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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's almost Christmas time and we're in our Christmas colors.

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Speaker 1: What are you most looking forward to for Christmas? Cap

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Speaker 1: honestly relaxing. Yeah, I just want to relax. So at

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Speaker 1: Christmas time, Um, the kids with the kids as are

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Speaker 1: getting older a little bit more really, Yeah, they'll start

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Speaker 1: sleeping in, We'll start being a little bit lazy in

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Speaker 1: the mornings. And our PJSU Yeah you're still kind of

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Speaker 1: in the like they still get up at six am

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Speaker 1: and start start going. After Christmas is usually kind of crazy.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, what about you? Um, what I'm most looking

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Speaker 1: forward to? Um? What am I most looking forward to? Well, again,

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Speaker 1: it's weird and it's hard, and I'm trying to stay

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Speaker 1: positive and a few days before Christmas, but I think

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Speaker 1: just um, you know, actually, I'm gonna be totally honest,

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Speaker 1: you know what. So, and I was talking to Pamelin

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Speaker 1: about this. Um, I'm I'm so worried about next year

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Speaker 1: that I'm not almost enjoying this year. Oh wow, Okay,

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Speaker 1: because next year I'm like, holy, I won't have them

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Speaker 1: for Christmas. Eve. Yeah, let's not think about I don't

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Speaker 1: get to wake up with them Christmas morning? What do

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Speaker 1: I do? But then like what Pamela and saying She's like,

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Speaker 1: what's so special about Christmas Eve? And I'm like, okay

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Speaker 1: for me, Like, what's so special about Christmas Eve? Is

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Speaker 1: like you know, you talk him in then in the

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Speaker 1: morning they get the excitement of sand and she's like, well,

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Speaker 1: you can still have the excitement when they come over

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Speaker 1: to your house at noon on Christmas Day, I think,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, but you miss them walking down the steps,

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Speaker 1: and like, I understand that. I get that, Um, but

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Speaker 1: I think you're going to have to make your own

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Speaker 1: new excitement at a different time. But I understand that's hard.

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like maybe we should focus on

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Speaker 1: this year well, because you do have them this year. Yes, god,

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Speaker 1: I know. And Pamela and said she wrote me this message,

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Speaker 1: and she goes, right, I oh, this is what I said.

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Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, I go, what if

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Speaker 1: I just have because he had asked to come over

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Speaker 1: Christmas Eve and spend the night and wake up with

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Speaker 1: the kids in the morning, and I'm like I and

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Speaker 1: I said, I originally was like, let me think about it,

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Speaker 1: and then I said no because I was like, I

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Speaker 1: want my own memories, my own traditions. So I guess

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Speaker 1: I have a little bit oficult. Um like my own traditions,

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Speaker 1: my own thing. I don't want that energy around because

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Speaker 1: you know, kids will pick up on it. But then

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Speaker 1: in my mind, I was like, but next year, I

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Speaker 1: will want the same thing. But we also don't know

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Speaker 1: what's going to be next year. Well, I mean we'd

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Speaker 1: probably both be in relationships, and like, then how do

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Speaker 1: you go spend the night at your ex husband's house

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Speaker 1: if you're in a new relationship, Like yeah, like my

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Speaker 1: my my boyfriend spend the night at like my with

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Speaker 1: like you know. So it's like that just won't work, right.

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't I appreciate the you know, trying

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Speaker 1: to figure it out. I just I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know how that would work. Well, this is what

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Speaker 1: Pam said. Um, she was right. I get it. But

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Speaker 1: you cannot do family with him. You just can't. You

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Speaker 1: have you will have your own memories and traditions. For example,

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Speaker 1: I would choose to pick them up from his house

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Speaker 1: next year. You're in control of how your kids walk

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Speaker 1: into the door, bring a cute treat that Santa left

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Speaker 1: for them, in the car, write the letter he wrote them.

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Speaker 1: They read it on the way home and build up

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Speaker 1: the anticipation. Um have them stand at the front door

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Speaker 1: and count to ten and run like hell into the

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Speaker 1: house and see all the presents. Things like that, take

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Speaker 1: control of the situation to make it awesome. Put foot

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Speaker 1: Santa's footsteps outside of the sidewalk, like do things that like,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, okay, okay, okay, Like I think

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Speaker 1: you're right, and because like that would be weird, and

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Speaker 1: that would be weird, like to like if my the

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Speaker 1: guy that I'm dating, was like would be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it just becomes a little

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Speaker 1: bit and you're setting the precedent and then it's like, okay,

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Speaker 1: so what happens then the next year when Mike's like,

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Speaker 1: and I had at your house. Like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: I agree, doing the family thing is just too complicated.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think you make your own thing. I

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Speaker 1: the day, like they get too Christmas is they're going

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Speaker 1: to be excited about that. I was mean the other

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Speaker 1: to talk to my therapist and own that, like I

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Speaker 1: so mean to him. Not mean, but I was just like,

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Speaker 1: he's like, why aren't you like communicating because I've I've

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Speaker 1: been very kind and like very nice and like very

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Speaker 1: um even when like you know, it wasn't reciprocated. I'm

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Speaker 1: just like, all right, but I just was like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it was, but I was just like

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to talk to you. I don't

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Speaker 1: like you. You ruined everything, you know, And I was

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Speaker 1: just for the first time like I got like, you know,

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Speaker 1: to not be with my kids and I hate you.

