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Speaker 1: welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. This your girl,
Speaker 1: Mandy Bee. I'm wheezy, and we are sitting here with
Speaker 1: a wonderful motherfucking guest. Um, we're just gonna slightly introduce
Speaker 1: you because everybody already knows yourself. I haven't asked you
Speaker 1: to come on this podcast for a long time, and
Speaker 1: I realized until we got a little bit, until we
Speaker 1: got Loudspeaker. Now you all of a sudden abandon So
Speaker 1: let's get into that. First of all, get into the world.
Speaker 1: This is a san say hey scent. That's why I
Speaker 1: got my social media social media early to thank you
Speaker 1: for joining Loudspeakers Network. I don't even really know what
Speaker 1: then that means for you. We're there with you because
Speaker 1: I have a podcast on last because they were called
Speaker 1: the friend Zone for people that are listening that don't
Speaker 1: know what the who am um? And I actually was
Speaker 1: working with y'all before y'all got signed. Not alright, was
Speaker 1: I with y'all before y'all got side. I was one
Speaker 1: of the people that Toldmorrow before way back in the day.
Speaker 1: And then he was like, yeah, I just got this
Speaker 1: new podcast blah blah, what do you think about them?
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I love them. I told you
Speaker 1: about that. Y'all got some sign on bonus or something.
Speaker 1: I want me to party. I'm just letting y'all know.
Speaker 1: He need that check. I ain't friend that you were.
Speaker 1: You were the only nice. Me and Mandy went to
Speaker 1: the loud Speaker Christmas party. Christmarrow invited us and a
Speaker 1: king and I was like, damn, like, who were gonna
Speaker 1: know that? But we both the same time should be there,
Speaker 1: so we both said that, and then a shockingly we
Speaker 1: ended up having with Chrystmas and I was lusting over
Speaker 1: fran and her. God damn that don't listen. So if
Speaker 1: you guys follow my staff and this is finally an
Speaker 1: episode that we posted on time so we could live
Speaker 1: in real time. So I went to a party on Saturday.
Speaker 1: Missed the sante because he came and see pee time,
Speaker 1: but I was there early. Shout out to Jade of
Speaker 1: all jades um from Jada Nextee and getting grown and
Speaker 1: me and my friend were looking at friends as friend
Speaker 1: had a hat on, so I ain't see all the hair. Saturday,
Speaker 1: she had these black cancel So me and my friends
Speaker 1: just like, goddamn, you think it's like you know we had.
Speaker 1: Do you think it's real concent because but friends waisted
Speaker 1: so small and we were just looking. Jay came down
Speaker 1: to get friends. I said, oh ship, that's freend. Now
Speaker 1: the lusted over that. As for folk, beautiful, amazing woman.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, my hand was so blown up
Speaker 1: because some people were treating us like, oh, they mentioned
Speaker 1: you guys on the friend zone, and then Frand was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know who's doing your party with you. She's cute,
Speaker 1: said I got jealous because I was like, I was
Speaker 1: on that first know what I did before we get
Speaker 1: in shi the show, I wanted, I'll put some cast cocoa.
Speaker 1: Whatever she wants. Well, listen, I'll keep eating her pussy
Speaker 1: even if she farts, so let her know I don't care.
Speaker 1: That was, by the way, for those of you who
Speaker 1: maybe haven't heard bad past episodes, episodes about to turn
Speaker 1: it off, I haven't listened, all right, and that's why
Speaker 1: I stopped the friends. Listeners, Stay on, it gets good.
Speaker 1: This is how it goes down. On Horrible Decisions, you know,
Speaker 1: very sex positive podcast. So I actually wanted to talk
Speaker 1: about that real quick with you since we since we
Speaker 1: got you on, a lot of people have been hitting
Speaker 1: us up. Um. And this is just for the people
Speaker 1: who are listening because they see podcasts connect what advice
Speaker 1: or you've been doing podcasts for a long time, we're
Speaker 1: just now getting lit. We have a lot of people
Speaker 1: that hit us up asking us about advice on how
Speaker 1: to start their podcast. Bitch. How so you're like a
Speaker 1: vent and had the Friends Wow, y'all asking me questions
Speaker 1: calendars listen, I'm gonna tell you something. We are terrible questions.
Speaker 1: Everybody that comes like, damn, let him talk. So we're
Speaker 1: probably gonna ask you something and then tell you the
Speaker 1: answer saying I'm bad with time to answer your question.
Speaker 1: I'm just really bad with that's the weed. All I
Speaker 1: know is since the beginning of the Friends on podcast,
Speaker 1: or even before that, what I realized about people that
Speaker 1: want to podcast, which is why I knew the two
Speaker 1: of you would have such a great podcast, a great show,
Speaker 1: which is why I'm saying, you know, being sut to
Speaker 1: last Speaker's network, whatever that means. People y'all are people
Speaker 1: that want to genuinely do a show like y'll have
Speaker 1: something that you want to talk about, something that you'll
Speaker 1: believe in sex positivity. And let me just say this
Speaker 1: before I continue. I don't think I would be here
Speaker 1: on this podcast show with y'all have the curse to
Speaker 1: do this ship without Dubbs, because Dubs was one of
Speaker 1: the original people on YouTube them sucking sex positive videos,
Speaker 1: which never was talking about how just it was not
Speaker 1: cool to now I'm not cool at all. I had
Speaker 1: a man at the time when I do you know
Speaker 1: how I'm at. I was a fan of her. We
Speaker 1: were both a fan of her line, so I was
Speaker 1: a crazy fan of her on YouTube. Would talk for
Speaker 1: a year. She was coming to Florida for graduation and
Speaker 1: fam and I was like, Yo, come to Orlando and
Speaker 1: meet me. She came to my house. My extent time
Speaker 1: was like, why is this bitch coming to the house.
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. I just felt so
Speaker 1: connected to her. We sat in his bed, my iur bed.
Speaker 1: I lived there five hours talking talking about the things
Speaker 1: she's been through sexually, me emotional abuse. Like we were
Speaker 1: just breaking down and like just connected from there and
Speaker 1: He would say things to me like I don't know
Speaker 1: why you first, like he liked her, but I was
Speaker 1: like no, no, no, but you can't be like are
Speaker 1: you kidding me? Like you want me to think that
Speaker 1: you're not in the club shaking your ass like this
Speaker 1: bitch gonna be shaking as she shaking ass. And I'm
Speaker 1: just like I don't know what to say. Bro. We
Speaker 1: went on a cruise together. Yeah that was crazy. Three
Speaker 1: before I was scared to take Molly. Oh yeah. We
Speaker 1: we snuck liquor in shampoo bottles. We cleaned out shampoo
Speaker 1: bottles and put like and one of them was still
Speaker 1: had kind of a little soap in it. But we
Speaker 1: didn't give a funk. We was all some of us
Speaker 1: were under a We couldn't we couldn't get the risk bed.
Speaker 1: Not only some of us, all of us were. I
Speaker 1: was only twenty, who was was doub was the only
Speaker 1: one who was who was legal. All of us were
Speaker 1: under age, but we were like ago, you know, we
Speaker 1: were twenty. So it was so much we like snug
Speaker 1: liquor in there and they were sneaking Molly. This is
Speaker 1: where I was like, oh no, no, Molly came back.
Speaker 1: They got me to do Molly when we got back
Speaker 1: to Orlando and I was working in a parking lot
Speaker 1: down the street because I would like doing Molly. But No,
Speaker 1: Dove is amazing. She has a lot going on now
Speaker 1: and so I'm glad that you were able to open
Speaker 1: up through her. Then she is a podcast by the
Speaker 1: way to y'all. It's called Youngish. Her and her son
Speaker 1: talk and teach each other and it is so cute
Speaker 1: and so amazing. So if you and your kid want
Speaker 1: to have a podcast to listen to, it's called a Youngish.
Speaker 1: You could like playing in the center way to school.
Speaker 1: It's a doke podcast. So basically, though, what you said
Speaker 1: is you knew we had something to say. Do you
Speaker 1: think that that's kind of important because I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people now who are starting podcast just want
Speaker 1: to talk and just want to do a podcast. You
Speaker 1: think they need to have a purpose, so it's going
Speaker 1: to make you a podcast successful. I think, um, we
Speaker 1: all can have a podcast. Anybody can do it. It's
Speaker 1: kind of like the new thing to have on social
Speaker 1: media the way I look at it, like everybody at
Speaker 1: one point had, uh, you know, my Space page. Whoever
Speaker 1: had the hottest page at the time, which is hot?
Speaker 1: It matters, you know, on a small scale, who had,
Speaker 1: like you know, who was in Who's Top eight, But
Speaker 1: on a larger scale, who had the hottest page? With
Speaker 1: such a big issue, like if you had a hot page,
Speaker 1: clearly you did something you askuld have just been a
Speaker 1: high school, middle school student doing ship and you have
Speaker 1: a hot ass page and a damn celebrity. We was
Speaker 1: popping once and we was in high school. It was
Speaker 1: just it's like, so then think about the podcast. You
Speaker 1: could be from bumble fuck nowhere. But if your guys
Speaker 1: got some ship to talk about and a good ass show,
Speaker 1: people are gonna listen. They're just gonna be like, damn,
Speaker 1: like they got something to say, whether it's something that
Speaker 1: speaks to your case, is sex positive? Sex positive? Sex positive?
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're gonna up your words like I do.
Speaker 1: I need to blank it up. I need a fine
Speaker 1: man to come up in here and hug up on
Speaker 1: me or something like. I'm just saying, you know, are
Speaker 1: you really go I am trembling a little bit, trembling
Speaker 1: a little bit that there's a fine man on deck.
Speaker 1: I will, you know, take what kind of studio right?
Speaker 1: I'm a horrible decisions. I'm thinking about Mom, wait for
Speaker 1: somebody pop outlet when y'all get your TV show and
Speaker 1: you'll have your couches. In fact, look, I'm right here
Speaker 1: with y'all. I want to be the resident gay. I
Speaker 1: want to come on whenever I want to do the
Speaker 1: whole night with you. You can resident game. They could
Speaker 1: do everything, the whole night hunt. Why not? You know
Speaker 1: why people are gonna be disappointed the K black K
Speaker 1: episode episode show. So I'm glad all of those right,
Speaker 1: It ain't just you know, it's a holiday weekend, like
Speaker 1: we really in here on a holiday. This is what
Speaker 1: we decided. We should have been asking you a question
Speaker 1: and tips for men. But I feel like, just in
Speaker 1: honor of the friends. Plus I don't want to scare
Speaker 1: you off. You're not. There's nothing you can do or
Speaker 1: say to scare me off. Okay, you have a personal
Speaker 1: look I r first one. Have you ever swapped semen?
Speaker 1: That's nice that I wanted to do. Was it fun?
Speaker 1: So for me as a male, I think it's more fun.
Speaker 1: And this is gonna sound really stupid or funked up,
Speaker 1: but I just think it's really hot when you're semen
Speaker 1: swapping and you have beard and when getting stuck in
Speaker 1: now you know what, I don't know. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: I am a running faust, I will say. I will
Speaker 1: say that's the pluses that I get, even from like
Speaker 1: writing a face. I don't really care for you like that,
Speaker 1: But when I could see myself on their face, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, I just me to clean his beard off.
Speaker 1: And I think I was about to grab the sheet
Speaker 1: and he was like, no, I don't know what I
Speaker 1: was watching. But the other day I heard somebody refer
Speaker 1: to it as the flavor saver, and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh wait, let me put it on my phone. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: and this is a question that we haven't asked in
Speaker 1: a long time, but everyone knows this to be the show.
