to hold you.

0:29:19.160 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 4>That's how he was too.

0:29:20.880 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Little, like you precious feel you know what I'm saying,

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:28.640
<v Speaker 1>Like it's it's not it's crazy, right. So but I

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:30.880
<v Speaker 1>got some homies who it's not for him. The first

0:29:30.960 --> 0:29:33.800
<v Speaker 1>day they're like, oh my god, I'm a father, is

0:29:33.880 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 1>the greatest thing is in my life? And like, my boy,

0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:41.080
<v Speaker 1>you remember to right, So he was like you know,

0:29:41.200 --> 0:29:43.920
<v Speaker 1>he goes to like he's like a super dad. He's like, yeah,

0:29:43.960 --> 0:29:45.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, I talked to her about everything. I'm like,

0:29:45.480 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would want to talk to my

0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 1>daughter about everything.

0:29:48.680 --> 0:29:50.960
<v Speaker 3>My dad used to talk to me. My dad was

0:29:51.040 --> 0:29:54.160
<v Speaker 3>kind of crazy. It wasn't kind of crazy.

0:29:54.440 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I just I don't think I would want to talk

0:29:56.760 --> 0:30:00.800
<v Speaker 1>to a girl about everything, boy, but a girl that

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:04.720
<v Speaker 1>shit probably break my heart knows the first that she

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:06.880
<v Speaker 1>come home and she gonna tell you like this, boy,

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:11.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, this motherfucker trying to replace me, you

0:30:11.480 --> 0:30:15.360
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So I just thought that that

0:30:15.480 --> 0:30:18.960
<v Speaker 1>was a deep conversation because again, sometimes we use a

0:30:19.040 --> 0:30:21.080
<v Speaker 1>term double standard. I don't think I think men and

0:30:21.080 --> 0:30:23.840
<v Speaker 1>women have two separate sets of standards, which you hate

0:30:23.880 --> 0:30:25.920
<v Speaker 1>bred you you want it to be the same.

0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:31.680
<v Speaker 2>It's just I think I get it. I totally get it.

0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:35.000
<v Speaker 3>I just I just sometimes i'd be like, thang, that's

0:30:35.080 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 3>kind of messed up, but I get it.

0:30:36.840 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, like like men can't be wrse, man can't

0:30:40.880 --> 0:30:44.800
<v Speaker 1>be wholes right, it's because they're spreading seed. That's the

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:47.120
<v Speaker 1>point of it. Women can only be holes because they

0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:51.480
<v Speaker 1>can receive it. Shan, It's just different and it's a

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:55.240
<v Speaker 1>different set of standards, right, But it's also the same way.

0:30:55.320 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I told you, if a man take care of

0:30:56.880 --> 0:30:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you for the rest of your life, you're viewed as successful.

0:31:00.040 --> 0:31:02.760
<v Speaker 1>But if if you take care of a man for

0:31:02.800 --> 0:31:04.600
<v Speaker 1>the rest of your life, you viewed as a failure.

0:31:04.760 --> 0:31:05.560
<v Speaker 4>As a return.

0:31:06.000 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying, you like a man return? Yeah, failure.

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 1>So I just I thought about that and I was like, damn, well,

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:17.400
<v Speaker 1>if she wanted to abort the baby, there is nothing

0:31:17.440 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 1>he can say or do. No, he just have to

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:23.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of talk her into it or whatever or whatever.

0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:26.479
<v Speaker 1>And if she do it, you just asked out right.

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:31.120
<v Speaker 1>But if he wants to abort the baby, it's still

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:36.000
<v Speaker 1>her decision. But whatever comes out is your responsibility. And

0:31:36.040 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh, you should have thought about that before. Well, no,

0:31:38.720 --> 0:31:40.520
<v Speaker 1>you probably should have thought about that before.

0:31:41.400 --> 0:31:43.960
<v Speaker 3>Nowadays, I'm being honest, like, shit, I'm not even I

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:47.880
<v Speaker 3>wouldn't even like if I was single or whatever, and

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:49.880
<v Speaker 3>I'm dealing with guys like when were we talking about,

0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:51.320
<v Speaker 3>Like I wouldn't even want to have sex with none

0:31:51.320 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 3>of these niggas right now, none of these dudes. Like honestly,

0:31:54.480 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 3>it's different now, Like I'm you, I'm gonna literally really

0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:58.800
<v Speaker 3>have to get to know you now, Like there's no

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:03.120
<v Speaker 3>I'll just telling my friends this, Like because we went

0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 3>out a couple of places and I was like, like,

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 3>I literally wouldn't talk to any of these men in here.

0:32:10.040 --> 0:32:12.960
<v Speaker 3>I'd literally it was some guys in there. I was like, oh,

0:32:13.040 --> 0:32:15.800
<v Speaker 3>you all right, you know whatever, But I I was just.

0:32:15.800 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Like why, I don't know.

0:32:17.760 --> 0:32:18.280
<v Speaker 2>I just.

0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:21.680
<v Speaker 1>I think they're gay.

