1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:05,119 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ren An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing. 3 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 1: In, scrubbing in, and I gotta say that I feel 4 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:20,240 Speaker 1: honored to just live in the same time period as 5 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. 6 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 2: We always That's a consistent feeling I have, Like she 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 2: is unparalleled. 9 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: I don't care what anybody says. She's in a league 10 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 1: of her own, beyond beyond beyond a league of her own. 11 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 12 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, So we're going to get into that a little 13 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: bit later on our Hot topics. 14 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 5: Yeah, are hot takes on Hot Hot bakes on Hot Topics. 15 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 16 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 2: It's funny because I feel like Haley and I have 17 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 2: this conversation often and I'm like, you were on stage 18 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:55,639 Speaker 2: and performed with Taylor Swift twice. Yeah, like the biggest 19 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 2: artists that will we will probably have in margin. 20 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: Parted with Taylor Swift after the grand I didn't do that. 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but like performing on a stage of that 22 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 2: size that she's on, true, and he was like, I 23 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 2: just every time sometimes a clip will pop up from 24 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 2: that tour, the Reputation tour where Haley performed. It will 25 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: pop up on TikTok and I'm like, babe, She's like, 26 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: I cannot I can't believe that's real. 27 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pretty wild. 28 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really fun watching all the Should we 29 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 2: get right into. 30 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: That, I mean, I feel like we shoud discuss our 31 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: weekends a lot. I really want to talk to you 32 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: about your Instagram posts because it really created quit. 33 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 2: I might just I don't know if I can get 34 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: through that without crying. But we can attempt. 35 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: Okay, let's attempt. So do you want it for people 36 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: that did not see your Instagram story? 37 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 3: Do you want to? Yeah, I'll just tell the story. 38 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: So I think I've I mean, for I grew up 39 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 2: very Christian, Like, I grew up in a very Christian culture. 40 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 3: I grew up in the South. 41 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 2: I went to church like Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday, 42 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 2: growing up, like it was very much a part of 43 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 2: my life. And then once I was into high school, 44 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 2: it was more like my decision of like going to 45 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 2: youth group and I went to a Christian school. Like 46 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 2: my whole life was based in religion, and I think 47 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 2: even when I moved out to California, it was kind 48 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 2: of the same thing. 49 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 3: And then like over the I want. 50 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: To say, there was a shift when my sisters came 51 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: out to me because I was like, Okay, everything I've 52 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: always thought about, like homosexuality and same SEXU relationships, like, 53 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: all of a sudden, I had a shift where I 54 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: was like, this doesn't fit me anymore, right, because now 55 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,799 Speaker 2: it's like people that are like my everything are affected 56 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 2: by this mentality. So I kind of started there where 57 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 2: I was like not questioning my faith, but just kind 58 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: of like the church and the like the religious aspect 59 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: of it all. And so then when Haley and I 60 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 2: started dating, I remember like one of the first times 61 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 2: we hung out, I was like, yeah, so, like what 62 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 2: do you believe? And she was like, yeah, I didn't. 63 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 2: I didn't really grow up with like a religion. I 64 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 2: didn't like practice a religion. I just you know, kind 65 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,679 Speaker 2: of just believed in the good of people, but never 66 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 2: had anything specific that I believed in. And I was 67 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 2: just like shocked, Like in my mind, I was like, 68 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 2: how how do you live life? Not like I just 69 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 2: it was so far from where I came from. And 70 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 2: so our whole relationship, you know, that's always been a 71 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 2: thing where she knew that that was so important to me, 72 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 2: like my relationship with God and she asked questions about it. 73 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 2: She's never been disrespectful at all about my faith or 74 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 2: my beliefs, And I've always respected the fact that she 75 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: didn't grow up like that or didn't have that background. 76 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: And I also get why she wanted want to have 77 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 2: association with the church in terms of like how they've 78 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 2: treated gay people, and like her knowing she was, like 79 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: knowing that she was gay her whole life and like 80 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 2: knowing that that was the stigma around it. I get it, 81 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 2: Like I get why there's never been like an interest 82 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 2: in that. But anyway, he's always been super respectful, and 83 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 2: I've navigated the challenges of like, you know, hard conversations 84 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 2: I've had with friends and family who are Christian that 85 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 2: have been probably the cruelest, hardest conversations that I've had 86 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 2: in terms of like my relationship with Haley, right, And. 87 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 3: So I think and especially. 