Speaker 1: Would you rather lick asks or suck toes o? This
Speaker 1: is gonna be easy for me as we're all just waiting, like,
Speaker 1: I just don't see toad. You know, I'm not a
Speaker 1: foot person, even though I've met some people with some
Speaker 1: very very nice fee Can I be honest with you
Speaker 1: so and y'all don't judge. We're not gonna turn this
Speaker 1: into a conversation with Fello Bay. The other day Fella
Speaker 1: Bay and so were laid down. We was laid out.
Speaker 1: We were laying out, shut up watching Black Panther because
Speaker 1: I finally watched it, because it's you can run it
Speaker 1: now from phone nine nine. But I did go to jail.
Speaker 1: Basically what okay, it doesn't matter. Anyways, were laying down
Speaker 1: and I was actually playing foots to his feet were
Speaker 1: so smooth. It came to my mind like if I
Speaker 1: could probably do something with the false I do want
Speaker 1: to say one thing to you because you said, y'all
Speaker 1: don't come from me. You said two episodes ago that
Speaker 1: you loved play with seven feet. I do, and now
Speaker 1: this is I don't know that is called feet like
Speaker 1: I like when you want to get foot sucked. No,
Speaker 1: like we laid down and I just like to rub.
Speaker 1: They both have really nice I'm gonna tell you what
Speaker 1: she needs. I don't want to get foot fucked. I
Speaker 1: don't not want their toes in my puss. You're not ready.
Speaker 1: It could be an asshole. I don't want to get
Speaker 1: your second day. Well, she would like him to play footsie,
Speaker 1: So you're gonna play footsie. That doesn't mean I want
Speaker 1: them to put their toes in my fucking holes. I
Speaker 1: don't want to toes over the stuff like a foot job.
Speaker 1: Would you do that for them if they wanted. But
Speaker 1: I'm one of those that whatever my partner once, i'll try,
Speaker 1: I'll do like I didn't want to piss on a nigga,
Speaker 1: and I still piss on him because he wanted me
Speaker 1: to pick You know this, lose you, because I don't
Speaker 1: lose man to be like, oh say small, I'm here.
Speaker 1: I feel like I can do like a hole. Confessional confessional.
Speaker 1: Let's well, since we're talking, we can make that YO segment.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, confessionals. Okay, well, since we're talking about, what's
Speaker 1: this sloody thing to do for? Oh no, we're going
Speaker 1: to work that. Put a pin in that one. Put
Speaker 1: it in your phone over making flavor savor right on
Speaker 1: the favor. I have been not recently, but I've met
Speaker 1: a man um a white man. No no, no, no no, no,
Speaker 1: we're not going that far. I mean we're going pretty far,
Speaker 1: but not that far because you know I don't really
Speaker 1: do that me neither. So that's why I was about
Speaker 1: to exit the commo. But I shared some dicks with you.
Speaker 1: He gets I'm saying I've shared some photos. Yeah, when
Speaker 1: you said, I was like, not flavor saving beards. We
Speaker 1: ain't gonna get through this. I'm y'all was worried. This
Speaker 1: is gonna be vanilla some ship. That's a section that
Speaker 1: we haven't vanilla ship coming up? What's it? We already
Speaker 1: we're talking about man. Go ahead, white man. But man
Speaker 1: has an obsession with me and the socks that I
Speaker 1: wear because I wear like cartoons and ship. Now you
Speaker 1: trying to be funny. You wanted this to be the
Speaker 1: white thing. You wanted us to be the wps. You
Speaker 1: picked it out on purpose. Now finish finished. So he
Speaker 1: likes the socks you wear? Oh wait, why are he
Speaker 1: going on the phone? You don't put you I don't
Speaker 1: have Does he put your socks on his dick? Does
Speaker 1: he put on? So when I'm wearing the socks and
Speaker 1: the slides, he likes when I like with stuff with
Speaker 1: with my socks with my feet. But they have to
Speaker 1: be the cartoon socks. I don't want to because the
Speaker 1: part is the part is this white man see me
Speaker 1: walking down the street and got me and so they
Speaker 1: didn't look and then we didn't talk. Okay, you can't
Speaker 1: say this part, this part I'm just saying this part
Speaker 1: that I'm about to show you guys, it ain't gonna
Speaker 1: below up. This is so funny. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: do ship like this, so this is funny that I'm
Speaker 1: doing this with y'all. I'm happy to be here. Oh
Speaker 1: you know what, you can tell them in your hotel. Yes,
Speaker 1: this is his name? What is his name? Don't don't
Speaker 1: say that. Don't say that out because you know what
Speaker 1: if this man follows me or he finds me on
Speaker 1: social media and he's like, damn this this man is
Speaker 1: talking about at my ship we're talking about mind you
Speaker 1: real quick. Not only do you want to help her out?
Speaker 1: I don't know if it was the last episode of
Speaker 1: the episode before. We have maybe twelve comments. Six of
Speaker 1: them are like I was just waiting out, just like god, damn,
Speaker 1: we can you send my bio? I know people maybe
Speaker 1: waiting for a nipple to pop out of every goddamn second,
Speaker 1: since we're talking about nipples way back in the day,
Speaker 1: do you remember when I think he first moved to
Speaker 1: New York and and we went to shop for pasties
Speaker 1: with you, I was like, who is this? I just
Speaker 1: thought of something. Why did he have black feet in
Speaker 1: the Why did he Yeah, it's a picture of what
Speaker 1: he likes. So he likes blackfeet and socks. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: learned it was a fetish for being black. Well, I
Speaker 1: absolutely am. At the same time, I get to kick
Speaker 1: this white man's penis around, like we actually talked about
Speaker 1: that at the live show, like where and it was
Speaker 1: a long word that I don't want to sit here
Speaker 1: and try to mess up and say once again, but yeah,
Speaker 1: that's crazy that he so he wants you to jack
Speaker 1: and then kick it. I don't have to jack. Does
Speaker 1: he have to come? Does he like to come? So
Speaker 1: here's here's here's the paint it, I've seen it. You
Speaker 1: just told me you were scared of it, Like if
Speaker 1: I don't feel nice, I didn't touch it or anything.
Speaker 1: I said, you can't ask you. He asked me how
Speaker 1: much you would cost to take my sox off? Like
Speaker 1: I'm not taking my socks? Why are you doing that?
Speaker 1: And it made him even like harder, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not why are you doing this? What am I doing? Why?
Speaker 1: Why are you not like it? Why are you not
Speaker 1: getting money? Because make your socks off, that's what I want,
Speaker 1: Because then it becomes a whole another thing. You're there,
Speaker 1: it's a whole another aspect at this point, because it
Speaker 1: turns him on a lot that I will not let
Speaker 1: him take my socks off, like when like one time
Speaker 1: he has to take my sock off and I kicked
Speaker 1: him in the face by that look. It was pre
Speaker 1: come everywhere, prea come everywhere on your socks almost actually
Speaker 1: I throw these socks away by the word ship for
Speaker 1: you know, you can't um and I'm walking away. This
Speaker 1: is that's when you I ain't. One time it was
Speaker 1: I just allowed she did because you know I was
Speaker 1: over here. You know, thank you. We know the etiquette
Speaker 1: on the mike. You however, do you here? Bro? I
Speaker 1: got this anyway, so clearly we don't. We don't. Wait
Speaker 1: wait wait, so I just need more go ahead? Why
Speaker 1: are you getting off on it? I'm not? Oh okay,
Speaker 1: So so I was about to say so. So the
Speaker 1: only reason I went over the first time because at
Speaker 1: first I was like, what the funk? Like this is
Speaker 1: boring as fun, But then I also am annoyed when
Speaker 1: people will hit you up or you hit them up,
Speaker 1: and it becomes this game of like when are we
Speaker 1: gonna see each other? So I was like, yeah, this man,
Speaker 1: it's about what the fun is going on? And when
Speaker 1: I found out he was weird of the first time,
Speaker 1: I was like, this, Nick, it's weird. But his place
Speaker 1: is nice. And y'all know real quick we live in
Speaker 1: New York. So when you got a nice place, it's like, oh, honestly,
Speaker 1: you could just mean like, damn, you gotta wash on
Speaker 1: dryer sed to me, bro oh my god. Central AC.
Speaker 1: Don't get me started. If he hasn't what he does,
Speaker 1: I do not me neither. I got it in my window.
Speaker 1: I pay way too much. Now if you get when
Speaker 1: you get the central A C that's that's that's not centracy. No,
Speaker 1: that's not centracy. That's so we all got it. Damn nobody. Yes,
Speaker 1: and it's white. Man was not he was not, but
Speaker 1: coin how old is he? I don't guess, maybe thirties,
Speaker 1: late thirties early he and he really wants to hang
Speaker 1: out with And I'm like, no, I like, you don't really,
Speaker 1: you don't know anything attractive. Oh yeah, let's see. I
Speaker 1: don't have I don't have pictures. I don't let him
Speaker 1: take videos and stuff for me. He was like, can
Speaker 1: I take video and I'm like not because you know,
Speaker 1: people like to do you famous. It's okay, I'm helping
Speaker 1: get and I don't need my my consulting fee. You
Speaker 1: know what you should have him paid for like Carson.
Speaker 1: So no, that's not what he's done. He paid for
Speaker 1: your petty. We're gonna go back to the last part
Speaker 1: off the record, but that's not what he pays for.
Speaker 1: He paid for my week the first time. Like, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't think that it's cool. I don't believe you
Speaker 1: doing for weed. I think you're getting it in your way.
Speaker 1: I promise you that we are not getting I don't
Speaker 1: mean like literally, I mean imperiotily. I mean how do
Speaker 1: you figuratively? What is that like? Because because I'm here,
Speaker 1: if you I'm here, So I want to know why
Speaker 1: we're figuratively getting it in I know that's right. Why
Speaker 1: are you figurative? He's saying, no, thank you? You know
Speaker 1: what's crazy. You know what's crazy. She's she for for
Speaker 1: whatever reason, when things don't make sense in her mind,
Speaker 1: she just thank you, lying because she come at me
Speaker 1: all the time. Because I don't you say she does.
Speaker 1: Don't believe nobody about you're not having Yeah, That's what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. So the fact that she's sitting here,
Speaker 1: You're sitting saying all this like you be seeing him.
Speaker 1: It's like, but just believe you are not getting Christmas
Speaker 1: gifts for good, dick, and I'm talking about how good
Speaker 1: it feels against you. It was just a gift around
Speaker 1: Christmas time. So thank you Blue. Anyways, we're gonna get
Speaker 1: right along. We can talk more about the foot stuff later.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do that. There's a lot of talk about.
Speaker 1: But it was just odd to me. And first of all,
Speaker 1: I really wanted to go because I just need to
Speaker 1: smoke somewhere. I don't like to smoke in my house,
Speaker 1: so it was like, you know, yeah, come over, smokes.
Speaker 1: I was older, and then he bought the leave. I
Speaker 1: was like, dude, this is good. And then he told
Speaker 1: me he was into and I was like, damn, this
Speaker 1: is weird. And then I was coming. You didn't know
Speaker 1: what he was into from that, well, I knew this
Speaker 1: after the first time I met him. I made him
Speaker 1: in personal yes, and then afterward. Look at this was
Speaker 1: before that talking too much. Anyway, We've been a g
Speaker 1: I did have another Where have you ever had sex
Speaker 1: with a girl. That was my question, Yes, many many,
Speaker 1: many many moons ago you have just one woman? Or yes,
Speaker 1: did you know? Yes? Were you Did you know you
Speaker 1: were gay when you did it? Or did you do
Speaker 1: it to figure it out? Like it was definitely we
Speaker 1: were definitely like that boyfriend and girlfriend and new that
Speaker 1: we were not boyfriend and girlfriend and said that when
Speaker 1: we were like, yeah, we should really see what they
Speaker 1: deal and see like what's up, like just like not
Speaker 1: even for like for each other, but not for each other.
