Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ren An iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing.
Speaker 1: In, scrubbing in, and I gotta say that I feel
Speaker 1: honored to just live in the same time period as
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: We always That's a consistent feeling I have, Like she
Speaker 2: is unparalleled.
Speaker 1: I don't care what anybody says. She's in a league
Speaker 1: of her own, beyond beyond beyond a league of her own.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we're going to get into that a little
Speaker 1: bit later on our Hot topics.
Speaker 5: Yeah, are hot takes on Hot Hot bakes on Hot Topics.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: It's funny because I feel like Haley and I have
Speaker 2: this conversation often and I'm like, you were on stage
Speaker 2: and performed with Taylor Swift twice. Yeah, like the biggest
Speaker 2: artists that will we will probably have in margin.
Speaker 1: Parted with Taylor Swift after the grand I didn't do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but like performing on a stage of that
Speaker 2: size that she's on, true, and he was like, I
Speaker 2: just every time sometimes a clip will pop up from
Speaker 2: that tour, the Reputation tour where Haley performed. It will
Speaker 2: pop up on TikTok and I'm like, babe, She's like,
Speaker 2: I cannot I can't believe that's real.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pretty wild.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really fun watching all the Should we
Speaker 2: get right into.
Speaker 1: That, I mean, I feel like we shoud discuss our
Speaker 1: weekends a lot. I really want to talk to you
Speaker 1: about your Instagram posts because it really created quit.
Speaker 2: I might just I don't know if I can get
Speaker 2: through that without crying. But we can attempt.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's attempt. So do you want it for people
Speaker 1: that did not see your Instagram story?
Speaker 3: Do you want to? Yeah, I'll just tell the story.
Speaker 2: So I think I've I mean, for I grew up
Speaker 2: very Christian, Like, I grew up in a very Christian culture.
Speaker 3: I grew up in the South.
Speaker 2: I went to church like Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday,
Speaker 2: growing up, like it was very much a part of
Speaker 2: my life. And then once I was into high school,
Speaker 2: it was more like my decision of like going to
Speaker 2: youth group and I went to a Christian school. Like
Speaker 2: my whole life was based in religion, and I think
Speaker 2: even when I moved out to California, it was kind
Speaker 2: of the same thing.
Speaker 3: And then like over the I want.
Speaker 2: To say, there was a shift when my sisters came
Speaker 2: out to me because I was like, Okay, everything I've
Speaker 2: always thought about, like homosexuality and same SEXU relationships, like,
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, I had a shift where I
Speaker 2: was like, this doesn't fit me anymore, right, because now
Speaker 2: it's like people that are like my everything are affected
Speaker 2: by this mentality. So I kind of started there where
Speaker 2: I was like not questioning my faith, but just kind
Speaker 2: of like the church and the like the religious aspect
Speaker 2: of it all. And so then when Haley and I
Speaker 2: started dating, I remember like one of the first times
Speaker 2: we hung out, I was like, yeah, so, like what
Speaker 2: do you believe? And she was like, yeah, I didn't.
Speaker 2: I didn't really grow up with like a religion. I
Speaker 2: didn't like practice a religion. I just you know, kind
Speaker 2: of just believed in the good of people, but never
Speaker 2: had anything specific that I believed in. And I was
Speaker 2: just like shocked, Like in my mind, I was like,
Speaker 2: how how do you live life? Not like I just
Speaker 2: it was so far from where I came from. And
Speaker 2: so our whole relationship, you know, that's always been a
Speaker 2: thing where she knew that that was so important to me,
Speaker 2: like my relationship with God and she asked questions about it.
Speaker 2: She's never been disrespectful at all about my faith or
Speaker 2: my beliefs, And I've always respected the fact that she
Speaker 2: didn't grow up like that or didn't have that background.
Speaker 2: And I also get why she wanted want to have
Speaker 2: association with the church in terms of like how they've
Speaker 2: treated gay people, and like her knowing she was, like
Speaker 2: knowing that she was gay her whole life and like
Speaker 2: knowing that that was the stigma around it. I get it,
Speaker 2: Like I get why there's never been like an interest
Speaker 2: in that. But anyway, he's always been super respectful, and
Speaker 2: I've navigated the challenges of like, you know, hard conversations
Speaker 2: I've had with friends and family who are Christian that
Speaker 2: have been probably the cruelest, hardest conversations that I've had
Speaker 2: in terms of like my relationship with Haley, right, And.
Speaker 3: So I think and especially.
