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Speaker 1: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just won't Amy

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Speaker 2: and Cat got your cob and locking No, brother, ladies

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Speaker 2: and felts, do you just follow an the spirit where

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Speaker 2: it's all the front over real stuff, tell the chill

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Speaker 2: stuff and the.

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Speaker 3: M but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do

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Speaker 3: it just.

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Speaker 2: Stop you feel things. This is feeling things with.

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Speaker 3: Amy and Kat.

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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and.

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Speaker 4: I'm Cat, and I'm starting with the feeling of the day,

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Speaker 4: which is I'm feeling so forgetful, Like is that an

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Speaker 4: action feeling?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Probably?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So underneath that, I'm probably feeling some shame.

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Speaker 3: And I don't wouldn't say I'm sad.

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Speaker 1: You're disappointed in yourself.

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Speaker 3: When I go that far.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well sometimes when I'm forgetful, that's a good one. Annoyed,

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Speaker 1: it's frustrating, yeah, because you're like, what the that's wrong

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Speaker 1: with me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's like very simple things were all well,

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Speaker 4: I'll be talking to you and even telling you a story.

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Speaker 3: In the middle of the story, I'm like, where was

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Speaker 1: Like what was the point?

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Speaker 4: Which is problematic in my line of work because if

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Speaker 4: I am sharing a story with somebody, I need to

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Speaker 4: know where it's going and why I'm sharing it, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you're talking about like a client.

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Speaker 4: Well, if I was working today, I think that if

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Speaker 4: I was seeing clients today, that could happen. So I'd

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Speaker 4: have to do a more quiet version of.

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Speaker 1: Your client's like unloading all this stuff on you. And

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Speaker 1: then you're like, wait, what'd you say?

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Speaker 3: Can you go back?

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Speaker 1: You back it up to?

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Speaker 3: Is it your mom?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 3: So why are you here?

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Speaker 1: Ye? Well you're my therapist. Yeah, I could see how

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Speaker 1: that could be problematic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm even forgetting.

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Speaker 4: Like when I was getting ready to come over, I

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Speaker 4: went upstairs to get ready, and I was like, put

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Speaker 4: your earrings in, and I.

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Speaker 1: You don't have earrings in.

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Speaker 4: I know, put your earrings in and put on your

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Speaker 4: rings because I had gone to the doctor earlier this morning,

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Speaker 4: and I realized on the way to the doctor, I

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Speaker 4: wasn't wearing my wedding rings, which is fine, but I

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Speaker 3: I also was supposed to pay my nails. So I'm

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Speaker 3: just struggling with a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you remember to email me rings do you

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Speaker 1: want to tell what you're up to do?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Email?

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Speaker 1: It was a screenshot of an email, right, was that

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Speaker 1: a Are you on a newsletter for a jeweler?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Are you not? No?

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Speaker 1: Well not, ya's what you're doing?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I would love to I'm on this email

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Speaker 4: list because it's the jewelry place that my ring is from.

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Speaker 4: My engagement ring is from Walton's in downtown Franklin. Highly

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Speaker 4: recommend great stuff, a lot of like pretty antique stuff.

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Speaker 4: They can also make custom jewelry.

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Speaker 1: Well, the whatever you sent me most recently was vintage

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Speaker 1: and it was stunning.

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Speaker 4: So okay, they I remember the The like subject of

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Speaker 4: the email was kind of funny.

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Speaker 3: That's one of the reasons why I sent it to you.

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Speaker 1: But it was it did say like in the screenshot,

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Speaker 4: But the picture on the newsletter was this big, beautiful

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Speaker 1: That I knew about it.

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Speaker 4: I knew about this ring because that's a one of

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Speaker 4: a kind ring that they have there, because it's what

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Speaker 1: Well, antiques are cute too, but yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 3: It's right right, it's from okay, a jeweler.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, I just wanted to make sure that you saw

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Speaker 4: you're about to come up on a year of dating.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so how what? How long?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're a year in but when I sent this,

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Speaker 1: But what what? At what point did you and Patrick

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Speaker 4: So we got engaged about a month after our year

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Speaker 1: This is an appropriate time for you to be sending

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Speaker 1: me things on my timeline that you like. And if

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Speaker 1: I like, but then what do I like?

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Speaker 1: I and that's fun. I love this part of our friendship,

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Speaker 1: Like I think it's fun. Like it was like, oh okay,

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Speaker 1: I hadn't really thought about this, but what do I

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Speaker 3: I have to get pulse what you like.

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Speaker 4: I just did this with a friend who got engaged

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Speaker 4: this past weekend actually, and I went ring shopping with her.

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Speaker 4: She is very like, she'll make an itinerary when we

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Speaker 4: she does events for a living. So we went and

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Speaker 3: Mood board to her.

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Speaker 4: That is not your boyfriend. This is what you're gonna do.

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Speaker 4: This is what we're gonna do if you're open to this.

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Speaker 3: Is this okay? Is this too much? Okay?

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Speaker 1: I need to just say out front right here, I'm

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Speaker 1: not getting engaged like okay this year, but I'm.

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Speaker 3: Saying they're still it's fun to think about it.

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Speaker 1: Sure, yes, it's fun to think about and I'm entertaining.

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Speaker 3: Okay, your fun, this is about me.

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Speaker 1: This is yes, I'm entertaining. I was like, okay, we're

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Speaker 1: You're like, hey, if you're by my house, we can

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Speaker 4: It would be for me, okay, like maybe I'm looking

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Speaker 4: Okay for my collection, Yes.

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Speaker 3: Of course.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so yes, this is fun and I will play along.

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Speaker 1: And and a proposal is not happening this year. And

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Speaker 1: I do think it's reasonable to be discussing it though,

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Speaker 1: this is how we keep it then, Okay, but I

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Speaker 1: don't think we would still be dating if we didn't

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Speaker 1: and you were talking about paying your nails, and I look,

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Speaker 1: you know how I never have my nails on the schedule. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't need to be not till next year.

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Speaker 4: Maybe speaking from somebody who had bright blue, electric blue

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Speaker 1: Why why did you have electric blue nails?

