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Speaker 1: we gotta for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: The song from Steve is Free, by the way, just

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Speaker 1: letting you know, thank you, nephew. Subject I have to

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Speaker 1: watch my back now. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty

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Speaker 1: year old black man and I grew up in a

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Speaker 1: middle class family. But I had a lot of friends.

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Speaker 1: A lot of my friends were from different backgrounds because

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Speaker 1: I'd meet them playing sports or hanging out. I went

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Speaker 1: since the seventh grade, and he was from the hood

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Speaker 1: and always loved to brag about it when we were younger.

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Speaker 1: He was always fighting when we were young, and he

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Speaker 1: was nice with his hand, so I never wanted to

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Speaker 1: make him mad back then. Although we're very different now.

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Speaker 1: We used to hang out often until a month ago.

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Speaker 1: We got into a big debate over something stupid, and

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Speaker 1: I stayed there for a minute to catch my breath.

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Speaker 1: Then I got up and I put in work on him.

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Speaker 1: I slammed him to the ground and went crazy on him.

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Speaker 1: I tried calling him to work it out, but he

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Speaker 1: angry with me. Her exact words were, he ain't friends

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Speaker 1: with you, no more because you whipped his ass and

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Speaker 1: everyone around here knows it and they're looking for you.

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Speaker 1: I was shocked and afraid. I don't know what kind

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Speaker 1: of goons he's got looking for me, So I have

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Speaker 1: to watch my back. How can I settle things with

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Speaker 1: him like a man before I get jumped on? Well,

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Speaker 1: I think it's too late for that, I really do.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're gonna be able to settle this

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Speaker 1: like a man right now, because this guy won't. You know,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't want to do anymore talking. He didn't want

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Speaker 1: to hear what you had to say when he clocked

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Speaker 1: you the first time. And yeah, I think you shocked

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Speaker 1: him though when you fought back and beat him down.

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Speaker 1: And that's the problem. I'm sure he was embarrassed Dustin.

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Speaker 1: Now he's out for blood, and the next time it

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Speaker 1: what that's kind of Yeah, I bet he didn't tell

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Speaker 1: that he made the first move that he started all

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Speaker 1: of this. I say, yeah, you definitely need to watch

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Speaker 1: your back now. This doesn't sound good for you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see anybody get hurt or worse

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Speaker 1: or anything like that. But you fought him fair and square,

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Speaker 1: sounds like, but obviously he doesn't see it that way.

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Speaker 1: He knows that if he fights you by himself, he

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Speaker 1: I just say be careful and watch your back for sure, Steve.

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Speaker 1: You know this is my kind of letter right now.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know it is, baby, and that's what

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Speaker 1: album was gonna go on and get into. A thirty

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Speaker 1: had lots of friends right there as sweating. See, this

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Speaker 1: is where your letter starts. You start learning the lessons

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Speaker 1: in life. You thirty had a lot of friends, and

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Speaker 1: You meet them playing sports and hanging out. That's cool.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming that you just telling me you had outgrew

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Speaker 1: the area, and all this here right anyway, And you

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Speaker 1: we were younger. All right, I got that I'm from

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Speaker 1: the hood. You don't miss with me. He was always

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Speaker 1: Help My favorite line in this whole letter. He was

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Speaker 1: nice with his hands. See those days are gone, though. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: They ain't nice with their hands no more. They quick

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Speaker 1: less it's it's less macho. You know, you could be

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Speaker 1: friends and have a fistfight with your buddy, and the

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Speaker 1: next day y'all speak all my guys that I grew

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Speaker 1: up fighting. We're still cool because we fist fall, We

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Speaker 1: had nice hands, so I understand that. But anyway, things

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Speaker 1: into a big debate over something stupid. Don't know what

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Speaker 1: that was. He said he was tired of talking. He

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Speaker 1: punched me face. That's all. What what we're hugging? Yeah

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Speaker 1: we are. We're back and forth. I know exactly what happened.

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Speaker 1: And you got tired of ag and they punch you

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Speaker 1: in the face. Let me tell you what happened. The

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Speaker 1: cussing term F you. F you can only go back.

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Speaker 1: It's a maximum of three times, and then it changes.