Speaker 2: During twenty twenty, I think I really took a step
Speaker 2: back and I was like, what's going on here? Like
Speaker 2: there was so much separation, There was so much like
Speaker 2: negativity and heat, and I was just kind of like,
Speaker 2: what's my association with this? Like if i claim that
Speaker 2: I'm a Christian, am I going to be associated with
Speaker 2: these people that I don't want to be associated with, right,
Speaker 2: And I never felt like it was God Like. I
Speaker 2: never felt like, Okay, that's them. They're just humans. They're imperfect,
Speaker 2: Like church is full of imperfect people. And I never
Speaker 2: you know, people always be like, it's not every church,
Speaker 2: it's not every Christian. I'm like, I get that, but
Speaker 2: if if someone gets like her or abused by something,
Speaker 2: you're not like, just forget, forgive and forget and go
Speaker 2: back to it, you know. So I've always, I think
Speaker 2: the past few years, I've really just tried to figure
Speaker 2: out where I stand in that. And it's been really
Speaker 2: hard and uncomfortable and such a deep like sacred part
Speaker 2: of me that I never felt like I wanted to
Speaker 2: just give it up. But I just didn't know where
Speaker 2: I stood with going to church or like putting myself
Speaker 2: in that situation. And So Haley has a friend who
Speaker 2: is an artist and he recently well he didn't really
Speaker 2: I don't know. He came out like a year ago,
Speaker 2: and he grew up in the church. His parents are pastors.
Speaker 2: He was like a worship leader everything, and he was
Speaker 2: kind of like I stepped away from the church. He
Speaker 2: was like, but I ended up going to this church
Speaker 2: with some friends. It's like an affirming church, and he
Speaker 2: was like I just sat and like balled my eyes
Speaker 2: out being in worship. And I was like, oh, what's
Speaker 2: the church, you know, like maybe I could try and
Speaker 2: go visit there. And this was months ago and I
Speaker 2: talked to Haley and I was like, I would like
Speaker 2: to go to church and she was like, well, I said,
Speaker 2: but I don't know if I I don't want to
Speaker 2: go alone. I don't know, like if anyone want to
Speaker 2: go with me. And she was like, oh, I would
Speaker 2: go with you and that alone. I was like wait what.
Speaker 2: I was like, you would go with me? And she's
Speaker 2: like yeah, of course, Like if you want me to
Speaker 2: go with you, I'll go with you. So things have
Speaker 2: just been crazy busy. I haven't even really thought about
Speaker 2: it again. And all week she was like, hey, I
Speaker 2: I want to plan something on Sunday.
Speaker 3: Are you free? And I was like, yeah, I think
Speaker 3: I'm free.
Speaker 2: I can be free, and so she was like she's like, Okay,
Speaker 2: it's in the morning and we just need to leave
Speaker 2: your house by like ten o'clock in the morning. And
Speaker 2: I was like that's early for us on a Sunday,
Speaker 2: like we don't typically like get up and go anywhere
Speaker 2: like on Sundays, like we like sleep in, and so
Speaker 2: I literally thought I had never had the John and
Speaker 2: Vinnie's breakfast since I've been talking about going to breakfast there.
Speaker 2: And I was like, are we going to John and
Speaker 2: Vinnie's since she was like, I want to surprise you.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to tell you.
Speaker 2: So I realized that we weren't going to eat because
Speaker 2: she like made me a piece of toast, and I
Speaker 2: was like, what the heck are we doing? I was like,
Speaker 2: are we doing a matinee concert? Like we talked about
Speaker 2: our morning concert?
Speaker 3: And so we pull in.
Speaker 2: Traffic was horrible because the LA Marathon. She was like
Speaker 2: so flustered because and I was like, can't you just
Speaker 2: call like wherever we're going, can you call and let
Speaker 2: him know we're just running a little late.
Speaker 3: And she's like, yeah, no, I can't really call this.
Speaker 2: So we pull in and it took me a second,
Speaker 2: but I realized that we were at the church that I.
Speaker 6: Had wanted to go to, and I was like so
Speaker 6: overcome with like the most profound type of love, because like.
Speaker 2: That was the most selfless act that someone could do
Speaker 2: for me, you know yeah, And I think she's been
Speaker 2: such a rock of listening to me and she knew
Speaker 2: what it would meant mean to me, and so it
Speaker 2: was like really cool, like walking in hand in hand
Speaker 2: and being in such a place then I needed like
Speaker 2: healing with, you know yeah, and being with someone who's
Speaker 2: brought that healing to my life and is like listen
Speaker 2: to the.
Speaker 3: Struggle of it all. And so.
Speaker 2: I just like could I could like barely even like
Speaker 2: think about it during church because I was just like
Speaker 2: so overwhelmed by it. And so we got in the
Speaker 2: car and I was like, I don't I don't really
Speaker 2: have words, like I literally don't know if I've ever
Speaker 2: felt so like scene yeah, and like genuinely.
Speaker 3: Cared for like that.
Speaker 2: So it was just like I it like shifted a
Speaker 2: whole new part of me and how I view her
Speaker 2: as a person because I know, I know she loves
Speaker 2: me so much, but like, I think it was just
Speaker 2: such a selfless act that and like totally cut me
Speaker 2: off guard, and it was just really thoughtful and selfless,
Speaker 2: and it's the story isn't even about like honestly, the
Speaker 2: story isn't even about church and religion. It was like
Speaker 2: about love, like finding someone who sees you and like
Speaker 2: sees the parts of you that maybe they don't understand,
Speaker 2: and and and.
