Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast.
Speaker 1: It's almost Christmas time and we're in our Christmas colors.
Speaker 1: What are you most looking forward to for Christmas? Cap
Speaker 1: honestly relaxing. Yeah, I just want to relax. So at
Speaker 1: Christmas time, Um, the kids with the kids as are
Speaker 1: getting older a little bit more really, Yeah, they'll start
Speaker 1: sleeping in, We'll start being a little bit lazy in
Speaker 1: the mornings. And our PJSU Yeah you're still kind of
Speaker 1: in the like they still get up at six am
Speaker 1: and start start going. After Christmas is usually kind of crazy.
Speaker 1: But yeah, what about you? Um, what I'm most looking
Speaker 1: forward to? Um? What am I most looking forward to? Well, again,
Speaker 1: it's weird and it's hard, and I'm trying to stay
Speaker 1: positive and a few days before Christmas, but I think
Speaker 1: just um, you know, actually, I'm gonna be totally honest,
Speaker 1: you know what. So, and I was talking to Pamelin
Speaker 1: about this. Um, I'm I'm so worried about next year
Speaker 1: that I'm not almost enjoying this year. Oh wow, Okay,
Speaker 1: because next year I'm like, holy, I won't have them
Speaker 1: for Christmas. Eve. Yeah, let's not think about I don't
Speaker 1: get to wake up with them Christmas morning? What do
Speaker 1: I do? But then like what Pamela and saying She's like,
Speaker 1: what's so special about Christmas Eve? And I'm like, okay
Speaker 1: for me, Like, what's so special about Christmas Eve? Is
Speaker 1: like you know, you talk him in then in the
Speaker 1: morning they get the excitement of sand and she's like, well,
Speaker 1: you can still have the excitement when they come over
Speaker 1: to your house at noon on Christmas Day, I think,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, but you miss them walking down the steps,
Speaker 1: and like, I understand that. I get that, Um, but
Speaker 1: I think you're going to have to make your own
Speaker 1: new excitement at a different time. But I understand that's hard.
Speaker 1: But I also feel like maybe we should focus on
Speaker 1: this year well, because you do have them this year. Yes, god,
Speaker 1: I know. And Pamela and said she wrote me this message,
Speaker 1: and she goes, right, I oh, this is what I said.
Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, I go, what if
Speaker 1: I just have because he had asked to come over
Speaker 1: Christmas Eve and spend the night and wake up with
Speaker 1: the kids in the morning, and I'm like I and
Speaker 1: I said, I originally was like, let me think about it,
Speaker 1: and then I said no because I was like, I
Speaker 1: want my own memories, my own traditions. So I guess
Speaker 1: I have a little bit oficult. Um like my own traditions,
Speaker 1: my own thing. I don't want that energy around because
Speaker 1: you know, kids will pick up on it. But then
Speaker 1: in my mind, I was like, but next year, I
Speaker 1: will want the same thing. But we also don't know
Speaker 1: what's going to be next year. Well, I mean we'd
Speaker 1: probably both be in relationships, and like, then how do
Speaker 1: you go spend the night at your ex husband's house
Speaker 1: if you're in a new relationship, Like yeah, like my
Speaker 1: my my boyfriend spend the night at like my with
Speaker 1: like you know. So it's like that just won't work, right.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't I appreciate the you know, trying
Speaker 1: to figure it out. I just I don't know, I
Speaker 1: don't know how that would work. Well, this is what
Speaker 1: Pam said. Um, she was right. I get it. But
Speaker 1: you cannot do family with him. You just can't. You
Speaker 1: have you will have your own memories and traditions. For example,
Speaker 1: I would choose to pick them up from his house
Speaker 1: next year. You're in control of how your kids walk
Speaker 1: into the door, bring a cute treat that Santa left
Speaker 1: for them, in the car, write the letter he wrote them.
