Speaker 1: Second, d D is it possible to be too hot
Speaker 1: to date? Asking for a friend? Nobody in this room
Speaker 1: could answer. Seriously, If you look on TikTok right now,
Speaker 1: there's all these videos of beautiful models complaining that no
Speaker 1: men will approach them because guys are too intimidated. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, my best friend is gorgeous and she always
Speaker 1: had that problem. Yeah, you just talk to him. It
Speaker 1: was all part of posting hashtag ask a hot girl
Speaker 1: out without peeing yourself challenge? Yeah didn't, got ye. That
Speaker 1: might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen,
Speaker 1: is facing in her love life right now. She's worried
Speaker 1: maybe she was too attractive during her first date. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. Okay, we'll try not to make fun of
Speaker 1: you right out of the gate. I don't feel sorry
Speaker 1: for you already. What we want to learn more? How
Speaker 1: you doing? Hey? Oh look, you guys are ridiculous. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I just this was a one knife phenomenon. I am
Speaker 1: not that hot hot girl anyway. Let's hang up on
Speaker 1: this girl. We're just joking around with you. Christ tell
Speaker 1: us about the guy that you ended up going out with.
Speaker 1: What's his name? His name is ben I don't even
Speaker 1: know if you could call it going out. I was
Speaker 1: already out, so okay. So last week I was supposed
Speaker 1: to meet up with my friend just get some drinks
Speaker 1: or whatever. Girls nights. Yeah. I have this thing where
Speaker 1: I like to wear these one piece outfits now, like
Speaker 1: a jumper, like a jumper yeah yeah, yeah, like those
Speaker 1: babies were that you zip up from the foot all
Speaker 1: the way to the next I will say, I wish
Speaker 1: they had a zipper down below, because go to the
Speaker 1: bathroom in a jumper is really okay, So sorry, keep going,
Speaker 1: You're you're looking good. So I'm saying, it's a bar,
Speaker 1: waiting from my friend and she is running late, and
Speaker 1: meanwhile guys are like sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting
Speaker 1: with me. Okay girl. Yeah, it was like a total
Speaker 1: sausage party. So I had all the attentions that there's
Speaker 1: this one guy in particular who was just like absolutely
Speaker 1: my type from head to toe, Like oh, he was
Speaker 1: even wearing like the outfit my high school crush used
Speaker 1: to it that was like my favorite outfit with like
Speaker 1: green corduroys and a little black polo shirt and he
Speaker 1: had a beard just like he was way taller than me.
Speaker 1: It's it's good that you got over him. So did
Speaker 1: Ben approach you then? No? I mean I thought maybe
Speaker 1: he was looking my way a little bit, but like
Speaker 1: I said, I was really feeling myself, so I went
Speaker 1: up to him. Yeah, there you go. As you watch
Speaker 1: all the other boys be jealous but not cool, never
Speaker 1: been in your situation in I'm for you. How did
Speaker 1: it go? Well, Okay, here's where it gets a little
Speaker 1: bit weird because I've never had anything like this happened
Speaker 1: to me before. So I'm like, I'm sitting with him,
Speaker 1: and I'm chatting with him, and I'm clearly into him.
Speaker 1: And the bartender comes over at inch Abrups because some
Speaker 1: other guys sent me a drink. Oh brood, while you're
Speaker 1: talking to the guy that you wanted, and competitive guy
Speaker 1: being like, hey, bro sorry, I see you. She walked
Speaker 1: to you, but I still got her attention over here.
Speaker 1: Did he seem to like that, like as like a
Speaker 1: challenge or did he seem to be put off by it?
Speaker 1: I mean, he had a beard, so it's pretty hard
Speaker 1: to tell. Was he mostly beard like I just actually
Speaker 1: more like five o'clock And that was like a little
Speaker 1: bit awkward. So I kind of used that as an
Speaker 1: opportunity to like show him that I was into him.