Speaker 1: Is willing to be uncomfortable in a space that means
Speaker 1: so much to you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was it was just like very overwhelming
Speaker 2: in the best way.
Speaker 4: Have you talked to her about it since?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I mean I all day yesterday. I was just like
Speaker 2: thank you like that, and you know, I was like,
Speaker 2: how did you feel, Like what did you feel in there?
Speaker 2: And She's like, I felt, you know, I felt very safe.
Speaker 2: It felt it very welcoming. I didn't feel like ashamed
Speaker 2: or you know, uncomfortable. And I was just like really
Speaker 2: proud of her because it was like that takes a
Speaker 2: lot of bravery, Like I don't know if I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm literally just trying to wrack my brain like have
Speaker 2: I ever done that for someone?
Speaker 3: Like where I put myself in a position like that.
Speaker 3: But yeah, it was just really sweet.
Speaker 7: All right.
Speaker 4: He got me going to how was the church?
Speaker 3: The church was great?
Speaker 2: I mean it was just nice to be I come
Speaker 2: from such a very like charismatic type background where like,
Speaker 2: you know, you leave and it's like very emotional and
Speaker 2: like there's a lot of emotions around it, but it
Speaker 2: just felt nice to be comfortable and safe and in
Speaker 2: a place that was new, but still not feel like, oh,
Speaker 2: like am I good here? Like yeah, do I want
Speaker 2: to stay here and send the sea? But I'm definitely
Speaker 2: gonna go back and try, you know, go again. And
Speaker 2: I was like, thank you so much for doing that.
Speaker 2: She was like, well, I told you that I wanted
Speaker 2: I would go with you, so I wanted to do
Speaker 2: it before I left for tour.
Speaker 1: So it really is so emotional because like I get
Speaker 1: what you're saying, do you know what I mean? I
Speaker 1: get what you're saying about the church, and I get
Speaker 1: what you're saying about your relationship with God. And it's
Speaker 1: not the same thing, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: it's very different. And you know, I have these conversations
Speaker 1: with Robbie too because he's Jewish, which is totally totally different,
Speaker 1: you know, religion, and I feel the same way that
Speaker 1: you feel about Haley. You know, it's a totally different circumstance.
Speaker 1: But I feel like he embraces my faith and my
Speaker 1: relationship with God and always is willing to go and
Speaker 1: wants to learn and like I'm the same way with
Speaker 1: his faith too, you know.
Speaker 4: And I think that oftentimes people kind of look at.
Speaker 1: You and they can judge you, and you know, like
Speaker 1: I've gotten a lot of people saying like, how could
Speaker 1: you be with a man that's Jewish, And it's like
Speaker 1: it's everything is not one size fits all, and so
Speaker 1: I think it's about having respect for each other and
Speaker 1: loving unconditionally and.
Speaker 4: Being that rock.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2: And I think that's why it's so crazy, because the
Speaker 2: shift of how my mind worked of like I remember
Speaker 2: being like I would I could never be with someone
Speaker 2: who didn't share the same faith like that was and
Speaker 2: all be all for me, And yet I'm with someone
Speaker 2: who literally couldn't be more opposite of like what I expected,
Speaker 2: and I experienced something that was so powerfully like impactful.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So yeah, that was our wed and then we had
Speaker 2: a great day and we ate the best pasta that
Speaker 2: I think I've ever had.
Speaker 3: It was like homemade pasta. Where met him at a bar.
Speaker 4: What's the place?
Speaker 2: Yeah, And they have a pasta it's delicious and it's
Speaker 2: on Librea And then across the street they have like
Speaker 2: a breakfast spot and it's called met her at a bar.
Speaker 8: Oh this obviously things, So yeah, it's not then I'm
Speaker 8: smart on someone else's part, damn.
Speaker 3: So yeah it was.
Speaker 2: It was great, And to be honest, we start I
Speaker 2: started the weekend with a girl's night out with you
Speaker 2: and Ali and it was so fun, Genna, because Tany
Speaker 2: and I had a conversation I guess it was last
Speaker 2: week after the podcast, actually saying like it's just you know,
Speaker 2: you get into these relationships and you get it's like
Speaker 2: we love being around the people that we're with and
Speaker 2: we just like want to be with them all the time.
Speaker 2: But it's so important to invest in like our friendships
Speaker 2: and have that space to like go out and you know,
Speaker 2: these relationships, my friendships are just as important as my
Speaker 2: relationship with Haley and like putting in the time and
Speaker 2: like intentional effort. Because you and I talk every week,
Speaker 2: but it's like like.
Speaker 3: We were beyond that.
Speaker 2: We don't get together and like, you know as much
Speaker 2: as we used to do we talk all.
Speaker 4: The time, Yeah, we don't physically get together.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So we were saying, like be intentionally, be intentional about it,
Speaker 2: and Allie and I were talking about it and she
Speaker 2: said the same thing.
Speaker 3: So we were like, let's go.
Speaker 1: Except Ali wanted to take it to a whole other
Speaker 1: level and she was like, each week we all invite
Speaker 1: a different friend into the girl's night out.