Speaker 1: Like we were just like, all right, we're about to
Speaker 1: go off to college soon. So and for me, I
Speaker 1: was like I already know I'm gay, so like if
Speaker 1: you just want to and she was like all right,
Speaker 1: well cool, yeah, let's do that. And so then she
Speaker 1: was like what am like, I see what Dick is about,
Speaker 1: but I'm not doing that. I was like, thank you,
Speaker 1: Like I just yeah, she was a dyke. We were,
Speaker 1: That's what we were cool with each other. And this
Speaker 1: isn't like my high school girlfriend at the same school.
Speaker 1: This is a girl that I knew outside of my school.
Speaker 1: I want to her problem and everything, because she was like,
Speaker 1: I need a day. I can't be doing all this
Speaker 1: gay ship people going now I'm like whatever, So like
Speaker 1: we became cool. We worked on the same like plaza
Speaker 1: and everything. And then the night that we I was like,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be a good like for me. It wasn't.
Speaker 1: Damn I got to go have sex with the girl.
Speaker 1: For me. I was like, We're about to go have
Speaker 1: a good ass time, Like I think this is a
Speaker 1: cool as a girl. She's gonna figure out whether she
Speaker 1: liked this it or not. So I went the whole night.
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, yeah, I did the whole thing. So
Speaker 1: that's what she was like, Okay, like dick is nice,
Speaker 1: but no, thank you. Now when you find yourself like attracted,
Speaker 1: because you know, there's a Kinsley skill and sometimes we
Speaker 1: all have moments, right, what do they normally look like?
Speaker 1: Women like the women that you're attracted to? Do they
Speaker 1: normally are they more? But don't even have a type
Speaker 1: of man like if you find you fine and if
Speaker 1: you can turn me on and like emotionally even I
Speaker 1: was about to say, if you can turn me on
Speaker 1: mentally like emotionally yeah, so anybody, anybody, it don't matter
Speaker 1: what you look like, I thought, the dick out whatever
Speaker 1: who wants I mean pretty much if I feel like
Speaker 1: we are like vibrating at the same frequency. I got
Speaker 1: you to worry about what you then cool, I'm willing
Speaker 1: to try whatever. To me, it's mostly gay, mostly manent
Speaker 1: unless you that point one percent woman and you just like, hey, nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm here for you. And I'm like, okay, girl, like,
Speaker 1: let's see what's up, right. But I can with that,
Speaker 1: We're gonna go ahead and get into the kink at
Speaker 1: a week now. It's not And so this actually, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: this isn't, um anything crazy. I thought it would be cool.
Speaker 1: We actually had so when email us asking if we
Speaker 1: were going to talk about this, So I thought it
Speaker 1: was cool. Um, the kink of the week for this
Speaker 1: week is actually sexual piercings. Um. So that has to
Speaker 1: do with piercing your nipples, your clitter, is the hood
Speaker 1: of your your penis, all of that. So, UM, I
Speaker 1: found this thing about the history of the history of it.
Speaker 1: It says, though it might seem surprising to most, genital
Speaker 1: piercings and sexual piercings have been part of the human
Speaker 1: experience for some time. This is especially true in the
Speaker 1: island tribes of Southeast Asia and in India, who have
Speaker 1: been piercing their genitals as a rite of passage or
Speaker 1: to improve sexual pleasure pleasure for thousands of years. In fact,
Speaker 1: male genital piercings being done for the pleasure of female
Speaker 1: partners is even mentioned in the Karma Sutra. So I
Speaker 1: wanted to know if Assante, have you ever had any
Speaker 1: type of sexual piercings, like piercings outside called Prince Albert
Speaker 1: when it has the beads, And I think that was zero,
Speaker 1: zero piercings, no tongue rings. You never had suck? What? Oh? No, no, no, no, yes,
Speaker 1: But but I have I had any piercings myself. No. Um,
Speaker 1: the only piercings outside of my ears that I've considered
Speaker 1: getting is my nose pierce. And the only thing on
Speaker 1: your scale I think would be my nipples because I've
Speaker 1: had I've had my nipples pierce, And I wanted to
Speaker 1: talk about this too, because it actually did increase the
Speaker 1: sensitivity in them. It also just sucks because I'm not
Speaker 1: one who becomes aroused when guys lick my my nipples.
Speaker 1: I actually hated. I thought, well, when they were pierced,
Speaker 1: they are, they still are now, But now to the
Speaker 1: point when guys lick on them, I either have no
Speaker 1: pleasure or be it hurts. I actually started getting pleasure
Speaker 1: after my influence. Oh yeah, are so sensitive and to me,
Speaker 1: I just don't like it. So I always thought that
Speaker 1: the licking of tits was like for the guys aroused,
Speaker 1: but I guess it was supposed to arouse me something
Speaker 1: else that I also found UM interesting. When I was
Speaker 1: reading this, I had a couple of guys who did
Speaker 1: not like my nipple piercings because they were like, what
Speaker 1: the funk I want medal in my mouth for? So
Speaker 1: they talked about that, and then there was also um
Speaker 1: when I looked into it. I don't know if any
Speaker 1: of you women are looking to get um pierced down below,
Speaker 1: but apparently if you get the hood of your pussy pierced,
Speaker 1: it will keep your sensation down there. But of course,
Speaker 1: when you pierce your clip, you do risk um losing
Speaker 1: all sensation. So I don't even know if I would
Speaker 1: want to take that risk in piercing my clip, Like
Speaker 1: I couldn't imagine not having sensation. And my go down
Speaker 1: on a girl that had a clip piercing, and I
Speaker 1: feel like I was more injured than her. Oh I
Speaker 1: love doing fucking the girl that i'd be eating out.
Speaker 1: She has her clip pier It looks so it's like
Speaker 1: and it's like glow in the dark. It's just like
Speaker 1: so cute. But the clip has a better shape or
Speaker 1: like it's it's smaller enough for the clip piercing. I
Speaker 1: feel like with a dick, like dick looks huge even
Speaker 1: when I or have you seen so I watched gay porn,
Speaker 1: there's a piercing that they do put underneath the ball.
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, I have seen that on
Speaker 1: the dude before. We probably saw the same video. This
Speaker 1: is a person skin, but like the goose there, he
Speaker 1: had like a little ring ring there. He's real sensitive
Speaker 1: down there, so he liked he would like to play
Speaker 1: with And I was like, okay, but I feel like
Speaker 1: that to me would be something, especially say because so
Speaker 1: luckily the men who I prefer to deal with shave
Speaker 1: down there. But I do see a lot of men
Speaker 1: that have hair a lot down there. Would would the
Speaker 1: ring not get caught and maybe like the pupid hair
Speaker 1: or something? I want story I just heard. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say who told me, but I was asking someone
Speaker 1: at some point in time. So I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: when you suck me, do you like like shaved wax
Speaker 1: this that, like, how do you like it? Do you
Speaker 1: on a landing strip? Because I always been waxed and
Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe not everybody likes that. He's like, I
Speaker 1: don't really care if there's like a strip, but just
Speaker 1: on the actual pussy, like when it opens up, like
Speaker 1: I can't have any hair, it's like a thing for me,
Speaker 1: it won't work. And he told me that he used
Speaker 1: to suck a girl that didn't shave, and that because
Speaker 1: he's uncircumcised, the hair would get It was one of
Speaker 1: the most painful things. And then when he would tell
Speaker 1: her that he couldn't deal with it, but the VICH
Speaker 1: used to like be like pissed or something like feminist
Speaker 1: hype ship, like no, Ni, I'm not about to shave
Speaker 1: for you, And he was like it wasn't even that.
Speaker 1: I just didn't like want. I didn't even care. He's like,
Speaker 1: I just needed to Like it's crazy, but at least
Speaker 1: they at least he brought that conversation to her because
Speaker 1: I've been with guys before, and I'd be like, like,
Speaker 1: I've been with a guy before and I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: say who because I talked about it on the show.
Speaker 1: But when his hair grew, it would grow like up
Speaker 1: his shaft. It would be that, Harry, And I'm like, Nick,
Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna suck your dick if I gotta
Speaker 1: like deal with the hair on the shaft to like that,
Speaker 1: k No, I need a bunch of hair, right, But
Speaker 1: so if you're dealing with someone who doesn't like all
Speaker 1: the hair, like, I'm okay with that. Yeah, you have
Speaker 1: to know about it. I've had like I remember specifically
Speaker 1: with lover Boy. He used to be like, listen, every
Speaker 1: time I'm about to come back to see you, and
Speaker 1: every time you come to see me, I'm just like
Speaker 1: because I have to fucking grow mu shirt out. And
Speaker 1: I hate it because I like that, know, I just
Speaker 1: like put my hand down there and feeling hand. It's whatever,
Speaker 1: it's whatever. It doesn't deal with a lot of um
Speaker 1: what Well, honestly, honestly, truly my light skins. So here's
Speaker 1: my whole spectrum, right, dark skin is at the top
Speaker 1: of the list. Darcy and black Man would be my dream,
Speaker 1: but you know they just don't be feeling a kid
Speaker 1: like that. So under that is a Spanish Hispanic, so
Speaker 1: there's like the mania. Okay, all right, then right under
Speaker 1: that comes, I don't want to put light skins under that.
Speaker 1: Give me paper bag brown niggas. That's what I like,
Speaker 1: Like I like a regular because to the color of
Speaker 1: this table. Yeah okay, yeah, so wait, I don't like
Speaker 1: nobody Latinos do what then be super wax, super super hairy?
Speaker 1: Do that some of the ones that they have all
Speaker 1: the eyebrows be like, what are you telling me? They
Speaker 1: do be shaving a lot. It just seems like they
Speaker 1: maintain a lot about Like I mean, I'm just thinking
Speaker 1: about like something naturally, just naturally, like even with women
Speaker 1: with arms and stuff, I've seen you like you like
Speaker 1: gay niggas, they are good about you know, the their
Speaker 1: and all that. So if they don't want the hair,
Speaker 1: it's not there. But if there's hair there, it's usually
Speaker 1: not nothing bad. Like I haven't met anybody that has
Speaker 1: like a whole force black guys be so just like
Speaker 1: not hairry. I love it, Like black guys really don't
Speaker 1: have hair like that. I don't really deal with that
Speaker 1: many men and maybe like real big as nigga and
Speaker 1: they still don't be even be having chest hair like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess not. No, They've been like
Speaker 1: a lot of like naturally smooth niggas, like what nigga
Speaker 1: baby baby skin like like this is like a dolphin.
Speaker 1: How old are you getting, like thirty three or thirty
Speaker 1: f like what? No hair? Maybe listening to friend you
Speaker 1: can't just look at because a friend like you can't
Speaker 1: just look at nobody's medicine cabinet no more. You gotta
Speaker 1: look in the free all the oils and everything, all
Speaker 1: of it. I just went to the African Festival in
Speaker 1: Brooklyn and the loaded up on my shape but mad
Speaker 1: oil and we see our new as you should don't
Speaker 1: do me. But I've been to Africa, thank you twice.
