WEBVTT - Good as Gold with Kaitlyn Bristowe

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<v Speaker 1>This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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<v Speaker 1>with iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one of our most favorite days of the year.

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<v Speaker 2>This year, we've been lucky, haven't we.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, yeah, a couple of days of the year.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this year is really nice day. We have Kaitlyn

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<v Speaker 2>Brisso on the show, as promised, the star one of

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<v Speaker 2>the stars of the latest episode of The Golden Bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello Kaitlyn.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, guys. Oh my gosh, I love seeing your faces.

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<v Speaker 3>We love having you here.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we create a headline today?

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<v Speaker 4>We probably will. I'm sure it'll happen. You guys are

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<v Speaker 4>good at that. You guys are good at that.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. Well, you might be the queen of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to be the queen. Might be good.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Well, Caitlin, we first want to talk about

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<v Speaker 5>you being part of this absolutely hilarious, so entertaining Chippendale's.

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<v Speaker 3>Date that you're part of. Do you why do you

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<v Speaker 3>think they call you for a date like this?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh lord, we all know. I'm pigeonholed as the Big

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<v Speaker 4>six ueal Bachelorette. It's so funny because I actually was

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<v Speaker 4>asked to do the previous one, so they asked me

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<v Speaker 4>to be the on the date before the one for

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<v Speaker 4>the Talent Show because I was on Gary's Talent Show.

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<v Speaker 4>So they're like, oh, do you want to come back

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<v Speaker 4>for the Talent Show. It's like yeah, great, and then

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<v Speaker 4>the dates didn't work out, and then they're like, wait

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<v Speaker 4>a second, you have to be part of the Chippendales.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, oh, here we go. And then

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<v Speaker 4>but then they were like, we're actually doing it for

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<v Speaker 4>a cause and raising money for cancer, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm in. I'm so in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. It's it's nice that they did that, because if not,

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<v Speaker 2>this date could have just been like a weird misplacement.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about this when I watched it. You

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<v Speaker 2>were such a star as the Bachelorette. You've done so

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<v Speaker 2>many things post show that have increased your stardom. But

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<v Speaker 2>there is a period of time where like you and

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<v Speaker 2>the show did not necessarily get along.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 2>When did that like heal up or has it ever

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<v Speaker 2>healed up? Has it ever been confronted like is there

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation that takes place what's happened?

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<v Speaker 4>No? I think I think it's just one of those

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<v Speaker 4>things where time like goes on and I think I

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<v Speaker 4>mean if you this is this always ages us. But

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<v Speaker 4>like if you think about how long ago it was

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<v Speaker 4>that my season was on, I don't think they understood

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<v Speaker 4>like the any press is good press kind of mentality,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think they like wanted me to be roped

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<v Speaker 4>in into this box of trying to make me somebody

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't, and I think they're just like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 4>let her go and like bring her back. People are

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<v Speaker 4>clearly still talking about her, so like, let's bring her back.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think it just was kind of one of

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<v Speaker 4>those things where everyone just moved on from shit weird

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<v Speaker 4>shit coming out of my mouth. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, let's talk about these guys striping.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, it was incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Jonathan was absolutely ridiculous. Jonathan has on this before. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't care what he says.

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<v Speaker 4>He has done this before, whether it be in another

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<v Speaker 4>lifetime or in.

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<v Speaker 3>The privacy of his bedroom.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was bedroom and this is like I know

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<v Speaker 4>Keith's long dream to be a Chippendale, but like that

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<v Speaker 4>he knew what he was doing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was wild.

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<v Speaker 4>It was wild.

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<v Speaker 2>It is I need a little bit before we dive

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<v Speaker 2>into these guys, because I do think it's fun to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about I'm dancing, Like, what's this set up here?

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<v Speaker 2>It just felt like they kind of all like leaned

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<v Speaker 2>into it right away and said, all right, let's get

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<v Speaker 2>a costume on, let's dance.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I think it was the shift in the room

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<v Speaker 4>was when we said that it was going to be

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<v Speaker 4>for a bigger cause. Because you see so many episodes

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<v Speaker 4>of Bachelor and Bachelorette making, you know, guys strip or girls,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like the fighting dates and like certain things

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<v Speaker 4>that it's just like, there, oh, why are we still

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<v Speaker 4>doing this? Were this one? It was kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>everybody surrendered to it when they realized that it was

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<v Speaker 4>for a cause that is near and dear to Jones heart,

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<v Speaker 4>and how she'd just opened up, you know, to them

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<v Speaker 4>and really showed emotions, and I think they were like,

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<v Speaker 4>let's have fun with this.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you talk to any of the guys off of

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<v Speaker 5>the stage, Yeah, oh, all of them.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm obsessed. I'm obsessed with Gary. Gary is like the nicest,

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<v Speaker 4>full of life, funny like Gary as.

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<v Speaker 2>You like to call God him as Goldie.

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<v Speaker 4>He's I love him, I love him. But yeah, they

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<v Speaker 4>I talked to a few of them off off camera

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<v Speaker 4>and they're just I mean, every single one of them.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like the fine news man, like, yeah, they're great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how is Charles?

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<v Speaker 4>Charles was everything that you would ever expect him to

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<v Speaker 4>be and more I am. I just did a podcast

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<v Speaker 4>and we went through like, piece by piece of this episode.

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<v Speaker 4>I cried five times in the podcast, mostly talking about Charles,

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<v Speaker 4>just because I'm with him.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to hear your guys thought there, because I

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<v Speaker 2>was thinking about this last night, and my wife loves Charles, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and makes she like she just like feels something different

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<v Speaker 2>for him than she has, like for any other guy

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<v Speaker 2>on the season, Like she just like has a place

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<v Speaker 2>in her heart for him. I can tell. So what

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<v Speaker 2>do we do with the Charles of the world on

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<v Speaker 2>this show? Now? I mean, and I don't want the

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<v Speaker 2>easy answer to be, Oh, Paradise, it's gonna be great.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that works for him.

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<v Speaker 4>So no, no, no, I need, like.

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<v Speaker 2>Your guys expertise and creativeness. What do we do with

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<v Speaker 2>the Charles of the world. There are gyms for the

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<v Speaker 2>show that are good for the show, that are real

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<v Speaker 2>humans who most people can relate with, but don't fit

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<v Speaker 2>the mold of reality television.