Speaker 4: And I was back and I were like, no.
Speaker 3: Condra didn't say anything, and then I was like, yeah.
Speaker 2: I think it's more about like really focusing on these friends,
Speaker 2: like this relationship, and then like you know, we can
Speaker 2: do another thing where we like in my people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels very stressful too, very.
Speaker 1: Stressful to be responsible for like picking somebody that's gonna
Speaker 1: like come in.
Speaker 3: Vibe with the group.
Speaker 2: Ribes, but yeah, it was really fun and we had
Speaker 2: just like got dressed up cute when and had cute
Speaker 2: drinks and dinner.
Speaker 3: You had a.
Speaker 1: Drink, yeah, I had one drink. Yeah, and honestly was
Speaker 1: kind of drunk. It really like the cutting back really
Speaker 1: kind of lowers the tolerance.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then what else did you do?
Speaker 1: My weekend was action packed because it was rob one
Speaker 1: of Robby's kids' birthday weekends, and so we just did
Speaker 1: so many things, like he took them, He took him
Speaker 1: and his friends to Benny Hannah for the birthday dinner,
Speaker 1: and then I took his other kid to like Colory mine,
Speaker 1: and then we went to dinner just the two of us,
Speaker 1: and then Saturday we filmed a movie trailer. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever gone into iMovie and
Speaker 1: tried filming trailers in there.
Speaker 3: But they're actually like really cool.
Speaker 1: And like actually very user friendly, and so the kids
Speaker 1: just learned about it like the other week. So we
Speaker 1: spent literally all Saturday filming a movie trailer, talking like
Speaker 1: eleven am to four pm is when we wrapped.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it actually was really fun.
Speaker 1: But they wanted to do a movie too, and I
Speaker 1: was like, at this rate, a movie is gonna take us.
Speaker 3: A week a year. Oh yeah, we do.
Speaker 7: This in Wisconsin. Uh, my father in law writes a
Speaker 7: script and then when we get there we I'll take
Speaker 7: our parts and perform it and record it and edit
Speaker 7: it and make it into a little film. Oh my god,
Speaker 7: every year, not every year, four times.
Speaker 3: That's really fun to have to look back on. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it was actually.
Speaker 4: Robby got like really into it.
Speaker 1: He like put like on a piece of paper, he
Speaker 1: put every scene like what we were going to do
Speaker 1: for every scene.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we found like a map. It was like a
Speaker 4: hidden map.
Speaker 1: Treasure chest in our backyard or whatever, and so he
Speaker 1: like wrote a map and like lit it on fire
Speaker 1: and like really like he really went all in on it,
Speaker 1: which you know I love.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got dressed up into characters so that was
Speaker 1: really fun, and then went to the Kings game Saturday night.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Let me just tell you, hockey, if you're a sports
Speaker 1: gurly or if you're wanting to be a sports gurly,
Speaker 1: hockey is the sport.
Speaker 4: Because it is action packed. It's not boring.
Speaker 1: You're like baseball, like you're watching stuff all the time.
Speaker 4: So heart mark, but it's true.
Speaker 1: There's like so much action going on. And then when
Speaker 1: there's not action, like they're like flipping periods or whatever.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you call it, overturning the Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's there's like so much stuff on the JumboTron. They're
Speaker 1: constantly like interactive and like doing fun games with people,
Speaker 1: and like, I don't know, I just find it to
Speaker 1: be pumping like jams.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I find it to be a really fun, pleasant experience.
Speaker 1: So hockey is my sport.
Speaker 2: I don't know, so unexpected because it's pretty aggressive. I
Speaker 2: wouldn't see you as like a person liking the like
Speaker 2: aggression of hockey.
Speaker 1: When you sit far enough back, like you don't see
Speaker 1: them like slam into the glass, and so it's just
Speaker 1: not as a brace okay. Yeah. And then yesterday we
Speaker 1: did a barbecue. It was like raining in La So
Speaker 1: it's kind of a weird one. But yeah, there's like
Speaker 1: a family celebration for his son. So it's a very
Speaker 1: action packed I did like, I feel like I lived
Speaker 1: ten lives this weekend.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of felt. I felt like it was
Speaker 3: a busy.
Speaker 2: We went on we went to like Westlake Village and
Speaker 2: went on a boat, like a little duffy boat.
Speaker 3: With Haley's friends que It was so fun.
Speaker 2: We got our favorite sandwiches and the one I told
Speaker 2: you about, and we just rode around in the duffy
Speaker 2: and I love I just love being on water.
Speaker 3: I love being in a boat on water because.
Speaker 4: You're a scorpio.
Speaker 3: Oh that's gonna be why totally? Why?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And then we and then yesterday it was just like
Speaker 2: pat Haley's just got so much to do before tour.
Speaker 2: So we like, you know, went to church, went to lunch,
Speaker 2: went to like did all her work stuff, went shopping.
Speaker 3: It was a busy day. I slept really well.
Speaker 1: Actually we both saw Robbie and I both saw your
Speaker 1: Instagram story, and I was like, we need a church
Speaker 1: together next week.