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Speaker 4: You want to know something crazy is I for probably

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Speaker 4: And that was I would not have approved of this

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Speaker 1: It was at our live podcast taping in downtown Franklin,

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Speaker 1: which is right across the street from Walton's. Yeah, the

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Speaker 3: I don't remember that. Oh cry ocat walked in on

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Speaker 3: my engagement. That's cute. And then what I love about that,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was really cute. But anyway, back to you,

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Speaker 4: I'll do your nails. You don't even have to spend

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Speaker 1: We're not yes January, it's twenty twenty six. If it happens,

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Speaker 1: it will be in twenty twenty six, so we're not

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Speaker 1: in a rush. Like but thank you for thinking of me,

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Speaker 1: and that ring was beautiful, But I don't know what

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Speaker 3: I have altole questions, so I'm not ready to be

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Speaker 4: That have to do with what we're talking about. Do

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Speaker 4: you want to have a say in what you get?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, ish? So to a point like because.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to pick it out though, no, okay.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think I want to pick it out,

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Speaker 1: but I would like to say.

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Speaker 3: Okay, ish. So then this is what we do.

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Speaker 1: I mean that ring you says on the right track.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you would be okay if you got that ring? Yeah, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: So what we're gonna do is I'm going to keep

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Speaker 3: sending you things that I see that I like, and maybe.

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Speaker 4: They see they like, and maybe I'll need to go

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Speaker 4: look for some vintage joy from myself and I'll need

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Speaker 4: a second opinion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dog.

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Speaker 1: Not my circus, not my monkeys, not my circus, very healthy? No,

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Speaker 1: But I guess if you're going public, it means you

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Speaker 4: If my if Patrick was to ever cheat on me

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Speaker 3: To like it, Like how did you come up with dirty?

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Speaker 1: A washing cars app? What do you get from that app?

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Speaker 1: So I didn't even click. I just went straight to

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Speaker 1: explain this think dirty app? Yeah, and tell me about it.

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Speaker 3: How often are you thinking dirty logging in?

446
00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,959
Speaker 1: Yeah? And if it was an app that taught him

447
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Speaker 1: how to like think and talk dirty's I.

448
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Speaker 3: Don't even know. No, he's not. You're not longing in

449
00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:13,239
Speaker 3: very often. I don't think we are.

450
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Speaker 1: I don't think we are. Which what is my boy like?

451
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:22,399
Speaker 1: So if we're millennials and he's not, like, what, what

452
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 1: is he?

453
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 3: Stop? You're dating somebody in a different generation.

454
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Speaker 1: I know. That's why sometimes our humor is like not

455
00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:34,200
Speaker 1: we don't get so yeah, dogs, I mean he'll he'll

456
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 1: play around like that. If I do that, he'll be like, okay, dog, Yeah,

457
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Speaker 1: he's fifty three. He just turned fifty three. So he's

458
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Speaker 1: the what's the one before millennial? He's gen X, the

459
00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,680
Speaker 1: forgotten generation. That's why we don't know it. I'm pretty

460
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Speaker 1: sure they call gen X forgotten What?

461
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 3: What's the time period?

462
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 4: Shannon of gen X? Because I'm is that what? And

463
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:57,720
Speaker 4: then Boomers is the one before that?

464
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Speaker 1: So nineteen sixty five to nineteen eighty is gen X?

465
00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 3: Why are they forgotten.

466
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Speaker 1: I think they just call it that because nobody they're

467
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Speaker 1: like the g like what is it? Because boomers are

468
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 1: very popular and then millennials are popular, so they're like

469
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:12,520
Speaker 1: the in between. So it's the it's like.

470
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Speaker 3: Latch key kids. What is a latchkey kid?

471
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Speaker 4: Isn't that like the kid who just like has a

472
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Speaker 4: key and goes home and like lets themselves in.

473
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Speaker 3: No parents? Oh that's sad.

474
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Speaker 4: Well I think they had parents, but like their parents

475
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,560
Speaker 4: were at work when they.

476
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Speaker 1: I've never heard this, How did you know?

477
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like they have to like yeah, oh so

478
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 4: dual income households, both parents are working, so when you

479
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 4: get home from school, you're letting yourself in. Versus boomers,

480
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 4: most of the moms probably didn't work. And then millennials,

481
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 4: I think it's we're having kids later, so maybe we

482
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Speaker 4: just don't know yet.

483
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Speaker 1: But well, have you heard of the millennial syndrome? Have

484
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 1: you heard of the millennial syndrome? Okay, well we're millennials,

485
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 1: like I'm an elder millennial, but you're like a millennial millennial,

486
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Speaker 1: and yeah, there is a syndrome. And I can go

487
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Speaker 1: through a checklist with you.

488
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 4: Okay, I want to go through checklist. But I have

489
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Speaker 4: to ask this question because it's in my brain. Would

490
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Speaker 4: you rather be a different generation?

491
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Speaker 3: No?

492
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Speaker 1: I love the millennial. I definitely don't want to be

493
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Speaker 1: gen X forgot Cotten. I don't think I want to

494
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Speaker 1: be a boomer because I was.

495
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Speaker 3: Like boomer because people are like, oh boomers, Yeah, but

496
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,880
Speaker 3: people do that to millennials now they're like maennials.

497
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Speaker 1: I don't think I want to be after millennial. What's

498
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Speaker 1: that gen z?

499
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Speaker 3: Gen Z?

500
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Speaker 1: Because it's so techy. I feel like millennials we have

501
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 1: like we're experiencing everything. We had the sweet spot of

502
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Speaker 1: like we know life before all the tech, and then

503
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Speaker 1: we also get to experience the tech.

504
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 3: Also made life harder in many ways. But I regret

505
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Speaker 3: what you what?

506
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 1: What?

507
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Speaker 3: What? What? What would you choose? What's before Boomer? Would

508
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 3: you do? Do you remember that show? What What? What

509
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 3: would you do?

510
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: That's me?

511
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Speaker 3: Do you remember that show? No?

512
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Speaker 4: It's from Nickelodeon, and they put the little questions on

513
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 4: their head and they had to like or it's like

514
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 4: a challenge and you had to like pick the challenge

515
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 4: and then you got slimmed.

516
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,400
Speaker 3: Oh what would you do?

