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Speaker 1: with a big day. We have a special Ask a

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Speaker 1: Guy podcast. This is panel. It's a mantel Man thank you.

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Speaker 1: I thought about that on the drive here and I

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Speaker 1: We have three very um attractive, accomplished men in this

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Speaker 1: so that everybody listeners can identify your voice, your name. Um,

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Speaker 1: we'll do jump right into ask a Guy and then

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Speaker 1: So we'll start right here because he's closest to us.

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Speaker 1: We have Brooks like um, married to Julianne Huff who

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Speaker 1: we love here. And you are a former and NHL

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Speaker 1: have Bradeski. Hey, guys, his voice will be hard for

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Speaker 1: and you are our single spokesman today. I know you're

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Speaker 1: But it's really cool because we have so many people,

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Speaker 1: But I think it's just I think as a society

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00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 1: we've become poor at communication, and we've we've we've kind

425
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: of hide behind our phones and we have, you know,

426
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: kind of abundance of choices with with dating apps, um

427
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 1: and things like that, and I think as a result,

428
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 1: we just kind of become more self absorbed. Unfortunately, it

429
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: is true though, you may you bring up a good point,

430
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 1: because I have ghosted a lot of people, like from

431
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 1: dating apps and stuff where it's like we were talking

432
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: consistently and then all of a sudden I was just

433
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: kind of like, that's not really ghosting. I don't think

434
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 1: it's ghosting, and been out with them. I've done that too.

435
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, I think it's like guys

436
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 1: get this, Like there is this expectation of like a

437
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 1: guy shouldn't ghost, but like we do it too, Like

438
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: I've done it where it's like I said, it's pretty

439
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 1: equal both men and women. I think it's just how

440
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 1: we that's just what people do now. But unfortunately, as

441
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 1: I've gotten older, it's like I know how it feels,

442
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: and I know that it would be a tough conversation

443
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 1: to be like, hey, I'm just not thinking we're on

444
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 1: the same page. Obviously that's sometimes harder for us to

445
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: do rather than just like not answering. But it's weird

446
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 1: because like, as I've gotten older, I think, Okay, how

447
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 1: does this How am I making this other person feel?

448
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: Like if I wouldn't it just be so much nicer

449
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,160
Speaker 1: for someone to say, hey, you're great, but I don't

450
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: think you're for me. And it has nothing to do

451
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: like there's nothing you did wrong. It just is what

452
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: it is. People can take bad news if it's honest.

453
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 1: People can't. You can have received what you deem to

454
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: be bad news as long as it's honest and straightforward.

455
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: Your face. It hurts more when it's a lie or

456
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: like a ghosting or something like that. But if it's

457
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: they'll get over it in the day. They'll be on

458
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: their phones, they'll be swiping right or do It's also

459
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: there's so many options out there, Like people get bored

460
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 1: really easily now, where years ago would be tough to

461
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 1: find a date or so, you can find a date

462
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: on your phone if you want to totally. You know,

463
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,800
Speaker 1: by noon two you have a date lined up in

464
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: eight minutes. If you want to, I can do it.

465
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: Question the guy who you took back, like, what was

466
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 1: the extent of that relationship when he ghosted? So um,

467
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 1: we've gone out two times and then he just disappeared.

468
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: And I am on the other side of it where

469
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 1: if I don't see something, if I'm dating something, I

470
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: don't see it go anywhere. I'm very vocal and I

471
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: always i'm straight up because I hate the reverse. So um,

472
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: I kind of wrote him off, like I kind of

473
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 1: like just deleted his notes page on my phone and

474
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 1: was like thank you. Next wait wait wait, wait wait

475
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: wait wait, really I keep what have you heard of

476
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 1: that one? I missed it him? I keep notes pages

477
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: on every guy that I date, I not know, creepy,

478
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: So like when you're oh my god, oh god, if

479
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 1: nobody should knowed like a burn. But can you imagine

480
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 1: like before you go on a date, like guy, she

481
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 1: takes notes? I really okay, I need to be on it.

482
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: What's my opener come Christmas? And you're like, what do

483
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 1: I get this guy that I'm dating for Christmas? And oh,

484
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: let me pull up my notes page she mentioned on

485
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 1: our first date. By the way, that's what my nineties

486
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:18,160
Speaker 1: seven year old grandmother does to remember who called her

487
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: Tanya Like, No, you have to stop that. Can you

488
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: imagine if you, okay, if you went to a movie theater, okay,

489
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: and you're watching a movie and the lead character was

490
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: like like looking for a boyfriend and after every date

491
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: they like saw her logging in information. No, you have

492
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: to stop that, like a sports coach like, yeah, you

493
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 1: see something notes on this player a little short I

494
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 1: want to remember, like they're a little short. They have

495
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 1: a sister that looks at Florida And no, god, she

496
00:26:55,480 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: literally I deleted his note pay So that's like the

497
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:07,400
Speaker 1: that's like the ultimate, like with you Steff right going

498
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 1: onto my life a little Antanya, you are not Ariana

499
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,440
Speaker 1: grand She has a lot going on and she still

500
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: manages just to find time to hang out. Like you

501
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 1: don't need to write these psycho nose can you do?

502
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: It's like you're jailing about other like, look, somebody needs

503
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: to be talking talking right when you took when you

504
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: took him back later when you you said you like

505
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 1: responded or did you end up going out with him again? Okay? Yeah?

506
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 1: So can you reach it? Okay? So he reached back

507
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: out and he basically in the text kind of apologized

508
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:47,600
Speaker 1: and said like who did Like I sorry lost all

509
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: my number No, I still had the numbers safe, but um,

510
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 1: he basically kind of explained like that, like, um, he

511
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 1: did a lot of growing and he had the chance

512
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: to redeem himself and spell for it sounds good. Oh yeah,

513
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:09,400
Speaker 1: I thought it was thing. I thought, if I don't

514
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: go out with him, I'll always be thinking what if

515
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: I had? And if I do and it's bad, then

516
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: I know, And if it's it's fine, then you know

517
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: what I mean. And you also checked your notes and

518
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,919
Speaker 1: you realize that the first date was like super cute

519
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: and his sister really nice. I'd like to meet her,

520
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: so let's go out seems solid open to church video.

521
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: I would love a go pro behind my eyes just

522
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: so I could like really get someone's like body language.

523
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: It's interesting too because like I'll have like friends and

524
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: like the whole dating app thing too. It's just like

525
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: I think sometimes we forget that again with with dating

526
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: or going out there, especially when you're just dating right, Um,

527
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 1: you forget that you have no idea really what's going

528
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: on their lives? You know, like did they get on

529
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: a dating app because they just got out of relationship

530
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: or in they're just like kind of aggressively forcing it

531
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: to get back out there and then they realize they're

532
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: just not ready so they ghost or or things like that.

533
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: So I think those variables that play too. I actually

534
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: saw this documentary recently and it was about boredom and

535
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: how the brain literally prefers pain to boredom um, which

536
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: is really fascinating. Um. There is a study this guy

537
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: that they basically electric shot the side. Nothing too dangerous,

538
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: but certainly painful, and they're like, would you ever do again?