Speaker 4: It's done, so.
Speaker 3: I couldn't even read.
Speaker 2: I got so many like messages, even not just from
Speaker 2: uh like people that I don't know, but from like
Speaker 2: friends and people I know that were so emotional, Like
Speaker 2: I could barely even like open my Instagram this morning.
Speaker 2: I was just like, but like in the best way,
Speaker 2: like I was just sharing it more as like it
Speaker 2: was just such an a special act of love. And
Speaker 2: I always hesitate, like do I share these things like
Speaker 2: they're so personal?
Speaker 3: But like also it's.
Speaker 1: Such a thing because like, let's say you wrote a
Speaker 1: list like five years ago of the perfect.
Speaker 4: Person of your in your life. You know, you would
Speaker 4: have said, like.
Speaker 1: Muscles, good job, Christian, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 1: you would have given it all these things, And in reality,
Speaker 1: what really matters is the character and the person that
Speaker 1: you're with, you know what I mean, not all those
Speaker 1: external things. And I think if anybody's listening and they
Speaker 1: have that list, rip it up, baby.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think we both probably had lists that are not
Speaker 2: like that didn't come to number one on my list
Speaker 2: yet Persian jew.
Speaker 5: And I got me a lesbian Jesus Jesus, Oh I did,
Speaker 5: I did.
Speaker 1: I did discover a new thing and and it's gonna
Speaker 1: be called the Hey Babe Series and it's all thanks
Speaker 1: to Taylor Swift. So we'll take a quick break and
Speaker 1: we'll get into that. It might be on work calls
Speaker 1: usually picks up, Hey babe, Hi, can you hear me?
Speaker 4: Did you know Taylor Swift grew up.
Speaker 1: On a Christmas tree farm?
Speaker 3: But did you know that? Did you know? Yes? She did?
Speaker 2: She did in Pennsylvania. That one may have been his
Speaker 2: most impressive fact.
Speaker 4: I love you.
Speaker 7: He's like in a board meeting. Sorry, everybody, I need
Speaker 7: to take this real quick.
Speaker 1: So on Saturday morning, all I could do was look
Speaker 1: at TikTok Instagram, and I was searching for videos of
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift's first night of her Era's tour.
Speaker 3: They weren't hard to find.
Speaker 4: They were not hard to find.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I was just like I
Speaker 1: was just locked in, yeah you know, And so I'm
Speaker 1: learning all these facts and I'm showing them to him,
Speaker 1: like I was like, oh my gosh, did you see
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift jumped into a pool, like, look at this
Speaker 1: ocean she just jumped into on the stage. I'm just
Speaker 1: showing him all this stuff and I thought it was
Speaker 1: funny because his reactions were like funny. So I started
Speaker 1: filming them and I would do them one by one
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, hey, babe, and he'd be like
Speaker 1: doing something and he's like, yeah, did you know that
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift sang forty four songs on the opening on
Speaker 1: ever Tories?
Speaker 4: Like I did not know that. So it's kind of
Speaker 4: kept it going with every single.
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift fact that I learned over the weekend, and
Speaker 1: it was a hit. People were really enjoying the Hay
Speaker 1: Babe series. They want me to continue doing it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta really go. You gotta find a lot
Speaker 3: of facts about Taylor.
Speaker 1: No, they want it outside of Taylor Swift back like yeah,
Speaker 1: facts like whatever, whatever it may be. You know, somebody
Speaker 1: suggested maybe doing ice spice next, Yeah.
Speaker 3: You could really do it with a yeah, wow, it's not.
Speaker 8: Just I was expecting Harry, So I was like, Harry's
Speaker 8: a touchy subject.
Speaker 1: But yeah, but but continuing the series with like different
Speaker 1: facts or something.
Speaker 2: Just like random facts about the day. I just like
Speaker 2: the Hey Babe intro.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But honestly, a forty four song set list
Speaker 1: is insane.
Speaker 7: Crazy, Like you know, I'm a Springsteen guy, and I've
Speaker 7: always loved that he does like four hour shows. I mean,
Speaker 7: this is a three hour plus show she's doing. That's
Speaker 7: incredible and forty four songs. I have the set list here.
Speaker 7: We don't need to name all forty four songs. But
Speaker 7: opening with Miss American on the Heartbreak Press did not
Speaker 7: see that coming, did.
Speaker 4: Not want it, and honestly could do without it.
Speaker 7: Well, you shouldn't say that till you see the show.
Speaker 4: True, okay, true, true, true. Maybe there's a reason for it.
Speaker 2: I will say like TikTok has changed the game of
Speaker 2: concerts because I feel like I know every outfit and
Speaker 2: like set, and.
Speaker 4: I'm probably kind of bums me out in a way.
Speaker 3: So the first night I was like I couldn't get enough.
Speaker 3: I was like, I need to know.