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<v Speaker 4>We protect him and we put him in I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know in all of our interviews, like I just I

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<v Speaker 4>want good things for him. Well, I want good things

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<v Speaker 4>for all of them. To be honest with you, there's

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<v Speaker 4>not one of them that I don't like. But Charles

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<v Speaker 4>just is one of those guys you know, you know

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<v Speaker 4>the saying of like protect that at all costs, that's

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<v Speaker 4>literally Charles. I don't want to do much with him.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to punt.

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<v Speaker 3>I think there's many people who deserve him.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, oh, that's a good. Wait, maybe we find

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<v Speaker 4>somebody who we think Maybe we do like.

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<v Speaker 5>A matchmaking show, so it's not like he has a

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<v Speaker 5>big group, but like everybody has, like find somebody that

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<v Speaker 5>is just so amazing, like go on dates and it's

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<v Speaker 5>less of like.

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<v Speaker 3>A selection process. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's what we do. We just we find him,

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<v Speaker 4>put him on TV the love that he deserves. Charles

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<v Speaker 4>for Bachelor, I just want to watch him. I know,

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<v Speaker 4>I know, I was very blessed to be in his

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<v Speaker 4>presence for that for that date. I was I looked.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember looking at Joan and being like, I'm I

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<v Speaker 4>love Charles. She goes the world's gonna love Charles.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what about Mark?

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<v Speaker 5>Must talk about Mark, who talked about Bachelor contenders called

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<v Speaker 5>a dilf.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't believe. I can't, Yes, I can, I can.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I mean, I mean, that's that's a hard like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, because when you really break down the words

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<v Speaker 5>of what a dilf means, you're like, oh, wow, that's

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<v Speaker 5>that's that's a statement.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Caitlin just said you want to mess around. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not like she shouldn't go all the way. She said,

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<v Speaker 2>you like around.

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<v Speaker 4>School around him, and I meant like on a golf course,

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<v Speaker 4>like maybe on the pickleball court, like just fool around

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<v Speaker 4>like a dad I'd like to pool around with.

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<v Speaker 5>Like a fifty nine year old that, like you don't

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<v Speaker 5>feel weird about imagining well romantic.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the thing I was saying it for Joan. I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't saying he's a dad I'd like to fool around with.

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<v Speaker 4>I was saying he's a dilf in the sense of

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<v Speaker 4>like that sometimes I do forget what that what that means.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was like for Joan, and then I was

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<v Speaker 4>so glad that they showed me to be like, don't

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<v Speaker 4>air that like don't show me saying that.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a good moment. Yeah, thanks for the clarity.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're saying it for Joan, let's just be clear.

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<v Speaker 2>You're speaking.

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<v Speaker 4>My god, Yes, I see him as like a precious

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<v Speaker 4>dad figure who like is so sweet and like obviously

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<v Speaker 4>very handsome. But I was saying for Joan he is

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<v Speaker 4>a dilf.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So do we think he could be the future Golden Bachelor?

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think that's where they want him to be?

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<v Speaker 4>Ooh, good question. I could see it. I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>he's just like his demeanor and uh, just the way

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<v Speaker 4>he carries himself is so. I feel like he's pure.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like he's a good dad. I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>he's handsome. He's got all of the qualities to make

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<v Speaker 4>a great Golden Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Would I ask you the other day, Ashley that

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<v Speaker 2>you got mad at me for asking you?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 5>He asked if Mark made me tingly and exactly Caitlin

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<v Speaker 5>and then are I was like, are you asking if

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<v Speaker 5>he turns me on? And like he was like no,

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<v Speaker 5>does he like give you warm and fuzzies? And we're like,

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<v Speaker 5>ben tingly does not mean that I learned.

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<v Speaker 2>Something that day?

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<v Speaker 4>Tell me you don't have a vagina without tell me

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<v Speaker 4>you don't have a vagina. The tingles are a real thing,

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<v Speaker 4>and no, that is not happening in the heart. Those

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<v Speaker 4>are called like Warman fuzzies.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Warman fuzzies. Yeah, I've changed my.

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<v Speaker 4>No. I wouldn't like that either. That's that's why I

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<v Speaker 4>felt so uncomfortable that they aired me saying that he

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<v Speaker 4>was a dilp, because I was like, obviously, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>talking about for me. I don't think he's a dilp.

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<v Speaker 4>I think he's a delt for Joan, classic classic.

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<v Speaker 2>Who else? Who else was on the State that stood

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<v Speaker 2>out well? Scal Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh chalk, yes, chalk was so I was trying to

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<v Speaker 4>think because I don't like spoilers ever, no matter what,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like spoilers. So I was trying to watch.

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<v Speaker 4>I told Joan, don't tell me anything. Don't tell me

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<v Speaker 4>who like your number one is or your like number

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<v Speaker 4>top three. I don't want to know. I want to

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<v Speaker 4>watch your interactions with them, and I want to see

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<v Speaker 4>how they interact with you, and like, just watch them

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<v Speaker 4>in general. And I pascal to me, they've definitely vibed.

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<v Speaker 4>And I saw some major chemistry until the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the episode. Watching it back, I was like, oh, but

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<v Speaker 4>in that moment, I saw chemistry from them, and then

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<v Speaker 4>Chalk was like the most undeniable chemistry, which clearly plays

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<v Speaker 4>through on the show as well.

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<v Speaker 5>The Pascal thing is interesting because at the Rose ceremony

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<v Speaker 5>later in the episode Cocktail Party, Yeah, she seemed like

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<v Speaker 5>annoyed that he wasn't giving her more attention or like

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't being as a not you know, like a yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. He called it aggressive. He said he didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to be aggressive.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and like you could tell that she wants his attention,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's a sign for us ladies, you know that

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<v Speaker 5>she might be there for a while.

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<v Speaker 4>I but I didn't. I didn't like that moment from him.

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<v Speaker 4>But I liked that moment from her because I felt

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<v Speaker 4>like she wasn't being like oh my god, what she

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<v Speaker 4>was like, well, this is how you know, she kind

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<v Speaker 4>of stood up for herself in that moment, and he

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<v Speaker 4>was kind of like hinting, give me more time, and

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<v Speaker 4>she's like, you're on.

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<v Speaker 3>You, Vachel to come and get me. Yeah, yeah, which

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<v Speaker 3>I appreciate that as well.

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<v Speaker 4>You're right, yeah, I get it. He's funny. He's a

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<v Speaker 4>bougie guy. He's he's just a straight up bougie Frenchman.

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<v Speaker 4>I love it, but I know it's tricky to work with.

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<v Speaker 3>On the show Shock, we you know, always more ripped

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<v Speaker 3>than I expected.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I say that he took a shirt?

