1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Tell them nun. Yeah, they talk better than they excited. 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 2: you're writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:11,399 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes you've got one. 5 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: Go. 6 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, dear blog. We've discussed this when 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 3: my baby Gigi was born. She is a year and 8 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 3: a half years old today as I speak at this moment, 9 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 3: and I'm revisiting something because it's really bothering me and 10 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 3: I really really really want to. 11 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 4: Get my baby's ears pierced. 12 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 3: Okay, I've had my ears piers when I came out 13 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 3: of the womb, like I think I was three days 14 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 3: old when I got my ears piers. 15 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: You can't installed pretty much. 16 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, Martin made sure that was like part of the 17 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 3: package when you get to like select your baby and 18 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 3: stuff and like yeah, when I come with yeah, that. 19 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: Was that was the thing I can when you build it, yeah, 20 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: get a bear Tesla, Yeah. 21 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 4: Build a bear Villa Tesla, build your baby. 22 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 3: So like I loved my ears piers, my mom says 23 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 3: I didn't. I don't believe that, because yes, I know 24 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 3: sometimes when the baby's changing out of like a onesie 25 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 3: or something or you're changing your baby's clothes. Sometimes the 26 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 3: earrings get caught in the clothing. I understand these things happen. 27 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 3: I will be very careful. I wouldn't be reckless with 28 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 3: my baby's ears. I'm very aware, but I feel i'm demir. 29 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 3: But my thing is that I'm not releasing eye to 30 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 3: eye with my baby's father, baby daddy, husband, Javier. 31 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 4: I'm mad so I call him baby's father. 32 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 2: Yes, I love how the last thing that you call 33 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 2: him as your husband, I'm mad right now a lot 34 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 2: of other things that's your husband. 35 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 4: Okay, I'm very upset. So we are budding hens right now. 36 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 3: We are not well because I want to do when 37 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 3: he doesn't, and I don't understand why, like you got me. 38 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,039 Speaker 3: I'm just I'm just why, Like I had mine peers 39 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 3: like a lot of people do, like my mom's polish 40 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 3: when I'm not polish, Like that's like a thing that 41 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 3: we do. It's very common to in Hispanic culture, and 42 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 3: my baby seventy five percent of Mexican like, let's do this, 43 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 3: like this is like a baptism of its own. 44 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 4: And he won't let. 45 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: Me be weird. I think that you want that too. 46 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 4: I was thinking more of her nose. 47 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: I think that's strange. The ears are one thing, okay, 48 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: I'll connected to the belly button. That's weird with the 49 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 1: chain you know it gets straight? 50 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 4: Oh too soon? 51 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think more like a five or six year 52 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 2: old thing to do. Yeah well wait, well what you do? 53 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 4: Go through that? Make sure that you like where the 54 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 4: dots on her tiny little ears are. 55 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 5: Because my best friend god Love got it done where 56 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 5: her family's from in Mexico where they live, and she 57 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 5: did not like the placement. 58 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 4: So our little go kaya got three holes in. 59 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,080 Speaker 1: Her ears instead. 60 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 5: You're kidding, yeah, because she was like, can you readjust 61 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 5: so make sure that we figure out she does. 62 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 4: And she's fine. 63 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 5: Their babies they're resilient, but you got to make sure 64 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 5: that they you like where they put it. 65 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: What is the objection? Like? 66 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 3: What is his issue? I really don't know. It's just 67 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 3: that she just doesn't want media. We don't need to 68 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 3: do this, and I think we absolutely need to do this. 69 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 3: She's my little daughter, my little angel, and I want 70 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 3: to get our little earrings. She's already got the gold earrings, 71 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 3: the little gold hoops, she got them all Like I 72 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 3: love gold, So I want her to wear. 73 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: It without his blessing. 74 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 3: Okay, so his mother and I are on the same page. 75 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,679 Speaker 3: You know, we do hang out often. There might be 76 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 3: a day where we're just out and about. We'll just 77 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 3: walk into a Claire's or maybe not Claire, walk into 78 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 3: the pediatric's office and do it the pediatrician they can. 79 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 4: We'll just happen to stroll by, you know, for a walk, 80 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 4: and we'll go to the doctor. Sounds like this is planned. 81 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 4: It might be. 82 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 3: There might be some planning. I really want to do it, 83 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 3: but I know it's not the right thing to do. 84 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 3: Me and Hobby, we have a very honest relationship. We're 85 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 3: very much on the same page about everything, not always 86 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 3: like mentally, but we come to you're very much. 87 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: Not on the same relationship. 88 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 3: But because we meet each other halfway, and I'll give 89 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 3: us that, you know, we're really good at that part. 90 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 4: I don't know this one. I I gotta win this one. 91 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 4: Like I don't win much in my marriage. I'm gonna 92 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: be very honest, I don't win much. This is what 93 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 4: I need to win. 94 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: So you're you're just gonna go do it. 95 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 4: I'm thinking about it. 96 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, everybody's on my side, but but why now like, 97 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 5: why do we have to do it now if he 98 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 5: has an objection, because I would have done it like 99 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 5: a year and a half ago. But now I'm revisiting this, 100 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 5: I'm seeing all her little earrings, and I'm like, well, 101 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 5: she has them. 102 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 2: They were gifted you where she was less traumatic now 103 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: and probably less traumatic now than than when you're you know, 104 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: thirteen years old. 105 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 4: I remember mine and I was fine. I don't know. 106 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 5: I mean, I know it's no I did it with 107 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 5: a gun and it was completely fine, But I don't know. 108 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 4: I mean, I I see both sides. 109 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 5: I see people being able to wait and let the 110 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 5: child make the choice, and I also know it's a 111 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 5: cultural thing. But poor Hobby is gonna Yeah, yeah. 112 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 4: It's not gonna be great. Well tell me, like, hey, 113 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 4: I could be taking her to go get a tattoo. 114 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 4: I do not see it. It's like I could be worse. 115 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: It could be correct. 116 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 4: We're gonna get her, come on, look at the brightset. 117 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 2: We could be going to Vegas, yes, see, get hammered 118 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 2: and gamble all your money away. Actually he'd probably be 119 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: into that. Actually, yeah, I get that.