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Speaker 1: Second date, up date.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes in the dating world you realize the ideal person

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Speaker 2: that you have built up in your mind. Yeah, isn't

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Speaker 2: necessarily the ideal person for you in real life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, rip that right out of Brooks wedding vows.

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Speaker 3: To her husband.

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Speaker 1: But that could be the case for our listener, Rob today.

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Speaker 4: Rude.

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Speaker 1: Well, you said him who says he met.

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Speaker 2: A different type of woman than the one he would

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Speaker 2: normally go for, and he described her in the email

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Speaker 2: as someone who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, is one hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: Vegan, and must be in bed.

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Speaker 2: Every night by eight forty five pm.

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Speaker 3: Rob, discipline, woman.

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Speaker 2: How did you let this party animal slip through your fingers?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I just found it endearing. I

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Speaker 4: thought she was kind of wholesome and not really the

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Speaker 6: But it's interesting because it could be wholesome or it

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Speaker 6: could be that she's done all those things so.

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Speaker 3: Much that she can't do them anymore.

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Speaker 1: You know, on the party life. Okay, well, what's her name?

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Speaker 7: I think it's Maggie.

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Speaker 1: All right, how did you meet her?

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Speaker 4: We met online? But I just thought her pictures were

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Speaker 4: so natural. She was very naturally beautiful. The pictures weren't photoshopped,

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Speaker 4: and she wasn't out at the club. It's kind of

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Speaker 3: It was such a good photoshop. You didn't notice. Can

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Speaker 3: I ask, are you any of the things she is like?

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Speaker 7: Dry?

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Speaker 3: You know, no smoking, vegan?

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Speaker 7: No, not at all?

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yeah, I definitely drink and I definitely eat

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Speaker 2: So it could be in opposite subtract sort of situation

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Speaker 3: I mean, it could be the reason she's not calling

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Speaker 1: Well, what did you guys do when you guys went out?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's weird on two dates back to back over

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Speaker 2: Well that makes sense because she has to be in

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Speaker 2: the first one.

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Speaker 3: Wait, how did that work?

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Speaker 4: Well, so she wasn't like to drink, so we got

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Speaker 4: ramen and then we got ice cream.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, took the vegan to ice cream.

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Speaker 4: Well I learned that they actually have vegan ice cream.

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Speaker 1: Oh cool, so you checked it.

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Speaker 7: To me.

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Speaker 1: But for her that's great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like coconut milk ice cream. Sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and it actually tasted pretty good, I mean a

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Speaker 6: Because she was probably impressed that you like put some

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Speaker 1: So how did date number one end?

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Speaker 4: So there was no kiss at the end, but it

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Speaker 4: was like a long hug. And then she actually suggested

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, okayugah, no kidding.

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Speaker 3: So what did you do the next day?

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Speaker 4: So the next day, I was like, you get to

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Speaker 3: Cool, okay, oh my god.

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Speaker 6: I'm not vegan, but one of my favorite places to

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Speaker 2: Is scary, Like, I'm a foodie and even someone going

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Speaker 2: the one vegan option for people one plate for the

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Speaker 1: A really bloody how was it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well they had a bunch of like cauliflower stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's popular.

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Speaker 7: I mean it was okay, I didn't mind it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, they have like.

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Speaker 3: How is the connection between you two.

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Speaker 4: I mean after that date, we definitely kissed.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, your first two dates sounds like they went great.

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Speaker 2: So what's happened since then?

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Speaker 4: Well, so then after the date, she starts texting me

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Speaker 4: and it's a lot of texts and like it's text

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Speaker 4: was really accentuating the love aspect of everything, and uh,

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Speaker 3: I don't get why he's on with us if it

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Speaker 1: You out, calling you back.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well what happened was she sent me a Spotify song.

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Speaker 4: It's a song by Starship called we Built.

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Speaker 7: This Thing Together. I don't know if you guys know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we built this string together.

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Speaker 2: Nothing's gonna stop us.

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Speaker 1: That's a good song. Everyone.

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Speaker 6: She trying to like force a couple song already.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, like what have we built?

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Speaker 4: We were on two dates?

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Speaker 1: Did you say that to her?

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Speaker 4: Well, I said, oh, that's a nice song. I'm not

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Speaker 4: really into the song though, it's I'm not really a

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Speaker 4: big fan of it. And that totally changed things for her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just slammed her taste in music.

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Speaker 3: No, she was trying to convey up.

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Speaker 6: And it's like when I used to make mixed CDs

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Speaker 6: and like put in secret songs for different dudes I

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Speaker 6: like and be like, yeah, I know that.

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Speaker 2: One hit, You're right, yeah, and we'd be like, dude,

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Speaker 2: once she gets a song for I prove yes.

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Speaker 1: So I'm hoping it.