88 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,239 Speaker 2: During twenty twenty, I think I really took a step 89 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 2: back and I was like, what's going on here? Like 90 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 2: there was so much separation, There was so much like 91 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 2: negativity and heat, and I was just kind of like, 92 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 2: what's my association with this? Like if i claim that 93 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 2: I'm a Christian, am I going to be associated with 94 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 2: these people that I don't want to be associated with, right, 95 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 2: And I never felt like it was God Like. I 96 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 2: never felt like, Okay, that's them. They're just humans. They're imperfect, 97 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 2: Like church is full of imperfect people. And I never 98 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 2: you know, people always be like, it's not every church, 99 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: it's not every Christian. I'm like, I get that, but 100 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 2: if if someone gets like her or abused by something, 101 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: you're not like, just forget, forgive and forget and go 102 00:04:57,080 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 2: back to it, you know. So I've always, I think 103 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,679 Speaker 2: the past few years, I've really just tried to figure 104 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: out where I stand in that. And it's been really 105 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 2: hard and uncomfortable and such a deep like sacred part 106 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 2: of me that I never felt like I wanted to 107 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 2: just give it up. But I just didn't know where 108 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 2: I stood with going to church or like putting myself 109 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 2: in that situation. And So Haley has a friend who 110 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 2: is an artist and he recently well he didn't really 111 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 2: I don't know. He came out like a year ago, 112 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 2: and he grew up in the church. His parents are pastors. 113 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 2: He was like a worship leader everything, and he was 114 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 2: kind of like I stepped away from the church. He 115 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: was like, but I ended up going to this church 116 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 2: with some friends. It's like an affirming church, and he 117 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:42,719 Speaker 2: was like I just sat and like balled my eyes 118 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 2: out being in worship. And I was like, oh, what's 119 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: the church, you know, like maybe I could try and 120 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 2: go visit there. And this was months ago and I 121 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 2: talked to Haley and I was like, I would like 122 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 2: to go to church and she was like, well, I said, 123 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 2: but I don't know if I I don't want to 124 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: go alone. I don't know, like if anyone want to 125 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 2: go with me. And she was like, oh, I would 126 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 2: go with you and that alone. I was like wait what. 127 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 2: I was like, you would go with me? And she's 128 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 2: like yeah, of course, Like if you want me to 129 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 2: go with you, I'll go with you. So things have 130 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 2: just been crazy busy. I haven't even really thought about 131 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 2: it again. And all week she was like, hey, I 132 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 2: I want to plan something on Sunday. 133 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 3: Are you free? And I was like, yeah, I think 134 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 3: I'm free. 135 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 2: I can be free, and so she was like she's like, Okay, 136 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 2: it's in the morning and we just need to leave 137 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 2: your house by like ten o'clock in the morning. And 138 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 2: I was like that's early for us on a Sunday, 139 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 2: like we don't typically like get up and go anywhere 140 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: like on Sundays, like we like sleep in, and so 141 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 2: I literally thought I had never had the John and 142 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 2: Vinnie's breakfast since I've been talking about going to breakfast there. 143 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 2: And I was like, are we going to John and 144 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 2: Vinnie's since she was like, I want to surprise you. 145 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 3: I'm not going to tell you. 146 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 2: So I realized that we weren't going to eat because 147 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: she like made me a piece of toast, and I 148 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 2: was like, what the heck are we doing? I was like, 149 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 2: are we doing a matinee concert? Like we talked about 150 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: our morning concert? 151 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 3: And so we pull in. 152 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 2: Traffic was horrible because the LA Marathon. She was like 153 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 2: so flustered because and I was like, can't you just 154 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: call like wherever we're going, can you call and let 155 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: him know we're just running a little late. 156 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 3: And she's like, yeah, no, I can't really call this. 157 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: So we pull in and it took me a second, 158 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 2: but I realized that we were at the church that I. 159 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 6: Had wanted to go to, and I was like so 160 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 6: overcome with like the most profound type of love, because like. 161 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: That was the most selfless act that someone could do 162 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: for me, you know yeah, And I think she's been 163 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: such a rock of listening to me and she knew 164 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,840 Speaker 2: what it would meant mean to me, and so it 165 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 2: was like really cool, like walking in hand in hand 166 00:07:56,960 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 2: and being in such a place then I needed like 167 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 2: healing with, you know yeah, and being with someone who's 168 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 2: brought that healing to my life and is like listen 169 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: to the. 170 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 3: Struggle of it all. And so. 171 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 2: I just like could I could like barely even like 172 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: think about it during church because I was just like 173 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 2: so overwhelmed by it. And so we got in the 174 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 2: car and I was like, I don't I don't really 175 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 2: have words, like I literally don't know if I've ever 176 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 2: felt so like scene yeah, and like genuinely. 177 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 3: Cared for like that. 178 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 2: So it was just like I it like shifted a 179 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 2: whole new part of me and how I view her 180 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 2: as a person because I know, I know she loves 181 00:08:55,160 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: me so much, but like, I think it was just 182 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 2: such a selfless act that and like totally cut me 183 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 2: off guard, and it was just really thoughtful and selfless, 184 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 2: and it's the story isn't even about like honestly, the 185 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 2: story isn't even about church and religion. It was like 186 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 2: about love, like finding someone who sees you and like 187 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 2: sees the parts of you that maybe they don't understand, 188 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 2: and and and. 189 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: Is willing to be uncomfortable in a space that means 190 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: so much to you. 191 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was it was just like very overwhelming 192 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 2: in the best way. 193 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 4: Have you talked to her about it since? 