WEBVTT - Season Break Nugget 3: Cross-Pollinating

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there. We're looking for couples to write into Dear

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea for a very special episode that's coming up next season.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're a couple or a throuble who wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call in and get advice together, go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>write into Dear Chelsea Project at gmail dot com to

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<v Speaker 1>get your questions answered. Hi there, Hi guys. We're on hiatus,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're back with little nuggets many episodes. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>people have followed up with us about stuff we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to them about and it's very exciting and we will

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<v Speaker 1>be back with season three May. Yes, we have an

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<v Speaker 1>update from Alex from the UK, who was He called

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<v Speaker 1>in on our Shawn Hayes episode. He was feeling sort

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<v Speaker 1>of depressed and unmotivated and he said, since speaking with

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea and Shawn Hayes, have taken their advice and found

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<v Speaker 1>it really helpful. Sean recommended that I write a list

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<v Speaker 1>of goals and tuck it away somewhere, and Chelsea recommended

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<v Speaker 1>that I prioritize myself care a little more and started

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<v Speaker 1>by downloading head Space, which is Have you used that, Chelsea? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have used it too. It's fantastic. Ye, it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good to meanitation app especially for beginners. Yes, starting

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<v Speaker 1>to do both of these things has really helped me

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<v Speaker 1>focus on work when I needed to and take much

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<v Speaker 1>needed time away as well, and has led me to

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<v Speaker 1>making some pretty big life decisions. I'm quitting my job

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<v Speaker 1>next month and moving across the country to move in

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<v Speaker 1>with my boyfriend. It's time for me to stop waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for the right opportunity and just go for it. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really excited by these changes, and I'm really thankful to

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<v Speaker 1>you guys for helping me start thinking about my life

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<v Speaker 1>and positive changes I can make. So thank you, Alexow Alex.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to take full credit for that, Alex, because

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<v Speaker 1>I remember Shawn Hayes being here and he was fucking useless.

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<v Speaker 1>His advice was some of the worst advice I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that, I mean talk about I don't remember

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<v Speaker 1>him saying he had a boyfriend. He neglected to tell

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<v Speaker 1>us that part I might be gay. Good for you,

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<v Speaker 1>Good for you for taking your life, taking control of

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Yes, absolutely. And our next update comes from Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>She was the one who had had like any boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>got pregnant, had an abortion, and he was really horrible

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<v Speaker 1>to her about it. It was on our Amy Schumer episode,

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<v Speaker 1>so Sarah says, thanks for checking in. Things have been

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<v Speaker 1>going really well since talking to Chelsea, and I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be more grateful for our conversation. After the podcast aired,

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<v Speaker 1>I had friends from literally all over reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>me and share their own stories of toxic relationships, finding

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<v Speaker 1>love after, and even offering to put me in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with friends of theirs who had gone through their own

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<v Speaker 1>abortion experiences. Long story short, Chelsea truly helped me realize

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't have to go through this process alone

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<v Speaker 1>and that it is okay to take my time and

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<v Speaker 1>not put this weird pressure on myself to heal and

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<v Speaker 1>move on. It was also very validating to hear her

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<v Speaker 1>give me credit for the hard steps I've already taken

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been working on also giving myself that same credit. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you and Amy Schumer for the advice. I'm learning

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<v Speaker 1>something from every episode that airs, so thanks for also

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<v Speaker 1>being my weekly therapy. Wishing you all the best. Sarah. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. I love about Sarah. Thanks for giving us

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<v Speaker 1>an up date. Updates are the best yea. And because

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<v Speaker 1>we don't get bad ones, because why would they I

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<v Speaker 1>took Chelsea's advice, and now my life has ended in ruins.

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<v Speaker 1>So far have not gotten any of my life is

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<v Speaker 1>in tramples. Okay, good, good, good, good good vibes. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Good Vibe podcast Good Vibes on me um. I

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<v Speaker 1>have standing updates that I want to promote you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>This weekend May five, I will be in Los Angeles

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<v Speaker 1>at the Wiltern. I have two shows. Oh you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have coming, Oh you are already coming. You have your tickets? Great?

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<v Speaker 1>And then Friday night, San Francisco the Masonic. There are

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<v Speaker 1>still tickets available for the second show. There's two shows

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<v Speaker 1>early and late. And I will be having a very

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<v Speaker 1>special guest at my San Francisco show, somebody who also

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<v Speaker 1>has shows in San Francisco that weekend. We will be

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<v Speaker 1>cross pollinating our stages. Okay, excellent, all right. We'll see

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<v Speaker 1>you guys on May twelve. Bye bye,