517
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 4: Yes Nickelodeon. Yeah, yeah, you're an elder. You probably were

518
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 4: too old for that show. Yeah, because you're basically a

519
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 4: forgotten generation.

520
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Speaker 3: I am. I'm sorry. That was mean.

521
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Speaker 1: I know, but I was close.

522
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Speaker 3: Okay, right on, I'm ready.

523
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm going to run through seven symptoms of

524
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: millennial syndrome. Okay, you see which ones you've.

525
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 3: Okay, and which syndrome is something you don't want.

526
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: I don't think you want it, okay, I mean, but

527
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: a lot of us have it, so you're not alone.

528
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: Chronic anxiety and overthinking, like always feeling like you're falling

529
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: behind or doing life wrong.

530
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Speaker 4: I have chronic anxiety, but I don't think i'm I

531
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 4: don't think I'm doing life wrong.

532
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm chronically anxious, but I'm doing life right.

533
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 3: My anxiety about other things. Yeah.

534
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,119
Speaker 1: Nervous system burnout, like you've got sleep issues. You're wired

535
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: but tired. You have difficulty calming down because your shress

536
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Speaker 1: responsor was never built for like this pace.

537
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Speaker 3: I don't feel like I have that. Are you gonna answer?

538
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 1: I don't think I have that, Okay, I have other

539
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 1: nervous system issues. But imposter syndrome doubting your accomplishments even

540
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:26,640
Speaker 1: when you're doing well, Yes, Chuck. Financial fatigue feeling crushed

541
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Speaker 1: by debt, housing costs, or the belief that no matter

542
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: how hard you work, it's never enough.

543
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 3: I think, so, I think, what are you going on?

544
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 3: I'm saying, do you do?

545
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,479
Speaker 4: I'm like, because I'm always like I'm poor, and you're like,

546
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 4: you're a money magnet.

547
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, yeah, I always money flocks to you.

548
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 3: Yeah flocks.

549
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I just was thinking more so like I

550
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 4: have the fatigue of oh my gosh when I when

551
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Speaker 4: I was younger, if I would have known how much

552
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Speaker 4: money I'd been making at this age, I would have

553
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 4: been like, you're going to be living in a mansion

554
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 4: and you're gonna be driving seven different cars. I don't

555
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 4: have maybe not that far, but i'd be thinking like, oh,

556
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 4: you haven't made or like, you know, you could quit

557
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 4: your job because you could live on just your husband's income.

558
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,439
Speaker 3: But now that I'm here, I'm like, yeah, no, we

559
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 3: got to keep going.

560
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, life is it's way more expensive. So that's what

561
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 4: my money fatigue is, Like when is the inflation going

562
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 4: to stop? Yeah kind of thing. So, yes, it's like

563
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 4: never enough.

564
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

565
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Speaker 1: Authority skepticism a deep distrust of institutions, rules and systems

566
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Speaker 1: that you were told to obey. Yes, yeah, for sure,

567
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 1: I might.

568
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,399
Speaker 3: Have no question on that one. Wait a second.

569
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Speaker 1: Sometimes I wonder if I just like think things just

570
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,960
Speaker 1: because yeah, I was told this is what you're supposed

571
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: to think. I believe, and then when I step back

572
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: and do some critical thinking, I'm like, I don't know.

573
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: Sounds a little cuckoo work, identity confusion, struggling to find

574
00:25:54,960 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: meaning and work. After chasing the good job for years,

575
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I got pretty lucky with my job.

576
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 1: I would maybe have that if I hadn't gone to

577
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Speaker 1: Culver's that one day.

578
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 3: Such a good story, okay, changed my life. Cheese curds.

579
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Speaker 3: I don't like the name of that, cheese curds. I

580
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 3: just wish they were called cheese balls. Yeah, I bet

581
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 3: I think dirty like the balls.

582
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 4: Don't you You you're a child if you are.

583
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 3: What's gen Why is that? Like the after gen z?

584
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 3: What's such a gen z? I don't know. I forget.

585
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, what's Stevenson? My son is?

586
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 3: See jen?

587
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: No what I'm I'm nineteen eighty one?

588
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:51,199
Speaker 3: Oh wow, And that was a diss. You're so gentle, exactly.

589
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 1: I am I'm so gen Why I think they're like

590
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 1: a They're not a letter like my son is alpha. Yeah,

591
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: it's like a one word, so that's good.

592
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 4: Yow.

593
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like subconsciously being trained to be alpha's because

594
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,719
Speaker 1: every time they're ask what are you? I'm alpha?

595
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 3: Who makes the names? Good question? Who?

596
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 4: Uh?

597
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 1: The National Institute of Generations.

598
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 3: N I G and IG?

599
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 4: And like who decides how long when they're gonna? Are

600
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 4: they always the same amount of time?

601
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: I think I don't know, it's a good question, like

602
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: there was the chunk of time always the same?

603
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. Okay, well, don't come up that

604
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 3: we don't have answers to.

605
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: The final symptom of millennial syndrome is body stress, unexplained fatigue,

606
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: gut issues, hormonal imbalances check check check check check, or

607
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: autoimmune flare ups from chronic overdrive.

608
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean I don't have all of those,

609
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: but I.

610
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: Mean, yeah, I feel like I have body stress symptoms.

611
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 1: Hormonal imbalances are just yeah, well I have no words.

612
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 4: And also, like you're as a female, your body is

613
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,120
Speaker 4: constantly going through changes, so your hormones are always.

614
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: Going to be Yeah, and we're in perimenopause for like,

615
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, a good fifteen twenty years.

616
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yep yeah, and then you're in menopause.

617
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 4: So is that really when they got up at perimenopause

618
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 4: and you're just in the next stage and then apparently

619
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Speaker 4: they want to start to shrivel up.

620
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 3: That's what they say.

621
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Speaker 1: Sad, no, like and your body never mind, that's for

622
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: that's thinking dirty, think and dirty. But it's not really.

623
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: It's about our bodies and some women. I don't know

624
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: if we were talking about on the Boby Bone Show

625
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: or maybe here we were talking about like your body

626
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: parts and on women the down there it shrinks, shrivels

627
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: up into your body, like say you have like your

628
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: I don't know the professional terms, so I don't want

629
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Speaker 1: to say but le folds, they pies.