Speaker 1: They read it on the way home and build up
Speaker 1: the anticipation. Um have them stand at the front door
Speaker 1: and count to ten and run like hell into the
Speaker 1: house and see all the presents. Things like that, take
Speaker 1: control of the situation to make it awesome. Put foot
Speaker 1: Santa's footsteps outside of the sidewalk, like do things that like,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, okay, okay, okay, Like I think
Speaker 1: you're right, and because like that would be weird, and
Speaker 1: that would be weird, like to like if my the
Speaker 1: guy that I'm dating, was like would be like, hey,
Speaker 1: let's go spend the night at my ex wife's house.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it just becomes a little
Speaker 1: bit and you're setting the precedent and then it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: so what happens then the next year when Mike's like,
Speaker 1: all right, me and my girlfriend are coming to Horsmal
Speaker 1: and I had at your house. Like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I agree, doing the family thing is just too complicated.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you make your own thing. I
Speaker 1: think Pam is right. I think you can make that
Speaker 1: so big and so special and at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, like they get too Christmas is they're going
Speaker 1: to be excited about that. I was mean the other
Speaker 1: day though to him. He was like, why are you
Speaker 1: being I was just like because I was like, you
Speaker 1: ruined everything. And I was just like and I had
Speaker 1: to talk to my therapist and own that, like I
Speaker 1: was being a bit and was like I was being
Speaker 1: so mean to him. Not mean, but I was just like,
Speaker 1: he's like, why aren't you like communicating because I've I've
Speaker 1: been very kind and like very nice and like very
Speaker 1: um even when like you know, it wasn't reciprocated. I'm
Speaker 1: just like, all right, but I just was like, I
Speaker 1: don't know what it was, but I was just like
Speaker 1: because I don't want to talk to you. I don't
Speaker 1: like you. You ruined everything, you know, And I was
Speaker 1: just for the first time like I got like, you know,
Speaker 1: I was like, I've been so nice and now it's
Speaker 1: the holidays and you ruined everything, and now I have
Speaker 1: to not be with my kids and I hate you.
Speaker 1: Get out of my face, take the kids, go by,
Speaker 1: see you later. And I was just like, now I
Speaker 1: have to apologize for being bitchy because I haven't, like
Speaker 1: I've been very nice. Nonpopular opinion I think it's okay. Well,
Speaker 1: my therapist is like, you need to give yourself radical grace.
Speaker 1: She's like, you've been very kind and like you have
Speaker 1: a lot of like still anger and hatred inside of you,
Speaker 1: so like unfortunately it's showing right now because of like
Speaker 1: the holiday season. She's like, and you can be happy
Speaker 1: and your friendships and your relationships and other things, but
Speaker 1: like the reality is you still harbor you know, anger
Speaker 1: and frustration and and this is hard, Like you didn't
Speaker 1: want this for your kids. So it's like and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I know, but that doesn't mean that I can like
Speaker 1: be nasty and mean. She's like, well you didn't. She's like,
Speaker 1: you're just you know, you're finally being like how a
Speaker 1: divorced wife would be. Yeah. Well, and honestly, like I
Speaker 1: get it. This holiday is your thing, Christmas has always been.
Speaker 1: I mean it would be for you know a lot
Speaker 1: of people. But it's going to be hard. And I
Speaker 1: think I think you posted something the other day, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: because my tree I was dying, and I feel bad
Speaker 1: because someone was at the house with me and I
Speaker 1: snapped at this person because I was looking at all
Speaker 1: my comments and they're like, yep, I agree with that one. Yep,
Speaker 1: I agree. It's for sure dead. I go, I get it,
Speaker 1: it's dead. And then I just started crying. And the
Speaker 1: person was like, oh wait, this is not about the tree.
Speaker 1: I was like, of course, it's not about the tree.
Speaker 1: It's about then, like the fact that Christmas is dead
Speaker 1: and perfect I was dying and everything's dead and my
Speaker 1: family's like you know. So it was just like a yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I think even when you posted that, it reminded me.
Speaker 1: You know, I think even as your friends were always
Speaker 1: trying to pep you up, keep you happy, you know,
Speaker 1: all those things which we will continue to do, but
Speaker 1: it's a reminder to me that, like, it's okay for
Speaker 1: you to be sad. You're going to be sad, and
Speaker 1: that's just part of it. I think that you choose
Speaker 1: and you will find the joy and your new things
Speaker 1: and you know what you're doing with your kids, but
Speaker 1: you're going to be sad, and I think that's okay.