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, all right, honestly, and can we like

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<v Speaker 4>give it up for seeing different body types on the

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<v Speaker 4>show for once?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all looking really good.

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<v Speaker 4>They honestly all owned the the you know, ripping off

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<v Speaker 4>the shirt and being who they were. I just I

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<v Speaker 4>just loved watching all of it because you could just

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<v Speaker 4>tell these men like benefited from vulnerability. Like they were like,

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<v Speaker 4>we've all bonded, We've all like gone through some hard

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<v Speaker 4>shit in life. We've all like talked about our feelings

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<v Speaker 4>every day. Now we're gonna dance and we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 4>some research and raise money for cancer. Like they were

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<v Speaker 4>just it felt like they were revived and getting like

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, like past you know, midlife crisis. They're

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<v Speaker 4>like on the other end of that where they're just

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<v Speaker 4>like we still have time, like we're good. And I

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<v Speaker 4>loved watching it. I just this whole show just makes

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<v Speaker 4>me feel so much joy.

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<v Speaker 3>How did they raise the money. Was it ticket sales?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Okay that's what I thought, because I was like

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<v Speaker 5>I would pay good money to be at that date.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, it was so much fun. Ben It did not

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<v Speaker 3>make me tingling.

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<v Speaker 4>But I love like the guys being like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>just getting giving the crowd some butt things and they're

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<v Speaker 4>like so innocent, but then they're like between her legs.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know they can.

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<v Speaker 5>We were saying in our other recap episode that like

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<v Speaker 5>these guys can get away with so much more than

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<v Speaker 5>the younger guys can.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's just so sweet to watch so them, Like

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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like I'm on such a journey watch

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<v Speaker 4>them because the show, the show with the high highs

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<v Speaker 4>and the low lows of what these people have gone

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<v Speaker 4>through and what they are still going through and experiencing

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<v Speaker 4>this like raw emotion without cheesy music in the background,

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<v Speaker 4>and hearing Chalk just like cry and going through his

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<v Speaker 4>loss in that moment with him, Like, the show just

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<v Speaker 4>cracks me open, wide open, Yo.

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<v Speaker 3>You're so right. They don't got the music behind them.

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<v Speaker 5>We get as soon as we do something like Villainous

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<v Speaker 5>and then they're just like we're just living life with

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<v Speaker 5>how are you guys putting any sort of vibes in

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<v Speaker 5>our head.

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<v Speaker 4>It feels real.

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<v Speaker 2>Now this is jumping ahead and not a really even

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<v Speaker 2>a reasonable conversation to have. But we saw it with

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<v Speaker 2>even Gary season, the women that came off that season,

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<v Speaker 2>the joy that they have now, the friendships they built,

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<v Speaker 2>the fun that they have. Caitlyn, you've been able to

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<v Speaker 2>be around him, obviously, Ashley and myself have been able

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<v Speaker 2>to be around them. They're just a ton of fun

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<v Speaker 2>and they're still living a very exciting like life after show. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're seeing this with these men. I don't think it

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<v Speaker 2>will change for them. I just hope the show at

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<v Speaker 2>some point doesn't say, you know, would be really good?

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<v Speaker 2>Is if we found a villain? I think it would

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<v Speaker 2>ruin so much. I just want this to be the

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<v Speaker 2>ethos of why we tune into the Golden Show every season.

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<v Speaker 2>Is the joy, the story, the hope, the relatability, the

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<v Speaker 2>love story. Like those things, and keep it consistent because

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<v Speaker 2>I think it could have a twenty year run, just

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<v Speaker 2>like the regular show. If it stays that.

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<v Speaker 4>Way, I well, hopefully by that time I could be

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<v Speaker 4>the Golden Bachelorette's.

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<v Speaker 2>So much more for you. We want you to meet somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>That guys a second.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, that's what people want. People want, like the

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<v Speaker 3>forty five year old Bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I'm close, But you know what, Like I agree,

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<v Speaker 4>we got a little bit of a villain on The

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<v Speaker 4>Golden Bachelor, like Kathy being you know, selling people to

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<v Speaker 4>zip it or whatever that was. But I I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know if they can make a villain out of any

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<v Speaker 4>of these men, And if they do, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>be highly disappointed because they would have had to really

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<v Speaker 4>like craft that up, like it wouldn't be genuine, because,

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<v Speaker 4>like you, the brotherhood going on in that mansion is

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<v Speaker 4>so beautiful, and I just like the ending when they

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<v Speaker 4>all came out and like hugged Charles and he was

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<v Speaker 4>so happy, and I was like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 4>cried so many times.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, it was just the sweetest moment I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 4>The sweetest woman ever.

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<v Speaker 5>Before we move on to more about you, Caitlin, I

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<v Speaker 5>just need a group conversation right now about how much

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<v Speaker 5>Chok sounds like Peyton Manning. Like we've brought it up before,

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<v Speaker 5>you really need to like talk about this because I've

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<v Speaker 5>never heard somebody's voice come out of somebody else like this.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so I feel like, I is this a thing

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<v Speaker 4>on the internet, Like do people notice?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, because I don't know what Peyton Manning sounds like.

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<v Speaker 4>But is a football player?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but he's like in every commercial there is a.

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<v Speaker 2>Football player arguably the best quarterback of all time.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, okay, that's that's very arguable, because that's definitely not

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<v Speaker 5>true of it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm Canadian. I don't know football players like you, folks.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a while since you've been to a Buffalo game.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh Yeah, Buffalo Bills are dead to me. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>Boy.

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<v Speaker 4>I went to a Phillies baseball game. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 4>it was so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Why were you in Philadelphia or that Southern Jersey area.

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<v Speaker 4>I really was just craving a Philly cheese steak and

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<v Speaker 4>I was in New York doing podcasts, and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>it's just an hour and a half drive to get

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<v Speaker 4>a Philly cheese steak. So popped into a game while

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<v Speaker 4>I was at it.

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<v Speaker 3>Moved on from Buffalo and now into Philly jo Sticks. Hey.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't get me wrong, I actually do still root for

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<v Speaker 4>the Bills. I feel like they're a fun team to

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<v Speaker 4>root for.

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<v Speaker 5>They are, You're right, Jared, like, is rooting for the

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<v Speaker 5>Bills over the Pageots these days because they're just more interesting. No,

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<v Speaker 5>They're just a little bit more interesting. I'm just an

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<v Speaker 5>NFL fan right now, not even like so much of it.

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<v Speaker 4>I just stand back and say, go Oilers hockey every day,

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<v Speaker 4>all day, Caitlin.

