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Speaker 2: Nicholas is on the phone today for a first Day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Lauren.
Speaker 2: So we're gonna call her in a little bit and
Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
Speaker 2: maybe get him another day. But first, Nicholas, how long
Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Lauren?
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, probably like five.
Speaker 4: Days or so.
Speaker 5: But how often did you, guys communicate leading up to that?
Speaker 3: What do you mean like being like leading up to
Speaker 3: being ghosted?
Speaker 6: I guess I've.
Speaker 1: Been leading up to the date. Was it like you
Speaker 1: matched somewhere and you decided to go directly on a
Speaker 1: date or were you talking for a little while before that?
Speaker 3: So we met at a like a wine charity event.
Speaker 3: We were both there for work, and you know, we
Speaker 3: bumped into each other. We're looking at some of the
Speaker 3: items that are going for like a silent auction, and
Speaker 3: there were just like some crazy stuff so that were
Speaker 3: coming for auction. So we just you know went through
Speaker 3: made fun and some of the items together there and
Speaker 3: stuff like that, weird items.
Speaker 6: So that's how you met. That sounds fun though.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it was pretty cool.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 3: I mean we you know, we exchange numbers and just
Speaker 3: decided to go to dinner our first real date together.
Speaker 3: So I took her to like find the pizza place.
Speaker 3: We've got something to eat lost. You know, we talked
Speaker 3: about our jobs, pets, you know, where we want to go,
Speaker 3: like our dream vacations, you know what we're looking for.
Speaker 3: On the partner, it was it was really easy.
Speaker 5: Did your wants and stuff line up?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it sounded like we were on the
Speaker 3: same page. I mean, she she spent the entire time
Speaker 3: last thing. You know, we had a really good date, so,
Speaker 3: I mean I was a little bit nervous actually on
Speaker 3: the on the dates, so I was a little bit
Speaker 3: digity filled the water on myself. When the first pizza came,
Speaker 3: I knocked on the floor. I was, my god, I
Speaker 3: was I was mortified.
Speaker 6: You didn't pick up the pizza and eat it after.
Speaker 3: But you know, she she laughed and you know, she
Speaker 3: laughed and it was so it didn't seem like it was.
Speaker 6: That big of a deal.
Speaker 3: You know, we got another bottle of wine and I could,
Speaker 3: like none of it happened, so it seemed like everything
Speaker 3: went well.
Speaker 5: A nice way to recover from that.
Speaker 1: Honestly, you've been there. I definitely spilled all over myself
Speaker 1: more than once. So it's okay. How did everything end?
Speaker 3: I think it went it ended well. I mean, you know,
Speaker 3: when when she was leaving, we kissed each other in
Speaker 3: the cheek and she was such a great time and
Speaker 3: you know I put her in the uber and she
Speaker 3: had a big smile on her face. So I felt
Speaker 3: like it went really well.
Speaker 6: And did you guys talk out all after the date?
Speaker 3: No, that's it not all I've I've called her twice,
Speaker 3: exted her nothing.
Speaker 6: Why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 3: I have no clue. Maybe the pizza thing. Maybe she
Speaker 3: thought I was like a nervous person.
Speaker 6: Okay, but that you can't think of anything?
Speaker 3: No, I mean to me, everything went well. The only
Speaker 3: thing to think of is, like, like I said, like
Speaker 3: I was really nervous and I came off a little
Speaker 3: bit fidgety and stuff. But I don't think anything else.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure out
Speaker 2: for you to play a song, come back and then
Speaker 2: call her and see will tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date. Okay, awesome, Thanks guys,
Speaker 2: all right, play song come back, Get your first dae
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Speaker 6: If you're just joining us for today's first day follow up.
Speaker 2: Nicholas is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
Speaker 2: a woman named Lauren. We're about to call her and
Speaker 2: see if she's tell us why she's ghosting him, and
Speaker 2: maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Nicholas,
Speaker 2: why don't you remind everybody about your date with Lauren.
Speaker 3: I went about how we met. We at a wine
Speaker 3: charity event. But you know, after that, we went on
Speaker 3: our first real date, went to this really fancy pizza place.