Speaker 1: I've been to the room mother Land, Hope, thank you. You
Speaker 1: You know. I'm not gonna lie the watching Black Panther,
Speaker 1: I thought the accents were so terrible, but I know,
Speaker 1: like I mean, they didn't sound like my African daddies.
Speaker 1: So I was just really thinking. But I get it.
Speaker 1: There's different accents in Africa, like different countries that I
Speaker 1: don't know what country they was from. I get it,
Speaker 1: what condam, Maybe that's why, but maybe they just make
Speaker 1: it it made up like I loved every time I
Speaker 1: could be Jordan's talking you know whose accident I didn't like,
Speaker 1: um Daniel or whatever from I hated it was so bad.
Speaker 1: It was so bad and right where he got that
Speaker 1: should have reshot this three times. He missed the whole accent.
Speaker 1: There's like a couple of things with him in and
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, okay, to see what he
Speaker 1: was underground, talking to the talking to the childhood, and
Speaker 1: we're not go get right now. The accent was all
Speaker 1: I was talking about. The dude from Get Out Daniel, Yeah,
Speaker 1: his bad when he's um from British, from British. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they got all the different African diaspor over there, so
Speaker 1: he got you know, he probably got one of the
Speaker 1: dials one of the things hearing a different. All I
Speaker 1: know is that went over there and I didn't had
Speaker 1: a couple of Africas on my phone and it ain't
Speaker 1: sound like none of that ship. I was just like, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know what put the Africa these um anyways
Speaker 1: where your head and get into our whole decisions. So
Speaker 1: our horrible decision for this episode makes so much sense
Speaker 1: because we got a Santane mother fucking building, um, and
Speaker 1: we're gonna kind of dissect this. So the horrible decision
Speaker 1: for this episode, it's called the friends zone. Um. And
Speaker 1: with the friends zone, we want to kind of just
Speaker 1: talk about everything. So first let me ask you real
Speaker 1: quick if you put somebody in the friend zone, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask you too, wheezy, and then I'll put
Speaker 1: my answer maybe as we just talk, if someone is
Speaker 1: in the friend zone for you, or someone is a
Speaker 1: friend of the opposite or same sex for you, opposite
Speaker 1: sex for you. Do you fuck your friends? Are we
Speaker 1: talking about like an isolated incident or like to be like, hey,
Speaker 1: like we're friends and we fun from time to time,
Speaker 1: Like do you funk your friends? Like people who you
Speaker 1: consider friends that are not Situationships is loosely used for
Speaker 1: people that I am not friends with that I sometimes
Speaker 1: see to me, they're not friends. That's what I say.
Speaker 1: You'll be saying, like home girls, Yeah, I sunk my
Speaker 1: home girls. But most of those times it's either after
Speaker 1: the club we fucking we with like ballplayers and we
Speaker 1: just super lit and it's just wearning a mansion, let's
Speaker 1: just fuck, or I'm sucking to what I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: or I'm you know, before we go there. I just
Speaker 1: like the chemistry between women is so different, but then
Speaker 1: it is between men. Women can and maybe maybe there
Speaker 1: are some gay bar relationships like that out, but I
Speaker 1: just think it would be so hot to have like
Speaker 1: a homeboy or two and were like we just hang
Speaker 1: out and we're not even like like trying to be together,
Speaker 1: and we were just like hanging out, and then maybe
Speaker 1: every now and then we'd be like like we here.
Speaker 1: We gotta like I don't have none of those, and
Speaker 1: not that I feel like those are like a normal
Speaker 1: or something cool to have. It's probably not normal. Just
Speaker 1: play one or two of my set, But do I
Speaker 1: I think you do, or you used to back in
Speaker 1: the day, but we're not gonna believe but you would again.
Speaker 1: You could suck her again in a heart be not
Speaker 1: surprised any male friends like that. So that's what I
Speaker 1: was gonna do. You see her in the show? YEA
Speaker 1: so fine. So I was going to get into that.
Speaker 1: I don't believe that a female who is friends with
Speaker 1: a male should suck him. I don't fuck my friend
Speaker 1: the guys who I consider friends, Like if you're just
Speaker 1: my homeboy, you just my homeboy, because as soon as
Speaker 1: we get to fucking, we're either a little bit more
Speaker 1: or you paying bills, or then the dynamic has changed.
Speaker 1: Is that because you you just are attracted to women,
Speaker 1: you just have no desire to be with them. So
Speaker 1: I've been with a woman before, and I would be
Speaker 1: I would, but I'm asking no, no, because it makes
Speaker 1: sense now. Right now it is more fun. Like I
Speaker 1: was with a woman when I lived in Miami. She
Speaker 1: treated me better probably than any nigga. But I know,
Speaker 1: when I think of what I want long term, it's
Speaker 1: definitely a man. But I still would want a woman
Speaker 1: maybe on the side. Yes, I'd like to have fun
Speaker 1: with them. But when it comes to men, don't you
Speaker 1: telling me I should get like a home girl that
Speaker 1: just knows that I'm gay and we just like maybe
Speaker 1: fun everything. Oh sorry, I'm just like, look, I gotta
Speaker 1: get my tubes tied something because I can. I'm just
Speaker 1: saying that's I don't think i'd have to worry about
Speaker 1: if I started having I can't do it as far
Speaker 1: as like men, because I feel like I don't know.
Speaker 1: For me, I just don't want to go back on
Speaker 1: my word. What I mean when I say like there's
Speaker 1: a friendship and we established that. I don't really like
Speaker 1: breaking those barriers. I had a really good friend of
Speaker 1: mine tell me when he was drunk after five years
Speaker 1: that he's always thought about being with me, and it
Speaker 1: really that was actually my next question that I wanted
Speaker 1: to get into. Um, have you had someone who was
Speaker 1: friends for a long time, maybe a couple of years,
Speaker 1: a couple of months, it was truly a friendship and
Speaker 1: then y'all did break that barrier and have sex and
Speaker 1: what happened after the fact, if it's happened, So yes,
Speaker 1: because there was somebody that I knew when I lived
Speaker 1: in Atlanta. We were just friends, and then when I
Speaker 1: moved up here, we like hooked up on something like
Speaker 1: you know, like I've always been like he was like,
Speaker 1: I've always been interested in you, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I always thought you were cute too, So it was like,
Speaker 1: let's fun. When we did, it was changed, not only
Speaker 1: because since I left Atlanta we hadn't really stayed in
Speaker 1: contact like that anyway. We just seen each other around
Speaker 1: on social media and sometimes bump into each other. So
Speaker 1: because it wasn't anything serious where we're like in the
Speaker 1: same city, you have to deal with the same ship.
Speaker 1: I guess we're kind of just the same. Like if
Speaker 1: I see him tomorrow, it's gonna be like the same
Speaker 1: as the last time I've seen him outside of the sex.
Speaker 1: What about what about you? Has that happened with you
Speaker 1: and maybe a guy there's always been something where like
Speaker 1: they were very obviously lovers, I think, like or there's
Speaker 1: always been an attraction, like something like a friendship, Like
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of friends that I have right now, or
Speaker 1: to be Enoch, Christopher or even Alex, Like it's there's
Speaker 1: a very obvious friendship line. So it's like I don't
Speaker 1: see how like there's been a different thing when I've
Speaker 1: ended up sucking a friend, Like I wouldn't even call
Speaker 1: him a friend, Like it was like I was hanging away,
Speaker 1: but I would be flirting a lot, or you could
Speaker 1: tell like this is now. I think what happened we
Speaker 1: was in Atlanta, Me Alex had room. Once I took
Speaker 1: a ship. I knew that was it said, you're really
Speaker 1: gonna run the same bro Okay, so I get and
Speaker 1: I guess the as you said edge your situation, the
Speaker 1: same happened with me, Like it was a friend that
Speaker 1: I had for years, but because we weren't in the
Speaker 1: same city, I guess it really didn't change the die
Speaker 1: dynamic of it um. And so I guess I want
Speaker 1: to get into this because I don't know why people
Speaker 1: don't understand when they're in the friend zone, how do
Speaker 1: you put somebody there? What are the things that like
Speaker 1: say you only do okay, but that means you would
Speaker 1: have sucked him already when I'm just saying, you don't
Speaker 1: put them in the friends before before you get the dick.
Speaker 1: And then when someone you know someone's starting to like
Speaker 1: you and you don't like them back, like, what do
Speaker 1: you do because clearly you just went all out of them,
Speaker 1: like I am curve gotty, I'd be hitting well, I'll
Speaker 1: be sitting there just like you know why this is
Speaker 1: not the right for think people. I don't feel like
Speaker 1: I'll be so honest. I'll be honest too. I'm like
Speaker 1: or or they just know their friends because this is
Speaker 1: what I do with guys. The way to let go
Speaker 1: for the males listening, I want you all to listen
Speaker 1: in if you're with a if you're around a girl
Speaker 1: a lot and you really like her, if she brings
Speaker 1: up all her other niggas to you in confidence, like
Speaker 1: then she's friend zoning de funk out of you. Like
Speaker 1: I had a friend and I knew he liked me,
Speaker 1: and I would bring up all my niggas in front
Speaker 1: of him, like, oh my god. I even would bring
Speaker 1: them over like yeah, so this is because I didn't
Speaker 1: want you to like me, Like okay, I'm but these
Speaker 1: guys don't know. But at that point, you got to
Speaker 1: know that they don't know, and you got to have
Speaker 1: a conversation with me because that's just because then I
Speaker 1: want the guys that right, they're still gonna be like, no,
Speaker 1: you're just doing that because you just want to feel
Speaker 1: imporant for me or something. But you know you like no,
Speaker 1: but you know what's crazy too, Like to me, it
Speaker 1: also brings a comfortability level to the guys that I'm
Speaker 1: dealing with to meet my homeboys, so that when that
Speaker 1: homeboys around, Oh you know, that's like you have to
Speaker 1: make sure you never have sucked a friend because niggas
Speaker 1: be like, okay, so is he that's the thing too,
Speaker 1: Like And when I was so, I was talking to
Speaker 1: a guy back in the day que we can keep
Speaker 1: it whatever, nickames Que, and we were talking about really
Speaker 1: getting into a relationship with each other. But because he
Speaker 1: knew I had had sex with my home girls, he
Speaker 1: was just like, so, I'm just supposed to be okay
Speaker 1: with you still being around these home girls and I
Speaker 1: know you'll have had sex. What if y'all just have
Speaker 1: sex again? Like, and for him, he wasn't into the
Speaker 1: bisexuality that you're over there shaking your head, Alex, what
Speaker 1: would you have the same issue? Like, So, if you're
Speaker 1: with a woman and you know she like may have
Speaker 1: had sex with quite a bit of her friends, would
Speaker 1: you feel some way when she's hanging out with those
Speaker 1: friends again without you? Yeah, no comment, no comment. I
Speaker 1: just I don't do that, Like I wouldn't be cool
Speaker 1: with her still being friends with girls, girl older than
Speaker 1: I get. I really feel like you could be friends
Speaker 1: with someone who had sex with though, I really do.
Speaker 1: But I'll say that, but being in a you can,
Speaker 1: but being in a relationship. If I was in a relationship,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would want my partner to
Speaker 1: still be friends with someone that I know. I'll tell
Speaker 1: you why. I think there's more attention with people that
Speaker 1: I haven't fucked than I have. Like if it's over.
Speaker 1: It's over, honestly, but the only way you're not going
Speaker 1: back is if it's bad. And to me, if I'm
Speaker 1: sucking a niked, I'm coming him that dick is good
Speaker 1: to where I know that bitch gonna want to suck again.
