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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ren An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing.

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<v Speaker 1>In, scrubbing in, and I gotta say that I feel

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<v Speaker 1>honored to just live in the same time period as

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We always That's a consistent feeling I have, Like she

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<v Speaker 2>is unparalleled.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care what anybody says. She's in a league

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<v Speaker 1>of her own, beyond beyond beyond a league of her own.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So we're going to get into that a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit later on our Hot topics.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, are hot takes on Hot Hot bakes on Hot Topics.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny because I feel like Haley and I have

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<v Speaker 2>this conversation often and I'm like, you were on stage

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<v Speaker 2>and performed with Taylor Swift twice. Yeah, like the biggest

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<v Speaker 2>artists that will we will probably have in margin.

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<v Speaker 1>Parted with Taylor Swift after the grand I didn't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, but like performing on a stage of that

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<v Speaker 2>size that she's on, true, and he was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>just every time sometimes a clip will pop up from

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<v Speaker 2>that tour, the Reputation tour where Haley performed. It will

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<v Speaker 2>pop up on TikTok and I'm like, babe, She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot I can't believe that's real.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's pretty wild.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was really fun watching all the Should we

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<v Speaker 2>get right into.

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<v Speaker 1>That, I mean, I feel like we shoud discuss our

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<v Speaker 1>weekends a lot. I really want to talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>about your Instagram posts because it really created quit.

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<v Speaker 2>I might just I don't know if I can get

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<v Speaker 2>through that without crying. But we can attempt.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's attempt. So do you want it for people

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<v Speaker 1>that did not see your Instagram story?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to? Yeah, I'll just tell the story.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think I've I mean, for I grew up

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<v Speaker 2>very Christian, Like, I grew up in a very Christian culture.

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up in the South.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to church like Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 2>growing up, like it was very much a part of

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<v Speaker 2>my life. And then once I was into high school,

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<v Speaker 2>it was more like my decision of like going to

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<v Speaker 2>youth group and I went to a Christian school. Like

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<v Speaker 2>my whole life was based in religion, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>even when I moved out to California, it was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of the same thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And then like over the I want.

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<v Speaker 2>To say, there was a shift when my sisters came

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<v Speaker 2>out to me because I was like, Okay, everything I've

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<v Speaker 2>always thought about, like homosexuality and same SEXU relationships, like,

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, I had a shift where I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, this doesn't fit me anymore, right, because now

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<v Speaker 2>it's like people that are like my everything are affected

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<v Speaker 2>by this mentality. So I kind of started there where

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<v Speaker 2>I was like not questioning my faith, but just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like the church and the like the religious aspect

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<v Speaker 2>of it all. And so then when Haley and I

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<v Speaker 2>started dating, I remember like one of the first times

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<v Speaker 2>we hung out, I was like, yeah, so, like what

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<v Speaker 2>do you believe? And she was like, yeah, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really grow up with like a religion. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like practice a religion. I just you know, kind

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<v Speaker 2>of just believed in the good of people, but never

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<v Speaker 2>had anything specific that I believed in. And I was

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<v Speaker 2>just like shocked, Like in my mind, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>how how do you live life? Not like I just

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<v Speaker 2>it was so far from where I came from. And

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<v Speaker 2>so our whole relationship, you know, that's always been a

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<v Speaker 2>thing where she knew that that was so important to me,

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<v Speaker 2>like my relationship with God and she asked questions about it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's never been disrespectful at all about my faith or

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<v Speaker 2>my beliefs, And I've always respected the fact that she

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<v Speaker 2>didn't grow up like that or didn't have that background.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also get why she wanted want to have

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<v Speaker 2>association with the church in terms of like how they've

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<v Speaker 2>treated gay people, and like her knowing she was, like

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<v Speaker 2>knowing that she was gay her whole life and like

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<v Speaker 2>knowing that that was the stigma around it. I get it,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I get why there's never been like an interest

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<v Speaker 2>in that. But anyway, he's always been super respectful, and

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<v Speaker 2>I've navigated the challenges of like, you know, hard conversations

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<v Speaker 2>I've had with friends and family who are Christian that

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<v Speaker 2>have been probably the cruelest, hardest conversations that I've had

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<v Speaker 2>in terms of like my relationship with Haley, right, And.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think and especially.

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<v Speaker 2>During twenty twenty, I think I really took a step

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<v Speaker 2>back and I was like, what's going on here? Like

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<v Speaker 2>there was so much separation, There was so much like

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<v Speaker 2>negativity and heat, and I was just kind of like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's my association with this? Like if i claim that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a Christian, am I going to be associated with

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<v Speaker 2>these people that I don't want to be associated with, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And I never felt like it was God Like. I

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<v Speaker 2>never felt like, Okay, that's them. They're just humans. They're imperfect,

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<v Speaker 2>Like church is full of imperfect people. And I never

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<v Speaker 2>you know, people always be like, it's not every church,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not every Christian. I'm like, I get that, but

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<v Speaker 2>if if someone gets like her or abused by something,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not like, just forget, forgive and forget and go

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<v Speaker 2>back to it, you know. So I've always, I think

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<v Speaker 2>the past few years, I've really just tried to figure

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<v Speaker 2>out where I stand in that. And it's been really

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<v Speaker 2>hard and uncomfortable and such a deep like sacred part

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<v Speaker 2>of me that I never felt like I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>just give it up. But I just didn't know where

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<v Speaker 2>I stood with going to church or like putting myself

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<v Speaker 2>in that situation. And So Haley has a friend who

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<v Speaker 2>is an artist and he recently well he didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. He came out like a year ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and he grew up in the church. His parents are pastors.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like a worship leader everything, and he was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like I stepped away from the church. He

