WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Halloween Role Reversal

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<v Speaker 1>It's awkward.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Everybody has their unique Halloween

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<v Speaker 1>traditions that they personally like to do every single year.

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<v Speaker 1>Like every Halloween, Brook forces her husband to dress up

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<v Speaker 1>in some elaborate homemade costume that he has absolutely no

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<v Speaker 1>interest in. Weary.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. He really liked being the vsectomy doctor

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<v Speaker 2>that one year. Yeah, yeah, yeah, are you no? No?

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<v Speaker 2>That was the year that I went as before and afterhood.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting that those were back to back years.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the same year I got you. Yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 2>a couple's costumes.

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<v Speaker 1>Alexis has a Halloween tradition where she must throw up

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<v Speaker 1>bright red punch into the couple home or she can't

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<v Speaker 1>go back into her apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's a successful Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and those are sacred. And one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>needs help with an annual Halloween tradition he does. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work acquire an awkward phone call this time around,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's talk to Andrew about it. Andrew, Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>God, I hope where your new Halloween tradition Andrew? Year one.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure next year for problem stopping him every year.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one of us wishes ill on your Halloween. The

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<v Speaker 1>rest of us will actually want to help you, So

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<v Speaker 1>tell us what's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I kind of have a weird tradition that has

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<v Speaker 3>only happened once, having the first time last year, but

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<v Speaker 3>I want to keep it going.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, so it's not a tradition yet you're hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to make it a tradition.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, all traditions have to start somewhere, Jeff, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>True, that is true.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it? So?

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<v Speaker 3>I met a girl last year. Her name was Kate.

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<v Speaker 3>We met on a dating app and I was completely

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<v Speaker 3>honest with my height with her. I'm about five foot

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<v Speaker 3>five maybe five foot four and three quarters.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're a shorter guy, hey, Broke, don't say that. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's good with confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's making a state and she's an I.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell women all the time to date short man that

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<v Speaker 2>you got. You work so much listening every time Brooks starts. Seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>those tall guys they just like phone it in. You

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<v Speaker 2>know you want a guy that you you get a

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<v Speaker 2>short hottie with.

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<v Speaker 1>Low self esteem? Isn't that right, right? Andrew?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know self imprecations can go my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, yeah right here, got her back. Okay, she's how tall?

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<v Speaker 3>She's six foot one not short day.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you guys are kind of role reversal there.

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<v Speaker 2>That's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>So I called her and through the dating app, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I know you're probably not going to message

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<v Speaker 3>me back, but I'm into taller women and I think

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<v Speaker 3>you're beautiful. But I'm only five five.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I get it? I like to be picked up too.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone is strong enough to pick you up.

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<v Speaker 1>He picks her up and spins her in a circle.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a grown man, brook, He's not a baby woman.

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<v Speaker 4>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Just sorry about that, Andrews. So that's a bold thing

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest in your message. Did she respond?

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<v Speaker 3>She did, and to her credit, she was like, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>what the heck, let's meet up. So that's great. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>And what it came down to was that we both

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<v Speaker 3>weren't doing anything on the day of Halloween, like on

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<v Speaker 3>the actual like October thirty first, okay, and it was

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<v Speaker 3>on a weekday, so we just met up at a

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<v Speaker 3>bar and we instantly hit it off. So we may

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<v Speaker 3>look mismatched, but our personalities were perfect. We're both like

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<v Speaker 3>very sarcastic senses of humoring.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So we we drank and we laughed for like about

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<v Speaker 3>an hour, and then I had the funniest idea. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Okay, what if we went back to my

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<v Speaker 3>place and I put on one of my old Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>Costumes and keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>To you, this might be the opposite of what you're thinking.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, we put on the Halloween costumes and we

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<v Speaker 3>go around the neighborhood trick or treating together, and we

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<v Speaker 3>pretend that she's my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>What Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>That is so not hot head better funny. It's funny,

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<v Speaker 2>But like, aren't you romantically interested in this woman?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely, definitely. But like at the time, it was Halloween

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<v Speaker 3>night and we had a couple of drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>And Brook, what's not romantic about going trick or treating

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<v Speaker 1>with your mom on Halloween.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody wants to be a man's mom. It's just not hot.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing. He's using humor to bond with

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<v Speaker 1>herding me a kid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yah.