539
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: He's like no. They put him in a room with

540
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: no phone, nothing, no TV, no stimulation except the button,

541
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: and it took him less than two minutes to press

542
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: it again because he simply was just bored and the

543
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: brain thrives stimulation. And so sometimes with dating, I think

544
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: we get bored, we'll reach out again. It's like you know,

545
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I like sometimes we just have to remember

546
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: that too, you know, And so do you have to

547
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: tell you guys? Though, I really highly recommend keeping notes

548
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: because on one Valentine's Day, I made and I Love

549
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: You basket and it was all the things that he

550
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: said he'd loved from the beginning of when we date,

551
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: and he was like, how did you even It was

552
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: like the soup that he liked. It was like from

553
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 1: some random sup he has a caned soup that he

554
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 1: loved from his like soup on Valentine's Day, just like

555
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: put on some cute underwear and like give it up.

556
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: I meant a lot to him to have this I

557
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: Love You basket, and he was like totally blown away

558
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 1: that I remembered all these little things. But I get

559
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: after you're like a few days don't where you're like

560
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: almost in a relationship you start that, but like after

561
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: date one, you never know one could lead to the

562
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 1: rest of your life. But also sometimes that stuff just

563
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: like stays in your head, right, especially thing like I know,

564
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 1: when I'm on a flight with Gary, like all bring

565
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: I bring like a secret reserve of like things I

566
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: know he likes, so that when we're halfway through the

567
00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: flight and I can see that he's kind like want

568
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: Like yesterday, I handed him a little you know, mass chocolate,

569
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: that yummy chocolate in the pretty paper I handed him

570
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: like I could tell, and I just like brought out

571
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: like a dark chocolate mass chocolate bar and he was

572
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: so excited. But like those are also like you can

573
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: just like file away in your brain, right, like yeah,

574
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 1: well clearly I have. I have no notes on it

575
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: at all. They're all just in my head. I just

576
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: want to know after like I feel like it's download.

577
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: But if you right, like cold on, I have to

578
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: go the bathroom, you know, and literally she's just like

579
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna forget this. Don't you change? Don't you think though,

580
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 1: if you just relied on like your own like self

581
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: and you're like your desire to be with the person,

582
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: that you would still come up with something just as lovely.

583
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 1: On Valentine's Day, No, because I was so pissed and

584
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: I went out with this guy and I couldn't remember

585
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: where he was from. I was like, I can't remembers

586
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: on this notes page. Mark's got a new places THEE too,

587
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: and it was so casual, so I I deleted his

588
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: note page was on Saturday. I deleted his note. He

589
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: was probably what he stored that in his brain. Yeah,

590
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: Like guys U al right next Moe from Kaylee Anne.

591
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 1: If a guy is interested, should we wait for them

592
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: to pursue us or should we make the first move

593
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: and find out? Well, this is an age old question,

594
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: but we still never have like a solid answer, you

595
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: know it always it goes back and forth. We we

596
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: go back and forth a lot about this. So Tanya

597
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: goes back and forth about this a lot because I

598
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: get so many She asks me so many times if

599
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: she should text the guy, if she should write this thing,

600
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: if she should like wait or why hasn't he I'm like,

601
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: just text him, Like like you're a modern woman, and

602
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: yet you're like sscribing to rules that a don't exist,

603
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: but like existed like the eighteen hundreds. It's like, are

604
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: you going to show them your wrist at dinner? It's

605
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 1: like what is going on? Like, if you want something,

606
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: just go after it and then you know, people sit

607
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 1: around and wait for other people to make the first move,

608
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: and it's just like just send the text. If I

609
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: had waited, I would still be single. Like I like,

610
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: I like seize the moment, Like I was like, this

611
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: is it. This is like the time in the place,

612
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: Like I don't know if this is going to be anything,

613
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: but for right now, like this is what I'm gonna

614
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. I'm gonna turn it all on, like

615
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: and I did. I Like, you know, I turned on

616
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: my twenty three year old Canadian charms and they're still working.

617
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: And actually I was dressed horrible. Yeah, yeah, but no,

618
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 1: just like make the first move. Like there's more. There's

619
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: the script that we can write in our head of

620
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: how a situation can pan out is worse than actually

621
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: taking the action of just being like, hey, I was

622
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: wondering if you want to go out sometime. I would

623
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,800
Speaker 1: like to take notes on you. You look like a

624
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 1: fun person to take notes on. Can I This is

625
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: maybe an unpopular thought, but I truly think that they're

626
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 1: the reason why this is like a people go back

627
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: and forth about it is I think girls are like

628
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 1: it's innate to be wanting to be pursued and desired

629
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: and like sought after. And I think there's something in

630
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: in guys where it's like I want to I want

631
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: to get what I want, like I want what I

632
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: want and I want to creditor hunter. Sorry, do you

633
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: guys think that? I don't know if that exists. There's

634
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: something about I like to be desired to. I think

635
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: there's a little bit of both. I mean, I agree,

636
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: and I also agree with you that I you know,

637
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: when I if I'm interested, I will go for it. Also,

638
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,439
Speaker 1: I generally subscribe to the belief that if that person

639
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 1: is into you, they're going to be into you, and

640
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: very little will change that early on. So if if

641
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: a guy's into a girl, maybe he's too nervous, didn't

642
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: realize that her reaching out, it's not gonna be like

643
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: I was, like, I wasn't interested, but now I'm not, right, Um.

644
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: I think it also depends on the personality, you know,

645
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: telling you have a big personality and a big presence

646
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 1: and a lot of expectations, which are great. I think you,

647
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: I mean guessing you would want to be with a

648
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: guy who wouldn't be intimidated by something so trivial as

649
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:28,839
Speaker 1: you taking the initiative. I think maybe other women might

650
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: be different where they might be willing to kind of

651
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: be more reserved, right, So I think that depends, but

652
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: I think there's some degree in terms of guys do

653
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: like to pursue a little bit um and girls maybe

654
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 1: do like to be pursued, but not within the context

655
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: of simply just letting someone know. It's like, hey, let's

656
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 1: grab a cup of coffee. I also think in today's

657
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: age that you know, again back with communication, I think

658
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 1: kind of men have become a little kind of soft

659
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: and lazy. I think dating in general, people have gotten

660
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 1: lazy for sure, and everyone's just afraid to make them

661
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: first move. You know. I always have friends and dating

662
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: apps complaining it's just like I'll like texa guy for

663
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: like three weeks, but he never like asked if I

664
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 1: want to get together. It's like there's a lot of that,

665
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: and I don't know if it's because guys are just

666
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: afraid or whatever, but it's unfortunately, it's the reality. So

667
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: someone's going to make the first move or we're just

668
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: gonna die as a society. And well, I also think

669
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 1: there's something with like, you know, this movement of like

670
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: the me Too movement where guys are probably a little

671
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 1: more standoffish of being like, if I'm doing something, is

672
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 1: it going to be taken a certain way? Or you know,

673
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: like when it comes like complimenting or doing anything. I

674
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 1: feel like there's some reservation there. But I also think

675
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: in the sense of being traditional and thinking like I

676
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 1: want to be pursued. It's not like you have to

677
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: pick up the phone and call to show that you're interested. Now, Like,

678
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: it's not like a girl has to pick up a

679
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: phone and call. It can just be did you make

680
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 1: the first move on your wife? Uh? We were set

681
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: up by a mutual friends were we both said no,

682
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: Like he was trying to well yeah, and I said no,

683
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, but he was trying to set us up.