194 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 195 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 2: I mean I all day yesterday. I was just like 196 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 2: thank you like that, and you know, I was like, 197 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 2: how did you feel, Like what did you feel in there? 198 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 2: And She's like, I felt, you know, I felt very safe. 199 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 2: It felt it very welcoming. I didn't feel like ashamed 200 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: or you know, uncomfortable. And I was just like really 201 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 2: proud of her because it was like that takes a 202 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 2: lot of bravery, Like I don't know if I'm like, 203 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 2: I'm literally just trying to wrack my brain like have 204 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 2: I ever done that for someone? 205 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 3: Like where I put myself in a position like that. 206 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 3: But yeah, it was just really sweet. 207 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 7: All right. 208 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 4: He got me going to how was the church? 209 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 3: The church was great? 210 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 2: I mean it was just nice to be I come 211 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 2: from such a very like charismatic type background where like, 212 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 2: you know, you leave and it's like very emotional and 213 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 2: like there's a lot of emotions around it, but it 214 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 2: just felt nice to be comfortable and safe and in 215 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: a place that was new, but still not feel like, oh, 216 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 2: like am I good here? Like yeah, do I want 217 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: to stay here and send the sea? But I'm definitely 218 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 2: gonna go back and try, you know, go again. And 219 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:01,280 Speaker 2: I was like, thank you so much for doing that. 220 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 2: She was like, well, I told you that I wanted 221 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: I would go with you, so I wanted to do 222 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:05,240 Speaker 2: it before I left for tour. 223 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: So it really is so emotional because like I get 224 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: what you're saying, do you know what I mean? I 225 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: get what you're saying about the church, and I get 226 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: what you're saying about your relationship with God. And it's 227 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,319 Speaker 1: not the same thing, you know what I mean, Like 228 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 1: it's very different. And you know, I have these conversations 229 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 1: with Robbie too because he's Jewish, which is totally totally different, 230 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: you know, religion, and I feel the same way that 231 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: you feel about Haley. You know, it's a totally different circumstance. 232 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: But I feel like he embraces my faith and my 233 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: relationship with God and always is willing to go and 234 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: wants to learn and like I'm the same way with 235 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: his faith too, you know. 236 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 4: And I think that oftentimes people kind of look at. 237 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 1: You and they can judge you, and you know, like 238 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: I've gotten a lot of people saying like, how could 239 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: you be with a man that's Jewish, And it's like 240 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: it's everything is not one size fits all, and so 241 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: I think it's about having respect for each other and 242 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 1: loving unconditionally and. 243 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 4: Being that rock. 244 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. 245 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 2: And I think that's why it's so crazy, because the 246 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 2: shift of how my mind worked of like I remember 247 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 2: being like I would I could never be with someone 248 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 2: who didn't share the same faith like that was and 249 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 2: all be all for me, And yet I'm with someone 250 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 2: who literally couldn't be more opposite of like what I expected, 251 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 2: and I experienced something that was so powerfully like impactful. 252 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 4: Yeah. 253 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: So yeah, that was our wed and then we had 254 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 2: a great day and we ate the best pasta that 255 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 2: I think I've ever had. 256 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 3: It was like homemade pasta. Where met him at a bar. 257 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 4: What's the place? 258 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, And they have a pasta it's delicious and it's 259 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 2: on Librea And then across the street they have like 260 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:00,439 Speaker 2: a breakfast spot and it's called met her at a bar. 261 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 8: Oh this obviously things, So yeah, it's not then I'm 262 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 8: smart on someone else's part, damn. 263 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 3: So yeah it was. 264 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 2: It was great, And to be honest, we start I 265 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 2: started the weekend with a girl's night out with you 266 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: and Ali and it was so fun, Genna, because Tany 267 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 2: and I had a conversation I guess it was last 268 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 2: week after the podcast, actually saying like it's just you know, 269 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 2: you get into these relationships and you get it's like 270 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 2: we love being around the people that we're with and 271 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:34,319 Speaker 2: we just like want to be with them all the time. 272 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 2: But it's so important to invest in like our friendships 273 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 2: and have that space to like go out and you know, 274 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 2: these relationships, my friendships are just as important as my 275 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: relationship with Haley and like putting in the time and 276 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 2: like intentional effort. Because you and I talk every week, 277 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: but it's like like. 278 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 3: We were beyond that. 279 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 2: We don't get together and like, you know as much 280 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 2: as we used to do we talk all. 281 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 4: The time, Yeah, we don't physically get together. 282 00:13:58,400 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 283 00:13:58,679 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 284 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 2: So we were saying, like be intentionally, be intentional about it, 285 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 2: and Allie and I were talking about it and she 286 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 2: said the same thing. 