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<v Speaker 2>We do this every week on our show, and you've

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<v Speaker 2>been up close and personal, closer than Ashley or myself

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<v Speaker 2>have been able to be. We give our top three

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<v Speaker 2>each week, kind of going towards the rest of this season. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very intrigued at what you're who your top three

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<v Speaker 2>would be. We're not going to tell you ours, but

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<v Speaker 2>your top three for the Golden Bachelorette. Moving on to

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<v Speaker 2>the week before Hometowns, I guess whatever we call that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, my top three is definitely Chalk Pascal and is.

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<v Speaker 5>It Jordan Jonathan Yeah, Jordan, Yeah, Chicago Jordan.

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<v Speaker 3>I told you I put him in my Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But isn't Jordan such a millennial name for that?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, I'm like, what about this man? Reeks youth to me?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, it throws me off.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, his voice sounds so young. I would just never

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<v Speaker 5>pin him as a sixty or something.

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<v Speaker 4>No, me, either doesn't add up.

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<v Speaker 2>She sounds young, he looks young. His name is young. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so you said Pascal, So you have Pascal in the

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<v Speaker 2>in the top three for you well.

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<v Speaker 4>Only, But now it kind of changed once I saw

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<v Speaker 4>that the ending of this episode. But I'm gonna stick

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<v Speaker 4>with it because I saw their chemistry in person.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, she's also not putting Mark in there anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>And I told you I think he's like on the

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<v Speaker 3>sliding slope.

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<v Speaker 1>I just.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe we just haven't seen enough of their connection. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I would like to see more. To be honest with.

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<v Speaker 3>You, He's definitely gonna get a one on one next week. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that would be insane if he if he leaves without

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<v Speaker 3>getting one on one.

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<v Speaker 4>No, he's I'm only going to get a one on one,

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<v Speaker 4>and I hope he shines. I hope he shines.

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<v Speaker 2>I could see the argument, and the two of you

0:19:06.320 --> 0:19:07.720
<v Speaker 2>have been around a long time. I could see the

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<v Speaker 2>argument being we're seeing more of Mark than most cast

0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:16.879
<v Speaker 2>members because he is a star. He's very likable, he's

0:19:16.960 --> 0:19:20.600
<v Speaker 2>great for commentary, he is very sweet. Uh, and he

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<v Speaker 2>is being prepped to be the next lead and as

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<v Speaker 2>a result, his connection with Joan might be kind of

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<v Speaker 2>being overplayed to the audience and kind of picked up

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<v Speaker 2>a bit because of them wanting to use him later on.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that like you two right here?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Caitlin, I had a great thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, it had a great thing.

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<v Speaker 3>They're prepping then to be the bachelor.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew they wanted him to be the Bachelor. I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't want him to be the bachelor.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, why because I wanted to be a final two.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want it to be this versus this. I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted Ben in there.

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<v Speaker 2>You had a terrible last couple of weeks. She had

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<v Speaker 2>no fun, no fun to be had for Kaitlin. She

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<v Speaker 2>had like a brawl to figure out. But yes, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>as a result, they said, hey, Sin beIN home. Like

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<v Speaker 2>that poor guy, he's just like hanging out drinking guinness

0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:18.600
<v Speaker 2>and like he's so lonely. He's not talk anybody.

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<v Speaker 3>So do you have soul clustody of the dogs?

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<v Speaker 1>Now?

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<v Speaker 3>I do?

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<v Speaker 4>I am so scared at the time I do anything. Now,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so scared because I'm like, I don't. I don't

0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:37.680
<v Speaker 4>know what else to say. I'm like, but yes, I do, Yes, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Do it's not public information yet.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it is. I did a solo podcast talking about it,

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<v Speaker 4>just because you know, that's people. This is why, this

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<v Speaker 4>is why I want to keep certain relationships private, is

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<v Speaker 4>because once you introduced people to certain things, they have

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<v Speaker 4>reason to feel like they deserve information. And so I

0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:03.680
<v Speaker 4>felt that it was you know, that was the number

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<v Speaker 4>one question I was getting asked was about the dogs,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think, yeah, it's it. I also saw that

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<v Speaker 4>somebody thought I was lying through my teeth about this contract,

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<v Speaker 4>that the dogs actually can't be bopping around because of stress.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, but it's so real.

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<v Speaker 4>And Amanda actually from Bunny's Buddies had talked to me

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<v Speaker 4>about this, like long before anyone knew anything about anything,

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<v Speaker 4>and long before we had you know, moved forward and

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<v Speaker 4>past all this that she was like, this can't happen

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<v Speaker 4>like this. We don't adopt dogs out to people who

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<v Speaker 4>you know, are going back and forth. These dogs need

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<v Speaker 4>like a steady household. And so yeah, but I said

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<v Speaker 4>on my podcasts, he's more than welcome to visit them anytime,

0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:53.440
<v Speaker 4>more than welcome to I would never keep them from him.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it going well now that you have sil custody

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<v Speaker 2>and My second fall to that is has it made

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<v Speaker 2>you check change your travel amounts?

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely have changed my travel amounts, And I also

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<v Speaker 4>just have the best house slash dog sitter who honestly

0:22:11.760 --> 0:22:13.680
<v Speaker 4>loves them. No, I will never say as much as

0:22:13.680 --> 0:22:16.840
<v Speaker 4>me because that's not possible, but close, and she treats

0:22:16.880 --> 0:22:19.680
<v Speaker 4>them like her absolute babies. So I trust her when

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<v Speaker 4>she's here with them, and she's so good to them,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's reassuring knowing that she's with them if I'm gone.

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<v Speaker 3>Has Jason visited the dogs?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, well what do you think about? What do

0:22:35.480 --> 0:22:41.160
<v Speaker 5>you think about those phillies? I'll just say it because

0:22:41.160 --> 0:22:43.640
<v Speaker 5>I'm being I'm just gonna be funny in myself right now.

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<v Speaker 5>But there's been a lack of posting of Jason and

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<v Speaker 5>his girlfriend Kat recently.

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<v Speaker 3>Really do you have a comment?

0:22:51.680 --> 0:22:51.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:22:51.920 --> 0:22:57.359
<v Speaker 3>Really? That's her comment. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't pay attention to it just because I I don't.

0:23:00.920 --> 0:23:05.080
<v Speaker 4>I honestly don't see anything on the internet, and so

0:23:05.359 --> 0:23:07.280
<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I actually didn't know that they haven't

0:23:07.720 --> 0:23:10.199
<v Speaker 4>been posting, So that's news to me.