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<v Speaker 2>was like, but I ended up going to this church

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<v Speaker 2>with some friends. It's like an affirming church, and he

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<v Speaker 2>was like I just sat and like balled my eyes

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<v Speaker 2>out being in worship. And I was like, oh, what's

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<v Speaker 2>the church, you know, like maybe I could try and

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<v Speaker 2>go visit there. And this was months ago and I

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<v Speaker 2>talked to Haley and I was like, I would like

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<v Speaker 2>to go to church and she was like, well, I said,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't know if I I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>go alone. I don't know, like if anyone want to

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<v Speaker 2>go with me. And she was like, oh, I would

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<v Speaker 2>go with you and that alone. I was like wait what.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you would go with me? And she's

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<v Speaker 2>like yeah, of course, Like if you want me to

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<v Speaker 2>go with you, I'll go with you. So things have

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<v Speaker 2>just been crazy busy. I haven't even really thought about

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<v Speaker 2>it again. And all week she was like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 2>I want to plan something on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you free? And I was like, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 3>I'm free.

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<v Speaker 2>I can be free, and so she was like she's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's in the morning and we just need to leave

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<v Speaker 2>your house by like ten o'clock in the morning. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like that's early for us on a Sunday,

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<v Speaker 2>like we don't typically like get up and go anywhere

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<v Speaker 2>like on Sundays, like we like sleep in, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I literally thought I had never had the John and

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<v Speaker 2>Vinnie's breakfast since I've been talking about going to breakfast there.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, are we going to John and

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<v Speaker 2>Vinnie's since she was like, I want to surprise you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going to tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>So I realized that we weren't going to eat because

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<v Speaker 2>she like made me a piece of toast, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, what the heck are we doing? I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>are we doing a matinee concert? Like we talked about

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<v Speaker 2>our morning concert?

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<v Speaker 3>And so we pull in.

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<v Speaker 2>Traffic was horrible because the LA Marathon. She was like

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<v Speaker 2>so flustered because and I was like, can't you just

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<v Speaker 2>call like wherever we're going, can you call and let

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<v Speaker 2>him know we're just running a little late.

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<v Speaker 3>And she's like, yeah, no, I can't really call this.

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<v Speaker 2>So we pull in and it took me a second,

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<v Speaker 2>but I realized that we were at the church that I.

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<v Speaker 6>Had wanted to go to, and I was like so

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<v Speaker 6>overcome with like the most profound type of love, because like.

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<v Speaker 2>That was the most selfless act that someone could do

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<v Speaker 2>for me, you know yeah, And I think she's been

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<v Speaker 2>such a rock of listening to me and she knew

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<v Speaker 2>what it would meant mean to me, and so it

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<v Speaker 2>was like really cool, like walking in hand in hand

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<v Speaker 2>and being in such a place then I needed like

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<v Speaker 2>healing with, you know yeah, and being with someone who's

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<v Speaker 2>brought that healing to my life and is like listen

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<v Speaker 2>to the.

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<v Speaker 3>Struggle of it all. And so.

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<v Speaker 2>I just like could I could like barely even like

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<v Speaker 2>think about it during church because I was just like

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<v Speaker 2>so overwhelmed by it. And so we got in the

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<v Speaker 2>car and I was like, I don't I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>have words, like I literally don't know if I've ever

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<v Speaker 2>felt so like scene yeah, and like genuinely.

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<v Speaker 3>Cared for like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was just like I it like shifted a

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<v Speaker 2>whole new part of me and how I view her

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<v Speaker 2>as a person because I know, I know she loves

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<v Speaker 2>me so much, but like, I think it was just

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<v Speaker 2>such a selfless act that and like totally cut me

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<v Speaker 2>off guard, and it was just really thoughtful and selfless,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's the story isn't even about like honestly, the

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<v Speaker 2>story isn't even about church and religion. It was like

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<v Speaker 2>about love, like finding someone who sees you and like

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<v Speaker 2>sees the parts of you that maybe they don't understand,

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<v Speaker 2>and and and.

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<v Speaker 1>Is willing to be uncomfortable in a space that means

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<v Speaker 1>so much to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it was it was just like very overwhelming

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<v Speaker 2>in the best way.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you talked to her about it since?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I all day yesterday. I was just like

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<v Speaker 2>thank you like that, and you know, I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>how did you feel, Like what did you feel in there?

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<v Speaker 2>And She's like, I felt, you know, I felt very safe.

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<v Speaker 2>It felt it very welcoming. I didn't feel like ashamed

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<v Speaker 2>or you know, uncomfortable. And I was just like really

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<v Speaker 2>proud of her because it was like that takes a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of bravery, Like I don't know if I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm literally just trying to wrack my brain like have

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<v Speaker 2>I ever done that for someone?

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<v Speaker 3>Like where I put myself in a position like that.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, it was just really sweet.

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<v Speaker 7>All right.

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<v Speaker 4>He got me going to how was the church?

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<v Speaker 3>The church was great?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it was just nice to be I come

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<v Speaker 2>from such a very like charismatic type background where like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you leave and it's like very emotional and

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<v Speaker 2>like there's a lot of emotions around it, but it

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<v Speaker 2>just felt nice to be comfortable and safe and in

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<v Speaker 2>a place that was new, but still not feel like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>like am I good here? Like yeah, do I want

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<v Speaker 2>to stay here and send the sea? But I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go back and try, you know, go again. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, thank you so much for doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, well, I told you that I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>I would go with you, so I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 2>it before I left for tour.