287 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 3: So we were like, let's go. 288 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: Except Ali wanted to take it to a whole other 289 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: level and she was like, each week we all invite 290 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 1: a different friend into the girl's night out. 291 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 4: And I was back and I were like, no. 292 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 3: Condra didn't say anything, and then I was like, yeah. 293 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 2: I think it's more about like really focusing on these friends, 294 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 2: like this relationship, and then like you know, we can 295 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 2: do another thing where we like in my people. 296 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels very stressful too, very. 297 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: Stressful to be responsible for like picking somebody that's gonna 298 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 1: like come in. 299 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 3: Vibe with the group. 300 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: Ribes, but yeah, it was really fun and we had 301 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 2: just like got dressed up cute when and had cute 302 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 2: drinks and dinner. 303 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 3: You had a. 304 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: Drink, yeah, I had one drink. Yeah, and honestly was 305 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 1: kind of drunk. It really like the cutting back really 306 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: kind of lowers the tolerance. 307 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then what else did you do? 308 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: My weekend was action packed because it was rob one 309 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: of Robby's kids' birthday weekends, and so we just did 310 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: so many things, like he took them, He took him 311 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: and his friends to Benny Hannah for the birthday dinner, 312 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: and then I took his other kid to like Colory mine, 313 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: and then we went to dinner just the two of us, 314 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 1: and then Saturday we filmed a movie trailer. Oh yeah, 315 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever gone into iMovie and 316 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 1: tried filming trailers in there. 317 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,240 Speaker 3: But they're actually like really cool. 318 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: And like actually very user friendly, and so the kids 319 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: just learned about it like the other week. So we 320 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: spent literally all Saturday filming a movie trailer, talking like 321 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: eleven am to four pm is when we wrapped. 322 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 3: Wow. 323 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, it actually was really fun. 324 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: But they wanted to do a movie too, and I 325 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: was like, at this rate, a movie is gonna take us. 326 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 3: A week a year. Oh yeah, we do. 327 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 7: This in Wisconsin. Uh, my father in law writes a 328 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 7: script and then when we get there we I'll take 329 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 7: our parts and perform it and record it and edit 330 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 7: it and make it into a little film. Oh my god, 331 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 7: every year, not every year, four times. 332 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 3: That's really fun to have to look back on. Yeah, 333 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 3: it was actually. 334 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 4: Robby got like really into it. 335 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: He like put like on a piece of paper, he 336 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: put every scene like what we were going to do 337 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: for every scene. 338 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, we found like a map. It was like a 339 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 4: hidden map. 340 00:16:29,520 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: Treasure chest in our backyard or whatever, and so he 341 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: like wrote a map and like lit it on fire 342 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: and like really like he really went all in on it, 343 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: which you know I love. 344 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 7: Yeah. 345 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got dressed up into characters so that was 346 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: really fun, and then went to the Kings game Saturday night. 347 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 348 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: Let me just tell you, hockey, if you're a sports 349 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: gurly or if you're wanting to be a sports gurly, 350 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: hockey is the sport. 351 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,400 Speaker 4: Because it is action packed. It's not boring. 352 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 1: You're like baseball, like you're watching stuff all the time. 353 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 4: So heart mark, but it's true. 354 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 1: There's like so much action going on. And then when 355 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: there's not action, like they're like flipping periods or whatever. 356 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 1: I don't know what you call it, overturning the Yeah, 357 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:13,880 Speaker 1: it's there's like so much stuff on the JumboTron. They're 358 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: constantly like interactive and like doing fun games with people, 359 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: and like, I don't know, I just find it to 360 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: be pumping like jams. 361 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 362 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: I find it to be a really fun, pleasant experience. 363 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: So hockey is my sport. 364 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 2: I don't know, so unexpected because it's pretty aggressive. I 365 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 2: wouldn't see you as like a person liking the like 366 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 2: aggression of hockey. 367 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 1: When you sit far enough back, like you don't see 368 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: them like slam into the glass, and so it's just 369 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 1: not as a brace okay. Yeah. And then yesterday we 370 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 1: did a barbecue. It was like raining in La So 371 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: it's kind of a weird one. But yeah, there's like 372 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 1: a family celebration for his son. So it's a very 373 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 1: action packed I did like, I feel like I lived 374 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 1: ten lives this weekend. 375 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of felt. I felt like it was 376 00:17:58,160 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 3: a busy. 377 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 2: We went on we went to like Westlake Village and 378 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 2: went on a boat, like a little duffy boat. 379 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 3: With Haley's friends que It was so fun. 380 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:10,440 Speaker 2: We got our favorite sandwiches and the one I told 381 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,719 Speaker 2: you about, and we just rode around in the duffy 382 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: and I love I just love being on water. 383 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 3: I love being in a boat on water because. 384 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 4: You're a scorpio. 385 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 3: Oh that's gonna be why totally? Why? 386 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 4: Yeah? 387 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 2: And then we and then yesterday it was just like 388 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,440 Speaker 2: pat Haley's just got so much to do before tour. 389 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,880 Speaker 2: So we like, you know, went to church, went to lunch, 390 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,920 Speaker 2: went to like did all her work stuff, went shopping. 