0:32:22.160 --> 0:32:24.600
<v Speaker 3>I think so, you know, I'm so scared of that shit.

0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 3>And I just feel like it's just so crazy right now.

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:31.800
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like, you know what, I respect black

0:32:31.840 --> 0:32:34.600
<v Speaker 1>women because y'all try y'all best to be advocates of

0:32:34.680 --> 0:32:38.160
<v Speaker 1>the LGBTQ community. Like I think, since this's do a

0:32:38.240 --> 0:32:40.880
<v Speaker 1>fantastic job of trying to advocate for it.

0:32:41.000 --> 0:32:43.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's advocating. I think we just try

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:44.240
<v Speaker 2>to have some type of.

0:32:44.680 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 1>Understand you understand. I think that's amazing. Until your nigga is.

0:32:49.000 --> 0:32:52.880
<v Speaker 3>Gay, I mean, of course, cause my if he's my man,

0:32:52.960 --> 0:32:54.480
<v Speaker 3>he's supposed to be my man.

0:32:54.920 --> 0:32:57.960
<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying until yo nigg Like, it's one thing.

0:32:58.000 --> 0:33:00.400
<v Speaker 1>If you call it yo nigga with a girl, that's

0:33:00.440 --> 0:33:03.080
<v Speaker 1>a problem. Fight that nigga. You caught your nigga.

0:33:02.800 --> 0:33:05.200
<v Speaker 2>With a nigga, don't even say that.

0:33:05.200 --> 0:33:08.520
<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh my god, you might just kill yourself.

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>Like if you caught him with a girl, you might

0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:13.600
<v Speaker 1>kill him. If you caught him with a nigga, you

0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:16.200
<v Speaker 1>might kill yourself, you might oh my god.

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:21.560
<v Speaker 4>And it's a lot of that. I mean.

0:33:23.560 --> 0:33:27.800
<v Speaker 5>A lot of women, or at least this generation, they're

0:33:27.880 --> 0:33:31.240
<v Speaker 5>okay with the whole. My men like men and women.

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:34.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't believe that nigga well they're accepting it.

0:33:35.080 --> 0:33:37.960
<v Speaker 1>No, they just they lying. As soon as they break up,

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:41.440
<v Speaker 1>they start calling the nigga gay.

0:33:41.720 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 4>But I'm not.

0:33:42.720 --> 0:33:46.520
<v Speaker 5>But they're except they're in it. It's just like when

0:33:46.520 --> 0:33:49.840
<v Speaker 5>you break up with somebody like that whoopedie whoop.

0:33:49.880 --> 0:33:50.080
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:52.400
<v Speaker 3>So I said about the memory, I was like, I

0:33:52.480 --> 0:33:53.880
<v Speaker 3>can't get right. You like, how are you gonna let

0:33:53.880 --> 0:33:55.680
<v Speaker 3>a man like you can't get right?

0:33:55.720 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 4>And you let him get it?

0:33:56.720 --> 0:33:58.040
<v Speaker 2>Remember, So it's the same shit.

0:33:58.080 --> 0:33:59.680
<v Speaker 3>It's like, come on, man, like, if you're gonna talk

0:33:59.720 --> 0:34:02.040
<v Speaker 3>about I just told my cousin this earlier. I said,

0:34:02.040 --> 0:34:03.960
<v Speaker 3>look cause sheep talking about this dude, right, And I'm like, dude,

0:34:04.000 --> 0:34:05.960
<v Speaker 3>if you could talk about this dude like this, that he.

0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:07.080
<v Speaker 2>Should not be getting no pussy.

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:09.960
<v Speaker 3>There should not be no reason. I said, cause you

0:34:10.000 --> 0:34:14.439
<v Speaker 3>look crazy as hell, give you and you talk, you talk,

0:34:14.480 --> 0:34:16.480
<v Speaker 3>and you know, and you can talk about him like that.

0:34:16.480 --> 0:34:17.960
<v Speaker 3>I said, we got to stop doing that.

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:19.800
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not I'm crazy.

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:22.120
<v Speaker 3>I got another friend. She just saying, so she'll talk

0:34:22.160 --> 0:34:26.680
<v Speaker 3>about a dude like and I'd be like, but there's

0:34:26.760 --> 0:34:29.080
<v Speaker 3>no way, Like I gave can't get right the name

0:34:29.120 --> 0:34:31.279
<v Speaker 3>once I was done with him. That's when he got

0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:32.879
<v Speaker 3>the name can't get right cause I'm like, the reason

0:34:32.920 --> 0:34:35.640
<v Speaker 3>why you're not with me? Or I can't that's what

0:34:35.680 --> 0:34:37.319
<v Speaker 3>you because you can't get right. So that was a

0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:39.759
<v Speaker 3>reminder of my phone every time he text her call

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:42.239
<v Speaker 3>like don't yeah, like.

0:34:43.600 --> 0:34:44.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, don't answer.

0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:46.880
<v Speaker 1>That is crazy.

0:34:46.960 --> 0:34:48.719
<v Speaker 3>It's the truth though, if you got if you can

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:50.879
<v Speaker 3>sit there and talk bad about a person that's a man,

0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:52.560
<v Speaker 3>you shouldn't be doing it.