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<v Speaker 1>Think it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you did it.

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<v Speaker 1>You pitched her this idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And because I felt like we have the same

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<v Speaker 3>kind of sense of humor and really connected. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>that she would say yes, and he did.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, she's doing it for the plot.

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<v Speaker 3>We got into a Halloween cuss she was and we

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<v Speaker 3>would walk around and she would say things at the

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<v Speaker 3>door like sorry, he doesn't talk a lot, but he's

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<v Speaker 3>a really nice boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you couldn't say anything else, people would know with

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<v Speaker 1>your voice.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, maybe you found your person. If she was

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<v Speaker 2>into this, maybe this is the person for you.

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<v Speaker 1>How did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>It was definitely fun and we got a good amount

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<v Speaker 3>of candy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not even did you spread it out on the

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<v Speaker 2>floor and like, do Trady just take a photo of that?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you said that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we actually went to a park at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the night and we split the candy and drank

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<v Speaker 3>some beers from my fridge, and honestly, I gotta tell you,

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<v Speaker 3>this was the best Halloween I have had since I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, but you didn't have another date with her?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 3>No, So we've sort of for the last year just

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<v Speaker 3>sort of been like text or like commenting on me

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<v Speaker 3>to the social media post. Okay, I've been texting her

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<v Speaker 3>to try to organize it because I'd really love to

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<v Speaker 3>do it again and she's not responding to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you don't want a six foot one dad

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<v Speaker 2>to come along with you, you have six my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>But in all seriousness, I really thought Kate was a

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<v Speaker 3>really cool person, and like, even if she doesn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to do this, just like hanging out in person again

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<v Speaker 3>is something I'm really shooting for here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's like a monster mashup of second date and

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<v Speaker 2>awkward Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, a year later. Okay, Yeah, we'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>get it done. We'll come back give you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of advice right after this. Okay, thank you, second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. I know I said at the start that

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<v Speaker 1>this was an awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's change your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>The more we hear this story, the more I started

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<v Speaker 1>to think, it's not really awkward. It's more of a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update just a year after the first meet up,

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, the first time he asked her to pretend to

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<v Speaker 2>be his mother should have been the awkward yeah after

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<v Speaker 2>she said yes, it's But.

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<v Speaker 1>That's because you know, before we had him on, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know the full story. But Andrew basically wants to

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<v Speaker 1>take Kate out on another date, and he says either

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<v Speaker 1>an adult trick or treated venture like last time, which

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<v Speaker 1>he's already pitched to her over text, or if not,

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<v Speaker 1>that he's willing to settle for a lifelong romantic Hallmark

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<v Speaker 1>style relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not picking.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll take whatever he'll get.

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<v Speaker 2>He really does love though, he does know.

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<v Speaker 1>But it includes that we're officially gonna switch it up here.

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<v Speaker 1>No awkward Tuesday anymore. It's a second date update from

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<v Speaker 1>here on. Now, are you cool with that? Andrew? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure? Yeah, I'm cool with that.

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<v Speaker 2>That means it's fine advice anyways. Yeah, that means that

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing the talking then when we call her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's how our second date updates work. Remember, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show that you've been working on forever adjective

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<v Speaker 1>for you, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 3>Does it make you feel better that we're taking over

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<v Speaker 3>the work and you don't have to do all the talking?

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<v Speaker 4>Brother?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, yes, I don't think he's confident in us.

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<v Speaker 1>Just before we do this, for context, when is the

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<v Speaker 1>last time that you texted Kate? Andrew?

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<v Speaker 3>Last time I texted her was a few days ago

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<v Speaker 3>because I was like, Hey, are we doing this Halloween?