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:13.160
<v Speaker 2>Here's a more interesting way to look at this too.

0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:16.359
<v Speaker 2>It's been a while obviously we had a show where

0:23:16.400 --> 0:23:19.960
<v Speaker 2>we sorted out our differences based on an interview with

0:23:20.080 --> 0:23:23.639
<v Speaker 2>Jason and Chris and myself kind of talking about things.

0:23:23.680 --> 0:23:26.919
<v Speaker 2>It was a huge relationship making headlines and then the

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<v Speaker 2>breakup and then I think anything you do, Caitlin, is

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<v Speaker 2>going to make headlines. I just do. I think it's

0:23:31.680 --> 0:23:33.720
<v Speaker 2>the kind of the world you live in. You have

0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:36.879
<v Speaker 2>brought that upon yourself, and it's also a compliment to

0:23:36.920 --> 0:23:42.200
<v Speaker 2>yourself because people care and they're interested. Yeah, would you say,

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<v Speaker 2>at this point in your life, let me phrase this

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<v Speaker 2>the right way, would you say, at this point in

0:23:48.280 --> 0:23:53.919
<v Speaker 2>your life, what Jason does romantically or what he does

0:23:54.240 --> 0:23:59.400
<v Speaker 2>personally affects you at all? Or is that a season

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<v Speaker 2>of life now that you've moved on from.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely a season of life where I genuinely just want

0:24:06.359 --> 0:24:09.840
<v Speaker 4>everybody to be happy. I know people think that might

0:24:09.840 --> 0:24:11.920
<v Speaker 4>be a cop out or that I'm just saying that.

0:24:12.400 --> 0:24:16.639
<v Speaker 4>I genuinely, from the bottom of my black little heart,

0:24:17.600 --> 0:24:20.520
<v Speaker 4>genuinely just want people to be happy. I am so

0:24:20.720 --> 0:24:24.840
<v Speaker 4>over any like drama or this, or you know, like

0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:28.240
<v Speaker 4>resentment or whatever. I just want people to be happy.

0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:31.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe you have to come out publicly with a

0:24:31.160 --> 0:24:32.919
<v Speaker 2>new relationship, so people move on.

0:24:33.040 --> 0:24:36.919
<v Speaker 5>Never mind, I won't do it, and I go the

0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:39.200
<v Speaker 5>same way. I was like, is that because possibly you're

0:24:39.400 --> 0:24:41.200
<v Speaker 5>very happy? Well?

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:45.080
<v Speaker 4>I do think like I think the happiest people don't

0:24:45.119 --> 0:24:47.280
<v Speaker 4>need to show off. I just feel like I'm in

0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:52.320
<v Speaker 4>a very zen, peaceful, happy place in my life. And

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:54.760
<v Speaker 4>I when you feel that way, you want that for

0:24:54.880 --> 0:24:58.520
<v Speaker 4>other people, even if, like in the past, you might

0:24:58.560 --> 0:25:00.800
<v Speaker 4>not have. I just mid a place where I'm like,

0:25:00.800 --> 0:25:02.919
<v Speaker 4>I want everybody to feel what I'm feeling right now.

0:25:02.920 --> 0:25:06.320
<v Speaker 4>I feel like all of my mental work, my physical work,

0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:10.760
<v Speaker 4>everything is just finally paying off where I'm like, like Kombay,

0:25:10.880 --> 0:25:13.119
<v Speaker 4>fucking yeah.

0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:17.159
<v Speaker 3>She's almost forty, flirty and thriving. Do you feel this

0:25:17.200 --> 0:25:18.160
<v Speaker 3>way towards Tasha?

0:25:19.280 --> 0:25:24.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I do. I do. I just again, it's just

0:25:24.480 --> 0:25:30.400
<v Speaker 4>a in my heart of hearts what I have said

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:32.000
<v Speaker 4>and what I have done. I hope people know my

0:25:32.080 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 4>humor by this point, and I again, I just want

0:25:36.080 --> 0:25:41.760
<v Speaker 4>people to be happy and unbothered. And because that's how

0:25:41.800 --> 0:25:42.680
<v Speaker 4>I'm feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>You are an open book. It's frustrating for me. I

0:25:56.440 --> 0:25:58.679
<v Speaker 2>think I said this on the show here as a

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:02.040
<v Speaker 2>friend because I I just wish people got to know.

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 2>Like I think if they knew Caitlin and then these

0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:11.439
<v Speaker 2>things came out publicly, maybe like oh goodness, like they

0:26:11.440 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 2>would just be like, goodness, gracious, she's just saying what

0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:18.919
<v Speaker 2>she's thinking, right, But I don't think people know Like

0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 2>I think they see one side. They see like the

0:26:21.880 --> 0:26:24.840
<v Speaker 2>media side, they see the podcast host, they see, you know,

0:26:25.720 --> 0:26:28.080
<v Speaker 2>the person that's getting called to be on the Golden

0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:31.240
<v Speaker 2>Bachelorette strip Tea's date, and then they're like, why would

0:26:31.320 --> 0:26:33.240
<v Speaker 2>she say that? That's that's coming from a mean place.

0:26:33.280 --> 0:26:35.840
<v Speaker 2>But if I think if they knew you, they'd be like, no,

0:26:35.960 --> 0:26:39.280
<v Speaker 2>that's just Caitlin like not having a buffer, and that's

0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:42.960
<v Speaker 2>helpful always. It's maybe not the most like healthy thing

0:26:43.119 --> 0:26:45.239
<v Speaker 2>because it does bring on its own criticism, but what

0:26:45.280 --> 0:26:47.520
<v Speaker 2>it does do is that it does allow people to

0:26:47.520 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 2>get to know where you're at.

0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:52.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm learning though, because to me sometimes it's I

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:54.159
<v Speaker 4>don't know if it's worth it anymore to be so

0:26:54.280 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 4>much of an open book, Like I'm I feel like

0:26:57.400 --> 0:27:01.760
<v Speaker 4>it's here's the thing. Any time I've talked about other people,

0:27:01.800 --> 0:27:04.960
<v Speaker 4>it just never goes well, and I just feel like

0:27:05.000 --> 0:27:08.040
<v Speaker 4>I don't I don't want to talk negatively about other

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:11.240
<v Speaker 4>people ever again, because it's it doesn't feel good, it's

0:27:11.280 --> 0:27:13.360
<v Speaker 4>not a good look, and it always ends up being

0:27:13.400 --> 0:27:16.320
<v Speaker 4>a headline that I don't mean anyways, and it's you know,

0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:20.440
<v Speaker 4>warped into something different, and I do. I think that's

0:27:20.440 --> 0:27:22.399
<v Speaker 4>something I always wish people knew, is like what my

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:26.199
<v Speaker 4>actual heart and intentions are as a human being. And

0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:28.520
<v Speaker 4>I think I get I think I get pigeonholed or

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:31.040
<v Speaker 4>misunderstood a lot because a lot of people don't even

0:27:31.119 --> 0:27:33.720
<v Speaker 4>know who I am, and they might not even remember

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:36.919
<v Speaker 4>me except for as the bachelorette, so they they just

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:43.840
<v Speaker 4>think I'm this crude, offside, raunchy No.