684
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: She's like he was doing this movie with her. He's like,

685
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: I got a girl for you. I'm like, bro, your

686
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: three thousand miles across country and playing hockey is good.

687
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: Thanks um. And then she was like, yeah, he's cute.

688
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. She was looking for like an outdoorsy

689
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: type guy, and so she kept being like and then

690
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: he persists, He's like, you guys gotta meet. So he

691
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 1: just put us on a text group. He's like, I'm

692
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: sick of this. You guys got to meet Julianne. Meet Brooks.

693
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,800
Speaker 1: Brooks meet Julianne. And then the next day I just

694
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 1: I was driving in my car and I just I

695
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: just called her. I think guys should call personally. Personally.

696
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: I liked, I prefer just me, just my opinion. I

697
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: preferred pursuing Like my wife, I I pursue her. Prefer

698
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: that way. Um, I believe she liked that too, not

699
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: to say she wouldn't go and ask somebody. She's a

700
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: very strong, confident woman either as fine, I think, do

701
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: what you have. My advice to the lady that asked

702
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: to do what you want, do whatever feels good. But

703
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 1: guys pick up the phone and call like just And

704
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: I did it. I did it with no I was

705
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: driving home from practice. She crossed my mind and like

706
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: calling Jewels right now. And I picked up the phone.

707
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: I called and I was just like hey, what's up?

708
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: And she's like hey, And I was like, what are

709
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 1: you doing? I had nothing to say. I didn't know

710
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. Natural if I sat and

711
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 1: wrote like notes or some script, some sort of script.

712
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: So I heard you're Libra, I would have flubbed it,

713
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,320
Speaker 1: but I just I had no game plan, nothing. I

714
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 1: just called and then we had We had a great conversation,

715
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: very organic. We started talking more and more. We talked

716
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: every day for the next two months, and then she

717
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 1: eventually flew out to d C to meet me. So

718
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 1: I don't think that I say, go for it if

719
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: you if you want to call a guy, I call

720
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: a guy to FaceTime a guy, like I FaceTime people

721
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: all the time. So U thank you. Brooks is like,

722
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: you're my what's the word I would say, salt mate?

723
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 1: Is it salt mate? Soul mate? What's a salt mate?

724
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 1: I can't commercial? What do you mean to salt mate?

725
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: Is like someone who um like it's kind of like

726
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,920
Speaker 1: a soul mate, but like not soul mate. What are we?

727
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,320
Speaker 1: We're like related, like we basically came out of the

728
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 1: wound together. We're like twins. Okay, you're like my pepper made.

729
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: I do have a question for the women, and kind

730
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: of related to this question, how do women feel or

731
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: how do you women feel about persistence. I've I've had

732
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 1: like mixed reviews when when I hear from it's like

733
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: again speaking to like this day and age, just like

734
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes people are lazy, they forget to respond,

735
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: or they're kind of wishy washy, or sometimes I hear

736
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: from my women friends it's just like, well, you know,

737
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what he wants or what his intentions are.

738
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: And then guys are I think, kind of get intimidated

739
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: by like following up because like, well, I don't want

740
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: her to think I'm weird or too aggressive. You know,

741
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 1: It's funny like back in the day you always heard

742
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,359
Speaker 1: stories like old time movies, like you know, he asked

743
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: me twenty times and finally I said yes. And today,

744
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: you know, it's not like like the guy texts me

745
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: twice and respond He's like a psycho. And so it's

746
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 1: kind of like this balance of like, well do I

747
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: really pursue her? Is she playing hard to get I

748
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: think guys get confused because they don't want to be

749
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: considered like weird or too aggressive, or because you know,

750
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,080
Speaker 1: at the same time, I've had women tell me so

751
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: it's like I really appreciated you, like asking me a

752
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: few times. It seems like you really wanted to get

753
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: together because I wasn't sure, you know, you know, I

754
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,279
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of guys just kind of want

755
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 1: one thing, and you showed me that you were really interested.

756
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 1: So it's what do you women feel about like persistence

757
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 1: and a guy, you know, pursuing you, especially if you

758
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 1: don't respond right away or maybe you forget to reply

759
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: and things like that. Yeah, I mean for being personally,

760
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 1: I think that they I believe in that the phrase

761
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: of like the person that you're meant to be with,

762
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: you can't do anything wrong. So I always whatever feels

763
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 1: natural to you, whatever you want to do. Like I

764
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: always say, just do that because for the right person,

765
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be weird. Because I think, like a

766
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: lot of times I'm like, am I too? Like I

767
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: have a really I do have a big personality, and

768
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, should I rein it back a little bit?

769
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: Do I not need to send like a really lengthy text?

770
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: But I'm like, the guy that I'm meant to be

771
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: with is is that's going to be good for him?

772
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: So like to me, I always think my advice to

773
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: you as a guy would be just do it feels

774
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: natural to you what you want because the person that's

775
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: right for you, it'll be right, and the person that's

776
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 1: not right I mean, I definitely that. But do you

777
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: do you think your friends agree with you or do

778
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: you think that like that? What's the general thought on

779
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,479
Speaker 1: I uh, what I've I used to be the type

780
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 1: that like I would go back, like I'd play games

781
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: where it was like I'm gonna even if I'm a

782
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 1: little bit interested, I'm gonna make him like work for it.

783
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:24,479
Speaker 1: And and now games work though the games heard games

784
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,399
Speaker 1: games have not failed me. But but now I'm kind

785
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 1: of like at that point where it's like if I

786
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: am into someone in there into me and there's this

787
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: natural chemistry, like there's no games needed. Like if if

788
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: I want him to text me or and I want

789
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: to text back, then I'm gonna do that. Like it

790
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be this thing where I'm like, all right,

791
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: he texted me twice, so now I wait thirty minutes

792
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna respond. It's like if someone's interested,

793
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: like they're gonna I think they're gonna respond, because if

794
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: if you want someone and you want to hang out

795
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,959
Speaker 1: with them, you're not gonna let their text or phone

796
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 1: call just sit. There too many too many options out

797
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: there to someone that you like get away. Also, like

798
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: if you do it with, you know, kind of not

799
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 1: low expectations. But just because you go out with somebody

800
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 1: or you're texting with somebody doesn't mean you're getting married.

801
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: Like it could mean that you guys spend six months

802
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: together that are really fun. It could be two years,

803
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: it could you know. I had no idea what was

804
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: going to happen, Like zero idea. I moved from I

805
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: was living in Canada at the time when I met

806
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:36,439
Speaker 1: Gary and I came to l A. And we still

807
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: joke about the phone call to my mom because I

808
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: was like, hey, Mom, I'm in l A. And She's like,

809
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: what are you doing in l A? And I'm like, well,

810
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 1: I've met someone, And like I put my mom through

811
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff, and that was like one of

812
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:48,880
Speaker 1: the ones where the phone basically like she was like

813
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Like where are you? Who is

814
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,800
Speaker 1: this person? How did you end up in l A?