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<v Speaker 3>For treating thing again or what.

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<v Speaker 2>Where you act like her son? Very straightforward. Yeah. Did

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<v Speaker 2>she respond to that?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, he's like, yeah, she said, we're doing it all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, No, you're right. Let's just call her and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll ask that question and see if we have better

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<v Speaker 1>luck this time. Okay, a different question. Yeah, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to ask something and something will happen. Here we go

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<v Speaker 1>and doubt the numbers. Hello, Hey is this Kate?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Who's this?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>Kate? You're on the radio right now with Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, did I why?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, yes, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Ok yeah, no, this is a good thing, Kate. We're

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<v Speaker 1>doing something with you called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, you will never guess who called us about you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's been a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>It has been a while since you were on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with this person, at least officially. His name is Andrew.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, he's been he's been in contact with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, that's a cute giggle.

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<v Speaker 1>We've kind of heard about it, you guys, being in contact.

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<v Speaker 1>He's trying to organize another meetup and you're taking him

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<v Speaker 1>up on the offer. Or at least you're not responding

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<v Speaker 1>like we were trying to help him figure out what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on because he's confused.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it seems you know, we don't know, that's

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<v Speaker 2>why we're asking, right, So.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'm just, yeah, I'm to confuse too, because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just kind of like not wanting to go out with

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<v Speaker 4>him and all of his friends, like his friends. Doesn't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't mention his friends when he talked to us.

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<v Speaker 1>He was just talking about do you and with this

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<v Speaker 1>Halloween thing? Do you mean like going around trick or

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<v Speaker 1>treating where he pretends to be a kid and you

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<v Speaker 1>pretend to be his mom because you're.

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<v Speaker 2>So much taller than him. Apparently, I can't believe he

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<v Speaker 2>told you guys that, But earlier you mentioned his friends, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you talking about his friends?

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<v Speaker 4>He wants me to take him and all of his

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<v Speaker 4>friends trick or treating?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? What?

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<v Speaker 1>No, his adult friends are tall?

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<v Speaker 2>Are all of his guy friends really short?

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't met them, but he said that they're all

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<v Speaker 4>short like him. I can't believe that they're short as

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<v Speaker 4>him because he's really short.

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<v Speaker 2>So is it is the turnoff like you acting as

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<v Speaker 2>his mother? Or is the turn off you acting as

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<v Speaker 2>his mother to not just him, but all of all

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<v Speaker 2>of his friends both both.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'll tell you this. He didn't make to us

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<v Speaker 1>anything about wanting to bring other friends along on the

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<v Speaker 1>trick or tree date experience. He just said it was

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<v Speaker 1>just you and him.

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<v Speaker 2>And he also mentioned that he's like romantically interested in you,

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<v Speaker 2>like he would be fine hanging out with you outside him.

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<v Speaker 1>It would be smart if he brought friends.

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<v Speaker 3>They could stack on each other's shoulders and do the

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<v Speaker 3>trench go thing and then they'd be the same high.

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<v Speaker 1>Then they can yeah do the adult parties.

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<v Speaker 2>Seems to be so much hotter. Yeah yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>just as men don't like to be made fun of

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<v Speaker 2>for being short, women don't like to be made fun

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<v Speaker 2>of for being told well yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But going back to what Brooks said, like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're romantically interested in him?

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<v Speaker 4>Still? I mean, I don't know, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, don't even answer that. Let's just go over

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<v Speaker 1>to our other phone line where we actually have Andrew

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<v Speaker 1>eagerly awaiting your response, Andrew maskof say.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi, Hi, Kate. Good to hear your voice.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey good, yeah you too, Oh Kate, you did say,

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<v Speaker 4>last like how much fun you had doing this with me,

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<v Speaker 4>and like you promised at.

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<v Speaker 3>The end that we do it again next year. So

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<v Speaker 3>just think about how much more fun it would be

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<v Speaker 3>if there was like a group of us going together.