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<v Speaker 1>So it really is so emotional because like I get

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying, do you know what I mean? I

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<v Speaker 1>get what you're saying about the church, and I get

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying about your relationship with God. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>not the same thing, you know what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it's very different. And you know, I have these conversations

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<v Speaker 1>with Robbie too because he's Jewish, which is totally totally different,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, religion, and I feel the same way that

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<v Speaker 1>you feel about Haley. You know, it's a totally different circumstance.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like he embraces my faith and my

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with God and always is willing to go and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to learn and like I'm the same way with

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<v Speaker 1>his faith too, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that oftentimes people kind of look at.

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<v Speaker 1>You and they can judge you, and you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten a lot of people saying like, how could

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<v Speaker 1>you be with a man that's Jewish, And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>it's everything is not one size fits all, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's about having respect for each other and

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<v Speaker 1>loving unconditionally and.

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<v Speaker 4>Being that rock.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's why it's so crazy, because the

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<v Speaker 2>shift of how my mind worked of like I remember

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<v Speaker 2>being like I would I could never be with someone

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<v Speaker 2>who didn't share the same faith like that was and

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<v Speaker 2>all be all for me, And yet I'm with someone

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<v Speaker 2>who literally couldn't be more opposite of like what I expected,

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<v Speaker 2>and I experienced something that was so powerfully like impactful.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that was our wed and then we had

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<v Speaker 2>a great day and we ate the best pasta that

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've ever had.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like homemade pasta. Where met him at a bar.

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<v Speaker 4>What's the place?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And they have a pasta it's delicious and it's

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<v Speaker 2>on Librea And then across the street they have like

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<v Speaker 2>a breakfast spot and it's called met her at a bar.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh this obviously things, So yeah, it's not then I'm

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<v Speaker 8>smart on someone else's part, damn.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was great, And to be honest, we start I

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<v Speaker 2>started the weekend with a girl's night out with you

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<v Speaker 2>and Ali and it was so fun, Genna, because Tany

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<v Speaker 2>and I had a conversation I guess it was last

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<v Speaker 2>week after the podcast, actually saying like it's just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you get into these relationships and you get it's like

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<v Speaker 2>we love being around the people that we're with and

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<v Speaker 2>we just like want to be with them all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's so important to invest in like our friendships

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<v Speaker 2>and have that space to like go out and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>these relationships, my friendships are just as important as my

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<v Speaker 2>relationship with Haley and like putting in the time and

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<v Speaker 2>like intentional effort. Because you and I talk every week,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's like like.

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<v Speaker 3>We were beyond that.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't get together and like, you know as much

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<v Speaker 2>as we used to do we talk all.

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<v Speaker 4>The time, Yeah, we don't physically get together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So we were saying, like be intentionally, be intentional about it,

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<v Speaker 2>and Allie and I were talking about it and she

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<v Speaker 2>said the same thing.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were like, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>Except Ali wanted to take it to a whole other

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<v Speaker 1>level and she was like, each week we all invite

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<v Speaker 1>a different friend into the girl's night out.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was back and I were like, no.

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<v Speaker 3>Condra didn't say anything, and then I was like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's more about like really focusing on these friends,

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<v Speaker 2>like this relationship, and then like you know, we can

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<v Speaker 2>do another thing where we like in my people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it feels very stressful too, very.

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<v Speaker 1>Stressful to be responsible for like picking somebody that's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>like come in.

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<v Speaker 3>Vibe with the group.

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<v Speaker 2>Ribes, but yeah, it was really fun and we had

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<v Speaker 2>just like got dressed up cute when and had cute

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<v Speaker 2>drinks and dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>You had a.

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<v Speaker 1>Drink, yeah, I had one drink. Yeah, and honestly was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of drunk. It really like the cutting back really

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<v Speaker 1>kind of lowers the tolerance.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then what else did you do?

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<v Speaker 1>My weekend was action packed because it was rob one

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<v Speaker 1>of Robby's kids' birthday weekends, and so we just did

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<v Speaker 1>so many things, like he took them, He took him

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<v Speaker 1>and his friends to Benny Hannah for the birthday dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I took his other kid to like Colory mine,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we went to dinner just the two of us,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Saturday we filmed a movie trailer. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you've ever gone into iMovie and

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<v Speaker 1>tried filming trailers in there.

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<v Speaker 3>But they're actually like really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And like actually very user friendly, and so the kids

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<v Speaker 1>just learned about it like the other week. So we

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<v Speaker 1>spent literally all Saturday filming a movie trailer, talking like

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<v Speaker 1>eleven am to four pm is when we wrapped.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it actually was really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But they wanted to do a movie too, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, at this rate, a movie is gonna take us.

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<v Speaker 3>A week a year. Oh yeah, we do.

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<v Speaker 7>This in Wisconsin. Uh, my father in law writes a

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<v Speaker 7>script and then when we get there we I'll take

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<v Speaker 7>our parts and perform it and record it and edit

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<v Speaker 7>it and make it into a little film. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 7>every year, not every year, four times.

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<v Speaker 3>That's really fun to have to look back on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it was actually.

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<v Speaker 4>Robby got like really into it.

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<v Speaker 1>He like put like on a piece of paper, he

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<v Speaker 1>put every scene like what we were going to do

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<v Speaker 1>for every scene.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we found like a map. It was like a

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<v Speaker 4>hidden map.

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<v Speaker 1>Treasure chest in our backyard or whatever, and so he

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<v Speaker 1>like wrote a map and like lit it on fire

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<v Speaker 1>and like really like he really went all in on it,

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<v Speaker 1>which you know I love.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I got dressed up into characters so that was

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<v Speaker 1>really fun, and then went to the Kings game Saturday night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just tell you, hockey, if you're a sports

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<v Speaker 1>gurly or if you're wanting to be a sports gurly,

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<v Speaker 1>hockey is the sport.