Speaker 1: So but that's not true. Hold on, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 1: good dick, you're gonna want to We could say that,
Speaker 1: but a lot of people like see And this is
Speaker 1: the thing that kind of annoys me about good dick,
Speaker 1: good pussy. Think about when you used to suck somebody
Speaker 1: and it was bombed, and you like, yeah, I would
Speaker 1: maybe because I wouldn't like right, that's what you can
Speaker 1: be like. There can be a stage of sexual compatibility.
Speaker 1: It's why people have good sex in the beginning and
Speaker 1: why sometimes it goes off, like people wonder how they
Speaker 1: have such good and bad sex when it's not there anymore.
Speaker 1: It's it's not always going to be good. Feelings can dissipate.
Speaker 1: And I'm only like trying to say this because I
Speaker 1: feel like there are a lot of people that probably
Speaker 1: are in relationships that want to keep friendships and they're
Speaker 1: fucking partners, Like, oh my god, you're gonna them again,
Speaker 1: are you gonna do this? Like, we gotta get that
Speaker 1: out of our heads. I mean, I don't think they
Speaker 1: have charity and a picture, but you also talk about
Speaker 1: the levels of insecurity and jealousy that people have that
Speaker 1: they can't get rid of. And so I don't want
Speaker 1: my partner. I just talk about it. You're working with it, right,
Speaker 1: I don't want my partner regardless of the spectrum of well,
Speaker 1: maybe they don't have good sex anymore, that doesn't matter
Speaker 1: to me as a human being. I do not, And
Speaker 1: I know that I would feel some type of way
Speaker 1: as anyone else probably listening if my partner was still
Speaker 1: out hanging out and being friends with someone I know
Speaker 1: he has sexual relations with. I'm not saying like you're
Speaker 1: going to dinner and hanging but like, I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: worried about them running into each other or like even like, right,
Speaker 1: she don't keep the same energy every other show. It's
Speaker 1: a different energy college buddy. That was different. He never
Speaker 1: sucked her, Yeah, and that was more intimidating to you, because, yeah,
Speaker 1: because he never got that pussy money. I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: he said that you're just friends. No he was. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I don't see what you're saying about
Speaker 1: because I'm just like you. It's not because you ain't
Speaker 1: never had it. Never mind, I don't know I really
Speaker 1: believe that about that, because if you ain't never had
Speaker 1: it and it's still coming around later, you always gonna
Speaker 1: wonder what if and that's going. For example, he has
Speaker 1: an X that he was with for years that's coming
Speaker 1: into town right doesn't live here anymore. To me, that's
Speaker 1: a less big deal than hanging with some cupids that
Speaker 1: you ain't never college. No, I just know. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you right now, if I saw one of my
Speaker 1: exes worried about me seeing I'm not even gonna lie
Speaker 1: to you all the niggers that are in my phone.
Speaker 1: First off, y'all know I don't leave off bad terms
Speaker 1: with my exes, and I have had some great dick
Speaker 1: in my life. Now they add up to the dick
Speaker 1: I'm getting now. Probably they were talking about committed xs,
Speaker 1: like if you win someone for years and they come
Speaker 1: in town, you can't catch what. I'm still friends with
Speaker 1: people who I've had sex with, And what I'm saying
Speaker 1: is if I'm in a relationship, what about your no, bro? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but she in a situation now. But I'm talking about
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, you think that if you caught
Speaker 1: up with your ex months from now, y'all end up
Speaker 1: having sex that night, if they got drunk, there's a possibility.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. But look at his response.
Speaker 1: If I wanted to like this, so I don't want
Speaker 1: my nigga. My nigga knows that he could probably get
Speaker 1: the pussy from this friend he fucked ten years ago
Speaker 1: if you wanted. I think there we put too much
Speaker 1: emphasis on being worried about it. Really, isn't it easiest
Speaker 1: to have sex with a partner that you've had sex
Speaker 1: with already? There? See, I'm gonna I love saying that
Speaker 1: I didn't even count it as a new body. It's
Speaker 1: saying I haven't had this dick. Maybe for you, but
Speaker 1: due to me, that comes with way more than just
Speaker 1: fucking enough, because you're just catching up, Like, what's up?
Speaker 1: I know what this dick like, I know how to
Speaker 1: move it. I don't right now? I think about an exit.
Speaker 1: I've been waiting my last Latino d I was what
Speaker 1: was that two years? He's coming up to New York
Speaker 1: in two months there's no way I could even think
Speaker 1: if I wanted some other dick. That is too much,
Speaker 1: too much feeling is too much to think about. And
Speaker 1: that's the part that's gonna worry you too. It depending
Speaker 1: on what X and what type of relationship they might
Speaker 1: have had, because if there is baggage, then you ain't
Speaker 1: got nothing to worry about, Like, all right, cool, I
Speaker 1: don't gotta worry about that. But then you might have
Speaker 1: to worry because with this nig come up here her
Speaker 1: all over again. Didn't remember why y'all used to fun?
Speaker 1: After you was just talking about all that, about how
Speaker 1: you wouldn't the next day like fun, what am I doing?
Speaker 1: All right, so we'll get a coffee. We'll get a coffee.
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't know. I think that there's
Speaker 1: multiple ways of getting caught up though, So I wanted
Speaker 1: to bring this into also talking about the friend zone.
Speaker 1: So you're dealing with a friend and they want to
Speaker 1: get somebody, um and my friend curve game, like, so
Speaker 1: do you do that? So I'll be honest with you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the next episode is so So it's funny because
Speaker 1: I've talked about this before. I have four categories of
Speaker 1: men um. So I have the body, which is what
Speaker 1: would be under. I have the bay, which is someone
Speaker 1: who I could potentially see myself being with. I have
Speaker 1: the Zaddy, which is the nigga that just paying my
Speaker 1: bills and I don't want him at all. He probably
Speaker 1: married or something. And then I have the friend, which
Speaker 1: I have a large array of friends and they know
Speaker 1: that they're friends and they're not being anything more. I
Speaker 1: don't really ask for anything. They know they are friends
Speaker 1: as well. When we go out and we split the
Speaker 1: bill because all the other niggas is gonna pay for it,
Speaker 1: but I let them know because I take my food,
Speaker 1: they take theirs. We talk about our relationships, we talk
Speaker 1: about um they you know, it's just it's just really
Speaker 1: like there's nothing more there. So I have friends, super platonic.
Speaker 1: It won't be anything more. I talk about my relationships women,
Speaker 1: and that is that is that when you're doing that?
Speaker 1: Are those friends? Is that is that like practice ground?
Speaker 1: Maybe sometimes like when you have people in that category.
Speaker 1: So when I have people, I'll be completely honest with you.
Speaker 1: I enjoy talking to people. I enjoy hearing all types
Speaker 1: of perspectives, lifestyles, situations, and I like to really gauge
Speaker 1: how people go through these situations. So me being friends
Speaker 1: with guys makes me realize how much so when i'm
Speaker 1: when I'm able to see how they treat other women.
Speaker 1: To me, it helps me gauge like where I am
Speaker 1: with my person or with who I'm talking to, or
Speaker 1: who I want to be with. And to me, I
Speaker 1: enjoy learning from the male perspective. So those are just
Speaker 1: genuine friends, and like I think, it's the same way
Speaker 1: men are friends with female like with women, it's perspective.
Speaker 1: It's perspective. So to me, I mean, why are you
Speaker 1: laughing over there, Alex. You're not telling me you don't
Speaker 1: have female like no, no, no, no, no no, I'm talking
Speaker 1: about I have female friends. I'm just talking about the
Speaker 1: way you guys think. I wasn't privy to women thinking
Speaker 1: the way you guys think. Really not. Every week being
Speaker 1: on here, like I'm learning a lot. Yeah, I like that,
Speaker 1: And that's why that's why I liked this show. And
Speaker 1: I feel like that's gonna be a lot of success
Speaker 1: with y'all because it's a whole another perspective of like
Speaker 1: I remember, I don't know if you watched Amber rows
Speaker 1: on she was on this show. The father state that
Speaker 1: ship was funny and said, that dude really be act
Speaker 1: like it's just a black dude. I'm assuming he's like
Speaker 1: a Republican or some bullship. I don't really know what
Speaker 1: he is. He just ain't right. He just brother that
Speaker 1: ain't right. Every else is sitting on stage with this
Speaker 1: brother ain't right, just and it's like not, he's not
Speaker 1: on the same reality. Like he's like the way that
Speaker 1: you act is like that's how man would act. And
Speaker 1: that slutmaker he's like that. The men dudes like what,
Speaker 1: no anybody can sucking masturbate every everybody didn't see all
Speaker 1: of it. I just heard him saying, if that sucking
Speaker 1: a bunch of people makes me a sluat, what does
Speaker 1: it make you having sex with a slutmaker? But it's
Speaker 1: funny because even even with what we're talking about like that,
Speaker 1: the whole conversation gets into, um, she smashed the homies
Speaker 1: or being with the homies, and how people call each
Speaker 1: other the nicknames little bro, little sis and all this bullshit.
Speaker 1: So and that's why I hate that. I didn't do
Speaker 1: I know you do. Don't call somebody a little bro
Speaker 1: a little sister. I almost damn near call only my
Speaker 1: gay friends, my bros. Because I just feel like everything
Speaker 1: else is just like shut up, like you don't even
Speaker 1: believe me. But you know what's funny too. I'll be
Speaker 1: on the phone and I have to check my brother. Well,
Speaker 1: I type you should call you a straight male friends
Speaker 1: your sis? Okay, okay, But I also I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like y'all are woke enough to get this,
Speaker 1: but I mean sister is and like c I s
Speaker 1: like exactly, I just don't know. I can't believe we've
Speaker 1: been here on the hour. Yes, well I will get
Speaker 1: into we're help us with our home. The first one
Speaker 1: is sucking dick problems and the second one problem, yes,
Speaker 1: just suck it. Well here, let's let let's start for
Speaker 1: the first. How much teath what this teeth thing is?
Speaker 1: But it's got to stop. No, we actually talked about that,
Speaker 1: some people like Teath. Well, I've got anyone asked to
Speaker 1: buy down on it before? Now? Oh hell no, too hard,
Speaker 1: Like I'm a concrete rock. You don't want to like
Speaker 1: I did it on the Lave Show. I don't want
Speaker 1: to do it again, you know. But anyways, so it's sad. Hey,
Speaker 1: my loves. I feel like you both are my spirit animals.
Speaker 1: I love what you're doing and it inspires me so much.
Speaker 1: So I'm having an issue with dick sucking. It appears
Speaker 1: that my dick sucking skills aren't always a success With
Speaker 1: some men. They tell me I'm the best head they
Speaker 1: have ever gotten, and I can make them come multiple
Speaker 1: times and squirm like little bitches. But with one other
Speaker 1: it takes him too long to come, and the second
Speaker 1: his dick takes a long time to react to it
Speaker 1: as well. I've been able to get I don't know,
Speaker 1: God damn y'all with these goddamn spelling errors. Anyways, it says,
Speaker 1: aren't my skills? She says she's never able to get
Speaker 1: him off with head because she's not able with head.
Speaker 1: Aren't like, aren't my skills supposed to be the same
Speaker 1: across all men? I'm trying to get everyone off, so
Speaker 1: they are so they are stressed and pressed this funk
Speaker 1: when I'm not there. Maybe this is an ego thing,
Speaker 1: but what the funk? Ever? Please answer me? So basically,
Speaker 1: her question is, aren't her dick sucking skills supposed to
Speaker 1: be the same across all men? And do you feel
Speaker 1: like your dick sucking skills change depending on who you're
Speaker 1: with or the reaction to it or same thing. We
Speaker 1: got two men in the room, So what are y'all?