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:53.799
<v Speaker 2>Why are you screwing them?

0:34:53.880 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 1>But I said the same thing all the time, like right,

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:59.600
<v Speaker 1>it's like women are in this weird tobacco right where

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:03.799
<v Speaker 1>they will fuck somebody they wouldn't cook for. Like I

0:35:03.840 --> 0:35:06.120
<v Speaker 1>remember this girl was telling me it was actually my sister,

0:35:06.160 --> 0:35:08.640
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, yo, like, hey, why would you

0:35:08.680 --> 0:35:10.400
<v Speaker 1>give this nigga some pussy? Like if you don't want

0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:12.359
<v Speaker 1>to fuck with anymore? Well, I'm just saying, nigga want

0:35:12.360 --> 0:35:13.919
<v Speaker 1>me to cook for him and all that watch his clothes.

0:35:13.920 --> 0:35:16.680
<v Speaker 1>He want wifey duty wife he duties, is giving him

0:35:16.719 --> 0:35:17.520
<v Speaker 1>some pussy.

0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:21.920
<v Speaker 2>I think so too, Like I would rather she.

0:35:22.040 --> 0:35:26.040
<v Speaker 1>Do everything but give him some pussy, like you would

0:35:26.080 --> 0:35:28.640
<v Speaker 1>get a lot. Further, if you gave a nigga everything

0:35:28.719 --> 0:35:31.320
<v Speaker 1>buzz some pussy, a nigga would look at you different

0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:33.520
<v Speaker 1>in respect. I stand by it. If you think you

0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:36.240
<v Speaker 1>cook for a niggas as much as y'all be fucking

0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:38.640
<v Speaker 1>these nigga when y'all was in y'all prime and y'all

0:35:38.680 --> 0:35:40.399
<v Speaker 1>was out there, you know, running the streets with your

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:43.160
<v Speaker 1>thugs and all that shit. If you cook for as

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:45.600
<v Speaker 1>much as the nigga you gave pussy too, that nigga

0:35:45.600 --> 0:35:50.480
<v Speaker 1>would have a different appreciation for your existence. Again, it's

0:35:50.560 --> 0:35:54.239
<v Speaker 1>like I said to you before on a different podcast,

0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:57.920
<v Speaker 1>it's entirely too many people taking a cheap route. Pussy

0:35:57.960 --> 0:36:01.440
<v Speaker 1>is easy, That's what I'm saying. Pussy you, y'all understand

0:36:01.440 --> 0:36:04.160
<v Speaker 1>that ship between yall legs used to have real value.

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Y'all have the it's it's it's inflated like it's pussy everywhere.

0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:16.440
<v Speaker 1>It's niggas getting it's new pussies, niggas getting pussies, and

0:36:16.480 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 1>they line like like they lie like they've been had

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:22.040
<v Speaker 1>the pussy, and it's niggas would pussy. So pussy is

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:25.719
<v Speaker 1>nowhere near liking you. Nigga. One hundred years ago, you

0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:29.799
<v Speaker 1>had to marry her to get some pussy. Now you

0:36:30.000 --> 0:36:33.440
<v Speaker 1>just gotta look presentable that day. It's just you. Just

0:36:33.480 --> 0:36:36.040
<v Speaker 1>the look of the draw. She's just like, I'm giving pussy.

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:38.799
<v Speaker 1>This is the pop look that you hit it on.

0:36:38.880 --> 0:36:43.359
<v Speaker 1>The price is right bridge pussy on the wheel, don't

0:36:52.600 --> 0:37:00.560
<v Speaker 1>it's fucking to night. I'm just saying. So it's weird

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:04.920
<v Speaker 1>because that's what it is. And and you have motherfuckers

0:37:04.920 --> 0:37:07.160
<v Speaker 1>who women will give pussy to but feel like they

0:37:07.320 --> 0:37:09.880
<v Speaker 1>not worship. I'm like, well, why would you give this

0:37:09.960 --> 0:37:10.880
<v Speaker 1>nigga some pussy?

0:37:11.840 --> 0:37:12.040
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:37:12.400 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 1>Why would you let him get a piece of you?

0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:17.960
<v Speaker 1>A piece of your soul? And for some false sense

0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:19.719
<v Speaker 1>of like you did something that you wanted to do.

0:37:19.960 --> 0:37:21.719
<v Speaker 1>You did not want to just give this nigga no

0:37:21.800 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>pussy and then him to be a piece of shit.

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:26.879
<v Speaker 1>I don't give a fuck. What do want to say

0:37:26.920 --> 0:37:27.560
<v Speaker 1>about that ship?

0:37:27.680 --> 0:37:31.520
<v Speaker 6>You want to know, don't want to marry, You don't

0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:33.920
<v Speaker 6>want to marry, but you want him to be a

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 6>solid nigga.

0:37:34.719 --> 0:37:38.200
<v Speaker 1>Like look you just gave his niggas a pussy for nothing.