Speaker 1: I think you have to give yourself Chrice for yeah,
Speaker 1: And I said that in the comment. I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, and that's okay, Like it's it is okay.
Speaker 1: I think be sad. I think people have a hard
Speaker 1: time around the holidays. You know, it's some people who
Speaker 1: have lost someone or you know, a dog, a parent,
Speaker 1: a friend or whatever. And you know a relationship and
Speaker 1: it might not look the way that you want to look,
Speaker 1: but you have to still find um ways to um
Speaker 1: have peace. And my therapist actually made me write it
Speaker 1: down the other day. She um. She goes, when you
Speaker 1: get into a hard spot for the holidays, whether it's
Speaker 1: Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, she was eight tips for caring
Speaker 1: for your mind, body and spirit. Um. The eight tips
Speaker 1: was breathe, go for a walk, feel the wind on
Speaker 1: your skin. Move run So however, like you want to,
Speaker 1: like like move your body because I'm in for me,
Speaker 1: Like whenever I work out or I run, I feel better.
Speaker 1: UM touch um, you know, get your shoulder and treat yourself,
Speaker 1: like get your shoulders massaged or your neck or whatever.
Speaker 1: You know, sit in a bath. I don't know. UM
Speaker 1: sing sometimes singing using your voice to heal, like put
Speaker 1: on And she's like, and you might be crying through it,
Speaker 1: And then she goes, sweat tears can be purifying for
Speaker 1: the heart and the body, and so can sweat. UM dance, cleanse,
Speaker 1: take a moment and then rest like when you when
Speaker 1: your body feels tired, take a nap and then just
Speaker 1: practice radical grace. So um, I like that radical grace. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because she was like we were talking about it, and um,
Speaker 1: I was like, Amy, I was like, why can't I
Speaker 1: just I'm like, why can't I just get over it?
Speaker 1: We're divorced, like, you know, like why do I like care?
Speaker 1: Why do I you know, why can't I just be
Speaker 1: like okay, you know, have a nice day by And
Speaker 1: she's like, you are not giving yourself and she's like,
Speaker 1: you need to give yourself a radical grace. And I
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, I like that. Yeah, you're really
Speaker 1: hard on yourself. Well yeah, and it's it's okay to
Speaker 1: still anyways, UM, trying to keep it joyful. Sorry, we're
Speaker 1: going to turn it around joyful because um, but I
Speaker 1: will say, what I'm looking most forward to for the
Speaker 1: holiday season is, um, the new memories and the new
Speaker 1: traditions that you know, I'm I have created this week
Speaker 1: with my kids and that Um, you know, I just
Speaker 1: want them to be happy. So I'm going to give
Speaker 1: him a great Christmas. And then when they leave Christmas
Speaker 1: Day at noon, the tree is going down Christmas is over.
Speaker 1: That's fair. I'm taking everything down because I will not
Speaker 1: be sad. There you go, what's the point. Whatever you
Speaker 1: gotta do. Yeah, I will take everything like because my
Speaker 1: tree is already dead, so I'm like, it's not going anywhere. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I mean Christmas and okay, um, we're gonna
Speaker 1: take a break and then, um, I gotta I gotta
Speaker 1: check on Mrs Claws because you know, it's a it's
Speaker 1: a crazy year for her husband, so I just want
Speaker 1: to make sure that she's she's she's doing an okay, Uh,
Speaker 1: she's okay during this time because I know what it's like.
Speaker 1: You know, actually I don't, but when your husband to work. Anyways,
Speaker 1: let's stay right. Hi, Fame is Claus. Hi? How are
Speaker 1: you good? How are you? I'm a little I've got
Speaker 1: the heater on full blast now it's too hot. Why
Speaker 1: are you so pretty? Because Santa knows how to get
Speaker 1: the good one. I don't judge man by their looks.
Speaker 1: I judge them by their character. Trust me and their beard.
Speaker 1: Their beard tells a lot. I like your beard. I
Speaker 1: love him a little round, you know, right, Yeah, skinny,
Speaker 1: I want to hold on to them and feel like
Speaker 1: they got me. So it's nice. I mean, there is
Speaker 1: something to be said about a man that is just like,
Speaker 1: you know, just like right, a little something something. Um, So,
Speaker 1: how long have you and Sama had been married for?
