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Speaker 1: Subject my wife's young friend. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been

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Speaker 1: married for eight years and my wife has owned a

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Speaker 1: trendy clothing boutique for four years. She decided to hire young,

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Speaker 1: attractive females to represent the type of clothes she sells.

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Speaker 1: The store manager is a gorgeous twenty eight year old

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Speaker 1: woman with a bang and body. Two years ago, my

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Speaker 1: wife decided to help her pay for body conjuring procedures

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Speaker 1: so she can always look great in the clothes at

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Speaker 1: the boutique. I didn't approve, but my wife said her

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Speaker 1: money and she did it anyway. My wife also got

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Speaker 1: her a company car to use, and she delivers clothes

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Speaker 1: to their VIP customers. I did not like this either,

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Speaker 1: but my wife bought the bmw X three for her.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: I also learned that for Christmas, my wife gave this

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Speaker 1: woman a nice bonus for processing the online sales during

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Speaker 1: the pandemic. All of my wife's reasonings for treating her

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Speaker 1: so well makes sense, But I'm still looking side eyed

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Speaker 1: at my wife because they're running around like best friends,

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Speaker 1: going to day parties and brunches. On weekends when I

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Speaker 1: travel for my job, the young lady stays at my

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Speaker 1: house so my wife will not be alone. Most women

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Speaker 1: would not want this gorgeous and superfine woman around her husband,

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Speaker 1: but she spends a lot of time around us. You

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Speaker 1: can only imagine the thoughts that have run through my mind,

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Speaker 1: but I fight the temptation to even look at her

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Speaker 1: surprised if my wife feels the same way about her,

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Speaker 1: because our sex life hasn't been the same recently. If

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Speaker 1: is it possible that they're more than friends? What to

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Speaker 1: a fifty four year old woman and a twenty eight

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Speaker 2: Anyway?

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Speaker 1: Should I question my wife.

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Speaker 2: Please advise, Well, it.

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Speaker 1: Took you long enough. It took you till the end

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Speaker 1: of the letter to figure it out. All the signs

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Speaker 1: are right there. I don't think anyone is that good

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Speaker 1: of friends. Okay, I have to take a break. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: your wife sounds like this girl's sugar mama slash lover

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Speaker 1: to me, because she's doing way too much with her.

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Speaker 1: One tip off should be that she didn't listen to

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Speaker 1: anything you told her about spending money on the young woman.

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Speaker 2: She bought her a car.

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Speaker 1: What that's a huge expense, and not to mention the

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Speaker 1: nice Cristmas bonus she gave her. And then you said

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Speaker 1: it made sense. Come on, now, this is way too

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Speaker 1: just in your face for you not to notice this.

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Speaker 1: And then you say the sex isn't the same between

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Speaker 2: Well, no, that's.

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Speaker 1: Because she and this younger woman with the bang and

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Speaker 1: you're in the way. You know she's she's just doing

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Speaker 1: it because you're a husband. At this point, it sounds

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Speaker 1: like should you talk to her? Well, yes, I think

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Speaker 1: doubt she'll be, you'll find out why she wants this

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Speaker 1: that's her girlfriend. Okay, they're seeing each other.

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Speaker 2: Steve, Well, how much time I got.

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Speaker 4: Some?

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Speaker 2: Eh? I got about three minutes.

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Speaker 4: So let me just go and to do this to

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Speaker 4: So let's just talk about this woman who's doing all

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Speaker 2: Let's just get to it. Uh.

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Speaker 4: The wife decided to help her pay for body come

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Speaker 4: to and procedures so she can always look great in

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Speaker 4: the clothes at the bousique boutique. That that's why she

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Speaker 4: paid for, sirch Okay, then let's go down. So my

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Speaker 4: she delivers clothes to their v P customers. I didn't

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Speaker 4: clothes off? That's that's that's what you get for dropping

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Speaker 4: clothes off. Okay, queen too. And then for Christmas, my

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Speaker 4: online sales during the pandemic. Wait a minute, Ain't ain't

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Speaker 4: that what you're supposed to do?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 2: But your business going right?

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Speaker 4: But if you processing the orders during the pandemic, what

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Speaker 4: what you need a car to drop off for?

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Speaker 2: I'm so damn confused.

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Speaker 4: And then you said in the letter, all the mice,

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Speaker 4: all of my right's reasoning for treating her so well

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Speaker 4: makes sense, makes sense to.

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Speaker 2: Hudo to us because I'm confused. Let me ask you something.

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Speaker 2: If you bought a girl, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: If you bought a young boy, paid for life over section,

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Speaker 4: gave him some pecks and some biceps, and then you

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Speaker 4: turned around and bought a young boy a damn car

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Speaker 4: so he could look good dropping off some packages. And

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Speaker 4: then if you gave a young boy a Christmas bonus

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Speaker 4: cause he was delivering, making all the process and all

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Speaker 4: the online sales, and your wife told you not to

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Speaker 4: do any of this, but you did it anyway, how

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Speaker 4: would this look? I ain't even gonna ask you what

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Speaker 4: would happen if you bought a banging girl a body,

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Speaker 4: Christmas bon I ain't eve gonna ask you that, Jesse.