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Speaker 1: Get out of my face, take the kids, go by,

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Speaker 1: see you later. And I was just like, now I

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Speaker 1: have to apologize for being bitchy because I haven't, like

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Speaker 1: I've been very nice. Nonpopular opinion I think it's okay. Well,

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Speaker 1: my therapist is like, you need to give yourself radical grace.

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Speaker 1: She's like, you've been very kind and like you have

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Speaker 1: a lot of like still anger and hatred inside of you,

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Speaker 1: so like unfortunately it's showing right now because of like

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Speaker 1: the holiday season. She's like, and you can be happy

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Speaker 1: and your friendships and your relationships and other things, but

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Speaker 1: like the reality is you still harbor you know, anger

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Speaker 1: and frustration and and this is hard, Like you didn't

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Speaker 1: want this for your kids. So it's like and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: divorced wife would be. Yeah. Well, and honestly, like I

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Speaker 1: get it. This holiday is your thing, Christmas has always been.

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Speaker 1: I mean it would be for you know a lot

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Speaker 1: of people. But it's going to be hard. And I

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Speaker 1: think I think you posted something the other day, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: because my tree I was dying, and I feel bad

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Speaker 1: because someone was at the house with me and I

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Speaker 1: my comments and they're like, yep, I agree with that one. Yep,

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Speaker 1: it's dead. And then I just started crying. And the

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Speaker 1: person was like, oh wait, this is not about the tree.

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Speaker 1: I was like, of course, it's not about the tree.

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Speaker 1: It's about then, like the fact that Christmas is dead

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Speaker 1: and perfect I was dying and everything's dead and my

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Speaker 1: family's like you know. So it was just like a yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I think even when you posted that, it reminded me.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think even as your friends were always

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Speaker 1: trying to pep you up, keep you happy, you know,

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Speaker 1: all those things which we will continue to do, but

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Speaker 1: it's a reminder to me that, like, it's okay for

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Speaker 1: you to be sad. You're going to be sad, and

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Speaker 1: that's just part of it. I think that you choose

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Speaker 1: and you will find the joy and your new things

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Speaker 1: and you know what you're doing with your kids, but

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Speaker 1: I think you have to give yourself Chrice for yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I said that in the comment. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I think be sad. I think people have a hard

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Speaker 1: time around the holidays. You know, it's some people who

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Speaker 1: a friend or whatever. And you know a relationship and

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Speaker 1: it might not look the way that you want to look,

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Speaker 1: but you have to still find um ways to um

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Speaker 1: down the other day. She um. She goes, when you

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Speaker 1: get into a hard spot for the holidays, whether it's

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Speaker 1: Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, she was eight tips for caring

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Speaker 1: for your mind, body and spirit. Um. The eight tips

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Speaker 1: your skin. Move run So however, like you want to,

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Speaker 1: Like whenever I work out or I run, I feel better.

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Speaker 1: UM touch um, you know, get your shoulder and treat yourself,

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Speaker 1: the heart and the body, and so can sweat. UM dance, cleanse,

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Speaker 1: practice radical grace. So um, I like that radical grace. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hard on yourself. Well yeah, and it's it's okay to

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Speaker 1: will say, what I'm looking most forward to for the

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Speaker 1: holiday season is, um, the new memories and the new

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Speaker 1: traditions that you know, I'm I have created this week

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Speaker 1: want them to be happy. So I'm going to give

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Speaker 1: him a great Christmas. And then when they leave Christmas

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Speaker 1: Day at noon, the tree is going down Christmas is over.

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Speaker 1: That's fair. I'm taking everything down because I will not

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Speaker 1: be sad. There you go, what's the point. Whatever you

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Speaker 1: gotta do. Yeah, I will take everything like because my

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Speaker 1: tree is already dead, so I'm like, it's not going anywhere. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I mean Christmas and okay, um, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: take a break and then, um, I gotta I gotta

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Speaker 1: check on Mrs Claws because you know, it's a it's

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Speaker 1: You know, actually I don't, but when your husband to work. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: the heater on full blast now it's too hot. Why

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Speaker 1: are you so pretty? Because Santa knows how to get

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Speaker 1: the good one. I don't judge man by their looks.