815
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: And Gary got on the phone and talked to her

816
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 1: and it was like cool. But like if I had

817
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: put all of these like oh my god, it's going

818
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 1: to be this and and we're gonna end up getting

819
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 1: married and we're going to live together, it would have

820
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: been like a disaster. The way that I live my

821
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 1: life and my dating life especially is open to the possibility,

822
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: not attached to the outcome. Yes, super single one over here.

823
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 1: You know what we want need to talk about? What

824
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 1: legacy we need to talk about? Yeah, get in there girl.

825
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: Um okay, so uh, this year we decided to do

826
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: secrets and with my family, the rad fam um, and

827
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,680
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828
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829
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,759
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830
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831
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832
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833
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840
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841
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842
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843
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844
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845
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846
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847
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Speaker 1: we Uh. I partnered with a gentleman named Matt Hewitt.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of nurses, there's truck drivers that pull

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Speaker 1: some of the impacts it's making. It's still in its infancy,

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Speaker 1: no equipment necessary. We lay it out for you, and

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Speaker 1: But what does body weight only meet? It means no equipment,

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Speaker 1: You don't need a bench, you don't need a chair,

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Speaker 1: don't All you need literally is five ft of space.

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Speaker 1: So think of in a hotel room. So somebody that travels,

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Speaker 1: we have a lot of people that go to conventions

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Speaker 1: A friend of mine did it in the airport the

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Speaker 1: other day. I mean, if you have a lot of

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Speaker 1: I like how you also said to like I was

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Speaker 1: We worked out from seven thirty till about ten fifteen

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Speaker 1: come over this afternoon. Yeah. We just yeah, we get

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Speaker 1: after the house. I love it. Wow, so long, so

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Speaker 1: long time. A three hour and fifteen minute workout. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we just bounced back and forth all day. Brad, you

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Speaker 1: work out all the time. Your photo the other day.

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Speaker 1: I might have yoga after this shirtless photo showing off

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Speaker 1: that bot, Like we know you work out. I get

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Speaker 1: those likes. The ladies like it, they do, the ladies

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Speaker 1: love it. Why not? Why not? Where are you working on,

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Speaker 1: Tanya Brod we're talking about you. We talked about ourselves

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Speaker 1: all the time. Well, I'm just trying to come up

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Speaker 1: with our next dance video. Very important. Yeah, we have

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Speaker 1: Vallas did reach out and he was like, I'd love

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Speaker 1: he would lose its authenticity. Yeah. If we come out

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Speaker 1: You're getting up. That's what we're working on. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: house has turned into our studio. Yeah, it's really good.

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Speaker 1: It's really funny because like, um, we're very like extroverted,

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Speaker 1: Like we'll just sit there and like and then someone's like,

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Speaker 1: so it's literally just us sitting. Um. Gary said maybe

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Speaker 1: the way to get down to business, Like, how are

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00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 1: people going to know? I just like how I'll always

1059
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 1: incorporate some one of y'all like falling into the other.

1060
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:49,240
Speaker 1: That's like, that's like literally like we test our friendship.

1061
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: How good the trust fall is? Right? Did you guys

1062
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: used to do that in like drama class or anything?

1063
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 1: Trust everyone? I certainly have done it at some point,

1064
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:03,560
Speaker 1: yeah chucking. It's like, all right, let's do that first

1065
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:13,439
Speaker 1: date politics. Tell us what's going on with you? Um? Cool? Yeah.

1066
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 1: I recently actually launched an essential oil line UM with

1067
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 1: some partners really excited about it UM called Natural habits. Um. Yeah,

1068
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: it's like something I've been working on for about a

1069
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:26,240
Speaker 1: year and a half with my partners. I've I personally

1070
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 1: used essential oils for like five years. My sister is

1071
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 1: a holistic nutrition as she turned me onto them, and

1072
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: for me it got kind of got started because as

1073
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: a as a user, it was surprisingly hard to kind

1074
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 1: of find out where these oils came from to verify

1075
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: the kind of their authenticity. A lot of essential is

1076
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 1: either directly put on your skin or put like a diffuser. Um,

1077
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 1: I don't if you guys know this. Your your skin

1078
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: is actually your largest organ on your body, and so

1079
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 1: when you're absorbing that. It was almost kind of surprising

1080
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 1: the lack of kind of information out there about the oil.

1081
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 1: So that's kind of how natural habits started. Um So

1082
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: we are USDA or getting certified. We saw from eight

1083
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:04,360
Speaker 1: different um eight different farms across the world from Israel

1084
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Speaker 1: to Brazil to Bulgaria to France, to Australia to India, China.

1085
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 1: I think I mentioned them all. Um So, yeah, we're

1086
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,680
Speaker 1: GCMs tested. Um so are kind of quality of oils

1087
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Speaker 1: is very important to us. We put a lot of

1088
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Speaker 1: research into it, and I said it's thinking about a

1089
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: year to kind of cultivate those those farms and select them.

1090
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: And UM, pretty excited. So we have four oil blends

1091
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 1: right roll lines. It's kind of an intern Dentrey product

1092
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: working on some more so it's a you know, the

1093
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: idea that there should be habit forming. So one's kind

1094
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: of for mental clarity called rise when you wake up.

1095
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:37,360
Speaker 1: Ones um for your immunity, UM like immunity boost called protect.

1096
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 1: I started using CenTra oils from my anxiety and going

1097
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 1: to sleep. I actually use use one for sleep. Yeah,

1098
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: so our releases more for for that when you unwind. Um.

1099
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: And so there's a various blends of all different types

1100
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Speaker 1: of oils. I'll i'll spread the details of all the

1101
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: different oils that go into them. But they're very beneficial. Um,

1102
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 1: I love them. I've been using them for a long time.

1103
00:57:58,120 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm very excited about it. So n H Oils Dot

1104
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 1: Calm you can get our bundle or four oil blends

1105
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: and more to come as we you know, develop our

1106
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: additional lines. So pretty excited about this. Is awesome. Yeah,

1107
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:13,080
Speaker 1: they smell amazing and we also um tossed over to

1108
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: they make a great stocking stuff. I was gonna say, well,

1109
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 1: we have a lot of people on our Facebook group

1110
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: of our listeners who um, I just recently saw and

1111
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: they're like, I really want to start using essential oils,

1112
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: Like what do you recommend? So it's cool to that

1113
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: was kind of our idea as a user, like when

1114
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: I started, you know, with essential oils. It's kind of

1115
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: like the idea. It's become more mainstream, but it almost

1116
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: seems like, you know, it's like a hippie thing or

1117
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: you have to be into like a Roman therapy to

1118
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 1: really understand it. With the various blends. And again, there's

1119
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: so many medicinal benefits with essential oils that you can

1120
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: and there various blends that have benefits. So we design

1121
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 1: these blends over the course of your test them out

1122
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 1: to kind of have you know, maximum impact, and we

1123
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: want to make it kind of more mainstream, easier for

1124
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 1: the average person who you know, hasn't like doesn't know

1125
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 1: a lot about essential oils, so we blend them together

1126
00:58:57,600 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: to have a maximum benefit. The roll ons are easy