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<v Speaker 4>Because it is action packed. It's not boring.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like baseball, like you're watching stuff all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>So heart mark, but it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like so much action going on. And then when

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<v Speaker 1>there's not action, like they're like flipping periods or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you call it, overturning the Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's there's like so much stuff on the JumboTron. They're

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<v Speaker 1>constantly like interactive and like doing fun games with people,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, I don't know, I just find it to

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<v Speaker 1>be pumping like jams.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I find it to be a really fun, pleasant experience.

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<v Speaker 1>So hockey is my sport.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, so unexpected because it's pretty aggressive. I

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't see you as like a person liking the like

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<v Speaker 2>aggression of hockey.

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<v Speaker 1>When you sit far enough back, like you don't see

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<v Speaker 1>them like slam into the glass, and so it's just

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<v Speaker 1>not as a brace okay. Yeah. And then yesterday we

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<v Speaker 1>did a barbecue. It was like raining in La So

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a weird one. But yeah, there's like

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<v Speaker 1>a family celebration for his son. So it's a very

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<v Speaker 1>action packed I did like, I feel like I lived

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<v Speaker 1>ten lives this weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I kind of felt. I felt like it was

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<v Speaker 3>a busy.

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<v Speaker 2>We went on we went to like Westlake Village and

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<v Speaker 2>went on a boat, like a little duffy boat.

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<v Speaker 3>With Haley's friends que It was so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>We got our favorite sandwiches and the one I told

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<v Speaker 2>you about, and we just rode around in the duffy

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<v Speaker 2>and I love I just love being on water.

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<v Speaker 3>I love being in a boat on water because.

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<v Speaker 4>You're a scorpio.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's gonna be why totally? Why?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And then we and then yesterday it was just like

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<v Speaker 2>pat Haley's just got so much to do before tour.

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<v Speaker 2>So we like, you know, went to church, went to lunch,

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<v Speaker 2>went to like did all her work stuff, went shopping.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a busy day. I slept really well.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually we both saw Robbie and I both saw your

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram story, and I was like, we need a church

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<v Speaker 1>together next week.

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<v Speaker 4>It's done, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I couldn't even read.

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<v Speaker 2>I got so many like messages, even not just from

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<v Speaker 2>uh like people that I don't know, but from like

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<v Speaker 2>friends and people I know that were so emotional, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I could barely even like open my Instagram this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, but like in the best way,

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<v Speaker 2>like I was just sharing it more as like it

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<v Speaker 2>was just such an a special act of love. And

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<v Speaker 2>I always hesitate, like do I share these things like

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<v Speaker 2>they're so personal?

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<v Speaker 3>But like also it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Such a thing because like, let's say you wrote a

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<v Speaker 1>list like five years ago of the perfect.

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<v Speaker 4>Person of your in your life. You know, you would

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<v Speaker 4>have said, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Muscles, good job, Christian, you know what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you would have given it all these things, And in reality,

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<v Speaker 1>what really matters is the character and the person that

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<v Speaker 1>you're with, you know what I mean, not all those

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<v Speaker 1>external things. And I think if anybody's listening and they

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<v Speaker 1>have that list, rip it up, baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we both probably had lists that are not

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<v Speaker 2>like that didn't come to number one on my list

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<v Speaker 2>yet Persian jew.

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<v Speaker 5>And I got me a lesbian Jesus Jesus, Oh I did,

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<v Speaker 5>I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I did discover a new thing and and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be called the Hey Babe Series and it's all thanks

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<v Speaker 1>to Taylor Swift. So we'll take a quick break and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get into that. It might be on work calls

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<v Speaker 1>usually picks up, Hey babe, Hi, can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you know Taylor Swift grew up.

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<v Speaker 1>On a Christmas tree farm?

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<v Speaker 3>But did you know that? Did you know? Yes? She did?

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<v Speaker 2>She did in Pennsylvania. That one may have been his

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<v Speaker 2>most impressive fact.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you.

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<v Speaker 7>He's like in a board meeting. Sorry, everybody, I need

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<v Speaker 7>to take this real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>So on Saturday morning, all I could do was look

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<v Speaker 1>at TikTok Instagram, and I was searching for videos of

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift's first night of her Era's tour.

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<v Speaker 3>They weren't hard to find.

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<v Speaker 4>They were not hard to find.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is I was just like I

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<v Speaker 1>was just locked in, yeah you know, And so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>learning all these facts and I'm showing them to him,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was like, oh my gosh, did you see

0:21:42.800 --> 0:21:45.360
<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift jumped into a pool, like, look at this

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<v Speaker 1>ocean she just jumped into on the stage. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>showing him all this stuff and I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>funny because his reactions were like funny. So I started

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<v Speaker 1>filming them and I would do them one by one

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd be like, hey, babe, and he'd be like

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<v Speaker 1>doing something and he's like, yeah, did you know that

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift sang forty four songs on the opening on

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<v Speaker 1>ever Tories?

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<v Speaker 4>Like I did not know that. So it's kind of

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<v Speaker 4>kept it going with every single.

0:22:06.480 --> 0:22:09.800
<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift fact that I learned over the weekend, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was a hit. People were really enjoying the Hay

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<v Speaker 1>Babe series. They want me to continue doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you gotta really go. You gotta find a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of facts about Taylor.

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<v Speaker 1>No, they want it outside of Taylor Swift back like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>facts like whatever, whatever it may be. You know, somebody

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<v Speaker 1>suggested maybe doing ice spice next, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You could really do it with a yeah, wow, it's not.