0:37:38.920 --> 0:37:41.200
<v Speaker 3>It's nothing worse than giving niggas some pussy and see

0:37:41.239 --> 0:37:43.200
<v Speaker 3>him be like, damn, I fuck, why did I do that?

0:37:43.440 --> 0:37:44.560
<v Speaker 4>Was up?

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:46.160
<v Speaker 1>And that's gonna be eighty percent of the nigga.

0:37:50.320 --> 0:37:54.680
<v Speaker 3>No, it's not, it's not, but I definitely have one

0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:56.120
<v Speaker 3>or two that I'll definitely be like.

0:37:56.080 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 1>What out of every ten? What was I think out of.

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:07.240
<v Speaker 5>Tea trying to play ten niggas?

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:08.640
<v Speaker 2>You fud in your prime?

0:38:09.280 --> 0:38:11.400
<v Speaker 1>What Y don't try to?

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 5>I was like I was in a relationship I was.

0:38:14.760 --> 0:38:16.440
<v Speaker 5>I was like, under.

0:38:17.280 --> 0:38:19.520
<v Speaker 1>Probably I ain't for to get to her count. But

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:24.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, I'm just saying, most likely, pretty much more

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:27.240
<v Speaker 1>than not, you should have navigated that nigga though pussy

0:38:28.360 --> 0:38:29.719
<v Speaker 1>pretty much more time than not.

0:38:30.120 --> 0:38:33.240
<v Speaker 3>I look at it like if you if you didn't,

0:38:33.719 --> 0:38:37.280
<v Speaker 3>especially if you didn't like only God like only.

0:38:37.120 --> 0:38:39.000
<v Speaker 1>God like, I'm not, don't.

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:41.280
<v Speaker 4>Do that A couple that I'm gonna say, like, why did.

0:38:41.120 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 2>I do this?

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:44.440
<v Speaker 1>It's more than a couple because you like.

0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:49.960
<v Speaker 3>No, I honestly think it's I think it's a handfuls

0:38:50.000 --> 0:38:51.520
<v Speaker 3>three for sure.

0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:54.520
<v Speaker 2>Three gods. I can say right now.

0:38:54.920 --> 0:38:58.479
<v Speaker 1>What was I thinking. And then three niggas you probably

0:38:58.480 --> 0:38:59.279
<v Speaker 1>didn't even cook for.

0:39:03.840 --> 0:39:04.080
<v Speaker 4>One.

0:39:04.200 --> 0:39:05.839
<v Speaker 1>You gave a niggas a pussy and you wouldn't even

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:08.840
<v Speaker 1>make him food. That just show what your value is

0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:09.960
<v Speaker 1>for your cooking and your body.

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:14.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, no, you probably just didn't want that.

0:39:14.320 --> 0:39:16.279
<v Speaker 2>You know you probably just like you said, no.

0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Nigga, donna not want no motherfucking cooking.

0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm saying you. The woman may not have wanted that.

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:23.400
<v Speaker 3>Maybe she just was using him for the pen how

0:39:23.400 --> 0:39:23.919
<v Speaker 3>about that.

0:39:24.400 --> 0:39:28.520
<v Speaker 1>But see, that's my point. That's not impossibly to happen,

0:39:28.520 --> 0:39:31.239
<v Speaker 1>because I do think it's some sick ass I do

0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:33.200
<v Speaker 1>think it's some sick ass women. But you can't tell

0:39:33.239 --> 0:39:33.840
<v Speaker 1>me you don't like this.

0:39:34.080 --> 0:39:36.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying, yo, you have to definitely like something.

0:39:36.760 --> 0:39:38.440
<v Speaker 1>Any nigga you like you want to nourish.

0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:40.000
<v Speaker 2>No, not every nigga.

0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I like every last nigga you like you want to

0:39:43.040 --> 0:39:45.200
<v Speaker 1>nourish you, whether you know it or not, giving him

0:39:45.239 --> 0:39:48.880
<v Speaker 1>some pussy is a nourishment of his confidence. You can

0:39:48.920 --> 0:39:51.880
<v Speaker 1>get the same excitement of him liking the motherfucking food.

0:39:51.880 --> 0:39:57.200
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just saying it's most likely. I don't know

0:39:57.280 --> 0:40:01.000
<v Speaker 1>it's just like pussy cooked meals. Like cooked meals went

0:40:01.120 --> 0:40:04.680
<v Speaker 1>up and pussy went down. The stock of cooked meals

0:40:04.800 --> 0:40:07.080
<v Speaker 1>is through the roof and pussy is at like on

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:10.919
<v Speaker 1>the floor. Pussy was a stock, it'd be like one

0:40:10.960 --> 0:40:15.200
<v Speaker 1>cent a year. Yeah, Pussy's easy. You don't got to

0:40:15.239 --> 0:40:16.920
<v Speaker 1>go through nothing to get pussy.

0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:19.640
<v Speaker 4>It's hard to get a woman to cook for you, man, she.