Speaker 2: I saw basically like half the venue's outfits that they
Speaker 2: made and more to the show. I saw her outfits,
Speaker 2: I saw the set, and I was like I need
Speaker 2: more and more more. But then the second night I
Speaker 2: was like, I almost don't want to say I want
Speaker 2: to like go into it not feeling like I've seen
Speaker 2: the show already.
Speaker 4: I will say I'm.
Speaker 1: So happy that Invisible String and Bejeweled are part of
Speaker 1: the forty four song set list. Of course, I also
Speaker 1: think so there's like an acoustic section of the of
Speaker 1: the concert.
Speaker 3: Where she does this surprise every night, Right.
Speaker 1: Every night's gonna be She's gonna kind of shift them out,
Speaker 1: so you don't know what song you're gonna get, which
Speaker 1: I appreciate. You know, Taylor Swift doesn't just do the
Speaker 1: same show. She does like ninety percent the same show
Speaker 1: and changes it up every city, So I appreciate that.
Speaker 3: As a mirror ball, Stan I was really thrilled that
Speaker 3: first night we got a Yeah, acoustic mirror ball.
Speaker 2: So I'm wondering, I wish I knew what what song
Speaker 2: she was gonna be rotating in the acoustic set, because like,
Speaker 2: if she doesn't out of the Wood, out of the
Speaker 2: Woods isn't on the set list, But if she doesn't
Speaker 2: acoustic out of the Woods, you would like that that
Speaker 2: I would fly wherever that's being done. Oh really, yeah,
Speaker 2: because that she has she did like this Grammy performance
Speaker 2: where she not at the Grammys but the Grimmy Museum
Speaker 2: performance on the piano, she did out of the Woods.
Speaker 2: It's one of my favorite performances of all time. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so if she did that, I would be like tell
Speaker 2: me when and where? And I might be like, hey,
Speaker 2: like can you message Taylor just to see if she's
Speaker 2: playing that anywhere? But yeah, I just she's incredible. She's
Speaker 2: so iconic and she's so like did you see the
Speaker 2: TikTok where she's playing Champagne Problems And she gets to
Speaker 2: the bridge and the crowd just out of nowhere, starts
Speaker 2: going crazy and she's like almost confused, like what is happening?
Speaker 2: Like she's looking at the crowd like I think, like,
Speaker 2: are they cheering at something that's not me? Like it
Speaker 2: was so funny because they were just so excited that
Speaker 2: she was about to sing the bridge of the song
Speaker 2: that they were like anticipating it.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 1: I mean, damn, did you see the videos for like
Speaker 1: jumping into the water?
Speaker 4: Yeah, why don't you do that?
Speaker 3: Well, it's the screen on the stage. No, I know
Speaker 3: that you thought you swam the length of this.
Speaker 1: She's not jumping into actual water, but she's swan diving
Speaker 1: into something.
Speaker 7: What is she?
Speaker 2: I wonder if it's like a pad, you know, like
Speaker 2: a big like that's hard or.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, she's swan dive.
Speaker 4: Into a pad like owt.
Speaker 2: Or I was also thinking of one of people are
Speaker 2: down there and there's like.
Speaker 4: That's even more terrifying. She goes She's not just like
Speaker 4: belly flopping, She's literally diving.
Speaker 2: They probably constructed a new contraption that she could dive
Speaker 2: into that's never been done before.
Speaker 1: That's like not painful, Like is it just jello or
Speaker 1: is it like cotton balls or a big baby film.
Speaker 4: Pit, a foam pit.
Speaker 3: I would dive into a phone pit.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess would come back up in a different outfit.
Speaker 7: Is that right?
Speaker 1: Or well?
Speaker 4: I think that's also it's like a lot of like waves.
Speaker 3: And does she dive into a contraption that puts the
Speaker 3: new outfit on her?
Speaker 4: No, I don't think.
Speaker 2: That that would be amazing, But yeah, I feel I
Speaker 2: also feel it's like every every time she does something new,
Speaker 2: I'm like, if we live in the generation of Taylor Slift.
Speaker 4: We do what a blessing? What a blessing.
Speaker 1: So everybody that went and posted videos, I appreciate you
Speaker 1: and tagging mean invisible string. It really made me feel
Speaker 1: a certain type of way.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm hm.
Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about It's on our hot
Speaker 2: topic list. So Gwyneth Paltrow they there was a I
Speaker 2: don't know if it was a podcast.
Speaker 3: That she did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she did some podcast interview, but I don't know
Speaker 1: who it was with standby it.
Speaker 2: Was the Art of Being Well podcast correct, and she
Speaker 2: was just talking about her like wellness routine and diet
Speaker 2: which includes intermittent fasting and it was like bone broth
Speaker 2: for lunch and vegetables for dinner. She talked about how
Speaker 2: she works out and she does her sauna. It's like
Speaker 2: all very important to the routine. And you know, obviously
Speaker 2: when you talk about your diet and it's like that,
Speaker 2: like that you're gonna get criticism by It's such an
Speaker 2: interesting thing because it's one of those things where you're
Speaker 2: kind of damned if you do and you're damned if
Speaker 2: you don't. Because she was just she just said what
Speaker 2: she eats, and I'm right, I'm like, well, at least
Speaker 2: she's just like, I don't eat anything really and this
Speaker 2: is how I maintain my physique and what I do
Speaker 2: and instead of acting like she's eating I don't know.