Speaker 3: Everything went well. I mean I was a little bit nervous.
Speaker 3: I spilled the first pizza, but everything ended really well.
Speaker 3: Put her on an uber and you know, you gave
Speaker 3: each other a kissing my cheek and she had a
Speaker 3: really big smile on face. So I assume everything went well.
Speaker 6: Neighbor with the big smile, he sounds like, yeah, it does,
Speaker 6: all right. Well, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Please?
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Lauren. Please,
Speaker 2: Hello Lauren. My name is Jubel and I host the
Speaker 2: Rats Show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Lauren Whole shows Here. My name is Nina. Hi,
Speaker 5: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6: How are you Hi?
Speaker 4: Good? God? How are you guys?
Speaker 6: Good? Do you listen to the show?
Speaker 4: Of course?
Speaker 6: Thanks? Well have you ever heard a first day follow
Speaker 6: up before? Then?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Here you a what if I told you were about
Speaker 6: to be the star of one?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 6: Yeah, we got an email about you from someone that
Speaker 6: you're ghosting.
Speaker 4: But I'm ghosting anyone?
Speaker 2: Is there anybody that you went out on a date
Speaker 2: with that you're not calling back or not talking to?
Speaker 7: Well, I mean I'm dating. I mean I'm on the
Speaker 7: absence stuff like that. So I have gone on a
Speaker 7: couple of days recently.
Speaker 6: Yes, have you gone on a date with the dude
Speaker 6: named Nicholas?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Well Nicholas emailed us because he says you're
Speaker 2: ghosting him.
Speaker 7: Well, not boasting him. I mean it was one date.
Speaker 7: So it's not like it's not like serious commitment or
Speaker 7: anything like that. It was it was literally one date.
Speaker 6: Okay, but you so, but you are not talking to
Speaker 6: him on purpose?
Speaker 7: Yeah kind of, But it's not like it's not quite
Speaker 7: like that because there just wasn't really anything that would
Speaker 7: warrant us for a second date.
Speaker 5: You know, that's not what he thinks.
Speaker 7: Well, I mean he's he's a really sweet guy, don't
Speaker 7: get me wrong.
Speaker 4: I mean we went to an event.
Speaker 7: We had a good time, but that's like that's not
Speaker 7: really First of all, that was not a date. That
Speaker 7: was something that we both just happened to be at.
Speaker 7: So let's cratch that as being a date. We did
Speaker 7: go to a pizza place, and yes, that was a date,
Speaker 7: but honestly, I mean it was one date. It was fun,
Speaker 7: it was fine, but I wasn't like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 7: I can't wait to go on another date with Nicholas,
Speaker 7: like I have to have him in my life type thing.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, anything happened, well no, I mean, like I said,
Speaker 5: he was really sweet.
Speaker 4: He definitely was super nervous and it was cute.
Speaker 7: It was definitely cute, but he and I don't even care.
Speaker 7: Like he did spill some stuff, like he spilled his drink,
Speaker 7: he spilled the pizza. I was like, okay, they's play
Speaker 7: kind of cute and funny, but it wasn't somebody that
Speaker 7: was like.
Speaker 4: Knocking it out of the park for me.
Speaker 7: Or anything like that. And we had wine, so that's all,
Speaker 7: you know, that makes it super fun too. But other
Speaker 7: than that, I mean, yeah, we had some good conversations,
Speaker 7: but there are conversations do you have in a first
Speaker 7: date with everyone, right, Like, Okay, where do you want
Speaker 7: to go on vacation? I want to go to Ireland?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 4: Do you have any pets?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 4: My dog is named Junior. I am oh.
Speaker 7: I wouldn't say bored, but he wasn't up to my level.
Speaker 7: I guess that makes me sound really snotty.
Speaker 5: But if you want to say not on your level,
Speaker 5: that's your choice.
Speaker 7: Well, no, he's just like he. I don't think that
Speaker 7: him and I would have like a fun time together
Speaker 7: all the time.
Speaker 5: Okay, just no chemistry.