0:27:44.440 --> 0:27:47.160
<v Speaker 2>I always I don't know if that's helped. I think

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 2>that's you speaking, Yeah, I think that's you, Yeah, kind

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 2>of picking out what the most like negative view of

0:27:52.600 --> 0:27:53.400
<v Speaker 2>you could be.

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 4>Possibly.

0:27:54.440 --> 0:27:57.240
<v Speaker 2>I think most people like love and appreciate you and

0:27:57.320 --> 0:28:00.240
<v Speaker 2>laugh alongside you and relate with you. I also think

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:02.880
<v Speaker 2>that like, if people are listening and they say, okay,

0:28:02.920 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 2>then who is Caitlin? I would I would describe you

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:08.840
<v Speaker 2>as the person that is going to go to the

0:28:08.880 --> 0:28:11.960
<v Speaker 2>bar with you and probably do something that makes everybody

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:15.399
<v Speaker 2>laugh at and embarrass yourself in the process and be

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 2>okay with it and like enjoy the smiles that other

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 2>people get. And you're gonna say some wild stuff. You are,

0:28:23.480 --> 0:28:25.199
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna say some stuff that makes you go I

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:26.960
<v Speaker 2>cannot believe that just came out of her mouth. But

0:28:26.960 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 2>it doesn't come from a place of wanting anybody else

0:28:29.400 --> 0:28:33.520
<v Speaker 2>to suffer. No, never, I do. Also, I've been seeing

0:28:33.560 --> 0:28:36.960
<v Speaker 2>this recently and maybe your zen place from a distance.

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:40.480
<v Speaker 2>You know, you and I don't want to compare, but

0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:43.000
<v Speaker 2>and you know, when we all get off this show,

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:45.840
<v Speaker 2>there is this race to stay relevant. It happens to

0:28:45.880 --> 0:28:48.640
<v Speaker 2>all of us in different ways, in different platforms in

0:28:48.680 --> 0:28:52.920
<v Speaker 2>different times. And then you you have gone into relationships

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:57.560
<v Speaker 2>purposefully or not. You know, obviously, come off the show

0:28:57.600 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 2>with Sean like relevancy is just a everybody wants to

0:29:00.920 --> 0:29:01.920
<v Speaker 2>know what you're up to. And then you get in

0:29:01.920 --> 0:29:04.400
<v Speaker 2>a relationship with Jason where social media was a big

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:06.959
<v Speaker 2>part of your relationship. We knew where you're at and

0:29:07.000 --> 0:29:09.640
<v Speaker 2>what you're doing at most times because you were active

0:29:09.680 --> 0:29:13.800
<v Speaker 2>on social You're not as active anymore, and the world

0:29:13.840 --> 0:29:16.920
<v Speaker 2>doesn't really know where you're at in relationship to others

0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:19.760
<v Speaker 2>at this point in your life. But that seems like

0:29:19.800 --> 0:29:22.480
<v Speaker 2>it is a healthy like sign that like that is

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:26.960
<v Speaker 2>something you're that intrigued by. Is to keep your relationship relevant.

0:29:27.840 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 4>I don't. I do not want to use anything in

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 4>my life to stay relevant. I don't want, whether it

0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:42.080
<v Speaker 4>be even just like my dogs or you know, I

0:29:42.160 --> 0:29:47.000
<v Speaker 4>just I don't want to ever use something for relevancy,

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:51.400
<v Speaker 4>for views, for likes, for for whatever reason. And I

0:29:51.480 --> 0:29:56.320
<v Speaker 4>have found so much peace in that because because I

0:29:56.360 --> 0:29:59.560
<v Speaker 4>do share so much, so to keep something to myself

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:03.320
<v Speaker 4>and not have any noise and you know, not have

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:06.600
<v Speaker 4>people questioning when oh they're not posting as much and

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.080
<v Speaker 4>have you noticed, and what's going on and they don't

0:30:09.160 --> 0:30:12.240
<v Speaker 4>like this anymore, and like to not have to even

0:30:12.280 --> 0:30:15.000
<v Speaker 4>think about that or worry about that. I would never

0:30:15.680 --> 0:30:19.719
<v Speaker 4>want to use a relationship to monetize, because I've done that.

0:30:20.360 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 4>I did that even you know, you get engaged publicly

0:30:25.320 --> 0:30:28.640
<v Speaker 4>and you're being offered other deals and you're monetizing, and

0:30:28.680 --> 0:30:31.680
<v Speaker 4>you're monetizing, and then you just it loses all of

0:30:31.720 --> 0:30:35.080
<v Speaker 4>the foundation and the importance of the relationship. And I'm

0:30:35.120 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 4>just it's so important to me to protect that at

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 4>all costs moving forward, because I want a healthy, loving

0:30:42.800 --> 0:30:46.959
<v Speaker 4>relationship that is strong and no other noise coming in

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:47.240
<v Speaker 4>on it.

0:30:47.800 --> 0:30:49.560
<v Speaker 3>So she's admitting she's in a relationship.

0:30:50.440 --> 0:30:52.120
<v Speaker 2>I didn't hear that. I didn't hear that.

0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:55.080
<v Speaker 4>You'll never know, You'll never know.

0:30:57.800 --> 0:31:00.160
<v Speaker 5>The last thing you posted on social media was as

0:31:00.280 --> 0:31:04.760
<v Speaker 5>you feeling really nostalgic about Dancing with the Stars.

0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 3>Because you've been watching Joey on it and him killing

0:31:07.080 --> 0:31:07.600
<v Speaker 3>the game.

0:31:07.960 --> 0:31:10.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's almost too good. I'm like, what this is?

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:12.280
<v Speaker 4>It's freaky how good he is?

0:31:12.600 --> 0:31:15.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how do you how much do you miss that time?