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:22.920
<v Speaker 1>Really gotta fuck with you. And then if you go

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:26.200
<v Speaker 1>like to think about it, like pussy is ain't no joke,

0:40:26.320 --> 0:40:32.080
<v Speaker 1>Like like, pussy is like nothing right now. Damn pussy,

0:40:32.280 --> 0:40:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not lying to you. Pussy is nothing right now. Boy,

0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Pussy is like beanie baby. That shit ain't worth nothing.

0:40:44.440 --> 0:40:47.840
<v Speaker 1>That sh it is like five cents. Pussy is like

0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:50.799
<v Speaker 1>bubble gum. You know what I mean. Remember bubble gum

0:40:50.800 --> 0:40:52.680
<v Speaker 1>when we was little. Bubble gum is to get thing.

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:54.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, they used to have a little pack of bubble.

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:56.960
<v Speaker 1>That ship was like a bubble gum nigga. That ship

0:40:57.000 --> 0:40:59.080
<v Speaker 1>in a little pussy is in a little champion ship.

0:40:59.120 --> 0:41:00.839
<v Speaker 1>You put the quarter in the hern a little nab

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:04.120
<v Speaker 1>and pussy come out the little dispenser. You know what

0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:05.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean. You to chew that ship and throw that

0:41:05.800 --> 0:41:09.960
<v Speaker 1>ship out, oh God, into a new one.

0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:12.600
<v Speaker 4>It's just you ain't never lie though.

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:14.640
<v Speaker 1>It's just it's just where we're at. And I think

0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:17.680
<v Speaker 1>it's all part of that. Yeah, it's all part of

0:41:17.719 --> 0:41:20.920
<v Speaker 1>that streamline of sex, like we've been talking about sexy,

0:41:20.960 --> 0:41:24.360
<v Speaker 1>that streamline of simple thought where it's like, oh, it's nothing,

0:41:24.640 --> 0:41:28.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm like him, I just give You're not like me, Bro, No,

0:41:28.680 --> 0:41:31.279
<v Speaker 1>you're not. You're just not. That's not to say you

0:41:31.320 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 1>can't fuck him and not call him no more. That's

0:41:33.080 --> 0:41:35.960
<v Speaker 1>not the point. It's just when he owned you. It's different.

0:41:36.040 --> 0:41:38.719
<v Speaker 1>Like if if, like if a nigga you fuck with

0:41:38.760 --> 0:41:40.399
<v Speaker 1>future and he said you fuck that nigga, he might

0:41:40.400 --> 0:41:42.760
<v Speaker 1>be looking at you crazy, like you gave that nigga's

0:41:42.760 --> 0:41:45.920
<v Speaker 1>some pussy. Like that's the thing. Yeah, and it's a

0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:49.759
<v Speaker 1>weird space. Bro. I got homies who byter fuck behind me,

0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:53.000
<v Speaker 1>and they thought that made them like me because she

0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:55.879
<v Speaker 1>gave you some boy. I don't. My praise don't come

0:41:55.880 --> 0:41:58.680
<v Speaker 1>from the pussy I get. These bitches will fuck anybody.

0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:02.200
<v Speaker 1>This bitch, you fuck the nigga that couldn't even get right.

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:04.640
<v Speaker 3>I fucked him before I knew he can't get right.

0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:08.759
<v Speaker 3>He was good, you know, reference just be good.

0:42:08.960 --> 0:42:11.200
<v Speaker 1>No, you was fucking him after you knew he couldn't

0:42:11.200 --> 0:42:13.720
<v Speaker 1>get right, and then you can't gave some more pussy

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:14.440
<v Speaker 1>after that, and he was.

0:42:14.440 --> 0:42:15.959
<v Speaker 2>Like one more time.

0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:17.919
<v Speaker 1>So if you gave me one more time, that means

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:21.960
<v Speaker 1>you gave a nigga that you did like some pussy.

0:42:22.120 --> 0:42:23.640
<v Speaker 3>I had already gave it to him, so I'm like,

0:42:23.960 --> 0:42:25.240
<v Speaker 3>I gotta godot.

0:42:27.360 --> 0:42:32.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't playing my face like that. No, it's definitely

0:42:32.239 --> 0:42:32.799
<v Speaker 2>not like him.

0:42:32.840 --> 0:42:35.359
<v Speaker 3>But you know, I just felt like, well, ship, I mean,

0:42:35.400 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 3>instead of me going and trying to get some new pain, already.

0:42:40.920 --> 0:42:41.440
<v Speaker 4>Don't do it.

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 5>I just I told me, don't do it.

0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:49.600
<v Speaker 3>That's when I stopped, when I realized time. This is

0:42:49.600 --> 0:42:53.319
<v Speaker 3>what I'm telling you guys. I'm telling myself he can't

0:42:53.360 --> 0:42:55.560
<v Speaker 3>get right. I'm like, you can't get right. I got

0:42:55.600 --> 0:42:57.600
<v Speaker 3>this in my phone and you're going to see him.

0:42:57.920 --> 0:43:01.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm telling myself this, look, I have absolutely no problem.

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:04.000
<v Speaker 3>And that sounds crazy. It's saying I talked to myself,

0:43:04.000 --> 0:43:05.879
<v Speaker 3>but I do, like girl, you know.