391 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 3: It was a busy day. I slept really well. 392 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 1: Actually we both saw Robbie and I both saw your 393 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: Instagram story, and I was like, we need a church 394 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 1: together next week. 395 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 4: It's done, so. 396 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 3: I couldn't even read. 397 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 2: I got so many like messages, even not just from 398 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 2: uh like people that I don't know, but from like 399 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 2: friends and people I know that were so emotional, Like 400 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 2: I could barely even like open my Instagram this morning. 401 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 2: I was just like, but like in the best way, 402 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 2: like I was just sharing it more as like it 403 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 2: was just such an a special act of love. And 404 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 2: I always hesitate, like do I share these things like 405 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:11,440 Speaker 2: they're so personal? 406 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 3: But like also it's. 407 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 1: Such a thing because like, let's say you wrote a 408 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 1: list like five years ago of the perfect. 409 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 4: Person of your in your life. You know, you would 410 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:19,880 Speaker 4: have said, like. 411 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: Muscles, good job, Christian, you know what I mean, Like 412 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: you would have given it all these things, And in reality, 413 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 1: what really matters is the character and the person that 414 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: you're with, you know what I mean, not all those 415 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,959 Speaker 1: external things. And I think if anybody's listening and they 416 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 1: have that list, rip it up, baby. 417 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 418 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:44,320 Speaker 2: I think we both probably had lists that are not 419 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 2: like that didn't come to number one on my list 420 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 2: yet Persian jew. 421 00:19:55,480 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 5: And I got me a lesbian Jesus Jesus, Oh I did, 422 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 5: I did. 423 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: I did discover a new thing and and it's gonna 424 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: be called the Hey Babe Series and it's all thanks 425 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: to Taylor Swift. So we'll take a quick break and 426 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:40,640 Speaker 1: we'll get into that. It might be on work calls 427 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 1: usually picks up, Hey babe, Hi, can you hear me? 428 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 4: Did you know Taylor Swift grew up. 429 00:20:49,200 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: On a Christmas tree farm? 430 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 3: But did you know that? Did you know? Yes? She did? 431 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 2: She did in Pennsylvania. That one may have been his 432 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 2: most impressive fact. 433 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 4: I love you. 434 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 7: He's like in a board meeting. Sorry, everybody, I need 435 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 7: to take this real quick. 436 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: So on Saturday morning, all I could do was look 437 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: at TikTok Instagram, and I was searching for videos of 438 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift's first night of her Era's tour. 439 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 3: They weren't hard to find. 440 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:35,399 Speaker 4: They were not hard to find. 441 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is I was just like I 442 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: was just locked in, yeah you know, And so I'm 443 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 1: learning all these facts and I'm showing them to him, 444 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 1: like I was like, oh my gosh, did you see 445 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift jumped into a pool, like, look at this 446 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 1: ocean she just jumped into on the stage. I'm just 447 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: showing him all this stuff and I thought it was 448 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: funny because his reactions were like funny. So I started 449 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 1: filming them and I would do them one by one 450 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 1: and I'd be like, hey, babe, and he'd be like 451 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,879 Speaker 1: doing something and he's like, yeah, did you know that 452 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift sang forty four songs on the opening on 453 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:03,439 Speaker 1: ever Tories? 454 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 4: Like I did not know that. So it's kind of 455 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 4: kept it going with every single. 456 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift fact that I learned over the weekend, and 457 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: it was a hit. People were really enjoying the Hay 458 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: Babe series. They want me to continue doing it. 459 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta really go. You gotta find a lot 460 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 3: of facts about Taylor. 461 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 1: No, they want it outside of Taylor Swift back like yeah, 462 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: facts like whatever, whatever it may be. You know, somebody 463 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 1: suggested maybe doing ice spice next, Yeah. 464 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 3: You could really do it with a yeah, wow, it's not. 465 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 8: Just I was expecting Harry, So I was like, Harry's 466 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 8: a touchy subject. 467 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, but but continuing the series with like different 468 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: facts or something. 469 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 2: Just like random facts about the day. I just like 470 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 2: the Hey Babe intro. 471 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, But honestly, a forty four song set list 472 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: is insane. 473 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 7: Crazy, Like you know, I'm a Springsteen guy, and I've 474 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 7: always loved that he does like four hour shows. I mean, 475 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 7: this is a three hour plus show she's doing. That's 476 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 7: incredible and forty four songs. I have the set list here. 477 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 7: We don't need to name all forty four songs. But 478 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 7: opening with Miss American on the Heartbreak Press did not 479 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 7: see that coming, did. 480 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 4: Not want it, and honestly could do without it. 481 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:21,400 Speaker 7: Well, you shouldn't say that till you see the show. 482 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 4: True, okay, true, true, true. Maybe there's a reason for it. 483 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 2: I will say like TikTok has changed the game of 484 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 2: concerts because I feel like I know every outfit and 485 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 2: like set, and. 486 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 4: I'm probably kind of bums me out in a way. 487 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 3: So the first night I was like I couldn't get enough. 