0:31:15.920 --> 0:31:19.360
<v Speaker 4>Honestly, the Dancing with the Stars? I know some people say,

0:31:19.400 --> 0:31:21.959
<v Speaker 4>like I heard Gabby talking about it the other day

0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:24.640
<v Speaker 4>and she like refers to it as I don't I

0:31:24.640 --> 0:31:26.440
<v Speaker 4>don't want to put words in growth, I don't remember,

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 4>but she she wouldn't do it again, or something like that.

0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 4>And I know a lot of people think it's the

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:35.479
<v Speaker 4>hardest thing they've ever done. But sometimes I find it

0:31:35.520 --> 0:31:37.840
<v Speaker 4>hard to even watch Dancing with the Stars because of

0:31:37.880 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 4>how much nostalgia and joy it brings me. Because even

0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 4>though it was so hard and the physical emotional like

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 4>strain I went through was beyond belief with that show,

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:54.719
<v Speaker 4>like I didn't. I didn't expect that I would do

0:31:54.760 --> 0:31:57.240
<v Speaker 4>it again in a heartbeat because it was so rewarding,

0:31:57.320 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 4>and I just I'll never be able to explain to

0:31:59.720 --> 0:32:02.920
<v Speaker 4>people my passion for dancing. It is truly like something

0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:05.600
<v Speaker 4>that I do if I'm anxious, if I'm depressed, if

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:07.840
<v Speaker 4>i want to be in the moment, if I'm like,

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:11.720
<v Speaker 4>you know, for exercise. I just love dancing so much

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:13.720
<v Speaker 4>and I would do anything to be back on that

0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:16.640
<v Speaker 4>dance floor. I know I love it.

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:18.920
<v Speaker 2>Would you, I mean, would you as you look back

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:23.480
<v Speaker 2>on your reality television journey, what like what stands like

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:25.920
<v Speaker 2>what pops out in your head? First Bachelorette or Dance

0:32:25.960 --> 0:32:26.480
<v Speaker 2>with the Stars?

0:32:28.760 --> 0:32:30.760
<v Speaker 4>Probably Bachelorette because I just feel like that was the

0:32:30.760 --> 0:32:33.920
<v Speaker 4>most pivotal thing for me, and I feel like it

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 4>taught me the most about myself and I realized how

0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 4>strong I was through that. But definitely Dancing with the

0:32:42.760 --> 0:32:45.440
<v Speaker 4>Stars was like my most memorable I would say.

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:47.239
<v Speaker 2>You're made for like you were made for Like that

0:32:47.400 --> 0:32:50.000
<v Speaker 2>was right away. It was like it was a season

0:32:50.000 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 2>where people hadn't necessarily done it. I mean, I guess

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:54.760
<v Speaker 2>souls did it, but it felt like it was still

0:32:54.760 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 2>in question, is Kaylen going to be on Dance with

0:32:56.440 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 2>the Stars everybody wanted you to do.

0:32:58.360 --> 0:33:01.080
<v Speaker 4>I couldn't believe it was five years late, like it was,

0:33:01.280 --> 0:33:03.320
<v Speaker 4>you know, like that's a long time to be off

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 4>and then be asked to go on. And I think

0:33:05.400 --> 0:33:09.040
<v Speaker 4>that really helped me too, because I was just so grateful.

0:33:08.600 --> 0:33:09.160
<v Speaker 3>To be there.

0:33:09.640 --> 0:33:15.520
<v Speaker 4>And I love being pushed in like out. I like

0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:18.480
<v Speaker 4>being pushed in a way where I'm like, I didn't

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 4>think I could do that, but somebody else pushed me

0:33:20.680 --> 0:33:23.240
<v Speaker 4>hard enough to get there, and then I prove myself wrong.

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:27.440
<v Speaker 4>I love that. I'm very competitive and just the fact

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 4>that it was also dancing is amazing. I loved it.

0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 5>Your partner on the show, Ardam, is going through some

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 5>all time allegations right now about domestic abuse.

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how do you stayed in touch with him?

0:33:44.320 --> 0:33:50.160
<v Speaker 4>I honestly, this is it's so hard because obviously we

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 4>don't know what happened. In my mind, domestic abuse is awful.

0:33:55.040 --> 0:33:58.959
<v Speaker 4>It's terrible, it's sad, it's scary, and the back and

0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:02.880
<v Speaker 4>forth between like he said, she said, is so overwhelming

0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:06.160
<v Speaker 4>and it's all that my heart can do is say,

0:34:06.240 --> 0:34:11.239
<v Speaker 4>I hope everyone's okay. I hope whoever is, you know,

0:34:11.360 --> 0:34:13.680
<v Speaker 4>in a dark place is getting the help that they need.

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:16.239
<v Speaker 4>And all I can think about is Matteo, their son,

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:19.600
<v Speaker 4>Like I know, they both probably just want what's best

0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 4>for him, and it just feels very messy right now.

0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's you know, for the for the Dance with

0:34:25.880 --> 0:34:27.920
<v Speaker 2>the Stars to be doing as well as its doing

0:34:27.960 --> 0:34:29.440
<v Speaker 2>right now and to have the stars that they have

0:34:29.520 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 2>on it right now, there's also just those kind of

0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:36.000
<v Speaker 2>things looming over it. Yeah, But kind of going back

0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:38.239
<v Speaker 2>on my original question that started this train of thought

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:41.960
<v Speaker 2>and then talking now about Bachelorette and Dancing with the

0:34:42.000 --> 0:34:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Stars and just Kaitlin knowing the place that you're at

0:34:45.680 --> 0:34:50.399
<v Speaker 2>in life right now, what is like, what what does

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.480
<v Speaker 2>life look like now going forward? Because if we were

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<v Speaker 2>to ask you this five years ago, I'm assuming the

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<v Speaker 2>answer would have been like, in a lot of ways,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe without saying it, like what's next, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>how what new project can I do? What can I

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<v Speaker 2>get involved with? Those types of things? I'm assuming now

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<v Speaker 2>the answer looks a little different.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so different. I My answer is so different. I

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<v Speaker 4>truly I see the benefit of how much work I

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<v Speaker 4>put into myself and where I want to be in life.

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<v Speaker 4>And I mean that in a way of how I

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<v Speaker 4>how I want to feel, not where I want to

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<v Speaker 4>be in my career. I feel like I've put in

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<v Speaker 4>the hard work. I feel like I'm I'm I'm like

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<v Speaker 4>right now, I'm calling it. I'm marinating in the hard

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<v Speaker 4>work that I've put in and that I'm actually just

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<v Speaker 4>like happy where I'm at instead of thinking what's next.