Speaker 1: Because this is a relationship podcast, So I just really
Speaker 1: want to get in the ends of you and Samah.
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk, you know sometimes, you know,
Speaker 1: I think when you you have a good attitude and
Speaker 1: you're happy or you're joyful, you know, your looks can
Speaker 1: stay forever. I'm just gonna say that. So we've been
Speaker 1: married a long time. Um, when I met him in
Speaker 1: my twenties, I didn't grow up in the snow, and
Speaker 1: I went on a trip with somebody with a family,
Speaker 1: and I just he was just a happy guy. And
Speaker 1: sometimes an infectious happy attitude is enough to pull a
Speaker 1: woman in. And you know what, I like a manly man.
Speaker 1: He's very giving, very kind. I've learned to respect his
Speaker 1: quiet side because you know, I'm a bit of a chatter.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm a girl. I love the eld I
Speaker 1: hang out with the Alps. I love Rudolph. Rudolph is
Speaker 1: actually one of the girls, by the way. I mean,
Speaker 1: he is out So you guys know that right way.
Speaker 1: Oh he's fine the red nose. You didn't. I did
Speaker 1: not know that. I mean, I'm here for it. He's
Speaker 1: a hundred percent fine with it. So I'm not saying
Speaker 1: anything that's out of blind But so we are like
Speaker 1: besties at this point. And and and might have a
Speaker 1: little nicky I call nicky sometimes. Um, he loves that
Speaker 1: I have plenty of elves to talk to. Oh it
Speaker 1: sounds risque. You know, he's litt alone, and he's busy
Speaker 1: a lot. He's busy. So does that ever cause any
Speaker 1: tension between you and Santa because he's so busy. Um.
Speaker 1: In the beginning, I felt, you know, I was a
Speaker 1: little bit more immature, and I felt like it was
Speaker 1: all about me. And then I realized his spirit is
Speaker 1: about giving, and there's something really attractive and respectful about
Speaker 1: someone who actually is altruistic and he has that something
Speaker 1: about him. So I started realizing that how lucky am
Speaker 1: I to have somebody that thinks about someone else other
Speaker 1: than himself and it's not all about him. Does Santa
Speaker 1: give up? Ye? Does Santa give you presents? Or is
Speaker 1: it like is he like presented out by the time
Speaker 1: he gets home? Oh no, we get little stuff I
Speaker 1: I get to send on my list. I don't always
Speaker 1: get what I want. But you know, I mean, I
Speaker 1: gotta be like everybody else I cannot. You know, the
Speaker 1: naughty or nice, The naughty or nice is not necessarily
Speaker 1: what we think. Nay, are nice? Do you mean naughty
Speaker 1: or nice? Is? Are you nice to everybody in the world?
Speaker 1: Are you kind of people if you give smiles? Naughty
Speaker 1: is when you don't, and he charges people more. But
Speaker 1: your actions of how you are with other people then
Speaker 1: if you know, because we always think, oh my god,
Speaker 1: even naughty, did you like do something sexual or you
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm being a little out there, but or
Speaker 1: did you do something that was like mean? Or it's
Speaker 1: more of did you not give your heart? So he
Speaker 1: judges people by the heart. By the way, just in
Speaker 1: case anymoy moore that so interesting? Does he have a book?
Speaker 1: Because I would like to ask a few if any
Speaker 1: of my exes are going to get cold or if
Speaker 1: they're going to give presents this here, where's this? Less? Well,
Speaker 1: you know he doesn't give cold. He just doesn't give
Speaker 1: as much. Yeah, you just don't, you know, just don't
Speaker 1: get as much. And sometimes you don't get like the
Speaker 1: desires of your heart because you remember, he's judging it
Speaker 1: by your heart, not your by your actions. So so
Speaker 1: he doesn't actually give cold to anyone. He's kind of
Speaker 1: a deep guy without even be indeed you kind of
Speaker 1: he's interesting. I thought it was all the show, and
Speaker 1: because he was like Mr Present, I thought I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: oh my god, we're gonna do everything. And then I
Speaker 1: realized I got everything in here. So that's why he's
Speaker 1: the greatest guy ever. M I'm lucky here. I thought
Speaker 1: that people actually got cool. No, they did, they did
Speaker 1: back in the day. But you know, we don't even
Speaker 1: we don't even mind for call anymore. Like where do
Speaker 1: you get cold? Like home depot now they have it.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think Kentucky still have an outlet that
Speaker 1: he just doesn't even have. We don't even have a
Speaker 1: card to that anymore. We have used to have like
Speaker 1: a home depault card. It was a Kentucky coal card,
Speaker 1: but we don't even it's lapsed and he doesn't even
Speaker 1: use it anymore. He's just it. Yeah, it's kind of
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things that you know, kind of
Speaker 1: old school that's kind of been hipped up. So what that?