630
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 4: The the yes, I don't know.

631
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: Okay, they start to shrivel up.

632
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 3: I did not know.

633
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: Yeah why Maybe some of our older listeners can tell us, but.

634
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 4: I've they've I've had them a voicemail of you have

635
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 4: shriveled up down there.

636
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: We'd love to hear about it.

637
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: I've heard from listeners before that are older that they've

638
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: experienced it and they're like things nobody ever tells you,

639
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: things that don't come up, things that don't come up,

640
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: and it's like, why is nobody talking about this?

641
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 3: Like we need to know? Yeah, like so interesting.

642
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: Also, there's no official body that makes generation names. Rather

643
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 1: names arise from a combination of academic theories, media influence,

644
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,479
Speaker 1: and pop culture, so it's made up. They're not always

645
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 1: the same length baby Boom was. It's like a demographic shift.

646
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: And then there's rapid changes brought on by Internet. I mean,

647
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: we're getting to a point where things are changing so rapidly.

648
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna new generations like every couple of years now

649
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: because it's like, well, oh, because the way technolo, the

650
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 1: pace that we're at, it's just happening faster and faster

651
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,239
Speaker 1: and faster. Before you know it, we're not even going

652
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: to hang out in person and just be like, hey,

653
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: does your holler room want to hang out with my

654
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: holo room? And then we're just laying in our bed.

655
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Speaker 4: I'm not saying, Okay, we have to we have to

656
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 4: promise each other we aren't going to hang out with

657
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 4: each other's plograms.

658
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 3: I promise, I promise you.

659
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: But I mean bed is nice. But I.

660
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 3: Love beds, I really like.

661
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 4: I saw this thing on probably Facebook, because you know,

662
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 4: I've been hanging out there lately.

663
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm a boomer.

664
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 4: It was Bill Gates. I almost said al Gore, Bill Gates.

665
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 4: It was saying, in ten years, AI is going to

666
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 4: take over so much we won't even have we won't

667
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 4: even have a need for like some large percentage of

668
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 4: doctors and teachers, Like teachers can't be replaced by AI.

669
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 3: Well, I mean they can, but we don't want them to.

670
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 3: But think about like that either.

671
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 4: But I'm thinking of out like the emotional and like

672
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 4: how teachers impact not just kids, but even in college.

673
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 4: I think of like one or two teachers that had

674
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 4: a huge The relationship I had with them had a

675
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 4: huge impact on my life and especially growing up. There's

676
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 4: some teachers I can think of that had a negative impact.

677
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 4: One that I won't name. But she made me eat

678
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 4: a soybean.

679
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 3: Wait. I told my mom about it. She also told

680
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: my mom I was stupid.

681
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: Wait she made you eat a soybean.

682
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 3: She's very healthy.

683
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: Why did she eat a soybean?

684
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 3: Okay, what if.

685
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 4: You don't honestly some of my like I would have

686
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 4: found out right then and there. So Okay, this is

687
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 4: crazy now that I'm thinking back on it.

688
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 3: So also, I had a lot.

689
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 4: Of my body image stuff started in elementary school, so

690
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 4: this was probably the precursor for it. I don't want

691
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 4: to blame her, but I'm just like thinking out loud.

692
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 4: But she was very healthy and she talked about health

693
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 4: all the time. I don't know what she was going

694
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 4: through personally. But we had to do this four h

695
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 4: project do.

696
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: You have for Yeah?

697
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 3: Did you have that?

698
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: Oh?

699
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 3: You probably did have that. I'm from Texas.

700
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you had to prepare a healthy snack and

701
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 4: like do a presentation about it and in front of

702
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 4: the class. And I chose to make these oyster crackers

703
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 4: that were covered.

704
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: In butter, but like not a real it's just the

705
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: oyster crackers, not oysters. Yes, okay, because the little oyster

706
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: crackers are like what you would sprinkle on top of you.

707
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

708
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I don't know. I think my mom just

709
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 4: was in a kick of making these or something.

710
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 3: You know how those are with butter and like season e.

711
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and you had so good.

712
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, you had to have to make this in front

713
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 4: of the class, so you couldn't there's a lot of

714
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 4: things you couldn't do. So I made these crackers that, yeah,

715
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 4: we're covered in butter. But I'm in third or fourth grade, Like,

716
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 4: come on, it's fine, it's okay. I didn't have to

717
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 4: win the first place in the competition, but like, just

718
00:32:59,320 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 4: eat my cracker.

719
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 3: Let's move on. So she she should about how my

720
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 3: snack wasn't healthy.

721
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: What was that part of the requirement, Like did they

722
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: say we need to make you to make a snack

723
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: and then cats like I have the perfect but.

724
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 3: I found this on paladines website. Yeah, I don't remember

725
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 3: all the details of this. I can't remember her. Yeah,

726
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 3: there's zero nutritional value, but it's fine. There's nutritional value

727
00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 3: in butter.

728
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 4: There is, okay, there's vitamins, right, so anyway, and carbs, carbs,

729
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 4: we need carbs to live and bring carbs and like joy.

730
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 4: That joy is healthy. So it's not that I made brownies.

731
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 1: Okay, you should well, I know, but I mean, I guess,

732
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if she was wanting you to bring

733
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: like a vegetable or.

734
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 3: It was four aged, I probably should have brought some kind.

735
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 4: Of like a homegrowns Regardless, she gave me a bad

736
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 4: grade because it wasn't healthy enough, and then she talked about.

737
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,840
Speaker 1: I just know that the roles. I'm just laughing because

738
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: it's kind of funny. I should take if the rules

739
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: were to bring like something like is like, you know

740
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:25,040
Speaker 1: what side are you on? I mean, Butter is from cows. Okay,

741
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: you're there. I love Butter. I'm just saying I don't

742
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,959
Speaker 1: know the the requirements of the assignment, but keep going.

743
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 4: Okay, Anyway, I should have talked about this with my

744
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 4: mom because my mom specifically remembers this teacher because she

745
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 4: said a couple of mean things to me, and my

746
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 4: mom is very protective and so she does not like

747
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 4: this lady. Yeah, so anyway, I got a bad grade.