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<v Speaker 1>Says more children, more friends.

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<v Speaker 4>God, I it's like if you want me to meet

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<v Speaker 4>your friends. First of all, we're only go on one date,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's like, I'm not really ready to go and

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<v Speaker 4>meet all your friends, and like you have this like

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<v Speaker 4>group of these little guys, and you want me to

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<v Speaker 4>be the tall chaperone to you and all your friends,

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<v Speaker 4>and it just doesn't doesn't make sense to me. It's

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<v Speaker 4>not sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not I mean, can you guarantee her that it'll

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<v Speaker 1>be sexy?

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<v Speaker 2>I suggss.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what she wanted last year. You guys were also

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<v Speaker 1>drinking too. This must be different. Planning at sober and

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<v Speaker 1>ahead of time.

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<v Speaker 2>Just being someone's mom is not high or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe Andrew, you could be her dad on this.

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<v Speaker 2>Two adults.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think what we want to do is take

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<v Speaker 1>the trick or treating date off the table completely.

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<v Speaker 2>Can someone throw a Halloween party out of your friends? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we're going to make any progress romantically

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<v Speaker 1>with that as the date.

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<v Speaker 4>Andrew, I don't want to do that, just to be honest,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, So okay, Kate, if I'm picking up what

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<v Speaker 4>you're putting down here, you don't want to do this

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<v Speaker 4>trick or treating thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I imagine that in the last year, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>you you've started dating someone you're not you're not single anymore,

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<v Speaker 3>that that would be my guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she said anything like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I am single, but that has absolutely nothing to do

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<v Speaker 4>with this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she said she doesn't want that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, how could she not want it? Right? This sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like the best night ever. I'm not alone in this life.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds he's very sold on his own idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you just go trigger treating without a parental guide,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, just he promised all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of his friends she would chaperone, and now he's freaking out.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not lying about that. I mean, I did talk

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<v Speaker 3>to my friends about this and they really like the idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Kate, you don't want to let Andrew's friends down

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<v Speaker 1>on this. You say, one more date and we would

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it, and you can chaperone him around the

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhood with his little buddies. Do you want to help Brook.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not tall enough.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so sorry, and I just kind of feel a

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<v Speaker 4>little creep out about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Hey, we're not trying to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's never dating a short guy again. He tries to

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<v Speaker 2>stand up for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I happened, Andrew, Man, I'm sorry. It sounds like we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be able to get you a date here.

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<v Speaker 1>Kate doesn't want to be your chaperone.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, fine, but you're really missing out. Do you have

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<v Speaker 3>any other tall female friends that might want to be

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<v Speaker 3>involved in ancestor.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody who really wants to be a mom for just

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<v Speaker 1>one night?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think so at this point.

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<v Speaker 2>Shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, put on the stilts, you're up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever played trick or Treat in the truck stop

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom where you go and knock on an occupied bathroom

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<v Speaker 1>stall and you shout trick or treat and see what happens?

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<v Speaker 2>As these questions, I feel like they should just be monologue.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tempted to try it because I bet it would

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<v Speaker 1>still go better than the call that we just had.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I thought for sure you'd already tried it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well shockingly not yet. Okay, but this Halloween, I'll keep

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<v Speaker 1>you posted on what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>He just really didn't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't he just really thought it was romantic.

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<v Speaker 2>I think no, no, I think he just wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>get free candy. Yeah, I mean, which I feel him

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<v Speaker 2>for that. You know, I get that. By the way,

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<v Speaker 2>is it like a short guy meetup group? Is that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. My friends are different and they like

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<v Speaker 1>measure your height in order to be able to download

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<v Speaker 1>the app too, So you can't get it unless you are.

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<v Speaker 1>You downloading down is the key. It was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>doomed from the start with that idea for a date.

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<v Speaker 1>But doesn't mean we can't help you out. We can

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<v Speaker 1>always have you email the show. We'll call the person

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