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Speaker 5: You so much, dear blog. So Fred, I know you

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Speaker 5: talk about this often and I can relate to you now.

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Speaker 5: But you know you've mentioned before that your parents like

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Speaker 5: to rewrite history a little bit of the upbringing that

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Speaker 5: you had, and they'll say, oh, you know this never

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Speaker 5: happened or I don't remember it this way, And I'm.

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Speaker 3: Finding that to be very common amongst parents.

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Speaker 2: What's funny because my parents were amazing parents and they

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Speaker 2: did a great job, Like I'm not just saying it,

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Speaker 2: like legitimately, they did a great job.

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Speaker 1: So why why some of the stuff they.

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Speaker 2: Deny they deny, and why some of the stuff they

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Speaker 2: make up they make up? I don't understand. I don't know,

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Speaker 2: because it's like you you made me mow the lawn.

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Speaker 2: They swear up and down that never happened, Like who cares?

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Speaker 2: You did make me mow the lawn, but you also

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Speaker 2: paid me for it, which you didn't have to twenty

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Speaker 2: dollars each time?

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Speaker 1: And who cares?

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Speaker 2: Right, I was again, I should be doing chores, Like

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Speaker 2: it's not like I'm saying that you like ran me

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Speaker 2: over with the lawnmower.

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Speaker 5: But anyway, yes, so yes, yeah, I'm noticing that it's

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Speaker 5: very much real, and yeah they're denying, like to me,

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Speaker 5: the dumbest things like you said, like like mowing the lawn.

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Speaker 3: I don't understand how that comes off in any way before.

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Speaker 1: You made me mow the lawncause're okay, so you did.

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Speaker 5: But I want to know why are are parents doing this?

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Speaker 5: Like my mom's going the same thing too. She said

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Speaker 5: she made a comment together and she about something on

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Speaker 5: Instagram and she was like that never happened or I

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Speaker 5: don't remember it like that.

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Speaker 3: Like that's it.

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Speaker 5: That didn't happen, like I don't know who was in

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Speaker 5: her ear or what. And I was like, mom, and

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Speaker 5: I was like, this happened. And I was like, because

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Speaker 5: I'm in therapy for a lot of things, but this happened.

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Speaker 2: It happened because I've unpacked it with my therapy. I

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Speaker 2: had to deductibles high. By the way expensive, it is high.

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Speaker 5: But I told her, I was like, Mom, I was like,

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Speaker 5: I'm healing through it, so it's okay. I'm not mad.

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Speaker 5: You're the best mom ever. And I always say this

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Speaker 5: to you about all of our just like parents. I

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Speaker 5: feel like our parents truly be the best that they

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Speaker 5: can or the best that they could do with what

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Speaker 5: they knew at the time, right. And I do believe

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Speaker 5: that everybody. I know, everybody has a story or whatever

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Speaker 5: from growing up. And I know everybody and everybody had

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Speaker 5: like the same layout of childhood. But that doesn't mean

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Speaker 5: anything bad. It just means you know the best you

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Speaker 5: could with what you knew. Because trust me, Gig, my

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Speaker 5: daughter is gonna call me in twenty years and say,

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Speaker 5: you know.

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Speaker 1: Why did you do that?

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Speaker 3: We don't do it like that nomore like blah blah blah,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean, or like why did you

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Speaker 3: let me do this? Or didn't let me do that?

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Speaker 5: And she'll have her own way of parenting too, like

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Speaker 5: things are gonna change in twenty thirty years.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just from my.

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Speaker 5: Experience, this is what I feel. My feelings are super valid.

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Speaker 2: So what's the latest example of something that Mama Marta

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Speaker 2: says that happened that didn't happen.

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Speaker 5: She made a comment one time because she used to

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Speaker 5: she was, you know, smoke her cigarettes.

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Speaker 6: Yea cigarette, that's another words another publinais that is and cigarettes.

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Speaker 6: She yes, and I would take them and sell them

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Speaker 6: at school. But that's another story. It's not the story

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Speaker 6: that we're telling.