748
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 4: She said it wasn't healthy. Then I don't know if

749
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 4: this was I think this was related where she's talking

750
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 4: about she's so health she is healthy, and she eats

751
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 4: soybeans like popcorn instead of popcorn.

752
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 3: When she's watching the movie, she'll just pop soybeans in

753
00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 3: her mouth.

754
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 4: And of course we're in for grade, we're all like

755
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 4: soybeans ew gross. And so she was like, I'm gonna

756
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 4: bring soybeans for you guys. So she brought us all

757
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 4: soybeans to class the next day. Think about like your

758
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 4: favorite teacher. She probably gave you, like a recei's or

759
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 4: something like that. She gave us soybeans and she passed

760
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 4: them all out and we had to eat one.

761
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: Oh okay, see, well that's I thought. She like fleaing

762
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: in the corner, you specifically, and she's like, you're like,

763
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 1: she made me eat a soye. It's like passed out, like.

764
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 3: Before you told the story.

765
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: I was picturing you like sitting there like in the corner,

766
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: like with your head down.

767
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 3: She's like, eat this soybean.

768
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:40,919
Speaker 1: Put this in your mouth right now. But I can't.

769
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: I gotta say, I don't even really know what a soybean.

770
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 3: At a mammy?

771
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:44,720
Speaker 1: Oh at a mammy.

772
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, well I do like that. I do love it,

773
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 4: but I was in fourth grade. I didn't like and

774
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 4: even like green beans back then.

775
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: It does sound better if you say she made me

776
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: eat a soybean instead of like she forced us to

777
00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: eat at a mummy. I mean, sounds more traumatic.

778
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 3: So also, she got me stupid.

779
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I was put in like the gifted program

780
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:08,800
Speaker 4: or whatever, you have the gift and talented.

781
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 3: I don't think I was supposed to.

782
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 4: I really don't think I was supposed to be there,

783
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 4: but regardless, they put me there, and I was smart

784
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,959
Speaker 4: in certain areas, like there are certain I wasn't smart

785
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 4: in everything.

786
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 3: I also don't know that I wanted to be in.

787
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 4: That but regardless, my mom I needed again, I should

788
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 4: ask my mom for clarification. But something happened where she

789
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 4: like told my mom, whether it's an apparent tea shirt

790
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 4: conference or on the phone, like, yeah, Catherine should never

791
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 4: have been put in that program, like she can't keep up.

792
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 4: She's My mom has a story that like she called

793
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 4: me dumb. I don't know if she said those words

794
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 4: or if that's what my mom took, but I think

795
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 4: she's had it out for me. After the oyster crackers,

796
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 4: she probably was like she's dumb. She didn't know that

797
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 4: that wasn't healthy.

798
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: Or she didn't want to be now she can't read.

799
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: She probably was like, oh, I love those and now

800
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: she brought them in my classroom and now I can't

801
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: have them.

802
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 3: And no, I'm annoyed. That's a good we're in a

803
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 3: bad mood.

804
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: Because you, like said you don't know what was going

805
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 1: on with her. Should I be like, oh, I try

806
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: to spend my days avoiding oyster butter crackers.

807
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry.

808
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 4: I would like to apologize to her. If that's what happened,

809
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 4: then I'm sorry. But also I was like nine years old.

810
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 4: You were in your forties.

811
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 3: So my point in all of this is, if AI

812
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 3: is our teachers, we never have this conversation.

813
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: I'm starting to think AI for you might not be

814
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: that bad. I'm like they I can't force us to eat.

815
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 4: So then I had a lot of really good I mean,

816
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 4: I think most people can think of like one teacher

817
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 4: that impacted them in some way, Like I have a

818
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 4: teacher in college. If she was not my advisor, I

819
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 4: never would have become never would have become a therapist.

820
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't think yeah, no, I mean I think relationships

821
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,719
Speaker 1: are important. I don't think the AI is going to

822
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: fully take over. I think there's AI tools that could

823
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: help with like tutoring and helping you learn. But I

824
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: don't know that they should replace teachers in classrooms and

825
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,839
Speaker 1: that that one and guidance, but who knows thirty years

826
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 1: from that might be like can you believe they used

827
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 1: to have human teachers and they're gonna think that it's crazy?

828
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: I mean we're gonna think it's sad, but they're gonna

829
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: be like and then when something else takes over for AI,

830
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: they're and be like, can you believe they're thinking about

831
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 1: getting rid of AI teachers. It's so sad because like

832
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: they're gonna feel bonded. Like door Dash put out that

833
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 1: cute little little delivery robot.

834
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 3: Yeah it's crazy.

835
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: It's cute though, it's got little eyeballs. Have you ever

836
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: seen one of these little robot things in person? Like

837
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 1: my ex husband at has worked, they have a robot dog,

838
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: like one of those dogs that goes in like can

839
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: help keep you safe. They can sniff out bombs or whatever.

840
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 3: That's pretty cool.

841
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 1: He had it at the house. They brought it over

842
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,720
Speaker 1: and I didn't want them to put that dog in danger.

843
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 1: It's a robot, but it was so cute. I know

844
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 1: it's not real. It's a metal and a machine.

845
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 3: Do you feel emotionally?

846
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: But I'm like, what are you gonna do with it?

847
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: Like y'all are just gonna feed it and hang out

848
00:38:57,160 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 1: with it? Right, But no, it's going to help save

849
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: human lives, But at what cost? You know? To me

850
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: that robots and like one time in Vegas I was

851
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: getting on an elevator and the hotel had these little

852
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 1: robot butler thingies, and one got on the elevator with

853
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: me and it was so cute.

854
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, but you don't.

855
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 1: You know, it's not gonna talk back, but it like

856
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: it's little cameras. It looks like little eyeballs.

857
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 3: And okay, now are you watching Forgetful Murders in the Building.

858
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 1: No, no, I do like that show, but I haven't

859
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 1: watched it.

860
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,959
Speaker 4: Okay, well, there's a robot element that I think you

861
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 4: are reminding me of somebody who might be falling in

862
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 4: love with the robot.

863
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to fall in love with the robot.

864
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: I think that they're cute.

865
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 3: Started.

866
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: No, I don't think I could have feelings for robot,

867
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,760
Speaker 1: But you know, that might be a thing one day.