Speaker 1: Like part of it's interesting because she did get a
Speaker 1: lot of hate for it, and I understand, like I
Speaker 1: do understand that it's triggering for people. I do understand
Speaker 1: that it doesn't promote a healthy or balanced diet. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it is her truth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is her truth. That is what she's eating in
Speaker 1: the day. And so like a lot of people, sometimes
Speaker 1: people will come at me and say, like, I'm promoting
Speaker 1: you know, disordered eating because I'm not eating gluten or
Speaker 1: you know, I'm eating certain types of things, and I'll
Speaker 1: post my meals and they're like, that's not enough food.
Speaker 1: But I'm eating the way that I'm eating because I
Speaker 1: have hashimotives disease. This is the way that I'm eating
Speaker 1: for my body, for my health, for my lifestyle. So
Speaker 1: I think that and that's for some reason somebody told
Speaker 1: I don't know who she's working with or what's going
Speaker 1: on here, but somebody told her to intermittent fast drink
Speaker 1: broth for a lot. I mean, yes, it's obviously scary
Speaker 1: to look at, but it's also her truth.
Speaker 4: I think it's it kind of promoting it. She just
Speaker 4: got asked the question.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it kind of gets into the conversation of
Speaker 2: like when you have a platform and you have a
Speaker 2: wide following, and especially because her company is wellness, you know,
Speaker 2: I think it's like that argument of like.
Speaker 3: I'm I'm kind of on the.
Speaker 2: Side of like she was asked a question about her
Speaker 2: diet and routine and she answered it truthfully, but at
Speaker 2: the same time, it brings on this this like is
Speaker 2: this what other people feel like they need to be
Speaker 2: doing on the basis of wellness?
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So I think it's it's a very fine line that
Speaker 2: you have to walk when you have a platform and
Speaker 2: you're talking about topics that can be triggering or you know,
Speaker 2: picked apart like that.
Speaker 3: But it wasn't.
Speaker 2: It was interesting to see the response, and I'm kind
Speaker 2: of glad that like we're moving in a direction where
Speaker 2: we can where we are talking about these things and
Speaker 2: like the health and like being able to know like
Speaker 2: nourishing and feeding your body is not a bad thing.
Speaker 3: You know, I couldn't do this. My body would not
Speaker 3: survive at five pm.
Speaker 4: But it's also in asana after all, this are you joking?
Speaker 2: It's also if she were to be like posting photos
Speaker 2: of her eating pizza, people would be like, she doesn't
Speaker 2: really eat that pizza, you know, so you like kind
Speaker 2: of it's like a tricky topic.
Speaker 4: It's like you just have to you have to do
Speaker 4: you you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And I think it's interesting because as much hate as
Speaker 1: Gwyneth Paltrow gets, and she continues to get, she's just herself.
Speaker 1: She is living her life the way she wants to
Speaker 1: does not care. And there's a part of me that's like,
Speaker 1: what is it.
Speaker 2: It's like, it's your body and you have to know
Speaker 2: what what your body needs it once.
Speaker 3: My body does not. My body needs way more than that.
Speaker 1: And I know that body cannot intermittent fast no, like
Speaker 1: it just can't.
Speaker 4: I need food in the morning, like need.
Speaker 3: It, and a sweet treat at night.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I do need a sweet treat at night too.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It's it's the best.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: I made the most delicious Oh my gosh, chout out
Speaker 1: Jennifer Fishirks. I got the idea from her, but I
Speaker 1: basically wash all these berries, put the berries in a
Speaker 1: like a like a pie tin. Okay, then I get
Speaker 1: dark chocolate chips, mix it with coconut oil. Melt melt it,
Speaker 1: melt it down, port over the berries, put it in
Speaker 1: the freezer, and you have like this delicious fruity dark
Speaker 1: chocolate dessert at the end of the day.
Speaker 2: It is divine. I actually Hashi Moto approved normally your
Speaker 2: like suggestions. It's like delicious. I'm like, okay, but that
Speaker 2: actually sounds good. And I saw someone do it with yogurt,
Speaker 2: like Greek yogurt over the berries and then freeze it'.
Speaker 1: That's Jennifer Fisher's resty with the yogurt. But I found
Speaker 1: that that it was My chocolate was too hot and
Speaker 1: it was too melty.
Speaker 4: I don't know. It didn't work for me.
Speaker 3: Oh, you mixed the chocolate with the yogurt, put the yogurt.
Speaker 1: I dip the berries in the yogurt, and then I
Speaker 1: put them on the pan, I think, and then you're
Speaker 1: maybe supposed to freeze them, but then you.
Speaker 4: Put the hot chocolate. It just gets all like weird.
Speaker 3: Tricky perhaps tricky.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we have to take a break and
Speaker 2: then we're going to come back with emails. Did you
Speaker 2: want to talk about Kelly leaving Gray's anatomy Mark.