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Speaker 6: You basically turned her down by not liking the good honestly,

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Speaker 6: maybe she needed together, but.

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Speaker 1: You said that changed things between you two.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean I wasn't trying to put her down. It

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Speaker 4: was just a little confused by it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so what do you want our help with?

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Speaker 3: Do you want another date or do you not?

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Speaker 4: So we had two really great dates together and the

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Speaker 4: only thing that was weird was when we were apart.

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Speaker 1: Okay. I've been in situations where like.

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Speaker 3: Maybe we can who you want to live together, Let's.

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Speaker 2: Twenty four hours a day with you from now and

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Speaker 2: so forever so you both die.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I just want to see where she's at, and I

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Speaker 3: I see, I see it. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Maybe if she knows how you feel, she can lay

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Speaker 6: off the love gifts and the songs.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't know how to tell her that politely. If she

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll let Brook tell her to cut that crap out.

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Speaker 2: We'll do the second update right after this.

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Speaker 1: Hold on second date update.

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Speaker 2: Man, we're back to the nineteen eighties again.

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Speaker 3: Is this the song?

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Speaker 1: The Decade of Love?

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Speaker 2: Sixteen Candles, Dirty Dancing, Wow, Ghost, all the best love movies? Okay,

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Speaker 2: I can honestly say that we built this thing together.

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Speaker 1: Nothing lasts forever. Nothing was gonna stop us. Now that's

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Speaker 2: Unless Maggie doesn't answer the phone, then that would kind

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Speaker 3: Are you all forgetting it's a song that she sent

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 2: This is This is the song from the nineteen eighties

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Speaker 2: that kind of soured the relationship after Rob went on

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Speaker 2: back to back dates with both of which went great,

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Speaker 2: but this Spotify song ruined it because Rob said I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean it's pretty cheesy.

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Speaker 2: But Brooke had a good point. He was trying to say,

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Speaker 2: I don't really like this song. Maybe Maggie took it

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Speaker 2: as he doesn't like my love.

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Speaker 1: He's rejecting our relationship.

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Speaker 3: That's how I would take it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, but that's not the case.

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Speaker 2: So that's why Rob has reached out to us, hoping

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Speaker 2: we can respark this, get this going again. Maybe do

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Speaker 2: a little ghost love scene situation, right Rob, that's right.

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Speaker 6: Pottery class you no alcohol, very vegan, you know, would

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Speaker 2: That's what we should offer to send them to if

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Speaker 2: we can get her on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I like it, Shirtless though.

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Speaker 3: Are you wanting to apologize to her for your response?

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Speaker 7: So yeah, I would like to apologize. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Cool, Well, we don't know for sure if she took

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Speaker 1: So you throw a dig in there.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, we don't know. Yeah, let's let's find

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Speaker 2: right now here we go.

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Speaker 7: Hello, Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Maggie?

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Speaker 5: Yes? This is she? Who is this?

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Speaker 1: We got you? Uh?

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Speaker 3: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm happy that you answered, is what I

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Speaker 2: meant to say. Because we're a radio show. We're called

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've been dying

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Speaker 5: Okay for what I mean, why what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Because we're doing a segment here called a Second Date Update,

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Speaker 2: and it's where we try and help out our listeners

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Speaker 2: if they've kind of stalled out in their dating life

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Speaker 1: We're trying to help somebody named Rob.

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Speaker 5: Oh yes, Rob, Okay, I see?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. Rod said you had two great dates together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, back to back dates and one weekend.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He actually told us that he felt really good about it.

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Speaker 1: How did you feel?

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Speaker 5: I felt really good about it too. I felt like

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Speaker 5: we had this instant connection and potential to really go somewhere.

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Speaker 5: I was really really excited to keep things going with him.

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Speaker 3: It's so sweet.

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Speaker 6: Was there something that made that change? Because it does

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I'm the type of person who wants

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Speaker 5: a guy who's going to be my prince charming and

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Speaker 5: we ride off into the sunset together.

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Speaker 4: You know, you had.

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Speaker 1: Grand romantic gestures that's what you like. Yes, exactly, that's

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Speaker 2: It could be a lot though, for some guys to

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Speaker 3: Lot of guys are romantic at all.

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Speaker 5: Well they should be, and I made that very clear

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Speaker 5: I want someone who's sweet. So if you're wanting to

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Speaker 5: let me know that you appreciate me, because that's my

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Speaker 5: My love language is affirmation's words of affirmation. So I

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: And you feel like Rob was not fulfilling those needs

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Speaker 5: Correct especially came down to where you know, I sent

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Speaker 3: Does that be a lot for anyone?