Speaker 1: So I kind of looked at the other guy like thanks,
Speaker 1: but what the heck and just ignored him and went
Speaker 1: back to talking to Ben actually him feel but here's
Speaker 1: the thing, guys. Then it happened again. What whoa same dude? Like,
Speaker 1: same dude, just can't know different dude? What can you
Speaker 1: send me a link to your jumps? I had like
Speaker 1: some sort of magical magnetism going on, and I just
Speaker 1: I just I just like saluted that guy awkwardly, like okay, captain,
Speaker 1: and you sound hysterical. I mean through it all, you
Speaker 1: sound really funny too, like hot an well, dude, Ben
Speaker 1: and I were laughing our butts off all my like,
Speaker 1: he's hilarious too. I'm thinking about setting you a drink
Speaker 1: right now. The bar seems like the coolest place. It's
Speaker 1: got Captain's, it's got Lumberjacks Brooks over in the back
Speaker 1: saying like, how do you do How did this interaction
Speaker 1: between you and Ben? How did that end? Well? I
Speaker 1: mean eventually my friend let me know that she wasn't coming, ohh,
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's actually fine, I forgot about
Speaker 1: and we hung out for the rest of the night,
Speaker 1: had a fantastic night. He gave me his number, I
Speaker 1: gave him my number. Yes, and I mean that's basically been.
Speaker 1: It's like he texted me back, but like with no enthusiasm.
Speaker 1: We haven't made plans. Did you ask him if he
Speaker 1: was single? Like point blank? Oh my god, no, I
Speaker 1: have not. Actually, this is mind blow because even if
Speaker 1: he wasn't interested in you, the fact that you were
Speaker 1: like literally swatting other men away in front of him
Speaker 1: and then telling him you were so interesting like that
Speaker 1: alone would make a guy just him one thing to
Speaker 1: give attention, it's one thing to also reject other attentions.
Speaker 1: I've been seririzing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing
Speaker 1: but this, and maybe he like stalked me online. It
Speaker 1: is like, okay, she's not always that hot. Oh the
Speaker 1: lights on at the end of the night. There you
Speaker 1: have to understand, Like for me, the onesie thing, the
Speaker 1: whole thing is, I don't have to put an outfit together.
Speaker 1: It's like no effort. Yeah, they're really so, It's like
Speaker 1: I don't want to make up. Yeah that's true. I'm
Speaker 1: with you, Okay, you and your magic onesie. Hold on,
Speaker 1: we're going to play the song, we'll put back, We'll
Speaker 1: call Ben for you, and we'll try and get your
Speaker 1: second dade up date. Okay, okay, I'm suddenly feeling very
Speaker 1: self conscious. Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the
Speaker 1: sequel that Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dreamtime Listen
Speaker 1: and the magic Dude attracting Onesie link. Because yeah, she
Speaker 1: went out and wore there's one specific jumper that made
Speaker 1: her look real fine that night. So guys at the
Speaker 1: bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing,
Speaker 1: except it was happening while she was sitting down with
Speaker 1: the one dude that she really wanted to be with,
Speaker 1: a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard
Speaker 1: than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all that attention
Speaker 1: from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben
Speaker 1: and it could have scared him away. How could a
Speaker 1: guy with a beard like that be intimidated. I don't
Speaker 1: know what happened, but he's not asking me out, so
Speaker 1: I mean, whatever it is, I want to know. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe his beard got caught on the door and he shuts.
Speaker 1: He can't get home to make the call to you,
Speaker 1: so let's find out here we go. Hello, m Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah it sounds right. Hey is this Ben the beard?
Speaker 1: What I mean Ben? Ben with a beard? Uh? This Ben?
Speaker 1: Oh he's not sorry, he sounded exactly like I thought.
Speaker 1: I think Ben just flustered everyone in the road. Ben. Sorry.
Speaker 1: My name is jeff Um. I also have a beard,
Speaker 1: but probably not as nice as yours. I host a
Speaker 1: morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,
Speaker 1: and we're hoping to talk with you a little bit.
Speaker 1: Uh sorry, you're a radio show. Yeah. You can also
Speaker 1: hear us on podcast too, if you want to look
Speaker 1: us up on like Spotify, any of that. We're there.