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<v Speaker 8>Just I was expecting Harry, So I was like, Harry's

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<v Speaker 8>a touchy subject.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, but but continuing the series with like different

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<v Speaker 1>facts or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Just like random facts about the day. I just like

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<v Speaker 2>the Hey Babe intro.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, But honestly, a forty four song set list

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<v Speaker 1>is insane.

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<v Speaker 7>Crazy, Like you know, I'm a Springsteen guy, and I've

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<v Speaker 7>always loved that he does like four hour shows. I mean,

0:23:03.400 --> 0:23:05.440
<v Speaker 7>this is a three hour plus show she's doing. That's

0:23:05.440 --> 0:23:08.800
<v Speaker 7>incredible and forty four songs. I have the set list here.

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<v Speaker 7>We don't need to name all forty four songs. But

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<v Speaker 7>opening with Miss American on the Heartbreak Press did not

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<v Speaker 7>see that coming, did.

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<v Speaker 4>Not want it, and honestly could do without it.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, you shouldn't say that till you see the show.

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<v Speaker 4>True, okay, true, true, true. Maybe there's a reason for it.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say like TikTok has changed the game of

0:23:27.840 --> 0:23:32.080
<v Speaker 2>concerts because I feel like I know every outfit and

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<v Speaker 2>like set, and.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm probably kind of bums me out in a way.

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<v Speaker 3>So the first night I was like I couldn't get enough.

0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:41.000
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I need to know.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw basically like half the venue's outfits that they

0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:47.840
<v Speaker 2>made and more to the show. I saw her outfits,

0:23:47.880 --> 0:23:50.000
<v Speaker 2>I saw the set, and I was like I need

0:23:50.040 --> 0:23:51.959
<v Speaker 2>more and more more. But then the second night I

0:23:52.000 --> 0:23:53.920
<v Speaker 2>was like, I almost don't want to say I want

0:23:53.920 --> 0:23:56.560
<v Speaker 2>to like go into it not feeling like I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>the show already.

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<v Speaker 4>I will say I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>So happy that Invisible String and Bejeweled are part of

0:24:06.080 --> 0:24:10.399
<v Speaker 1>the forty four song set list. Of course, I also

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<v Speaker 1>think so there's like an acoustic section of the of

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<v Speaker 1>the concert.

0:24:14.720 --> 0:24:16.720
<v Speaker 3>Where she does this surprise every night, Right.

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:18.800
<v Speaker 1>Every night's gonna be She's gonna kind of shift them out,

0:24:18.840 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 1>so you don't know what song you're gonna get, which

0:24:20.600 --> 0:24:24.040
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate. You know, Taylor Swift doesn't just do the

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<v Speaker 1>same show. She does like ninety percent the same show

0:24:27.680 --> 0:24:30.359
<v Speaker 1>and changes it up every city, So I appreciate that.

0:24:30.600 --> 0:24:33.000
<v Speaker 3>As a mirror ball, Stan I was really thrilled that

0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:35.800
<v Speaker 3>first night we got a Yeah, acoustic mirror ball.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm wondering, I wish I knew what what song

0:24:39.440 --> 0:24:43.240
<v Speaker 2>she was gonna be rotating in the acoustic set, because like,

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<v Speaker 2>if she doesn't out of the Wood, out of the

0:24:45.440 --> 0:24:47.080
<v Speaker 2>Woods isn't on the set list, But if she doesn't

0:24:47.119 --> 0:24:50.280
<v Speaker 2>acoustic out of the Woods, you would like that that

0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:54.160
<v Speaker 2>I would fly wherever that's being done. Oh really, yeah,

0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:58.120
<v Speaker 2>because that she has she did like this Grammy performance

0:24:58.160 --> 0:25:00.879
<v Speaker 2>where she not at the Grammys but the Grimmy Museum

0:25:00.920 --> 0:25:02.920
<v Speaker 2>performance on the piano, she did out of the Woods.

0:25:03.040 --> 0:25:05.520
<v Speaker 2>It's one of my favorite performances of all time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so if she did that, I would be like tell

0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:10.360
<v Speaker 2>me when and where? And I might be like, hey,

0:25:10.359 --> 0:25:14.560
<v Speaker 2>like can you message Taylor just to see if she's

0:25:14.560 --> 0:25:20.480
<v Speaker 2>playing that anywhere? But yeah, I just she's incredible. She's

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 2>so iconic and she's so like did you see the

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 2>TikTok where she's playing Champagne Problems And she gets to

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:32.159
<v Speaker 2>the bridge and the crowd just out of nowhere, starts

0:25:32.200 --> 0:25:35.920
<v Speaker 2>going crazy and she's like almost confused, like what is happening?

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:39.280
<v Speaker 2>Like she's looking at the crowd like I think, like,

0:25:39.520 --> 0:25:41.879
<v Speaker 2>are they cheering at something that's not me? Like it

0:25:42.000 --> 0:25:44.280
<v Speaker 2>was so funny because they were just so excited that

0:25:44.320 --> 0:25:46.320
<v Speaker 2>she was about to sing the bridge of the song

0:25:46.400 --> 0:25:48.080
<v Speaker 2>that they were like anticipating it.

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:48.880
<v Speaker 4>I know.

0:25:49.160 --> 0:25:53.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean, damn, did you see the videos for like

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:54.800
<v Speaker 1>jumping into the water?

0:25:55.000 --> 0:25:56.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, why don't you do that?

0:25:56.480 --> 0:25:59.600
<v Speaker 3>Well, it's the screen on the stage. No, I know

0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:02.960
<v Speaker 3>that you thought you swam the length of this.

0:26:03.600 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 1>She's not jumping into actual water, but she's swan diving

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<v Speaker 1>into something.

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:07.520
<v Speaker 7>What is she?