868
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,959
Speaker 3: I think it already is. Well, yeah, people are having

869
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 3: relationships with chatchebt.

870
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,760
Speaker 1: But is it going to become more normal normal?

871
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 3: Let's interchange the word normal with common.

872
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 4: Okay, might be more common, That doesn't make it at normal,

873
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 4: thank you, And it means it normal.

874
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 3: Also doesn't make it healthy.

875
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: Oh that's the therapist coming through you.

876
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:07,760
Speaker 3: They're smart.

877
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: I can't believe Soybean Sally told you for one second

878
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:12,280
Speaker 1: you were stupid.

879
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 3: It's a great name for her. I don't know to

880
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 3: ask my mom what she said.

881
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 1: You don't have to.

882
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 3: I can't tell you, Yeah, because who knows where she is.

883
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 4: And maybe she thinks about that and she's like, I

884
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,479
Speaker 4: should have treated Catherine de Fought it better.

885
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 3: You know. I don't know she could have processed that

886
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 3: in her because there's things that I've even done as

887
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 3: a therapist ten years ago that I look back on

888
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 3: now and I'm like, oh, I wish I could have

889
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 3: done that differently. As you learn more, you.

890
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: Know, Yeah, sometimes teachers may not even realize how their

891
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: words are impacting a student, like I have that one

892
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 1: teacher from my high school, I was in her chemistry class,

893
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,640
Speaker 1: but unlike you, I wasn't in the gifted chemistry. I

894
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: was in chemistry in the community. We also called it

895
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: chymcom and it was chemistry for like chemistry for.

896
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 3: People who didn't love chemistry, right, maybe an excel in chemistry.

897
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: Lower to grasp the concept chemistry. So she was my

898
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: chemicom teacher, but she was also the advisor to a

899
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 1: committee that I was on, and on that committee, I

900
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 1: had to give a speech and I got to say

901
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 1: in front of the whole school and alumni, and it

902
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: was my first time ever public speaking that way. And

903
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: I went up there and I got to say, like,

904
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: I nailed it. Maybe that's when I realized, like I'm

905
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 1: comfortable on stage with a microphone or whatever. And then

906
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: we had our debrief meeting like afterwards, like the whole committee.

907
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 1: We were back in this room and again she's our

908
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: visor and she's praising everybody, but mine was like a

909
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 1: backhanded compliment of like, oh, well, who knew cheerleader over here,

910
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: you know, Like it just made me feel like, oh

911
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: my gosh, she thinks I'm not capable and I'm stupid,

912
00:41:56,760 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 1: and so that has stuck with me of my I'm

913
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: not capable and stupid narrative, you know.

914
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 3: And she thought she'sa compliment and that was like really

915
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 3: not kind.

916
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 1: But I don't think she she realized how much it

917
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 1: impacted me, because I've thought about it every day since.

918
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: She's kidding every day, not every day, but a lot.

919
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, in my.

920
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times it's those little comments

921
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 4: that are the ones that hurt the most, Like she

922
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 4: wasn't being outright mean, but you're like, oh, so that's

923
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 4: what you really do think of me?

924
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like you thought, oh gosh, like that, y'all

925
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: were you were thinking, okay, you were also saying you

926
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,399
Speaker 1: were proud of me, but also you had zero expectations

927
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 1: that obviously do think I was going to do right

928
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: like that, it was just gonna be like nah, mid

929
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 1: as gen Z. Gen Z says, Mid, I to tell

930
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: my son, y'all him and his friends, y'all got to

931
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 1: stop using mid. Like why my daughter would be like

932
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: on FaceTime with a friend and nobody's asking nobody's asking

933
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,760
Speaker 1: her about her friend or what she looks like or whatever.

934
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 1: And if Stevenson had friends over, like they would just

935
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: by and be like look at the FaceTime and they'd

936
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: be like Mid, They're like right, they're just like out

937
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:09,280
Speaker 1: in public writing girls and it's like nobody asked you. Also,

938
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 1: you're mid, I mean, you.

939
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 4: Know, like like eleven year old boy or right, you're

940
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 4: so mid.

941
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: No, I mean, I guess I was just making a

942
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: point of like what if someone walked by you and

943
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 1: it's like Mid, Like what, this isn't a video game?

944
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 1: This is real life, Like we're not like walking around

945
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 1: like it made me think of an episode of Black Mirror.

946
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 3: I've only watched one episode, and those I never watch again.

947
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: Crazy, and I also feel very accurate, like they could happen,

948
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: like very futuristic stuff that isn't that far out. And

949
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: I feel like there was an episode I can't remember

950
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: which season, but where like people walked around and it

951
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 1: was like, you know, like things that would be happening

952
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: inside of a dating app, but they would just be

953
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: happening in public. You walk by and like if your

954
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: brain thinks like, oh, that person's the seven, I want

955
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: to give them hearts or whatever, and you walk by

956
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know how someone's rating you in

957
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: that moment or I'm definitely paraphrasing this episode exactly how

958
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: it was at all whatsoever, because it's been a couple

959
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: of years since I've seen it, But you know, like

960
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: it just felt like you're inside this real life virtual

961
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 1: it's like virtual, but it's your real life.

962
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 3: That's my greatest nightmare. I do not want to know

963
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 3: what people.

964
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: Like, how many likes you're getting in that moment, Like

965
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: it's like ding ding ding ding me, Like if you

966
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: were to be processing, like, say you post something and

967
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: then you're physically processing the likes that you're getting.

968
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 3: I don't want that.

969
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh that's the life that your son and his

970
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 4: friends are living. Okay, Yeah they can stop saying mad. Yeah,

971
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,479
Speaker 4: well if it's not mad, what do they say?

972
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: I don't know the I guess I paid attention to.

973
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 1: I did, because that's where I drew the line of like, stop,

974
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,480
Speaker 1: you're not going to walk by. And a girl that's

975
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: on FaceTime that asked your opinion zero, Like, yeah, she

976
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 1: didn't nothing came out of her mouth. She's just innocently

977
00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 1: talking on FaceTime with her friend and she's getting raided. No,

978
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 1: but my boyfriend's sons, like they were talking about girls

979
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: in their grade and like all the different schools, and

980
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: they were ranking.

981
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 3: Like the grades of schools.