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Speaker 1: You could go f you, then your partner can say

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Speaker 1: After that, somebody got to get their heads knocked out.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's three. It's only Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after tell you what happened? More Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: After you're listening to show all right, come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letter. The subject I have to

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Speaker 1: watch my back now. Well, the brothers said, I gotta

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Speaker 1: watch with thirty year old dude. Man grew up in

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Speaker 1: the middle class family, had a lot of friends. That's

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Speaker 1: You meet him playing sports and hanging out. You went

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Speaker 1: You've outgrown your friends. Sometimes people in your life just

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Speaker 1: for a season. Man, you everybody come with you can't go,

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Speaker 1: which I'll just said just on a hundred times on

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Speaker 1: the show, Young brother. Now you running into this thing

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Speaker 1: we call life. I had one best friend for the

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Speaker 1: seventh grade. He was from the hood, and he was

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Speaker 1: always fighting when we was young because he had nice hands. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so he could fight. Should have been in the boxing

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Speaker 1: No stupid as stayed at the house, so I never

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Speaker 1: wanted to make him mad back then. And although we

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Speaker 1: until a month ago. Now here's what happened, y'all. We

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Speaker 1: don't know what it was. Could have been politics going

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Speaker 1: And you know, one of them, they probably arguing about

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Speaker 1: ice cube or fifty cent. You never know what they

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Speaker 1: they got into it. He said he was tired of talking,

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Speaker 1: maximum three four times max. Then after that the punch

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Speaker 1: got thrown. So he sucked a punch your dude, because

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Speaker 1: he ignorant and you've outgrown your friends and you're different now,

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Speaker 1: and now your friends ain't. So he just sucker punch

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Speaker 1: this is why I'm proud of you. Went to work.

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Speaker 1: I put it in work on him. Yeah, I slammed

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Speaker 1: him to work it out, but he didn't answer, and

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Speaker 1: as mama called me back, and she was angry with me,

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Speaker 1: and her exact words where he ain't friends with you

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Speaker 1: no more because you whipped his ass. Man his mama,

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Speaker 1: y'all thirty, His mama called you back and said he

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Speaker 1: because he stayed with her. Yeah, he stayed at his

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Speaker 1: you don't know, is the mama mad at you too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: me let me rest to show it for you. Son.

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Speaker 1: about he sucker punched you and knocked you down, and

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Speaker 1: explain to his mother what happened, and then I would

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Speaker 1: post what happened y'all into social media. I would post

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Speaker 1: what happened, but saying it in a regretful ray. A

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Speaker 1: and as a man, I regret what I've done, but

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Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Don't nobody help the bully.

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Speaker 1: Nobody helps the bully. So all these his friends is

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Speaker 1: looking for you for what now. Back in the day,

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Speaker 1: Hold up dog, So you punched earl? Yeah, but we're

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Speaker 1: gonna jump on Earl. Nothing, Hold up, dog. You punched

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Speaker 1: Earl first, and then Earl whopped you. Hey, bro, we're good.

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Speaker 1: We're good with Earl and all this hell. Now that's

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Speaker 1: the old way. I don't know how young dudes handle

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Speaker 1: it right now, because the old way is lost. Now.

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Speaker 1: He had nice hands till he found out he knocked

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Speaker 1: down the grown ass man, and now your hands as

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Speaker 1: nicer than his old When time changes things after it

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Speaker 1: flies a while. So now Mama then told you they're

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Speaker 1: looking for you. I was shocked, in a fraid. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what kind of goons he got looking for me.

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Speaker 1: So now I gotta watch my back. How could I

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Speaker 1: settle things with him when the man before I get

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Speaker 1: jumped off a right? Like, I told you you got

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Speaker 1: to post this, but you gotta get this thing settled.

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Speaker 1: But not. The real advice to your young man is

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Speaker 1: this right here. You're thirty years old. You've outgrown that neighborhood,

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Speaker 1: You've outgrown the people that stayed there, and it's time

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Speaker 1: for you to move. See, you can't come out you're

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Speaker 1: dough wearing about what somebody down the street gonna do.

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Speaker 1: You went to college it's too much. It's time for

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Speaker 1: you to move on and move along. They are not

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Speaker 1: your friends. You're not gonna regain his friendship. Friends are

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Speaker 1: only for seasons. Man. There's some people you was cool

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Speaker 1: with you're just not cool with no more. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Move for Steve and move on bye. That's right now.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the Atlanta's Mayor Kesha Land's Bottoms will

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Speaker 1: be our special guests. She's gonna talk about the two

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Speaker 1: key Georgia Center runoffs up. We'll talk to the mayor

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show