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<v Speaker 4>I've always thought what's next, and I still like, obviously

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<v Speaker 4>in the back of my mind, I'm still like, well, excellent,

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<v Speaker 4>but I'm trying to try. And that's just my aid,

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<v Speaker 4>that's just who I am. But I'm I'm really doing

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<v Speaker 4>a good job of sitting in the where I am

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<v Speaker 4>right now and being as in that and being like, wow,

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<v Speaker 4>I've done a lot, and I've worked really hard on

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<v Speaker 4>myself during all of it to evolve as a human being.

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<v Speaker 4>And I look back on the last ten years of

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<v Speaker 4>my life and I'm like, I am a complete different

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<v Speaker 4>person in the best way I can hope for that.

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<v Speaker 4>I just it's all my focus is on how I

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<v Speaker 4>want to feel instead of what I want to be doing.

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<v Speaker 4>How do I want to feel in five years, not

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<v Speaker 4>what do I want to do in five years, so

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<v Speaker 4>it's minus the ten year plan of being the Golden Bachelorette.

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<v Speaker 4>That's kind of where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 2>I want more for you. I want you to find

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<v Speaker 2>somebody within those ten years.

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<v Speaker 4>Ben, you couldn't pay me to be the Golden Bachelotte,

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<v Speaker 4>would I couldn't ever do any of that. Me just

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<v Speaker 4>sitting here preaching about like keeping my romance private and

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<v Speaker 4>then just going on this show again.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, if keeping your romance private doesn't work, then is

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<v Speaker 5>to go back to.

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<v Speaker 3>The old wayce.

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<v Speaker 1>Backwards?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah all right, Well you're so fun to have on

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<v Speaker 3>all the time. I love you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wait, we need to have our ten year reunion.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't believe it. I can't, I can and I

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<v Speaker 4>can't believe it. But the fact that that was ten

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<v Speaker 4>years ago that we were on the Bachelor, like it

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<v Speaker 4>really does feel like a lifetime ago, and like ten

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<v Speaker 4>years ago does make sense, But I still can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 4>Like my I said in the group text, I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>my brain cannot compute that it's been ten years. But

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<v Speaker 4>I would love to do a reunion.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, really really do I think we should

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<v Speaker 5>start working on this this week.

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<v Speaker 3>Ten years ago, we were in Santa Fe.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, wait where did we We didn't go

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<v Speaker 4>to anywhere that I would like to have a reunion, but.

0:37:44.440 --> 0:37:45.840
<v Speaker 2>Your season did not exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let's all reunite in Iowa.

0:37:48.200 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 5>Wouldn't it be hilarious if we like went to Iowa?

0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:53.640
<v Speaker 4>We actually should.

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<v Speaker 2>It would be really fun for me and I think

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of fans because I was watching that season

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<v Speaker 2>knowing that the Bachelorette was going to come from that season.

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<v Speaker 2>I was looking at the pictures I think Ashley posted

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<v Speaker 2>of your guys' season, like the whole group together, and

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<v Speaker 2>there's so many people that I have no clue where

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<v Speaker 2>they're at now in life. It would be really fun,

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<v Speaker 2>is if one of you, at some point could figure

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<v Speaker 2>out how to at least get a quick catchup on

0:38:20.400 --> 0:38:22.200
<v Speaker 2>all these people who we saw not only in your

0:38:22.200 --> 0:38:25.040
<v Speaker 2>season but then in Paradise, who now is like are

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<v Speaker 2>like gone? Yeah, which means that my season of the

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<v Speaker 2>Bachelor is coming up on ten years Yeah that's wild.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well this is giving me like an idea for

0:38:36.400 --> 0:38:37.720
<v Speaker 5>a news like series.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's make money on this.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so we need to get Ashley as on who

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<v Speaker 5>by the way, you know, because is that you know

0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:45.520
<v Speaker 5>everybody knows.

0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:48.480
<v Speaker 3>Ashley asked, is like, what was that line where She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>is that a pomegranate? Or it was a pomegranate? And

0:38:51.520 --> 0:38:53.840
<v Speaker 3>she thought it an onion? Is that an onion?

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<v Speaker 2>That's right?

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<v Speaker 3>She has four kids? Now? What?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she has four kids. I still that is mind

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<v Speaker 4>blowing to me. But I think she I remember talking

0:39:04.840 --> 0:39:07.879
<v Speaker 4>to her and she said something like I think she's

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<v Speaker 4>sober or she was sober for I don't know if

0:39:10.520 --> 0:39:12.279
<v Speaker 4>she still is because I don't. We don't follow each

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<v Speaker 4>other anymore, but now I want to follow her again.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow for kids?

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<v Speaker 3>Why does you unfollow each other?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I have so many Instagram cleanses and sometimes I'm like whoops,

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<v Speaker 4>and then other times I'm like I'm free. But you

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<v Speaker 4>know what, I you know what I do sometimes as

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<v Speaker 4>I just go and like I try and be like

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<v Speaker 4>do I talk to them anymore? Are they close? Do

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<v Speaker 4>they does what they post on their feet bring me

0:39:37.520 --> 0:39:41.399
<v Speaker 4>joy or does it make me stressed out? And and

0:39:41.960 --> 0:39:45.279
<v Speaker 4>do they still follow me? So I remember noticing that

0:39:45.360 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 4>brit unfollowed me and I was like what wow? And

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:51.719
<v Speaker 4>then so I went through and I think, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know what happened. This is so many years ago,

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<v Speaker 4>so I don't actually remember. But yeah, I love a

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<v Speaker 4>good cleanse. I love a cleanse.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, let's get some of these people on there.

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<v Speaker 4>And there's no not one person I wouldn't want to

0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:07.160
<v Speaker 4>see from our season of the Bat of the Bachelor.

0:40:07.200 --> 0:40:10.719
<v Speaker 4>There's not one girl I wouldn't want to now, even Kelseysie.

0:40:10.760 --> 0:40:14.880
<v Speaker 5>We'd have to have Kelsey just for like, we're too curious.

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<v Speaker 4>She won't come, but the invites there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Caitlin, you're the best you are and thanks for

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<v Speaker 2>coming on. It was great to see you on our

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<v Speaker 2>television screens. You're the perfect choice. Your facial expressions lit

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<v Speaker 2>up the television. It was great. We always appreciate you

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<v Speaker 2>as a guest and Almost Famous podcast and we cannot

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<v Speaker 2>wait to talk to you again soon.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I'll be back, you know, I will see y'all.

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