0:43:07.360 --> 0:43:09.520
<v Speaker 4>In the mirror answer answering yourself.

0:43:09.560 --> 0:43:11.399
<v Speaker 3>So I'm not saying I'll be in a mirror saying

0:43:11.400 --> 0:43:13.560
<v Speaker 3>that ship but I will literally sit there and be like, bitch,

0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 3>you're you crazy, Like you literally just went to.

0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:20.759
<v Speaker 2>You're going, you're on your way to go get this.

0:43:21.800 --> 0:43:22.480
<v Speaker 2>You know you're not.

0:43:23.280 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 3>You're not about to know you're not dealing with So

0:43:25.480 --> 0:43:27.800
<v Speaker 3>don't think that we don't go through those things. We

0:43:28.400 --> 0:43:30.919
<v Speaker 3>still literally just still I mean to me, like I said,

0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:32.359
<v Speaker 3>I was like, let me go get my rocks off,

0:43:32.400 --> 0:43:35.080
<v Speaker 3>because it may be a while to like get some,

0:43:36.680 --> 0:43:41.040
<v Speaker 3>but it's not it's not worth it after them.

0:43:40.080 --> 0:43:42.279
<v Speaker 2>Because you're still gonna be signing them after you do it.

0:43:43.000 --> 0:43:45.560
<v Speaker 2>After you do it, you be looking at him like what.

0:43:45.400 --> 0:43:47.080
<v Speaker 1>The you a't to convince me?

0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:49.279
<v Speaker 5>I mean you might, you know, you might be giving

0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:52.600
<v Speaker 5>them some pussy, you know, wanting to be in a

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:56.279
<v Speaker 5>relationship with them, But then you realize that that's not

0:43:56.400 --> 0:43:57.000
<v Speaker 5>what they want.

0:43:57.040 --> 0:43:59.160
<v Speaker 4>They're not trying to go there.

0:43:59.200 --> 0:44:01.439
<v Speaker 1>And then you have to say, which is my point

0:44:01.440 --> 0:44:03.840
<v Speaker 1>of why you should be which is my point of

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:06.719
<v Speaker 1>why it should have never been getting it should have

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:09.200
<v Speaker 1>been cooking for the nigga, you know what I mean, Like,

0:44:09.320 --> 0:44:11.319
<v Speaker 1>let me wash your clothes, nigga, I'm gonna drop off.

0:44:11.440 --> 0:44:17.799
<v Speaker 1>Like f goes back to care, attention and connection women see.

0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:20.120
<v Speaker 1>Pussy used to be a value, Like if a woman

0:44:20.160 --> 0:44:22.400
<v Speaker 1>gave you pussy, she wanted to marry you, She's gonna

0:44:22.400 --> 0:44:24.520
<v Speaker 1>cook for you, she'd have did anything because she already

0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:27.160
<v Speaker 1>did it before she gave you some pussy. But y'all,

0:44:27.200 --> 0:44:31.520
<v Speaker 1>generation of the generation right before, y'all drop the value

0:44:31.520 --> 0:44:34.200
<v Speaker 1>of pussy. So now it's like, oh, I'll get you pussy.

0:44:34.239 --> 0:44:36.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't even gotta like you. And then it's just

0:44:36.800 --> 0:44:41.360
<v Speaker 1>been dropping ever since. It's on the floor, the bottoms

0:44:41.360 --> 0:44:46.680
<v Speaker 1>out of pussy. The bottoms out, the bottom is out

0:44:46.680 --> 0:44:50.040
<v Speaker 1>on pussy right now, pussy, right now, boy, pussy. The

0:44:50.080 --> 0:44:51.880
<v Speaker 1>stock is solo. Weal to what you can buy it

0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:54.640
<v Speaker 1>to that pussy for about a cent one cent of stock,

0:44:56.719 --> 0:44:58.239
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. And it ain't never coming

0:44:58.320 --> 0:45:02.360
<v Speaker 1>up again, not in this cut. It's gonna be nothing,

0:45:02.400 --> 0:45:04.799
<v Speaker 1>you feel me. So I was just thinking about that

0:45:04.880 --> 0:45:07.000
<v Speaker 1>when I was reading that, I'm like, why would you

0:45:07.000 --> 0:45:07.840
<v Speaker 1>give some pussy to.

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<v Speaker 4>A nigga don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>To Yeah, like you given some bear pussy to.

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<v Speaker 4>Him, man, he don't want to have a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>And you didn't find out he didn't want to have

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<v Speaker 1>a baby because somewhere along the line, you not with

0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:25.000
<v Speaker 1>this nigga, yep. Okay, Okay, you're not married to him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you really shouldn't be giving no pussy if you're not married.