1127
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: to take with you. You can carry him anywhere, like

1128
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: on the plane with the protect or anxiety with release

1129
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: when I was flying yesterday and before the flight took off,

1130
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 1: just rub them all over my body. So, uh, you know,

1131
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: diffuses are nice and where you will be coming out

1132
00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: with the diffuser line soon. Um, but obviously you can't

1133
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: you can't take those with you anywhere. So we want

1134
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: to make it easier for the average user who doesn't

1135
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: know a ton about a Roman therapy or who doesn't

1136
00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: know what you know, what blends our best. So that's

1137
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: kind of our kind of our goal and our mission

1138
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: and um, we're excited about it. So cool. I like

1139
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: about all of you guys. You're passionate about what you're

1140
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 1: working on and that's important. Yeah, and you have fun

1141
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,320
Speaker 1: with it, like it matters to you, like do you

1142
00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like it really is coming from

1143
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: your heart. The choreography, the choreography, like you know, comes

1144
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 1: in like fifteen or twenty minutes, you know. But the friendship,

1145
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: the friendship is UM. So we'll put all the details

1146
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: on the information you know, for you guys and what

1147
00:59:58,320 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 1: you're working on. We'll put that up on our in

1148
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 1: our UM Facebook group. Yeah wait, how do wait? Can

1149
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: we like, um, can we get in on the Facebook chat? Oh? Yeah,

1150
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: you talk about it all the time. It is it great?

1151
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 1: Will you lose yourself in it like a Reddit page. Yes,

1152
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: but it's like like it's like the most positive positive

1153
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 1: Facebook group like I think in America, like really like

1154
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 1: you And they won the People's Choice Awards, Like yeah

1155
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: they will, Tanya and the Facebook group on the People's

1156
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: Really campaign, But like they're really they're really like happy, positive, encouraging.

1157
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: They come in there and they're like ask each other

1158
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: questions and they help each other out and yeah, but

1159
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 1: they're like they really like they who do we have?

1160
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 1: Last week um Christ and Dalton she wrote a book

1161
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,439
Speaker 1: and they all were like so moved by the book

1162
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: and responding about you know what the book did to

1163
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: them and like they're just really yeah, it's a really

1164
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: great space of people. If you want to feel good,

1165
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 1: it's of course you want to be a part of

1166
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:00,919
Speaker 1: the Facebook. Yeah, that's awesome because you know how many

1167
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: people in their lives currently don't have a positivity community

1168
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: around them, and we're trying to do the same thing

1169
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: with open Gym. Is that maybe a stay at home

1170
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 1: mom or a dad who's a stay at home dad

1171
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 1: are really busier, they still want the their community of fitness,

1172
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 1: but they don't have it. So maybe they go digitally

1173
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 1: to get that. So there's people that are probably on

1174
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 1: that that maybe wherever they live, they don't have positive

1175
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: vaple around them, and so they go to digital, they

1176
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: go to the Facebook group, and now they have their

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Speaker 1: community of people that empower and inspire them. So that's awesome, ladies,

1178
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: that's great. It's yeah, it's a powerful thing. Maybe you

1179
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Speaker 1: can actually teach me how to skate in men's hockey skates.

1180
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: Do you know? Do you not to wear women's figure

1181
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 1: skates on skate day? So it might be nice that,

1182
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 1: like forty one to learn how to stand up on

1183
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Speaker 1: the ice and actual men's skates. We'll get to some

1184
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: full gears next, videos on the ice, choreography on the

1185
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Speaker 1: trust on the ice. Really, Oh yeah, you got skates

1186
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 1: on the moonwalks? What if you have Bambi legs. I've

1187
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,160
Speaker 1: always wanted to. I can, I can. I just get

1188
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 1: a little bit of a bucket list is to hockey stop,

1189
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 1: which I've never If you need tricks on roller skating,

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Speaker 1: I got you. I can do that, but I can't

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Speaker 1: hockey stop. Is that? When? Is that? When? Is that

1192
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:24,280
Speaker 1: when the stuff that like you're just kind of stopping

1193
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 1: a dime. It's the if you do too many hockey stops,

1194
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 1: then the zamboni comes out. Isn't that what it's called? Yeah,

1195
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: if you get too much snow on the ice, Yeah,

1196
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 1: Brad dropping hockey knowledge because it's because he's Canadian. That's

1197
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Speaker 1: the thing that like cleans the ice. That's the greatest hockey.

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Speaker 1: He's like, don't ask me more questions. Don't ask me

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Speaker 1: more questions. The ice tractor that the ice too. If

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Speaker 1: you if you don't know how to stop nick, the

1201
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 1: best part is you just run into somebody human blockade

1202
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 1: before you. Guys go, can we do how many more tomorrow? Quick?

1203
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: Maybe just throw out your yeah tyranny and know what's

1204
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:07,480
Speaker 1: the worst thing a girl can do on a date?

1205
01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 1: Take notes next? Sorry, I don't know that's that's up there.

1206
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 1: You didn't even know it was up there until today.

1207
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 1: The thing the worst thing a girl can do, I

1208
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: don't know. Just be I don't just I mean, I

1209
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: don't know, Just be present when I have a conversation.

1210
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Speaker 1: I don't know. No, no, I'm saying like I don't,

1211
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know the worst thing is

1212
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: but like when the first day just kind of you know,

1213
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: try for me about the first day and the person

1214
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 1: is rude to like the waiter or something, I'm like

1215
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:57,040
Speaker 1: immediately off, Like it's off for me. I will say,

1216
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: you know, we're talking I was talking this with like

1217
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 1: Jen the roles and things like that. You know, does

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01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 1: a guy ask a girl and things like you know,

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01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 1: paying and you know I will say, like I'm still

1220
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 1: a traditional guy. Um, I definitely appreciate who girl who's

1221
01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: who's eventually may be willing to like chip in from

1222
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 1: time and time, but I always expect to pay on

1223
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:20,840
Speaker 1: the first date. But there's probably nothing more of a

1224
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: bigger turn off than like the thank you for dinner

1225
01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: before the check arrives, the assumption that I'm gonna pay,

1226
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: Like I just want I want the insincere check grab

1227
01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 1: like to give me the opportunity like no, no, no,

1228
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 1: I got this right, Like I definitely always I always

1229
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Speaker 1: want to pay. I don't even care if the date

1230
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,480
Speaker 1: goes bad, right, But you know that, like some girls

1231
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 1: are just like thank you, and I'm like, I guess

1232
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm paying. You're like all right, you know, so I

1233
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: think that's bit of a turn off. So just just

1234
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 1: pretend that you want to pay for it. Always pretend

1235
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: I got it. I didn't know what it was, but

1236
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I agree with you, Nick, But

1237
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:57,480
Speaker 1: I was thinking on it was like I don't know

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01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: what I would say with that, but do not talk

1239
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 1: to me about ex boyfriends? And also like yeah, like

1240
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 1: don't bring that up. And just like because I you

1241
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 1: see so many people their first date they're talking about

1242
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 1: how many exs are, how this relationship? Like are you

1243
01:05:13,120 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 1: here to talk about them? Are you here to meet me?