488 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 3: I was like, I need to know. 489 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,880 Speaker 2: I saw basically like half the venue's outfits that they 490 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 2: made and more to the show. I saw her outfits, 491 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 2: I saw the set, and I was like I need 492 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:51,959 Speaker 2: more and more more. But then the second night I 493 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 2: was like, I almost don't want to say I want 494 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,560 Speaker 2: to like go into it not feeling like I've seen 495 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 2: the show already. 496 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 4: I will say I'm. 497 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: So happy that Invisible String and Bejeweled are part of 498 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,399 Speaker 1: the forty four song set list. Of course, I also 499 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,399 Speaker 1: think so there's like an acoustic section of the of 500 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 1: the concert. 501 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 3: Where she does this surprise every night, Right. 502 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: Every night's gonna be She's gonna kind of shift them out, 503 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 1: so you don't know what song you're gonna get, which 504 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: I appreciate. You know, Taylor Swift doesn't just do the 505 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 1: same show. She does like ninety percent the same show 506 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: and changes it up every city, So I appreciate that. 507 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 3: As a mirror ball, Stan I was really thrilled that 508 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 3: first night we got a Yeah, acoustic mirror ball. 509 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 2: So I'm wondering, I wish I knew what what song 510 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 2: she was gonna be rotating in the acoustic set, because like, 511 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,399 Speaker 2: if she doesn't out of the Wood, out of the 512 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 2: Woods isn't on the set list, But if she doesn't 513 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 2: acoustic out of the Woods, you would like that that 514 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 2: I would fly wherever that's being done. Oh really, yeah, 515 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 2: because that she has she did like this Grammy performance 516 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 2: where she not at the Grammys but the Grimmy Museum 517 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 2: performance on the piano, she did out of the Woods. 518 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 2: It's one of my favorite performances of all time. Yeah, 519 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 2: so if she did that, I would be like tell 520 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,360 Speaker 2: me when and where? And I might be like, hey, 521 00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 2: like can you message Taylor just to see if she's 522 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 2: playing that anywhere? But yeah, I just she's incredible. She's 523 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 2: so iconic and she's so like did you see the 524 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 2: TikTok where she's playing Champagne Problems And she gets to 525 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 2: the bridge and the crowd just out of nowhere, starts 526 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 2: going crazy and she's like almost confused, like what is happening? 527 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 2: Like she's looking at the crowd like I think, like, 528 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 2: are they cheering at something that's not me? Like it 529 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 2: was so funny because they were just so excited that 530 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 2: she was about to sing the bridge of the song 531 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 2: that they were like anticipating it. 532 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:48,880 Speaker 4: I know. 533 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 1: I mean, damn, did you see the videos for like 534 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: jumping into the water? 535 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:56,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, why don't you do that? 536 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 3: Well, it's the screen on the stage. No, I know 537 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 3: that you thought you swam the length of this. 538 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: She's not jumping into actual water, but she's swan diving 539 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:07,159 Speaker 1: into something. 540 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 7: What is she? 541 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 2: I wonder if it's like a pad, you know, like 542 00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 2: a big like that's hard or. 543 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, she's swan dive. 544 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 4: Into a pad like owt. 545 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 2: Or I was also thinking of one of people are 546 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 2: down there and there's like. 547 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 4: That's even more terrifying. She goes She's not just like 548 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 4: belly flopping, She's literally diving. 549 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 2: They probably constructed a new contraption that she could dive 550 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 2: into that's never been done before. 551 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: That's like not painful, Like is it just jello or 552 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,400 Speaker 1: is it like cotton balls or a big baby film. 553 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 4: Pit, a foam pit. 554 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 3: I would dive into a phone pit. 555 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess would come back up in a different outfit. 556 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 7: Is that right? 557 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:48,400 Speaker 1: Or well? 558 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 4: I think that's also it's like a lot of like waves. 559 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 3: And does she dive into a contraption that puts the 560 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 3: new outfit on her? 561 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 4: No, I don't think. 562 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 2: That that would be amazing, But yeah, I feel I 563 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 2: also feel it's like every every time she does something new, 564 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, if we live in the generation of Taylor Slift. 565 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 4: We do what a blessing? What a blessing. 566 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: So everybody that went and posted videos, I appreciate you 567 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: and tagging mean invisible string. It really made me feel 568 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 1: a certain type of way. 569 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm hm. 570 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about It's on our hot 571 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:27,439 Speaker 2: topic list. So Gwyneth Paltrow they there was a I 572 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 2: don't know if it was a podcast. 