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<v Speaker 1>But I get it. We two hundred years were moved

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<v Speaker 1>from that smart idea. Now we living in this dumb

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<v Speaker 1>ass idea. Right, So you give n pussy to a

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<v Speaker 1>nigga that ain't your nigga, all right? We passed that

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<v Speaker 1>up seventy years ago. Back probably seventy years ago, you

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get pussy from a woman unless she was your girl. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>like the generation right before, y'all generation became like I

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<v Speaker 1>just gotta want to give him some pussy and he

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<v Speaker 1>can get some pussy to where Now it's like girls

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<v Speaker 1>don't even like nigga. They're like, well, I'm just give

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<v Speaker 1>him some pussy anyway because it's Thursday.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm not giving away Thursday.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a generation'll generation doing that, y'all generation is I

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<v Speaker 6>still like you, I'm gonna gee some pussy, but I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not sure you still want to be with me even

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<v Speaker 6>though I like you.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna get some pussy because if I I

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<v Speaker 1>can enjoy what I'm about to feel I can enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm about to feel, and maybe we might end

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<v Speaker 1>up talking for real if he liked this pussy and

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<v Speaker 1>I can get my rock so that generations they She

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<v Speaker 1>might give him some pussy and don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>be with him. She might just be like, here go

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<v Speaker 1>some pussy, like you know, like a magic going to

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<v Speaker 1>a place where they give free samples, and it's like

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<v Speaker 1>not in front of the restaurant, it's just like on

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<v Speaker 1>the corner. That's how women is today, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>how you go to like Costco. They'll have the product

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<v Speaker 1>right there, you know what I'm saying. They'll have a

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<v Speaker 1>product right there. I mean, and you can buy a product,

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<v Speaker 1>but imagine being somewhere where the product wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>At and you're still getting the same.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like they just giving samples. Wow, that's where

0:47:04.040 --> 0:47:07.520
<v Speaker 1>women at today. Women just giving samples away that nobody

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:10.960
<v Speaker 1>know where the restaurant at, just picking up the tooth

0:47:11.000 --> 0:47:14.040
<v Speaker 1>pick and taking the sample, throwing that shit down, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the same motherfucking company be like the company will

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<v Speaker 1>be bragging like yeah, you know, eventually I'm gonna get

0:47:20.560 --> 0:47:22.600
<v Speaker 1>somebody who want to just eat what I got forever,

0:47:23.239 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 1>Like I'll be watching porn stars straight up be talking

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<v Speaker 1>about like, yeah, you know when I find my man,

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<v Speaker 1>your man, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at them, I mean, carry to a porn star.

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<v Speaker 2>She's married and he fucking them all.

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<v Speaker 1>Say, but let's be for real. We know that's going.

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<v Speaker 1>That's going married, but you know what that's going.

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<v Speaker 4>They've been together for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>But mister Marcus, he retired.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't He retired.

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<v Speaker 1>He had to retire out the pussy, He had to

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<v Speaker 1>get out of the business. Yeah, I just I just

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<v Speaker 1>think there's this weird culture of people feeling like and

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<v Speaker 1>I get it to have it all culture. Oh I

0:48:00.719 --> 0:48:04.359
<v Speaker 1>could have it all, and it's like, no, you you're

0:48:04.400 --> 0:48:08.160
<v Speaker 1>really not supposed to and you're not. You're not gonna

0:48:08.160 --> 0:48:10.239
<v Speaker 1>have it all. You You can't go out here and

0:48:10.239 --> 0:48:12.359
<v Speaker 1>be a whore and think that one day nigga gonna

0:48:12.360 --> 0:48:13.799
<v Speaker 1>realize and he loves you so much that he ain't

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:16.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna care you was a whore. He gonna be looking

0:48:16.120 --> 0:48:20.200
<v Speaker 1>at your motherfucking ass like you fucking dirty horror like

0:48:20.239 --> 0:48:23.719
<v Speaker 1>you gotta think. We think highly of women like me

0:48:23.800 --> 0:48:26.239
<v Speaker 1>and naturally like Tupac. You listened to Tupac when he

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<v Speaker 1>was like eighteen nineteen twenty interviews, he'd be like, you know,

0:48:28.840 --> 0:48:31.200
<v Speaker 1>she such a delicate flower and he was so and

0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:33.760
<v Speaker 1>then like fast forward to like twenty four, man, fuck

0:48:33.800 --> 0:48:39.839
<v Speaker 1>a bitch. Bitches ain't shit. Remember he was writing all

0:48:39.840 --> 0:48:43.399
<v Speaker 1>the nice songs like his heart, like keep you Yeah,

0:48:43.440 --> 0:48:45.839
<v Speaker 1>the girl I put him in fucking prison. He found

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<v Speaker 1>out she was a little horror.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh shit, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying. And he tried to they flipped her

0:48:50.840 --> 0:48:53.600
<v Speaker 1>and shit, and she was mad and he was in trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>Then next you know, he's wonder why they call you bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>You went from keep your head up to wonder why

0:48:58.880 --> 0:49:01.160
<v Speaker 1>they call you bitch? He ain't have no motherfucker uplifting

0:49:01.200 --> 0:49:03.960
<v Speaker 1>songs for the holes on all eyes on them. He

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:05.440
<v Speaker 1>wasn't uplifting y'all nowhere.

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<v Speaker 2>He was not.