1244
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: You know, like, are we here to start a future?

1245
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:21,440
Speaker 1: We here to like rehab? That's just like I'm probably

1246
01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 1: just getting up from the tip. Might it might be

1247
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: just be an l L A thing, but name dropping,

1248
01:05:26,280 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's the worst party with And I just like, yeah,

1249
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: the virgin thing. Everyone wants to know about the virgin

1250
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 1: thing me And she says, there's the virgin thing. How

1251
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 1: do guys feel about that? And when is the right

1252
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: time to bring it up if a girl is a virgin?

1253
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: You know, I was thinking, when you go on a

1254
01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:56,000
Speaker 1: national dating TV show is like the perfect time to

1255
01:05:56,080 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 1: really bring it up? People ask this all this time.

1256
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 1: I don't have the guy answer. Obviously, I don't know

1257
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:06,600
Speaker 1: it all to so many variables. I mean I got

1258
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 1: the right right answers. What ifever is comfortable for you?

1259
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: I mean listen that the guys are gonna have probably

1260
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 1: a variety of different opinions. I mean, in two thousand

1261
01:06:13,920 --> 01:06:16,960
Speaker 1: and eighteen, being a virgin later in life is the exception,

1262
01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: not the norm, but doesn't make it wrong. Um, whatever

1263
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: is comfortable for you, just be a good don't make

1264
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:25,160
Speaker 1: it weird, I think would be my advice. Right Like,

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Speaker 1: if you do it, just own this is why. I

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01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: you know, like, don't ask are you okay with that?

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01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: Right away? Just know that you're okay with it and

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01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 1: that doesn't really matter what they think would be my advice.

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01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:36,840
Speaker 1: And I think just confidence in your decisions I think

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01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:39,439
Speaker 1: is attractive to anyone. So if I met a woman

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Speaker 1: who explain why she was and was very confident decision

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Speaker 1: but not like defensive about it, I'd find that very attractive.

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01:06:46,800 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 1: Yeah he nailed it. Yeah, I know. I know two people,

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01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: um that were virgins until they got married and they

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01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 1: dated for like two years before they got married and stuff.

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01:06:55,600 --> 01:07:01,920
Speaker 1: So um, lots of other stuff to do if you know,

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01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 1: like go online if you don't know. Lots of other

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01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: stuff to do. Nikia wants to know. Do guys even

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01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: read bios on dating apps? It was it just a

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01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 1: picture that's all that matters? Yeah, what bio? Come on?

1281
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: I love to travel and a guy who makes me laugh?

1282
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 1: Come on? Yeah, I mean dating apps for I would

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01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 1: say for me, yes, certainly the pictures matter. Also advice

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01:07:26,280 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: on dating apps. If I don't know what you look

1285
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:33,959
Speaker 1: like by picture too, you know, it's just like, okay,

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01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 1: well the first picture is a girl and her friend.

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01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 1: The second picture is like this, like her looking away

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01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: in the distance. It's like next, I mean, I can't like,

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01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 1: I don't are you like? Is it why you're trying

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01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 1: to be like you're already playing hard to get? I

1291
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,840
Speaker 1: don't even know who you are. Um, But yes, I

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01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 1: think initially when it comes to dating apps, the physical

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01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 1: attraction is like that's you know, I mean, that's certainly

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01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 1: there's a lot more to it, right, Um, you match

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01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 1: with someone and like you, then you take go look

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01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:02,320
Speaker 1: a deeper look and you'd try to have a conversation

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01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 1: and see if that's easy. But I think initially, yeah,

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01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't put too much time into your

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01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: the bios I have seen, it's just like you immediately

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01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 1: get defensive, just like I like this, I like that.

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01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:14,800
Speaker 1: If you like this, don't reach out but looks just like,

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01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't like there's there's a lot

1303
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:20,120
Speaker 1: of that. So I think just simple as say, when

1304
01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:21,680
Speaker 1: it comes to dating apps, you know and take it,

1305
01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,200
Speaker 1: take it slow. Don't turn people off before they get

1306
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:28,439
Speaker 1: a chance to get to know you. Yeah, I have.

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01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:30,840
Speaker 1: I've never been on a data I don't know, I

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01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 1: experienced it. I never had any social media until I

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01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 1: met my wife. So she was she was like, can

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01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:39,840
Speaker 1: you get an Instagram page? Because I was deliberately not

1311
01:08:40,040 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 1: on social media because it gives hundreds of thousands of

1312
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 1: fans just like a chance to be rate you. You

1313
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: suck tonight, you should be traded or cut Like I

1314
01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 1: was just like, I don't want that. So I never

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01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:52,760
Speaker 1: had social media. And my wife was tagging me in

1316
01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:54,240
Speaker 1: photos and it would go to a dead link, and

1317
01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:56,720
Speaker 1: she was just getting bombarded with messages like hey, can

1318
01:08:56,760 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 1: you just and people who tell me that's a dead link.

1319
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:00,720
Speaker 1: I want to follow this, and so she's like, can

1320
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 1: you get a social media account? So that's how I

1321
01:09:03,280 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: got I've never been on a dating app, so I

1322
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:09,080
Speaker 1: have no Well, actually, this is an interesting question for you, um,

1323
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: because you obviously dated people before your wife. What was

1324
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 1: it about her that was different for you? That was like,

1325
01:09:15,680 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 1: she's not I don't want her just to be my girlfriend.

1326
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 1: I wanted to be my wife. Ah wow, great question.

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01:09:19,880 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 1: Best friend. I mean, just somebody you can It's hard,

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01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:25,880
Speaker 1: like actually, it's hard to go on a date with

1329
01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: somebody and just absolutely be enamored by them, Like it's

1330
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 1: hard to do that maybe the first or second, but

1331
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:34,600
Speaker 1: it's like continually, it's tough to find that person. And

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01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 1: one of the big things about my wife when we

1333
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: first started talking, um the first actually like night that

1334
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 1: we really had a really long conversation, she told me

1335
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: that she was a she was a lake girl, that

1336
01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 1: she went to this lake up in northern Idaho, and

1337
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:50,719
Speaker 1: she I was like really because I I just looked

1338
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: at her, like she lives in l A. She's an actress.

1339
01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 1: She might be a city quote unquote city girl. And

1340
01:09:55,000 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 1: I'm my hometown and from the prairies in Canada. My

1341
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 1: hometown has six hundred people, were a farming community, so

1342
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:05,040
Speaker 1: like city is a different yeah for me, So it's

1343
01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:06,880
Speaker 1: weird that I'm living in l A now. Trust me,

1344
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 1: I didn't think i'd be here, but um, I was like, wow,

1345
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 1: this is an outdoor girl. She she's got city in

1346
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:13,320
Speaker 1: her two but she's an outdoor girl. And she was

1347
01:10:13,360 --> 01:10:15,640
Speaker 1: swinging off rope, swings into the lake and stuff like that.