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Speaker 3: To the right.

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Speaker 2: That's from my entrepreneurial life and making a little money

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Speaker 2: with this business. Yeah, I only thought, I only wish

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Speaker 2: I thought of it. Actually, yes, same.

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Speaker 5: Yes, And I remember she would and a lot of

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Speaker 5: parents did in the nineties and two thousands. Is like

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Speaker 5: they would smoke in the in the house, you know,

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Speaker 5: and it was a common She had the fan running

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Speaker 5: that little over the whatever oven fan you know I'm

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that'll solve the problem. Yeah, thing, the thing

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Speaker 2: that blows some of them flow air outside. You know

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Speaker 2: what mine does? Mind just blows the air back at

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Speaker 2: high rise it. I don't think it exhausts anywhere. Literally

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Speaker 2: blows just away from the stove. Yeah, they like that

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Speaker 2: essentially back at me. So I'm essentially smoking. I would

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Speaker 2: be smoking my cigarette twice that way, pretty much, because

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Speaker 2: as you know, it's what I do is I go

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Speaker 2: in my own home and I like cigarettes under the stove.

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Speaker 2: I used the stove to like the cigarette first and foremast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah anyway, so yeah, so it's pretty much sold cigarettes

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Speaker 2: in school.

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Speaker 1: And she says it never happened.

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Speaker 5: No, she says that she wouldn't smoke your cigarettes in

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Speaker 5: the house with that fan on, And I was like no,

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Speaker 5: but like I remember the visuals, I remember the sound

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Speaker 3: My clothes would always saw like it, and it's just

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Speaker 5: If you have parents that you know, would smoke cigarettes

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Speaker 5: like the age is, your clothes would smeall like it

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Speaker 5: and people think that it was me in high school

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Speaker 5: and I'm like, no, it like really isn't me, Like

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Speaker 5: it's just from my home, and like she.

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Speaker 3: Just nesn't remember.

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Speaker 5: It that way and I do. And I'm like, well,

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Speaker 5: my clothes didn smell like that for no reason. And

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Speaker 5: number two, like a happened. I mean, she's no longer

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Speaker 5: like smoke cigarettes, And I love that. I think that's

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Speaker 5: such a hard habit to just completely break and quit

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Speaker 5: for the rest of your life. I think that's amazing

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Speaker 5: that she did, and I'm so proud of her. But man,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, no, but this happened.

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Speaker 1: It's funny you bring that up.

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Speaker 2: Like last home, we were talking about things that like

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Speaker 2: today's generation parents would never let their kids do that

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Speaker 2: we just did very freely. And I think as you

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Speaker 2: go back in time, of course, it probably gets even

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Speaker 2: more and more sort of outrageous, the stuff like you

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Speaker 2: got to do what you were allowed to do, this

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Speaker 2: and that and the other thing. And like the kids

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Speaker 2: these stages would never experience them. They're smoking in the

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Speaker 2: house or inside is the one that we can leave behind?

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Speaker 2: Like that to me as well, I grew up for

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Speaker 2: part of my life with a smoker, and like I

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Speaker 2: can remember, like, yo, good morning in the you know,

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Speaker 2: come out to eat breakfast, and it's just in the

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Speaker 3: Animals smell right right, or.

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Speaker 2: Like in the car, or in restaurants there was a

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Speaker 2: smoking section we'd have to sit in, so we're sitting

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Speaker 2: there at the table at the restaurant eating smoking cigarettes.

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Speaker 2: You could smoke on a plane at one point in

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Speaker 2: my life and I'm not that old and we had

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Speaker 2: to do that too, And like now, the thought of

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Speaker 2: someone lighting a cigarette on a plane, like I would

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Speaker 2: be I would be a pall.

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Speaker 1: I would jump right. Yeah. So it's just.

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Speaker 2: Funny to me that you know that that's what we

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Speaker 2: can leave behind. But yeah, parents seem to they forget things,

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Speaker 2: and I don't know, like who cares.