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Speaker 2: So we did hear about that text and the song

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Speaker 2: being sent to him. Honestly, here is what I worry

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Speaker 2: about for you, Maggie. Along the way in your life,

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Speaker 2: you've come up with this idea for a fairy tale romance.

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Speaker 1: In your mind.

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Speaker 2: It's totally okay to have these ideals in your head,

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Speaker 2: because no one is going to match up perfectly with

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Speaker 3: It's already adjusting. I mean, she was already going out

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Speaker 1: But she said the problem was he didn't like one song.

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Speaker 6: No, she said, the problem was he wasn't romantic Jack.

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Speaker 1: But the thing is, that's the conversation.

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Speaker 2: You have to go off of the two great dates

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Speaker 2: do in the modern dating world. We never hear about that.

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Speaker 2: That's special and that's something that you should actually hold

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Speaker 2: on to, not that he didn't like a song that

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Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: I can see. I mean it was just my favorite

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can hear it. And then I think Jeff's play.

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Speaker 2: It's too easy for people to just ghost right now

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Speaker 2: that and work on it.

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Speaker 1: Like you have to talk to each other about that thing.

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Speaker 3: Why did you drink this morning?

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Speaker 5: Brook?

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Speaker 1: I don't need your love hate right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to build a love tower. And that's why

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Speaker 2: I know. That's why I need to tell you, Maggie.

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Speaker 2: Rob is on the phone right now. You like a

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Speaker 2: grand romantic gesture.

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Speaker 1: Here it is. He is waiting to talk to.

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Speaker 7: Hey, Hey, Maggie, how you doing?

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Speaker 3: Hi? Rob?

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Speaker 5: I'm good. How are you.

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Speaker 7: Good?

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Speaker 4: You know, I just I wanted to apologize for blowing

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Speaker 7: Meant so much to you.

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Speaker 4: But you know, I hear what you're saying about being

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Rob is a little bit more of a slow burner,

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Speaker 2: but he's willing to burn a little bit faster for you.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I do appreciate that, and I felt

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Speaker 5: you can still.

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Speaker 3: I got to say, Maggie real quick, just so you know.

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Speaker 6: When he was on the phone with only us, he

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Speaker 3: Who she is.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh that's sweet.

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Speaker 2: So you hear that she doesn't have to change, Rob,

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Speaker 2: that is so sweet.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted.

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Speaker 2: Actually, she's just looking for some you know, more affirmations

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Speaker 2: that the connection is there. Here's an opportunity for you

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Speaker 2: to say that to her right now on the radio

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Speaker 2: on the grand stage.

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Speaker 3: Are we going to have a romantic.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't want to lie.

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Speaker 7: Is The other thing is, I don't know if I love.

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Speaker 1: You yet, but but.

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Speaker 4: I can see that I can see that in our future.

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Speaker 4: Definitely we're get.

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Speaker 1: If he put his heart out on the floor for you.

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Speaker 6: That's almost like a thank you after someone drops I

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Speaker 1: He's trying, though, come.

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Speaker 5: On, okay, Rob, I know you might not be inherently romantic,

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Speaker 5: but I would appreciate if you could try a little more.

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Speaker 2: Brook's been saying that same thing to her husband for

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Speaker 6: I think every woman has said it in any relationship

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Speaker 5: If you could send me kind of a love song.

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Speaker 5: What would it be?

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Speaker 4: It would be that song Maggie by Rod Stewart.

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Speaker 3: Wake Up.

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Speaker 1: That's just her name, right, Yeah, I think that's after Maggie.

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Speaker 6: Leaves him one night standing super romantic.

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Speaker 7: I'm trying.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: What's amazing is he's not scared away right now? Is Honestly,

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Speaker 6: I don't know if you're gonna find that.

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Speaker 2: We'd like to offer to send you guys out one

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Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do it. That'd be great.

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Speaker 2: It's true what they say, you can build this love together.

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Speaker 1: Some things do last forever.

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Speaker 2: Nothing's gonna stop us now except we're running out of

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Speaker 2: to stop it.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: The word of the day is compromise. Say it with me,

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Speaker 3: Like still like you came across as like love doctor during.

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Speaker 6: You did it was just a side of you that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, routin for them this time and I like that.

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Speaker 1: Do I know all the answers to unlock the true

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's not And I keep those to myself for

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we didn't have any more second date. Jeff

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Speaker 2: I do feel like modern dating has made it way

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Speaker 2: too easy to completely write people off for saying one

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Speaker 2: especially if you have that rare in person connection that's

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Speaker 1: Compromise.

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Speaker 2: No speaking of giving people a chance, give our second date,

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Speaker 2: podc hast a chance wherever you get yours at broken

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey and have a blessed day.

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Speaker 3: There's a therapist.

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Speaker 2: Guy, Fine, have a fine day whatever, we don't care,

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Speaker 3: And Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.