1348
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:18,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, that really cooked me. And

1349
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: then we just started buying. And like I said, we

1350
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 1: talked for two months before we had ever met in

1351
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 1: each other, So you sort of have an idea of

1352
01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:27,040
Speaker 1: who you know without even going on a date. You

1353
01:10:27,080 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 1: already like this person this much. Um, that was it

1354
01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:33,720
Speaker 1: for me, but I wouldn't I wouldn't recommend it. I mean,

1355
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:35,840
Speaker 1: I rather went on an in person date with my

1356
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:38,560
Speaker 1: wife sooner than that. But for us, that was the

1357
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:41,000
Speaker 1: way it went, you know. But relationships are also I

1358
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:45,040
Speaker 1: don't think meant to be hard. Like it's it's like

1359
01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:48,519
Speaker 1: I hear people all the time like who are dating,

1360
01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 1: and it's like complaining about this that the other thing.

1361
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:55,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's just it's it's not for I feel

1362
01:10:55,760 --> 01:10:58,040
Speaker 1: exactly the same way. Like Gary is my best friend

1363
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:02,880
Speaker 1: and and it's like not difficult. You know, it's not

1364
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 1: like we don't fight, we don't like, you know, we're

1365
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 1: not those we don't we just don't fight. It's just

1366
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 1: like not part of I didn't sign up for that.

1367
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to spend my life with somebody who

1368
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:15,760
Speaker 1: went fighting with Like, no, I don't. I don't have

1369
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:20,679
Speaker 1: friendships like that either. So I think it's like super

1370
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 1: if it doesn't feel like it's if it's not easy

1371
01:11:23,360 --> 01:11:25,559
Speaker 1: in the beginning, it's definitely not going to get easier.

1372
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:28,439
Speaker 1: Like it's just not I think it's fun, it's funny.

1373
01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,680
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people confuse the fact that

1374
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 1: relationships should be easy to your point, but they also

1375
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:36,360
Speaker 1: take work, and that they're they're different, right, because people

1376
01:11:36,439 --> 01:11:39,720
Speaker 1: use that excuse like, well, you know, it's relationships, you know, like, yeah,

1377
01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:41,839
Speaker 1: they do take work. I mean to have a relationship

1378
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:43,640
Speaker 1: where you don't fight a lot and you communicate. It

1379
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 1: takes a lot of work to communicate, but they should

1380
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 1: be easy, and I think sometimes people confuse those two.

1381
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:50,479
Speaker 1: Picking up queues helps, which is also something you can

1382
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 1: use in dating too. It's like, you know what I

1383
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:55,960
Speaker 1: was saying about you, and taking notes is kind of

1384
01:11:56,080 --> 01:12:00,439
Speaker 1: like that. It's like like jotting down the things just know.

1385
01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 1: But but is those are well. When you're in a

1386
01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 1: relationship or married, you have to be president enough to

1387
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:13,000
Speaker 1: pick up cues from the other person, you know, like

1388
01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:17,679
Speaker 1: there you can't be asked to take out the garbage.

1389
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:19,720
Speaker 1: It's like you're an adult, just take the garbage out,

1390
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 1: you know, it's not it's And for me, I think

1391
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 1: it's those simple things that make a relationship, you know,

1392
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 1: just like doing stuff and being present and being engaged

1393
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:33,600
Speaker 1: and involved in the relationship. It's not that deep. I

1394
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 1: don't think, is it. I want every week? Nick made

1395
01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 1: a great point, Um, it's not. It's not work, but

1396
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 1: it is if you it's because you love something. It's

1397
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 1: just like you're you're so passionate about your career. You're

1398
01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 1: going to work on it because you love it. And

1399
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:54,640
Speaker 1: so people look at a relationship like it's work, and

1400
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:57,120
Speaker 1: they say it with that connotation is work. But if

1401
01:12:57,160 --> 01:12:59,759
Speaker 1: you're actually in a great relationship, as Brad is talking about,

1402
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 1: it's work, but it's enjoyable because you're growing it. And

1403
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 1: my wife and I say, we want the best and

1404
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 1: relationship ever, So you're going to put some energy into

1405
01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 1: it and both sides. I have to give and she's

1406
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 1: got a given. You it's not it's not like, oh

1407
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 1: I gotta punch in and work here. It's like, hey,

1408
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:16,479
Speaker 1: I want to grow this and make this better. Life's

1409
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 1: already on fire, but let's make it better. And that's

1410
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 1: what both these gentlemen and I think. It's like a

1411
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 1: lot of people always tell me, they're like, you just

1412
01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 1: you want a relationship too much, And I'm like, I

1413
01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:28,600
Speaker 1: think that there's so much power and a pair, you

1414
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like it's like, I'm totally good

1415
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:33,800
Speaker 1: on my own, but I think having a partner that's

1416
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:35,560
Speaker 1: just like that brings up the best in me and

1417
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 1: we can conquer the world together. I think there's so

1418
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:41,440
Speaker 1: many beauty in that, you know, I think, right, relationship

1419
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: like that, And so anyone who's judging you for wanting

1420
01:13:44,560 --> 01:13:48,600
Speaker 1: a relationship, like, no, you want an awesome job, you

1421
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 1: want an awesome life, so you should want it. Yeah,

1422
01:13:52,160 --> 01:13:54,240
Speaker 1: it's just like I think, Yeah, It's like, I think

1423
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: there is so there's so much power in a pair,

1424
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 1: and I think that that's really apparent too. I've actually

1425
01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:00,800
Speaker 1: listened to another podcast that you and Julianne were on

1426
01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 1: I can't remember, maybe, and it was like kind of

1427
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 1: how you work together to this like a common goal

1428
01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:08,920
Speaker 1: and you push each other and you grow, and it's like,

1429
01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:10,880
Speaker 1: I think there's something really powerful in that. Well, it's

1430
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:12,680
Speaker 1: about it's like a rule of life. You're either a

1431
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:15,639
Speaker 1: person that adds to or takes from. So if you're

1432
01:14:15,760 --> 01:14:18,639
Speaker 1: like in a relationship to add to it, it's gonna flourish.

1433
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:20,760
Speaker 1: If you're in a relationship to take from somebody else

1434
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:24,000
Speaker 1: and not give anything back, then then it's like it's

1435
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: disaster central. That's a earlyer point and it's not. I mean,

1436
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: I'm amenvious of you too. You guys obviously have some

1437
01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:31,240
Speaker 1: great relationships, and hearing you guys talk about your relationships,

1438
01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 1: it's it's pretty evident that you guys are in in

1439
01:14:33,360 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 1: this part true partnership or you both had this kind

1440
01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:37,840
Speaker 1: of fifty fifty. It's funny. I I when I get

1441
01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: a lot of questions about relationships, and I see this

1442
01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:42,080
Speaker 1: a lot with like the younger generation. When you're younger,

1443
01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:44,439
Speaker 1: it's just you can't. You can only do a percent

1444
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 1: of your half right. And at the moment when you

1445
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:48,800
Speaker 1: start feeling like you're well, you know, I do all

1446
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 1: this and I feel like I'm supposed to do this,

1447
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:53,360
Speaker 1: and you can't if they're not doing their part, you

1448
01:14:53,560 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 1: you can't do it for them, you know. If you're

1449
01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:57,920
Speaker 1: doing your and then you try to do you know,

1450
01:14:58,040 --> 01:14:59,600
Speaker 1: fifty of theirs, it is just not gonna work. And