0:26:08.400 --> 0:26:10.520
<v Speaker 2>I wonder if it's like a pad, you know, like

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:13.280
<v Speaker 2>a big like that's hard or.

0:26:13.840 --> 0:26:15.640
<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying, she's swan dive.

0:26:15.480 --> 0:26:17.159
<v Speaker 4>Into a pad like owt.

0:26:17.240 --> 0:26:19.159
<v Speaker 2>Or I was also thinking of one of people are

0:26:19.200 --> 0:26:23.280
<v Speaker 2>down there and there's like.

0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:26.119
<v Speaker 4>That's even more terrifying. She goes She's not just like

0:26:26.480 --> 0:26:28.560
<v Speaker 4>belly flopping, She's literally diving.

0:26:28.800 --> 0:26:32.520
<v Speaker 2>They probably constructed a new contraption that she could dive

0:26:32.560 --> 0:26:34.399
<v Speaker 2>into that's never been done before.

0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:37.080
<v Speaker 1>That's like not painful, Like is it just jello or

0:26:37.200 --> 0:26:40.400
<v Speaker 1>is it like cotton balls or a big baby film.

0:26:40.280 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 4>Pit, a foam pit.

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:44.400
<v Speaker 3>I would dive into a phone pit.

0:26:45.040 --> 0:26:47.479
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess would come back up in a different outfit.

0:26:47.600 --> 0:26:48.000
<v Speaker 7>Is that right?

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:48.400
<v Speaker 1>Or well?

0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:51.240
<v Speaker 4>I think that's also it's like a lot of like waves.

0:26:50.840 --> 0:26:53.560
<v Speaker 3>And does she dive into a contraption that puts the

0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:54.440
<v Speaker 3>new outfit on her?

0:26:54.760 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 4>No, I don't think.

0:26:57.520 --> 0:27:02.800
<v Speaker 2>That that would be amazing, But yeah, I feel I

0:27:02.840 --> 0:27:06.680
<v Speaker 2>also feel it's like every every time she does something new,

0:27:06.720 --> 0:27:10.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, if we live in the generation of Taylor Slift.

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:11.760
<v Speaker 4>We do what a blessing? What a blessing.

0:27:11.960 --> 0:27:15.080
<v Speaker 1>So everybody that went and posted videos, I appreciate you

0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>and tagging mean invisible string. It really made me feel

0:27:17.520 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>a certain type of way.

0:27:18.560 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 3>Mm hmmm hm.

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:23.160
<v Speaker 2>So I wanted to talk about It's on our hot

0:27:23.160 --> 0:27:27.439
<v Speaker 2>topic list. So Gwyneth Paltrow they there was a I

0:27:27.480 --> 0:27:29.879
<v Speaker 2>don't know if it was a podcast.

0:27:29.359 --> 0:27:29.800
<v Speaker 3>That she did.

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:32.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she did some podcast interview, but I don't know

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:35.000
<v Speaker 1>who it was with standby it.

0:27:35.040 --> 0:27:38.159
<v Speaker 2>Was the Art of Being Well podcast correct, and she

0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:42.000
<v Speaker 2>was just talking about her like wellness routine and diet

0:27:42.119 --> 0:27:45.200
<v Speaker 2>which includes intermittent fasting and it was like bone broth

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:47.840
<v Speaker 2>for lunch and vegetables for dinner. She talked about how

0:27:47.920 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 2>she works out and she does her sauna. It's like

0:27:50.400 --> 0:27:53.480
<v Speaker 2>all very important to the routine. And you know, obviously

0:27:54.320 --> 0:27:57.520
<v Speaker 2>when you talk about your diet and it's like that,

0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:01.359
<v Speaker 2>like that you're gonna get criticism by It's such an

0:28:01.480 --> 0:28:04.960
<v Speaker 2>interesting thing because it's one of those things where you're

0:28:05.000 --> 0:28:06.639
<v Speaker 2>kind of damned if you do and you're damned if

0:28:06.640 --> 0:28:08.960
<v Speaker 2>you don't. Because she was just she just said what

0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:11.120
<v Speaker 2>she eats, and I'm right, I'm like, well, at least

0:28:11.119 --> 0:28:14.679
<v Speaker 2>she's just like, I don't eat anything really and this

0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 2>is how I maintain my physique and what I do

0:28:18.920 --> 0:28:21.800
<v Speaker 2>and instead of acting like she's eating I don't know.

0:28:21.840 --> 0:28:24.199
<v Speaker 1>Like part of it's interesting because she did get a

0:28:24.320 --> 0:28:26.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of hate for it, and I understand, like I

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:30.200
<v Speaker 1>do understand that it's triggering for people. I do understand

0:28:30.200 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 1>that it doesn't promote a healthy or balanced diet. But

0:28:35.160 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, it is her truth. Yeah,

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:39.720
<v Speaker 1>that is her truth. That is what she's eating in

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 1>the day. And so like a lot of people, sometimes

0:28:42.080 --> 0:28:44.640
<v Speaker 1>people will come at me and say, like, I'm promoting

0:28:45.560 --> 0:28:49.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, disordered eating because I'm not eating gluten or

0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:53.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm eating certain types of things, and I'll

0:28:53.560 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 1>post my meals and they're like, that's not enough food.

0:28:55.680 --> 0:28:58.880
<v Speaker 1>But I'm eating the way that I'm eating because I

0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:01.520
<v Speaker 1>have hashimotives disease. This is the way that I'm eating

0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:04.640
<v Speaker 1>for my body, for my health, for my lifestyle. So

0:29:04.880 --> 0:29:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I think that and that's for some reason somebody told

0:29:09.560 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who she's working with or what's going

0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 1>on here, but somebody told her to intermittent fast drink

0:29:15.680 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>broth for a lot. I mean, yes, it's obviously scary

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:20.400
<v Speaker 1>to look at, but it's also her truth.