Speaker 1: What are y'all thoughts on such a no share you girl?
Speaker 1: So like, come on, come on, I'll let you answers,
Speaker 1: because bitch, of course, everyone likes different ships. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you what different. All right, we got some video.
Speaker 1: Most men, I feel like are the things that we're watching.
Speaker 1: Porn is like this thing right that Ever, a lot
Speaker 1: of guys don't like hands, right, so we're watching it
Speaker 1: import a lot with no hands. Hey, come on, sorry,
Speaker 1: why did't I just take a girl that Atlanta? Tell
Speaker 1: you what to do? So what I'm saying, but go ahead,
Speaker 1: well we need to dick second tell us what to
Speaker 1: do song. I'm gonna you know, we got to do
Speaker 1: that for your comedy game show. Oh Jude six, y'all,
Speaker 1: we're gonna plug that and put all the So everybody
Speaker 1: is like always hearing about this thing, which is a
Speaker 1: great sensation. I get it, and a lot of dudes
Speaker 1: like that, but the thing is not everyone does. Actually,
Speaker 1: for the first time in my life, like Jeeves be
Speaker 1: telling me to like he'll tell me just like I'll
Speaker 1: have my mouth on. He like, just take your tongue.
Speaker 1: And he likes me to do this super weird thing,
Speaker 1: which is why I girl, I hear you. He wants
Speaker 1: me to take my tongue and push his dick the
Speaker 1: other way because it makes the blood go like towards us,
Speaker 1: but it gets you super hard wipe in front of him.
Speaker 1: He'll tell me to do this white people, Okay, let's
Speaker 1: say the digital up here and then but like push
Speaker 1: up and like nick of you going crazy almost about
Speaker 1: to come. I don't I don't know. I don't think
Speaker 1: so like the blood rush is like a different field.
Speaker 1: But I will say that this has to do with also,
Speaker 1: and I know we say it every guy damn show
Speaker 1: communication because loves I'd be dealing with his nuts and
Speaker 1: balls forever, dealing with his balls like so during head
Speaker 1: that's where he likes the attention. But I've had someone
Speaker 1: else who his balls were so sensitive he hated if
Speaker 1: I even would lick them, so very sensitive. I can't
Speaker 1: have someone lick up and like hit the like the hood,
Speaker 1: like the inside. I will fucking go nuts. It's different structure,
Speaker 1: different folks, and like you said, it's communication right when
Speaker 1: you are giving head. When when you're even about to
Speaker 1: give head, you have to know how somebody is moving
Speaker 1: and how they squirming, and you can tell whether if
Speaker 1: they jump in whether they like it, or if they
Speaker 1: jump because they don't like some ship. So you just
Speaker 1: need to be focused when you're doing it. I guess
Speaker 1: you can use the tips that you know have been
Speaker 1: working as as I'm speaking to the person that wrote in,
Speaker 1: I guess um you can use the tricks that you
Speaker 1: know have been working as like your starter baseline when
Speaker 1: you sucking dick, and then use that as a guideline.
Speaker 1: But it's not to go and work on every dick.
Speaker 1: So you've encountered one where it's not working. I guess
Speaker 1: you just gotta find some new tips. We did dick
Speaker 1: some tips, like people were saying. My favorite one was hands.
Speaker 1: I think people like forget to use hands and like,
Speaker 1: you know, touch other places. Man, he was like, a
Speaker 1: lot of dudes don't like that. And the thing is
Speaker 1: we have to just like I like fingers inside of
Speaker 1: me during heads. Sometimes a lot of women don't like
Speaker 1: fingers because you don't know you felt the good fingers
Speaker 1: to where you could almost squirt and it just feels.
Speaker 1: One thing that we all forget about is there can
Speaker 1: be like people would call sucking dick four play, There
Speaker 1: can be four play before you put your mouth on
Speaker 1: the dick. You can kiss thighs, you can lick around it.
Speaker 1: Like just licking is a big deal. People forget to
Speaker 1: lick and like also sucking dick, I haven't I watched
Speaker 1: a lot of porn where girls don't suck. Is that
Speaker 1: they just put their mouth you have to literally, yeah,
Speaker 1: that shit is exhausted, Yes it is, which is why
Speaker 1: So another girl wrote in real quick and this is
Speaker 1: just a quick tip. A lot of girls feel like
Speaker 1: their mouths begin to hurt during sucking dick. So I
Speaker 1: wanted to let you guys know that if you guys
Speaker 1: are actually going through the sucking motion, you can actually
Speaker 1: give your mouth a rest from sucking by just licking
Speaker 1: up the shaft or visiting the nuts. Because when you're
Speaker 1: visiting the nuts, it's more like like little licks, like
Speaker 1: like it's not sucking motion with the with the nuts. No,
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying like you can actually you're adjusting
Speaker 1: what there's another way to suck to So take them.
Speaker 1: You take a dick, and I'm not getting my side
Speaker 1: of the dick. You put your top my bottom of
Speaker 1: the place in the face and stick a finger up there.
Speaker 1: The hell are you doing decisions. The first gaze that
Speaker 1: we had on here is a gay couple. They were
Speaker 1: talking about how they told their homegirl, like we told
Speaker 1: her to finger his ask and like that was the
Speaker 1: night she got pregnant because the side sucking. So you
Speaker 1: take the dick like a corn on the cob, corn
Speaker 1: on the cop. You can like put your teeth and
Speaker 1: like clench them the whole time and just take't do
Speaker 1: this is white people ship. The first person I ever
Speaker 1: saw it was because Prett styles really yep, she's black,
Speaker 1: and she had a teeth clenched and she went up
Speaker 1: and down and like the nigga was going crazy. But
Speaker 1: you can suck from right here and you just go
Speaker 1: up and down. I think a lot of girls when
Speaker 1: they get the mindset of sucking dick, they do it
Speaker 1: to an extreme. So footeas is white people shipped to me.
Speaker 1: I would like to point that out. So it's funny
Speaker 1: you think I don't mean foot. We'd be laying down
Speaker 1: I just rub against their soft feet. Fuck you anyways, guys,
Speaker 1: I hate you know what's crazy? Real quick? I'd be
Speaker 1: so mad at myself. I have a gag reflex when
Speaker 1: I brush my tongue in the morning, but I don't
Speaker 1: gag on dick. And I'm like, my gag, Why do
Speaker 1: I gag when I brush my teeth in the morning,
Speaker 1: but I don't gag with dick in My mouth are
Speaker 1: so big he doesn't know a breeze. You You could
Speaker 1: just go on Instagram like, no, oh damn, I know, bro,
Speaker 1: she's trying to talk with her mouth opens sucked. Oh,
Speaker 1: they'd be big like baby legs. Like I like pain though,
Speaker 1: so like not only that, I feel like I have
Speaker 1: a lot of cushion for the pushing, so if it's little,
Speaker 1: you're probably not even getting past the ass. So I
Speaker 1: like them really big to where they're painful. Um and
Speaker 1: so you can take So that's the thing. I have
Speaker 1: had one where I could barely get past the head,
Speaker 1: and I was working with my ego, so like like
Speaker 1: I could barely get past the head. So for that
Speaker 1: one specifically, I just used extra saliva and then definitely happens.
Speaker 1: I'll have to tell you um off air because Um,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to bring up famous yet. Girl.
Speaker 1: I can't tell you like it's it's so like wait wait,
Speaker 1: it's so big. It's so big that that he was
Speaker 1: so he was injured at the time, and so I
Speaker 1: would have had to ride his dick and it was
Speaker 1: so big. I literally only gave him head because I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, I don't ride dick anyways, and
Speaker 1: I was like to ride something that big. There was
Speaker 1: just getting on the bus. I was like, I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna make you come with head because I'm not going
Speaker 1: to get on that. I'll tell you off air. You
Speaker 1: girlfriends look like in a wheelchair. Oh no, they broke up.
Speaker 1: Um but anyway, but anyways, um so, let me get
Speaker 1: to our next listener letter because and I specifically wanted
Speaker 1: to do this with Asante on the show because if
Speaker 1: you have not listened to The friend Zone, um they
Speaker 1: talk it's mental health, mental health wellness and one more
Speaker 1: come on, y'all stay it every show metal health mental
Speaker 1: wellness and where are we doing here? You go? Okay?
Speaker 1: So anyway, you know, but um so this one actually,
Speaker 1: this one hit a nerve with me. So I kind
Speaker 1: of wanted to have this conversation. This is what we'll
Speaker 1: do to wrap up the show, so it's never gonna
Speaker 1: be over. I know, right, we never want we never
Speaker 1: want you to go. It's okay, you're now the resident gay.
Speaker 1: So um, this is the letter I want you guys
Speaker 1: to know if you have any issues with our show
Speaker 1: or issues with something me or we say, or I
Speaker 1: guess you guys really have no filter and write it
Speaker 1: into us with whatever you think. You guys can always
Speaker 1: email us as you already do already do at horrible
Speaker 1: decisions at gmail dot com or d m u s.
Speaker 1: Of course your d ms are now getting lost because
Speaker 1: we kind of lit now. So um, we don't see
Speaker 1: everything as what I've been saying. We don't see it
Speaker 1: as much anymore. Guys. I didn't say I don't hello
Speaker 1: see it, and I'm not sure what I mean. I'm
Speaker 1: just say hoods hood. She was like, we're out of
Speaker 1: there at eleven. I'm not gonna be in there all night.
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, hello, holo, holo, we're getting our
Speaker 1: bank account set up right, We're in Atlanta, and so
Speaker 1: Mandy's sitting there right and she's just like, I don't
Speaker 1: have time for this I don't have time, so right,
Speaker 1: So the dude, so the guys like, listen, y'all are
Speaker 1: showing the articles of whatever, and like, I need to
Speaker 1: see a logo that's not Horrible Decisions whatever. So we're
Speaker 1: asking Alex to do it for us, because Alex in
Speaker 1: the hotel, so he send it to send it in
Speaker 1: the nigga sends in our logo with our business name,
Speaker 1: the company name with fucking banana's. You know. The guy goes, I,
Speaker 1: I can't do adult entertainment like in Atlanta Bay talking
Speaker 1: about seeing this is exactly why I can't do this.
Speaker 1: We're not time with this. We have a show. We've
Speaker 1: got to get ready with you. Mike check and he's like,
Speaker 1: you guys actors like what. I was there for it anyway,
Speaker 1: but yeah, make sure you email us at Horrible Decisions
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. So this one, UM, I want
Speaker 1: to read. I would like both of y'all's comments, but
Speaker 1: can I please read her after this real quick? Thank
Speaker 1: you very much? So um silence on the set. Um.
Speaker 1: So we got an email and it says this past month,
Speaker 1: I bit just listened to your show. I truly love
Speaker 1: what you are doing with the show as a kinky whore.
Speaker 1: I can relate to your stories. Matter of fact, you're
Speaker 1: butt looking b D s M show made me text
Speaker 1: my sir asking to look his ask. Surprisingly, he approved
Speaker 1: my small issue with the show. She said small, so
Speaker 1: let's not go aham and she has a ballad point
Speaker 1: at the end. She does not is the lack of diversity.