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Speaker 2: If you bought a younger dude, that dog.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what to tell you, but when we

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Speaker 4: come back, I'm bringing back my man Roscoe Wallace to

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Speaker 4: help you understand what has happened through songs. He'd wrote

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Speaker 4: a lot of songs through and we got some songs

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Speaker 4: to help you with this letter.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hang on, Steve, hang on. We'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters, subject my wife's young friend.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: hard morning show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is my wife's young friend.

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Speaker 4: Hit This man got this woman hitting out. His wife

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Speaker 4: is fifty four and the girl is twenty eight. She

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Speaker 4: worked for and she said, young clothing at this boutique

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Speaker 4: for young people. So she got all attractive women working

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Speaker 4: in the store that represent the clothes. She said, but

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Speaker 4: this one girl who's absolutely gorgeous. She'd bought her pay

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Speaker 4: for all her body come to and procedures so she

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Speaker 4: He didn't approve it a so his wife also got

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Speaker 4: to their VIP customers. I ain't like this either, but

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Speaker 4: the wife bought the truck anyway. Then for Christmas, wife

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Speaker 4: she dropping off stuff with the car? Then he said,

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Speaker 4: my wife's reasoning for cheatingh so well makes sense. Boy,

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Speaker 4: you're crazy boy, just trying not to go along with you.

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Speaker 4: You try not to see it. I can only now

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Speaker 4: the woman is wonderful. What woman brings a fine woman

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Speaker 4: around her husband. She spent a lot of time around us.

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Speaker 4: You can only imagine the thoughts that had been running

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Speaker 2: Well you notice what it was.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't be surprised if my wife and wife feel

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Speaker 4: been the same recently. Now, if they traveling and staying

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Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you something.

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Speaker 4: If you got money for surgery, and you got money

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Speaker 4: Christmas bonuses? How you ain't got money for your own

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Speaker 4: damn hotel room for the good put them bought everything else,

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Speaker 4: but you just can't buy her her own damn hotel room.

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Speaker 2: Sir, you know what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Well please, let's welcome to the show, the one and

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Speaker 4: only Roscoe Wallace, who has some songs that he wrote.

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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Everybody? I'm back up? Where you going? What say you were?

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Speaker 2: We back Wednesday? Hey?

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Speaker 4: Okay, cool, I'm here. I wrote some songs in my career.

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Speaker 4: A lot of y'all don't know this. White boy right here,

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Speaker 4: oh Sam for Townsend Bad, they wrote a song called

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Speaker 4: Smoke from a Distant Fire, And I wrote this for

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Speaker 4: the dude in the letter. Okay, okay, okay, you left

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Speaker 4: me here on your way here to pace. Hm, you

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Speaker 4: pulled the rock right out from under my line.

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Speaker 2: I know where you're going. I knew when you came

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Speaker 2: home last night.

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Speaker 4: He and hear what you need to know cause your

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Speaker 4: eyes has a miss from the smoke.

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Speaker 2: Of a just stern fire.

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Speaker 4: That's what he needed to know right now, because it's

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Speaker 4: the smoke going on in there, you know, in a

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Speaker 4: district fire right there. Yeah, and you know he having

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Speaker 4: right here, like hold on, let me do this one

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Speaker 4: for you, whoa two, I'm gonna just start him in

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Speaker 4: the bet your lie awake, nights never rest to be it?

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Speaker 2: What shit in it with all to yourselup? Oh but

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Speaker 2: still the.

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Speaker 4: Bottom line is you got to deal with it and

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Speaker 4: to yourself at least be fast.

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Speaker 2: Said holding on.

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Speaker 3: It's very hard to do with love gone and there's

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Speaker 3: no lie, I said, holding on. It's hard to do,

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Speaker 3: very very hard to do, Queen love gonell that's another

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Speaker 3: hit I wanted to write for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a room.

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Speaker 4: Is still a room even when there's nothing now.

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Speaker 2: But gloom.

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Speaker 5: But a room is not a hag and a hof in,

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Speaker 5: not a home wind, not two of us a far

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Speaker 5: apart and one of us half oh bro.

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Speaker 4: Jean.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: See these the songs that he needed to know because

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Speaker 4: he's struggling, you know, and all this here y'all want

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Speaker 4: to know, yes, sir, Yeah, yeah, okay, okay, okay, hold on,

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Speaker 4: hold on. You took me here riding in your rocket.

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Speaker 4: You gave me a stopping and then a half a

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Speaker 4: mile from heaven you dropped me back down to this cold,

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Speaker 4: cold wear. I would not do that to a damn dog,

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Speaker 4: old baby this song right see, I wrote all these

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Speaker 4: songs for people like that to get in a situation

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Speaker 2: I don't want to stop you in and just share

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Speaker 2: my talent.

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Speaker 4: And I'm gonna get with people and tell him to

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Speaker 4: hang on in there, but love is gone and hard hold.

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Speaker 2: On all right, Rosco, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Poster your comments on today's Struwberry Letters. Hold it up

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