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Speaker 1: All right, Tanya, let's get to the trending report.

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Speaker 2: All right, So Selling Sunset, we all know it. There's

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Speaker 2: a lot of drama. Krishelle Stass is very much always

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Speaker 2: in the center of it. But she said something in

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Speaker 2: this latest season of Selling Sunset that didn't seem like

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Speaker 2: it would be very controversial, but it sparked quite the

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Speaker 2: debate online and I was curious, what you think of this?

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Speaker 2: So she was getting heat from cast members for skipping

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Speaker 2: they had like a team dinner, like a family bonding dinner,

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Speaker 2: and she said, I'm an independent contractor. So people are

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Speaker 2: standing up and they're praising her for setting work life boundaries,

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Speaker 2: and it really sparked this debate because people are now

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Speaker 2: going online and saying that if a work environment says

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Speaker 2: we're a family here, if they have that mentality, it's

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Speaker 2: a major red flag because they're trying to like pressure

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Speaker 2: employees into kind of working longer hours or going far

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Speaker 2: outside of their job description, or putting up with dysfunction. Oh,

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Speaker 2: it's just our dysfunction a work family, and that this

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Speaker 2: could be a major red flag if you're looking for jobs.

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Speaker 2: And that's kind of how that's their approach to things

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Speaker 2: where this family.

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Speaker 1: Like everyone pitches in.

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Speaker 3: We're like a family here, Like everyone kind of like

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Speaker 3: picks up his slack and you pick up his slack.

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Speaker 2: Right. And people are now and I think it might

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Speaker 2: be post pandemic. They're more like, this is my work.

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Speaker 2: I do my work, I leave, I go home. I

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Speaker 2: have a work that people are craving more of a

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Speaker 2: work life balance than they have before. And so there's

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Speaker 2: this whole debate online about this exact conversation.

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Speaker 4: So you said at six forty two this morning, you

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Speaker 4: guys in my work family, how do you look at it?

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Speaker 2: I No, I always thought like I've always been It's

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Speaker 2: always been that way. Like when I first started here

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Speaker 2: on this show thirteen years ago or twelve years ago,

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Speaker 2: that's what we were. We were a work family. We

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Speaker 2: literally slept and ate here. I ate more meals with

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Speaker 2: my work family than I did with my actual family.

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Speaker 2: And so that's just kind of how I never thought

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Speaker 2: of it as a bad thing, you know, And so

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Speaker 2: this conversation really did make me think about it in

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Speaker 2: a different way.

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Speaker 3: I think it's different depending on your age, though, because

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Speaker 3: when I got into the grind of all this, I

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Speaker 3: was nineteen years old, so all I did was eat,

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Speaker 3: sleep and do everything at the radio station.

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Speaker 1: To hang out with the people at the radio.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, because I was just climbing the ladder and

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Speaker 3: I wanted to do everything here and said yes to

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Speaker 3: everyone and whatever. But as you get older, you create

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Speaker 3: your boundaries because you're like, okay, like now I have

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Speaker 3: achieved certain things, and now I have set goals and

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Speaker 3: I have different priorities. I do have my actual family

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Speaker 3: and my kids and things like that that I have

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Speaker 3: to get home to, and so you have to set

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Speaker 3: boundaries from work.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah for me, Like, I don't see either side

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Speaker 4: as the right or wrong side to this. If you

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Speaker 4: want to hang out with people after work and team

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Speaker 4: build and treat them like family or do more things

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Speaker 4: with them, right, and if you also want to set

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Speaker 4: a boundary, right, like I could see myself to them both.

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Speaker 4: I could see us saying, hey, let's get together and

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Speaker 4: have a dinner, you know, jingle Ball week. And I

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Speaker 4: can also see me saying no.

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Speaker 1: Let's not right, And like, you know, it depends on

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Speaker 1: your mood or I don't think there's a right or wrong.

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Speaker 2: I feel like to me, family has this this connotation

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Speaker 2: of like you feel safe and happy and encouraged, and

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Speaker 2: I feel like that is a good thing. But then

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Speaker 2: I also see this side of it.

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Speaker 3: Where you feel pressured and guilty.

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Speaker 2: Yes, right, it's a it's like a it's a what's

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Speaker 2: a double on tom double edged story.

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Speaker 1: It's one of those things.

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Speaker 3: Because yeah, because if Brian called us at eleven PM

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Speaker 3: and said, hey, I need to do this, then we'll be.

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Speaker 1: Like, damn, we need to do it. What are going

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Speaker 1: to quit?

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. Because it's family, you know, it's

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Speaker 3: like one of those things where we feel guilty.

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Speaker 1: You know, we don't worry about that. We would want to.

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Speaker 3: Do it because we do care about you, like family,

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Speaker 3: Like it comes down to that, you kind of like,

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Speaker 3: I know what you mean.

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Speaker 4: It's like, but I will just give you the out.

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Speaker 4: If I invite you all to dinner and you want

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Speaker 4: to cance, I'm fine.

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Speaker 3: At eleven pm.

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Speaker 4: I'm told no, that's not a one pm. But like

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Speaker 4: and we like we went to lunch right and you

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Speaker 4: couldn't make it.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't come because how to take my kid to

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Speaker 1: the doctor or something exactly exactly. But that didn't bother us.

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Speaker 1: I'm never fine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it is interesting.

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Speaker 1: Don't you think it was?

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Speaker 4: All right, let's get what's interesting to me is that

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Speaker 4: the the Turner imports can take on like a self

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Speaker 4: therapy theme for you because you're like, this could be toxic.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not part of the problem.

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Speaker 2: This is a self do I need to look at

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Speaker 2: my my my life choices.

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Speaker 4: I think both paths are okay. I'm an independent contractors, right,

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Speaker 4: don't come. I want to come. I'd like to spend

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Speaker 4: some more time with the team.

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Speaker 1: Great.

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Speaker 3: Come, I love team bonding stuff between.

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Speaker 1: The hours of the show.

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Speaker 4: All right,