Speaker 1: Uh all right, cool, that's all we wanted to say.
Speaker 1: Thanks for your time. Then, no, we're really calling because
Speaker 1: we're doing something called a second Date Update, and we're
Speaker 1: trying to help one of our listeners get ahold of you. Okay,
Speaker 1: her name's Kristen. Have you met her out at the
Speaker 1: bar the other night? Yeah, it wasn't really a first date. Yeah, uh,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen.
Speaker 1: She had a really cute jumper on. Most guys don't
Speaker 1: recognize that stuff. Yeah, good cleavage. Now you speaking our language? No,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I do I know who that girl is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: to talk to her, she sounded awesome, like funny. She
Speaker 1: wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah, really fun. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's super fun. Right, Okay, I'm sorry she told you
Speaker 1: that we hung out or something. She told a radio
Speaker 1: station that we hung out. She said that she met
Speaker 1: you out at the bar the other night and was
Speaker 1: having a really nice time. And then afterwards, it's been
Speaker 1: kind of hard getting ahold of you, and she's curious
Speaker 1: why Wow, this is this is so crazy. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know this isn't a normal thing that happens, but we're
Speaker 1: really hoping to help her out because she's a listener.
Speaker 1: Who does that? Who does that? That's someone that feels
Speaker 1: a really strong connection with somebody that they met. And
Speaker 1: she just sounds like confident and awesome. But like she
Speaker 1: did say, she didn't like point blink, ask you if
Speaker 1: you were in a relationship. Oh no, I'm not in
Speaker 1: a relationship. But like, okay, thank god, I'm not in
Speaker 1: a relationship with her. Oh ye, why would you say that? Oh,
Speaker 1: she's I think that she's just kind of messed up.
Speaker 1: What did she do something to you? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was the situation was like I saw her at
Speaker 1: a bar, and like she came over to me and
Speaker 1: we started chatting, and she was really funny. I mean
Speaker 1: like she got like a drink from another guy. I guess, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: she mentioned that to us a little bit. Is that
Speaker 1: something that intimidated you? I mean not really not at first.
Speaker 1: I mean I thought it was kind of funny that
Speaker 1: a dude was doing that. But when it happened again,
Speaker 1: because it happened like a second time, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: hell no, this is ridiculous. Yeah, but how are you
Speaker 1: How are you blaming her? It's not her fault. So,
Speaker 1: like the situation that happened was like she had to
Speaker 1: leave for a hot second to step out to like
Speaker 1: talk to her friends because against the friend wasn't coming.
Speaker 1: But when she was outside, I like walked over to
Speaker 1: the guy who had set the drinks. Oh, like, hey,
Speaker 1: do you mind not doing that? I'm talking to the
Speaker 1: squirrel right now. And it kind of what makes me
Speaker 1: look a little bad, or it feels like you're being competitive,
Speaker 1: which is like so Childlike, that's not bad to go
Speaker 1: talk man to man real quick and to say hey, bro,
Speaker 1: yeah you know you know you're not causing a scene, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: you want to wrestle beards over now if he's like,
Speaker 1: back off, but if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to talk with her, and you know, I think
Speaker 1: she's interested in me. So what did he day? He
Speaker 1: said he didn't send it. What. Oh, so then you
Speaker 1: just obviously got the wrong dude, Yeah, like it was
Speaker 1: somebody else. The bartender said it wrong, No, because like
Speaker 1: the bartender pointed to the guy out. Oh yeah, because
Speaker 1: they're across the room. So the bartender was like, from him,
Speaker 1: So you went to the bartender. So I walked over
Speaker 1: the bartender and I asked the bartender and he was like,
Speaker 1: I can't really disclose that. What I thought he just
Speaker 1: pointed the dude out. Just want to start a fight
Speaker 1: or something? Was what did he say? It was just
Speaker 1: weird that he was being coy and I called that out.