Speaker 1: Read me out. There aren't many dark skin female guests
Speaker 1: on your show. As the Haitian guest, she's she's referring
Speaker 1: to Jesse Will. I am not done catching up with
Speaker 1: the podcast. Different Shades amongst the Black community matter. As
Speaker 1: a dark skinned woman, when I hear your story or
Speaker 1: your guest stories and make right right, you feel like
Speaker 1: I feel, hold on finish, hold on. No, this is
Speaker 1: as a dark as a dark skinned woman, when I
Speaker 1: hear your story or your guests stories, it makes me
Speaker 1: wonder if they're lights fair skin afforded these horrible opportunities.
Speaker 1: I am sure you know the history and the stereotypes
Speaker 1: of dark skinned black women being seen as less than
Speaker 1: so it would be great to hear from a dark
Speaker 1: skin horn. Thanks. Let me get to this so real quick.
Speaker 1: We've had candy deep throat, We've had Alicia slash Miss Gooding.
Speaker 1: We've had Cutty, We've had Jesse Woo, We've had Cake
Speaker 1: x x X on our BBW episode. I mean she
Speaker 1: was brown. Let's not sit here and be colorless because
Speaker 1: this is the part that I think is black. So
Speaker 1: this is this is my issue with the letter. We
Speaker 1: are now this is probably episode sixty four. Me and
Speaker 1: Weezy have done a ton of episodes with just us.
Speaker 1: We have had we have had gay males, we have
Speaker 1: had a white man, we've had a white woman, you know,
Speaker 1: but we've had a couple, we've had latinos, We've had
Speaker 1: all shades of brown on this podcast. And what really
Speaker 1: irks me is all we talk about is black women,
Speaker 1: black empowerment, women empowerment, and so to get this letter
Speaker 1: asking for more black women like we haven't had, We've
Speaker 1: had at least over a handful of black women on
Speaker 1: this podcast. And what irks me is to sit here
Speaker 1: and now divide our black community, which I think we
Speaker 1: do so often by now saying well what about the
Speaker 1: darker skinned women when we sit here and speak for
Speaker 1: black to be fair black panther. We watched lupetea. When
Speaker 1: is the last time you've seen someone that black. This
Speaker 1: is what But no, because I think there's a there's
Speaker 1: a ton of black women. But this is my problem.
Speaker 1: There is, there's a ton, There's Gabrielle Union, there's which
Speaker 1: to me, she would be considered a dark skinned woman.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you wouldn't consider her. Even if
Speaker 1: you go through the whole girlfriend's cast, there was only
Speaker 1: the light skinned one. You just went back to girlfriends.
Speaker 1: We could go could go to black. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying there's representation, and there's a lot of different
Speaker 1: black skinned one so hear her. This is my no,
Speaker 1: this is my issue. All we talk about is the
Speaker 1: empowerment of black women dating as a black woman. We
Speaker 1: sit here as two biracial women identify only as black women.
Speaker 1: So even when we discuss our well, you deal with
Speaker 1: white guys, but when you always come at it as
Speaker 1: being a black woman dating white guys. So the fact
Speaker 1: that she's even sitting here saying that our fair or
Speaker 1: light skin afforded us these I'm friends with beautiful black
Speaker 1: women who have done all the hop they get flown out,
Speaker 1: they get niggas pay, and they goddamn out here fucking winning.
Speaker 1: So to sit here and make it seem like we're
Speaker 1: only having these experiences because we're lighter skinned women. To me,
Speaker 1: I had a huge issue with that because I'm friends
Speaker 1: with dark skinned women and unfortunately I don't like that they. Yes,
Speaker 1: I understand the history of it, but to say here
Speaker 1: and make yourself a victim like I'm dark skinned. We
Speaker 1: need more dark skinned representation when all we do is
Speaker 1: cape for black women and black empowerment. It irks me.
Speaker 1: We're all on episode sixty three and we didn't. We
Speaker 1: gotta fit in black gaye, we gotta fit in white gaze,
Speaker 1: we gotta fit in couples. We have had such a
Speaker 1: broad and everyone talks about we've had We've had a
Speaker 1: Latino gay, We've had a dark skin We've had a
Speaker 1: black bisexual man that when I interviewed a white and
Speaker 1: Asian couple, they were white and Asian. More now we
Speaker 1: got to categorize all these fucking ships now consisting because
Speaker 1: of this an email which is like, I don't I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm at home depot with the color palette.
Speaker 1: Like it's like every season is friends on you guys
Speaker 1: talk about a lot of points, and of course the
Speaker 1: read they talk about um colorism as well a lot
Speaker 1: within the black community. What I don't know, you were
Speaker 1: annoyed when I was reading it. What was your take on?
Speaker 1: So here's what I wanted to say. What I will say, Actually,
Speaker 1: she the person that wrote in, they just they wanted
Speaker 1: to see some representation. And I don't think there's anything
Speaker 1: wrong with that. I don't here, but I will also
Speaker 1: she was I think we've had it. But what I
Speaker 1: also will say is, you know no shape, but Google
Speaker 1: is free, and sometimes people write into your shows and
Speaker 1: they're asking things of you that you might have already done,
Speaker 1: and all you have to do is go back and
Speaker 1: see that agreed. So if you if she would have
Speaker 1: just nicely wrote in like to be fair, we haven't
Speaker 1: had video enough for her to know that my mom
Speaker 1: was black enough or the candy deep throat. We didn't
Speaker 1: have it, but we put all of their ass name
Speaker 1: a name like she not if she's a listener and
Speaker 1: started watching, she probably wouldn't think if you've been an
Speaker 1: ask though, Like that's the thing. I feel like she
Speaker 1: should still be able to write it in the ask
Speaker 1: and request that and then from there you can be
Speaker 1: like her. So I do want you to know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have the foot fetish. If you want to go
Speaker 1: back if you're a listener, can't. If you're if you're
Speaker 1: a dark skin and feel like we don't represent dark
Speaker 1: skinned women on the show. I would like you to
Speaker 1: go back to a couple of our episodes. We have
Speaker 1: the episode um with the foot fetish and pissing. That's
Speaker 1: with Miss Gooding. We have we have It's a It's
Speaker 1: a Business featuring Candy deep Throat. She was a um,
Speaker 1: dark skinned escort. We have Um Cutty who's brown. Passport Cutty.
Speaker 1: Just look at passport she's on there. Um Wheezi's mom,
Speaker 1: God damn it, it's black. So listen to the episode
Speaker 1: with Wheezy's mom. Um do you That was eleven twelve.
Speaker 1: They was all right, so sis listen And then if
Speaker 1: you want to give props to the other shades of
Speaker 1: black women we've had, Imani. But I do want to
Speaker 1: say this. You mentioned the Read and I was listening
Speaker 1: to the read maybe it was last week, and they
Speaker 1: were talking about Megan Marco, and this was something that
Speaker 1: kind of sucked me up because they really let me
Speaker 1: know that this is how people that are more brown
Speaker 1: than me, and you do see things and how things
Speaker 1: are depicted. Cristal said, we're not gonna make Megan black excellence.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. She said something about her being half black.
Speaker 1: She mentioned that right, and I'm laughing to myself because look,
Speaker 1: this is to keep it a hunt. It. People really
Speaker 1: only fucking see how black someone is from how they
Speaker 1: either act or how it's looking. Obama was the same,
Speaker 1: ship the same, and they they didn't question them he
Speaker 1: was black. We all go back heard them saying like,
Speaker 1: oh he's a nigga, everybody else don't matter if he's
Speaker 1: half But now, but now it's half from Chicago too,
Speaker 1: so it's a little different. Like with Megan. Where's Megan from? Megan,
Speaker 1: she's from Compton. She was hanging with Serena Williams. That's
Speaker 1: like her friends out the wedding time. I'm going to
Speaker 1: my friendship and it's sucking Megan market she's from Compton.
Speaker 1: Why we can't give her that same credit that we give.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, but ain't you Spanish? Here we go, muck mouse.
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm bad that Charlemagne had to check it. Nigga,
Speaker 1: you should have been the first one. No, he didn't.
Speaker 1: He was like the last he was the first one.
Speaker 1: But y'all know, y'all know Alex is still working on
Speaker 1: his voice. That's why y'all can't hear him all the time.
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm yeah, but I just I just feel
Speaker 1: like when we're sitting here and we talked about it
Speaker 1: was funny when we talk about being a black ass podcast,
Speaker 1: and we talked about empowering black women and we speak
Speaker 1: from the black woman perspective, it just kind of irks
Speaker 1: me that then now we're segregating blacks by the shades
Speaker 1: of I don't discount and don't get me wrong, like
Speaker 1: me be and light skinned, I do not discount things
Speaker 1: that black or darker skin even go through. Then I
Speaker 1: don't I get it. But I also still feel like
Speaker 1: I don't think we've ever tried not to because this
Speaker 1: is the thing. When me and Mandy are really talking
Speaker 1: about guests, we genuinely and I want you all to
Speaker 1: understand this, put a lot of effort into discussing who
Speaker 1: we want on hold group chat and you can talk
Speaker 1: speak on this, no, but we want to make sure
Speaker 1: that they're going to be draunchy enough, dirty enough, kinky enough.
Speaker 1: Ship the white boy, right how did it's just black
Speaker 1: gay and who else better? That was where a Sante
Speaker 1: came up. We were like, we can't keep We had
Speaker 1: the light skin biracial I mean not biracial, bisexual man
Speaker 1: from the by couple episode. Then I had a white
Speaker 1: in the Asian couple, and then we've had We've had
Speaker 1: your for and that's a dark skin gay though. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we've had everything. So I don't but were we
Speaker 1: are divers? Episode four? Here's what I will say though,
Speaker 1: so for people of a darker complexion or for for
Speaker 1: actually all black people don't matter what color. As we
Speaker 1: moved forth further and further along in this age of
Speaker 1: social media, we have more conversations that start up, and
Speaker 1: I feel like there has always been that um conversation
Speaker 1: that wasn't had on social media that became like one
Speaker 1: that we have all the time now about color and
Speaker 1: so like now it's all the time about black people
Speaker 1: standing together and in the different shades, and then even
Speaker 1: how we're gonna work with our Afro Latina brothers and sisters.
Speaker 1: Like it's just all about figuring out who we are
Speaker 1: in the world and where we are and how we
Speaker 1: respect each other. But I think because we start to
Speaker 1: have these conversations like this person right in this email,
Speaker 1: she's not saying anything wrong. It was just something that
Speaker 1: she was kind of annoying. How we got there, That's
Speaker 1: why I was just in there like oh, here we
Speaker 1: go again. But it was really like not an unreasonable
Speaker 1: thing to be like, hey, like I'm dark skinned, I'm
Speaker 1: a whole, like we're a dark skin hos that and
Speaker 1: then you just be like hey, girl, like you ain't
Speaker 1: been listening along. Here go to dark skin holster you hear.
Speaker 1: Let's see we will do a light bright let's out
Speaker 1: hold each other. But as we talk about hole ship,
Speaker 1: we cannot for one moment act like niggas don't choose
Speaker 1: one over the other. And not that not that it's
Speaker 1: all niggas. Everybody has their preference, but for the longest
Speaker 1: time we had to talk about these colorism issues in
Speaker 1: these music videos where it's all like light skin chicks,
Speaker 1: like we're the bad dark skin chicks, that we're the
Speaker 1: bad big girls that like where the girls at? Like
Speaker 1: I think when we move further along these things, we
Speaker 1: have to also remember like, Okay, this person is being
Speaker 1: kind of like late right now, but you know, let
Speaker 1: me catch them up, let me school them so we
Speaker 1: can all be on the same page. I haven't responded
Speaker 1: to her, so maybe I'll just respond with the episodes
Speaker 1: that she can find. Um the dark skinned woman we've had,
Speaker 1: and like I said, even even coming up like with
Speaker 1: our guests, we literally just try to make it so diverse.