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Speaker 3: Ye think I've noticed with that generation.

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Speaker 7: I think sometimes they feel attacked or like they're being

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Speaker 7: critiqued and they get defensive over it, and I think that's.

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Speaker 3: Something that's going away.

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Speaker 7: But I've noticed it my parents, my grandparents, like totally

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Speaker 7: rewriting history, and I think it comes from a place

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Speaker 7: of like, you know, not wanting to be you know,

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Speaker 7: run over the coals for something that they didn't mean

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Speaker 7: to do to hurt us. But it's definitely more beneficial

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Speaker 7: if we all just talk about it.

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Speaker 3: And know they we still love you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh my god, Mack, I love you more than

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Speaker 5: anything in the world, like you are. You're the best mom,

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Speaker 5: and I love you so much. But we're not going

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Speaker 5: to rewrite history, right, We're going to acknowledge what was,

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Speaker 5: and we're going time, yes, and we're going to move on.

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Speaker 3: But you're right, maybe they feel like attacked or something.

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Speaker 1: It's funny to me, like.

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Speaker 2: The lawnmower thing, like like whys.

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Speaker 1: Were wildly generous?

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Speaker 2: They were so generous, right, Like we didn't want for

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Speaker 2: much growing up, but there was there were extras that

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Speaker 2: I wanted that my mom wasn't going to keep up with.

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Speaker 2: Whether it was like mostly it was like basketball hard,

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Speaker 2: was like, you want something, how are you going to

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Speaker 2: get it? Well, you're too young to get a job,

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Speaker 2: So here here are things you can do that we'll

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Speaker 2: pay you for that I probably should have just done

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Speaker 2: as a kid because I got to live in the house,

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Speaker 2: but instead they paid me for it and so then

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Speaker 2: I could go buy my crap. So that was cool,

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Speaker 2: like but so, but like that never happened. You never

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Speaker 2: once did that? What I did it for years?

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Speaker 1: Like what do you mean? I can remember the lawnmower.

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Speaker 1: We had two of them. Yeah, yeah, one with a bagging?

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Speaker 1: What was out? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Which one?

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Speaker 1: Well? Both we never had that night? What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: It's worse when your siblings don't like verify the experience

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Speaker 4: with you, because like my brothers, I'd be like I

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Speaker 4: was the dishwasher in this house, like there was no

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Speaker 4: other person washing dishes in this house but me, and

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Speaker 4: then Helena will say, girl, he didn't do that. And

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Speaker 4: then I look at Cam like did I do that?

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Speaker 4: And he goes, nah, I remember you doing.

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Speaker 7: Eddy and me should agree regardless.

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Speaker 3: That's the sibling like bond.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's that's cold blood.

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Speaker 5: Where did your parents ever like make up things to

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Speaker 5: you and add on to stories.

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Speaker 3: I think I think we're there too, Like I was.

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Speaker 5: This bad kid in high school and I never it's

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Speaker 5: a class and I sud.

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Speaker 3: To beat the pop tart machine. She told my in

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Speaker 3: laws that the other day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we had a pop tart machine at school, like

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Speaker 5: to pay a dollar or whatever. Cool and She's like,

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Speaker 5: you didn't go to class, You're always getting pop tarts

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Speaker 5: and like but she said she made She goes, you

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Speaker 5: were my yeah, my father in law was right there,

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Speaker 5: and she goes, remember when you were in school buying

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Speaker 5: that ish. And I was like, well, first of all,

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Speaker 5: let's like clarify what isshes right, because she was trying

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Speaker 5: to say, like i'll buy pop tarts.

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Speaker 2: Sounded like somebody if you said, if you said to

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Speaker 2: the whole Way high school, I'm not thinking strawberry pop

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Speaker 2: tarts now, I'm thinking you were like black tar heroin.

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Speaker 3: Dealer, not clarifying, like make me sound crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, I'm gonna start telling people like, no,

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Speaker 2: they didn't make me mow the lawn. They had me

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Speaker 2: selling black tar heroin