Speaker 1: What is your favorite Christmas tradition that you in Santa
Speaker 1: do together? Well, we he and I we go and
Speaker 1: we chopped on our own tree. It's pretty is yours alive?
Speaker 1: Because mine's dead? So um, I don't mind chopping it down.
Speaker 1: Yours is dead. You have a plastic one? No, no,
Speaker 1: I have a real one, but it died. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: still I'm I'm also we chopped them down. We chopped
Speaker 1: them down, but that's the romance with it. But then
Speaker 1: we mulched up and we put it back in the earth.
Speaker 1: So it's a single So if you can mulch it
Speaker 1: and put it back in the ground, it's almost as
Speaker 1: if you're doing in the whole whole circle. But some people,
Speaker 1: you know, we end up throwing it away in the
Speaker 1: trash and it's not trash. It's just it's just happiness
Speaker 1: is changing. It's cool, Okay, I like that. I have
Speaker 1: a question for this. Well, because I'm going to pretend
Speaker 1: to be a skeptic right now. I believe in Santa, obviously,
Speaker 1: how can Santa visit every single house in one night? Well,
Speaker 1: you know this is where my my nerdy side kicks in.
Speaker 1: We do have time travel fyi. Okay, okay, and we
Speaker 1: do have parallel lives, f y I. And he is
Speaker 1: a nerdy guy and he can go from place to
Speaker 1: place just like that in a thought. That's how powerful
Speaker 1: we all are. But he's got it down to a science.
Speaker 1: So he just pops in all over the place. And
Speaker 1: what do you say to the kids that don't believe
Speaker 1: in Santa? Oh, you believe in other things. You believe
Speaker 1: in the cartoons, right, they make you feel good? I
Speaker 1: mean Santa. You know, it's like believing that you're going
Speaker 1: to have a really good day to day. It makes
Speaker 1: you feel good, and then what ends up happening is
Speaker 1: you have a good day. So if you can go well,
Speaker 1: maybe there is a Santa. Maybe? Does that make you
Speaker 1: feel good thinking there's a possibility of a good there
Speaker 1: is a Santa? And by thinking that it becomes so
Speaker 1: try shifting your thoughts to believe it instead of trying
Speaker 1: to get it first. Why don't you just go to it?
Speaker 1: But what about the kids that are maybe bullying other
Speaker 1: kids because they're like, oh, you still believe in Santa?
Speaker 1: You're stupid? Yeah, there are some there's those kids. Those
Speaker 1: are the ones that don't get as much f ya.
Speaker 1: They're not getting switches and you know we don't give
Speaker 1: them call remember no cold, but they don't really get
Speaker 1: the desires of their hearts. But you know, one of
Speaker 1: the things that you know Santa does try to do
Speaker 1: is when those kids end up saying there is no Santa,
Speaker 1: you'll do something that maybe they asked for a couple
Speaker 1: of years prior. It ends up showing up without even asking,
Speaker 1: So it puts the wonder back in her mind. But
Speaker 1: what I say to those little kids that don't that
Speaker 1: are bullying and you know, sometimes we do things when
Speaker 1: we don't feel good and someone's bullying them at home.
Speaker 1: So we got to look at the whole picture here, right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe mom and dad have stopped believing in things,
Speaker 1: and maybe mom and dad have given up on a
Speaker 1: lot of stuff. So it's all about letting everybody know
Speaker 1: that when you reach for something that makes you happy,
Speaker 1: you bring in a lot of happy. So this time
Speaker 1: of year is not necessarily about am I going to get?