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<v Speaker 1>He was explaining why y'all wasn't ship the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>it was all about you you had everybody.

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:22.040
<v Speaker 2>Was because nobody even realized that he was mad man.

0:49:22.719 --> 0:49:27.480
<v Speaker 1>Because y'all rucuse life. He went from like keep your

0:49:27.480 --> 0:49:30.560
<v Speaker 1>head off and talking about the baby that the niggas

0:49:30.560 --> 0:49:35.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't y'all so you than what they call you mentioned

0:49:35.920 --> 0:49:38.440
<v Speaker 1>every little city I go get your little fun at

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<v Speaker 1>everybody video, all the saults, ready streets with your thought I.

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<v Speaker 2>Finished with but see that.

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<v Speaker 3>Lets you know, y'all, y'all man be real sensitive about

0:49:48.920 --> 0:49:52.520
<v Speaker 3>ship like that. Man, y'all you get your heart broke, man,

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<v Speaker 3>y'all be on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Man. My dad told me he was the way he

0:49:55.760 --> 0:49:57.400
<v Speaker 1>was because he got his heart broke when he was

0:49:57.480 --> 0:49:59.440
<v Speaker 1>I thought my dad was just a stone cold player.

0:49:59.440 --> 0:50:03.120
<v Speaker 1>That nigga was a hurt man. He was damaged. He

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<v Speaker 1>went through some of a girl, broke his hart on

0:50:04.360 --> 0:50:05.920
<v Speaker 1>these like twenty two. He's like, I'm for here on now,

0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:07.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna keep a pair and the spear nigga that

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like the.

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<v Speaker 1>Nigga this is a traumatic response.

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<v Speaker 2>The fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to take my pop player, give me that back.

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<v Speaker 1>You hurt you? Oh yeah. But I believe in pain.

0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I believe in in the drops in the high. I

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<v Speaker 1>ride my lows and my highs together, so I don't

0:50:38.920 --> 0:50:41.839
<v Speaker 1>I don't rest my laurels on one or the other.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've been hurt, like my feelings that got hurt

0:50:46.600 --> 0:50:48.680
<v Speaker 1>and broke, heart broke, you know what I mean. But

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<v Speaker 1>I've also rolled on the greatness of love and feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like the possibilities with somebody like man, this person could

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<v Speaker 1>be like the greatest thing. So I ride my highs

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<v Speaker 1>and lows together.

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<v Speaker 5>M hm.

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<v Speaker 1>I ride my highs and lows together. So it everybody

0:51:07.680 --> 0:51:10.920
<v Speaker 1>else don't do that. They focus on the extremely hot

0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:15.480
<v Speaker 1>days or the extremely cold days. I accept the weather,

0:51:16.920 --> 0:51:19.279
<v Speaker 1>and I enjoy the weather, so I take the hot days.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I'm at my most painful moments, I might

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<v Speaker 1>play Bill Withers, you know, maybe she'll be happier with him.

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<v Speaker 1>And then in my greatest days, I might be playing

0:51:30.120 --> 0:51:32.920
<v Speaker 1>Marvin Gay. I want you like I ride all of

0:51:32.920 --> 0:51:35.320
<v Speaker 1>the shits through life. I don't attach to them all

0:51:35.440 --> 0:51:38.400
<v Speaker 1>like more than one or the other. I'm not dying

0:51:38.440 --> 0:51:40.880
<v Speaker 1>for a life of happiness, like I'm not scared of

0:51:40.920 --> 0:51:44.359
<v Speaker 1>a life of sadness. So I work for me. It's

0:51:44.440 --> 0:51:46.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of like living. It's like you know what I mean.

0:51:46.680 --> 0:51:49.239
<v Speaker 1>You feel everything when you do it like that. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been hurt, of course, but I've been happy.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been It'll take you some time to bounce back

0:51:57.239 --> 0:51:58.040
<v Speaker 5>from that hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, I mean, yeah, your feelings be hurt, You're like damn,

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, I mean it's like lifting weights. You know

0:52:05.200 --> 0:52:06.240
<v Speaker 1>what I mean when you tell your.

0:52:06.160 --> 0:52:08.359
<v Speaker 4>Muscle, some people don't get back out there.

0:52:08.440 --> 0:52:11.400
<v Speaker 1>So well, it's like when you're lifting weights, right, you

0:52:11.480 --> 0:52:13.640
<v Speaker 1>rip your muscles in half so they can they stretching

0:52:13.680 --> 0:52:16.280
<v Speaker 1>half and they separate and then they grow back stronger

0:52:16.320 --> 0:52:18.440
<v Speaker 1>and then they get bigger. That's how my heart is, right,

0:52:18.480 --> 0:52:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Like it was ripped and hard, but then it's I

0:52:21.080 --> 0:52:23.239
<v Speaker 1>let it here and I never stopped going to the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>and it grew back stronger, and then you can love

0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:29.399
<v Speaker 1>harder and stronger. That's my belief. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, let's see you like, Yeah, you're good?

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<v Speaker 1>What good looking out for tuning into the Note Sellers podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>This episode was recorded right here on the West Coast

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