573 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 3: That she did. 574 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, she did some podcast interview, but I don't know 575 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 1: who it was with standby it. 576 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 2: Was the Art of Being Well podcast correct, and she 577 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 2: was just talking about her like wellness routine and diet 578 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 2: which includes intermittent fasting and it was like bone broth 579 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 2: for lunch and vegetables for dinner. She talked about how 580 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 2: she works out and she does her sauna. It's like 581 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 2: all very important to the routine. And you know, obviously 582 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 2: when you talk about your diet and it's like that, 583 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,359 Speaker 2: like that you're gonna get criticism by It's such an 584 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 2: interesting thing because it's one of those things where you're 585 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 2: kind of damned if you do and you're damned if 586 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 2: you don't. Because she was just she just said what 587 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 2: she eats, and I'm right, I'm like, well, at least 588 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,679 Speaker 2: she's just like, I don't eat anything really and this 589 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 2: is how I maintain my physique and what I do 590 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 2: and instead of acting like she's eating I don't know. 591 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,199 Speaker 1: Like part of it's interesting because she did get a 592 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: lot of hate for it, and I understand, like I 593 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: do understand that it's triggering for people. I do understand 594 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 1: that it doesn't promote a healthy or balanced diet. But 595 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,480 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it is her truth. Yeah, 596 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 1: that is her truth. That is what she's eating in 597 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 1: the day. And so like a lot of people, sometimes 598 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 1: people will come at me and say, like, I'm promoting 599 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: you know, disordered eating because I'm not eating gluten or 600 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 1: you know, I'm eating certain types of things, and I'll 601 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: post my meals and they're like, that's not enough food. 602 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 1: But I'm eating the way that I'm eating because I 603 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 1: have hashimotives disease. This is the way that I'm eating 604 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 1: for my body, for my health, for my lifestyle. So 605 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 1: I think that and that's for some reason somebody told 606 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: I don't know who she's working with or what's going 607 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 1: on here, but somebody told her to intermittent fast drink 608 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: broth for a lot. I mean, yes, it's obviously scary 609 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: to look at, but it's also her truth. 610 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 4: I think it's it kind of promoting it. She just 611 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 4: got asked the question. 612 00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it kind of gets into the conversation of 613 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,720 Speaker 2: like when you have a platform and you have a 614 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 2: wide following, and especially because her company is wellness, you know, 615 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 2: I think it's like that argument of like. 616 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 3: I'm I'm kind of on the. 617 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 2: Side of like she was asked a question about her 618 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 2: diet and routine and she answered it truthfully, but at 619 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 2: the same time, it brings on this this like is 620 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 2: this what other people feel like they need to be 621 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 2: doing on the basis of wellness? 622 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:55,959 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 623 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 2: So I think it's it's a very fine line that 624 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 2: you have to walk when you have a platform and 625 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 2: you're talking about topics that can be triggering or you know, 626 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 2: picked apart like that. 627 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:10,480 Speaker 3: But it wasn't. 628 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 2: It was interesting to see the response, and I'm kind 629 00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 2: of glad that like we're moving in a direction where 630 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 2: we can where we are talking about these things and 631 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,600 Speaker 2: like the health and like being able to know like 632 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 2: nourishing and feeding your body is not a bad thing. 633 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 3: You know, I couldn't do this. My body would not 634 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 3: survive at five pm. 635 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 4: But it's also in asana after all, this are you joking? 636 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 2: It's also if she were to be like posting photos 637 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 2: of her eating pizza, people would be like, she doesn't 638 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 2: really eat that pizza, you know, so you like kind 639 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 2: of it's like a tricky topic. 640 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:46,959 Speaker 4: It's like you just have to you have to do 641 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 4: you you know what I mean. 642 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: And I think it's interesting because as much hate as 643 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 1: Gwyneth Paltrow gets, and she continues to get, she's just herself. 644 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 1: She is living her life the way she wants to 645 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: does not care. And there's a part of me that's like, 646 00:30:59,440 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: what is it. 647 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 2: It's like, it's your body and you have to know 648 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 2: what what your body needs it once. 649 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 3: My body does not. My body needs way more than that. 650 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,959 Speaker 1: And I know that body cannot intermittent fast no, like 651 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: it just can't. 652 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 4: I need food in the morning, like need. 653 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 3: It, and a sweet treat at night. 654 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 7: Yeah. 655 00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, I do need a sweet treat at night too. 656 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 7: Yeah. 657 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 3: It's it's the best. 658 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 2: Oh. 659 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:28,400 Speaker 1: I made the most delicious Oh my gosh, chout out 660 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 1: Jennifer Fishirks. I got the idea from her, but I 661 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,960 Speaker 1: basically wash all these berries, put the berries in a 662 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,520 Speaker 1: like a like a pie tin. Okay, then I get 663 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 1: dark chocolate chips, mix it with coconut oil. Melt melt it, 664 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: melt it down, port over the berries, put it in 665 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: the freezer, and you have like this delicious fruity dark 666 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,959 Speaker 1: chocolate dessert at the end of the day. 667 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 2: It is divine. I actually Hashi Moto approved normally your 668 00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 2: like suggestions. It's like delicious. I'm like, okay, but that 669 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 2: actually sounds good. And I saw someone do it with yogurt, 670 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 2: like Greek yogurt over the berries and then freeze it'. 671 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: That's Jennifer Fisher's resty with the yogurt. But I found 672 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 1: that that it was My chocolate was too hot and 673 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:13,360 Speaker 1: it was too melty. 674 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 4: I don't know. It didn't work for me. 675 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 3: Oh, you mixed the chocolate with the yogurt, put the yogurt. 676 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 1: I dip the berries in the yogurt, and then I 677 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 1: put them on the pan, I think, and then you're 678 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 1: maybe supposed to freeze them, but then you. 679 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,040 Speaker 4: Put the hot chocolate. It just gets all like weird. 680 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:27,959 Speaker 3: Tricky perhaps tricky. 