0:29:21.040 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 4>I think it's it kind of promoting it. She just

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:24.600
<v Speaker 4>got asked the question.

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:27.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and it kind of gets into the conversation of

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:29.720
<v Speaker 2>like when you have a platform and you have a

0:29:29.760 --> 0:29:34.240
<v Speaker 2>wide following, and especially because her company is wellness, you know,

0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:36.200
<v Speaker 2>I think it's like that argument of like.

0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm I'm kind of on the.

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.280
<v Speaker 2>Side of like she was asked a question about her

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:46.000
<v Speaker 2>diet and routine and she answered it truthfully, but at

0:29:46.040 --> 0:29:49.160
<v Speaker 2>the same time, it brings on this this like is

0:29:49.240 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 2>this what other people feel like they need to be

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:55.080
<v Speaker 2>doing on the basis of wellness?

0:29:55.120 --> 0:29:55.959
<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying.

0:29:56.480 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 2>So I think it's it's a very fine line that

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 2>you have to walk when you have a platform and

0:30:01.360 --> 0:30:07.640
<v Speaker 2>you're talking about topics that can be triggering or you know,

0:30:08.360 --> 0:30:09.280
<v Speaker 2>picked apart like that.

0:30:09.480 --> 0:30:10.480
<v Speaker 3>But it wasn't.

0:30:10.560 --> 0:30:13.240
<v Speaker 2>It was interesting to see the response, and I'm kind

0:30:13.240 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 2>of glad that like we're moving in a direction where

0:30:16.520 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 2>we can where we are talking about these things and

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:21.600
<v Speaker 2>like the health and like being able to know like

0:30:21.720 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 2>nourishing and feeding your body is not a bad thing.

0:30:24.600 --> 0:30:27.840
<v Speaker 3>You know, I couldn't do this. My body would not

0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:30.880
<v Speaker 3>survive at five pm.

0:30:31.160 --> 0:30:34.280
<v Speaker 4>But it's also in asana after all, this are you joking?

0:30:34.400 --> 0:30:37.800
<v Speaker 2>It's also if she were to be like posting photos

0:30:37.800 --> 0:30:39.960
<v Speaker 2>of her eating pizza, people would be like, she doesn't

0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:43.040
<v Speaker 2>really eat that pizza, you know, so you like kind

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 2>of it's like a tricky topic.

0:30:45.320 --> 0:30:46.959
<v Speaker 4>It's like you just have to you have to do

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:47.760
<v Speaker 4>you you know what I mean.

0:30:47.840 --> 0:30:49.600
<v Speaker 1>And I think it's interesting because as much hate as

0:30:49.600 --> 0:30:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Gwyneth Paltrow gets, and she continues to get, she's just herself.

0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 1>She is living her life the way she wants to

0:30:56.840 --> 0:30:59.120
<v Speaker 1>does not care. And there's a part of me that's like,

0:30:59.440 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>what is it.

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:02.440
<v Speaker 2>It's like, it's your body and you have to know

0:31:02.520 --> 0:31:05.440
<v Speaker 2>what what your body needs it once.

0:31:05.520 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 3>My body does not. My body needs way more than that.

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:10.959
<v Speaker 1>And I know that body cannot intermittent fast no, like

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 1>it just can't.

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:14.720
<v Speaker 4>I need food in the morning, like need.

0:31:14.600 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 3>It, and a sweet treat at night.

0:31:18.840 --> 0:31:19.040
<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:21.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I do need a sweet treat at night too.

0:31:21.840 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:24.200
<v Speaker 3>It's it's the best.

0:31:24.320 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

0:31:24.960 --> 0:31:28.400
<v Speaker 1>I made the most delicious Oh my gosh, chout out

0:31:28.480 --> 0:31:30.280
<v Speaker 1>Jennifer Fishirks. I got the idea from her, but I

0:31:30.320 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 1>basically wash all these berries, put the berries in a

0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:37.520
<v Speaker 1>like a like a pie tin. Okay, then I get

0:31:37.840 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 1>dark chocolate chips, mix it with coconut oil. Melt melt it,

0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:44.840
<v Speaker 1>melt it down, port over the berries, put it in

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 1>the freezer, and you have like this delicious fruity dark

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:51.959
<v Speaker 1>chocolate dessert at the end of the day.

0:31:52.080 --> 0:31:56.560
<v Speaker 2>It is divine. I actually Hashi Moto approved normally your

0:31:56.680 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 2>like suggestions. It's like delicious. I'm like, okay, but that

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:03.640
<v Speaker 2>actually sounds good. And I saw someone do it with yogurt,

0:32:03.680 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 2>like Greek yogurt over the berries and then freeze it'.

0:32:06.840 --> 0:32:09.080
<v Speaker 1>That's Jennifer Fisher's resty with the yogurt. But I found

0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>that that it was My chocolate was too hot and

0:32:12.560 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 1>it was too melty.

0:32:13.400 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't know. It didn't work for me.

0:32:16.240 --> 0:32:18.800
<v Speaker 3>Oh, you mixed the chocolate with the yogurt, put the yogurt.

0:32:18.800 --> 0:32:20.240
<v Speaker 1>I dip the berries in the yogurt, and then I

0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:21.520
<v Speaker 1>put them on the pan, I think, and then you're

0:32:21.560 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 1>maybe supposed to freeze them, but then you.

0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 4>Put the hot chocolate. It just gets all like weird.

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:27.959
<v Speaker 3>Tricky perhaps tricky.