Speaker 7: And we can cover when we get back.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're back. Mark is the lone ranger
Speaker 2: who is caught up on Gray's Anatomy.
Speaker 7: I only do it for this show. It's scrubbing to ourselves.
Speaker 4: We do whatever we want.
Speaker 2: We talked about Gray's Anatomy other than the Farewell episode
Speaker 2: in a year, if.
Speaker 7: I ever think about not washing and I'm like, nope,
Speaker 7: I gotta watch it because if it comes up, I
Speaker 7: gotta be ready. No.
Speaker 3: I think it's just part of your routine.
Speaker 1: That you are very strength. You're using as an escape
Speaker 1: thought inject.
Speaker 7: Yes, we should look at a new title then for
Speaker 7: the podcast.
Speaker 9: You No, we're so scrubbing in you know what, Yes,
Speaker 9: we are, because you know what happens when you scrub
Speaker 9: and you prepare, you disinfect, and you jump into a
Speaker 9: surgery that is changing your life.
Speaker 1: And that is what this podcast embodies. We are removing
Speaker 1: our our cell was at the door, and we are
Speaker 1: stepping into this o r which is the studio, and
Speaker 1: we are diving into this podcast that is changing lives.
Speaker 3: Wow, that is brilliant. Giving us a lot of credit.
Speaker 7: But one recent episode, somebody said to another one, Hey,
Speaker 7: you're scrubbing in. I'm like, yeah, scrubbing in whoop whoop,
Speaker 7: But yeah falls on daddy. It's just me all by myself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it isn't just you that that falls on. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but there is some news, Yeah, breaking news.
Speaker 7: Maggie Pierce is leaving the show in a couple of weeks,
Speaker 7: and I thought we should talk about that.
Speaker 3: Kellen McCreary, who plays Maggie, is.
Speaker 7: She and Doug are still struggling, still going through it.
Speaker 7: She's still crashing over at Shepherd's place, and uh now
Speaker 7: it may not get resolved adequately because she's leaving.
Speaker 2: Do we think this her departure will end in a
Speaker 2: exiting following Meredith vibe or a tragic.
Speaker 3: Horrible death.
Speaker 4: Don't care?
Speaker 8: That's that's pretty cut throat, because I do. I do
Speaker 8: care about that. You do mean like she might still
Speaker 8: come back? Or if she dies and she's not coming back.
Speaker 8: That's how I feel like Gray's does it? They either
Speaker 8: the people who they kill off are definitely not coming back.
Speaker 3: If this is May, well not Patrick, Dempsey and Danny
Speaker 3: came back.
Speaker 7: Okay, true, If this were in May, i'd say they're
Speaker 7: killing everybody. It's in April, so they're not going to
Speaker 7: kill it she'll be back, probably for the season finale.
Speaker 7: But I do have a complaint for anyone who's still washing.
Speaker 7: It's getting very predictable like this. Last week's episode opened
Speaker 7: with this woman in bed talking to her partner being like,
Speaker 7: oh gosh, doctor, can we schedule our trip for Italy?
Speaker 7: It's always been my dream to see Italy? And I'm like, oh, oh,
Speaker 7: the only place you're going is the Morgue. Lady, you
Speaker 7: can't be talking about your dream vacation. That's the kissing
Speaker 7: death on this show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't talk about any future plans on Gray's settle.
Speaker 3: Mercy West.
Speaker 7: Yeah, she was toast but alert.
Speaker 6: My gosh, you know what five minutes the show spoiler.
Speaker 4: Anyway, she dies five minutes into the show.
Speaker 7: No, she says, her Italy trip whatever. Every Grays fan
Speaker 7: knows that this woman is now doomed insurance.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Dark also be.
Speaker 7: Happy to know that Owen and Taddy are doing better.
Speaker 3: Right, Thank you so much for that.
Speaker 2: It was literally chomping at the bit to know what
Speaker 2: was going on with them.
Speaker 7: She's chief now chief.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw that.
Speaker 1: I actually did think about Owen Hunt recently and I smiled, Oh.
Speaker 2: Wow, I feel like I smile if I think about
Speaker 2: Kevin mckid. I don't know if I saying about Owen Hunt.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I can't separate them, as you know. And
Speaker 1: it just goes to show you that relationships can change.
Speaker 1: You know, you can hate someone one day and love
Speaker 1: them the next.
Speaker 3: It's true.
Speaker 2: Well, we have a very exciting guest this Thursday. Because
Speaker 2: y'all have been asking for her for a very long time.
Speaker 3: We got her, and we got her.
Speaker 2: We have Chrissa Stanton joining us. She is also known
Speaker 2: as Brack your b B on Instagram and her blog.
Speaker 2: But every time I post about her or like talk
Speaker 2: about her, people are like, have her on the podcast.
Speaker 4: So we listen and your wish came true is our command.
Speaker 2: So we'll be back Thursday with Carissa, and we hope
Speaker 2: you have a great week and we love you so much.
Speaker 4: We love you.
Speaker 2: Bye.