982
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 1: They're like, ooh, the tenth graders at this school really good.

983
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: The tenth graders at that school, like the whole class,

984
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: like overall they rank like which I know.

985
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 4: Also subjective also like why, I mean, that's the brain

986
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:25,959
Speaker 4: of a I'm sure.

987
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: And I said, well, how do y'all even you're not

988
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: even at the schools, like how are you looking? We're like,

989
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: oh social sud a snapchat Instagram, and I'm like, y'all

990
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 1: are sucking girls on theres, like looking them up, and

991
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: he was like, well, yeah, i'd say if we like

992
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: hear about a girl, we made the looker up. But

993
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 1: girls do way more socking online.

994
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 3: Than the guys do. Sure they do.

995
00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: I'm ok yeah, yeah, that's what the guilty ones say.

996
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 3: That's what you want us to think. Yeah, okay, well

997
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:50,760
Speaker 3: that's sad.

998
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 1: So anyway, millennial syndrome we have episode Okay, oh h

999
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: Shannon said mid for mediocre Riz. If you've got charisma,

1000
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:07,319
Speaker 1: then that's RIZ and then bust in excellent. That's like

1001
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: that waiter that your friend had where he's like, this

1002
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: chicken is normally busting, but this is what we call

1003
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: the missionary missionary style chicken.

1004
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, the missionary style of chicken. So he was saying it,

1005
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 3: which is just mid boring.

1006
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 4: You can call a dish on a menu mid, You

1007
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 4: can't say that to an innocent human.

1008
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 3: Being, exactly.

1009
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 4: Okay, So what I've learned is that you'll eventually be

1010
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 4: dating a robot.

1011
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 3: And no I'm not.

1012
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: I didn't feel very fortunate to have fallen in love

1013
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: with the actual human which with a with a gen.

1014
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:52,800
Speaker 4: Y or wait, no, he's a you're a gen y. No,

1015
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 4: I'm a millennial, which is gen y. Okay, he's gen

1016
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 4: what is he?

1017
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 3: Oh? Sorry, god, he's forgotten. Why you can't remember? He's

1018
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 3: a lot key, latch key.

1019
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: Okay, he's a latch key, I I have Yeah, I

1020
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: do think he was a latch key because his parents

1021
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: got divorced, like while he has his mom has since

1022
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: passed away, and he sees his dad a lot. But

1023
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: like growing up, he was like his mom worked. His

1024
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 1: parents were divorced, so he'd be back and forth, but

1025
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: his mom worked, his dad worked. And then also, yeah,

1026
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 1: he kind of was finning for himself, which is weird.

1027
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: My mom was a I don't really know what my

1028
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: grandma did. I know when I was older or I

1029
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: was born. By the time I was around, she was

1030
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: managing a bowling alley, but I don't know what she

1031
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,879
Speaker 1: did when my mom was a live. But my mom

1032
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,840
Speaker 1: definitely had to fin for herself, like I don't, I

1033
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: know her dad died, and I don't know when my

1034
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 1: grandma got remarried. But it's weird to think that. I

1035
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: wish my mom was still alive so I could ask

1036
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: her these questions, but I know that she definitely didn't

1037
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,760
Speaker 1: have emotion all available parents at all whatsoever. But also

1038
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,280
Speaker 1: just food, Like it's not like there was like meals

1039
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:07,879
Speaker 1: or parents. Like she would have to just be like

1040
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: digging through cabinets trying to figure out, like, oh what

1041
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: am I going to piece together for lunch or dinner?

1042
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's weird because my grandma, you know,

1043
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 1: she took me shopping for Madame Alexander dolls.

1044
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 3: It's like what you had aferience.

1045
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: Yes, I had a very different experience, and like there

1046
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: was always candy and Klondyke bars.

1047
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 3: Clondyke bars, yeah, yeah.

1048
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: My grandma always had those in her freezer. Like we

1049
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 1: there was always food. When I would go stay with

1050
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: my grandmother, I would stay with her for weeks. I

1051
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 1: mean she barely ate because she smoked a lot. And

1052
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: then also she didn't have teeth, so she would take

1053
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 1: her denters a lot, but she would do. She would

1054
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: love doing corn bread and milk.

1055
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 3: Wait, can you not eat with dentures? You can?

1056
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if her kind you could, because

1057
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: she would take them out, especially for her corn bread

1058
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: and milk.

1059
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 3: Her corn bread and milk are you doing it like

1060
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:56,919
Speaker 3: a spoon.

1061
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: Because like she would put it in a cup and

1062
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 1: put the corn bread in a glass of milk and

1063
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: eat it with spoin.

1064
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 4: Like cereal and milk, but corn and a cup an animal?

1065
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 3: Is this a thing? It was for my grandma because

1066
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 3: she couldn't chew.

1067
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: I think it just was good to her. And again

1068
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: she really didn't eat much because she I don't know

1069
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: if it's the cigarettes or what. Okay, you know, like

1070
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 1: when you're smoking all the time.

1071
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 3: Wait, she didn't. Just looked it up and it was

1072
00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 3: called the poor Man's dessert corn bread and milk.

1073
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I know that she didn't have a

1074
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 1: lot of money. But see, then my grandma got remarried

1075
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: and my grandpa Louie, that was my step grandpa. I

1076
00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: never knew my real one. Again he passed away, but

1077
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: he was postman and then he retired and I think

1078
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 1: he had good retirement, so maybe they had a little

1079
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 1: bit more at that point. Like I don't know what

1080
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:50,600
Speaker 1: it was like for my mom's childhood, but I'm telling you,

1081
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: my grandma had a candy closet. I mean, everything smelled

1082
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: like cigarettes.

1083
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 3: So that's fine.

1084
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: So it's like you open the snickers and it's like, oh,

1085
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 1: but you got used to it.

1086
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:02,720
Speaker 3: It's fine.

1087
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 1: So yeah, there you go more, you know, blast from

1088
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: the past. She was a not a boomer, my grandma,

1089
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: I bet whatever. Before I don't really know, it's before that,

1090
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: a World War Two, this silent generation, and there's probably

1091
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: like the Great Depression. Oh oh that was my dad.

1092
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 3: When was your dad born.

1093
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 1: Nineteen forty one?