Speaker 1: It's how can I kind of give to my brothers
Speaker 1: and my sisters and even the guy driving down the road,
Speaker 1: Like even if someone pulls in front of you. What
Speaker 1: if you just say, oh, go ahead, have a great day,
Speaker 1: you bring in more wonderful full things and you feel good.
Speaker 1: It's so true. So what we end up doing is
Speaker 1: when you do things that are nice, you feel nice.
Speaker 1: So I would suggest to the bullies, let's practice doing
Speaker 1: one nice thing for someone and not tell them radical niceness. There. Yeah, totally,
Speaker 1: that's that naughty or nice kind of thing. So I
Speaker 1: remember I was driving one time Eastern You're ready for
Speaker 1: the edit button. But like I have a thing when
Speaker 1: like people like when I let someone in and they
Speaker 1: don't wave thank you, I'm like, well, Mary, Christmas to
Speaker 1: you two. Yeah, it feels better when you just like,
Speaker 1: oh god, bless you have the best day ever. I
Speaker 1: don't know why. It's like we're friends on the road,
Speaker 1: be nice, right right right, But we you know what's
Speaker 1: funny is when we do that, it's almost like we
Speaker 1: become infectious. When we wait and smile, that person the
Speaker 1: next time is gonna do it. We pay it forward. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know what's up. But favorite
Speaker 1: favorite Christmas song, least favorite Christmas song in the in
Speaker 1: the Santa House, Oh my gosh, my favorite. Um I
Speaker 1: think My favorite Christmas song is probably jingle Bells. It's
Speaker 1: just fun. It's just fun. You can just all ingle
Speaker 1: and every kid say yeah all day long. I could
Speaker 1: do that all day long. And I think my least
Speaker 1: is no, Well, because I knew her, Oh is she is?
Speaker 1: She saying it's my least favorite? Was that a little
Speaker 1: bit of a little to Santa? Like whatever, It's okay.
Speaker 1: People have lives before me. I am here for this.
Speaker 1: The drama down at is just really well, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm come on, you know, it's a festive world. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm I am just yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it happens right, um, But I don't want to talk
Speaker 1: about that. I want to just be nice. But I'm
Speaker 1: never going to be able to listen to that song now,
Speaker 1: ho ho ho. I just know there's this straight man,
Speaker 1: this is how So what do you do the night
Speaker 1: when Santa's gone? Like? Is that your time to take
Speaker 1: a bath and be like? Man, that three and sixty
Speaker 1: something days is oh gosh, what do I do when
Speaker 1: he's gone? It is kind of like a who it's
Speaker 1: my time? You know, I do a lot of catch up,
Speaker 1: you know, I I I don't I'm like I was saying,
Speaker 1: my know, I don't get to talk on the phone much.
Speaker 1: I have the worst reception up there. So I do
Speaker 1: I have we haven't you know? I do participate on
Speaker 1: this well app and I get to put the word
Speaker 1: out to all my friends and kids and what have
Speaker 1: you and let you know what if you're getting your gifts,
Speaker 1: you're not getting your gifts. So there's an interactive UM
Speaker 1: that I get to do UM and I encourage anybody
Speaker 1: right now to send in your topics. I can talk
Speaker 1: to and put it into a year. But where can like,
Speaker 1: can can people talk to you? And all I do
Speaker 1: you have a platform? Like are you on Instagram? Or
Speaker 1: are you like what what are how are you keeping
Speaker 1: up on the times? This class? Are you know what?
Speaker 1: Keeping up on the times? And I'm kind of a
Speaker 1: little techy. I'm the ELPs teach me so much it's incredible,
Speaker 1: Like they're quick, they're really quick. Um uh so whenever
Speaker 1: I get a little oopsie on my phone apps, they
Speaker 1: they keep me up. But I love I do do Instagram.
Speaker 1: I have to. I I scroll through it. Are you
Speaker 1: Mrs Clause on Instagram? No? I do a fictitious no.