Speaker 1: I was like, why do you carry you literally pointed
Speaker 1: the guy out before And that's when he told me,
Speaker 1: which is that I guess this is something that she
Speaker 1: does that Kristen does she pays the bartender to like
Speaker 1: send a drink to herself from some random guy. Every like, Oh, really,
Speaker 1: do you believe that I'm gonna start doing this? I
Speaker 1: think you think that's true. Yeah, because the second he
Speaker 1: like admitted it, he was like, don't tell her she
Speaker 1: does this often, Like she comes in and does this
Speaker 1: every month or so, like he he did it for
Speaker 1: like a few months for her. Though, that's kind of nice. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you think that's a red flag. You don't think it's
Speaker 1: just kind of funny. That's so justful. It's so weird
Speaker 1: that I feel like it's just trying to pump up
Speaker 1: her own confidence that some people need that, especially if
Speaker 1: they're going to go approach another guy, which is a
Speaker 1: really intimidating thing to do as a woman. True, it's
Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds so outland as you guys are
Speaker 1: all believing it. I'm still not sure if this is
Speaker 1: actually true. Okay, I think we should just ask Kristen directly, Kristen,
Speaker 1: did you pay the bartender to send you drakes? Of
Speaker 1: course not, that's ridiculous. Oh, christ Ben, I forgot to
Speaker 1: tell Christens on the other line listening, she wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. This is so embarrassing. Oh I'm embarrassed,
Speaker 1: but this is embarrassing for everyone. Honest. Okay, first of all,
Speaker 1: that is not even true. That's complete nonsense. I would
Speaker 1: never do that. But let's say theoretically someone did that.
Speaker 1: That's hilarious. I don't believe. I was listening and Ben's
Speaker 1: all like, oh, she's messed up, And I'm like, have
Speaker 1: you never seen the movie Clueless? Remember she sends herself
Speaker 1: chocolates and flowers. Yea, when they were in high school.
Speaker 1: I don't think they could be in a bar for
Speaker 1: somebody that's denying it. You sure do know a lot
Speaker 1: about this system works. Oh my god, you guys the
Speaker 1: magician never reveals their secrets. Is it not even that cute? Then?
Speaker 1: I'm trying to like, I mean that here's the thing,
Speaker 1: doesn't even matter, Like, who cares? She sounds awesome. I
Speaker 1: am awesome. Yeah, as you should confident. There's no doubt
Speaker 1: about I mean, you can kind of hear what she's
Speaker 1: saying right now. She's making it seem like it's not
Speaker 1: that big of a deal, but she's like not owning
Speaker 1: up to it, but she kind of is owning up
Speaker 1: to it. And if you're starting off on the wrong
Speaker 1: foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or
Speaker 1: maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that
Speaker 1: right off the bat, So um, you are, like, I
Speaker 1: feel like you're taking this really really seriously, considering we
Speaker 1: were a couple of random strangers that met in the
Speaker 1: bar and had a laugh and I just wanted to
Speaker 1: know you all right. Well, then if you think I'm
Speaker 1: taking it too seriously, then just own up to it.
Speaker 1: Then I'll ask you again, did you do it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Of course I did. Yeah, how I love it? Though
Speaker 1: it's like all of us and said she didn't do it.
Speaker 1: It works. It's what Dane is. It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: trying to make yourself feel better, trying to make yourself
Speaker 1: look the best. She just used a different method. Why well,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I do
Speaker 1: need to let Ben know that there's another woman who
Speaker 1: wants to send you a gift card to go on
Speaker 1: a date. Would you like that gift card? Ben? Because Ben,
Speaker 1: if you say yes, then you can go out with
Speaker 1: Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that. Uh you
Speaker 1: know what? Sure? Yeah, why not? But you have one
Speaker 1: strike against you right now. You know when you want
Speaker 1: a warning. Okay, sounds like a naughty thing. Yeah, okay, agree.
Speaker 1: You know I have never ever cheated or anything like
Speaker 1: that any ever my life. Why did you have to
Speaker 1: insist that no one asked nobody. I'm starting to worry.
Speaker 1: Broke and Jeffrey in the morning,