Speaker 4: Do you guys see what I'm saying. Yes, okay, well
Speaker 4: it sounds way better, by the way.
Speaker 6: Thanks for telling us. Appreciate that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, And Nicholas is on the phone and has
Speaker 2: been listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6: I should show you that.
Speaker 4: Hey, Lauren, that's fine. Hi, how are you. I'm good.
Speaker 3: I was just I know, to me, it just seemed
Speaker 3: like you had a really good time on the data.
Speaker 3: I mean, you were smiling the whole time, and everything
Speaker 3: seemed like it was going really well.
Speaker 7: Well yeah, I mean I was smiling person. I'm a
Speaker 7: smiley person anyway. And the other thing is like we're
Speaker 7: drinking wine. I had a couple of gummies. So I
Speaker 7: it's just I would be me, you know, I just
Speaker 7: I was living my bed life.
Speaker 5: That always helps a little bit, I would imagine.
Speaker 3: So why did you say that we should do it again? Then?
Speaker 4: Well, that's just what people say. It's like the plight thing.
Speaker 7: Like, it's like the same thing when I run into
Speaker 7: an acquaintance acquaintance, Oh we should.
Speaker 4: Hang out sometimes.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm probably not going to hang out with them.
Speaker 7: We're just acquaintances. It's just something you say, Oh yeah
Speaker 7: we should go out again.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, sure whatever, I get it.
Speaker 7: You guys seem like you're tugging me.
Speaker 6: I'm not. Yeah, well, like when.
Speaker 7: You go to date, you know how, Like when I
Speaker 7: go on a date, I like to have a little
Speaker 7: bit of something to make the date fun and kind
Speaker 7: of get me through it, because you know, when you're
Speaker 7: on these apps and you're going on so many dates.
Speaker 4: You just need to like, you know, chill.
Speaker 7: So that's why I might have seemed a little extra
Speaker 7: flirty or a little extra smiley, because I just had
Speaker 7: a little courage, you know, a little little gummy courage,
Speaker 7: you know, and I wanted to be myself as much
Speaker 7: as possible and not be super nervous. Would he obviously would. Honestly,
Speaker 7: you should probably take a gummy or two before going
Speaker 7: on dates.
Speaker 4: Okay, Am I right? Am I right? I get it.
Speaker 3: I mean, doesn't really feel like you're being yourself because
Speaker 3: you got to take something, you know, to switch you
Speaker 3: out of the mental state that you're in. So it
Speaker 3: doesn't sound like you're being yourself if you're taking a gummy.
Speaker 3: But it's cool. I get it. You know, you do
Speaker 3: whatever you want. But I'm not into drugs, so.
Speaker 4: It's not drugs. It's a gummy. It's like chill pill.
Speaker 6: Have you et someone that right now? This call?
Speaker 4: I wish?
Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, I probably would be a lot more.
Speaker 2: Work by day, Lauren, Would you like go with with
Speaker 2: Nicholas on another day?
Speaker 6: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: Not really?
Speaker 6: Okay, sorry.
Speaker 7: Nicholas fight like he's super sweet, but he's just different.
Speaker 7: His world is different than my world.
Speaker 5: It's probably a good thing for you than Nicholas to
Speaker 5: know that your worlds are different, so you can find
Speaker 5: somebody in your world.
Speaker 3: Sure, that's fine. I don't want to go with a
Speaker 3: drug addict anyway.
Speaker 7: I'm not a freaking drug addict. I Oh, okay, so
Speaker 7: I like to have some gummies whenever I'm you know,
Speaker 7: going to on dates.
Speaker 4: Like that's not that big of a deal.
Speaker 3: All right, cool. I mean that's your thing, whatever.
Speaker 4: It is my thing.
Speaker 7: Do you know what I'm saying?
Speaker 4: You guys like he's just kind of boring.
Speaker 5: It's cool.
Speaker 1: It just sounds like you guys are different. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: all right, it's very different.
Speaker 2: But thank you for thank you for taking the time
Speaker 2: to explain that to us and Nicholas, thank you for
Speaker 2: doing the first thing.
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Speaker 6: Appreciate it, guys.
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