681 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we have to take a break and 682 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 2: then we're going to come back with emails. Did you 683 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 2: want to talk about Kelly leaving Gray's anatomy Mark. 684 00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 7: And we can cover when we get back. 685 00:32:40,080 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're back. Mark is the lone ranger 686 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 2: who is caught up on Gray's Anatomy. 687 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 7: I only do it for this show. It's scrubbing to ourselves. 688 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 4: We do whatever we want. 689 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 2: We talked about Gray's Anatomy other than the Farewell episode 690 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 2: in a year, if. 691 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 7: I ever think about not washing and I'm like, nope, 692 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 7: I gotta watch it because if it comes up, I 693 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 7: gotta be ready. No. 694 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,920 Speaker 3: I think it's just part of your routine. 695 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 1: That you are very strength. You're using as an escape 696 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 1: thought inject. 697 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 7: Yes, we should look at a new title then for 698 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 7: the podcast. 699 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 9: You No, we're so scrubbing in you know what, Yes, 700 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 9: we are, because you know what happens when you scrub 701 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 9: and you prepare, you disinfect, and you jump into a 702 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,160 Speaker 9: surgery that is changing your life. 703 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 1: And that is what this podcast embodies. We are removing 704 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: our our cell was at the door, and we are 705 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,040 Speaker 1: stepping into this o r which is the studio, and 706 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: we are diving into this podcast that is changing lives. 707 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,400 Speaker 3: Wow, that is brilliant. Giving us a lot of credit. 708 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 7: But one recent episode, somebody said to another one, Hey, 709 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 7: you're scrubbing in. I'm like, yeah, scrubbing in whoop whoop, 710 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 7: But yeah falls on daddy. It's just me all by myself. 711 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it isn't just you that that falls on. Yeah, 712 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 3: but there is some news, Yeah, breaking news. 713 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,720 Speaker 7: Maggie Pierce is leaving the show in a couple of weeks, 714 00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,440 Speaker 7: and I thought we should talk about that. 715 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,399 Speaker 3: Kellen McCreary, who plays Maggie, is. 716 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 7: She and Doug are still struggling, still going through it. 717 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 7: She's still crashing over at Shepherd's place, and uh now 718 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 7: it may not get resolved adequately because she's leaving. 719 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,279 Speaker 2: Do we think this her departure will end in a 720 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 2: exiting following Meredith vibe or a tragic. 721 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 3: Horrible death. 722 00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 4: Don't care? 723 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 8: That's that's pretty cut throat, because I do. I do 724 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 8: care about that. You do mean like she might still 725 00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 8: come back? Or if she dies and she's not coming back. 726 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,000 Speaker 8: That's how I feel like Gray's does it? They either 727 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,239 Speaker 8: the people who they kill off are definitely not coming back. 728 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,399 Speaker 3: If this is May, well not Patrick, Dempsey and Danny 729 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:16,839 Speaker 3: came back. 730 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,359 Speaker 7: Okay, true, If this were in May, i'd say they're 731 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 7: killing everybody. It's in April, so they're not going to 732 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 7: kill it she'll be back, probably for the season finale. 733 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 7: But I do have a complaint for anyone who's still washing. 734 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 7: It's getting very predictable like this. Last week's episode opened 735 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 7: with this woman in bed talking to her partner being like, 736 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 7: oh gosh, doctor, can we schedule our trip for Italy? 737 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 7: It's always been my dream to see Italy? And I'm like, oh, oh, 738 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,879 Speaker 7: the only place you're going is the Morgue. Lady, you 739 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 7: can't be talking about your dream vacation. That's the kissing 740 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 7: death on this show. 741 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:52,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't talk about any future plans on Gray's settle. 742 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 3: Mercy West. 743 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,600 Speaker 7: Yeah, she was toast but alert. 744 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,160 Speaker 6: My gosh, you know what five minutes the show spoiler. 745 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 4: Anyway, she dies five minutes into the show. 746 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 7: No, she says, her Italy trip whatever. Every Grays fan 747 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 7: knows that this woman is now doomed insurance. 748 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 749 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 4: Dark also be. 750 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 7: Happy to know that Owen and Taddy are doing better. 751 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,040 Speaker 3: Right, Thank you so much for that. 752 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 2: It was literally chomping at the bit to know what 753 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 2: was going on with them. 754 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,399 Speaker 7: She's chief now chief. 755 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw that. 756 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 1: I actually did think about Owen Hunt recently and I smiled, Oh. 757 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 2: Wow, I feel like I smile if I think about 758 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,040 Speaker 2: Kevin mckid. I don't know if I saying about Owen Hunt. 759 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I can't separate them, as you know. And 760 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,760 Speaker 1: it just goes to show you that relationships can change. 761 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 1: You know, you can hate someone one day and love 762 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 1: them the next. 763 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:48,239 Speaker 3: It's true. 764 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,680 Speaker 2: Well, we have a very exciting guest this Thursday. Because 765 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 2: y'all have been asking for her for a very long time. 766 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,600 Speaker 3: We got her, and we got her. 767 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 2: We have Chrissa Stanton joining us. She is also known 768 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 2: as Brack your b B on Instagram and her blog. 769 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:05,200 Speaker 2: But every time I post about her or like talk 770 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,160 Speaker 2: about her, people are like, have her on the podcast. 771 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,800 Speaker 4: So we listen and your wish came true is our command. 772 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 2: So we'll be back Thursday with Carissa, and we hope 773 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 2: you have a great week and we love you so much. 774 00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 4: We love you. 775 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:16,240 Speaker 2: Bye.