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Speaker 1: I judge them by their character. Trust me and their beard.

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Speaker 1: Their beard tells a lot. I like your beard. I

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Speaker 1: they keep me up. But I love I do do Instagram.

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Speaker 1: I have to. I I scroll through it. Are you

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Speaker 1: Mrs Clause on Instagram? No? I do a fictitious no.

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Speaker 1: And I do also on Posh Mark. I do. I

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Speaker 1: check out the fashions because it's always nice to see

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Speaker 1: what I want Santa to like give things that are appropriate,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just like, what you think you honey, Well,

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Speaker 1: that's why they say ugly sweaters. I mean Santa was

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Speaker 1: Santa was the queen of them or right. I don't

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Speaker 1: when we go out, you know, I love his outfit.

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Speaker 1: I make I sew it. I don't it as much

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Speaker 1: as possible. He's yeah, but I'm honest. Well, app if

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Speaker 1: you guys would like to talk to me and ask

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Speaker 1: me questions, I love getting it's like because my phone

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Speaker 1: doesn't work that much, like said, but sure of the app.

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Speaker 1: And I have been posting every other day and what's

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Speaker 1: go throughout the year. So if anybody has some stuff

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Speaker 1: they want to, you know, put in the word for later.

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Speaker 1: But I get to keep in contact with all the

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Speaker 1: old elves who've retired. I get to contact, you know,

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Speaker 1: some of the people that have received gifts that they

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Speaker 1: thought they never received, so it's it's a really Usually

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Speaker 1: I will leave a message and then you will leave.

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Speaker 1: You can respond to my what I had said, or

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Speaker 1: my information or my updates, and you can even privately message.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you have to keep it appropriate ha ha ha.

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Speaker 1: We'll see about that one. Mrs Cluzz, thank you so

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Speaker 1: much for coming on wind down. I appreciate it. I

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Speaker 1: know you've got a lot to do. Couple more days

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Speaker 1: until Christmas, um raping and packing, and you're doing it

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Speaker 1: all well, you are, you are beautiful and tell Sana

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Speaker 1: thank you in advance, and I will What do you

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Speaker 1: guys want? I just want, well, I mean like a

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Speaker 1: present because I'm like, I don't really like I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't need it. I just want my kids to

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Speaker 1: be happy, So I just want them to, Oh, tell

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Speaker 1: them you're happy, You're happy to know that's sweet. Um.

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Speaker 1: I want gifts. Katherine's love languages gifts, so she just

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Speaker 1: got a really send me a private I got you.

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Speaker 1: I'll see what I can do. Thank you. Mrs Blaus.

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Speaker 1: Have a good one. You guys have the best day ever.

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Speaker 1: In Mary Chris, I mean, wasn't she just the prettiest

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Speaker 1: thing ever. I feel like we've got some gossip too, right,

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Speaker 1: Like I need to know more about Noel. Is it

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Speaker 1: on the food Noel? Isn't that Noel? So? Or is

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Speaker 1: there a Noelanna? And I found out Noel? I think

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Speaker 1: that is. I feel like that's I mean, that's the

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Speaker 1: only Noel song right now. But apparently she's been hooking

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Speaker 1: up with Santa. I don't know that. I don't know

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Speaker 1: any more information on that song. I feel like this

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Speaker 1: might not be the right one. Well, don't worry, we'll

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Speaker 1: do some digging. Catherine's like, my uh my, my tech

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Speaker 1: FBI agent if you ever need anything. Katherine's like, She's like,

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Speaker 1: on it you, She's so good. She's like, yep, Nope,

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Speaker 1: that's a lie. That's a lie because here's the web address.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was saying. I don't think and I

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Speaker 1: need to do more digging. But I'm pretty sure it's

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Speaker 1: not a person. Well I know, but it's the symbol

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Speaker 1: behind like maybe her name is Noel, like obviously Noel is.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no ills not a person. The first this

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Speaker 1: is hilarious. Um bothered, So we have um, we have

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Speaker 1: what two days until Christmas? And uh, are you done

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Speaker 1: shopping or you like the last minute shopper. I'm done,

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Speaker 1: You're done, done, done, She's done, she's done two days before.

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Speaker 1: That's good. I'm done too. I've been done since October,

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Speaker 1: of course you have. UM. We just wanted to give you,

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Speaker 1: guys a little bonus wind down and say Merry Christmas

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Speaker 1: from Catherine and I and we hope you have an

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Speaker 1: amazing day and um, however, your holiday looks that you

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Speaker 1: find moments to um have gratitude and love and joy

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Speaker 1: and light, so you're gonna have a great Christmas. I'm

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Speaker 1: excited for you. Merry Christmas, guys, Merry Christmas.