Speaker 1: And I do also on Posh Mark. I do. I
Speaker 1: check out the fashions because it's always nice to see
Speaker 1: what I want Santa to like give things that are appropriate,
Speaker 1: and because sometimes he comes up with these horrible sweaters
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, what you think you honey, Well,
Speaker 1: that's why they say ugly sweaters. I mean Santa was
Speaker 1: Santa was the queen of them or right. I don't
Speaker 1: buy them. I don't think you know, there's some things
Speaker 1: I just let him stop for his own stuff. But
Speaker 1: when we go out, you know, I love his outfit.
Speaker 1: I make I sew it. I don't it as much
Speaker 1: as possible. He's yeah, but I'm honest. Well, app if
Speaker 1: you guys would like to talk to me and ask
Speaker 1: me questions, I love getting it's like because my phone
Speaker 1: doesn't work that much, like said, but sure of the app.
Speaker 1: And I have been posting every other day and what's
Speaker 1: happening this month during December, and I think I might
Speaker 1: go throughout the year. So if anybody has some stuff
Speaker 1: they want to, you know, put in the word for later.
Speaker 1: But I get to keep in contact with all the
Speaker 1: old elves who've retired. I get to contact, you know,
Speaker 1: some of the people that have received gifts that they
Speaker 1: thought they never received, so it's it's a really Usually
Speaker 1: I will leave a message and then you will leave.
Speaker 1: You can respond to my what I had said, or
Speaker 1: my information or my updates, and you can even privately message.
Speaker 1: Maybe you have to keep it appropriate ha ha ha.
Speaker 1: We'll see about that one. Mrs Cluzz, thank you so
Speaker 1: much for coming on wind down. I appreciate it. I
Speaker 1: know you've got a lot to do. Couple more days
Speaker 1: until Christmas, um raping and packing, and you're doing it
Speaker 1: all well, you are, you are beautiful and tell Sana
Speaker 1: thank you in advance, and I will What do you
Speaker 1: guys want? I just want, well, I mean like a
Speaker 1: present because I'm like, I don't really like I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't need it. I just want my kids to
Speaker 1: be happy, So I just want them to, Oh, tell
Speaker 1: them you're happy, You're happy to know that's sweet. Um.
Speaker 1: I want gifts. Katherine's love languages gifts, so she just
Speaker 1: got a really send me a private I got you.
Speaker 1: I'll see what I can do. Thank you. Mrs Blaus.
Speaker 1: Have a good one. You guys have the best day ever.
Speaker 1: In Mary Chris, I mean, wasn't she just the prettiest
Speaker 1: thing ever. I feel like we've got some gossip too, right,
Speaker 1: Like I need to know more about Noel. Is it
Speaker 1: on the food Noel? Isn't that Noel? So? Or is
Speaker 1: there a Noelanna? And I found out Noel? I think
Speaker 1: that is. I feel like that's I mean, that's the
Speaker 1: only Noel song right now. But apparently she's been hooking
Speaker 1: up with Santa. I don't know that. I don't know
Speaker 1: any more information on that song. I feel like this
Speaker 1: might not be the right one. Well, don't worry, we'll
Speaker 1: do some digging. Catherine's like, my uh my, my tech
Speaker 1: FBI agent if you ever need anything. Katherine's like, She's like,
Speaker 1: on it you, She's so good. She's like, yep, Nope,
Speaker 1: that's a lie. That's a lie because here's the web address.
Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. I don't think and I
Speaker 1: need to do more digging. But I'm pretty sure it's
Speaker 1: not a person. Well I know, but it's the symbol
Speaker 1: behind like maybe her name is Noel, like obviously Noel is.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no ills not a person. The first this
Speaker 1: is hilarious. Um bothered, So we have um, we have
Speaker 1: what two days until Christmas? And uh, are you done
Speaker 1: shopping or you like the last minute shopper. I'm done,
Speaker 1: You're done, done, done, She's done, she's done two days before.
Speaker 1: That's good. I'm done too. I've been done since October,
Speaker 1: of course you have. UM. We just wanted to give you,
Speaker 1: guys a little bonus wind down and say Merry Christmas
Speaker 1: from Catherine and I and we hope you have an
Speaker 1: amazing day and um, however, your holiday looks that you
Speaker 1: find moments to um have gratitude and love and joy
Speaker 1: and light, so you're gonna have a great Christmas. I'm
Speaker 1: excited for you. Merry Christmas, guys, Merry Christmas.