Speaker 1: I almost don't care what people look like any like,
Speaker 1: even if they can't we can't do video, like if
Speaker 1: it's someone that doesn't want to be on tape, like,
Speaker 1: we just want really good content. Yeah, but people of
Speaker 1: color is always first. I've never really considered the shame
Speaker 1: one white one. We've had one white guy, one white girl.
Speaker 1: I don't think we need anymore. But but you so
Speaker 1: now I'm gonna think about it. I'm glad she run
Speaker 1: in because I am going to think about it, and
Speaker 1: I think it's some It's something to say that I'll
Speaker 1: admit it's forgot about. Yeah. Absolutely, yeah, And that's why
Speaker 1: I also think, like, when you have niggas up here,
Speaker 1: you can even go through the propaty rolladex to see
Speaker 1: what type of bitches they be choosing to my mostly
Speaker 1: be light skin. Let me tell you something. I said
Speaker 1: this on the podcast that I was featured on. The
Speaker 1: dude was saying, it's it's crazy how you're so pro
Speaker 1: black with white boys, because I don't know what we'll
Speaker 1: come back to that just because shout out to Chessile
Speaker 1: who just dropped a book and her husband's white, and
Speaker 1: people always do the like, oh my gosh, she's so
Speaker 1: pro black and she's got a white The same with
Speaker 1: Childish Game and his white as with Jordan's. People don't
Speaker 1: get out and like, but this is what I said
Speaker 1: to him though, I said, listen, I've been with black
Speaker 1: men that have said to my face and it made
Speaker 1: me feel terrible like I was light enough or you
Speaker 1: pretty babies, like there's yeah, like I didn't be like
Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, I thought with black girls, but
Speaker 1: like they did they right where you at, like a
Speaker 1: little bit mo and like that ship. Yeah love girls
Speaker 1: said that, and a lot of our guests had had
Speaker 1: some issues she said, girls like oh no, she said,
Speaker 1: I like, I like black girls as long as they're
Speaker 1: mixed with something else. It's pretty much what she said.
Speaker 1: Oh And everyone was like and yeah, and they were
Speaker 1: mad that you. They thought that you would have checked
Speaker 1: her if anyone but or even she said that, So, yeah,
Speaker 1: there is a thing with preference. But I still think
Speaker 1: that there's a way to unfort and she why didn't
Speaker 1: check since I should have did it? That's your girlfriend,
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We were still saying your girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Though there's no way I'm going to check your girlfriend.
Speaker 1: They have checked her because you talk about proa. She
Speaker 1: was not my girlfriend. Let's stop for a second. It
Speaker 1: was a lesbian check that we interviewed. Now you see,
Speaker 1: but bitch was posting her all a social media guy.
Speaker 1: Damn anything right, right, But we don't go ahead anyways,
Speaker 1: before we before we go out, before we before we
Speaker 1: go out, I do want to line up what we
Speaker 1: have coming up, guys. Um, So June second, I will
Speaker 1: be in Brooklyn at girl Mob Day. Come and see
Speaker 1: me out. I am actually a panelist and we're gonna
Speaker 1: be discussing sexual liberation and women empowerment. So if you
Speaker 1: guys are in Brooklyn, um, I'll be posting the flyer
Speaker 1: all of this week. It's girl Mob Day. This is
Speaker 1: the second annual one. Um, It's gonna be nothing but women.
Speaker 1: There's gonna be a ton of like vendors there to
Speaker 1: give just good ship for us. It's not free. You
Speaker 1: guys can purchase tickets. I will be putting the link
Speaker 1: up for you guys to come purchase tickets. It'll be
Speaker 1: me and eight other panelists UM discussing everything from mental health,
Speaker 1: UM wealth and UM sexual liberation. So it's about three
Speaker 1: panel discussions. There's three three people each panel UM and
Speaker 1: it's just gonna be a really good time. So I
Speaker 1: hope to see you guys out there. And then that's
Speaker 1: June twond which is this Saturday, and then June six.
Speaker 1: What we got going on in science at h E
Speaker 1: y A s s A n t E is my hey,
Speaker 1: asked Sante and you can find me on Instagram. You
Speaker 1: can find me on Twitter. I have a show coming up.
Speaker 1: It's a musical comedy game show called If I Were
Speaker 1: a Rapper. It is the second time that I'm doing this.
Speaker 1: I have asked Wheezy to join me and one of
Speaker 1: my co hosts from the Friends on podcast at look
Speaker 1: at Dustin. He's one of those that makes me want
Speaker 1: to be a gay man. I didn't even go a
Speaker 1: loue to you. He's wanted like I follow a whole bunch.
Speaker 1: I would suck the sh out of Dustin. Damn, I
Speaker 1: thought to myself, this is probably the only opportunity that
Speaker 1: we will get to be demolished by Dustin. Maybe he
Speaker 1: did say he was gonna be He said it wasn't
Speaker 1: even gonna be a competition on the show. He was like,
Speaker 1: he laughed, like, by the way, what made you pick me?
Speaker 1: I just think you're fine. I feel like you know what?
Speaker 1: But I am not your like I am. It's a
Speaker 1: you know what. So the show genre is basically just
Speaker 1: to have people get up and get out and do something.
Speaker 1: Like when you want to go out and do something,
Speaker 1: you can go to a club, you can go to
Speaker 1: a bar, you can come to this game show. And
Speaker 1: I think it's interesting to do something where people don't
Speaker 1: just have to sit the whole time, because you know,
Speaker 1: I'd be having a lot of the musical breaks during
Speaker 1: the whole thing, seeing the words, and get up and
Speaker 1: be drinking. Yeah he had wine last time, y'all. It
Speaker 1: was only three dollars wine shop. Can you make sure
Speaker 1: pomp pet oh, yes, that is in stock this time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because that ship right out by the time, I want
Speaker 1: to go get a personal drinking all. Because we're on
Speaker 1: the subject, my Homeboy has a wine shop in Harlem.
Speaker 1: It's black owned. It's called Pompet Wines. It's on it's
Speaker 1: Onnox Avenue backstore. It's on thirty first Street, So go
Speaker 1: up there and visit the store. Yeah, that's it's I
Speaker 1: told you my Homeboys wine shot. That's awesome. It's black.
Speaker 1: They do wine tasting Thursday, Fridays and Saturday. So if
Speaker 1: you want to get free. But she don't go about street.
Speaker 1: So it's but anyways, if if we're gonna continue talking
Speaker 1: about things to do on the side, If you guys
Speaker 1: have not known yet, this is our first time actually
Speaker 1: even really truly mentioning this on the show. We got
Speaker 1: our live show June twenty two in New York City,
Speaker 1: and I ain't gonna lie to y'all. We don't know
Speaker 1: are we promoting. We got thirty tickets left, so we're
Speaker 1: dropping this episode tomorrow. Y'all. Tickets probably gonna be sold
Speaker 1: out this week, So if you want to come, come
Speaker 1: also there. And I haven't been posting it because I
Speaker 1: know my friends gonna be late. Got mad I posted it.
Speaker 1: She's like he's posting the fly with my friends haven't
Speaker 1: all bought their tickets yet I said they're bad. Okay,
Speaker 1: they're bad. I just knew, right, it's not bad. It's
Speaker 1: like they waiting for a check. You know who's flying
Speaker 1: here for the show, Carla Veronica. Okay, well shout out.
Speaker 1: We got our our home girls from Orlando coming up again.
Speaker 1: Um shot on thirty podcast. My motherfucking bitch, she coming
Speaker 1: back up here to turn the funk up. Um. But yeah,
Speaker 1: if you guys are in the New York City area, Um,
Speaker 1: this is June twenty two, it's a Friday night, come
Speaker 1: and check us out. Like I said, there's literally thirty
Speaker 1: tickets left. V I P is sold out, v I
Speaker 1: P with a T shirt is sold out, and early
Speaker 1: bird is sold out. So y'all got two options. Get
Speaker 1: your life. Um, come and see us. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: a really good time. It's gonna be really fun. If
Speaker 1: you came to the first one, you already know how
Speaker 1: much fun we have. I'm excited to see you guys.
Speaker 1: Some girls. Because she said she's trying to Wax Wax
Speaker 1: did say he's coming to so pull up. If you
Speaker 1: guys want dick offering. Um, there's gonna be Alex's dick.
Speaker 1: Wax's dick and maybe a Sante's dick. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: have dick offers available. We'd be having remember, oh, real quate,
Speaker 1: real quate before we go, we're about to go, you know,
Speaker 1: at talking talking about oh, I don't really know about
Speaker 1: you know, I'm trying to do double anal and maybe
Speaker 1: they was too big. He was like, that wasn't it.
Speaker 1: But anyway, so something is on the front raise their hand,
Speaker 1: took them mic talking about this is just a pro
Speaker 1: ho tip you need to get water soluble lou like
Speaker 1: and gave the tip just like that, and I was
Speaker 1: I was alry the show, sorry to stop the show, sis,
Speaker 1: but I was just like because when he's asking us
Speaker 1: that me and her both haven't even done d P.
Speaker 1: So we're like, maybe it's just too wet like the louse,
Speaker 1: and you know, we try to sit here and act
Speaker 1: like we know a little bit suction. And that was
Speaker 1: right in the front to it was right in the
Speaker 1: front real quick, because I don't think we we said
Speaker 1: it enough in the beginning of the show. I want
Speaker 1: to thank every single person who came out to the
Speaker 1: Atlanta Live show. It was about three d people. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't have imagined us to do that that size of
Speaker 1: a crowd. Did you who talks about her dad? Did
Speaker 1: you see that email? This girl sorry to get sappy
Speaker 1: at the end, but it was just like so sweet
Speaker 1: to me. This girl said that she had like got
Speaker 1: on the house for the first time or whatever since
Speaker 1: her dad killed himself. She's like, I have never lied.
Speaker 1: It was like my first laugh and it felt so good.
Speaker 1: And I remember her because she was in the front
Speaker 1: and we were talking about cocky and I was just like,
Speaker 1: oh my god. But it just made me feel so
Speaker 1: good because you want to know that like people are
Speaker 1: there to learn ship and laugh with you and like
Speaker 1: feel good. It was. It was a feel good show.
Speaker 1: Shout out again UM to the Best smone for for
Speaker 1: hosting making everyone laugh. Y'all had great aass pickup lines
Speaker 1: um that we were dying listening to backstage. Also shout
Speaker 1: out to the Plaza Theater Um for housing us. And
Speaker 1: once again shout out to shet Orgasms, Meling and Milk
Speaker 1: and Spunk Loop Spunklop. We got you with the spunk Loop.
Speaker 1: I'll give you the big bottle. We got a big one.
Speaker 1: I was gonna get away, but I'm gonna give it
Speaker 1: to you, um next time I see or I have
Speaker 1: her bring it to the show on June six. So
Speaker 1: if you guys wanna again get out and have something
Speaker 1: fun to do, go out and see Wheezy Dustin and
Speaker 1: a Sante on June six, next Wednesday, and again I'll
Speaker 1: be in Brooklyn June two. Thank you guys so very much,
Speaker 1: UM for tuning in. Make sure you'all follow a Sante
Speaker 1: everywhere at hey. Asante will put it all of the
Speaker 1: description in the bio. Thank you again to all of
Speaker 1: our patrons. Thank you to everybody. Shout out Alex Media,
Speaker 1: y'all go sliding his d MS. And this has been
Speaker 1: yet another episode of horrible decision name by Oh