1094
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 3: Oh, silence is a great Depression?

1095
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, I wonder like, yeah, when we got real

1096
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: cool with the names?

1097
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, like did these names exist back then or they

1098
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 4: just started them like twenty years ago.

1099
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went back and renamed them like retro.

1100
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm sure that, like in the seventeen hundreds,

1101
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 4: they don't have names for the generations.

1102
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,280
Speaker 3: Right, there's the Guilted Age.

1103
00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 1: You love that, that was the late eighteen hundreds.

1104
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 3: You're waiting for a time that you can bring up

1105
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 3: the Gilded Age.

1106
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 1: The age as just popped into my No, if you've

1107
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: given me an opportunity, I'll say it.

1108
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 3: I'm not like waiting.

1109
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, please bring up the late eighteen hundreds. I

1110
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: cannot wait for that. But like when so the Titanic

1111
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 1: sank in nineteen twelve. What generation was that? The maybe

1112
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 1: GI bill like for serving the military.

1113
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 3: If there was the GI, I'm thinking they just didn't

1114
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 3: care about this stuff as much back then. Oh, it's

1115
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:35,319
Speaker 3: the greatest generation. Good for them.

1116
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,359
Speaker 1: Also, we are not a history podcast, but.

1117
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 4: We could be, because you know about the Gilded Age.

1118
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, from the show on HBO Max. Yeah, there's

1119
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: generation Oh wow, Beta Beta, Generation Beta is the next one. Kat,

1120
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: if you have a baby in twenty twenty.

1121
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 3: Six, it'll be beta.

1122
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:58,280
Speaker 1: It's going to be a beta.

1123
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 3: That's kind of a downer.

1124
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, the greatest generation was nineteen oh one and nineteen

1125
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: twenty seven, So the anybody.

1126
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:09,760
Speaker 3: I petition to change the name.

1127
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: Of that generation beta, I know, but like to the

1128
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: better generation that's what you can call it.

1129
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:22,919
Speaker 3: Be like better, Yeah, the better and then the next

1130
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 3: one'll be mid And you're like no, I just feel like,

1131
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:33,920
Speaker 3: I mean, no shade to any betas. I appreciate those

1132
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 3: kinds of people, but I just think that that's like

1133
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 3: sending a message, you know, well, like the owls.

1134
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 1: Get to be Alpha. Yeah, like they're told all the time,

1135
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: like I'm alfha Well.

1136
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 4: And I think going back to what you said earlier

1137
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 4: about like the things that you don't know that you

1138
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 4: believe because you were told to believe them, or because

1139
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 4: you really believe those things. It's if you're told you're this,

1140
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 4: then you live into that name. And I don't want

1141
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 4: these people to just if they want to be that way,

1142
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 4: that's fine, and that's who they are, is great.

1143
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 3: We need all kinds of people. But if you're just

1144
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 3: told that you are going to be this way.

1145
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 1: Do you feel like, Now this has nothing to do

1146
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:08,320
Speaker 1: with your generation, but do you feel like you're in

1147
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 1: alpha personality.

1148
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:15,320
Speaker 4: In certain areas? But also like, no, why are you

1149
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 4: look at me like that?

1150
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,720
Speaker 1: Well? I get because I don't know. I'm just thinking

1151
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: of like how you would define yourself when it comes

1152
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 1: to alpha.

1153
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't.

1154
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:26,399
Speaker 4: I wouldn't describe myself that way because I also can

1155
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 4: be like really shy and insecure.

1156
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm not alpha.

1157
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,720
Speaker 4: I don't really want to be in charge of things

1158
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 4: or either. I want to follow people for.

1159
00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: Delegate to me all day long. You want to delegate

1160
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: to me, and I'll get it done.

1161
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 4: I'll do it really well. I like this is what

1162
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 4: I like. I like having somebody to go ask the

1163
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 4: questions to. And I like having I like that. I

1164
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 4: I don't like having to be the person that's like

1165
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 4: the final step, you know, where things fall on me.

1166
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 4: Because one, I don't want the responsibility of that, whether.

1167
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 3: It goes good or bad. But I like the security

1168
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 3: of going to somebody else, And I.

1169
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: Think I want to clarify, Like at work, if I'm

1170
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: told that I need to do something like I like

1171
00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 1: that delegation and I'm going to do it. If I'm

1172
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: also in charge and I'm being told to do it,

1173
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 1: then that's where I struggle because it's like, well, I

1174
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 1: get to I'm in charge. I know there's something I

1175
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 1: have to do, but like I get to decide, so

1176
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: then I'm going to lean more towards like resisting it

1177
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 1: for some reason.

1178
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because you know, I don't like being told

1179
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 4: what to do, but yeah, I think it. Yeah, it's indifferent.

1180
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 4: I don't like being put in a corner and being

1181
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 4: forced to do something, especially if it doesn't align with

1182
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 4: something believe in. But I do like having to fall

1183
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:42,240
Speaker 4: back on I like security.

1184
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 1: But yeah, same, Yeah, I guess it was just it's weird,

1185
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: like I have two sides of me where I want

1186
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: to be delegated and told what to do, because that's

1187
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: very helpful work. Like I like I can shine in that,

1188
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to be in charge charge. But

1189
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: then like I mean, Shannon's in here, and so we

1190
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 1: work on a lot of stuff to get there, and

1191
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: she may have like things that she knows I need

1192
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: to do, and then I'll be like I'll resist some

1193
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: of it. I'll be like, nah, it depends on the day.

1194
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:12,720
Speaker 1: But like that's where I struggle with like delegating, like don't, no, don't.

1195
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,879
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that right now. So I'm

1196
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:18,360
Speaker 1: gonna now I'm an alpha.

1197
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1198
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 4: But typically so I think that we're what would be

1199
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 4: in the middle of A and B A and a half,

1200
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 4: we're alba's No.

1201
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: There is no it goes from A to B.

1202
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 3: I know I'm mixing them together. Oh A B we're abs.

1203
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1204
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 1: I don't know that there's anything. Okay, well here, I.

1205
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 3: Think we should in there.

1206
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:48,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we're good.

1207
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

1208
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1209
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 3: We hope that you have the day you need. Yeah.

1210
00:55:53,200 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 1: Bye bye