1451
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:02,120
Speaker 1: I think, you know, you have to set expectations of

1452
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:05,559
Speaker 1: yourself and what your expectations of your partner are, because

1453
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:07,719
Speaker 1: I see that a lot with with younger people trying

1454
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 1: to make it work and if they're holding onto something

1455
01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:11,600
Speaker 1: that might not be there and it's you know, it

1456
01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:13,880
Speaker 1: sounds like you guys are pretty lucky guys or someone

1457
01:15:13,920 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 1: to like complete you. Yeah, well, you know, help you

1458
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:19,360
Speaker 1: make the be the like I always say, like, you

1459
01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 1: can't find someone who fixes you. You can't someone who

1460
01:15:22,760 --> 01:15:24,160
Speaker 1: makes you a better person. It's up to you to

1461
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:26,760
Speaker 1: be your best self. But there are people who bring

1462
01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:29,160
Speaker 1: out the best in you, right there, People who who

1463
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 1: know your insecurities and your weaknesses, and instead of pushing

1464
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:35,680
Speaker 1: your buttons, they help to you know, limit your anxiety

1465
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 1: and stress because they understand you. And I think that's

1466
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 1: the challenge sometimes in dating. And you know, certainly for me, yeah,

1467
01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 1: I would say to your point, to your you were

1468
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 1: talking before, and I really resonated with me You're like,

1469
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,920
Speaker 1: should I tone down this personality on this text? Should

1470
01:15:48,920 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 1: I make it shorter? And I would say, no, don't ever,

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Speaker 1: don't ever change because that was something that drew me

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Speaker 1: to my wife because that wasn't me, you know. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, this girl is kind of crazy and

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Speaker 1: I love it totally. Answer she's impromptu. She does these

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Speaker 1: different voices and these little flares and she's just getting

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Speaker 1: something out of the fridge. Yeah, I'm not like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not an artsy guy. I'm a sports like just

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Speaker 1: that kind of over the top. It drew me to her.

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Speaker 1: So I would say, for you, don't change that the

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Speaker 1: person that's meant for he was gonna love and and

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Speaker 1: should not only appreciate but promote more of that out you.

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Speaker 1: We always Tanya is it's always this like do I

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Speaker 1: do I tone it down? Do I hold back? And

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Speaker 1: it's like and she even constantly is like, no, like

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Speaker 1: I know when it's the right guy, that this is

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Speaker 1: love this about me, because it's like I can't just

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Speaker 1: change for the beginning of something because I'm I'm stuck

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Speaker 1: with the way that I am for my whole life, like,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be this way the rest of my life.

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Speaker 1: So it's like, but also you're so sure of who

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Speaker 1: you are and what makes you up as a person,

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Speaker 1: and you're unapologetic for it as well, which is like

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Speaker 1: most people can't say about themselves that you will when

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Speaker 1: you meet the right person, you will thrive, like beyond

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Speaker 1: your wildest dreams because you're already so in touch with

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Speaker 1: who you are. Right, So you want somebody else who's

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Speaker 1: going to celebrate that, you don't want somebody who's like

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Speaker 1: I wish her text were shorter. I like her please. Um.

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Speaker 1: we talked about me trying to eat healthy and I have.

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Speaker 1: How's that going? You know it's going. I'm making progress Twitter,

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Speaker 1: but it's like way more affordable because everyone always you know,

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Speaker 1: I know Becca and I could not be more opposite.

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Speaker 1: thank you guys so much. We're so sad. This is

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Speaker 1: over come back episode after the holidays, Like y'all really

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Speaker 1: brought it for us after the holidays and after yes,

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Speaker 1: Award winning podcast. Thank you. We didn't want to have

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Speaker 1: to bring it up. But again, before we wrap, let's

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Speaker 1: um round table where everybody can get everything um and

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Speaker 1: like where they can follow you, give us everything. Promote

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Speaker 1: yourself just online any social media channel at Brooks like

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Speaker 1: Brad Garski and much. Your YouTube channel, I think it's

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Speaker 1: actually Tanya's. I think it's just me Antonia's YouTube. All

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Speaker 1: your last name. It could be confused. Oh g O

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Speaker 1: r E s k I and it's it's said Goski,

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Speaker 1: not Gorsky. I just feeld Brad. I'll follow you back

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Speaker 1: follow I'm not gonna. I'm a fun follow. So they say,

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Speaker 1: Nick that brings us to you, nicko L on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: My my Twitter is terrible, like I said, it's vile

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Speaker 1: Nicholas twenty eight like back in the day, you know,

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Speaker 1: like what your by my handle? So I don't even

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Speaker 1: bring it up? Yeah right, what was your what was

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Speaker 1: your first email account? I was just thinking about, you

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Speaker 1: know that was it became because it came from a

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Speaker 1: well and messenger that was my like handle? Incided use

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Speaker 1: that because you know it was so long ago. Want

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Speaker 1: to be one Shakira? Want to be one hot Mail?

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Speaker 1: Did you want to be Shakira Club? I know I did,

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Speaker 1: but somebody right, it's like underscore one, uh yeah, and

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Speaker 1: then natural habits on Instagram and n h oils dot com.

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Speaker 1: There we go. Are you secondhand embarrassed for me? No?

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Speaker 1: The more information I got, the more I love you.

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Speaker 1: I know. It's like you think you know everything and

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Speaker 1: then she drops the notes thing one was about I

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Speaker 1: think you're going to do like some sort of YouTube

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Speaker 1: channel of you know, Talia takes notes and it's how

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Speaker 1: do you know how to Shakira and John Mayor fan

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Speaker 1: club in high school? You yeah, club exactly. And then

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Speaker 1: John Mayer was like, why don't I have my own club?

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Speaker 1: And I said, because I was the president and I

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Speaker 1: liked you both equally. You know, my sister would do

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Speaker 1: this the Canada Canadian version of the John Mayor Fan

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Speaker 1: Club with you if you want, you should get that

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Speaker 1: back up. How about her sending me? She sent me

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Speaker 1: a text over Thanksgiving of his Billboard magazine cover saying

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Speaker 1: she couldn't get it in Canada anywhere and would I

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Speaker 1: buy it for and sent, oh my god? Whoa. Mandy

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Speaker 1: is also a big podcast listener. She listens every single week.

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Speaker 1: She's really upset. I didn't say that I was coming

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Speaker 1: on the show when we were texting this morning, so

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Speaker 1: well she got she got a shout out. All right,

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Speaker 1: Becca really enjoyed this episode so much. I just don't

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Speaker 1: want it to I just care. She was going to

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Speaker 1: call time of death. Fella, we're the acapella group. Had

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Speaker 1: to be done, man, man the best man. I'm not

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Speaker 1: good at time of death. I really feel dark. No,

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Speaker 1: I did it badly last time. Brad can't tell time,

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Speaker 1: so who to do the honors? Basically, we just called

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Speaker 1: the end of the podcast time of death the death

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Speaker 1: of the podcast because it's scrubbing in like um like sounds. Yeah, alright, Brooks.

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Speaker 1: When I probably got this twelve fifty six and forty

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Speaker 1: seven seconds, he's dead. I love this episode, so fun,

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Speaker 1: fun