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:32.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think we have to take a break and

0:32:32.360 --> 0:32:34.320
<v Speaker 2>then we're going to come back with emails. Did you

0:32:34.360 --> 0:32:39.000
<v Speaker 2>want to talk about Kelly leaving Gray's anatomy Mark.

0:32:38.520 --> 0:32:40.000
<v Speaker 7>And we can cover when we get back.

0:32:40.080 --> 0:33:03.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, we're back. Mark is the lone ranger

0:33:03.400 --> 0:33:05.200
<v Speaker 2>who is caught up on Gray's Anatomy.

0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 7>I only do it for this show. It's scrubbing to ourselves.

0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:17.320
<v Speaker 4>We do whatever we want.

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:22.200
<v Speaker 2>We talked about Gray's Anatomy other than the Farewell episode

0:33:22.240 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 2>in a year, if.

0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:26.000
<v Speaker 7>I ever think about not washing and I'm like, nope,

0:33:26.040 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 7>I gotta watch it because if it comes up, I

0:33:27.920 --> 0:33:28.800
<v Speaker 7>gotta be ready. No.

0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:30.920
<v Speaker 3>I think it's just part of your routine.

0:33:30.560 --> 0:33:33.320
<v Speaker 1>That you are very strength. You're using as an escape

0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:35.080
<v Speaker 1>thought inject.

0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:39.440
<v Speaker 7>Yes, we should look at a new title then for

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:40.040
<v Speaker 7>the podcast.

0:33:40.280 --> 0:33:47.440
<v Speaker 9>You No, we're so scrubbing in you know what, Yes,

0:33:47.520 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 9>we are, because you know what happens when you scrub

0:33:49.680 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 9>and you prepare, you disinfect, and you jump into a

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.160
<v Speaker 9>surgery that is changing your life.

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:58.680
<v Speaker 1>And that is what this podcast embodies. We are removing

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<v Speaker 1>our our cell was at the door, and we are

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<v Speaker 1>stepping into this o r which is the studio, and

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<v Speaker 1>we are diving into this podcast that is changing lives.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that is brilliant. Giving us a lot of credit.

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<v Speaker 7>But one recent episode, somebody said to another one, Hey,

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<v Speaker 7>you're scrubbing in. I'm like, yeah, scrubbing in whoop whoop,

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<v Speaker 7>But yeah falls on daddy. It's just me all by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it isn't just you that that falls on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but there is some news, Yeah, breaking news.

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<v Speaker 7>Maggie Pierce is leaving the show in a couple of weeks,

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<v Speaker 7>and I thought we should talk about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Kellen McCreary, who plays Maggie, is.

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<v Speaker 7>She and Doug are still struggling, still going through it.

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<v Speaker 7>She's still crashing over at Shepherd's place, and uh now

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<v Speaker 7>it may not get resolved adequately because she's leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we think this her departure will end in a

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<v Speaker 2>exiting following Meredith vibe or a tragic.

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<v Speaker 3>Horrible death.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't care?

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<v Speaker 8>That's that's pretty cut throat, because I do. I do

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<v Speaker 8>care about that. You do mean like she might still

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<v Speaker 8>come back? Or if she dies and she's not coming back.

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<v Speaker 8>That's how I feel like Gray's does it? They either

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<v Speaker 8>the people who they kill off are definitely not coming back.

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<v Speaker 3>If this is May, well not Patrick, Dempsey and Danny

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<v Speaker 3>came back.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, true, If this were in May, i'd say they're

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<v Speaker 7>killing everybody. It's in April, so they're not going to

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<v Speaker 7>kill it she'll be back, probably for the season finale.

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<v Speaker 7>But I do have a complaint for anyone who's still washing.

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<v Speaker 7>It's getting very predictable like this. Last week's episode opened

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<v Speaker 7>with this woman in bed talking to her partner being like,

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<v Speaker 7>oh gosh, doctor, can we schedule our trip for Italy?

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<v Speaker 7>It's always been my dream to see Italy? And I'm like, oh, oh,

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<v Speaker 7>the only place you're going is the Morgue. Lady, you

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<v Speaker 7>can't be talking about your dream vacation. That's the kissing

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<v Speaker 7>death on this show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't talk about any future plans on Gray's settle.

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<v Speaker 3>Mercy West.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, she was toast but alert.

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<v Speaker 6>My gosh, you know what five minutes the show spoiler.

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<v Speaker 4>Anyway, she dies five minutes into the show.

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<v Speaker 7>No, she says, her Italy trip whatever. Every Grays fan

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<v Speaker 7>knows that this woman is now doomed insurance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Dark also be.

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<v Speaker 7>Happy to know that Owen and Taddy are doing better.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Thank you so much for that.

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<v Speaker 2>It was literally chomping at the bit to know what

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<v Speaker 2>was going on with them.

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<v Speaker 7>She's chief now chief.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I saw that.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually did think about Owen Hunt recently and I smiled, Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I feel like I smile if I think about

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin mckid. I don't know if I saying about Owen Hunt.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I can't separate them, as you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>it just goes to show you that relationships can change.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you can hate someone one day and love

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<v Speaker 1>them the next.

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<v Speaker 3>It's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we have a very exciting guest this Thursday. Because

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<v Speaker 2>y'all have been asking for her for a very long time.

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<v Speaker 3>We got her, and we got her.

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<v Speaker 2>We have Chrissa Stanton joining us. She is also known

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<v Speaker 2>as Brack your b B on Instagram and her blog.

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<v Speaker 2>But every time I post about her or like talk

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<v Speaker 2>about her, people are like, have her on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>So we listen and your wish came true is our command.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll be back Thursday with Carissa, and we hope

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<v Speaker 2>you have a great week and we love you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>We love you.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye.